Speaker 1: Hey, everybody, Welcome to Panche. This is a bonus episode
for you, guys. I didn't even announce it because I
wanted everybody to be surprised. I've got an interview with
Mallory from this season of A ninety Day Beyonce the OG.
Welcome Mallorie. You're so cute.
Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you, thank you for having me.
Speaker 1: You're so cute. Now are you at your house there
in Alabama?
Speaker 2: Yes, I'm in my work from home office.
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Well that was gonna be one of
my questions. People are asking because you said on one
of these recent episodes that you had two jobs, Like
what are the two jobs?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: So I'm a medical coder. I'm not sure if people
don't know what that is. Anytime you go to the
doctor's office, have a surgery, the emergency room, whatever it is,
there's documentation for your diagnosis codes and what the provider did.
So pretty much, I go in, I review the doctor's documentation,
I select the diagnosis codes and also what type of
we call it a CPT code, which CPT code to
a sign and I sent it off to insurance.
Speaker 1: So okay, so that's job number one. What's job number.
Speaker 2: Two, same thing, same thing.
Speaker 1: Okay, well that is interesting because people were like, oh,
she says she has two jobs. I was like, yeah,
you guys, I'm sure it's something like boring, you know.
Speaker 3: And it's yeah, it might be boring to other people,
but I mean keeps me entertained.
Speaker 1: It's interesting to you, all right. First thing, the first
thing I really want to know is how you got
on the show. Did somebody tell you about it? Did
you were you a fan? How did you know about it?
Speaker 3: So I've watched ninety Day before, I've been a fan
of the ninety Day universe, and after my girl's trip
where that's where I met rash It. On my girl's
trip to Greece in twenty twenty three, I had a
co worker and she goes, oh my god, you need
to apply for ninety Day fiance And I was like, girl,
they're not gonna pick me. They're not gonna pick us.
We're too boring. Like it's you know, like at the
time you have like the Jasmine and Ginos stuff, you know,
going on, and I'm like, we're boring, They're not gonna
pick us.
Speaker 2: I was like, but just for the fun of it,
I'll apply it'll be like our little joke and now
here we are.
Speaker 1: Yew. How long how long we all together before? How
long were you together before you applied for the visa?
And then how long did the visa take?
Speaker 2: So we were together for like four or five months
before we applied for the visa.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, So not that long.
Speaker 2: No, not that long at all, Not that long at all, okay.
And then the visa took about twelve thirteen months.
Speaker 1: Okay. And were you just going back and forth back
and forth?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: So I so after my girls trip summer twenty twenty three,
I then went back to Turkey January twenty twenty four,
and then I went back in October twenty twenty four,
and then thankfully, the next trip was bringing him to America.
Speaker 1: And that's when the cameras went with you. Yes, yeah,
FA's okay. So you're one of the rare couples on
this show. And if you've been watching it a long time,
you know that we're immediately rooting for We're immediately like okay,
And as we say on my show, we're always like,
I believe in their love. I believe in their love.
I believe this is gonna be a fairy tale. We
immediately liked him and thought he was super cute. We
immediately liked how much he loved you. And it obviously
is not like a scam, you know, but you've got
to tell me that you met him. You went on
a girl's trip and you say, and this is what
the young people do. I get it. You go on
Tender or whatever and you're like, I'm gonna find a
hook up.
Speaker 2: Yep.
Speaker 1: Okay, So you find this hookup and he braids your hair.
Speaker 2: Yes, he braids my hair. He so okay.
Speaker 3: Backstory, and me and my friend went to Greece. She
had already had Tender on her phone, and I was
just kind of like on a hiatus of dating apps.
I was like, I'm over it, like whatever, and she
was like, girl, you gotta download Tender. These men on
here are unreal, like they're gorgeous.
Speaker 2: So I didn't, and I was like, oh my gosh.
Speaker 1: She was flying.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then me and Ross match, and you know,
a couple of days later, we.
Speaker 3: Meet up and I don't even know, I can't even
remember how he started to braid my hair, but he
just started braiding my hair, and I was just like,
what are you doing and he was like, I'm braiding
your hair and I was just like, okay, is this
normally what you do after hooking up with somebody like
this your.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and he's like, no, I just.
Speaker 2: Wanted to braid your hair. Your hair is beautiful, and
I was like, Okay.
Speaker 1: On an upcoming episode, we see y'all go to a
baseball game when your hair is braided. Did he braid
your hair?
Speaker 2: No, not that time I braided my hair.
Speaker 1: Now the magic is gone. You no longer braid my hair.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I was like he he yeah, it's not
on camera, but he does.
Speaker 3: He has braided my hair since being in America. It's
just it was never on camera that.
Speaker 2: They caught it.
Speaker 1: I think that's so funny. I know that my husband
and my son would not know how to braid anything.
I don't think I.
Speaker 2: Know you would it.
Speaker 3: It caught me off guard and I was just kind
of like, how do you know how to braid? And
he was like my sister's He was like, I have
my older sister and my younger sister. He was like, so,
I you know, his older sister was already out of
the house when when his younger sister with his younger
sister was growing up, so he everything his older sister
taught him.
Speaker 2: He just did it for his younger sister.
Speaker 1: That's really sweet.
Speaker 2: And he braids his mom's hair too. Video. Yeah, he's
oh god.
Speaker 1: That's sweet. That's sweet. Okay. I am from Mississippi and
you're from Alabama. So what is your closest town there
to where you are in Athens, Alabama? What's your closest
big city.
Speaker 2: Huntsville, Huntsville, Alabama.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, one of my bests from colleges from Huntsville. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Really what a small world?
Speaker 1: Small where they've got the aerospace training thing.
Speaker 2: Yeah right, NASA, yep, yeah, is it NASA rocket.
Speaker 1: NASA because she one summer was like a camp counselor
at like rocket camp for yeah.
Speaker 2: Yes, the space camp I told is so funny.
Speaker 3: I told my nieces and nephews about there's a space
camp and they were like, well, you want to go
there one summer to Aunt maun MOUs and do space camp.
Speaker 2: And I was like, Okay, that's okay.
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pink Shade. Okay, so you're there in Alabama, and I
appreciated that you were very honest to say, you know,
in my town where I am, there might be people
that have a different opinion about immigrants or pro deportations,
but the people that we've seen so far have been nice.
And I've said on my show, I'm like, I'm from
the Deep South too, and yes, you are gonna You're
gonna run into that New York City too. By the way,
Oh yeah, I appreciate that you were so honest about
it and so honest about like making jokes about rednecks
and stuff, because it's better to put it out there,
to be like, I'm aware of what the stigma is
and face it. Now. The people we've seen have all
been nice. Have you guys had any problems.
Speaker 3: You know, the like I said, the only problem that
I had had previously was a friend of a friend,
you know, at a at a at a get together.
This was and the comment was made like a year
before Rosh was even here, so ron, you know, like
and the comment just caught me off guard. You know,
I was just like, whoa, Like I didn't, you know,
like okay, but it wasn't somebody that I hang out
with or I don't associate myself with people like that
like once, I you know, once, especially having an im
you know, having an immigrant, being in a relationship with
an immigrant.
Speaker 2: You know, you just you you can't surround yourself with
people like that.
Speaker 1: No, no, no, okay, I'm glad to hear you haven't
really had any major problems.
Speaker 2: Yeah, not yet though, I mean there might be more.
You guys might see.
Speaker 1: Well, I will say that. You know, people were immediately
immediately like, well, they shouldn't live there, she should take
him and move to a bigger city, moved to everywhere.
What are you gonna you're I mean again, I'm from Mississippi,
and I'm like, you're in Alabama. You know, even if
you move to Atlanta, which would be like the biggest,
one of the biggest, New Orleans, like a big southern city,
You're still gonna have it.
Speaker 2: So racism, Yeah, racism is everywhere.
Speaker 3: It doesn't stay in one spot, like it's not just
located in one state. I mean there's you know, I
think in the South people are more I think, you know,
I don't. I don't want to say this, but it's
the truth. I think in the South people are more
comfortable with being blatantly racist. Where if you go up
north or you know, if you if you go to
other areas, they're they're more low key about it or
right their comments, Yeah they don't, they're they're yeah, they
say like snarky comments like they're not as you know,
bold as I feel like people in the South.
Speaker 1: I agree, and again, like I said on my show
like a million times, like this is not every single person.
And I, like I said, I'm so glad to see
that all your friends have been They threw that white
trash bash, which was hilarious, so funny, and I got
to tell you that when Brandon was so upset about
a man doesn't sit on your tailgate. We when I
tell you we have taken a poll. We have like
unlike everybody's southern out there, please reach out, and only
one out of no lie, like I'd say, thirty forty
people respond to only one person said Okay, I have
heard of this, and how Yeah, I was never heard
of such a thing in my life.
Speaker 3: I literally when I saw the when I saw the
footage for the first time, I was like, I've never
heard of that in my life.
Speaker 1: But I mean, did Brandon make it up?
Speaker 2: I you know, one thing about Brandon is maybe in
Brandon's world, you don't sit on his tailgate.
Speaker 3: You know, maybe maybe the way he was brought up
with his southern family, he was told that.
Speaker 2: You know, I don't know.
Speaker 1: It was so I was he was like, the Heath
disrespected me by sitting on my tailgate. I was like
what like he walked into your living room and took
a beer and sat in your favorite chair, Like, now,
how long ago was it that you and Brandon were
like friends with benefits? Like, like, was it six years ago?
Was it? Was it right before Rash? Like what I
can understand? Like he yeah, I can understand Rash is
uncomfortable with it. But yeah, you guys are all in
a friend group and seemed to have been good friends
for years. So how long ago was it?
Speaker 2: So it was the beginning of twenty twenty one, and.
Speaker 1: It was two years before you met Rash.
Speaker 2: Yeah, two years before I met Rash.
Speaker 3: It lasted for maybe two months if that, and then
after those two months, we were never physical ever again
ever again, Like we never like once we stopped having
that situationship with each other, we were like, Okay, we're
gonna be in each other's lives. You know, I'm Mikayla's
best friend, you're her husband's best friend. Let's not you know,
we're not getting rid of each other, that's for sure.
Speaker 2: You know that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're not getting rid of each other. So I
think it's just a very youin of like a mature thing,
because you know, I mean definitely, like in college, you know,
you have all sorts of like big groups of friends
and somebody may have some drinks at a white trash
bash and you hook up and you're in your twenties
and who cares, You're still all in the same friend group. Yeah,
and especially it sounds like the two of you were
very much like this happened, is not gonna happen anymore,
and now we're done and we're still all have to
be friends.
Speaker 3: It was just yeah, And I think I think that's
what you know, the internet being up and roar over that.
I'm just kind of like, you guys really don't understand,
like we're like, it's not you're friends.
Speaker 1: You can still be friends.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, we're we're adults, like we're friends.
Speaker 3: I mean, now, if if we were in a very
serious relationship and we were engaged at one point, okay,
but it was never Yeah, it was never like that.
Speaker 1: It was never like that. No, okay. And speaking of that,
I saw a post that you did here in the
last day or two regarding your car accident, and explain
to me what that was about. You did a long
post about people not being Tell me you've gotten negative
feedback about your car accident. I don't do it.
Speaker 3: So I'm I'm not going to name any names because
I don't want to give this person the satisfaction.
Speaker 1: Okay, but it was.
Speaker 2: So night there.
Speaker 3: You know, I'm scrolling through TikTok and you know a
lot of con you know, people that make stuff about
reality TV, they're everywhere.
Speaker 2: I follow a lot of them, and I have very good.
Speaker 3: Relationships with majority of them. This person was watching, they
were doing like a.
Speaker 2: Recap or whatever of the show, and they were like, well,
I'm not trying to be heartless, but it really seems
like TLC's dragging out her car accident.
Speaker 3: Oh, she just ironically went by the crash site. Yeah,
like I can't like this cast is so boring, blah
blah blah. And you know I slept on it. Yeah,
I slept on it.
Speaker 2: I prayed on it.
Speaker 3: And then yesterday, ironically, yesterday I had a doctor's appointment
with my gi doctor, and you know, hearing them just
reiterate some things that are going to be with me
for life, I was like, you know what, you know what,
like you you are heartless, Like that's you're disgusting, Like
if you if you don't have anything nice to say
about something like that, then just skip over it, like
you don't have to commentate, like comment like there is
more in that episode, comment commentate on something else, like yeah,
you know, if you're acknowledging it, you don't want to
seem heartless, and then you continue to be heartless.
Speaker 2: It's just kind of like grow up, like ew, Yeah, there's.
Speaker 1: Lots of things that you could comment on the episode,
but that doesn't make any sense to me because I
think from what I watched, very clearly you said I
don't ever drive by there, and he says, take me
to where it is. I want to like see for
my eyes what happened. And you stood on the side
of the road and you explain this car was coming
this way and you can see how fast. And I
thought you said very clearly, I never drive by here,
but we're near it, and he said, well, let's go
to where it is. It wasn't like you said, I've
never driven by there in one year, but today's the day. Yeah,
you know, I thought it was done very well. And
I don't think thank you. I don't think it's been
harped on it all. I think it was mentioned at
one point because you had a settlement and then it
was mentioned when you showed where it was, and then
it was mentioned again regarding the prenup, like I have
this settlement that's in a it's in a brokerage firm
that I just want to protect, and I don't. I mean,
by the way, this is not a boring season. This
season is amazing.
Speaker 3: I mean I would sound biased if I would say that,
but I think this season's pretty good.
Speaker 1: We are loving it. We are we are diagnosing Katie
every week, so concerned about her drinking problem, so that
everybody's like, she's got this and that I'm like, nobody's
gonna say that she drinks too much? Like no one, no,
any friends, family, anybody, no husband, no, no, nobody's gonna say.
I will say on a coming up episode there is
someone that mentions it, and I was like, well, thank god,
Like somebody is talking about the elephant in the room
with Katie.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, Well, And I think you know when you're
she's a couple of years not that I'm so much
than her, but she has a couple of years younger
than me, and you know, some of her friends and
stuff like that, and I think it's just like when
you live in small towns, it's like, well, what do
you mean there's this is all we can do is
go out to the bars and go drinking to have
a good time.
Speaker 1: And it's like she will you have more than one
guy literally palm your face to push you away. You
have to think about if the roles were reversed and
a guy was doing that, it would be it would
be pretty bad. Yeah, yeah, god bless you want we
want justice for Katie. Yes, what are your thoughts on?
What are your thoughts on Debbie and Meadow?
Speaker 2: I love Debbie. I do.
Speaker 3: I I want the best for her just because she just,
you don't know, like I just there's just something about
her that I'm just.
Speaker 1: Like, she's just you're rooting for Debbie.
Speaker 3: Yeah, And you know, the only thing I can say
is I hope and pray that he is that Meto
is here for the right reasons. I mean, I don't
I can only criticize my own relationship, you know. I
mean I don't know.
Speaker 2: How their relationship is behind closed doors when the cameras
are off.
Speaker 1: So I mean my thoughts, look how he talks to
her with their camera on, you.
Speaker 2: Know, yeah, yeah, yeah, and and yeah.
Speaker 1: It's it's all. It's all a wait and see and
we keep saying, Okay, surely on the next episode they'll
show us this or that, and then they don't and
we have to wait it out. I Shay and Annabelle.
How much I mean, on a scale of one to ten,
how much do you love annabel Oh?
Speaker 2: My god? Like I love annabel She is exactly what
he needs.
Speaker 3: Like she is when I watch their stuff, like I
was just like, yeah, he needs a woman that is
not going to put up with his nonsense and she's
gonna set them straight.
Speaker 2: I love her like I love them.
Speaker 1: I love her so much and every time. And you know,
as a Southerner, when they talk about the lake, I'm like, oh, yeah,
I know about the lake or you go down to
the river, the lake or the river. Yes, they're definitely
having a white trash bash down by that lake and
in that river.
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh for sure, That's what I'm saying. I'm like,
you guys are talking about our white trash bash.
Speaker 1: What about Yeah? What about that one? They just didn't
name it, They just didn't name it. Well. I love
Annabella and I hope she is gonna set. I hope,
I hope when we get to the reunion. I do
love when all you guys like meet in person at
the union and then we've got you're from Alabama and
as just from Alabama? Yeah, And I was like, now,
is Alabasa close to Athens? I have no grasp of Alabama.
Speaker 2: No. No, she's about two hours south of me south.
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I uh, I'm fascinated fascinated by her. I'm
fascinated by we're gonna see coming up. Like his family
gets real mad that she's thirty eight and they're basically
like she's the dad literally says she's so close to menopause.
Speaker 2: Which is crazy. It's like that's a bold statement for
a man to say.
Speaker 1: Okay, right, And I was like, no, I don't know,
God bless. Okay. Now back to Brandon. We have lots
lots of questions about why did you have to borrow
his pet camera? Why couldn't you buy your own pet camera?
Speaker 4: People were concerned, you know, to be completely honest with
everything that was on my plate preparing for my fiance
to come to.
Speaker 2: America, buying a pet camera slipped my mind.
Speaker 1: Why did you need one?
Speaker 2: So?
Speaker 1: How long were you gone and you had all those dogs,
so with somebody like coming in to watch the dogs.
Speaker 3: Yeah, my friends were coming in to watch them. But
so I just I really liked I just I liked
being able. I was only gone for like a week,
but still I was able to like log.
Speaker 2: On and just you know, see them, see them.
Speaker 3: And because Mickey and Minnie were are you know they're
at the time that we were filming there, they were
like three, two or three months old, So I just
was really worried about, you know, puppies.
Speaker 1: Yeah. They also you just got them and then you
had to leave.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, So I was just like, oh, I hope
you know, Like, yeah, I.
Speaker 1: Just tell me about the decision making thought process of
getting two dogs in addition to the two you already
had right before you're bringing your fiance to move in.
Speaker 2: There wasn't much of a decision making, There was no
thought process. So I the backstory on how I got
two of them, and they're from the same litter and everything.
I do not recommend having two puppies at the same
time unless you can mentally handle that. I'm never doing
that again.
Speaker 1: Well you do, then you'd have six, So I hope
not yeah, I would.
Speaker 2: Never never doing that again. And I had gone to.
Speaker 3: A horse show because I'm a part of the horse community,
and there is these people here selling these cute little puppies.
I was like, oh my god, they're so cute and
I had face timed rash and I was like, look
how cute they are and he was like, get one
and I was like okay, and I was like well,
I was like, but I want a girl because I
already had a boy and a girl.
Speaker 2: And I was like, I want a girl. He's like
I want a boy.
Speaker 3: And then the person that was selling them, they were like, well,
we'll do a buy one, get one free special and.
Speaker 1: I was just like, oh my god. I was like okay,
and they were like, please take these puppies and are
what kind of puppies are they?
Speaker 3: They are Australian Shepherd cattle Australian Shepherd cattle dog mixes.
Speaker 1: Okay, do you have a big backyard kind of Okay,
that's a lot of it's a lot of dogs. So
what are your other two dogs? Because we know Opal.
What kind of dog is Opal?
Speaker 2: She's a corky.
Speaker 1: She's a corky.
Speaker 2: I just she's a funny Welshy.
Speaker 1: I just saw the funniest Corky video the other day
about why Corky's always back up, and it was a
whole thing of like to the song back that ass
up and it was all backing up, like, Okay, so
she's a corky and has the tiny legs that needs
the the ramp from the bed. And then what's the
other dog?
Speaker 2: Twister? So I adopted Twister. I don't remember, like twenty
nineteen was when I got Twister. I adopted him, of course.
Speaker 1: And you just said his name, so yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
Oh my gosh, sorry, that's okay.
Speaker 2: And he is a pit a Pitbull Healer cross.
Speaker 1: Wow, okay, this is this is dog corner. I have
two dogs. I'm always like obsessed with people's dogs. I'm
obsessed with people that have more than two dogs and
how do you do it? And then you got two
dogs right before he moved.
Speaker 2: I was like yes, and they're all herding dogs. That
was not planned.
Speaker 1: So you walk outside and they'll just circle you.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, they're just a hot mess. They're they're
so hyper there. I don't recommend fo herding dogs.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you walk outside, they're trying to herd you and you're.
Speaker 3: Like, oh stop, I'm trying to inside outside they're following
me every Oh my god, I don't.
Speaker 1: Yeah, wow, you'll always have a convenience hip.
Speaker 2: That's true.
Speaker 1: Okay, So on an upcoming episode, we're going to see
you and your friends go to like a local baseball game.
Is this like a Huntsville team?
Speaker 2: Yeah, so they're newer.
Speaker 3: I think I think they were established in like twenty
twenty two.
Speaker 1: Okay, very new.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, they're very new.
Speaker 3: And they actually had the locals pick their name. So
it was like it was a decision between like the
trash Pandas Rocket City Rockets I think, and then there
was some other one.
Speaker 2: I don't want.
Speaker 1: The City Rocket seems to make the most sense. I mean,
trash Pandas is hilarious, but also like what, I.
Speaker 3: Don't you know, I I don't know, I don't know
how they came up with that. But trash Pandas won obviously,
And so yeah, we went to a trash Panas game
because rash has never been to American an American baseball game.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I loved that. I love that. And on the
upcoming episode, you know, you guys are also you know
Rash and Brandon still not getting along, and it's does it?
Can you just give me a hint? Does it ever
get better? See? Are they going to braid each other's hair?
Speaker 2: Maybe they'll braid each other's beards. I don't know. Maybe
I don't know, you guys, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I see well, I was like, I hope these two
never have a fistfight.
Speaker 2: I know that's like the it doesn't get physical. Let's
just put it that way. Thank god, it doesn't get physical.
This there's yeah, it seems like it.
Speaker 1: It seems a couple of times like it gets close.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, Mikayla and Wren. So it is? Is Wren
spelled r y n like Ryan without the A?
Speaker 2: Pretty much?
Speaker 1: Yes, it's Wren?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 1: Does that come from something like his mother's maiden name
or something?
Speaker 2: I you know, that's a good question.
Speaker 1: I don't know, because you know how we do? You
know how he does? Yeah, we got the mother's maiden name,
and like you know, I got Mary Payne, the whole thing.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I'm trying to think. I don't know.
Speaker 1: And also I wonder if it's like part of a
name and they took out the Wren because he's like
a third and so they said, okay, co cor Wren
want to and three? So for the third we're gonna
call him Wren instead of core Wyn. You know what
I mean or something. The Southerners they do are real
crazy with the name.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I know. I'm pretty positive. Sorry my air podcast.
I'm pretty positive.
Speaker 3: His it's his middle name, Okay, but he goes by
his middle name, I think.
Speaker 1: So there was a person on I don't know if
you watch any Bravo Real Housewives. On Real house Hovese
of Oc, doctor Jennifer's husband's name was Ryan, but then
he renamed himself Wren r y n E. So he
was Ryan but then he got his name changed to
r y n E. So I was like, this is
very similar. Like it's like, yeah, Ryan Wrenn, what's your name? Yeah?
Speaker 2: No, yeah, as no, he as a grown man. He
did not go and change his.
Speaker 1: Okay. Now on this last episode, you're you talk to
Roush about the prenup. M Okay. My take on it is,
why not if you think you're gonna be married for
one hundred years, Like, why not go ahead and do it?
You have this big asset, this one particular thing you're
trying to protect. And if you guys are married for
fifteen years and get divorced at that point the house,
the house is half his anyway, so you know if
he's been paying into it so or you guys may
have moved and bought a new house. But I think
that culturally we see so many of these same stories
play over and over. Number One is the bidet always important.
Miday is a mainte side of America. It is I mean,
it's and they need it, they want it, they have
to have it. And then we see prenup a lot.
Is another storyline that they cannot get their brains behind
the whole prenup. And then of course we see the
muslimen are like, well, now I'm the head of the household,
and you do what I say. But now he's run
up against a strong Southern woman who's like, no, so,
no so. A couple of things about the Muslim man.
Number one, it seems to me that rash didn't care
about the thing about about no sex before marriage, Like
he was okay with that. Yes, he was okay with that,
but he's not okay with you know, you got to
be the head of the house and all that. So
it's like pick and shoes.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah, and I think, you know different, I.
Speaker 3: Think I don't want to say, like kind of like
in America or like different denomination.
Speaker 1: Right right, right. And also, no, pork is a big
thing for him. He's like no York. Yeah, yeah he does.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I mean and Turkey is a very secular country.
A lot of people don't know that there is multiple
religions in Turkey there. You know, Islam is the predominant,
you know, religion, but there's Catholics, there's Christians, there's you know,
there's churches right beside the mosques and stuff like that.
But I think they're just not as like how Nito
coming from Egypt or you know how Jordanians.
Speaker 2: It's Turkey is just a very it's a very Yeah,
it's a very secular country.
Speaker 1: It's a little more their religion is a little more
loosey goosey and not so like it has to be
all these things have to be followed exactly.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I and and I think they not that
they they just lean more Western into the into the
Western culture, and.
Speaker 1: That's just that's good for you because then you've got
on Tender. I know, do his uh, does his family
have any problem with you saying like y'all met on
Tender and that there was you were sleeping together in
the same bed and all that, Like do they have
a problem with that?
Speaker 2: No, believe it or not. I mean, I think you
would think that they would.
Speaker 3: But I think a lot of it is is, you know,
they understand he's a grown man and he's gonna make
his own decisions.
Speaker 2: At the end of the day.
Speaker 3: Yes, So I I think that's where a lot of
it came from, is they were like, we can't control
him well, and I yeah, I think that's where a
lot of it And they knew, like they knew their
son was you know active.
Speaker 1: Well you know, like you think of like Sarper. He's
from Turkey and he banged twenty five hundred women, So
I mean, you know, yeah.
Speaker 2: Rash isn't that. Yeah, Rash isn't like that.
Speaker 1: But Okay, that's good. That's good to hear. And did
you guys ever talk about you moving there? Because where
he's from that region, we've seen it with he lived there,
but we've seen it on other ninety Day shows, marmars
where it's like, wow, this is a gorgeous town. So
did you ever consider that moving there?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I think with when we were going
through that immigration process, that was definitely a backup plan.
We obviously didn't really like talk talk about it because
we didn't want that to be the last resort, but
we did acknowledge, especially with the state of how you know,
immigration was going and what was going on with immigration,
you know, Turkey was definitely an option. It It would
have been a struggle, It would have been a struggle
for sure, but yeah, we did talk about it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, do a lot of people in his town, a
lot of people speak English or no.
Speaker 3: I would say, I would say it's like if you
go to the like the restaurants and the retail stores,
they do because Marmorous like predominantly is like a very
hot spot for British people. Like it's it's like very
televised in England, like come to Marmorous, you know, for
your summer and and you know the Turkish people what
they do is they'll they'll put their pricing in pounds
instead of lira because the conversion rates higher, and.
Speaker 1: They get.
Speaker 5: Okay, well, yeah, I mean it's I would say, it's
not like if you go to istanbul And and English
has spoken very well there, but they're like his family,
Rossi's family, they don't speak any English.
Speaker 2: It's barely anything.
Speaker 1: So yeah, I was sad when he said, you know,
you know, I'm gonna need like one hundred and hundred
and fifty dollars when you guys were talking about the
expenses and you know, to us, that's not a lot
of money. But of course I liked how you're like, Okay,
here's everything we're spending. I have to assume at the
top of that piece of paper was here's how much
I bring in, and then here's how much piece of tract. Yeah,
for him to really get it and then yeah, I
need a little money for my family. And you're like
and he's like, well, you know they live in a tent, baby,
And I was like, oh my gosh, I kind of
forgot about that part, like did their house burn down?
What happened?
Speaker 2: It was an earthquake. So so the earthquake, it was
twenty It was.
Speaker 3: Like not winter, but I think it was like January
February twenty twenty three, it was.
Speaker 2: It hit there.
Speaker 3: So he's originally from cut a madmanage Turkey, and so
there was a big earthquake.
Speaker 2: It was like a seven point four.
Speaker 1: I remember that big earthway, Yes, and.
Speaker 3: It hits Syria too, So it was Turkey and Syria
and that's what happened.
Speaker 2: They yeah, they yeah, they lost everything.
Speaker 1: And are they doing better now? Are they able to
rebuild or.
Speaker 3: They're doing they're getting by. The Turkish government was supposed
to be building houses for the people that have been displaced,
and the houses have taken still now. And you know,
so so during the winners, his mom will go to
Marmarous that way it's cooler, and.
Speaker 2: His dad will stay back and work. You know. But
but they're you.
Speaker 3: Know people online, you know, their first their their first
initial response is like, well, why did she just go
to Turkey?
Speaker 2: Like, oh, I would get out of the United States.
Speaker 3: And I'm just like, you have like the privilege you
have to think that these people do not suffer over there.
Speaker 1: Like right, just because it's a beautiful town doesn't mean yeah,
I'm like, I'm.
Speaker 2: Like, the monthly South for one person is like four
to nine hundred American dollars.
Speaker 1: That's you can't that's rough, That's right, that's right.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's rough.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's oh my god. Well, I I have loved
your story and I've you know, I any kind there's
a Southerner, I get very excited. I love to do
a Southern accent, you know, like it just brings me
back to home. Yeah. And we think Rash's so cute.
We think you're so cute. I think you guys are
very good and you're like talking heads together. I love
this week he said, shut the motherfucker up. I was like,
that's so funny. Can I can I adopt that in
my everdition? Shut the mother Yes you can?
Speaker 2: Yes, Yes.
Speaker 1: I love how excited he is about a sex shop. Yeah,
he's like, never see this where you see like other
people like Stevie and Maddie. And he's like he also
was sort of like from Iron, you know, He's like, whoah,
look at that. Have you been in touch with her?
She would be a great friend to you.
Speaker 2: I think I had it.
Speaker 3: I followed her on social media. I do need to
reach out with her. Reach out to her because we
last summer when we were watching the series, Rash.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like, I was like, oh, she's not I think
she's like four or five hours from me.
Speaker 1: She's in Pettisburg.
Speaker 2: So yeah, she's not hard.
Speaker 1: I would love for y' all to be friends. That
would be like my dream team Southern friends. I would
love that.
Speaker 2: I would love that too.
Speaker 1: Yeah. And then you have you know, husbands with you know,
same ideas and stuff. You both have cute husbands in
the South. Why not?
Speaker 2: I know?
Speaker 1: Well, tell everybody where they can follow you if you
want them to. On social media, we don't say anything
mean about her accident. Whoever you are that said that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's okay, they're irrelevant. Yeah, I'm on Instagram and
TikTok and I think it's just Mallory ninety day. Okay,
I've made it easy. Okay, there's no like underscore or
you know what, let me check hold.
Speaker 1: Okay, but I think if they just type in Mallory
with the I E, yeah, and then you could find it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's okay, Mallory underschool on Instagram, it's Mallory Underscore
ninety day.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: Then it's either that the same for TikTok or just
Mallory ninety day. But it should pop up.
Speaker 1: It should should pop up. And we'll do some reels
and stuff from this episode, and I'll tag you, and
and now I've got a new Southern friend and I
love it. Okay, so don't hang up. And everybody make
sure you're following me on Instagram too, can check up