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Speaker 1: Crystal Sparks. Thank you so much for coming on with

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me tonight.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for having me at Crystal Sparks.

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Speaker 1: Is where you can find her, you know where that is.

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Let me start out with the most basic boring. Everyone

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needs to know this, and everyone already does, but we

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always start the same way. How did you initially decide

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to get into the adult entertainment industry in whatever form

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that was, If it was stripping camming, When was the

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first time you were like, fuck this day job, shit,

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I need to do something different.

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Speaker 2: Oh, great question. I feel like a lot of people

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have the same story as me. I was born and

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raised in a very strict religion. Just household sex was

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off the table as far as conversation went. It actually

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every time I remember something new. But I remember during

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like sex ed class. I went to Catholic school, and

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the teacher was like, ladies, when you get home, you know,

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because there's all girls in a class and all boys

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in another class, and the boys get the condoms to

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blow up and play with and the girls get nothing.

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We didn't get condoms, but anyways, our teacher told us like,

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go home and get a hand mirror and hold it

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to your vagina and and look at get familiar with

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that body part, like it's a part of you. And

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I go home and I asked my mom for a

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hand mirror. Mind you, the only hand mirror she had

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was like a silver like one that you saw on

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the Titanic, like it was from the late eighteen hundred's,

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the fancy kind. It was actually my grandmother's and she.

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Speaker 1: A straight out of Beauty and the Beast right and

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everything talking okay, yeah.

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Speaker 2: She goes to hand it to me, and she's like, well,

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what do you want it for? Because she was also

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very much against vanity, Like she had my hair cut short,

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rather short, because she didn't want me spending too much

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time in the mirror, you know, fixing my hair whatever.

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And so she goes to handity and she's like, what

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do you need it for? And I said, well, miss

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so and so at school told me to take it

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and look at my vagina. And she goes what she

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called the school a yelling, ranting, and raving. But anyways,

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was that was the household I grew up and the

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so when I was about twenty seven, I want to say,

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one of my girlfriends in her house and I had

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no idea what it was at the time. Now I do.

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But in her house she was setting up each room

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with a different theme and she was basically starting a

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camming like sight. And we were kind of talking and

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I said, oh, I would love to do different things

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to explore my sexuality. You know, here I am almost

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thirty years old and I've never even had sex with

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the lights on. Like I'm like, I was very that's bad.

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You know, you're going to go to hell. And she's like, well,

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why don't you try doing this scamming thing with me?

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I was like, sure, okay, I liked it. It was fun.

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It was more interesting than anything, just because it was

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interesting hearing different people's requests, what different people liked, like

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that was a whole new world to me. And so

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that's kind of when I started and then paused for

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three to maw. It was probably about three years until

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COVID hit and my boyfriend at the time he said, oh,

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what do you think about doing this OnlyFans thing because

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we were kind of getting into the lifestyle swingers, and

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I was like, well, what the what the hell? We

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have nothing else to do. We were on lockdown, and

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so it kind of went from there. I did OnlyFans

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and all the other stuff for a couple of years,

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and then we were at Play It again Sam's. I

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started my Cornstar collection, so my only fans was just

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having sex with Adan Hall of famers. And so we

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were hanging out with Nick Manning at Play It against

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Sam's in Las Vegas, this hole in the wall strip

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club like dark ceedy twenty dollars lap dances for one song,

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you know, and he said, oh, you want to you

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want to be a dancer, You want to give it

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a try. And I'm like, where did this conversation come from?

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And I was like, no, I just when I'm drinking,

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I kind of want to get on stage just to

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have fun. And he's like, no, you should give it

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a try. You'd be great. So next thing I know,

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I'm working at Play It against Sam's and dancing at

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this hole in the wall strip club in Chinatown in

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Las Vegas. It was fun, but you know, that's where

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it all started. It went from there. A couple of

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years later, I was introduced to my agent. She asked

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if I wanted to go pro. I wasn't sure, but

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I took the plunge and there we are today.

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Speaker 1: You're like a talking head song. It's like, how did

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I get here? You went from Catholics? Who I also,

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I did twelve years of Catholic school preschool to eighth grade,

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and then we moved to public school for that and

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it was just a total culture shock. But it's so funny.

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So many people have whatever that adult defiance thing that

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comes in where it's like all of my life you've

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told me I can't do this, and I've spoken to

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so many women that it's the same way. It's like

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I was so repressed as a child, and blah blah blah.

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It's like people don't just get they're going to break

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out at some point now and I can't good thing

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they didn't just grind into your head, like don't go

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kill people. You might be a mass murderer right now.

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Like Jesus, stop telling kids they explicitly cannot do things. Well,

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I mean you and I will say kids can't watch

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anything that you would be right, of course, not until

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they're eighteen and probably twenty one in other states. I

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don't know, but yeah, who knows anymore. But yeah, it's

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so funny. It always starts out that way, not always,

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but once it really starts out that way times.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 1: The weird shift I heard though, wasn't so much going

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into dancing in this and that and not a weird

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shift at all, just a total one eighty. It seemed like,

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how did you were you talked or did you talk

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the boyfriend into getting into the lifestyle, Like how do

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you move from again Catholics? Well, oh my god, I

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never had the sex, lookit the lights on until I

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was twenty seven, and then we're just swinging baby. Yeah, yeah,

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I'm convinced too. Won that one?

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Speaker 2: Another great question. So he had already been in the

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lifestyle since his early twenties. He's fourteen years older than me.

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So now, oh gosh, I keep saying I'm almost twenty eight,

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but I'm almost thirty eight. I'm my subconscious is resisting.

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Speaker 1: You look, you look almost twenty eight.

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Speaker 2: You look yeah one, thank you. But and he is

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about to turn fifty two this year, I believe. So

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he he had been married before and they were in

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the lifestyle for about seventeen years, so he was familiar

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and he really dug into my fantasies, like, you know, guys,

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all guys do it with the girl they're dating. Do

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you have any fantasies you know that have never been fulfilled?

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Blah blah blah. And when he asked me that question,

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I was like, you will never know about my fantasies.

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And he's like, well, what does that mean. I'm like, no,

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they're too bad, Like they're bad, like and here I'm

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just thinking about like a girl getting fucked by by

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two different guys at the same time.

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Speaker 1: My god, yeah, heretic.

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Speaker 2: And now that's my favorite, Like that's like vanilla for me.

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But yeah, and so he really pulled all that out

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of me. And then he's like, well, you know, there's

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this club in town that I've been going to for

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twenty years. He's like, why don't you, you know, come

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hang out with us, blah blah blah, see how you feel.

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I was scared to death. I was like shaking inside

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and walking through the door, I just thought, I just

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knew I was going to walk in and it would

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be like this massive Greek orgy, everyone just having sex

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with everyone, and I'd get pulled in and have to,

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you know, do something I wasn't comfortable with. If nothing

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like that, it was just like walking into a bar

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and there are private rooms you know. And sure there's

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the orgy room, which now I frequent.

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Speaker 1: There's a plaque with your name on it up there. Now,

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okay it is.

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Speaker 2: There are posters with my face all over the but

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they call me the residential porn star there now. But yeah,

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it is kind of a story of me coming in

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as scared to deats, like a little baby lamb going

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to the slaughter to Now I'm like, who's first.

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Speaker 1: I'm also I'm one of my This year I turned

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thirty eight. But I've been with my wife since we

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were nineteen, right, And it's only over the last few

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years when I start developing the show and blah blah

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blah that I'm I coded my wife and I'm like, hey,

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tell me, you know what you want, what you're interested,

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you know. I and I've been trying that for the

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longest time. But now I'm really comfortable because I'm talking

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to all these people in the industry and I've always

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been comfortable with it. I kind of just don't give

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a shit. But my wife same way. It's very She's like,

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I don't want to tell you to. I mean, like,

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you know, maybe if I was like like tied up

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or someone has ripping a motorcycle outside. I don't know

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if you could hear that. Okay, good, that was the

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loudest vehicle I've ever heard in my life. So something

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so basic and simple, just like, oh, you know, I

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wouldn't mind being tied up. I'm like tied up. Do

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you know some of the girls I talk to and

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what they do? Please tell me anything. You're not gonna

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scare me away with any of it. I think, yeah,

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most of the time. I think when guys I've heard

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other people in the lifestyle that I've done interviews with

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who say things like, yeah, the guy will be like,

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tell me what you're interested in. And then if a

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girl were to say like I'd love to be with

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two guys, well, if I'm in a committed relationship, I

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wasn't looking to go that far. A lot of guys

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would lose it over that. They're probably more just looking

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for like, oh, I'd like another girl in the bedroom

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with Oh yeah, that to me from the outside seems

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extremely selfish of a guy. Are there guys like that

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in the lifestyle and are they kind of looked at

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as kind of like, oh, he's like one of those bakers,

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like half ass type.

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Speaker 2: Things, Yeah, for sure, especially like there's the single guys

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in the lifestyle. They get a bad rap because of guys.

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How do I okay, let me preface this by saying,

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in the lifestyle, the women comes first. The woman comes first.

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I can't talk now. They are the ones you want

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to make sure you appro if you're if you know

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your etiquette, you want to approach them first. You want

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to introduce yourself and then you know, man or woman.

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I would say I do the same thing. I'm not

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going to just go up to some woman's husband and

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be like, hey, you know, and then you know, then

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the woman is like, well hello, there there is a team,

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and so we always want to pay respects to woman.

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And the more you have in common with them, the

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more comfortable you are with them, the more likely it

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is something is going to happen, because you know, if

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the woman says no, it's just like tipping at a restaurant.

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If the woman says, oh no, they're horrible, they're not

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getting a tip. The husband's probably not going to do it,

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or he's going to sneak behind her back to do.

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Speaker 1: It right right, not directly do it against her. Yet

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that makes right.

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Speaker 2: I mean nobody wants to be that rude, but we

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have our moments. But when it comes to single men,

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they get a bad rap because a lot of them

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don't know or understand that. So they'll either sit there

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and just like stare, or they'll go up when the

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husband walks away, and then that right there rubs couples

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the wrong way because.

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Speaker 1: You looks vulturary.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, exactly, and then no, or you look disrespectful

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to the man and the couple. You know. But when

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it comes to men bringing in, which the more I talk,

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maybe you meant more on this line men bringing their

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wives or trying to introduce them to the lifestyle. And

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by saying is that more what you meant?

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Speaker 1: Well, I'm just picturing. Like I've known dudes in my

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life who have been like, oh, I would look into

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being a swinger, but like, I don't want my chick

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with another guy. It's like, well, then you don't want

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to be a swinger. It sounds like it sounds like

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you would get blown by two girls, right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So sorry I misunderstood that.

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Speaker 1: No, totally conversation. No, but that's actually a great one

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because I've never really considered that, Like, say, I am

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a single guy walking into a swinger or party whatever

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it is. If that's even allowed a single guy at

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a party, I don't know. How do I mean? Do

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I try?

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Speaker 2: Do?

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Speaker 1: I like, look at the guy with the wife that

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I find attractive, and I started asking him if he

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likes baseball, Like I don't, like, do I have to

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be friends with? I understand. It's like the concept of

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you know, couples. You want to get the couples together

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and see if they're compatible the other way and then

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you know, back and forth. But a single guy. When

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you threw that out there, I was like, Yo, that happens.

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I can't imagine a single guy because I'd be looking

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at him like.

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Speaker 2: A lot of people do. Yeah, but single men are

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my favorite in the lifestyle. But a lot of women they,

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you know, because of that bad rap. They There are

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clubs in Vegas that do not allow single men at all,

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like it's couples only. Some clubs will have specific nights

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just for single men, or usually they're like gangbang nights,

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you know, when the ladies know, oh, all these single

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men are going to be there, that's what you're going

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there for. But no, I would say that the most

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successful single men in the lifestyle just treat it like

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it's a regular bar and not like they're chasing after something.

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So if my husband and I are sitting down at

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a table outside drinking with friends or just by ourselves,

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and then some guy comes over, maybe we make eye

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contact and he's been staring at me for however long,

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and I haven't noticed because I'm oblivious, and then just

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comes over and it's like, oh, hey, my name is

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blah blah blah. Instroduce them sits down. How do you

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guys come here often? You know that conversation that you

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normally have at a bar which you're trying to pick

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up a woman, I guess, but you incorporate the man

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in there too, and try not to act uncomfortable as

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much as possible because it shows that confidence level. You know,

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women love confidence. And if you're just like, oh, hey,

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what's up, blah blah blah, I saw you from over there.

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You're beautiful, Like how long have you been coming here? Oh?

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This is my first time, and just have a conversation

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and then it either will lead somewhere or it won't.

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And if you ask directly and you're like, are you

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guys playing tonight, you know what, are you just hanging

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out drinking whatever? If that woman is interested in you, yes,

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we're playing tonight, or if we weren't, yep, now we are,

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like you know, and so yeah, the woman usually makes

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the call, So just do whatever you can not to

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creeper out.

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Speaker 1: This is gonna be a rude question, not to you,

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but a obviously I'm not I'm not asking to call

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anyone out. I don't even know if you could. But

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have you ever had to Have you ever had where

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your guy is looking at a girl and really liking

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a girl and then you see the guy and you

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know you may have to take the l tonight. And

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have you ever pushed it back the other way where

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you see a guy and you look at your man

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you're like, look, I know she only has one arm,

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but you're gonna have to do this for me?

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Speaker 2: Okay, I hear that happens quite often. Some couples have

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the role though, where no one takes one for the team,

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like it's equal fun for all. For my husband and

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I specifically, we are in the dynamic of stag vixen

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or hot wife. My husband likes to see me receive

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pleasure and have fun and then I prefer him to

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join in. He doesn't really just like to sit there

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and watch. I always say, my favorite position is the

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spit roast, so that's like my favorite I don't. People

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tell me it's not really a position, but if it's not,

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it is not.

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Speaker 1: I mean I can picture it. You look like it

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is chicken spinning there on the rotisserie. I get it.

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One hundred Yes, that's not real. It is. I'm seeing it,

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so it is.

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Speaker 2: I've done it many times. But yeah, so that's our dynamic.

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We have messed around with other couples before, but we've

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thought that both people were equally attractive. She was beautiful,

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he was handsome. One couple that was one of our

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favorites was from Scotland, so the accent was just okay,

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you know. And it was on a Wednesday night at

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eight pm at a club in Vegas. We were not

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expecting to do anything. It was dead and they just

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walked in and we both looked at each other and

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were like, we that was That was one of our

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first I think couples, but mostly we do the single

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or did the single mail thing. Now that I'm professional

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in the industry, oh oh, Sadly, a lot of the

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lifestyle stuff has kind of taken a seat because you

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have to be tested in order. So if I need

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a guy in the club, nowadays, it looks instead of

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me like, yeah, let's go to the lorgry room, most

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like you're going, it looks more like, well, do you

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live here? Are you visiting from out of town? Do

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you have time to go get tested? Can I make

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an appointment with you? Do you want to be on camera?

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Have you ever been in a born romo?

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Speaker 1: Can I have some of your blood? Please? It's just

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going to a lab. Don't sweat it.

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Speaker 2: But a lot of times I have there's no issue

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still like the guys just like yeah, I'll do it,

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and when when can I be there? You know? So

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it's just not as spontaneous anymore. But yeah, there. I

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hear of couples all the time where they have to

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take one for the team, and I just think that's

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I don't know. I have I've asked my husband before, like, oh,

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she's attractive, like because I'm thinking the husband's attractive, and

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he's like, she looks like my fucking grandma. I like

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older men, so you know, and he's a man. So natural. Well,

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I guess some men like older women, but.

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Speaker 1: When they're younger, men like what they don't have generally.

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Right now, I'm a young guy, I like an old chick.

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When I'm an old guy, I like a young chick.

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Like that's you know, that's.

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Speaker 2: That makes sense.

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Speaker 1: Men of the problem in the world is kind of

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how I look at it. This should all make sense.

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It doesn't because of men.

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Speaker 2: I think women are probably the same way.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, we sure. So you've taken these jumps. Now

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you've gone from uh in the middle of church to

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swing parties to camming. What is the next step where

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you go, fuck it, put it on the internet wherever?

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When I mean, was it just like were you so

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ingrained in this stuff now where you're just kind of like, hey,

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it's not even a huge step for me, or was

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that a huge step for you?

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Speaker 2: Oh? It was a huge It was a huge step

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for my career and our relationship because before everything was

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lifestyle based, and so we did everything together, Like whenever

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we'd go to shoot content with someone, he was there.

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Whenever there was anything being done, any playtime being done,

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we were there together. It was for both of us.

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And when we were at a v in a few

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years ago, and Rick Stronghold introduced me to Sandra with

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oc He's like, oh, just come over here and meet her.

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You're gonna love her. She's going to love you. I

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wasn't even talking about having an agent. We were just

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kind of going around meeting different agents, just playing with

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the idea. And she introduced herself and she goes, I

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would love to be your agent. And I looked at

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my husband and I said, are we going to do

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this like that? Because in my head, I'm thinking that

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means I'm going to be going to professional shoots myself,

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you know, like this is now turning into a completely

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different thing. It won't be a lifestyle thing anymore or solely.

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And he said, yeah, why not, Let's give it a shot.

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And it started less than thirty days after that.

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Speaker 1: Now, did you both anticipate that it would have to

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put somewhat of a clamp or a crump down on

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your personal lifestyle or was the excitement of now you're

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entering a world of very exciting, very sexual, best looking

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people in the world, Like was there like this door's closing,

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But you know what they say, Gotto always opens a window, right,

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We learned that when we were younger. Was that the

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trade off or was it like, is he now sitting

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there like can we go to the bar and you're like, no,

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one's getting tested, So no, we're yeah.

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Speaker 2: Right, that's a great question. And I think it did

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kind of sneak up on us, like it. I don't

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think we fully had the realization that hey, this isn't

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so much a lifestyle thing anymore until maybe within the

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last year when things really started ramping up. And you know,

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there's this thing with couples where one is in the

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industry and one's not, and people talk about it all

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the time where oh, you just got you know, railed

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by seven different guys or whatever, and now you're coming

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home and your husband or your girlfriend or your wife,

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you know, they want to make love and you're like,

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I'm so sore, I'm so tired, you know, like please,

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and then it breaks out because that other person feels

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like they're not getting the attention they need and want.

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And so we did go through a period where we

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were trying to figure that balance out and still kind

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of are trying to perfect it. But I feel like

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that's that's a journey that may never end. You know,

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because it's always something new, it's always it's things are

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all always changing, things are always progressing or whatever it is.

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So you just have to love each other enough to

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to fight for it, I guess, and to have that

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patience to figure it out. You know.

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Speaker 1: So you said in there something you said, you know,

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I'm going to be going to set now and you're

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not going to be coming necessarily. Are there girls in

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the try in the industry that do try and like

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bring their guy along? And how quickly are they shoot

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away from the industry? You know?

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Speaker 2: I have been told that people have asked that before,

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and like directors will say if everyone on set is

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comfortable with it, I don't care, or maybe they'll just

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say straight up no, I've never asked that because I

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wouldn't want to put anyone on set in a position

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to feel bad or you know whatever. So yeah, I

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have heard that before, but I've never personally done it.

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I have. It was a question when we first started,

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when we had our like phone interview with my agent.

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It was a question he asked because he is also

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he's now my man, part of my management team, and

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he's not just the boyfriend that says they're the manager,

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like he busts his but for me and and he

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probably works more than I do at this, but you know,

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he works in tech for his main job, his day job,

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and so he does all the editing and posting and

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paperwork and all that stuff. Like thank you, I appreciate it,

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but yeah we did. He did ask the question, So

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couldn't am I ever going to be able to be

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on stetweather and Sandras said, well, that occasionally happens if

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people like maybe once you get to know people and

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you know they're comfortable with that, and she's like, I

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wouldn't expect it to happen right away. So now there

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are people that I've worked with multiple times and they've

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met him multiple times and hung out with us, and

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they probably would be like, yeah, I don't care. But

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it's also I don't want to be the person who's

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like bringing her husband who now people are looking like, oh,

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who's this cock in the corner like getting off to us,

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and you know, I don't want people to ever think

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or feel that.

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Speaker 1: So sure that was and that was interesting to me too,

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because I interviewed again somebody else that was in the

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industry recently and that was the question. So if I'm

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an online hater looking at your thing, blah blah blah, typing,

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you know, nasty in my mother's basement, going h your

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husband's a real cock. Now, cook is thrown out as

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an insult. But I mean, in this industry, a cock,

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a guy might want to be a cock. I mean, yeah,

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you know, but that's not the case in your situation.

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There's no like humiliation effort, nothing like that.

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Speaker 2: Right, No, what's no none whatsoever. Although I have always thought,

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and here I am learning new stuff again, I've always thought,

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he's not He's not a I wouldn't if anyone tried

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to insult him while we were playing or whatever, it

474
00:25:04,799 --> 00:25:07,440
would be done. Like I'm not gonna say, always talk

475
00:25:07,519 --> 00:25:09,759
so much bigger than nors, like oh look, you could

476
00:25:09,799 --> 00:25:12,319
never please me like this, you know, like never, that's

477
00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:14,400
not It doesn't turn him on, it doesn't turn me on.

478
00:25:15,279 --> 00:25:19,000
I'm an exhibitionist, he's a voyeur. So it just it

479
00:25:19,079 --> 00:25:21,200
works out that way. But a director not too long

480
00:25:21,240 --> 00:25:24,079
ago did tell me that's still a cook. He's like

481
00:25:24,119 --> 00:25:27,119
a cook is anyone who just who likes to watch.

482
00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:31,279
And so maybe different people have different definitions for the

483
00:25:31,279 --> 00:25:31,880
same word.

484
00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:35,799
Speaker 1: We even google it right now definition coukled. Let's see

485
00:25:35,839 --> 00:25:40,000
a man whose wife is sexually unfaithful regarded as an

486
00:25:40,079 --> 00:25:44,160
object of derision. See now, I don't think so. And

487
00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:46,559
especially you're not being unfaithful if you're fucking in front

488
00:25:46,599 --> 00:25:49,079
of him, like he knows, he's aware, he's not Ray

489
00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:56,480
Charles right, so you know. But also I make you know,

490
00:25:56,640 --> 00:25:58,160
I don't care what a guy. If a guy wants

491
00:25:58,160 --> 00:26:00,000
to be coocked out, that's totally cool. As long as

492
00:26:00,319 --> 00:26:02,240
my theory is, as long as there's no dogs or

493
00:26:02,319 --> 00:26:04,680
kids in the room, we're good. Do what you gotta do.

494
00:26:04,839 --> 00:26:06,799
Speaker 2: You know. I heard you say that on another as

495
00:26:06,839 --> 00:26:10,319
you said, I listened, and I thought, I say that

496
00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:12,200
all the time. That's what I say, even on we

497
00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:14,720
have a lifestyle podcast, and I'm like, I will do

498
00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:17,920
just about anything. I am a freak. I love it.

499
00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:20,359
I will try just about anything. Dogs are kids, That's

500
00:26:20,359 --> 00:26:23,000
where I draw my line. Yeah, we're done.

501
00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:25,240
Speaker 1: What is the name of your podcast?

502
00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:28,200
Speaker 2: Swing Shot live from the Red Rooster.

503
00:26:28,519 --> 00:26:30,559
Speaker 1: There you go, it's.

504
00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:35,759
Speaker 2: A swinger's podcast. We've taken kind of a hiatus due

505
00:26:35,759 --> 00:26:38,480
to my career taking off, but we're about to start it.

506
00:26:38,519 --> 00:26:40,759
Back up again. But we started during COVID.

507
00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:44,640
Speaker 1: You have it. I mean, you'll have a lot bigger

508
00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:46,720
name guests you can have on now if you want

509
00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:49,119
to have them, like people in the industry, bring them

510
00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:53,440
on and talk about it. Let me do a thing

511
00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:56,599
I like to do called stat check. Okay, We're going

512
00:26:56,599 --> 00:26:58,200
to do a thing called stat check based on the

513
00:26:58,240 --> 00:27:02,160
Internet Adult Film Database. Now, inevitably, when I say this,

514
00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:04,680
every woman goes those numbers are wrong. I go, I know,

515
00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:07,400
I know they're not tracking this, they're not tracking that.

516
00:27:07,799 --> 00:27:10,359
They're not tracking only fans at Crystal Sparks. Make sure

517
00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:13,240
you check her out. But I'm going to base it

518
00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:15,519
on the numbers there. That way, when I have you

519
00:27:15,559 --> 00:27:17,680
back on a year from now and you have AVN

520
00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:19,960
awards flowing all over you and I'm like, I can't

521
00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:22,799
even see you, crystalah blah, we'll be able to look

522
00:27:22,839 --> 00:27:27,279
back and go, remember when so number of scenes according

523
00:27:27,319 --> 00:27:32,079
to the Adult Entertainment Film Database, he's forty four. Number

524
00:27:32,119 --> 00:27:35,839
of guys you have worked with is sixteen. Number of

525
00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:41,000
girls you've worked with twenty five one nomination and no

526
00:27:41,119 --> 00:27:44,240
wins yet. What was the nomination Best Newcomer? I think

527
00:27:44,240 --> 00:27:44,640
it was.

528
00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:49,160
Speaker 2: Well, last year I was nominated for a Best Newcomer

529
00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:53,920
and then this past year I was nominated or the

530
00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:57,039
three different movies I was in was nominated, But that

531
00:27:57,079 --> 00:27:59,960
wasn't me personally. Everyone gets seven congratulations with the nomination.

532
00:28:00,319 --> 00:28:03,960
I'm like, those are the directors, so yeah.

533
00:28:04,039 --> 00:28:08,319
Speaker 1: Just take it. Say yep, I'm that money nominations they like.

534
00:28:08,599 --> 00:28:11,440
When I built my website, they have different referral things

535
00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:13,519
you can drop on there, and I had a DraftKings

536
00:28:13,519 --> 00:28:15,160
thing on there. It's just a referral I get it

537
00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:17,680
from like a DraftKings account I have, and so many

538
00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:21,880
people have been like you were sponsored by DraftKings. I go, sure, yeah,

539
00:28:22,039 --> 00:28:26,279
what EV's go ahead and roll with it. Let me

540
00:28:26,279 --> 00:28:30,039
get into some of your content then, Crystal, what do

541
00:28:30,079 --> 00:28:34,559
you like to shoot the most and what sells the most?

542
00:28:34,680 --> 00:28:38,279
Because oftentimes they're not always the same. It's a great

543
00:28:38,640 --> 00:28:41,759
synergy if you can. You know, you really love solo

544
00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:45,400
videos where you like eat Cheetos and watch Netflix and

545
00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:47,799
guys are like, I want to buy that can be

546
00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:49,559
the dream? Fuck? I know, right?

547
00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:50,319
Speaker 2: Uh?

548
00:28:51,319 --> 00:28:54,240
Speaker 1: What is what's your best selling type of content?

549
00:28:55,079 --> 00:28:57,880
Speaker 2: I would say what I started with and what I

550
00:28:57,960 --> 00:29:01,200
still kind of try and center it around which is

551
00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:06,279
hot wifing. Oh my, my husband filming while I'm getting

552
00:29:06,359 --> 00:29:10,400
railed by some other guy every now and then he

553
00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:12,880
can sneak in there and do like a POV thing,

554
00:29:13,119 --> 00:29:15,519
So you know, I'm like, honey, came here and I

555
00:29:15,599 --> 00:29:18,880
start messing with him while you know. Oh, so that's

556
00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:20,759
that's mainly what I do, and that's what sells the

557
00:29:20,759 --> 00:29:23,640
most on mine too, So okay, I am there.

558
00:29:23,880 --> 00:29:29,039
Speaker 1: I guess is there is there any like trend or

559
00:29:29,119 --> 00:29:31,720
fetish or anything like that that you want to dive

560
00:29:31,759 --> 00:29:34,359
into and you hope it will be successful. Maybe it's

561
00:29:34,400 --> 00:29:36,799
not a big core of the content you make now

562
00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:39,680
at Crystal Sparks, by the way, but that you really

563
00:29:39,759 --> 00:29:41,759
want to. Like, fuck, I hope this takes off. That

564
00:29:41,759 --> 00:29:44,640
would be so cool if it was the next faux incest.

565
00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:50,400
Speaker 2: Yeah. So I think everyone in the industry would love

566
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:54,319
if anything was the next poems. Right, We're all kind

567
00:29:54,319 --> 00:29:58,000
of like, okay, come on, this it's getting ridiculous. But

568
00:29:58,160 --> 00:30:02,000
oh okay, So I I just recently started something new

569
00:30:02,039 --> 00:30:05,799
and I hope it takes off, and it's really simple

570
00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:09,319
and it's just me, and so far it's I'm getting

571
00:30:09,359 --> 00:30:12,480
really great feedback. So just dressing up in a different

572
00:30:12,559 --> 00:30:18,480
like costume or cosplayer or whatever, and and not so

573
00:30:18,559 --> 00:30:22,720
much writing a script. I'm ad libbing, but yeah, just

574
00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:27,079
or is that the word I'm looking for.

575
00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:31,599
Speaker 1: I'm looking improving and coming up all right? So your

576
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:35,960
your is it like cosplay exactly or is it like No.

577
00:30:35,839 --> 00:30:39,640
Speaker 2: Not necessarily, because I think different people have a different

578
00:30:39,799 --> 00:30:42,079
definition of that than I do. I'm not dressing up

579
00:30:42,119 --> 00:30:45,680
like like an anime character or whatnot. I am a

580
00:30:45,720 --> 00:30:48,799
huge truckie, so I might do some. I have a

581
00:30:48,839 --> 00:30:52,119
few Star Trek uniforms, but I'm trying to look into

582
00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:56,240
the legality of that. I don't want to get sued

583
00:30:56,279 --> 00:31:01,160
by my favorite people. But I did, like not too

584
00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:04,519
long ago, a sex therapist one where I was wearing

585
00:31:04,559 --> 00:31:07,200
like a satin button up blouse and glasses and you know,

586
00:31:07,359 --> 00:31:09,960
the pencil long pencil skirt, and I just sat down

587
00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:12,759
and for about five five to ten minutes, I'm just

588
00:31:12,839 --> 00:31:16,039
talking with a pad, like saying oh, okay, okay, and

589
00:31:16,079 --> 00:31:18,680
then I'm like, okay, well let me show you. And

590
00:31:18,680 --> 00:31:22,799
then I'm like, this is the Glitterist. And it was

591
00:31:22,799 --> 00:31:25,559
like a ten minute video and people loved it. And

592
00:31:25,599 --> 00:31:28,440
then I also did oh gosh, what was another one

593
00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:31,279
I did? I did one with like baby oil, where

594
00:31:31,319 --> 00:31:34,640
I just like basically the same thing. I was teaching

595
00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:38,400
some younger man, you know, how to please a woman,

596
00:31:38,559 --> 00:31:40,759
and so I was like, oh, baby oil and was

597
00:31:40,839 --> 00:31:43,400
rubbing it all over myself. And I have a bush,

598
00:31:43,519 --> 00:31:46,519
so you know, guys like me to incorp some guys

599
00:31:46,559 --> 00:31:50,559
like me to incorporate that. So just like shorter videos

600
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:54,759
where I'm dressed up as a nurser, doctor, therapist, teacher, whatever,

601
00:31:55,279 --> 00:31:57,000
and I'm just kind of putting on a little skit

602
00:31:57,920 --> 00:32:02,599
and then it leading. It's more like porn, organized scripted

603
00:32:02,759 --> 00:32:05,880
porn than anything else. So my husband's been trying to

604
00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:08,640
get me to do this for years, and like ever

605
00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:10,240
since I started. I'm like, I have no idea, Like

606
00:32:10,279 --> 00:32:12,319
that's stupid. I have no idea what you're talking about.

607
00:32:12,640 --> 00:32:15,000
And he's like, please, people would love it. I'd love it,

608
00:32:15,079 --> 00:32:17,640
just a different one every time. We can post two

609
00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:19,279
or three a week, and I'm like, Okay, I have

610
00:32:19,319 --> 00:32:21,960
no idea what you want. I don't. I don't, I

611
00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:24,759
have no idea. I was lost, and so one day

612
00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:27,359
I not too long ago, I was just like, what

613
00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:29,160
am I going to do for this shit like he

614
00:32:29,279 --> 00:32:31,680
wants it. I have no idea what he wants. So

615
00:32:31,759 --> 00:32:34,079
I just thought I'll just act like I'm a sex therapist,

616
00:32:34,440 --> 00:32:36,880
and so I sat down. It took off, and he's like,

617
00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:39,279
I have been begging for you to do this for

618
00:32:39,359 --> 00:32:43,039
so long. He's like, thank you. I'm like, you just

619
00:32:43,079 --> 00:32:45,039
wanted me to write a porn script and act it out,

620
00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:49,319
Like why didn't you just say that? So I am.

621
00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:52,200
I am starting that and trying now. We'll see how

622
00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:54,319
it goes because it is getting away from the hont

623
00:32:54,359 --> 00:32:57,720
life thing, but I think I will still continue to

624
00:32:57,759 --> 00:33:00,599
do that, of course. But I think with the new

625
00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:03,240
fans I have following me who haven't been with me

626
00:33:03,319 --> 00:33:10,680
since the very beginning, they're really appreciating that new stuff,

627
00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:13,480
you know, so because so many people now are doing

628
00:33:13,559 --> 00:33:17,119
the hot life thing. So even people who don't work

629
00:33:17,279 --> 00:33:20,799
in the professional porn industry, you know, if you're just

630
00:33:20,839 --> 00:33:24,759
swingers who have only fans, you know, they're all doing that.

631
00:33:24,759 --> 00:33:27,240
That's what they're doing, and so that is something new.

632
00:33:27,279 --> 00:33:30,799
I'm trying that, I hope. But other than that would

633
00:33:30,839 --> 00:33:34,880
be anal. I haven't done my first anal shoot yet,

634
00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:38,640
and so if it doesn't come soon sooner than later,

635
00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:41,079
then I guess I'm just gonna start doing it all my.

636
00:33:41,039 --> 00:33:43,480
Speaker 1: Only There you go, Yeah, I mean sometimes you gotta

637
00:33:43,480 --> 00:33:45,079
just do it yourself. And by the way, folks, my

638
00:33:45,160 --> 00:33:47,759
guess next week is going to be Crystal's husband where

639
00:33:47,759 --> 00:33:49,920
he just yells for an hour and goes I told

640
00:33:49,960 --> 00:33:51,240
her to do it, and I go, I know they

641
00:33:51,279 --> 00:33:53,640
never listen to us. Do that? They never listen. We

642
00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:56,119
have such good ideas and they've just never listened to us.

643
00:33:56,160 --> 00:33:58,519
And then him and I cry to each other like

644
00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:02,759
men do appreciate. I have a pitch for you. I

645
00:34:02,799 --> 00:34:05,440
pitched this the Bad Bella the other day another performer,

646
00:34:05,559 --> 00:34:08,400
and I think it's a good idea, but it already

647
00:34:08,480 --> 00:34:12,559
might be out there all stationary cameras. Write it like

648
00:34:12,599 --> 00:34:15,840
an Airbnb where we're not supposed to do anything dirty,

649
00:34:16,400 --> 00:34:19,000
and just cut between the stationary cameras as you fuck

650
00:34:19,079 --> 00:34:20,960
on some guy's couch. I just came up with a

651
00:34:21,039 --> 00:34:25,920
name as you were talking AIRTNA. There you go. When

652
00:34:25,960 --> 00:34:28,239
this idea takes off and everyone's like, oh my god.

653
00:34:28,239 --> 00:34:30,000
I used to want to fuck my stepbrother, but now

654
00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:33,599
I want to fucking someone's Airbnb like, that'll be our idea.

655
00:34:33,679 --> 00:34:35,880
This is all of our collectives on this show.

656
00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:39,840
Speaker 2: I love it. We won't be able to get sued

657
00:34:39,880 --> 00:34:42,159
like some people who actually did it.

658
00:34:42,239 --> 00:34:46,679
Speaker 1: You know, we're sure, yeah, what is all right? So

659
00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:49,320
we've been joking about the faux incest and I want

660
00:34:49,320 --> 00:34:51,400
to dive into that more. What is I mean, it's

661
00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:53,920
been the industry for ten years, it seems like, now,

662
00:34:54,280 --> 00:34:56,719
what is your thoughts on that? And by the way,

663
00:34:56,760 --> 00:35:00,199
you are still qualified to play step Mommy if you

664
00:35:00,239 --> 00:35:02,320
don't like it, but maybe you do. What is your

665
00:35:02,440 --> 00:35:04,639
view on like that whole thing? And do you think

666
00:35:04,719 --> 00:35:06,159
it's healthy?

667
00:35:06,199 --> 00:35:14,000
Speaker 2: Healthy? I mean I think that people, including myself. That's

668
00:35:14,039 --> 00:35:17,159
probably why I can speak on this. Some people I

669
00:35:17,199 --> 00:35:22,880
can't speak for everyone have kinks or fetishes that let's see.

670
00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:25,760
Someone put it perfectly to me when I first started

671
00:35:25,800 --> 00:35:30,920
exploring all of this. There's a difference between a fantasy

672
00:35:31,079 --> 00:35:36,760
and reality total And there are some porns that I've

673
00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:39,800
watched that really get me going, but I would never

674
00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:44,360
do or consider in real life. And sometimes I've watched

675
00:35:44,360 --> 00:35:47,760
like the Daddy Daughter. You know, most of the time,

676
00:35:48,039 --> 00:35:50,079
and like I said earlier, I meant to older men,

677
00:35:50,639 --> 00:35:52,440
So most of the time. That's just what you have

678
00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:56,719
to search for to get to that older man younger

679
00:35:56,800 --> 00:35:59,119
I think now they have age play, but sometimes that

680
00:35:59,159 --> 00:36:02,719
goes a little too looking for me, you know. So,

681
00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:08,960
But all that to say, I don't think it's unhealthy.

682
00:36:09,079 --> 00:36:12,079
I think that it's definitely healthier if someone is like

683
00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:18,039
really into that getting often that way, then like going

684
00:36:18,079 --> 00:36:22,280
and trying to do something in real life. Obviously, so

685
00:36:22,480 --> 00:36:25,880
there's that aspect of it. But other than that, I

686
00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:28,159
don't know. I think it's most I would hope and

687
00:36:28,239 --> 00:36:32,519
think it's mostly the fantasy of it all. Just again,

688
00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:36,079
I haven't said this yet. I'm a debiant, so I

689
00:36:36,159 --> 00:36:39,039
get turned on by things I'm not supposed to get

690
00:36:39,039 --> 00:36:42,000
turned on mine. So there have been plenty of pornos

691
00:36:42,079 --> 00:36:44,639
I have watched and like the idea of the story,

692
00:36:44,679 --> 00:36:47,800
whatever turns me on gets me going does its job.

693
00:36:48,559 --> 00:36:51,519
But then maybe afterwards and like I'm fucking disgusting, Like

694
00:36:51,559 --> 00:36:53,920
how did I just watch that and come to it?

695
00:36:54,440 --> 00:36:58,320
Speaker 1: Sure, so you know who it's all.

696
00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:01,800
Speaker 2: It all depends on if it's healthy for that individual

697
00:37:02,199 --> 00:37:05,480
now acting it out. There have been times where I've

698
00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:09,039
worked with a young man who I feel like I

699
00:37:09,079 --> 00:37:12,719
could break in half and I'm tiny, so you know,

700
00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:15,519
but when you look at it that way, it's it's

701
00:37:15,559 --> 00:37:18,400
my job. You know. I'm still having fun. They're still

702
00:37:18,440 --> 00:37:22,639
great guys. They're way younger than I would ever mess

703
00:37:22,679 --> 00:37:27,400
around with in real life. Again, not my thing. Maybe

704
00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:30,239
maybe one day when I'm in my fifties, it'll be

705
00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:34,719
my thing, like you said, But yeah, I think it's

706
00:37:34,719 --> 00:37:39,360
healthy depending on the person. And sometimes they can get

707
00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:41,519
a little cringe and like creepy, like what the fuck

708
00:37:41,519 --> 00:37:44,480
do you guys want me to say? Like what But

709
00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:47,239
most of all we just laugh about it because it's

710
00:37:47,280 --> 00:37:48,280
so ridiculous.

711
00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:52,400
Speaker 1: But yeah, I think same as all types of porn. Though,

712
00:37:52,559 --> 00:37:56,039
understand that it's fantasy, it's entertainment, it's whatever it is.

713
00:37:56,079 --> 00:37:58,719
There you have to draw that line. Then you get

714
00:37:58,719 --> 00:38:03,400
creepy people sending you a letter written in blood, And yeah,

715
00:38:03,599 --> 00:38:06,119
I looked at your Twitter and the very first picture

716
00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:09,079
right up here, posted just a few hours ago, is

717
00:38:09,159 --> 00:38:12,920
two knives a beret. Al Right, this.

718
00:38:13,079 --> 00:38:15,280
Speaker 2: Right here, it's supposed to be a Barrett.

719
00:38:15,840 --> 00:38:19,039
Speaker 1: Oh I don't. I don't fucking know the difference, Barrett. Okay,

720
00:38:19,079 --> 00:38:21,440
maybe I'll just played it round. No, No, you probably

721
00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:23,559
got it right, this right here is my life in

722
00:38:23,599 --> 00:38:26,840
a picture, total accident, two knives, a crystal, and a

723
00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:31,599
hair beret or Barrett. Oh yeah, and my schedule, Your

724
00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:34,039
schedule looks fucking ridiculous.

725
00:38:34,559 --> 00:38:37,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's not even the whole thing. That's just my

726
00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:37,920
my stuff.

727
00:38:38,800 --> 00:38:42,039
Speaker 1: So did you know getting into this? Now? It's nice

728
00:38:42,079 --> 00:38:44,039
you have that husband at home who you said picks

729
00:38:44,079 --> 00:38:45,639
up with us. A lot of the slack with that,

730
00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:48,719
but so many girls I interview, it's five percent of

731
00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:52,119
my job is fucking and ninety five percent is social

732
00:38:52,199 --> 00:38:56,519
media editing, making sure this gets through dick ratings, whatever

733
00:38:56,559 --> 00:39:00,679
it is. Did you did you know working porn was

734
00:39:00,719 --> 00:39:04,000
going to be so much work? No?

735
00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:06,880
Speaker 2: No, no, no, I did not. And I haven't even

736
00:39:07,039 --> 00:39:10,079
buckled down and really done everything I should be doing yet,

737
00:39:10,119 --> 00:39:14,039
because I am I am in real life a mother.

738
00:39:15,440 --> 00:39:18,679
I won't give details about my children. But they're not

739
00:39:18,760 --> 00:39:21,639
children anymore. They're they're quite a bit older, so they

740
00:39:21,719 --> 00:39:27,519
are more self sufficient. However, none of them drive, even

741
00:39:27,559 --> 00:39:30,800
though they should be driving. But no one their age

742
00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:33,679
wants to operate a motor vehicle anymore. It seems they

743
00:39:33,719 --> 00:39:35,400
all want to take ubers or someone.

744
00:39:35,239 --> 00:39:39,159
Speaker 1: Driving them, right, Yeah, I've noticedulous with my wife. My

745
00:39:39,199 --> 00:39:43,920
wife's cousins are like younger, like sixteen, seventeen, eighteen did

746
00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:46,719
I could not wait to get my fucking license and

747
00:39:46,880 --> 00:39:50,159
just not be where I was. Okay, I just need

748
00:39:50,159 --> 00:39:52,320
to be moving and then, thank you, I'll just find

749
00:39:52,320 --> 00:39:56,079
another way there. Hey, here's an easier solution. You can

750
00:39:56,199 --> 00:40:01,639
get there. Yeah, get your ass and gear, job, serious.

751
00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:06,599
Speaker 2: Money, do something with you. No, No, they are a

752
00:40:06,639 --> 00:40:11,480
different breed than we were. One. I was driving at fifteen.

753
00:40:12,239 --> 00:40:15,440
I was telling my parents I wasn't like doing the

754
00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:18,280
sexual stuff. But I was telling my parents that I

755
00:40:18,320 --> 00:40:20,400
was going down the street a mile to spend the

756
00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:23,400
weekend at my best friend's house. And I was going

757
00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:28,199
two states over on road trips with my friends for

758
00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:31,360
the weekend Holland. I was going one hundred and twenty

759
00:40:31,440 --> 00:40:33,519
back home down the highway, so I didn't miss my

760
00:40:33,639 --> 00:40:38,519
curfew like wild times. But maybe that's why my parents

761
00:40:38,519 --> 00:40:41,760
were so strung. They knew I was up to something.

762
00:40:42,280 --> 00:40:47,360
But I was a good kid overall. But yeah, I freedom.

763
00:40:47,599 --> 00:40:51,119
We wanted freedom, and that was how you got it

764
00:40:51,159 --> 00:40:54,599
was by having your your license and getting your first car.

765
00:40:54,800 --> 00:40:58,480
And I worked three jobs at fast food restaurants. At

766
00:40:58,480 --> 00:41:00,480
one point in time, I'd get four hours to sleep

767
00:41:00,519 --> 00:41:02,599
just because I wanted the money so that I could

768
00:41:02,679 --> 00:41:07,119
do things. You know, kids don't want that anymore, but whatever,

769
00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:10,920
but yes I have. I'm a real life milf. As

770
00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:14,079
I tell these young guys on set, the twenty twenty

771
00:41:14,079 --> 00:41:16,239
one year olds, I'm like, well, now I got to

772
00:41:16,320 --> 00:41:18,199
go to the grocery store and go home and make dinner.

773
00:41:18,280 --> 00:41:22,559
And they're like what, Like, yeah, I am an actual

774
00:41:22,639 --> 00:41:24,199
milk and.

775
00:41:24,599 --> 00:41:26,599
Speaker 1: You're cleaning come off your chest and you're like, I

776
00:41:26,679 --> 00:41:30,880
got to pick up lunchable and we need apples at home.

777
00:41:31,000 --> 00:41:33,480
Jeff likes apples, so I should you.

778
00:41:33,519 --> 00:41:36,360
Speaker 2: Know that's probably happened at the end of the month.

779
00:41:36,480 --> 00:41:41,360
Set one percent, Like did I get everything off my face?

780
00:41:41,440 --> 00:41:43,840
I don't want my eighteen year old like asking mom,

781
00:41:43,880 --> 00:41:48,679
what the fuck is that? So yeah, but yes I am.

782
00:41:48,760 --> 00:41:52,239
I am very busy with work and with real life.

783
00:41:52,480 --> 00:41:54,880
But no, I never imagined because you know, when you

784
00:41:54,960 --> 00:41:57,719
just get into porn, especially coming off only fans or

785
00:41:57,760 --> 00:42:03,000
whatever online stuff in case you have to bleep that out. Okay,

786
00:42:04,199 --> 00:42:09,000
so coming off that, you don't you think you're just

787
00:42:09,039 --> 00:42:11,679
going to shoot content, you know, and maybe you do

788
00:42:11,760 --> 00:42:14,599
a little editing, brushing up whatever and putting it on

789
00:42:14,639 --> 00:42:20,639
the website. But no, if you like your profession, it's

790
00:42:20,639 --> 00:42:26,199
almost like your professional work now is more advertisement for

791
00:42:26,360 --> 00:42:30,079
your actual job, which is the online stuff, because that's

792
00:42:30,119 --> 00:42:31,199
how you're making your money.

793
00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:34,639
Speaker 1: That's how the biggest names, you know. I also do

794
00:42:34,679 --> 00:42:36,719
a separate show where I interview new girls coming into

795
00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:38,519
the industry, and so many of them I ask like,

796
00:42:38,880 --> 00:42:41,480
would you want to do mainstream stuff? They're like, I

797
00:42:41,559 --> 00:42:43,880
don't know, it doesn't really pay a lot. And it's like,

798
00:42:45,320 --> 00:42:47,960
I agree, maybe that it's not what you could be

799
00:42:48,039 --> 00:42:53,079
making on a very right but Crystal sparks at the

800
00:42:53,079 --> 00:42:55,480
top of like a Brassers or Team Skeeter or whatever

801
00:42:55,639 --> 00:42:58,599
is a really great advertisement to send people saying this

802
00:42:58,679 --> 00:43:01,280
scene was so good, so turned on, I would love

803
00:43:01,320 --> 00:43:05,400
to see if she had more stuff. So when when

804
00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:07,559
I talk to new people, if they're like I want

805
00:43:07,559 --> 00:43:09,119
to know, like, you know, how would I get into

806
00:43:09,320 --> 00:43:12,679
the industry, my recommendation is learn to edit video and

807
00:43:12,760 --> 00:43:15,960
take a marketing class at a social at community college.

808
00:43:16,320 --> 00:43:17,679
Speaker 2: You know, like great advice?

809
00:43:18,280 --> 00:43:22,039
Speaker 1: Really, I mean, are there I think a girl who's

810
00:43:22,119 --> 00:43:25,559
a seven on the scale of one to ten, but

811
00:43:25,800 --> 00:43:29,079
knows all of this stuff will make infinitely more money

812
00:43:29,119 --> 00:43:31,960
than a ten who doesn't know any of this stuff,

813
00:43:31,960 --> 00:43:35,719
who just guaranteed my hotness will get me through it,

814
00:43:35,800 --> 00:43:37,280
you know, And that's not always.

815
00:43:37,320 --> 00:43:39,559
Speaker 2: There's lots of hot girls out there nowadays.

816
00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:41,920
Speaker 1: Yeah. They just you got to know how to market yourself,

817
00:43:42,000 --> 00:43:43,239
that's right.

818
00:43:43,039 --> 00:43:44,840
Speaker 2: It's all good marketing. Yeah.

819
00:43:44,960 --> 00:43:49,440
Speaker 1: Yeah. So let me ask, what is something that is

820
00:43:49,480 --> 00:43:54,719
in the industry that you just have no interest in pursuing.

821
00:43:54,800 --> 00:43:58,239
Where it's something like whatever it is, If it's bondage,

822
00:43:58,280 --> 00:44:00,239
if it's you know what I mean by like within

823
00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:03,480
the industry, somewhat within norms but not.

824
00:44:03,679 --> 00:44:12,400
Speaker 3: Necessary, right, I was just thinking like the kink stuff,

825
00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:14,199
like cause you mentioned bondage.

826
00:44:14,440 --> 00:44:17,000
Speaker 2: I already have plans for just about everything as the

827
00:44:17,079 --> 00:44:20,559
years go on. You know, I went my first year

828
00:44:20,719 --> 00:44:24,159
two years being pretty vanilla. Now I'm adding an anal

829
00:44:24,400 --> 00:44:26,320
and then next year I'll add in something else, next

830
00:44:26,360 --> 00:44:30,440
year as something else, But I don't it may change.

831
00:44:31,079 --> 00:44:34,920
We all grow as people, But I don't ever see

832
00:44:34,920 --> 00:44:40,800
myself doing the like really violent aggressive like torture chamber

833
00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:43,960
stuff where you know, I see some women do it

834
00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:48,360
and they love it. I'm not really big into pain,

835
00:44:49,159 --> 00:44:53,239
so I don't see myself getting turned on by someone

836
00:44:53,519 --> 00:45:00,440
punching me in my face, sure, or like actually joking

837
00:45:00,480 --> 00:45:02,639
me to the point where I'm passing out or something

838
00:45:02,679 --> 00:45:05,920
like that. I'm not into this stuff where if I'm

839
00:45:05,960 --> 00:45:08,800
watching it and I don't know for sure that they're acting,

840
00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:12,679
I don't like that because like if they're actually like

841
00:45:12,960 --> 00:45:16,239
crying and look like they're in pain, and I don't,

842
00:45:16,400 --> 00:45:18,800
I don't. But I've talked to some girls who do

843
00:45:18,880 --> 00:45:21,800
that and they they love it. They're afterwards, you know,

844
00:45:21,840 --> 00:45:23,719
they're like, oh, no, that was the hottest thing ever.

845
00:45:23,760 --> 00:45:27,039
And I'm like, really, because you didn't look you didn't

846
00:45:27,119 --> 00:45:28,440
look like you were enjoying it.

847
00:45:28,639 --> 00:45:30,639
Speaker 1: You were crying and begging at one point. Are you

848
00:45:30,679 --> 00:45:31,119
sure that?

849
00:45:31,599 --> 00:45:35,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's okay, But yeah, I think that's the only thing.

850
00:45:35,559 --> 00:45:39,119
Really I can't ever. But again, who knows. Ten years

851
00:45:39,159 --> 00:45:42,679
from now, I might be like, ah, that's easy, you know,

852
00:45:44,159 --> 00:45:46,360
who knows. But right now, that's what I'm saying, the

853
00:45:47,000 --> 00:45:51,400
hardcore torture. You're leaving marks on my body for the

854
00:45:51,440 --> 00:45:54,760
next month. Yeah, I'll pass on that for now.

855
00:45:54,960 --> 00:45:57,280
Speaker 1: Yeah that's rough. That's rough. When you see a scene,

856
00:45:57,320 --> 00:45:59,840
and you know someone shot something rough in the last

857
00:45:59,840 --> 00:46:02,239
few days because you're like, oh wow, this is a nice,

858
00:46:02,239 --> 00:46:05,159
normal boy girl scene. Why she bruised to ship? Did

859
00:46:05,199 --> 00:46:06,199
she fall down the hill?

860
00:46:06,920 --> 00:46:07,039
Speaker 2: Uh?

861
00:46:07,199 --> 00:46:10,239
Speaker 1: Looking like Jay Leno when they show up on set bugging.

862
00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:15,519
I was just gonna say, uh, so going forward, what

863
00:46:15,719 --> 00:46:18,679
are the goals going forward? Is it? I guess you

864
00:46:18,760 --> 00:46:20,480
kind of just answered that you want to add something

865
00:46:20,559 --> 00:46:22,800
new every year, right, Yeah?

866
00:46:22,880 --> 00:46:27,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, I want to. I want to consistently grow and

867
00:46:27,400 --> 00:46:30,880
explore because I don't ever want to forget. The main

868
00:46:30,960 --> 00:46:34,719
reason I started doing all of this was to get

869
00:46:34,719 --> 00:46:37,920
to know myself really that because that was something that

870
00:46:38,039 --> 00:46:43,159
was kept from me. I'm a much much different parent

871
00:46:43,800 --> 00:46:46,119
than my parents were because of it, So I think

872
00:46:46,159 --> 00:46:50,679
that's a good thing. There's nothing my my kids, my

873
00:46:50,880 --> 00:46:52,599
I don't want to call them kids because they are

874
00:46:53,079 --> 00:46:57,320
rather grown, but my offspring there's they know, and god,

875
00:46:57,519 --> 00:47:01,880
I know, there's nothing they feel uncomfortable coming to me with.

876
00:47:02,519 --> 00:47:05,840
There have been many times where they're like telling me

877
00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:09,519
something and I'm like, you know, I'm your mother, right,

878
00:47:10,199 --> 00:47:13,800
like you know that right, And they're like, yeah, well

879
00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:15,920
that's how you raised us, Like you want me not

880
00:47:16,039 --> 00:47:22,079
to tell you anything. Now, I'm like anyways, but yeah,

881
00:47:22,159 --> 00:47:24,960
I think just as long as I can I consistently

882
00:47:25,079 --> 00:47:29,960
grow and explore and learn new things and meet new people,

883
00:47:30,039 --> 00:47:33,000
and I'm having fun with it, I'll keep on going

884
00:47:33,480 --> 00:47:37,199
because I'm having the time of my life and I

885
00:47:37,320 --> 00:47:38,280
never wanted to stop.

886
00:47:38,599 --> 00:47:42,440
Speaker 1: That's great, I mean, that's real. I mean so many

887
00:47:42,480 --> 00:47:45,039
people are working their office jobs like nine to five,

888
00:47:45,159 --> 00:47:48,280
traveling in, sitting in a big fluoresca desk with fluorescent

889
00:47:48,360 --> 00:47:50,840
lighting above them or whatever it is, and so many

890
00:47:50,920 --> 00:47:52,320
of them wish they could just get to a point

891
00:47:52,320 --> 00:47:54,519
where they're like, I wish I was making money doing

892
00:47:54,559 --> 00:47:57,480
something that makes me happy. And I think that's why

893
00:47:57,559 --> 00:48:00,400
you get a lot of hate, not you specifically. I'm

894
00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:02,639
going through your Twitter and just everyone hates you. Wow.

895
00:48:02,840 --> 00:48:08,480
Yeah no, actually, but so many of them. Just I understand,

896
00:48:08,559 --> 00:48:11,519
this isn't your life, you know, don't sit there and

897
00:48:11,559 --> 00:48:14,360
be angry and hate about it. Figure out a pivot,

898
00:48:14,599 --> 00:48:17,920
figure out something you could do, even just get a

899
00:48:18,039 --> 00:48:22,239
hobby a right, I really like I have something plant.

900
00:48:23,760 --> 00:48:25,239
Let me ask you, and I don't ask this to

901
00:48:25,239 --> 00:48:29,199
be controversial, because whatever opinions, it's just it's an interesting range.

902
00:48:29,239 --> 00:48:33,159
I get from performers. What should be the age to

903
00:48:33,199 --> 00:48:35,239
get into porn M A.

904
00:48:35,360 --> 00:48:39,960
Speaker 2: Great, great, great question. Oh that's a hard one to answer,

905
00:48:40,000 --> 00:48:43,440
and I have thought about this before because of my

906
00:48:43,440 --> 00:48:46,840
my offspring. Specifically, if my eighteen year old came to

907
00:48:46,840 --> 00:48:49,320
me and she said that she wanted to do whatever,

908
00:48:50,079 --> 00:48:53,840
I would one percent support her. However, thankfully, now I

909
00:48:53,880 --> 00:48:55,880
would be in the position where I could educate her.

910
00:48:56,400 --> 00:48:58,920
I could make sure that she's getting in with the

911
00:48:58,960 --> 00:49:03,039
right people and doing it the correct way to where

912
00:49:03,119 --> 00:49:05,239
she's not going to be put in a situation that

913
00:49:05,440 --> 00:49:08,920
is going to harm her, which I hear stories, and

914
00:49:08,960 --> 00:49:12,440
I feel so bad. I have been fortunate enough now

915
00:49:12,519 --> 00:49:16,599
I haven't had one bad experience. I don't know it

916
00:49:16,719 --> 00:49:20,119
that's because I'm older, because I do hear a lot

917
00:49:20,159 --> 00:49:22,079
of you know, a lot of the younger girls. People

918
00:49:22,719 --> 00:49:25,079
might try to take advantage of them or whatnot, and

919
00:49:25,079 --> 00:49:27,360
that's why they get in those situations, or they don't

920
00:49:27,440 --> 00:49:31,840
realize they can say no without it hurting them or

921
00:49:31,880 --> 00:49:37,280
their careers. But most people I meet that are eighteen,

922
00:49:37,440 --> 00:49:44,119
I don't think they're mature enough to truly understand what

923
00:49:44,239 --> 00:49:47,760
they're getting into, or maybe if they're just doing it

924
00:49:47,800 --> 00:49:51,719
for fun in a quick book, like, Okay, are you

925
00:49:52,119 --> 00:49:55,239
planning on doing something in the future that you know?

926
00:49:55,280 --> 00:49:58,719
Nowadays everything it's on the internet. Someone might find that

927
00:49:58,800 --> 00:50:01,119
and say, we don't want to hire you for this job,

928
00:50:01,159 --> 00:50:02,760
We don't want to be your client. You know, is

929
00:50:02,760 --> 00:50:04,800
that going to have a serious consequent or is it

930
00:50:04,880 --> 00:50:07,000
something you want to do your whole life like and

931
00:50:07,199 --> 00:50:09,519
you know, make an actual lifelong career out of it.

932
00:50:09,559 --> 00:50:12,400
Then okay, that's a different story. I have met eighteen

933
00:50:12,480 --> 00:50:15,880
year old that are what blow me out of the water,

934
00:50:16,159 --> 00:50:18,920
and they have a good head on their shoulders. They

935
00:50:18,960 --> 00:50:22,320
know what they're doing, they think things through, they're responsible.

936
00:50:23,159 --> 00:50:28,280
So that's really hard to say. I was in the army.

937
00:50:28,679 --> 00:50:30,719
It all goes back to the whole you know, you

938
00:50:30,719 --> 00:50:33,719
can fight for your country, die for your country, So

939
00:50:33,880 --> 00:50:35,880
if you want to fucking suck a dick for money,

940
00:50:36,039 --> 00:50:36,840
you should be able to.

941
00:50:37,199 --> 00:50:39,800
Speaker 1: That was literally the analogy I was about to use.

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You're eighteen years old, you can go, you know, shoot

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someone in Iraq, but you can't shoot porn Like that's ridiculous.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah, but twenty one to be able to

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do that.

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Speaker 1: Though I've interviewed I interviewed one girl years ago, though

947
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she was new to the industry. She told a story

948
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where she met a guy online who's going to book

949
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a scene with her eighteen years old. She flies six

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states over or whatever it is, on her own dime,

951
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because of course, she'll be reimbursed for it, you know. Oh,

952
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she gets a hotel room on her own dime because

953
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I'm sure you know, she'll be reimbursed. Don't Crystal, don't

954
00:51:13,119 --> 00:51:15,199
sweat it. She'll be reimbursed for it. Don't even worry

955
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about it. And then when she got there five states

956
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over whatever it was, she's from some po dunk town

957
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and wherever she ends up somewhere else. No one answers

958
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the phone, No one picks up the phone. No, no

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one's answered.

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Speaker 2: Now like this, Mam and bear would be flying out

961
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there to those.

962
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Speaker 1: You better shoot borrow my god, I'm not fucking losing it.

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Speaker 2: Is not being canceled. I will drop it, damn it.

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Give me a camera.

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Speaker 1: It's just yeah, it's it's it's wisdom, it's not age.

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I think you're right. There are some sixteen year olds

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who are just smarter and more intelligent, more emotionally intelligent

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than I am. And I get that, but there's also

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there's plenty of thirty year olds who don't know what

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the fuck they're doing with their life either, So it's

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tough setting number.

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Speaker 2: How do you make that call?

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Speaker 1: Oh, Crystal, this went so fast. I was, I was,

974
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I am so tired today. I was like, you got

975
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to get the energy up. I took I read in

976
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your bio you had sold vitamins. I took some vitamins

977
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before this, not meth. I took some lions made mushrooms

978
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and some Alpha GPC because I heard it on a

979
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podcast I'm sure somewhere, and I was like, you're gonna

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get fired up, and now I feel great. Well, we

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got to wrap this one up.

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Speaker 2: Oh well, I'll do it again.

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Speaker 1: Where you can find her. You know exactly where to

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find your links to everything in the episode description at

985
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Crystal Sparks her website. Also in the episode description everything,

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make sure you sign up for all of her stuff.

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Crystal Sparks, thank you so much for coming on with

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me tonight.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for having me again. It was a joy,

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very funny