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Speaker 1: All right, it is time for second Date Update. We're

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going to New Britain this morning. We have got Karen

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on the line. Karen, are you there?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Hi, I'm here, Hey Karen.

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Speaker 3: So obviously you know what second Date Update is all about.

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Speaker 1: You clearly went on a great first date and you're

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getting ghosted.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and I really don't get why, because like we

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did happy Hour and it was kind of a blast,

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Like okay, I don't really know, well, I don't know

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what happened.

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Speaker 1: You know what I like is the producer says the

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date you went on, his name is Kenny, Karen and Kenny.

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Speaker 3: That kind of flows.

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Speaker 4: As a couple.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like a good couple named Karen and Kenny.

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Speaker 2: Right, it's so cute. We're like the new Branddelina.

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Speaker 4: Well let's not get crazy here, all right.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, let's get to the reason.

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Speaker 1: I need to find out why you're getting ghost ghosted

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before you can compare yourself to Brandjelena.

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Speaker 2: Yeah that's true.

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Speaker 3: All right.

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Speaker 2: I don't get it.

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Speaker 3: Though, So how was the date? Tell me about the date.

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Speaker 2: It was so good, Like we sat we talked for hours,

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like a long time, and it was happy hour, So

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we got got a couple of drinks, some appetizers. But

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I texted him to say thank you for the date

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because he paid, but I didn't get a response and

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like to anything, not that night, not the next day.

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So I don't really know, Like that's really it. That's

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all of our communication.

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Speaker 1: What did you feel like there's any flirting on this date?

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Like touchy feely laughing?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, totally. Yeah, we were so flirty. It

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really felt flirty.

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Speaker 4: All right, Karen, let me ask you a question.

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Speaker 5: At any point during the date, did you ask to

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speak to a manager or did you send your food

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back or drinks or anything like that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a good one.

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Speaker 4: Well, her name's Karen. They always want to talk to

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the manager.

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Speaker 3: That's ridiculous.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's so that's ridiculous.

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Speaker 3: That's that did not happen, Okay.

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Speaker 2: Just asking none of that.

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Speaker 4: Just asking.

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Speaker 3: Well, this is what we're gonna do.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna call up Kenny and we're gonna ask him

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to be honest and just tell us what he eats

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about the data. And I'm going to come right out

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and ask him, why are you ghosting Karen?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, thank you please? I just want an answer.

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Speaker 3: You know, I mean pretty straightforward date.

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Speaker 6: I know, she sounds like she's like a good time,

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she's got a great personality, like, yeah, I.

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Speaker 3: Would Savannah just said she would dater, Jeff.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I I'm married and I'm sure, but a

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date her loue.

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Speaker 3: Hello is Kenny there?

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Speaker 7: Hey? Yeah, yes, this is Kenny.

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Speaker 3: Hey Kenny, it's Courtney Ken.

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Speaker 4: What's up. It's Walmart Jeff.

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Speaker 3: Hey, Kenny, it's Savannah.

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Speaker 1: We're calling from Kiss ninety five seven. You're on the

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radio this morning, Kenny.

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Speaker 7: Oh my gosh, what Wow? What's up?

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the show. Well, Kenny, you're on second date update.

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We have a feature here if somebody goes on a

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first date and it's fabulous, but they get ghosted after

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and they don't know why.

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Speaker 3: They call us for the answers.

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Speaker 7: Uh huh yes, okay, hey unfamiliar.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well that's good. Yeah, here's the deal, Kenny. Karen

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call said, you guys went on a great first date.

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You actually went and you had happy hours. She said,

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there was a little bit of flirting, a lot of

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things in common. She reached out to you to thank

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you for the date, and you didn't even respond with

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the thumbs up or nothing.

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Speaker 3: How was the date for you? We just want you

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to be honest. Was the date? Did you have a

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different experience than Karen?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it sounds like it. The date was really weird

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and draining. WHOA, Okay, how so, I mean I think

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she's great, okay, but it's clear that I don't know

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if she's like ready to date because why most of

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the date she talked about her ex boyfriend. I mean,

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you know, I am, I feel for her, but just

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the first time meeting her and really going on a

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date was it was a little bit like, whoa, this

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is very strange. I don't know.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, I'm not gonna lie to you.

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Speaker 3: I wasn't on the date, so I don't know to

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what extent.

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Speaker 6: But I once was talking to a guy and like

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I don't know, like a day and he started like

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dumping all like the stuff about his ex, and I.

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Speaker 3: Was like, all right. She was a lot like this

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is way too much, way too soon.

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Speaker 7: Right, Yeah, And it's like I get it. We've all

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been there. It's just if it's too soon, then it's

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too soon.

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Speaker 3: So you think she's not over your thing, is she's

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not over her ex? Is that the problem?

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Speaker 1: You think that she still has feelings for her ex

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if she was crying?

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Speaker 2: I mean something, Can I just say something because like,

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I'm sorry for crying, Okay, but I just I honestly

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thought that it was a good thing to show some

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emotion on a first date. I'm to show that I'm

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a real person.

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Speaker 3: Kenny. That's Karen. She's been listening in. Go ahead, Karen.

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Speaker 2: I mean it's it's exactly what I just said. Like,

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I am sorry that the crying may have been too much, perhaps,

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but like I just think it's a good thing to

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show that, like I have feelings, I'm a human being.

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I'm not just a robot like like people have emotions.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, hey Kenny, let me ask you a question.

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Speaker 5: Did she when you say crying, did she like well

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up or were there like legit tears like there were cures.

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Speaker 7: At one point I had to get a tissue.

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Speaker 1: Actually, first day crying over an X is probably not

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a good thing. So I mean I get that, and

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and and maybe Karen, you maybe you just need a

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little more time where you can like tell if somebody

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asked you, how is you know your dating history or

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who did you date last.

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Speaker 3: You won't cry.

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Speaker 2: I just sometimes people cry, like that's not something that

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I can Okay, I know, sometimes to be avoided. But if,

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but if, if this is like the true reason and

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this is the reaction, I think he's right. I mean,

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I wish you would have handled it better, Kenny, like

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I wish you would have just texted me and said like, hey,

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I don't think this is going to work. But either

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way I have I don't think this is going to work.

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So we we don't need a second date anymore. Okay,

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I think that was the smart thing.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, listen, I appreciate both of you guys for

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being honest. There is no second date. We won't offer it.

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And Karen, I still want to I still want to

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talk to you off the air.

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Speaker 2: Sorry, Joff, No, I still want to talk to you too,