Speaker 1: And here we go with a Minnesota goodbye. We had
Speaker 1: some fun emails here, so let's dive in to the
Speaker 1: Minnesota goodbye. Here we go, Minnesota goodbye, friends, sending email
Speaker 1: number two for the day. Have you ever thought about
Speaker 1: doing War of the Roses where are they now? Episodes
Speaker 1: where you play an old episode and then reach back
Speaker 1: out to the original partner to see what happened later
Speaker 1: or how they feel about it after time has passed.
Speaker 1: Oh sure, if you have the numbers saved somewhere from
Speaker 1: past calls. But I'd really be interested in hearing all
Speaker 1: the tea. If only I could be a fly on
Speaker 1: the wall after the call ins, have a wonderful day.
Speaker 1: That's from Kelly. Kelly. We've actually tried that. They either
Speaker 1: do not want to be on the radio or they
Speaker 1: do not answer their phone, and that is the way
Speaker 1: it is. And my suspicion is they don't they already
Speaker 1: got enough flat because somebody recognized their voice or their story,
Speaker 1: or they got back together and they don't want to talk.
Speaker 2: About it m hm, because it really embarrassing.
Speaker 1: I wonder where the stats are you guys, when somebody cheats,
Speaker 1: how many people forgive and get back together.
Speaker 2: Oh, I'm sure it's a high number. I think so.
Speaker 1: I think it's probably over fifty percent.
Speaker 2: Give people the benefit of the doubt when they really shouldn't.
Speaker 1: Be well, And I think not only the benefit of
Speaker 1: the doubt, but if you love somebody like Julie cheated
Speaker 1: on me, and I loved her so much that I
Speaker 1: knew it, but I pretended that I didn't. And I
Speaker 1: cheated on her and she also knew that I did,
Speaker 1: but she pretended that I didn't. So if you really
Speaker 1: love somebody, I don't always think that cheating is a
Speaker 1: deal breaker. And that's a strong statement because some people
Speaker 1: it absolutely would be a deal breaker, right.
Speaker 3: I think that's just your opinion that it wouldn't be
Speaker 3: a deal breaker for you. I honestly don't think it
Speaker 3: would be a deal breaker for me. But I haven't
Speaker 3: been in that situation.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 4: We had a therapist on one time, and I don't
Speaker 4: know what it was, but we talked about cheating and
Speaker 4: she kind of talked about how you can still be
Speaker 4: in a relationship with someone who cheated on you, and
Speaker 4: she said, like, the main thing is is you have
Speaker 4: to build that trust back, and it has to keep
Speaker 4: building and building, and if they screw up again, then
Speaker 4: you have to start from scratch again. So it's like
Speaker 4: you have to just like you could like forgive your partner,
Speaker 4: but are you good like a forgive them and not
Speaker 4: continuously bring it up? And b are you going to
Speaker 4: trust them? Are you going to get that trust back?
Speaker 1: And that's really hard to get back. I mean, I
Speaker 1: think it really kind of depends on the whole dialogue
Speaker 1: and how apologetic and sincere they are, And honestly, it
Speaker 1: depends on how much you love that person. Like if
Speaker 1: somebody really love went on a business trip and you
Speaker 1: found it that they had sneaked some guy into their
Speaker 1: hotel room and hooked up, would you end your marriage
Speaker 1: over that? I mean, some people absolutely would, and other
Speaker 1: people would be like, yes, she cheated, but we got
Speaker 1: past it, or he cheated but we worked past it.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 1: Next one from Nicole. I have two things to suggest
Speaker 1: for talking points that might fit into the Minnesota Goodbye.
Speaker 1: Number one. I was invited to a holiday gathering with
Speaker 1: the The host said food is provided and suggested for
Speaker 1: guests to bring a dish. Now, the host is vegetarian,
Speaker 1: her son and spouse are not, and I am not.
Speaker 1: It was not specified what kind of dish to bring,
Speaker 1: but I wouldn't want the host to not be able
Speaker 1: to have what I rot. So I'm veeried on the
Speaker 1: side of a vegetarian dish. Anyone else experience this, any
Speaker 1: thoughts on the matter. I think you can do it
Speaker 1: either way. I mean, she didn't specify and there will
Speaker 1: be other people there. But I see your concern. What's
Speaker 1: an easy vegetarian dish? Some sort of three bean salad.
Speaker 2: Ooh that sounds good.
Speaker 1: Jello with bananas cut up inside.
Speaker 2: Oh, no, don't get it.
Speaker 4: I would assume most dishes are vegetarian for Thanksgiving besides the.
Speaker 2: Turkey, right, Are you right about that? Yeah?
Speaker 4: I think so, Sophie, unless you're like against that, because
Speaker 4: it was like, if you do it like the stuff
Speaker 4: and that's in the turkey, if you feel it that
Speaker 4: way or something.
Speaker 1: Put the giblets in there. Yeah, giblets.
Speaker 3: Giblets, I recommend if it's for Thanksgiving. We at my
Speaker 3: household always makes sides that are like different than normal sides.
Speaker 3: And my mom makes something called baked hash browns, which
Speaker 3: has like cheese and onions and then just like hash
Speaker 3: browns in it, and it's all baked.
Speaker 2: It's delicious.
Speaker 3: I would look that up bring that in because that
Speaker 3: is vegetarian and a crowd pleaser.
Speaker 1: Okay, there you go, same writer. Question number two. My
Speaker 1: adult daughter's got a new boyfriend about seven months. I've
Speaker 1: not met him in person. We live far apart, and
Speaker 1: I have not seen him over FaceTime, but he seems
Speaker 1: nice and she's happy. She was previously in a race
Speaker 1: relationship about four years, and I knew her partner well.
Speaker 1: For Christmas, I usually would send my daughters and their
Speaker 1: partner's equal dollar gift cards two hundred bucks each, one
Speaker 1: for her, one for him, and his stocking stuffer with
Speaker 1: some of their favorite snacks or things. Now this is
Speaker 1: a new and shorter relationship. Would it be expected that
Speaker 1: I also send him the same gift card about as
Speaker 1: my daughter? No?
Speaker 2: No, oh no, no.
Speaker 1: Not Honestly, no expectation of a gift for the boyfriend
Speaker 1: at all. Honestly, if I was, like, let's say I'm
Speaker 1: dating some new woman and I've been dating her for
Speaker 1: seven months and everything's fine, there is no expectation from
Speaker 1: a gift from not even mother in law at all.
Speaker 2: I mean, you can get him sacks.
Speaker 1: You can get him socks or a box of candy
Speaker 1: or something. You know, if he likes gummy worms and
Speaker 1: get him a bag of gummy worms.
Speaker 2: But no, I always thought that was awkward.
Speaker 3: Like the first year that I brought my old boyfriend
Speaker 3: to Christmas, my dad felt obligated to get him stuff,
Speaker 3: and I felt so awkward about it in general, like
Speaker 3: to be like, Okay, here's the gift that my dad
Speaker 3: got you. That you've met him once or twice maybe
Speaker 3: in your entire life, here's.
Speaker 2: The gift that he bought you, which is just so
Speaker 2: awkward to me.
Speaker 4: Is he like a gift giving kind of love language?
Speaker 3: Your dad not necessarily a love language, because he gets
Speaker 3: the same stuff for us like every year, which is
Speaker 3: mostly just gift cards and then boxes of candy.
Speaker 2: So I don't think he's.
Speaker 3: Like a thoughtful gift giver, but he thinks that he
Speaker 3: has to get you a gift. Even if I'm like,
Speaker 3: don't get me anything, He'll be like, here's two hundred
Speaker 3: dollars to Target. I'm like, god, dang it. But then
Speaker 3: he'll do the same thing to my boyfriend. He'll be like,
Speaker 3: here you go, here's a ton of money to Fleet Farm, Like,
Speaker 3: what the what are you doing?
Speaker 2: Stop it?
Speaker 1: Good morning, wonderful katiewb Fham from PAULA question for day.
Speaker 1: My husband is a teacher and a high school cross
Speaker 1: country coach. One of his students, athletes, is in into
Speaker 1: his Eagle Scout ceremony. He is going very honored that
Speaker 1: he was thought of to be invited. Our question is
Speaker 1: what should he take for a gift? I told my
Speaker 1: husband I know who will know. Thanks so much, Love
Speaker 1: you guys, Thanks for all the lasts every morning. All
Speaker 1: four of you rock. Take care, PAULA. Twenty five dollars
Speaker 1: Target gift card is fine. There's really nothing else that
Speaker 1: you know that the kid will want. There might be
Speaker 1: another store that they really love. I used to say
Speaker 1: game stop, but kids don't usually shop at GameStop anymore
Speaker 1: because they download their games. But I would say, yeah,
Speaker 1: twenty five dollars Target gift card is fine. It's not extravagant,
Speaker 1: but it's enough to say hey, I appreciate it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and a kid will figure out a way to spend
Speaker 1: twenty five bucks at Target, even if he's like, you know,
Speaker 1: sells it to his mom for twenty bucks. You know
Speaker 1: what I mean, so that is very appropriate, and honestly,
Speaker 1: no gift at all is also appropriate. But I'd say
Speaker 1: twenty five bucks at Target is per fail. Thanks for asking,
Speaker 1: and congratulations to the new Eagle.
Speaker 2: All right.
Speaker 1: Next one elevator etiquette from Kelly Oh Well, No, she
Speaker 1: says that she says, I feel like I should say
Speaker 1: that because everybody else does, so I'm gonna leave it
Speaker 1: in there. Can we talk about elevator etiquette. I work
Speaker 1: for a large hospital. I'm not gonna name it, but
Speaker 1: it happens to be in the heart of the Rochester
Speaker 1: area and I, and like many others, I filter in
Speaker 1: the last minute before work because I'm a mom of
Speaker 1: two little kids and I like to try to get
Speaker 1: as much sleep as they will allow. Anywhere, there's always
Speaker 1: a slew of people waiting for the elevators when I
Speaker 1: get in, and so many things that just irk me.
Speaker 1: Waiting for the elevator, Number one, take a mental note
Speaker 1: of who was waiting before you. Almost every time there
Speaker 1: are people waiting, others just filter in and will blatantly
Speaker 1: squeeze in front of people to get to the elevators first.
Speaker 2: Excuse me.
Speaker 1: I also get it to work, and I was here
Speaker 1: before you, so back the hell up and wait your turn.
Speaker 1: We ran into this at the airport because there was
Speaker 1: I think we had a baggage cart taking our bags
Speaker 1: out to the car, and somebody else had a bunch
Speaker 1: of bags, and we pushed the button and like four
Speaker 1: other people get in front of us, and it's like, bitch,
Speaker 1: we were here before you. And I even had to
Speaker 1: tell somebody. I'm like, excuse me, we were here first,
Speaker 1: and they were a little taken aback, but then I
Speaker 1: think they just weren't paying attention. So in the world. Second,
Speaker 1: when the elevator doors opened, step the hell back and
Speaker 1: let anybody that is already inside that needs to get
Speaker 1: out actually get out before you start scrambling like animals
Speaker 1: through the doors. This happened to me at Wisconsin Dell's
Speaker 1: at the Kalahari. We were coming down the elevator. We
Speaker 1: get to the ground floor and a bunch of twelve
Speaker 1: year old boys tried to get in before we could
Speaker 1: even get out, and I said, guys, you're supposed to
Speaker 1: let people out before you get in, and one of
Speaker 1: them said something like fuck you or something like that, yeah, jeez,
Speaker 1: And I'm like, well, you know, what at least I tried.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I always think people know what they're supposed to do,
Speaker 2: and then they just don't think.
Speaker 1: Very likely, very likely. Third, it's not a fucking already can,
Speaker 1: says Helly Kelly. Uh, I don't want anybody so close
Speaker 1: they're touching or breathing on me. The one good thing
Speaker 1: about COVID is they've blocked off sections in the elevators.
Speaker 1: There are only a few people come in. Let's not
Speaker 1: veer back from that. That was amazing. Fourth, don't talk
Speaker 1: on your fucking phone. Hh. She sounds like Juanita, and
Speaker 1: I love it. Sure, I've been on the phone entering
Speaker 1: an elevator, but I'll say, hey, give me a second.
Speaker 1: I'm in the elevator, and I shut the fuck up
Speaker 1: for the brief ride, or I say call you back
Speaker 1: in a second finely. I swear to God, if one
Speaker 1: more person rips ass in that tiny space, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: lose it. Nobody should do that. Hold it until you
Speaker 1: get to a larger space that can disseminate quickly and
Speaker 1: without notice, rather than hot box us all without warning.
Speaker 1: That is something you feel like they're doing very purposefully.
Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly, like that's a joke that they're gonna do.
Speaker 3: They're like, yeah, I'm gonna farten this elevator. Ew wow gross.
Speaker 1: If you read this, I would love a staff wrider sticker.
Speaker 1: I've texted in many times, but this is my first
Speaker 1: email to the Minnesota Goodbye. I've been listening back to
Speaker 1: catch up them since I only just discovered it the
Speaker 1: last month or so. I hope you have a great day.
Speaker 1: And that is from Kelly and Kelly. Right now, I
Speaker 1: am forwarding your email address to Secretary Bri. Shout out
Speaker 1: Secretary Bri b r ee and there we go. It
Speaker 1: is on its way. For a first time emailer, that
Speaker 1: is some great stuff, Kelly, So thank you for all
Speaker 1: the content. Next one, don't say my name. Hey, besties,
Speaker 1: I had a spicy dream to add to your sex
Speaker 1: Dreams Dreams series. It goes like this. Yesterday I talked
Speaker 1: about how I had a sex dream with Lotta Lotto,
Speaker 1: the rapper. Yeah, my girlfriends and I are dressed up
Speaker 1: to go downtown clubbing. We are walking in an alley
Speaker 1: and going to a club VIP through the back door.
Speaker 1: All of a sudden, Justin Timberlake is at the back
Speaker 1: door and only wants me to come in. I try
Speaker 1: to decline the offer without my friends, but he wouldn't
Speaker 1: take no for an answer. I say to my friends,
Speaker 1: what about my husband? What if he finds me? My
Speaker 1: friends say, are you crazy? It's Justin Timberlake. Just go,
Speaker 1: we'll cover for you. So, like in slow motion, I
Speaker 1: go in. The second the door closed, he was all
Speaker 1: over me, slam me up against the wall, kissing me
Speaker 1: all over. We are all horned up, ripping our clothes off.
Speaker 1: The back door had a window on the top part
Speaker 1: of the door, so I keep looking out that window,
Speaker 1: scared my sweet hubby that I would never cheat on,
Speaker 1: is gonna see me. It was so real. As JT
Speaker 1: and I are making out, I'm thinking, damn, he's got
Speaker 1: no lips. I can feel his little, tiny, thin lips,
Speaker 1: and it's so weird because my husband has big, juicy lips.
Speaker 1: I look at that window on top of the door,
Speaker 1: and I wake up suddenly to my husband's face, like
Speaker 1: two inches away. We were sleeping on our sides, facing
Speaker 1: each other, and I was literally just making out with
Speaker 1: Justin Timberlake. What's even more weird. My husband's name is
Speaker 1: Justin too, and I don't even have a crush on JT.
Speaker 1: I'm a fan, but he's not my hall pass have
Speaker 1: a great day a right.
Speaker 2: That's how it always is.
Speaker 3: You're like, I don't even like this guy, and then
Speaker 3: after your dream you're like, I think I like Justin Tipperly.
Speaker 1: And here's one about Taylor Swift and lip syncing, because
Speaker 1: there was an artist or producer the other day we
Speaker 1: reported that he said, Taylor Swift lip syncs in her
Speaker 1: concerts and he was able to record this show and
Speaker 1: this show and this show and compare the audio and
Speaker 1: it matches up perfectly. And he said, no singer is
Speaker 1: capable of perfectly matching up. It's kind of like two
Speaker 1: fingerprints being exactly the same, right, And we said, okay, well,
Speaker 1: it's very possible because after all, her each of her
Speaker 1: tour stops makes millions and millions of dollars, and if
Speaker 1: she got you know, not bronchitis, laryngitis, or you know,
Speaker 1: like damaged her vocal cords, they would lose millions of
Speaker 1: dollars for every show that she had to cancel. And
Speaker 1: she is singing for about three and a half hours
Speaker 1: every two days or so, so it's very possible. But
Speaker 1: this person writes in and says regarding Taylor's lip syncing allegations,
Speaker 1: Britney Spears made a killing off it, and I might
Speaker 1: add terribly lip syncing at her shows. If you go
Speaker 1: back and look at old live performances, it's blatantly done.
Speaker 1: Taylor is at lip syncing in my opinion. But if
Speaker 1: she is, who cares? She puts on a hell of
Speaker 1: a show for three and a half hours. She got
Speaker 1: your money's worth, and then some the majority of people
Speaker 1: who are accuser of this or either jealous of her
Speaker 1: success or never been to a show, find something valid
Speaker 1: to complain about. Thank you love the show all right.
Speaker 1: I don't dart lick, but I support it. That's Devin
Speaker 1: from Indiana. Devin, thanks for listening all the way from
Speaker 1: Indiana on the iHeartRadio app.
Speaker 2: I wonder if, like, okay, so her lip syncing. Obviously
Speaker 2: she's lip syncing.
Speaker 3: To like a live track of like her singing it
Speaker 3: at one point time, so at least she's like, Okay,
Speaker 3: I sang this at one point, so now I'm just
Speaker 3: going to lip sync to what I've already done. But like,
Speaker 3: how often does she actually go out and do a
Speaker 3: live show or did she just do one and is
Speaker 3: now lip syncing to it.
Speaker 1: That's a really good question. I don't know. It's very
Speaker 1: possible that she recorded tracks in the studio before or
Speaker 1: she even set out on tour, Yeah, and then rehearsed
Speaker 1: to those tracks, so she would know where every little
Speaker 1: nuanced vocal like whoo right might be, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean.
Speaker 3: I feel like it's it's definitely it's different than like
Speaker 3: Britney Spears lip syncing to the track that like was
Speaker 3: produced by the production company, you know, versus live track.
Speaker 1: I think Taylor is absolutely capable of singing live songs.
Speaker 1: But when you got to remember three hours worth of
Speaker 1: three and a half hour's worth of songs, some artists
Speaker 1: they honestly, they have trouble remembering the vocals the lyrics
Speaker 1: to their songs. So maybe they just want to make
Speaker 1: the show as clean and smooth and perfect as possible,
Speaker 1: rather than her forgetting the lyrics or whatever. I mean.
Speaker 2: I don't falter horian or something.
Speaker 1: I am not upset, and I would not be upset
Speaker 1: if I went to the show and didn't realize it.
Speaker 1: I'd be cool with it, you know, Yeah, why not?
Speaker 1: I think that's going to be it for the Minnesota goodbye.
Speaker 1: If you get anything you want to bring up first
Speaker 1: time even texted the show and you're like, I'm going
Speaker 1: to send in an email, we would love to get
Speaker 1: that and get you a staff writer sticker to put
Speaker 1: on your Stanley or to put on your yettie, or
Speaker 1: to put on your car or your laptop, whatever you
Speaker 1: want to do. Send your emails first time or manytime
Speaker 1: writer to Ryan Show at KDWB dot com. Thank you
Speaker 1: for listening.