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Speaker 1: Creativity is an addiction, unplugged because we will always say

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yes to creativity, totally uncut because we all make mistakes.

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So let's turn it into a tool. This is arrow unplugged, man,

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the things we do in our everyday world and life.

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Don't you hate it when you eat something that's very,

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very hot, like soup, and it burns the inner lining

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of your mouth. The experts say we should heal it

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with cold water, yogurt, alo vera, and honey. Do all

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you can to keep from furthering the injured area. Sounds easy, right,

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Not according to my tongue. It wants to overparent the situation,

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to constantly check in and see, hey, everything okay. Anytime

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any part of your body is affected by change, the

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mind goes into lockdown mode. Nothing else in the world

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matters except for the injury. My entire life, people have

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always accused me of overdoing it. Stop turning everything into

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a major situation. Wouldn't it be nice if you could

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just easily walk away and not have to think about

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your pain or, in this case, a burned mouth that

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just feels odd and not very happy. Hey, Zaro, this

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is the daily mass. A chronological walk through in everyday world.

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I am a daily writer. I am a silent wolf.

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I stand on the sidelines, underneath the limbs of a tree,

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and I watch life. I learn from life. I study it.

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I go research it in ways so that we can

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have a conversation, because there's so much that we're missing.

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This is the daily mess. They've always said that fingernails

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scratching a chalkboard is the most irritating experience on the planet.

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One problem, though, not too many schools or businesses have

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chalkboards these days. What then, would be the second worst

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negative experience? How about people who walk into a business

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with only two minutes to go before they close their doors.

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Everything that I've researched on this, they don't call it rude.

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They say, your business is open till eleven o'clock. You'll

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stay there till eleven o'clock, and you'll give them professional service.

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It's not rude to walk into a business with only

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two minutes to go. Bosses are easily pushed over by

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those kinds of people. They allow such bad behavior to

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be part of the norm. It's who we are. I

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jumped off the closing team at my essential job. Doe

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one hundred percent to the anxiety that begins forty five

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minutes to an hour before we close the doors. I

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couldn't do it, not anymore, No, because it's the same people,

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night after night, just strolling in there, not a care

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in the world, and we owe them what professionalism. It's

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every age group that's doing this, mainly those who live nearby.

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It's only considered rude if you're showing up at the

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door one minute after closing time and somebody forgot to

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lock the door. So it's like, ah, now you have

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to continue to be the professional and allow them to

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do what it is that they do. But now, according

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to these same experts, they do say this though, where

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a client becomes rude is when they go into your

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place of business looking for one thing and they come

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out with ten things. Now that is rude. What is

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your reaction going to be? You don't want to talk

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to them about it, nor do you want to talk

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to them about anything else. All you want is to

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go home. Is that professional? Not so much learning how

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to put on the candy coated plastic bathroom mirror smile

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when people come into your place of business two minutes

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before closing time. The holidays no different because they're banging

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on the door saying I just need one thing. It

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is not rude unless the doors have been closed at

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their proper time, at the top of the clock. I'm Meryl,

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and that's the daily mess.