WEBVTT 1 00:00:04.000 --> 00:00:07.440 Welcome to the Wine and Wine Podcast. I'm Kelsey and 2 00:00:07.480 --> 00:00:10.519 I'm Ellie. This is your dose of friendship, fun and 3 00:00:10.560 --> 00:00:14.199 figuring life out together. Let's be e besties because life 4 00:00:14.240 --> 00:00:17.480 is messy, Wine, hopes and whiny is optional. 5 00:00:19.960 --> 00:00:22.960 Hi guys, Hey guys, welcome back. 6 00:00:23.519 --> 00:00:25.440 Yeah, we are here with a guest and we are 7 00:00:25.440 --> 00:00:26.160 so excited. 8 00:00:26.199 --> 00:00:28.719 But before we get to it, we want to recap 9 00:00:28.800 --> 00:00:33.039 last week's episode. We got a lot of really good feedback. So, Ellie, 10 00:00:33.039 --> 00:00:34.039 what have you been hearing? 11 00:00:34.640 --> 00:00:37.359 Yeah, so it was so funny. I had a book 12 00:00:37.399 --> 00:00:39.880 club last night and we were just kind of talking 13 00:00:39.880 --> 00:00:43.520 about like their opinions and stuff. And one of my 14 00:00:43.560 --> 00:00:45.880 girlfriends had a really good example and they're like, well, 15 00:00:45.880 --> 00:00:47.920 have you ever watched the movie When Harry Met Sally? 16 00:00:48.000 --> 00:00:49.240 And it was such a good movie. 17 00:00:49.479 --> 00:00:52.000 That's a classic. But that also makes sense too. 18 00:00:52.039 --> 00:00:54.280 I mean, I guess eventually they did like end up 19 00:00:54.280 --> 00:00:56.759 following each other, but I think they were. 20 00:00:56.679 --> 00:00:59.399 Never in like a serious relationship prior to that. 21 00:01:00.479 --> 00:01:03.799 Another thing is they were talking about how it's kind 22 00:01:03.840 --> 00:01:07.280 of like a grandfather plan. It's like if you have 23 00:01:07.319 --> 00:01:10.879 a guy friend before your relationship, then they're grandfathered in 24 00:01:11.040 --> 00:01:14.560 as like friends. But then maybe after that. 25 00:01:14.920 --> 00:01:16.439 I don't know. It was one of those things where 26 00:01:16.439 --> 00:01:17.840 it's like I just got all this. 27 00:01:17.840 --> 00:01:20.760 Information and I was like, when my girlfriends said this, 28 00:01:20.799 --> 00:01:23.439 and one said this, but I think it's all just 29 00:01:23.599 --> 00:01:24.359 very situational. 30 00:01:24.920 --> 00:01:27.719 Say, yeah, yeah, I agree. And I was even talking 31 00:01:27.799 --> 00:01:28.159 to Will. 32 00:01:28.239 --> 00:01:30.560 He's not listened, but I was telling. 33 00:01:30.439 --> 00:01:33.359 Him what our topic was and everything, and he said 34 00:01:33.400 --> 00:01:36.280 the same thing. Because I have my one friend that 35 00:01:36.280 --> 00:01:39.120 I've known since I was eight, and I'm like, well, 36 00:01:39.120 --> 00:01:40.560 what do you think And he's like, well, you guys 37 00:01:40.599 --> 00:01:42.879 have known each other forever. He's like, I've seen you 38 00:01:42.879 --> 00:01:45.959 guys together. There's no sexual chemistry at all. He's like, 39 00:01:46.040 --> 00:01:49.400 I love I love this person. And he's like, I 40 00:01:49.439 --> 00:01:51.439 think that it's the same thing. He's like, I think 41 00:01:51.439 --> 00:01:54.200 it's situational. If you've known each other forever, I think 42 00:01:54.200 --> 00:01:56.079 it's fine. He's like, but if, yeah, if you were 43 00:01:56.120 --> 00:01:57.640 just to meet some guy and then all of a 44 00:01:57.640 --> 00:01:59.920 sudden you're friends with them while we're dating, He's like, 45 00:02:00.120 --> 00:02:00.840 that would be weird. 46 00:02:01.159 --> 00:02:06.280 Yeah, yeah, I do know. I texted my girlfriends this 47 00:02:06.319 --> 00:02:08.599 morning and one sent like a voice memo and one 48 00:02:08.680 --> 00:02:11.560 just texted me but me, and OS was like, if 49 00:02:11.599 --> 00:02:15.159 you're making new friends as an adult while in a relationship. No, 50 00:02:15.319 --> 00:02:17.800 I don't think so that's two blurred of lines. That's 51 00:02:17.879 --> 00:02:21.639 only if you're in a relationship and the guy is single. No, 52 00:02:22.039 --> 00:02:24.800 So which kind of makes sense. I mean she's talking 53 00:02:24.800 --> 00:02:27.159 about a very specific situation, like if you're in a 54 00:02:27.240 --> 00:02:30.879 relationship and then you make like as the girl make 55 00:02:30.919 --> 00:02:31.800 a guy friend, Like. 56 00:02:32.000 --> 00:02:34.280 Maybe that's a little awkward, you know. 57 00:02:34.400 --> 00:02:36.680 So I'm like, yeah, that kind of makes sense actually, 58 00:02:37.159 --> 00:02:40.039 And I think we also, just as we were getting 59 00:02:40.039 --> 00:02:43.439 ready to start recording, I think we had like a 60 00:02:43.479 --> 00:02:47.360 prime like example of maybe where we differ on things too, 61 00:02:47.439 --> 00:02:49.879 because wait, what do you want. 62 00:02:49.680 --> 00:02:50.039 To say it? 63 00:02:50.199 --> 00:02:53.919 Yeah, so the like we listened to that voice memo 64 00:02:54.159 --> 00:02:57.879 and she was just sharing how she doesn't think that 65 00:02:57.919 --> 00:02:59.680 it's okay if you have a really good guy friend 66 00:02:59.680 --> 00:03:04.599 and are sharing stories about you in your current relationship. 67 00:03:05.520 --> 00:03:09.039 And I disagreed with that because I'm like, well, this 68 00:03:09.120 --> 00:03:12.080 person that's my friend. I do sometimes like I'm not 69 00:03:12.159 --> 00:03:15.199 just bitching to him constantly about what's going on in 70 00:03:15.240 --> 00:03:17.039 my relationship. I don't have a lot to bitch about, 71 00:03:17.520 --> 00:03:19.599 but sometimes I want the male perspective, and I know 72 00:03:19.639 --> 00:03:22.240 he's going to be unbiased and he's going to be 73 00:03:22.280 --> 00:03:24.840 honest with me, but it's not in a weird way, 74 00:03:25.120 --> 00:03:26.680 Whereas then you were thinking. 75 00:03:27.080 --> 00:03:30.680 Yeah, So then I had my opinion as far as like, 76 00:03:30.800 --> 00:03:32.520 oh no, that's right. I don't think like if I 77 00:03:32.560 --> 00:03:35.280 were to get in a relationship, I wouldn't talk about 78 00:03:35.319 --> 00:03:37.879 my relationship to my guy friends just because, like I 79 00:03:37.919 --> 00:03:41.199 feel like maybe sometimes that would cross like an emotional 80 00:03:41.360 --> 00:03:43.199 vulnerability where but she had a. 81 00:03:43.159 --> 00:03:44.000 Really good example. 82 00:03:44.039 --> 00:03:47.120 It's like my girlfriend who voice memoed meme, which was 83 00:03:47.159 --> 00:03:49.479 not mean, I was just another girlfriend. She was like, 84 00:03:50.479 --> 00:03:52.560 you don't want to get into a space where you're 85 00:03:52.599 --> 00:03:56.080 talking to a guy friend about stuff that you need 86 00:03:56.120 --> 00:03:58.240 to be talking to your partner about and stuff like that. 87 00:03:58.280 --> 00:04:01.199 So I'm like, okay, that totally makes that makes sense 88 00:04:01.280 --> 00:04:05.000 for sure, for sure, yees, So I agree, which all 89 00:04:05.039 --> 00:04:07.479 comes down to, like it was so much more than 90 00:04:07.479 --> 00:04:09.919 a yes and no, Like it's a very situation. 91 00:04:10.000 --> 00:04:10.879 It's very situational. 92 00:04:10.919 --> 00:04:13.719 Yeah, And right before we started recording, we just put 93 00:04:13.800 --> 00:04:16.759 something on our story. We've actually already got responses, so 94 00:04:16.759 --> 00:04:17.920 I wanted to share that real quick. 95 00:04:18.000 --> 00:04:20.720 Oh okay, So it was just a yes, no. 96 00:04:20.759 --> 00:04:25.480 Or it depends poll and we have forty percent think 97 00:04:25.519 --> 00:04:28.040 that yes, guys and girls can be friends, twenty percent 98 00:04:28.120 --> 00:04:30.920 said no, and another forty percent say it depends and 99 00:04:30.959 --> 00:04:34.879 it's situational. So there are more people on our page 100 00:04:35.000 --> 00:04:37.360 than just our book club girlies that rip us apart. 101 00:04:39.360 --> 00:04:40.920 Crystals like I know, I was there. 102 00:04:42.639 --> 00:04:43.160 I love it. 103 00:04:43.399 --> 00:04:48.959 Which speaking of Crystal, yes, we got Crystal our first 104 00:04:49.040 --> 00:04:56.680 guest I eat Besties. So I realize that I totally 105 00:04:56.800 --> 00:05:02.240 spaced in providing a background and information as far as 106 00:05:02.360 --> 00:05:06.560 to what Taro is and how Crystal channels that for her. 107 00:05:07.279 --> 00:05:10.079 So I actually had her reach out to me and 108 00:05:10.240 --> 00:05:12.839 kind of give me an explanation so I can explain 109 00:05:12.920 --> 00:05:16.120 that to y'all and how she channels so she said. 110 00:05:16.399 --> 00:05:21.399 Tarot readings our a seventy eight card suit meant to 111 00:05:21.480 --> 00:05:24.600 reach out to spirit guides, guardian angels, the universe. What 112 00:05:24.759 --> 00:05:27.639 have you is to help guide you to your highest self. 113 00:05:27.879 --> 00:05:30.800 Tarot readings will often give you the message that you need, 114 00:05:31.360 --> 00:05:35.240 which often does not coincide with what you want. Messages 115 00:05:35.399 --> 00:05:37.639 can be warnings to help get you back on track, 116 00:05:37.839 --> 00:05:42.439 or motivation to keep you going. Each reading requires the 117 00:05:42.560 --> 00:05:45.639 receiver to be open to receiving messages. From the reader. 118 00:05:46.199 --> 00:05:49.879 It requires both people to be vulnerable and receptive, so 119 00:05:50.040 --> 00:05:54.199 this is how she channels. Channeling differs from reader to reader. 120 00:05:54.360 --> 00:05:57.519 When I'm reading cards, I often will pull cards, examine 121 00:05:57.560 --> 00:06:01.079 them and let my mind wander. Whether it's a memory 122 00:06:01.160 --> 00:06:03.519 that pops up or a song from my past. I 123 00:06:03.639 --> 00:06:06.439 let it lead me to the message. Things can happen 124 00:06:06.560 --> 00:06:09.439 externally that guides me to a message as well, like 125 00:06:09.519 --> 00:06:12.439 a dog barking or a car revn it's engine. It 126 00:06:12.519 --> 00:06:15.279 could be more aggressive, like electronic sign or an alarm 127 00:06:15.399 --> 00:06:19.040 going off. The universe is sending messages all the time. 128 00:06:19.240 --> 00:06:22.720 Some are just more difficult to read than others. So 129 00:06:22.839 --> 00:06:27.680 I hope that helps explaining it, and let's get back 130 00:06:27.720 --> 00:06:31.199 into the episode. Thanks y'all, Okay, yes, thank you for 131 00:06:31.279 --> 00:06:32.199 being our first guest. 132 00:06:32.439 --> 00:06:34.759 Oh, I didn't know that, would I realize that that's cool. 133 00:06:35.360 --> 00:06:42.360 I'm sorry. I like signaling to get closer to the mic, 134 00:06:42.759 --> 00:06:44.879 Like I know, it's so intimidating. 135 00:06:45.160 --> 00:06:46.800 You have to be uncomfortably close. 136 00:06:48.160 --> 00:06:51.199 But anyway, so we thought we'd start with Crystal introducing 137 00:06:51.240 --> 00:06:53.040 herself and a little bit about how. 138 00:06:53.000 --> 00:06:56.199 She knows us, and then she also brought us a 139 00:06:56.279 --> 00:06:58.360 lovely wine, so we'll go from there. 140 00:06:58.600 --> 00:07:04.759 Yeah. So I'm Crystal Wopshot. I know I've known Ellie forever. 141 00:07:04.920 --> 00:07:07.920 It feels like I think, like for about ten years. 142 00:07:07.839 --> 00:07:11.040 Fifteen years now, girl, holy shit, because it was twenty ten. 143 00:07:11.360 --> 00:07:14.480 Oh my god, that's that is. 144 00:07:14.519 --> 00:07:22.079 A long time. Because I said seven years in the okay. 145 00:07:22.439 --> 00:07:25.480 Which was seven years ago. I feel like I can't 146 00:07:25.519 --> 00:07:27.480 do math, yeah pretty much. 147 00:07:27.639 --> 00:07:33.839 Yeah, yeah, I can't do math either. But and with Kelsey, 148 00:07:33.959 --> 00:07:37.120 I met with book club. Yeah yeah, little a little 149 00:07:37.160 --> 00:07:37.800 over year yep. 150 00:07:37.959 --> 00:07:43.160 So yeah, girlies, yes, but yes, tell us about like 151 00:07:43.560 --> 00:07:46.879 your experience with taro and how you've been digging into 152 00:07:46.959 --> 00:07:47.639 it and all the things. 153 00:07:47.839 --> 00:07:51.600 Okay, So I got these cards about ten years ago 154 00:07:51.920 --> 00:07:54.839 and I was just too nervous to start reading them. 155 00:07:55.399 --> 00:07:58.839 And then around twenty twenty one, I just picked them 156 00:07:58.879 --> 00:08:03.560 up and started like play with them and stopped for 157 00:08:03.600 --> 00:08:05.720 a bit kind of was just like, oh, not ready 158 00:08:05.759 --> 00:08:08.120 for it. And then over the last year I've just 159 00:08:08.240 --> 00:08:12.000 consistently done it over like in the mornings, in a night, 160 00:08:12.199 --> 00:08:14.560 trying to get used to them. So this is me. 161 00:08:14.800 --> 00:08:17.920 I'm still I feel like I'm still new. But I 162 00:08:18.079 --> 00:08:21.120 might be saying that forever because the message has always 163 00:08:21.199 --> 00:08:24.519 come through differently with each person you read. 164 00:08:24.680 --> 00:08:25.920 So that's so cool. 165 00:08:26.079 --> 00:08:28.360 Yeah, I've always been so interested in Taro. I've never 166 00:08:28.480 --> 00:08:30.680 had a reading done, so I'm really excited. 167 00:08:31.079 --> 00:08:36.080 Okay, Yeah, I remember when Crystal first started getting into it. 168 00:08:36.279 --> 00:08:37.960 Well you got I feel like you got into it 169 00:08:38.000 --> 00:08:39.279 and then you did it and then you got into 170 00:08:39.320 --> 00:08:41.039 it again because you've had him for a while. Yeah, 171 00:08:41.159 --> 00:08:43.240 And like I swear, this is the friend I was 172 00:08:43.320 --> 00:08:45.559 talking about like last time when we're talking about Tara, 173 00:08:45.879 --> 00:08:49.240 where I was like, this girl never misses. It's insane, 174 00:08:49.519 --> 00:08:52.039 Like she'll like I'll like go to her and I'm like, okay, 175 00:08:52.039 --> 00:08:52.720 so I'm talking to this. 176 00:08:52.840 --> 00:08:55.159 Guy and can you just kind of tell me? And 177 00:08:55.240 --> 00:08:57.879 she'll like tell me the message? And I'm like, wait, 178 00:08:57.879 --> 00:08:59.200 are you try again? 179 00:09:00.200 --> 00:09:05.240 And I'm not kidding, like like it just it happens, 180 00:09:05.360 --> 00:09:08.080 you know, like the message was meant for me and 181 00:09:08.200 --> 00:09:11.399 it happened in that way, and I was like, Okay, well, okay, 182 00:09:11.559 --> 00:09:12.480 thanks for you guys. 183 00:09:12.559 --> 00:09:14.639 You know, but it was so funny. I have to 184 00:09:14.799 --> 00:09:16.919 tell this example. We were talking about it before we 185 00:09:17.000 --> 00:09:20.879 started recording, and it was hilarious. But was it Christmas? 186 00:09:21.039 --> 00:09:23.440 It was the Christmas Christmas So we did a girl's 187 00:09:23.559 --> 00:09:26.720 Night Christmas party this past December, and Crystal brought her 188 00:09:26.759 --> 00:09:29.240 tarot cards and she's like, hey, guys, like, no pressure, 189 00:09:29.360 --> 00:09:31.159 but if you guys want me to read your. 190 00:09:31.080 --> 00:09:33.279 Taro I can. So everybody's like yeah. 191 00:09:33.559 --> 00:09:36.320 So she went outside and she did individually for whomever 192 00:09:36.399 --> 00:09:38.240 wanted it, and I go out. 193 00:09:38.159 --> 00:09:41.000 There was it about a guy or was it about 194 00:09:41.360 --> 00:09:46.279 it about Yeah, we just. 195 00:09:46.320 --> 00:09:49.320 Had a look at each other and I was like AnyWho. 196 00:09:49.519 --> 00:09:52.000 And so it was so funny because Chrystal is a 197 00:09:52.039 --> 00:09:54.480 certain way of like shuffling cards, and so she like 198 00:09:54.639 --> 00:09:56.840 shuffled the cards and then she gave me the answer 199 00:09:56.919 --> 00:09:57.960 I didn't want to hear. 200 00:09:58.039 --> 00:10:00.600 And I'm like, no, no, I said, Crystal, those cards over. 201 00:10:01.759 --> 00:10:05.320 That's like my shuffle is fine, girl, this messages for you. 202 00:10:05.799 --> 00:10:07.639 That was literally the capricorn in me. 203 00:10:07.759 --> 00:10:10.120 I was like, you're not shuffling them right, Like I 204 00:10:10.240 --> 00:10:12.200 love you, but like I need you to like shuffle 205 00:10:12.279 --> 00:10:14.159 it better because it's like big shuffles. 206 00:10:14.440 --> 00:10:16.200 I was like hand them to me and she's like, 207 00:10:16.320 --> 00:10:19.039 oh my goodness. And I'm so like that, Like I'm 208 00:10:19.159 --> 00:10:21.440 very much like let me do it my way, and 209 00:10:21.559 --> 00:10:23.320 so I like am shuffling. 210 00:10:22.960 --> 00:10:26.840 Like Christmas aggressively and like five times. Like I was like, 211 00:10:26.919 --> 00:10:28.720 they need to be real, Like I changed the way 212 00:10:28.759 --> 00:10:30.360 I shuffled them, and I was like, here you go. 213 00:10:30.519 --> 00:10:33.639 I think they're like better shuffle and so anyway, Chris 214 00:10:33.840 --> 00:10:37.679 was like, oh, okay, whatever, but yeah, and so she 215 00:10:37.960 --> 00:10:43.159 like pulls out the exact same fucking car. 216 00:10:43.759 --> 00:10:44.360 I died. 217 00:10:44.480 --> 00:10:47.000 I was like, okay, because it was to be. I 218 00:10:47.120 --> 00:10:51.799 was like, okay, spirit guys, jokes on me. You're really 219 00:10:51.799 --> 00:10:53.600 gonna make me look stupid in front of my dad. 220 00:10:56.200 --> 00:10:59.360 But it was spot on too, so good I go good. 221 00:10:59.440 --> 00:10:59.919 I was right. 222 00:11:00.159 --> 00:11:07.639 No, just so we can question. I told you. I 223 00:11:07.799 --> 00:11:09.480 was just saying. I was like, all right, well, I'll 224 00:11:09.559 --> 00:11:10.399 just let her do her. 225 00:11:10.600 --> 00:11:13.799 Thing, you know, I'll let her shuffle the way she 226 00:11:13.879 --> 00:11:14.240 wants to. 227 00:11:18.840 --> 00:11:18.879 Go. 228 00:11:20.559 --> 00:11:23.480 Well we're excited, Yes, I'm excited. 229 00:11:23.639 --> 00:11:25.440 Okay, all right, So do you want to tell something 230 00:11:25.480 --> 00:11:26.320 about the winey brop? 231 00:11:26.559 --> 00:11:28.720 Yes, thanks for keeping us. 232 00:11:29.879 --> 00:11:32.440 That's my job here, guys, I'm just the timekeeper. 233 00:11:33.919 --> 00:11:38.080 So I brought I brought the laprous Luna. I think 234 00:11:38.120 --> 00:11:43.200 that's how it's pronounced. It's a red blend. The appearance 235 00:11:43.399 --> 00:11:47.200 is a rich ruby color. The Aroma is ripe, dark 236 00:11:47.320 --> 00:11:51.320 fruit with hints of spice. The taste and I haven't 237 00:11:51.320 --> 00:11:54.240 tasted it yet, so hopefully this is ripe, rich and 238 00:11:54.519 --> 00:11:59.759 ripe blueberries, blackberries with lingering notes of brown spice. The 239 00:12:00.080 --> 00:12:05.360 finish is smooth and well balanced. So I guess should 240 00:12:05.399 --> 00:12:06.600 we try it and see if that's true? 241 00:12:07.440 --> 00:12:10.200 Let's clink cheers think. 242 00:12:11.759 --> 00:12:13.759 Okay, then we do a little sniffy sniff. 243 00:12:13.720 --> 00:12:18.600 Sniff and swirl, swirl and sniff whatever. Yeah, we just 244 00:12:18.720 --> 00:12:20.000 pretend like we know what we're doing. 245 00:12:20.919 --> 00:12:21.639 The legs legging. 246 00:12:21.919 --> 00:12:27.759 Yeah, I just injected into my veins the legs be leging. Okay, 247 00:12:27.799 --> 00:12:33.720 I really like that. Oh yeah, that's good. That's really good. Okay, 248 00:12:34.559 --> 00:12:35.759 good call Crystal. 249 00:12:36.519 --> 00:12:39.360 It looks like a Tarot card on the front. It's 250 00:12:39.399 --> 00:12:42.840 a super top bottle. It was Yeah, it was meant 251 00:12:42.840 --> 00:12:43.919 to be. It was meant to be. 252 00:12:44.159 --> 00:12:45.120 Wait say how much? 253 00:12:45.159 --> 00:12:45.399 It was? 254 00:12:46.000 --> 00:12:46.759 Twelve ninety nine? 255 00:12:47.960 --> 00:12:49.240 Another budget wine. 256 00:12:49.639 --> 00:12:51.120 We love that budget wine. 257 00:12:52.679 --> 00:12:53.120 That was good. 258 00:12:53.200 --> 00:12:55.360 Okay, what would we collectively rate it? 259 00:12:55.720 --> 00:12:55.960 Ooh? 260 00:12:57.000 --> 00:13:01.600 Out of file I'm no, you go for no? 261 00:13:01.720 --> 00:13:04.960 Okay? I like I like red Blends, but I feel 262 00:13:05.039 --> 00:13:06.159 like I would give it an eight. 263 00:13:07.000 --> 00:13:10.320 Wait, this is out of five out of five. 264 00:13:10.440 --> 00:13:14.399 Oh my god, sorry, no, who? Okay? 265 00:13:14.480 --> 00:13:18.840 So four I would say, yeah, that translates before it 266 00:13:18.919 --> 00:13:22.000 sounds like yeah, I know, it's funny. 267 00:13:22.039 --> 00:13:22.840 I was thinking of four. 268 00:13:23.000 --> 00:13:23.159 Four. 269 00:13:23.879 --> 00:13:25.159 Yeah, okay it. 270 00:13:28.679 --> 00:13:29.799 Yeah, no, it's really good. 271 00:13:29.879 --> 00:13:30.600 I really like it. 272 00:13:30.879 --> 00:13:31.440 Yeah, it's good. 273 00:13:32.039 --> 00:13:37.000 Perfect, Okay. So now let's get into it. 274 00:13:37.240 --> 00:13:38.159 And I'm so excited. 275 00:13:38.240 --> 00:13:40.039 So she had us come prepared with a couple. 276 00:13:39.799 --> 00:13:44.080 Of questions and so, yeah, just let us know how 277 00:13:44.159 --> 00:13:46.240 we how we go about this because I have, like 278 00:13:46.320 --> 00:13:47.200 I said, I have no idea. 279 00:13:47.240 --> 00:13:47.759 I'm a newbie. 280 00:13:48.200 --> 00:13:52.679 Yeah okay, so who wants who wants to ask the 281 00:13:52.799 --> 00:13:53.440 question first? 282 00:13:53.600 --> 00:13:53.759 Though? 283 00:13:54.080 --> 00:13:56.960 Do you want to go first? I can go first? Okay, okay, all. 284 00:13:56.919 --> 00:14:00.360 Right, So should start light or should I? 285 00:14:00.960 --> 00:14:03.000 Yes, let's start light, and then we can go into 286 00:14:03.000 --> 00:14:04.919 the heavier questions. I didn't know we were gonna do 287 00:14:04.960 --> 00:14:05.759 heavy questions. 288 00:14:06.159 --> 00:14:09.039 Well it's not like super heavy, but were you gonna 289 00:14:09.080 --> 00:14:10.360 say something before though, Crystal? 290 00:14:10.799 --> 00:14:15.840 I was just gonna say and so these were just 291 00:14:16.480 --> 00:14:19.799 yes and no questions, right and then okay, So when 292 00:14:19.919 --> 00:14:22.639 I read taro for yes and no questions, uh, the 293 00:14:22.720 --> 00:14:24.480 sun is a yes and the moon is a no. 294 00:14:25.159 --> 00:14:27.639 And then the three cards after can give an explanation. 295 00:14:28.480 --> 00:14:32.320 If the sun is upside down, that's my telling that 296 00:14:32.840 --> 00:14:37.759 it's like, yes, but there's a little bit more. There's 297 00:14:37.840 --> 00:14:40.480 a there's a little bit more, And same with the 298 00:14:40.559 --> 00:14:43.600 moon if it's upside down, then that's telling me that 299 00:14:43.639 --> 00:14:45.639 there's a little bit more that you need to or 300 00:14:45.919 --> 00:14:50.399 ask a little bit more detailed questions. And so that's 301 00:14:50.519 --> 00:14:53.200 how I read it. Okay, there's that. 302 00:14:53.600 --> 00:14:58.480 Okay, let's see. I'm gonna start just really really light, 303 00:14:58.919 --> 00:15:00.360 just to dip my in. 304 00:15:00.559 --> 00:15:04.080 Okay, should I get Sophie a brother dog? 305 00:15:04.600 --> 00:15:04.799 Oh? 306 00:15:07.360 --> 00:15:09.200 I like that one, So I'm just gonna say yes, 307 00:15:09.279 --> 00:15:13.519 just kidding. Crystals questions. 308 00:15:13.559 --> 00:15:17.120 Well, I'm like, she's an only child, she's only child syndrome, 309 00:15:17.240 --> 00:15:18.720 but I still really want to get her. 310 00:15:18.919 --> 00:15:21.960 She gets along more with male dogs, which is why 311 00:15:22.000 --> 00:15:22.519 I say brother. 312 00:15:23.200 --> 00:15:25.120 But I also just want it because she's getting older, 313 00:15:25.879 --> 00:15:29.240 so that like, unfortunately that one day we lose her, 314 00:15:30.159 --> 00:15:31.679 there's still somebody left. 315 00:15:32.200 --> 00:15:35.879 I mean, there is a deeper reason, but Will keeps 316 00:15:35.919 --> 00:15:38.399 telling me no, and I'm like, but I want to 317 00:15:38.559 --> 00:15:38.919 so bad. 318 00:15:39.039 --> 00:15:41.120 So yeah, well let's see what the taras. 319 00:15:43.039 --> 00:15:46.120 Okay, we're gonna do one more shuffle of my thick 320 00:15:46.200 --> 00:15:53.120 shuffle shuffle, So I do it so many times. 321 00:15:53.200 --> 00:15:53.399 I know. 322 00:15:53.840 --> 00:15:57.840 Okay, don't don't mind me, Crystal. I'm just in my 323 00:15:58.000 --> 00:15:58.799 Capricorn era. 324 00:16:00.919 --> 00:16:08.000 Embrace it all right? Should oh yes, you should. 325 00:16:08.200 --> 00:16:13.480 And it's a straight up yes, yay. Oh what's cute. 326 00:16:13.639 --> 00:16:19.120 It's what's coming after? Is it? So this is like 327 00:16:19.159 --> 00:16:21.759 a family card and it's upside down. So it's kind 328 00:16:21.799 --> 00:16:24.679 of just saying like, right now, let's bring it together. 329 00:16:25.120 --> 00:16:29.600 Let's you know, is your dog kind of like a 330 00:16:31.519 --> 00:16:37.399 like is he pretty? I guess, like, is he like 331 00:16:37.480 --> 00:16:39.519 the man of the house or is he kind of silly? 332 00:16:40.399 --> 00:16:42.480 She is, she's kind of is the house? 333 00:16:42.759 --> 00:16:43.000 Okay? 334 00:16:43.279 --> 00:16:45.399 Yeah, that's kind of what they're saying is that it 335 00:16:45.559 --> 00:16:48.360 might be a little difficult at first because she she 336 00:16:48.559 --> 00:16:51.039 needs to get used to her. So yeah, but yeah, 337 00:16:51.080 --> 00:16:53.799 that's cute. That the family card. It's just like kind 338 00:16:53.840 --> 00:16:54.600 of brings it together. 339 00:16:55.159 --> 00:16:55.720 That's all right. 340 00:16:55.960 --> 00:16:56.720 Will you heard her? 341 00:16:57.679 --> 00:16:59.519 It was in the cards, It was. 342 00:16:59.559 --> 00:16:59.919 In the car. 343 00:17:01.799 --> 00:17:07.160 That was a strong Yes, it came out quick. All right, 344 00:17:07.480 --> 00:17:08.400 what's the next one? 345 00:17:08.880 --> 00:17:09.039 Is it? 346 00:17:09.240 --> 00:17:12.759 Okay? Question? So should kelso ask all her questions first 347 00:17:12.759 --> 00:17:13.920 because you're in her energy. 348 00:17:15.119 --> 00:17:17.680 That kind's how I like it. Yeah, I'm sorry, no, no. 349 00:17:17.720 --> 00:17:19.759 No, totally totally works. 350 00:17:21.519 --> 00:17:24.119 So I guess going into the next one, and this 351 00:17:24.240 --> 00:17:27.000 one's kind of a little bit more deep, but it's 352 00:17:27.000 --> 00:17:30.400 just because I'm curious. Am I on the right life path? 353 00:17:33.519 --> 00:17:36.720 So it has no but it's upside down, so they 354 00:17:36.799 --> 00:17:41.599 want a little bit more when you say life path. 355 00:17:47.039 --> 00:17:50.720 So the Night of Cups came out along with the 356 00:17:51.000 --> 00:17:53.960 Four of Cups and the Justice Card. The Night of 357 00:17:54.039 --> 00:17:59.880 Cups is in reverse, so what they're kind of saying 358 00:18:00.240 --> 00:18:04.519 is when it's upside down, it's giving this energy of 359 00:18:04.759 --> 00:18:12.200 unrealistic expectations. What they want for you is to really contemplate. 360 00:18:12.799 --> 00:18:15.720 So with the Four Cups, for me, that card kind 361 00:18:15.759 --> 00:18:18.400 of tells me that you really need to contemplate what 362 00:18:18.480 --> 00:18:25.960 you want in life. Cup cards are so they're emotional 363 00:18:26.559 --> 00:18:31.200 water energy, So okay, think of what you want personally 364 00:18:32.279 --> 00:18:36.720 out of life and what will get you to your 365 00:18:39.359 --> 00:18:42.720 happiest part is kind of the this is the word 366 00:18:42.759 --> 00:18:46.160 that's coming to mind and then you will find So 367 00:18:46.519 --> 00:18:49.000 the Justice card came out as well, which I kind 368 00:18:49.000 --> 00:18:52.440 of thought was weird with these two cause and effect 369 00:18:52.599 --> 00:18:59.519 a win win solutions. So with the unrealistic expectations and 370 00:18:59.599 --> 00:19:07.519 the content in plation, they want you to aim high. 371 00:19:08.599 --> 00:19:10.599 The message that I'm feeling is they want you to 372 00:19:10.640 --> 00:19:14.559 aim high, but if you fail, it's okay. You learn 373 00:19:14.839 --> 00:19:15.960 with failure as well. 374 00:19:16.799 --> 00:19:20.599 So okay, honestly, that's kind of how I've been feeling. 375 00:19:20.680 --> 00:19:22.359 So it winds up with it, okay. 376 00:19:22.880 --> 00:19:27.240 Yeah, So and if you want it, like again, when 377 00:19:27.319 --> 00:19:30.559 I say the cards at the bottom, yeah, king of cups, 378 00:19:30.720 --> 00:19:33.519 so king of cups energy is also which is funny 379 00:19:33.519 --> 00:19:37.400 because cups, cups, cups, so it's all kind of just 380 00:19:38.400 --> 00:19:41.200 and it's all masculine energy too, So maybe they want 381 00:19:41.240 --> 00:19:48.799 you to step into your masculine energy too, Okay, interesting, yeah, okay, Okay, 382 00:19:49.279 --> 00:19:51.960 do you want more or is that no? 383 00:19:52.160 --> 00:19:54.359 I honestly, like I said, that lines up to how 384 00:19:54.440 --> 00:19:57.880 I was feeling, and I think I agree. 385 00:19:58.160 --> 00:20:00.000 Yeah, Wait where you asking about more questions? 386 00:20:00.519 --> 00:20:03.759 Well, if you want clarification, clarification, I mean, if you 387 00:20:03.839 --> 00:20:06.279 can provide a little more clarification, but I don't want 388 00:20:06.319 --> 00:20:09.119 to make you go too deep either, like that's not 389 00:20:09.200 --> 00:20:09.359 to you. 390 00:20:09.759 --> 00:20:14.440 I feel like we should go with how you're feelings. Yeah, 391 00:20:14.799 --> 00:20:16.960 so if in that case, I'm going to do something 392 00:20:16.960 --> 00:20:19.960 a little different, Okay. And when I read people, I 393 00:20:20.079 --> 00:20:24.920 do it this way. I did this with Ellie. 394 00:20:26.599 --> 00:20:27.839 Where I was like, give me those cards. 395 00:20:28.720 --> 00:20:32.119 Wrong, Okay, come over here. 396 00:20:32.519 --> 00:20:34.039 I'm going to have you split the. 397 00:20:34.119 --> 00:20:35.599 Deck with your left hand. 398 00:20:36.079 --> 00:20:38.880 So Crystal just sprawled them out on the table and 399 00:20:39.960 --> 00:20:43.160 Kelso is choosing three cards out of the spread. 400 00:20:46.359 --> 00:20:49.680 I kind of I always worry like saying the cards 401 00:20:49.759 --> 00:20:53.319