WEBVTT 1 00:00:10.720 --> 00:00:14.759 Hey, everybody, welcome to Pink Shade. It is mugshot Monday. 2 00:00:14.919 --> 00:00:15.880 I'm here with Keisha. 3 00:00:16.839 --> 00:00:16.960 Hi. 4 00:00:17.559 --> 00:00:21.839 Hey, we goold hey love. After lock Up Season seven, 5 00:00:21.879 --> 00:00:27.320 episode twelve, double released trouble, Keisha, I did listen to 6 00:00:27.399 --> 00:00:28.920 your interview about this? 7 00:00:29.120 --> 00:00:31.640 Oh thank you? Did you leave a five star review? 8 00:00:32.159 --> 00:00:34.240 I've already left line. I could do it again, but 9 00:00:34.320 --> 00:00:34.719 you can. 10 00:00:34.600 --> 00:00:37.679 Only I need to do it again. Oh, just do something, 11 00:00:37.880 --> 00:00:38.560 make it happen. 12 00:00:39.759 --> 00:00:42.119 You were pitching so hard about producer James at the 13 00:00:42.200 --> 00:00:44.479 beginning of the episode, but you never said what he did, 14 00:00:44.520 --> 00:00:47.880 so I'd like to know what he did, and. 15 00:00:47.840 --> 00:00:48.679 Now you don't remember. 16 00:00:49.719 --> 00:00:55.520 I do remember one thing. So the second thing that 17 00:00:55.560 --> 00:00:58.560 he did. The first thing he did is like I 18 00:00:58.799 --> 00:01:04.000 had something and had asked him about it for like 19 00:01:04.040 --> 00:01:06.159 a year and he's like, no, it's still there, and 20 00:01:06.200 --> 00:01:08.840 he lied. He finally passed up to it. 21 00:01:09.159 --> 00:01:10.120 So that was one week. 22 00:01:10.680 --> 00:01:11.640 I was pretty upset. 23 00:01:11.959 --> 00:01:12.280 Okay. 24 00:01:12.359 --> 00:01:15.840 Then the second thing that happened was when I was 25 00:01:15.879 --> 00:01:18.400 doing that interview, I said, why don't we send them 26 00:01:18.439 --> 00:01:22.359 a link our own link to do the interview? Oh no, no, no, no, 27 00:01:22.359 --> 00:01:22.680 no no. 28 00:01:22.719 --> 00:01:23.840 I'm like, well, that's what I wanted to know. 29 00:01:23.959 --> 00:01:26.640 We're not doing that. We're just gonna do their link. Well, 30 00:01:26.719 --> 00:01:31.079 we almost did get the interview because we had to 31 00:01:31.079 --> 00:01:34.200 wait on them to send it. Yeah, And I was like, 32 00:01:34.760 --> 00:01:36.239 we could have not have had this at all. What 33 00:01:36.280 --> 00:01:39.239 if it had taken her like multiple days, and which 34 00:01:39.239 --> 00:01:41.799 it did take her two days to get it, uh huh. 35 00:01:41.840 --> 00:01:43.799 And I was like, I said, that was my call. 36 00:01:45.000 --> 00:01:47.840 I wanted it that way. And you thinking you're the 37 00:01:47.879 --> 00:01:52.079 smartest person ever to like land on Earth, you didn't 38 00:01:52.120 --> 00:01:55.760 do it. So yeah, I was two weeks in a row. 39 00:01:55.879 --> 00:01:58.760 He's played in my face and I don't. 40 00:01:59.359 --> 00:02:02.840 It's always best to send your own link so you 41 00:02:02.879 --> 00:02:06.079 have control. So you have control of the audio. It's 42 00:02:06.079 --> 00:02:08.400 your interview for your show. You needed to have the 43 00:02:08.439 --> 00:02:09.199 control of the audio. 44 00:02:10.120 --> 00:02:12.479 Well, you know he watches this, So I'm glad that 45 00:02:12.560 --> 00:02:15.840 you said that. And he was like, you know what, 46 00:02:15.960 --> 00:02:17.360 you're right, You were right. 47 00:02:17.560 --> 00:02:19.039 So I made some changes. 48 00:02:19.439 --> 00:02:21.960 He's gotten kicked out of a few things as far 49 00:02:22.000 --> 00:02:28.800 as the show goes, okay, And so yeah, I mean 50 00:02:28.840 --> 00:02:32.520 he had I never punish him like I'll say you 51 00:02:32.520 --> 00:02:34.360 need to do better, or I'm gonna do this. If 52 00:02:34.400 --> 00:02:36.560 you don't do that, I never follow through. Well, I'm 53 00:02:36.560 --> 00:02:38.120 following through all my threats. 54 00:02:38.599 --> 00:02:41.400 Okay, good, that's the way you train them. That's the 55 00:02:41.400 --> 00:02:43.879 way you train them. Yes, it is. 56 00:02:44.000 --> 00:02:45.840 And then he I told him, I'm just gonna get 57 00:02:45.840 --> 00:02:51.919 my own bank account. Okay, good, yeah exactly, he said 58 00:02:52.000 --> 00:02:55.840 why like he was just like walked around in like 59 00:02:55.960 --> 00:02:59.520 a shock for a day, trying to understand why I 60 00:02:59.520 --> 00:03:01.800 would do that. I'm like every woman should. 61 00:03:02.439 --> 00:03:03.240 Yeah, I agree. 62 00:03:03.439 --> 00:03:03.879 I agree. 63 00:03:03.960 --> 00:03:06.319 We had a lot of years where I did not 64 00:03:06.439 --> 00:03:08.280 have my own bank account because I stayed at home 65 00:03:08.319 --> 00:03:10.919 with the kids and I didn't have any money to 66 00:03:10.960 --> 00:03:14.639 put in there. So I had like money and like 67 00:03:14.680 --> 00:03:16.599 an IRA from a four oh one K from a 68 00:03:16.599 --> 00:03:19.000 previous job, like that kind of thing. But that wasn't like, yeah, 69 00:03:19.159 --> 00:03:21.599 still it's not money I can touch. It's still enough IRA. 70 00:03:21.759 --> 00:03:25.919 I may it until I'm sixty or whatever. And yeah, 71 00:03:25.919 --> 00:03:28.240 that was hard. That was hard because if I wanted 72 00:03:28.280 --> 00:03:31.159 to do anything that I didn't want him to know about, 73 00:03:31.199 --> 00:03:34.439 like buy him a birthday present or anything, he had 74 00:03:34.479 --> 00:03:36.599 to know about it. And it was it was rough. 75 00:03:36.719 --> 00:03:39.520 And finally when I did get like a little job 76 00:03:39.560 --> 00:03:41.439 at the store that I worked at for ten years, 77 00:03:41.639 --> 00:03:43.639 then I opened my own little account and put all 78 00:03:43.680 --> 00:03:47.199 my little tiny paychecks in there. And then if I 79 00:03:47.240 --> 00:03:49.599 wanted to get you know, my nails done or my 80 00:03:49.680 --> 00:03:51.319 brows done or something, and I just don't want to 81 00:03:51.319 --> 00:03:53.919 hear his bullshit, I would just do it without having 82 00:03:53.960 --> 00:03:56.560 to go through him, which is nice. And I got 83 00:03:56.680 --> 00:04:00.560 to say, you know, you make money on this show, Yeah, 84 00:04:01.000 --> 00:04:02.439 I think, yeah, I just couldn't. 85 00:04:02.520 --> 00:04:04.879 Yeah, but I told him, I said everything that I 86 00:04:04.879 --> 00:04:07.800 have told my daughter she should do, I'm not actually 87 00:04:07.840 --> 00:04:11.639 doing those things myself, right, And I said I need 88 00:04:11.680 --> 00:04:14.479 to stop that, and he's yeah, he walked around like 89 00:04:14.520 --> 00:04:18.240 a whipped dog like two days about that, and and 90 00:04:18.279 --> 00:04:21.199 he was like, so, what about you know our account. 91 00:04:21.279 --> 00:04:24.959 I'm like, well, I'm still going to use that too, right, our. 92 00:04:24.839 --> 00:04:27.279 Account is still our account, but I also have my account. 93 00:04:27.439 --> 00:04:29.680 Yes, He's like, that just doesn't make sense me. It's like, well, 94 00:04:29.680 --> 00:04:31.160 you're just gonna have to get used to it, because 95 00:04:31.160 --> 00:04:34.399 it's happening, buddy, It is happening. So okay, good for you. 96 00:04:34.519 --> 00:04:35.120 I'm proud of you. 97 00:04:35.240 --> 00:04:37.639 Thank you, thank you so much, thank you so. 98 00:04:39.240 --> 00:04:39.639 Well. 99 00:04:39.800 --> 00:04:44.399 I would guess that lots of people on this show 100 00:04:44.480 --> 00:04:48.959 don't have that financial smartness. The only one that does 101 00:04:49.240 --> 00:04:53.800 is Michael. That's spelled wrong Michael. He seems to have 102 00:04:53.800 --> 00:04:56.560 some financial wits about him on this show. 103 00:04:57.600 --> 00:05:04.360 And I think it stops there. He did write me back. 104 00:05:04.759 --> 00:05:07.040 I did write him to ask about the Mickey mouse 105 00:05:07.079 --> 00:05:09.879 on his neck, and he wrote me back and said, 106 00:05:09.920 --> 00:05:13.120 it's covering his baby mama's name. Now, I don't know 107 00:05:13.120 --> 00:05:14.600 how fucking big that name was. 108 00:05:14.759 --> 00:05:17.720 It must have been pretty. It must have been my name, 109 00:05:18.199 --> 00:05:21.480 Rookie show. That's all that space, because that thing is 110 00:05:21.600 --> 00:05:22.720 huge on huge. 111 00:05:23.240 --> 00:05:25.240 And he said his family also calls him Mickey, so 112 00:05:25.360 --> 00:05:27.279 that's why. 113 00:05:27.399 --> 00:05:31.120 And then I did write Dia to say, here's. 114 00:05:30.839 --> 00:05:34.040 The math and wrote it out and we'd like to 115 00:05:34.079 --> 00:05:40.560 know the answer, and she wrote back, Hello, Pink, I 116 00:05:40.600 --> 00:05:42.560 will be making a video about this soon. 117 00:05:42.839 --> 00:05:44.800 I'm still waiting. Okay. 118 00:05:44.920 --> 00:05:48.000 Number one, we know, we know she can't count. She 119 00:05:48.199 --> 00:05:50.560 has to actually wait till her oldest daughter gets home 120 00:05:50.560 --> 00:05:54.519 from school to read whatever the messages are. It's probably 121 00:05:54.639 --> 00:05:57.199 tight for her because she's pretty dumb. And if we 122 00:05:57.240 --> 00:06:01.319 didn't already know she was dumb, this episode so reminded 123 00:06:01.399 --> 00:06:03.120 us how dumb she is. 124 00:06:05.120 --> 00:06:07.639 Yeah, I don't. I don't believe in their love. I'll 125 00:06:07.680 --> 00:06:11.399 tell you that much. Well, I heard that he's back 126 00:06:11.399 --> 00:06:15.360 in prison already. Oh really, m hmm, that's rough. 127 00:06:15.879 --> 00:06:18.319 Well, let's start with somebody that I really hope is 128 00:06:18.360 --> 00:06:23.199 doing okay, and that's Kuresay and Brady. Because Brady is 129 00:06:24.360 --> 00:06:29.519 a struggling He is a struggling he is he was 130 00:06:29.759 --> 00:06:31.800 he was about to have a breakdown in that car, 131 00:06:32.079 --> 00:06:35.439 and God bless him. He wants to not be on 132 00:06:35.519 --> 00:06:38.439 drugs and he wants to not be on myth. And 133 00:06:38.680 --> 00:06:41.639 it's very, very hard, obviously to be an addict. And 134 00:06:41.759 --> 00:06:45.079 I can see now why twice in prison he got 135 00:06:45.120 --> 00:06:47.639 caught with drugs because I think he's. 136 00:06:47.480 --> 00:06:50.879 Been in prison five years. He's not been sober for 137 00:06:50.920 --> 00:06:51.839 five years for sure. 138 00:06:52.040 --> 00:06:54.319 And it doesn't help that the woman who he's married 139 00:06:54.360 --> 00:06:58.279 to looks like she's on myth. No, it's just Mythis 140 00:06:58.279 --> 00:07:01.160 METHI is just always in his face somehow, some way. 141 00:07:01.279 --> 00:07:03.920 And then it looks like he's going to Harry's fucking rehab. 142 00:07:04.319 --> 00:07:05.639 Yeah, it does, it does. 143 00:07:05.839 --> 00:07:07.519 So God knows what's in there. 144 00:07:07.759 --> 00:07:09.079 I know, I don't know. 145 00:07:10.319 --> 00:07:12.959 Prayers up for him, prayers up. So let's start with 146 00:07:13.040 --> 00:07:17.240 Kirsen and Brady. They're leaving the hotel after they banged, 147 00:07:17.480 --> 00:07:21.839 and Brady says like, yeah, we consummated it was beautiful. 148 00:07:22.279 --> 00:07:24.879 And she goes, who says, consummated that sounds like some 149 00:07:24.920 --> 00:07:27.600 biblical shit. Brady would say, but yeah, it was amazing, 150 00:07:27.639 --> 00:07:29.959 it was great. You know, I don't think she even 151 00:07:30.000 --> 00:07:32.360 knew what that meant. No, she was like, I have 152 00:07:32.439 --> 00:07:35.560 no hope for her at all. I just you really don't. 153 00:07:35.680 --> 00:07:39.720 I do. I do vote for them, I don't know why. Okay, 154 00:07:40.199 --> 00:07:45.680 I think you like Brady, not that he said he has. 155 00:07:45.720 --> 00:07:47.720 He has said, no, no, no, not like that. He 156 00:07:47.759 --> 00:07:49.959 has said some things to you that were kind of 157 00:07:50.000 --> 00:07:53.600 impressive when he was talking about like the Kopey skills, 158 00:07:53.600 --> 00:07:57.000 and now he has to learn how to manage his emotions. 159 00:07:57.079 --> 00:07:58.759 And I think you like that because it's one of 160 00:07:58.800 --> 00:08:01.040 the smartest things that we've ever heard anyonet to stay 161 00:08:01.079 --> 00:08:01.639 on this show. 162 00:08:02.079 --> 00:08:03.120 Yeah that's right. 163 00:08:03.120 --> 00:08:05.600 I think you have a little bit of hope for him. Yeah, 164 00:08:05.680 --> 00:08:09.240 I think that's right. So it's twelve thirty now they 165 00:08:09.279 --> 00:08:13.040 are due to report in six hours, and he's like, 166 00:08:13.160 --> 00:08:15.040 which we know it's like an eight hour drive, and 167 00:08:15.079 --> 00:08:18.120 he says, I'm worried about being late, and then yeah, 168 00:08:18.240 --> 00:08:19.959 the marshals will come after you, they tend to take 169 00:08:19.959 --> 00:08:23.120 you right back to prison. And he got so many 170 00:08:23.160 --> 00:08:25.600 years for his first offense, like they have no leniency 171 00:08:25.639 --> 00:08:28.920 on him. So in his talking head, he tells us 172 00:08:28.959 --> 00:08:31.600 his dad was an addict and wasn't around a lot, 173 00:08:31.920 --> 00:08:33.759 and that was the one thing he said he would 174 00:08:33.759 --> 00:08:34.200 never do. 175 00:08:34.399 --> 00:08:36.080 He hated drugs. 176 00:08:37.159 --> 00:08:38.919 And then he turned out, he said, it turns out 177 00:08:38.960 --> 00:08:41.360 then I was one of those people because of the. 178 00:08:41.679 --> 00:08:44.679 Well is the business work. Yeah, the dental work he 179 00:08:44.759 --> 00:08:48.679 got that is awful and he fucked that. He fucked 180 00:08:48.679 --> 00:08:51.120 it up single handily for all of us. Now when 181 00:08:51.200 --> 00:08:53.720 we go to the dentists, we cannot get the good stuff. 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You know, Corey said, you didn't stay 269 00:13:06.799 --> 00:13:08.360 in touch with the girls very much, and they were 270 00:13:08.360 --> 00:13:10.960 sad about that, and he said, yeah, it's been hard. 271 00:13:11.039 --> 00:13:13.639 They had to grow up with another dad for five years. 272 00:13:13.759 --> 00:13:16.159 And sometimes when you're in there, you just want to 273 00:13:16.200 --> 00:13:19.000 do your time and block out the world and don't 274 00:13:19.000 --> 00:13:20.720 even want to know what's going on the outside because 275 00:13:20.720 --> 00:13:21.480 it makes it worse. 276 00:13:21.519 --> 00:13:23.120 And I can kind of understand that. 277 00:13:23.799 --> 00:13:26.480 I could understand that if he were i don't know, 278 00:13:26.679 --> 00:13:31.200 not married while he was in prison, right, he got 279 00:13:31.200 --> 00:13:35.639 a whole nother connection, got engaged, had visits, visits with 280 00:13:35.720 --> 00:13:38.919 this woman, talks to her daily, and got married, but 281 00:13:39.039 --> 00:13:41.000 still neglected his kids. 282 00:13:41.600 --> 00:13:43.159 He could have he could have called the kids. 283 00:13:43.240 --> 00:13:44.320 He could have called the kids. 284 00:13:44.919 --> 00:13:48.240 Yeah, but it is so the talking to Eddy, he says, 285 00:13:48.240 --> 00:13:50.039 you know, I learned a lot in prison on how 286 00:13:50.120 --> 00:13:54.159 to deal with my emotions, but the addiction is something 287 00:13:54.399 --> 00:13:57.399 I'm still going to struggle with every day. Yeah, and 288 00:13:57.440 --> 00:13:59.480 he does say he said, you know, and the worst 289 00:13:59.480 --> 00:14:02.559 thing is for you worse when you're the most comfortable, 290 00:14:02.879 --> 00:14:08.639 you know, which there's all these things in the recovery 291 00:14:08.679 --> 00:14:11.240 community that are like, you know, it's it's a it's 292 00:14:11.240 --> 00:14:15.360 a like basically a sleeping tiger and it's always asleep, 293 00:14:15.679 --> 00:14:18.600 and right when you get comfortable, that's when it pounces 294 00:14:18.600 --> 00:14:20.399 on you because it knows you're comfortable, right because you're 295 00:14:20.399 --> 00:14:21.360 not you don't have your guard up. 296 00:14:21.440 --> 00:14:22.759 So when you don't have your guard up is when 297 00:14:22.759 --> 00:14:23.519 it's going to get you. 298 00:14:24.120 --> 00:14:28.679 That's how I feel about food. Yeah, oh yeah, like seriously, 299 00:14:28.840 --> 00:14:32.080 Like I mean, I have a food addiction and can 300 00:14:32.120 --> 00:14:34.320 totally relate to that. I'm like, yeah, right, when you're 301 00:14:34.360 --> 00:14:38.240 doing good, it's like, oh, McDonald's, you can get three 302 00:14:38.279 --> 00:14:41.039 burgers for a dollar and there you go running, you know, 303 00:14:41.120 --> 00:14:43.440 because it's your comfort zone. 304 00:14:43.639 --> 00:14:46.200 Yeah, because your brain tricks you, right, Yeah, it is. 305 00:14:47.320 --> 00:14:50.080 So in the car, of course, he's getting very stressed 306 00:14:50.080 --> 00:14:52.559 out about being laid Yeah, and she's like, they let 307 00:14:52.600 --> 00:14:55.559 you out late, so just call them, just call them. 308 00:14:55.559 --> 00:14:58.519 So she's he's calling and no one's answering, and he 309 00:14:58.600 --> 00:15:00.720 has to pull over to throw up because his anxiety 310 00:15:00.759 --> 00:15:01.480 just gets the best of it. 311 00:15:01.600 --> 00:15:02.279 He just throws up. 312 00:15:02.960 --> 00:15:06.080 As a professional throw upper, I totally feeled him in 313 00:15:06.159 --> 00:15:06.639 this moment. 314 00:15:06.840 --> 00:15:07.879 But I'm a professional. 315 00:15:07.919 --> 00:15:09.679 I would not have had I don't need you to 316 00:15:09.679 --> 00:15:11.799 pull over for me so I can put my head out. 317 00:15:12.039 --> 00:15:14.039 I can do it right there, keep it clean. No 318 00:15:14.039 --> 00:15:15.720 one ever knew that I did it. 319 00:15:15.799 --> 00:15:16.759 Oh gross, key show. 320 00:15:16.879 --> 00:15:19.600 That's how good I am. So that is how good 321 00:15:19.679 --> 00:15:23.960 I am with the throw one up. I can teach him. 322 00:15:24.320 --> 00:15:27.200 He says, this anxiety, So you have to think that 323 00:15:27.320 --> 00:15:30.759 maybe some of this meth stuff was self medication for 324 00:15:31.080 --> 00:15:35.840 anxiety or other maybe unresolved mental health issues he had, 325 00:15:36.399 --> 00:15:39.080 because that's pretty severe to get so worked. 326 00:15:38.840 --> 00:15:41.320 Up that you have to throw up, you know. And 327 00:15:41.440 --> 00:15:45.120 I still think that he was using while he was 328 00:15:45.159 --> 00:15:46.200 in prison. I do too. 329 00:15:46.240 --> 00:15:50.679 He got caught with the twilve. So yeah, I'm saying, filmmate. Yeah, no, 330 00:15:51.039 --> 00:15:52.960 there's no way. 331 00:15:53.480 --> 00:15:55.960 So he says, in prison, he started taking it to 332 00:15:56.080 --> 00:15:59.799 box zone, which is the medication that you take for 333 00:16:00.840 --> 00:16:04.799 keeps you from having cravings for opioids. And he says, 334 00:16:04.879 --> 00:16:07.879 and he says, you know, anybody that uh has been 335 00:16:07.919 --> 00:16:09.639 an attict knows it takes just one slip. 336 00:16:09.639 --> 00:16:11.120 And yes, he knows he'll be tempted. 337 00:16:11.440 --> 00:16:13.639 I will tell you when my husband got out of rehab, 338 00:16:13.960 --> 00:16:16.639 he was in rehab for three months. When he got out, 339 00:16:16.720 --> 00:16:19.879 he got a suboxone shot in his ass once a month. 340 00:16:21.480 --> 00:16:24.679 I whenever you bring that up, isn't that crazy? 341 00:16:25.799 --> 00:16:28.879 I just feel like we're talking about a different man. 342 00:16:29.120 --> 00:16:31.759 Like I just almost want to say, stop lying, Mary Payne, 343 00:16:31.799 --> 00:16:35.159 Like I know he's not an alcoholic, I don't. I 344 00:16:35.200 --> 00:16:37.559 mean to me, he's dave with the good thighs and 345 00:16:37.639 --> 00:16:40.000 a nice smile, you know what I mean. And when 346 00:16:40.039 --> 00:16:42.399 you say these seasons like, she's such a fucking liar. 347 00:16:42.519 --> 00:16:45.120 Why is she making up? She's doing it for attention? 348 00:16:45.639 --> 00:16:48.039 Right, it was such a fun time. 349 00:16:52.639 --> 00:16:56.799 Yeah, yeah he did, because he did a three month 350 00:16:56.879 --> 00:16:59.879 outpatient after he got out, he still went to outpatient 351 00:17:00.080 --> 00:17:02.039 and he you know, in addition to going to work 352 00:17:02.039 --> 00:17:05.279 and being at home and all that, and he got 353 00:17:05.319 --> 00:17:08.640 this shot in his ass once a month. And first 354 00:17:08.640 --> 00:17:10.720 of all, he said, the shot itself hurts so bad. 355 00:17:10.799 --> 00:17:13.599 And this is a person who goes and gets epidurals 356 00:17:13.640 --> 00:17:16.680 and neck injections and never gets knocked out like I do. 357 00:17:16.960 --> 00:17:19.640 Like he has a very high pain tolerance. And he said, 358 00:17:19.640 --> 00:17:24.039 this particular shot hurt so bad. And so it's interesting. 359 00:17:24.319 --> 00:17:27.720 It was very interesting to me that Brady was saying, Now, 360 00:17:27.759 --> 00:17:29.480 it's just a little strip that you can put under 361 00:17:29.519 --> 00:17:33.079 your tongue melt. So they've really like And if we 362 00:17:33.119 --> 00:17:37.599 recall on ninety day Fiance, the guy that was on 363 00:17:37.680 --> 00:17:42.440 with a really cute girl whose name is Citra and 364 00:17:42.480 --> 00:17:46.119 she was from Citra, and his name is Anyway, he 365 00:17:46.160 --> 00:17:49.759 had like no like either he had no lower teeth 366 00:17:49.880 --> 00:17:51.920 or he had like the weirdest jawline you've ever seen. 367 00:17:52.559 --> 00:17:55.319 She married him and he had been like a meth addict, 368 00:17:55.599 --> 00:17:59.319 and they're doing diaries right now, and he said he 369 00:17:59.359 --> 00:18:01.720 did have a relapse and all this, but he had 370 00:18:01.759 --> 00:18:06.400 gotten in trouble right before they got married because he 371 00:18:06.519 --> 00:18:08.920 had seboxone in his car. That was not a prescription 372 00:18:09.000 --> 00:18:11.640 for him. So you can abuse suboxone. 373 00:18:13.000 --> 00:18:13.839 You can abuse it. 374 00:18:14.079 --> 00:18:14.319 Yeah. 375 00:18:15.640 --> 00:18:18.359 Now, I told James to say, I think Dave is 376 00:18:18.599 --> 00:18:20.359 I think Mary Payne's trying to get Dave to come 377 00:18:20.400 --> 00:18:23.839 to the meet and Greek. He's oh, great, said but 378 00:18:24.039 --> 00:18:29.440 Dave does not drink. He goes, oh, oh oh. 379 00:18:29.160 --> 00:18:31.240 That's not I don't think that's the reason he doesn't 380 00:18:31.240 --> 00:18:32.680 want to come. I think it would just be like 381 00:18:34.079 --> 00:18:35.160 a lot for him. 382 00:18:35.440 --> 00:18:41.839 He has to come. He hates New York so bad. 383 00:18:42.160 --> 00:18:43.799 Well, only be there for a few days. 384 00:18:44.160 --> 00:18:46.079 No, he would be there for one day. He would 385 00:18:46.079 --> 00:18:47.000 be like, well, that's. 386 00:18:46.799 --> 00:18:49.160 Fine, come for yeah, to at least come to the 387 00:18:49.200 --> 00:18:50.359 meet and greet. 388 00:18:50.920 --> 00:18:53.640 He does not want to come. He doesn't send me 389 00:18:53.720 --> 00:18:58.640 his phone number. No no, no, no, no no. So let's see, okay. 390 00:18:58.680 --> 00:19:00.880 So he says he knows as an addict, it takes 391 00:19:00.920 --> 00:19:02.920 just one slip, It just takes one little thing, and 392 00:19:02.960 --> 00:19:05.160 he knows he's going to be tempted, like he knows 393 00:19:05.200 --> 00:19:06.519 this is going to be a problem. But he does 394 00:19:06.559 --> 00:19:08.119 say he takes this to box and I don't know 395 00:19:08.200 --> 00:19:09.880 if if the thing under the tongue is something you 396 00:19:09.920 --> 00:19:12.440 do every day or what I think the shot to me, 397 00:19:12.599 --> 00:19:15.240 a shot is a better idea is somebody ministers to you. 398 00:19:15.680 --> 00:19:17.319 Because if you don't have to think about. 399 00:19:17.039 --> 00:19:19.640 It, you know, yeah, you don't have to you don't 400 00:19:19.640 --> 00:19:20.559 have to self regulate. 401 00:19:20.640 --> 00:19:21.640