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Speaker 1: I made a decision.

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Speaker 2: A face sunny Sun on Ihadasion. It's nice.

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Speaker 3: To reach.

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Speaker 4: Hi.

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Speaker 1: Hey everybody, what's up?

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Speaker 5: Always so fun to start our show, I know, because

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we never go to hour started. I know, we're just

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like Kaylen gives us the finger, like but and then

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I turn around and look.

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Speaker 1: At Stephanie and we look at each other like.

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Speaker 6: We just go, what are It's so random that we

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do a podcast.

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Speaker 1: I know, we just get you know, opening, I know, because.

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Speaker 6: It's but it's just real, just people talking, yeah.

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Speaker 1: Just keeping it real. Yeah, just feeling good.

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Speaker 6: What's up?

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Speaker 1: Clouds is out?

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Speaker 6: Happy Friday?

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Speaker 1: Yay.

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Speaker 6: So on our Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: Show, we didn't really catch up.

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Speaker 6: No, we did not.

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Speaker 1: We just started talking.

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Speaker 6: Yeah. And Kaylen, you just got back from England.

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Speaker 4: I did. I spent ten days over there.

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Speaker 6: Wow?

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Speaker 4: How was that?

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Speaker 1: Like this one accident?

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Speaker 4: I can ell?

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Speaker 7: So hell, did you did you meet Joana lare Eh?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 3: My mom lives over there with my little brother. Yeah,

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my mom. Yeah, and so I went to go see

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her and hang out with my family, and I met

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my grandfather for the first time.

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Speaker 6: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Well your mom's mom.

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Speaker 4: My mom's dad, your mom's dad, Yes, all right, he.

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Speaker 3: There was a him and his brother got in a

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big fight when they were younger. His brother is actually

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pretty interesting in my great uncle used to be like

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a bank robber. He used to rub trains and stuff. Wow,

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while got a degree from Cambridge and came out kind

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of a new man. But him and so his brother,

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my my mom's dad had a big fight way long ago,

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and there's a big tension in the family for years.

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And my mom hadn't even talked to him for fourteen years.

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But even before that, she hadn't really ever seen him

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or talk to him growing up.

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Speaker 6: Was her uncle shouldn't talk to No, that was her dad.

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Speaker 8: Oh okay, yeah, Mike talked to her dad for fourteen years.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and even before that they never really talked or

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anything because there was so much drama going on with

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that side of the family. And so but then she

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just messaged him on Facebook or just added him on Facebook,

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like three weeks before I came over there and he

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added her and they got talking a little bit, and

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so we all went over to see him, and so

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I met him for the first time, and he was

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really nice and we all got along. And he's got

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a family. He's like seventy three. He has three kids

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between like five and thirteen.

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Speaker 1: And hash he has kids between seventy.

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Speaker 4: He's a seventy three, yeah, five and thirteen.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and he's got like a five year old I

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think No, maybe it's closer to like eight year old,

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ten year old and thirteen year old old.

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Speaker 1: Wife.

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Speaker 4: Oh, I don't know. She's she's probably like fifty fifty.

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Speaker 1: It's going on over there, younger.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he has six kids total, So him and my

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mom was his first and so we met. He was

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very nice and yeah, he's a very successful businessman in England.

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Speaker 4: So that was that was cool. That was nice.

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Speaker 7: What was like the fall the emotional follow for your

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mom from after not seeing him or talking to him

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for fourteen years.

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Speaker 3: She is, She seemed she was perfectly fine. She went,

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they were talking a little bit over Facebook, and so

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it seemed very normal. You know, she wasn't super emotional.

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My mom talks a lot, just talks and talks, talks.

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So they connected and now they're connecting again and they're

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going to keep seeing each other. My little brother is

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friends with his aunts and uncles. Yeah, it's weird because

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they're I've got two uncles and aunt who are eight,

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nine and thirteen, so.

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Speaker 6: Crazy, that's bizarre.

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Speaker 1: Do you miss your little brother?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I do, yeah, very much. How old was he fourteen?

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Speaker 1: Is he going to come visit you out here?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Well I always go over there once a year

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in August, and then they come over for Christmas. Oh okay,

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sometimes you have to wait around. Sometimes they come over

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in August and then I go over Christmas.

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Speaker 1: But you mean, any honeys.

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Speaker 3: There is a girl over there that I kind of

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have a thing with that I have for the past few.

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Speaker 4: Years, really the past.

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Speaker 6: Did you guys hook it up?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah, past few years.

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Speaker 1: Does that millennials do? Then they just kind of like.

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Speaker 6: Once a year.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well, I mean she lives in England, so not really.

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Speaker 1: Does she have a boyfriend though.

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Speaker 3: She did, Like we met and we liked each other,

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we started hooking up. That went on for two years

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and me going over there once a year. Then she

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had a boyfriend. So when I went over last year,

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nothing happened, and then she broke up with her boyfriend.

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Speaker 4: So this year was fine.

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Speaker 7: Oh I see, is there any like does she ever

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go like, hey, what about me?

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Speaker 6: Moving to America.

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Speaker 3: She does not want to move to Oh yeah, no, good,

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that's probably for the best, right yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 1: So that's fine, and you have a little honey up.

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Speaker 4: Yeah yeah and uh.

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Speaker 3: And then I also saw my cousin Crystal, who has

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two kids, three and about nine months, and I actually

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turned her onto this podcast too. I told her did

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this podcast. He looked it up right away, and so

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she's even downloaded.

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Speaker 6: A couple of episodes work Kaylin, Hi Crystal.

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Speaker 3: And I told her about your theory the business woman,

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you start out in the mail room and then.

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Speaker 4: You Yeah, she found a kick out of that.

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Speaker 1: So good.

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Speaker 4: If you're listening, Crystal, what's up?

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Speaker 1: Get the corner office? Yeah? Yes, so nice.

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Speaker 7: I decided that after spending a week, after spending a

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couple days in Palm Springs with my kids, I decided

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not totally corner office yet.

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Speaker 6: I know it's definitely not the mail room.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, but with nine year old, it's maybe it's the summer,

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since it's just so relentless, with like.

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Speaker 6: The mom, mom, mom, we do?

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Speaker 1: What are you doing? Let's lot this? Can we go?

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Can we do? Can we go? Can we go? Can

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we do?

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Speaker 4: Can we go?

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Speaker 1: Can we do?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: We doing. What are we doing?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I was like, what's the what's a good analogy

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for that. It's like, I've got my own office. It's

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just not the corner office. It's near the corner office.

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I see people in the corner office, and I'm like,

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I've spent time in the corner office. Like I visit

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the corner office, but it's not my office.

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Speaker 1: Right, Like you can go and hang out.

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Speaker 6: I got a window, don't get me wrong.

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Speaker 5: In my office. Yeah, yeah, I can go hang out there. Yeah,

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take a nap and there.

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Speaker 7: The corner office has like a couch yeah right, yeah,

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I don't have a couch.

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Speaker 6: I have like a chair.

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Speaker 5: Yeah you know yeah yeah, not two chairs, just one, No,

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just one. Yeah.

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Speaker 6: If you want to have a bigger meeting, you gotta

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go in the corner office.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yeah.

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Speaker 5: Because there's still fires, you still got to put out right,

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So right, you're not on an easy street just yet.

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Speaker 7: Not. I'm still getting calls, but like I have to

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field for the corner office.

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Speaker 5: Right, and it's seasonal two sometimes yeah, sometimes it's quiet.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I went to Rancho relax though.

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Speaker 7: Yes, I'm at this real in between stage because I

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think the kids are just getting too old for it, right,

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because your kids are both like closer to LB's age. Yeah,

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so I was thinking that Sadie and Xander would like

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it more, and they did, but I was like, I

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think we're.

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Speaker 1: Just you think they get too bored too quick.

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Speaker 6: I think they were.

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Speaker 7: I think it was really fun and I found it relaxing.

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But yeah, I just think it's limited.

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 6: It's like the first time you go there, you're like, well,

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look at these water slides, I know.

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Speaker 7: But then you know afterwards, you're like, Okay, there's water slides.

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Speaker 6: It's not a great wolf lodge water slides. It's like

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that's there. But I mean, don't get me wrong. We

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had fun.

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Speaker 7: We watched movies in the room at night and we

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did our thing, and but hey, they really want you

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to play with them.

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Speaker 1: Did you look for the room where they watch a movie.

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Speaker 5: You know that there's a room, Well, there's like a playroom,

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and we went and found it.

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Speaker 1: It's the most depressing thing I've ever seen it.

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Speaker 6: It's like supposed to be the game room, yeah whatever.

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Speaker 5: Empty with like like uh like like bacteria filled checker

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board in the corner where you know that's funny.

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Speaker 1: And yeah, there was nothing going on in there.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, we didn't go there.

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Speaker 1: You didn't.

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Speaker 6: But they show a movie at the pool.

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Speaker 1: Right, did you ever do that?

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Speaker 7: Because why it was the movies were too young. Yeah,

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like it was Despicable Me Too, which I don't you

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know they've seen. And then the second night was like Storks,

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which was bad. Yeah, so we didn't do that. But

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but Sadie taught herself how to do a flip in

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the water, which I never thought would have been a

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thing like, yeah, you're in water, so you just flip around.

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Apparently it was a big milestone in her life. Yeah,

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I mean one of her. When I asked her when

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we were on our way home, like, what was your

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one of your you know, your favorite moments, she was like,

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learning to do a flip in the water. Okay, well,

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and then she asked me to watch her do it.

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Speaker 1: Yes, probably five hundred times. Watch watch Yeah.

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Speaker 7: And then as soon as we would get back to

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the pool, like if we took a break, if we

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went to eat or something is she was like, Okay,

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I can't wait to get back in the pool to

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work on my flip. Can you come watch me? And

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I'd be like, but I saw I saw it like

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an hour ago.

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Speaker 6: Is there an update?

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Speaker 1: You know?

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Speaker 6: Is there like a flip two point zero?

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Speaker 5: The only thing worse than having them ask you to

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watch them do the one hundred and.

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Speaker 1: Eightieth flip is to have you get.

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Speaker 5: Into the water and do it with them. Oh, that's

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gonna will you flip? Oh?

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Speaker 6: I did?

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Speaker 1: I had to flip with me? You did?

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Speaker 6: Yeah? I had to?

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: At one point, I was like, I feel like I

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have fucking earned the right to just sit in the

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chair and read my phone. Like why do I feel

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like such a bad person?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: That uh, you know, you know why because I've read

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too many fucking parenting articles that are like stop reading

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your phone and engage with your kids. And it's like,

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hold on, hold on a minute. Yeah, reading my phone.

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How is that different than like if I was reading

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a magazine or reading a book. So that like, why

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is it anybody's business in the parenting world? Why do

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you think I'm disengaged? Because it because I'm not reading

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a novel because I'm reading my phone. Guess what I'm

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reading articles or what other people are doing on their vacations.

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Speaker 5: I'm interested, right, I know, shout up with the get

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off the phone stuff.

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Speaker 6: I know, Yeah, get on your phone. You earned it.

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You're paying for your kids to be on a vacation.

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Speaker 7: Guess what if I want to sit in a fucking

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Chase lounge and read my phone, I should be able

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to do that. Why has parenting become like such an

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active thing? Why do you have to always be playing

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with them?

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Speaker 1: It's out of control. I know, I know, but you know.

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Speaker 7: I want to become an activist for not being actively involved.

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Speaker 5: Let's be an activist for not being actively involved.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, how about this? How about what you play in

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the pool?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: And I sit and read my phone for a while,

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and you don't bother me about it.

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Speaker 1: And there should be don't make me feel bad.

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Speaker 7: In the seventies, do you ever First of all, Julie

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Casem and I were talking about this, do you ever

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remember your parents playing with you?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 1: I would beg for them to get in the pool.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Now, my dad once in a while would sit on

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a step with his beer in a corner and watch me.

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You know whatever, Right, that's it, that's it. I'd be

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by myself in the pool for hours.

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Speaker 6: It's like, that's what siblings are for.

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Speaker 7: I had two more kids, so that you can enjoy

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a company.

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Speaker 1: Tell your brother to watch you do the ten thousands?

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Speaker 7: Right?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Why did you make didn't suffer?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Or where's the other big sister? Tell Elbe to do it.

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Speaker 7: I'd be like, isn't it enough that I'm at the pool.

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I'm in the same vicinity, Like I could be in

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the room because I paid extra so that we could

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have a room right next to the pool, so that

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it wouldn't be like a mile away, right right, So

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what shouldn't you be celebrating the fact that I'm I'm

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in I'm so nearby.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, look, we're in Palm Spring by the way, it's

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zach Ranchell.

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Speaker 6: Relax, right right.

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Speaker 7: I was, I mean, And it's like you never get

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to like punch that time card like I do you

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remember like an hour ago when I was in the

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pool for an hour, when I played, I floated around

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on the lazy river, I went.

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Speaker 6: Down the slide for crying out loud?

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Speaker 5: How now did you know it's your tailbone by the way,

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A little bit on the bumps.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I hate those bumps.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, but I did it. I suffered through it. I

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put in the time.

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Speaker 7: I went down the slide many many times I floated

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on the lazy river. I played in the pool with them.

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I did a race across the pool with one kid

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on my back against the other kid, and we all

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laughed uproariously.

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Speaker 6: But how come that they already forgot about that?

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Speaker 1: Yes, I know I.

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Speaker 4: Want to go.

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Speaker 7: Remember not forty five minutes ago when I was running

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in the pool with you, we were laughing. Remember that, Well,

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didn't I earn some phone time?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 1: No, you know why?

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Speaker 5: Because I think it's we only have ourselves to blame,

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because we make it so much fun for them. Sometimes

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I think to myself, maybe I should slow down and

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not run. Maybe I should Maybe I should stroll. Maybe

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I should make it a little boring, right, Maybe I

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should start talking I don't know about uh investing into

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into tech, right, you know? And maybe I talked their

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ear off for a change about ship. They didn't give

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they don't care two ship's about right? And then then

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they like, then they might go, Okay, why don't you

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get now?

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Speaker 1: Beat it go on?

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Speaker 5: Right?

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Speaker 6: Maybe I should got it?

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Speaker 7: Listen, listen just one more thing about stocks? Hold on,

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but costco. I really think it's going to catch on war?

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I don't think.

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Speaker 5: I mean, yes, I exactly. So I don't want to

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make it too much fun for them.

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Speaker 6: I think that's a good idea.

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Speaker 1: Doesn't work though, but sometimes but not really, they find

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us way too interesting.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I had a week by myself, so the kids

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went back so Adam. I look forward to this week

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all year because it's the week that Adam can finally

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go on vacation and he goes with his friends. And

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I have basically the house to myself because the kids

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go back to school.

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Speaker 1: So I get like hours.

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Speaker 5: I've had Rob in my bedroom for the last four

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or five months. I've seen Rob's mug every morning, Like

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there's Rob, there's Tom, there's an electrician, there's this, there's

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like Adam is up and at it every morning seven

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point thirty with the construction blah blah. Finally everything's done,

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buttoned up and done.

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Speaker 1: Now school starts. First day of school. They go to school.

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Speaker 5: Now Sonny's on Easy Street because he's leaving on Wednesday,

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So he goes to school Monday, Tuesday, leaves Wednesday with

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Adam to Monterey for Monterey the boys trip, and so

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Sonny to asks me, by the way, what do I

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tell my teachers, and I say, well, just tell them

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the truth, to say that every year you have a

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father son trip and sometimes it lands before the school starts,

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which is true, and sometimes it lands the week of

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and this is your third year, and unfortunately it's the

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week of.

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Speaker 1: So you know this is in the works. It's an

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every year thing.

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Speaker 5: And he says, okay, So Sonny in sixth grade, they

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have two teachers, so basically they have the homeroom teacher

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and then they so they put Sonny in Italian, in

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the flip flop they have she's got this teacher, he's

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got that teacher, and then they switch in the afternoon.

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So when Natalia okay, So then Sonny goes on his trip.

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Speaker 1: All right, Now Natalia.

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Speaker 5: Goes to school the first day, that night wakes up

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throwing up with a one hundred and two fever. Oh no, yes,

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So now Natalia is sick, home sick, home, sick, sick

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and home.

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Speaker 6: And after only one day back.

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Speaker 5: After only one and the week that I look forward

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to all year, now I'm dealing with her who's sick.

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I feel bad that she's sick, but also feel bad

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for myself.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, just she timed it better, Yes, she.

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Speaker 1: Could not have timed it.

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Speaker 5: So so now, so Sonny leaves. So now she's home

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for three days. She goes back to school, Yeah, she goes. Yeah,

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she goes back to school on Friday, and the teacher says,

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Sonny's homeroom teacher, so he already told her that he's

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going on to father son trip. Now nobody clued in, Natalia.

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We didn't think we had to. So Sonny's homeroom teacher

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says this to.

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Speaker 1: Her, where's your brother?

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Speaker 5: Why she's asking her, I have no idea, She says,

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where's your brother? Natalia says, oh, he caught my virus.

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He's home sick. Oh great, I look forward to.

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Speaker 1: Getting that email. Now I don't know, but so now

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she's so so, so I'm deal. Now she's home.

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Speaker 5: First, still that week, Adam's gone, Sony's gone, and she's homesick,

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and I am dealing with Natalia homesick. Then they had

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a great time. Then she goes back to school on Friday,

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and then they came home on Sunday.

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Speaker 1: But Natalia is so.

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Speaker 6: Not needy.

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Speaker 5: But like, my, what are we going to do tonight?

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You want to watch a movie tonight? You want to

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watch this now she's into Riverdale, which is she got

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hooked on river Have you heard about river Oh it's

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a little it's a little heavy for her age. But

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what Hammy's Cammy's introduced her because Cammy's older sister. It's

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on Netflix and it's about it's it's actually it's kind

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of strange. It's it's based on Archie and Veronica and

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Betty and Josie and the Pussycats are the characters.

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Speaker 1: But it's heavy. It's about that.

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Speaker 5: It's just weird. It's just those are the names of

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the characters. Okay, okay, and Juughhead. Jughead's the cute one.

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But so it's based on twin boy girl sisters, a

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brother sister and they go out for a walk in

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the woods and the brother gets shot and killed and

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they're trying to find and the sister's nuts and they're

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trying to find who killed her brother. And Luke Perry

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plays Archie's dad and the kid the kids that play that.

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The characters are cute and whatever, but it's kind of

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a little cliche. Like, so Archie has an affair with

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the teacher, you know, the music teacher, and then she's

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not who she says she is, they find out and

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it's not her real Missus Thompson is not her real name,

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and who is she? And Veronica and Betty are trying

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to find out. Then they find a gun in her

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glove compartment. They find out that's not her real name,

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and a glove and a glove compartment. She just moved

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to town a year ago and she's only been at

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the school for nine months, and Archie's in love with her.

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We got to save Archie and tell her that that's

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not who she is. And I'm watching this with Natalia

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and so he confronts her, Missus Thompson, who are you?

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Speaker 1: There's a gun in your glove compartment?

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Speaker 5: And I say to Natalia, she was in an abusive relationship.

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She got out and the Talias pauses it and goes,

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did you read it in the cartoon strip or something?

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And I was like, no, honey.

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Speaker 7: So she was in an abusive relationship and now she's

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hitting on younger dudes.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Now she's students, yeah, and an affairs now she's a

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Mary Kay Laturna.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 5: They ran her out of town anyway, So Riverdale a

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lot of Riverdale episodes binging and taking care of Natalia

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for a week while Adam was gone.

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Speaker 1: That was that was my week.

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Speaker 5: That sounds exhausting. Are your kids aren't back it? So

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they're not back yet?

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Speaker 6: So well, well, okay when you're listening to this, they're back.

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Speaker 7: Oh, because this is Friday, so they're going back. But

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we're recording this on Tuesday, so.

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Speaker 6: They go back.

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Speaker 7: Thursday's their first day and it's a half day, so

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they get out at one. Then they'll have school Friday.

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Then it's the weekend and then like the following week.

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I think there's a day off, right, because isn't it

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Labor Day?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Yeah it is. Yeah, you know what.

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Speaker 5: I've had an ass full of forms, just constantly with

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the forms, and it's like go online on the parent

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portal and confirm that all the informations are saying which

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I did? And then I get the email missus Corolla,

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you didn't go online and da da da da da.

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I'm like, how do I tell them?

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Speaker 6: Yes?

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Speaker 1: I did? Like I did? I did? I did? What

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do you want me to do? So? Now I got

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to go back online.

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Speaker 5: I'm going to try and figure like I didn't hit

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confirm before I checked out?

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00:20:26,640 --> 00:20:27,160
Speaker 1: I don't know.

479
00:20:27,559 --> 00:20:29,559
Speaker 5: And then they want forms at to print it out.

480
00:20:29,599 --> 00:20:33,039
Of course our printer's not working, not working correctly, and

481
00:20:33,079 --> 00:20:35,279
it's just it's just just a fucking And finally I

482
00:20:35,359 --> 00:20:37,680
was like, I said to Adam, I go, I'm sick

483
00:20:37,720 --> 00:20:40,960
of these I gotta sign shit. I gotta sign that

484
00:20:41,119 --> 00:20:43,519
my kids can use their chromebooks at school.

485
00:20:44,400 --> 00:20:46,640
Speaker 6: I know they want signatures for everything.

486
00:20:46,240 --> 00:20:48,440
Speaker 5: Everything, And Adam goes, just tell them to sign it.

487
00:20:48,799 --> 00:20:52,200
I was like, okay, all right, they're not gonna do that.

488
00:20:52,240 --> 00:20:53,480
I'm not going to tell them to sign it. But

489
00:20:54,119 --> 00:20:56,839
I just I'm so sick of these forms. It all

490
00:20:56,880 --> 00:21:00,279
goes like, I know, I remember those days. But when

491
00:21:00,279 --> 00:21:02,240
they go to middle school, she said, it's not as bad.

492
00:21:04,319 --> 00:21:08,400
Speaker 7: Uh, well, I think, well, Elbie's in middle school. But yeah,

493
00:21:08,440 --> 00:21:10,920
but she yeah, she fills out a lot of stuff herself.

494
00:21:11,680 --> 00:21:12,359
Speaker 1: Oh she does.

495
00:21:12,759 --> 00:21:13,799
Speaker 6: Yeah, but you still.

496
00:21:13,559 --> 00:21:15,480
Speaker 7: Have to fill out a lot of like the emergency

497
00:21:15,519 --> 00:21:19,200
contact information. I'm always like, who am I going to

498
00:21:19,240 --> 00:21:21,200
put down as my emergency contact? And then I got

499
00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:22,400
to go look up all their phone numbers?

500
00:21:22,559 --> 00:21:25,480
Speaker 5: Right, and they hate that. Yeah, and it's the same person.

501
00:21:25,599 --> 00:21:27,519
Can't you just go off of what you got last year?

502
00:21:27,599 --> 00:21:29,440
Nothing's changed, you know.

503
00:21:29,839 --> 00:21:30,599
Speaker 6: Why don't have to do?

504
00:21:30,720 --> 00:21:34,000
Speaker 5: Mom is still here, she's still haven't changed your phone number.

505
00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:36,759
It's still getting Jens's mom? Like, what more do you

506
00:21:36,799 --> 00:21:40,279
want from me? I can't take it.

507
00:21:40,599 --> 00:21:42,799
Speaker 1: I can't think. I know the forms.

508
00:21:42,880 --> 00:21:45,640
Speaker 7: It's enough, I know, And there's so many, and they're

509
00:21:45,680 --> 00:21:49,599
for such weird stuff, like, uh, do you agree that

510
00:21:50,160 --> 00:21:51,359
they can have their picture.

511
00:21:51,119 --> 00:21:52,279
Speaker 6: Taken for stuff?

512
00:21:52,480 --> 00:21:52,599
Speaker 5: Well?

513
00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:53,559
Speaker 1: Who cares?

514
00:21:53,720 --> 00:21:54,039
Speaker 7: I know?

515
00:21:55,079 --> 00:21:57,440
Speaker 6: And if you don't agree, you have to write this

516
00:21:57,519 --> 00:21:58,079
separate thing.

517
00:21:58,160 --> 00:22:00,839
Speaker 7: It's like, who's suing the school because your kid was

518
00:22:00,880 --> 00:22:01,720
in a group photo?

519
00:22:01,880 --> 00:22:02,079
Speaker 1: Right?

520
00:22:02,599 --> 00:22:04,039
Speaker 6: It was in the yearbook, so dumb?

521
00:22:04,119 --> 00:22:05,680
Speaker 1: Oh my god. They had they had to.

522
00:22:05,880 --> 00:22:07,559
Speaker 5: I had to sign a form so that they could

523
00:22:07,559 --> 00:22:11,359
watch the eclipse. If we're gonna be watching, we got.

524
00:22:11,200 --> 00:22:14,480
Speaker 1: The glasses, and we got the right glasses. Don't get

525
00:22:14,480 --> 00:22:15,039
freaked out.

526
00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:17,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, but you have to if you don't want your

527
00:22:17,920 --> 00:22:18,799
child to participate.

528
00:22:18,880 --> 00:22:21,559
Speaker 1: I get at times two too. I'm like, it's fine,

529
00:22:21,920 --> 00:22:25,240
nah right, yeah, Like it's fine. Can I just email

530
00:22:25,279 --> 00:22:26,279
you and tell you it's fine?

531
00:22:26,279 --> 00:22:28,559
Speaker 7: Do I have to sign otherwise? Are you gonna like

532
00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:31,279
police my kids and make sure they don't look up right?

533
00:22:32,039 --> 00:22:33,799
Speaker 1: Right? And what are you gonna do? Put my kid, like,

534
00:22:33,920 --> 00:22:35,359
what are they gonna do?

535
00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:37,559
Speaker 5: Go sit in a corner somewhere while everybody else is

536
00:22:37,599 --> 00:22:41,720
outside eating popcorn watching the eclipse, Like what do you what? Right?

537
00:22:41,759 --> 00:22:43,640
Speaker 1: Well, wo are those parents? By the way.

538
00:22:44,079 --> 00:22:46,400
Speaker 7: By the way, Elbe watched the eclipse because okay, so

539
00:22:46,440 --> 00:22:49,039
we couldn't get any glasses. John was like obsessed with

540
00:22:49,079 --> 00:22:51,720
getting the glasses, but they were all sold out everywhere,

541
00:22:52,359 --> 00:22:54,839
so I mean he sent me out to seven eleven.

542
00:22:54,480 --> 00:22:57,039
Speaker 1: At like you know, ten o'clock at night and they're like, no.

543
00:22:57,799 --> 00:23:02,160
Speaker 7: Sou But Elbe went to six Flags that day and

544
00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:05,400
her friend had a pair of the glasses. So anyway,

545
00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:06,759
so that was a big John was like, oh, I

546
00:23:06,759 --> 00:23:08,680
can't wait to hear Elbie like she got to watch

547
00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:11,039
it with the glasses. And so I was driving Elbie

548
00:23:11,039 --> 00:23:13,279
home and with Sadie and Xander in the car and

549
00:23:13,279 --> 00:23:14,720
they're like, so, how was it? And she was like,

550
00:23:15,519 --> 00:23:18,519
I mean, honestly, yeah, that's that exciting.

551
00:23:18,599 --> 00:23:19,440
Speaker 1: I mean exact thing.

552
00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:20,279
Speaker 6: I think it's great.

553
00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:23,079
Speaker 7: And then and then she was like what did you

554
00:23:23,079 --> 00:23:25,519
guys get to see it? And they're like yeah, Because

555
00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:27,480
so John's like, well, what are we going to do?

556
00:23:27,519 --> 00:23:29,799
And I go, We're gonna watch it on TV.

557
00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:34,279
Speaker 6: Like normal people. And he was like, oh, okay, good

558
00:23:34,519 --> 00:23:36,359
cause first I was like, I don't know.

559
00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:38,359
Speaker 7: I mean, I guess we could make one of those

560
00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:41,279
home projectors out of a shoe box. And I was like,

561
00:23:41,319 --> 00:23:44,559
but I don't know. I don't have the energy. Watch

562
00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:47,319
a YouTube video on how to do it, like, because

563
00:23:47,319 --> 00:23:49,359
I remember in the seventies.

564
00:23:48,839 --> 00:23:51,880
Speaker 5: Doing that you put a pinhole in. But I'm like that,

565
00:23:51,920 --> 00:23:53,960
I don't have a science degree. I'm not making that.

566
00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:56,960
So she watched on TV. Yeah, so we watched it

567
00:23:57,000 --> 00:23:57,400
on TV.

568
00:23:57,480 --> 00:24:01,160
Speaker 6: And by the way, great view right, all the best views.

569
00:24:01,279 --> 00:24:03,920
Speaker 7: Yes, yeah, got to see it from a lot of

570
00:24:03,960 --> 00:24:04,640
different places.

571
00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:06,240
Speaker 6: Got to see the total eclipse.

572
00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:10,480
Speaker 7: I mean, because you know who has filters, the news people, right,

573
00:24:10,480 --> 00:24:13,160
I got filters for their camera so they can actually.

574
00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:15,240
Speaker 1: You and you don't have to go outside. No, watch

575
00:24:15,279 --> 00:24:16,039
it on your couch.

576
00:24:16,279 --> 00:24:16,799
Speaker 6: Yeah I know.

577
00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:19,400
Speaker 1: I asked my kids, what'd you think? They're like em

578
00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:22,599
moving on? All right?

579
00:24:23,039 --> 00:24:26,440
Speaker 5: Okay, I bet you can't wait until it happens again

580
00:24:26,480 --> 00:24:31,400
in twenty twenty four. What's going to happen again? I

581
00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:34,359
don't I didn't even did it get dark? I was no,

582
00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:38,000
I didn't, right, not really I didn't see anything go on. No,

583
00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:40,319
in other parts of the country, it got you get

584
00:24:40,319 --> 00:24:40,920
to get done.

585
00:24:40,960 --> 00:24:42,119
Speaker 6: It got dark out.

586
00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:46,079
Speaker 7: Here briefly, Yeah, no, not here. Did you watch it

587
00:24:46,119 --> 00:24:47,480
in England? Oh you were back?

588
00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:48,480
Speaker 3: Yeah?

589
00:24:48,559 --> 00:24:50,920
Speaker 4: I think I was. I was on the plane, so

590
00:24:51,039 --> 00:24:52,200
I oh interesting.

591
00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:55,720
Speaker 1: Did they tell everyone put your shades down, don't look

592
00:24:55,720 --> 00:24:56,119
at the sun?

593
00:24:56,200 --> 00:24:56,279
Speaker 4: No?

594
00:24:56,960 --> 00:25:03,240
Speaker 5: I was. I was sleeping the inside your eyelids.

595
00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:04,680
Speaker 1: So what happened at the mall?

596
00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:07,799
Speaker 6: Okay, so quick story.

597
00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:12,519
Speaker 7: I'm at the mall, like like I do a lot.

598
00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:18,680
I'm with all three of my kids, and we sometimes

599
00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:20,599
if Lbi's with her friend, I'll just let her walk

600
00:25:20,599 --> 00:25:22,279
around on her own because she has a phone. But

601
00:25:22,359 --> 00:25:26,640
Sadie and Xander don't have phones, and they're nine. They're

602
00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:28,319
not going to walk around the mall by themselves yet.

603
00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:35,200
But anyways, we were all together and we we're walking

604
00:25:35,240 --> 00:25:37,920
out of Starbucks and Sadie goes, there's like right in

605
00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:40,519
front of us, there's a place that makes these splat balls.

606
00:25:40,599 --> 00:25:43,119
And Sadie goes, I'm gonna can I walk over to

607
00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:45,480
the sap splat ball thing and right next to it

608
00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:46,519
as a fountain.

609
00:25:46,319 --> 00:25:48,400
Speaker 6: And I was like, yeah, sure, walk over there. We'll

610
00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:49,200
be right here.

611
00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:50,319
Speaker 1: What's a splat mall.

612
00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:52,720
Speaker 7: It's the stupid thing that you get at a kiosk

613
00:25:52,839 --> 00:25:54,880
that's like a squeezy.

614
00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:55,839
Speaker 6: Ball and you can throw them at a wall.

615
00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:58,640
Speaker 7: It doesn't really matter. But Sadie wanted to go look

616
00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:02,839
at them, said a little kiosk and I sat down

617
00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:06,279
at a fountain kind of like right next to where

618
00:26:06,279 --> 00:26:06,680
she was.

619
00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:10,640
Speaker 6: It's kind of crowded at them all though, And I

620
00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:12,240
mean we were literally.

621
00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:15,240
Speaker 7: Like five feet from her sitting down with this fun

622
00:26:15,319 --> 00:26:18,160
It's me and LB and then Xander was sitting.

623
00:26:17,839 --> 00:26:20,559
Speaker 6: With us, and we're sitting and we're.

624
00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:24,880
Speaker 7: Just talking, and I'm deep into thoughts about some pants

625
00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:28,519
I bought it, old baby, and are they the right pants?

626
00:26:28,559 --> 00:26:29,720
Speaker 6: Do I should I return them?

627
00:26:29,799 --> 00:26:32,720
Speaker 7: You know, having a lot of thoughts about pants, And

628
00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:35,799
all of a sudden, I was like, man, Sadie's been

629
00:26:35,839 --> 00:26:37,880
at that splatball kiosk for a while.

630
00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:40,920
Speaker 6: I was like, where's Sadie.

631
00:26:41,599 --> 00:26:41,799
Speaker 7: Look.

632
00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:43,519
Speaker 6: I kind of look at.

633
00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:45,880
Speaker 7: The vicinity of where she'd been, and I just do

634
00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:49,640
not see her. So I'm like, Elbie, where's Sadie? Do

635
00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:51,559
you see her? And I'll be like I don't see her,

636
00:26:51,559 --> 00:26:54,119
and Elbie gets up and runs around the other side

637
00:26:54,119 --> 00:26:56,880
of the kiosk because it's like a you know, yeah,

638
00:26:57,240 --> 00:26:59,599
because you can't see the end. Sadie Elbie comes back

639
00:26:59,599 --> 00:27:03,319
and she goes she's not there, and I'm like, that's

640
00:27:03,400 --> 00:27:06,319
just weird because Sadie is not a kid who would

641
00:27:06,319 --> 00:27:10,559
wander off. She's not, like, none of my kids really are.

642
00:27:10,680 --> 00:27:12,319
But if anybody was going to do that, it would

643
00:27:12,319 --> 00:27:15,240
be Xander. But Sadie is very like, I'm going to

644
00:27:15,319 --> 00:27:17,799
I'm right here, where are you? Like, she would never

645
00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:22,920
just go wander off. So I'm like, okay, this is weird.

646
00:27:23,079 --> 00:27:26,559
And I look all around the near We're in like

647
00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:32,680
the middle of the mall, so there's pathways down all sides,

648
00:27:33,319 --> 00:27:35,240
and I'm like, I just do not see her. And

649
00:27:35,279 --> 00:27:38,160
I'm like okay, and Elbie starts going, oh my god,

650
00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:38,599
where is she?

651
00:27:38,640 --> 00:27:41,200
Speaker 6: Where is she? And I was like, okay, let's stay

652
00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:43,880
stay calm. She couldn't have gone.

653
00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:47,720
Speaker 7: Far, like maybe we had talked about going upstairs. There's

654
00:27:47,759 --> 00:27:50,039
like an escalator right near us going upstairs.

655
00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:50,240
Speaker 4: To go eat.

656
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:54,119
Speaker 7: So I go, let's alby, you go up upstairs with

657
00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:55,839
Xander and look for her, and I'm going to stay

658
00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:56,279
right here.

659
00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:58,880
Speaker 6: In case she just I don't.

660
00:27:58,640 --> 00:28:00,759
Speaker 1: Know, right, that's so weird.

661
00:28:00,799 --> 00:28:04,720
Speaker 7: So Elbie goes upstairs. She and I'm starting to like

662
00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:06,640
feel a little that's sick.

663
00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:07,000
Speaker 6: Feeling, you know.

664
00:28:07,079 --> 00:28:10,079
Speaker 7: I'm just like, just like, where you don't know where

665
00:28:10,079 --> 00:28:12,200
your kid is? I was just like, where's my kid?

666
00:28:13,079 --> 00:28:16,559
Why am I not seeing her? Why is my stomach

667
00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:19,119
hurting so bad? Like thinking about where she could be.

668
00:28:19,799 --> 00:28:23,440
But in my mind, I'm like, Okay, stay calm because

669
00:28:23,759 --> 00:28:26,319
I start going through the thing of like, she did

670
00:28:26,319 --> 00:28:29,559
not get kidnapped by sex traffickers because she's nine. She

671
00:28:29,599 --> 00:28:33,039
would not leave with somebody without screaming bloody murder. She

672
00:28:33,519 --> 00:28:38,200
knows better than to ever leave with somebody. We have

673
00:28:38,279 --> 00:28:41,960
had the talk about no adult needs your help ever,

674
00:28:42,599 --> 00:28:44,920
and we've talked about it. What do you do if

675
00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:46,599
somebody goes like, hey, can I talk to you for

676
00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:48,039
a minute? Can you help me? Can you come to

677
00:28:48,079 --> 00:28:49,920
my car? She goes, I would scream and run away.

678
00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:53,559
So I'm like I would have heard her if she

679
00:28:53,680 --> 00:28:56,599
was standing at this place where we were and somebody

680
00:28:56,680 --> 00:28:58,960
was like, hey, can you come over here? She I

681
00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:02,160
know she would have screamed, right, But of course there's

682
00:29:02,240 --> 00:29:03,839
just in the back of my mind. I'm like, what

683
00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:08,119
if somebody was like, hey, I want to show you something.

684
00:29:08,160 --> 00:29:09,519
Speaker 6: I'm going to buy you a sport. I don't know.

685
00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:11,839
My mind is like started just going like cause where

686
00:29:11,839 --> 00:29:12,720
else is it? Where is she?

687
00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:13,200
Speaker 1: Right?

688
00:29:13,559 --> 00:29:17,759
Speaker 7: So Elb, I go Elby. I'm calling for Elbe and

689
00:29:18,079 --> 00:29:21,319
she's like, she's not here. We looked everywhere. So I'm like, okay,

690
00:29:21,359 --> 00:29:25,079
come back downstairs. So she comes downstairs and now I'm

691
00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:29,880
just and I don't know how long she's been gone

692
00:29:30,119 --> 00:29:32,920
because we were sitting there probably for ten minutes at

693
00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:36,759
that fountain, like, so I was like, did she disappear

694
00:29:36,839 --> 00:29:40,200
right away? So now Elbe's starting a panic and I'm

695
00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:43,200
like and of course it's hard because I'm trying to

696
00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:45,480
be really calm right now, but I'm saying so I

697
00:29:45,519 --> 00:29:47,960
say to the woman, so now, of course, and I'm

698
00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:49,839
asking the woman at the kisk, I'm like, have you

699
00:29:49,880 --> 00:29:50,799
seen a girl?

700
00:29:50,839 --> 00:29:52,160
Speaker 6: She's wearing a gray shirt, you know.

701
00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:54,319
Speaker 7: And the woman's like no, She's like, you need to

702
00:29:54,319 --> 00:29:57,079
call them all security. So I'm like, okay, all right,

703
00:29:57,119 --> 00:29:59,319
I'm going to call them all security. So I now

704
00:29:59,799 --> 00:30:00,880
I'm starting to lose it.

705
00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:04,759
Speaker 5: I know, I know, because I am it's when Sonny

706
00:30:04,839 --> 00:30:07,160
took off in front of us right on that bike,

707
00:30:07,440 --> 00:30:10,440
right and Natalia is freaking out, crying, where is he?

708
00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:12,359
Speaker 6: Where is So I have that same experience.

709
00:30:12,400 --> 00:30:14,240
Speaker 5: And then when you verbally say it out loud, have

710
00:30:14,359 --> 00:30:16,279
you seen a little boy with Yes?

711
00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:18,759
Speaker 1: I know, it's horrible as soon as you go yeah.

712
00:30:18,839 --> 00:30:20,160
Speaker 6: So I'm like, say it out loud.

713
00:30:20,160 --> 00:30:23,720
Speaker 7: So I call the mall security and they're like hello,

714
00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:27,400
you know, and I'm like, hi, so I need help

715
00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:29,079
finding one of my kids.

716
00:30:29,759 --> 00:30:30,559
Speaker 6: And they're like.

717
00:30:30,759 --> 00:30:33,599
Speaker 1: Okay, we'll be there and a couple we'll be there,

718
00:30:34,039 --> 00:30:36,640
and I'm like, now you gotta rely on eight dollars.

719
00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:38,160
Speaker 6: Yeah, And then they're not getting there.

720
00:30:38,279 --> 00:30:40,920
Speaker 7: It's like no one's showing up, and I'm looking around

721
00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:43,599
and then other people are like, I'm like have you seen?

722
00:30:44,319 --> 00:30:47,400
And now people are worried for me. Now Elbie's crying

723
00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:51,160
and I'm like, okay, Elby, stop crying. I go She's fine,

724
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:52,720
and Albie's.

725
00:30:52,279 --> 00:30:53,200
Speaker 4: Like, but where is she?

726
00:30:54,119 --> 00:30:55,759
Speaker 6: How do you know she's fine? And I was like,

727
00:30:55,839 --> 00:31:00,480
because she knows. And also I've told.

728
00:31:00,279 --> 00:31:03,559
Speaker 7: Sadie anytime we're anywhere six flags, anywhere that's crowded, I've

729
00:31:03,559 --> 00:31:07,200
always said as I'm sure we all do. Go up

730
00:31:07,240 --> 00:31:11,440
to a mom, tell them that you can't find your mom,

731
00:31:11,599 --> 00:31:14,279
and tell them to call me. Wherever you are, go

732
00:31:14,359 --> 00:31:18,000
tell somebody to call me if you're lost, and I

733
00:31:18,039 --> 00:31:21,799
will come get you. If you're at a mall, go

734
00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:24,440
up to an employee, go into any store, and tell

735
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:25,759
them to please call my mom.

736
00:31:25,799 --> 00:31:27,759
Speaker 6: I can't find my mind. Okay, so they all know

737
00:31:27,839 --> 00:31:28,319
to do that.

738
00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:31,599
Speaker 7: But meanwhile, now it's been like fifteen minutes and my

739
00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:36,359
phone is not ranging. So I'm like, why if she's

740
00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:39,680
somewhere safe, if she was, if she's lost in the mall,

741
00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:42,839
there's no way that Sadie could handle being lost for

742
00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:45,920
very long. She I know my kid would have walked

743
00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:48,799
up to somebody right away. So of course my mind

744
00:31:48,880 --> 00:31:52,200
is a little bit going, like did somebody snatch her

745
00:31:52,559 --> 00:31:54,720
and run out of the mall with her? Because she's

746
00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:58,839
little too, she does look younger, does look like about seven.

747
00:32:00,039 --> 00:32:01,240
Speaker 1: And you said she would scream.

748
00:32:01,599 --> 00:32:02,680
Speaker 6: I felt like she would.

749
00:32:02,759 --> 00:32:04,759
Speaker 7: So I was really trying not to panic because I'm like,

750
00:32:04,799 --> 00:32:09,000
I really don't think that's happened. So but of course

751
00:32:09,079 --> 00:32:12,039
you're gonna for I know, I know, be like I

752
00:32:12,079 --> 00:32:14,079
need somebody see her standing by herself.

753
00:32:14,119 --> 00:32:14,799
Speaker 6: Did somebody?

754
00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:18,200
Speaker 7: But then I'm like, okay, my brain is going she's fine,

755
00:32:19,079 --> 00:32:21,640
but where is she? So then the security does show

756
00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:24,680
up and I was like so and I'm starting to

757
00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:27,680
cry because you just can't help it. I was like,

758
00:32:28,039 --> 00:32:30,279
can you can you make sure that you block off

759
00:32:30,319 --> 00:32:32,319
the exits? Like can you make sure nobody walks out

760
00:32:32,319 --> 00:32:35,440
with her? And they're like, yeah, we've got people looking

761
00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:36,799
for her right now. But we've got a lot of

762
00:32:36,839 --> 00:32:38,559
people looking for her. And I was like okay, and

763
00:32:38,599 --> 00:32:41,319
I'm giving them the description of her, and I've got

764
00:32:41,319 --> 00:32:42,960
a little there's like a little crowd of people that

765
00:32:43,000 --> 00:32:45,720
are trying to help. Then all of a sudden, my

766
00:32:45,799 --> 00:32:49,680
phone rings and I'm like I look at my phone

767
00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:51,519
and it's a number I don't recognize and I'm like,

768
00:32:51,559 --> 00:32:54,759
oh my god, Okay, thank god, it's her. I answer

769
00:32:54,839 --> 00:32:57,480
the phone and someone's like do you have a daughter?

770
00:32:57,680 --> 00:33:00,880
Like and I was like, yes, you have my kid,

771
00:33:01,119 --> 00:33:05,200
you know. And they're like yes, now it's a woman's

772
00:33:05,319 --> 00:33:10,160
voice and she's like yes, and she's like where are you?

773
00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:13,720
And I said okay, So I'm at the fountain in

774
00:33:13,759 --> 00:33:16,640
the middle of the mall, sitting at the fountain, and.

775
00:33:16,559 --> 00:33:19,720
Speaker 6: She's like okay, and it's hard to understand.

776
00:33:19,720 --> 00:33:21,559
Speaker 7: She's got a bit of an accent and it's loud,

777
00:33:21,839 --> 00:33:25,599
so I'm assuming it's a mom in the mall who

778
00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:28,440
like she walked up to who's now going to bring

779
00:33:28,519 --> 00:33:30,319
me my kid? I'm like, I'll be right here in

780
00:33:30,359 --> 00:33:32,480
front of the fountain. She's like okay.

781
00:33:32,799 --> 00:33:33,480
Speaker 6: So I hang up.

782
00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:38,920
Speaker 7: So like I was like, oh, thank god, she's fine,

783
00:33:38,960 --> 00:33:42,279
and I say to security a mom has or somebody's

784
00:33:42,319 --> 00:33:45,839
you know. But then time is ticking by and no

785
00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:48,599
one's coming right, and I'm like, it's not a big mall,

786
00:33:49,599 --> 00:33:51,400
and how could she have gotten very far?

787
00:33:51,559 --> 00:33:53,480
Speaker 6: Like if she couldn't have been she couldn't be more

788
00:33:53,519 --> 00:33:54,240
than right.

789
00:33:55,160 --> 00:33:57,400
Speaker 7: She had to be done house right right, like she

790
00:33:57,440 --> 00:33:59,759
wouldn't have gone for a like a been a mile away.

791
00:34:00,319 --> 00:34:03,640
Speaker 1: So now I'm starting to panic even more because I'm like, well, what.

792
00:34:03,920 --> 00:34:04,839
Speaker 6: Where where is she?

793
00:34:05,279 --> 00:34:08,440
Speaker 1: Right? Did you ask the woman where are you?

794
00:34:08,519 --> 00:34:08,760
Speaker 6: No?

795
00:34:08,960 --> 00:34:11,480
Speaker 7: Because I was so panicked that I was so relieved

796
00:34:11,519 --> 00:34:13,400
that somebody had her that I was like, okay, so

797
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:16,840
they're going to walk her over to me. So so

798
00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:19,480
then I'm like asking the security is still with me,

799
00:34:19,639 --> 00:34:22,920
and I'm now I'm like what what, Like I definitely

800
00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:25,559
said I'm in front of the fountain, right, It's like, yeah,

801
00:34:25,639 --> 00:34:28,519
you said that, And I'm like, okay, then where are they?

802
00:34:28,599 --> 00:34:29,440
Speaker 6: Why isn't she here?

803
00:34:29,639 --> 00:34:31,800
Speaker 7: Then I'm thinking like, oh my god, why didn't I

804
00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:34,079
ask her who she was or get her phone number

805
00:34:34,159 --> 00:34:37,719
or something, not realizing that her phone number is obviously

806
00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:41,480
on my phone right, But I was like panicked. Yeah,

807
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:44,599
So then I'm like, oh my god, Okay, well where

808
00:34:44,639 --> 00:34:44,800
is she?

809
00:34:44,840 --> 00:34:47,199
Speaker 6: So I call? I tried calling the number back. It

810
00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:48,159
goes to a voicemail.

811
00:34:48,280 --> 00:34:51,960
Speaker 7: Oh my god, and I'm like, now I'm fully starting

812
00:34:52,039 --> 00:34:53,840
to panic a little bit. I was like what and

813
00:34:54,199 --> 00:34:56,440
then I get I'm like, I can't understand what the

814
00:34:56,519 --> 00:35:00,960
message is. So then I'm like, well why, Like so

815
00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:04,920
I give it to the security guard to listen, and

816
00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:10,199
he goes, uh, I think it's a store. I think

817
00:35:10,199 --> 00:35:12,679
it's a store in here, And then we listen to

818
00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:14,760
it like four more times. It keeps I keep calling

819
00:35:14,800 --> 00:35:17,119
the number back and it keeps picking up, and we're like.

820
00:35:17,159 --> 00:35:18,880
Speaker 6: Is it a Lids a store?

821
00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:20,119
Speaker 4: Is it?

822
00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:23,239
Speaker 7: We couldn't understand it and it goes straight to voice Yeah,

823
00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:26,559
I must have called it like six times my guy.

824
00:35:26,639 --> 00:35:31,360
Finally I call it again and somebody picks up and

825
00:35:31,400 --> 00:35:35,199
it's a guy and I'm like, somebody from this number

826
00:35:35,239 --> 00:35:38,119
called me and said that they have my kid.

827
00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:43,039
Speaker 1: And he's like, oh, yes, yes, this is a store.

828
00:35:43,639 --> 00:35:45,320
He goes we she's.

829
00:35:45,119 --> 00:35:47,679
Speaker 6: Here, and I was like, well, where are you what?

830
00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:51,440
And I cannot understand his accent, like and I'm like.

831
00:35:51,880 --> 00:35:55,960
Speaker 7: The what hats hats h and Lbie's like, oh, it's

832
00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:56,840
the Lids store.

833
00:35:57,760 --> 00:36:00,519
Speaker 6: So that's part from the story before, was correct.

834
00:36:00,719 --> 00:36:02,840
Speaker 7: I didn't hear that on the I couldn't understand the

835
00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:05,599
voicemail the place where it was. And Elbie's like, Lids

836
00:36:05,679 --> 00:36:07,559
is at the Lid store. And I'm going, are you

837
00:36:07,599 --> 00:36:10,400
at the Lids store? And he's like no, And I

838
00:36:10,519 --> 00:36:14,320
hand the phone to the security guy who's like and

839
00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:16,400
then it's the Gap.

840
00:36:17,039 --> 00:36:19,800
Speaker 6: He was like fuck. So they're like, we're at the Gap.

841
00:36:20,039 --> 00:36:21,159
We have your kid at the Gap.

842
00:36:21,400 --> 00:36:24,119
Speaker 7: And I'm like, which is literally like three store, like

843
00:36:24,559 --> 00:36:25,400
three stores down.

844
00:36:26,199 --> 00:36:28,559
Speaker 6: So I'm like, okay, I'm on my way.

845
00:36:28,599 --> 00:36:30,760
Speaker 7: So I go over there and they'res Sadie and she

846
00:36:30,840 --> 00:36:32,440
looks like she's been crying a little.

847
00:36:32,280 --> 00:36:34,639
Speaker 1: Bit because no wonder because it was it was like

848
00:36:34,719 --> 00:36:35,840
another ten minutes.

849
00:36:35,840 --> 00:36:36,239
Speaker 6: I'm sure.

850
00:36:36,239 --> 00:36:37,840
Speaker 7: She was like, oh my god, they called my mom.

851
00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:39,559
Why didn't my mom go get me right?

852
00:36:39,639 --> 00:36:39,800
Speaker 5: Right?

853
00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:40,119
Speaker 1: Right?

854
00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:43,480
Speaker 7: And I've never been so happy to see my kid.

855
00:36:43,639 --> 00:36:45,960
And I was like, oh my god, you did the

856
00:36:46,039 --> 00:36:49,320
exact right thing. But later I was like, thank you

857
00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:50,199
for doing the right thing.

858
00:36:50,239 --> 00:36:52,039
Speaker 1: Because she did the right thing. She walked into a

859
00:36:52,079 --> 00:36:53,199
store and asked them.

860
00:36:53,079 --> 00:36:55,199
Speaker 6: To call her mom right right. She was like, I

861
00:36:55,239 --> 00:36:58,880
couldn't find you, like I thought you. I thought you

862
00:36:58,920 --> 00:37:00,800
went into a store. I went into like.

863
00:37:00,760 --> 00:37:03,159
Speaker 7: The closest couple of stores looking for you, but I

864
00:37:03,159 --> 00:37:05,599
couldn't find you. And then I came back and you

865
00:37:05,599 --> 00:37:08,719
weren't there, but I was. I was just on the

866
00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:09,679
other side of anyway.

867
00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:10,079
Speaker 4: So I go.

868
00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:15,079
Speaker 7: I was like, well, why didn't you immediately call me,

869
00:37:15,639 --> 00:37:17,559
Like as soon as you realized you couldn't find me,

870
00:37:17,599 --> 00:37:18,519
why didn't you call me?

871
00:37:18,559 --> 00:37:21,519
Speaker 6: And she goes, well, I did, but there was a

872
00:37:21,519 --> 00:37:23,199
line at the gap.

873
00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:27,280
Speaker 7: She waited in line while people were getting wrung up.

874
00:37:27,559 --> 00:37:30,000
Speaker 1: She waited in line. I was like, oh my god, girl,

875
00:37:30,159 --> 00:37:30,519
you are.

876
00:37:30,440 --> 00:37:31,239
Speaker 6: Way too polite.

877
00:37:31,320 --> 00:37:32,840
Speaker 1: I go, my god, if.

878
00:37:32,719 --> 00:37:35,840
Speaker 7: You're lost, I go, you just walk right up to

879
00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:38,000
that counter and you say, I can't find my mom.

880
00:37:38,039 --> 00:37:38,960
Speaker 6: I need you to call her.

881
00:37:39,360 --> 00:37:47,079
Speaker 1: And she was like, well, I didn't want to be rude.

882
00:37:44,679 --> 00:37:47,360
Speaker 6: And she goes. The line was really took a long time,

883
00:37:48,599 --> 00:37:48,920
and she.

884
00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:51,519
Speaker 7: Was of course starting to cry, like she was freaking

885
00:37:51,519 --> 00:37:53,800
out a little bit. She looked like she'd been crying

886
00:37:53,800 --> 00:37:57,519
a little coarse. Meanwhile, LB and Xander had been full

887
00:37:57,599 --> 00:37:59,559
on crying, both of them, and I was having to

888
00:37:59,559 --> 00:38:03,159
go snap out of it. Yeah, stay calm, but my

889
00:38:03,320 --> 00:38:04,079
voice is breaking.

890
00:38:04,119 --> 00:38:04,480
Speaker 6: Anyway.

891
00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:09,119
Speaker 5: It was like the scariest, like twenty minutes. God, what morons?

892
00:38:09,199 --> 00:38:11,880
First of all, who called you? Somebody that works there?

893
00:38:12,079 --> 00:38:12,360
Speaker 6: Yes?

894
00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:15,800
Speaker 5: And she said, and you said, I'm here, I'm at

895
00:38:15,840 --> 00:38:16,440
the fountain.

896
00:38:16,559 --> 00:38:19,039
Speaker 7: I guess we were having trouble understanding each other because

897
00:38:19,039 --> 00:38:21,599
she thought I was coming to get her. She was like,

898
00:38:21,639 --> 00:38:25,159
we can't leave. She goes, I can't leave the store

899
00:38:25,199 --> 00:38:28,800
with your kid and go walk around with her, Like,

900
00:38:29,039 --> 00:38:32,079
I guess whatever the root policy is that if you

901
00:38:32,159 --> 00:38:34,559
have a lost child, you stay there with right. But

902
00:38:34,599 --> 00:38:37,039
then I was like, why didn't she call security or

903
00:38:37,079 --> 00:38:37,719
why didn't she.

904
00:38:37,719 --> 00:38:40,880
Speaker 1: Say I'm at the gap? How about that?

905
00:38:41,440 --> 00:38:43,880
Speaker 6: I don't know, I work here, I'm met that gap.

906
00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:47,159
Well maybe she did. I think she probably did, but

907
00:38:47,199 --> 00:38:49,960
I didn't understand her because it's a missus lild.

908
00:38:50,079 --> 00:38:52,280
Speaker 1: Don't go in the back lady and talk.

909
00:38:52,400 --> 00:38:54,960
Speaker 5: I get make sure or give the phone to somebody

910
00:38:54,960 --> 00:38:58,760
that can speak English, or make sure that the communication

911
00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:01,159
is Ansford properly.

912
00:39:01,199 --> 00:39:01,400
Speaker 4: I know.

913
00:39:01,559 --> 00:39:05,599
Speaker 7: I think in her mind, probably she doesn't know I'm panicking. Well,

914
00:39:05,639 --> 00:39:07,400
in her mind she's like, I got your kid. I'm

915
00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:09,320
at the gap, like, come pick her up.

916
00:39:10,039 --> 00:39:10,719
Speaker 6: She doesn't know.

917
00:39:10,679 --> 00:39:12,920
Speaker 7: That I've already been looking for her and I'm freaking out.

918
00:39:12,960 --> 00:39:14,400
But of course I was on the phone. I was like,

919
00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:17,880
oh my god, oh thank god. Okay, okay, well I'm

920
00:39:17,960 --> 00:39:21,119
right here, thank you. Right, Yeah, I don't know what

921
00:39:21,239 --> 00:39:23,639
the fun So, Caitlin, that happened to you?

922
00:39:25,000 --> 00:39:28,960
Speaker 3: Yeah? We were at the the Glendale Galleria. Uh huh,

923
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:31,559
and my little brother was I think he was maybe

924
00:39:31,599 --> 00:39:35,480
like five or six, and I was with two of

925
00:39:35,519 --> 00:39:38,519
my friends, and my mom and dad were there, and

926
00:39:38,960 --> 00:39:41,360
I'm trying to remember. We were walking like from the

927
00:39:41,400 --> 00:39:43,320
Fudruckers over to the theater.

928
00:39:44,199 --> 00:39:46,639
Speaker 6: How can you have a bad experience leaving a fud Rucker.

929
00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:48,239
It just sounds so funny.

930
00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:50,840
Speaker 4: And I can't really remember.

931
00:39:51,199 --> 00:39:54,360
Speaker 3: He was like ahead of us somehow, and then me

932
00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:58,440
and my friends kind of ran off ahead of him

933
00:39:58,639 --> 00:40:00,960
or behind him, and the the next thing we knew,

934
00:40:01,039 --> 00:40:03,760
he was gone, and we were looking.

935
00:40:03,639 --> 00:40:05,840
Speaker 4: All over the place for him. My mom was freaking out.

936
00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:08,960
Speaker 3: They had my mom had to run all the week,

937
00:40:09,199 --> 00:40:12,199
searched the whole kind of like that level of the

938
00:40:12,239 --> 00:40:13,559
gallery if you know what I'm talking about with the

939
00:40:13,639 --> 00:40:16,800
cheesecake factory in the fountain, yeh. We searched that whole level,

940
00:40:16,840 --> 00:40:21,840
couldn't find him. My mom ran back security called security,

941
00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:26,760
was freaking out, and then I think security he had

942
00:40:26,960 --> 00:40:28,679
gone up to the second level of like where the

943
00:40:28,719 --> 00:40:32,320
movie theaters were, and was like on a little bench,

944
00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:35,440
and some little girl who was like eleven or twelve

945
00:40:35,719 --> 00:40:38,679
like walked up to him and like made friends with

946
00:40:38,760 --> 00:40:41,880
him and kept him there because she saw that his

947
00:40:41,920 --> 00:40:44,039
parents weren't around, so she kind of kept him there

948
00:40:44,599 --> 00:40:48,320
and stayed there until security said, oh, there's a girl

949
00:40:48,400 --> 00:40:51,920
with this kid. He can't find his parents, And then

950
00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:53,840
security led us upstairs and the girl was just there

951
00:40:53,840 --> 00:40:55,119
and he was just talking to the girl.

952
00:40:55,159 --> 00:40:56,480
Speaker 4: He was he was fine, he was happy.

953
00:40:58,400 --> 00:41:01,199
Speaker 7: I'm aic attack right now for your mom. I know

954
00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:05,719
that many years ago, year old, yeah five. I mean

955
00:41:06,079 --> 00:41:08,760
it's just because as much as I make fun of

956
00:41:09,239 --> 00:41:11,119
I don't make fun. It's not that I'm making fun

957
00:41:11,159 --> 00:41:14,800
of sexual trafficking at all. I mean, it's that the

958
00:41:14,840 --> 00:41:18,360
people that it's nothing that's happened to their kids not

959
00:41:18,519 --> 00:41:22,239
missing that are like, oh, I'm positive that sex traffickers

960
00:41:22,280 --> 00:41:22,920
were trying.

961
00:41:22,679 --> 00:41:25,119
Speaker 5: To go through your mind at one point going oh God,

962
00:41:25,119 --> 00:41:27,159
it's karma, karma, karma for making fun.

963
00:41:27,280 --> 00:41:31,239
Speaker 7: Yes, yeah, well it also went through my head that

964
00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:33,000
I was like, I don't I also don't want to

965
00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:33,639
be a hypocrite.

966
00:41:33,639 --> 00:41:34,400
Speaker 6: I don't want to be one of.

967
00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:37,199
Speaker 7: Those people that's like, my kid's been sold into sex trafficking.

968
00:41:37,800 --> 00:41:39,320
You know, I don't want to go there in my

969
00:41:39,400 --> 00:41:43,840
head because I do know that that's probably not what happened, right,

970
00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:44,320
but just.

971
00:41:44,280 --> 00:41:47,239
Speaker 1: The word probably even in there, it's like, no, Okay, yes.

972
00:41:47,079 --> 00:41:51,400
Speaker 7: It's probable, it's most likely that she did not get snatched,

973
00:41:51,440 --> 00:41:55,280
but my kid is not here and it's not like her,

974
00:41:55,639 --> 00:41:59,159
and I'm looking all around and she's gone, So something happened.

975
00:41:59,199 --> 00:42:00,960
Speaker 6: In my mind, I'm like, something happened.

976
00:42:01,079 --> 00:42:03,840
Speaker 7: Something happened, because I just she just would not have

977
00:42:03,920 --> 00:42:08,320
just walked off, right. But the reason why and and

978
00:42:08,599 --> 00:42:10,639
the truth is that she did walk into like this.

979
00:42:10,760 --> 00:42:12,519
The store was only like two stores.

980
00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:15,920
Speaker 1: Away, yeah so Witney's. But that was the problem that

981
00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:17,960
she was waiting in line, So that whole time she's

982
00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:20,159
waiting in line for somebody to buy a fucking sweater.

983
00:42:20,320 --> 00:42:23,119
I know, you know, and those lines at the gap

984
00:42:23,159 --> 00:42:24,320
are always long.

985
00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:25,760
Speaker 6: I stopped shopping at the gay.

986
00:42:25,800 --> 00:42:27,039
Speaker 1: I know, what if there's a kid.

987
00:42:26,880 --> 00:42:28,559
Speaker 6: In there that's trying to call her parents.

988
00:42:28,679 --> 00:42:32,599
Speaker 5: Now I know the feeling. It was like when Sonny

989
00:42:32,599 --> 00:42:36,159
got lost in the jungle and and and Italia. And

990
00:42:36,239 --> 00:42:38,280
I first I was like, he's fine, he's just ahead

991
00:42:38,280 --> 00:42:38,559
of us.

992
00:42:38,639 --> 00:42:39,079
Speaker 6: He's fine.

993
00:42:39,679 --> 00:42:41,760
Speaker 1: And then eventually it was like a half an hour.

994
00:42:41,599 --> 00:42:44,639
Speaker 5: Where we didn't know where he he wasn't answering us right,

995
00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:47,840
And Adam is like was calm the whole time? And

996
00:42:47,920 --> 00:42:51,159
I was like how And He's like, it's deductive reasoning,

997
00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:55,480
Like the chance of a creepy guy taking him is

998
00:42:56,039 --> 00:42:59,760
slim to I mean very slim. There's a lot of

999
00:42:59,800 --> 00:43:02,519
peace bull around that are very nice. There's only one

1000
00:43:02,559 --> 00:43:04,519
way in and one way out.

1001
00:43:04,519 --> 00:43:07,440
Speaker 1: Right, but just very slim, very to a mom is

1002
00:43:07,480 --> 00:43:08,920
not enough, not enough? Right?

1003
00:43:09,119 --> 00:43:11,960
Speaker 5: I know, there's still it's still slim, right. And then

1004
00:43:12,000 --> 00:43:13,920
I'm thinking he fell off the cliff. What if he

1005
00:43:13,960 --> 00:43:16,519
fell down the cliff and he's like no, And then

1006
00:43:16,960 --> 00:43:19,480
what if he went down the wrong trail? And he's like, now,

1007
00:43:19,840 --> 00:43:23,000
Sonny wouldn't have because we did. We went right yeah

1008
00:43:23,039 --> 00:43:25,639
and turned around found it was a dead end. And

1009
00:43:26,079 --> 00:43:29,079
when the sign clearly said, you know, keep going that way,

1010
00:43:29,719 --> 00:43:32,599
I don't know, but I was just like I was

1011
00:43:32,639 --> 00:43:33,920
trying to stay calmferend Italia.

1012
00:43:33,960 --> 00:43:35,920
Speaker 1: But then eventually I was like, where is he, Adam,

1013
00:43:35,960 --> 00:43:37,480
where is he? And then she's like where.

1014
00:43:38,000 --> 00:43:40,239
Speaker 7: I know the second your voice cracks or the second

1015
00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:43,400
you're like yeah, seem a little tiny bit not in

1016
00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:44,559
control of the situation.

1017
00:43:44,840 --> 00:43:46,679
Speaker 1: The kids feel that and they do nuts.

1018
00:43:47,480 --> 00:43:50,079
Speaker 5: I just the verbals saying like have you seen a

1019
00:43:50,119 --> 00:43:52,599
little boy with the you know? And they're like, oh, yeah,

1020
00:43:52,599 --> 00:43:54,559
he was on a mission. We saw he ran right

1021
00:43:54,599 --> 00:43:57,320
past us, go straight, he's on the he headed down

1022
00:43:57,360 --> 00:44:00,719
towards the bottom. Like okay, but now where is he now?

1023
00:44:00,960 --> 00:44:03,280
Like now it's ten minutes past those people, Now where

1024
00:44:03,360 --> 00:44:04,920
is he? Why doesn't he stop.

1025
00:44:05,280 --> 00:44:06,320
Speaker 1: Why didn't he wait.

1026
00:44:07,559 --> 00:44:10,639
Speaker 6: And Adam didn't run ahead to try to catch up

1027
00:44:10,639 --> 00:44:10,960
with him?

1028
00:44:11,119 --> 00:44:13,480
Speaker 1: No, I did. I did.

1029
00:44:15,199 --> 00:44:15,719
Speaker 6: Yeah.

1030
00:44:15,840 --> 00:44:18,639
Speaker 7: Well, when I told John the story, of course, Sadie

1031
00:44:18,679 --> 00:44:21,280
was like, can we not tell Dad about this? And

1032
00:44:21,320 --> 00:44:23,280
I was like, okay, yeah, she goes. I don't want

1033
00:44:23,280 --> 00:44:25,920
to worry him. But of course I did tell him

1034
00:44:25,920 --> 00:44:29,639
because I was in the worst mood later, not mad

1035
00:44:29,719 --> 00:44:32,039
or anything, but like I felt like i'd.

1036
00:44:32,199 --> 00:44:34,079
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, the feeling he had a little.

1037
00:44:33,800 --> 00:44:36,079
Speaker 6: PTSD, Like I was just having a little.

1038
00:44:35,800 --> 00:44:37,880
Speaker 1: Like like something still feeling kind of.

1039
00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:40,880
Speaker 6: Edgy and a little just not right, you know.

1040
00:44:41,079 --> 00:44:43,559
Speaker 7: And then I was like, this happened at the mall

1041
00:44:43,599 --> 00:44:46,840
and John was like panicking just hearing the story.

1042
00:44:47,480 --> 00:44:49,159
Speaker 1: I was panicking.

1043
00:44:49,320 --> 00:44:53,880
Speaker 7: The funny thing is, though, it's like there I let Elbe,

1044
00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:56,079
who's only a couple of years older, walk around, Like

1045
00:44:56,119 --> 00:44:58,559
I don't have that feeling with Elbe. There's something about

1046
00:44:58,679 --> 00:45:03,559
kids having a phone that makes you feel calmer. I mean,

1047
00:45:03,719 --> 00:45:05,480
suddenly he didn't have his phone on that trail.

1048
00:45:05,639 --> 00:45:08,440
Speaker 1: Now now I know, but.

1049
00:45:08,360 --> 00:45:11,000
Speaker 7: There's something weird. There's a difference it does make when

1050
00:45:11,039 --> 00:45:13,199
you're like, Okay, my kids have a phone, so if

1051
00:45:13,199 --> 00:45:15,719
they ever got lost or whatever they call me. Right,

1052
00:45:15,800 --> 00:45:18,920
Like when I'm at Magic Mountain, I don't ever think

1053
00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:21,679
about worry about Lbie because she's got her phone.

1054
00:45:21,760 --> 00:45:22,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, so I.

1055
00:45:23,039 --> 00:45:24,760
Speaker 7: Couldn't find her for a while, I just call her.

1056
00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:27,960
There's something that's not doesn't feel settled about your kids

1057
00:45:28,000 --> 00:45:31,719
being off somewhere that's crowded and you feeling like you

1058
00:45:31,760 --> 00:45:32,960
have no way to get a hold of them.

1059
00:45:33,079 --> 00:45:37,480
Speaker 5: Right, But you were right, like you you did rationalize

1060
00:45:37,480 --> 00:45:37,920
in your head.

1061
00:45:37,960 --> 00:45:39,360
Speaker 1: You did the deductive reason.

1062
00:45:39,360 --> 00:45:41,639
Speaker 5: Now, she's not going to get taken by somebody, she

1063
00:45:41,679 --> 00:45:44,599
would scream. You know, she's not going to wander off

1064
00:45:44,599 --> 00:45:47,119
of somebody. She's not going to leave the mall's she's

1065
00:45:47,119 --> 00:45:49,559
gonna She probably did do the right thing. Why is

1066
00:45:49,599 --> 00:45:53,119
it taking so long? Right because we're relying on you know,

1067
00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:56,679
morons behind the counter that make you know that don't

1068
00:45:56,679 --> 00:45:58,760
give it their stone or whatever. I don't know like

1069
00:45:58,840 --> 00:46:02,239
mall employees right right, Like they don't have kids, they

1070
00:46:02,280 --> 00:46:04,840
don't know they don't you know, right, I mean I

1071
00:46:04,880 --> 00:46:05,880
don't know who was working at it.

1072
00:46:06,000 --> 00:46:11,639
Speaker 7: Also, I think Sadie would feel a little embarrassed to

1073
00:46:11,800 --> 00:46:13,840
admit that, Like I can't find my mom.

1074
00:46:13,920 --> 00:46:18,800
Speaker 1: I need help. She's a little proud. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

1075
00:46:18,519 --> 00:46:22,280
Speaker 7: I feel like she would really look around first as

1076
00:46:22,360 --> 00:46:25,559
much as she would have to be admit defeat of like, okay,

1077
00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:28,920
I really can't find my mom, right, so that probably

1078
00:46:29,280 --> 00:46:31,840
took a little bit, right, a little bravado.

1079
00:46:32,599 --> 00:46:37,199
Speaker 5: Yeah, man, I know it's scary.

1080
00:46:37,000 --> 00:46:41,000
Speaker 7: Because I'm sorry, but I always do think of Adam Walsh.

1081
00:46:41,039 --> 00:46:43,679
That was the department store. He was like playing in

1082
00:46:43,719 --> 00:46:46,159
a toy asle and somebody snatched him. I know, like

1083
00:46:46,199 --> 00:46:51,840
that happened, right, So even though the chances are it's

1084
00:46:51,960 --> 00:46:53,719
really unlikely, but.

1085
00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:56,559
Speaker 1: Man, you just go like, okay, but there is a.

1086
00:46:56,679 --> 00:47:00,599
Speaker 5: Slight Yeah, I know, I.

1087
00:47:02,440 --> 00:47:03,440
Speaker 1: Don't know. I don't know.

1088
00:47:03,679 --> 00:47:07,320
Speaker 5: It's just it's scary, and you think it's gonna get

1089
00:47:07,320 --> 00:47:09,360
better as I get older, but still I don't.

1090
00:47:09,400 --> 00:47:09,800
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1091
00:47:10,480 --> 00:47:14,239
Speaker 7: Yeah, it's definitely better with her being nine and a half,

1092
00:47:14,440 --> 00:47:20,320
you know, right, you go, she's she's got good sense, Like,

1093
00:47:20,519 --> 00:47:23,800
I mean, I would let her almost well, I don't

1094
00:47:23,840 --> 00:47:25,199
know if I would let her walk around them all

1095
00:47:25,199 --> 00:47:30,000
on her own yet. Maybe one more year, yeah, at eleven,

1096
00:47:30,039 --> 00:47:32,360
I definitely would, right right.

1097
00:47:35,159 --> 00:47:41,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, Well, I'm glad that she's okay. Suzanne has a boyfriend.

1098
00:47:41,679 --> 00:47:45,800
Speaker 1: What mm hmm, is.

1099
00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:48,000
Speaker 5: It the guy that was she was kind of now

1100
00:47:48,280 --> 00:47:53,840
the new one? Yeah, a little older, you know, like

1101
00:47:56,280 --> 00:47:58,960
the guys that she likes are not the kind of

1102
00:47:58,960 --> 00:48:02,079
guys that on a relationship at that point in their

1103
00:48:02,119 --> 00:48:05,239
life or whatever. But because they're still in high school

1104
00:48:05,360 --> 00:48:09,199
pretty much. But this guy's a little bit older. He's

1105
00:48:09,199 --> 00:48:09,719
not that much.

1106
00:48:09,880 --> 00:48:10,199
Speaker 6: I don't know.

1107
00:48:10,239 --> 00:48:12,480
Speaker 5: He's a little older, and he a little more distinguished.

1108
00:48:12,480 --> 00:48:15,719
He has older kids, and he just wants it. He

1109
00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:17,920
wants a girlfriend. She met him on Match or whatever,

1110
00:48:18,000 --> 00:48:21,400
and he's very he was he was a man, you know,

1111
00:48:21,559 --> 00:48:24,719
he was a gentleman. He calls her back, he's you know,

1112
00:48:24,800 --> 00:48:28,079
he's not flaky. And I guess they went out a

1113
00:48:28,079 --> 00:48:31,320
few times and he's all about it, like he's like, yeah,

1114
00:48:31,360 --> 00:48:33,440
I want a girlfriend, like I'm not interested in dating

1115
00:48:33,440 --> 00:48:33,960
other people.

1116
00:48:34,480 --> 00:48:36,199
Speaker 1: And she's like, okay, she's.

1117
00:48:35,960 --> 00:48:39,079
Speaker 5: The one that's kind of like slowing her role a

1118
00:48:39,079 --> 00:48:39,800
little bit.

1119
00:48:39,760 --> 00:48:41,760
Speaker 1: Just because he's too into her.

1120
00:48:41,800 --> 00:48:45,119
Speaker 5: Because he's too into her right but but for the

1121
00:48:45,159 --> 00:48:47,000
most like he's Italian, he's from New York.

1122
00:48:47,039 --> 00:48:49,800
Speaker 1: He has a little edge to her, like to him, like.

1123
00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:52,360
Speaker 5: Where he talks to her like like well, where are

1124
00:48:52,400 --> 00:48:54,239
the fuck have you been? You know, like that's what

1125
00:48:54,280 --> 00:48:57,199
she likes, Like it's not it's nice when the guy

1126
00:48:57,280 --> 00:49:00,199
is a gentleman and nice. Fine, but then they have

1127
00:49:00,280 --> 00:49:02,880
to they can't be too nice. It's too syrupy. And

1128
00:49:04,400 --> 00:49:06,599
so eventually, after they got to know each other a

1129
00:49:06,599 --> 00:49:08,599
little bit more, he's like, well, well, you know, he

1130
00:49:08,760 --> 00:49:10,760
just kind of has a little bit of an edge

1131
00:49:10,800 --> 00:49:13,440
to her, you know, like focks around with her, you know,

1132
00:49:13,559 --> 00:49:15,719
like you and John a little like that. And she's

1133
00:49:15,760 --> 00:49:18,280
like okay, now I yeah, now this is better.

1134
00:49:18,400 --> 00:49:21,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is good. So she likes him, so we'll see.

1135
00:49:21,880 --> 00:49:22,400
Speaker 6: Oh good.

1136
00:49:22,800 --> 00:49:28,400
Speaker 7: Yeah, because that other one, there were two in a row.

1137
00:49:29,519 --> 00:49:31,679
Speaker 1: Yeah, just wham, there's yeah, the.

1138
00:49:31,559 --> 00:49:34,119
Speaker 7: One that was like we need to didn't he have

1139
00:49:34,199 --> 00:49:35,679
like a little talk with her about how he doesn't

1140
00:49:35,679 --> 00:49:36,440
want anything.

1141
00:49:36,880 --> 00:49:39,400
Speaker 1: Just so you know that this is just yeah, book up.

1142
00:49:39,920 --> 00:49:40,360
Speaker 6: Yeah.

1143
00:49:40,400 --> 00:49:44,239
Speaker 5: And then she was like I and then later and

1144
00:49:44,280 --> 00:49:46,519
then he was like okay, so after work at five o'clock,

1145
00:49:46,559 --> 00:49:49,559
and then she texted him after work a five what you're.

1146
00:49:49,440 --> 00:49:50,039
Speaker 6: Still into me?

1147
00:49:50,239 --> 00:49:50,440
Speaker 5: Right?

1148
00:49:50,440 --> 00:49:52,079
Speaker 1: I still want to do it? After I told you that?

1149
00:49:52,119 --> 00:49:54,639
Speaker 5: And she's like, yeah, I said it earlier, like just

1150
00:49:54,880 --> 00:49:58,920
weird and he was in a rock band, a cover band.

1151
00:49:59,039 --> 00:50:01,800
Speaker 6: Right, No, no, absolutely not.

1152
00:50:02,760 --> 00:50:05,800
Speaker 5: I hate and he wouldn't wear he doesn't wear rubbers

1153
00:50:05,800 --> 00:50:08,280
when he has sex with moms.

1154
00:50:08,280 --> 00:50:11,559
Speaker 6: Right right right, because their moms, their moms. Where have

1155
00:50:11,639 --> 00:50:12,000
they been?

1156
00:50:12,159 --> 00:50:13,679
Speaker 1: Yeah? Why do I got to wear a rubber?

1157
00:50:14,880 --> 00:50:18,199
Speaker 5: Yeah, they've already had kids mine too. Oh my god,

1158
00:50:18,599 --> 00:50:22,079
what a dick I know. So this guy's a nice guy.

1159
00:50:23,039 --> 00:50:26,400
Speaker 7: So thank you so much everybody, and thank you guys.

1160
00:50:26,559 --> 00:50:28,280
Hope you enjoyed Patreon this week too.

1161
00:50:28,559 --> 00:50:32,199
Speaker 8: Yeah, all right, that's it, thank you, Kaylenk, thank you

1162
00:50:32,440 --> 00:50:55,400
all right, bye.

1163
00:51:01,920 --> 00:51:02,440
Speaker 4: Relax.

1164
00:51:02,920 --> 00:51:07,360
Speaker 9: Don't doos when you wanna go to as miles, don't

1165
00:51:07,599 --> 00:51:08,760
west when you.

1166
00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:10,920
Speaker 4: Wanna come, REALI.

1167
00:51:11,239 --> 00:51:14,920
Speaker 9: Don't do qus when you want to seconds got relas,

1168
00:51:15,400 --> 00:51:16,480
don't ut.

1169
00:51:17,719 --> 00:51:23,039
Speaker 4: When you want to come when you wanna come.

1170
00:51:26,920 --> 00:51:31,480
Speaker 9: Relax, don't do ask when you wanna go to as, relas,

1171
00:51:32,079 --> 00:51:37,880
don't tos when you wanna come, relase dot when you

1172
00:51:37,960 --> 00:51:41,360
want to relax, don't do let.

1173
00:51:42,719 --> 00:51:58,440
Speaker 4: When you want to come. But she.

1174
00:52:03,559 --> 00:52:30,440
Speaker 2: Your downs sence see those things. Let me will.

1175
00:52:31,480 --> 00:52:37,199
Speaker 4: Relax, don't you we.

1176
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Speaker 9: Relax?

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Speaker 6: Really want to come?

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Speaker 9: Cool?

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Speaker 4: We we Doctor well.

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Speaker 9: Red walks up to well, Doctor Red d you wanna

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come dot tut reds dot two where you want to come,

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Where you want to come, where you want to come Come,

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How Reland w to last? Really coming last, last, real.

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Speaker 2: Land and sh