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<v Speaker 1>Hey, hey, Hey, I'm bad with something for you to

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<v Speaker 1>think about.

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<v Speaker 2>Now.

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<v Speaker 1>You all have listened to me enough enough, some of

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<v Speaker 1>you to know that I don't get on here and

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<v Speaker 1>talk about people, not in that type of way anyways,

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<v Speaker 1>like some of the podcasters and YouTubers do.

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<v Speaker 2>I I that's not me.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll never make a sense in life if I have

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<v Speaker 1>to get on and talk negative about people.

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<v Speaker 2>Are all about people's business. That's not me anyways.

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<v Speaker 1>But I do wanna talk about this, and I'm talking

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<v Speaker 1>predominantly to women, but I'm talking to men too, because

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<v Speaker 1>y'all can look a mess too. You can look a

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<v Speaker 1>mess too.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to talk about what I saw today when

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<v Speaker 2>I was out.

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<v Speaker 1>When I tell you, booty booty, booty, booty booty everywhere,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a puer of shame. It is a pair of shame.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care if you have the body.

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<v Speaker 2>For it or not. It is a pure shame what

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<v Speaker 2>I saw today.

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<v Speaker 1>Ladies, you must respect yourselves better than that. Respect yourselves

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<v Speaker 1>better than that. If you don't respect yourself, no one

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<v Speaker 1>else is going to respect you. When I see someone

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<v Speaker 1>like that, I already know they have inner issues. Irrefutable,

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<v Speaker 1>they have their issues there is no way a woman

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<v Speaker 1>will walk out the house looking the way I saw

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<v Speaker 1>people look today, several people of different races.

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<v Speaker 2>I saw women.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean all of their butt cheeks were out, you

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<v Speaker 1>know when you can see the dark part of their

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<v Speaker 1>butt cheeks underneath their all of their butt cheeks out,

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, what is going on today? They're trying

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<v Speaker 1>to get it in before I get cold. I guess, ridiculous. Ridiculous,

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<v Speaker 1>you hear me. I mean some of them was busting

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<v Speaker 1>out the clothes. They were so big, and the clothes,

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<v Speaker 1>the stomachs hanging and listen, I don't care if it's

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<v Speaker 1>a neat woman, a neat, builked woman who slim got

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<v Speaker 1>a nice shape, I don't care. It is so inappropriate

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<v Speaker 1>and nobody wants to see it. People are so broken

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<v Speaker 1>they cannot even look in the mirror and see what

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<v Speaker 1>they're putting on is wrong. I don't care how you

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<v Speaker 1>dress at home, but when you go out, come on.

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<v Speaker 1>You should have some respect for yourself. You should have

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<v Speaker 1>respect for yourself and the comforts of your home. Dress

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<v Speaker 1>how you want to, but nobody should be subjected to that.

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<v Speaker 1>See men like it, especially when ladies have big booties

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<v Speaker 1>build nice. They like it, but that tells me what

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<v Speaker 1>kind of man he is. I know people are not blind,

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<v Speaker 1>they can see, but you wouldn't want to take nobody

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<v Speaker 1>home to mama looking like that. Women, get some respect

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<v Speaker 1>for yourselves, because if you don't respect yourself, no one

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<v Speaker 1>is going to respect you. And some of you have children.

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<v Speaker 1>You dressing like that in front of your children so inappropriate,

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<v Speaker 1>and I mean women of all caliber celebrities are doing too,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's not cute.

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<v Speaker 2>That tells me so much about an individual.

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<v Speaker 1>When I see how a person dressed, that tells me

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<v Speaker 1>so much about an individual. When a person is dressing

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<v Speaker 1>like that, that tells me a lot about that person.

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<v Speaker 2>They are broken, something.

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<v Speaker 1>Is disconnected inside, especially these people who wearing clothes three

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<v Speaker 1>sizes of too small. They would right past the mirror,

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<v Speaker 1>didn't even turn to look. I mean, it's insane.

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<v Speaker 2>No self love, no.

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<v Speaker 1>Self love, no respect for yourself. And the reason I'm

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<v Speaker 1>talking to women because I am a woman, and I

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<v Speaker 1>tell you right now you was related to me. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't care who you were. If you were related to me. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you about yourself now. You know you're wrong

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<v Speaker 1>what you have on you know, you're wrong, and.

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<v Speaker 2>It belittles you. No one have to do it.

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<v Speaker 1>You belittle yourself, you degrade yourself when you dress like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Woman, You're gonna be mad.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's okay, It's okay. I have thick skin, bring it.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what.

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<v Speaker 1>Every single day, and this is no exaggeration, every single

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<v Speaker 1>day that I go to work, I'm told you look nice.

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<v Speaker 2>Every single day? Did you hear me?

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<v Speaker 1>Every single day? That's because I care about my appearance,

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<v Speaker 1>and i'd be looking at a little fly sometimes. I

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<v Speaker 1>haven't lost it yet. I hope to never lose it.

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<v Speaker 1>But you will never catch me dressing and appropriate.

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<v Speaker 2>Never. You have to have self respect.

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<v Speaker 1>If you don't, people will look at you and automatically

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<v Speaker 1>assume things about you. Just like I said, when I

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<v Speaker 1>see someone, but I'm looking a different way than the

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<v Speaker 1>average person, because I've dealt with people all of my life,

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<v Speaker 1>basically but professionally the majority of my life, and I

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<v Speaker 1>know what the catalyst is in the lives of many people.

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<v Speaker 1>It's that mindset. It's that unhealed heart and that unhealed mind.

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<v Speaker 1>It's immaturity, lack of growth, lack of self respect. It's

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<v Speaker 1>no way, no way, no way you respect yourself, and

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<v Speaker 1>you walk out that door with all of your boots

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<v Speaker 1>hanging out or your shorts up your butt are they

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<v Speaker 1>so tight you barely walk? You can present yourself very central,

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<v Speaker 1>and you can look very sexy, which clothes on. You

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<v Speaker 1>don't have to go out looking like that, because I

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<v Speaker 1>don't care if you built like a.

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<v Speaker 2>Brickhouse or whatever. It's not cute.

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<v Speaker 1>And if you have on a mini skirt, that's pushing it.

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<v Speaker 1>But that looks better than these booty shorts.

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<v Speaker 2>They got to go.

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<v Speaker 1>No respect, there's no way you have respect for yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>You just think it's cute and you want to be seen.

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<v Speaker 2>You want to be seen.

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<v Speaker 1>You know you can say now, I don't want nobody

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<v Speaker 1>to see me. I'm dressing for myself. No, you want

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<v Speaker 1>to be seen, and believe me, you are, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>not in the way you want.

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<v Speaker 2>No man want a woman looking like that, not a

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<v Speaker 2>mature man.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, immature man will get you and get out of

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<v Speaker 1>you what he can on what he's trying to get.

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<v Speaker 2>But he don't want you like that.

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<v Speaker 1>If you present yourself like that, he sure will take

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<v Speaker 1>it whatever he can. Have some respect for yourself, learn

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<v Speaker 1>to love yourself and be an individual.

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<v Speaker 2>Who is that woman? Who have pride in your appearance.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not saying be.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, in a narcissistic way or or an egotistical way.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, be proud of how you represent, how you

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<v Speaker 1>present yourself. It's like a celebrity. I'm not mentioning the name,

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<v Speaker 1>but you may know who it is when you hear

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm gonna say. Who showed up I think in

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<v Speaker 1>her child's graduation with DC through clothes.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, I don't know you. I don't care who

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<v Speaker 2>you are. I don't know you. Now, don't get away

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<v Speaker 2>from me.

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<v Speaker 1>Mm hmm. I would have walked the other way. But

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<v Speaker 1>see they used to that, and that's horrible. You dressed

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<v Speaker 1>like that in front of your child, your grown child.

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<v Speaker 1>No self respect. It's not cute, it's no self respect.

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<v Speaker 1>Shame on you mothers, Shame on you. Shame on you.

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<v Speaker 1>Women who go to church with these sea through clothes

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<v Speaker 1>on and these revealing clothes in these kite clothes. Shame

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<v Speaker 1>on you. Shame on you.

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<v Speaker 2>Gospel singers who dressed like that because you don't have

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<v Speaker 2>no God in you. It's all performance.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, get mad. I want you to I want you

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<v Speaker 1>to get mad and contact me so I can tell

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<v Speaker 1>you about yourself, and it'll be in love, not to

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<v Speaker 1>hurt you. I'm telling you how you look, and you

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<v Speaker 1>can try to be cute as you want to be.

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<v Speaker 1>You have no self respect, you don't you don't love yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care if you are a billionaire, then you

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<v Speaker 1>look like that. You have no self respect, and you

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<v Speaker 1>don't love yourself. There's no way on earth that you do.

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<v Speaker 1>And you present yourself like that. And then some of

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<v Speaker 1>you you go out there with these tight clothes on.

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<v Speaker 2>Who are you trying to impress? Or they hanging down

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<v Speaker 2>your butt or around your knees. Come on, now, come on.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not attracting. Well, it is to some women, but

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<v Speaker 1>they are immature, just like him. I've told you you're

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<v Speaker 1>always dealing with either the immature or the mature.

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<v Speaker 2>They are not one and the same, not one in

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<v Speaker 2>the same.

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<v Speaker 1>Believe what you want, but they are not one in

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<v Speaker 1>the same. And I know some people listening and they're like,

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<v Speaker 1>who do.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I am? I am who I am, And

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not trying to be no one else.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you in love, I'm not trying to be

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<v Speaker 1>hypocritical or trying to be a person who who is

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<v Speaker 1>spewing out negativity.

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<v Speaker 2>No, because I'm telling the truth.

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<v Speaker 1>What I saw today multiple times was horrible, absolutely horrible.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't matter if the woman is beautiful, It does

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<v Speaker 1>not matter if she alright looking or whatever. None of

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<v Speaker 1>it constitutes.

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<v Speaker 2>To walk out of your house looking like that and then,

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<v Speaker 2>like I say, some of you have your child with you. Shame, shame, shame,

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<v Speaker 2>shame on you.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why the kids grow up to be horrible adults

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<v Speaker 1>because of what they learn at home.

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<v Speaker 2>Do better, especially you women going to church. Do better.

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<v Speaker 1>If you can't find nothing more appropriate to where, go

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<v Speaker 1>to good Will, go somewhere. Stop dressing inappropriate because it

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<v Speaker 1>shows that you lack.

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<v Speaker 2>Self respect.

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<v Speaker 1>Nobody may have never told you, you may never heard

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<v Speaker 1>of them before, but I'm telling you today you don't

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<v Speaker 1>love yourself and you lack self respect.

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<v Speaker 2>You have some inner issues.

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<v Speaker 1>That need to be resolved, because there's no way you

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<v Speaker 1>love yourself leaving home looking like that.

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<v Speaker 2>I was told appalled today. I was like, what are

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<v Speaker 2>you serious? Couldn't believe some of the stuff I saw today.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, what is going on? I mean, was

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<v Speaker 2>it a memo put out today or something.

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<v Speaker 1>It was horrible, horrible. People may as well had on panties.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm not even exaggerating they may as well had

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<v Speaker 1>on panties. That's how short throw a short tour and

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<v Speaker 1>I saw multiple I saw them at the grocery store.

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<v Speaker 1>I saw them, saw them at the mall. Horror them all,

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<v Speaker 1>no self respect, inappropriate.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I said it. Please reach out to me so

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<v Speaker 2>we can have a talk about it. And like I said,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not trying to hurt anyone's feeling. I'm not trying

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<v Speaker 2>to offend, but we all know what it's the truth.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh ouch, it hurts.

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<v Speaker 1>It don't hurt when it don't apply, but when it applies,

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<v Speaker 1>it hurts. Do better, do better? And you know what

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<v Speaker 1>gets me, some people think because they're so pretty, and

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<v Speaker 1>people think they're this and that, because they have money

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<v Speaker 1>and this and that, you still look just like the

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<v Speaker 1>brokenst person. You still look exactly like the brokenst person.

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<v Speaker 1>Trust and believe That's all I'm saying because I'm tired

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<v Speaker 1>of talking about it. Women do better, Men do better?

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<v Speaker 2>Much? Hello, please share in every episode the same And

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<v Speaker 2>I hope I really really really do Did you do it?

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<v Speaker 2>Thank on it,