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<v Speaker 1>So I am learning to take time for myself. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>realizing and many of us, just as we get older,

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<v Speaker 1>that what we do for a living isn't necessarily how

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<v Speaker 1>we wanna live. We may even enjoy our jobs and professions,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's just when you really realize there's more to

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<v Speaker 1>life than just your job and if you like it.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm finding myself cause I can literally work twenty

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<v Speaker 1>four hours, seven days a week, and I work. That's

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<v Speaker 1>about that. I work a lot. I do sleep and

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<v Speaker 1>everything like that. But I realize for me to be

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<v Speaker 1>able to give you guys and give everyone content, I

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<v Speaker 1>need to live life. I need to do something. So

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<v Speaker 1>I would say this last week, I've been super social,

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<v Speaker 1>super social. I am very proud of myself. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I've actually carved out time for my friends. So I

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<v Speaker 1>saw Flomo at the beginning of the week and then

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<v Speaker 1>we had lunch. It was great. And then I saw

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<v Speaker 1>my friend Norm and then I saw Tony Moore talk

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<v Speaker 1>to Twin and ran to my friend Ian Buchanan from

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<v Speaker 1>being out and mount So that was fun. On Tuesday,

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<v Speaker 1>then I saw my girl Marissa, went to her house.

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<v Speaker 1>We had food. We had calfun chicken, cafes so good.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, Hey, g I gave her birthday presents.

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<v Speaker 1>We had a great conversation. Here's funny I gave her.

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<v Speaker 1>I gave Marissa her birthday presents from July, and I

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<v Speaker 1>gave Tony gift birthday presents from January. That's not you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I talked to them on a regular basis. It's like,

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<v Speaker 1>just getting together is really rough for me because I

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<v Speaker 1>was so busy. But I saw Marissa. That was good.

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<v Speaker 1>I saw my buddy sees her at Speedoh finally I

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<v Speaker 1>saw it. It so long, it was so good. I was.

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<v Speaker 1>I was at my storage unit. He has a truck

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<v Speaker 1>and said, come get me, so you get my stuff

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<v Speaker 1>from my storage, jumping it home all that. It was

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<v Speaker 1>just it's so it was so great to see him.

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<v Speaker 1>I love it. So saw him. Then we went had lunch.

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<v Speaker 1>We had a great time and talk life co We

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<v Speaker 1>scars on my friend Sebastian and Joe. We hadn't seen

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<v Speaker 1>it five years. So there to their house off them,

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<v Speaker 1>had a good time. I've been seeing my friend Nathan

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<v Speaker 1>almost once a week. Tomorrow we're actually doing it when

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<v Speaker 1>I'll meet up. But tomorrow I got talk to about

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm like, I'm atually I'm leaving Tannil soon. Once

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<v Speaker 1>time I want see before I leave, I got to

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<v Speaker 1>make sure I was and see, I'm actually thinking it.

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<v Speaker 1>One time I want to see you before I leave

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<v Speaker 1>because I literally am leaving. I'm leaving in two weeks.

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<v Speaker 1>And so then okay, so the okay, it's just that.

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<v Speaker 1>Then I saw then so we see Nathan hung out

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<v Speaker 1>with my boy Ricardo, my brother in law. We went,

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<v Speaker 1>had a little man day, had a good time doing that.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my sister saw, Like, I really feel like I've

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<v Speaker 1>been super social. Also, so you as older folks at

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<v Speaker 1>fifty plus and this is fifty plus on jailj medium.

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<v Speaker 1>I also have been taking time out to watch TV

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<v Speaker 1>and to relax in between work and taking naps and

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<v Speaker 1>stuff I can. I found that since I have worked

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<v Speaker 1>all the time, it's okay to made. You should work

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<v Speaker 1>from six thirty in the morning till about eight or nine,

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<v Speaker 1>then stop, go in the garden, do other stuff, lay down,

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<v Speaker 1>watch them TV, watch the view whatever, watch things that

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not doing shows for because they go to a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of shows and all the action shows. So and

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<v Speaker 1>that's what really re energizing me. See all these documentaries

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<v Speaker 1>and programs I've seen a while some for great doing

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<v Speaker 1>that and then going back to work here for a

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<v Speaker 1>few more hours, then getting up to you to go

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<v Speaker 1>away from that. So it's been it's been very much.

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<v Speaker 1>It's been a leve And then today we had a

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<v Speaker 1>power outage for for almost two hours. Well actually it

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<v Speaker 1>was like, well, yes it was over. It was well,

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<v Speaker 1>yeahs hour, Well it was two hours, two and a

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<v Speaker 1>half hours that stopped. So I was reading, so yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like a chance to sit and read. Today I

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<v Speaker 1>was organizing my Star Wars shelf a little bit looks

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<v Speaker 1>much better. So like there's there's things I've been wanting

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<v Speaker 1>to do. I just like he's like, okay, go do that.

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<v Speaker 1>Stop work and it'll still be there and I will

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<v Speaker 1>get out get everything done. Cause I started. I cause

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<v Speaker 1>I started, I found myself starting to panic. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>a panicker, but for a minute I was like, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, I'm leaving town on the third and I

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<v Speaker 1>get stuff ready before I leave, and my like and

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<v Speaker 1>for my company, I make sure I have things set

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<v Speaker 1>up for the fourth through while I'm gone and when

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<v Speaker 1>I come back, and I when I come back and

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<v Speaker 1>leave it again, I and I have I have these

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<v Speaker 1>audio dramas I gotta edit and put up, and like James,

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<v Speaker 1>you have Sunday, I'm well and as I'm recording is

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<v Speaker 1>I have Monday, I have Tuesday. Wednesday morning. I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>back to the storage units and that's be fun. Can

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<v Speaker 1>take care of some stuff there. So I wasn't going.

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't going to go At first, I said no, James,

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm seeing light at the end of tunnels, like, James,

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<v Speaker 1>continue what you're doing, so lights to tell me because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna be gone most of November. I'm like, good,

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<v Speaker 1>still go in there because I work, Like the other

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<v Speaker 1>day I did my mom's house, are garage, I have

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<v Speaker 1>jump off so like I'm seen, I'm starting to see movement.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to stop that. So I said, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>now Tuesday Wednesday morning, Tuesday, and I might decide not

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<v Speaker 1>to go because I have a big organizing project and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm giving three days up of my life to do

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<v Speaker 1>this project. So I'm like, ooh, maybe I shouldn't go

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<v Speaker 1>back it because because I'm doing good, maybe I shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>go back out there. And maybe I should take a

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<v Speaker 1>break because we're getting there. I can always there's time.

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<v Speaker 1>I do have some time in November to go back

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<v Speaker 1>out there. I do. There's a couple of there's a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of days I could go out there and do that.

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<v Speaker 1>But I was like, I probably should be. I shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>overdo it. Maybe I should still stay home. So I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going back in for I see. You gotta things smarter

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<v Speaker 1>or not harder too. My body's a little older, I

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<v Speaker 1>get I was. I was worn out from all the

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<v Speaker 1>manual labor I did this week. It's good for me.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad I did it, but I'm like, I need

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<v Speaker 1>I probably need to save my strength. Plus. So here's

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<v Speaker 1>how it goes. Tuesday Wednesday, Monday, Tuesday Wednesday home, get

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<v Speaker 1>all of the sudden to get done for my business,

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<v Speaker 1>get all in order, get all done because Thursday I

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<v Speaker 1>have But on Thursday I have what you call it

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<v Speaker 1>for three hours. It could be it'll be like five

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<v Speaker 1>with travel and all stuff. I have a Y and

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<v Speaker 1>R event to go to and you're gonna rest of

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<v Speaker 1>the Tellerson City and so I'm assuming Thursday will be

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<v Speaker 1>my day of doing that and they would have a

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<v Speaker 1>video finished. I'd get putting that together putting that out

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<v Speaker 1>the whole Chamain. Then I was thinking Friday, we'll go

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<v Speaker 1>streach you on Friday. I say no, but I'm like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I just to take the time off. So maybe I'll

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<v Speaker 1>make that my kind of time off. Saturday, I have

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<v Speaker 1>a zoom. I'll give myself together and ready. See now,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm thinking that's what I think I would take. I

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<v Speaker 1>think I see you talking to you guys. I'm thinking

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<v Speaker 1>that this is what you do to get older. You're

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<v Speaker 1>talking out. I'm not gonna go to Storgien this week,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't want. I don't want to overdo it,

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<v Speaker 1>and there's things I need to get done. So I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get things. I'moulna get things done here at the

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<v Speaker 1>house and my business, get all that straightened out this

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<v Speaker 1>week through through Saturday, then Sunday morning, head out to

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<v Speaker 1>my client's house Sunday, Monday, Tuesday and with them and

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<v Speaker 1>only them. I have some stuff too that we lay

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<v Speaker 1>it down to release my stuff. But other than that,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm with them full stop, get stuff together, and then

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<v Speaker 1>the thirtieth I'm back with me and then I have

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of events in between there, but getting ready

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<v Speaker 1>for my trip to leave one a third. So I'm

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm like, okay, okay, this is working. We

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<v Speaker 1>were getting there. This is working. And then when i

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<v Speaker 1>come back, I'm home for like three or four days,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm also but then I'm gone for a week.

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<v Speaker 1>It's Satura's just go. But then I'm home for like

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<v Speaker 1>listen from like almost almost two weeks. So my thought

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<v Speaker 1>is like, Okay, I think I could do the storage

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<v Speaker 1>you did, then go back there, do some more, get

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<v Speaker 1>it cleared out whatever it's instance that week and then

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<v Speaker 1>and then an December and then had again. Then I

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<v Speaker 1>have December anyuay. So, but I'm also looking at also

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<v Speaker 1>vacations because even though I'm going to Indiana, it's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be work. I'm going for work. I'm gonna try have

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<v Speaker 1>some fun while I'm there. I'm going for work. Looking

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<v Speaker 1>at a cruise because cruises are like the one thing

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<v Speaker 1>that I could, you know, during the winter time, it's

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<v Speaker 1>perfect ta get a little three day or somewhere, get

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<v Speaker 1>me out of here for three days as a little

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<v Speaker 1>bonus for myself. Like James, you worked hard, it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>like here you go. So I think about that too. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>for January, I give myself a little break. I worked

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<v Speaker 1>very hard this year. It's a thing for me. So

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<v Speaker 1>I think with that you said, look, it is that

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<v Speaker 1>you folks very important. But these are things you think

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<v Speaker 1>when you're when you're fifty plus and you're still working,

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<v Speaker 1>these are things you think about. You have to think about,

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<v Speaker 1>and you have to figure out a balance between friendship

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<v Speaker 1>because friendships are very important even as you get older, friendships,

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<v Speaker 1>your own health, dividing and conquering, you know, whatever it

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<v Speaker 1>needs to be done. Also balancing out, working smarter, not harder.

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<v Speaker 1>All this stuff is part of it's part of life period.

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<v Speaker 1>But as you get a little older, it really makes

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<v Speaker 1>a difference, it really does. This is fifty plus, you're

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<v Speaker 1>on jail j media, I'm James ly Junior. Like comments

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<v Speaker 1>describe and I what's watch you next time?