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Speaker 1: Made a decision. Face sunny sun, I head oasion.

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Speaker 2: It's nice.

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Speaker 1: Hey, everybody, welcome to for crying out loud.

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Speaker 3: It's another week.

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Speaker 1: It's another week, another day, another dollar, lots to talk about.

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Speaker 2: What How did this year go by so fast that

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it's already everybody's least favorite time of year teacher appreciation month?

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Speaker 1: Like month, it's teacher appreciation a week.

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Speaker 3: But I cannot tell you.

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Speaker 1: I don't think we're having that right now. I have

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not heard let's.

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Speaker 3: Say, a national thing like Secretary's Day.

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Speaker 1: That's what I thought, but we haven't heard anything. I

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haven't heard anything. Or maybe I'm ignoring the school. I

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don't know.

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Speaker 2: Well, you can't ignore it at our school, Linnett, because

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you would think. I swear to god, I was watching

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a dateline the other night and they broke in with

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an emergency interrupted dateline to tell you that Valley Charter

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is its teacher Appreciation week.

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 3: Did you go to sign up? Genius?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? I saw it at the on the crawl at

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the bottle CNN. It's like, okay, listen God.

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Speaker 2: Our girl Angie, who's been a listener since for years,

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she's I feel bad for her because I know she's.

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Speaker 1: Like, oh, guys, sorry, this is this is.

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Speaker 2: She's one of the room, so she has to send

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out all the emails, and I know that she's.

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Speaker 3: Like, sorry, I'm sending another one.

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Speaker 2: Yes, but there have been I've gotten no fewer than

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like eighteen emails are a lureless texts, flyers that went home.

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Oh my god, listen, we've talked a lot about teachers.

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Speaker 1: We appreciate the goddamn.

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Speaker 3: Shit out of teacher.

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Speaker 2: We don't need to celebrate them. Why did they get

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celebrated so much more than mother? We get one day?

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Speaker 1: I know, one day. I usually don't bother them no

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about our day.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I don't send flyers and go hey, hey, mother's

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days coming up?

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Speaker 3: Did you figure out what you're gonna do? Sign up genius?

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Speaker 1: Hello, Missus Thompson, that's sign up genius.

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Speaker 2: So okay, Monday is I don't know, coffee, coffee, bring

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your teacher their favorite coffee drink and Starbucks.

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Speaker 1: Let me ask you this. Do they do this at

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LB school? Do they do it in middle school too?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 1: Thank god, no, thank god. I know that's why I

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haven't gotten anything. Not that they're in middle school yet,

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but they're at the end of it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I've got to find you a couple of these.

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I have so many sign up geniuses and once you

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sign up, then they're like then there's always like an addendum, right,

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It's like, hey guys, hey, everybody, thanks for signing up,

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but just one thing, well on the gift bag that

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we're get the gift basket that, yeah, so we need

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that end of day Tuesday, not Wednesday, at the beginning

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of the day.

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Speaker 1: So does somebody want to put it together? We need

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somebody to put it together.

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Speaker 3: So we got somebody volunteered to put it together.

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Speaker 1: And does somebody want to volunteer shit to put into

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that gift back that that one schmuck has to put together?

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Tickets to Jimmy Kimmelive.

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Speaker 2: Maybe, Yeah, who's got Does anybody have a connection to

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get iGaming sure Disney passes for the year?

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Speaker 3: No, No, I don't.

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Speaker 1: I would give out tour of Adam's warehouse. That became

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the biggest pain in the ass because I would do

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it and then months later I would get the email

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from like the Dad'd be like, hey, my brother is

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in town and hit him and his wife are really

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car enthusiasts, So can we bring like six people. No,

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 1: And do I have to be there? Sure? Go go

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find Dylan. I'm not gonna take him around. He'd be

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lucky if you see Adam. And if you do, he

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wants not gonna make eye contact with you or anything.

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Speaker 2: Right, you know, he's on the spectrum, right, so he

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don't expect much. Okay, this one, this is one of

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the ones. Okay, so this is the best that the

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email from Angie. Okay, so and so has agreed to

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coordinate the basket for our teacher, Miss Parker, love her

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her class. Please take a moment to sign up and

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bring the item in by Wednesday morning. May second. You

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can connect with so and so. That's the person who

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stepped up to put it together. Thank god for this girl.

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Rachel stepped up. And here's her name, and here's your

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phone number, and here's your email, and here's the sign

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up genius. By the way, this is like email number

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fourteen from Angie and Angie, no offense to you because

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I adore you. It's not your fault. And then the

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next one. Apologies for the multiple emails. Please see the

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updated info. We need items by end of day Tuesday.

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Also to clarify, we're making two baskets, one for this

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teacher and one for the teacher's assistant. Of course, take

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a minute to sign up for an item for the

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teacher appreciation baskets.

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Speaker 1: So and don't forget the janitor, don't forget the teacher.

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Oh my god, lazy. By the way, I never do anything.

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We are living the same life. I know, I now know.

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Speaker 2: I was going to say, everybody complains about our pe teacher,

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but they're like, I forget her, and the music teacher

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who's condescending, and the kids don't like.

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Speaker 1: God, they're doing Willy Wonka and the kids cannot. She's

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like she's an actress type, right right. I think she's cute.

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But Sonny's just annoyed. It's all hell. He's like, she's

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not that great. She thinks she's like jazz hands. Like

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he's like, I gonna take those jazz hands, and like,

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you know, he can't. Nobody likes her. She is condescending

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and and the pe teacher no offense, but she doesn't

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do much. So this is the thing, and drinks Coca cola.

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That's not very healthy. No, it isn't.

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Speaker 3: Here's the thing.

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Speaker 2: If you want to appreciate if you're like, you know

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what that pe teacher to me? You know, some of

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these other moms don't love her, but to me, I

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think she goes above and beyond. Right, you know, yeah, sure,

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does she drink a Coca Cola now and again? Yeah,

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but I love her? Right, great, you go appreciate her.

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Speaker 1: You got gary Starbucks gift card?

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Speaker 3: Then why does it have to be such an organized like?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 2: It's just like I don't I don't want to be

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forced because the more I get, the more it's like, okay, guys, listen, Okay,

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So here's the here's what our schedule is. So Monday,

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I think was bring your teacher their favorite coffee. So

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somebody's got your brands out today. No I did not

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because I'm in a hurry. I have to take the

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other one to school. I don't have time to go

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to Starbucks make some fancy drink order and bring it

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into the teacher. Okay, but here's what I did do.

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I'm not that much of a no getter, but it's

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the kids are not even appreciating the teachers. I appreciate

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you running around appreciating. Day two is homemade card flower?

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What pick one.

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Speaker 1: Filmmade card flower.

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Speaker 2: Flower and then now flower yea, so now you need

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parents to put together.

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Speaker 3: The you know, to my God stuff. So that's a

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couple of flowers.

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Speaker 2: And remember the time I told you years ago, I'm

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still mad about it when I actually when I was helping,

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I volunteer to help put the flowers in vases or vases,

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and I cut one of them because it was really long,

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and the other mom was like, why did you cut

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thatt like to make it the same size as the

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Speaker 3: That No, it's supposed to be higher. How the fuck

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should I know that?

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 3: Am I a florist? Go to hell?

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Speaker 2: So that okay, So that's Tuesday, So of course what

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have I been doing? Hey guys, you guys want to

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make your teacher their card. Get ahead of the game.

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Not put it off till Monday at ten o'clock at night. Okay, Mom,

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Hey guys, did you guys make your homemade card for

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your teacher.

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Speaker 3: You're gonna do it right now, Hey, guys, hand it over.

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Had that card come out?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 3: I haven't done it yet, Mom, We're about to do.

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Speaker 2: It's been made, so that'll be tonight.

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Speaker 1: After the rest of homework.

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Speaker 2: And then they're gonna be like, okay, so that's Tuesday.

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So then Wednesday is gift basket Day. So that's where

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the sign up genius, the genius sign up genius goes in. Now,

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so we get multiple emails about what the basket is.

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Remember last time I was like one of them is.

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Speaker 3: Doing a beach theme.

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Speaker 1: Last year I was like, yeah, get her some freaking copper.

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Speaker 3: And like, just get a card. Nobody wants that. Nobody

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wants a ninety beach towel from the nine month Sense.

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Speaker 2: Store in flip Flops where that stuff is going to

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get round filed as soon as they get home.

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Speaker 3: They're going far the gift card and go thanks.

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Speaker 1: Kikes into the drash.

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Speaker 2: Right, So this one is a Spa it's a Spa basket.

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So they list all the items that you can sign

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up to get, which is sweet and great, but.

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Speaker 1: That's all you need. Do you have to have a

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whole week of this? Just do a basket from the class, right,

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you go, right, we appreciate you, We want you to relax.

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Speaker 2: Also, the items were super specific. You know, they were

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like a lavender eyepillow. Well that sounds that easy to get.

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Speaker 3: Notice.

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Speaker 1: So I'm not going to bed Bath andom Beyond and

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go find Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So act I went to TJ Max and I got

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I signed up for I figured that was the most

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no getor way.

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Speaker 3: To do it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because first of all, Sadie loves to go to

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TJ Max.

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Speaker 3: It's like the favorite thing.

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Speaker 2: So and she loves to buy that kind of stuff

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like smelly soaps and body butters and stuff. So it's like,

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go to TJ Max and we'll look for the imask

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and what have you the things on the list. So

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we didn't find any Ie masks, but we got her

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some body butter, a mug that says about teachers. I'm

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a teacher, what's your superpower or something? Okay, I had

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to send it for a mug, a mug, some pillow spray,

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some relaxing sleep pillow spray, anduten yeah, something else. Oh oh,

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and I'm giving her some I found in my closet.

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Speaker 1: Sword and scale mugs.

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Speaker 3: No coconut scrub ah.

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Speaker 1: Copari.

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Speaker 2: Yes, love that stuff, have a lot of it at home.

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That I was going to say for that, if you're looking.

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Speaker 1: At a drawer, you'd find something.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, regifting.

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Speaker 2: So so I have to bring all that stuff to school, okay,

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so that's Wednesday. Then for the other teacher. Keep in mind,

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for us it's times two. So everything you're doing for

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one class, you got to do it for the other exactly.

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Luckily the other class is a dude, so they're like, hey,

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can you kick in Timbaio.

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Speaker 1: That's it.

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Speaker 3: I can do that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so that's smart. So that's for him and his assistant.

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I guess someone will get gift cards. I don't know

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what they're up to. Then Thursday is, oh, okay, so

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like the luncheon. Okay, so they want people. They want

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people to prepare meals, not kidding, bring in treats and stuff,

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and they're going to do a whole luncheon for all

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the teachers on Thursday. Then Friday, Oh it's not over, Lynnette,

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Speaker 1: Fuck?

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Speaker 2: Probably, yes, what do they want? Uncomfortable now, No, I'm

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not doing that. That's inappropriate, Lenet. I don't want to

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give my teacher shoulder.

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Speaker 1: Rub I wouldn't do any of it, to be honest,

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I'm dying I don't think.

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Speaker 2: The teachers want no Stephanie Wildertailor to come in and

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be like, let me give you a shoulder.

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Speaker 3: Rub, Let me get behind you.

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Speaker 1: Hey, how you have that?

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Speaker 3: How do you feel any more relaxed?

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Speaker 1: Hey?

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Speaker 2: Can we talk about Sadie's that you paid for a minute,

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just while you're here, while I'm rubbing you out?

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Speaker 3: What do you think of Sadie's reading? Is it coming along?

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Or how do you could?

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Speaker 2: Can we go in another room by ourselves and the

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sparker so I can just really just get in there,

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get into some of those knots, and just really get

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into some of these topics.

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Speaker 1: I just wanted to dig your Oh yeah, that's horrible week.

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That's horrible.

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Speaker 3: So I feel like.

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Speaker 1: And you're being raped. That's what I feel like.

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Speaker 3: I am being I'm violated right now, So I did.

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Speaker 2: I do appreciate our teachers, and I do want you

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here to have stuff, but I think it would just

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be a lot easier if I could just pay the

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ten bucks, like I am for one teacher, right, But

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I'm bringing in the stuff for the gift basket.

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Speaker 3: Do you think that's enough? Like I don't also make

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cookies for the one.

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, no no. By the way, they're not

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gonna notice if you're not, if you're not dropping off

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homemade sugar balls or whatever, or you know what I mean,

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They're not gonna go like, wait a minute. We got lasagna,

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we got the cookies, we got them, We got the spaghetti,

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we got the pizza. Where Stephanie Wilde Taylor's baking? Where's

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her pies? They're they're not gonna know.

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Speaker 3: They would never Where are her pie?

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Speaker 4: Where's your pies? That woman is famous for her pies.

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And I need no pie, no pie, not not a mince,

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not a lemon, meringe.

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Speaker 3: It's happening.

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Speaker 2: That's going on, right, they're gonna call me at home.

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We're just are you okay? We we didn't see any items, right,

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and there's a lot of the bombs pitched in, right,

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and I just we didn't see anything.

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Speaker 3: Did we miss it?

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Speaker 2: We just wanted to check because maybe it's behind the

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counter in the office. Maybe you put it there.

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Speaker 1: We just didn't see it. See, you're not going to

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get busted. You won't get busted. I forbid you. Actually,

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I say, you just give them whatever you bought and

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that's it.

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Speaker 3: Call it a day.

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Speaker 1: That's it. No protest. I'm telling you, Adam had me

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do that one year, like, no more homework. Tell them

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I'll memory that. No more homework.

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Speaker 3: It was the end of the year.

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Speaker 1: He's like, if I they want to do a project,

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I'm building a deck in the backyard. If they want

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to do a project, they can come and build a deck.

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I don't need any more projects. I don't need any

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more cardboards. I'm not going to back out in my

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garage over a bunch of pictures that's stuck together on

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a cardboard, half asked done, no, tell them no, And

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I remember I did, and I remember at the stink eye,

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I know, I remember that back to school night. One

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thing I do love about our school is we do

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a lot of projects.

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Speaker 2: It's project based learning. It's a great curriculum. But none

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of the projects ever come home. So therefore you get

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called in to come and see the culmination of whatever

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their project is, and you're like, whoa, how did that happen?

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Speaker 3: Had not come together?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 2: They're working on their biography piece or whatever. Nothing that

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comes from the house. They make cardboard cutouts.

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Speaker 1: So they don't draw.

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Speaker 3: They do everything at side.

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Speaker 1: That's what it's supposed to be.

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Speaker 2: The homework is just homework. It's just like your mass

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sheet and your spelling words or whatever.

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Speaker 1: But fourth grade was all projects, constantly, home projects, science

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fair projects. Sonny had to do a video on Levi Strauss.

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Speaker 2: Right, yeah, we had because it's famous California. Right, that's right,

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that's they are studying.

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Speaker 1: But fourth grade, I think is known because I was

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talking to my other girlfriends on Friday and like a

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mom get together and it's fourth grade was all all projects.

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Fifth grade was fine. Sixth grade is sixth grade and

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then they go into middle school in seventh grade.

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Speaker 3: Wait, you buried the lead. You went to a mom

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get together?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not like you, I know, right, well it happened.

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It's uh my girlfriend Melissa oh cousin sounds what was

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her birth friend gets together? Yeah. But and then Suzanne,

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So we were talking mom stuff a lot, okay, because

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Melissa has a son that's one year older than mine

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and Suzanne's kids, right, so we can ask her like

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what we got to look forward to next year right now?

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And she's, you know, she's like Archie loves seventh grade,

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blah blah blah. So we were talking about that, well.

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Speaker 3: We will be in seventh grade. You know she has

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no homework.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what she was saying. She was saying, seventh

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grade's pretty easy. They love their independence. They have tons

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of a ton of independence and uh yeah and not

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a lot of homework.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god. Okay, speaking of independence. Okay, well first

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woman is never going to listen to the podcast.

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Speaker 1: So that's what you think.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so get this.

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Speaker 2: Yes you remember takis? Yes talkies girl? Yeah, how could I forget?

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For anybody that that forgot. I've been like stalking this

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saous friend and trying to get her mom to like

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let her do stuff with us.

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Speaker 1: But because it's their culture, their culture.

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Speaker 2: Yes they're they're not from Mexico, but they're of Latin

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descent and their Latin culture is the mom told me,

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she's like, we're Latin.

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Speaker 3: It's our culture.

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Speaker 2: We're just we just tell our kids go to sleepovers. Yeah, okay,

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so you know who I'm talking about. So keeping in

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mind that the dad is that they're super controlling. I mean,

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that's not fair. They're not super controlling, but worried. So

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the mom will sometimes call several times when.

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Speaker 1: Hert it's because her daughter had to go to the

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e because she was throwing up talkie because I apparently

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gave her too many talkies.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so she I worked my way back. She isn't

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allowed to come over to our house for a little while,

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you remember that. Yeah, So then but then will Sadie

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could only go over to her.

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Speaker 3: House, which was fine.

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Speaker 2: But then eventually I got back in her good graces

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and then she started coming over again. Okay, So then

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the other day she came over for a play date

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and it was kind of a big deal because she.

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Speaker 3: Hadn't been over in a really long time.

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Speaker 2: And Okay, so Sadie and Xander have been getting more

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freedom because John and I are not helicopters, and we

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work on ourselves in this regard. And like I would say,

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in the past, like a few weeks, we started letting

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Sadie and Xander walk to the park, which is I

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think I told.

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Speaker 3: You about this.

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Speaker 2: It's like four blocks from my house. It's not far

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at all, four blocks in a little residential neighborhood. So

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remember the story I told you where the mom where

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Xander had a friend over and we let them walk

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to John let them walk to the park, and then

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the mom.

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Speaker 3: Was like all right, I'm on my way to get

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my kid.

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Speaker 2: And I was like oh, and then I because they

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don't have a phone, they have an iPad with them.

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Of course they have to bring them electronic but so

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they could take pictures, but it doesn't have Wi Fi.

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Speaker 3: So now now I'm getting nervous and I go draw.

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Speaker 2: I go driving over to the park and I start

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looking for them and there's nobody there, and I know

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they're fine, right because it started out where they were

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just going to scooter around the neighborhood. But John said

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they went they had gone to the park, so I

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was like, ah, so I looked at this place where

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they usually go, this little baseball diamond near our house.

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They weren't over there, so I look anyway. Then John

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gets nervous too, so he finds him in like two seconds.

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They're just scootering around the couple like two blocks away.

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So that was fine. So I'm out, Oh at oh

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Elbe had a volleyball game on Thursday, So this is

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when the girl was at our house. So the mom

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calls me or texts me and she's like, hey, how's

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it going the Taki's mom. Taki's mom says how's talkies?

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And I said fine, you know, and she's like, well,

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can you have her call me? Like I want to

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talk to her? And I was like okay, So I

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text John and I was like, hey, John, Takis needs

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to call her mom. And he's like, oh, well they

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went to the park. I was like no, no, no, no, no,

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no no no no.

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Speaker 1: It's one thing for us to let my kids go.

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Speaker 2: To the park because I've got that right, but this

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mom is not in a million no, she is not

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going to be down for that.

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Speaker 3: No, not at all.

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Speaker 5: No.

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Speaker 2: So I'm like, oh shit. I was like when did

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they leave? And he goes, oh, not very long ago.

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I told him, oh so then so I'm like, oh,

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I got to buy the.

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Speaker 1: Time, like I get so I got any service?

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I was like, hey, so I go. So they went

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for a walk and can I have her? They don't

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have They went for a little walk and can she

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call you in a little bit And she was like okay.

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So then John, So now it's four thirty. So this

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is what had been at like four twenty. So at

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four thirty, I was like, hey, are they back yet?

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And John goes no, I told him to be back

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at five, I'm like, this mom is gonna lose her mind.

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She's gonna drive over to our house. I'd be like,

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where is my daughter?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 2: I mean she's called before and she has like likes

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to have a long chat with her daughter in the

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middle and find out the whole schedule, what's the agenda,

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what's going on? Like, what are they letting you do

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that you would never get to do? It's a dog

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liked does a dog bite? Stay away from the dog?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was my parents.

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Speaker 2: So the So anyway, five o'clock rolls around, I guess,

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so I'm still at the game. So John texts me.

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He's like, uh so Taki's called her mom and told

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her she told her they went to the park. Oh

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my god, and he goes, I don't think it went well.

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He goes, there was a long pause, and I was like,

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oh no, no.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So then I'm like sweating my arios.

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Speaker 3: So I text the.

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Speaker 2: Mom and I was like, uh, Kentucky's day for dinner?

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I said, because, And she's like, I'm picking her up

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for church. Yeah on a Thursday.

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Speaker 1: I really eat at five.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So then I said I was just trying to like

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get back in her good graces. I was like, well,

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I said, I was going to order some pizza. I said,

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but and she's like, well, I need to pick her

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up by whatever. It was going to be in like

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half an hour. I'm going to be there to pick

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her up. And I was like, okay, well I'm going

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to feed. I'll just make sure she's fed. She goes, oh,

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I would like her to have eaten.

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00:21:43,039 --> 00:21:43,519
Speaker 1: Okay.

473
00:21:44,079 --> 00:21:46,759
Speaker 2: Also keep in mind, but not that you would know this,

474
00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:50,200
that she'd been at our house. So Thursdays is a

475
00:21:50,240 --> 00:21:52,680
one pm pickup day, so she'd been over for a

476
00:21:52,720 --> 00:21:55,480
lot for hours, Okay, So of course she wanted her

477
00:21:55,519 --> 00:21:57,480
to have eaten something, right, she's going to pick her up.

478
00:21:57,480 --> 00:21:59,599
So I was like, okay, I'm going to I'm going

479
00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:02,000
to give her dinner. I gave her a big bag

480
00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:06,920
of takies and I got so I didn't know, Oh

481
00:22:07,039 --> 00:22:10,279
my god, she was. She gave me a little laugh

482
00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:14,920
face emoji, got the humor. But picked her up, and

483
00:22:14,960 --> 00:22:17,359
I haven't heard anything about it. But like I know,

484
00:22:17,519 --> 00:22:19,559
I know she's never gonna let her come over, not

485
00:22:19,720 --> 00:22:24,319
untill like eighth grade. So yeah, so that happened, and

486
00:22:24,359 --> 00:22:27,559
then you know, she's like, did so you you did.

487
00:22:27,599 --> 00:22:27,720
Speaker 3: What?

488
00:22:27,839 --> 00:22:28,759
Speaker 1: Where did you went to?

489
00:22:28,799 --> 00:22:29,000
Speaker 3: Where?

490
00:22:29,160 --> 00:22:31,640
Speaker 1: How far was the park? Just the two of you knew?

491
00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:32,960
How long were you going?

492
00:22:33,039 --> 00:22:34,279
Speaker 3: My god, she's gonna die.

493
00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:37,359
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know her, but I know hopefully

494
00:22:37,400 --> 00:22:41,119
she'll think her daughter was exaggerating. Also, her daughter was

495
00:22:41,119 --> 00:22:43,319
trying to get all into the snacks again, which you

496
00:22:43,319 --> 00:22:46,319
know she's not allowed to do, and Sadie was like, oh,

497
00:22:46,319 --> 00:22:47,960
I was trying to stop her, but she just kept

498
00:22:48,039 --> 00:22:50,400
going in, going into the refrigerator, going in the pantry

499
00:22:50,440 --> 00:22:53,599
like getting and John knows about the no snacks thing,

500
00:22:53,720 --> 00:22:56,519
so he was having to do the be at last work.

501
00:22:56,759 --> 00:22:57,599
Speaker 3: Yeah, what the fuck?

502
00:22:57,720 --> 00:22:59,519
Speaker 1: What do you gotta do? Tell little takies like you're

503
00:22:59,519 --> 00:23:02,240
gonna have to put like a lock on the on

504
00:23:02,279 --> 00:23:05,599
the cabinet next time she comes over, like she because

505
00:23:05,640 --> 00:23:08,880
she can't have any any junk foods.

506
00:23:09,039 --> 00:23:12,559
Speaker 2: Right, this girl's nine years old and you just know.

507
00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:15,920
So my other friend, Okay, so the kid, the original

508
00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:18,799
friend of Xander's who came over, who I was freaking

509
00:23:18,799 --> 00:23:21,039
out a little bit, looking for looking for the kids.

510
00:23:20,799 --> 00:23:22,119
Speaker 3: And she was coming to get him.

511
00:23:23,319 --> 00:23:25,839
Speaker 2: I the other day he came over yesterday, So I

512
00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:27,920
texted the mom and I was just like, hey, do

513
00:23:27,960 --> 00:23:29,799
you would you be cool if they want to go

514
00:23:29,799 --> 00:23:33,680
to the park, and she and she was like by themselves.

515
00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:36,519
Speaker 3: And I was like yeah, I mean they're too.

516
00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:41,799
Speaker 2: Old for a parent to be like, hey, guys doing Hey,

517
00:23:41,720 --> 00:23:44,559
they're not at that watch me, watch me climb the

518
00:23:44,559 --> 00:23:47,000
monkey bars age, you know, and they're not even really

519
00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:48,799
going to go to the play equipment. I mean, my

520
00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:50,519
kids are going on eleven. They're just going to go

521
00:23:50,559 --> 00:23:55,200
scooter around, yes, on the path. It's a very safe neighborhood. Anyway,

522
00:23:55,240 --> 00:23:58,799
she was like, yeah, I'm not comfortable with that. So

523
00:24:00,079 --> 00:24:01,799
I felt like I had to be honest because I

524
00:24:01,799 --> 00:24:04,279
don't want to be sneaking around sending somebody's kid to

525
00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:07,359
the park, right Anyways, Then she was just like I'm sorry,

526
00:24:07,440 --> 00:24:10,079
I just feel like, you know, there's could be some

527
00:24:10,119 --> 00:24:12,319
wacky people around. And then I was like, okay, well,

528
00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:14,519
is it okay if they scootered around the neighborhood at least?

529
00:24:14,519 --> 00:24:17,440
Speaker 3: And she was like yeah, just like as long as

530
00:24:17,440 --> 00:24:18,559
they're kind of close to home.

531
00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:23,680
Speaker 2: So if she's not cool about it, you know, Talkie's

532
00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:25,920
mom oh like left her mind when she found out,

533
00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:28,240
and she was probably like, you're never ever going to

534
00:24:28,240 --> 00:24:28,880
her house again.

535
00:24:29,599 --> 00:24:29,839
Speaker 1: I know.

536
00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:34,200
Speaker 2: And in my defense, if I had been home, I

537
00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:35,920
never would have let her. I never would have let

538
00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:39,680
her take talkies to the park right right, because I

539
00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:41,319
would know that, you know what I mean, I would

540
00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:44,599
never have allowed that. But John doesn't know, like how

541
00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:48,519
insane people are, right, So there you go. I know,

542
00:24:48,559 --> 00:24:50,880
you guys who are listening in other parts of the

543
00:24:50,880 --> 00:24:52,880
world are just like, are you kidding me?

544
00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:53,440
Speaker 3: Right now?

545
00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:55,880
Speaker 1: You can't go to the park. You just have to

546
00:24:55,920 --> 00:25:00,480
people they're they're worried. Everybody has to use their best. Yeah,

547
00:25:00,519 --> 00:25:02,559
you said you would have been a little concern. Yeah,

548
00:25:02,799 --> 00:25:05,400
I think at that. Hell are they well?

549
00:25:05,799 --> 00:25:08,200
Speaker 3: Sadie's ten and a half, she'll be eleven in November.

550
00:25:08,519 --> 00:25:12,200
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's so like last year. I I I'm

551
00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:14,839
trying to think that's the age where I started letting

552
00:25:14,880 --> 00:25:18,759
them walk around the neighborhood by themselves. Yeah, I started together.

553
00:25:19,319 --> 00:25:21,640
As long as they're together. Now, Natalia is starting to

554
00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:24,759
walk to her friend's house by herself after school, and

555
00:25:24,799 --> 00:25:26,799
that kind of worries me. I still like a little

556
00:25:26,839 --> 00:25:30,720
girl walking by herself. And she takes the back road

557
00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:33,440
because it's quicker, and so she has to cut through

558
00:25:33,480 --> 00:25:37,480
an alley some pepper spray. I bought some. Actually, it's

559
00:25:37,519 --> 00:25:41,559
a good idea to I just thought of that. Yeah, yeah,

560
00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:43,960
it's just that's the only thing that if it was sunny,

561
00:25:44,039 --> 00:25:46,880
even though I don't know, it's just when they're by

562
00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:51,440
themselves and they're walking around the backside of things, like

563
00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:54,240
there's a horse trail by us and stuff, it's a

564
00:25:54,240 --> 00:25:56,000
little even when i'm I.

565
00:25:55,920 --> 00:25:56,759
Speaker 3: Agree, me too.

566
00:25:56,920 --> 00:25:59,519
Speaker 2: But if they're together, if they're together, I know they're

567
00:25:59,559 --> 00:26:01,680
every Friday, is there a treaty?

568
00:26:01,839 --> 00:26:05,440
Speaker 1: They walk together with a bunch of them. It's kind

569
00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:07,599
of far. It's like, I don't know, six or seven

570
00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:11,039
blocks away, that's far. That's not far. But but when

571
00:26:11,039 --> 00:26:15,000
you had your backpack and all that shit. But so yeah,

572
00:26:15,039 --> 00:26:16,920
so they go to the town center and they hang

573
00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:18,839
out there and they get ice cream and they do whatever.

574
00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:21,279
You know, they play around. Ol goes spying on them

575
00:26:21,319 --> 00:26:23,240
for a while to tell you, we'll get to like

576
00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:27,880
back off. But but no, they they go walk. They

577
00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:30,599
takes Phil for walks now all the time. It's nice.

578
00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:31,599
Speaker 3: Oh that's great.

579
00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:40,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, so dumb, go oh, go ahead, this is so dumb, Stephanie.

580
00:26:40,319 --> 00:26:43,200
Speaker 1: There's never any dumb complaints just dumb people.

581
00:26:44,920 --> 00:26:49,880
Speaker 2: Okay, So I have a new therapist. Remember I think

582
00:26:49,880 --> 00:26:52,920
I was going to tell you about this last week. Yeah, okay,

583
00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:55,279
keep in mind this is a really this might seem

584
00:26:55,319 --> 00:26:56,119
really dumb.

585
00:26:56,039 --> 00:26:57,640
Speaker 3: But okay. So I went to the therapist.

586
00:26:57,799 --> 00:27:00,160
Speaker 2: She was recommended by a friend of mine who and

587
00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:03,000
I trust her opinion, and I went to her and

588
00:27:03,079 --> 00:27:06,200
she was great. But okay, So the first time though,

589
00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:08,359
I went to her website and I emailed her and

590
00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:11,400
I was like, dude, I need therapy, you know. And

591
00:27:11,440 --> 00:27:13,119
I didn't hear anything back. So then I went and

592
00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:14,960
used the phone number on her website.

593
00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:15,480
Speaker 3: I called.

594
00:27:15,960 --> 00:27:18,720
Speaker 2: She called me back on my cell phone and I

595
00:27:18,799 --> 00:27:21,079
chatted with her, told her what was up, you know,

596
00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:23,400
this is what's up, right, and she was like, come

597
00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:25,400
on in. So we made an appointment. So I went

598
00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:28,480
and had the appointment. And I really liked her. You know,

599
00:27:29,559 --> 00:27:34,200
she's very into thinks most things that ail you can

600
00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:38,319
be cured with mindfulness, which ain't nobody got time for mindful.

601
00:27:38,599 --> 00:27:38,759
I know.

602
00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:43,559
Speaker 1: Mine's all about meditation. She's a Buddhist, she's a hippie,

603
00:27:43,599 --> 00:27:46,559
she's h yes, like you should really try to meditate,

604
00:27:46,559 --> 00:27:47,640
and every times I've heard that.

605
00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:50,000
Speaker 3: I know, I know, meditate.

606
00:27:50,440 --> 00:27:51,759
Speaker 1: I'm gonna fall asleep. Yeah.

607
00:27:51,799 --> 00:27:53,920
Speaker 2: If I could meditate, I wouldn't be here. My mind

608
00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:57,440
works way too fast to meditate. But I get it.

609
00:27:57,519 --> 00:28:00,279
Speaker 3: Like, look, yes, I get it. I don't expect a magic.

610
00:28:00,319 --> 00:28:04,640
Speaker 2: Pill right, well, will be nice. Yeah, but I understand.

611
00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:07,200
I just I of course I'm open to it.

612
00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:07,519
Speaker 3: Whatever.

613
00:28:07,599 --> 00:28:10,559
Speaker 2: Okay, So here's the complaint though, So everything's fine.

614
00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:11,960
Speaker 3: I liked her.

615
00:28:12,559 --> 00:28:15,839
Speaker 2: We made a few We made an appointment okay for

616
00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:16,440
the next week.

617
00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:16,960
Speaker 1: Okay.

618
00:28:17,039 --> 00:28:21,079
Speaker 2: Then uh like two or three days before, three days

619
00:28:21,079 --> 00:28:25,359
before I got an audition, which I will also tell

620
00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:27,559
you about. And it's only my second one.

621
00:28:27,599 --> 00:28:28,680
Speaker 1: My lucky day today.

622
00:28:30,519 --> 00:28:31,880
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I have it already.

623
00:28:32,839 --> 00:28:39,119
Speaker 2: Audition okay, good, Okay, therapist Okay. So I'm like, oh,

624
00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:41,440
like the audition was going to be at the same

625
00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:45,599
time as my second ever therapy. Yes, but I was like,

626
00:28:45,599 --> 00:28:49,079
what do I need more? A commercial and national commercial

627
00:28:49,519 --> 00:28:51,960
or therapy? Obviously a commercial?

628
00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:55,279
Speaker 1: Of course therapy.

629
00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:56,279
Speaker 3: I can stay.

630
00:28:56,039 --> 00:28:58,559
Speaker 2: Crazy, Yes, I can't always book a commercial, you know

631
00:28:58,559 --> 00:28:58,920
what I mean?

632
00:28:59,039 --> 00:28:59,880
Speaker 3: It's fine. Okay.

633
00:29:00,119 --> 00:29:03,359
Speaker 2: So I'm like, all right, crazy, we're ahead of We're

634
00:29:03,359 --> 00:29:06,279
way ahead of time. You know so, and this time

635
00:29:06,319 --> 00:29:08,160
that she gave me wasn't going to probably be my

636
00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:09,440
regular time anyway.

637
00:29:09,759 --> 00:29:10,640
Speaker 3: So I.

638
00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:16,880
Speaker 2: Email her, right and I say, hey, so sorry, I

639
00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:19,119
know this is only like our second appointment, but I

640
00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:21,680
need to I just need to change switch it. Either

641
00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:25,359
I have these other times like in the afternoon, or

642
00:29:25,440 --> 00:29:28,119
if worst comes to worst, like the same time the

643
00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:31,160
next week. Right, but something came up, and.

644
00:29:31,079 --> 00:29:34,440
Speaker 1: This is three days ahead, right, this is twenty four hours.

645
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:38,599
Speaker 2: It's like now, it's like I did it on first thing,

646
00:29:38,680 --> 00:29:41,559
Monday morning, and my appointment was for Tuesday at eleven

647
00:29:41,599 --> 00:29:45,319
thirty okay, okay, so early in the morning. Like yeah,

648
00:29:45,359 --> 00:29:47,839
so way over twenty four hours. Yeah, it sounds though, right, Okay,

649
00:29:48,400 --> 00:29:51,519
So I don't hear anything back, like for the change

650
00:29:51,519 --> 00:29:51,920
of time.

651
00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:55,359
Speaker 3: So I'm like, oh, it's so weird, you know.

652
00:29:56,119 --> 00:29:59,920
Speaker 2: So the next morning, which was Tuesday morning, I was

653
00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:02,279
I just want to make one hundred percent sure that

654
00:30:02,440 --> 00:30:05,400
she got my email. So and then it occurred to

655
00:30:05,440 --> 00:30:07,519
me that the first time I emailed her she didn't

656
00:30:07,559 --> 00:30:08,400
respond to that either.

657
00:30:08,519 --> 00:30:09,519
Speaker 3: I had I called her.

658
00:30:09,799 --> 00:30:13,119
Speaker 2: Oh, so so I go into the phone number on

659
00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:15,400
the website and I call her and I was like, hey,

660
00:30:15,599 --> 00:30:19,119
I just want to make positive that you got my message,

661
00:30:19,319 --> 00:30:25,000
my email yesterday changing my appointment or so. I then

662
00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:30,720
she calls me back on my phone, and I didn't

663
00:30:30,759 --> 00:30:33,640
answer the phone because at that point I said, no,

664
00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:35,599
it was at the doctor's office with one of the kids.

665
00:30:35,599 --> 00:30:38,079
I was at a doctor's appointment, like orthodontist or something,

666
00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:40,960
so I leave it. I checked the message and she

667
00:30:41,119 --> 00:30:45,640
was like, oh, hi, uh no, I did not get

668
00:30:45,640 --> 00:30:49,160
your email. And by the way, I can't. I don't

669
00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:53,079
take emails for changing appointments or appointments. It's not hip

670
00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:58,400
a compliant, my god. And also texting, which I didn't

671
00:30:58,400 --> 00:31:01,119
do anyway, is also not him a compliant. So you

672
00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:05,279
need to call me if you and you know normally,

673
00:31:05,599 --> 00:31:09,559
I mean, you didn't do this twenty four hours in advance. Yes,

674
00:31:09,640 --> 00:31:12,559
I did because I emailed her, because how the fuck

675
00:31:12,599 --> 00:31:14,119
should I know that I email?

676
00:31:14,279 --> 00:31:15,119
Speaker 3: Is I have a compliant?

677
00:31:15,519 --> 00:31:16,839
Speaker 1: So that's when it's.

678
00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:19,400
Speaker 2: An email, not hip a compliant. I'm sorry to scream

679
00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:22,799
right now, but my life about doctor's appointments for kids,

680
00:31:22,839 --> 00:31:27,079
and I do all of it over email. How often

681
00:31:27,119 --> 00:31:29,400
do doctors call you back on them? They rarely do.

682
00:31:29,559 --> 00:31:32,000
Most of the doctors that I deal with Sadie and

683
00:31:32,119 --> 00:31:36,160
the chronologists, all of their different doctors, pediatricians.

684
00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:37,960
Speaker 3: They email me all the time.

685
00:31:38,039 --> 00:31:40,640
Speaker 1: Sometimes they even have like a portal like patience portal.

686
00:31:41,039 --> 00:31:43,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, mind big on an email.

687
00:31:43,200 --> 00:31:46,160
Speaker 2: My doctors all prefer email to tell me, even to

688
00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:50,519
tell you things. And in fact, Xander's doctor who I

689
00:31:50,559 --> 00:31:54,039
did blood work through, texted me the results. So, how

690
00:31:55,119 --> 00:31:58,039
results of a blood test? How's that hip A compliant?

691
00:31:58,559 --> 00:32:02,839
So I like, and it's me, I'm the one. It's

692
00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:04,839
not even my kid, And at this point it's me.

693
00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:07,119
Speaker 3: How's it not hippo complaint to me? I'm the one

694
00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:07,599
calling you?

695
00:32:07,759 --> 00:32:09,799
Speaker 1: Yes, exactly, hippa is They.

696
00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:12,759
Speaker 2: Don't they can't give your information out. So yeah, but

697
00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:15,799
I'm calling you and it's okay. So I was like,

698
00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:19,559
so the message was so chastising. It was just like,

699
00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:23,559
you know, I could you know, normally I would charge

700
00:32:23,759 --> 00:32:25,720
you know, if you don't do it within twenty four hours,

701
00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:28,480
then I have to charge for the whole appointment. This time,

702
00:32:29,039 --> 00:32:32,400
I'm going to I'm not going to charge you this time,

703
00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:34,839
but like next time, I will have to charge you.

704
00:32:35,279 --> 00:32:39,880
So anyway, you can call me, call me back, and

705
00:32:40,119 --> 00:32:43,599
I can give you and I don't have blah blah blah,

706
00:32:43,599 --> 00:32:44,920
I'm not going to be able to do this time

707
00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:47,799
next week because I have a thing or whatever. So

708
00:32:47,839 --> 00:32:49,279
then of course now I'm like, I don't want to

709
00:32:49,319 --> 00:32:51,480
call her back. I don't blame you because it's like,

710
00:32:51,559 --> 00:32:53,079
oh my go you're calling a mom.

711
00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:54,240
Speaker 1: Now I know.

712
00:32:54,359 --> 00:32:56,000
Speaker 2: And the whole reason I go to therapy is because

713
00:32:56,000 --> 00:33:00,559
I don't like my mom. You know that where I

714
00:33:00,599 --> 00:33:04,920
was just like, oh, so chastised, and I didn't do

715
00:33:04,960 --> 00:33:08,079
anything wrong. I emailed her like a normal person, right,

716
00:33:08,480 --> 00:33:10,880
So then the next day, so now I'm putting it off.

717
00:33:11,599 --> 00:33:14,519
So the next day she leaves me another message and

718
00:33:14,559 --> 00:33:16,440
she's like, Hi, I'm waiting to hear, like when you

719
00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:19,880
want your appointment? Okay, So I call her back and

720
00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:22,319
she answers the phone. I call her on the cell

721
00:33:22,359 --> 00:33:24,680
phone number she gave me, and she answers, You're not

722
00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:26,680
supposed to You're a therapist. You're not supposed to answer

723
00:33:26,680 --> 00:33:29,000
the phone. I'm supposed to seem way too busy. Yes,

724
00:33:29,039 --> 00:33:30,279
you don't answer voice?

725
00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:32,400
Speaker 3: What about a voicemail? Be a professional.

726
00:33:32,440 --> 00:33:36,039
Speaker 1: I even thinking about becoming a therapist just for that reason, just.

727
00:33:35,960 --> 00:33:38,920
Speaker 2: To be like, oh yeah, only the only time that

728
00:33:38,920 --> 00:33:41,000
you're allowed to tell me anything is in the office

729
00:33:41,079 --> 00:33:42,200
for forty five minutes, right.

730
00:33:42,519 --> 00:33:44,599
Speaker 3: So she answers the phone and.

731
00:33:44,559 --> 00:33:49,599
Speaker 2: I was like, hi doctor, Uh yeah, so and she's like, hi,

732
00:33:50,039 --> 00:33:53,680
uh you know. Oh, So, I said, I just here's

733
00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:58,119
the thing. I got your message, but I emailed you.

734
00:33:58,119 --> 00:34:00,640
You you have an email. I'm worried you don't get

735
00:34:00,680 --> 00:34:03,680
your emails because you have an email address on your website.

736
00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:07,200
She's like, yeah, I don't use email for that. Well

737
00:34:07,000 --> 00:34:09,920
what I said, But I just I'm afraid you're not

738
00:34:10,039 --> 00:34:12,280
getting it, I said, because the She goes, I only

739
00:34:12,360 --> 00:34:15,039
use that my email address for making new appointments and

740
00:34:15,119 --> 00:34:18,280
I go first time appointments. So I said, well, I

741
00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:21,800
actually did email you the very first time for the appointment,

742
00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:24,599
and you didn't call me back, so I called you.

743
00:34:25,039 --> 00:34:26,920
Speaker 3: Oh no. Then she started arguing with me.

744
00:34:27,000 --> 00:34:29,679
Speaker 2: She's like, no, the first time you called me, and

745
00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:32,519
I said, yes, I did, but that's because I emailed

746
00:34:32,559 --> 00:34:34,519
you and you didn't email me back. So I called

747
00:34:34,559 --> 00:34:36,719
you and then you called me back and we set

748
00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:38,639
up an appointment. But I had emailed you and didn't

749
00:34:38,679 --> 00:34:41,800
hear back. I said, so when I emailed you again,

750
00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:44,320
because I said I do a lot of dealings with

751
00:34:44,400 --> 00:34:47,039
doctors over email, so I never would have known. I've

752
00:34:47,039 --> 00:34:49,519
never heard of that not being HIPOCOPI. She's like, Nope, nope,

753
00:34:49,559 --> 00:34:53,760
it's not I don't work that way. So I was like, Okay,

754
00:34:53,800 --> 00:34:54,559
well now I know.

755
00:34:56,559 --> 00:34:57,519
Speaker 1: That you're a bitch.

756
00:34:57,679 --> 00:35:00,239
Speaker 2: But so now I have like a weird feel now

757
00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:02,440
even though I loved her, I thought she was a

758
00:35:02,480 --> 00:35:05,960
great therapist. I really thought she was smart and like

759
00:35:06,079 --> 00:35:10,320
you would like it, but yours doesn't live here right now.

760
00:35:10,559 --> 00:35:13,880
Speaker 1: She's in Portland. She's importantly. Yeah she's in Portland, but

761
00:35:13,960 --> 00:35:18,280
she she does phoners and she does skype. She used

762
00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:23,039
to live here, and she would she's in her sixties.

763
00:35:23,320 --> 00:35:26,760
She's got like that long gray black hair, you know.

764
00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:29,960
And we talked about this, yeah, and she just she's

765
00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:32,599
like wonderful and like warm, and I love her. I've

766
00:35:32,679 --> 00:35:35,119
seen them seeing her forever. But she would start to

767
00:35:35,159 --> 00:35:39,559
fall asleep, all right. And my other friends that I sent,

768
00:35:39,639 --> 00:35:42,079
they were like, thank you for sending me. It's gonna

769
00:35:42,079 --> 00:35:44,079
call her Linda. Thank you for sending me to Linda.

770
00:35:45,079 --> 00:35:47,840
Does she ever fall asleep on you? I'm like, oh

771
00:35:47,920 --> 00:35:50,639
my god, she falls asleep all the time she sits

772
00:35:50,639 --> 00:35:54,239
and she tries to, well, do you think she's I

773
00:35:54,239 --> 00:35:54,920
think I'm boring.

774
00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:56,400
Speaker 3: She just I think like.

775
00:35:56,360 --> 00:35:59,440
Speaker 1: She sits like he had problems, like her hands plant

776
00:35:59,519 --> 00:36:02,599
her her palms are planted on her knees, and she's

777
00:36:02,599 --> 00:36:05,719
sitting like upright, like you know, with a nice posture.

778
00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:08,119
And she's like, okay, so tell me, and then I

779
00:36:08,159 --> 00:36:12,119
start telling, and then she starts snoring. She starts going

780
00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:15,679
I would die. Her eyes start to get heavy, and

781
00:36:16,599 --> 00:36:18,440
then she'd like she'd like went.

782
00:36:18,559 --> 00:36:20,320
Speaker 3: Like, okay, I could not handle that.

783
00:36:20,760 --> 00:36:23,039
Speaker 1: It was bothering. That was lower my self esteem and

784
00:36:23,239 --> 00:36:24,960
it was bothering. But then when I found out my

785
00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:27,079
was doing she was doing it to my other friends,

786
00:36:27,159 --> 00:36:29,280
and she was doing it almost every time I went

787
00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:31,360
in there. And I only went in there like once

788
00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:34,320
a month at that point or whatever. But then everybody

789
00:36:34,360 --> 00:36:37,639
was like, oh yeah, she falls like send like a Starbucks.

790
00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:41,360
I know that's true that I should, but now I

791
00:36:41,400 --> 00:36:43,519
see I talked around. Then she had to move. She

792
00:36:43,559 --> 00:36:46,360
wanted to be closer to her grandchildren. And uh so

793
00:36:46,400 --> 00:36:50,880
she's she does skype or she'll she'll phoners are fine,

794
00:36:50,960 --> 00:36:52,920
like I like it. I'll just pull over the side.

795
00:36:53,199 --> 00:36:56,559
She always says, are you in some place quiet where

796
00:36:56,599 --> 00:36:58,800
you can talk. You're not driving, are you? Oh? No,

797
00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:04,400
I'm not driving. I'm on the one on one's Oh

798
00:37:04,440 --> 00:37:09,920
now that's not a horn, that's Natalia. But yeah, she's

799
00:37:10,159 --> 00:37:12,000
she's great. But now you gotta start I don't know.

800
00:37:12,039 --> 00:37:13,840
Are you gonna start over? You're gonna go see her?

801
00:37:13,960 --> 00:37:16,840
I to me, I would feel embarrassed, like I would

802
00:37:16,840 --> 00:37:18,400
be like, I don't want to go in there now

803
00:37:18,440 --> 00:37:21,079
and tell her all my like after she's chastised me

804
00:37:21,159 --> 00:37:23,599
a few times and argued with me, now I gotta

805
00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:26,039
go see therapists for my therapist, like.

806
00:37:26,519 --> 00:37:28,440
Speaker 2: You know, I know, I guess the thing is, like

807
00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:30,960
I could just okay, now I know the rule. So

808
00:37:31,000 --> 00:37:32,559
now I know I have to call her if I

809
00:37:32,559 --> 00:37:34,000
have to change. And by the way, why didn't she

810
00:37:34,039 --> 00:37:36,079
say that up front? She should have said And by

811
00:37:36,079 --> 00:37:38,679
the way, I only take phone calls. I know she

812
00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:40,480
never said that. And I had to fill out a

813
00:37:40,599 --> 00:37:41,679
mountain of paperwork.

814
00:37:42,599 --> 00:37:45,440
Speaker 1: Does do they? Does she take insurance?

815
00:37:45,559 --> 00:37:45,800
Speaker 3: Yes?

816
00:37:46,639 --> 00:37:51,519
Speaker 2: That's good, yeah, so I I so for the next appointment.

817
00:37:51,519 --> 00:37:53,679
She was like, well, I can give you I might

818
00:37:53,800 --> 00:37:56,440
have this afternoon one. And I was like, maybe I

819
00:37:56,480 --> 00:37:58,159
can do that, but I don't want to. I can't

820
00:37:58,800 --> 00:38:00,920
commit for sure. Can I just say maybe and call

821
00:38:00,960 --> 00:38:02,559
you and let you know? And she was like, Okay,

822
00:38:02,599 --> 00:38:04,000
I'll tell you what I'm going to do. I'll call

823
00:38:04,039 --> 00:38:06,079
you if somebody wants to take that spot. And I

824
00:38:06,119 --> 00:38:10,559
said okay. And now I feel like I'm not taking

825
00:38:10,559 --> 00:38:13,360
that spot. So now I feel like, oh, I think

826
00:38:13,400 --> 00:38:16,760
I have to call her it's this Thursday and say yeah,

827
00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:17,920
I don't want that spot.

828
00:38:18,079 --> 00:38:19,760
Speaker 3: But now I'm worried she's going to answer the phone.

829
00:38:21,960 --> 00:38:22,599
You know what I mean.

830
00:38:24,119 --> 00:38:27,519
Speaker 1: She does is go, oh, wrong number. You can just

831
00:38:27,559 --> 00:38:28,719
call her back another dime.

832
00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:31,199
Speaker 2: Or then she has one number that's her office that's

833
00:38:31,239 --> 00:38:33,800
on the website. Maybe I'll just call that one. That

834
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:37,039
one she doesn't answer. But then when she's on the phone,

835
00:38:37,079 --> 00:38:42,639
she's like, hellot, she's not falling asleep, that's true.

836
00:38:42,719 --> 00:38:45,760
Speaker 1: She's too wide awake. She's on top of it.

837
00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:46,559
Speaker 3: She's alert.

838
00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:51,280
Speaker 1: She is wait, I want to hear about your ear audition.

839
00:38:51,920 --> 00:38:53,920
Speaker 3: Oh my god. I feel like we should save something

840
00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:55,159
for Friday's episode.

841
00:38:55,199 --> 00:38:58,119
Speaker 1: But all right, okay, but do.

842
00:38:58,039 --> 00:38:59,519
Speaker 3: You have anything what's going on with you?

843
00:39:00,519 --> 00:39:02,440
Speaker 1: I just had a busy weekend. I got stuff we

844
00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:04,599
can talk about on Friday too, but it's just one

845
00:39:04,639 --> 00:39:07,519
of those weekends. As Adam was out of town Friday,

846
00:39:07,559 --> 00:39:10,840
I spend Friday with my girls. We went to a spa.

847
00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:13,639
We took Melissa to the spa, and it's fun talking

848
00:39:13,639 --> 00:39:16,679
to them because they she's you know, I haven't seen

849
00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:21,760
them so long. And there's also that awkwardness sometimes because

850
00:39:22,639 --> 00:39:26,519
Suzanne's my best friend, my love, and Gracie her daughter,

851
00:39:26,679 --> 00:39:32,719
and then they're going it's nobody, like, I don't know.

852
00:39:33,719 --> 00:39:37,079
I love them both equally. They both have different qualities,

853
00:39:38,239 --> 00:39:41,440
but like, so okay. So then there's Melissa, who Susanna

854
00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:44,519
Melissa love each other, which is fine, which is great,

855
00:39:44,559 --> 00:39:48,320
But then Melissa has her kids see my kids every Sunday,

856
00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:52,960
well really during football season. So Sonny and Archie, her son,

857
00:39:53,079 --> 00:39:56,440
are like besties. Whenever they see each other, they never

858
00:39:56,440 --> 00:39:58,039
get to see each other. So when they see each other,

859
00:39:58,199 --> 00:39:58,519
you know.

860
00:39:58,760 --> 00:40:00,960
Speaker 3: So I thought they see each other every Sunday, well.

861
00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:03,360
Speaker 1: They during football season, but it's over now, so now

862
00:40:03,360 --> 00:40:05,719
they haven't. Okay, So what I'm saying is that we

863
00:40:05,760 --> 00:40:10,280
went to Rancho Relaxo, right, but we forgot to invite

864
00:40:10,320 --> 00:40:15,360
Suzanne and her daughter, and I feel bad, but it's

865
00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:17,679
just it was just a different dynamic, you know what

866
00:40:17,719 --> 00:40:20,800
I mean, of course I do. It's it's like, I

867
00:40:20,800 --> 00:40:22,360
don't know, it's.

868
00:40:22,119 --> 00:40:24,960
Speaker 3: Not going to work right. Well, the girls don't get along.

869
00:40:26,039 --> 00:40:28,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean they do not get along. I think

870
00:40:28,840 --> 00:40:30,280
I guess they get a I mean, I don't know.

871
00:40:30,320 --> 00:40:32,920
They haven't been with each other. We'll find out because

872
00:40:33,199 --> 00:40:37,800
we're going to Chicago together. That's another story yet. What Yeah,

873
00:40:37,880 --> 00:40:42,320
well i'll tell you it's so all right. But okay,

874
00:40:42,320 --> 00:40:45,440
so Suzanne says on Friday, because we went to the

875
00:40:45,480 --> 00:40:48,639
spa and then we had lunch outside and we're talking

876
00:40:48,679 --> 00:40:50,639
about how nice it is, and then she's like, Susan's

877
00:40:50,639 --> 00:40:53,400
like and yeah, you bitches, next time you guys go

878
00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:55,480
to Palm Springs, I'm on in on that, like you know.

879
00:40:55,719 --> 00:40:57,920
And I felt I was like worried that she was

880
00:40:57,960 --> 00:41:00,880
going to bring it up because I even as Melissa,

881
00:41:00,920 --> 00:41:02,960
I was like, shoot, we should have invited Suzanne. And

882
00:41:03,000 --> 00:41:05,920
she's like yeah, She's like, well, you have so.

883
00:41:05,960 --> 00:41:08,639
Speaker 2: Many friends that think they should be in on. It's

884
00:41:08,639 --> 00:41:10,800
like I feel like you can't do something with a

885
00:41:10,800 --> 00:41:12,360
friend without a different friend.

886
00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:14,840
Speaker 1: Like I not get invited, right, I know, what are

887
00:41:14,880 --> 00:41:16,320
you supposed to invite all of them? If you go

888
00:41:16,400 --> 00:41:17,639
see Bruce Springsteen, you got.

889
00:41:17,559 --> 00:41:20,119
Speaker 2: To call everything for one of our bus and be like, hey,

890
00:41:20,679 --> 00:41:22,440
just so let you know, I'm going to Bruce Springsteen.

891
00:41:22,559 --> 00:41:24,440
Speaker 3: So if you're going to get your feelings hurt, I guess.

892
00:41:24,639 --> 00:41:27,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, I know, I know. I don't know

893
00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:31,400
what it is. I don't know, but I just feel bad.

894
00:41:31,559 --> 00:41:33,800
And then like when we go on our annual where

895
00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:36,599
we're going to make it at annual vacation. Now you know,

896
00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:40,280
over the holidays, we got together with their family, my

897
00:41:40,440 --> 00:41:43,239
family because Melissa and I are Melissa and I, and

898
00:41:43,280 --> 00:41:45,880
then there's Adam and sal who love each other, they're

899
00:41:46,199 --> 00:41:50,000
like best friends. Then there's the boys, and then there's

900
00:41:50,079 --> 00:41:53,719
Natalia who doesn't have a girl, and then Daniel Kellotson

901
00:41:53,760 --> 00:41:55,480
and his wife and they have a boy, right that

902
00:41:55,599 --> 00:41:58,559
gets along with their boys, right, And Italian is like

903
00:41:58,599 --> 00:42:01,480
the odd girl out because it's boys and I could

904
00:42:01,519 --> 00:42:05,599
I easily have Susanne come, but then which is fine,

905
00:42:05,840 --> 00:42:07,079
I guess, yeah, you.

906
00:42:07,079 --> 00:42:10,599
Speaker 2: Should do that, so so that I don't know, I understand,

907
00:42:10,719 --> 00:42:13,199
there's certain dynamics that you're like you're it's not gonna

908
00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:13,639
be the same.

909
00:42:13,920 --> 00:42:17,199
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's it's like Cammy, you know, Cammy is very

910
00:42:17,199 --> 00:42:20,119
wise for her little age because she has like a

911
00:42:20,119 --> 00:42:22,480
policy where she only has one playdate at a time,

912
00:42:22,559 --> 00:42:25,360
like she's not she doesn't want to be with Olivia Natalia.

913
00:42:25,800 --> 00:42:29,239
Sometimes she will, she'll make exceptions exceptions, but for the

914
00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:31,960
most part, she likes one on one like somebody's gonna

915
00:42:31,960 --> 00:42:33,639
spend the night. She just wants one girl to come

916
00:42:33,639 --> 00:42:35,480
over and spend the night. Like she's gonna go do

917
00:42:35,519 --> 00:42:38,079
something on a Saturday. She does it with one friend

918
00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:41,239
she likes to. So I'm kind of that way, like

919
00:42:41,320 --> 00:42:43,400
if I'm gonna do something, I'm gonna do something with Melissa,

920
00:42:43,440 --> 00:42:46,639
and you know, or it's kind of if it involves

921
00:42:46,760 --> 00:42:48,639
the kids, you know what I mean?

922
00:42:48,760 --> 00:42:49,719
Speaker 3: I do know what you mean.

923
00:42:50,039 --> 00:42:54,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. It's the kids is the is

924
00:42:54,400 --> 00:42:56,280
not the problem, but it's.

925
00:42:57,199 --> 00:42:59,039
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, we have talked about this a lot,

926
00:42:59,079 --> 00:43:02,159
but it's something that everybody who has kids is going

927
00:43:02,239 --> 00:43:04,599
to find out. It changes the dynamic of a lot

928
00:43:04,599 --> 00:43:08,840
of relationships. It does your kids have to get along great? Yeah,

929
00:43:08,880 --> 00:43:11,840
and if they don't, if it's anything less than great,

930
00:43:12,719 --> 00:43:17,840
It makes your friendship, right. I mean I had that

931
00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:20,639
friend the same as you, with the daughter with the

932
00:43:20,639 --> 00:43:23,840
same name, and it broke up our friendship.

933
00:43:24,119 --> 00:43:27,079
Speaker 3: I just watch it. Yeah, I mean I haven't talked

934
00:43:27,079 --> 00:43:27,960
to her in a long time.

935
00:43:28,119 --> 00:43:32,119
Speaker 1: It's just because her daughter was not being nice to

936
00:43:32,199 --> 00:43:32,760
your kids.

937
00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:34,320
Speaker 3: She wasn't being nice.

938
00:43:34,760 --> 00:43:38,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, she would just my daughter, who loves everybody, did

939
00:43:39,000 --> 00:43:42,199
not love her daughter. Was like if it was like, hey,

940
00:43:42,239 --> 00:43:43,400
do you want to go over to her house?

941
00:43:43,480 --> 00:43:44,719
Speaker 3: Like, she'd be like all right.

942
00:43:45,039 --> 00:43:49,159
Speaker 2: You know, her daughter would do stuff like just we'd

943
00:43:49,159 --> 00:43:52,519
come over to our house and she would invite us over, like, hey,

944
00:43:52,599 --> 00:43:53,840
come come over and come swimming.

945
00:43:54,039 --> 00:43:54,360
Speaker 3: Okay.

946
00:43:54,400 --> 00:43:58,360
Speaker 2: So we'd show up and I'd be like, where's your

947
00:43:58,440 --> 00:44:01,559
daughter and she's like, oh, she's upstairs watching a movie

948
00:44:01,559 --> 00:44:03,599
in her room.

949
00:44:03,719 --> 00:44:06,239
Speaker 3: Okay, So let's elbe's supposed to do? Right?

950
00:44:06,599 --> 00:44:10,960
Speaker 2: Or she's sleeping. I mean this was they were old

951
00:44:11,039 --> 00:44:13,559
enough to not be taking naps. You know, it's like, uh,

952
00:44:13,880 --> 00:44:16,719
you just invited us over, what's my kids supposed to do?

953
00:44:16,960 --> 00:44:18,440
And then LV would be like, what am I supposed

954
00:44:18,480 --> 00:44:21,360
to do? And she'd be like, oh, I forgot what

955
00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:24,480
I used to call her. Her name Tina.

956
00:44:24,400 --> 00:44:27,440
Speaker 1: She'd be like, Tina, Elby's here.

957
00:44:28,400 --> 00:44:30,960
Speaker 2: She doesn't want to come down right now, she sees

958
00:44:31,880 --> 00:44:33,599
And then and then there'd be other stuff that she

959
00:44:33,639 --> 00:44:35,920
would do stuff and she just wouldn't discipline her.

960
00:44:36,119 --> 00:44:37,079
Speaker 1: That's what I was going to ask.

961
00:44:37,159 --> 00:44:38,679
Speaker 3: And then it was the thing where she'd be like,

962
00:44:39,000 --> 00:44:40,159
do you want You're going to.

963
00:44:40,159 --> 00:44:42,760
Speaker 2: Get a time out if you keep doing that, And

964
00:44:42,760 --> 00:44:44,880
then she'd keep doing it, and Albe would just be

965
00:44:44,880 --> 00:44:46,840
looking at me like are you kidding me right now?

966
00:44:47,480 --> 00:44:50,719
And then one time she pushed Albie's head under the

967
00:44:50,760 --> 00:44:54,679
water and there swimming pool and U and Albie was

968
00:44:54,840 --> 00:44:58,840
freaking out and I and I said, Tina, don't do that.

969
00:45:00,119 --> 00:45:04,679
And then my friend was like, do not, please, don't

970
00:45:04,719 --> 00:45:08,920
ever discipline my child. She goes, I will, I'm in

971
00:45:09,039 --> 00:45:11,559
charge of the discipline or whatever, and I said, well,

972
00:45:11,599 --> 00:45:14,119
you weren't saying anything and it wasn't safe, so I

973
00:45:14,159 --> 00:45:17,440
am going to stop your kid if something that's not safe.

974
00:45:17,760 --> 00:45:19,840
Speaker 3: And then we have like a little kind of weird

975
00:45:20,440 --> 00:45:21,280
tension about it.

976
00:45:21,280 --> 00:45:21,880
Speaker 1: That weird.

977
00:45:22,079 --> 00:45:24,920
Speaker 2: And then another time her daughter we were at her

978
00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:27,360
house and her daughter kept like grabbing toys out of

979
00:45:27,400 --> 00:45:30,639
Elbie's hand and they were way older, than an age

980
00:45:30,639 --> 00:45:33,679
where you grab stuff, Oh, that's mine. But she would

981
00:45:33,679 --> 00:45:35,840
grab stuff out of Elbie's hand and Albie would just

982
00:45:35,920 --> 00:45:40,880
be like all right, And then she kept doing it

983
00:45:41,360 --> 00:45:44,840
and just being really bratty. And then eventually I think

984
00:45:44,840 --> 00:45:47,400
I told you this story because eventually she was like,

985
00:45:47,719 --> 00:45:49,079
if you keep doing that, you're going to.

986
00:45:49,119 --> 00:45:50,599
Speaker 3: Get a time out. If you keep doing that, you're

987
00:45:50,599 --> 00:45:52,000
going to get a time out. If you keep doing that,

988
00:45:52,039 --> 00:45:52,920
It went on and on and on.

989
00:45:52,960 --> 00:45:55,480
Speaker 2: I was so uncomfortable, and then finally she was like,

990
00:45:55,760 --> 00:45:57,239
get out of the pool right now.

991
00:45:57,639 --> 00:45:58,239
Speaker 3: And then she.

992
00:45:58,880 --> 00:46:01,199
Speaker 2: Pulls her out of the pool, takes her in the house,

993
00:46:01,360 --> 00:46:05,480
and they're in there forever right she's getting a lecture.

994
00:46:05,519 --> 00:46:08,079
I don't know what's happening, and they're having a fuck

995
00:46:08,119 --> 00:46:11,119
an hour long talk about her feelings and how and

996
00:46:11,519 --> 00:46:12,599
event Elbie's like.

997
00:46:12,559 --> 00:46:14,599
Speaker 3: Mom, col we go, pleasequ we go.

998
00:46:15,440 --> 00:46:18,800
Speaker 2: So we went over to my so and in the meantime,

999
00:46:19,320 --> 00:46:21,360
but when I I'm not exaggerating when I say they

1000
00:46:21,360 --> 00:46:22,199
were probably in the house.

1001
00:46:22,039 --> 00:46:23,840
Speaker 1: For a family, I believe it because I've had the

1002
00:46:23,880 --> 00:46:24,679
same experience.

1003
00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:27,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, So finally we left and we come, we walk

1004
00:46:27,840 --> 00:46:30,039
in the house and we got all our stuff together,

1005
00:46:30,119 --> 00:46:32,519
and I was like, we're gonna go, and we'd been

1006
00:46:32,519 --> 00:46:35,840
there all morning and she was like what wait wait,

1007
00:46:36,519 --> 00:46:39,360
oh my god. And I was like, we have to go,

1008
00:46:39,440 --> 00:46:41,000
but we'll talk later. And then we leave and then

1009
00:46:41,039 --> 00:46:44,480
she's super mad at me because and I said, but

1010
00:46:44,800 --> 00:46:47,000
you were in the house for like over a half

1011
00:46:47,000 --> 00:46:51,119
an hour talking to her. And then we were friend.

1012
00:46:51,480 --> 00:46:53,880
This is your friend. Before you guys had kids, you

1013
00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:57,400
guys were friends. Well, no, not you, not so much.

1014
00:46:57,400 --> 00:46:58,519
But we became friends when the.

1015
00:46:58,559 --> 00:47:01,039
Speaker 1: Kids were really little, when they were babies.

1016
00:47:01,440 --> 00:47:04,039
Speaker 3: Yeah, Albie was like two.

1017
00:47:05,400 --> 00:47:09,480
Speaker 1: I see, and then that was that and then.

1018
00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:10,840
Speaker 2: Or maybe her daughter was two in mine was three

1019
00:47:10,880 --> 00:47:13,679
and Lbie was three. Yeah, So I mean but we

1020
00:47:13,679 --> 00:47:17,039
were the ones that got along. She's hilarious, yeah, and

1021
00:47:17,360 --> 00:47:21,079
fun and like a really was a good friend, right right,

1022
00:47:21,119 --> 00:47:22,480
But it was too hard.

1023
00:47:22,559 --> 00:47:25,480
Speaker 3: It was just like so eventually I started just doing stuff.

1024
00:47:25,199 --> 00:47:27,159
Speaker 2: With her without the kids, and I'd be like, let's

1025
00:47:27,199 --> 00:47:29,880
just you know, but that's hard too, because then you it's.

1026
00:47:29,760 --> 00:47:31,159
Speaker 3: Clear that you're kind of avoiding.

1027
00:47:31,440 --> 00:47:34,320
Speaker 1: Right. Well, well, Suzanna and I, I mean we've been

1028
00:47:34,360 --> 00:47:37,079
friends for I don't know, forty years or something, right,

1029
00:47:37,159 --> 00:47:41,280
and we just had this, you know, we had the

1030
00:47:41,360 --> 00:47:43,719
fault with her. They just didn't get along when they

1031
00:47:43,719 --> 00:47:47,639
were age zero to five or six. And then we

1032
00:47:47,800 --> 00:47:51,519
just I finally gave up and we just and then

1033
00:47:51,559 --> 00:47:53,400
I think we moved and we didn't so we didn't

1034
00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:55,079
see each other very much. And then we didn't talk

1035
00:47:55,079 --> 00:47:56,800
to each other very much. And yes we did have

1036
00:47:56,840 --> 00:48:01,039
conversations about it, like I feel uncomfortable and this happens.

1037
00:48:01,119 --> 00:48:04,639
And it's also parenting styles. You know, it's different, and

1038
00:48:04,639 --> 00:48:08,239
it's hard when your friend is your friend, but then

1039
00:48:08,280 --> 00:48:11,400
you see them parenting or they see you parenting in

1040
00:48:11,440 --> 00:48:14,159
a way that you they don't like. And I'm sure

1041
00:48:14,159 --> 00:48:16,079
she isn't like the way I parent I guess I

1042
00:48:16,079 --> 00:48:18,199
don't know, and I don't let you know. And so

1043
00:48:18,880 --> 00:48:20,679
at the time, I don't know how things are now

1044
00:48:20,719 --> 00:48:23,679
because everybody's older now and we don't really see her

1045
00:48:23,719 --> 00:48:27,920
that much. However, we're going to Chicago. So why are

1046
00:48:27,920 --> 00:48:30,039
you going to Chicago for Nicholas's wedding?

1047
00:48:30,119 --> 00:48:32,239
Speaker 3: My nephew got it.

1048
00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:35,079
Speaker 1: Yeah, and we were telling to We were telling Melissa

1049
00:48:35,320 --> 00:48:38,159
this on Friday, and so Melissa's like, so you guys

1050
00:48:38,199 --> 00:48:41,519
are both going to Chicago Yeah, with your with your kids,

1051
00:48:41,559 --> 00:48:45,039
and Melissa knows our situation. Oh yeah, and she's like, oh, okay,

1052
00:48:45,119 --> 00:48:48,320
so you, Lonette, you're bringing your kids, and Suzanne you're

1053
00:48:48,320 --> 00:48:50,440
bringing Gracie, and you guys are all staying at the

1054
00:48:50,480 --> 00:48:53,400
same hotel. Yeah, and then Melissa's quiet for a second.

1055
00:48:53,480 --> 00:48:55,960
She's like, Sonny's gonna hate the shit out of that

1056
00:48:56,039 --> 00:49:01,599
trip because she knows Sonny, because you know, it's true,

1057
00:49:01,599 --> 00:49:04,039
like he's the now, he's gonna be the only boy

1058
00:49:04,519 --> 00:49:06,480
with all the girls. We're gonna go to our hair

1059
00:49:06,559 --> 00:49:08,320
done and you know, and get dressed up for the

1060
00:49:08,320 --> 00:49:09,960
wedding and he's gonna be in a suit and he's

1061
00:49:10,000 --> 00:49:13,400
just gonna be But yeah, we're going to Chicago. Where

1062
00:49:13,400 --> 00:49:16,719
are you going end of May? Memorial weekend?

1063
00:49:18,480 --> 00:49:21,960
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, you're gonna be back in time for

1064
00:49:22,039 --> 00:49:23,199
our San Francisco trip.

1065
00:49:24,079 --> 00:49:27,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh yeah, yeah, oh yeah, yeah, our San Francisco trip.

1066
00:49:27,639 --> 00:49:31,079
Even second, Yeah, it's the following weekend. Is our San

1067
00:49:31,079 --> 00:49:36,360
Francisco Oh it is, yeah, because I come home on Monday, Memorial.

1068
00:49:36,039 --> 00:49:38,800
Speaker 3: Day, which is like the well maybe Memorial Day is

1069
00:49:38,840 --> 00:49:39,559
like the twenty.

1070
00:49:39,320 --> 00:49:44,320
Speaker 1: Sixth, I'm not sure. Yeah, but anyway, anyway, Yeah, we're

1071
00:49:44,360 --> 00:49:45,360
all be fine, don't worry.

1072
00:49:45,400 --> 00:49:48,639
Speaker 3: Alright, awesome, you're a parent, now, don't f it up?

1073
00:49:49,719 --> 00:49:54,039
Speaker 5: Your mother, mother, house, a family.

1074
00:49:55,519 --> 00:50:04,159
Speaker 1: I'm this God. You say, hello, how's the webb? How's

1075
00:50:04,239 --> 00:50:12,440
my father? And my lonely cabin? Snow? Mother?

1076
00:50:12,760 --> 00:50:13,199
Speaker 3: Mother?

1077
00:50:15,039 --> 00:50:21,039
Speaker 5: I listen, just a phone call to ease your mind.

1078
00:50:23,239 --> 00:50:31,719
Life is perfect, never better. Distance make the heart girl.

1079
00:50:32,719 --> 00:50:38,599
Speaker 3: Weak, A handy off to see the world where you

1080
00:50:38,960 --> 00:50:41,599
head that I'm my kidper.

1081
00:50:43,800 --> 00:50:49,320
Speaker 1: What I try to middle to a bath though what

1082
00:50:50,719 --> 00:50:52,800
he can though my skirt.

1083
00:50:55,920 --> 00:51:07,719
Speaker 5: I'm hungry, I'm dirty, I'm losing my mon I'm freezing,

1084
00:51:08,239 --> 00:51:09,159
I'm starving.

1085
00:51:09,719 --> 00:51:10,840
Speaker 3: I'm leading to that.

1086
00:51:18,480 --> 00:51:23,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm working, making money.

1087
00:51:24,039 --> 00:51:27,280
Speaker 3: I'm just started to build a name.

1088
00:51:29,599 --> 00:51:35,960
Speaker 1: I can't feel it. I'm the corner. I couldn't make

1089
00:51:36,119 --> 00:51:41,360
it any day. Mother and bad?

1090
00:51:43,199 --> 00:51:44,280
Speaker 4: Can you hear me?

1091
00:51:45,800 --> 00:51:46,079
Speaker 3: Sure?

1092
00:51:46,159 --> 00:51:47,039
Speaker 1: I'm sober?

1093
00:51:47,599 --> 00:51:54,880
Speaker 3: Sure I'm saying like this present, never beat of.

1094
00:51:56,360 --> 00:51:57,480
Speaker 1: Still your daughter?

1095
00:51:58,199 --> 00:51:59,559
Speaker 3: Still a safe?

1096
00:52:00,280 --> 00:52:01,840
Speaker 2: Can I tell you.

1097
00:52:01,639 --> 00:52:03,639
Speaker 1: What you want of it?

1098
00:52:05,679 --> 00:52:05,880
Speaker 2: Well?

1099
00:52:06,039 --> 00:52:12,039
Speaker 3: You're hell anxious? Sleep will that night? I can show

1100
00:52:12,280 --> 00:52:13,679
that on your birth?

1101
00:52:16,719 --> 00:52:18,280
Speaker 1: How? God up?

1102
00:52:18,679 --> 00:52:20,119
Speaker 3: Very same time.

1103
00:52:23,159 --> 00:52:36,559
Speaker 5: I'm hungry, I'm dirty, losing my mind, I'm fraising, starving,

1104
00:52:37,119 --> 00:52:37,800
I'm fleeting.

1105
00:52:45,360 --> 00:52:46,079
Speaker 1: I miss you.

1106
00:52:46,800 --> 00:52:47,559
Speaker 3: I love you