Speaker 1: Canst, canst. It's not sorry. Can you feel that that place,
Speaker 1: that space where we're at right now, where time itself
Speaker 1: feels suspended. It's not a stillness of peace, but a
Speaker 1: point of potential waiting to be activated. The kind of
Speaker 1: silence that's inviting you to go deeper into yourself, into
Speaker 1: your internal world, into the dreams you've been carrying around
Speaker 1: with you since you've made it to this planet. It's
Speaker 1: the stillness before the storm, the quietness before you transcend
Speaker 1: to the next level, waiting at that threshold. It's in
Speaker 1: this stillness that change actually begins to take place. It's
Speaker 1: through a whisper, It's through a tiny decision to show
Speaker 1: up differently, speak differently, act differently, feel differently. If you're
Speaker 1: listening to this podcast right now, it's because you are
Speaker 1: aligned with the in between. You are standing at the
Speaker 1: door of your next reality, and it can feel like
Speaker 1: you're in the fog. It can feel like you're in
Speaker 1: a mystical place of unknowing, suspended. But this is not
Speaker 1: to hurt you. It is to prepare you. We've all
Speaker 1: been in this space before and we're going to be
Speaker 1: in it again. And this is a space between who
Speaker 1: we were in who we are becoming in the moments
Speaker 1: before we know, before we understand that there's a transformation
Speaker 1: about to take place, a new manifestation about to come in,
Speaker 1: a new reality waiting to flood our lives. We stand
Speaker 1: in this stillness. The unknown lies before us, and all
Speaker 1: we can do is lean into it. You want to
Speaker 1: try to control it, well, good luck, because our ceiling
Speaker 1: is God's floor, and there are certain seasons where we
Speaker 1: do not have total control over what's going on, but
Speaker 1: we can control the direction in which we shift. When
Speaker 1: the unknown lies before us. The best thing we can
Speaker 1: do is go a little bit slower, is listen. Listen
Speaker 1: instead of talk, lean in instead of run, Open up
Speaker 1: to the whispers our higher self is trying to download
Speaker 1: within our vessels. Listen to the pulse of the energetic universe,
Speaker 1: that quiet tension that just fills the air. You can
Speaker 1: feel a storm coming, you can feel when something's about
Speaker 1: to change. You can feel when you're on the brink
Speaker 1: of transformation. That space, it's energy that's waiting to be activated.
Speaker 1: This is liminal space, the edge of change, and this
Speaker 1: is a silence before your new reality. Congratulations, we are
Speaker 1: all manifesting twenty four to seven. But we don't realize
Speaker 1: it because we end up manifesting the same reality over
Speaker 1: and over and over and over again. If you now
Speaker 1: manifested the liminal space, the space in between, it means
Speaker 1: you actually already shifted something that got you these new results.
Speaker 1: You're already halfway there. Just keep going. Commit to this
Speaker 1: sacred practice of remembrance. Commit to the sacred practice of
Speaker 1: stepping into your power. This is a revolution. Every act,
Speaker 1: you are fighting the matrix. Instead of doing your life
Speaker 1: like everyone else, You're saying, no, I'm going to remember
Speaker 1: my sacred divine path instead of just falling into the
Speaker 1: flow that everyone else seems to be flowing within. There's
Speaker 1: no reason to have fomo, baby. You just have different values,
Speaker 1: you want different things. You're not meant to be a
Speaker 1: part of the pact when you're simply meant to lead
Speaker 1: the pact. Your life is going to look at it
Speaker 1: till different lean into it, whether it's the loneliness or
Speaker 1: the unknown. There's medicine in every season, there is gifts
Speaker 1: in every season at every level. What's up, positive bitches,
Speaker 1: how are we doing today? If you're hearing this episode,
Speaker 1: then you are meant to be here. So keep listening
Speaker 1: on that Bitch's Positive Podcast. Sometimes we will laugh. Other times, Baby,
Speaker 1: we're gonna cry, but we will always walk away feeling
Speaker 1: our most empowered positive bitch self that is a babe
Speaker 1: and true connection with herself himself human self. You know,
Speaker 1: I don't care what you are. I just care that
Speaker 1: you are taking your best energy forward every single day
Speaker 1: and giving your attention to that which you wish to
Speaker 1: see more of in your reality. Because on this podcast,
Speaker 1: we unbecome who we are so we can fully step
Speaker 1: into exactly who we came here to be. In order
Speaker 1: to step into who we came here to be, there's
Speaker 1: going to be moments where you're in eliminal space. I
Speaker 1: always think about eliminal space as an empty school during
Speaker 1: the summer. You can feel something usually happens here. Usually
Speaker 1: there's a ton of energy in this school, but it's summer.
Speaker 1: The halls are empty, but it feels a little eerie,
Speaker 1: that eerie feeling of uh, something about to happen. That
Speaker 1: is what you feel when you're in the in between,
Speaker 1: when you're in liminal space, when you are done existing
Speaker 1: as who you decided to be, out of your wounds
Speaker 1: and ready to step into who you actually are when
Speaker 1: you are empowered. Liminal states, liminal spaces are of the
Speaker 1: utmost importance. Most people, when they get to the space
Speaker 1: of the unknown, freak out and go running back to
Speaker 1: the life that they knew, the people they knew, the
Speaker 1: town that they knew. That only delays your blessings. And
Speaker 1: I just saw five five five on the timer. Change
Speaker 1: is here, positive change to heal you, to help you,
Speaker 1: to guide you. Most people are gonna run back to
Speaker 1: the life that they knew, to the identity that they knew.
Speaker 1: But that is not you. That is not you. And
Speaker 1: that's why you're sitting here, or maybe you're walking, but
Speaker 1: you're listening. You're listening to these words because you're one
Speaker 1: of the ones who's gonna make it. You're one of
Speaker 1: the ones who's meant to transcend. You're one of the
Speaker 1: ones who came here for big impact and big impact
Speaker 1: you will make. You're one of the ones that are
Speaker 1: actually going to do what you set out to do.
Speaker 1: And you know this, you know this in your body.
Speaker 1: You fear it, but you know it. You fear it,
Speaker 1: but you know it. You know you came here to
Speaker 1: leave this world better than you found it and you
Speaker 1: want that you desire that. That desire is not random.
Speaker 1: Your desires are your blueprint for your destiny. You wouldn't
Speaker 1: desire it if it was not part of your destiny.
Speaker 1: If you're unsure, if something is part of your destiny,
Speaker 1: If you're unsure, if something's really for you, ask dividity God.
Speaker 1: Mold my heart's desires so that I want what's for
Speaker 1: my highest good. Mold my heart's desire so I want
Speaker 1: what is best for me, just in case my limited
Speaker 1: mind doesn't understand what's best for me. Mold my heart's
Speaker 1: desire so that I walk in step with the energetic universe,
Speaker 1: so I can have that impact that I want to have.
Speaker 1: Call on assistance when you feel like you're not sure
Speaker 1: what's step to take. You're never meant to be here
Speaker 1: and doing this journey alone. That's why you have friends,
Speaker 1: That's why you have family. But if those friends and
Speaker 1: family happen to suck, Okay, you signed up for a big,
Speaker 1: big impact. You're gonna call on divine beings to help
Speaker 1: you through your guardian angels, your loving anset, the ascended masters, Jesus. Hello.
Speaker 1: Before we get further into this episode, I do want
Speaker 1: to remind you I've opened up my Magnetic Mastery program.
Speaker 1: It's a twelve week program to guide you into your
Speaker 1: most magnetic timeline, where you stop playing small and instead
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Speaker 1: truly desire. If you're interested in learning more about this
Speaker 1: Magnetic Mastery program, that is one on one via zoom
Speaker 1: DM me on Instagram, at vibe and with CC. My
Speaker 1: link for my Instagram is in the show notes. If
Speaker 1: you are looking to really shed your old reality learn
Speaker 1: how to make quantum leaps, you can get my book
Speaker 1: Show Up as Her, which is now available in hardcover.
Speaker 1: That link will also be in the show notes. If
Speaker 1: you are looking for maybe some guidance but you're not
Speaker 1: ready for one on one, I have a ton of
Speaker 1: different courses to help you not only regulate your own mindset,
Speaker 1: but also attract better, whether it comes to dating circumstance
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Speaker 1: call your power back, and anchor into your divine feminine energy.
Speaker 1: Let's continue on because we have a lot to talk about.
Speaker 1: This moment in time can feel unsettling because the rules
Speaker 1: don't apply the way you knew how to exist as
Speaker 1: your older identity. Well, you just decided that identity doesn't
Speaker 1: work for you anymore. So what are you really supposed
Speaker 1: to do? How are you supposed to show up when
Speaker 1: you realize, Wait a damn minute, this identity is one
Speaker 1: that I created in order to survive, and I don't
Speaker 1: want to just survive anymore. I want to thrive. This
Speaker 1: moment rushes in, but it speaks no words. It's a
Speaker 1: moment of hush, of room to grow into who you
Speaker 1: actually want to be, really into who you came here
Speaker 1: to be, because we spent so much of our life
Speaker 1: just unbecoming all the lessons and identities we learned to
Speaker 1: grow into who we actually are. That wind that rushes
Speaker 1: into your life and feels your being feels unsettling because
Speaker 1: you don't know how to be this new person because
Speaker 1: you've never been them, or have you? Or have you?
Speaker 1: Because really, when I think about becoming a new person,
Speaker 1: I really think it is more unbecoming who you are
Speaker 1: not and remembering your true soul essence. Now, maybe you
Speaker 1: haven't existed as your true soul essence, but you're not
Speaker 1: really becoming someone new, You're taking off all the layers
Speaker 1: that aren't you. You're remembering the divine codes that you
Speaker 1: incarnated with. Maybe it doesn't have to be as hard
Speaker 1: as we think it is. Maybe it can actually be
Speaker 1: Dare I say it? Maybe it can actually be easy.
Speaker 1: Maybe we can slow down and say, maybe I already
Speaker 1: have the answers, I just have to locate them within.
Speaker 1: How do we locate answers within? More space? Leaning into
Speaker 1: the unsettling feeling, leaning into the loneliness, leaning into the
Speaker 1: I don't really know who I am, but I'm gonna
Speaker 1: discover it. I'm gonna find out. So many people we
Speaker 1: see go through a transformation, they're not really becoming someone
Speaker 1: they're not. They're finally stepping into who they've always been
Speaker 1: but didn't know. This process doesn't have to be hard.
Speaker 1: What if you start telling yourself this can be easy.
Speaker 1: This is your sacred quest back to yourself. It's initiation
Speaker 1: to go back home to who you've always been. Let
Speaker 1: me tell you, there have been so many moments after
Speaker 1: a breakup where I freak out and I think, oh no,
Speaker 1: I'm not getting that text anymore, I'm not getting that
Speaker 1: call anymore. What am I gonna do with myself? What
Speaker 1: am I gonna do with all this time? M m
Speaker 1: the way I love my solitude Now, old me wouldn't
Speaker 1: even recognize current me. Casolitude. Time alone used to be
Speaker 1: my worst nightmare. It wasn't until I started leaning into
Speaker 1: the space, the silence, the loneliness, that I started to realize,
Speaker 1: Wait a damn minute, I think I've been lied to.
Speaker 1: I think I've been lied to. I've been told to
Speaker 1: get in a relationship, get in a relationship. But I
Speaker 1: kind of am loving existing within my own energy. What
Speaker 1: It's almost as if we incarnated to experience our own energy.
Speaker 1: Go with me on the journey. If Divinity fragmented into
Speaker 1: you to experience life through your perception, don't you think
Speaker 1: you should try to exist within that perception? Don't you
Speaker 1: think you should try to find out? Well, if Divinity
Speaker 1: thought it was important enough for me to fragment into
Speaker 1: this being, shouldn't I find out who the hell I am?
Speaker 1: And the only way to do that is by dating yourself,
Speaker 1: by spending time with yourself. And I know right now
Speaker 1: your toes and your fingers might be getting all clammed up.
Speaker 1: It's okay, it's all right, it's okay. If it's new,
Speaker 1: it's okay if it's the unknown. What are you so
Speaker 1: afraid to discover about you? What are you so afraid
Speaker 1: to look at? If you are afraid to look at something,
Speaker 1: oh my god, you better sit that ass down and
Speaker 1: look at it. You cannot run for the rest of
Speaker 1: your life if you run from whatever it is that
Speaker 1: you happen to be running from. Maybe it's your inner
Speaker 1: child's wounds, your shat parts of you you don't want
Speaker 1: to accept. You're gonna run into the wrong relationships. You're
Speaker 1: gonna run into codependency. You're gonna run into staying at
Speaker 1: jobs that are not for you. But you're too afraid
Speaker 1: to spend any time with yourself, so you can't actually
Speaker 1: figure out what is for you. If you keep running,
Speaker 1: prepare to be haunted. Prepare, prepare yourself to be haunted
Speaker 1: for the rest of your life. You can't outrun yourself, baby,
Speaker 1: because you incarnated in your own vessel. Sure get an addictive,
Speaker 1: maladapted coping mechanism. See how that turns out for you.
Speaker 1: Hah yeah, see how that works out for you. That's
Speaker 1: not a journey that you want. That is not a
Speaker 1: journey you want. You cannot outrun the wounds that you're
Speaker 1: afraid to look at, because they will find a way
Speaker 1: to manifest in your physical reality. If you don't face
Speaker 1: them within here, prepare to face them out there in
Speaker 1: your relationships, at the workplace, at the supermarket, on social media.
Speaker 1: You can't outrun those wounds, those fears, because they'll have
Speaker 1: a funny way of subconsciously bleeding out into your physical reality.
Speaker 1: Take this time, honestly, my last relationship. I've been reflecting
Speaker 1: on it a lot, and I'm very thankful for it
Speaker 1: because I've learned a ton. And one of the things
Speaker 1: that I've really learned is once again realizing I really
Speaker 1: miss my own energy because when you're in a relationship,
Speaker 1: instead of you spending that time maybe meditating or journaling
Speaker 1: as much as you would have, or even just kind
Speaker 1: of planting yourself and going on TikTok or twenty minutes,
Speaker 1: those times are sacred. I don't care what they are.
Speaker 1: They're sacred because it's time you're just unbecoming. It's time
Speaker 1: you're just resting into the present moment. It's time you're
Speaker 1: just being with yourself. When you get into a relationship,
Speaker 1: there's less of that and more you're now spending time
Speaker 1: in someone else's energy. And I really coming back home
Speaker 1: to myself once again, realize I missed my energy. I
Speaker 1: can do whatever I want almost whenever I want. Of course,
Speaker 1: if I have responsibility for a client or my job,
Speaker 1: I go do that social media things or a podcast.
Speaker 1: But I really can do what I want when I want.
Speaker 1: That's liberation, that's sovereignty. That is freedom. Oh yeah, it's freedom,
Speaker 1: regardless if you're in a relationship or not. You should
Speaker 1: always have non negotiables time that you're just spending with you,
Speaker 1: going to the workout class, doing the meditation, doing the journaling,
Speaker 1: meeting up with your girlfriends. That should never stop because
Speaker 1: someone else now enters your life. But it would be
Speaker 1: a lie to say that your timetable doesn't shift when
Speaker 1: you're in a relationship, because of course you want to
Speaker 1: and you just end up spending more time with this
Speaker 1: other person. And that's a beautiful thing when it's in alignment.
Speaker 1: Just don't lose yourself for someone else. Coming out of that,
Speaker 1: I was in this liminal space again of Okay, things
Speaker 1: feel weird. I no longer have that person to text
Speaker 1: or call, I wanted to run back, but I said, no, no,
Speaker 1: I'm not going to run back to things that I
Speaker 1: already know are not in alignment with me anymore. They
Speaker 1: were in alignment at one time, and I knew that.
Speaker 1: And when you know, you know, and then I also
Speaker 1: knew when it was time to release myself from that
Speaker 1: energetic relationship and move into my own vessel a little
Speaker 1: bit more and really nurture me. And I will just
Speaker 1: say it. If you're surrounded by people who you feel
Speaker 1: are depleting you every single day, get away from them.
Speaker 1: Your codependency is gonna flare up when you leave, Your
Speaker 1: anxious attachment is gonna flare up when you leave. But
Speaker 1: you know what, you will heal through that. If you
Speaker 1: stay around people who you know are not in alignment
Speaker 1: with you, prepare to get ugly. I don't know how
Speaker 1: else to say that. Prepared to get ugly because your
Speaker 1: cortisol is going to be up every single day. What
Speaker 1: happens when that happens you either there's too much weight,
Speaker 1: gain weight, your hair starts falling out, your skin's a mess,
Speaker 1: digestion forget about it, bloating out to the next continent. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's not a fun experience. There are some people in
Speaker 1: my life who are like, well, what are you doing?
Speaker 1: Do you want a relationship? What do you want? I'm like, uh,
Speaker 1: I'm enjoying my life, That's what I'm doing. Those people
Speaker 1: don't understand liminal space. They don't understand how to maneuver
Speaker 1: their energetic universe, and that's why not to throw shade.
Speaker 1: But when I look at their reality factually, and I
Speaker 1: look at how they feel about their reality, they're less
Speaker 1: happy than me. I know in my body one day
Speaker 1: I will have a family. I'm going to do that
Speaker 1: whole shebang. But the fact I don't have it right
Speaker 1: now kind of feels liberating. Cause one day I might
Speaker 1: not be able to do what I want when I want.
Speaker 1: I might not be able to do the face mask.
Speaker 1: I might not be able to do the TikTok on
Speaker 1: my time or be with this client on my time,
Speaker 1: because I might have other responsibilities to a partner, to
Speaker 1: a child. I want to bask in this liminal space.
Speaker 1: I want to bask in this present moment because I'm
Speaker 1: never getting this moment again. I'm never getting this moment again.
Speaker 1: And when the matrix or other people try to rush me,
Speaker 1: I literally think to myself, Holy hell, I don't want
Speaker 1: what you have. Your normal is my effing nightmare. Your
Speaker 1: normal is my never, Your normal is my no, thank you.
Speaker 1: I want more for myself. I want to enjoy my incarnation.
Speaker 1: I don't want to feel like a chicken running without
Speaker 1: a head. I don't want to feel tied down to
Speaker 1: relationships that I don't want to be in. So if
Speaker 1: that means more time being with me, if that means
Speaker 1: more liminal space, okay, tune it the hell up. I'll
Speaker 1: be in the liminal space fine with me now. A
Speaker 1: theme that I see come up for me and other
Speaker 1: people that I'm meat is this sense of loneliness. I
Speaker 1: gotta be honest, though, every night, when I'm in my
Speaker 1: bed and I'm just snuggled up with my little CaCO
Speaker 1: and my pillow and my blankets, I have so much
Speaker 1: peace in my heart. I have so much peace in
Speaker 1: my body. I don't have a partner that I'm worried about.
Speaker 1: Are they doing what they said they're gonna do? Are
Speaker 1: they staying in alignment with me? Are they slacking? Are
Speaker 1: they going to be able to keep up with me?
Speaker 1: I don't have any of those stressors anymore. I just
Speaker 1: have peace. And sometimes I think it's really holidays for
Speaker 1: me that I'm like, damn, it'd be nice to have
Speaker 1: a partner when I see everyone else with their partners
Speaker 1: and families. But then I think I don't know what
Speaker 1: it is actually like to be in that family or
Speaker 1: be with that person. I have so much peace being
Speaker 1: where I am. I recently was talking to a friend.
Speaker 1: She was talking to me about her relationship and WHOA,
Speaker 1: I had no idea. How anxiety provoking and not great.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna spill someone else's tea on this podcast,
Speaker 1: but it was not a good relationship. Okay, I had
Speaker 1: no idea, and I think we can get sucked into. Oh,
Speaker 1: they look like they have so much happiness. They look
Speaker 1: like they have so much joy, they look like they
Speaker 1: have so much fun. I really want this. I really
Speaker 1: want this. When the right thing is prepped, prepared and
Speaker 1: primed for you, it will come in. But she really
Speaker 1: reminded me when she would talk about her relationship like
Speaker 1: a year ago, it sounded like the most perfect relationship.
Speaker 1: I envied it. I wanted that. I was like, yes,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna manifest that. But now getting a closer look
Speaker 1: into what it was actually like, I thought, holy shit,
Speaker 1: holy shit, here I was idolizing this relationship that sounded
Speaker 1: really great. But now that she's telling me all the tea,
Speaker 1: all the details, the gag is I'd rather be single
Speaker 1: and have peace than have to be dealing with someone
Speaker 1: or something like that. Now, when the right person comes
Speaker 1: in at the right time, I will be so happy.
Speaker 1: I love love, I love seeing people in relationships. But
Speaker 1: do not rush because this place, I know it's not
Speaker 1: the most comfortable. But when do you grow the most.
Speaker 1: It's when you're uncomfortable. It's when you don't know what
Speaker 1: the hell is going on. It's when you're confused, when
Speaker 1: you're not sure what's step to take. It's actually when
Speaker 1: you have the most options available to you. When you
Speaker 1: go to school to become an accountant, and you become
Speaker 1: an accountant, that's it that your path is laid out
Speaker 1: for you. But let's say you think, well, I don't
Speaker 1: really know what I want to do. Suddenly there's nine
Speaker 1: thousand doors that are just waiting for you to walk
Speaker 1: through them. When you are in the unknown, not only
Speaker 1: do you have the most options present, but you have
Speaker 1: the most space to lean in to the person you
Speaker 1: really want to grow into. The space, the silence, that's
Speaker 1: what creatives use to actually channel information. Ninety percent of
Speaker 1: the time, when I'm getting downloads, it's not when I'm
Speaker 1: surrounded by fifteen people having a pow wow. It's when
Speaker 1: I'm walking alone on the beach. It's when I'm journaling,
Speaker 1: it's when I'm meditating, it's at the end of yoga.
Speaker 1: It's more comforting to distract yourself with friend groups, with relationships,
Speaker 1: with a job you don't like. But it's comfortable, but
Speaker 1: it doesn't allow for the life that you actually want,
Speaker 1: or else it would have gifted you that already. In
Speaker 1: liminal space, that's where you channel the insights. That's where
Speaker 1: you get to see who you truly are. I went
Speaker 1: through a friendship breakup years ago where I was in
Speaker 1: a friend group and then all them pretty much decided
Speaker 1: to not be friends with me anymore. And at first
Speaker 1: this sucked because those were my girls for years and
Speaker 1: years and years and years, and it really was hurtful
Speaker 1: to me. But in that liminal space, instead of me worrying, well,
Speaker 1: I don't want to post because what are they going
Speaker 1: to think of me? I started posting on TikTok on YouTube,
Speaker 1: and that started my whole entire career. When I went
Speaker 1: through a breakup. Instead of me worrying is he going
Speaker 1: to be able to keep up with me? What's going
Speaker 1: to happen? I now had all this freed up time,
Speaker 1: energy space. I had enough availability to feed my dreams.
Speaker 1: And once again that caused a quantum shift because instead
Speaker 1: of me giving my focus to someone who maybe didn't
Speaker 1: want to give me a high return on investment, I
Speaker 1: was giving that focus back onto myself. I was growing
Speaker 1: something that I actually had more control over. I was
Speaker 1: growing something that was going to allow me to step
Speaker 1: into who I try truly wanted to be. We need
Speaker 1: to have patience and trust me. I am a Capricorn
Speaker 1: who is in my masculine energy most of my life.
Speaker 1: Ah yet it patience has not always been my strong
Speaker 1: suit either. But we need to start valuing our smaller steps.
Speaker 1: We need to start remembering that, how do you build
Speaker 1: a house, Oh yeah, it's brick by brick. You don't
Speaker 1: berth out a whole entire house and it's already done.
Speaker 1: It's brick by brick. Start valuing the little shifts. I
Speaker 1: was literally talking to someone Gabrielle shout out if you
Speaker 1: hear this, But she recognized me in my workout class
Speaker 1: and came up to me, and she's so sweet and
Speaker 1: we're talking today, and I said to her, so many
Speaker 1: people think quantum shifting is this huge expansive change in
Speaker 1: your life. It's really not. It's a baby decision. If
Speaker 1: I wake up and decide to text my ex, that's
Speaker 1: going to put me in a completely different mood and
Speaker 1: set me on a different timeline than if I wake up,
Speaker 1: go do my workout and have my smoothie and feel
Speaker 1: somewhere I want to go. Little decisions create big shifts.
Speaker 1: Baby steps build big steps. If you are getting down
Speaker 1: on yourself because you're not creating as much momentum as
Speaker 1: you want, bend and snap out of it, because it's
Speaker 1: truly in the baby steps that you are going to
Speaker 1: build this huge brand, that huge company. Even if you
Speaker 1: told me Cci, all I want is to get married
Speaker 1: and have children, Okay, how do you build baby steps
Speaker 1: to that? First? Got to make sure that you are healing,
Speaker 1: that you're feeling good in your own skin, that you're
Speaker 1: working either with someone like me or you're reading the books,
Speaker 1: you're doing the courses to make sure that you're priming
Speaker 1: your energy to attract someone great. Step two, where's your confidence?
Speaker 1: How are we feeling about ourselves? Because if you have
Speaker 1: low confidence and you go out dating good lock, you
Speaker 1: will be destroyed. I'm just gonna tell you the truth.
Speaker 1: You need to have your standard so high and your
Speaker 1: availability for bullshit quite low. It's what I call the
Speaker 1: Harvard principle because Harvard these ivy leads, they have a
Speaker 1: really low acceptance rate for what they're willing to allow
Speaker 1: into their school and a very high standard. You need
Speaker 1: to apply that to your life in all aspects, but
Speaker 1: especially if you're dating. By the way, I'll just tell
Speaker 1: you I tried settling nine thousand times. It does not work.
Speaker 1: Don't even do it because your inner being is going
Speaker 1: to start fighting you and then the physical symptoms come
Speaker 1: cortisol race. Just don't do it, okay, but start making
Speaker 1: little shifts to prime and prepare yourself for what it
Speaker 1: is you want. Then maybe you start going out to
Speaker 1: different places, set yourself up for success. Maybe you get
Speaker 1: on a dating app. Go where you want to be,
Speaker 1: whether that's a drum circle or a museum opening. Go
Speaker 1: where you think like minded people are going to be
Speaker 1: Maybe it's a workout class. Just put yourself out there.
Speaker 1: Have confidence if you see someone you find really attractive.
Speaker 1: I don't love divine feminine going up to to buy masculine,
Speaker 1: but there's really nothing wrong with it. We are the choosers.
Speaker 1: You're allowed to use your free will and say hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: how are you? Your reality might feel unstable, your identity
Speaker 1: might be unstable. Good good, because how are you supposed
Speaker 1: to change anything? If everything's just going to remain the same.
Speaker 1: You can't keep doing the same thing, being the same
Speaker 1: person and expect different results. It's just not how life works.
Speaker 1: But in this moment of transition, value the baby steps.
Speaker 1: Value Oh, I chose a healthier choice. I decided to
Speaker 1: do A instead of B. Value those baby decisions because
Speaker 1: those baby decisions holds energy and they build and it
Speaker 1: builds momentum, and that is what creates the biggest shifts
Speaker 1: out there. You're not alone in this liminal space. You're
Speaker 1: not alone feeling like you're in transition. There's so many
Speaker 1: souls who are on a similar journey trajectory that you're on.
Speaker 1: When you feel like you're alone, when you feel scared,
Speaker 1: tap into collective consciousness. Tap into the other souls who
Speaker 1: are also going through the same thing as you lean
Speaker 1: into the loneliness. What are you trying to run away from?
Speaker 1: Because if you don't deal with it now, it will
Speaker 1: bleed out later and you're gonna have to deal with
Speaker 1: it anyway. So your mind as well. Look at it now.
Speaker 1: I'm inviting you on this initiation, I'm inviting you to
Speaker 1: not even really become, but remember your true essence, to
Speaker 1: step into your power rather than repeatedly manifesting from your past,
Speaker 1: We've already manifested a different reality. Hence why you're feeling
Speaker 1: a little off guilter. But keep going. You're not meant
Speaker 1: to stay here. This is temporary. This is the bridge.
Speaker 1: This is the yellow brick road. Okay, Wicked coming in.
Speaker 1: Maybe Wicked is a sign for someone. Dorothy's a sign
Speaker 1: for someone. The ten man yellow brick road. It is
Speaker 1: your pass, it is your permission, slip. It is your bridge.
Speaker 1: It is your yellow brick road to Emerald City, to
Speaker 1: where you're truly meant to be. So keep going. Make
Speaker 1: the tiny shifts because ultimately it creates big ones. Value them,
Speaker 1: value yourself. Take a second here to appreciate all the
Speaker 1: work that you've done. Do you know how proud your
Speaker 1: guides are, how proud your angels are. Take a moment
Speaker 1: here to appreciate all that you have been shedding. Take
Speaker 1: a moment here to appreciate all that you have let go.
Speaker 1: Take a moment here to really appreciate your soul. Let's go,
Speaker 1: Let's go. Most people are not willing to do the work.
Speaker 1: Most people are not going to congratulate you because they
Speaker 1: don't even understand what you're doing. They're thinking, what is
Speaker 1: that human doing? They are making a mistake when really
Speaker 1: you're manifesting your dream life. Oh so funny. Sometimes I
Speaker 1: love you so much. I hope this podcast episode brought
Speaker 1: you comfort, joy peace. If you do want to have
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