Speaker 1: Crystal Sparks. Thank you so much for coming on with
Speaker 1: me tonight.
Speaker 2: Thank you for having me at Crystal Sparks.
Speaker 1: Is where you can find her, you know where that is.
Speaker 1: Let me start out with the most basic boring. Everyone
Speaker 1: needs to know this, and everyone already does, but we
Speaker 1: always start the same way. How did you initially decide
Speaker 1: to get into the adult entertainment industry in whatever form
Speaker 1: that was, If it was stripping camming, When was the
Speaker 1: first time you were like, fuck this day job, shit,
Speaker 1: I need to do something different.
Speaker 2: Oh, great question. I feel like a lot of people
Speaker 2: have the same story as me. I was born and
Speaker 2: raised in a very strict religion. Just household sex was
Speaker 2: off the table as far as conversation went. It actually
Speaker 2: every time I remember something new. But I remember during
Speaker 2: like sex ed class. I went to Catholic school, and
Speaker 2: the teacher was like, ladies, when you get home, you know,
Speaker 2: because there's all girls in a class and all boys
Speaker 2: in another class, and the boys get the condoms to
Speaker 2: blow up and play with and the girls get nothing.
Speaker 2: We didn't get condoms, but anyways, our teacher told us like,
Speaker 2: go home and get a hand mirror and hold it
Speaker 2: to your vagina and and look at get familiar with
Speaker 2: that body part, like it's a part of you. And
Speaker 2: I go home and I asked my mom for a
Speaker 2: hand mirror. Mind you, the only hand mirror she had
Speaker 2: was like a silver like one that you saw on
Speaker 2: the Titanic, like it was from the late eighteen hundred's,
Speaker 2: the fancy kind. It was actually my grandmother's and she.
Speaker 1: A straight out of Beauty and the Beast right and
Speaker 1: everything talking okay, yeah.
Speaker 2: She goes to hand it to me, and she's like, well,
Speaker 2: what do you want it for? Because she was also
Speaker 2: very much against vanity, Like she had my hair cut short,
Speaker 2: rather short, because she didn't want me spending too much
Speaker 2: time in the mirror, you know, fixing my hair whatever.
Speaker 2: And so she goes to handity and she's like, what
Speaker 2: do you need it for? And I said, well, miss
Speaker 2: so and so at school told me to take it
Speaker 2: and look at my vagina. And she goes what she
Speaker 2: called the school a yelling, ranting, and raving. But anyways,
Speaker 2: was that was the household I grew up and the
Speaker 2: so when I was about twenty seven, I want to say,
Speaker 2: one of my girlfriends in her house and I had
Speaker 2: no idea what it was at the time. Now I do.
Speaker 2: But in her house she was setting up each room
Speaker 2: with a different theme and she was basically starting a
Speaker 2: camming like sight. And we were kind of talking and
Speaker 2: I said, oh, I would love to do different things
Speaker 2: to explore my sexuality. You know, here I am almost
Speaker 2: thirty years old and I've never even had sex with
Speaker 2: the lights on. Like I'm like, I was very that's bad.
Speaker 2: You know, you're going to go to hell. And she's like, well,
Speaker 2: why don't you try doing this scamming thing with me?
Speaker 2: I was like, sure, okay, I liked it. It was fun.
Speaker 2: It was more interesting than anything, just because it was
Speaker 2: interesting hearing different people's requests, what different people liked, like
Speaker 2: that was a whole new world to me. And so
Speaker 2: that's kind of when I started and then paused for
Speaker 2: three to maw. It was probably about three years until
Speaker 2: COVID hit and my boyfriend at the time he said, oh,
Speaker 2: what do you think about doing this OnlyFans thing because
Speaker 2: we were kind of getting into the lifestyle swingers, and
Speaker 2: I was like, well, what the what the hell? We
Speaker 2: have nothing else to do. We were on lockdown, and
Speaker 2: so it kind of went from there. I did OnlyFans
Speaker 2: and all the other stuff for a couple of years,
Speaker 2: and then we were at Play It again Sam's. I
Speaker 2: started my Cornstar collection, so my only fans was just
Speaker 2: having sex with Adan Hall of famers. And so we
Speaker 2: were hanging out with Nick Manning at Play It against
Speaker 2: Sam's in Las Vegas, this hole in the wall strip
Speaker 2: club like dark ceedy twenty dollars lap dances for one song,
Speaker 2: you know, and he said, oh, you want to you
Speaker 2: want to be a dancer, You want to give it
Speaker 2: a try. And I'm like, where did this conversation come from?
Speaker 2: And I was like, no, I just when I'm drinking,
Speaker 2: I kind of want to get on stage just to
Speaker 2: have fun. And he's like, no, you should give it
Speaker 2: a try. You'd be great. So next thing I know,
Speaker 2: I'm working at Play It against Sam's and dancing at
Speaker 2: this hole in the wall strip club in Chinatown in
Speaker 2: Las Vegas. It was fun, but you know, that's where
Speaker 2: it all started. It went from there. A couple of
Speaker 2: years later, I was introduced to my agent. She asked
Speaker 2: if I wanted to go pro. I wasn't sure, but
Speaker 2: I took the plunge and there we are today.
Speaker 1: You're like a talking head song. It's like, how did
Speaker 1: I get here? You went from Catholics? Who I also,
Speaker 1: I did twelve years of Catholic school preschool to eighth grade,
Speaker 1: and then we moved to public school for that and
Speaker 1: it was just a total culture shock. But it's so funny.
Speaker 1: So many people have whatever that adult defiance thing that
Speaker 1: comes in where it's like all of my life you've
Speaker 1: told me I can't do this, and I've spoken to
Speaker 1: so many women that it's the same way. It's like
Speaker 1: I was so repressed as a child, and blah blah blah.
Speaker 1: It's like people don't just get they're going to break
Speaker 1: out at some point now and I can't good thing
Speaker 1: they didn't just grind into your head, like don't go
Speaker 1: kill people. You might be a mass murderer right now.
Speaker 1: Like Jesus, stop telling kids they explicitly cannot do things. Well,
Speaker 1: I mean you and I will say kids can't watch
Speaker 1: anything that you would be right, of course, not until
Speaker 1: they're eighteen and probably twenty one in other states. I
Speaker 1: don't know, but yeah, who knows anymore. But yeah, it's
Speaker 1: so funny. It always starts out that way, not always,
Speaker 1: but once it really starts out that way times.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 1: The weird shift I heard though, wasn't so much going
Speaker 1: into dancing in this and that and not a weird
Speaker 1: shift at all, just a total one eighty. It seemed like,
Speaker 1: how did you were you talked or did you talk
Speaker 1: the boyfriend into getting into the lifestyle, Like how do
Speaker 1: you move from again Catholics? Well, oh my god, I
Speaker 1: never had the sex, lookit the lights on until I
Speaker 1: was twenty seven, and then we're just swinging baby. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm convinced too. Won that one?
Speaker 2: Another great question. So he had already been in the
Speaker 2: lifestyle since his early twenties. He's fourteen years older than me.
Speaker 2: So now, oh gosh, I keep saying I'm almost twenty eight,
Speaker 2: but I'm almost thirty eight. I'm my subconscious is resisting.
Speaker 1: You look, you look almost twenty eight.
Speaker 2: You look yeah one, thank you. But and he is
Speaker 2: about to turn fifty two this year, I believe. So
Speaker 2: he he had been married before and they were in
Speaker 2: the lifestyle for about seventeen years, so he was familiar
Speaker 2: and he really dug into my fantasies, like, you know, guys,
Speaker 2: all guys do it with the girl they're dating. Do
Speaker 2: you have any fantasies you know that have never been fulfilled?
Speaker 2: Blah blah blah. And when he asked me that question,
Speaker 2: I was like, you will never know about my fantasies.
Speaker 2: And he's like, well, what does that mean. I'm like, no,
Speaker 2: they're too bad, Like they're bad, like and here I'm
Speaker 2: just thinking about like a girl getting fucked by by
Speaker 2: two different guys at the same time.
Speaker 1: My god, yeah, heretic.
Speaker 2: And now that's my favorite, Like that's like vanilla for me.
Speaker 2: But yeah, and so he really pulled all that out
Speaker 2: of me. And then he's like, well, you know, there's
Speaker 2: this club in town that I've been going to for
Speaker 2: twenty years. He's like, why don't you, you know, come
Speaker 2: hang out with us, blah blah blah, see how you feel.
Speaker 2: I was scared to death. I was like shaking inside
Speaker 2: and walking through the door, I just thought, I just
Speaker 2: knew I was going to walk in and it would
Speaker 2: be like this massive Greek orgy, everyone just having sex
Speaker 2: with everyone, and I'd get pulled in and have to,
Speaker 2: you know, do something I wasn't comfortable with. If nothing
Speaker 2: like that, it was just like walking into a bar
Speaker 2: and there are private rooms you know. And sure there's
Speaker 2: the orgy room, which now I frequent.
Speaker 1: There's a plaque with your name on it up there. Now,
Speaker 1: okay it is.
Speaker 2: There are posters with my face all over the but
Speaker 2: they call me the residential porn star there now. But yeah,
Speaker 2: it is kind of a story of me coming in
Speaker 2: as scared to deats, like a little baby lamb going
Speaker 2: to the slaughter to Now I'm like, who's first.
Speaker 1: I'm also I'm one of my This year I turned
Speaker 1: thirty eight. But I've been with my wife since we
Speaker 1: were nineteen, right, And it's only over the last few
Speaker 1: years when I start developing the show and blah blah
Speaker 1: blah that I'm I coded my wife and I'm like, hey,
Speaker 1: tell me, you know what you want, what you're interested,
Speaker 1: you know. I and I've been trying that for the
Speaker 1: longest time. But now I'm really comfortable because I'm talking
Speaker 1: to all these people in the industry and I've always
Speaker 1: been comfortable with it. I kind of just don't give
Speaker 1: a shit. But my wife same way. It's very She's like,
Speaker 1: I don't want to tell you to. I mean, like,
Speaker 1: you know, maybe if I was like like tied up
Speaker 1: or someone has ripping a motorcycle outside. I don't know
Speaker 1: if you could hear that. Okay, good, that was the
Speaker 1: loudest vehicle I've ever heard in my life. So something
Speaker 1: so basic and simple, just like, oh, you know, I
Speaker 1: wouldn't mind being tied up. I'm like tied up. Do
Speaker 1: you know some of the girls I talk to and
Speaker 1: what they do? Please tell me anything. You're not gonna
Speaker 1: scare me away with any of it. I think, yeah,
Speaker 1: most of the time. I think when guys I've heard
Speaker 1: other people in the lifestyle that I've done interviews with
Speaker 1: who say things like, yeah, the guy will be like,
Speaker 1: tell me what you're interested in. And then if a
Speaker 1: girl were to say like I'd love to be with
Speaker 1: two guys, well, if I'm in a committed relationship, I
Speaker 1: wasn't looking to go that far. A lot of guys
Speaker 1: would lose it over that. They're probably more just looking
Speaker 1: for like, oh, I'd like another girl in the bedroom
Speaker 1: with Oh yeah, that to me from the outside seems
Speaker 1: extremely selfish of a guy. Are there guys like that
Speaker 1: in the lifestyle and are they kind of looked at
Speaker 1: as kind of like, oh, he's like one of those bakers,
Speaker 1: like half ass type.
Speaker 2: Things, Yeah, for sure, especially like there's the single guys
Speaker 2: in the lifestyle. They get a bad rap because of guys.
Speaker 2: How do I okay, let me preface this by saying,
Speaker 2: in the lifestyle, the women comes first. The woman comes first.
Speaker 2: I can't talk now. They are the ones you want
Speaker 2: to make sure you appro if you're if you know
Speaker 2: your etiquette, you want to approach them first. You want
Speaker 2: to introduce yourself and then you know, man or woman.
Speaker 2: I would say I do the same thing. I'm not
Speaker 2: going to just go up to some woman's husband and
Speaker 2: be like, hey, you know, and then you know, then
Speaker 2: the woman is like, well hello, there there is a team,
Speaker 2: and so we always want to pay respects to woman.
Speaker 2: And the more you have in common with them, the
Speaker 2: more comfortable you are with them, the more likely it
Speaker 2: is something is going to happen, because you know, if
Speaker 2: the woman says no, it's just like tipping at a restaurant.
Speaker 2: If the woman says, oh no, they're horrible, they're not
Speaker 2: getting a tip. The husband's probably not going to do it,
Speaker 2: or he's going to sneak behind her back to do.
Speaker 1: It right right, not directly do it against her. Yet
Speaker 1: that makes right.
Speaker 2: I mean nobody wants to be that rude, but we
Speaker 2: have our moments. But when it comes to single men,
Speaker 2: they get a bad rap because a lot of them
Speaker 2: don't know or understand that. So they'll either sit there
Speaker 2: and just like stare, or they'll go up when the
Speaker 2: husband walks away, and then that right there rubs couples
Speaker 2: the wrong way because.
Speaker 1: You looks vulturary.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, exactly, and then no, or you look disrespectful
Speaker 2: to the man and the couple. You know. But when
Speaker 2: it comes to men bringing in, which the more I talk,
Speaker 2: maybe you meant more on this line men bringing their
Speaker 2: wives or trying to introduce them to the lifestyle. And
Speaker 2: by saying is that more what you meant?
Speaker 1: Well, I'm just picturing. Like I've known dudes in my
Speaker 1: life who have been like, oh, I would look into
Speaker 1: being a swinger, but like, I don't want my chick
Speaker 1: with another guy. It's like, well, then you don't want
Speaker 1: to be a swinger. It sounds like it sounds like
Speaker 1: you would get blown by two girls, right.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So sorry I misunderstood that.
Speaker 1: No, totally conversation. No, but that's actually a great one
Speaker 1: because I've never really considered that, Like, say, I am
Speaker 1: a single guy walking into a swinger or party whatever
Speaker 1: it is. If that's even allowed a single guy at
Speaker 1: a party, I don't know. How do I mean? Do
Speaker 1: I try?
Speaker 2: Do?
Speaker 1: I like, look at the guy with the wife that
Speaker 1: I find attractive, and I started asking him if he
Speaker 1: likes baseball, Like I don't, like, do I have to
Speaker 1: be friends with? I understand. It's like the concept of
Speaker 1: you know, couples. You want to get the couples together
Speaker 1: and see if they're compatible the other way and then
Speaker 1: you know, back and forth. But a single guy. When
Speaker 1: you threw that out there, I was like, Yo, that happens.
Speaker 1: I can't imagine a single guy because I'd be looking
Speaker 1: at him like.
Speaker 2: A lot of people do. Yeah, but single men are
Speaker 2: my favorite in the lifestyle. But a lot of women they,
Speaker 2: you know, because of that bad rap. They There are
Speaker 2: clubs in Vegas that do not allow single men at all,
Speaker 2: like it's couples only. Some clubs will have specific nights
Speaker 2: just for single men, or usually they're like gangbang nights,
Speaker 2: you know, when the ladies know, oh, all these single
Speaker 2: men are going to be there, that's what you're going
Speaker 2: there for. But no, I would say that the most
Speaker 2: successful single men in the lifestyle just treat it like
Speaker 2: it's a regular bar and not like they're chasing after something.
Speaker 2: So if my husband and I are sitting down at
Speaker 2: a table outside drinking with friends or just by ourselves,
Speaker 2: and then some guy comes over, maybe we make eye
Speaker 2: contact and he's been staring at me for however long,
Speaker 2: and I haven't noticed because I'm oblivious, and then just
Speaker 2: comes over and it's like, oh, hey, my name is
Speaker 2: blah blah blah. Instroduce them sits down. How do you
Speaker 2: guys come here often? You know that conversation that you
Speaker 2: normally have at a bar which you're trying to pick
Speaker 2: up a woman, I guess, but you incorporate the man
Speaker 2: in there too, and try not to act uncomfortable as
Speaker 2: much as possible because it shows that confidence level. You know,
Speaker 2: women love confidence. And if you're just like, oh, hey,
Speaker 2: what's up, blah blah blah, I saw you from over there.
Speaker 2: You're beautiful, Like how long have you been coming here? Oh?
Speaker 2: This is my first time, and just have a conversation
Speaker 2: and then it either will lead somewhere or it won't.
Speaker 2: And if you ask directly and you're like, are you
Speaker 2: guys playing tonight, you know what, are you just hanging
Speaker 2: out drinking whatever? If that woman is interested in you, yes,
Speaker 2: we're playing tonight, or if we weren't, yep, now we are,
Speaker 2: like you know, and so yeah, the woman usually makes
Speaker 2: the call, So just do whatever you can not to
Speaker 2: creeper out.
Speaker 1: This is gonna be a rude question, not to you,
Speaker 1: but a obviously I'm not I'm not asking to call
Speaker 1: anyone out. I don't even know if you could. But
Speaker 1: have you ever had to Have you ever had where
Speaker 1: your guy is looking at a girl and really liking
Speaker 1: a girl and then you see the guy and you
Speaker 1: know you may have to take the l tonight. And
Speaker 1: have you ever pushed it back the other way where
Speaker 1: you see a guy and you look at your man
Speaker 1: you're like, look, I know she only has one arm,
Speaker 1: but you're gonna have to do this for me?
Speaker 2: Okay, I hear that happens quite often. Some couples have
Speaker 2: the role though, where no one takes one for the team,
Speaker 2: like it's equal fun for all. For my husband and
Speaker 2: I specifically, we are in the dynamic of stag vixen
Speaker 2: or hot wife. My husband likes to see me receive
Speaker 2: pleasure and have fun and then I prefer him to
Speaker 2: join in. He doesn't really just like to sit there
Speaker 2: and watch. I always say, my favorite position is the
Speaker 2: spit roast, so that's like my favorite I don't. People
Speaker 2: tell me it's not really a position, but if it's not,
Speaker 2: it is not.
Speaker 1: I mean I can picture it. You look like it
Speaker 1: is chicken spinning there on the rotisserie. I get it.
Speaker 1: One hundred Yes, that's not real. It is. I'm seeing it,
Speaker 1: so it is.
Speaker 2: I've done it many times. But yeah, so that's our dynamic.
Speaker 2: We have messed around with other couples before, but we've
Speaker 2: thought that both people were equally attractive. She was beautiful,
Speaker 2: he was handsome. One couple that was one of our
Speaker 2: favorites was from Scotland, so the accent was just okay,
Speaker 2: you know. And it was on a Wednesday night at
Speaker 2: eight pm at a club in Vegas. We were not
Speaker 2: expecting to do anything. It was dead and they just
Speaker 2: walked in and we both looked at each other and
Speaker 2: were like, we that was That was one of our
Speaker 2: first I think couples, but mostly we do the single
Speaker 2: or did the single mail thing. Now that I'm professional
Speaker 2: in the industry, oh oh, Sadly, a lot of the
Speaker 2: lifestyle stuff has kind of taken a seat because you
Speaker 2: have to be tested in order. So if I need
Speaker 2: a guy in the club, nowadays, it looks instead of
Speaker 2: me like, yeah, let's go to the lorgry room, most
Speaker 2: like you're going, it looks more like, well, do you
Speaker 2: live here? Are you visiting from out of town? Do
Speaker 2: you have time to go get tested? Can I make
Speaker 2: an appointment with you? Do you want to be on camera?
Speaker 2: Have you ever been in a born romo?
Speaker 1: Can I have some of your blood? Please? It's just
Speaker 1: going to a lab. Don't sweat it.
Speaker 2: But a lot of times I have there's no issue
Speaker 2: still like the guys just like yeah, I'll do it,
Speaker 2: and when when can I be there? You know? So
Speaker 2: it's just not as spontaneous anymore. But yeah, there. I
Speaker 2: hear of couples all the time where they have to
Speaker 2: take one for the team, and I just think that's
Speaker 2: I don't know. I have I've asked my husband before, like, oh,
Speaker 2: she's attractive, like because I'm thinking the husband's attractive, and
Speaker 2: he's like, she looks like my fucking grandma. I like
Speaker 2: older men, so you know, and he's a man. So natural. Well,
Speaker 2: I guess some men like older women, but.
Speaker 1: When they're younger, men like what they don't have generally.
Speaker 1: Right now, I'm a young guy, I like an old chick.
Speaker 1: When I'm an old guy, I like a young chick.
Speaker 1: Like that's you know, that's.
Speaker 2: That makes sense.
Speaker 1: Men of the problem in the world is kind of
Speaker 1: how I look at it. This should all make sense.
Speaker 1: It doesn't because of men.
Speaker 2: I think women are probably the same way.
Speaker 1: So yeah, we sure. So you've taken these jumps. Now
Speaker 1: you've gone from uh in the middle of church to
Speaker 1: swing parties to camming. What is the next step where
Speaker 1: you go, fuck it, put it on the internet wherever?
Speaker 1: When I mean, was it just like were you so
Speaker 1: ingrained in this stuff now where you're just kind of like, hey,
Speaker 1: it's not even a huge step for me, or was
Speaker 1: that a huge step for you?
Speaker 2: Oh? It was a huge It was a huge step
Speaker 2: for my career and our relationship because before everything was
Speaker 2: lifestyle based, and so we did everything together, Like whenever
Speaker 2: we'd go to shoot content with someone, he was there.
Speaker 2: Whenever there was anything being done, any playtime being done,
Speaker 2: we were there together. It was for both of us.
Speaker 2: And when we were at a v in a few
Speaker 2: years ago, and Rick Stronghold introduced me to Sandra with
Speaker 2: oc He's like, oh, just come over here and meet her.
Speaker 2: You're gonna love her. She's going to love you. I
Speaker 2: wasn't even talking about having an agent. We were just
Speaker 2: kind of going around meeting different agents, just playing with
Speaker 2: the idea. And she introduced herself and she goes, I
Speaker 2: would love to be your agent. And I looked at
Speaker 2: my husband and I said, are we going to do
Speaker 2: this like that? Because in my head, I'm thinking that
Speaker 2: means I'm going to be going to professional shoots myself,
Speaker 2: you know, like this is now turning into a completely
Speaker 2: different thing. It won't be a lifestyle thing anymore or solely.
Speaker 2: And he said, yeah, why not, Let's give it a shot.
Speaker 2: And it started less than thirty days after that.
Speaker 1: Now, did you both anticipate that it would have to
Speaker 1: put somewhat of a clamp or a crump down on
Speaker 1: your personal lifestyle or was the excitement of now you're
Speaker 1: entering a world of very exciting, very sexual, best looking
Speaker 1: people in the world, Like was there like this door's closing,
Speaker 1: But you know what they say, Gotto always opens a window, right,
Speaker 1: We learned that when we were younger. Was that the
Speaker 1: trade off or was it like, is he now sitting
Speaker 1: there like can we go to the bar and you're like, no,
Speaker 1: one's getting tested, So no, we're yeah.
Speaker 2: Right, that's a great question. And I think it did
Speaker 2: kind of sneak up on us, like it. I don't
Speaker 2: think we fully had the realization that hey, this isn't
Speaker 2: so much a lifestyle thing anymore until maybe within the
Speaker 2: last year when things really started ramping up. And you know,
Speaker 2: there's this thing with couples where one is in the
Speaker 2: industry and one's not, and people talk about it all
Speaker 2: the time where oh, you just got you know, railed
Speaker 2: by seven different guys or whatever, and now you're coming
Speaker 2: home and your husband or your girlfriend or your wife,
Speaker 2: you know, they want to make love and you're like,
Speaker 2: I'm so sore, I'm so tired, you know, like please,
Speaker 2: and then it breaks out because that other person feels
Speaker 2: like they're not getting the attention they need and want.
Speaker 2: And so we did go through a period where we
Speaker 2: were trying to figure that balance out and still kind
Speaker 2: of are trying to perfect it. But I feel like
Speaker 2: that's that's a journey that may never end. You know,
Speaker 2: because it's always something new, it's always it's things are
Speaker 2: all always changing, things are always progressing or whatever it is.
Speaker 2: So you just have to love each other enough to
Speaker 2: to fight for it, I guess, and to have that
Speaker 2: patience to figure it out. You know.
Speaker 1: So you said in there something you said, you know,
Speaker 1: I'm going to be going to set now and you're
Speaker 1: not going to be coming necessarily. Are there girls in
Speaker 1: the try in the industry that do try and like
Speaker 1: bring their guy along? And how quickly are they shoot
Speaker 1: away from the industry? You know?
Speaker 2: I have been told that people have asked that before,
Speaker 2: and like directors will say if everyone on set is
Speaker 2: comfortable with it, I don't care, or maybe they'll just
Speaker 2: say straight up no, I've never asked that because I
Speaker 2: wouldn't want to put anyone on set in a position
Speaker 2: to feel bad or you know whatever. So yeah, I
Speaker 2: have heard that before, but I've never personally done it.
Speaker 2: I have. It was a question when we first started,
Speaker 2: when we had our like phone interview with my agent.
Speaker 2: It was a question he asked because he is also
Speaker 2: he's now my man, part of my management team, and
Speaker 2: he's not just the boyfriend that says they're the manager,
Speaker 2: like he busts his but for me and and he
Speaker 2: probably works more than I do at this, but you know,
Speaker 2: he works in tech for his main job, his day job,
Speaker 2: and so he does all the editing and posting and
Speaker 2: paperwork and all that stuff. Like thank you, I appreciate it,
Speaker 2: but yeah we did. He did ask the question, So
Speaker 2: couldn't am I ever going to be able to be
Speaker 2: on stetweather and Sandras said, well, that occasionally happens if
Speaker 2: people like maybe once you get to know people and
Speaker 2: you know they're comfortable with that, and she's like, I
Speaker 2: wouldn't expect it to happen right away. So now there
Speaker 2: are people that I've worked with multiple times and they've
Speaker 2: met him multiple times and hung out with us, and
Speaker 2: they probably would be like, yeah, I don't care. But
Speaker 2: it's also I don't want to be the person who's
Speaker 2: like bringing her husband who now people are looking like, oh,
Speaker 2: who's this cock in the corner like getting off to us,
Speaker 2: and you know, I don't want people to ever think
Speaker 2: or feel that.
Speaker 1: So sure that was and that was interesting to me too,
Speaker 1: because I interviewed again somebody else that was in the
Speaker 1: industry recently and that was the question. So if I'm
Speaker 1: an online hater looking at your thing, blah blah blah, typing,
Speaker 1: you know, nasty in my mother's basement, going h your
Speaker 1: husband's a real cock. Now, cook is thrown out as
Speaker 1: an insult. But I mean, in this industry, a cock,
Speaker 1: a guy might want to be a cock. I mean, yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, but that's not the case in your situation.
Speaker 1: There's no like humiliation effort, nothing like that.
Speaker 2: Right, No, what's no none whatsoever. Although I have always thought,
Speaker 2: and here I am learning new stuff again, I've always thought,
Speaker 2: he's not He's not a I wouldn't if anyone tried
Speaker 2: to insult him while we were playing or whatever, it
Speaker 2: would be done. Like I'm not gonna say, always talk
Speaker 2: so much bigger than nors, like oh look, you could
Speaker 2: never please me like this, you know, like never, that's
Speaker 2: not It doesn't turn him on, it doesn't turn me on.
Speaker 2: I'm an exhibitionist, he's a voyeur. So it just it
Speaker 2: works out that way. But a director not too long
Speaker 2: ago did tell me that's still a cook. He's like
Speaker 2: a cook is anyone who just who likes to watch.
Speaker 2: And so maybe different people have different definitions for the
Speaker 2: same word.
Speaker 1: We even google it right now definition coukled. Let's see
Speaker 1: a man whose wife is sexually unfaithful regarded as an
Speaker 1: object of derision. See now, I don't think so. And
Speaker 1: especially you're not being unfaithful if you're fucking in front
Speaker 1: of him, like he knows, he's aware, he's not Ray
Speaker 1: Charles right, so you know. But also I make you know,
Speaker 1: I don't care what a guy. If a guy wants
Speaker 1: to be coocked out, that's totally cool. As long as
Speaker 1: my theory is, as long as there's no dogs or
Speaker 1: kids in the room, we're good. Do what you gotta do.
Speaker 2: You know. I heard you say that on another as
Speaker 2: you said, I listened, and I thought, I say that
Speaker 2: all the time. That's what I say, even on we
Speaker 2: have a lifestyle podcast, and I'm like, I will do
Speaker 2: just about anything. I am a freak. I love it.
Speaker 2: I will try just about anything. Dogs are kids, That's
Speaker 2: where I draw my line. Yeah, we're done.
Speaker 1: What is the name of your podcast?
Speaker 2: Swing Shot live from the Red Rooster.
Speaker 1: There you go, it's.
Speaker 2: A swinger's podcast. We've taken kind of a hiatus due
Speaker 2: to my career taking off, but we're about to start it.
Speaker 2: Back up again. But we started during COVID.
Speaker 1: You have it. I mean, you'll have a lot bigger
Speaker 1: name guests you can have on now if you want
Speaker 1: to have them, like people in the industry, bring them
Speaker 1: on and talk about it. Let me do a thing
Speaker 1: I like to do called stat check. Okay, We're going
Speaker 1: to do a thing called stat check based on the
Speaker 1: Internet Adult Film Database. Now, inevitably, when I say this,
Speaker 1: every woman goes those numbers are wrong. I go, I know,
Speaker 1: I know they're not tracking this, they're not tracking that.
Speaker 1: They're not tracking only fans at Crystal Sparks. Make sure
Speaker 1: you check her out. But I'm going to base it
Speaker 1: on the numbers there. That way, when I have you
Speaker 1: back on a year from now and you have AVN
Speaker 1: awards flowing all over you and I'm like, I can't
Speaker 1: even see you, crystalah blah, we'll be able to look
Speaker 1: back and go, remember when so number of scenes according
Speaker 1: to the Adult Entertainment Film Database, he's forty four. Number
Speaker 1: of guys you have worked with is sixteen. Number of
Speaker 1: girls you've worked with twenty five one nomination and no
Speaker 1: wins yet. What was the nomination Best Newcomer? I think
Speaker 1: it was.
Speaker 2: Well, last year I was nominated for a Best Newcomer
Speaker 2: and then this past year I was nominated or the
Speaker 2: three different movies I was in was nominated, But that
Speaker 2: wasn't me personally. Everyone gets seven congratulations with the nomination.
Speaker 2: I'm like, those are the directors, so yeah.
Speaker 1: Just take it. Say yep, I'm that money nominations they like.
Speaker 1: When I built my website, they have different referral things
Speaker 1: you can drop on there, and I had a DraftKings
Speaker 1: thing on there. It's just a referral I get it
Speaker 1: from like a DraftKings account I have, and so many
Speaker 1: people have been like you were sponsored by DraftKings. I go, sure, yeah,
Speaker 1: what EV's go ahead and roll with it. Let me
Speaker 1: get into some of your content then, Crystal, what do
Speaker 1: you like to shoot the most and what sells the most?
Speaker 1: Because oftentimes they're not always the same. It's a great
Speaker 1: synergy if you can. You know, you really love solo
Speaker 1: videos where you like eat Cheetos and watch Netflix and
Speaker 1: guys are like, I want to buy that can be
Speaker 1: the dream? Fuck? I know, right?
Speaker 2: Uh?
Speaker 1: What is what's your best selling type of content?
Speaker 2: I would say what I started with and what I
Speaker 2: still kind of try and center it around which is
Speaker 2: hot wifing. Oh my, my husband filming while I'm getting
Speaker 2: railed by some other guy every now and then he
Speaker 2: can sneak in there and do like a POV thing,
Speaker 2: So you know, I'm like, honey, came here and I
Speaker 2: start messing with him while you know. Oh, so that's
Speaker 2: that's mainly what I do, and that's what sells the
Speaker 2: most on mine too, So okay, I am there.
Speaker 1: I guess is there is there any like trend or
Speaker 1: fetish or anything like that that you want to dive
Speaker 1: into and you hope it will be successful. Maybe it's
Speaker 1: not a big core of the content you make now
Speaker 1: at Crystal Sparks, by the way, but that you really
Speaker 1: want to. Like, fuck, I hope this takes off. That
Speaker 1: would be so cool if it was the next faux incest.
Speaker 2: Yeah. So I think everyone in the industry would love
Speaker 2: if anything was the next poems. Right, We're all kind
Speaker 2: of like, okay, come on, this it's getting ridiculous. But
Speaker 2: oh okay, So I I just recently started something new
Speaker 2: and I hope it takes off, and it's really simple
Speaker 2: and it's just me, and so far it's I'm getting
Speaker 2: really great feedback. So just dressing up in a different
Speaker 2: like costume or cosplayer or whatever, and and not so
Speaker 2: much writing a script. I'm ad libbing, but yeah, just
Speaker 2: or is that the word I'm looking for.
Speaker 1: I'm looking improving and coming up all right? So your
Speaker 1: your is it like cosplay exactly or is it like No.
Speaker 2: Not necessarily, because I think different people have a different
Speaker 2: definition of that than I do. I'm not dressing up
Speaker 2: like like an anime character or whatnot. I am a
Speaker 2: huge truckie, so I might do some. I have a
Speaker 2: few Star Trek uniforms, but I'm trying to look into
Speaker 2: the legality of that. I don't want to get sued
Speaker 2: by my favorite people. But I did, like not too
Speaker 2: long ago, a sex therapist one where I was wearing
Speaker 2: like a satin button up blouse and glasses and you know,
Speaker 2: the pencil long pencil skirt, and I just sat down
Speaker 2: and for about five five to ten minutes, I'm just
Speaker 2: talking with a pad, like saying oh, okay, okay, and
Speaker 2: then I'm like, okay, well let me show you. And
Speaker 2: then I'm like, this is the Glitterist. And it was
Speaker 2: like a ten minute video and people loved it. And
Speaker 2: then I also did oh gosh, what was another one
Speaker 2: I did? I did one with like baby oil, where
Speaker 2: I just like basically the same thing. I was teaching
Speaker 2: some younger man, you know, how to please a woman,
Speaker 2: and so I was like, oh, baby oil and was
Speaker 2: rubbing it all over myself. And I have a bush,
Speaker 2: so you know, guys like me to incorp some guys
Speaker 2: like me to incorporate that. So just like shorter videos
Speaker 2: where I'm dressed up as a nurser, doctor, therapist, teacher, whatever,
Speaker 2: and I'm just kind of putting on a little skit
Speaker 2: and then it leading. It's more like porn, organized scripted
Speaker 2: porn than anything else. So my husband's been trying to
Speaker 2: get me to do this for years, and like ever
Speaker 2: since I started. I'm like, I have no idea, Like
Speaker 2: that's stupid. I have no idea what you're talking about.
Speaker 2: And he's like, please, people would love it. I'd love it,
Speaker 2: just a different one every time. We can post two
Speaker 2: or three a week, and I'm like, Okay, I have
Speaker 2: no idea what you want. I don't. I don't, I
Speaker 2: have no idea. I was lost, and so one day
Speaker 2: I not too long ago, I was just like, what
Speaker 2: am I going to do for this shit like he
Speaker 2: wants it. I have no idea what he wants. So
Speaker 2: I just thought I'll just act like I'm a sex therapist,
Speaker 2: and so I sat down. It took off, and he's like,
Speaker 2: I have been begging for you to do this for
Speaker 2: so long. He's like, thank you. I'm like, you just
Speaker 2: wanted me to write a porn script and act it out,
Speaker 2: Like why didn't you just say that? So I am.
Speaker 2: I am starting that and trying now. We'll see how
Speaker 2: it goes because it is getting away from the hont
Speaker 2: life thing, but I think I will still continue to
Speaker 2: do that, of course. But I think with the new
Speaker 2: fans I have following me who haven't been with me
Speaker 2: since the very beginning, they're really appreciating that new stuff,
Speaker 2: you know, so because so many people now are doing
Speaker 2: the hot life thing. So even people who don't work
Speaker 2: in the professional porn industry, you know, if you're just
Speaker 2: swingers who have only fans, you know, they're all doing that.
Speaker 2: That's what they're doing, and so that is something new.
Speaker 2: I'm trying that, I hope. But other than that would
Speaker 2: be anal. I haven't done my first anal shoot yet,
Speaker 2: and so if it doesn't come soon sooner than later,
Speaker 2: then I guess I'm just gonna start doing it all my.
Speaker 1: Only There you go, Yeah, I mean sometimes you gotta
Speaker 1: just do it yourself. And by the way, folks, my
Speaker 1: guess next week is going to be Crystal's husband where
Speaker 1: he just yells for an hour and goes I told
Speaker 1: her to do it, and I go, I know they
Speaker 1: never listen to us. Do that? They never listen. We
Speaker 1: have such good ideas and they've just never listened to us.
Speaker 1: And then him and I cry to each other like
Speaker 1: men do appreciate. I have a pitch for you. I
Speaker 1: pitched this the Bad Bella the other day another performer,
Speaker 1: and I think it's a good idea, but it already
Speaker 1: might be out there all stationary cameras. Write it like
Speaker 1: an Airbnb where we're not supposed to do anything dirty,
Speaker 1: and just cut between the stationary cameras as you fuck
Speaker 1: on some guy's couch. I just came up with a
Speaker 1: name as you were talking AIRTNA. There you go. When
Speaker 1: this idea takes off and everyone's like, oh my god.
Speaker 1: I used to want to fuck my stepbrother, but now
Speaker 1: I want to fucking someone's Airbnb like, that'll be our idea.
Speaker 1: This is all of our collectives on this show.
Speaker 2: I love it. We won't be able to get sued
Speaker 2: like some people who actually did it.
Speaker 1: You know, we're sure, yeah, what is all right? So
Speaker 1: we've been joking about the faux incest and I want
Speaker 1: to dive into that more. What is I mean, it's
Speaker 1: been the industry for ten years, it seems like, now,
Speaker 1: what is your thoughts on that? And by the way,
Speaker 1: you are still qualified to play step Mommy if you
Speaker 1: don't like it, but maybe you do. What is your
Speaker 1: view on like that whole thing? And do you think
Speaker 1: it's healthy?
Speaker 2: Healthy? I mean I think that people, including myself. That's
Speaker 2: probably why I can speak on this. Some people I
Speaker 2: can't speak for everyone have kinks or fetishes that let's see.
Speaker 2: Someone put it perfectly to me when I first started
Speaker 2: exploring all of this. There's a difference between a fantasy
Speaker 2: and reality total And there are some porns that I've
Speaker 2: watched that really get me going, but I would never
Speaker 2: do or consider in real life. And sometimes I've watched
Speaker 2: like the Daddy Daughter. You know, most of the time,
Speaker 2: and like I said earlier, I meant to older men,
Speaker 2: So most of the time. That's just what you have
Speaker 2: to search for to get to that older man younger
Speaker 2: I think now they have age play, but sometimes that
Speaker 2: goes a little too looking for me, you know. So,
Speaker 2: But all that to say, I don't think it's unhealthy.
Speaker 2: I think that it's definitely healthier if someone is like
Speaker 2: really into that getting often that way, then like going
Speaker 2: and trying to do something in real life. Obviously, so
Speaker 2: there's that aspect of it. But other than that, I
Speaker 2: don't know. I think it's most I would hope and
Speaker 2: think it's mostly the fantasy of it all. Just again,
Speaker 2: I haven't said this yet. I'm a debiant, so I
Speaker 2: get turned on by things I'm not supposed to get
Speaker 2: turned on mine. So there have been plenty of pornos
Speaker 2: I have watched and like the idea of the story,
Speaker 2: whatever turns me on gets me going does its job.
Speaker 2: But then maybe afterwards and like I'm fucking disgusting, Like
Speaker 2: how did I just watch that and come to it?
Speaker 1: Sure, so you know who it's all.
Speaker 2: It all depends on if it's healthy for that individual
Speaker 2: now acting it out. There have been times where I've
Speaker 2: worked with a young man who I feel like I
Speaker 2: could break in half and I'm tiny, so you know,
Speaker 2: but when you look at it that way, it's it's
Speaker 2: my job. You know. I'm still having fun. They're still
Speaker 2: great guys. They're way younger than I would ever mess
Speaker 2: around with in real life. Again, not my thing. Maybe
Speaker 2: maybe one day when I'm in my fifties, it'll be
Speaker 2: my thing, like you said, But yeah, I think it's
Speaker 2: healthy depending on the person. And sometimes they can get
Speaker 2: a little cringe and like creepy, like what the fuck
Speaker 2: do you guys want me to say? Like what But
Speaker 2: most of all we just laugh about it because it's
Speaker 2: so ridiculous.
Speaker 1: But yeah, I think same as all types of porn. Though,
Speaker 1: understand that it's fantasy, it's entertainment, it's whatever it is.
Speaker 1: There you have to draw that line. Then you get
Speaker 1: creepy people sending you a letter written in blood, And yeah,
Speaker 1: I looked at your Twitter and the very first picture
Speaker 1: right up here, posted just a few hours ago, is
Speaker 1: two knives a beret. Al Right, this.
Speaker 2: Right here, it's supposed to be a Barrett.
Speaker 1: Oh I don't. I don't fucking know the difference, Barrett. Okay,
Speaker 1: maybe I'll just played it round. No, No, you probably
Speaker 1: got it right, this right here is my life in
Speaker 1: a picture, total accident, two knives, a crystal, and a
Speaker 1: hair beret or Barrett. Oh yeah, and my schedule, Your
Speaker 1: schedule looks fucking ridiculous.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's not even the whole thing. That's just my
Speaker 2: my stuff.
Speaker 1: So did you know getting into this? Now? It's nice
Speaker 1: you have that husband at home who you said picks
Speaker 1: up with us. A lot of the slack with that,
Speaker 1: but so many girls I interview, it's five percent of
Speaker 1: my job is fucking and ninety five percent is social
Speaker 1: media editing, making sure this gets through dick ratings, whatever
Speaker 1: it is. Did you did you know working porn was
Speaker 1: going to be so much work? No?
Speaker 2: No, no, no, I did not. And I haven't even
Speaker 2: buckled down and really done everything I should be doing yet,
Speaker 2: because I am I am in real life a mother.
Speaker 2: I won't give details about my children. But they're not
Speaker 2: children anymore. They're they're quite a bit older, so they
Speaker 2: are more self sufficient. However, none of them drive, even
Speaker 2: though they should be driving. But no one their age
Speaker 2: wants to operate a motor vehicle anymore. It seems they
Speaker 2: all want to take ubers or someone.
Speaker 1: Driving them, right, Yeah, I've noticedulous with my wife. My
Speaker 1: wife's cousins are like younger, like sixteen, seventeen, eighteen did
Speaker 1: I could not wait to get my fucking license and
Speaker 1: just not be where I was. Okay, I just need
Speaker 1: to be moving and then, thank you, I'll just find
Speaker 1: another way there. Hey, here's an easier solution. You can
Speaker 1: get there. Yeah, get your ass and gear, job, serious.
Speaker 2: Money, do something with you. No, No, they are a
Speaker 2: different breed than we were. One. I was driving at fifteen.
Speaker 2: I was telling my parents I wasn't like doing the
Speaker 2: sexual stuff. But I was telling my parents that I
Speaker 2: was going down the street a mile to spend the
Speaker 2: weekend at my best friend's house. And I was going
Speaker 2: two states over on road trips with my friends for
Speaker 2: the weekend Holland. I was going one hundred and twenty
Speaker 2: back home down the highway, so I didn't miss my
Speaker 2: curfew like wild times. But maybe that's why my parents
Speaker 2: were so strung. They knew I was up to something.
Speaker 2: But I was a good kid overall. But yeah, I freedom.
Speaker 2: We wanted freedom, and that was how you got it
Speaker 2: was by having your your license and getting your first car.
Speaker 2: And I worked three jobs at fast food restaurants. At
Speaker 2: one point in time, I'd get four hours to sleep
Speaker 2: just because I wanted the money so that I could
Speaker 2: do things. You know, kids don't want that anymore, but whatever,
Speaker 2: but yes I have. I'm a real life milf. As
Speaker 2: I tell these young guys on set, the twenty twenty
Speaker 2: one year olds, I'm like, well, now I got to
Speaker 2: go to the grocery store and go home and make dinner.
Speaker 2: And they're like what, Like, yeah, I am an actual
Speaker 2: milk and.
Speaker 1: You're cleaning come off your chest and you're like, I
Speaker 1: got to pick up lunchable and we need apples at home.
Speaker 1: Jeff likes apples, so I should you.
Speaker 2: Know that's probably happened at the end of the month.
Speaker 2: Set one percent, Like did I get everything off my face?
Speaker 2: I don't want my eighteen year old like asking mom,
Speaker 2: what the fuck is that? So yeah, but yes I am.
Speaker 2: I am very busy with work and with real life.
Speaker 2: But no, I never imagined because you know, when you
Speaker 2: just get into porn, especially coming off only fans or
Speaker 2: whatever online stuff in case you have to bleep that out. Okay,
Speaker 2: so coming off that, you don't you think you're just
Speaker 2: going to shoot content, you know, and maybe you do
Speaker 2: a little editing, brushing up whatever and putting it on
Speaker 2: the website. But no, if you like your profession, it's
Speaker 2: almost like your professional work now is more advertisement for
Speaker 2: your actual job, which is the online stuff, because that's
Speaker 2: how you're making your money.
Speaker 1: That's how the biggest names, you know. I also do
Speaker 1: a separate show where I interview new girls coming into
Speaker 1: the industry, and so many of them I ask like,
Speaker 1: would you want to do mainstream stuff? They're like, I
Speaker 1: don't know, it doesn't really pay a lot. And it's like,
Speaker 1: I agree, maybe that it's not what you could be
Speaker 1: making on a very right but Crystal sparks at the
Speaker 1: top of like a Brassers or Team Skeeter or whatever
Speaker 1: is a really great advertisement to send people saying this
Speaker 1: scene was so good, so turned on, I would love
Speaker 1: to see if she had more stuff. So when when
Speaker 1: I talk to new people, if they're like I want
Speaker 1: to know, like, you know, how would I get into
Speaker 1: the industry, my recommendation is learn to edit video and
Speaker 1: take a marketing class at a social at community college.
Speaker 2: You know, like great advice?
Speaker 1: Really, I mean, are there I think a girl who's
Speaker 1: a seven on the scale of one to ten, but
Speaker 1: knows all of this stuff will make infinitely more money
Speaker 1: than a ten who doesn't know any of this stuff,
Speaker 1: who just guaranteed my hotness will get me through it,
Speaker 1: you know, And that's not always.
Speaker 2: There's lots of hot girls out there nowadays.
Speaker 1: Yeah. They just you got to know how to market yourself,
Speaker 1: that's right.
Speaker 2: It's all good marketing. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah. So let me ask, what is something that is
Speaker 1: in the industry that you just have no interest in pursuing.
Speaker 1: Where it's something like whatever it is, If it's bondage,
Speaker 1: if it's you know what I mean by like within
Speaker 1: the industry, somewhat within norms but not.
Speaker 3: Necessary, right, I was just thinking like the kink stuff,
Speaker 3: like cause you mentioned bondage.
Speaker 2: I already have plans for just about everything as the
Speaker 2: years go on. You know, I went my first year
Speaker 2: two years being pretty vanilla. Now I'm adding an anal
Speaker 2: and then next year I'll add in something else, next
Speaker 2: year as something else, But I don't it may change.
Speaker 2: We all grow as people, But I don't ever see
Speaker 2: myself doing the like really violent aggressive like torture chamber
Speaker 2: stuff where you know, I see some women do it
Speaker 2: and they love it. I'm not really big into pain,
Speaker 2: so I don't see myself getting turned on by someone
Speaker 2: punching me in my face, sure, or like actually joking
Speaker 2: me to the point where I'm passing out or something
Speaker 2: like that. I'm not into this stuff where if I'm
Speaker 2: watching it and I don't know for sure that they're acting,
Speaker 2: I don't like that because like if they're actually like
Speaker 2: crying and look like they're in pain, and I don't,
Speaker 2: I don't. But I've talked to some girls who do
Speaker 2: that and they they love it. They're afterwards, you know,
Speaker 2: they're like, oh, no, that was the hottest thing ever.
Speaker 2: And I'm like, really, because you didn't look you didn't
Speaker 2: look like you were enjoying it.
Speaker 1: You were crying and begging at one point. Are you
Speaker 1: sure that?
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's okay, But yeah, I think that's the only thing.
Speaker 2: Really I can't ever. But again, who knows. Ten years
Speaker 2: from now, I might be like, ah, that's easy, you know,
Speaker 2: who knows. But right now, that's what I'm saying, the
Speaker 2: hardcore torture. You're leaving marks on my body for the
Speaker 2: next month. Yeah, I'll pass on that for now.
Speaker 1: Yeah that's rough. That's rough. When you see a scene,
Speaker 1: and you know someone shot something rough in the last
Speaker 1: few days because you're like, oh wow, this is a nice,
Speaker 1: normal boy girl scene. Why she bruised to ship? Did
Speaker 1: she fall down the hill?
Speaker 2: Uh?
Speaker 1: Looking like Jay Leno when they show up on set bugging.
Speaker 1: I was just gonna say, uh, so going forward, what
Speaker 1: are the goals going forward? Is it? I guess you
Speaker 1: kind of just answered that you want to add something
Speaker 1: new every year, right, Yeah?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I want to. I want to consistently grow and
Speaker 2: explore because I don't ever want to forget. The main
Speaker 2: reason I started doing all of this was to get
Speaker 2: to know myself really that because that was something that
Speaker 2: was kept from me. I'm a much much different parent
Speaker 2: than my parents were because of it, So I think
Speaker 2: that's a good thing. There's nothing my my kids, my
Speaker 2: I don't want to call them kids because they are
Speaker 2: rather grown, but my offspring there's they know, and god,
Speaker 2: I know, there's nothing they feel uncomfortable coming to me with.
Speaker 2: There have been many times where they're like telling me
Speaker 2: something and I'm like, you know, I'm your mother, right,
Speaker 2: like you know that right, And they're like, yeah, well
Speaker 2: that's how you raised us, Like you want me not
Speaker 2: to tell you anything. Now, I'm like anyways, but yeah,
Speaker 2: I think just as long as I can I consistently
Speaker 2: grow and explore and learn new things and meet new people,
Speaker 2: and I'm having fun with it, I'll keep on going
Speaker 2: because I'm having the time of my life and I
Speaker 2: never wanted to stop.
Speaker 1: That's great, I mean, that's real. I mean so many
Speaker 1: people are working their office jobs like nine to five,
Speaker 1: traveling in, sitting in a big fluoresca desk with fluorescent
Speaker 1: lighting above them or whatever it is, and so many
Speaker 1: of them wish they could just get to a point
Speaker 1: where they're like, I wish I was making money doing
Speaker 1: something that makes me happy. And I think that's why
Speaker 1: you get a lot of hate, not you specifically. I'm
Speaker 1: going through your Twitter and just everyone hates you. Wow.
Speaker 1: Yeah no, actually, but so many of them. Just I understand,
Speaker 1: this isn't your life, you know, don't sit there and
Speaker 1: be angry and hate about it. Figure out a pivot,
Speaker 1: figure out something you could do, even just get a
Speaker 1: hobby a right, I really like I have something plant.
Speaker 1: Let me ask you, and I don't ask this to
Speaker 1: be controversial, because whatever opinions, it's just it's an interesting range.
Speaker 1: I get from performers. What should be the age to
Speaker 1: get into porn M A.
Speaker 2: Great, great, great question. Oh that's a hard one to answer,
Speaker 2: and I have thought about this before because of my
Speaker 2: my offspring. Specifically, if my eighteen year old came to
Speaker 2: me and she said that she wanted to do whatever,
Speaker 2: I would one percent support her. However, thankfully, now I
Speaker 2: would be in the position where I could educate her.
Speaker 2: I could make sure that she's getting in with the
Speaker 2: right people and doing it the correct way to where
Speaker 2: she's not going to be put in a situation that
Speaker 2: is going to harm her, which I hear stories, and
Speaker 2: I feel so bad. I have been fortunate enough now
Speaker 2: I haven't had one bad experience. I don't know it
Speaker 2: that's because I'm older, because I do hear a lot
Speaker 2: of you know, a lot of the younger girls. People
Speaker 2: might try to take advantage of them or whatnot, and
Speaker 2: that's why they get in those situations, or they don't
Speaker 2: realize they can say no without it hurting them or
Speaker 2: their careers. But most people I meet that are eighteen,
Speaker 2: I don't think they're mature enough to truly understand what
Speaker 2: they're getting into, or maybe if they're just doing it
Speaker 2: for fun in a quick book, like, Okay, are you
Speaker 2: planning on doing something in the future that you know?
Speaker 2: Nowadays everything it's on the internet. Someone might find that
Speaker 2: and say, we don't want to hire you for this job,
Speaker 2: We don't want to be your client. You know, is
Speaker 2: that going to have a serious consequent or is it
Speaker 2: something you want to do your whole life like and
Speaker 2: you know, make an actual lifelong career out of it.
Speaker 2: Then okay, that's a different story. I have met eighteen
Speaker 2: year old that are what blow me out of the water,
Speaker 2: and they have a good head on their shoulders. They
Speaker 2: know what they're doing, they think things through, they're responsible.
Speaker 2: So that's really hard to say. I was in the army.
Speaker 2: It all goes back to the whole you know, you
Speaker 2: can fight for your country, die for your country, So
Speaker 2: if you want to fucking suck a dick for money,
Speaker 2: you should be able to.
Speaker 1: That was literally the analogy I was about to use.
Speaker 1: You're eighteen years old, you can go, you know, shoot
Speaker 1: someone in Iraq, but you can't shoot porn Like that's ridiculous.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah, but twenty one to be able to
Speaker 2: do that.
Speaker 1: Though I've interviewed I interviewed one girl years ago, though
Speaker 1: she was new to the industry. She told a story
Speaker 1: where she met a guy online who's going to book
Speaker 1: a scene with her eighteen years old. She flies six
Speaker 1: states over or whatever it is, on her own dime,
Speaker 1: because of course, she'll be reimbursed for it, you know. Oh,
Speaker 1: she gets a hotel room on her own dime because
Speaker 1: I'm sure you know, she'll be reimbursed. Don't Crystal, don't
Speaker 1: sweat it. She'll be reimbursed for it. Don't even worry
Speaker 1: about it. And then when she got there five states
Speaker 1: over whatever it was, she's from some po dunk town
Speaker 1: and wherever she ends up somewhere else. No one answers
Speaker 1: the phone, No one picks up the phone. No, no
Speaker 1: one's answered.
Speaker 2: Now like this, Mam and bear would be flying out
Speaker 2: there to those.
Speaker 1: You better shoot borrow my god, I'm not fucking losing it.
Speaker 2: Is not being canceled. I will drop it, damn it.
Speaker 2: Give me a camera.
Speaker 1: It's just yeah, it's it's it's wisdom, it's not age.
Speaker 1: I think you're right. There are some sixteen year olds
Speaker 1: who are just smarter and more intelligent, more emotionally intelligent
Speaker 1: than I am. And I get that, but there's also
Speaker 1: there's plenty of thirty year olds who don't know what
Speaker 1: the fuck they're doing with their life either, So it's
Speaker 1: tough setting number.
Speaker 2: How do you make that call?
Speaker 1: Oh, Crystal, this went so fast. I was, I was,
Speaker 1: I am so tired today. I was like, you got
Speaker 1: to get the energy up. I took I read in
Speaker 1: your bio you had sold vitamins. I took some vitamins
Speaker 1: before this, not meth. I took some lions made mushrooms
Speaker 1: and some Alpha GPC because I heard it on a
Speaker 1: podcast I'm sure somewhere, and I was like, you're gonna
Speaker 1: get fired up, and now I feel great. Well, we
Speaker 1: got to wrap this one up.
Speaker 2: Oh well, I'll do it again.
Speaker 1: Where you can find her. You know exactly where to
Speaker 1: find your links to everything in the episode description at
Speaker 1: Crystal Sparks her website. Also in the episode description everything,
Speaker 1: make sure you sign up for all of her stuff.
Speaker 1: Crystal Sparks, thank you so much for coming on with
Speaker 1: me tonight.
Speaker 2: Thank you for having me again. It was a joy,
Speaker 2: very funny