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Speaker 1: Hey, everybody, Welcome to Panche. This is a bonus episode

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for you, guys. I didn't even announce it because I

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wanted everybody to be surprised. I've got an interview with

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Mallory from this season of A ninety Day Beyonce the OG.

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Welcome Mallorie. You're so cute.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you, thank you for having me.

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Speaker 1: You're so cute. Now are you at your house there

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in Alabama?

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Speaker 2: Yes, I'm in my work from home office.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Well that was gonna be one of

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my questions. People are asking because you said on one

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of these recent episodes that you had two jobs, Like

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what are the two jobs?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: So I'm a medical coder. I'm not sure if people

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don't know what that is. Anytime you go to the

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doctor's office, have a surgery, the emergency room, whatever it is,

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there's documentation for your diagnosis codes and what the provider did.

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So pretty much, I go in, I review the doctor's documentation,

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I select the diagnosis codes and also what type of

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we call it a CPT code, which CPT code to

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a sign and I sent it off to insurance.

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Speaker 1: So okay, so that's job number one. What's job number.

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Speaker 2: Two, same thing, same thing.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well that is interesting because people were like, oh,

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she says she has two jobs. I was like, yeah,

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you guys, I'm sure it's something like boring, you know.

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Speaker 3: And it's yeah, it might be boring to other people,

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but I mean keeps me entertained.

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Speaker 1: It's interesting to you, all right. First thing, the first

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thing I really want to know is how you got

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on the show. Did somebody tell you about it? Did

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you were you a fan? How did you know about it?

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Speaker 3: So I've watched ninety Day before, I've been a fan

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of the ninety Day universe, and after my girl's trip

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where that's where I met rash It. On my girl's

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trip to Greece in twenty twenty three, I had a

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co worker and she goes, oh my god, you need

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to apply for ninety Day fiance And I was like, girl,

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they're not gonna pick me. They're not gonna pick us.

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We're too boring. Like it's you know, like at the

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time you have like the Jasmine and Ginos stuff, you know,

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going on, and I'm like, we're boring, They're not gonna

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pick us.

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Speaker 2: I was like, but just for the fun of it,

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I'll apply it'll be like our little joke and now

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here we are.

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Speaker 1: Yew. How long how long we all together before? How

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long were you together before you applied for the visa?

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And then how long did the visa take?

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Speaker 2: So we were together for like four or five months

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before we applied for the visa.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, So not that long.

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Speaker 2: No, not that long at all, Not that long at all, okay.

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And then the visa took about twelve thirteen months.

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Speaker 1: Okay. And were you just going back and forth back

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and forth?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: So I so after my girls trip summer twenty twenty three,

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I then went back to Turkey January twenty twenty four,

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and then I went back in October twenty twenty four,

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and then thankfully, the next trip was bringing him to America.

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Speaker 1: And that's when the cameras went with you. Yes, yeah,

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FA's okay. So you're one of the rare couples on

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this show. And if you've been watching it a long time,

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you know that we're immediately rooting for We're immediately like okay,

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And as we say on my show, we're always like,

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I believe in their love. I believe in their love.

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I believe this is gonna be a fairy tale. We

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immediately liked him and thought he was super cute. We

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immediately liked how much he loved you. And it obviously

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is not like a scam, you know, but you've got

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to tell me that you met him. You went on

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a girl's trip and you say, and this is what

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the young people do. I get it. You go on

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Tender or whatever and you're like, I'm gonna find a

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hook up.

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Speaker 2: Yep.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So you find this hookup and he braids your hair.

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Speaker 2: Yes, he braids my hair. He so okay.

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Speaker 3: Backstory, and me and my friend went to Greece. She

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had already had Tender on her phone, and I was

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just kind of like on a hiatus of dating apps.

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I was like, I'm over it, like whatever, and she

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was like, girl, you gotta download Tender. These men on

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here are unreal, like they're gorgeous.

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Speaker 2: So I didn't, and I was like, oh my gosh.

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Speaker 1: She was flying.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and then me and Ross match, and you know,

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a couple of days later, we.

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Speaker 3: Meet up and I don't even know, I can't even

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remember how he started to braid my hair, but he

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just started braiding my hair, and I was just like,

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what are you doing and he was like, I'm braiding

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your hair and I was just like, okay, is this

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normally what you do after hooking up with somebody like

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this your.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and he's like, no, I just.

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Speaker 2: Wanted to braid your hair. Your hair is beautiful, and

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I was like, Okay.

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Speaker 1: On an upcoming episode, we see y'all go to a

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baseball game when your hair is braided. Did he braid

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your hair?

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Speaker 2: No, not that time I braided my hair.

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Speaker 1: Now the magic is gone. You no longer braid my hair.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I was like he he yeah, it's not

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on camera, but he does.

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Speaker 3: He has braided my hair since being in America. It's

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just it was never on camera that.

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Speaker 2: They caught it.

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Speaker 1: I think that's so funny. I know that my husband

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and my son would not know how to braid anything.

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I don't think I.

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Speaker 2: Know you would it.

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Speaker 3: It caught me off guard and I was just kind

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of like, how do you know how to braid? And

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he was like my sister's He was like, I have

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my older sister and my younger sister. He was like, so,

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I you know, his older sister was already out of

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the house when when his younger sister with his younger

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sister was growing up, so he everything his older sister

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taught him.

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Speaker 2: He just did it for his younger sister.

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Speaker 1: That's really sweet.

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Speaker 2: And he braids his mom's hair too. Video. Yeah, he's

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oh god.

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Speaker 1: That's sweet. That's sweet. Okay. I am from Mississippi and

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you're from Alabama. So what is your closest town there

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to where you are in Athens, Alabama? What's your closest

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big city.

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Speaker 2: Huntsville, Huntsville, Alabama.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, one of my bests from colleges from Huntsville. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Really what a small world?

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Speaker 1: Small where they've got the aerospace training thing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah right, NASA, yep, yeah, is it NASA rocket.

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Speaker 1: NASA because she one summer was like a camp counselor

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at like rocket camp for yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yes, the space camp I told is so funny.

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Speaker 3: I told my nieces and nephews about there's a space

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camp and they were like, well, you want to go

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there one summer to Aunt maun MOUs and do space camp.

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appreciated that you were very honest to say, you know,

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in my town where I am, there might be people

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that have a different opinion about immigrants or pro deportations,

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but the people that we've seen so far have been nice.

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the Deep South too, and yes, you are gonna You're

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gonna run into that New York City too. By the way,

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Oh yeah, I appreciate that you were so honest about

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it and so honest about like making jokes about rednecks

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and stuff, because it's better to put it out there,

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to be like, I'm aware of what the stigma is

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and face it. Now. The people we've seen have all

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been nice. Have you guys had any problems.

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Speaker 3: You know, the like I said, the only problem that

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I had had previously was a friend of a friend,

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you know, at a at a at a get together.

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This was and the comment was made like a year

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before Rosh was even here, so ron, you know, like

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I was just like, whoa, Like I didn't, you know,

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like okay, but it wasn't somebody that I hang out

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you know, having an immigrant, being in a relationship with

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Speaker 2: You know, you just you you can't surround yourself with

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people like that.

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, okay, I'm glad to hear you haven't

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really had any major problems.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, not yet though, I mean there might be more.

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Speaker 1: Well, I will say that. You know, people were immediately

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immediately like, well, they shouldn't live there, she should take

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him and move to a bigger city, moved to everywhere.

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What are you gonna you're I mean again, I'm from Mississippi,

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and I'm like, you're in Alabama. You know, even if

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you move to Atlanta, which would be like the biggest,

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one of the biggest, New Orleans, like a big southern city,

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You're still gonna have it.

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Speaker 2: So racism, Yeah, racism is everywhere.

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Speaker 3: It doesn't stay in one spot, like it's not just

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located in one state. I mean there's you know, I

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I don't. I don't want to say this, but it's

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the truth. I think in the South people are more

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comfortable with being blatantly racist. Where if you go up

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north or you know, if you if you go to

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right their comments, Yeah they don't, they're they're yeah, they

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say like snarky comments like they're not as you know,

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bold as I feel like people in the South.

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Speaker 1: I agree, and again, like I said on my show

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like a million times, like this is not every single person.

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that all your friends have been They threw that white

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trash bash, which was hilarious, so funny, and I got

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a man doesn't sit on your tailgate. We when I

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tell you we have taken a poll. We have like

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unlike everybody's southern out there, please reach out, and only

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one out of no lie, like I'd say, thirty forty

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people respond to only one person said Okay, I have

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heard of this, and how Yeah, I was never heard

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of such a thing in my life.

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Speaker 3: I literally when I saw the when I saw the

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footage for the first time, I was like, I've never

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heard of that in my life.

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Speaker 1: But I mean, did Brandon make it up?

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Speaker 2: I you know, one thing about Brandon is maybe in

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Brandon's world, you don't sit on his tailgate.

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Speaker 3: You know, maybe maybe the way he was brought up

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with his southern family, he was told that.

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Speaker 2: You know, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: It was so I was he was like, the Heath

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disrespected me by sitting on my tailgate. I was like

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what like he walked into your living room and took

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a beer and sat in your favorite chair, Like, now,

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how long ago was it that you and Brandon were

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like friends with benefits? Like, like, was it six years ago?

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Was it? Was it right before Rash? Like what I

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can understand? Like he yeah, I can understand Rash is

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uncomfortable with it. But yeah, you guys are all in

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a friend group and seemed to have been good friends

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for years. So how long ago was it?

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Speaker 2: So it was the beginning of twenty twenty one, and.

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Speaker 1: It was two years before you met Rash.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, two years before I met Rash.

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Speaker 3: It lasted for maybe two months if that, and then

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after those two months, we were never physical ever again

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ever again, Like we never like once we stopped having

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that situationship with each other, we were like, Okay, we're

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gonna be in each other's lives. You know, I'm Mikayla's

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best friend, you're her husband's best friend. Let's not you know,

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we're not getting rid of each other, that's for sure.

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Speaker 2: You know that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we're not getting rid of each other. So I

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think it's just a very youin of like a mature thing,

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because you know, I mean definitely, like in college, you know,

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you have all sorts of like big groups of friends

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and somebody may have some drinks at a white trash

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bash and you hook up and you're in your twenties

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and who cares, You're still all in the same friend group. Yeah,

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and especially it sounds like the two of you were

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very much like this happened, is not gonna happen anymore,

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and now we're done and we're still all have to

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be friends.

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Speaker 3: It was just yeah, And I think I think that's

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what you know, the internet being up and roar over that.

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I'm just kind of like, you guys really don't understand,

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like we're like, it's not you're friends.

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Speaker 1: You can still be friends.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, we're we're adults, like we're friends.

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Speaker 3: I mean, now, if if we were in a very

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serious relationship and we were engaged at one point, okay,

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but it was never Yeah, it was never like that.

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Speaker 1: It was never like that. No, okay. And speaking of that,

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I saw a post that you did here in the

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last day or two regarding your car accident, and explain

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to me what that was about. You did a long

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post about people not being Tell me you've gotten negative

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feedback about your car accident. I don't do it.

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Speaker 3: So I'm I'm not going to name any names because

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I don't want to give this person the satisfaction.

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Speaker 1: Okay, but it was.

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Speaker 2: So night there.

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Speaker 3: You know, I'm scrolling through TikTok and you know a

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lot of con you know, people that make stuff about

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reality TV, they're everywhere.

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Speaker 2: I follow a lot of them, and I have very good.

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Speaker 3: Relationships with majority of them. This person was watching, they

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were doing like a.

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Speaker 2: Recap or whatever of the show, and they were like, well,

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I'm not trying to be heartless, but it really seems

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like TLC's dragging out her car accident.

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Speaker 3: Oh, she just ironically went by the crash site. Yeah,

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like I can't like this cast is so boring, blah

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blah blah. And you know I slept on it. Yeah,

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I slept on it.

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Speaker 2: I prayed on it.

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Speaker 3: And then yesterday, ironically, yesterday I had a doctor's appointment

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with my gi doctor, and you know, hearing them just

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reiterate some things that are going to be with me

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for life, I was like, you know what, you know what,

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like you you are heartless, Like that's you're disgusting, Like

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if you if you don't have anything nice to say

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about something like that, then just skip over it, like

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you don't have to commentate, like comment like there is

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more in that episode, comment commentate on something else, like yeah,

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you know, if you're acknowledging it, you don't want to

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seem heartless, and then you continue to be heartless.

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Speaker 2: It's just kind of like grow up, like ew, Yeah, there's.

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Speaker 1: Lots of things that you could comment on the episode,

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but that doesn't make any sense to me because I

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think from what I watched, very clearly you said I

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don't ever drive by there, and he says, take me

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to where it is. I want to like see for

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my eyes what happened. And you stood on the side

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of the road and you explain this car was coming

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this way and you can see how fast. And I

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thought you said very clearly, I never drive by here,

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but we're near it, and he said, well, let's go

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to where it is. It wasn't like you said, I've

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never driven by there in one year, but today's the day. Yeah,

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you know, I thought it was done very well. And

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I don't think thank you. I don't think it's been

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harped on it all. I think it was mentioned at

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one point because you had a settlement and then it

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was mentioned when you showed where it was, and then

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it was mentioned again regarding the prenup, like I have

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this settlement that's in a it's in a brokerage firm

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that I just want to protect, and I don't. I mean,

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by the way, this is not a boring season. This

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season is amazing.

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Speaker 3: I mean I would sound biased if I would say that,

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but I think this season's pretty good.

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Speaker 1: We are loving it. We are we are diagnosing Katie

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every week, so concerned about her drinking problem, so that

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everybody's like, she's got this and that I'm like, nobody's

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gonna say that she drinks too much? Like no one, no,

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any friends, family, anybody, no husband, no, no, nobody's gonna say.

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I will say on a coming up episode there is

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someone that mentions it, and I was like, well, thank god,

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Like somebody is talking about the elephant in the room

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with Katie.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, Well, And I think you know when you're

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she's a couple of years not that I'm so much

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than her, but she has a couple of years younger

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than me, and you know, some of her friends and

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stuff like that, and I think it's just like when

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you live in small towns, it's like, well, what do

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you mean there's this is all we can do is

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go out to the bars and go drinking to have

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a good time.

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Speaker 1: And it's like she will you have more than one

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guy literally palm your face to push you away. You

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have to think about if the roles were reversed and

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a guy was doing that, it would be it would

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be pretty bad. Yeah, yeah, god bless you want we

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want justice for Katie. Yes, what are your thoughts on?

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What are your thoughts on Debbie and Meadow?

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Speaker 2: I love Debbie. I do.

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Speaker 3: I I want the best for her just because she just,

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you don't know, like I just there's just something about

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her that I'm just.

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Speaker 1: Like, she's just you're rooting for Debbie.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And you know, the only thing I can say

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is I hope and pray that he is that Meto

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is here for the right reasons. I mean, I don't

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I can only criticize my own relationship, you know. I

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mean I don't know.

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Speaker 2: How their relationship is behind closed doors when the cameras

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are off.

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Speaker 1: So I mean my thoughts, look how he talks to

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her with their camera on, you.

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Speaker 2: Know, yeah, yeah, yeah, and and yeah.

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Speaker 1: It's it's all. It's all a wait and see and

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we keep saying, Okay, surely on the next episode they'll

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show us this or that, and then they don't and

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we have to wait it out. I Shay and Annabelle.

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How much I mean, on a scale of one to ten,

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how much do you love annabel Oh?

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Speaker 2: My god? Like I love annabel She is exactly what

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he needs.

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Speaker 3: Like she is when I watch their stuff, like I

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was just like, yeah, he needs a woman that is

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not going to put up with his nonsense and she's

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gonna set them straight.

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Speaker 2: I love her like I love them.

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Speaker 1: I love her so much and every time. And you know,

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as a Southerner, when they talk about the lake, I'm like, oh, yeah,

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I know about the lake or you go down to

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the river, the lake or the river. Yes, they're definitely

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having a white trash bash down by that lake and

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in that river.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, oh for sure, That's what I'm saying. I'm like,

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you guys are talking about our white trash bash.

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Speaker 1: What about Yeah? What about that one? They just didn't

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name it, They just didn't name it. Well. I love

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Annabella and I hope she is gonna set. I hope,

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I hope when we get to the reunion. I do

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love when all you guys like meet in person at

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the union and then we've got you're from Alabama and

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as just from Alabama? Yeah, And I was like, now,

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is Alabasa close to Athens? I have no grasp of Alabama.

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Speaker 2: No. No, she's about two hours south of me south.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I uh, I'm fascinated fascinated by her. I'm

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fascinated by we're gonna see coming up. Like his family

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gets real mad that she's thirty eight and they're basically

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like she's the dad literally says she's so close to menopause.

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Speaker 2: Which is crazy. It's like that's a bold statement for

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a man to say.

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Speaker 1: Okay, right, And I was like, no, I don't know,

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God bless. Okay. Now back to Brandon. We have lots

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lots of questions about why did you have to borrow

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his pet camera? Why couldn't you buy your own pet camera?

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Speaker 4: People were concerned, you know, to be completely honest with

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everything that was on my plate preparing for my fiance

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to come to.

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Speaker 2: America, buying a pet camera slipped my mind.

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Speaker 1: Why did you need one?

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Speaker 2: So?

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Speaker 1: How long were you gone and you had all those dogs,

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so with somebody like coming in to watch the dogs.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, my friends were coming in to watch them. But

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so I just I really liked I just I liked

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being able. I was only gone for like a week,

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but still I was able to like log.

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Speaker 2: On and just you know, see them, see them.

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Speaker 3: And because Mickey and Minnie were are you know they're

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at the time that we were filming there, they were

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like three, two or three months old, So I just

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was really worried about, you know, puppies.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. They also you just got them and then you

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had to leave.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, So I was just like, oh, I hope

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you know, Like, yeah, I.

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Speaker 1: Just tell me about the decision making thought process of

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getting two dogs in addition to the two you already

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had right before you're bringing your fiance to move in.

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Speaker 2: There wasn't much of a decision making, There was no

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thought process. So I the backstory on how I got

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two of them, and they're from the same litter and everything.

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I do not recommend having two puppies at the same

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time unless you can mentally handle that. I'm never doing

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that again.

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Speaker 1: Well you do, then you'd have six, So I hope

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not yeah, I would.

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Speaker 2: Never never doing that again. And I had gone to.

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Speaker 3: A horse show because I'm a part of the horse community,

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and there is these people here selling these cute little puppies.

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I was like, oh my god, they're so cute and

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I had face timed rash and I was like, look

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00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:20,680
how cute they are and he was like, get one

472
00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:24,240
and I was like okay, and I was like well,

473
00:23:24,359 --> 00:23:26,119
I was like, but I want a girl because I

474
00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:27,920
already had a boy and a girl.

475
00:23:27,960 --> 00:23:29,079
Speaker 2: And I was like, I want a girl. He's like

476
00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:29,839
I want a boy.

477
00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:32,880
Speaker 3: And then the person that was selling them, they were like, well,

478
00:23:32,920 --> 00:23:35,400
we'll do a buy one, get one free special and.

479
00:23:35,359 --> 00:23:39,640
Speaker 1: I was just like, oh my god. I was like okay,

480
00:23:40,759 --> 00:23:43,119
and they were like, please take these puppies and are

481
00:23:43,559 --> 00:23:44,680
what kind of puppies are they?

482
00:23:45,559 --> 00:23:52,279
Speaker 3: They are Australian Shepherd cattle Australian Shepherd cattle dog mixes.

483
00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:59,279
Speaker 1: Okay, do you have a big backyard kind of Okay,

484
00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:01,160
that's a lot of it's a lot of dogs. So

485
00:24:01,240 --> 00:24:03,960
what are your other two dogs? Because we know Opal.

486
00:24:07,440 --> 00:24:08,559
What kind of dog is Opal?

487
00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:09,920
Speaker 2: She's a corky.

488
00:24:10,559 --> 00:24:11,240
Speaker 1: She's a corky.

489
00:24:11,359 --> 00:24:13,079
Speaker 2: I just she's a funny Welshy.

490
00:24:13,240 --> 00:24:15,400
Speaker 1: I just saw the funniest Corky video the other day

491
00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:18,319
about why Corky's always back up, and it was a

492
00:24:18,359 --> 00:24:20,920
whole thing of like to the song back that ass

493
00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:24,920
up and it was all backing up, like, Okay, so

494
00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:27,759
she's a corky and has the tiny legs that needs

495
00:24:27,799 --> 00:24:30,559
the the ramp from the bed. And then what's the

496
00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:31,119
other dog?

497
00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:37,839
Speaker 2: Twister? So I adopted Twister. I don't remember, like twenty

498
00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:42,319
nineteen was when I got Twister. I adopted him, of course.

499
00:24:42,640 --> 00:24:45,799
Speaker 1: And you just said his name, so yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

500
00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:49,279
Oh my gosh, sorry, that's okay.

501
00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:58,519
Speaker 2: And he is a pit a Pitbull Healer cross.

502
00:24:58,799 --> 00:25:01,720
Speaker 1: Wow, okay, this is this is dog corner. I have

503
00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:03,920
two dogs. I'm always like obsessed with people's dogs. I'm

504
00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:06,240
obsessed with people that have more than two dogs and

505
00:25:06,319 --> 00:25:08,160
how do you do it? And then you got two

506
00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:09,880
dogs right before he moved.

507
00:25:09,960 --> 00:25:12,960
Speaker 2: I was like yes, and they're all herding dogs. That

508
00:25:13,119 --> 00:25:14,079
was not planned.

509
00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:16,359
Speaker 1: So you walk outside and they'll just circle you.

510
00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:18,640
Speaker 3: Oh my god, they're just a hot mess. They're they're

511
00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:22,319
so hyper there. I don't recommend fo herding dogs.

512
00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:25,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, you walk outside, they're trying to herd you and you're.

513
00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:28,640
Speaker 3: Like, oh stop, I'm trying to inside outside they're following

514
00:25:28,680 --> 00:25:30,440
me every Oh my god, I don't.

515
00:25:30,319 --> 00:25:33,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, wow, you'll always have a convenience hip.

516
00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:34,440
Speaker 2: That's true.

517
00:25:35,079 --> 00:25:38,359
Speaker 1: Okay, So on an upcoming episode, we're going to see

518
00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:40,920
you and your friends go to like a local baseball game.

519
00:25:41,039 --> 00:25:42,640
Is this like a Huntsville team?

520
00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:45,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, so they're newer.

521
00:25:45,640 --> 00:25:49,160
Speaker 3: I think I think they were established in like twenty

522
00:25:49,440 --> 00:25:50,359
twenty two.

523
00:25:51,039 --> 00:25:51,839
Speaker 1: Okay, very new.

524
00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:53,599
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, they're very new.

525
00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:58,119
Speaker 3: And they actually had the locals pick their name. So

526
00:25:58,160 --> 00:26:00,319
it was like it was a decision between like the

527
00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:07,039
trash Pandas Rocket City Rockets I think, and then there

528
00:26:07,039 --> 00:26:08,279
was some other one.

529
00:26:08,319 --> 00:26:08,720
Speaker 2: I don't want.

530
00:26:08,799 --> 00:26:10,839
Speaker 1: The City Rocket seems to make the most sense. I mean,

531
00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:16,160
trash Pandas is hilarious, but also like what, I.

532
00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:19,920
Speaker 3: Don't you know, I I don't know, I don't know

533
00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:23,079
how they came up with that. But trash Pandas won obviously,

534
00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:27,680
And so yeah, we went to a trash Panas game

535
00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:31,559
because rash has never been to American an American baseball game.

536
00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:34,440
Speaker 1: Yeah. I loved that. I love that. And on the

537
00:26:34,519 --> 00:26:37,519
upcoming episode, you know, you guys are also you know

538
00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:42,720
Rash and Brandon still not getting along, and it's does it?

539
00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:44,599
Can you just give me a hint? Does it ever

540
00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:48,839
get better? See? Are they going to braid each other's hair?

541
00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:54,680
Speaker 2: Maybe they'll braid each other's beards. I don't know. Maybe

542
00:26:54,839 --> 00:26:56,960
I don't know, you guys, I don't know.

543
00:26:57,960 --> 00:27:00,799
Speaker 1: I see well, I was like, I hope these two

544
00:27:00,839 --> 00:27:01,720
never have a fistfight.

545
00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:07,039
Speaker 2: I know that's like the it doesn't get physical. Let's

546
00:27:07,079 --> 00:27:09,759
just put it that way. Thank god, it doesn't get physical.

547
00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:13,640
This there's yeah, it seems like it.

548
00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:17,240
Speaker 1: It seems a couple of times like it gets close.

549
00:27:17,559 --> 00:27:21,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

550
00:27:19,599 --> 00:27:24,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, Mikayla and Wren. So it is? Is Wren

551
00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:26,799
spelled r y n like Ryan without the A?

552
00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:27,880
Speaker 2: Pretty much?

553
00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:29,079
Speaker 1: Yes, it's Wren?

554
00:27:29,759 --> 00:27:30,039
Speaker 2: Yes?

555
00:27:30,279 --> 00:27:34,000
Speaker 1: Does that come from something like his mother's maiden name

556
00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:34,519
or something?

557
00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:37,559
Speaker 2: I you know, that's a good question.

558
00:27:37,599 --> 00:27:40,599
Speaker 1: I don't know, because you know how we do? You

559
00:27:40,599 --> 00:27:42,720
know how he does? Yeah, we got the mother's maiden name,

560
00:27:42,759 --> 00:27:44,799
and like you know, I got Mary Payne, the whole thing.

561
00:27:45,319 --> 00:27:49,720
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I'm trying to think. I don't know.

562
00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:52,960
Speaker 1: And also I wonder if it's like part of a

563
00:27:53,039 --> 00:27:54,960
name and they took out the Wren because he's like

564
00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:59,119
a third and so they said, okay, co cor Wren

565
00:27:59,599 --> 00:28:01,759
want to and three? So for the third we're gonna

566
00:28:01,799 --> 00:28:04,039
call him Wren instead of core Wyn. You know what

567
00:28:04,079 --> 00:28:06,599
I mean or something. The Southerners they do are real

568
00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:07,400
crazy with the name.

569
00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:11,319
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I know. I'm pretty positive. Sorry my air podcast.

570
00:28:11,559 --> 00:28:13,079
I'm pretty positive.

571
00:28:14,319 --> 00:28:17,680
Speaker 3: His it's his middle name, Okay, but he goes by

572
00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:19,559
his middle name, I think.

573
00:28:19,599 --> 00:28:22,079
Speaker 1: So there was a person on I don't know if

574
00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:25,039
you watch any Bravo Real Housewives. On Real house Hovese

575
00:28:25,079 --> 00:28:30,000
of Oc, doctor Jennifer's husband's name was Ryan, but then

576
00:28:30,039 --> 00:28:35,720
he renamed himself Wren r y n E. So he

577
00:28:35,839 --> 00:28:39,000
was Ryan but then he got his name changed to

578
00:28:39,119 --> 00:28:41,559
r y n E. So I was like, this is

579
00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:45,519
very similar. Like it's like, yeah, Ryan Wrenn, what's your name? Yeah?

580
00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:48,359
Speaker 2: No, yeah, as no, he as a grown man. He

581
00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:49,480
did not go and change his.

582
00:28:52,839 --> 00:28:56,160
Speaker 1: Okay. Now on this last episode, you're you talk to

583
00:28:56,480 --> 00:29:02,960
Roush about the prenup. M Okay. My take on it is,

584
00:29:04,279 --> 00:29:05,920
why not if you think you're gonna be married for

585
00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:08,240
one hundred years, Like, why not go ahead and do it?

586
00:29:08,480 --> 00:29:10,880
You have this big asset, this one particular thing you're

587
00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:13,079
trying to protect. And if you guys are married for

588
00:29:13,119 --> 00:29:15,759
fifteen years and get divorced at that point the house,

589
00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:18,680
the house is half his anyway, so you know if

590
00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:21,039
he's been paying into it so or you guys may

591
00:29:21,039 --> 00:29:23,960
have moved and bought a new house. But I think

592
00:29:24,039 --> 00:29:28,039
that culturally we see so many of these same stories

593
00:29:28,119 --> 00:29:32,000
play over and over. Number One is the bidet always important.

594
00:29:32,480 --> 00:29:36,559
Miday is a mainte side of America. It is I mean,

595
00:29:36,559 --> 00:29:39,079
it's and they need it, they want it, they have

596
00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:41,839
to have it. And then we see prenup a lot.

597
00:29:42,039 --> 00:29:46,720
Is another storyline that they cannot get their brains behind

598
00:29:46,839 --> 00:29:50,039
the whole prenup. And then of course we see the

599
00:29:50,200 --> 00:29:52,440
muslimen are like, well, now I'm the head of the household,

600
00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:55,079
and you do what I say. But now he's run

601
00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:59,279
up against a strong Southern woman who's like, no, so,

602
00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:04,119
no so. A couple of things about the Muslim man.

603
00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:06,119
Number one, it seems to me that rash didn't care

604
00:30:06,160 --> 00:30:10,480
about the thing about about no sex before marriage, Like

605
00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:14,000
he was okay with that. Yes, he was okay with that,

606
00:30:14,119 --> 00:30:17,079
but he's not okay with you know, you got to

607
00:30:17,119 --> 00:30:19,039
be the head of the house and all that. So

608
00:30:19,079 --> 00:30:20,200
it's like pick and shoes.

609
00:30:21,240 --> 00:30:24,599
Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah, and I think, you know different, I.

610
00:30:26,240 --> 00:30:28,680
Speaker 3: Think I don't want to say, like kind of like

611
00:30:28,720 --> 00:30:31,680
in America or like different denomination.

612
00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:33,240
Speaker 1: Right right, right. And also, no, pork is a big

613
00:30:33,279 --> 00:30:35,519
thing for him. He's like no York. Yeah, yeah he does.

614
00:30:35,880 --> 00:30:39,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I mean and Turkey is a very secular country.

615
00:30:40,079 --> 00:30:43,119
A lot of people don't know that there is multiple

616
00:30:43,119 --> 00:30:46,440
religions in Turkey there. You know, Islam is the predominant,

617
00:30:47,039 --> 00:30:51,680
you know, religion, but there's Catholics, there's Christians, there's you know,

618
00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:55,279
there's churches right beside the mosques and stuff like that.

619
00:30:56,519 --> 00:30:59,920
But I think they're just not as like how Nito

620
00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:04,000
coming from Egypt or you know how Jordanians.

621
00:31:04,839 --> 00:31:08,279
Speaker 2: It's Turkey is just a very it's a very Yeah,

622
00:31:08,319 --> 00:31:09,599
it's a very secular country.

623
00:31:09,640 --> 00:31:12,519
Speaker 1: It's a little more their religion is a little more

624
00:31:12,680 --> 00:31:14,960
loosey goosey and not so like it has to be

625
00:31:15,079 --> 00:31:16,759
all these things have to be followed exactly.

626
00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:21,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I and and I think they not that

627
00:31:21,079 --> 00:31:24,559
they they just lean more Western into the into the

628
00:31:24,559 --> 00:31:27,480
Western culture, and.

629
00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:30,319
Speaker 1: That's just that's good for you because then you've got

630
00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:37,480
on Tender. I know, do his uh, does his family

631
00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:39,319
have any problem with you saying like y'all met on

632
00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:42,000
Tender and that there was you were sleeping together in

633
00:31:42,039 --> 00:31:43,480
the same bed and all that, Like do they have

634
00:31:43,519 --> 00:31:44,119
a problem with that?

635
00:31:44,799 --> 00:31:47,799
Speaker 2: No, believe it or not. I mean, I think you

636
00:31:47,839 --> 00:31:48,960
would think that they would.

637
00:31:50,440 --> 00:31:52,559
Speaker 3: But I think a lot of it is is, you know,

638
00:31:54,319 --> 00:31:56,720
they understand he's a grown man and he's gonna make

639
00:31:56,759 --> 00:31:58,200
his own decisions.

640
00:31:57,799 --> 00:31:58,680
Speaker 2: At the end of the day.

641
00:31:58,920 --> 00:32:01,240
Speaker 3: Yes, So I I think that's where a lot of

642
00:32:01,279 --> 00:32:04,640
it came from, is they were like, we can't control

643
00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:07,000
him well, and I yeah, I think that's where a

644
00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:08,440
lot of it And they knew, like they knew their

645
00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:11,599
son was you know active.

646
00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:14,519
Speaker 1: Well you know, like you think of like Sarper. He's

647
00:32:14,519 --> 00:32:16,640
from Turkey and he banged twenty five hundred women, So

648
00:32:16,720 --> 00:32:18,839
I mean, you know, yeah.

649
00:32:18,519 --> 00:32:20,640
Speaker 2: Rash isn't that. Yeah, Rash isn't like that.

650
00:32:20,759 --> 00:32:23,799
Speaker 1: But Okay, that's good. That's good to hear. And did

651
00:32:23,799 --> 00:32:27,160
you guys ever talk about you moving there? Because where

652
00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:29,920
he's from that region, we've seen it with he lived there,

653
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:32,079
but we've seen it on other ninety Day shows, marmars

654
00:32:32,119 --> 00:32:35,200
where it's like, wow, this is a gorgeous town. So

655
00:32:35,279 --> 00:32:37,039
did you ever consider that moving there?

656
00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:41,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I think with when we were going

657
00:32:41,799 --> 00:32:45,640
through that immigration process, that was definitely a backup plan.

658
00:32:45,799 --> 00:32:49,319
We obviously didn't really like talk talk about it because

659
00:32:49,319 --> 00:32:51,680
we didn't want that to be the last resort, but

660
00:32:51,960 --> 00:32:55,640
we did acknowledge, especially with the state of how you know,

661
00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:58,759
immigration was going and what was going on with immigration,

662
00:32:59,880 --> 00:33:04,000
you know, Turkey was definitely an option. It It would

663
00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:06,279
have been a struggle, It would have been a struggle

664
00:33:06,319 --> 00:33:09,000
for sure, but yeah, we did talk about it.

665
00:33:09,240 --> 00:33:12,039
Speaker 1: Yeah, do a lot of people in his town, a

666
00:33:12,079 --> 00:33:13,359
lot of people speak English or no.

667
00:33:16,039 --> 00:33:19,440
Speaker 3: I would say, I would say it's like if you

668
00:33:19,519 --> 00:33:23,559
go to the like the restaurants and the retail stores,

669
00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:28,640
they do because Marmorous like predominantly is like a very

670
00:33:28,680 --> 00:33:33,480
hot spot for British people. Like it's it's like very

671
00:33:33,640 --> 00:33:36,599
televised in England, like come to Marmorous, you know, for

672
00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:39,960
your summer and and you know the Turkish people what

673
00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:43,079
they do is they'll they'll put their pricing in pounds

674
00:33:43,119 --> 00:33:46,039
instead of lira because the conversion rates higher, and.

675
00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:46,440
Speaker 1: They get.

676
00:33:48,119 --> 00:33:54,200
Speaker 5: Okay, well, yeah, I mean it's I would say, it's

677
00:33:54,200 --> 00:33:56,799
not like if you go to istanbul And and English

678
00:33:56,839 --> 00:33:59,720
has spoken very well there, but they're like his family,

679
00:34:00,640 --> 00:34:02,680
Rossi's family, they don't speak any English.

680
00:34:02,759 --> 00:34:03,759
Speaker 2: It's barely anything.

681
00:34:04,400 --> 00:34:07,680
Speaker 1: So yeah, I was sad when he said, you know,

682
00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:09,599
you know, I'm gonna need like one hundred and hundred

683
00:34:09,639 --> 00:34:12,000
and fifty dollars when you guys were talking about the

684
00:34:12,079 --> 00:34:15,599
expenses and you know, to us, that's not a lot

685
00:34:15,639 --> 00:34:17,840
of money. But of course I liked how you're like, Okay,

686
00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:20,000
here's everything we're spending. I have to assume at the

687
00:34:20,039 --> 00:34:21,719
top of that piece of paper was here's how much

688
00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:25,320
I bring in, and then here's how much piece of tract. Yeah,

689
00:34:25,320 --> 00:34:27,719
for him to really get it and then yeah, I

690
00:34:27,719 --> 00:34:30,800
need a little money for my family. And you're like

691
00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:32,800
and he's like, well, you know they live in a tent, baby,

692
00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:34,440
And I was like, oh my gosh, I kind of

693
00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:37,280
forgot about that part, like did their house burn down?

694
00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:37,800
What happened?

695
00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:41,880
Speaker 2: It was an earthquake. So so the earthquake, it was

696
00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:43,599
twenty It was.

697
00:34:43,599 --> 00:34:46,480
Speaker 3: Like not winter, but I think it was like January

698
00:34:46,519 --> 00:34:48,760
February twenty twenty three, it was.

699
00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:51,280
Speaker 2: It hit there.

700
00:34:51,320 --> 00:34:56,000
Speaker 3: So he's originally from cut a madmanage Turkey, and so

701
00:34:56,119 --> 00:34:57,559
there was a big earthquake.

702
00:34:57,559 --> 00:34:59,480
Speaker 2: It was like a seven point four.

703
00:34:59,360 --> 00:35:01,400
Speaker 1: I remember that big earthway, Yes, and.

704
00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:04,119
Speaker 3: It hits Syria too, So it was Turkey and Syria

705
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and that's what happened.

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Speaker 2: They yeah, they yeah, they lost everything.

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Speaker 1: And are they doing better now? Are they able to

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rebuild or.

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Speaker 3: They're doing they're getting by. The Turkish government was supposed

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to be building houses for the people that have been displaced,

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and the houses have taken still now. And you know,

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so so during the winners, his mom will go to

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Marmarous that way it's cooler, and.

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Speaker 2: His dad will stay back and work. You know. But

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but they're you.

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Speaker 3: Know people online, you know, their first their their first

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initial response is like, well, why did she just go

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to Turkey?

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Speaker 2: Like, oh, I would get out of the United States.

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Speaker 3: And I'm just like, you have like the privilege you

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have to think that these people do not suffer over there.

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Speaker 1: Like right, just because it's a beautiful town doesn't mean yeah,

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I'm like, I'm.

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Speaker 2: Like, the monthly South for one person is like four

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to nine hundred American dollars.

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Speaker 1: That's you can't that's rough, That's right, that's right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's rough.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's oh my god. Well, I I have loved

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your story and I've you know, I any kind there's

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a Southerner, I get very excited. I love to do

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a Southern accent, you know, like it just brings me

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back to home. Yeah. And we think Rash's so cute.

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We think you're so cute. I think you guys are

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very good and you're like talking heads together. I love

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this week he said, shut the motherfucker up. I was like,

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that's so funny. Can I can I adopt that in

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my everdition? Shut the mother Yes you can?

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Speaker 2: Yes, Yes.

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Speaker 1: I love how excited he is about a sex shop. Yeah,

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he's like, never see this where you see like other

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people like Stevie and Maddie. And he's like he also

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was sort of like from Iron, you know, He's like, whoah,

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look at that. Have you been in touch with her?

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She would be a great friend to you.

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Speaker 2: I think I had it.

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Speaker 3: I followed her on social media. I do need to

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reach out with her. Reach out to her because we

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last summer when we were watching the series, Rash.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like, I was like, oh, she's not I think

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she's like four or five hours from me.

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Speaker 1: She's in Pettisburg.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, she's not hard.

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Speaker 1: I would love for y' all to be friends. That

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would be like my dream team Southern friends. I would

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love that.

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Speaker 2: I would love that too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. And then you have you know, husbands with you know,

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same ideas and stuff. You both have cute husbands in

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the South. Why not?

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Speaker 2: I know?

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Speaker 1: Well, tell everybody where they can follow you if you

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want them to. On social media, we don't say anything

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mean about her accident. Whoever you are that said that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's okay, they're irrelevant. Yeah, I'm on Instagram and

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TikTok and I think it's just Mallory ninety day. Okay,

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I've made it easy. Okay, there's no like underscore or

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you know what, let me check hold.

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Speaker 1: Okay, but I think if they just type in Mallory

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with the I E, yeah, and then you could find it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's okay, Mallory underschool on Instagram, it's Mallory Underscore

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ninety day.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 2: Then it's either that the same for TikTok or just

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Mallory ninety day. But it should pop up.

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Speaker 1: It should should pop up. And we'll do some reels

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and stuff from this episode, and I'll tag you, and

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and now I've got a new Southern friend and I

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love it. Okay, so don't hang up. And everybody make

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sure you're following me on Instagram too, can check up