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Speaker 1: Tell me what your life was like before you died.

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So I was in my thirties, and it seemed I

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had a very mainstream life before that. Actually, and there

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came to a time in my life where big changes

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were happening. My marriage split up, so I began soul searching,

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and in that soul searching phase, I became aware of

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my intuition, and also in that process, I became aware

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of past lives. I read doctor Brian Weiss's book Many Lives,

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Many Masters, and I thought everything clicked in and I

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thought it sounds so cliche, but I thought, oh, this

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is what I'm here to do. And from there I

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became obsessed with making this happen. So I learned to

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do past lives. In fact, the lady who told me

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to read that book taught me. And I went on

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to train with Brian Weiss, and also people came for regression.

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They came. Who even knows where all these people came from,

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but they came. And I documented every case from the beginning,

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and so got a lot of them and just took

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notice of what was happening in them, and it was

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healing things for them. Was very fascinating for me. Back

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in the day. But even before that, actually before I

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started working with people, I had my own session, and

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that's the clincher for me, because I don't make stuff

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up or fiel my self. And I was on the

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couch with the lady who taught me, having a session,

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and I could see these past lives in my mind,

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and they were moving almost like movies, and I could

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feel I felt like I was there. I felt like

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I knew what was going on in them. And most

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of all, they cleared the fears or that they cleared

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the things that I asked to clear. And basically you're

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guided into a relaxed state. I don't even call it hypnosis.

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Actually it's just you're guided into a relaxed state, usually

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with guided visualization, so meditative state. And what happens is

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the person starts to recall themselves at another time. So

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what happens is they usually will see it in their

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third eye. Not everyone sees, but most do, so they'll

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have feelings as well as in if they find themselves

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as a small child, then body might start to feel

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really small if they're just lying on the couch. But

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it's all the senses are working all the sixth senses

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and the physical senses, so they're getting usually seeing, feeling,

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and knowing what's going on in there. And when it's facilitated,

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the facilitators prompting for them to respond, you can always respond,

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and so they'll relay back what's happening, and then the

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facilitators guiding them through, usually to achieve fixing something, or

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at least mine was for the therapeutic value in it.

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I believe that it comes directly from our soul. And

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when someone comes along for regression or they do it themselves,

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I believe that their soul has kind of guided them

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to that point so that they have something revealed to

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them at that very moment in their lifetime that is

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going to help them for now. So although it comes

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from the soul energy, it's always what's given or presented

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to make this life here now better to fix something,

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to heal something, even maybe just to help people realize

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that there's more and it's we're not just here in

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life as a human. That our soul energy exists. So

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it has many facets of why it would come to

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help somebody, but yes, it comes directly from the soul,

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and I feel like that's why it's so effective. It's

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why it's so effective as a therapy, or even just

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for people to lose the fear of death and start

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to really embrace life and not worry so much about

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things that don't matter. Anyone can do it because we're

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all born of our soul energy and our soul prepared,

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or we agreed what we're doing here, so we can

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all do it. There's some colleagues of mine even that

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are not fans of doing it yourself, but I in

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my whole twenty years, it's completely fine to do it yourself.

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I think the thing with the facilitator is perhaps because

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your energies are together and it's and they know what

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to delve for to get to the bottom of a

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specific issue that you might have. And also you're not

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left with questions because the facilitator will know exactly what

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to ask so that you get closure from it. So

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you can do that yourself as well. However, the facilitator

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is going to take any of that thinking away for you.

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But very often people get into the past life and

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what's happened to cause their fear now or their symptom

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now is so simple, It's so simple, and it's so

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ordinary that I never if someone's coming for a certain symptom,

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I never suggest what it could be, because often it's

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something that was so ordinary or normal that happened that

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caused it. But certainly with the fires and things, those

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are not really normal things to experience, but a lot

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of it happens. If people have a fear of fire

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or heights or flying any of those things, something pretty

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wild will have happened for it to be such a fear.

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So scars or birthmarks, even they will always be able

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to trace them back to. And usually it's an injury

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from a past life. So certainly with the scars, they

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maybe don't even have to have a scar. It might

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just be that they have shoulder problems, and Western medicine

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or X rays and things cannot detect anything, so it's

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this mystery physical symptom. That's when it's like that's from

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a past life, and you go along and you see

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potentially something brutal, but you see it detached. By the way,

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it's not scary to see what happened, but it fixes it,

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almost like this self, where it's my favorite side effective

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past lives. We'll be right back after a word from

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our sponsor, and now back to the show. I think

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what it does is it helps them, aside from clearing

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fears or phobias or physical symptoms, it helps them understand themselves.

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So if we look at emotionally what it does, they'll

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often see a past life that is similar or certainly

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it invokes the same emotions in them that they're feeling

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now experiencing. Now, let's think about a relationship that's trouble

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for them, gives them trouble, so they'll find out what

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happened then, what the cause of it was, and somehow

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it really gives them this deep understanding and hence when

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they understand themselves and why things are happening, it gives

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them self awareness. And also, of course what we know

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is self awareness is the it takes away blaming other people.

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So no matter what you see in the past life,

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Let's say someone's got a hard relationship, and they might

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see themselves even potentially with the same person but in

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a maybe different dynamics, even maybe the opposite sex is

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but they see it and then they can understand why

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the dynamics are the way they are now by what

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happened before. And it's the awareness from that you can't

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go back from it. It's just amazing. So I think

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one of the things I call it the unpopular truths

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or one of them about incarnating is that people feel

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like they're off paths. Oh, I've gone off path, and

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that's because life got tough, it didn't go the way

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that you wanted, or it's and the natural thing is

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we did the wrong thing. That's how come we ended

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up over there. But actually the experience of life, it's

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not a bed of roses, and it's not a straight

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path to the wiggles in that path are destined. And

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I think realizing that you didn't go off path, but

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it was part of the journey if you like, is

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it's actually liberating because in one way, what you're doing

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when you say you've gone off path is you're blaming

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yourself and so bad. I'm so silly, I did the

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wrong thing. It's like, no, no, you didn't. It was

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you were to have that experience. And I think so

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many terrible things happen that when they happen, people can't

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perceive that that could possibly be land or that one

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would agree to it. So you can understand where the

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resistance for that they didn't go off path and that

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it was actually meant to happen is hard to take,

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but it's truly part of it. And I think the

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other thing that people like to tell themselves is this

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person went off path, and it's because they don't like

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where they went. For example, someone left them and they

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loved so much, and it's like it's so much easier

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to say, well, they've gone off par but they didn't.

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It's all we always have to bring it back to

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why why did our life go there? And to be honest,

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it doesn't come to you like that until you're back usually,

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so hindsight is the big hard bringer. Oh that's when

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we go, oh, okay, I get why why I ended

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up there and had to you know, ramble back. So

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the way I see in between lives is the space

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where we're preparing to incarnate. So when people describe it there,

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there's human elements to it because we're talking about choosing.

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But really, beyond that space, we don't have a mind,

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so there is no choice. It's just this beautiful everything

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and nothing. But in the in between space there's some interaction.

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Sometimes you see it as human like and sometimes it's

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more much more energetic color for example, and but what

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happens there is we're deciding what we're doing here all

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when we go back as now, if we go back

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for a visit in between, we'll find out why we

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planned what we're doing now, why we have these circumstances,

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and what the purpose of them was. So all of

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the information for what we're doing here, what we've done before,

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and even what we'll be doing in the future is

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accessible there. So it's quite the It's such a liberating

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and beautiful experience to get that information because it surpasses

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anything that our mind could perceive, gives us a different perception,

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and it's something you can't really explain without having the experience,

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can't quite articulate it as it feels to be. Our

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life is. It has a blueprint, and you don't even

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have to go between actually to access the blueprint. There

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are ways that we can do that. In fact, it

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was one of the big bodies of work that I

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did from knowing that we have a blueprint and how

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to access it. So I made that part of my psychology.

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It's called life map. But essentially you can because it

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is predestined before we're born, of course we can access it.

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It's why psychics can see what's happening or read into us,

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read our aura and tell us about our attributes and

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our characteristics, these kinds of things. So when we access it,

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it makes our lives make sense. It makes us make sense.

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It makes us more comfortable with who we are and

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even with our insecurities. Everything is destined, everything is blueprinted

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that we do here, that we experience. For me, living

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a fulfilled life is finding what resonates with you and

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working with that, not fighting yourself, and doing things that

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make you feel good. So whether it touch, tastes sound,

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do those things. I feel like life is such a

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blessing to enjoy the aspects of it that are good,

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really good. Do what it takes to make you happy

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and or bring you joy, I suppose, because ultimately contentment's

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the ultimate space that we can be in most of

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the time being yourself and realize that you don't know

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what that means until you are, But to be yourself

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is the most powerful thing I believe on the planet

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that we can do for ourselves. And it can take

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a lot to get to that stage. And part of

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my journey of self awareness is coming back to being

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myself all the time. The collective that we are all

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part of collective energy. To experience emotion,