WEBVTT 1 00:00:02.560 --> 00:00:11.759 Jesse Kelly Show. Let's have some fun on a Friday. 2 00:00:12.199 --> 00:00:14.960 Oh my goodness, we did it. We made it to 3 00:00:15.000 --> 00:00:15.960 the end of the week. 4 00:00:16.920 --> 00:00:21.440 Put a smile on your beautiful face or ugly face. 5 00:00:21.480 --> 00:00:23.679 I mean, I can't see you right now, and just 6 00:00:24.079 --> 00:00:28.239 sit back and enjoy three hours of greatness. Tonight, we're 7 00:00:28.239 --> 00:00:32.200 gonna talk about these judges throwing roadblocks in front of Trump. 8 00:00:32.200 --> 00:00:34.240 By the way, these are all your questions, all three 9 00:00:34.240 --> 00:00:38.600 hours as always belong to you on the Jesse Kelly 10 00:00:38.640 --> 00:00:41.520 Show on Friday. So you have questions about these judges. 11 00:00:42.079 --> 00:00:46.000 Someone saw political ads for Bill Cassidy in Louisiana, making 12 00:00:46.000 --> 00:00:48.439 a point that I've been making over and over again. 13 00:00:48.840 --> 00:00:51.640 Someone wants to know how a strict father like mine 14 00:00:51.719 --> 00:00:56.520 raised a quote finicky eater Elon Musk blowing up at 15 00:00:56.560 --> 00:00:58.560 people in public. Someone wants to know if you can 16 00:00:58.679 --> 00:01:04.439 change that stool school school security or stool security I 17 00:01:04.439 --> 00:01:07.719 guess for your kid. How do we do this when 18 00:01:07.760 --> 00:01:10.480 you have a school that needs secured? How to I 19 00:01:10.560 --> 00:01:13.760 end up in Houston? Tim Kaine's an evil demon. All 20 00:01:13.959 --> 00:01:17.120 that and so much more coming up tonight on the 21 00:01:17.200 --> 00:01:20.799 world famous Jesse Cally Show. And before we go any further. 22 00:01:21.120 --> 00:01:24.599 And before I forget, I've been teasing all week long 23 00:01:25.079 --> 00:01:31.200 that Monday, the competition begins. Competition makes us all better, 24 00:01:32.159 --> 00:01:35.680 and on Monday we tackle the real issues that matter. 25 00:01:36.200 --> 00:01:38.719 We tackle the question that's been on the front of 26 00:01:38.760 --> 00:01:47.159 your mind. What is the crappiest country in the world. 27 00:01:47.519 --> 00:01:51.359 It's the twenty twenty five Crappiest country in the world. Competition. 28 00:01:57.400 --> 00:02:00.400 The full bracket, if you would like to see it, 29 00:02:00.439 --> 00:02:04.719 is complete. It is up on the show's Twitter account 30 00:02:04.920 --> 00:02:08.240 or ex account, whatever you call it at Jesse Kelly 31 00:02:08.280 --> 00:02:14.759 Show and I have neglected to mention this just in 32 00:02:14.800 --> 00:02:18.240 case you think we're just being mean here, We're not 33 00:02:18.439 --> 00:02:24.479 being mean. At the end of this amazing tournament, the 34 00:02:24.520 --> 00:02:30.639 tournament of tournaments, we the Jesse Kelly Show family are 35 00:02:30.680 --> 00:02:35.919 going to be putting together a special gift for the winner. 36 00:02:37.400 --> 00:02:41.120 How about that. Don't think it's all negative. We're going 37 00:02:41.199 --> 00:02:44.800 to be doing something good for other people. Stand by 38 00:02:44.879 --> 00:02:49.159 for that. Let's dig into your questions, Jesse. It won't belong. 39 00:02:49.919 --> 00:02:52.919 The subject is relentless judges. It won't be long before 40 00:02:52.960 --> 00:02:55.240 they sue Donald Trump for getting out of the wrong 41 00:02:55.319 --> 00:02:57.439 side of the bed. And the name of a just 42 00:02:57.599 --> 00:03:02.000 merciful God, please stop this. In the name of a 43 00:03:02.319 --> 00:03:08.479 just merciful gun. Can we put these pathetic political lawsuits 44 00:03:08.520 --> 00:03:12.639 to rest? Okay? I wanted to address this because I 45 00:03:12.759 --> 00:03:16.159 know you're probably wearing down on the judges, the judges 46 00:03:16.199 --> 00:03:18.719 stopping this and the judges stopping at and the judges 47 00:03:18.800 --> 00:03:24.080 ruling against Trump this, and that's understandable. But it's not 48 00:03:24.199 --> 00:03:27.680 as bad as you think, and it's getting better. So 49 00:03:27.759 --> 00:03:31.080 let me explain this in the most basic terms. And 50 00:03:31.199 --> 00:03:33.919 I'm not dumbing this down for you. I'm dumbing this 51 00:03:33.960 --> 00:03:36.680 down because I'm dumb. So I had to reach out 52 00:03:36.719 --> 00:03:39.319 to all kinds of legal experts and I've talked to 53 00:03:39.400 --> 00:03:43.159 so many of them to make sure I'm presenting this accurately. 54 00:03:43.400 --> 00:03:48.599 So here's what it is. Okay, there are there are 55 00:03:48.680 --> 00:03:54.800 different ways for a lower court judge to stop the president, 56 00:03:55.400 --> 00:03:58.639 for a lower court to stop the president, all right, 57 00:03:59.800 --> 00:04:02.439 they there are different ways. I'll just leave it that way. 58 00:04:02.479 --> 00:04:07.199 There are different ways the Supreme Court, in light of 59 00:04:07.240 --> 00:04:10.319 what they were doing immediately after Trump got elected. You remember, 60 00:04:10.360 --> 00:04:13.280 I mean, the judges are making these absurd rulings, Hey 61 00:04:13.319 --> 00:04:16.120 bring back this illegal and things like that. They kept 62 00:04:16.160 --> 00:04:20.680 making these over the top absurd rulings. So the Supreme 63 00:04:20.759 --> 00:04:27.240 Court stepped up and stepped in kind of meaning, let's 64 00:04:27.279 --> 00:04:30.439 say there were a hundred of these bad rulings from 65 00:04:30.519 --> 00:04:34.120 lower court judges. What the Supreme Court essentially did was 66 00:04:34.160 --> 00:04:39.839 stop fifty of them. It's two different types. They stopped 67 00:04:40.600 --> 00:04:43.959 some of them. They did not stop all. We have 68 00:04:44.199 --> 00:04:47.639 fewer of these than we had before because the Supreme 69 00:04:47.680 --> 00:04:52.439 Court already stepped in and ruled somewhat that you can't 70 00:04:52.600 --> 00:04:56.959 keep doing this. Now here's what happens, and we get confused. 71 00:04:57.000 --> 00:05:00.680 I do too, I'm not pointing fingers. We get confused 72 00:05:00.959 --> 00:05:04.759 because of headlines in social media posts. You wake up 73 00:05:04.759 --> 00:05:07.600 in the morning, you roll over, you grab your phone. 74 00:05:07.639 --> 00:05:09.759 I know you do, don't lie, and you look start 75 00:05:09.800 --> 00:05:11.319 looking at the news of the day. What are the 76 00:05:11.319 --> 00:05:14.480 headlines that was there some controversy, what's going on in 77 00:05:14.480 --> 00:05:18.160 the world. And you'll see something on Facebook, You'll see 78 00:05:18.160 --> 00:05:20.800 something on a news site, you go to something on Twitter, 79 00:05:20.959 --> 00:05:23.600 you'll see something to the effect of lower court rules 80 00:05:23.600 --> 00:05:27.680 against Trump. Trump not allowed to deport this person. Trump 81 00:05:27.800 --> 00:05:32.639 not allowed to do And we don't get past the headlines. 82 00:05:32.680 --> 00:05:37.079 And even if we do, the article itself is confusing 83 00:05:37.480 --> 00:05:40.800 what lower court Is this an actual ruling? Is this 84 00:05:40.879 --> 00:05:43.680 an actual So here's what I'm going to tell you 85 00:05:43.680 --> 00:05:46.759 about the courts and the judges. The Fifth Circuit rule this, 86 00:05:49.160 --> 00:05:54.959 don't freak out over any headline in a good way 87 00:05:55.720 --> 00:06:03.399 or a bad way. Headlines are Look, it's like an 88 00:06:03.439 --> 00:06:06.079 advertiser trying to get you in the door. Come on 89 00:06:06.240 --> 00:06:10.160 down to jesse Ford on this Sunday, get some free notches. 90 00:06:10.680 --> 00:06:13.360 It's trying just they're just trying to get you in 91 00:06:13.439 --> 00:06:18.000 the door. All right, that's what headlines are getting you 92 00:06:18.079 --> 00:06:24.439 in the door. The legal matters are complicated. There will 93 00:06:24.480 --> 00:06:27.800 be a ruling by some judge, but it's a ruling 94 00:06:27.879 --> 00:06:30.439 that's only temporary. It's twenty four hours. It has to 95 00:06:30.480 --> 00:06:32.439 go to a different court. And then it gets to 96 00:06:32.480 --> 00:06:36.560 that court and the court makes an initial observation, but 97 00:06:36.720 --> 00:06:39.519 that's not an official ruling. And then but every time 98 00:06:39.680 --> 00:06:43.040 they're doing these things, there's a headline trump stopped. But 99 00:06:43.079 --> 00:06:45.279 then that's not an official thing either because it has 100 00:06:45.319 --> 00:06:47.199 to go to another court. Then it'll get to the 101 00:06:47.240 --> 00:06:49.879 Supreme Court, and then the Supreme Court will say, no, 102 00:06:50.240 --> 00:06:53.279 we can't rule on this in this way. This has 103 00:06:53.360 --> 00:06:55.279 to go back down to the lower courts before we 104 00:06:55.279 --> 00:06:56.920 can rule on this, and they'll kick it to a 105 00:06:56.920 --> 00:06:59.000 lower court who might kick it to a lower court, 106 00:06:59.079 --> 00:07:00.959 but then it moves up to another court and moves 107 00:07:01.000 --> 00:07:03.720 up to another court. This was all I chose to 108 00:07:03.759 --> 00:07:07.319 answer this question because it is something I have learned 109 00:07:07.720 --> 00:07:11.120 over the last four or five years that has saved 110 00:07:11.279 --> 00:07:15.240 my energy. It has saved my my outrage meter a 111 00:07:15.279 --> 00:07:17.839 great deal because we only have so much in the tank, right, 112 00:07:19.079 --> 00:07:23.879 don't ever freak out too much one way or the 113 00:07:24.000 --> 00:07:29.759 other on court rulings. Judge rulings. Judge, it stops, this 114 00:07:30.199 --> 00:07:36.120 court stops that. It's It's never as drastically good or 115 00:07:36.199 --> 00:07:40.480 drastically bad as the headline makes it out to be. 116 00:07:40.800 --> 00:07:43.879 It's just not. It makes for a great headline, it 117 00:07:43.920 --> 00:07:46.519 makes for a great thing to click on, but it's 118 00:07:46.800 --> 00:07:49.199 never all that. I mean, look, and even ones that 119 00:07:49.279 --> 00:07:53.519 are awesome and huge and like the overturning of Roe 120 00:07:53.560 --> 00:07:56.160 versus Way, the Dobbs decision. Of course, you know I'm 121 00:07:56.160 --> 00:07:59.439 a big fan because I ate a portion. Everyone knows that, 122 00:08:00.519 --> 00:08:02.959 and that's great. Don't get wrong, I'm not complaining about it, 123 00:08:03.000 --> 00:08:08.439 but you've heard me say a million times it didn't 124 00:08:08.920 --> 00:08:14.560 even slow down abortions, not numbers wise, in Red states, 125 00:08:14.560 --> 00:08:17.079 they're cleaning it out and playing parenthoods are closing. And 126 00:08:17.120 --> 00:08:18.600 it was good. It was good. It was good. It 127 00:08:18.639 --> 00:08:22.439 was good. It was good. But it's tempting. And I'll 128 00:08:22.480 --> 00:08:25.319 tell you what I did it. The day Rovers's way 129 00:08:25.399 --> 00:08:30.439 got overtuned, I sat back and thought, oh, that's millions 130 00:08:30.439 --> 00:08:34.600 of lives saved. Abortion will now slowly but surely start 131 00:08:34.639 --> 00:08:38.320 to die in the country and it'll be gone. Oh 132 00:08:38.360 --> 00:08:41.639 thank goodness, that whole abortion thing is over. That's not 133 00:08:41.679 --> 00:08:44.879 true at all. As you've heard me say, there's as 134 00:08:44.879 --> 00:08:48.039 many now as there have ever been. I'm not going 135 00:08:48.080 --> 00:08:50.120 to go off on abortion right now, but I just 136 00:08:51.039 --> 00:08:55.559 it's an example when the court's rule. Don't freak out 137 00:08:55.600 --> 00:09:01.279 too much or too little. Now, there are very, very, 138 00:09:01.720 --> 00:09:06.720 very important rulings that will happen. For instance, maybe the 139 00:09:06.759 --> 00:09:10.080 most important ruling we're waiting on and we don't know. 140 00:09:10.120 --> 00:09:11.639 I'm not telling you I know when it's going to come. 141 00:09:11.679 --> 00:09:13.440 No one knows when it's going to come or even 142 00:09:13.480 --> 00:09:17.480 if it's going to come, is the birthright citizenship ruling. 143 00:09:18.840 --> 00:09:23.440 The fact that the United States of America allows women 144 00:09:23.759 --> 00:09:27.159 to come into this country illegally just to have a 145 00:09:27.200 --> 00:09:32.600 baby and automatically grant that baby's citizenship is bonkers. It's 146 00:09:32.639 --> 00:09:37.200 completely insane. But Democrats have, of course, with the help 147 00:09:37.240 --> 00:09:41.240 of Republicans like James Langford, Democrats have used that to 148 00:09:41.519 --> 00:09:45.240 change the United States of America demographically so it's not 149 00:09:45.399 --> 00:09:47.840 so far to the right, so they'll be more accepting 150 00:09:47.879 --> 00:09:50.840 of communism. Thus that's the only reason Democrats can get 151 00:09:50.840 --> 00:09:53.639 elected at any level in the country. Now, that's a 152 00:09:53.720 --> 00:09:59.799 ruling that is gigantic. Honestly, that that might be the 153 00:09:59.799 --> 00:10:02.559 big Supreme Court ruling you'll ever have in your life. 154 00:10:02.759 --> 00:10:07.000 What it is the Jesse Kelly Show on a Wonderful Friday, 155 00:10:07.039 --> 00:10:10.320 and ask doctor Jesse Friday, I can't get the smile 156 00:10:10.399 --> 00:10:13.120 off my face, and I'm just trying not to think 157 00:10:13.159 --> 00:10:15.159 about the fact that we have to leave the house 158 00:10:15.200 --> 00:10:18.120 at six thirty am on a Saturday for another kid's 159 00:10:18.120 --> 00:10:21.000 sports tournament tomorrow. You know, they tell me I'll miss 160 00:10:21.000 --> 00:10:23.919 it when it's gone, but I don't think that's true. 161 00:10:24.519 --> 00:10:28.559 I'm kidding, I'm kidding. I do enjoy it. Bronco. I'm ashamed. 162 00:10:28.600 --> 00:10:32.080 I watched the Eagles game last night, but I see 163 00:10:32.120 --> 00:10:36.440 but I see a political ad for Bill Cassidy. As 164 00:10:36.480 --> 00:10:38.960 you predicted, the whole ad was about the great things 165 00:10:39.080 --> 00:10:42.360 he and Trump have done. Put another feather in your cap, 166 00:10:43.360 --> 00:10:49.720 says his name is Ken. Politicians lie. It's not news. 167 00:10:50.360 --> 00:10:53.159 It's not news, and it's not new. Chris, is that 168 00:10:53.200 --> 00:10:55.480 an old blind? Did I steal that from somebody? Because 169 00:10:55.519 --> 00:11:00.240 if not, I'm totally using that Again, you never heard 170 00:11:00.279 --> 00:11:02.480 it before. It's mine. Now you know what I just 171 00:11:02.519 --> 00:11:04.960 came up with that I probably didn't, but now I'm 172 00:11:05.000 --> 00:11:10.639 claiming it. It's not news and it's not new. Politicians lie. 173 00:11:10.720 --> 00:11:17.360 Now there's a benefit that we have that historically other 174 00:11:17.519 --> 00:11:22.559 peoples have not had. Now it's a two way street. 175 00:11:22.600 --> 00:11:26.399 It could be great and it can be terrible. But information, 176 00:11:27.879 --> 00:11:34.320 access to information. It sounds like access to information is 177 00:11:34.399 --> 00:11:38.320 always good, right. Wouldn't it be better to always know more, 178 00:11:38.799 --> 00:11:43.720 always be able to access more information. But if that's 179 00:11:43.759 --> 00:11:47.759 the case, what explains the fact that people are dumber 180 00:11:47.799 --> 00:11:52.639 now about virtually everything, economics, history, everything. They're dumber than 181 00:11:52.639 --> 00:11:56.440 they've ever been. When your phone can provide you with 182 00:11:56.480 --> 00:11:59.360 the answer to virtually any question you have about anything 183 00:11:59.399 --> 00:12:04.600 in life, you have the biggest, greatest library in the 184 00:12:04.639 --> 00:12:07.200 history of the world, in the palm of your hand, 185 00:12:07.799 --> 00:12:11.320 and we're dumber than we've ever been. Access to information 186 00:12:12.039 --> 00:12:15.519 should be great. Sometimes it's not, but I don't want 187 00:12:15.519 --> 00:12:19.039 to get off on a sidetrack. We have the ability now, 188 00:12:20.240 --> 00:12:24.360 if we care enough to do so, to find out 189 00:12:24.399 --> 00:12:28.840 what politicians are really about, what they really do, what 190 00:12:28.919 --> 00:12:33.720 they really say you. I've tweeted this before, and I 191 00:12:33.840 --> 00:12:36.679 know it sounds patronizing or like I'm fucking up, but 192 00:12:36.759 --> 00:12:38.759 anybody who listens to the show knows I'm a jerk 193 00:12:38.759 --> 00:12:42.159 who wouldn't do that anyway. You don't understand how much 194 00:12:42.279 --> 00:12:46.480 more informed you are about the players about the game 195 00:12:46.919 --> 00:12:50.799 than normal people because you care. And that's what gets 196 00:12:50.799 --> 00:12:53.440 me to my point about Bill Cassidy and John Cornyan 197 00:12:53.519 --> 00:12:57.039 and Mike Rownds and all these GOP turds who screw 198 00:12:57.120 --> 00:13:01.200 us over all the time. The true about these people, 199 00:13:01.320 --> 00:13:06.519 about Instagram, and the truth about these people is available 200 00:13:06.639 --> 00:13:11.480 right at your fingertips. Right honestly, that's not even, that's 201 00:13:11.480 --> 00:13:15.000 not even, it's not even being over the top about it. 202 00:13:15.000 --> 00:13:19.759 It's in your fingertips. In your fingertips. You have the ability, 203 00:13:19.840 --> 00:13:23.919 if you care enough to do so. To access all 204 00:13:23.960 --> 00:13:27.840 the information about what Bill Cassidy's really about. You could 205 00:13:27.879 --> 00:13:30.000 go look at his political donations. Did you know that 206 00:13:30.840 --> 00:13:33.720 it's not just Jewish producer Chris who has special access 207 00:13:33.720 --> 00:13:37.240 to that. That's public information. Anybody can go on the 208 00:13:37.480 --> 00:13:41.879 FEC website and go look at all the political donations 209 00:13:41.879 --> 00:13:45.600 of your congressman, your senator. Do you know how much 210 00:13:45.639 --> 00:13:49.399 they received from this? Do you know everybody has access 211 00:13:49.440 --> 00:13:57.919 to this information? The problem is laziness and stupidity. Laziness 212 00:13:58.440 --> 00:14:00.679 and stupidity. And this actually comes back to what we 213 00:14:00.679 --> 00:14:04.120 were talking about in the opening of the show. We 214 00:14:04.720 --> 00:14:11.159 with access to endless information, we are still headline consumers 215 00:14:11.720 --> 00:14:13.720 and I have to fight against this myself. I'm not 216 00:14:13.799 --> 00:14:18.879 above it. Believe me. We are headline consumers. We read 217 00:14:18.919 --> 00:14:24.000 a flashy headline and we think we got actual information 218 00:14:24.159 --> 00:14:30.320 from it, or even worse, we trust the wrong person 219 00:14:30.559 --> 00:14:34.440 in this business. And now we just took a lie, 220 00:14:34.679 --> 00:14:37.360 hook line and sinker. There was actually a little hubbub 221 00:14:37.399 --> 00:14:39.960 about this yesterday on social media. I won't bore you 222 00:14:40.000 --> 00:14:45.440 with the details, but long story short, these huge people 223 00:14:45.480 --> 00:14:51.039 with large platforms, all within the span of a couple hours, 224 00:14:51.399 --> 00:14:55.840 put out the exact same pro India message. Not that 225 00:14:55.919 --> 00:14:58.279 there's anything wrong with being pro India, but it would 226 00:14:58.320 --> 00:15:00.279 there were I mean a little sent and see you 227 00:15:00.279 --> 00:15:02.679 are a little sentence there. But it was obvious they 228 00:15:02.720 --> 00:15:06.320 all had been given talking points, they had all been paid, 229 00:15:06.639 --> 00:15:09.000 and they all put out the exact same message. And 230 00:15:09.039 --> 00:15:12.480 we're probably talking. I didn't add it up ten twenty 231 00:15:12.799 --> 00:15:16.240 million followers between these people. Now do the math on 232 00:15:16.360 --> 00:15:21.120 that twenty million people were just browbeaten with the exact 233 00:15:21.159 --> 00:15:26.000 same message that's paid for propaganda. But you read the message. 234 00:15:26.039 --> 00:15:28.039 You read it on Facebook, you read it on Twitter, 235 00:15:28.080 --> 00:15:31.559 you read it or wherever you consume your news, And well, 236 00:15:31.600 --> 00:15:33.720 I follow this guy, and a lot of people follow 237 00:15:33.759 --> 00:15:36.360 this guy. If he's saying it, it must be true. 238 00:15:36.799 --> 00:15:40.840 And then lies get spread and everybody who believes it 239 00:15:40.879 --> 00:15:43.960 is dumb, and everybody who spreads it, everyone they spread 240 00:15:43.960 --> 00:15:47.879 it to, is dumb, meaning your dumber having consumed the 241 00:15:48.000 --> 00:15:52.960 lie that was paid for propaganda. Guys like pill Cassidy 242 00:15:53.080 --> 00:15:57.080 stay in the United States Senate because people believe the 243 00:15:57.159 --> 00:16:01.120 thirty second TV commercial that he produced and paid five 244 00:16:01.200 --> 00:16:04.879 million dollars for showing him to be mister Maga. I'm maga. 245 00:16:04.960 --> 00:16:08.279 This I'm maga, dad. My love Trump and Trump loves 246 00:16:08.360 --> 00:16:10.080 me and me and Trump and Trump and Me. 247 00:16:11.279 --> 00:16:15.679 It is the Jesse Kelly Show on a Friday, A 248 00:16:16.000 --> 00:16:17.639 fantastic ass. 249 00:16:17.480 --> 00:16:20.960 Doctor Jesse Friday Member. You can still email us. We 250 00:16:21.039 --> 00:16:24.080 are live here on a Friday night or a Saturday morning, 251 00:16:24.080 --> 00:16:28.600 depending on how you're listening. Jesse at Jesse kellyshow dot 252 00:16:28.600 --> 00:16:30.960 com is the email address. Let's get you know what. 253 00:16:31.039 --> 00:16:33.559 Let's do some personal ones. Hey, Jesse, I'm a little 254 00:16:33.559 --> 00:16:37.120 behind listening to the podcast. You mentioned how Elon publicly 255 00:16:37.120 --> 00:16:40.279 fought with Donald Trump, and you warn listeners to cut 256 00:16:40.320 --> 00:16:43.720 people out of their lives who air private arguments. My 257 00:16:43.960 --> 00:16:48.240 question is, what if I've been that person. I did 258 00:16:48.240 --> 00:16:51.159 that once to someone and have since regretted it. I'm 259 00:16:51.200 --> 00:16:52.960 not asking because I want to get back in their 260 00:16:53.000 --> 00:16:55.320 life or anything. I've let it go, but I also 261 00:16:55.399 --> 00:16:58.399 don't want to be that kind of person. Does one 262 00:16:58.440 --> 00:17:01.720 mistake mean you're always a person who can't be trusted 263 00:17:02.039 --> 00:17:05.519 or will always resort to publicly airing out private business. 264 00:17:06.240 --> 00:17:08.599 I'm genuinely trying to better myself. I want to know 265 00:17:08.640 --> 00:17:12.920 your thoughts whether it's possible to truly change and grow 266 00:17:13.200 --> 00:17:19.160 from a mistake like that. His name is Samuel. Samuel. 267 00:17:22.359 --> 00:17:31.559 People screw up, everybody screws up. I don't sit around 268 00:17:32.799 --> 00:17:35.160 dwelling on all the things that I've screwed up in 269 00:17:35.160 --> 00:17:38.400 my life. And you know why I don't, because it 270 00:17:38.440 --> 00:17:43.319 would be the most depressing thing in the world. I 271 00:17:43.359 --> 00:17:47.480 am forty four years old, and I have done more 272 00:17:47.519 --> 00:17:49.359 horrible crap, and I don't want to say I was 273 00:17:49.359 --> 00:17:53.200 about to say mistakes. I've made more mistakes, but honestly, 274 00:17:53.599 --> 00:17:55.400 I meant to do a lot of them. I don't 275 00:17:55.440 --> 00:17:57.759 think it's right to call them a mistake. I knew 276 00:17:57.799 --> 00:18:01.319 that was bad. I knew that was and I did 277 00:18:01.359 --> 00:18:07.079 it anyway. And you know that's everybody. Every single person 278 00:18:07.160 --> 00:18:10.680 has a lifetime of that crap that you could if 279 00:18:10.720 --> 00:18:13.680 you if you let it, it can weigh you down forever. 280 00:18:13.759 --> 00:18:17.400 Of course you can change. Of course you can change. Look, 281 00:18:17.599 --> 00:18:20.920 you felt bad about it, you screwed up. Never do 282 00:18:20.960 --> 00:18:25.799 it again, Never ever ever do it again, and that's it. 283 00:18:26.279 --> 00:18:28.839 Move on with your life. Don't sit and beat yourself 284 00:18:28.880 --> 00:18:31.319 to death over something you did one time. Of course 285 00:18:31.359 --> 00:18:33.720 you could do. You've probably that you're even asking the 286 00:18:33.799 --> 00:18:36.759 question means you already changed. Jesse How in the world 287 00:18:36.759 --> 00:18:40.119 did your dad raise such a finicky eater? His name's Chuck. 288 00:18:40.559 --> 00:18:46.799 So this is something that people debate this all the time, 289 00:18:47.400 --> 00:18:51.559 nature versus nurture, and it'll always be a debate. Human 290 00:18:51.599 --> 00:18:55.680 beings forming good human beings, trying to raise good children, 291 00:18:55.799 --> 00:18:59.880 raise good human beings. What's the formula and is there 292 00:18:59.880 --> 00:19:04.079 a formula? There's some mixture. I think everybody would admit. 293 00:19:04.920 --> 00:19:08.000 You can't take a child when they're born and you know, 294 00:19:08.119 --> 00:19:11.039 throw them out in the wilderness and have them raise 295 00:19:11.119 --> 00:19:14.119 up and know anything about manners or things like that. 296 00:19:14.359 --> 00:19:19.119 So that doesn't work either. But any parent with multiple 297 00:19:19.200 --> 00:19:26.240 children will tell you that they are different. I actually 298 00:19:26.960 --> 00:19:31.279 I'm more My eyes are more open to me after 299 00:19:31.359 --> 00:19:36.200 raising my children. You see, I have two boys, James 300 00:19:36.319 --> 00:19:40.559 and Luke. James is my oldest. He's the one who 301 00:19:40.640 --> 00:19:44.000 can't sit still. He's he's the one who likes running, 302 00:19:44.200 --> 00:19:46.559 gets up at five thirty am and runs every morning. 303 00:19:46.599 --> 00:19:50.640 It's just it's wild. He has to move. It's awesome. 304 00:19:51.200 --> 00:19:55.200 I'm not that way, but it's awesome. He is the 305 00:19:55.279 --> 00:20:00.119 greatest eater I've ever seen in my life, besides Aubrey. 306 00:20:01.160 --> 00:20:05.759 It is astounding. He will sit down and he'll tear 307 00:20:05.839 --> 00:20:09.279 through chicken steak. He'll eat all his broccoli and ask 308 00:20:09.400 --> 00:20:12.920 for seconds. He will not. Don't get me wrong, he 309 00:20:13.000 --> 00:20:15.680 likes his young food too. On occasion, he will refuse 310 00:20:15.759 --> 00:20:19.200 it when I offer it, especially now it's cross country season. Hey? 311 00:20:19.200 --> 00:20:21.920 Should we? Uh? Should it happened to me last weekend? Hey? 312 00:20:21.960 --> 00:20:24.599 You guys want to grab for pizza? I was doing something. 313 00:20:24.640 --> 00:20:26.480 Boy should want to go grab a pizza? Nah? I 314 00:20:26.480 --> 00:20:28.240 gotta race tomorrow. I want to. I want to stay. 315 00:20:28.400 --> 00:20:32.839 That's James. There's no time in my life, in forty 316 00:20:32.839 --> 00:20:35.119 four years on this planet, I would ever say no 317 00:20:35.160 --> 00:20:38.319 to pizza under any circumstances whatsoever. James is all now, 318 00:20:38.359 --> 00:20:41.960 I'm trying to stay healthy. Okay, you can say that's 319 00:20:41.960 --> 00:20:45.599 how we raised them. Okay, sure I would agree somewhat. 320 00:20:47.279 --> 00:20:49.599 But then there's the other chid, the other kid, Luke 321 00:20:51.000 --> 00:20:55.119 just like me. Broccoli Nah, I'm gonna slip that to 322 00:20:55.160 --> 00:20:59.079 the dog under the table. That's disgusting. We when he 323 00:20:59.160 --> 00:21:03.640 was a child, we used to, you know, trying to 324 00:21:03.640 --> 00:21:05.599 make him eat his veggies, trying to make him eat 325 00:21:05.599 --> 00:21:08.519 whatever that was. That's the rule. You eat what's made. 326 00:21:08.640 --> 00:21:10.799 When I makes dinner, you sit down, you eat what's made, 327 00:21:11.519 --> 00:21:14.279 and he would refuse, and we used to make him 328 00:21:14.319 --> 00:21:19.119 sit there until he ate it. He would sit there 329 00:21:20.079 --> 00:21:23.519 until bedtime. We finally stopped doing it. It was it 330 00:21:23.559 --> 00:21:26.160 would be two three hours he's sitting at the table, 331 00:21:26.200 --> 00:21:29.119 and he's just gonna sit there. I brought that up 332 00:21:29.160 --> 00:21:33.799 to my parents, and they laughed hysterically because my parents 333 00:21:34.240 --> 00:21:37.000 used to do the exact same thing to me, with 334 00:21:37.160 --> 00:21:40.960 the exact same results. You sit there and you finish 335 00:21:41.039 --> 00:21:43.200 your meal. It's not like they were soft on it. 336 00:21:43.319 --> 00:21:46.240 You sit there and finish your meal, don't get up 337 00:21:46.240 --> 00:21:48.640 till it's done. All right, I'll sit here all night. 338 00:21:49.440 --> 00:21:52.559 I will sit here all night at the table before 339 00:21:52.599 --> 00:21:58.359 I eat those freaking disgusting vegetables. I know that we 340 00:21:58.400 --> 00:22:02.759 can guide children on how they eat, and I know 341 00:22:02.839 --> 00:22:06.480 that we all can improve somewhat how we eat. Believe 342 00:22:06.480 --> 00:22:09.200 it or not, I have improved immensely how I eat. 343 00:22:09.480 --> 00:22:11.279 I don't eat near as much fast food as I 344 00:22:11.400 --> 00:22:14.000 used to, and I get way more nutrients courtesy of 345 00:22:14.079 --> 00:22:15.680 chalk and things like that than I used to. But 346 00:22:17.680 --> 00:22:20.200 I'm never going to be off. I'm never going to 347 00:22:21.079 --> 00:22:24.319 order asparagus as a side. No bring me some French fries. Please, 348 00:22:24.720 --> 00:22:27.559 do you have mac and cheese that I'm never I 349 00:22:27.599 --> 00:22:30.359 can't do it. I'm not going to do it. My 350 00:22:30.519 --> 00:22:33.880 parents tried, and it's not like we had it's not 351 00:22:33.920 --> 00:22:36.440 like we had any money to Well, if he doesn't 352 00:22:36.440 --> 00:22:37.680 want to eat, if he doesn't want to eat the 353 00:22:37.720 --> 00:22:40.799 chicken and lime of beans, let's just order in. There 354 00:22:40.839 --> 00:22:42.599 was no ordering in that. That's what you got. That 355 00:22:43.039 --> 00:22:46.799 was the food. I'll starve. I'd rather talk. Luke has 356 00:22:46.880 --> 00:22:49.519 puked on his dinner table before when we forced him 357 00:22:49.519 --> 00:22:51.799 to eat vegetables. That's how gross they are to him. 358 00:22:51.880 --> 00:22:54.960 And people who like vegetables don't understand those of us. 359 00:22:55.119 --> 00:22:58.920 That's exactly how I react to I did too, lima beans, down, 360 00:22:59.279 --> 00:23:02.680 lima beans and back up. People who don't like people 361 00:23:02.680 --> 00:23:06.319 who aren't like that can't understand it. All right, let's 362 00:23:06.319 --> 00:23:09.400 talk about something more serious here after that little sidetrack, 363 00:23:10.319 --> 00:23:17.200 school safety. Every parent, in the wake of these horrible 364 00:23:17.240 --> 00:23:22.119 school shootings, every single parent, myself included, we all think, 365 00:23:23.160 --> 00:23:26.000 what if that happened at my kid's school, What if 366 00:23:26.000 --> 00:23:29.079 that happened to my kid? We all go through the 367 00:23:29.119 --> 00:23:33.559 mental exercise of, oh, dear God, what if I got 368 00:23:33.559 --> 00:23:36.759 that phone call one day. What if that happened with 369 00:23:37.279 --> 00:23:41.440 every single parent? It's just natural thinks about it. And 370 00:23:41.480 --> 00:23:44.720 when one happens, you know, shooting at a Catholic school, 371 00:23:44.839 --> 00:23:48.039 a bunch of kids worshiping Jesus and now there's some 372 00:23:48.240 --> 00:23:54.319 animal killing them. But it was so palpably awful that 373 00:23:54.799 --> 00:23:59.119 in the wake of it we start asking, am I ready? 374 00:24:00.559 --> 00:24:04.880 Is my church ready for something like that? Is my synagogue, 375 00:24:05.039 --> 00:24:07.319 Chris ready for something like that? I don't know how 376 00:24:07.359 --> 00:24:11.680 you guys are doing over there? Is my kid's school 377 00:24:12.119 --> 00:24:19.079 and by the way, preschool, kindergarten, private school, public school, 378 00:24:19.400 --> 00:24:26.160 Christian school? Is your child's school ready for a demon 379 00:24:26.279 --> 00:24:29.400 to show up with a gun and try to bring 380 00:24:29.519 --> 00:24:33.200 people with him as he chooses to exit this world? 381 00:24:34.920 --> 00:24:40.519 And the answer to that question is oftentimes no. And 382 00:24:40.559 --> 00:24:43.319 we got a very very very heartfelt email from a 383 00:24:43.359 --> 00:24:47.759 mother here, and I'm gonna address it and maybe we 384 00:24:47.799 --> 00:24:51.839 can have a serious talk about security and school and 385 00:24:51.960 --> 00:24:55.119 what you do and bravery and things like that. 386 00:24:55.440 --> 00:25:00.960 It is the Jesse Kelly Show on a fantastic I'm 387 00:25:01.039 --> 00:25:04.799 so I'm so happy that Jewish producer christ put not 388 00:25:05.000 --> 00:25:07.920 one but two bits of that James. 389 00:25:07.519 --> 00:25:09.880 Carvel sound on the soundboard. 390 00:25:09.960 --> 00:25:10.599 Gosh, it's so. 391 00:25:10.839 --> 00:25:14.680 Really stop this in the name of a just merciful gun. 392 00:25:16.839 --> 00:25:19.119 All right, let's get to the email focus. We're gonna 393 00:25:19.160 --> 00:25:22.599 talk about security and bravery. Jesse, I'm a mom in 394 00:25:22.640 --> 00:25:24.799 a suburb of Minneapolis. I have a child who goes 395 00:25:24.839 --> 00:25:27.759 to a Christian school. The events of last week hit 396 00:25:27.799 --> 00:25:31.400 me pretty hard. After being angry at the medium politicians, 397 00:25:31.400 --> 00:25:34.480 there are two things that have been on my mind. One, 398 00:25:35.119 --> 00:25:39.039 how can we instill bravery in our children? I learned 399 00:25:39.039 --> 00:25:41.519 about one young man who covered his friend and took 400 00:25:41.559 --> 00:25:44.400 a bullet in the back to keep him safe. A 401 00:25:44.440 --> 00:25:47.599