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Speaker 1: vacation last week and I was doing what I do,
Speaker 1: which is just mine for things to talk about, and
Speaker 1: I came across something so fascinating and when I tell
Speaker 1: you what it is, you're gonna be like, yeah, I
Speaker 1: know that. Try Corbin, that makes no sense, but it's
Speaker 1: super fascinating and it's something that took place in fifteen eighteen,
Speaker 1: which is a super long time ago. You don't know
Speaker 1: if you need me to tell you that, but it is.
Speaker 1: And apparently what happened is there were not just one,
Speaker 1: not just to multiple reports of a plague that overtook
Speaker 1: a city. And the plague did like exhaust people, you know,
Speaker 1: collapse from exhaustion, dehydration, strokes. Some people even died heart failure.
Speaker 1: And that was the dancing plague, the dancing plague like footloose,
Speaker 1: well opposite, but.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's why they wouldn't allow dancing.
Speaker 1: And so they weren't sure what was happening, of course,
Speaker 1: but they believed the cure was to dance. More so,
Speaker 1: unbeknownst to them, they were like, well, everybody should be dancing,
Speaker 1: which caused more problems, famine, there were disease outbreaks, economic instability.
Speaker 5: Like.
Speaker 1: I know, this is the craziest thing I've ever heard of.
Speaker 1: And again, it's not just one documentation they found in
Speaker 1: some guy's journal. This is multiple accounted reports where this happened.
Speaker 1: I also keep in mind what doctors were back then.
Speaker 1: I'm a doctor, right, back then, right, anybody can be
Speaker 1: a doctor. They initially decided after they were like, a
Speaker 1: more dancing isn't going to fix it. They decided that
Speaker 1: maybe it was from the rye bread and there were
Speaker 1: compounds in the rye bread that were related to LSD. Oh,
Speaker 1: everybody trip and ball. Everybody trip and balls. But over
Speaker 1: time they realized that's not true because though what was
Speaker 1: in there does create that, it does not correlate with
Speaker 1: the dancing. Okay, right, you just trip balls. You don't
Speaker 1: just go I'm gonna dance. Don't think acid. Right, it's
Speaker 1: a different type of thing. So they said, no, the
Speaker 1: symptoms of or God is not psychedelics of dancing and
Speaker 1: tripping balls like we correlate psych Oh my gosh, psychosis
Speaker 1: are taking LSD.
Speaker 6: With right, right, right, But okay, I can kind of
Speaker 6: see where they're at on that one, because, all right,
Speaker 6: so you're tripping, you're hallucinating, you're seeing things, you're feeling
Speaker 6: different feelings maybe you haven't ever expressed before. And you know,
Speaker 6: when you're hallucinating your mind, your mind makes you do
Speaker 6: things you wouldn't normally do, right, And I could see
Speaker 6: how these people if they tripping and feeling themselves. Sure,
Speaker 6: they be cutting a rug.
Speaker 1: Yeah, except the multiple days of dancing does not correlate
Speaker 1: with it. You're right. I don't think you're wrong at
Speaker 1: all what you're describing. But it's just a different type
Speaker 1: of psychosis or tripping balls. But like people dancing like
Speaker 1: six days straight, just not sleeping or nothing, staying up dancing,
Speaker 1: no dancing the night away. No, right, just like they're
Speaker 1: feeling it like Kanye dropped a beat dancing machine.
Speaker 6: Maybe maybe it's not the the hallucinations the euphoria as
Speaker 6: we're thinking like LSD, maybe more ecstasy.
Speaker 1: Okay, maybe doesn't say that as the that's a speculation, right, yeah, yeah, sure,
Speaker 1: but this is what they think happened. They think one
Speaker 1: person believe, like the town Crazy, believed they were possessed
Speaker 1: by Satan and was just doing their thing, and then
Speaker 1: other people were like started believing they were possessed by Satan,
Speaker 1: and then other people were like, oh, I've got to
Speaker 1: do that too, and people just kind of followed each other, right,
Speaker 1: and there was nothing wrong with them, and they just
Speaker 1: were out there and durping. Okay, And you're like, oh,
Speaker 1: well that was back then. I think this kind of
Speaker 1: thing happened now, whether it's the Carhart beanie right, the
Speaker 1: fads of the time, whatever it is. And at that time,
Speaker 1: it was apparently dancing in the street again, multiple independent records,
Speaker 1: physician notes, church documents, the city council at that time
Speaker 1: met about I mean it was like a real thing.
Speaker 1: Uh huh, guys, we have a problem. What's the deal.
Speaker 1: Everybody's dancing. They just won't stop, and you're gonna go,
Speaker 1: oh the town crazy, saying they're possessed. Why did other
Speaker 1: people believe it? Because back then religious fear was really prominent.
Speaker 1: Medieval times, religious fear was super important, and it became
Speaker 1: physically contagious, and they people thought they were just partying
Speaker 1: themselves to death. And a lot of times you'll see
Speaker 1: it noted that, oh, the party people partied to death
Speaker 1: in fifty No, no, that's not what happened. It was
Speaker 1: people being crazy and like, yeah, I don't want I'm
Speaker 1: in fear of God, right, so I gotta do that too. Then,
Speaker 1: So I don't like the looney one for not dancing. Yes, fun,
Speaker 1: that's fun. We're gonna party like it's fifteen eighteen tonight.
Speaker 1: And I think that's why when I see things like this.
Speaker 1: I always step because I think history is a circle
Speaker 1: sou East. When people are doing really bizarre things in public,
Speaker 1: I'm not just talking dancing. I'm talking to whether it's
Speaker 1: online or whatever, you're I always like to step back
Speaker 1: and go, huh. Not much has changed. The technology has changed,
Speaker 1: but the actions have not, know, the human being has
Speaker 1: not changed. There was a thing I saw this morning
Speaker 1: about it is for certain that a redheaded fan at
Speaker 1: a Morgan Walling concert will fall down multiple rows. And
Speaker 1: apparently this is a thing I I don't I didn't
Speaker 1: know that.
Speaker 6: Just Ginger's getting too hammered and falling down huh, yes,
Speaker 6: at Morgan Walling concerts, apparently, And I don't understand the correlation.
Speaker 1: Well maybe maybe and upper level.
Speaker 6: Yeah, maybe it's something with the music, right, you know,
Speaker 6: Like I think there's a South Park episode with the
Speaker 6: brown note, and if you hit that brown note, everybody
Speaker 6: crasps their pants, right, right, So maybe Morgan Wallin's got
Speaker 6: a certain note, a certain tune, a certain frequency that
Speaker 6: causes just Gingers to fall multiple levels. And he like
Speaker 6: struck figured that out, and he's like, I almost see
Speaker 6: if I can do it at every show.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't.
Speaker 4: He's a wicked.
Speaker 1: Or I don't know why he's a wicked it's a
Speaker 1: witch because he makes Gingers do something.
Speaker 4: Yeah, like he put a spell on them, but he
Speaker 4: does it to blonde and.
Speaker 1: That doesn't do anything wicked for that. But for some reason,
Speaker 1: I was trying to think too when I saw that,
Speaker 1: what what music do do Gingers love? Sledtle down? It's
Speaker 1: a joke. I know gingers are people too, I know
Speaker 1: they have feelings in emotion. We like more than just
Speaker 1: a yes mine. I know you like more than a
Speaker 1: flute following a guy with brats.
Speaker 4: I always thought they liked the devil music because they'll
Speaker 4: steal your soul.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's possibility. Still talking about Morgan Walla music,
Speaker 1: and so I was trying to think, like, oh, well,
Speaker 1: what music do we associate with ginger specifically? Because you
Speaker 1: can find music and associate whether it's Divorced Dad rock
Speaker 1: or Chads and Brads or Jim Rats or whatever. You
Speaker 1: can find music that you go, oh that that that's
Speaker 1: a cliche. But I don't know if there is one
Speaker 1: for Gingers. I don't know, maybe like the Raccoon Tears.
Speaker 1: I'm thinking something folksy you know, right, some sort of
Speaker 1: guitar scenario, right, acoustic set anything, acoustics, some sort of
Speaker 1: music where the guy singing is wearing rope slippers, right.
Speaker 6: Right, right, a lot of Mumford and sons. Maybe that's beards,
Speaker 6: beards and I pas that's it. Yeah, Yeah, you're crossing
Speaker 6: you're crossing streams here. Well, I mean gingers have beards
Speaker 6: like I pas.
Speaker 1: Right. I'm also reading this book series, right, and in
Speaker 1: the book they're they're interacting with aliens and it we've
Speaker 1: never talked about this and it's not conspiracy theory Thursday,
Speaker 1: but the we always talk about aliens and oh do
Speaker 1: aliens and exist? And we're like, yes, how naive is
Speaker 1: it to think that it's only one type of alien
Speaker 1: and that of the aliens, the grays that we typically
Speaker 1: see that they are the rogue partiers and you know, ruthless,
Speaker 1: crazy redheads, like crazy people, and they're the ones coming.
Speaker 1: But there's probably multiple out there, but we're just getting
Speaker 1: the ones that are like TP and houses and stuff, right,
Speaker 1: the crazy ones that just want to anal prob you, right,
Speaker 1: because they're really in the books they talk about grays like, yeah,
Speaker 1: they do the anal props because they're really weird and
Speaker 1: they're perverts and dusting. There's a disgusting alien. Got those
Speaker 1: long fingers. What else are you gonna do with here?
Speaker 1: You can only pick your nose so much, exactly nose. No, no,
Speaker 1: settle down. Uh all right, we gotta take a break.
Speaker 1: We got tickets are gonna give away to Stained and
Speaker 1: you can see Stained with see there, Huba stink stained
Speaker 1: see their hoopa steink and okay, yeah, that shows October
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Speaker 4: Mom changes name of son after tattoo spelling error. So
Speaker 4: Joanna Sandstrom Bottle would be nice to have her son's
Speaker 4: name tattooed on your body. But when you do this,
Speaker 4: make sure that your tattoo professional knows how to spell.
Speaker 1: No, no, why say that, Well, because you don't know
Speaker 1: if they know how to spell. This happens constantly. People
Speaker 1: get hieroglyphics or some other language. They'll go they don't care, right,
Speaker 1: They're just there for them. They're gonna go, yeah, that's
Speaker 1: that's right, trust me. Huh.
Speaker 6: And don't they like print that off you don't want
Speaker 6: a stensle or whatever and put it on your body
Speaker 6: and thank you for your approval. Typically yeah, yeah, so
Speaker 6: she is totally in the wrong for this one.
Speaker 4: Yeah, unless you go in and go, hey, I want
Speaker 4: this name and you do it.
Speaker 1: Like, you still have to approve it. No, you still
Speaker 1: have to approve it.
Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, I would know because I don't.
Speaker 1: You still want to approve it. Yeah, so you don't
Speaker 1: need to make sure they can spell. You need to
Speaker 1: make sure you can spell.
Speaker 4: So, instead of her her son's name was Kevin was yeah,
Speaker 4: because the tattoo artist didn't spell out Kevin on her.
Speaker 4: He instead the new piece of body art said Kelvin.
Speaker 1: Oh, so maybe he's a fan of the temperature, right
Speaker 1: or ha you know Hobbs's friend. Yeah, that's Calvin. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: that's sure.
Speaker 4: So Kelvin so with the style of the script, the
Speaker 4: only thing the tattoo artists could do was offer a refund,
Speaker 4: and tattoo removal was way too expensive, so Joanna and
Speaker 4: her husband decided to do the next logical thing, change
Speaker 4: their two year old son's name from Kevin to Kelvin.
Speaker 1: Did she say where the tattoo was placed. No, because
Speaker 1: that's important in my opinion, because if you're getting it
Speaker 1: on your if that's your tramp stamp, first of all, weird, weird.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say something really profound, but also not and
Speaker 1: that is it landed on me this weekend that if
Speaker 1: you have a tramp stamp, you are a whore. And
Speaker 1: I mean that's the nicest figuring this out. Yeah, because
Speaker 1: no one's seen it except the person smashing you.
Speaker 4: In, right, That's why they call it the tramp stamp.
Speaker 6: In the times of the low rise jeans, you know,
Speaker 6: back in the early two thousands, you know, they they'd
Speaker 6: have it right there so body can see what they're
Speaker 6: cropped up and their low rise.
Speaker 4: Or their bikinis.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, again, no one can see it. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: you're implying this is what you'll see. Yeah, because also bikinis,
Speaker 1: your whole back showing yeah, yeah, or you're calf change
Speaker 1: the name.
Speaker 4: Huh yeah, change the name, and apparently the kid is
Speaker 4: taken to his new name.
Speaker 1: Well he's too. He didn't get a good exactly, she says.
Speaker 4: She and her husband say that no one else has it,
Speaker 4: with the exception of the tens of thousands of people
Speaker 4: living in the US and the UK and wherever else
Speaker 4: in the world.
Speaker 6: So why not just accept you got a bad tattoo?
Speaker 6: Instead you buy pay all the money, go through the courts,
Speaker 6: just so oh it matches. Just be like, nah, I
Speaker 6: fed up, got a bad tattoo.
Speaker 1: It happens.
Speaker 6: Or you could get another tattoo, get that one covered up,
Speaker 6: you know, and maybe get it right. Yeah, stupid case
Speaker 6: dismissed against Texas and Balmer charged with funeral home mutilation.
Speaker 6: Now this action, the crime happened last year, and I
Speaker 6: guess just now went through the courts and here's where
Speaker 6: we're at. So down in Houston, there was an embalmber,
Speaker 6: thirty six year old goal named Amber Loudermilk, and she
Speaker 6: was working one day when a convicted sex offender fifty
Speaker 6: eight year old guy named Charles Rodriguez came across her slab, right.
Speaker 1: Well, she found out Charles's criminal history, right, and that
Speaker 1: he was a sex offender. So what does she do?
Speaker 6: According to witness, she stabbed the man and is junk
Speaker 6: twice with the scalpel and then cut his waiter off,
Speaker 6: shoved in his mouth, and then she looked at him
Speaker 6: and said, you didn't see anything. The funeral director also
Speaker 6: said that he saw the woman fondling the mouth of
Speaker 6: the deceased and that the deceased's penis was in his mouth.
Speaker 6: So she goes to jail, she goes through the process,
Speaker 6: and I guess she got a really good lawyer because
Speaker 6: it's been dismissed with a note of Alternative Resolution Agreement.
Speaker 6: I have no idea what that means, but that's the
Speaker 6: deal that they came down with, and the case has
Speaker 6: been dismissed.
Speaker 1: Outraged, well on compet it's free, okay. Weird charge is
Speaker 1: filed against man accused of threatening couple unleashing dog on them.
Speaker 1: Though a man is accused of threatening this couple in California,
Speaker 1: and he's now faced charges. On Thursday, the District Attorney's
Speaker 1: office charged name in tar with one felony count of
Speaker 1: criminal threats and one count of misdemeanor battery. He pled
Speaker 1: not guilty. The alleged attack happened Sunday last Sunday, and
Speaker 1: in a video, a person identified as the man can
Speaker 1: be heard screaming profanities at the couple from inside his
Speaker 1: car while holding a baseball bat out the window. He
Speaker 1: then got out, approached him, returned to his car, then
Speaker 1: allegedly charged them with his dog, who bit one of
Speaker 1: the victims on the thigh. He was arrested and animal
Speaker 1: control took custody of the dog. So sickham, that's more
Speaker 1: of sickam and it happened, Yeah, yeah, because most of
Speaker 1: the time it doesn't. I mean, unless you've trained your dog.
Speaker 1: I gotta be honest. I'm always gonna believe you've trained
Speaker 1: your dog to go with sickam, right, I'm it's an
Speaker 1: intimidating set of words. Will you hear that? And there's
Speaker 1: a scary dog there? Right? If it's a chihuaba, probably not,
Speaker 1: but if you if I were, so, I'm wearing somebody
Speaker 1: yell's sick. I'm getting out of the way because I
Speaker 1: don't think people really do that. But I don't want
Speaker 1: to be wrong. Yeah, because that one time you are
Speaker 1: to get you.
Speaker 4: And honestly, I'm more afraid of small dogs like a
Speaker 4: little Chihuahua than I am a big dog, to be honest.
Speaker 4: Growing up, I went to elementary school with a girl
Speaker 4: named Rainy and she had a toy poodle. It was
Speaker 4: the meanest son of a bitch dog I had ever
Speaker 4: encountered in my life. Anytime I went over to her house,
Speaker 4: that dog would would snarl and yip attack, yeah, and
Speaker 4: just show her teeth. And anytime you would try to
Speaker 4: go and pet it, it would just snip at you.
Speaker 1: Was it just you or was it everybody?
Speaker 4: It was pretty much everyone except for her or her mom.
Speaker 1: Yeah does your dog bite?
Speaker 4: Not me exactly. So it was like I just always
Speaker 4: had a thing. We're like little dogs. I just I
Speaker 4: don't want to be around.
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're just easier to kick. Yes, that's kind of
Speaker 1: where I'm at pretty much. If a dog attacks me,
Speaker 1: I don't care who do is. I'm kicking the dog absolutely.
Speaker 1: And I know some of you dog enthusiasts are gonna
Speaker 1: be like, that's so horrible, so mean, and you want
Speaker 1: to call my boss and tell on me. But I
Speaker 1: have a right to defend myself against anything. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I love dogs, but if you attack me, I'm protecting
Speaker 1: myself absolutely, or any part of the family. You kids,
Speaker 1: for sure. As far as dog, little dogs, even if
Speaker 1: they bite you, it's nothing burger, right, big dog? Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: And I'm talking over twenty pounds because I've seen it
Speaker 1: cut through someone's lip. So little dogs, you're fine. Give
Speaker 1: him a good punt and you'll be all right. Right.
Speaker 1: And he had a baseball bat. This guy, by the way,
Speaker 1: damn baseball bat and a dog. He's just an angry,
Speaker 1: angry individual. And I want to know about what were
Speaker 1: they taking too long crossing the street to get that
Speaker 1: worked une? Who knows? Nowadays, man, people are just out
Speaker 1: of a mind.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I remember growing up and my brother's like, you should
Speaker 1: keep a baseball bat in your car. He's like why,
Speaker 1: He's like, wow, what if things go what if things
Speaker 1: get crazy? I'm like, ah, leave right right. And considered
Speaker 1: a weapon, It is considered if you if you don't
Speaker 1: have a glove, it can be considered a weapon. But
Speaker 1: a lot of people do this. A lot of people
Speaker 1: keep some a bat or the promotional bat they got
Speaker 1: at a game or something for defense.
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, or a big stick. A big stick is
Speaker 6: fine as an excuse, right, Maybe like a broom handle
Speaker 6: or something like, oh my my hood prop is broken
Speaker 6: and that's what I used to prop it up until
Speaker 6: you put tape around the handle, and then that's what
Speaker 6: makes it a weapon.
Speaker 4: I know this, I mean, or or one of those
Speaker 4: seriously large like a golf umbrella. People keep those in
Speaker 4: their cars. You can say that as a weapon.
Speaker 1: But yeah, but the intention of the golf umbrella, yeah,
Speaker 1: is to protect you from n sure, right.
Speaker 4: They got the big long piece at the top of it.
Speaker 4: Though you could shove that right through someone if you
Speaker 4: wanted to.
Speaker 1: Really, huh, I.
Speaker 6: Don't think so, No, I mean it takes a lot
Speaker 6: of force, and and you'd have to be pretty close
Speaker 6: to them, Yeah, because you're when you extend out, you
Speaker 6: don't have that much force near the end of your extension,
Speaker 6: so you would be an ink. Pin's sharp, Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 6: the tip of an umbrella is not sharp. Yeah, he
Speaker 6: didn't use the umbrella. And and and what was the casino? Yeah,
Speaker 6: or Joe pet she scabs him in the neck with
Speaker 6: that people.
Speaker 1: Right, No, he used a pin for disrespecting him. Yeah, Yeah,
Speaker 1: such a great scene. All right, we got to take
Speaker 1: a break. We'll be back of the Big Bad Morning
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Speaker 4: Well, we hosted our first ever golf tournament for a
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Speaker 4: to We raised more than our goal, and all the
Speaker 4: guys at the end of it said, we're going to
Speaker 4: do this again next year, right, So we're going to
Speaker 4: do it again next year. And they all had a
Speaker 4: great time and it was wonderful. The weather was perfect,
Speaker 4: so that was a success. And the worst part of
Speaker 4: my weekend was probably waking up. I went to bed
Speaker 4: last night at eight o'clock and I woke up at
Speaker 4: nine o'clock and my side kind of like I had
Speaker 4: an itch almost and I felt my side and I
Speaker 4: was like, that's weird. Is that a bump on my side,
Speaker 4: like right on my waistline? And I got up to
Speaker 4: go pee and I look in the mirror and I
Speaker 4: see two dark spots, little circles, and I start freaking
Speaker 4: out because they look like ticks underneath me my skin.
Speaker 4: And I called my husband. I'm like, I think I
Speaker 4: have two ticks underneath my skins, like embedded, and he's like, no,
Speaker 4: that wouldn't be so I'm like, you better come look.
Speaker 4: And he looks and he's like, those aren't ticks, honey,
Speaker 4: I don't know. He was like, it looks more like
Speaker 4: a blood blister of some sort. And U he's like,
Speaker 4: or maybe a spider bite. We're just gonna have to
Speaker 4: keep an eye on it. And he's like, does it itch?
Speaker 4: And I said, well, yeah, that's what it. I think
Speaker 4: that's what woke me up, like I had a little itch.
Speaker 4: So we're just keeping an eye on it. I have
Speaker 4: no idea what it is, but I had a hard
Speaker 4: time falling back asleep because of it.
Speaker 1: So is it still there?
Speaker 4: Yeah, it is. I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't want to see I don't want to see
Speaker 1: that feeling. Oh yeah, let me see that stuff. Oh good, God,
Speaker 1: do you squeeze it?
Speaker 6: It looks like squeeze It looks a little scammy. That
Speaker 6: does not look good. I don't think you should have
Speaker 6: rotting skin.
Speaker 1: Shut up, God and look at it. And it's not.
Speaker 1: Damn it. I don't want to look at it. It's
Speaker 1: just that's not okay. That's infected. Quit messing with it,
Speaker 1: are you my child? Quit messing with it. Don't pick
Speaker 1: at it. Yeah, did you put anything on it?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 7: No, just let it go.
Speaker 1: No, I get it. No, head right in the sand. Nothing,
Speaker 1: I'm sure it will be fine.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I have no I'm freaking out. I thought it
Speaker 4: was a.
Speaker 1: Right, you're not freaking out enough. Put medicine on it,
Speaker 1: so you're dibiotic. What's like you think it's not open,
Speaker 1: there's no cut, there's red.
Speaker 4: It's stop. Yeah, it's red.
Speaker 1: You're not under it looks like a.
Speaker 4: It does look like blood underneath the skin.
Speaker 1: All right, Yeah, it didn't look healthy at all? Whatsoever?
Speaker 1: How long do you wait before you be like I
Speaker 1: need to go to emergency care.
Speaker 4: I'm not going to the emergency.
Speaker 1: Room, urgent care, something, doctor, whatever.
Speaker 4: I will make if it's not gone or if it
Speaker 4: doesn't get any better by the end of the week,
Speaker 4: I will call my doctor.
Speaker 1: You should put a circle. Yeah, I will if it grows.
Speaker 4: It hasn't changed at all since when I first saw
Speaker 4: it at nine o'clock last night.
Speaker 1: Right, eleven hours ago, ten hours ago. Yes, yeah, it's
Speaker 1: not a bug bite. It's not a bug bite like
Speaker 1: spider bite. Good at least it doesn't look like it's spreading.
Speaker 1: It doesn't look red like but it does look like
Speaker 1: infected ingrown hair, skin something of that. It shouldn't be
Speaker 1: that red in that big Yeah, like I don't know
Speaker 1: what what did that? Yeah, you're gonna wait UNTI the
Speaker 1: end of the week. Yeah, so your analysis of it
Speaker 1: means zero.
Speaker 4: Well, Kevin thought, he was, like, you may have been
Speaker 4: laying on something.
Speaker 1: And bed sore. How long you've been in bed?
Speaker 4: No, like rolled over on something and pinched your skin.
Speaker 4: I don't know, I pinch you?
Speaker 1: Are you laying on a bed folded bulph?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Best and worst the weekend? What's the best thing that
Speaker 1: happened this weekend? Worst thing that happened this weekend? BM
Speaker 1: A mess and whatever that is to eight two, nine,
Speaker 1: four five? Give me what's the best and what's the worst?
Speaker 1: Definitely interesting, that's for sure. Let's start with the best.
Speaker 6: The best would be yesterday, my buddy Josh had his birthday,
Speaker 6: so he wanted to ride up to uh Coffeeville, Kansas,
Speaker 6: play some disc golf and then go eat at the Roadhouse.
Speaker 1: So that's what we did.
Speaker 6: We all hopped on our bikes, rode out there, played
Speaker 6: a pretty decent game, and then rode back, you know,
Speaker 6: had some roadhouse and a good steak, and then called
Speaker 6: it today. Now it's time for the worst. The worst
Speaker 6: part of the weekend would probably be getting popped in
Speaker 6: my driveway with the UI. Oh no, yeah, I expected that.
Speaker 6: Look from you. Uh huh, but day it was this,
Speaker 6: This was Friday night. This is why I didn't message
Speaker 6: you back, Lindsay. There was a good reason because I
Speaker 6: was locked up all weekend. I got out Sunday morning.
Speaker 6: It was like six thirty when I got out, maybe
Speaker 6: a little bit before that. So go out Friday night,
Speaker 6: have some fun. I'm gonna call it an early night
Speaker 6: because he's gonna get up and go watch the Route
Speaker 6: sixty six parade on Saturday. And uh, I guess my
Speaker 6: driving skills were questionable to one good Samaritan and called
Speaker 6: it into the ba PD and uh, you know, they
Speaker 6: didn't light me up or anything. Made it all the
Speaker 6: way home in my driveway, garage door opened one foot
Speaker 6: in the drive in the garage. Right, I'm done, I'm
Speaker 6: going home. And uh that's when one two three officers there, Hey,
Speaker 6: where'd you come from?
Speaker 1: Uh? And the questioned me and uh, they got me
Speaker 1: for a PC.
Speaker 6: Which is what is it ID to make sure the
Speaker 6: actual physical control so you weren't technically driving, you could
Speaker 6: be in control of this vehicle. And uh so with
Speaker 6: all that being said, I have to apologize to the
Speaker 6: BAPD and the fine folks at the BA jailhouse for
Speaker 6: my actions did not go very well.
Speaker 1: Uh did you get a little yeah, I was that guy,
Speaker 1: got a little attitude. I was that guy. I was
Speaker 1: that guy.
Speaker 6: And so I apologize sincerely to the department and then
Speaker 6: to the jail house workers that had to deal with me.
Speaker 1: On Friday.
Speaker 6: Stayed locked up as like eleven o'clock when I when
Speaker 6: I went in and h with that. Because it's a
Speaker 6: state charge, they have to transfer you to the Moss.
Speaker 6: But I stayed in in Ba's lockdown until almost it
Speaker 6: was like, well it was twelve thirty Sunday morning when
Speaker 6: they took me, transported me to the Moss, and then
Speaker 6: from there you get to the Moss and then it's
Speaker 6: a mandatory you're in for four hours before they can
Speaker 6: let you go.
Speaker 1: Your bond has to be paid. You're in for four hours.
Speaker 1: So stayed there until about.
Speaker 6: When it was like five thirty six o'clock when they
Speaker 6: finally it was about six o'clock when they finally said, hey,
Speaker 6: you know your bond's paid over there, Sign your stuff
Speaker 6: the hell out of here. And I said, okay, I
Speaker 6: don't ever plan on coming back. I have not been
Speaker 6: in that place in twenty years. Uh, and I'm not
Speaker 6: not going back because a very eye opening experience.
Speaker 1: It It kind of put a lot of things in
Speaker 1: perspective there for me. So when you say eye opening,
Speaker 1: what's what do you mean? Just living willy nilly?
Speaker 6: It's okay, it's fine, never got caught before, and you realize, oh,
Speaker 6: hell yeah. I was talking with one of the officers,
Speaker 6: one that transported me to me about this group of kids,
Speaker 6: fourteen agers, like eighteen year olds and nineteen year olds,
Speaker 6: got hit head on by a drunk driver, killed all
Speaker 6: the kids, you know, And uh, I was hearing that
Speaker 6: and I'm just like, yeah, I got lucky that I
Speaker 6: made it all the way into my darribeway. It could
Speaker 6: have been way worse. It could have been way worse.
Speaker 6: So for me, I think it's time to grow the
Speaker 6: f up, to put it plainly.
Speaker 1: So that was my weekend. But Lindsay gotta breathe her side.
Speaker 4: Were you on your bike or.
Speaker 1: Were you Yeah? I was in my car. That was
Speaker 1: in my car. So how long were you total?
Speaker 6: In a sly total, I'm gonna say about thirty just
Speaker 6: over thirty hours because it was twenty four, twenty five.
Speaker 6: I'm just gonna say from eleven o'clock Friday night eleven
Speaker 6: PM to twelve Sunday, I stayed in all Saturday. I
Speaker 6: watched the game from jail. They had us back there
Speaker 6: and TV or whatever, and and so I watched the
Speaker 6: game there and then and then they finally came and
Speaker 6: got me and hey, transport's ready, come on. And then
Speaker 6: I had to spend my five hours in well four
Speaker 6: hours plus whatever processing got it at the moss or whatever.
Speaker 1: So it was like total, like thirty something hours. So
Speaker 1: Friday night they you're you're in BA and I mentioned
Speaker 1: some point you go to sleep.
Speaker 6: Yeah, they threw me in the tank after I you know,
Speaker 6: made an ass of myself and then they woke me up,
Speaker 6: took me back to the.
Speaker 1: To the main jail area. So when you wake up
Speaker 1: in the tank, do you like, how quickly do you
Speaker 1: remember the chain of events? As soon as I woke up,
Speaker 1: you know, And of course then there's flashbacks throughout the day.
Speaker 1: You know, I knew what I was in there for sure, and.
Speaker 6: Then the flashbacks is like, oh, oh you did this,
Speaker 6: Oh you did that, you know, and uh, I was
Speaker 6: just I just hang my head in shame and beat
Speaker 6: myself up. I still am to this very point, you
Speaker 6: know what I mean, because this is going to be
Speaker 6: very costly for me.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and and I hate it. Stupid, stupid, stupid mistake
Speaker 1: of mine.
Speaker 6: So listen, it is what it is. There's nothing I
Speaker 6: can do about it. Just eat this s sandwich one
Speaker 6: bite at a time. This s sandwich that I made
Speaker 6: all by myself. But I'm not gonna hide it. I'm
Speaker 6: not gonna hide it. Right here, I admit what I
Speaker 6: did was wrong. I am stupid. Don't be like me
Speaker 6: because I know there's gonna be pictures popping up on
Speaker 6: Facebook pages, Da Dad, people want question, Hey is that you?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Man, Hey, don't be like me. Yeah. In that aspect,
Speaker 1: everything else, you're cool. Bashed the worst of the weekend.
Speaker 1: What's the best thing that happened to you this weekend?
Speaker 1: What's the worst thing that happened to you this weekend?
Speaker 1: Best part of the weekend was a little family trip.
Speaker 1: We went to Mexico and state of a resort and
Speaker 1: it's the most it's ever rained when I've been to Mexico.
Speaker 1: Now understand that doesn't mean a lot, but it's I've
Speaker 1: never been where it rains and this is normally, if
Speaker 1: it's gonna rain, it's like five minutes and then it's over.
Speaker 1: This was like dark clouds. The locals were getting a
Speaker 1: little anxious, and I was like, why is it because
Speaker 1: there's no they don't there's no drainage in the streets,
Speaker 1: Like the streets just fill up with the water. And
Speaker 1: it was pouring. But whatever. It lasted like maybe an
Speaker 1: hour and then sun came out. Its fine, So it
Speaker 1: wasn't like hurricanes or months. No no, no, no, no
Speaker 1: no no. It was awesome. The resort was barely full,
Speaker 1: so maybe like twenty thirty percent capacity, so we had
Speaker 1: the run of the place. It was fun. It's always fun. Uh.
Speaker 1: The worst part of the weekend, uh, is not I'm
Speaker 1: gonna say second until we understand what happens on Friday
Speaker 1: with Lindsay's cancer cell. That's under let hip is. I
Speaker 1: got in the water and uh with my watch, my
Speaker 1: Apple Watch, and it stopped working. Is a Noll water resistant?
Speaker 8: It is?
Speaker 1: But I think because I wear mine all the time,
Speaker 1: I think I cracked it on something. Whether I was,
Speaker 1: you know, working in the yard or moving something from
Speaker 1: my my wife, I don't know, but I banged that
Speaker 1: watch up a lot, and so, uh, I think it
Speaker 1: had a crack in it, and I had I had
Speaker 1: to send it on It's merry way. It lost it.
Speaker 1: It ended its its tenure in Mexico. It's not a
Speaker 1: bad way to go. Are you getting a new one?
Speaker 5: Oh?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I already ordered it. I just bought a referbed one.
Speaker 1: I don't need a brand new one, all right, because
Speaker 1: I was almost done with it anyway, So I just
Speaker 1: bought a referbed one. I think like one hundred thing. Yes, yeah,
Speaker 1: I just need it for the alarm. If I'm being honest,
Speaker 1: and you don't use it to counter steps, I mean,
Speaker 1: I guess, but I use it because it's a vibration alarm, right,
Speaker 1: which so it doesn't wake my wife up or it's
Speaker 1: that's what I like about it, all right. Best and
Speaker 1: worst of the weekend. What's the best thing that happened
Speaker 1: this weekend? And the worst thing that happened this weekend?
Speaker 1: Best of the weekend went to a fish fry. Worst
Speaker 1: of the weekend. My friend is dying.
Speaker 5: That sucks.
Speaker 1: I don't know if I want a fish fry if
Speaker 1: I'm dying, Like, hey, we're getting around, we're having a
Speaker 1: fish fry for my dying. I mean, do you get gifts?
Speaker 1: Do you bring gifts to a dying No? But why not?
Speaker 1: If I have visited the end, you better don't come
Speaker 1: empty handed. Yeah. They may not get to use the
Speaker 1: gifts for very long, but the fact of it, it's
Speaker 1: a nice gesture. Best bought my first house and started
Speaker 1: moving in. We're still trying to get rid of the
Speaker 1: cigarette smell from the former owner. Tried ozone machine twice,
Speaker 1: No luck. You might need to paint and you might
Speaker 1: need to replace carpet.
Speaker 4: Yeah for sure.
Speaker 5: Uh.
Speaker 1: Best of the weekend got to take my kids to
Speaker 1: the Blue Whale opening in Catoosa. Worst of the weekend
Speaker 1: was gonna work on my car just to rebuild it
Speaker 1: and a problem I did not expect to fix popped up.
Speaker 1: Spent all weekend fixing it instead of installing my new parts.
Speaker 1: Absolute best was Barry gave my daughter drumsticks at the
Speaker 1: Shine Down concert on Saturday when they were an okac
Speaker 1: and water park. Yesterday, worst was sunburned. Three weird lines
Speaker 1: on my back and they are miserable. I'm that guy
Speaker 1: at the resort that wears the full like rash guard.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I don't want to get sunburned. Because here's
Speaker 1: the thing about resorts, especially all inclusive, is there's always
Speaker 1: some chazz enjoying his beverages, and then the next day
Speaker 1: he's a lobster. Oh yeah, and you're like, yeah, that
Speaker 1: doesn't look awesome, and then you can't move for jwo
Speaker 1: to three weeks. Yeah. I accepted a corporate nursing position.
Speaker 1: On Friday. Best of the weekend, spending time with family
Speaker 1: and seeing the cool cars on Route sixty six. Worst
Speaker 1: of the weekend butchering a pot belly pigged and those
Speaker 1: dastardly are basically nothing but fat. Best finished Moe in
Speaker 1: the yard, cleaned the house, and went to best friends
Speaker 1: birthday on Saturday. Worst me and the old lady got
Speaker 1: into a drunken argument and had to sleep in the
Speaker 1: doghouse all weekend. No more drinking to excess for me. Sure, sure,
Speaker 1: this is an interesting question. Did they put a vehicle
Speaker 1: interlock on a motorcycle? I don't know how do they
Speaker 1: do them because obviously they would do it on a
Speaker 1: car if that's the punishment. Does that work to motorcycle?
Speaker 1: How do they or do they just say you can't
Speaker 1: ride your mot driver motorcycle, no idea. Best of the weekend,
Speaker 1: Baby Mama spent the night in jail with Gimpi.
Speaker 6: Okay, was it intermingled at the moss when you first
Speaker 6: get in you got girls on one side, guys on the.
Speaker 1: Other, but you're not mingling. There's separation, so they would
Speaker 1: maybe see and then no talking at all whatsoever. None
Speaker 1: of that give us My mama spent the night in
Speaker 1: jail with Gimpian, didn't learn anything. Best part flew home
Speaker 1: from the Bahamas. Took my son to the NASCAR race
Speaker 1: at Nashville Super Speedway. Worst part is dealing with the
Speaker 1: worst sunburn I've ever had over the weekend. We missed
Speaker 1: last week, but best was actually last weekend. Won a
Speaker 1: trip to Las Vegas, all paid flight in rooms playing
Speaker 1: Bingo Loco. Worst thunder lost so Bingo Loco for those
Speaker 1: don't know, it's Bingo but Crazierzingo. Best Actually, if you've
Speaker 1: ever seen it, it actually looks pretty exciting. If I'm
Speaker 1: maybe I'm just fifty one, but it looks it looks funny. Easy.
Speaker 1: How can we spash this? There's a lot going on.
Speaker 1: It's not just B fifty two. Some sort of confetti scenario.
Speaker 6: It's a flashing lights yes, mirror ball, not just a
Speaker 6: VFW stage.
Speaker 1: Best celebrated my fifty first birthday all weekend. Worst having
Speaker 1: to work today on my birthday. Best got my drand
Speaker 1: got to see my granddaughter again this weekend. She has
Speaker 1: the best smiles. Worst it's so dang hot. Best of
Speaker 1: the weekend was taking my eight year old to his
Speaker 1: first ballgame at one oak Field and got him his
Speaker 1: first ball glove so we can finally play catch. No
Speaker 1: worst part, look at that. All right, we gotta take
Speaker 1: a break. Coming up. We got tickets we're gonna give
Speaker 1: away right now. We got to see what's in gipbes
Speaker 1: four by four E. But this says here is that
Speaker 1: Trump cheeses a major speech.
Speaker 6: After entertainers canceled the America to fifty performances, President Trump
Speaker 6: is planning to host a political rally to celebrate America's
Speaker 6: two hundred and fiftieth anniversary.
Speaker 1: Announced the move on Saturday.
Speaker 6: After several artists pulled out of the upcoming Great American
Speaker 6: State Fair. On the National Mall and a truth social post,
Speaker 6: he wrote that he will take the place of the
Speaker 6: highly paid third rate artists and give a major speech.
Speaker 6: President Trump added that he is also looking into the
Speaker 6: possibility of doing an America's Back Rally in DC at
Speaker 6: the same time and same location.
Speaker 1: Multiple artists pulled out.
Speaker 6: Of the Great American State fear after public backlash over
Speaker 6: the events.
Speaker 1: I don't know about all that. All I know is
Speaker 1: the lineup that was announced. So I was like, see
Speaker 1: and see Music Factory that everybody did. Martine Bride Okay, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: sure yeah.
Speaker 6: Vanilla Ice ooh, that is an American icon, my friend
Speaker 6: is one song?
Speaker 1: That's all you got to now, it got the Ninja
Speaker 1: Turtle song. I'm not sure if it's which one, but
Speaker 1: it's either Milly or Vanilly, because it isn't both of
Speaker 1: them one of them dead, right, one of them is dead?
Speaker 1: Uh huh Young mc okay, Commodore's sure. Oh I just
Speaker 1: thought thought I read one of the commodorees just recently dying. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: but that I don't think he was touring. No, no,
Speaker 1: I mean no Morris Dan the time. Oh yeah, come
Speaker 1: on my jungle up.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, no, CNC Music Factory, I get it floor
Speaker 1: right up. Wow, Well you gotta get some newer music
Speaker 1: in no newer you know, and then Brett Michael's Okay.
Speaker 1: So even if if those people were gonna say, I'd
Speaker 1: still be like, this is mid at best.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I wouldn't be buying tickets to that for like
Speaker 6: a celebration of a quarter of a century.
Speaker 1: Where the hell is Lee Greenwood in a f in
Speaker 1: line up? Whoa he clearly feels passionate about it.
Speaker 6: Moving forward, Uh, Google wants to release millions of mosquitos
Speaker 6: in California and Florida.
Speaker 7: Now.
Speaker 6: Google's requesting approval from the federal government to release up
Speaker 6: to thirty two million mosquitos in California and Florida as
Speaker 6: part of its DBUG. The initiative looks to stop bad
Speaker 6: bugs with good bugs by replacing hordes of sterile mosquitoes
Speaker 6: to eliminate the ones that carried disease. Google scientists say
Speaker 6: their eratication approach uses data, analytics, sensors, and automation to
Speaker 6: scale the sterile insect technique.
Speaker 1: I know how this movie is hu this is nothing
Speaker 1: good comes out of this right now? Oh we didn't
Speaker 1: think of that.
Speaker 6: Now you got some untreatable disease from a quote unquote.
Speaker 1: Sterile you know, mosquito? Oh god? Anyha what else we
Speaker 1: got what's happening.
Speaker 4: I thought it was actually passed and they're actually going
Speaker 4: to do it.
Speaker 1: I got it this morning, so who knows what else?
Speaker 6: It says here remnants of weekend, the meteorite fell into
Speaker 6: Cape Cod Bay. The remnants of a meteorite landed in
Speaker 6: the middle of Cape Con Bay after exploding over New
Speaker 6: England on Saturday. NASA says the fireball fragmented above northeast
Speaker 6: Massachusetts and southeast New Hampshire around seven five thousand miles
Speaker 6: per hour, releasing an energy equivalent of three hundred tons
Speaker 6: of T and T, causing a loud boom. According to NASA,
Speaker 6: the fireball was not associated with an active meteor shower
Speaker 6: or the reentry of space debris or satellite.
Speaker 1: That's that's amazing. It looks like it is coming straight
Speaker 1: down into Earth. The videos that I saw rather than
Speaker 1: just shooting across the sky.
Speaker 6: Right, Oh, fire and brimstone, hordes of mosquitoes.
Speaker 1: We're living in the end times man. Yeah.
Speaker 6: And then lastly here, several Tulsa facilities are closed today
Speaker 6: for the Tulsa Race Massacre Observance Day. The City of
Speaker 6: Tulsa offices and Metrolink Tulsa stations will both be closed
Speaker 6: today for the Tulsa Race masker observances.
Speaker 1: Other Good morning.
Speaker 4: Lindsay, Good morning Corbyn. My husband and I just got
Speaker 4: into watching land Man thanks to Gimpie Yes with Billy
Speaker 4: Bob Thornton.
Speaker 1: Thanks to the society already well into it the third season.
Speaker 4: He recommended it no second, I think right. Anyway, Billy,
Speaker 4: Bob Thornton and the box Masters are going to be
Speaker 4: at the Hard Rock Casino on July eighteenth, and if
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Speaker 4: That show is July eighteenth, the Hard Rock Lie that's
Speaker 4: a Saturday show too, by the way, Good.
Speaker 1: Morning Gimpie h. Good morning Corbin. Before we came back,
Speaker 1: you heard god Smack.
Speaker 6: They're gonna be headlining Rocklaholma this year Friday night, as
Speaker 6: a matter of fact, kicking off the festivities Man along
Speaker 6: with Godsmack, you got ICP and Slayer and popa Roach
Speaker 6: and Cypress Hill.
Speaker 1: It's a weekend of awesomeness.
Speaker 6: You can get your full lineup and your link for
Speaker 6: tickets right there at the website at rocks kmod dot com.
Speaker 1: All right, we've got more qualifying for see them all
Speaker 1: twenty twenty six. It hasn't played yet, so keep listening
Speaker 1: for that to come up. It is time for our listeners.
Speaker 1: Are awesome. This is where we chat with the listener
Speaker 1: and they share a part of their life with us.
Speaker 1: And on the line right now is Mike. Mike, how
Speaker 1: are you good?
Speaker 7: How are you good?
Speaker 1: Buddy?
Speaker 9: Mike?
Speaker 1: It says here that you've been married for twenty years.
Speaker 1: Tell me the secret of being married for twenty years?
Speaker 7: Oh man, I think it's just honesty and communication.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 7: We've always kind of said that if there's something we
Speaker 7: need to say, we're gonna be brutally honest to each
Speaker 7: other and just stay with on our mind and listen
Speaker 7: to each other and try to understand where we're coming from.
Speaker 1: What's the best time you've ever had with your wife?
Speaker 7: Oh boy, We've had a lot of good times. We've
Speaker 7: been on a lot of vacations together. Probably probably our daughter.
Speaker 7: We we only have one child, but probably just watching
Speaker 7: her grow up. And she just graduated high school just
Speaker 7: a couple of weeks ago, and just being good parents
Speaker 7: to her and watching her grow up. It's it's it's
Speaker 7: it's been fun to be a dad.
Speaker 1: And it says here you met your wife on a
Speaker 1: blind date. Tell me about that. Tell me how you
Speaker 1: got set up on the blind day. Tell me where
Speaker 1: you went. Were you nervous?
Speaker 7: Oh yeah, I was nervous. I got set up. A
Speaker 7: buddy of mine that I went to high school with
Speaker 7: got a job working at a bank, and he met
Speaker 7: a woman who worked there at the bank with him,
Speaker 7: and they got to talking. Well, hey, I've got a
Speaker 7: single friend. Well, I've got a single daughter. And that
Speaker 7: woman that he met is now my mother in law
Speaker 7: and has been for twenty years. They set us up.
Speaker 7: My wife drove into town and met up with me.
Speaker 7: It sounds kind of weird, but I had to get
Speaker 7: new shoes and we went to the Academy at eighty
Speaker 7: first and one sixty nine. I had got some new shoes,
Speaker 7: and then we went over to Cheddars and ate up
Speaker 7: the Cheddars there at seventy first Street, and then went
Speaker 7: over to Sutures and had some drinks and spent the
Speaker 7: evening at Sutures just getting to know each other.
Speaker 1: Dude going to buy shoes for a first date is
Speaker 1: a flex in confidence. I don't know if I've ever
Speaker 1: heard before. I love it. Did you ask her like, Hey,
Speaker 1: which one do you like? Or did you know what
Speaker 1: you were getting? No?
Speaker 7: I didn't. I didn't know which when I was getting.
Speaker 7: But I mean she seemed pretty chill and I needed
Speaker 7: to do it. And I was older and dated a
Speaker 7: little bit, and I was like, Hey, I need shoes.
Speaker 7: Let's let's just go. Let's go pick out some new shoes.
Speaker 4: Ree like, do you mind? Do you mind coming? Do
Speaker 4: you mind if we stop.
Speaker 7: Here so I can get sho I asked her like, hey,
Speaker 7: you might we swing by and go shoe shopping real quick?
Speaker 7: And she was like no, she's yeah, it's totally cool.
Speaker 7: Let's go. So we cruised over there and picked out
Speaker 7: a new pair of snakers.
Speaker 1: Now did you wear them out of the store.
Speaker 7: I don't think so. I don't remember for sure, but
Speaker 7: I don't think I did.
Speaker 6: How busted up were your old shoes when you went
Speaker 6: on that it had happen right then?
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, I don't know. I mean they they must
Speaker 7: have been pretty worn out. If I was that desperate
Speaker 7: to take my first date, blind date, shoe shopping. Taking
Speaker 7: back on it, now, you bring up a good point.
Speaker 1: It's one of those wefts. She can handle this, she
Speaker 1: can handle anyway exactly, I guess. So how long after
Speaker 1: that date did you guys get married?
Speaker 7: One year? I proposed to her three months later and
Speaker 7: we got married a year later.
Speaker 1: Wow, that's awesome. Uh, yeah, we moved.
Speaker 7: We moved pretty quick.
Speaker 1: That or or accurately right, I mean, don't waste any time.
Speaker 9: Uh.
Speaker 1: It says here that you guys went on a honeymoon
Speaker 1: and something happened. Where'd you guys? Where'd you guys go
Speaker 1: for your honeymoon?
Speaker 7: We took a cruise to Alaska, Okay.
Speaker 1: Like a seven dayer up from Vancouver or what.
Speaker 7: It was a round trip out of Seattle, and it
Speaker 7: went to like Skagway Juno, catch a can and then
Speaker 7: stop back off in Victoria, British Columbia, and then back
Speaker 7: to Seattle, Okay.
Speaker 1: And what happened on that honeymoon, besides the hobbyist that
Speaker 1: made it memorable.
Speaker 7: Well, we were sitting at dinner one night, just the
Speaker 7: two of us, and the table next to us probably
Speaker 7: had six to eight people at it, and this older
Speaker 7: woman stands up and is reaching for her neck and
Speaker 7: she's obviously choking, and nobody at her table is doing anything.
Speaker 7: And it goes on for long enough that I'm like,
Speaker 7: is somebody gonna do something? This woman needs help? And
Speaker 7: my wife is like, do you need to go do this?
Speaker 7: I mean, I'm not trained in the Hemel maneuver, but
Speaker 7: I've seen it done. So I went over there and
Speaker 7: gave it a Heinel maneuver, and everybody at her table
Speaker 7: just looked at her like, oh, that's Mildred.
Speaker 1: She does this all the time, you know, choking Mildred.
Speaker 7: Now they were probably where to go, and so I
Speaker 7: gave her the heimelook maneuver and she coughed up whatever
Speaker 7: she was choking on. And the weird part is nobody
Speaker 7: at the table like said thank you to me. The
Speaker 7: old woman didn't say thank you. They didn't. They all
Speaker 7: just like sat there and then she sat back down
Speaker 7: and they finished their meal. And not that I need
Speaker 7: to be told thank you, but if someone did that
Speaker 7: to my grandmother, I'd be like, oh, gosh, thank you.
Speaker 1: No big round of applands. Everybody in the dining room.
Speaker 7: Well, it was just weird. And then I just set
Speaker 7: back down and I was like, I guess I'll have
Speaker 7: another beer.
Speaker 4: Was it was kind of weird because they were all like,
Speaker 4: damn it, now we have to wait until she chokes
Speaker 4: again before.
Speaker 1: We get that.
Speaker 7: Yeah. So maybe maybe it's on me. Maybe I ruined
Speaker 7: their plans. I don't know.
Speaker 1: So, like you, I would think that would make you
Speaker 1: guys immediate friends. Like you see him, you know, in
Speaker 1: the breakfast buffet line or whatever, and you know, you know,
Speaker 1: debarking the plane the ship and be like, hey, there's
Speaker 1: our guy.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 6: No.
Speaker 7: So that was like one of the first nights on
Speaker 7: the cruise, if I remember right. So we were on
Speaker 7: the boat for several more days and that you know,
Speaker 7: I don't know if you've been on a cruise, but
Speaker 7: you you kind of see the same people. And I
Speaker 7: would see that group of people and I never paid
Speaker 7: a much attention, and they didn't say aning to me
Speaker 7: it is. I was like, oh whatever, I mean, just
Speaker 7: I guess it is where it is.
Speaker 1: That's awesome, man. And when you back to the room
Speaker 1: where you like, I've saved someone's life today. I don't
Speaker 1: know what else we can do on this trip that's
Speaker 1: gonna bring.
Speaker 7: Yeah. Yeah, my wife and I liked that just really
Speaker 7: happen like whatever, let's I guess it did, but it
Speaker 7: was it was just real weird that nobody at her
Speaker 7: table like even made an attempt to be like swater
Speaker 7: on the back good and hard or something. They're just like,
Speaker 7: oh whatever, just she does this, right, What if she.
Speaker 1: See this is interesting? What if she wasn't choking and
Speaker 1: they didn't want to they were already didn't want to
Speaker 1: embarrass you, and she's just like a dramatic person.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean, maybe maybe that's what it is. Maybe
Speaker 7: it was all just a show. Like I said, it's
Speaker 7: just like, oh whatever, she does this all the time, because.
Speaker 1: We're led to believe that when that happens, people are like, hey,
Speaker 1: there's an yeah.
Speaker 7: Well kind of. But I mean like they didn't say hi, bye,
Speaker 7: thank you, have a good time, have a good night. Nothing.
Speaker 1: It was weird.
Speaker 4: They didn't buy you around or buy your.
Speaker 7: No, and I didn't expect him to, but I mean,
Speaker 7: you think at least to be like, hey, thanks for something.
Speaker 1: Captain of the ship. Didn't come down, shake your hand,
Speaker 1: get a picture, sit at the captain's table, none of that.
Speaker 7: Huh No, I don't remember any of that. Happening though.
Speaker 1: Man, that's who you'd think, like, no key to the ship?
Speaker 1: Who needs that?
Speaker 7: Are at least let me steer for a little bit.
Speaker 1: Right right right? Well that sounds awesome. It says here
Speaker 1: that you were a summer camp counselor. Tell me about that.
Speaker 1: Why did you choose to do that? Where was it at?
Speaker 1: Tell me about what you loved about being a summer
Speaker 1: camp counselor.
Speaker 7: Well, it was, oh, I think the summers of two
Speaker 7: thousand and three and two thousand and four. A buddy
Speaker 7: of mine from high school had gone up to this
Speaker 7: camp and it was in Maine, in a small town
Speaker 7: called Casco, Maine, which is about an hour north of Portland, Maine.
Speaker 7: And he'd gone up the year prior and came home
Speaker 7: and was telling me how awesome it was. Man, this
Speaker 7: is great, had a really good time. Why don't you apply?
Speaker 7: So I have, and they hired me, and so him
Speaker 7: and I drove up from Oklahoma all the way to Maine,
Speaker 7: stopped off of New York and went and saw all
Speaker 7: the sites of New York on the way and got
Speaker 7: to Maine. And I was a I was a member
Speaker 7: of what they called the adventure team. Saw as a
Speaker 7: high ropes course and climbing wall instructor and did that
Speaker 7: for did that for two summers between you know, when
Speaker 7: I was in college between classes, and it was it
Speaker 7: was really neat A lot of it was just a
Speaker 7: regular kids summer camp. It was non denominational, just a
Speaker 7: regular old kids summer camp.
Speaker 1: And before you did that summer camp, did you have
Speaker 1: any experience with rock climbing or roping or any of that.
Speaker 7: It's just how to do all the safety things and
Speaker 7: tie all the knots. And it was like a week
Speaker 7: long course prior to the campers getting there of us
Speaker 7: taking this certification class.
Speaker 1: Right, high intensity training on how to not kill kids exactly.
Speaker 7: Yeah, that's that's frowned upon.
Speaker 1: Yeah, they don't love it. It says some celebrities kids
Speaker 1: went there too. What was that like?
Speaker 7: Yeah, it was kind of a higher end camp. The
Speaker 7: two uition was was pretty was pretty steep. But yeah,
Speaker 7: they had some celebrity some celebrity kids, uh that were
Speaker 7: there in the In the the the leader of the
Speaker 7: camp met with us staff and said, hey, you're on
Speaker 7: a rival day. You're probably gonna see some celebrities. But
Speaker 7: we asked you that you don't bother them, don't ask
Speaker 7: for pictures or autographs. Just let them be mom and
Speaker 7: dad right now. But there were some kids there. A
Speaker 7: kid his last name was Baccardy. He was part of
Speaker 7: the Bacardi Rum family. Lauren Michael's the producer for Saturday
Speaker 7: Night Live. His his son went there, and then Jimmy
Speaker 7: Buffett's son went there as well. So I had some
Speaker 7: had some high profile kids on camp.
Speaker 1: Was Buffetskid a partier like always had cheeseburgers and margaritas
Speaker 1: for everybody.
Speaker 7: No, I don't know he was in my cabin. I
Speaker 7: don't really. I don't really remember him too well. I
Speaker 7: think I do remember him, but he wasn't part of my,
Speaker 7: uh my group of kids. But it would be ironic
Speaker 7: if he was always cruise around in Hawaiian shure, Yeah,
Speaker 7: at half passing out my thighs. Yeah, it's that's fits.
Speaker 1: That was in Maine, right, that camp that was in Maine. Yes,
Speaker 1: how did you get to Maine? Have you always lived
Speaker 1: in Oklahoma? How'd you get up that way? Yeah?
Speaker 7: I've always lived in northeast Oklahoma. But like I said,
Speaker 7: it was a buddy of mine went up there, and
Speaker 7: I think a friend of his told him about it,
Speaker 7: so he told me, and then I just I had
Speaker 7: nothing going on, so I applied online and got hired
Speaker 7: and we drove up there, and it's beautiful up in
Speaker 7: that part of the country has never.
Speaker 1: Been Yeah, that's rude for if that is man, How
Speaker 1: long did it take you?
Speaker 7: We drove NonStop from Tulsa to Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania in one day,
Speaker 7: and we took turns driving and we'd drive one tank
Speaker 7: gifty and then we'd flip and he'd drive the other
Speaker 7: tank gympty and we would just do that. And it
Speaker 7: took us. Like I said, we stopped in New York
Speaker 7: on the way there for a couple of nights and
Speaker 7: stayed with his cousin. But I think it took us
Speaker 7: like we took about four or five days getting up there.
Speaker 1: Wild It says here you hiked to the Appalachia Trail.
Speaker 1: Tell me how you decided to do that. Did you
Speaker 1: do the whole course? How old were you?
Speaker 7: Yeah? No, I didn't do the whole thing. You know,
Speaker 7: it runs from Georgia to Maine. But again, at this camp,
Speaker 7: we would take the campers camping at campgrounds in New
Speaker 7: Hampshire and in Maine, and there were always parts of
Speaker 7: the Appalation Trail that you could hike and go see
Speaker 7: real pretty views. So I know it's the joke because
Speaker 7: if you hiked, you know, one step on the Affleation Trail,
Speaker 7: you hiked it. So I guess I have. But I've
Speaker 7: hiked probably, oh, I don't know, eight or ten miles
Speaker 7: of the Appellation Trail through New Hampshire in Maine.
Speaker 1: And what was that like? Did you do it by
Speaker 1: yourself or with the buddy h both?
Speaker 7: I did it with groups of campers and then I
Speaker 7: we would have days off and so us staff members
Speaker 7: would go do our own thing. On our day off.
Speaker 7: We might hike, you know, part part of it and
Speaker 7: camp out somewhere and stay stay back in the campgrounds.
Speaker 1: And is that something you would ever go back to
Speaker 1: doing again or is that ship sailed for you? No,
Speaker 1: I'd do it.
Speaker 7: I'd like to take my family up there. I've told
Speaker 7: my wife about it and our daughter, and we'd like
Speaker 7: to go up there and do it. It's been a
Speaker 7: long time steppen up there, so it'd be interesting to
Speaker 7: go back up there and go We went to a
Speaker 7: Kadian National Park which is beautiful and I'd like to
Speaker 7: take them back some day. So I think that's probably
Speaker 7: on our on our to do list when.
Speaker 1: The time is right, Whether it was on the Aplace
Speaker 1: trail or when you were a summer camp counselor what's
Speaker 1: the scariest interaction or moment you had where you thought
Speaker 1: something was happening or you heard something.
Speaker 7: When I was at camp. Really, yeah, nothing really on
Speaker 7: the trail, it was all pretty chill. We camped out
Speaker 7: one time in the White Mountains of New Hampshire and
Speaker 7: we it was a big group of us. It wasn't kids,
Speaker 7: it was just staff members and we were camping out,
Speaker 7: probably twenty of us. So we had a bunch of
Speaker 7: tents and we're drinking beer and doing what kids that
Speaker 7: age do. And there were two guys that have been
Speaker 7: hiking the trail and they'd started in Georgia and they
Speaker 7: were in New Hampshire and so they were pretty crusty,
Speaker 7: but they were good guys. But they were like, yeah,
Speaker 7: we're gonna plan on finishing up here in the next
Speaker 7: couple of weeks, and they were telling us all about it.
Speaker 7: But it was wild that you're sitting there talking with
Speaker 7: guys that's you know, basically walked from Georgia to New Hampshire.
Speaker 1: Yeah. And did you are you still friends with any
Speaker 1: of those people? Do you stay in contact with them? Yeah?
Speaker 7: Yeah. So the guy that got me interested in it
Speaker 7: is a buddy of mine that I still go to
Speaker 7: lunch with here, oh once a month or so. And
Speaker 7: then met some good friends. It was the estaff was
Speaker 7: from all over the world. Friends from Australia, a buddy
Speaker 7: of mine from Scotland and I still keep in touch with.
Speaker 7: So it was it wasn't just you know, people from
Speaker 7: the United States. They had staff from all over the
Speaker 7: all over the world that came in and helped run
Speaker 7: this camp.
Speaker 1: And when you did the trail, like in the Carolinas,
Speaker 1: did anybody stand on a sit on a porch with
Speaker 1: a banjo?
Speaker 7: No, I don't remember that. No, I don't. I don't
Speaker 7: think anybody said in the porch with the banjo. It
Speaker 7: was all it was all pretty chill. I never really
Speaker 7: I never really saw anything too wild beautiful views though,
Speaker 7: and parts of this trail. Trail were pretty strenuous, but
Speaker 7: it was it was really neat and I really enjoyed it.
Speaker 2: Uh.
Speaker 1: And then it says here, not only did you take
Speaker 1: care of famous celebrities kids. You also ran into a politician.
Speaker 7: Yeah, so another summer. This was probably before I went
Speaker 7: to camp, maybe my last year of high school.
Speaker 8: I was.
Speaker 7: It was out for my mom and dad had planned
Speaker 7: this trip to Washington, d C. And I didn't have
Speaker 7: a job or a girlfriend at the time, and they
Speaker 7: were like, hey, why don't you just tag along with us?
Speaker 7: You got nothing else going on? And okay, So we
Speaker 7: drove to d C. And took our time getting there.
Speaker 7: You know, we didn't really have any time constraints, and
Speaker 7: my dad had arranged for us to take a tour
Speaker 7: of the Capitol Building. So we toured the Capitol and
Speaker 7: then we underneath the Capitol Building. There's a subway that
Speaker 7: runs to the Senate Office Building. And we were on
Speaker 7: that subway going over to the Senate Office Building and
Speaker 7: there was a lot of people around, and people were
Speaker 7: getting off the subway as we were getting on, and
Speaker 7: I bumped into somebody and turned around to apologize, and
Speaker 7: it was Hillary Clinton and it was why it was
Speaker 7: before it was after her husband had been president, but yeah,
Speaker 7: it was. It was weird. It was very brief. We
Speaker 7: just bumped into each other and both turned around and
Speaker 7: said I'm sorry, and I was like, oh my god,
Speaker 7: that's Hillary Clinton. Head on swivel.
Speaker 1: I mean the fact that you're still alive today is
Speaker 1: a president.
Speaker 7: Like I said, you know, watch you're six from here
Speaker 7: on end.
Speaker 1: Right, man. This has been fast sitting talked and talking
Speaker 1: to you man, and it all. Congratulations on the blind
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Speaker 1: work out that way, but uh, good for you man,
Speaker 1: and it was great talking to you.
Speaker 7: Hey, you too. I appreciate it all right.
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Speaker 1: you might remember the story about the guy and his wife.
Speaker 1: They went on the sailboat and on the way back
Speaker 1: to the sailboat, she died. Yeah, mysteriously. Apparently something suspicious
Speaker 1: has surfaced about this situation. I understand he's left Jamaica,
Speaker 1: so they would have to extradite him back there for
Speaker 1: the murder. Uh huh. So the chances of him going
Speaker 1: are the Bahamas, I should say.
Speaker 5: So.
Speaker 1: The chance of him going back probably isn't very high.
Speaker 1: Don't you don't think Marshalls would take him back. I
Speaker 1: don't think so, huh. I guess Jamaica would happen the
Speaker 1: Haamian law. Yeah, okay. So she vanished on April fourth,
Speaker 1: when they were in the Bahamas and with her husband Brian,
Speaker 1: and he says they were returning to their sailboat by
Speaker 1: dinghy when rough waters caused her to fall overboard. He
Speaker 1: told authorities. He paddled to shore and reached the harbor
Speaker 1: around four am. The sailboat's tracking system stopped transmitting at
Speaker 1: nine to twenty nine that night and didn't come back
Speaker 1: on till eight forty am the next day, more than
Speaker 1: eleven hours of an outwork like it was turned off.
Speaker 1: A federal prosecutor said investigators need to figure out how
Speaker 1: and why the tracking stopped because the timing overlaps her
Speaker 1: disappearance and looks suspicious. We're also looking at GPS data
Speaker 1: from his phone that reportedly contradicts his account and has
Speaker 1: changed the search area. The Coastguard has seized the ship
Speaker 1: and is examined it for evidence, and he has not
Speaker 1: been charged. His attorney has asked people to give him
Speaker 1: the benefit of the doubt. No, no, because statistically you
Speaker 1: did it. Did you do it? I don't know, But
Speaker 1: if we had to go with stats and there was
Speaker 1: a you know, a gambling side on it, I'll put
Speaker 1: my money on you. Not a great gambler, so I
Speaker 1: might get it wrong, but you probably did it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: based if we had to go statistically, yeah, I mean dinghy,
Speaker 1: that's two person boat, right exactly, you know, and then
Speaker 1: she just fool.
Speaker 4: Sounds a lot like the uh disappearance of Natalie Wood
Speaker 4: when it was just her and uh her husband at
Speaker 4: the time, and William was it William Dafoe on the
Speaker 4: boat not William Dafoe, oh h the other actor? Yes, yeah,
Speaker 4: you know who I'm thinking of yes, yeah, Robert Wagner, Yes,
Speaker 4: Robert Wagner.
Speaker 1: And doesn't matter the other day.
Speaker 6: Let me ask you, if your spouse falls overboard off
Speaker 6: a Deny rough waters or not, you're trying to save them, right,
Speaker 6: And I say that because you don't just instantly sink. No, right, No,
Speaker 6: the other person, the one that fell off into the
Speaker 6: waters probably splashing around, you know, trying to stay above
Speaker 6: rough waters or not. You don't just it's not like
Speaker 6: dropping a rock into the water, is what I'm saying.
Speaker 5: Correct.
Speaker 4: So even if they can't swim, yeah, they're not sinking
Speaker 4: right away.
Speaker 1: No, don't, no dinghy have that little little ring thing? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Well okay, so let's let's think about you're thinking that,
Speaker 1: like he watched or go overboard and went, but what
Speaker 1: are you gonna do?
Speaker 10: Yeah?
Speaker 1: But what if he was if there were rough waters
Speaker 1: and he turned back to the to the control or whatever,
Speaker 1: and then turning she was gone, he might not know
Speaker 1: where to look. And if it's dark, he may not
Speaker 1: be able to see her. Okay. And also if it's rough,
Speaker 1: do you go I'm jumping into and also dying? Well, no,
Speaker 1: you got, you got?
Speaker 6: Like I said, the little ring thing on the rope,
Speaker 6: maybe to wear maybe a life jacket or a paddle.
Speaker 1: Yeah, there was another option there. And or it's dark, right,
Speaker 1: it's dark, and so you may not be uh being
Speaker 1: able to know what's happening. So it's sort of a
Speaker 1: new moon. But right, again, don't underst mean how dark
Speaker 1: it is and when there's no light pollution. Here's the
Speaker 1: problem I'm hung up with is that if they are
Speaker 1: experienced boaters, I don't understand how this happened. If she
Speaker 1: was experienced and he was experienced, they would know to
Speaker 1: hold on, they would know to hey, this is a
Speaker 1: little bit more dangerous. We normally don't wear life jackets,
Speaker 1: but we're wearing them this time. I feel like there
Speaker 1: would have been some extra precautionary measures to take that.
Speaker 1: Usually boaters that this caliber don't mess around with.
Speaker 6: Now, maybe you said it and I just didn't catch it.
Speaker 6: What happened to the actual sailboat that caused them to make.
Speaker 1: Them get a coast guard confiscated it. The coast guard
Speaker 1: stole it, Well, they didn't steal it, but you know
Speaker 1: they cofid they took it. So they're like, we're taking
Speaker 1: your sailboat. Get on this little dangy here. No no, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: no no no no, they have confiscated it now is evidence.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, now, but what they were doing is they
Speaker 1: were sure eating, probably drinking, and then they were going
Speaker 1: back to their boat because it can't be brought in
Speaker 1: so close. Got it got and so it's angered out. Yeah, okay.
Speaker 1: I was just here.
Speaker 6: I was wondering why they were in this little dingy
Speaker 6: as opposed to the actual sailboat.
Speaker 1: But that makes sense.
Speaker 4: And also on the dinghy, wouldn't there have been a
Speaker 4: flare gun?
Speaker 1: Maybe? I mean not everybody packs their safety equipment right right.
Speaker 4: I just thought they come standard on them.
Speaker 1: I don't know if you know much about men, but
Speaker 1: when we think we're an expert, we definitely don't read instructions. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and we definitely don't take all the precautions. Yeah, we're
Speaker 1: never gonna need a flare gun. But sometimes people that
Speaker 1: like it's their life have safety measures in place. And
Speaker 1: I would think two people would go, hey, this is
Speaker 1: really rough. We should be extra cautious.
Speaker 6: Yeah, right, Like you'll know how rough the water is
Speaker 6: the moment you get into it, or at least a
Speaker 6: certain amount a certain distance from the shore right, And
Speaker 6: at least in my mind, I'm like, we should probably
Speaker 6: turn around, go back and just hang out on the beach.
Speaker 1: And I don't know the water calms down, right, But
Speaker 1: if you have no money, and because you know, if
Speaker 1: you're sailing, you might not have a ton of money,
Speaker 1: and you're like, I gotta get back to my boat
Speaker 1: because that's where we're sleeping, and blah blah blah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess and you hear rough and we just come
Speaker 1: up with an answer. And would it think it looks
Speaker 1: like we don't know.
Speaker 6: I'm assuming Gilligan's Island rough, you know, in the opening
Speaker 6: lines the ship gets tossed.
Speaker 1: And yeah, and I want to know how far were
Speaker 1: they going? So far as paddling like in the sailboat
Speaker 1: or in the banking, I mean paddling. It could not
Speaker 1: have been very far, right, It could not have been
Speaker 1: very far that they needed to go. It was an
Speaker 1: eight foot dinghy and it said that he then had
Speaker 1: to paddle back. If it's for it, what time did
Speaker 1: he start? Like what is the timeline? That's part like
Speaker 1: did he start at like nine pm? Right? Or did
Speaker 1: they close the bar? Yeah? And the fact that the
Speaker 1: h you say it was a GPS that was turned
Speaker 1: off or whatever. Yes, on the main boat.
Speaker 6: Yeah, just turned off, just stopped working and all of
Speaker 6: a sudden started working again the next day.
Speaker 1: That's a lot of sacks. Man, there's there is some gaps.
Speaker 1: This says that he GPS data suggests he crossed about
Speaker 1: four miles of open water in the dingy mm hm,
Speaker 1: which feels like This says that may not be the
Speaker 1: exact distance to the from Sure, four miles out feels
Speaker 1: really far. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean I don't know
Speaker 1: much about sailing, but I think you'd want to get
Speaker 1: a little closer than four miles. You want to walk
Speaker 1: four miles? Bro We Okay, So we went kayaking. I
Speaker 1: took my oldest kayaking in Mexico, right, and i've kind
Speaker 1: of it'd been years since I kayak. And we get
Speaker 1: in there and you gotta climb up into the kayak
Speaker 1: right straight out of the water and get positioned and paddle.
Speaker 1: But I can't sit that like it's rough on my hips.
Speaker 1: Yeah oh yeah, right, I mean it's We only did
Speaker 1: fifteen minutes and I was liked, and we took turns.
Speaker 1: She wanted to do it a little bit, and so
Speaker 1: we took turns just the sitting alone, but to do
Speaker 1: it for four we didn't even do a quarter of
Speaker 1: a mile. Yeah, and I forget how old these people were,
Speaker 1: but they weren't fifty one, right.
Speaker 6: But to be fair, you've got a little more room
Speaker 6: for comfort and a dinghy than you do. Want to kayak?
Speaker 4: Yeah, stretch your legs.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, huh. Dingy I think is what more canoeish?
Speaker 1: Maybe you know, small boatish.
Speaker 4: It's and wider.
Speaker 1: It's an eight foot ding man.
Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, that's a long but you got yeah, you
Speaker 9: can stretch out. Man, you got all this room for activities. Yes,
Speaker 9: isn't it funny? Like I want to see the dinghy?
Speaker 9: I want to see like were there seats yeah? Or
Speaker 9: was it just like just you know, like a yellow
Speaker 9: tube right with the bottom and does this dinghy? And
Speaker 9: clearly it had oars.
Speaker 6: But I mean, I think if you can own a sailboat,
Speaker 6: you got some money, you can at least own a
Speaker 6: trolling motor or some kind of motor on your your
Speaker 6: dinghy to get you to and from because if you've
Speaker 6: got to dock out that far, because your sailboat can't
Speaker 6: be up close to the shore like that you're gonna
Speaker 6: padding four miles. I wouldn't want to paddle four miles.
Speaker 4: Put a motor on that bad Usually they have a
Speaker 4: trolling motor.
Speaker 1: Yeah, just dude. His friend said it wasn't an accident.
Speaker 1: His own friend was like, ah, probably not an accident,
Speaker 1: because he says that if it was an accident, he
Speaker 1: believes Brian would have made an effort to search for
Speaker 1: her and help. Yeah, and for the resources for resources
Speaker 1: to come and assistant aid. And he didn't do it right.
Speaker 1: I can't imagine you're on a dingy you have no
Speaker 1: way to alert the local coast guard, whether it's a
Speaker 1: talkie walkie or whatever, short short wave like something I
Speaker 1: would think. But again, just because someone owns a boat,
Speaker 1: and just because someone's traveled around and done all this stuff,
Speaker 1: doesn't mean they're following rules, right. It's kind of like
Speaker 1: people that fly airplanes recreationally. You think they're following all
Speaker 1: the rules. Yeah, you think they are, doesn't mean they are.
Speaker 1: You hope they are. Doesn't mean they are. Those people
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Speaker 1: you hope they're doing it right. But we've all put
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Speaker 4: That's probably the most accurate.
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Speaker 1: my chances with the shark. Maybe he's a giant bitch. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and he's like, I'm done. I'm making you the culprit. Right,
Speaker 1: I've seen enough movies where that happens. Uh huh. Yeah,
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Speaker 5: I'm doing great? Here are you guys doing good?
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Speaker 1: It's great to talk to you, and he's here to
Speaker 1: answer your question about family law that you have. Maybe
Speaker 1: it's divorced, maybe it's custody, maybe it's guardianship. Maybe you
Speaker 1: thought you'd get to see your kid this summer and
Speaker 1: the other party is not letting that happen, and you
Speaker 1: want to know how to navigate that. Get your question
Speaker 1: to us, email show at kmod dot com, text bmms
Speaker 1: whatever your question is to eight two nine four five
Speaker 1: or call us at eight three three four six ozh
Speaker 1: kmod I noticed something, Jeff that Steve Gutenberg announced that
Speaker 1: he's getting divorced and had to buy out of his
Speaker 1: divorce seven hundred thousand dollars. And then I saw articles
Speaker 1: of people under the age of thirty getting divorced. And
Speaker 1: some people think, you've been married a long time, you're
Speaker 1: not going to get divorced, and that's just not true.
Speaker 1: It affects older people as much as younger people, right, absolutely.
Speaker 10: And one of the things we're starting to see is
Speaker 10: what's called great divorce is the term that they're using
Speaker 10: for people who are getting divorced older. So you know,
Speaker 10: people that we're seeing now are twenty five, thirty thirty
Speaker 10: plus your marriage is getting divorced and it's being called
Speaker 10: gray divorce. Is determine that they're giving it, So yeah,
Speaker 10: it affects everybody, doesn't matter what your age is, from
Speaker 10: young to old. And you know, in the old days,
Speaker 10: we didn't see quite as many older couples getting divorced.
Speaker 10: From now we're seeing it. And like I said, it's
Speaker 10: a unique termament that are calling gray divorce.
Speaker 1: And those divorces where people have been married fifteen twenty
Speaker 1: years can be a little more logistically challenging, right because
Speaker 1: of the amount of things they've collected. Yeah.
Speaker 10: Absolutely, I mean after a certain amount of time things
Speaker 10: start to blur right as to who's is who's is hers,
Speaker 10: mine ours, that kind of thing. So yeah, absolutely that
Speaker 10: can definitely happen for sure and does happen.
Speaker 1: Listen, these things can be challenging to navigate. That's why
Speaker 1: you need help, and the folks at Hinsley Associates are
Speaker 1: at the ready. You can call us eight three three
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Speaker 1: right now, or you can email show at kmod dot com.
Speaker 1: This email we got says, my ex just got promoted
Speaker 1: to regional manager position and has made you can significantly
Speaker 1: more money than when our support order was set two
Speaker 1: years ago. I'm still working the same job and my
Speaker 1: expenses for the kids have gone up. Is there a
Speaker 1: way to go back and have that amount recalculated?
Speaker 5: Absolutely?
Speaker 10: Child support is always able to go and be modified.
Speaker 10: I mean, anytime anybody's income changes, whether it be your
Speaker 10: income or the other side income, or you know, let's
Speaker 10: say you're now paying for insurance and you weren't paying before.
Speaker 10: I mean, it doesn't matter what it is, there's always
Speaker 10: a way to go back and do that, and yes,
Speaker 10: it can definitely be modified. So wherever this is, please
Speaker 10: give us a holler at the office. We'd love to
Speaker 10: help you with that and get that change for you
Speaker 10: right away.
Speaker 1: Jeff Finsley's with us eight three three four six oh
Speaker 1: kmod four six O kmod. Or you can text BMMS
Speaker 1: and whatever your question is to eight two nine four five.
Speaker 1: My X and I separated two years ago and I
Speaker 1: have no idea where he's living now. He just disappeared.
Speaker 1: My friend said, I can't get a divorce if I
Speaker 1: can't serve him papers. Is that true or is there
Speaker 1: another way to do this that is not true?
Speaker 10: In the state of Oklahoma, we have three ways to
Speaker 10: serve people, okay, So that means we either have a
Speaker 10: process over hand paperwork to them, or we send it
Speaker 10: by a green card in the mill.
Speaker 5: All right now.
Speaker 10: Obviously, if we don't know where the person is for
Speaker 10: those two to be done, then we have a third
Speaker 10: option called publication, where we can publish in a newspaper.
Speaker 10: So just because we doesn't know we don't know where somebody,
Speaker 10: Just because we don't know where someone is doesn't mean
Speaker 10: that we can't get you divorced. So please, whoever this is,
Speaker 10: don't wait any longer. Gives a call, we'd love to
Speaker 10: help you with that.
Speaker 1: Jeff and the folks of Hensley Associates are on with
Speaker 1: us eight three three four six KMOD and Justin is
Speaker 1: on the line. Justin, go ahead. You're on with Jeff
Speaker 1: Heinsley of Hensley and Associates.
Speaker 11: How are we doing today, Bud.
Speaker 1: Good Man, go ahead with your question. All right.
Speaker 11: I live in Oklahoma and my mother Mustsem is in California,
Speaker 11: and I have a child support here.
Speaker 8: But show up there.
Speaker 7: They was going to cancel it.
Speaker 11: I guess the state wanted to redo it. You give
Speaker 11: another chance to work, which I know she won't, so
Speaker 11: it's but I was just kind of curious about my
Speaker 11: rights in the situation behind get visitation of him and
Speaker 11: doing that that should keep my son from him because
Speaker 11: I stopped the money because she was all, let me
Speaker 11: talk to my son. I had a new girlfriend and
Speaker 11: there was a big old mess.
Speaker 5: So how long has the child lived in California?
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, I'm sorry. You gotta takey we gotta stop.
Speaker 1: You got to turn your radio down. We're having a
Speaker 1: really hard time hearing you.
Speaker 8: Also, I thought I had a DOWNCOHOLO.
Speaker 1: Guys, go ahead, Now, how long has it has he
Speaker 1: been in California.
Speaker 11: Since twenty.
Speaker 10: Sixteen, I believe, Okay, are there are Are there any
Speaker 10: sort of custody orders out of Oklahoma or no? No,
Speaker 10: So what you're gonna have to do is gonna have
Speaker 10: to actually go to California to hire an attorney in California,
Speaker 10: the county that she lives in, because at this point
Speaker 10: that the child and the mother both are residents of California,
Speaker 10: which means that anything in regards to visitation is.
Speaker 5: Going to have to be done through the California courts.
Speaker 10: Since the child doesn't live here and hasn't lived here
Speaker 10: within the last six months, Oklahoma doesn't have any jurisdiction
Speaker 10: over the child to do anything with in regards to visitation.
Speaker 10: So she's gonna You're gonna have to go to California
Speaker 10: to be able to get the visitation set up.
Speaker 11: Kind of problem is is that I'm basically off and
Speaker 11: my job would not allow me to take that much
Speaker 11: time off.
Speaker 5: Well, I mean, here's the thing.
Speaker 10: If you want visitation with your son, you're going to
Speaker 10: have to hire an attorney out in California to get visitation.
Speaker 10: There's nothing that can be done here in Oklahoma at
Speaker 10: all in any way shape or form.
Speaker 5: The thing is, is there something called the u c
Speaker 5: c j e A. And we talked about this before
Speaker 5: on the show.
Speaker 7: It's the.
Speaker 5: Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction.
Speaker 10: Enforcement Act, and it's the act that defines what the
Speaker 10: home state of the child is. And in this case,
Speaker 10: California is the home state. Oklahoma is not the home state.
Speaker 10: The court that has home state jurisdiction is the one
Speaker 10: that can control visitation. So if he's a California resident
Speaker 10: and he's been there for several years, they're going to
Speaker 10: have to go to California to do it. And unfortunately,
Speaker 10: you're going to have to decide at some point job child.
Speaker 10: I mean, I hate to put it that way, but
Speaker 10: that's just kind of the the blunt truth of it, all.
Speaker 8: Right, I have to have like messages of or she's
Speaker 8: voice recording that herd out my son to cuss and
Speaker 8: say some really absurd cussing stuff. It's which I followed, Okay, DHS.
Speaker 10: No, that cussing, cussing does not rise to the level
Speaker 10: of DHS involvement. DHS involvement rise when to get to
Speaker 10: that level of bringing DHS in, the child's got to
Speaker 10: be in some sort of immediate irreparable harm. Cussing and
Speaker 10: swearing and saying nasty things, even though it's not okay
Speaker 10: in my opinion for a lot of kids, obviously does
Speaker 10: not rise to the level of DHS involvement, and they
Speaker 10: would immediately screen it out because the child's not in
Speaker 10: any sort of harm.
Speaker 8: Right, Well, because she already had our son say I
Speaker 8: wish you'd kill yourself or you should.
Speaker 1: One thing.
Speaker 5: She was crazy, Okay, So wait, let's back up here.
Speaker 7: SI.
Speaker 5: So she's telling the child to say that the child
Speaker 5: wants to kill itself.
Speaker 7: No, tell me to me. Well, I'm talking to me.
Speaker 1: Again.
Speaker 5: I don't think that right That doesn't put the child
Speaker 5: in harm?
Speaker 10: Is that an awful horrible thing to say, Absolutely, but
Speaker 10: doesn't rise to the level of the child being an
Speaker 10: immediate irreblable harm. And it sounds like your ex is
Speaker 10: a piece of work. But again, there's nothing that can
Speaker 10: be done from this side in Oklahoma. You're gonna have
Speaker 10: to get somebody in California. You're gonna have to hire
Speaker 10: an interney in California to file stuff for you. That's
Speaker 10: your only remedy at this point, right All.
Speaker 1: Right, man, thank you? Justin good luck with everything, buddy, Jeff,
Speaker 1: I want to readdress that in more blanket statement. When
Speaker 1: your partner has the children out of state and they've
Speaker 1: lived there for what duration of time, that now becomes
Speaker 1: a problem in another state that you have to go to.
Speaker 5: Right, say that one more time.
Speaker 1: So when your partner takes your children to another state
Speaker 1: and they live there for a duration of time, you
Speaker 1: then have to go to that state to deal with it.
Speaker 5: Correct.
Speaker 10: I mean, if the child has been in that state
Speaker 10: longer than six months, then now that child is now
Speaker 10: a resident of that state wherever it is, and you're
Speaker 10: gonna have to go to that state to deal with it.
Speaker 5: Absolutely.
Speaker 1: And I would imagine, just like we heard from him,
Speaker 1: you feel helpless and there's nothing you can do, and
Speaker 1: he's got a couple other constraints that he feels like
Speaker 1: he can't do that.
Speaker 10: Yeah, and it's frustrating, and I get that, and I
Speaker 10: completely understand, and it's one of those things that it
Speaker 10: can be difficult, it can be frustrating, it can be
Speaker 10: real pain in the butt, but yeah, that you have
Speaker 10: remedies and you just have to be able to understand
Speaker 10: that that's where you need to go is to deal
Speaker 10: with it in that state and hire an attorney in
Speaker 10: that state.
Speaker 5: And it's for people.
Speaker 10: Let's say this for someone in California who was calling
Speaker 10: about their child living in Oklahoma.
Speaker 5: I mean, we can definitely help if the child's in.
Speaker 10: Oklahoma, but if the child's not an Oklahoma resident, you're
Speaker 10: gonna have to hire somebody in the other state.
Speaker 1: Jeff Hensley from Hensley Associates is on with us. You've
Speaker 1: got a question about divorce, custody, guardianships, name changes. He's
Speaker 1: here to answer those questions right now. And you've got
Speaker 1: a couple of ways to get your question to us
Speaker 1: eight three three four six, oh KMOD email show at
Speaker 1: kmod dot com, or text like this one. You'm a
Speaker 1: mass in whatever your question is. To eight two nine
Speaker 1: four five, he says, I have a friend from Texas
Speaker 1: who dropped her kids off to her parents here in
Speaker 1: Oklahoma and gave them power of attorney over her kids.
Speaker 1: Is that a thing.
Speaker 5: Potentially?
Speaker 7: Yes, I mean you can be given.
Speaker 5: Power attorney of a child. That is absolutely correct.
Speaker 10: Remember that all power attorneys are revocable at any point,
Speaker 10: so yes, that can happen. Now, the difference is is,
Speaker 10: you know, do you want a power of attorney do
Speaker 10: you want a guardianship? And that comes down to exactly
Speaker 10: what you're needing the power of attorney for and while
Speaker 10: the child and why the child is with somebody else.
Speaker 10: So and that's very case specific as to why someone
Speaker 10: wanted to do that, But yeah, you can do power
Speaker 10: attorneys for children.
Speaker 1: That is correct, Jeff. We're getting a lot of texts
Speaker 1: from people wanting an update about the royal name and
Speaker 1: the royal family that you have been dealing with in
Speaker 1: the name change.
Speaker 5: Sure, we try, we try reaching out.
Speaker 10: I had one of my associates reach out about that
Speaker 10: and we've not been able to reach the person. So
Speaker 10: we will continue to do that and hopefully bring some
Speaker 10: closure to our lovely listeners who want to know about
Speaker 10: the royal royalness of this lady.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's actually a pretty common thing that happens
Speaker 1: when a story like that blossoms, that people feel like, oh,
Speaker 1: especially if we were right, they typically right.
Speaker 4: We tried, we.
Speaker 10: Tried, re reached out, trying to reach out and left
Speaker 10: messages and stuff, and we will try.
Speaker 5: Again this week and see if we can get an
Speaker 5: answer for everybody.
Speaker 1: Jeff Finsley's here for Hinsley associates questions about divorce and custody.
Speaker 1: Any family law question he can answer. It doesn't have
Speaker 1: to be custody, doesn't have to be visitation. It can
Speaker 1: be whether you have a question about name changes or adoption.
Speaker 1: He can help with that, BM mess and whatever your
Speaker 1: question is to eight two nine four five like this one.
Speaker 1: Can I ask the court for phone calls or FaceTime
Speaker 1: visits if we live in different states?
Speaker 5: Absolutely?
Speaker 10: Yeah, absolutely, I mean you can definitely ask for that.
Speaker 10: Everybody should be having some sort of contact with their.
Speaker 5: Children.
Speaker 10: I mean it doesn't matter whether it be phone calls
Speaker 10: or FaceTime or email or whatever it may be. You
Speaker 10: should definitely have that contact. Can you have a right
Speaker 10: to assets from the court. Absolutely?
Speaker 1: This email says my X and I are actually on
Speaker 1: decent terms and we think we can figure out custody
Speaker 1: and the finances without it turning into a big courtroom battle.
Speaker 1: Is it possible to just write something up between ourselves
Speaker 1: or do we have to have a judge involved for
Speaker 1: it to be real?
Speaker 5: Read that one more time. I'm sorry, my X.
Speaker 1: And I are actually on decent terms and we think
Speaker 1: we can figure out custody and the finances without it
Speaker 1: being a big courtroom battle. Is it possible to just
Speaker 1: write something up between ourselves or do we have to
Speaker 1: have a judge involved for it to be real.
Speaker 10: So you always have to have a judge involved for
Speaker 10: it to be real. It's it's not signed by a judge.
Speaker 10: It's not a real document. And you know a lot
Speaker 10: of people and we've talked about this before until it's not.
Speaker 10: And you've said that many times over, Corbin, and it
Speaker 10: completely makes sense. I mean, yeah, you guys are getting
Speaker 10: a long now, and that's great, but you want to
Speaker 10: turn it into an order and have it signed by
Speaker 10: a judge, which means it's going to have all the
Speaker 10: legal language in it, it's going to have all the
Speaker 10: requirements that are required by state law for the divorced
Speaker 10: decree to have in it, and it must be signed
Speaker 10: off by a judge for it to be real. Otherwise
Speaker 10: it's just some letters written down on a sheet of
Speaker 10: paper and signed by people. And remember, even if you
Speaker 10: have a notary sign it, a notary is not a judge.
Speaker 10: All a notary is is somebody saying, yes, this is
Speaker 10: the real life person that signed this document. Does not
Speaker 10: make a document legal, does not make it binding. It's
Speaker 10: a judge's signature that makes it the real deal.
Speaker 1: This email says that I heard you mentioning about swearing
Speaker 1: is not a reason to get DHS involved. But my
Speaker 1: ex's new boyfriend yells at my kid. Can I get
Speaker 1: DHS involved for that?
Speaker 5: Okay?
Speaker 10: So when I was talking, let's back up. When I
Speaker 10: was talking about swearing, I was talking about the kids swearing.
Speaker 10: When you've got a new boyfriend or girlfriend that is
Speaker 10: swearing at the child. Unless the swearing includes the words
Speaker 10: I'm going to kill you or you should kill yourself
Speaker 10: or something like that, DHS is not going to do
Speaker 10: anything with it. Again, when you want to bring DHS
Speaker 10: in is when the child isn't what we call immediate
Speaker 10: irreparable harm. Okay, So the child is in a home
Speaker 10: that people are doing drugs in, or are you know
Speaker 10: they're they're doing crack cocaine with the child or in
Speaker 10: front of the child, or you know something where the
Speaker 10: child could be in some sort of physical or mental
Speaker 10: abuse harm. Now the person's going to say, well, the
Speaker 10: person yelling at them is is mental abuse potentially, But
Speaker 10: it depends on what's being said. I mean, if they're
Speaker 10: just yelling at him and screaming at them that they're
Speaker 10: you know, you shouldn't touch the dad gum or filling
Speaker 10: a blank whatever, customer do you want to use remote
Speaker 10: or something like that. That's not a reason to call DHS.
Speaker 10: But if they're you know, mentally abusing them in some
Speaker 10: way or emotionally abusing them in some way, that might
Speaker 10: be grounds to do so. But remember when you call
Speaker 10: in DHS, it's a big deal. It's not something that
Speaker 10: should be taken lightly, and it's one of those things
Speaker 10: that it should only be done when the child is
Speaker 10: in some sort of immediate, irreparable harm.
Speaker 1: Jeff Hensley from Hensley Associates, is here one last question
Speaker 1: we have? It says she says, I'm not the dad,
Speaker 1: but I signed the birth certificate. Am I stuck? Pain? Yeah?
Speaker 10: At this point, if you sign that birth certificate, unless
Speaker 10: you can find somebody to take your place. And what
Speaker 10: I mean by that is that there's something called a
Speaker 10: seven oh six B argument that says, if there's someone
Speaker 10: else out there who has held the child out as
Speaker 10: their own and that sort of thing, then you can
Speaker 10: definitely try and get it moved over. But otherwise, if
Speaker 10: you're the one that signed that birth certificate. You may
Speaker 10: be on the hook, so be aware. Whoever this is,
Speaker 10: please call the office. We'd like to get a little
Speaker 10: more details as to what went down and see if
Speaker 10: there was any fraud or deceit involved.
Speaker 1: Jeff is here to answer any question you have, and
Speaker 1: we've even set up a free consultation if you call
Speaker 1: them in their office at nine one eight three nine
Speaker 1: eight five six nine two. Because these things can get
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Speaker 1: sister's kids or your brother's kids or anything like that.
Speaker 1: Jeff can answer how that stuff works, and don't rely
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Speaker 1: of legal help in other areas of the law, Jeff
Speaker 1: and the folks in Hinsley Associates can help with that
Speaker 1: as well.
Speaker 10: All right, So for our other office, we can help
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Speaker 10: you've got something as mundane as a speeding ticket, all
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Speaker 5: If you've got any sort of.
Speaker 10: Will or state issue, probate issues, if you've got a
Speaker 10: contract issue, let's say you need a new contract renew
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Speaker 10: you're selling land, literally anything in between, so anything in addition.
Speaker 5: To family law.
Speaker 10: Give Leah a call up at our pahsco office. It's
Speaker 10: the Shoemake Law Firm. If you can't remember that name,
Speaker 10: just give us a call here at Hinsley and Tulsa
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Speaker 10: and they'll get you taken care of.
Speaker 1: Six nine two for Hensley Associates. Jeff, have a great week,
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Speaker 1: to make an omelet. Sometimes you gotta blow up a
Speaker 1: few rockets to get space. Here's the part I don't understand.
Speaker 1: And I saw this comment, and I think it holds true.
Speaker 1: Why haven't they made the rocket out of whatever the
Speaker 1: water tower's made out of? Because nothing happened to the
Speaker 1: water tower, Right, that whole launching pad got destroy after
Speaker 1: they rebuilt it for like some ridiculous amount of money. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that makes sense. Maybe why don't they make the plane
Speaker 1: o the stuff they make the black box out of? Yeah, right,
Speaker 1: that's true. He'd be a little heavy. Right. Let's see
Speaker 1: what else. Oh so, one of the famed arguments I
Speaker 1: had with our previous boss was ice cream flavors, and
Speaker 1: he was adamant that mint was a top choice, of
Speaker 1: which I could not believe. Yeah, I disagreed, and uh
Speaker 1: well the list has come out of the top ice
Speaker 1: cream flavors. And I'm only doing this because I'm hoping
Speaker 1: he's listening, because you know who's not on it. Mint
Speaker 1: the top ten, not at all. No Mint, not at all.
Speaker 1: And you're going, oh, come, you know, sure, the number ten,
Speaker 1: Rocky Road. It's good, it's fine, it's good. Sometimes the
Speaker 1: walnuts are are very good in it. They're not soggy,
Speaker 1: they're just not good walnuts. They're not good quality. But
Speaker 1: flavors off. Yeah, well there's too many of them. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what you get for getting cheap nuts. Number nine,
Speaker 1: which I don't agree with in terms of the spot,
Speaker 1: I think it should be higher. As coffee ice cream,
Speaker 1: I'm surprised it's even on that list. Really, Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: you don't like coffee ice cream? Huh?
Speaker 4: Not really really.
Speaker 1: I like to drink my yeah, and.
Speaker 6: Like coffee candy is, but I'm a Lindsay. I'd rather
Speaker 6: drink my coffee and I'll like it hot. Iced coffee
Speaker 6: is weird, to make.
Speaker 4: You know what I used to be the same way
Speaker 4: like ice coffee is for New Yorkers, that's their thing.
Speaker 1: Let them keep correlate with New York.
Speaker 4: The drink a lot of ice coffee. They're like, I
Speaker 4: need an ice coffee.
Speaker 1: Ice coad, did you say coffee?
Speaker 7: Do it?
Speaker 4: That's okay, that's how it is, that's how it's ordered.
Speaker 4: And I'm like, that's the thing, huh. And that's why
Speaker 4: I would always see it and then it can't trickle
Speaker 4: down here and I was like, no, I'm not, I'm not.
Speaker 4: I can't do it in the summertime. We just this weekend,
Speaker 4: Kevin and I had an ice coffee and we're like,
Speaker 4: this is actually really good.
Speaker 1: Yes, it's really good.
Speaker 4: But only if it's really hot outside. Because of when
Speaker 4: it's hot, I can't I don't want a hot coffee.
Speaker 1: You're lying, right, yeah, but you'll eat a potato yah,
Speaker 1: settle down outside.
Speaker 4: I don't want to drink a hot coffee, all right.
Speaker 1: Number eight Cookies and Cream Okay, Yeah.
Speaker 4: It's very popular, especially with my children. Not my favorite,
Speaker 4: but kids love it.
Speaker 1: I think I'd say the cookies in that taste like
Speaker 1: the nuts in Rocky it's just off. The cookies taste
Speaker 1: is a little off. I like a mcflurry with the
Speaker 1: oreos in it. Those are always really good cookies and
Speaker 1: cream ice cream. It's fine.
Speaker 4: It depends on the brand.
Speaker 1: Okay, birthday cake ice cream? Number seven, Number seven. Why
Speaker 1: is it even on the goddamn list?
Speaker 4: Because first graders made this list?
Speaker 1: Sounds like I don't know, graders aren't eating coffee.
Speaker 4: I don't know. I Well, my twelve year old loves
Speaker 4: coffee ice cream mocha if it's got mocha in it.
Speaker 4: Mocha is chocolate and coffee, you know, Yeah, he loves it.
Speaker 1: Number six Neapolitan three ice creams in one. Yeah. Cost
Speaker 1: effective when you can make it. For those people that
Speaker 1: can't make a decision, decision paralysis, get Neapolitan.
Speaker 4: That's mine.
Speaker 1: Number five vanilla. Okay, I thought it'd be higher.
Speaker 6: It's top five, but yeah, you're right. I figured it'd
Speaker 6: be at least number one. Yeah, most popular, plain ass.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you can church it up the way you want
Speaker 4: it though.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true. And well, here's the other part. There's
Speaker 1: so many different types of vanilla. And I've had some
Speaker 1: bad vanilla ice cream. There's a massive difference between Uh,
Speaker 1: Bluebell has a great old fashioned vanilla, yeah, and then
Speaker 1: there's a they have a French vanilla and they are
Speaker 1: not the same.
Speaker 4: I don't like French vanilla. I don't like vanilla bean either,
Speaker 4: homemade vanilla.
Speaker 6: This is why I don't think Neapolitan should be on
Speaker 6: this list, because you're getting strawberry vanilla and chocolate, right,
Speaker 6: and I'm sure strawberry vanilla and chocolate are are step
Speaker 6: they're probably you know, one through four whatever, it's come.
Speaker 1: On myoc D. I can't I want to scoop just
Speaker 1: one side out, yes, and that I never can. No,
Speaker 1: you get a little bit of brown in the pink?
Speaker 4: Do you want to keep it? Even?
Speaker 1: You gotta be careful with brown and the pink because
Speaker 1: it's uh number three cookie dough. Cookie dough is good
Speaker 1: by itself. Yeah.
Speaker 4: I can only take like a couple of bytes of
Speaker 4: the cookie dough ice cream and then I'm done. I
Speaker 4: don't know if it's too sweet.
Speaker 1: You've dugged all these What is your number? What's your
Speaker 1: top two?
Speaker 4: So anyway, as I get older, I'm more bougie when
Speaker 4: it comes to ice cream. Okay, now that we go
Speaker 4: to like these bougier ice cream shops.
Speaker 1: You can't give me, I pa, you can't go like
Speaker 1: because that's what it is is you can't go with
Speaker 1: a craft ice cream. That's what I want, I know,
Speaker 1: but that's not a real ice cream slaver. So what
Speaker 1: is your favorite top two favorite ice cream flavors?
Speaker 4: Then I suppose I want the either homemade vanilla or
Speaker 4: just a like chocolate brownie.
Speaker 1: Okay, like that. And when you say homemade vanilla, not
Speaker 1: something you make in the back patio, you're talking about
Speaker 1: what it's called homemade vanilla?
Speaker 4: Yeah, like bluebells, homemade vanilla.
Speaker 1: I like that, GIMPI Rocky Road and mint chocolate cheap. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go coffee and chocolate. Number two on this
Speaker 1: list chocolate chip. The chocolate chips are never good. No,
Speaker 1: they are never good. Now is that vanilla? Would just
Speaker 1: like chocolate chips and exactly? Yeah? Or a milk type
Speaker 1: of ice cream yeah good, Yeah, it's usually like a
Speaker 1: weird chocolate flake. Yeah. And then number one on this list,
Speaker 1: according to this survey of the top ten ice cream flavors,
Speaker 1: strawberry huh okay.
Speaker 6: When we go out and like get a burger or something,
Speaker 6: strawberry shake is usually my to over over a vanilla
Speaker 6: or chocolate shake.
Speaker 1: The most ice cream obsessed states are Delaware.
Speaker 10: Hi.
Speaker 1: Hi, I'm in Delaware, Massachusetts, Connecticut, and New York and
Speaker 1: New Jersey and then Arkansas is the least, followed by
Speaker 1: North Dakota and Oklahoma.
Speaker 4: Huh ah, we like our snow cones here. I guess
Speaker 4: I got a lot of snow snow shacks like Josh's
Speaker 4: snowshack lots. You know, snow cones are popular, all right,
Speaker 4: they're dumb pineapple whip.
Speaker 1: You're just eating ice with sugar. Yeah, it doesn't taste good.
Speaker 1: It's good. It is. My kids crave it well because
Speaker 1: they're kids and they can get tiger blood.
Speaker 4: Yes, or I'm just saying that's that's a secret flavor,
Speaker 4: that's the best.
Speaker 1: Say more, it's really pimping that guy telling you you're
Speaker 1: trying to get a endorsement from him.
Speaker 4: You keep saying his brand, that's the only one we
Speaker 4: go to because there's if they're so mirrored. But the
Speaker 4: secret flavor, no one knows what it is. They're not
Speaker 4: going to ever tell you. But that is the best flavor.
Speaker 1: Hard pass. You don't tell people, and it's not obvious there.
Speaker 1: You can't describe it.
Speaker 4: There's three flavors in it. It's made up of three flavors.
Speaker 4: You can guess. I've been told that if you can
Speaker 4: guess all the three flavors in it, they will tell
Speaker 4: you if you're right or wrong.
Speaker 1: But well, you still haven't told me what it tastes
Speaker 1: like it tastes. Is it suicide that they're never the three?
Speaker 4: It is like a suicide, But no, they're not.
Speaker 1: They're never the three same three, right, right? It just
Speaker 1: mixing up whatever. Yeah, they can reach and fine.
Speaker 4: It's red. It's it's a semi sweet. They're all sweet, yeah,
Speaker 4: but it's just not it's not like the tiger's blood
Speaker 4: where you know, you know, it's cherry strawberry.
Speaker 1: All right, So what flavor profile are we landing at?
Speaker 4: I don't know. There's three flavors in there, and you
Speaker 4: just don't know what it is.
Speaker 1: So you crave a snow cone with no flavor.
Speaker 4: No it has, but you don't know what they are
Speaker 4: because it's a secret, is what they can call it.
Speaker 1: Your palace should be able to break down flavors.
Speaker 4: I know for a fact that there's a strawberry in there. Okay,
Speaker 4: I can't tell you the other two. Maybe it's a
Speaker 4: peni colada, maybe like a coconut, But I don't know
Speaker 4: it's delicious.
Speaker 1: Get Josh on the phone, right, she's got his number,
Speaker 1: not me.
Speaker 4: I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't believe you. Of all the people in this room,
Speaker 1: I would believe you would have the snow cone guy's
Speaker 1: phone number. Hey, it's Lindsay please.
Speaker 4: Uh.
Speaker 1: This list is garbage in terms of the ice cream list. Yeah,
Speaker 1: any flavor other than vanilla or chocolate is absurd. You
Speaker 1: keep living that in the middle of road life.
Speaker 4: And when it comes to strawberry, I don't want chunks
Speaker 4: of strawberries.
Speaker 6: In there, Yes, especially if you make it into a
Speaker 6: shake and you gotta suck harder.
Speaker 2: Right.
Speaker 4: I think that's why.
Speaker 1: Uh, Kimmy and I have the same top two ice cream.
Speaker 1: As I get older, I wish I could get Rocky
Speaker 1: Road without the nuts, just the chocolate marshmallows because I
Speaker 1: can't digest.
Speaker 4: Right, God, damn, I feel you.
Speaker 1: I can't take the nuts. It gets stuck in my cheek.
Speaker 1: You really buie me up. Three flavors and tiger Blood
Speaker 1: are watermelon, strawberry, and coconut. Okay, all right, got a
Speaker 1: tiger blood expert on the line. All Right, we got
Speaker 1: to take a break and we'll be back if you're
Speaker 1: listening to the Big Man Morning Show.