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<v Speaker 1>And here we go with a Minnesota goodbye. We had

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<v Speaker 1>some fun emails here, so let's dive in to the

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<v Speaker 1>Minnesota goodbye. Here we go, Minnesota goodbye, friends, sending email

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<v Speaker 1>number two for the day. Have you ever thought about

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<v Speaker 1>doing War of the Roses where are they now? Episodes

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<v Speaker 1>where you play an old episode and then reach back

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<v Speaker 1>out to the original partner to see what happened later

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<v Speaker 1>or how they feel about it after time has passed.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh sure, if you have the numbers saved somewhere from

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<v Speaker 1>past calls. But I'd really be interested in hearing all

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<v Speaker 1>the tea. If only I could be a fly on

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<v Speaker 1>the wall after the call ins, have a wonderful day.

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<v Speaker 1>That's from Kelly. Kelly. We've actually tried that. They either

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<v Speaker 1>do not want to be on the radio or they

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<v Speaker 1>do not answer their phone, and that is the way

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<v Speaker 1>it is. And my suspicion is they don't they already

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<v Speaker 1>got enough flat because somebody recognized their voice or their story,

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<v Speaker 1>or they got back together and they don't want to talk.

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<v Speaker 2>About it m hm, because it really embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder where the stats are you guys, when somebody cheats,

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<v Speaker 1>how many people forgive and get back together.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I'm sure it's a high number. I think so.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's probably over fifty percent.

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<v Speaker 2>Give people the benefit of the doubt when they really shouldn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Be well, And I think not only the benefit of

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<v Speaker 1>the doubt, but if you love somebody like Julie cheated

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<v Speaker 1>on me, and I loved her so much that I

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<v Speaker 1>knew it, but I pretended that I didn't. And I

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<v Speaker 1>cheated on her and she also knew that I did,

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<v Speaker 1>but she pretended that I didn't. So if you really

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<v Speaker 1>love somebody, I don't always think that cheating is a

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<v Speaker 1>deal breaker. And that's a strong statement because some people

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<v Speaker 1>it absolutely would be a deal breaker, right.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that's just your opinion that it wouldn't be

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<v Speaker 3>a deal breaker for you. I honestly don't think it

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<v Speaker 3>would be a deal breaker for me. But I haven't

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<v Speaker 3>been in that situation.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>We had a therapist on one time, and I don't

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<v Speaker 4>know what it was, but we talked about cheating and

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<v Speaker 4>she kind of talked about how you can still be

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<v Speaker 4>in a relationship with someone who cheated on you, and

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<v Speaker 4>she said, like, the main thing is is you have

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<v Speaker 4>to build that trust back, and it has to keep

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<v Speaker 4>building and building, and if they screw up again, then

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<v Speaker 4>you have to start from scratch again. So it's like

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<v Speaker 4>you have to just like you could like forgive your partner,

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<v Speaker 4>but are you good like a forgive them and not

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<v Speaker 4>continuously bring it up? And b are you going to

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<v Speaker 4>trust them? Are you going to get that trust back?

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<v Speaker 1>And that's really hard to get back. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>think it really kind of depends on the whole dialogue

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<v Speaker 1>and how apologetic and sincere they are, And honestly, it

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<v Speaker 1>depends on how much you love that person. Like if

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<v Speaker 1>somebody really love went on a business trip and you

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<v Speaker 1>found it that they had sneaked some guy into their

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<v Speaker 1>hotel room and hooked up, would you end your marriage

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<v Speaker 1>over that? I mean, some people absolutely would, and other

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<v Speaker 1>people would be like, yes, she cheated, but we got

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<v Speaker 1>past it, or he cheated but we worked past it.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Next one from Nicole. I have two things to suggest

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<v Speaker 1>for talking points that might fit into the Minnesota Goodbye.

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<v Speaker 1>Number one. I was invited to a holiday gathering with

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<v Speaker 1>the The host said food is provided and suggested for

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<v Speaker 1>guests to bring a dish. Now, the host is vegetarian,

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<v Speaker 1>her son and spouse are not, and I am not.

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<v Speaker 1>It was not specified what kind of dish to bring,

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<v Speaker 1>but I wouldn't want the host to not be able

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<v Speaker 1>to have what I rot. So I'm veeried on the

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<v Speaker 1>side of a vegetarian dish. Anyone else experience this, any

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<v Speaker 1>thoughts on the matter. I think you can do it

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<v Speaker 1>either way. I mean, she didn't specify and there will

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<v Speaker 1>be other people there. But I see your concern. What's

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<v Speaker 1>an easy vegetarian dish? Some sort of three bean salad.

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<v Speaker 2>Ooh that sounds good.

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<v Speaker 1>Jello with bananas cut up inside.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, no, don't get it.

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<v Speaker 4>I would assume most dishes are vegetarian for Thanksgiving besides the.

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<v Speaker 2>Turkey, right, Are you right about that? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>I think so, Sophie, unless you're like against that, because

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<v Speaker 4>it was like, if you do it like the stuff

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<v Speaker 4>and that's in the turkey, if you feel it that

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<v Speaker 4>way or something.

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<v Speaker 1>Put the giblets in there. Yeah, giblets.

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<v Speaker 3>Giblets, I recommend if it's for Thanksgiving. We at my

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<v Speaker 3>household always makes sides that are like different than normal sides.

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<v Speaker 3>And my mom makes something called baked hash browns, which

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<v Speaker 3>has like cheese and onions and then just like hash

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<v Speaker 3>browns in it, and it's all baked.

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<v Speaker 2>It's delicious.

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<v Speaker 3>I would look that up bring that in because that

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<v Speaker 3>is vegetarian and a crowd pleaser.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, there you go, same writer. Question number two. My

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<v Speaker 1>adult daughter's got a new boyfriend about seven months. I've

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<v Speaker 1>not met him in person. We live far apart, and

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<v Speaker 1>I have not seen him over FaceTime, but he seems

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<v Speaker 1>nice and she's happy. She was previously in a race

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<v Speaker 1>relationship about four years, and I knew her partner well.

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<v Speaker 1>For Christmas, I usually would send my daughters and their

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<v Speaker 1>partner's equal dollar gift cards two hundred bucks each, one

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<v Speaker 1>for her, one for him, and his stocking stuffer with

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<v Speaker 1>some of their favorite snacks or things. Now this is

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<v Speaker 1>a new and shorter relationship. Would it be expected that

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<v Speaker 1>I also send him the same gift card about as

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<v Speaker 1>my daughter? No?

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<v Speaker 2>No, oh no, no.

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<v Speaker 1>Not Honestly, no expectation of a gift for the boyfriend

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<v Speaker 1>at all. Honestly, if I was, like, let's say I'm

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<v Speaker 1>dating some new woman and I've been dating her for

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<v Speaker 1>seven months and everything's fine, there is no expectation from

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<v Speaker 1>a gift from not even mother in law at all.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, you can get him sacks.

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<v Speaker 1>You can get him socks or a box of candy

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<v Speaker 1>or something. You know, if he likes gummy worms and

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<v Speaker 1>get him a bag of gummy worms.

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<v Speaker 2>But no, I always thought that was awkward.

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<v Speaker 3>Like the first year that I brought my old boyfriend

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<v Speaker 3>to Christmas, my dad felt obligated to get him stuff,

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<v Speaker 3>and I felt so awkward about it in general, like

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<v Speaker 3>to be like, Okay, here's the gift that my dad

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<v Speaker 3>got you. That you've met him once or twice maybe

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<v Speaker 3>in your entire life, here's.

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<v Speaker 2>The gift that he bought you, which is just so

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<v Speaker 2>awkward to me.

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<v Speaker 4>Is he like a gift giving kind of love language?

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<v Speaker 3>Your dad not necessarily a love language, because he gets

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<v Speaker 3>the same stuff for us like every year, which is

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<v Speaker 3>mostly just gift cards and then boxes of candy.

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<v Speaker 2>So I don't think he's.

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<v Speaker 3>Like a thoughtful gift giver, but he thinks that he

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<v Speaker 3>has to get you a gift. Even if I'm like,

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<v Speaker 3>don't get me anything, He'll be like, here's two hundred

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<v Speaker 3>dollars to Target. I'm like, god, dang it. But then

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<v Speaker 3>he'll do the same thing to my boyfriend. He'll be like,

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<v Speaker 3>here you go, here's a ton of money to Fleet Farm, Like,

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<v Speaker 3>what the what are you doing?

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<v Speaker 2>Stop it?

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning, wonderful katiewb Fham from PAULA question for day.

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<v Speaker 1>My husband is a teacher and a high school cross

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<v Speaker 1>country coach. One of his students, athletes, is in into

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<v Speaker 1>his Eagle Scout ceremony. He is going very honored that

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<v Speaker 1>he was thought of to be invited. Our question is

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<v Speaker 1>what should he take for a gift? I told my

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<v Speaker 1>husband I know who will know. Thanks so much, Love

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<v Speaker 1>you guys, Thanks for all the lasts every morning. All

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<v Speaker 1>four of you rock. Take care, PAULA. Twenty five dollars

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<v Speaker 1>Target gift card is fine. There's really nothing else that

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<v Speaker 1>you know that the kid will want. There might be

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<v Speaker 1>another store that they really love. I used to say

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<v Speaker 1>game stop, but kids don't usually shop at GameStop anymore

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<v Speaker 1>because they download their games. But I would say, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>twenty five dollars Target gift card is fine. It's not extravagant,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's enough to say hey, I appreciate it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and a kid will figure out a way to spend

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<v Speaker 1>twenty five bucks at Target, even if he's like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>sells it to his mom for twenty bucks. You know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean, so that is very appropriate, and honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>no gift at all is also appropriate. But I'd say

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<v Speaker 1>twenty five bucks at Target is per fail. Thanks for asking,

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<v Speaker 1>and congratulations to the new Eagle.

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<v Speaker 2>All right.

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<v Speaker 1>Next one elevator etiquette from Kelly Oh Well, No, she

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<v Speaker 1>says that she says, I feel like I should say

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<v Speaker 1>that because everybody else does, so I'm gonna leave it

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<v Speaker 1>in there. Can we talk about elevator etiquette. I work

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<v Speaker 1>for a large hospital. I'm not gonna name it, but

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<v Speaker 1>it happens to be in the heart of the Rochester

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<v Speaker 1>area and I, and like many others, I filter in

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<v Speaker 1>the last minute before work because I'm a mom of

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<v Speaker 1>as much sleep as they will allow. Anywhere, there's always

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<v Speaker 1>a slew of people waiting for the elevators when I

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<v Speaker 1>get in, and so many things that just irk me.

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<v Speaker 1>Waiting for the elevator, Number one, take a mental note

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<v Speaker 1>of who was waiting before you. Almost every time there

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<v Speaker 1>are people waiting, others just filter in and will blatantly

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<v Speaker 1>squeeze in front of people to get to the elevators first.

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<v Speaker 2>Excuse me.

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<v Speaker 1>I also get it to work, and I was here

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<v Speaker 1>before you, so back the hell up and wait your turn.

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<v Speaker 1>We ran into this at the airport because there was

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<v Speaker 1>I think we had a baggage cart taking our bags

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<v Speaker 1>out to the car, and somebody else had a bunch

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<v Speaker 1>other people get in front of us, and it's like, bitch,

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<v Speaker 1>we were here before you. And I even had to

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<v Speaker 1>tell somebody. I'm like, excuse me, we were here first,

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<v Speaker 1>and they were a little taken aback, but then I

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<v Speaker 1>think they just weren't paying attention. So in the world. Second,

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<v Speaker 1>when the elevator doors opened, step the hell back and

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<v Speaker 1>let anybody that is already inside that needs to get

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<v Speaker 1>out actually get out before you start scrambling like animals

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<v Speaker 1>through the doors. This happened to me at Wisconsin Dell's

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<v Speaker 1>at the Kalahari. We were coming down the elevator. We

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<v Speaker 1>year old boys tried to get in before we could

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<v Speaker 1>let people out before you get in, and one of

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<v Speaker 1>them said something like fuck you or something like that, yeah, jeez,

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, well, you know, what at least I tried.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I always think people know what they're supposed to do,

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<v Speaker 2>and then they just don't think.

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<v Speaker 1>Very likely, very likely. Third, it's not a fucking already can,

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<v Speaker 1>says Helly Kelly. Uh, I don't want anybody so close

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<v Speaker 1>they're touching or breathing on me. The one good thing

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<v Speaker 1>about COVID is they've blocked off sections in the elevators.

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<v Speaker 1>There are only a few people come in. Let's not

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<v Speaker 1>veer back from that. That was amazing. Fourth, don't talk

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<v Speaker 1>on your fucking phone. Hh. She sounds like Juanita, and

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<v Speaker 1>I love it. Sure, I've been on the phone entering

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<v Speaker 1>an elevator, but I'll say, hey, give me a second.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in the elevator, and I shut the fuck up

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<v Speaker 1>for the brief ride, or I say call you back

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<v Speaker 1>in a second finely. I swear to God, if one

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<v Speaker 1>more person rips ass in that tiny space, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>lose it. Nobody should do that. Hold it until you

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<v Speaker 1>get to a larger space that can disseminate quickly and

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<v Speaker 1>without notice, rather than hot box us all without warning.

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<v Speaker 1>That is something you feel like they're doing very purposefully.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, exactly, like that's a joke that they're gonna do.

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<v Speaker 3>They're like, yeah, I'm gonna farten this elevator. Ew wow gross.

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<v Speaker 1>If you read this, I would love a staff wrider sticker.

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<v Speaker 1>I've texted in many times, but this is my first

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<v Speaker 1>email to the Minnesota Goodbye. I've been listening back to

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<v Speaker 1>catch up them since I only just discovered it the

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<v Speaker 1>last month or so. I hope you have a great day.

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<v Speaker 1>And that is from Kelly and Kelly. Right now, I

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<v Speaker 1>am forwarding your email address to Secretary Bri. Shout out

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<v Speaker 1>Secretary Bri b r ee and there we go. It

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<v Speaker 1>is on its way. For a first time emailer, that

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<v Speaker 1>is some great stuff, Kelly, So thank you for all

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<v Speaker 1>the content. Next one, don't say my name. Hey, besties,

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<v Speaker 1>I had a spicy dream to add to your sex

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<v Speaker 1>Dreams Dreams series. It goes like this. Yesterday I talked

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<v Speaker 1>about how I had a sex dream with Lotta Lotto,

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<v Speaker 1>the rapper. Yeah, my girlfriends and I are dressed up

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<v Speaker 1>to go downtown clubbing. We are walking in an alley

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<v Speaker 1>and going to a club VIP through the back door.

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<v Speaker 1>All of a sudden, Justin Timberlake is at the back

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<v Speaker 1>to decline the offer without my friends, but he wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>take no for an answer. I say to my friends,

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<v Speaker 1>what about my husband? What if he finds me? My

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<v Speaker 1>friends say, are you crazy? It's Justin Timberlake. Just go,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll cover for you. So, like in slow motion, I

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<v Speaker 1>go in. The second the door closed, he was all

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<v Speaker 1>over me, slam me up against the wall, kissing me

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<v Speaker 1>all over. We are all horned up, ripping our clothes off.

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<v Speaker 1>The back door had a window on the top part

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<v Speaker 1>of the door, so I keep looking out that window,

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<v Speaker 1>scared my sweet hubby that I would never cheat on,

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<v Speaker 1>is gonna see me. It was so real. As JT

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<v Speaker 1>and I are making out, I'm thinking, damn, he's got

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<v Speaker 1>no lips. I can feel his little, tiny, thin lips,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's so weird because my husband has big, juicy lips.

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<v Speaker 1>I look at that window on top of the door,

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<v Speaker 1>and I wake up suddenly to my husband's face, like

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<v Speaker 1>two inches away. We were sleeping on our sides, facing

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<v Speaker 1>each other, and I was literally just making out with

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<v Speaker 1>Justin Timberlake. What's even more weird. My husband's name is

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<v Speaker 1>Justin too, and I don't even have a crush on JT.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a fan, but he's not my hall pass have

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<v Speaker 1>a great day a right.

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<v Speaker 2>That's how it always is.

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<v Speaker 3>You're like, I don't even like this guy, and then

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<v Speaker 3>after your dream you're like, I think I like Justin Tipperly.

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<v Speaker 1>And here's one about Taylor Swift and lip syncing, because

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<v Speaker 1>there was an artist or producer the other day we

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<v Speaker 1>reported that he said, Taylor Swift lip syncs in her

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<v Speaker 1>concerts and he was able to record this show and

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<v Speaker 1>this show and this show and compare the audio and

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<v Speaker 1>it matches up perfectly. And he said, no singer is

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<v Speaker 1>capable of perfectly matching up. It's kind of like two

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<v Speaker 1>fingerprints being exactly the same, right, And we said, okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's very possible because after all, her each of her

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<v Speaker 1>tour stops makes millions and millions of dollars, and if

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<v Speaker 1>she got you know, not bronchitis, laryngitis, or you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like damaged her vocal cords, they would lose millions of

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<v Speaker 1>dollars for every show that she had to cancel. And

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<v Speaker 1>she is singing for about three and a half hours

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<v Speaker 1>every two days or so, so it's very possible. But

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<v Speaker 1>this person writes in and says regarding Taylor's lip syncing allegations,

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<v Speaker 1>Britney Spears made a killing off it, and I might

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<v Speaker 1>add terribly lip syncing at her shows. If you go

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<v Speaker 1>back and look at old live performances, it's blatantly done.

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<v Speaker 1>Taylor is at lip syncing in my opinion. But if

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<v Speaker 1>she is, who cares? She puts on a hell of

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<v Speaker 1>a show for three and a half hours. She got

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<v Speaker 1>your money's worth, and then some the majority of people

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<v Speaker 1>who are accuser of this or either jealous of her

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<v Speaker 1>success or never been to a show, find something valid

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<v Speaker 1>to complain about. Thank you love the show all right.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't dart lick, but I support it. That's Devin

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<v Speaker 1>from Indiana. Devin, thanks for listening all the way from

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<v Speaker 1>Indiana on the iHeartRadio app.

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<v Speaker 2>I wonder if, like, okay, so her lip syncing. Obviously

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<v Speaker 2>she's lip syncing.

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<v Speaker 3>To like a live track of like her singing it

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<v Speaker 3>at one point time, so at least she's like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>I sang this at one point, so now I'm just

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<v Speaker 3>going to lip sync to what I've already done. But like,

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<v Speaker 3>how often does she actually go out and do a

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<v Speaker 3>now lip syncing to it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a really good question. I don't know. It's very

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<v Speaker 1>possible that she recorded tracks in the studio before or

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<v Speaker 1>she even set out on tour, Yeah, and then rehearsed

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<v Speaker 1>to those tracks, so she would know where every little

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<v Speaker 1>nuanced vocal like whoo right might be, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like it's it's definitely it's different than like

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<v Speaker 3>Britney Spears lip syncing to the track that like was

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<v Speaker 3>produced by the production company, you know, versus live track.

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<v Speaker 1>I think Taylor is absolutely capable of singing live songs.

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<v Speaker 1>But when you got to remember three hours worth of

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<v Speaker 1>three and a half hour's worth of songs, some artists

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<v Speaker 1>they honestly, they have trouble remembering the vocals the lyrics

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<v Speaker 1>to their songs. So maybe they just want to make

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<v Speaker 1>the show as clean and smooth and perfect as possible,

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<v Speaker 1>rather than her forgetting the lyrics or whatever. I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't falter horian or something.

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<v Speaker 1>I am not upset, and I would not be upset

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<v Speaker 1>if I went to the show and didn't realize it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be cool with it, you know, Yeah, why not?

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's going to be it for the Minnesota goodbye.

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<v Speaker 1>If you get anything you want to bring up first

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<v Speaker 1>time even texted the show and you're like, I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to send in an email, we would love to get

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<v Speaker 1>that and get you a staff writer sticker to put

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<v Speaker 1>on your Stanley or to put on your yettie, or

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<v Speaker 1>to put on your car or your laptop, whatever you

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<v Speaker 1>want to do. Send your emails first time or manytime

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<v Speaker 1>writer to Ryan Show at KDWB dot com. Thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for listening.