WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.200 --> 00:00:00.760 It's exciting. 2 00:00:00.800 --> 00:00:04.599 Six nine The Valley's Best Mixed Priscilla here and last Friday, 3 00:00:04.599 --> 00:00:07.120 it's been a long weekend back after long weekend. It's 4 00:00:07.200 --> 00:00:09.359 kind of feel it's funny because I enjoy a long 5 00:00:09.359 --> 00:00:12.080 weekend sid but it also kind of throws me off. 6 00:00:12.000 --> 00:00:14.000 A little bit. Yeah, more hectic when you come back. 7 00:00:14.119 --> 00:00:18.000 Yes, But on Friday, we had a chance to celebrate 8 00:00:18.039 --> 00:00:21.160 you and your baby girl for your baby shower. 9 00:00:21.359 --> 00:00:23.600 It was so much fun, it really was. 10 00:00:23.960 --> 00:00:26.399 It's really cool because you know your family is out 11 00:00:26.440 --> 00:00:29.280 of town and they weren't able to come into town 12 00:00:29.359 --> 00:00:32.280 for it, but you have quite the girl gang, like 13 00:00:32.439 --> 00:00:34.880 a good group of girlfriends that showed up and showed 14 00:00:34.880 --> 00:00:35.920 out and it was really fun. 15 00:00:36.079 --> 00:00:38.159 I know, I was surprised and for a holiday weekend, 16 00:00:38.280 --> 00:00:41.200 everyone came out and everyone just vibes together, like I 17 00:00:41.200 --> 00:00:43.719 love when all my friends from different walks of. 18 00:00:43.719 --> 00:00:46.359 Life get along. Well that yes, because that could be 19 00:00:46.399 --> 00:00:47.520 tricky because. 20 00:00:47.679 --> 00:00:50.119 I know you're similar to me where we're chameleons and 21 00:00:50.159 --> 00:00:52.679 we can get along with anyone, which means like different 22 00:00:52.759 --> 00:00:55.000 friend groups. But then you're like, well what happens when 23 00:00:55.039 --> 00:00:56.240 you bring them all together? You know? 24 00:00:57.280 --> 00:01:00.000 But can I just say I should be a teacher 25 00:01:00.159 --> 00:01:00.920 in another life. 26 00:01:01.359 --> 00:01:05.959 You should party play. Priscilla just gets stuff done period. 27 00:01:06.439 --> 00:01:06.719 I know. 28 00:01:07.000 --> 00:01:10.120 I'm just like, let's go, next thing, Sid, open presence, 29 00:01:10.159 --> 00:01:11.319 Sid time for a game. 30 00:01:11.560 --> 00:01:14.200 Who wants a new cake? Let's go. Honestly, it was 31 00:01:14.319 --> 00:01:16.480 so helpful, like, thank you so much. 32 00:01:16.599 --> 00:01:18.840 But the funny thing is is we put some games together. 33 00:01:18.920 --> 00:01:20.760 It was like kind of like a trivia was it 34 00:01:20.799 --> 00:01:22.760 mom or Dad? And you have these cute little pictures 35 00:01:22.760 --> 00:01:26.560 of you and your husband. But normally people are just 36 00:01:26.599 --> 00:01:29.400 like not fun game people, right, Yeah, but the part 37 00:01:29.439 --> 00:01:31.159 where I'm like, I should be a teacher because I'm like, 38 00:01:31.239 --> 00:01:35.120 all right, guys, so who had a state championship? 39 00:01:35.200 --> 00:01:38.319 Was it Paul or Sid? Okay, who thinks Paul? Who 40 00:01:38.359 --> 00:01:40.040 thinks Sid? Who is? 41 00:01:40.079 --> 00:01:40.239 It? 42 00:01:40.319 --> 00:01:43.000 Like, just trying to make it as interactive. It's silly. 43 00:01:43.159 --> 00:01:45.159 One of the videos too, you're like, no cheating. 44 00:01:48.879 --> 00:01:52.959 One of my girlfriends is like, okay, hey, I'm telling you. 45 00:01:53.000 --> 00:01:55.239 The mom came out in me. It was fun though 46 00:01:55.280 --> 00:01:57.719 normally those games are pretty cheesy. But I really enjoyed 47 00:01:57.719 --> 00:01:58.439 the picture game. 48 00:01:58.640 --> 00:02:00.840 That was cute because it was really hard to tell 49 00:02:00.920 --> 00:02:03.640 who was It was hard to tell the person, so 50 00:02:04.040 --> 00:02:05.159 I never got into it. 51 00:02:05.239 --> 00:02:07.920 Yeah, well we're really excited. You looked adorable. 52 00:02:08.080 --> 00:02:10.000 We'll put up some pictures right now on our Instagram 53 00:02:10.039 --> 00:02:11.599 if you want to check it out at Mix ninety 54 00:02:11.639 --> 00:02:12.639 six nine FM. 55 00:02:13.039 --> 00:02:16.800 It's beautiful. 56 00:02:14.560 --> 00:02:19.680 It's Mix ninety six nine in the Valley's best mixed. 57 00:02:19.719 --> 00:02:23.800 Priscilla here and our girl Adele is breaking it to 58 00:02:23.879 --> 00:02:24.680 us this morning. 59 00:02:24.919 --> 00:02:28.560 I find that intentionous to but after that, I will 60 00:02:28.560 --> 00:02:31.919 not see you for an incredibly long time. Annie's eye 61 00:02:31.960 --> 00:02:36.280 will hold you there in my hall, she tells everyone. 62 00:02:36.360 --> 00:02:38.840 At a concert, she addresses her fans that she has 63 00:02:38.879 --> 00:02:42.039 ten shows to do left, but she plans to live 64 00:02:42.120 --> 00:02:44.400 the life that she has been building for the last 65 00:02:44.439 --> 00:02:47.199 seven years. AKA, we're not going to see her for 66 00:02:47.240 --> 00:02:51.039 another seven years. She's going to go into Adele hibernation. 67 00:02:51.639 --> 00:02:55.319 And it makes me sad because Adele not being around 68 00:02:55.360 --> 00:02:58.639 with no music for that long. We need you, Adele, 69 00:02:58.680 --> 00:03:00.479 but I get it. Go live your life, girl friend. 70 00:03:01.599 --> 00:03:05.199 The twenty twenty four Paralympics is underway, and can we 71 00:03:05.319 --> 00:03:09.560 just talk about how incredible these athletes are the way 72 00:03:09.800 --> 00:03:13.080 that they have been able to succeed and get their 73 00:03:13.159 --> 00:03:18.719 medals despite any adversities. The US has fifteen Gold, nineteen silver, 74 00:03:18.879 --> 00:03:22.919 eleven Bronze I ten out of ten recommend following the 75 00:03:22.960 --> 00:03:27.360 Paralympics social media account on Instagram and TikTok. They really 76 00:03:27.400 --> 00:03:30.759 know how to highlight these incredible athletes and keep you up. 77 00:03:30.639 --> 00:03:31.759 To date with what's going on. 78 00:03:32.680 --> 00:03:35.800 A Valley couple is lucky to be alive this morning 79 00:03:36.000 --> 00:03:41.599 after a car drove through their living room. 80 00:03:41.919 --> 00:03:44.719 We're about to eat out of nowhere, a car just 81 00:03:44.719 --> 00:03:51.120 comes barely in our house and thank god, no one 82 00:03:51.159 --> 00:03:54.039 got hurt, the driver us and I'm glad. 83 00:03:54.080 --> 00:03:57.360 It's just going to be a simple thing, nothing too crazy. 84 00:03:57.520 --> 00:03:58.479 It is so nuts. 85 00:03:58.479 --> 00:04:01.240 So the videos on our Instagram Mix ninety six nine FM. 86 00:04:01.240 --> 00:04:03.199 They're literally just getting ready to sit down and eat 87 00:04:03.680 --> 00:04:06.759 dinner and a car just comes barreling through their living room. 88 00:04:07.000 --> 00:04:08.840 They are so lucky to be alive. 89 00:04:09.319 --> 00:04:09.439 Uh. 90 00:04:09.479 --> 00:04:13.000 The driver was booked into jail and had impair impairment 91 00:04:13.159 --> 00:04:16.480 is believed, so just thankful that everyone is okay in 92 00:04:16.519 --> 00:04:17.319 that situation. 93 00:04:18.000 --> 00:04:19.160 All right, let's do this. 94 00:04:19.480 --> 00:04:21.839 It is time for you to call six oh two 95 00:04:21.920 --> 00:04:24.879 two six oh oh nine six ' nine right now 96 00:04:24.959 --> 00:04:28.240 because you have your chance to win tickets to or 97 00:04:28.319 --> 00:04:32.000 for four people to Universal Studios, Hollywood Halloween Horror Nights. 98 00:04:32.079 --> 00:04:34.240 Give us a call right now, six oh two two, 99 00:04:34.360 --> 00:04:36.120 six oh oh nine, six nine. 100 00:04:39.120 --> 00:04:40.120 It's six ninety six nine. 101 00:04:40.160 --> 00:04:42.759 The Valley's Best mixed Priscilla here and it is time 102 00:04:42.839 --> 00:04:45.160 to play American a Idol. 103 00:04:46.720 --> 00:04:49.079 We got Nicole and Phoenix on the game on the phone. 104 00:04:49.079 --> 00:04:53.279 Good morning, Nicole, Good morning. So it's really simple. 105 00:04:53.319 --> 00:04:54.839 This is how you're gonna play for a chance to 106 00:04:54.879 --> 00:04:58.040 go to Universal Studios, Hollywood Halloween Horror Nights. We've got 107 00:04:58.040 --> 00:04:59.600 a four pack. All you have to do is guess 108 00:04:59.639 --> 00:05:04.480 the song they excuse me, AI is singing? Okay, are 109 00:05:04.519 --> 00:05:06.240 you ready? 110 00:05:06.279 --> 00:05:11.439 One song is Artificial Intelligence singing out. 111 00:05:11.240 --> 00:05:13.480 Of my mind? How many times did I tell you 112 00:05:13.519 --> 00:05:15.600 I'm no good at being alone? 113 00:05:15.759 --> 00:05:16.040 Yeah? 114 00:05:16.120 --> 00:05:18.319 It's talking a toll on me, trying my best to 115 00:05:18.399 --> 00:05:21.600 keep from tearing the skin off my bones. Don't you know? 116 00:05:22.120 --> 00:05:24.680 I lose control when you're not next to me. When 117 00:05:24.680 --> 00:05:27.680 you're not here with me, I'm falling apart right in 118 00:05:27.680 --> 00:05:30.879 front of you. Can't you see? I lose control when 119 00:05:30.920 --> 00:05:34.519 you're not next to me. Emmieah, you're breaking my heart. Baby, 120 00:05:34.560 --> 00:05:35.399 you make a mess of me? 121 00:05:36.399 --> 00:05:42.720 All right, Nicole, what song is AI? Singing Lose Control 122 00:05:42.920 --> 00:05:48.000 by Teddy Swim. 123 00:05:49.879 --> 00:05:54.600 Congratulations, my girl, you are going to Universal Studios, Hollywood 124 00:05:54.639 --> 00:05:59.920 Halloween Horn Nights. Who thank you, of course, Hank Ted Okay, 125 00:06:01.040 --> 00:06:06.240 all right on the way, Sid, yesterday was my husband's birthday, and. 126 00:06:06.240 --> 00:06:08.920 You would think it would be a special celebrate, do all. 127 00:06:08.759 --> 00:06:12.079 The fun things type of day, except the fact that 128 00:06:12.120 --> 00:06:15.160 he had me working outside in one hundred and fifteen 129 00:06:15.160 --> 00:06:17.399 degree heat like I was being punished. 130 00:06:17.480 --> 00:06:18.720 Oh, I can't wait to hear how this. 131 00:06:19.279 --> 00:06:20.920 We'll break that down in two songs right here on 132 00:06:21.000 --> 00:06:23.720 Mix ninety six nine Lady Gaga Bradley Cooper. 133 00:06:23.480 --> 00:06:25.560 On Make ninety six nine, The Valley's Best Mix. 134 00:06:25.759 --> 00:06:28.439 Your chance at those tickets to the d Backs game 135 00:06:28.480 --> 00:06:32.079 on September fourth, I'm sorry, fourteenth is coming up around 136 00:06:32.160 --> 00:06:36.920 nine o'clock this morning. I'm Priscilla and Sid. Let me 137 00:06:37.000 --> 00:06:41.040 just say, everyone wants a handy husband that can fix 138 00:06:41.160 --> 00:06:44.959 anything until he has you outside in one hundred and 139 00:06:45.040 --> 00:06:49.439 fifteen degree heat on his birthday digging trenches. 140 00:06:49.560 --> 00:06:52.120 On the holiday weekend. Let me explain. 141 00:06:52.160 --> 00:06:56.360 So yesterday my husband his thirty fifth birthday. I wake 142 00:06:56.480 --> 00:06:59.839 up thinking it's gonna be a beautiful day. We're gonna 143 00:06:59.839 --> 00:07:02.279 have a great fun time, maybe go out on a 144 00:07:02.319 --> 00:07:05.160 family outing, because when it's my birthday, I want to 145 00:07:05.199 --> 00:07:06.000 do nothing. 146 00:07:05.720 --> 00:07:07.360 More than relaxed, you know, of course. 147 00:07:07.480 --> 00:07:07.720 Yeah. 148 00:07:08.000 --> 00:07:09.879 Well, I asked my husband, like, what do we open gifts? 149 00:07:09.920 --> 00:07:11.040 We do the whole thing. He's like, well, what do 150 00:07:11.040 --> 00:07:11.519 you want to do? 151 00:07:11.639 --> 00:07:13.279 I asked him, and he's like, well, I kind of 152 00:07:13.319 --> 00:07:15.800 want to finish the work on the outside of the house. 153 00:07:16.439 --> 00:07:20.839 And that includes like literally bending pipe, putting up, like 154 00:07:20.839 --> 00:07:24.360 getting on a ladder. I'm trying to think connecting wires, 155 00:07:24.439 --> 00:07:27.319 doing things that I have no business even knowing what 156 00:07:27.399 --> 00:07:27.879 it means. 157 00:07:28.120 --> 00:07:30.920 Stream physical labor, well, literally in the heat. 158 00:07:31.279 --> 00:07:33.360 And so he's like, you know, it'd be a lot 159 00:07:33.439 --> 00:07:35.120 quicker if I had help, we could get done like 160 00:07:35.160 --> 00:07:37.199 an hour or so, versus me being out here all 161 00:07:37.279 --> 00:07:41.040 day and being the good wife that I am. I'm like, 162 00:07:41.079 --> 00:07:43.800 you know what, it's his birthday. I'm gonna go outside. 163 00:07:43.800 --> 00:07:47.040 I'm gonna help him. I'm gonna rally, I'm gonna be 164 00:07:47.160 --> 00:07:47.920 in a good mood. 165 00:07:48.680 --> 00:07:53.600 Shouted it go. It was a disaster. What do you think? 166 00:07:54.000 --> 00:07:57.680 These hands are not built for manual labor. This body 167 00:07:57.839 --> 00:08:00.000 is not built to with stand one hundred and fifty 168 00:08:00.240 --> 00:08:02.879 degree heat. Oh man, do you get it done? Yes? 169 00:08:03.000 --> 00:08:04.759 Thank goodness, we got everything done. 170 00:08:04.920 --> 00:08:07.079 And I listen, I was a trooper about it because 171 00:08:07.079 --> 00:08:09.439 I didn't make one complaint because I didn't want to 172 00:08:09.439 --> 00:08:10.959 make him feel bad on his birthday. 173 00:08:11.480 --> 00:08:14.399 But it was awful. Here's the other thing I will 174 00:08:14.399 --> 00:08:15.959 say is my husband got the brunt of it. 175 00:08:16.040 --> 00:08:19.040 He's the one that was He's like torched, He's got 176 00:08:19.319 --> 00:08:22.759 burns and scrapes all over his body. He was like 177 00:08:23.160 --> 00:08:24.759 to the point at the end of the night his 178 00:08:24.839 --> 00:08:26.839 body was cramping up. I'm like, we got to get 179 00:08:26.839 --> 00:08:27.879 potassium menu. 180 00:08:29.040 --> 00:08:31.240 Oh my god, you're like thirty five hits you hard, 181 00:08:31.319 --> 00:08:32.840 doesn't it? It really did. 182 00:08:34.080 --> 00:08:35.600 But I am I will say at the end of 183 00:08:35.600 --> 00:08:39.279 the day, I'm very thankful for my husband because I 184 00:08:39.440 --> 00:08:43.200 just he first of all, has saved us thousands of dollars. 185 00:08:44.320 --> 00:08:45.639 But he got it done. 186 00:08:45.720 --> 00:08:48.120 He worked so hard and he made our home beautiful, 187 00:08:48.720 --> 00:08:52.240 even though I had to be outside fifty. 188 00:08:52.399 --> 00:08:55.000 What a birthday. I want to be tortured for my birthday, 189 00:08:55.039 --> 00:08:55.480 No what? 190 00:08:56.039 --> 00:08:57.879 And I told him for the record, I'm like, just 191 00:08:57.919 --> 00:09:00.600 so you know, on my birthday, I don't want it 192 00:09:00.639 --> 00:09:04.000 to be like this. I want an outing. I want 193 00:09:04.000 --> 00:09:06.360 to be a spa. I want to do things that, 194 00:09:06.960 --> 00:09:08.799 you know, just require relaxing. 195 00:09:08.919 --> 00:09:10.720 Oh he's probably so proud of himself too. 196 00:09:10.919 --> 00:09:13.639 Oh he should be. I mean he's amazing. He did 197 00:09:13.639 --> 00:09:15.679 such a great job. And I'm over here complaining about 198 00:09:15.679 --> 00:09:17.519 having to hold a wirecutter. 199 00:09:18.159 --> 00:09:21.919 Like who at? I Happy birthday to my husband. 200 00:09:22.320 --> 00:09:24.639 Okay, on the way with our hot topic, Hodah and 201 00:09:24.720 --> 00:09:27.240 Jenna created quite the hot topic on their show when 202 00:09:27.279 --> 00:09:30.960 it comes to a friend and their girlfriend slash boyfriend. 203 00:09:31.159 --> 00:09:32.840 We'll explain in a couple of songs. Right here, I'll 204 00:09:32.840 --> 00:09:34.960 mixed good Morning. It's mixed ninety six to nine in 205 00:09:34.960 --> 00:09:38.519 the Valley's Best Mix. Priscilla here and Hodah and Jenna 206 00:09:38.799 --> 00:09:42.279 are going viral on social media because of this topic 207 00:09:42.360 --> 00:09:43.639 they had on their show. 208 00:09:43.840 --> 00:09:47.360 A friend, Nicole finally broke up with her boyfriend Matt. 209 00:09:47.759 --> 00:09:51.000 I was so happy because I never liked him. Nicole 210 00:09:51.000 --> 00:09:54.919 and I celebrated over the weekend by bashing him. Well, 211 00:09:55.120 --> 00:09:59.240 they just got back together. Do I have to pretend 212 00:09:59.279 --> 00:10:01.039 to like him all over again? 213 00:10:01.200 --> 00:10:01.320 Oh? 214 00:10:02.039 --> 00:10:05.000 This one's tough. Okay, sid what do you think is 215 00:10:05.039 --> 00:10:05.559 it tough? 216 00:10:06.000 --> 00:10:09.039 I don't think she can just pretend that they didn't 217 00:10:09.120 --> 00:10:10.240 bash him. 218 00:10:10.720 --> 00:10:13.279 You're right, but do you get back to liking him 219 00:10:13.320 --> 00:10:14.960 and having a relationship with him? 220 00:10:15.120 --> 00:10:18.080 I don't, you don't, I don't. He's ousted. 221 00:10:18.320 --> 00:10:21.879 I think then the friend shouldn't have broken up with 222 00:10:21.960 --> 00:10:23.759 him if she thought she was gonna get back together 223 00:10:23.799 --> 00:10:25.799 with him, And then don't tell me all this business 224 00:10:25.840 --> 00:10:27.879 if you want me to be nice to him, you. 225 00:10:27.840 --> 00:10:33.720 Know, Okay, So maybe this is my elderly, elder millennial opinion. 226 00:10:34.919 --> 00:10:36.840 I think you kind of just suck it up and 227 00:10:37.039 --> 00:10:40.000 go with your friends, like your friend is the litmus test, right, 228 00:10:40.759 --> 00:10:45.600 no one knows more about their crappy boyfriend or girlfriend 229 00:10:45.639 --> 00:10:48.720 than the person that's with them. Like true, my girlfriend's 230 00:10:48.759 --> 00:10:51.799 gonna know more than anyone that her boyfriend sucks, right, 231 00:10:52.559 --> 00:10:56.919 And she doesn't need me to be against her as well, 232 00:10:57.039 --> 00:10:59.159 like she already knows he sucks. Everyone else in her 233 00:10:59.200 --> 00:11:02.240 life is telling her he sucks. So I'm gonna be 234 00:11:02.240 --> 00:11:04.720 the friend that's like, you know, I don't like it, 235 00:11:04.919 --> 00:11:06.919 but if you need someone to confide in, if you 236 00:11:06.919 --> 00:11:08.960 need someone to talk to, like, I got you, cause 237 00:11:09.000 --> 00:11:11.360 I get it. It's not easy to break up with someone. 238 00:11:11.559 --> 00:11:14.399 There's love there that maybe we don't see, you know. 239 00:11:14.639 --> 00:11:16.440 Yeah, there's love there that we don't see. 240 00:11:16.480 --> 00:11:19.399 But then I bet she's only telling half the story 241 00:11:19.440 --> 00:11:21.360 to her friend about how terrible he is. 242 00:11:21.440 --> 00:11:24.720 That's true. So that makes me just think, I don't know, 243 00:11:24.840 --> 00:11:25.720 you can do better. 244 00:11:25.799 --> 00:11:27.639 But no, your friend's not gonna listen to me, right, 245 00:11:27.799 --> 00:11:30.480 So I again, I get the other day, but I'm 246 00:11:30.480 --> 00:11:31.360 not gonna be nicest. 247 00:11:32.039 --> 00:11:33.960 You're like, sorry, you ain't gonna get the best out 248 00:11:33.960 --> 00:11:34.159 of me. 249 00:11:34.840 --> 00:11:38.399 Okay, what do you think if you hate your friend's 250 00:11:38.519 --> 00:11:41.399 boyfriend or girlfriend they break up, you guys spend all 251 00:11:41.440 --> 00:11:43.799 this time hating on them, they get back together. 252 00:11:43.960 --> 00:11:47.120 Do you clean the slate like they did? Or do 253 00:11:47.159 --> 00:11:48.960 you hold on to that? And you're like, no, I 254 00:11:49.000 --> 00:11:49.799 know what you did. 255 00:11:50.039 --> 00:11:50.559 I got my. 256 00:11:50.519 --> 00:11:53.320 Friends back, so absolutely not give us a call. Six 257 00:11:53.440 --> 00:11:56.279 oh two two six oh oh nine, six ' nine. 258 00:11:56.360 --> 00:11:58.919 That's six oh two two, six oh oh nine, six 259 00:11:59.000 --> 00:12:00.080 ' nine. 260 00:12:00.240 --> 00:12:02.240 Good morning. It's Mix ninety six nine of the Valley's 261 00:12:02.240 --> 00:12:03.399 Best makes Priscilla here. 262 00:12:03.240 --> 00:12:05.279 In the middle of our hot topic, and we're asking 263 00:12:05.600 --> 00:12:10.000 if your friend breaks up with a terrible person, girl 264 00:12:10.080 --> 00:12:13.840 or guy, and you guys spend the weekend or a 265 00:12:13.960 --> 00:12:17.600 month or maybe three months bad talking this person and 266 00:12:17.639 --> 00:12:20.679 then that friend ends up back with him or her. 267 00:12:21.279 --> 00:12:24.000 Do you now have to pretend to like them? We 268 00:12:24.080 --> 00:12:27.080 have Ben on the phone. Ben, what's your opinion on 269 00:12:27.120 --> 00:12:27.840 this hot topic. 270 00:12:28.240 --> 00:12:31.480 I mean, look, I've been pretty outspoken about this, and 271 00:12:31.559 --> 00:12:33.559 I don't think it's going to cost me my friendship. 272 00:12:33.879 --> 00:12:36.720 I mean, my opinion is that there's just no way 273 00:12:36.759 --> 00:12:39.720 I'm going to be able to backtrack from what I've said. 274 00:12:39.480 --> 00:12:43.240 About Okay, so you would end a friendship because they 275 00:12:43.240 --> 00:12:45.639 got back with a crappy boyfriend or girlfriend. 276 00:12:45.840 --> 00:12:49.240 I think they will because I mean the individual in 277 00:12:49.360 --> 00:12:53.039 question that was the one who calls the breakup, that's 278 00:12:53.240 --> 00:12:55.720 that's that's not a good person. I've been really really 279 00:12:55.799 --> 00:12:58.240 vocal about it, and you know they're going to get 280 00:12:58.240 --> 00:13:00.559 back together and then prance it's over. I mean, they're 281 00:13:00.559 --> 00:13:02.679 not going to talk to me anymore. I've been fooling. 282 00:13:02.519 --> 00:13:04.480 Because this girl's going to know that you hate her, 283 00:13:05.000 --> 00:13:06.919 and she's going to be like, it's. 284 00:13:06.720 --> 00:13:09.200 Either me or him and I'm not alone. 285 00:13:09.279 --> 00:13:11.559 Are you currently in this situation? Feel like there's a 286 00:13:11.559 --> 00:13:14.320 lot of anks there. Oh yeah, wait, so tell me 287 00:13:14.679 --> 00:13:16.000 why do you hate this girl? 288 00:13:16.399 --> 00:13:19.799 Well, the reason it's her it's always about me. It's 289 00:13:19.799 --> 00:13:22.080 going to be about me. It's my way or the highway. 290 00:13:22.240 --> 00:13:26.080 I mean, there's no sort of collaboration that goes on. 291 00:13:26.360 --> 00:13:29.360 And you know, for various reasons. We've all seen this before, 292 00:13:29.399 --> 00:13:32.840 We've done this dance before. My friend is completely wrapped 293 00:13:32.919 --> 00:13:36.960 up in that and he it just he loses his personality, 294 00:13:37.000 --> 00:13:39.679 He loses his ability to say no. He never has 295 00:13:39.720 --> 00:13:42.639 any discretion. He does whatever she wants. He spends all 296 00:13:42.720 --> 00:13:45.039 his money, he spends all his time, he spends all 297 00:13:45.039 --> 00:13:45.559 his energy. 298 00:13:45.799 --> 00:13:47.919 You got a rap sheet on this girl. 299 00:13:48.360 --> 00:13:50.960 I mean it's like it's rap sheet worthy. 300 00:13:51.399 --> 00:13:51.679 Wow. 301 00:13:51.759 --> 00:13:54.799 Okay, Well, then you're saying that your friendship is probably gonna, 302 00:13:55.080 --> 00:13:58.279 you know, take a dump because this girl's not going 303 00:13:58.320 --> 00:13:59.879 anywhere and your friend already knows how you feel. 304 00:14:00.559 --> 00:14:03.840 Unfortunately, it looks that way at least in the short term. 305 00:14:03.919 --> 00:14:07.279 Yeah, all right, Ben, Well, I'm sorry for your loss, O, 306 00:14:07.399 --> 00:14:09.559 thank you, and hopefully your. 307 00:14:09.480 --> 00:14:10.559 Friend gets it figured out. 308 00:14:11.639 --> 00:14:11.960 All right. 309 00:14:12.000 --> 00:14:13.399 Now we have David on the phone. 310 00:14:13.480 --> 00:14:15.480 I love that the guys are calling in to chime 311 00:14:15.480 --> 00:14:18.840 in about their friend's girlfriends and whether they're going to 312 00:14:19.000 --> 00:14:19.840 like them or not. 313 00:14:20.200 --> 00:14:23.440 So we have David on the phone. David, what's your 314 00:14:23.440 --> 00:14:24.759 opinion on this hot topic? 315 00:14:25.159 --> 00:14:28.240 Well, like, I think it's their life, so that you know, 316 00:14:28.320 --> 00:14:31.480 you can't say nothing about their relationship, you know, unless 317 00:14:31.559 --> 00:14:34.039 you know, you see something really bad and you tell 318 00:14:34.080 --> 00:14:35.799 your friend. But all you can do is just give 319 00:14:35.840 --> 00:14:38.679 me your advice. But you can't, you can't get into 320 00:14:38.679 --> 00:14:39.480 the relationship. 321 00:14:39.720 --> 00:14:41.639 Yeah, your perspective is like you need to stay out 322 00:14:41.679 --> 00:14:42.960 of it because things. 323 00:14:42.720 --> 00:14:44.279 Can get messy and then you don't want to get 324 00:14:44.279 --> 00:14:46.200 involved in the drama. So just like let them do 325 00:14:46.279 --> 00:14:46.639 their thing. 326 00:14:46.919 --> 00:14:48.399 Yeah, you don't want to get involved because then your 327 00:14:48.440 --> 00:14:50.440 friend's going to get mad at you for being you know. 328 00:14:50.240 --> 00:14:51.120 Knows that's true. 329 00:14:51.120 --> 00:14:53.559 But then people can argue, well, they confided in me, 330 00:14:53.919 --> 00:14:56.000 so they gave me the right to have an opinion. 331 00:14:57.120 --> 00:14:58.039 I could go either way. 332 00:14:58.080 --> 00:15:01.240 But I'm curious if you've actually been in this situation, Like, 333 00:15:01.320 --> 00:15:04.799 have you had a friend that was with someone that 334 00:15:04.879 --> 00:15:07.039 was crappy and you guys bad mouthed them and then 335 00:15:07.039 --> 00:15:07.840 they got back together. 336 00:15:07.879 --> 00:15:10.360 How did you handle that? Were you friends with them? 337 00:15:10.480 --> 00:15:12.759 Did you treat them poorly after the fact? 338 00:15:12.759 --> 00:15:14.960 Because of everything to do, we want to hear from 339 00:15:15.000 --> 00:15:17.559 you six oh two two six oh oh nine six nine. 340 00:15:17.879 --> 00:15:20.120 That's six oh two two six to oh oh nine 341 00:15:20.200 --> 00:15:21.399 six mixed. Priscilla. 342 00:15:21.480 --> 00:15:23.840 Here, we are in the middle of our hot topic, 343 00:15:23.919 --> 00:15:25.480 and we're asking you if you've ever been in a 344 00:15:25.519 --> 00:15:28.600 situation where with a friend, where they've been with a 345 00:15:28.799 --> 00:15:33.279 crappy boyfriend or girlfriend, they broke up, you guys bad 346 00:15:33.360 --> 00:15:35.519 mouthed them together and then they got back together. How 347 00:15:35.559 --> 00:15:39.759 do you handle that? So we have Meredith on the phone. Meredith, 348 00:15:40.200 --> 00:15:42.600 you've been in a situation like this specifically? 349 00:15:43.240 --> 00:15:43.639 Yeah. 350 00:15:43.840 --> 00:15:48.759 So, my brother, actually his now wife is just a 351 00:15:48.799 --> 00:15:53.240 truly awful person and nobody likes her, my parents included. 352 00:15:53.440 --> 00:15:55.960 But you know, and I knew this when he was 353 00:15:56.000 --> 00:15:58.799 first dating her, And you know, I just feel like, 354 00:15:59.000 --> 00:16:00.759 if you want this person to be in your life, 355 00:16:00.759 --> 00:16:02.960 and obviously I want my brother to be in my life, Like, 356 00:16:03.000 --> 00:16:05.279 you have to play nice. So when I'm around her 357 00:16:05.360 --> 00:16:08.159 and my brother, I play nice. I try to engage 358 00:16:08.159 --> 00:16:11.240 with her, you know, I try to put aside my grievances, 359 00:16:12.039 --> 00:16:13.919 but behind the scenes I complain a lot. 360 00:16:15.360 --> 00:16:17.440 You're like a normal person, like be nice to their 361 00:16:17.440 --> 00:16:20.480 face and then yeah, dump on them after the facts. 362 00:16:20.600 --> 00:16:21.320 What does she do? 363 00:16:21.440 --> 00:16:21.559 Like? 364 00:16:21.559 --> 00:16:23.879 What kind of person is she that makes you feel like, gosh, 365 00:16:23.919 --> 00:16:25.000 you are just terrible. 366 00:16:26.039 --> 00:16:29.440 She's actually been really awful to put my children, and 367 00:16:29.519 --> 00:16:31.360 so I think that was like the last raw for 368 00:16:31.440 --> 00:16:34.960 me where she just kind of she was really nasty 369 00:16:34.960 --> 00:16:37.360 to my kids when they were really little, and I'm 370 00:16:37.399 --> 00:16:39.759 kind of a mama bear, and if you put my kids, 371 00:16:40.000 --> 00:16:42.759 you know, in your line of fire, then we're going 372 00:16:42.799 --> 00:16:43.440 to have follows. 373 00:16:43.600 --> 00:16:43.879 Well. 374 00:16:43.919 --> 00:16:45.960 Also, what kind of person are you that you're going 375 00:16:46.000 --> 00:16:47.519 to be terrible to small children? 376 00:16:47.600 --> 00:16:50.000 Like that's a weird energy, right. 377 00:16:50.200 --> 00:16:53.159 Yeah, absolutely, And she's just very Yeah, she's I seen 378 00:16:53.200 --> 00:16:55.320 her like scream up my father before. My dad is 379 00:16:55.360 --> 00:16:56.679 the nicest person in the world. 380 00:16:56.759 --> 00:16:58.759 So wait and then your brother just like does he 381 00:16:58.840 --> 00:17:01.559 say anything to her just like that's just who she is. 382 00:17:02.320 --> 00:17:05.400 Nope, he's just totally in like denial. I've tried talking 383 00:17:05.480 --> 00:17:07.400 to him about it, and he got really angry with 384 00:17:07.440 --> 00:17:10.480 me and basically said, you know, watch what you say. 385 00:17:10.519 --> 00:17:13.240 This is my wife shouldn't So I'm like, okay, I 386 00:17:13.279 --> 00:17:15.599 will just play nice. I guess she's not going anywhere, 387 00:17:15.720 --> 00:17:17.599 and I don't want to ruin my relationship with my 388 00:17:17.640 --> 00:17:20.839 brother over this person. So it's hard. It's definitely not 389 00:17:20.920 --> 00:17:23.279 easy to keep you know my feelings for myself when 390 00:17:23.279 --> 00:17:25.759 I'm around him, but I just you know, vent to 391 00:17:25.799 --> 00:17:26.920 my friends or whoever. 392 00:17:27.200 --> 00:17:30.519 Well, that stinks, But keep doing doing, Meredith, and just 393 00:17:30.839 --> 00:17:32.599 talk about her behind her back, like we all do. 394 00:17:33.279 --> 00:17:35.119 You gotta do it, you got you gotta do, you. 395 00:17:35.160 --> 00:17:37.240 Really do all right, thanks Meredith. 396 00:17:37.279 --> 00:17:39.960 On the way, we have commercial free music some John 397 00:17:40.000 --> 00:17:43.440 Mayer imagine dragons, glass animals all on the way, plus 398 00:17:43.559 --> 00:17:46.759 your chance to go to the DPAX game just around 399 00:17:46.759 --> 00:17:49.240 a twenty five right here on mix Good Morning, It's 400 00:17:49.279 --> 00:17:51.799 six ninety six to nine the Valley's Best Mix Forriscilla 401 00:17:51.920 --> 00:17:56.440