Speaker 1: Tell me what your life was like before you died.
So I was in my thirties, and it seemed I
had a very mainstream life before that. Actually, and there
came to a time in my life where big changes
were happening. My marriage split up, so I began soul searching,
and in that soul searching phase, I became aware of
my intuition, and also in that process, I became aware
of past lives. I read doctor Brian Weiss's book Many Lives,
Many Masters, and I thought everything clicked in and I
thought it sounds so cliche, but I thought, oh, this
is what I'm here to do. And from there I
became obsessed with making this happen. So I learned to
do past lives. In fact, the lady who told me
to read that book taught me. And I went on
to train with Brian Weiss, and also people came for regression.
They came. Who even knows where all these people came from,
but they came. And I documented every case from the beginning,
and so got a lot of them and just took
notice of what was happening in them, and it was
healing things for them. Was very fascinating for me. Back
in the day. But even before that, actually before I
started working with people, I had my own session, and
that's the clincher for me, because I don't make stuff
up or fiel my self. And I was on the
couch with the lady who taught me, having a session,
and I could see these past lives in my mind,
and they were moving almost like movies, and I could
feel I felt like I was there. I felt like
I knew what was going on in them. And most
of all, they cleared the fears or that they cleared
the things that I asked to clear. And basically you're
guided into a relaxed state. I don't even call it hypnosis.
Actually it's just you're guided into a relaxed state, usually
with guided visualization, so meditative state. And what happens is
the person starts to recall themselves at another time. So
what happens is they usually will see it in their
third eye. Not everyone sees, but most do, so they'll
have feelings as well as in if they find themselves
as a small child, then body might start to feel
really small if they're just lying on the couch. But
it's all the senses are working all the sixth senses
and the physical senses, so they're getting usually seeing, feeling,
and knowing what's going on in there. And when it's facilitated,
the facilitators prompting for them to respond, you can always respond,
and so they'll relay back what's happening, and then the
facilitators guiding them through, usually to achieve fixing something, or
at least mine was for the therapeutic value in it.
I believe that it comes directly from our soul. And
when someone comes along for regression or they do it themselves,
I believe that their soul has kind of guided them
to that point so that they have something revealed to
them at that very moment in their lifetime that is
going to help them for now. So although it comes
from the soul energy, it's always what's given or presented
to make this life here now better to fix something,
to heal something, even maybe just to help people realize
that there's more and it's we're not just here in
life as a human. That our soul energy exists. So
it has many facets of why it would come to
help somebody, but yes, it comes directly from the soul,
and I feel like that's why it's so effective. It's
why it's so effective as a therapy, or even just
for people to lose the fear of death and start
to really embrace life and not worry so much about
things that don't matter. Anyone can do it because we're
all born of our soul energy and our soul prepared,
or we agreed what we're doing here, so we can
all do it. There's some colleagues of mine even that
are not fans of doing it yourself, but I in
my whole twenty years, it's completely fine to do it yourself.
I think the thing with the facilitator is perhaps because
your energies are together and it's and they know what
to delve for to get to the bottom of a
specific issue that you might have. And also you're not
left with questions because the facilitator will know exactly what
to ask so that you get closure from it. So
you can do that yourself as well. However, the facilitator
is going to take any of that thinking away for you.
But very often people get into the past life and
what's happened to cause their fear now or their symptom
now is so simple, It's so simple, and it's so
ordinary that I never if someone's coming for a certain symptom,
I never suggest what it could be, because often it's
something that was so ordinary or normal that happened that
caused it. But certainly with the fires and things, those
are not really normal things to experience, but a lot
of it happens. If people have a fear of fire
or heights or flying any of those things, something pretty
wild will have happened for it to be such a fear.
So scars or birthmarks, even they will always be able
to trace them back to. And usually it's an injury
from a past life. So certainly with the scars, they
maybe don't even have to have a scar. It might
just be that they have shoulder problems, and Western medicine
or X rays and things cannot detect anything, so it's
this mystery physical symptom. That's when it's like that's from
a past life, and you go along and you see
potentially something brutal, but you see it detached. By the way,
it's not scary to see what happened, but it fixes it,
almost like this self, where it's my favorite side effective
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what it does is it helps them, aside from clearing
fears or phobias or physical symptoms, it helps them understand themselves.
So if we look at emotionally what it does, they'll
often see a past life that is similar or certainly
it invokes the same emotions in them that they're feeling
now experiencing. Now, let's think about a relationship that's trouble
for them, gives them trouble, so they'll find out what
happened then, what the cause of it was, and somehow
it really gives them this deep understanding and hence when
they understand themselves and why things are happening, it gives
them self awareness. And also, of course what we know
is self awareness is the it takes away blaming other people.
So no matter what you see in the past life,
Let's say someone's got a hard relationship, and they might
see themselves even potentially with the same person but in
a maybe different dynamics, even maybe the opposite sex is
but they see it and then they can understand why
the dynamics are the way they are now by what
happened before. And it's the awareness from that you can't
go back from it. It's just amazing. So I think
one of the things I call it the unpopular truths
or one of them about incarnating is that people feel
like they're off paths. Oh, I've gone off path, and
that's because life got tough, it didn't go the way
that you wanted, or it's and the natural thing is
we did the wrong thing. That's how come we ended
up over there. But actually the experience of life, it's
not a bed of roses, and it's not a straight
path to the wiggles in that path are destined. And
I think realizing that you didn't go off path, but
it was part of the journey if you like, is
it's actually liberating because in one way, what you're doing
when you say you've gone off path is you're blaming
yourself and so bad. I'm so silly, I did the
wrong thing. It's like, no, no, you didn't. It was
you were to have that experience. And I think so
many terrible things happen that when they happen, people can't
perceive that that could possibly be land or that one
would agree to it. So you can understand where the
resistance for that they didn't go off path and that
it was actually meant to happen is hard to take,
but it's truly part of it. And I think the
other thing that people like to tell themselves is this
person went off path, and it's because they don't like
where they went. For example, someone left them and they
loved so much, and it's like it's so much easier
to say, well, they've gone off par but they didn't.
It's all we always have to bring it back to
why why did our life go there? And to be honest,
it doesn't come to you like that until you're back usually,
so hindsight is the big hard bringer. Oh that's when
we go, oh, okay, I get why why I ended
up there and had to you know, ramble back. So
the way I see in between lives is the space
where we're preparing to incarnate. So when people describe it there,
there's human elements to it because we're talking about choosing.
But really, beyond that space, we don't have a mind,
so there is no choice. It's just this beautiful everything
and nothing. But in the in between space there's some interaction.
Sometimes you see it as human like and sometimes it's
more much more energetic color for example, and but what
happens there is we're deciding what we're doing here all
when we go back as now, if we go back
for a visit in between, we'll find out why we
planned what we're doing now, why we have these circumstances,
and what the purpose of them was. So all of
the information for what we're doing here, what we've done before,
and even what we'll be doing in the future is
accessible there. So it's quite the It's such a liberating
and beautiful experience to get that information because it surpasses
anything that our mind could perceive, gives us a different perception,
and it's something you can't really explain without having the experience,
can't quite articulate it as it feels to be. Our
life is. It has a blueprint, and you don't even
have to go between actually to access the blueprint. There
are ways that we can do that. In fact, it
was one of the big bodies of work that I
did from knowing that we have a blueprint and how
to access it. So I made that part of my psychology.
It's called life map. But essentially you can because it
is predestined before we're born, of course we can access it.
It's why psychics can see what's happening or read into us,
read our aura and tell us about our attributes and
our characteristics, these kinds of things. So when we access it,
it makes our lives make sense. It makes us make sense.
It makes us more comfortable with who we are and
even with our insecurities. Everything is destined, everything is blueprinted
that we do here, that we experience. For me, living
a fulfilled life is finding what resonates with you and
working with that, not fighting yourself, and doing things that
make you feel good. So whether it touch, tastes sound,
do those things. I feel like life is such a
blessing to enjoy the aspects of it that are good,
really good. Do what it takes to make you happy
and or bring you joy, I suppose, because ultimately contentment's
the ultimate space that we can be in most of
the time being yourself and realize that you don't know
what that means until you are, But to be yourself
is the most powerful thing I believe on the planet
that we can do for ourselves. And it can take
a lot to get to that stage. And part of
my journey of self awareness is coming back to being
myself all the time. The collective that we are all
part of collective energy. To experience emotion,