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Speaker 1: Made a decision paste sunny subt on. I had a

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vision by its night, made a decision paste sunny subt on.

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I head of vision yet night.

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Speaker 2: Too.

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Speaker 3: We Hey, everybody, welcome to for crying out loud. Whom

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Stephanie and I are in the shoe box? I like

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I think of it as the egg curtain. Yeah, we're

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sitting in an egg carton. Stephanie looks three D to me.

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I'm talking. I'm getting nice. I'm seeing trails. Yeah you don't.

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Speaker 4: You guys know that kind of soundproofing.

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Speaker 2: That's that's like little points, like a bunch of little

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Madonna bras, uh huh, but a million of them on

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every wall.

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Speaker 3: Yes, and in like like what size is this six

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by way smaller than Lisa vander Pump's closet. Oh hell,

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this is like her maybe the stall that she has

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the bathroom and where she.

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Speaker 2: Keeps her brooms right, yeah, for her housekeepers.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that's where we're at.

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Speaker 5: Yes.

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Speaker 3: Uh, My kids would never do anything like that, By

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the way, could you imagine First of all, they don't

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listen to any podcasts. I don't and if and they're

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not going down the road like looking on my phone

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to see what I'm listening to to see what they

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can you know, like, how do they listen to? I

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mean they're alone, she's a love.

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Speaker 4: Maybe she listens with her mom. Maybe her mom plays

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a podcast.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so so stellar parents going on over there? Well,

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how about the lady Remember a few years ago that

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lady was like, listen, I'm fine with all of like

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you guys saying hunt and calling people bitches, but can

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you please not talk about Santa Claus or at.

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Speaker 3: Least give me a heads up?

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Speaker 2: How about you don't listen to it with your child

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is young enough to still believe in Santa Claus.

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Speaker 3: Right, that's terrible.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry somebody right now, I just spoiled Now you

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just ruined it.

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Speaker 3: I just ruined Christmas. Well that's your opinion, Stephanie. There

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is a Santa Claus.

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Speaker 4: Kaylin, can you put a trigger warning on this show?

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Speaker 2: You got it?

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Speaker 3: Kaylin? What's going on?

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Speaker 4: I heard there's some you have some news to share?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, super exciting. I'm in the market for a new car.

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Speaker 4: You guys thought I was going to say that your

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mother was.

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Speaker 3: The timing? Would that would make sense?

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Speaker 2: So?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, I am well with him?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, is this about the same amount of time that

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was there before.

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Speaker 2: Maybe it's been too long at this point. I think

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the age range is going.

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Speaker 3: To get you to spread out now.

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Speaker 5: I think it was a bit longer last time.

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Speaker 3: Oh kaylen, get on it. Then, what's going on?

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Speaker 5: Slow down here?

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Speaker 4: Come on, catch up to the three club like me.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, Sunny and I got our biggest first fight,

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and I don't even remember what happens.

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Speaker 4: What happened well the other night.

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Speaker 3: So okay, Sunny goes for his walks like three times

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a day. It's like an old man. He goes for

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his long walks.

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Speaker 4: O'ce is alone time like we do.

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Speaker 3: He does. He walks around and he pontificates, you know,

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listens to his podcasts. Yeah, he just he loves. He's

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got a lot of like sports and shit to listen to. Anyway,

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he goes on these walks, right, But now he's starting

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to go at night. And you know, all right, you

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know there we live. The neighborhood's nice, the lights are

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lit up on the street. However, he loves going down

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this one area that's dark right and there's no lights.

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We call it Noah's Noah's House because there's a kid

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that's their friend named Noah who lives in that area, right.

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So so he's you know, we've been letting him go

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for these walks, but I ask him, usually where you

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know which way you're going? Does he ever go with Noah? No,

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he doesn't. He goes on his own. So he's been

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going at night, but he's been going down the right

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streets that I like. Like, there's a main boulevard block up,

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so he goes up there with all the restaurants and

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stores and stuff, and he walks up there by Starbucks

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and whatever, and that's fine. And he's gone for like

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an hour each time.

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Speaker 4: And three times a day he walked for an hour.

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Speaker 3: Well he would go, yeah, he would go as soon

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as the school's open.

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Speaker 5: Thing.

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Speaker 2: Adam doesn't let him have any carbs, that's.

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Speaker 3: The only thing that I got for bid. Yeah, because

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he's not getting any exercise else plane, thank god, he's limited. Yes,

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when he goes on these walks, so it's a good

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thing he's moving at least. But you know, so those

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there's the main streets and that's fine. Yeah, So he

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goes basically right after as soon as school's over, he'll

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go for a walk and go get lunch, you know.

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I make him sometimes lunch the night before, and then

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the next day he's like, mmm, I'll eat that for dinner.

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So he goes on his walks like subway whatever, and

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then he and then he goes again, like in the

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middle of the afternoon. And then he's now been going

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in the evenings, like after dinner and it's dark by then,

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and okay, that's fine. Sometimes he takes phil but most

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of the time no, because feels a pain in the

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a s And now, So the other night, Adam's out

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of town and Natalia wasn't around, and I was making

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I was going to make dinner, some steaks, and he loves.

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That's what he loves because when I cook, I have

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to make exactly what he wants. Otherwise he won't eat.

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Pain in the ass, and even sometimes he's still won't it.

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And in this eight yes, but I made sure ahead

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of time because if not, I'm ordering a pizza. I'm

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gonna make this this and that is that okay with.

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Speaker 4: You, sir, Sonny Corolla. So did you grill the steak

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or did you make it in the on a pan?

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Speaker 3: How did you do it?

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Speaker 5: Hey?

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Speaker 4: Even I don't know how people make steaks.

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Speaker 3: I know, right, I was thinking the same thing. Do

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I broil it? Sometimes? I broil it?

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Speaker 4: But I we have a pan that has.

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Speaker 3: Like the the you know, the the crates, you know,

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so you see her the steak. It's got those lines

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that you know. So we have one of those pants.

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So I fried it up on that pant. But the

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key is is I get to meat thermometer and I

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stick it in there to see if it's done or not,

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because otherwise I'll just start cutting up the steaks right

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the juices, and all the juices is gone and then

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that's that, right. So so now I learn my lesson

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with the with the meat thermometer. Anyway, so you know,

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I'm going like I would think it was Sunday night,

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and I said, Sonny, you know everybody's gone, Why don't

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I'll make dinner and we'll watch a movie. And he's

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like okay. And so I come downstairs and I'm getting

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ready in the kitchen and it's dark and it's like

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seven thirty seven, almost seven forty five.

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Speaker 4: I'll tell you.

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Speaker 3: She was at her girlfriend Devon's house. Okay. So nobody's there,

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so I'm making I tell him I'm gonna start making dinner,

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and he's like, okay, I'm gonna I'm gonna go on

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a walk. And I said, you know, and I was

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talking Olga about this. I don't you know. He's fine.

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I'm fine with him going at night, but he's got

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to stay in the in the right areas where the

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streets are lit, because by Noah's it's dark, right, And

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and I've gone on that walk with him, and it's

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it's kind of creepy, to be honest with you, because

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it's kind of by the free it's by the freeway, right,

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there's a lot of cold sacks, and it's just like it,

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and it's dark. It's dark other than some of the

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houses lit up with Christmas lights.

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Speaker 4: It's just it's kind of creepy.

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Speaker 3: And I told him, I said, I don't want you know.

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I said, I was talking to all that and we

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were both talking about that and Noah's streets are dark

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and kind of creepy. And he was like, this is

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what Sonny does now. He is constantly debating with me,

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constantly budding heads, constantly challenging me. He's dying to talk

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to people he's dying at, like debate and have conversations.

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it turns into a headache for me because I don't

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want to waste all his energy and time arguing about nothing.

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So I was like, Sonny, just please just go in

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the other way. Well, why give me a good reason?

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I said, because, well, first of all, because I'm your mother.

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a reason. I don't want you going in that area.

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Look at me, Oh mommy, Yeah, ever haven't talked to

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that girl. I don't talk to any I I'm to

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tell you, yeah, once in a while, but Sunny never like.

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And he was like, just give me a reason. I said, Well,

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for one thing, it's dark, no lights, you're by the freeway,

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the left instead of the right.

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Speaker 4: I'd be like, I got a few hundred reasons, and they're.

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Speaker 2: All episodes of DyLight, So hit subscribe on your podcast.

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Speaker 4: Listen to a few episodes and you'll understand the reason.

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Speaker 3: Yes, exactly. So he's like, listen, really, he goes I

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have my flashlight. I he goes, that's so again, So

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it's dark, So you don't want me to go because

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it's dark, We'll have my flashlight. The other reason why

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you don't go, the reason he's not camping. I see,

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I know, I just don't. I said, I don't feel good.

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I don't want you. It doesn't feel good to have you.

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I don't want you going in that area. And he

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was like, oh, so I'm not going to do it

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now because you don't feel because you have a feel

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about it, yes, oh totally little at him and I

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was like, Sonny, I don't I don't have to give

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you any reasons. I'm your mother and I don't want

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you to go, and I have your little life three sixty.

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I know where you are, so I will ill. Because

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he was like, well, I'm just gonna go anyway or something,

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he was like, oh no, he didn't. I'm gonna go

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for a walk and if I go that way, I

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go that way. And I was like, then, Sonny, you're

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not going for a walk, that's it what? And he says, really,

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you're gonna stop me from going for a walk because

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you don't feel right because the lights are out and

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I have a flashlight, and I was like, that's there's

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more too. I don't I just don't want you to

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go there. Why it's dangerous? I did, I said, it's

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by the freeway. I don't like it. There's there's so

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many streets that are they there, there's a freeway and

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it's right there, right, and then there's a lot of

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dead ends. So somebody comes down there.

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Speaker 2: Every episode of dayline right, it is near a freeway,

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totally near freeway entrance right right.

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Speaker 3: And also there's like a walkway from it's like a

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bridge that it's over the freeway, and he likes to

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go up there and walk over the freeway too. Yeah.

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I'm like, no, you're not going over that bridge. And

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he's like, well, I won't do it at night, but

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I do it during the day. And I was like,

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fine during the day, but okay, but I don't care.

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I don't want you it's dangerous. I don't like it.

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And I, by the way, I don't have to explain

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it to you. No, I don't want you to. And

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he just kept going and I was like, and I

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was trying to make dinner and I was getting a headache,

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and I was like, fuck this. Nobody else is home

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for dinner, so I'm done. I said, you're not going anywhere.

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I'm done, and I went upstairs and he said, as

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I was going upstairs, well, I'm just going to go.

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He goes, I'm just going to go for a walk then,

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or something like that, and I was like, okay, well

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I can see him on the thing. So I slammed

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the door and I went in my room, and I

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was so pissed. I was like about to cry. I

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was like, fuck, what the fuck this kid? Why does

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he have to be such a pain in the ass.

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His voice is changing and crackling when it's time to

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and I'm like why.

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Speaker 4: I was like, it's just so it's so.

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Speaker 3: Disturbing when you have an argument with your kid that

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you never have an argument with. Yeah, and usually he

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and I get along great, yeah, you know, pretty close.

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And I just was so I was so mad. I

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was like in tears, about to cry. I was like,

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this is you know, trying to take a deep breath.

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I'm on my phone and then I keep looking at

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my app and it still says he's home. I was like, oh, okay,

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he left without his phone. I don't know because I

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took his phone from him. At one point I said,

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then you're not going give me your phone. I'm taking

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your phone away. I'm like, thinking of all these punishments

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at once. You're not going, I'm taking the phone away.

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You're round it for three days.

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Speaker 2: You can't phone said he was still at your house

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If you had his phone, No.

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Speaker 3: I didn't. I left it on the counter to see.

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I didn't want to take his phone because if he

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does go for a walk, I want him to have

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his phone, right, So I left it and I went upstairs,

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and uh. He says, well, I'm going anyway or something

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like that, and I was like, all right, fine, but

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I know where you're going. I can see you on

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the app. So I kept looking. I was up there

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for like ten fifteen minutes, and I was like looking

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at the app and it kept saying he was home.

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For you know, I calmed down. I came I'm like,

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I'm starving. I'm going to go make dinner. So I

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came down there. He wasn't anywhere. I thought he was

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in his bedroom, or I thought maybe he was downstairs

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in the theater watching football whatever. And so I started cooking.

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I'm rattling the pots and pans, trying to see if

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he's going to come out and apologize. And I'm thinking

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I'm going to go talk to him after I made dinner.

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his phone. Okay, So he's home right right. So he

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comes out and he comes up the stairs and I said, listen,

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I'm making dinner now, it's almost ready. I just we

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need to talk about this and if you any oh,

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and then he said, in the middle of our arguments,

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I forgot to say. He said, I'm gonna I'm just

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gonna call Dad and ask him and if Dad says,

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it's okay. And I just had a conversation with Adam

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about being on the same page. You know, we talked

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about being on the same page. So I sent him

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a text really quick and I said, Sonny calls you

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tell him no, stay on the same page with me.

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I don't want him going and know his area. That's

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all I said. And during so during when the arguments,

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he's tried Adam. Adam answered, and then he's like, I can't.

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I started going down the road with mom this and that,

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and he's like, I got to call you back, and

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so he never got a hold of Adam. But so

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he came back and I said, I don't mind again.

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You can go on a walk at night, just I

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need you to go in the area that I want

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you to stay in. I don't want you going in

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that one area. Go in the pre approved, yeah, neighborhood.

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There's many place there's many travels that he's gone on.

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Speaker 2: It can't feel good that it's just like he now

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wants to go to that neighborhood just because you told him.

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He can't exactly who cares? What difference does it make

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what's over there that he has to be right exactly.

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Speaker 3: So I made dinner and I said, well, you know,

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talk about it. Let's talk about it when Dad gets back,

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and you know, just for now, I don't want you

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going over there. And he was calm, and he was like,

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all right, I don't I don't get it, but I

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guess stop stop. I don't want to argue.

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Speaker 5: Stop.

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Speaker 3: And then we let it go and we started talking

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about how the rams lost.

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Speaker 4: And then oh, he said.

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Speaker 3: When he came up to stairs for dinner, he goes,

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I was downstairs and I said, yeah, I got it,

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and he goes, what did he say? He goes, I said,

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I didn't know if he went on a walk or not,

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but it said that you were still home, and he goes, oh,

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it said, oh, okay.

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Speaker 4: Then I realized he turned off his VS.

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Speaker 3: Motherfucker. Yes, yes, turned off his phone, he.

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Speaker 4: Turned off turned off his tracker, He turned off tracker.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, uh huh. He did go on a walk and

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he turned off his tracker. And I didn't realize that

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until I was going to bed that night. I didn't

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realize it at all when we were sitting and having

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dinner because I just, first of I didn't think he

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would do something like that. Second of all, I so

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then I was thinking about it, like, he went for

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a walk and he turned if, he turned his tracker off. Yeah,

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this was just the other night. And I want him

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to know that I know what he did, because we're

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not done talking about it, but I haven't told I

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haven't told him yet that I'm onto his ass.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, oh my god, that would make me so furious

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because I understand in some ways wanting to like be

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like not be tracked, and you know I've heard and

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I don't. But you and I are the same way

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about this thing. We're not parents that are like con

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I don't be checking the app. I never do unless

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like LB went somewhere, and I just want to know, like, hey,

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is she on her way home? Like if she says

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like I'm going to be home at like let's say

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eleven thirty, and then I want to I checked go, oh,

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is she on her way or or just or if

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she's been gone all day at her friend's house and

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I just want to make sure she still at her friends.

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I said, do they go somewhere, I'll look, But it's

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not like I track her. But if she was to

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go for like a walk, like or if Sadie and Xander,

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I would definitely like want to make sure they're okay,

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check on their.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, totally.

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Speaker 2: Hey, not to believe bird this point about letting the

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kids go somewhere. But it's funny that this came up

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for you because my friend Laura Uh, just like this week,

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said hey, my kid, she just moved to a neighborhood.

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It's like Woodland hills, you know, west south of the boulevard,

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and there's sort of some hilly neighborhood areas, hiking.

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Speaker 3: Trails kind of thing. Yeah, familiar.

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Speaker 2: And she was like, yeah. So her daughter, who's Elbie's age,

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so sixteen, wanted to walk just by herself at night

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up like near Molholland Noill. No. Yeah, And she was like, no,

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like at night. And her daughter was like, why you

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see and I said same thing. I was like, these

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kids need.

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Speaker 3: To listen to some dayline.

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Speaker 2: I know, they need to listen to a good forty

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eight hour mysteries and they'll understand why not because I.

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Speaker 4: Was She was like I and my friend is very

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nervous as it is.

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Speaker 3: But I was like, no, in this case, I totally understand.

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Speaker 2: Like no, I was like, that's how every single episode starts.

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Speaker 4: Somebody just went for a walk.

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Speaker 2: I went for a jog by herself, Like I was like,

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or at least bring the dog with her and a friend,

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a friend and a dog, like you you can't, no way, no, no,

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I like a girl alone up in a deserted My

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friend was like, no, this area is totally deserted. Oh,

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And her daughter was trying to say mom, there are

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people around. Oh she was like yeah, but like somebody

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comes by every ten minutes a lot.

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Speaker 4: Shit can't go down in those ten minutes.

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Speaker 2: Yes, and then and I don't know, kids are so

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innocent thinking, but I haven't listen to a million serial

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killer stories.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I knowed. They need to have that incorporated into

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the curriculum in high school. They should do that. Yes,

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I mean I know, you know, Sheriff Tom comes out

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and scares him in fourth grade. But now when they

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get to high school and you have a little eye

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opening podcast listen to.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you don't want them to live in fear now,

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but any time, like we had a healthy fear of

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like white panel vans right when we were kids, or

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just any kind of panel vans. Well actually especially not

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white panel vans, because that meant you're black.

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Speaker 4: Panel brown panel vans.

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Speaker 3: All vans bad news, especially if it's primed, especially if

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there's a primer door. Yes run, Yes.

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Speaker 4: You know we had a fear of.

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Speaker 3: We didn't.

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Speaker 2: Just if you were walking down the street and the

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ice cream truck went by without the music playing, You're like,

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that's bad news right there, I'm scared, right, you pe

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yourself if somebody pulled up slowly next to you. That

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was it my ladder, right, we had a healthy fear.

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And you know, granted the crime rate is not higher

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now than it was back then, but people still commit

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a lot of crime, and if you're alone by yourself,

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something can have your I feel like you're just asking

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for trouble, right exactly.

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Speaker 4: And I will walk the dog at night.

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Speaker 2: I've got I've got a dog first of all, half

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pit ball. I've got mace, I've got my fists, I've

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got an attitude.

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Speaker 4: I got to my shoulder.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, nobody better talk to me.

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Speaker 2: And that's just about my stupid andsdo neighborhood, you know

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what I mean. I can't imagine letting my kid like go, yeah, sure,

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I walk around some deserted bluffs up Moholand.

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Speaker 3: Oh hell no no.

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Speaker 2: And her daughter was arguing with her too, was like,

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I just don't understand why listen to this ed Kemper story, right,

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But yet at the same time, like, obviously we don't

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want to scare the shit out of our kids and

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have them be paranoid.

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Speaker 3: Right, I know, But you know, Sonny does listen to

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some BuzzFeed show about crime and stuff, and he because

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he told me. He said, at one point we went

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for a walk like a month ago, and he said

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something about doctor Pettitt, you know the doctor in Connecticut

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whose wife and two daughters were killed. Yeah, he was.

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Speaker 2: They tied him up, right, and then they made the

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woman go to the bank.

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Speaker 3: Right, there's a podcast about it. Yeah, they stabbed the boy.

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They they rape the daughter. Yeah, he heard that. He

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heard that story. And even then when I was talking

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to him about it, he after that, after he brought

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it up, he's like, I don't want to talk about

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it anymore. I was like, Okay, that's fine, but why

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are you listening to that stuff? And I don't know,

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I like those guys at buzzfeeders. I don't know. But

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he's yeah, he so he knows, Like but he always

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teases me like, oh, so I'm going to get kidnapped

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that I walk up to Panera like you might, Yes,

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you could.

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Speaker 2: I mean, and I'm not a paranoid person, I know,

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but yeah, something, it's why ask for trouble. It's not

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It's not like you're saying you can't go for walks

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by yourself, like after dark in an area where there

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aren't lights.

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Speaker 3: Like, let's just be used freaking common sense exactly right, right?

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Speaker 4: And why does everything have to be an argument?

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Speaker 3: Well, that's the thing. This kid constant, even when it's

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just little things, you know, like whatever it is, like,

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oh so you know I can't do you know whatever.

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It just he constantly is challenging me on everything that

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he thinks he has an opinion on.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 3: Oh, like you hear that song? Oh no, it was

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the night it was New Year's Eve. How they play

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Imagine right on New Ye's Eve? Yeah, I guess they

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do that every year, right, And he was with he

469
00:23:43,039 --> 00:23:47,640
was the next day, I guess Adam was talking about it.

470
00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:49,799
And the next day he was like, yeah, speaking of

471
00:23:49,839 --> 00:23:52,359
the Beatles, that song Imagined, don't you think It's like,

472
00:23:52,680 --> 00:23:54,759
don't you think that they have better songs to play

473
00:23:54,759 --> 00:23:56,920
for New Year's Eve's just a downer or whatever? And

474
00:23:56,960 --> 00:23:59,359
it's like, I don't even know what his points were,

475
00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:02,200
but I go, I knew exactly what he was saying.

476
00:24:02,319 --> 00:24:05,720
He said, listen, Adam, I like that song, so knock

477
00:24:05,759 --> 00:24:08,680
it off. I don't know, it's just you know, George

478
00:24:08,680 --> 00:24:12,680
Harrison writes better songs than John Lennon. Oh boy, okay, Adam,

479
00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:16,640
well you know about their songwriting. Give me a break.

480
00:24:17,319 --> 00:24:19,680
Speaker 4: Come on, He goes, well, yeah, dad said it, but

481
00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:20,160
he's right.

482
00:24:20,279 --> 00:24:20,599
Speaker 3: I did.

483
00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:24,160
Speaker 2: I was watching it, you know, I was like, oh my,

484
00:24:24,359 --> 00:24:26,359
I love when they just get a really strong opinion

485
00:24:26,359 --> 00:24:27,640
about something that's such a.

486
00:24:27,759 --> 00:24:28,440
Speaker 3: Why are you?

487
00:24:28,559 --> 00:24:30,480
Speaker 4: Why are you getting riled up about this?

488
00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:30,720
Speaker 2: Right?

489
00:24:30,759 --> 00:24:34,680
Speaker 3: Because somebody else got riled right right? Totally.

490
00:24:35,319 --> 00:24:38,200
Speaker 2: I have found that now with my kids. They're not

491
00:24:38,359 --> 00:24:43,160
they're not there yet, they're not. Elbie's really not argumentative yet.

492
00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:46,359
She's She's like Sonny used to be. I'm sure it

493
00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:50,759
will happen, but but I hardly have to say no

494
00:24:50,880 --> 00:24:52,720
to her either, which is kind of a thing. And

495
00:24:52,759 --> 00:24:54,960
when I do every once in a while, she does

496
00:24:55,039 --> 00:24:56,839
kind of look at me like, huh, who are you?

497
00:24:57,400 --> 00:24:59,960
Speaker 3: I'm like the Italian is the word?

498
00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:03,799
Speaker 2: This happens, so Elbe and this is this is kind

499
00:25:03,799 --> 00:25:06,599
of a pick your battles sort of thing. But Elbie's

500
00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:10,680
room is disgusting like it is, and every time I

501
00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:12,359
make her clean it up, she cleans it up. But

502
00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:15,119
she's I guess, like a typical teenage girl. Where she

503
00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:18,799
had and where's she fucking going? I know, I know

504
00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:21,000
why do you have to change your clothes? Why are

505
00:25:21,079 --> 00:25:23,599
you going through your entire closet to find something to

506
00:25:23,640 --> 00:25:25,920
wear when all you're gonna end up wearing is some

507
00:25:25,960 --> 00:25:27,519
stupid highwaisted jean's and a.

508
00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:29,960
Speaker 4: Halter top and a tank top with the hoodie over it.

509
00:25:30,039 --> 00:25:31,880
Speaker 3: Yes, that's all you're gonna wear. Yah. Why don't you

510
00:25:31,920 --> 00:25:34,079
just put that outfit on and leave it on for a.

511
00:25:34,039 --> 00:25:36,079
Speaker 2: Month until you get a different tank top and then

512
00:25:36,079 --> 00:25:37,400
wear that tank top totally?

513
00:25:37,759 --> 00:25:40,119
Speaker 4: No, she has to try on like eighteen different tank tops.

514
00:25:40,400 --> 00:25:43,559
Speaker 2: And then there's just so she's got these like fabric

515
00:25:43,839 --> 00:25:47,519
boxes like that you get at Target that fit into

516
00:25:47,599 --> 00:25:49,680
like little shelves like that, but now they're all sort

517
00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:53,160
of standalone. So she's got all these sort of boxes

518
00:25:53,279 --> 00:25:57,400
full of clothes, right, Like, why here's a crazy idea.

519
00:25:57,559 --> 00:25:59,319
Why don't you hang some of the clothes up in

520
00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:02,200
your closet then you see them, yeah, and then have

521
00:26:02,319 --> 00:26:04,279
like well, and she looks at me like I'm the

522
00:26:04,519 --> 00:26:08,200
dumbest person on the planet, and she's like, uh uh okay, mom.

523
00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:12,119
Then she does this, So she takes all her clothes

524
00:26:12,319 --> 00:26:14,240
and puts them in her hamper when they're not dirty.

525
00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:15,599
That's why I'm like, I'm going to get to it.

526
00:26:15,599 --> 00:26:17,759
I'm going to organize it, and then I'll go I'll

527
00:26:17,759 --> 00:26:18,720
do all the laundry.

528
00:26:18,839 --> 00:26:19,640
Speaker 3: I'll go into her room.

529
00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:21,799
Speaker 2: The next day, her hamper is full of clothes and

530
00:26:21,799 --> 00:26:24,640
I'm like, oh, hell no, I'm like, these clothes are

531
00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:25,160
not dirty.

532
00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:26,920
Speaker 4: I literally just did your lobdry.

533
00:26:27,279 --> 00:26:30,480
Speaker 2: You just you know what happened bach you just didn't

534
00:26:30,519 --> 00:26:32,559
want to fold them, so you put them in your

535
00:26:32,559 --> 00:26:35,000
hamper And she's like, mom, Mom, no, I'm going to

536
00:26:35,079 --> 00:26:37,559
go through those. Yeah, they're not all dirty. I'm like, yeah,

537
00:26:37,599 --> 00:26:39,839
they're not all dirty. But then she never goes through them,

538
00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:41,920
and she's like, can you drive me over to Dava's house.

539
00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:46,039
So the other day I was like, yeah, you're not

540
00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:48,720
going anywhere until you clean your room. Yeah, good, And

541
00:26:48,759 --> 00:26:51,759
she gave me a look like I just got, you know,

542
00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:52,680
tased her.

543
00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:56,319
Speaker 3: She was like like a look a betrayal, Like I

544
00:26:56,440 --> 00:26:57,960
said I was going to clean my room.

545
00:26:58,000 --> 00:27:04,079
Speaker 2: I'm like yeah, now, hmm, okay I am.

546
00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:06,880
Speaker 4: And then she'll give me these like defiant eyes.

547
00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:10,240
Speaker 2: So she doesn't really talk back, but she gives me

548
00:27:10,319 --> 00:27:14,559
these eyes like don't keep going or we're going to

549
00:27:14,559 --> 00:27:15,119
get in a fight.

550
00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:15,880
Speaker 3: Like she just looks.

551
00:27:16,039 --> 00:27:18,839
Speaker 4: You know what I mean, she stares, I'm doing it,

552
00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:20,119
like I'm doing.

553
00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:20,599
Speaker 3: It following you.

554
00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:23,359
Speaker 4: But then I'll come back in an hour later and.

555
00:27:23,279 --> 00:27:23,839
Speaker 3: She's in bed.

556
00:27:24,319 --> 00:27:24,880
Speaker 5: Uh huh.

557
00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:25,759
Speaker 3: That like that thing.

558
00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:28,400
Speaker 2: It's like she'd rather just not go to her friend's

559
00:27:28,640 --> 00:27:30,599
house and stay in bed. By the way, this is

560
00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:32,880
her friend, this is her bubble. There's three of them

561
00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:38,440
together for you judge. But the point is they're back

562
00:27:38,519 --> 00:27:39,880
and forth between her.

563
00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:42,039
Speaker 4: That's all. She's at her friend's.

564
00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:44,960
Speaker 2: House and yeah, and I'm like, oh my god, I'll

565
00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:48,640
be And it's not just the clothes, because if it

566
00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:50,640
was just the clothes, I would pick my battles.

567
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:52,720
Speaker 3: But it's not. My kids all eat in their rooms.

568
00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:54,079
Oh my gosh.

569
00:27:54,079 --> 00:27:56,240
Speaker 2: And you know what, I hate that I have to

570
00:27:56,279 --> 00:27:58,519
even think this way because I know people are like, well,

571
00:27:58,559 --> 00:28:00,240
you gotta lay down the law and don't look them

572
00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:01,680
do this and make them clean their rooms.

573
00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:05,880
Speaker 4: And I do, Yeah, I do, guys. I tell them.

574
00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:08,319
Speaker 2: I go into their rooms and I go, what the

575
00:28:08,359 --> 00:28:10,039
hell is going on in here?

576
00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:12,519
Speaker 4: How I was like, if you do this again, you're

577
00:28:12,599 --> 00:28:13,440
not eating.

578
00:28:13,119 --> 00:28:14,799
Speaker 2: In your room, And then I just forget about it,

579
00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:19,079
right exactly, They go yeahy mom, and then they'll clean

580
00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:22,920
it up. But the next day there's like you know

581
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:28,319
those Starbucks coffee in like a glass, little bottle and

582
00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:30,519
you buy the grocery store or whatever. So we buy

583
00:28:30,599 --> 00:28:32,640
those all the time. The kids drink them before school

584
00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:35,799
in the morning, but they stack up like good idea.

585
00:28:36,519 --> 00:28:39,720
Oh yeah, they love it. Really, they won't drink like

586
00:28:39,799 --> 00:28:44,759
my brood coffee. So Sadie who's hurtay makes espressos. It

587
00:28:44,880 --> 00:28:46,920
makes herself a lattes every day.

588
00:28:46,960 --> 00:28:50,240
Speaker 3: Crazy. Yeah, it's annoying. She'd buy one for her room

589
00:28:50,279 --> 00:28:53,160
next time, for if it's her birthday, get her own

590
00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:57,000
little espresso machine. Oh my god, she probably love that. Yeah,

591
00:28:57,119 --> 00:28:57,799
that's cute.

592
00:28:58,160 --> 00:29:03,200
Speaker 2: So yeah, it's it's insane the mess that is in there.

593
00:29:03,319 --> 00:29:06,640
And then I and then I come in, you know,

594
00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:08,480
vacuum get under the bed.

595
00:29:08,559 --> 00:29:11,039
Speaker 3: But then like a couple of days later, it's gross again.

596
00:29:11,160 --> 00:29:15,559
Now listen, you're preaching. I spent three days cleaning that house.

597
00:29:15,839 --> 00:29:18,319
So we don't have cleaning ladies. I mean, once in

598
00:29:18,359 --> 00:29:22,319
a while they'll come, especially Adam doesn't want them, you know,

599
00:29:22,559 --> 00:29:25,480
in his office and stuff, and it's like, dude, you

600
00:29:25,559 --> 00:29:28,839
start cleaning. So anyway, but then I'm like, I have

601
00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:33,279
two well abled bodies here that could help me clean. Yeah.

602
00:29:33,279 --> 00:29:36,279
So then I tell them, look, you're in charge of

603
00:29:36,319 --> 00:29:38,839
the dog chit, you're in charge of vacuuming, you're in

604
00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:40,440
charge of emptying the dishwater. You're in charge.

605
00:29:41,079 --> 00:29:41,799
Speaker 4: Do they do it?

606
00:29:42,119 --> 00:29:45,039
Speaker 3: Never unless they got something coming up and they want

607
00:29:45,079 --> 00:29:47,279
to do it right. Then they get right on it right.

608
00:29:47,359 --> 00:29:50,599
But they don't do it regularly, and I end up

609
00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:52,839
doing it or I have to go in there and

610
00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:56,160
it's a full on argument and it's ridiculous, and they

611
00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:58,440
don't do it regularly, and I don't know what I

612
00:29:58,480 --> 00:30:00,799
got to. I gotta start cracking. I'm not very good

613
00:30:00,839 --> 00:30:05,359
at discipline, but I gotta start cracking the whip with them.

614
00:30:05,519 --> 00:30:08,000
But here's the thing with Natalia. I go into her,

615
00:30:08,119 --> 00:30:10,880
you know, her room. What she does is she messes

616
00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:13,640
up the whole house, right, but then she keeps her

617
00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:17,000
room clean, but everything else is a mess. She goes outside,

618
00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:20,039
there's a ping pong table, It's got red cups everywhere.

619
00:30:20,119 --> 00:30:22,799
Because she had her little I talked about it last week,

620
00:30:22,839 --> 00:30:26,000
a little prop party for her friend Annie and her

621
00:30:26,039 --> 00:30:28,759
little three friends and the two boys, and they were

622
00:30:28,759 --> 00:30:32,039
playing ping. They were playing ping pong, but like with soda.

623
00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:32,519
Speaker 2: M hm.

624
00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:35,319
Speaker 4: And I was sitting inside beer pong with soda.

625
00:30:35,519 --> 00:30:38,359
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, so I was sitting inside and I was

626
00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:42,799
watching them play, and I was like, think, okay, they're fourteen,

627
00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:45,680
some of them are fifteen. You know where I was

628
00:30:45,839 --> 00:30:48,680
at fourteen and fifteen? I was at the school parking

629
00:30:48,720 --> 00:30:53,400
lot and Thesino getting wasted smoking pot. Yeah, with Mike

630
00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:56,200
Gerstein and Glenn and oh yeah, all those guys. Me too,

631
00:30:56,319 --> 00:30:59,000
That's what I was doing me too, maybe giving a

632
00:30:59,079 --> 00:31:05,160
low job out here, but no, but seriously that like,

633
00:31:05,839 --> 00:31:08,920
they are a nicey I'm watching them play and like

634
00:31:09,039 --> 00:31:10,880
one of the boys like, oh, one of the girls

635
00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:13,680
went up to the boy and was like his they

636
00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:16,759
were teammates. And then the boy like like was hugging

637
00:31:16,839 --> 00:31:18,519
her when they won, and he would like hug her

638
00:31:18,599 --> 00:31:20,759
around her waist and pick her up. And I was like,

639
00:31:21,079 --> 00:31:25,240
how are they not horny as fuck? Like right at

640
00:31:25,279 --> 00:31:28,519
that age? Yeah, don't tell me. Those boys aren't, you know,

641
00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:30,920
taking care of business when they go home after spending

642
00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:33,400
the night with these girls the evening you know what

643
00:31:33,480 --> 00:31:33,839
I mean?

644
00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:35,960
Speaker 4: Oh, of course they are. But I'm sitting there watching that.

645
00:31:36,079 --> 00:31:38,559
Speaker 3: But anyway, Natalia leaves a mess out there and I

646
00:31:38,559 --> 00:31:42,000
gotta get on it. And the thing what Natalia does

647
00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:45,160
is she'll go, I'm going to I'm going to go

648
00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:47,680
to Devon's house. She's on her way to pick me

649
00:31:47,759 --> 00:31:49,960
up or Devon's coming over. That's the thing.

650
00:31:50,039 --> 00:31:51,960
Speaker 4: I know where this is going in se right.

651
00:31:52,119 --> 00:31:54,160
Speaker 3: And I'm like, but you didn't. You didn't put away

652
00:31:54,160 --> 00:31:56,799
your clothes. Well, I know it's guys, I'm gonna do

653
00:31:56,799 --> 00:31:59,119
it tonight when I get back, Like as if I've

654
00:31:59,160 --> 00:31:59,599
lost my.

655
00:31:59,559 --> 00:32:04,200
Speaker 4: Mind, yes, yes, yes, as if you're high right.

656
00:32:04,319 --> 00:32:05,240
Speaker 3: Let you smoking?

657
00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:07,279
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know.

658
00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:10,519
Speaker 3: And then stupid me, I'm like, all right, but you

659
00:32:10,599 --> 00:32:12,880
got to do it otherwise you're not doing anything tomorrow.

660
00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:14,759
And then like two days go by and I open

661
00:32:14,839 --> 00:32:16,640
up her door and they're still sitting there, and it's

662
00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:19,240
like really yeah, and then she's made another mess, like

663
00:32:19,559 --> 00:32:23,240
same as Elbie try something on it doesn't She takes

664
00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:25,920
it off, puts it in the hamper. Because if it's

665
00:32:25,960 --> 00:32:29,839
like she's been going, yes, so ridiculous. Yes, that's why

666
00:32:29,880 --> 00:32:31,880
they She's got to do her own laundry.

667
00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:34,880
Speaker 2: So Elbe's job is to empty the dishwasher and we

668
00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:38,920
pretty much run the dishwasher every day to every other day, right,

669
00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:41,680
But she acts like it's the first she's ever heard

670
00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:44,160
of us having a dishwasher that needs to be unloaded.

671
00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:46,480
Like I'll be like, Elb, the dishwashers clean, and she's like,

672
00:32:47,039 --> 00:32:49,640
oh again.

673
00:32:49,759 --> 00:32:53,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, like you fit your busy schedule.

674
00:32:53,079 --> 00:32:58,960
Speaker 2: Right home, right, oh uh yeah, okay, okay. I'm like, okay,

675
00:32:58,960 --> 00:33:01,720
but we can't really like put more dishes into it

676
00:33:01,799 --> 00:33:03,039
until we take the clean ones out.

677
00:33:03,519 --> 00:33:06,119
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, I said, I'll do it, like I'm gonna

678
00:33:06,160 --> 00:33:07,279
do it in just a few minutes.

679
00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:11,640
Speaker 2: Then she uses this, well, I'm doing my homework right now,

680
00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:16,160
like you've got hours and spread in front of you

681
00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:20,039
to work. I know. It's like, no, you're playing Minecraft

682
00:33:20,119 --> 00:33:22,279
or talking to your friends on the phone, or laying

683
00:33:22,279 --> 00:33:28,039
in bed looking at TikTok, come on, come on. But

684
00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:32,920
then I feel bad because meanwhile, there's nothing really fun

685
00:33:32,960 --> 00:33:35,319
to do at our house. So Elbe does have her

686
00:33:35,359 --> 00:33:37,519
social life that Sadie and Xander have nothing to do,

687
00:33:38,079 --> 00:33:41,640
and every day it's like Groundhog's days. Xander comes over

688
00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:46,160
to me and I'm sitting at my computer doing nothing myself,

689
00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:48,799
but like looking at Facebook and He's like.

690
00:33:49,039 --> 00:33:51,839
Speaker 4: Hi, Mom, like, go hey, Xander, what's up?

691
00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:53,119
Speaker 3: Nothing?

692
00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:56,920
Speaker 2: Obviously nothing. This was like yesterday morning. This This is

693
00:33:57,119 --> 00:33:58,119
typical though.

694
00:33:58,400 --> 00:33:59,519
Speaker 3: What do you want to do today?

695
00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:03,720
Speaker 2: And I'm out of shit to do, Lynette, because listen,

696
00:34:03,720 --> 00:34:06,359
at the beginning of this pandemic, you know, I bought

697
00:34:06,359 --> 00:34:08,840
that thing that makes your dining room table into a

698
00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:11,159
ping pong table. Do you think we've used that one time?

699
00:34:11,199 --> 00:34:13,440
It past eight months? No, we played that for a

700
00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:13,880
little bit.

701
00:34:13,920 --> 00:34:14,440
Speaker 3: That was fun.

702
00:34:14,639 --> 00:34:15,599
Speaker 4: We played some Jenga.

703
00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:18,360
Speaker 2: Back when it was like the novelty, I was like,

704
00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:20,880
oh family time where it's like we're in a bomb shelter,

705
00:34:21,039 --> 00:34:21,840
let's play games.

706
00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:25,199
Speaker 3: And now I'm like, oh, hell no, exactly what can't you?

707
00:34:25,320 --> 00:34:28,440
Is there nothing? No videos on YouTube? Like no? But

708
00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:30,960
poor kid is just like do you want to do something?

709
00:34:31,039 --> 00:34:36,000
Speaker 2: And my mind just goes like what I mean, what

710
00:34:36,400 --> 00:34:38,840
can we do? Then I say, okay, well do you

711
00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:42,199
want to like play? We got what do you mean game?

712
00:34:42,239 --> 00:34:42,920
What do you mean?

713
00:34:43,199 --> 00:34:43,559
Speaker 3: Really?

714
00:34:43,599 --> 00:34:47,880
Speaker 2: What em It's like Apples to Apples or it's like

715
00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:51,480
Cards against Humanity, but it's it's a and it's like

716
00:34:51,559 --> 00:34:53,960
new phone hoods that I told you about recently. It's

717
00:34:54,079 --> 00:34:57,000
very much like that, except that it's a picture and

718
00:34:57,039 --> 00:34:59,880
then you have some captions for the picture.

719
00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:04,079
Speaker 3: Oh, I see you have to write captions. Do you

720
00:35:04,119 --> 00:35:04,679
get no?

721
00:35:04,679 --> 00:35:07,039
Speaker 2: No? No, so that you get caption cards like here's

722
00:35:07,079 --> 00:35:08,960
our favorite one that made us laugh so hard.

723
00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:10,320
Speaker 3: There was a there.

724
00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:14,000
Speaker 2: It's a picture of like an old, older man, like

725
00:35:14,039 --> 00:35:15,440
a man with gray hair, and.

726
00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:18,480
Speaker 4: He's just kind of like head on his hands.

727
00:35:18,519 --> 00:35:21,480
Speaker 2: He just looks super bummed out right, And one of

728
00:35:21,519 --> 00:35:25,760
the captions. Everybody has like seven caption cards and then

729
00:35:25,760 --> 00:35:27,639
you try to match them with a picture that comes

730
00:35:27,719 --> 00:35:29,760
up for everybody. And one of the caption cards was,

731
00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:33,360
oh my god, I can't believe I was in the

732
00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:38,480
bathroom when they did the volcano at the Hibachi restaurant

733
00:35:38,519 --> 00:35:42,039
whatever it was, the blooming onion at the I can't

734
00:35:42,039 --> 00:35:43,679
believe I was in the bathroom when they did the

735
00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:47,960
erupting shit the onion volcano at Benny Hannah or whatever

736
00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:48,280
it was.

737
00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:49,920
Speaker 4: Oh my god, we left so hard.

738
00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:53,880
Speaker 2: You know, Yes, but they're edgy, And there's a separate

739
00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:57,519
stack that's like the adult adult cards. So if you're

740
00:35:57,519 --> 00:35:59,760
playing it like with your friends, you can mix those in,

741
00:36:00,039 --> 00:36:02,280
but you could also just not use them.

742
00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:04,840
Speaker 3: Right, so it's like PG. Thirteen.

743
00:36:05,119 --> 00:36:08,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's edgy enough that they we laugh our asses off, right,

744
00:36:08,519 --> 00:36:12,960
but it's not so horrible that you're like, I don't

745
00:36:13,079 --> 00:36:16,159
think I need to hear about a rim job, really

746
00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:17,559
esu it?

747
00:36:17,639 --> 00:36:18,559
Speaker 3: Yeah? Wow?

748
00:36:18,880 --> 00:36:22,159
Speaker 2: Anyway, I feel bad because my kids are so bored.

749
00:36:22,199 --> 00:36:23,920
I don't want to just be barking at them like

750
00:36:24,000 --> 00:36:27,199
to clean, I know, and then offering no reward for that.

751
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:30,400
Speaker 4: Besides, like, do you guys want to watch a movie?

752
00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:36,280
Speaker 3: No? Yeah, okay, yeah, Sonny is this only wants to Well,

753
00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:39,440
he'll come to me and he'll just he's he'll not say,

754
00:36:39,559 --> 00:36:42,000
he won't ask me, let's do something, but he'll say

755
00:36:42,920 --> 00:36:45,639
he'll just start talking about shit that I don't care about,

756
00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:47,960
you know, right, And then I got to like pretend

757
00:36:47,960 --> 00:36:50,239
like I'm interested because he's got nobody else to talk

758
00:36:50,239 --> 00:36:52,719
about too, because it's the middle of the day and

759
00:36:52,760 --> 00:36:55,239
he's done with school, and normally he'd be off with

760
00:36:55,280 --> 00:36:59,480
his motherfucking friends, right, But now I'm his friend. Now

761
00:36:59,519 --> 00:37:03,199
I'm his f F you know, right, And it's so

762
00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:06,599
but you know, I mean, it's I guess it's I

763
00:37:06,639 --> 00:37:10,519
can't complain, but it's just these guys, you have a podcast,

764
00:37:10,519 --> 00:37:15,320
so you kind of have to write it's true. It's

765
00:37:15,360 --> 00:37:18,159
true that thank god, though he wants to watch movies.

766
00:37:19,039 --> 00:37:21,199
You know, that's my thing. Like I'll say, we'll watch

767
00:37:21,239 --> 00:37:23,400
a movie tonight, so he had something to I think

768
00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:25,079
of it as like, Okay, I'll have something to look

769
00:37:25,119 --> 00:37:28,000
forward to, except we watch a movie almost every night.

770
00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:36,039
Like I know, Sonny's yeah, he's really into movies. I

771
00:37:36,119 --> 00:37:37,280
wish my kids would be.

772
00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:41,119
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm not that bad into movies because it's

773
00:37:41,159 --> 00:37:42,800
hard to hold my attention for two hours.

774
00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:45,039
Speaker 4: So and Sadie will just tell you that straight up.

775
00:37:45,079 --> 00:37:46,760
Speaker 2: She's like, I'm sorry, mom, I just don't have a

776
00:37:46,760 --> 00:37:50,639
good attention span ever since phones were invented. I'm I

777
00:37:50,719 --> 00:37:53,800
kind of hear you totally. And we both look at

778
00:37:53,800 --> 00:37:56,920
each other sometimes during a movie. But we will practice.

779
00:37:56,960 --> 00:37:58,920
I'll be like, you know what, we're going to practice

780
00:37:58,960 --> 00:38:01,440
watching a movie to work on our attention spans. We're

781
00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:03,280
not working to put our phones down. It's good and

782
00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:05,559
we're going to watch the movie. But then it has

783
00:38:05,639 --> 00:38:07,719
to be this like really good movie.

784
00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:08,159
Speaker 3: I know.

785
00:38:08,960 --> 00:38:11,440
Speaker 4: Oh did you start the book I told you to read?

786
00:38:11,519 --> 00:38:12,159
Speaker 3: Yes? I did.

787
00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:16,559
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I love it. Daisy Jones and the

788
00:38:16,679 --> 00:38:22,280
Six Yes. Speaking of holding attention, the reason why that

789
00:38:22,360 --> 00:38:25,519
came to me is because I try so. I order

790
00:38:25,599 --> 00:38:27,960
so many books through Audible and then I returned them

791
00:38:28,079 --> 00:38:30,760
because I just, yeah, I know, I do that this

792
00:38:31,159 --> 00:38:32,840
is not the one that we the one that we

793
00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:36,360
talked about where it seemed good, the one that the undoing.

794
00:38:37,599 --> 00:38:38,000
Speaker 3: I think.

795
00:38:39,840 --> 00:38:43,039
Speaker 2: And then there was too much description and I was like, right,

796
00:38:43,199 --> 00:38:45,639
I know, so, but all these people were telling me

797
00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:46,840
that this book is good.

798
00:38:47,119 --> 00:38:50,079
Speaker 3: Jody was telling me about it like six months ago.

799
00:38:50,199 --> 00:38:52,199
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I downloaded it a while ago and then

800
00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:56,440
kept being like books are so hard, even just being

801
00:38:56,519 --> 00:38:58,920
told the story. I'm like, but I could listen to

802
00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:01,280
a podcast and it'll be done in forty five minutes, right,

803
00:39:01,599 --> 00:39:03,880
this book is this is a nine hour commitment, you know.

804
00:39:04,199 --> 00:39:05,519
So I was like, you know what, I'm just going

805
00:39:05,599 --> 00:39:09,000
to start it. I was out of podcasts to listen to.

806
00:39:09,599 --> 00:39:12,039
I was too lazy to go like google some more.

807
00:39:12,559 --> 00:39:16,719
So I started it and I was like, oh, no description,

808
00:39:17,440 --> 00:39:20,880
all kind of dialogue and like my fun and yes

809
00:39:21,559 --> 00:39:23,440
and relatable.

810
00:39:22,960 --> 00:39:25,440
Speaker 3: And now we know what I love is there. The

811
00:39:25,559 --> 00:39:28,920
actors are playing the characters like Jennifer Beals. Who I

812
00:39:28,960 --> 00:39:33,440
love is playing the main character, right, yeah, so, and

813
00:39:33,480 --> 00:39:36,480
then it goes back to you know, somebody else playing Billy,

814
00:39:36,519 --> 00:39:39,880
and then somebody else playing you know, Ted or whatever. Yeah.

815
00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:42,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like a memoir. What it is for anybody

816
00:39:42,519 --> 00:39:46,400
that doesn't know. I can't remember the author's name, Taylor Taylor.

817
00:39:46,119 --> 00:39:48,159
Speaker 3: Read Swift, No, yeah, read.

818
00:39:49,400 --> 00:39:52,840
Speaker 2: So the book is based on a band that formed

819
00:39:53,000 --> 00:39:56,360
in the seventies, but it's not a real band. It's

820
00:39:56,360 --> 00:40:01,559
a fake like biography of the this band told first

821
00:40:01,599 --> 00:40:03,360
person and how and why.

822
00:40:03,199 --> 00:40:03,840
Speaker 3: They broke up.

823
00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:07,039
Speaker 2: Right, they were like a big, big, huge successful band

824
00:40:07,039 --> 00:40:08,599
that broke up, and it's all about how they sort

825
00:40:08,639 --> 00:40:09,119
of came.

826
00:40:08,920 --> 00:40:12,280
Speaker 4: To be and it's like so love story.

827
00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:15,400
Speaker 3: But it's like it's just really Yeah, it's got a

828
00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:17,599
lot of stuff and I love like it takes place

829
00:40:17,599 --> 00:40:19,760
and you know, they talk about the Roxy and then

830
00:40:19,760 --> 00:40:22,800
it's Sunset Strip and the whiskey and all that stuff

831
00:40:22,800 --> 00:40:23,280
that I love.

832
00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:26,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, they mix like real names right in with like

833
00:40:26,800 --> 00:40:29,159
the fake people totally.

834
00:40:29,760 --> 00:40:32,320
Speaker 3: Like it's it's so good. It makes you think that

835
00:40:32,320 --> 00:40:34,719
they're they're really a band by the way they talk.

836
00:40:34,920 --> 00:40:35,039
Speaker 2: You know.

837
00:40:35,360 --> 00:40:38,920
Speaker 3: Yes, it's great. I just downloaded and I started listening

838
00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:42,679
and probably only like I don't know the first chapter

839
00:40:42,760 --> 00:40:45,400
or whatever. I don't think I've gotten that far because

840
00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:47,960
I just downloaded it and had a chance to start it,

841
00:40:48,280 --> 00:40:50,039
and I was listening to it last night, and I'm

842
00:40:50,079 --> 00:40:52,840
so happy that you told me because I needed something.

843
00:40:53,159 --> 00:40:56,360
I put literally put things off, like clean out a

844
00:40:56,400 --> 00:40:58,559
closet because I don't have anything to listen to.

845
00:40:58,559 --> 00:40:58,599
Speaker 5: You.

846
00:40:58,679 --> 00:40:59,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, I need something.

847
00:41:00,239 --> 00:41:03,599
Speaker 2: This was so good that I could I It was

848
00:41:03,639 --> 00:41:06,039
the first time in a really long time I was

849
00:41:06,079 --> 00:41:08,320
listening to something that I could not put it down.

850
00:41:08,719 --> 00:41:11,079
I was like, yeah, I kept thinking of more things

851
00:41:11,119 --> 00:41:14,039
I needed to do around the house or like, because

852
00:41:14,039 --> 00:41:14,679
I couldn't stop.

853
00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:16,239
Speaker 4: I was like, Oh, I'll go walk the dog. Oh

854
00:41:16,239 --> 00:41:17,480
I just I'll do the dishes.

855
00:41:17,559 --> 00:41:19,480
Speaker 2: Oh I'll do this, Oh I'll make dinner while I'm

856
00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:22,039
listening to it. I listened to it straight through. I

857
00:41:22,159 --> 00:41:25,679
started it one night, listen to it for hours, listen

858
00:41:25,719 --> 00:41:27,960
to it late into the night because I couldn't put

859
00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:29,719
it down. Woke up in the morning, and then I

860
00:41:29,800 --> 00:41:34,880
was scared because my brain, my Postman and puzzle brain,

861
00:41:35,079 --> 00:41:38,559
just I can listen to something and be so into it.

862
00:41:38,599 --> 00:41:40,119
And by the next day, I hang out. I could.

863
00:41:40,119 --> 00:41:43,239
I remember what was going on me too. He's thinking

864
00:41:43,239 --> 00:41:45,239
about that, and I gotta go back a few minutes

865
00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:48,320
and go, oh, okay, right. So I was scared to

866
00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:51,039
go to bed without finishing it because I was like,

867
00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:53,880
it's not going to have the same pull.

868
00:41:54,280 --> 00:41:54,960
Speaker 3: But it did.

869
00:41:55,239 --> 00:41:57,599
Speaker 2: I woke up in the morning and I started it

870
00:41:57,760 --> 00:42:01,159
back up, and I was like, back into the story,

871
00:42:01,199 --> 00:42:03,360
and then I listened to it almost straight through until.

872
00:42:03,199 --> 00:42:07,840
Speaker 3: It's wait, oh my god, I know, wow, everybody's gonna

873
00:42:07,960 --> 00:42:09,880
here's something weird though.

874
00:42:10,000 --> 00:42:12,360
Speaker 2: Okay, So this woman's written a bunch of other books.

875
00:42:12,719 --> 00:42:14,760
One of them is kind of famous. It's called like

876
00:42:14,880 --> 00:42:19,119
I Want to Say Something, Hugo and her Seven Husbands

877
00:42:19,199 --> 00:42:22,039
or something. It's about this like old aging starlet telling

878
00:42:22,079 --> 00:42:24,679
the story of her life. Which I downloaded that one

879
00:42:24,719 --> 00:42:26,920
and it's kind of good, okay, But then I downloaded

880
00:42:26,920 --> 00:42:31,000
one that she wrote a few years before. It's called

881
00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:36,519
something something True Loves or I don't know.

882
00:42:36,960 --> 00:42:38,000
Speaker 3: Something with true loves.

883
00:42:38,159 --> 00:42:38,280
Speaker 5: Right.

884
00:42:39,000 --> 00:42:42,440
Speaker 2: It's so bad, and I'm like, how could that have

885
00:42:42,480 --> 00:42:43,440
been the same author?

886
00:42:44,199 --> 00:42:44,880
Speaker 4: Do you know what I mean?

887
00:42:44,960 --> 00:42:50,320
Speaker 2: It's just really generic sounding and the opposite of like

888
00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:55,440
this book The Daisy Jones is so specific. Everything is

889
00:42:55,480 --> 00:42:58,559
like brand names, and the way they describe things is

890
00:42:58,599 --> 00:43:00,800
just so you can totally get it what they're wearing.

891
00:43:00,920 --> 00:43:02,880
Speaker 3: It's like right, right, right.

892
00:43:02,880 --> 00:43:05,960
Speaker 2: Specific and funny and interesting to make sure them. Yeah,

893
00:43:06,000 --> 00:43:09,039
but this other one is just so, it's like a

894
00:43:09,079 --> 00:43:09,920
Hallmark movie.

895
00:43:10,760 --> 00:43:12,440
Speaker 3: See. Well, when did she write it?

896
00:43:13,239 --> 00:43:16,079
Speaker 2: I don't know, a few years before, but I was like, yeah,

897
00:43:16,119 --> 00:43:18,440
I can only read her newer stuff. Right then I

898
00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:20,400
was like, how did she get published when she was

899
00:43:20,400 --> 00:43:21,079
a shitty writer?

900
00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:21,679
Speaker 3: Right?

901
00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:25,239
Speaker 2: And then she got so much better? Yeah, which was surprising,

902
00:43:25,320 --> 00:43:29,159
but happy. Yeah, no, I know, I gotta I can't

903
00:43:29,159 --> 00:43:30,679
wait to listen to it. I got a lot of

904
00:43:30,679 --> 00:43:32,960
shit to do, a lot of things to clear out.

905
00:43:33,280 --> 00:43:37,360
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, all right, thanks guys, Thanks Galen your parent, Now,

906
00:43:37,559 --> 00:43:38,960
don't f it up. Learn more.

907
00:43:45,320 --> 00:43:45,360
Speaker 5: Le