WEBVTT 1 00:00:01.159 --> 00:00:05.639 Hey, folks, it's another episode of Relationships Is a Bitch. 2 00:00:05.719 --> 00:00:09.679 It is our sixth episode of Relationships as a Bitch. 3 00:00:09.759 --> 00:00:14.720 This is Mike Agavino along with aj Benza and our 4 00:00:14.880 --> 00:00:22.800 relationship guru Irena would Hey, guys, Hi, guys doing okay, 5 00:00:24.239 --> 00:00:27.600 let's not pretend that we haven't spent forty five minutes 6 00:00:27.679 --> 00:00:31.399 trying to get our freaking technology to work right. I 7 00:00:31.440 --> 00:00:34.039 still don't understand what the hell happened there, but folks, 8 00:00:34.039 --> 00:00:36.880 we are all here with you now. And by the way, 9 00:00:37.240 --> 00:00:41.079 thank you, folks. I was analyzing a little bit of 10 00:00:41.159 --> 00:00:44.960 data last night and see that we're climbing up there. 11 00:00:45.000 --> 00:00:47.560 We're picking up some of you folks. And we had 12 00:00:47.560 --> 00:00:51.399 almost four thousand people listen to the last episode, which 13 00:00:51.439 --> 00:00:54.439 isn't a bad place to be starting. So if you're 14 00:00:54.439 --> 00:00:57.280 liking what we're doing, tell your friends and tell them 15 00:00:57.320 --> 00:00:59.479 to tell their friends. And if you're liking what we're 16 00:00:59.479 --> 00:01:02.920 talking about out, make sure you go visit our sponsor, 17 00:01:03.039 --> 00:01:07.519 the Gemini near Me app, which is the world's only 18 00:01:07.959 --> 00:01:14.719 self love and relationships intelligence app created by our guest 19 00:01:14.920 --> 00:01:18.239 every week on the show, Irena Wood. And she's got 20 00:01:18.239 --> 00:01:20.519 some exciting things going on with the app that we'll 21 00:01:20.560 --> 00:01:23.000 be talking more about in the weeks to come. I 22 00:01:23.000 --> 00:01:29.799 could really have used the instantaneous AI feedback with your 23 00:01:29.799 --> 00:01:33.680 avatar this morning for something oh wow, which I'll tell 24 00:01:33.719 --> 00:01:34.359 you about later. 25 00:01:34.519 --> 00:01:39.400 Irena, we are doing some fascinating work and it's a 26 00:01:39.439 --> 00:01:41.680 lot of work. It's much more work that I expected 27 00:01:41.760 --> 00:01:45.159 to be, to be honest, and technology it's a different world, 28 00:01:45.640 --> 00:01:47.359 but I'm glad I'm diving into it. 29 00:01:47.480 --> 00:01:50.200 You know, when your parents made you, it was very 30 00:01:50.239 --> 00:01:56.159 easy to make you, but now making your avatars very difficult. 31 00:01:55.920 --> 00:01:58.920 I know what ever questions them about the process. 32 00:01:58.799 --> 00:02:00.840 Well, we all not what it takes. 33 00:02:00.879 --> 00:02:08.639 But the place maybe different in Ukraine than I guess 34 00:02:08.680 --> 00:02:12.039 to make the kids, it's you know, maybe easy process. 35 00:02:12.039 --> 00:02:15.319 But to raise it up, yes, I got a question 36 00:02:15.400 --> 00:02:15.599 for you. 37 00:02:15.639 --> 00:02:19.039 I don't know why tell me. These things just come. 38 00:02:19.199 --> 00:02:22.439 They just occur to me. But you know, we're we're 39 00:02:22.479 --> 00:02:25.199 in a new town, in a new state, in a 40 00:02:25.240 --> 00:02:31.080 new house, and everything is different, and so we're having 41 00:02:32.319 --> 00:02:36.879 new people, like a new handy person who comes and 42 00:02:36.919 --> 00:02:44.919 does stuff a new landscape or et cetera. And the 43 00:02:44.439 --> 00:02:51.120 the handy man is a Latino man. But I couldn't 44 00:02:51.360 --> 00:02:54.400 I knew it was I knew his last name was 45 00:02:54.439 --> 00:02:59.680 one of the more common Latino last names. So I'm 46 00:02:59.680 --> 00:03:03.400 going through my bloated contacts list, which hasn't been pruned 47 00:03:03.439 --> 00:03:05.039 and I don't know how many years, and there's like 48 00:03:05.120 --> 00:03:09.439 ten thousand names in there. And you would think I 49 00:03:09.479 --> 00:03:12.039 wouldn't have that many oscars, but I have quite a 50 00:03:12.039 --> 00:03:18.120 few oscars. And Jerry Anne screwed me up completely because 51 00:03:19.039 --> 00:03:26.840 she started calling him Oscar de la Cruz. And because 52 00:03:26.879 --> 00:03:29.919 there was a famous fighter named Oscar de la Hoya, 53 00:03:30.840 --> 00:03:36.319 famous boxer, and this guy's name was just Oscar Cruise. 54 00:03:36.759 --> 00:03:39.520 There was no Dayla. That was just my wife thinking 55 00:03:39.560 --> 00:03:42.000 of Oscar de la Hoya and starting to call the 56 00:03:42.039 --> 00:03:46.800 guy de la Cruz. So I'm looking for Dela and 57 00:03:48.039 --> 00:03:51.960 I'm going through, you know, Gonzales and Ortiz and all 58 00:03:52.080 --> 00:03:53.039 this stuff. 59 00:03:53.360 --> 00:03:56.400 And that's what Trump's doing now, going to Gonzales and 60 00:03:56.479 --> 00:03:57.560 Ortiz and Cruiz. 61 00:03:57.919 --> 00:03:59.960 He's going through all that. But it made me wonder, 62 00:04:00.120 --> 00:04:04.360 so what are some of the most common like Ukrainian 63 00:04:04.479 --> 00:04:07.759 or Russian last names, Like what are the Smith and 64 00:04:07.919 --> 00:04:13.080 Jones and Gonzales and cruisiers of Ukraine? 65 00:04:14.759 --> 00:04:17.399 Let me see, I think Carolinko is that a big one. 66 00:04:17.560 --> 00:04:22.720 Carolinko, No, but actually I didn't know what's the most 67 00:04:22.720 --> 00:04:25.839 common family name. But I have to tell you that 68 00:04:26.040 --> 00:04:31.000 everything what you hear, mostly which ends up with ko, 69 00:04:31.600 --> 00:04:36.399 that is a sign that it's Ukrainian background and Ukrainian family. 70 00:04:36.879 --> 00:04:40.079 So when you hear Kutsenko, that was my original family 71 00:04:40.160 --> 00:04:45.279 name before I was married to Canwood. And Alexinko that 72 00:04:45.399 --> 00:04:48.480 is part of my family. That my uncle's family name, 73 00:04:48.600 --> 00:04:52.879 and my mother's name before she got married to my father, 74 00:04:53.720 --> 00:04:57.759 and as well Ivan Yanko probably would be very Ukrainian name, 75 00:04:57.839 --> 00:05:00.600 because you know, you can hear you is a lot 76 00:05:00.759 --> 00:05:04.199 Bandarian would be very famous. But usually whatever you have 77 00:05:04.680 --> 00:05:07.959 here and then with code, that's Ukrainie. 78 00:05:08.160 --> 00:05:11.240 What about well, if it's like last name is Ivanov 79 00:05:11.439 --> 00:05:14.839 or Popov, that's that rusty. 80 00:05:15.279 --> 00:05:18.759 And it's interesting when you're here and you're already let's say, 81 00:05:18.759 --> 00:05:22.959 American citizen or you're having some paperwork done in the 82 00:05:23.120 --> 00:05:28.759 United States. In Russian language, when you are for a man, 83 00:05:28.959 --> 00:05:32.639 you should be Popova for a woman, but since you 84 00:05:32.720 --> 00:05:36.079 are in the United States, every your legal paperwork is 85 00:05:36.199 --> 00:05:40.240 translated into your husband's name. When we speak about masculine 86 00:05:40.279 --> 00:05:43.959 and feminine thought about powers like last time, so we 87 00:05:44.920 --> 00:05:49.480 wen have to keep the pronunciation of the man's name, 88 00:05:49.680 --> 00:05:51.199 so still be pop. 89 00:05:53.199 --> 00:05:55.240 Whatever it is, right, Okay, I got you. And what 90 00:05:55.399 --> 00:06:00.560 was your last name again? Your main name? I was, Yeah, 91 00:06:00.800 --> 00:06:03.000 I see a Cova length. I was very popular too. 92 00:06:03.879 --> 00:06:05.600 Yeah, Molenka is famous Monia. 93 00:06:06.240 --> 00:06:08.439 Yeah, all right, cool but not but there's not like 94 00:06:08.519 --> 00:06:08.839 a dom. 95 00:06:08.959 --> 00:06:13.600 There's not like Smith or Johnson or like where even 96 00:06:13.839 --> 00:06:15.959 even your new last name would is very common. 97 00:06:16.759 --> 00:06:19.439 I know, but you know, like I'm sure they are. 98 00:06:19.879 --> 00:06:22.399 I'm not sure I'm aware about it because I left 99 00:06:22.480 --> 00:06:25.759 Ukraine many years ago. I wasn't a kid, but I 100 00:06:25.879 --> 00:06:31.480 never was, you know, thinking about surnames and so yeah, honestly, when. 101 00:06:31.519 --> 00:06:37.360 You were reading the phone book, No, probably I was born. 102 00:06:37.480 --> 00:06:39.759 Probably didn't have such a thing as a phone book. 103 00:06:40.160 --> 00:06:43.720 No, we had, we did, absolutely, yes, and my parents 104 00:06:43.800 --> 00:06:47.000 and my grandparents they had it. I probably was, you know, 105 00:06:47.240 --> 00:06:52.680 diving into English vocabulary to picking up my foreign languages 106 00:06:52.759 --> 00:06:57.519 because I always have seen myself living abroad. I'm proud 107 00:06:57.600 --> 00:07:00.879 of my motherland, but I always seen myself somewhere else. 108 00:07:01.279 --> 00:07:01.720 That's good. 109 00:07:01.800 --> 00:07:05.000 I mean, I was thinking about taking the phone books 110 00:07:05.879 --> 00:07:07.439 when I was a kid, in New York City, or 111 00:07:07.480 --> 00:07:09.480 there are thousands of phone booths in New York City, 112 00:07:09.560 --> 00:07:12.040 and they all had phone books with them, so you 113 00:07:12.079 --> 00:07:14.040 can run through a phone, both open a phone book 114 00:07:14.079 --> 00:07:15.120 and find someone's number. 115 00:07:15.759 --> 00:07:17.879 Now you don't mean phone booths are left in New 116 00:07:17.959 --> 00:07:21.800 York mic two is that it? There's two in the 117 00:07:21.959 --> 00:07:24.040 entire city, both on the Upper West Side. I think 118 00:07:24.040 --> 00:07:26.639 I read that a few months back. They're both up uptown. 119 00:07:27.759 --> 00:07:30.240 So you're can tell me that neither of the train 120 00:07:30.319 --> 00:07:34.639 stations nor the bus term none of them have a 121 00:07:34.800 --> 00:07:35.560 public phone. 122 00:07:36.040 --> 00:07:38.519 No mean public phone? 123 00:07:38.560 --> 00:07:41.120 Do you use yours at home? Because we don't. We 124 00:07:41.279 --> 00:07:46.360 have just like my husbands his cell phone, I do mine. 125 00:07:46.160 --> 00:07:48.839 And I wonder we had to give all the legal 126 00:07:49.040 --> 00:07:50.439 immigrants their own phones. 127 00:07:50.519 --> 00:07:52.600 By the way, By the way, New York City no 128 00:07:52.720 --> 00:07:55.519 longer has any public payphones on the streets, but there 129 00:07:55.560 --> 00:07:57.959 are a few payphones that still may be in service, 130 00:07:58.040 --> 00:07:59.199 so there's a few. 131 00:08:00.319 --> 00:08:04.040 There's four booths uptown, but that's it. Okay, that's it. 132 00:08:05.160 --> 00:08:08.040 So none at Penn Station, none at Grand Central, none 133 00:08:08.120 --> 00:08:09.279 at the bus terminal. 134 00:08:09.319 --> 00:08:10.160 They're on the West End. 135 00:08:10.240 --> 00:08:13.040 Sixty six ninetieth, one hundred, one hundred and first streets. 136 00:08:13.519 --> 00:08:14.519 What does that even matter? 137 00:08:15.279 --> 00:08:15.959 I have no idea. 138 00:08:16.079 --> 00:08:17.079 It's all right. 139 00:08:18.519 --> 00:08:20.480 I don't know how we got on this topic. Maybe 140 00:08:20.560 --> 00:08:23.319 an idiot about names names? Yeah, okay, you guys. Well, 141 00:08:23.480 --> 00:08:27.600 it's it's been a week since the election, and most 142 00:08:27.680 --> 00:08:32.039 people other than I should point out aj Benza anticipated 143 00:08:32.799 --> 00:08:36.279 this being one of the closest elections in history. It 144 00:08:36.399 --> 00:08:38.960 turned out it was a blowout and a mandate for 145 00:08:39.039 --> 00:08:44.120 Trump that included a clean sweep of the seven battleround 146 00:08:44.159 --> 00:08:48.679 states and a victory in the popular vote. Trump's coat 147 00:08:48.720 --> 00:08:51.919 tails are long enough to bring several Senate races across 148 00:08:51.960 --> 00:08:55.440 the finish line, allowing Republicans to take a fifty three 149 00:08:55.600 --> 00:08:57.960 forty seven I guess officially Carry Lake has lost. So 150 00:08:58.080 --> 00:09:00.480 fifty three to forty seven is where we are in 151 00:09:00.559 --> 00:09:03.240 the Senate. And while a number of House races still 152 00:09:04.720 --> 00:09:08.759 are being tabulated, California is the worst. I mean, it's 153 00:09:08.799 --> 00:09:11.679 just ridiculous that we can't find out who won these races. 154 00:09:11.759 --> 00:09:15.039 But you know, while there's still a number of them out, 155 00:09:15.639 --> 00:09:20.200 it looks like the Republicans have retained the majority in 156 00:09:20.279 --> 00:09:23.039 the House, slight majority they had in the House, and 157 00:09:23.120 --> 00:09:26.480 maybe it'll grow by one or two or shrink by one, 158 00:09:26.559 --> 00:09:29.440 we don't know. But in the days immediately following the election, 159 00:09:29.600 --> 00:09:34.200 we saw some prominent Democrats Bernie Sanders for one, James 160 00:09:34.279 --> 00:09:39.159 Carvell for another, expressed regret and their belief that the 161 00:09:39.240 --> 00:09:42.919 Democrat Party had lost track, lost its way with the 162 00:09:42.960 --> 00:09:46.720 middle class, they lost touch with the issues that matter 163 00:09:46.879 --> 00:09:51.480 to everyday Americans, and lost the support of certain percentage 164 00:09:51.480 --> 00:09:55.000 of the ethnic groups they saw as monolithic voting blocks 165 00:09:55.440 --> 00:10:00.480 that would always blindly support them. The Latino American stats 166 00:10:00.519 --> 00:10:03.759 are pretty amazing, almost fifty to fifty, and on the 167 00:10:03.879 --> 00:10:08.720 male side more Latino mails voting for Trump than voted 168 00:10:08.799 --> 00:10:13.240 for Harris. On the African American side, the black side, overall, 169 00:10:14.000 --> 00:10:17.159 the numbers are up, but still, you know, they predominantly 170 00:10:17.279 --> 00:10:22.000 vote vote Democrat. But Trump grew his numbers there significantly, 171 00:10:22.120 --> 00:10:27.639 so you know. Unfortunately, besides Sanders and like I said, 172 00:10:28.320 --> 00:10:32.519 Carvel to a degree, most of the other things we've 173 00:10:32.559 --> 00:10:38.399 seen coming out of Democrats is more blamecasting from liberal 174 00:10:38.480 --> 00:10:44.120 voices in the media, blaming white women, misogynists, racists, the 175 00:10:44.240 --> 00:10:48.279 conservative media industrial complex, which I didn't know there was 176 00:10:48.440 --> 00:10:53.159 such a thing. Elon Musk, Joe Roganer Carlson, Charlie Kirk, 177 00:10:53.679 --> 00:10:57.080 all kinds of others. We've seen the videos on TikTok 178 00:10:57.200 --> 00:11:02.039 and Instagram from hysterical people, mostly women, repeating fallacies about 179 00:11:02.440 --> 00:11:07.080 Hitler and fascism and national abortion bands and a retribution 180 00:11:07.399 --> 00:11:11.720 tour and dictator on Day one, and Economic Ruin Project 181 00:11:11.759 --> 00:11:15.759 twenty twenty five. All of this stuff at nauseum. And 182 00:11:16.240 --> 00:11:23.000 I saw a popular meme that I think captured what 183 00:11:23.120 --> 00:11:27.480 has gone on very well. It said, Democrats a bunch 184 00:11:27.559 --> 00:11:30.919 of rich people convincing poor people to vote for rich 185 00:11:31.000 --> 00:11:34.200 people by telling the poor people that other rich people 186 00:11:34.440 --> 00:11:35.519 are the reason they're poor. 187 00:11:35.679 --> 00:11:37.399 It's perfect. It's perfect. 188 00:11:38.879 --> 00:11:41.879 That is it in a nutshell? So thousands of videos 189 00:11:42.000 --> 00:11:46.039 circulated with family members declaring that they will no longer 190 00:11:46.120 --> 00:11:49.360 speak with relatives who voted for Trump. Many said that 191 00:11:49.440 --> 00:11:52.879 they will not attend Thanksgiving dinner with relatives who voted 192 00:11:52.919 --> 00:11:55.919 for Trump. And so I want to devote our first 193 00:11:55.919 --> 00:12:00.000 segment here to family relationships and what our relationship experts 194 00:12:00.320 --> 00:12:03.600 Arena Wood thinks about the types of issues that actually 195 00:12:03.759 --> 00:12:10.480 do and don't justify ending family relationships and uninviting relatives 196 00:12:10.600 --> 00:12:14.039 to Thanksgiving dinner. So I guess this sort of falls 197 00:12:14.120 --> 00:12:19.120 in that four beef. I don't really get that where 198 00:12:19.159 --> 00:12:21.480 they came up with. What does that stand for? Even 199 00:12:21.679 --> 00:12:22.000 I don't know? 200 00:12:22.200 --> 00:12:24.120 For me? Is the movement in Asia? 201 00:12:24.279 --> 00:12:26.919 Right with the women cutting in South Korea? 202 00:12:27.039 --> 00:12:28.879 But it's here now, Yeah, it's here now. 203 00:12:29.039 --> 00:12:31.279 Well, of course it's gonna be I see other videos 204 00:12:31.320 --> 00:12:34.399 of women having their head shaven, and all I gotta 205 00:12:34.440 --> 00:12:38.399 say is, everything you're doing is just turning off your man. 206 00:12:39.080 --> 00:12:41.960 Either you're screaming into the phone or having a buzz cut. 207 00:12:42.519 --> 00:12:45.080 What do you think your husband's gonna do while you 208 00:12:46.000 --> 00:12:49.279 stick out this rampage of this attitude problem you have. 209 00:12:50.519 --> 00:12:52.519 Men are not going to be calm with this. 210 00:12:53.559 --> 00:12:57.240 Family is gonna fracture if women act this way, ridiculous, 211 00:12:57.919 --> 00:12:59.960 denying them sex, cutting their hand. 212 00:13:01.440 --> 00:13:03.879 You know it's not your husband that did this to you. 213 00:13:03.919 --> 00:13:07.480 Why are you making him suffer? You know? 214 00:13:09.240 --> 00:13:11.240 I just have to say something now. I'm just here. 215 00:13:11.360 --> 00:13:15.120 I had you just raised up the topic of four 216 00:13:15.200 --> 00:13:17.960 b and yesterday I was invited by some magazine to 217 00:13:19.240 --> 00:13:22.279 give my comments, my professional comments on that topic. And 218 00:13:22.480 --> 00:13:25.120 I think that what's going on, it's horrible. World is 219 00:13:25.200 --> 00:13:29.200 in danger, and I'm woman and I will speak hopefully 220 00:13:29.600 --> 00:13:35.080 women will hear me out very well. God created just 221 00:13:35.200 --> 00:13:39.399 too sexiest, just too which are men and women. I 222 00:13:39.480 --> 00:13:43.440 don't believe that men. We all can function without each 223 00:13:43.519 --> 00:13:48.960 other physically and energetically, but we are related and we 224 00:13:49.159 --> 00:13:52.200 complete each other. We compliment each other, We make each 225 00:13:52.279 --> 00:13:56.120 other better. And you can't say who is better man 226 00:13:56.279 --> 00:13:58.720 or women like you can't say which hand is better 227 00:13:58.840 --> 00:14:02.480 left or right, because we are similar as humans, but 228 00:14:02.600 --> 00:14:05.279 we are very different. We bring the different energy to 229 00:14:05.440 --> 00:14:09.159 the world. And when I see the idea which is 230 00:14:09.240 --> 00:14:12.879 growing on feminism and I understand Actually when you go 231 00:14:13.200 --> 00:14:16.600 to the original feminism, where did it come from? Women 232 00:14:16.720 --> 00:14:20.480 were fighting for the rights to vote, whites to be educated, 233 00:14:20.639 --> 00:14:25.000 and rights to get to embrace some professions. I think 234 00:14:25.120 --> 00:14:29.279 the idea of feminism from good side of it was 235 00:14:29.399 --> 00:14:33.240 accomplished long time ago because women are free now and 236 00:14:33.399 --> 00:14:36.840 we are free to do and to have few educations 237 00:14:36.960 --> 00:14:39.440 and to have few jobs, and to do whatever we 238 00:14:39.559 --> 00:14:42.720 want in life. But what is going on in South 239 00:14:42.840 --> 00:14:47.440 Korea and in the United States with extreme radical wave 240 00:14:47.679 --> 00:14:53.080 of feminism that I would separate from original feminism idea. 241 00:14:53.399 --> 00:14:57.159 I think it's very similar to democracy. What was democracy 242 00:14:57.240 --> 00:14:59.919 before and what democracy is considered to be right now, 243 00:15:00.440 --> 00:15:04.919 so it should be renamed. This move into something else 244 00:15:05.080 --> 00:15:09.440 because b is addicted to that. It's considered to be 245 00:15:09.639 --> 00:15:13.279 no in their language. So they say, we provide, we 246 00:15:13.480 --> 00:15:17.240 offer two knows to men, don't case, we don't have sex, 247 00:15:17.320 --> 00:15:20.039 we don't make kids, and we don't spend time or 248 00:15:20.080 --> 00:15:24.919 something like that. Yeah, four knows. So they are ready, 249 00:15:25.240 --> 00:15:33.200 if you think about it, psychologically, to give up their energetic, physic, sexual, 250 00:15:33.559 --> 00:15:37.720 psychological pleasure of being with man and next to man 251 00:15:38.759 --> 00:15:43.919 to embrace the power of man, which is horrible. So 252 00:15:44.159 --> 00:15:46.960 we are ready to give up the pleasure that God 253 00:15:47.600 --> 00:15:51.600 gave us right because we are here to continue the generation. 254 00:15:52.039 --> 00:15:54.919 We're here to complete each other, to make this world 255 00:15:55.039 --> 00:15:58.159 more beautiful, and to serve to each other, to serve 256 00:15:58.240 --> 00:16:02.159 the God as well, also you know, helping other people. No, 257 00:16:02.399 --> 00:16:05.360 they give up the pleasure and the purpose of being 258 00:16:05.480 --> 00:16:08.320 on the earth just to get the power of the 259 00:16:08.720 --> 00:16:11.799 over the man and over the planet. So it's radical, 260 00:16:11.960 --> 00:16:14.960 it's extreme. It's nothing to do with God, it's nothing 261 00:16:15.000 --> 00:16:17.440 to do with spirituality, it's nothing to do with being 262 00:16:17.519 --> 00:16:20.799 a woman, and it's nothing to do with original idea 263 00:16:20.919 --> 00:16:22.120 of feminism as well. 264 00:16:22.799 --> 00:16:24.440 What are the four knows? What are they again? 265 00:16:24.600 --> 00:16:29.120 No sex and no sex, no kisses, no kids with men, 266 00:16:29.600 --> 00:16:32.120 and as well, like you know when you say even 267 00:16:32.159 --> 00:16:37.120 about abortion, that's my kid, that's my body, ladies, this 268 00:16:38.039 --> 00:16:42.679 seed that is who planted it right the firm, so 269 00:16:42.960 --> 00:16:44.720 how it could be just your kid? 270 00:16:44.840 --> 00:16:46.200 Also, this I don't understand. 271 00:16:46.240 --> 00:16:46.960 It's ridiculous. 272 00:16:47.000 --> 00:16:50.240 And you know, I have no qualms saying that females 273 00:16:50.279 --> 00:16:52.600 are the stronger sex in a lot of ways. 274 00:16:53.519 --> 00:16:56.960 But what they're exhibiting now, some of them online and 275 00:16:57.080 --> 00:17:00.879 in their private homes, is so weak and meet that 276 00:17:01.240 --> 00:17:02.039 it's embarrassing. 277 00:17:02.120 --> 00:17:04.400 If I was one of those husbands, I don't know 278 00:17:04.480 --> 00:17:06.279 what the hell my life would be like, but it 279 00:17:06.279 --> 00:17:07.240 wouldn't be fun. 280 00:17:07.599 --> 00:17:08.759 Because you're punishing him. 281 00:17:08.839 --> 00:17:11.920 He didn't do anything unless yeah, right around the house 282 00:17:11.920 --> 00:17:13.920 screaming Trump's name with maga hats on. 283 00:17:14.319 --> 00:17:17.440 He didn't do anything. Why making him suffer? Stupid? 284 00:17:17.799 --> 00:17:20.920 You know, gay, I work with women and I work 285 00:17:21.000 --> 00:17:23.880 with men also, and I understand when we look at 286 00:17:23.920 --> 00:17:28.480 women's shelters and I collaborated with that type of organization. Also, 287 00:17:28.640 --> 00:17:33.839 they are horrible cases how women were raped, abuse and offended. 288 00:17:34.200 --> 00:17:37.519 But there are good men there are good men who 289 00:17:37.559 --> 00:17:40.680 are healthy emotionally and mentally. There are a great men 290 00:17:40.799 --> 00:17:45.279 who want healthy kids and you know, provide for their families, 291 00:17:45.359 --> 00:17:48.759 protect their women. So I wish if women hear me out, 292 00:17:49.400 --> 00:17:52.279 just to go to the good side of them and 293 00:17:52.599 --> 00:17:55.559 support them, believe in them, and to bring the energy 294 00:17:55.599 --> 00:17:58.759 to the family and to feel like women and you know, 295 00:17:59.599 --> 00:18:01.720 change the culture that's going on nowadays. 296 00:18:02.160 --> 00:18:06.680 Well, what is it a magazine that you're doing the interviewing. 297 00:18:07.000 --> 00:18:10.480 Yes, it was somehow and Something my apologists, I don't 298 00:18:10.480 --> 00:18:13.519 remember the name exactly, you know, they asked me about it. 299 00:18:13.839 --> 00:18:17.039 I was shocked. I googled because I didn't know. Of course, 300 00:18:17.079 --> 00:18:19.720 I'm aware about feminist idea. Yeah, but I told you 301 00:18:19.920 --> 00:18:24.119 original idea, like I hear what women wanted beguarded. 302 00:18:24.559 --> 00:18:25.480 But what is for me? 303 00:18:26.079 --> 00:18:28.799 It's radical and whatever is radical, it's a lot of 304 00:18:28.880 --> 00:18:33.000 potential of the hidden energy of anger. And you know, 305 00:18:33.279 --> 00:18:37.359 even if it's war, it's always explosive and it's never good. 306 00:18:37.839 --> 00:18:38.720 So the same here. 307 00:18:39.200 --> 00:18:45.759 Yeah, Well, it's easier to delve or wander off into fighting. 308 00:18:46.000 --> 00:18:49.160 It's very easy to ruin something, but it's very hard 309 00:18:49.200 --> 00:18:52.200 to build something back up, you know, like you could 310 00:18:52.200 --> 00:18:54.920 break a window, very simply. But have you thought about 311 00:18:54.960 --> 00:18:58.160 how what it takes to to build a window? I mean, 312 00:18:58.200 --> 00:18:59.920 things take time. If you're going to be that radical 313 00:19:00.039 --> 00:19:03.720 in your own home, you're you're breaking you're breaking off 314 00:19:03.799 --> 00:19:06.400 some very crucial part of your relationship with your husband 315 00:19:06.440 --> 00:19:09.079 and your kids. If my wife didn't, i'd say, come 316 00:19:09.119 --> 00:19:11.559 back when your hands past your shoulders. Although Mike you 317 00:19:11.640 --> 00:19:13.599 probably like it. You probably say just keep it to 318 00:19:13.640 --> 00:19:14.559 your to your neck. 319 00:19:14.440 --> 00:19:17.960 Right, Okay, Yeah, you shake your head for me, please. 320 00:19:18.160 --> 00:19:20.839 You know, if you think about it, it's an idea 321 00:19:20.880 --> 00:19:23.960 of man haters. It's nothing to do with feminism. And 322 00:19:24.160 --> 00:19:27.519 if you're let's say you're you delivered a son, not 323 00:19:27.680 --> 00:19:31.599 a girl, so you unconsciously already hate your own son. 324 00:19:31.799 --> 00:19:33.519 Yeah, a man exactly? 325 00:19:34.599 --> 00:19:37.240 Do you think you raise up him differently? 326 00:19:37.359 --> 00:19:37.480 Or what? 327 00:19:37.839 --> 00:19:41.839 Well, no, was was getting tattoos removed. Part of the 328 00:19:42.000 --> 00:19:45.200 four being movement was that that wasn't that too? 329 00:19:45.319 --> 00:19:45.559 Yeah? 330 00:19:45.799 --> 00:19:48.799 I don't do you think that they remove all tattoos? 331 00:19:49.160 --> 00:19:54.119 Well, I know of a story here between kind of 332 00:19:54.200 --> 00:20:00.000 a famous podcaster, any famous country star that that involved 333 00:20:00.039 --> 00:20:03.359 a removal of tattoos. AJ's story, it's it's a crazy story. 334 00:20:03.359 --> 00:20:06.119 I tried to avoid this story for a week or two, 335 00:20:06.200 --> 00:20:11.359 but it's too big. A girl named Brianna Chicken Fry Lapallia. 336 00:20:11.440 --> 00:20:12.440 They call it Chicken Fry. 337 00:20:13.160 --> 00:20:16.559 She is a podcaster for Barstool Sports, and she is 338 00:20:16.640 --> 00:20:20.480 explaining why she will not remove the matching tattoos she 339 00:20:20.640 --> 00:20:24.319 got with her former bull the country singer Zach Bryant 340 00:20:25.240 --> 00:20:26.160 so occasion. 341 00:20:26.160 --> 00:20:28.359 I don't know who Chicken Fry is. She's very pretty girl. 342 00:20:28.599 --> 00:20:34.079 She hosts the Plan Bree Uncut Barstool Sports. She got 343 00:20:34.319 --> 00:20:37.839 very famous pretty quickly. Her TikTok account when Banana she 344 00:20:37.920 --> 00:20:40.839 has all the one point six million fans and she 345 00:20:41.039 --> 00:20:43.920 updates about her life and her sex life in her career. 346 00:20:44.000 --> 00:20:47.680 She's very open and honest. She began this relationship with 347 00:20:48.240 --> 00:20:51.000 Zach Bryan, who, Mike, I know you're very into Zach Bryan. 348 00:20:51.039 --> 00:20:53.799 Now you found his music on a playlist. I really 349 00:20:54.000 --> 00:20:55.759 I heard one sung in your car and I liked 350 00:20:55.759 --> 00:20:57.359 it myself. I don't know much about his music. 351 00:20:57.440 --> 00:20:58.400 He's huge, he said. 352 00:20:58.400 --> 00:21:00.240 I know, I know he's huge, but here's the here's 353 00:21:00.240 --> 00:21:03.200 how huge he is. Apparently, this relationship they had came 354 00:21:03.279 --> 00:21:07.839 to an end, but Chicken Fry has refused to get 355 00:21:07.960 --> 00:21:09.359 rid of the matching tattoo she. 356 00:21:09.440 --> 00:21:10.240 Got with Brian. 357 00:21:11.279 --> 00:21:14.559 It was rumored in the past that Zach Bryan wrote 358 00:21:14.559 --> 00:21:19.240 this song called twenty eight about her. She's from Massachusetts 359 00:21:19.720 --> 00:21:21.920 and Luke, I'm sorry, and Brian sings in the song, 360 00:21:22.119 --> 00:21:24.079 how lucky are we? It's been a hell of a 361 00:21:24.160 --> 00:21:26.319 week and we're all grown now. You took a train 362 00:21:26.440 --> 00:21:28.799 to the sound side of Boston. You show me where 363 00:21:28.799 --> 00:21:32.079 your whole heart stayed. Took twenty eight years of blood 364 00:21:32.160 --> 00:21:34.839 pumping through me to feel loved on my own birthday. 365 00:21:35.559 --> 00:21:40.680 But then Luke Bryant shut down that speculation. Zach r 366 00:21:41.880 --> 00:21:46.279 the other one right. Zach Bryan did an interview over 367 00:21:46.319 --> 00:21:48.359 the summer where he said he wrote the song about 368 00:21:48.359 --> 00:21:51.640 his dog named Boston. It wasn't about her, He said, 369 00:21:51.720 --> 00:21:54.319 Boston was our puppy was going at the surgery, and 370 00:21:54.400 --> 00:21:57.039 I told Brianna, how lucky are we to have a 371 00:21:57.119 --> 00:21:58.279 puppy so beautiful? 372 00:21:58.599 --> 00:22:01.480 And she came out of it just so. 373 00:22:01.599 --> 00:22:03.960 He wrote it the next day because he felt like 374 00:22:04.119 --> 00:22:07.920 the luckiest man on the planet. Now, this breakup came 375 00:22:08.039 --> 00:22:11.319 to light when he posted that they called it quits 376 00:22:11.799 --> 00:22:15.000 after more than a year together. Back around before Halloween. 377 00:22:15.799 --> 00:22:19.720 That catches Chicken Fry off guard, and she posts several 378 00:22:19.799 --> 00:22:23.480 hours later that she was blindsided by this breakup. Uh, 379 00:22:23.880 --> 00:22:26.160 and she's gonna take a break from social media, which 380 00:22:26.200 --> 00:22:28.079 probably means she won't. They all say they never do, 381 00:22:28.720 --> 00:22:30.880 but she took a break from her podcast as well, 382 00:22:31.559 --> 00:22:34.119 in which she does it with Dave Portnoy and Josh Richards. 383 00:22:34.559 --> 00:22:38.759 So during an episode on November seventh, Chicken Fry accused 384 00:22:38.839 --> 00:22:43.519 Brian of being very emotional, emotionally abusive. She said that 385 00:22:43.720 --> 00:22:46.640 she previously didn't want to discuss their breakup because she 386 00:22:46.759 --> 00:22:50.559 was right about his reaction. She says that he offered 387 00:22:50.680 --> 00:22:54.839 her get this, twelve million dollars to stay silent about 388 00:22:54.880 --> 00:22:59.599 their split, but Chicken Fry said no. So she then 389 00:22:59.799 --> 00:23:03.720 talked about some of their nastier fights, including Brian getting 390 00:23:03.759 --> 00:23:06.119 maddl her with the golden globes of a dress she wore, 391 00:23:06.279 --> 00:23:08.880 picking a fight with her at a birthday party, picking 392 00:23:08.920 --> 00:23:13.039 another fight at the super Bowl party. So Brian has 393 00:23:13.119 --> 00:23:17.839 yet to address the abuse allegations, but especially given these allegations, 394 00:23:17.920 --> 00:23:20.200 you think she might feel differently about the tattoo, but. 395 00:23:20.200 --> 00:23:22.920 She's keeping it. So my question to you is any 396 00:23:23.079 --> 00:23:26.799 thoughts about what should happen with tattoos after a. 397 00:23:26.839 --> 00:23:31.079 Breakup and how that might relate relate to an abusive relationship? 398 00:23:32.559 --> 00:23:35.279 May I ask you did she did he separate with 399 00:23:35.480 --> 00:23:39.680 your not saying anything as in persons and streaking up 400 00:23:39.759 --> 00:23:44.279 in social media, which is very disrespectful kids do. Yeah, 401 00:23:45.160 --> 00:23:47.960