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Speaker 1: I made a decision. I'll pace sunny Sun had on.

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I had a vision night.

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Speaker 2: What's happening? Everybody? Welcome to for crying out loud.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we're posting a little late, but better late than never.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Sorry.

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Speaker 2: I had to move Sonny out yesterday on Monday. It

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was his very last day in his apartment, and so

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I had to fly out Sunday night and then meet

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the movers at like because they were taking his stuff

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to storage because he's moving into another apartment for next semester.

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And uh so they were coming at like eight thirty

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in the morning.

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Speaker 1: So met went over to.

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Speaker 2: Sonny's place and it was so cute because Sonny was

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getting really sentimental. Really yeah, I'm like, but then I

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think the new places like in a great area, because

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the place he's at right now is just kind of

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like off It's near the university, but it's kind of

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off the beaten Bath. It's like away from a lot

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of stuff, and you know, he's a walker, you know,

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he likes to walk get his groceries, and you know, well,

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the next place there's like there's a supermarket right there.

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There's all kinds of stuff, so it's closer to things

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but he was like, I kind of like this area better.

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He likes the quietness, I think a little bit. But

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uh yeah, and you know, I haven't been to Sunny's

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apartment and like a long time, and it was just

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dust bunnies. I mean you could imagine like one teenage

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boy living alone. The bathroom was just oh my god,

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and dust bunnies everywhere.

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Speaker 1: And he's like, I vacuum.

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Speaker 3: Like I was gonna say, does he have a vacuum quean, Yeah,

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it's a vacuum, but he doesn't really, you know, he

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doesn't dust the proper and I don't seem to like

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also get out the cleaning products and like nope, shit down, no, no,

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Like you go to an Italian's place, it's messy, it

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can be messy, but it's like a clean messy.

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Speaker 2: There's no dust bunnies, like they spend days where they

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have cleaning days. Or she's like, I deep cleaned the

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kitchen today. You know, it's pretty clean compared to like

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the teenage boys. You know, the movers are like we

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just moved a whole bunch of teenage guys out of there.

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He's like, this is nothing, this is nothing. Imagine like

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a bunch of guys living together with no cleaning, you

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know people. So yeah, but at least, you know, he

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did his laundry and change his sheets, but he doesn't

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fold his clothes. So there was mounds of clothes that

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had to be folded, put in boxes, and put in suitcases.

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So it was just a whole long day of like, oh,

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you know, when you know and you had a move, right,

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you think it's like, oh, it's not that big of

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a deal, not a lot, but then when you get

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in there, you're like, oh god, there is a lot,

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a lot to do. Had one suitcase just filled with

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dirty clothes, just filled with dirty clothes just to take

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home to wash.

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Speaker 1: So I was like, Okay, I don't think it.

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Speaker 3: Albe's ever done her laundry one time at her apartment.

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Speaker 1: Well really hmm, yeah, he has no choice. But yeah.

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Speaker 2: So we get there and the guys that are helping

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us are super cool. They're helping us pack up stuff

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to put into storage, and I'm like folding clothes and

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we spent a whole day. But then he's driving home,

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so I was flying home last night. There's only like

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one direct flight a day to come home. I mean

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I could have got. I could have taken a flight

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home direct to lax which is really far from me,

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or I could take that one flight a day back

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to Burbank, which is like seven minutes from my house.

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So the only flight the next day to come home

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was not until seven thirty at night, so I had

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to like hang out, you know, for the rest of

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the day.

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Speaker 1: Although we I was at the.

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Speaker 2: Apartment until like four o'clock in the afternoon pretty much

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because I wanted to clean it and get it all,

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you know, situated to give back. But he left mid

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morning to drive home with his friend. So we packed

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up their car. They left around eleven thirty, and then

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I stayed, you know, and cleaned the rest of the day.

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Speaker 3: Now, how long a drive is it? So are they

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going to get home in one day or they No,

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they stopped tonight.

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Speaker 2: They stopped last night in Berkeley and stayed at a

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like travel lodge, and then they got up this morning

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and they're driving back, so they'll be back later this evening.

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rest of the day, cleaned, got it all spick and span,

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like shining back to New turned in his keys.

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Speaker 1: It was cute.

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Speaker 2: Though, like before he left, I was sitting on his

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couch and he's like, can I just sit on the

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couch one last time? And I'm like, because the couch

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is small, So I got up. I was like okay.

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little tiny balcony. So I stood out there, and then

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five minutes later he's like, okay, can I stand on

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my balcony one last time?

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Speaker 1: He was like, I'll send them Eli. He's like, I'm

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gonna miss this place. Yeah, it was cute.

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Speaker 2: He had his picture of him and Phil in his

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bedroom next to his TV.

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Speaker 1: It was really cute.

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Speaker 2: And then and then yeah, so then he left and

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then I stayed and then yeah, So then I took

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the flight home late last night, got in, fell sound

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asleep on the airplane, sound asleep, and that's when I

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woke up and we were like landing into Burbank, and

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I texted you. I'm like, oh, what time tomorrow for

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the podcast? And then went home, did some dishes and

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then could not fell asleep for a little bit and

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then woke up wide awake at like two thirty three

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o'clock in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Couldn't go back to sleep.

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Speaker 2: So I had to take like sleeping medicine to go

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back to sleep, and then slept until like ten this morning.

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So I'm like dead tired and my body is aching.

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Oh my god, cause you have like twenty workouts. You know,

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he is hard. Moving is hard, and he doesn't have

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an elevator and he's on the third floor.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So there was a lot of up and down, up

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and down, up and down. The guys did a lot

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of it, but you know, I wanted to get him

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packed up and ready to get on the road. It

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was like, help him get all his stuff in the

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car packed up. So yeah, and then also you know, folding,

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sitting there and folding and then cleaning after he left.

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It was just a lot of physical which I used

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muscles I haven't used in a long time. It's like,

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so you know that feeling where you feel like you've

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been hit with a mac truck the next day, That's

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how I feel right now.

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Speaker 1: So when will he go back?

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Speaker 3: He doesn't have to go back at any certain point, right, No,

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he's going back in mid September. Okay, not un till September.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, and that'll be another that'll be another going

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out unpacking, getting him situated, take all.

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Speaker 3: The stuff from storage door, put it in his new plate.

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Oh lord, yeah, yeah, won't help him, right, No, I

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doubt it.

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Speaker 1: I mean he can ask him. But we'll see.

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Speaker 3: That's like a weird thing when you have to ask

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for when when it's like a known thing that you're

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gonna have to move, right, and your parent doesn't go

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like I can help you, right, Like you're gonna have

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to help Yeah, I'm gonna have to help him.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, okay, So and to.

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Speaker 3: Tell ya you were going to have to do a

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move for her too, But did that already happen or

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is that still coming now?

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Speaker 2: Well, she's back. I moved her back to.

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Speaker 3: Home, right, Okay, then you're gonna have to choose all

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her stuff though to her new place.

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Speaker 2: Right yeah, but not for a couple of months until

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mid August. Okay, but hey we're kind of burying the lead.

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Oh yeah, So then last week I guess I said,

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I put an offer in a house. They accepted my offer, okay,

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And I'm an escrow.

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Speaker 3: So so just tell us the story slowed down a

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little bit. So you put in the offer, you go

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a little super asking to because you heard.

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Speaker 1: That there was another offer coming in.

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Speaker 2: And so what I found out like the last couple

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of days ago, I found out that they so they

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accepted my offer because mine came in first, and I

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just went a little bit above their asking price. Well,

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the other people they went well above the asking price.

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Oh so I feel like I got to steal nice.

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Speaker 1: That's a great feeling. Yes.

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Speaker 2: So then once it got accepted and went into escrow,

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it happened fast. There was a lot of like we

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need this from you, We need that from you, We

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need all this paperwork, we need sign signatures and all

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that stuff, which was going on right before I was

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leaving to go to Eugene to help Sonny. And so

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it's like trying to get all that stuff done. I

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already have emails coming in this morning, like more stuff

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than we need. Then there was an inspection last week.

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Oh already mm hmm on Friday. There's that go spection link. Good.

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Now there's ivy that looks really pretty on the outside

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of the house. So the ivy is like grown on

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the side of the house. It's like that you know, yeah,

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that like kind of looks like the East Coast kind

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of a house.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 2: But the thing that I thought about what the IVY is.

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When there's ivs, there's rodents. So the house, which was

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built in ninety nine, was pretty much like the inspection

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came out fine, except for minor things like two trees

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in the backyard should be taken out. Sounds like it's

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a hit job on them, but they're going to cause

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issues eventually, so they should be taken out. But then

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the other thing was, is there there's rat droppings.

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Speaker 1: In the attic?

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Speaker 2: Oh oh, and yeah, and the HVAC needs to be

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like flushed out and it needs to be sealed up

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the attic, you know, so there needs to be an

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exterminator to come out. So and I had a feeling

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it was like, you know, that IVY is going to

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cause issues, so I might get rid of it eventually,

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not right away, but soon.

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Speaker 1: So that needs to happen.

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Speaker 3: So when something like that happens, all the realtors who

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are listening are like, stupid question, But would do you

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bother trying to haggle at that point or do you

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just go, okay, good enough clothes.

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Speaker 2: My agent was like, I'm going to, like, you know,

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try and play hardball with them and say like, hey,

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you know, can we split the cost or you know whatever,

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or give us credit.

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Speaker 1: But he said, because they got the other offer.

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Speaker 2: Higher, they might just go like too bad and they

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might just play hardball back so that I would fall

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out at es grow and they can get the higher offer.

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They might do something like that. So he's handling it.

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So we'll see what happens.

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Speaker 3: But luckily it's not either way. That doesn't sound that expensive. No,

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it's not to fix. I mean we've I mean, if

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it's your house, you'd have an exterminator coming.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you know, I can't tell you how many

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times we've done that, right, Yeah, So it's not. Luckily,

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there was not much to you know, have to worry about.

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It came back good, The report came back good. There's

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more inspections happening this week that I'm going to go

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out tomorrow for I think, like I think there's a

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pool guys, just to make sure the bull equipment is good.

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So just little things like that. So Escro closes on

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July thirty first, and then I think my first payment

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won't be till September, so then I'll have some like

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a couple of weeks to like move, get stuff moved out,

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and Wendy says she's coming out.

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Speaker 3: Oh wait, your first payment even though Escro closes July. Okay,

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so you don't have to pay for August because like you,

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that's like included in I think, so, yeah, payment or whatever, right, Okay,

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Now what are you going to do about the condo?

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Are you going to take your time selling.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to take my time selling it, but I

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am going to put it up for sale. Yeah, okay, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: There's a few things that I want to do to

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it before I sell it.

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Speaker 1: In the kitchen, you.

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Speaker 3: Can get into this house without not yeah about yeah condo,

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Yeah you don't need that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah good, Yeah, that's a relief. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So hopefully everything keeps going the way it's going. You know,

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there's a lot of stuff that could happen along the way.

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But well, how do you feel? Did you have any

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You know, you and I are so different this way.

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I have anxiety.

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Speaker 3: You don't, so I'm anxiety if others, Yeah, but you have,

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but I have like just every day like free floating, like,

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oh my god, I made a huge mistake. Did you

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have any like Okay, I got the house? Oh, shit,

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I got the house.

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Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, there was a little bit of that, but

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then I thought about the big picture, and it's like, well,

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as to what's the alternative stay in this rental where

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I'm wasting money And it's actually more than what my

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monthly payment would be in this new house, So it

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makes financial to get out and buy a place, you know.

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So so I felt good about that. You know, I

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feel good about that.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 2: Of course, it's like, oh my god, I'm going to

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own a house, and it's you know, it's going to

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be my first really like buying a house on my own,

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you know. I mean I owned the condo, but that

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was so long ago, and like, you know, it's not

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as in the kind of small you know, it's kind

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of manageable, but you know, but I mean Suzanne lives

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there now, Like she's got people like if I need

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a landscape or if I need this that she's got.

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She just moved in, so she knows like what the

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you know, the the cable company is and what the

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Wi Fi company, you know. So I have her to

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help me, which is nice.

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Speaker 1: That's nice.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And I got a lot of people that live

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out there in that area that I know of too,

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which is nice. So it feels it feels good, like

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it feels like I'm doing the right thing.

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Speaker 3: So when you have to give thirty days on your

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yeah rental?

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Speaker 1: Now, yeah, so what's going to be when are you

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going to put that?

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Speaker 2: I'm going to put that in just to make sure

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everything is going smoothly, probably next week, oh you are. Yeah,

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I'm gonna let them know.

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Speaker 1: But but what if something goes wrong with us? Or

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shouldn't you wait, I'm gonna that's the thing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I'm gonna they're They've I told them

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I would be very upfront with them when I bought

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a place. They've been letting me go from month to

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months anyway. So but you still have to give thirty days. Yeah,

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I'm going to give them.

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Speaker 3: Either one to give them like July first, right, because

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then no, what if escrow closes July thirty first, I

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guess you could feasibly move in August first.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, I'm gonna, well, I gotta find out like

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when am I going to move in? Like what is

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that date? And then when I figure that out, I'm

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going to let them know. But I'm also going to

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let them know like Hey, I'm an escrow and anything

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can happen and it can fall out, you know, and

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I think they'll be fine with it, knowing them, so

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I think it'll be okay.

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Speaker 1: Why am I anxious for you?

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Speaker 3: I'm like, but then there'll be those money because they

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want to start saying it's rentable, yeah, which I can't do.

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And I don't know, I mean I could. People can't

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really come see it, can they? While you're there?

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Speaker 1: I guess they can. Yeah, I'll be they'll be able

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to show it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, your least favorite thing.

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Speaker 2: I know. I'm back to that. Yeah, but that's okay.

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And then Natali'll be loop leaving mid August, and then

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Sunny I'll have to move him mid September. So there's

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gonna be a lot of moving. So I'm already starting

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like get rid of shit, going through closets and going

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into the garage and getting you know, sitting the herd,

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starting to get ready.

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Speaker 1: To move again. Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 2: Even though it was like two years ago that we

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moved into this rental, it seems like it was just

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last summer.

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Speaker 1: Doesn't seem that long ago. Yeah, So it's gonna be

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a lot.

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Speaker 3: Ah, all right, well, let me know how I can help.

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I'll be flexible or whatever.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, if you need I'm not saying you will.

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Speaker 3: But it is a lot of house so if you

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need a house manager, like I could probably do that.

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I mean just as in certain hours, okay, not well

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we're recording. But if you want to just get you know,

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give me like stuff to Okay, I can be like

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your av to Sutton okay, and then we'll have a

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really public like falling out right where or I'll have

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to promise not to.

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Speaker 1: Reveal your secret. Right.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but I'll get like you know, I'll go to

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dinner at Craigs and like I'll get the photographers will

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be there and they'll be like, what happened with you.

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Speaker 1: In the deal? We're not going to talk about it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but we're still doing our podcast like we're fine.

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Speaker 1: That's all you need to know. I could use an AVV, yeah,

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ground great, wouldn't that be? Oh my god?

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Speaker 3: So so you'll totally relate to this. I was sick,

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so I had a cold even like the last time

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we were here, and it was such a mild cold.

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I was like, oh my god, this is no kind

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of cold at all. This is like I got a

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little congested. So Sadie had the cold, then she didn't

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she I think she did stay home from school like

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one day. And then I got it and I was like,

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oh this is fun, no problem. Oh as you would

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say I was congested, but I never and I was

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really tired one day, but I never felt.

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Speaker 1: Like no fever.

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Speaker 3: I was never like, oh this could be the flu.

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Nothing nothing that bad. This is like a mild summer cold,

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like thank you, right, thank you God.

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Speaker 1: For giving me this.

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Speaker 3: And then I was but you know, I always have

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that inkling where I'm like, they never really stayed like

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I always end up with a shitty cough, but it

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wasn't going into my lungs. I was like, you know what,

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I'm okay. And then when I came in here a

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week ago, I think I'd already had it for a while,

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like I was suggested. I I was fine, yeah, no cough,

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nothing like crazy. Then it just started doing its thing,

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and it was I just felt very congested, but not

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even that bad, like not like, oh my god, I

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have a sinus infection, which has happened to me many times.

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But then I just start getting a cough and you know,

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I can't like right now, I even hold on, so

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I get this really bad cough and I'm like, this

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is so stupid.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't have to be.

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Speaker 3: This way, Like why is my body like it just

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wants to because you know what it is. It's not

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even like a bronchitis. It's like I get a post

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nasal drip right from the congestion. Yeah, and then it

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irritates I think I've just had it since I was

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much younger, where I just easily get my airway right aggravated,

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and then I cannot stop coughing, and I'm like this

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is ridiculous.

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Speaker 1: So then I'm like I got to go to urgent care.

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Speaker 3: I think I have to go to urgent care just

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because this is just not going away fast enough right now,

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it's been like a week and a half, like I

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had it. Then it turns into this. I got to

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tell you this, genius. This is all not to complain

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about being sick, but to tell you that I was

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all set. This was on Sunday. I was like, I'm

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just going to go to urgent care. It's easy, but

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you don't do the telehealth urgent care well. So that

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then I was like and I'll tell you why. I'll

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tell you why. I normally don't because it seems like

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a kshaw. It's like I then I have to figure out,

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like what my account is, and because there's five people

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in our family and we're all on the same insurance,

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it's always like are you Jonathan right, and I go no.

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Speaker 1: I'm not Jonathan. Then they go, oh, well you don't

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have an account, and I'm like, yes, I do. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Then it sends you to So then while I'm sick

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and constantly coughing, I'm like, fuck, I'm gonna do this.

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Telehealth is free? Why am I not taking advantage of it?

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So I call the number for telehealth for like helping,

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you know, the assisting number, and I get through to

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someone right away.

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Speaker 1: She's like, okay, we need to make you.

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Speaker 3: I can see that you have an account, but okay,

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here's your username.

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Speaker 1: I don't have this saved anywhere, or maybe I do.

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Speaker 3: But I'm like, I'm sick. So I was getting so aggravated.

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Don't worry not. I wasn't being a Karen. But she

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was like okay.

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Speaker 1: She was so helpful.

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Speaker 3: She was like, here's your username and then here's your password,

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and it was clearly not something that I made up myself.

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It was like some rando like I signed in once, yes,

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and you're like, okay, I'll take it in a sick panic,

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and then it was just like use this password. Well

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now it's not taking any passwords. So she gives me

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all the info. It's not logging me in, you know,

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you know, of course, of course, And I'm like, this

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is not what part of me was like, I should

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just hang up and go to urgent care. But then

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I'm like, well, now I've got time invested. What is

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that sunken sunken cost or whatever? Right, So I'm like no,

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I'm gonna see this bitch through.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So then she's like, okay, I think you tried to

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use your email address and not the user name I

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just gave you.

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, you're right, so I did.

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Speaker 3: So I finally I get in there and then I

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have to update all my medical information. Well they always

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do that.

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Speaker 1: And they do do that, oh my god, no matter.

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Speaker 3: What's the date of your life last period? And I'm

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like I literally wrote like twenty sixteen and they're like

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we need a month and day and I'm like, fuck

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off off already like, I don't know, I don't remember.

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Speaker 1: Am I supposed to remember?

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Speaker 3: I'm going to be sixty right, yeah, very soon.

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Speaker 1: I haven't had a period since I was.

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Speaker 3: Like forty eight, for forty nine, so twenty sixteen is

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actually wishful thinking.

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Speaker 1: It's been a while.

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Speaker 3: But you have to do that, and then it's like, okay,

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even though I said I hadn't had a period since

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twenty sixteen, They're like, but are you breastfeeding? No, I'm

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not breastfeeding. Are you sure I'm positive? And then I'm

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here for a cold. Then you have to put in

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when did you have your last colonoscopy? When did you

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have your last catogram? I'm not kidding. Do you keep

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that shit on your calendar?

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Speaker 1: Because I know no.

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Speaker 3: I just put everything in as the same date, like

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they're just going to think, Wow, this girl was really

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into wellness this May. That's when I had my kolenoscopy.

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That's when I had my mammogram, That's when I had

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a PAP. Yeah, first, it's been recent, so anyway I

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do all that, then I am Then The magical part though,

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for anybody who has telehealth is once.

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Speaker 1: You do all that, you just go, Okay, what do

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you need I go on, now, you have a cough.

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Speaker 3: Okay, get ready, your call's coming. And I'm like, oh shit,

473
00:22:25,119 --> 00:22:27,680
that was quick, you know. And the lady calls me.

474
00:22:27,759 --> 00:22:32,400
She's like, Hi, it's doctor you know Calanova whatever I'm in,

475
00:22:32,680 --> 00:22:33,599
blah blah, where are you?

476
00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:34,680
Speaker 1: I'm in California?

477
00:22:34,839 --> 00:22:38,119
Speaker 3: Okay, great, I have license for well you better because

478
00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:43,160
I just think right anyway. So then I said, yeah,

479
00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:45,920
I have this really bad cough and I talk for

480
00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:47,759
a living, so I got to get rid of it.

481
00:22:47,799 --> 00:22:51,359
And she's like, okay, goes through a little bit of

482
00:22:51,359 --> 00:22:54,160
the symptoms. I'm like, it's it's not even that bad.

483
00:22:54,480 --> 00:22:57,000
It's probably not COVID. It's definitely not the flu. It

484
00:22:57,079 --> 00:23:00,319
wasn't that bad. But I can't stop coughing. Normally, I

485
00:23:00,359 --> 00:23:03,000
get like an antibiotic this, and she goes, yeah, it

486
00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:04,359
sounds like you have a sinus infection.

487
00:23:04,720 --> 00:23:08,200
Speaker 1: I go, okay, can you give me steroids?

488
00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:13,400
Speaker 3: Like yes, medrol, Yeah, that usually really helps me stop coughing.

489
00:23:13,759 --> 00:23:19,680
She's like, oh no, because some weird thing where steroids

490
00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:22,680
can cause a blood clot and they don't prescribe them

491
00:23:22,759 --> 00:23:24,039
through telehealth anymore.

492
00:23:24,519 --> 00:23:27,720
Speaker 2: What I know just steroids prescribed to me tell a

493
00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:28,759
heal last time I was sick.

494
00:23:28,839 --> 00:23:29,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay.

495
00:23:29,759 --> 00:23:33,359
Speaker 3: So yeah, so I'm like, okay, I mean I didn't

496
00:23:33,400 --> 00:23:35,519
really care that much. I was I'm not like, oh

497
00:23:35,519 --> 00:23:38,440
my god, I'm trying to get steroids, like nobody wants

498
00:23:38,519 --> 00:23:39,440
to be on steroids.

499
00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:40,400
Speaker 1: I was like, okay.

500
00:23:40,839 --> 00:23:43,720
Speaker 3: So then she goes, I'm going to give you antibiotic

501
00:23:43,799 --> 00:23:45,359
because it sounds like give an infection. I'm going to

502
00:23:45,400 --> 00:23:47,200
give you this nose spray. I'm going to give you

503
00:23:47,240 --> 00:23:52,640
cough medicine, which I love. They're they're like bends. I

504
00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:53,920
don't know that little pearls.

505
00:23:54,039 --> 00:23:56,279
Speaker 1: You have, little beads. I think those work really well.

506
00:23:56,359 --> 00:23:56,759
Yeah they do.

507
00:23:57,200 --> 00:24:00,319
Speaker 3: So then and then she's like, I'm gonna give you

508
00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:03,480
some steroids. I'm like, she goes, it's just it doesn't

509
00:24:03,519 --> 00:24:07,519
you don't sound good, right, I go okay. So then

510
00:24:07,559 --> 00:24:13,240
she prescribes me prednizone twenty milligram tablets twice.

511
00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:16,240
Speaker 1: A day for three days. Right, okay.

512
00:24:16,400 --> 00:24:20,279
Speaker 3: Well, by the way, because I was starting to feel

513
00:24:20,519 --> 00:24:22,480
I was just having a little bit of trouble sleeping

514
00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:25,240
and I so I start googling it on my phone

515
00:24:25,279 --> 00:24:27,839
in the middle of the night and I'm like bitch,

516
00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:30,480
this is way more. This is a way higher dose

517
00:24:30,519 --> 00:24:33,480
than the metroal pack. Like, I don't understand the metroal

518
00:24:33,519 --> 00:24:37,279
pack comes out, it's the metroal pack is like this,

519
00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:41,279
It's twenty four milligrams day one, right, then it's twenty

520
00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:43,920
day two, then it's sixteen day three, and then it

521
00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:47,680
goes down to Zeroh, well this is forty day one.

522
00:24:48,559 --> 00:24:50,559
Speaker 1: So I was like, what's the You're all, oh, I

523
00:24:50,599 --> 00:24:53,400
can't prescribe that anymore. That's crazy. And now she's like,

524
00:24:53,440 --> 00:24:53,799
now I'm.

525
00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:56,279
Speaker 3: Gonna prescribe you, like double the dose he did the

526
00:24:56,319 --> 00:24:58,880
metro pack. I was like, no, wonder, I'm feeling a

527
00:24:58,960 --> 00:25:03,559
little Yeah, I can affect you, Lee, It's not it's

528
00:25:03,599 --> 00:25:04,519
not jittery.

529
00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:08,039
Speaker 1: It's like a little too alert.

530
00:25:08,599 --> 00:25:11,640
Speaker 3: Like how I imagine people that I've never taken a stimulant,

531
00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:14,839
but how I imagine like ADHD meds.

532
00:25:14,920 --> 00:25:17,559
Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, just like a little too locked in.

533
00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:21,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, so I'm not going to take the last pill

534
00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:23,000
because I think I'm fine.

535
00:25:23,079 --> 00:25:25,079
Speaker 1: Now, yeah, you sound fine.

536
00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:29,640
Speaker 3: It was it is kind of magic. Sunday, I'm just

537
00:25:29,759 --> 00:25:32,799
coughing my lungs out. I can't, I can barely function.

538
00:25:34,039 --> 00:25:37,440
I get the meds that day. By yesterday I was

539
00:25:37,759 --> 00:25:40,319
I was better, and by today I woke up and

540
00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:42,559
I'm like, at all right.

541
00:25:43,079 --> 00:25:44,759
Speaker 1: So isn't it's so nice? Though?

542
00:25:44,799 --> 00:25:46,839
Speaker 2: Why don't you have the account set up for that

543
00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:48,880
virtual medical appointment?

544
00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:49,440
Speaker 1: Like it?

545
00:25:49,440 --> 00:25:53,720
Speaker 2: It makes you life so much easier because then Natalia

546
00:25:53,759 --> 00:25:56,039
gets sick and then she does the telehealth. You know,

547
00:25:56,440 --> 00:25:59,359
it just makes your life so much easier because I

548
00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:01,359
got it set up up and that that was that.

549
00:26:01,519 --> 00:26:03,880
Ever since I don't know when I did it, how

550
00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:06,359
I did it. I got the password in my phone

551
00:26:06,799 --> 00:26:10,559
so it logs in, no problem, mo. And it's Once

552
00:26:10,599 --> 00:26:13,400
you get that going, it's a game changer. No more

553
00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:15,680
going to the to the urgent care.

554
00:26:15,880 --> 00:26:16,680
Speaker 1: And it's free.

555
00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:21,559
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, it's covered, which thank god it should be

556
00:26:21,559 --> 00:26:23,640
because I pay so much money for my premium.

557
00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:25,200
Speaker 1: It should get some benefits.

558
00:26:25,319 --> 00:26:29,279
Speaker 3: Yes, I won't have to go in unless it's for UTI,

559
00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:31,440
because then you got to. Yeah, unless you have to, yes,

560
00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:34,720
give it letter sounds. I get those, Yeah right exactly.

561
00:26:34,880 --> 00:26:35,720
Speaker 1: Yeah.

562
00:26:35,799 --> 00:26:40,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, well good now this just reminded me of something.

563
00:26:40,799 --> 00:26:43,000
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564
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565
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566
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567
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568
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569
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570
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571
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573
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574
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575
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Speaker 1: And all the proteins.

576
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578
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579
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580
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581
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582
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584
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Speaker 1: Yeah zero. Yeah.

585
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Speaker 3: So I have had a week. I think I texted

586
00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:53,119
you that I've lived a year.

587
00:27:53,279 --> 00:27:55,240
Speaker 1: That was last week. In a week it was.

588
00:27:55,720 --> 00:28:00,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, because last week I talked about their didn't

589
00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:02,920
I didn't talk about their high school graduation because that

590
00:28:03,039 --> 00:28:07,680
just happened. Yeah, high school graduation was Thursday. Then Elbe's

591
00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:09,200
college graduation was Saturday.

592
00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:11,680
Speaker 1: Oh my god. The last thing I talked to.

593
00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:14,920
Speaker 3: About was the music show, which I think had just happened,

594
00:28:14,960 --> 00:28:18,039
our big music show, which I have a little by

595
00:28:18,039 --> 00:28:21,240
the way, so I do want to apologize for last

596
00:28:21,240 --> 00:28:24,400
week's Patreon yea. And I came home and texted you,

597
00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:26,400
and I was like, I don't feel great about this,

598
00:28:27,039 --> 00:28:29,319
and you took it basically what it was so that

599
00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:32,039
people aren't like, oh my god, we're missing this crazy,

600
00:28:32,119 --> 00:28:37,079
juicy story. It was basically me kind of complaining about

601
00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:39,440
some stuff having to do at the kids' school. But

602
00:28:39,720 --> 00:28:41,960
when I came home and thought about it, I was like,

603
00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:46,200
you know what, I want to leave, like, it was

604
00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:48,799
a great school for them. Yeah, as I was saying

605
00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:53,240
last week, I have so many amazing memories and it

606
00:28:53,319 --> 00:28:59,799
was very, very very good for them mentally. Xander fully

607
00:29:00,039 --> 00:29:04,160
arrived at that school. Sadie kind of thrived at that school.

608
00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:06,759
She did the best that Sadie could do right given

609
00:29:06,839 --> 00:29:12,880
her you know, low battery, her very low social battery.

610
00:29:13,759 --> 00:29:16,480
The girl made it through through school. I told her

611
00:29:16,599 --> 00:29:20,799
I was having I was remembering that middle school. This

612
00:29:21,039 --> 00:29:22,200
girl was begging.

613
00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:22,839
Speaker 1: Me to be homeschooled.

614
00:29:23,480 --> 00:29:26,559
Speaker 3: Remember, and her mental health was bad at that time.

615
00:29:26,599 --> 00:29:29,559
That's when we put her on meds. That was middle school,

616
00:29:30,160 --> 00:29:34,440
and you know what, she started feeling a little bit better.

617
00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:34,880
Speaker 1: From the meds.

618
00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:37,599
Speaker 3: And then she made a couple of friends.

619
00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:41,480
Speaker 1: Remember way back when I was like, Sadie's going to

620
00:29:41,480 --> 00:29:42,039
build a bear.

621
00:29:42,599 --> 00:29:46,000
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, Remember I was furtively taking pictures of her

622
00:29:46,039 --> 00:29:49,720
across them all with some friends. I'm like, she's got friends.

623
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:53,240
And one of those girls is still her friend to

624
00:29:53,279 --> 00:29:55,440
this day. They see each other all the time. Yeah.

625
00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:58,640
But the point is, even at that time, she was like,

626
00:29:58,839 --> 00:30:01,200
I don't want to be going to If she could

627
00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:04,480
have homeschooled, she would have. Yeah, But I was like,

628
00:30:05,359 --> 00:30:07,400
ain't nobody got time to be homeschooling you.

629
00:30:07,480 --> 00:30:08,599
Speaker 1: Plus the fact that like.

630
00:30:10,640 --> 00:30:12,640
Speaker 3: This is never going to go away if I just

631
00:30:12,720 --> 00:30:15,599
let you avoid, you know, I do think you need

632
00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:18,119
to go to school. And it wasn't bad enough that

633
00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:20,559
like she needed to go to some special school for

634
00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:21,200
just one.

635
00:30:21,039 --> 00:30:22,119
Speaker 1: On one help.

636
00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:25,599
Speaker 3: It was like, right, always kind of in the middle. Right,

637
00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:28,279
So anyway, the school that they went to was so

638
00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:29,680
good for like it.

639
00:30:29,559 --> 00:30:32,680
Speaker 2: Was remember when they Yeah, when they went there, how

640
00:30:32,839 --> 00:30:37,400
much they're like they they came alive, like they started thriving,

641
00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:41,039
their social life got better, their academics, you know, they

642
00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:45,559
liked their classes like their teachers, which was really nice.

643
00:30:45,680 --> 00:30:45,960
Speaker 1: You know.

644
00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:50,079
Speaker 3: I would say year one was a bit of a struggle,

645
00:30:50,519 --> 00:30:54,000
but by tenth grade they were both doing great, right,

646
00:30:54,240 --> 00:30:57,920
and that's when Xander, that's when Lyla Crocodile moved over,

647
00:30:58,400 --> 00:31:02,559
and then they both have like friends groups. Yeah, there's

648
00:31:02,599 --> 00:31:06,039
been some ups and downs, but all in all, like

649
00:31:06,400 --> 00:31:09,920
Sadie's math teacher was just this magical guy. Remember when

650
00:31:09,920 --> 00:31:12,759
I read that letter about that, I'd emailed the math

651
00:31:12,799 --> 00:31:16,200
teacher because he thought Sadie wasn't paying attention. And then

652
00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:19,359
he was so like, oh my god, I'm so sorry. Okay,

653
00:31:19,359 --> 00:31:21,000
so we had all those great things happen.

654
00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:21,640
Speaker 1: Yeah.

655
00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:26,200
Speaker 3: Also her counselor was amazing. So given all of the

656
00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:30,200
good things, I was like, I don't need to shit

657
00:31:30,319 --> 00:31:33,039
on the things that I don't like on my way out,

658
00:31:33,119 --> 00:31:34,319
you know, on the way out the door.

659
00:31:34,519 --> 00:31:35,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I get that.

660
00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:38,480
Speaker 3: I get it, and I know that I know that

661
00:31:38,599 --> 00:31:40,599
probably none of the people from the school are going

662
00:31:40,680 --> 00:31:43,440
to listen, but you never know, because we've we've thought

663
00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:46,240
that before and then you get that call, right, And

664
00:31:46,279 --> 00:31:48,960
I was like, I don't need to get that call, yeah,

665
00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:53,039
and I need to like look back with gratitude and

666
00:31:53,119 --> 00:31:55,519
I'm sorry for the people. There's a few things that

667
00:31:55,640 --> 00:31:58,759
need to be fixed, right, and other people will fix it,

668
00:31:58,799 --> 00:32:00,480
I guess, yeah, if they have a problem.

669
00:32:00,599 --> 00:32:03,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I get it. I understand why you did it. It

670
00:32:03,039 --> 00:32:05,079
wasn't worth it. Yeah.

671
00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:10,079
Speaker 3: So now I'm so glad because because that was before graduation, right,

672
00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:16,799
So this, I mean, it was just a very intense week.

673
00:32:17,319 --> 00:32:19,359
There's another thing that maybe I can talk about in

674
00:32:19,400 --> 00:32:21,920
a future Patreon, I'll ask you about this off the air.

675
00:32:22,359 --> 00:32:28,079
But high school graduation was last thursday, so beautiful. Yeah,

676
00:32:28,319 --> 00:32:33,119
Xander got recognized for he got like this overall award,

677
00:32:33,480 --> 00:32:36,160
which it and it's not this like everybody gets a trophy.

678
00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:39,240
They were doing academic achievement awards. So there was one

679
00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:45,480
for science, there was one for two for science, math, English,

680
00:32:45,519 --> 00:32:49,319
something else. And then Xander got basically like overall achievement

681
00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:54,319
for being forgetting amazing grades. You know, he got They

682
00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:57,240
both Sadie and Xander got a gold Cord.

683
00:32:57,079 --> 00:33:00,119
Speaker 1: Which is like the high honors. Oh, I know.

684
00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:03,599
Speaker 3: And then and then Xander got awarded this like not

685
00:33:03,799 --> 00:33:07,200
just like school spirit, but like this kid had all this,

686
00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:10,440
all the great grades, but also you know the speech

687
00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:13,440
and debate and the being and he did all the

688
00:33:13,480 --> 00:33:16,200
plays and he did He's like the most involved kid

689
00:33:16,319 --> 00:33:17,480
with also good grades.

690
00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:19,279
Speaker 1: And it was really that's amazing.

691
00:33:19,279 --> 00:33:24,200
Speaker 3: Everybody cheered for him, and then I was surprised. I

692
00:33:24,319 --> 00:33:27,559
was the saddest to say goodbye to Well the music teacher.

693
00:33:27,599 --> 00:33:31,240
For one, I like, I'm obsessed, yeah, But then I

694
00:33:31,319 --> 00:33:36,200
realized how much I love her counselor, and all of

695
00:33:36,200 --> 00:33:38,279
a sudden, I just got this like be in my bond.

696
00:33:38,319 --> 00:33:39,759
I was like, I got to find her counselor. I

697
00:33:39,759 --> 00:33:41,839
got to find her counselor, and I'm like looking around

698
00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:44,680
as anybody seen her. Then I go into back into

699
00:33:44,759 --> 00:33:48,119
the big auditorium where we'd been and I find her

700
00:33:48,480 --> 00:33:49,160
and I was like.

701
00:33:49,759 --> 00:33:52,920
Speaker 1: I'm gonna miss you most of all. And then she

702
00:33:53,039 --> 00:33:57,000
started crying, and then I started crying. And I hadn't

703
00:33:57,000 --> 00:33:57,680
been emotional.

704
00:33:57,720 --> 00:33:59,839
Speaker 3: I didn't cry, and she had year during any of

705
00:33:59,880 --> 00:34:01,160
the graduation ceremony.

706
00:34:01,200 --> 00:34:02,960
Speaker 1: I was just like, this is fun.

707
00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:07,000
Speaker 3: I'm sitting next to a while Crocodile's mom she's crying

708
00:34:07,359 --> 00:34:11,199
because her kids had such an amazing experience. I'm not crying.

709
00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:13,880
I see the counselor and I'm like, we never could

710
00:34:13,920 --> 00:34:15,840
have gotten Sadie through high school without you.

711
00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:18,119
Speaker 1: And she was crying and she was like, I love

712
00:34:18,199 --> 00:34:20,760
Sadie so much. I love both your kids so much,

713
00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:23,320
and she's such a hard worker. And then I was

714
00:34:23,440 --> 00:34:24,519
just like the water works.

715
00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:28,719
Speaker 2: H Such an emotional thing though, you know, especially when

716
00:34:28,760 --> 00:34:32,000
somebody's touched your child's life like that, you know, there's

717
00:34:32,079 --> 00:34:34,880
nothing better, you know. I mean, I remember my kids

718
00:34:35,320 --> 00:34:39,519
had a special teacher in their life in high school

719
00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:44,239
that I just loved. Natalia had this government teacher that

720
00:34:44,599 --> 00:34:46,679
she loved, like she couldn't get like she was like,

721
00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:49,920
oh my alstad know I'm interested in, like, you know,

722
00:34:50,199 --> 00:34:53,480
the history of the government. And so when you see them,

723
00:34:53,760 --> 00:34:55,719
you have to like go and thank them. And it's

724
00:34:55,760 --> 00:34:59,039
an emotional thing. It's like my kid like just finally

725
00:34:59,079 --> 00:35:02,199
graduated after all the fucking headaches, you know, all the

726
00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:05,280
ups and downs, and here's the person that really made

727
00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:07,320
a difference in their life that they're not going to forget,

728
00:35:07,400 --> 00:35:08,880
and you like go and thank them.

729
00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:12,159
Speaker 1: Yeah, it makes you cry. It's really touching. I feel like.

730
00:35:13,159 --> 00:35:15,719
Speaker 3: One thing that I realized is that all kids, like

731
00:35:15,840 --> 00:35:18,320
your kids, had a lot of struggles and a lot

732
00:35:18,360 --> 00:35:20,599
of things that you had to go to the counselor

733
00:35:20,679 --> 00:35:24,000
go to this person talking to epas my kids, the

734
00:35:24,039 --> 00:35:26,400
IPA is same with mine.

735
00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:29,679
Speaker 1: And you know, you look back and you go.

736
00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:33,840
Speaker 3: Probably everybody's kids had their stuff, right, So these counselors

737
00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:37,440
are dealing with almost every Because we had to go

738
00:35:37,519 --> 00:35:40,920
to basically the counselor's office for something that's like kind

739
00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:42,159
of the story for another day.

740
00:35:42,599 --> 00:35:44,480
Speaker 1: But the person.

741
00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:46,519
Speaker 3: The other parent that we were with, like knew her

742
00:35:46,559 --> 00:35:48,480
way around that office, you know what I mean. And

743
00:35:48,519 --> 00:35:52,239
I was like, she's we've never been here before for

744
00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:55,320
like a meeting. This person is like, is there a

745
00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:55,920
second home?

746
00:35:56,119 --> 00:35:57,000
Speaker 1: Yeah? Exactly.

747
00:35:57,239 --> 00:36:00,360
Speaker 2: I mean I've been there many times for all those meetings. Yeah,

748
00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:01,440
all those meetings I had.

749
00:36:01,320 --> 00:36:01,679
Speaker 1: To go through.

750
00:36:01,719 --> 00:36:04,440
Speaker 2: And then when COVID hit, it was all on FaceTime

751
00:36:04,599 --> 00:36:07,440
those meetings, you know, and I remember getting mad at

752
00:36:07,440 --> 00:36:10,440
some of the teachers, like what's.

753
00:36:09,440 --> 00:36:11,880
Speaker 1: With all that? You know, like just getting pissed off.

754
00:36:11,920 --> 00:36:14,880
Speaker 2: It's like, you know, and you just have to bite

755
00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:17,559
your tongue because I learned my lesson in elementary school,

756
00:36:17,880 --> 00:36:20,079
not to like rem them out, but you know, just

757
00:36:20,159 --> 00:36:23,639
like there's those asshole teachers that just like you want

758
00:36:23,679 --> 00:36:25,920
to say something to you, But then those are far

759
00:36:26,039 --> 00:36:28,840
and few between compared to the teachers that were so

760
00:36:28,960 --> 00:36:31,679
awesome that my kids loved both of them.

761
00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:34,360
Speaker 3: Oh, you know, we've gotten in trouble for talking shit

762
00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:36,159
about teachers, but I'm sorry.

763
00:36:36,199 --> 00:36:37,199
Speaker 1: Here's the problem.

764
00:36:37,679 --> 00:36:41,320
Speaker 3: A good teacher makes your life so much easier and

765
00:36:41,320 --> 00:36:45,320
it is so nice. A terrible teacher can like ruin

766
00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:46,000
your experience.

767
00:36:46,079 --> 00:36:48,599
Speaker 2: I remember Zippity DooDah, the math teacher that say, the

768
00:36:48,679 --> 00:36:51,079
worst teacher I've ever ever encountered.

769
00:36:51,159 --> 00:36:54,039
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like how do these people keep their jobs?

770
00:36:54,119 --> 00:36:55,800
Speaker 3: And then like they don't want to complain about it,

771
00:36:55,840 --> 00:36:58,000
and people are like, oh, don't talk shit about teachers.

772
00:36:58,000 --> 00:37:01,719
It's like, fuck off, right, the teacher is horrible, right?

773
00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:03,000
Why should we not be able.

774
00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:03,519
Speaker 1: To talk about that?

775
00:37:03,639 --> 00:37:06,679
Speaker 3: Is there some kind of crazy reverence for like if

776
00:37:06,679 --> 00:37:09,400
you don't if you can't do your job, well, don't

777
00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:10,360
do it, go retire?

778
00:37:10,559 --> 00:37:10,719
Speaker 1: Right?

779
00:37:10,880 --> 00:37:14,519
Speaker 2: And I had just a couple that might it was

780
00:37:14,960 --> 00:37:17,880
bad for my kids. It would like it would ruin

781
00:37:17,920 --> 00:37:20,559
their confidence. You know, they didn't want it. They've dreaded

782
00:37:20,599 --> 00:37:22,440
going to that class. They didn't want to. They put

783
00:37:22,440 --> 00:37:23,639
their head in their stand, they didn't want to do

784
00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:25,920
their homework to that class because they didn't understand it,

785
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:30,599
you know, And that's that's pretty damaging too. But then

786
00:37:30,639 --> 00:37:32,760
there's the on the flip side, there's the teachers that

787
00:37:32,800 --> 00:37:34,320
you'll never forget, you know.

788
00:37:34,719 --> 00:37:37,559
Speaker 3: And I do think that at this latest, at this

789
00:37:37,679 --> 00:37:40,760
high school, there are so there were so many good ones.

790
00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:42,119
Speaker 1: Yes, at that school.

791
00:37:42,199 --> 00:37:46,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, I really can't think of any bad ones we had, yeah,

792
00:37:46,719 --> 00:37:49,199
I mean, or that we personally experienced. I think my

793
00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:51,559
kids liked almost every single one of their teachers. Yeah,

794
00:37:51,599 --> 00:37:55,320
and some of them like really liked right right, Like

795
00:37:55,679 --> 00:37:58,320
they follow each other on social media that have left

796
00:37:58,320 --> 00:38:02,440
the school, right Yeah. So yeah, So I was filled

797
00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:05,159
with a lot of gratitude.

798
00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:10,760
Speaker 1: On Saturday, Elbie graduated UCLA. You know, it's so funny.

799
00:38:10,800 --> 00:38:15,239
Speaker 2: I was thinking about Elbe because yesterday when I left Oregon,

800
00:38:15,559 --> 00:38:17,960
I saw all the it was their day of graduation

801
00:38:18,079 --> 00:38:20,960
at University Oregon. So I saw all these kids with

802
00:38:21,039 --> 00:38:24,159
their cap and gowns, and I was like, wait a minute,

803
00:38:24,199 --> 00:38:26,199
I think Elbie's graduating this weekend.

804
00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:26,639
Speaker 1: Yeah.

805
00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:30,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, So the pain in the butt with Elbe's graduation,

806
00:38:31,519 --> 00:38:34,119
which I'm sure that this is relatable for a lot

807
00:38:34,119 --> 00:38:38,480
of parents of college graduates. What you don't realize is

808
00:38:38,559 --> 00:38:40,719
that college is a whole.

809
00:38:40,920 --> 00:38:42,079
Speaker 1: You have nothing to do with it.

810
00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:45,559
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like, I would never recognize the name of a

811
00:38:45,599 --> 00:38:48,519
single professor that Elbi had except when she was at

812
00:38:48,559 --> 00:38:52,320
Pearce and then I heard about a couple teachers because

813
00:38:52,320 --> 00:38:53,480
it's a much smaller school.

814
00:38:53,559 --> 00:38:56,079
Speaker 1: Yeah, UCLA, I know nothing about it.

815
00:38:56,199 --> 00:38:59,880
Speaker 3: I've met her roommates, but like, honestly couldn't pick most

816
00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:02,920
of them out of Alna. I mean, I know one

817
00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:06,800
of her roommates, the one she shares a room with better. Yeah,

818
00:39:06,840 --> 00:39:09,679
but like when do I have occasion to see They're

819
00:39:09,719 --> 00:39:10,880
not coming over to our house.

820
00:39:11,239 --> 00:39:13,039
Speaker 1: They're at college exactly.

821
00:39:13,199 --> 00:39:21,199
Speaker 3: So anyway, I could not believe how disconnected, like how

822
00:39:21,280 --> 00:39:23,679
much I kind of didn't care, And I know that

823
00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:24,480
sounds bad.

824
00:39:24,679 --> 00:39:25,400
Speaker 1: But here's the thing.

825
00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:28,599
Speaker 3: So the graduation, there's going to be six hundred kids

826
00:39:28,960 --> 00:39:32,719
because they it's a departmental graduation, so it's the sociology

827
00:39:32,760 --> 00:39:36,840
department that's mixed with like, no, it's mostly sociology. Six

828
00:39:36,920 --> 00:39:37,599
hundred kids.

829
00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:39,159
Speaker 1: Wow, Well, you got to figure.

830
00:39:39,239 --> 00:39:42,039
Speaker 3: I think there's like twenty five thousand at the school

831
00:39:42,079 --> 00:39:43,880
or thirty. I mean there's a shit ton of kids

832
00:39:43,880 --> 00:39:48,199
at that school. Okay, starts at nine am. The ticket

833
00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:51,280
everything about it was a pain in the ass. LB

834
00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:55,039
had to transfer us tickets from her account. Then somehow

835
00:39:55,119 --> 00:39:59,039
I couldn't get the tickets even though I'd accepted the transfer.

836
00:39:59,360 --> 00:40:03,519
They don't just automatically. Suddenly you have to make an account. Oh,

837
00:40:03,559 --> 00:40:06,519
the making of the account. I have a UCLA account,

838
00:40:06,519 --> 00:40:09,159
but apparently it was a different it's the wrong account.

839
00:40:09,320 --> 00:40:12,000
I went to some account that I don't have, so

840
00:40:12,079 --> 00:40:14,559
then I have to make and I'm and Elbie's like

841
00:40:14,639 --> 00:40:17,920
I don't know. I mean they show that they're transferred,

842
00:40:18,559 --> 00:40:20,880
right then I get on this account.

843
00:40:21,039 --> 00:40:23,880
Speaker 2: It was Sadie and Xander able to go to.

844
00:40:24,039 --> 00:40:27,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, we all had to go. Okay. First of all, Elbe.

845
00:40:28,159 --> 00:40:30,280
Speaker 3: Was kind of thinking she wasn't going to go to

846
00:40:30,280 --> 00:40:32,480
sadiean Xander's because she had something to do. And I

847
00:40:32,559 --> 00:40:34,800
was like, uh no, yeah, You're going to go to

848
00:40:34,840 --> 00:40:39,679
Sadie and Xander's high school graduation, Like right right. I

849
00:40:39,719 --> 00:40:42,400
don't normally put my foot down, but like I said

850
00:40:42,400 --> 00:40:45,440
to Xander. I go, Elbie's got this thing, this big

851
00:40:45,480 --> 00:40:48,960
thing for her tours where it's called a senior tour

852
00:40:49,039 --> 00:40:51,719
where she does a tour and everybody comes and watches her.

853
00:40:51,760 --> 00:40:55,599
It's like this cute thing, right, Okay, well She's done

854
00:40:55,639 --> 00:40:57,039
a lot of cute things right right.

855
00:40:57,079 --> 00:40:59,719
Speaker 1: And Xander's like, well, you know what, it would kind

856
00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:01,320
of hurt my feelings if she didn't come.

857
00:41:01,440 --> 00:41:03,920
Speaker 3: And then I said to Elbe. I was like, Elbe,

858
00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:06,320
you have to come. And then she was like, oh, okay,

859
00:41:06,360 --> 00:41:09,960
but blah blah blah. And I said, listen, we don't

860
00:41:10,000 --> 00:41:13,400
really have family, right, I go, you're it exactly. I go,

861
00:41:13,599 --> 00:41:16,360
I'm not inviting like Uncle Mikey and out Rocky the

862
00:41:16,400 --> 00:41:18,119
only nights they're not going to be that interested.

863
00:41:18,599 --> 00:41:19,039
Speaker 1: I said.

864
00:41:19,199 --> 00:41:21,920
Speaker 3: In a high school graduation, we just we don't got

865
00:41:21,920 --> 00:41:22,280
it like that.

866
00:41:22,360 --> 00:41:24,960
Speaker 1: We don't go to each other's right, kids. Is graduation.

867
00:41:25,119 --> 00:41:26,639
Speaker 3: All these people are going to be there with all

868
00:41:26,639 --> 00:41:29,760
their freaking grandparents and like their cheering section, and they're

869
00:41:29,760 --> 00:41:32,719
gonna which happened, and they're going to like make signs

870
00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:34,639
of their kid's face and people are going to pull

871
00:41:34,719 --> 00:41:37,800
them up. I go, it's going to be me and dad, Yes,

872
00:41:38,039 --> 00:41:40,800
sitting there. True, you're showing up. And she was like, okay,

873
00:41:40,800 --> 00:41:42,800
I got it. Yeah, yeah, she showed up.

874
00:41:42,880 --> 00:41:46,559
Speaker 1: Good point. She skipped her thing. She came. So I'm like, well, we.

875
00:41:46,519 --> 00:41:50,280
Speaker 3: Can't not go to Elbe's cult, right, you can't be tired.

876
00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:51,159
Speaker 1: Yeah.

877
00:41:51,280 --> 00:41:54,440
Speaker 3: So then I'm like okay. So so it's nine am.

878
00:41:54,440 --> 00:41:55,840
So I look at the tickets and they're like, be

879
00:41:55,880 --> 00:41:57,920
there an hour early because it's going to be like

880
00:41:58,119 --> 00:41:59,679
very difficult to find parking.

881
00:42:00,039 --> 00:42:00,360
Speaker 2: I got it.

882
00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:03,559
Speaker 3: You got a line up, And I'm like, no, I'm

883
00:42:03,559 --> 00:42:06,320
not doing that. First of all, in my mind, I

884
00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:09,159
go Elbe's last name starts with T and there's six

885
00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:11,400
hundred kids. Yes, and you got to sit through some

886
00:42:11,519 --> 00:42:14,480
really boring speeches because here's the thing, you don't know

887
00:42:14,519 --> 00:42:17,440
these fucking kids, right, So they've chosen like these kids

888
00:42:17,440 --> 00:42:21,599
from the Sociolo out of thousands of kids, Like this

889
00:42:21,679 --> 00:42:24,039
kid is going to give a speech, yes, right, you

890
00:42:24,079 --> 00:42:26,320
know it's going to be hella boring. Yeah, there was

891
00:42:26,360 --> 00:42:28,440
no funny speeches. It's not a movie.

892
00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:31,199
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like like, let it I would I agree with that.

893
00:42:31,480 --> 00:42:34,840
Speaker 2: Let it die, let everybody get inside, let it die down,

894
00:42:34,960 --> 00:42:38,400
let it kind of start shee's and the tea's get

895
00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:40,639
there and then once every you know, then when it's

896
00:42:40,760 --> 00:42:41,920
once it starts.

897
00:42:41,559 --> 00:42:44,199
Speaker 3: It's going to be died down. Then you can get parked. Yeah,

898
00:42:44,559 --> 00:42:45,559
that's what I was thinking.

899
00:42:45,599 --> 00:42:47,280
Speaker 1: That was my plan. Yeah.

900
00:42:47,320 --> 00:42:50,519
Speaker 3: So then I'm like, you know what, here's my other brainstorm.

901
00:42:50,760 --> 00:42:52,719
We're not going to bother trying to park in like

902
00:42:52,800 --> 00:42:55,119
the main lot because Elb's like, mom, it's going to

903
00:42:55,159 --> 00:42:57,679
be crazy. There's not going to be a spot in there.

904
00:42:58,039 --> 00:43:00,960
I was like, Okay, here's what going to do. We're

905
00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:03,840
going to drive to like a far away lot in

906
00:43:03,960 --> 00:43:07,159
Westwood Park the car. Then we're going to uber to

907
00:43:07,280 --> 00:43:10,800
the ceremony. Okay, that was our That was my grand plan.

908
00:43:11,119 --> 00:43:11,320
Speaker 1: Yeah.

909
00:43:11,639 --> 00:43:15,559
Speaker 3: So that it worked, except that the uber couldn't figure

910
00:43:15,559 --> 00:43:19,719
out where that we couldn't figure out. It's very byzantine.

911
00:43:20,119 --> 00:43:22,760
Oh boy, maze, So we have to get dropped off

912
00:43:22,800 --> 00:43:24,920
in one kind of spot. But then it was sort

913
00:43:24,960 --> 00:43:28,400
of a far walk. It's boiling hot out already nine am.

914
00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:29,039
Speaker 1: Yeah.

915
00:43:29,320 --> 00:43:33,559
Speaker 3: Anyway, we we finally sit and we're there on time.

916
00:43:34,239 --> 00:43:36,519
Like then they start and I was like, oh, kill me.

917
00:43:38,280 --> 00:43:44,440
So it was two hours of boring ass speeches. There

918
00:43:44,480 --> 00:43:49,480
was some lady gave the keynote speech about some waste

919
00:43:49,960 --> 00:43:54,199
company anti waste company she'd invented. Even afterwards, Elbie was

920
00:43:54,199 --> 00:43:57,000
texting me. She was like, dude, this is so fucking boring.

921
00:43:58,159 --> 00:44:00,000
She goes, it's all about her. It's all about like

922
00:44:00,039 --> 00:44:02,880
her accomplishments, Like why don't just pass out the resume

923
00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:06,280
her resume exactly and let me peruse it during the ceremony.

924
00:44:06,320 --> 00:44:09,519
Speaker 1: I'll be the judge you accomplished it. And Sadie and.

925
00:44:09,519 --> 00:44:11,840
Speaker 3: I were both like, we are so hot. I go

926
00:44:11,960 --> 00:44:15,159
let's bail and let's go find a spot in the shade. Yeah,

927
00:44:15,239 --> 00:44:18,239
oh wait, that's not even We found a spot to

928
00:44:18,280 --> 00:44:20,960
sit and we could actually see better, and we just

929
00:44:21,000 --> 00:44:23,440
both played games on our phones until they started calling

930
00:44:23,440 --> 00:44:26,719
the names good ideas. Then I find out they're not

931
00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:31,320
calling it in alphabetical order. So at first I'm like, oh, okay, good,

932
00:44:31,360 --> 00:44:35,000
maybe she'll get called early. No, she got there late herself,

933
00:44:35,079 --> 00:44:37,360
so she was one of the last rows O people.

934
00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:40,679
So now I'm like, we got to sit through six

935
00:44:40,960 --> 00:44:41,880
hundred Oh.

936
00:44:41,800 --> 00:44:45,440
Speaker 1: My god, Oh my god. I was dying of boredom.

937
00:44:45,599 --> 00:44:47,079
I was like, well, not so terrible.

938
00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:51,480
Speaker 2: It was so hot this week last weekend, and I

939
00:44:51,599 --> 00:44:56,199
left on Sunday night, and I was like, oh God, Eugene, Oregon,

940
00:44:56,239 --> 00:44:58,960
It's going to be beautiful and nice and breezy and cool.

941
00:44:59,599 --> 00:45:02,039
You know, get there, and son, he's like, Mom, just

942
00:45:02,039 --> 00:45:04,079
to warn you, it's the hottest day of the year

943
00:45:04,159 --> 00:45:05,199
since I've ever been here.

944
00:45:05,679 --> 00:45:07,920
Speaker 1: It was worse than LA It was so hot what

945
00:45:08,239 --> 00:45:08,679
And I.

946
00:45:08,599 --> 00:45:12,440
Speaker 2: Was in his apartment cleaning, sweating my ass off. All

947
00:45:12,480 --> 00:45:15,360
we had was the window open with a breeze coming through,

948
00:45:15,760 --> 00:45:17,320
and I was dying.

949
00:45:17,480 --> 00:45:18,239
Speaker 1: He doesn't have AC.

950
00:45:18,800 --> 00:45:20,840
Speaker 2: He had AC, but it doesn't He's like, I could

951
00:45:20,840 --> 00:45:23,159
put it on and close the doors. He's honestly, it's

952
00:45:23,199 --> 00:45:26,039
like it doesn't do much. It doesn't cool it down right.

953
00:45:26,159 --> 00:45:28,559
And I barely ever needed to use it though this

954
00:45:28,639 --> 00:45:30,960
whole time since I've been here. But yeah, it was

955
00:45:31,039 --> 00:45:33,400
like the hottest day of the year in Eugene this

956
00:45:33,599 --> 00:45:37,039
last weekend. So I can't even imagine sitting outside at

957
00:45:37,119 --> 00:45:40,119
UCLA listening to six hundred names being called.

958
00:45:40,840 --> 00:45:42,800
Speaker 3: I was, but I was kind of feeling bad. Like

959
00:45:43,039 --> 00:45:45,280
when you see this in the movies. Anytime you see

960
00:45:45,280 --> 00:45:49,599
a movie about a college graduation, it seems so monumental,

961
00:45:49,760 --> 00:45:53,119
you know, but it was very anti climatic because Elpie's

962
00:45:53,159 --> 00:45:54,079
only been there two.

963
00:45:53,920 --> 00:45:56,880
Speaker 1: Years when it flew by, Yeah, it did fly.

964
00:45:57,239 --> 00:46:00,760
Speaker 3: She never really even have the college experience because she

965
00:46:00,880 --> 00:46:01,719
was home all the time.

966
00:46:01,719 --> 00:46:04,400
Speaker 1: But even if she had, I don't know.

967
00:46:04,880 --> 00:46:07,280
Speaker 3: Then I was talking to this friend of mine who's like, yeah, well,

968
00:46:07,320 --> 00:46:10,280
next year when her daughter graduates, you know this person's

969
00:46:10,320 --> 00:46:13,159
going to fly in. Her brother and sister in law

970
00:46:13,199 --> 00:46:14,519
are going to fly and these people.

971
00:46:14,239 --> 00:46:14,920
Speaker 1: Are going to fly in.

972
00:46:15,039 --> 00:46:18,119
Speaker 3: I was like, I can't even imagine. I didn't even tell.

973
00:46:18,639 --> 00:46:19,360
Speaker 1: I didn't even.

974
00:46:19,199 --> 00:46:21,480
Speaker 3: Tell my brother and sister in law where it was

975
00:46:21,559 --> 00:46:22,159
or when it was.

976
00:46:22,440 --> 00:46:23,639
Speaker 1: They'd never asked, right.

977
00:46:23,599 --> 00:46:26,119
Speaker 3: It's like and then I was so grateful for that

978
00:46:26,159 --> 00:46:28,239
because I was like, what if they dragged them there

979
00:46:28,280 --> 00:46:29,000
with their kids?

980
00:46:29,280 --> 00:46:31,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, my God, to sit through that, they would have

981
00:46:31,719 --> 00:46:32,880
been complaining the whole time.

982
00:46:33,639 --> 00:46:42,159
Speaker 3: Afterwards, Sadie wasn't feeling great, Elbie was starving. Bob had

983
00:46:42,159 --> 00:46:45,239
been alone at this point for four hours. Bob, that's right,

984
00:46:45,519 --> 00:46:48,719
never been alone that long before. Oh, so I'd given

985
00:46:48,800 --> 00:46:52,920
him this big bone. By the way, he's been doing

986
00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:55,239
really great. He has stayed alone. He stayed alone the

987
00:46:55,320 --> 00:46:59,159
night of Sadie and Xander's graduation. He did good, he

988
00:46:59,199 --> 00:47:02,119
did not he had not destroy stuff, but he does

989
00:47:02,199 --> 00:47:04,840
get anxious, and then he was upset with us.

990
00:47:04,880 --> 00:47:07,119
Speaker 1: By the time. I was like, I'm fine that we've

991
00:47:07,199 --> 00:47:08,599
left him alone for four hours.

992
00:47:08,679 --> 00:47:11,480
Speaker 3: I don't want it to be like six hours, right, right, Honestly,

993
00:47:11,519 --> 00:47:13,800
I don't want to like go out for We were

994
00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:17,159
going to a party that night anyway, So I was like, yeah,

995
00:47:17,239 --> 00:47:18,119
could we just go home?

996
00:47:18,280 --> 00:47:21,480
Speaker 1: Yeah? Exactly. So I went home. Elbe followed me.

997
00:47:21,599 --> 00:47:23,559
Speaker 3: Oh. Then she was in a bad mood because she

998
00:47:23,639 --> 00:47:26,360
was tired and hot and hungry. Right, I'm like, well,

999
00:47:26,360 --> 00:47:27,239
nobody told you.

1000
00:47:27,159 --> 00:47:28,000
Speaker 1: Not to eat breakfast.

1001
00:47:28,880 --> 00:47:31,719
Speaker 3: You're a college graduate now, I hate shit together, eat

1002
00:47:31,719 --> 00:47:32,519
a bowl of cereal.

1003
00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:35,599
Speaker 1: Yeah. So I was like, well, I'm going home.

1004
00:47:36,159 --> 00:47:38,239
Speaker 3: We stop and we get Sadie coffee because she's not

1005
00:47:38,280 --> 00:47:40,880
feeling good and caffeine is the only thing that can

1006
00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:43,800
fix it. Yeah, and then I go home and then

1007
00:47:43,840 --> 00:47:47,880
Elbe comes home, and then she and Xander go to Chili's.

1008
00:47:48,119 --> 00:47:52,760
Speaker 1: Oh that's that's nice. I'm like, good, good, good. When

1009
00:47:52,800 --> 00:47:54,599
did Elby? Did you move LB out?

1010
00:47:55,119 --> 00:47:55,199
Speaker 2: No?

1011
00:47:55,559 --> 00:48:00,760
Speaker 3: So, oh my god, this is another thing. So Elbe's

1012
00:48:00,880 --> 00:48:06,639
lease is not up until September one. Okay, okay, because

1013
00:48:06,639 --> 00:48:09,000
it was a year lease, right that they moved in

1014
00:48:09,039 --> 00:48:12,840
September ninth, because she has a similar schedule to Sunny.

1015
00:48:14,079 --> 00:48:16,760
And I was like, okay, but what's going to happen

1016
00:48:17,000 --> 00:48:18,960
when you graduate school? And she was like, oh, I

1017
00:48:18,960 --> 00:48:22,079
can just find a subletter. Do you think she's posted

1018
00:48:22,119 --> 00:48:24,519
anything about subletting it. I don't know how to do it.

1019
00:48:24,639 --> 00:48:27,320
I'm like, it's not my apartment, it's your apartment. You

1020
00:48:27,400 --> 00:48:30,280
need to find a sublet ye, And then all the

1021
00:48:30,360 --> 00:48:32,199
listeners are going to be like, well, if she can't

1022
00:48:32,199 --> 00:48:34,079
find a subletter because she waited too long, then you're

1023
00:48:34,119 --> 00:48:36,039
going to have to make her pay. Well, no, I'm

1024
00:48:36,039 --> 00:48:37,599
not going to have to make her pay because she's

1025
00:48:37,599 --> 00:48:41,280
making minimum wage at the fricking restaurant. She doesn't have

1026
00:48:41,880 --> 00:48:44,400
eleven hundred dollars a month to pay for her apartment.

1027
00:48:45,000 --> 00:48:48,320
So I'm hoping she at least gets the I don't know,

1028
00:48:48,360 --> 00:48:51,039
it's if it's going to happen by July first. If

1029
00:48:51,039 --> 00:48:54,880
I have to pay July rent, I mean I threatened it. Yeah,

1030
00:48:54,960 --> 00:48:56,159
I'm like, well you can help.

1031
00:48:56,000 --> 00:48:57,960
Speaker 1: Pay for it, and she's like, I'm so sorry. I'm

1032
00:48:58,000 --> 00:48:59,400
going to do it. I'm going to do it. But

1033
00:49:00,079 --> 00:49:01,840
did she move her stuff out? Her clothes?

1034
00:49:01,880 --> 00:49:02,000
Speaker 2: Oh?

1035
00:49:02,239 --> 00:49:04,280
Speaker 3: She all her stuff is still there because she doesn't

1036
00:49:05,039 --> 00:49:06,000
she doesn't need to move.

1037
00:49:06,360 --> 00:49:07,440
Speaker 1: She's not in a rut. Okay.

1038
00:49:07,960 --> 00:49:12,639
Speaker 3: In her defense, Finals week is right before graduation. She

1039
00:49:12,719 --> 00:49:15,039
was doing a makeup final. Every day she had either

1040
00:49:15,159 --> 00:49:16,039
work or a final.

1041
00:49:16,239 --> 00:49:16,719
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1042
00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:18,280
Speaker 2: You know what you can do is you can do

1043
00:49:18,400 --> 00:49:21,800
you can go on Facebook and get and look at like,

1044
00:49:22,320 --> 00:49:26,480
you know, other there's there's like there's Facebook pages for

1045
00:49:26,519 --> 00:49:29,559
people that are looking to sublet in UCLA, so that

1046
00:49:29,800 --> 00:49:31,719
that's kind of like, yeah, the way to go.

1047
00:49:31,840 --> 00:49:35,920
Speaker 3: But she also says there's boards, There's all these things

1048
00:49:35,920 --> 00:49:38,559
that are online Internet boards where she just goes on

1049
00:49:38,599 --> 00:49:41,599
there's a there's a housing snapchat where people.

1050
00:49:41,400 --> 00:49:42,199
Speaker 1: Go to home for it.

1051
00:49:42,280 --> 00:49:45,480
Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, yeah, she can do that part. Yeah,

1052
00:49:46,000 --> 00:49:48,199
but I'm just saying she'd have to do it right now.

1053
00:49:48,400 --> 00:49:50,159
Somebody would be needing a place.

1054
00:49:49,960 --> 00:49:52,679
Speaker 1: In two weeks, right right, Yeah.

1055
00:49:52,280 --> 00:49:55,519
Speaker 3: And then if that doesn't happen, then I'm like, please

1056
00:49:55,559 --> 00:49:58,880
at least try for augusta. Yeah, even though I don't

1057
00:49:58,960 --> 00:50:02,039
know if somebody wants to, but just for one month maybe.

1058
00:50:01,800 --> 00:50:04,400
Speaker 1: You never know. I mean, you never know, there's all

1059
00:50:04,400 --> 00:50:05,960
these kids coming and going, and.

1060
00:50:05,920 --> 00:50:12,960
Speaker 3: I feel kind of bad because her bedroom mate is staying. Yeah,

1061
00:50:13,280 --> 00:50:15,960
so that's going to be a little awkward for her

1062
00:50:16,119 --> 00:50:18,639
to have, like a new person sleeping in her bedroom.

1063
00:50:18,880 --> 00:50:24,079
Speaker 1: Right. On the other hand, Well, then what's the alternate?

1064
00:50:24,239 --> 00:50:24,719
Yea and Pet?

1065
00:50:24,920 --> 00:50:26,880
Speaker 3: Then you guys can all the three that are left

1066
00:50:26,920 --> 00:50:29,559
can split Elbie's rent. Yeah, like if you want the plate,

1067
00:50:29,559 --> 00:50:31,159
if you want the bedroom to yourself, right, you know

1068
00:50:31,199 --> 00:50:33,119
what I mean. Yeah, it's a good idea, but Elbe

1069
00:50:33,199 --> 00:50:34,639
doesn't feel like she can say.

1070
00:50:34,440 --> 00:50:36,400
Speaker 1: That, right. Yeah.

1071
00:50:37,079 --> 00:50:43,960
Speaker 2: So wow, Well she's done, which is great.

1072
00:50:44,159 --> 00:50:46,320
Speaker 1: It's a load off, you know.

1073
00:50:47,280 --> 00:50:51,639
Speaker 3: Yeah, she'll be living back at home, Xandra move out

1074
00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:54,679
and then the other thing and then I'll stop talking

1075
00:50:55,360 --> 00:50:57,239
and you can talk all the frienday show.

1076
00:50:57,360 --> 00:50:59,159
Speaker 1: I just feel like I've had so much I know

1077
00:50:59,280 --> 00:51:03,440
now you did. Yeah, so I'm running on fumes though. Yeah?

1078
00:51:03,639 --> 00:51:04,159
Is that so?

1079
00:51:04,280 --> 00:51:07,760
Speaker 3: Then, Sadie, I think this is going to be a

1080
00:51:07,800 --> 00:51:12,719
relatable story to a lot of parents. I love Sadie

1081
00:51:12,800 --> 00:51:14,920
so much. I shouldn't have to say it like that,

1082
00:51:15,360 --> 00:51:15,960
I really do.

1083
00:51:16,000 --> 00:51:17,199
Speaker 1: I love this girl, do you?

1084
00:51:19,039 --> 00:51:22,760
Speaker 3: Sometimes though, I'm like, Okay, so she's she's signed up

1085
00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:26,519
for Pierce College, so you have to do it is

1086
00:51:26,559 --> 00:51:29,440
a little bit hard, okay, in her defense, you have

1087
00:51:29,519 --> 00:51:32,119
to go to this, you have to sign up for

1088
00:51:32,679 --> 00:51:38,800
this overall community college system. There's a lot of accounts

1089
00:51:38,800 --> 00:51:40,599
you need. Okay, So you go on this one thing

1090
00:51:40,639 --> 00:51:45,079
it's called like open c C College. You get an

1091
00:51:45,119 --> 00:51:50,480
account on that. They got to verify your identification. You

1092
00:51:51,079 --> 00:51:53,599
you got to get like your DMV wall. Like there's

1093
00:51:53,639 --> 00:51:55,880
all these hard things that she's like, Mom, it won't

1094
00:51:55,920 --> 00:51:56,840
take it won't.

1095
00:51:56,719 --> 00:51:57,719
Speaker 1: It's not working. Right.

1096
00:51:58,159 --> 00:51:59,800
Speaker 3: I have her sitting next to me on the bed.

1097
00:52:00,199 --> 00:52:02,519
I'm trying to help her. I'm not good at this

1098
00:52:02,519 --> 00:52:07,440
stuff either, though, Like son, what about John, No, he's

1099
00:52:07,480 --> 00:52:09,920
not great with this stuff either. Also, it always feels

1100
00:52:09,960 --> 00:52:12,280
like John's starting in the middle of a conversation. Yeah,

1101
00:52:12,280 --> 00:52:13,800
like I got to go all the way back, right,

1102
00:52:14,000 --> 00:52:17,239
So here's what's going on, right, So I just do it,

1103
00:52:17,559 --> 00:52:20,559
you know, So I just let I just keep her company.

1104
00:52:20,679 --> 00:52:23,159
And then I'm like, oh that sucks, right, you know,

1105
00:52:23,760 --> 00:52:26,199
try again. Yeah, she's like getting frustrated.

1106
00:52:26,239 --> 00:52:26,559
Speaker 1: Okay.

1107
00:52:26,719 --> 00:52:30,519
Speaker 3: So she finally it took like a day and then

1108
00:52:30,559 --> 00:52:34,199
the DMV verified her and then she could move forward

1109
00:52:34,239 --> 00:52:34,760
and do this thing.

1110
00:52:34,800 --> 00:52:35,039
Speaker 1: Okay.

1111
00:52:35,079 --> 00:52:39,280
Speaker 3: Then she gets an account, then she applies for peerce college.

1112
00:52:40,320 --> 00:52:43,639
Then she doesn't get any kind of like confirmation email

1113
00:52:43,760 --> 00:52:46,360
or welcome to the school or anything, and I'm like, well,

1114
00:52:46,400 --> 00:52:47,000
that's weird.

1115
00:52:47,320 --> 00:52:50,639
Speaker 1: Then I start getting mad at her. Oh, because.

1116
00:52:51,760 --> 00:52:55,360
Speaker 3: There's a thing called the Promise Program in California, which

1117
00:52:55,400 --> 00:52:58,280
is community college is free, but you have to sign

1118
00:52:58,360 --> 00:53:01,719
up for this program. It's free if you're going straight

1119
00:53:01,760 --> 00:53:06,360
from high school into a community college and you've not

1120
00:53:06,440 --> 00:53:09,719
been a full time college student before. Okay, so you

1121
00:53:09,760 --> 00:53:12,639
can't like go have a job for a year and

1122
00:53:12,679 --> 00:53:15,559
then come back. You have to go straight that year. Okay,

1123
00:53:16,199 --> 00:53:20,159
but it's free, right, it's kind of expensive otherwise. Yeah, okay,

1124
00:53:21,000 --> 00:53:23,599
So you can't sign up for this thing until you

1125
00:53:23,639 --> 00:53:27,360
have your peer school ID. Every day I'm like, did

1126
00:53:27,360 --> 00:53:29,519
you get your school ID so we can you can

1127
00:53:29,519 --> 00:53:31,480
sign up for this thing. No?

1128
00:53:31,840 --> 00:53:35,760
Speaker 1: Not yet. Then it's now like two weeks. Okay.

1129
00:53:35,800 --> 00:53:38,280
Speaker 3: Then it's two weeks, and I'm like, there's no way

1130
00:53:38,320 --> 00:53:40,320
that you shouldn't have gotten this thing. And of course,

1131
00:53:40,360 --> 00:53:42,679
in my mind, I'm like, you did something wrong, But

1132
00:53:42,760 --> 00:53:43,159
in her.

1133
00:53:43,119 --> 00:53:44,559
Speaker 1: Mind, that's a dumb, dumb question.

1134
00:53:44,639 --> 00:53:47,519
Speaker 2: But she checked her trash and her junkholders.

1135
00:53:47,639 --> 00:53:49,960
Speaker 3: Yes, I literally made her sit next to me on

1136
00:53:50,000 --> 00:53:51,920
the bed. We went through all her emails, and I

1137
00:53:51,960 --> 00:53:54,800
got mad at her for having like thousands of junk emails,

1138
00:53:55,000 --> 00:53:59,280
Like don't you ever erase, like dump your emails. Okay,

1139
00:53:59,760 --> 00:54:03,320
So she's getting frustrated at me for being like this

1140
00:54:03,400 --> 00:54:05,320
has got to be here somewhere. I'm like, show me

1141
00:54:05,480 --> 00:54:08,599
everything with the word Pierce in it, show me everything

1142
00:54:08,639 --> 00:54:13,000
with open nothing's there. So then I email this friend

1143
00:54:13,039 --> 00:54:14,880
of ours and I'm like, what do we do? And

1144
00:54:15,000 --> 00:54:18,039
who works at Pierce? And she's like, go into the

1145
00:54:18,159 --> 00:54:21,400
virtual there's like a virtual help area. So she tries

1146
00:54:21,440 --> 00:54:25,199
that this is like last week the weight. It's like

1147
00:54:25,239 --> 00:54:29,400
she's twenty sixth in line. It never moves. So she's like, okay,

1148
00:54:30,639 --> 00:54:32,079
I don't. I mean, we're just gonna have to go

1149
00:54:32,119 --> 00:54:37,119
in in person. Yeah, long story short. We went in

1150
00:54:37,159 --> 00:54:41,039
person yesterday. We drive all the way to this school,

1151
00:54:41,400 --> 00:54:43,880
we wait in line, we go in. I have to

1152
00:54:43,920 --> 00:54:47,880
do all the talking right because she just doesn't articulate

1153
00:54:48,480 --> 00:54:49,360
problem as well.

1154
00:54:49,719 --> 00:54:53,360
Speaker 1: She can't, like she's like I applied. I let her try.

1155
00:54:53,440 --> 00:54:55,679
I let her start. You know, I don't cut her

1156
00:54:55,679 --> 00:54:56,880
off at the knees.

1157
00:54:57,000 --> 00:54:59,119
Speaker 3: She starts talking and they're just looking at her like

1158
00:54:59,199 --> 00:55:01,800
she's not speaking English. Yeah, and I'm like, okay, you

1159
00:55:01,840 --> 00:55:05,119
got to take over. Here's the situation. We have no college,

1160
00:55:05,320 --> 00:55:07,360
we have no school idea. You guys can't find it

1161
00:55:07,480 --> 00:55:10,159
now what right? So the lady's like, here, come in here,

1162
00:55:10,480 --> 00:55:13,360
and I go, Sadie, open your computer. I had her

1163
00:55:13,400 --> 00:55:16,119
bring your computer, you know what. She didn't bring her ID.

1164
00:55:16,880 --> 00:55:18,880
I was like, They're like, well you need ID. I

1165
00:55:18,960 --> 00:55:22,559
was like, Sadie, what adult doesn't take their wallet with

1166
00:55:22,679 --> 00:55:23,679
them when they go place?

1167
00:55:23,800 --> 00:55:28,199
Speaker 1: It Like, what, you're not sick? Yeah? Yeah, I'm frustrated. Yeah.

1168
00:55:28,199 --> 00:55:31,039
Speaker 3: Well turns out that because she signed up for this

1169
00:55:31,280 --> 00:55:34,360
my wallet at the DMV, she had her ID.

1170
00:55:34,320 --> 00:55:37,559
Speaker 1: On her phone. Ah kind of genius. Yeah.

1171
00:55:37,599 --> 00:55:40,840
Speaker 3: So I'm like, okay, we're saved by that. Sit down,

1172
00:55:40,960 --> 00:55:43,480
open the computer. The lady starts looking at her thing

1173
00:55:43,519 --> 00:55:46,840
and she goes, you never actually applied for peers. You

1174
00:55:46,920 --> 00:55:50,519
got your application, you did the first thing, but you

1175
00:55:50,559 --> 00:55:53,800
see right here it says start a new application, you

1176
00:55:54,000 --> 00:55:57,480
entered some information. Then she's like, it's a little tricky.

1177
00:55:57,800 --> 00:56:01,679
You entered your information, but you didn't actually do an application.

1178
00:56:01,559 --> 00:56:06,119
Speaker 1: Right, Oh no, oh my gosh. All this time went by.

1179
00:56:06,199 --> 00:56:08,840
Speaker 3: It's been three weeks, right, So then I was like,

1180
00:56:08,880 --> 00:56:11,360
can we just do the application here so that we

1181
00:56:11,440 --> 00:56:14,199
make sure and the lady's like, yeah, go ahead. So

1182
00:56:14,280 --> 00:56:18,079
we sat down, we did her application, we got confirmed.

1183
00:56:17,840 --> 00:56:21,239
Speaker 1: My knife in my eye, those kind of things. Every

1184
00:56:21,360 --> 00:56:24,559
step though was like, oh my god, are you kidding? Yeah, yeah,

1185
00:56:24,599 --> 00:56:26,960
I know. Sonny like do his own? Did they? They

1186
00:56:27,000 --> 00:56:29,000
both did, so they seem to be.

1187
00:56:29,119 --> 00:56:33,000
Speaker 3: Thriving more than my kids because he just signed himself

1188
00:56:33,079 --> 00:56:35,159
up for Oregon Community College, right.

1189
00:56:35,039 --> 00:56:38,039
Speaker 1: Yes, he did everything. Yeah, yeah, I didn't do any

1190
00:56:38,079 --> 00:56:40,280
of it, and so did Natalia.

1191
00:56:40,440 --> 00:56:43,199
Speaker 2: Natalian's on top of it, Yeah, for sure. Yet I

1192
00:56:43,239 --> 00:56:45,800
don't they take care of all that stuff. Like That's

1193
00:56:45,800 --> 00:56:48,079
why I'm like, I don't know if they're what when

1194
00:56:48,079 --> 00:56:50,199
they're because they're they're on top of it.

1195
00:56:50,360 --> 00:56:53,400
Speaker 1: They and I have no reason to believe that they're not.

1196
00:56:53,760 --> 00:56:56,599
Speaker 2: And actually Natalia did tell me the other day I

1197
00:56:56,599 --> 00:57:00,320
forgot to say this that she got accepted early acceptance.

1198
00:57:00,119 --> 00:57:02,000
Speaker 1: To to she got TAG.

1199
00:57:02,880 --> 00:57:06,039
Speaker 3: Oh she did, yes, And I thought you told me

1200
00:57:06,239 --> 00:57:09,360
that she doesn't want to go there. No, she does,

1201
00:57:09,679 --> 00:57:11,880
you said, she doesn't even want to go to uc

1202
00:57:12,360 --> 00:57:13,119
SB anymore.

1203
00:57:13,199 --> 00:57:14,039
Speaker 1: She wants to do.

1204
00:57:14,199 --> 00:57:16,559
Speaker 2: She had this like one week of thinking about that,

1205
00:57:16,800 --> 00:57:19,159
but no, no, no, no, she wants to go there

1206
00:57:19,320 --> 00:57:20,639
she wants and then oh.

1207
00:57:20,599 --> 00:57:22,360
Speaker 1: So she's in. Yeah.

1208
00:57:22,440 --> 00:57:26,280
Speaker 3: So she's going to do the first semester abroad. Yeah, yes,

1209
00:57:27,000 --> 00:57:29,880
or second semester. Second semester, So she's going to do

1210
00:57:29,920 --> 00:57:31,239
a semester of UCSB.

1211
00:57:31,639 --> 00:57:32,639
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah.

1212
00:57:32,679 --> 00:57:35,840
Speaker 2: She she told me this and I was like, oh

1213
00:57:35,880 --> 00:57:38,440
my god. Yet see they're on she's on top, they're

1214
00:57:38,480 --> 00:57:41,960
both on top of it. So I know she's accepted

1215
00:57:41,960 --> 00:57:42,599
to UCSB.

1216
00:57:42,760 --> 00:57:47,079
Speaker 1: But yeah, huge, I know. It's excited. Yeah, okay, so she's.

1217
00:57:46,960 --> 00:57:49,920
Speaker 3: Going to take classes yeah, because when you kept saying, well,

1218
00:57:49,960 --> 00:57:51,840
she's going to take classes, I was like that's why.

1219
00:57:51,840 --> 00:57:53,559
Speaker 1: I was like, but what class? Which classes were?

1220
00:57:54,039 --> 00:57:57,119
Speaker 3: Or Santa Barbara City College right now? So she's going

1221
00:57:57,199 --> 00:57:59,960
to start her classes, then go abroad, yeah, and then

1222
00:58:00,039 --> 00:58:00,880
come back and finish.

1223
00:58:01,039 --> 00:58:02,519
Speaker 1: Yes, that's what she's that's her plan.

1224
00:58:03,360 --> 00:58:06,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, I really, I know, And I haven't

1225
00:58:06,159 --> 00:58:08,599
seen her because she's been out of town at her

1226
00:58:08,599 --> 00:58:12,400
boyfriend's house in Lake Tahoe for the last week, so

1227
00:58:13,079 --> 00:58:14,159
I know, I know.

1228
00:58:14,599 --> 00:58:16,599
Speaker 1: So, yes, I'm very very happy about.

1229
00:58:16,719 --> 00:58:19,000
Speaker 2: Like sometimes I forget about each like if I'm dealing

1230
00:58:19,079 --> 00:58:22,079
with Sonny, I haven't called an Italian in a few days,

1231
00:58:22,559 --> 00:58:24,119
and like she called me while I was on the

1232
00:58:24,119 --> 00:58:26,800
plane again last night, like she's like, I just want

1233
00:58:26,800 --> 00:58:28,840
to let you know that we're leaving like Tahoe and

1234
00:58:28,840 --> 00:58:30,719
we're going to be coming home. And I was like, oh, yeah,

1235
00:58:30,719 --> 00:58:33,039
I forgot about you.

1236
00:58:32,280 --> 00:58:36,320
Speaker 3: Like yeah, while when she's doing something like skydiving or whatever,

1237
00:58:36,400 --> 00:58:40,239
you're I can't. I constantly it's like where are.

1238
00:58:39,920 --> 00:58:41,519
Speaker 1: Yes, where's your phone?

1239
00:58:42,000 --> 00:58:44,920
Speaker 2: Yeah I know, but yeah, well, like you know, you

1240
00:58:45,000 --> 00:58:46,880
kind of feel like now they're a little adult doing

1241
00:58:46,880 --> 00:58:49,679
their own thing. You know, he's you know, doing his

1242
00:58:49,800 --> 00:58:52,679
drive home. You know I couldn't. That's another thing, Like

1243
00:58:52,719 --> 00:58:54,440
I didn't want to go to sleep last night till

1244
00:58:54,440 --> 00:58:56,440
I knew they got to their hotel and they were

1245
00:58:56,519 --> 00:58:59,000
checked in, and it's like, you know, I'm waiting and

1246
00:58:59,000 --> 00:59:00,559
waiting like can you just tell me you got it?

1247
00:59:00,639 --> 00:59:03,239
And they're like they're looking for our confirmation and like,

1248
00:59:03,280 --> 00:59:05,800
oh god, oh so I just want to go to sleep,

1249
00:59:06,679 --> 00:59:08,559
and then yeah, so they got to their hotel fine,

1250
00:59:08,559 --> 00:59:11,159
and then they're up this morning driving back, but yeah,

1251
00:59:11,360 --> 00:59:14,519
I mean then you know, then there's the unpacking. But

1252
00:59:14,880 --> 00:59:19,039
the thing about the last day this is the these emails. Now,

1253
00:59:19,239 --> 00:59:22,559
because I'm an escrow all these emails, they're like like

1254
00:59:22,639 --> 00:59:26,000
three days went by and they're like my mortgage broker

1255
00:59:26,079 --> 00:59:28,519
was like, you should have gotten this email with E

1256
00:59:28,719 --> 00:59:32,639
documents to check off, you know, tasks, and I was like, well, what,

1257
00:59:32,960 --> 00:59:35,679
like no, and I'm like from who and it's like

1258
00:59:35,719 --> 00:59:38,360
wind Trust. So I'm like looking for can't find anything.

1259
00:59:38,360 --> 00:59:41,000
Look at my junk and it's all there. And then

1260
00:59:41,000 --> 00:59:43,760
there's another email from some other company and it's going

1261
00:59:43,800 --> 00:59:46,199
to my junk and now I'm like what the fuck?

1262
00:59:46,320 --> 00:59:49,599
Like now I'm missing all these emails. So then i'd

1263
00:59:49,639 --> 00:59:51,519
like catch up and like go through it. And then

1264
00:59:51,559 --> 00:59:54,199
on top of it, I do the E signature thing,

1265
00:59:54,559 --> 00:59:56,960
but it's not like a DOCU sign It's it's a

1266
00:59:57,000 --> 00:59:58,440
different sing.

1267
00:59:58,440 --> 01:00:00,320
Speaker 1: I know what you're talking about, different program, but.

1268
01:00:00,280 --> 01:00:02,800
Speaker 2: I do it and then it says no tasks pending

1269
01:00:03,079 --> 01:00:05,559
complete it everything's completed. And then I get a text

1270
01:00:05,599 --> 01:00:07,840
from him last night and he's like you still haven't

1271
01:00:07,880 --> 01:00:11,440
signed your E documents as I've got home, and I'm like, dude,

1272
01:00:11,639 --> 01:00:13,760
what and I go look, and I had to send

1273
01:00:13,800 --> 01:00:15,960
him a screenshot and he goes, oh, okay, I'm going

1274
01:00:16,039 --> 01:00:17,559
to talk to my it.

1275
01:00:17,559 --> 01:00:18,960
Speaker 1: It's a glitch on our side.

1276
01:00:19,159 --> 01:00:20,840
Speaker 2: And then he texted me this morning He's like, yeah,

1277
01:00:20,840 --> 01:00:24,760
you're right, we got everything, Like okay, but yeah, it's

1278
01:00:24,760 --> 01:00:27,360
like it's kind of nerve wracking, like what am I missing?

1279
01:00:27,800 --> 01:00:29,719
Speaker 1: All these emails going to my junk.

1280
01:00:29,599 --> 01:00:32,840
Speaker 3: And Escro is endless because it's like the financing part

1281
01:00:33,000 --> 01:00:36,639
is kind of separate from like Escro a little bit, right,

1282
01:00:36,679 --> 01:00:39,079
Like you're dealing with your bank, right, then you're also

1283
01:00:39,119 --> 01:00:40,599
dealing with Escro company.

1284
01:00:40,920 --> 01:00:43,719
Speaker 2: Yes, So there's all these different emails from people that

1285
01:00:43,760 --> 01:00:47,000
I've never gotten emails from, and I'm like, I don't

1286
01:00:47,039 --> 01:00:49,039
how do I supposed to know that I'm not I

1287
01:00:49,440 --> 01:00:50,840
don't know who you are, So how do I know

1288
01:00:51,039 --> 01:00:52,280
that you sent me an email?

1289
01:00:52,760 --> 01:00:53,000
Speaker 1: Right?

1290
01:00:53,119 --> 01:00:55,639
Speaker 2: So it's kind of nerve wracking, but yeah, so I

1291
01:00:55,679 --> 01:00:59,360
get it. I get it sucks all right.

1292
01:00:59,440 --> 01:01:01,639
Speaker 3: Well, we're at an hour and we have we have

1293
01:01:01,679 --> 01:01:05,079
to do another whole show. Mannie, Yeah, yeah, man, So

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Speaker 2: I saw them in Eugene. They they weren't doing too

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Speaker 3: Basic Becky check I was her something on her social

1320
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1321
01:02:37,440 --> 01:02:40,199
funny hats. One of them said, my dog thinks you're

1322
01:02:40,199 --> 01:02:40,599
a hoe.

1323
01:02:40,800 --> 01:02:41,320
Speaker 1: Oh cute.

1324
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Speaker 1: Jacob Crowley, you're so growley, acl you baby.

1327
01:02:51,400 --> 01:02:54,280
Speaker 3: Also, I just want to thank people that sent me

1328
01:02:54,360 --> 01:02:57,280
a little bit of kish for lyleyle Crocodile.

1329
01:02:57,440 --> 01:02:58,440
Speaker 1: Oh that's right.

1330
01:02:58,519 --> 01:03:00,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, I gave him money because you guys didn't hear

1331
01:03:00,800 --> 01:03:03,079
the podcast until after it was done. But now I'm

1332
01:03:03,119 --> 01:03:07,199
taking the cash you guys sent me. It's not a ton,

1333
01:03:07,239 --> 01:03:09,320
but but you know, the people who sent me something,

1334
01:03:09,360 --> 01:03:10,280
I'm gonna give him.

1335
01:03:10,440 --> 01:03:16,880
Speaker 1: A little graduation. That's it's nice. So that's it. All right, everybody,

1336
01:03:17,000 --> 01:03:18,519
you're a parent, now, don't f it up.

1337
01:03:20,679 --> 01:03:21,360
Speaker 2: It's good

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Speaker 1: That Angel