WEBVTT 1 00:00:02.040 --> 00:00:18.760 Enogy s canceit so high, act cancel it's not sorry, Andogy. 2 00:00:18.199 --> 00:00:23.359 Saying eft is the new black here on that bitch 3 00:00:23.480 --> 00:00:28.719 is positive. We don't stumble into portals. No, we don't tiptoe, 4 00:00:28.920 --> 00:00:33.159 we don't whisper. We say ef itt, and we walk 5 00:00:33.240 --> 00:00:36.399 on through with our head up high and our shoulders back, 6 00:00:36.880 --> 00:00:41.520 sparkling in all of our glory. In this episode, we 7 00:00:41.560 --> 00:00:45.119 are going to discuss how saying ef it is the 8 00:00:45.159 --> 00:00:49.240 most feminine thing you can do. I'm so tired, I'm 9 00:00:49.280 --> 00:00:53.840 so bored of dating gurus of feminine coaches telling you 10 00:00:54.000 --> 00:00:57.560 how to be feminine. There is not any action on 11 00:00:57.600 --> 00:01:02.840 the planet that will make you feminine energy. It's an embodiment, 12 00:01:03.679 --> 00:01:08.000 dressing a certain way, talking a certain way. Hello, Hi, 13 00:01:08.120 --> 00:01:11.640 that's performance. What are we talking about? The feminine could 14 00:01:11.680 --> 00:01:15.439 not be further from performance? Yet everyone wants to tell 15 00:01:15.519 --> 00:01:18.439 you in order to be feminine, you have to be 16 00:01:18.879 --> 00:01:22.680 do act a certain way. I say yawn, I say 17 00:01:22.719 --> 00:01:25.959 that's tired. I say that's old paradigm. I say not 18 00:01:26.079 --> 00:01:29.560 in it. In fact, I say f it. Yeah. Yeah. 19 00:01:29.879 --> 00:01:33.400 This is an episode where you realize, how ef it 20 00:01:33.400 --> 00:01:37.359 it's not really about rebellion. It's the energetic permission slip 21 00:01:37.359 --> 00:01:39.319 you need to give yourself to be in all of 22 00:01:39.400 --> 00:01:44.159 your glory. It's a frequency, it's a code, it's an embodiment, 23 00:01:44.239 --> 00:01:49.040 it's a portal, and it's the most beautiful way to 24 00:01:49.079 --> 00:01:53.000 step into your feminine energy. What's a positive bitches? How 25 00:01:53.040 --> 00:01:55.319 are you doing today? If you're hearing this episode, then 26 00:01:55.519 --> 00:01:58.439 you are meant to be here. So keep listening on 27 00:01:58.599 --> 00:02:02.560 that Bitch's Positive Podcast. Sometimes we will laugh. Other times, baby, 28 00:02:02.599 --> 00:02:08.080 we're gonna cry. But on this podcast we always walk 29 00:02:08.120 --> 00:02:12.000 away feeling our most empowered, positive bitch self that is 30 00:02:12.280 --> 00:02:16.240 babe and true connection with herself, himself or human self. 31 00:02:16.280 --> 00:02:18.879 I don't care if you identify as a cucumber. If 32 00:02:18.919 --> 00:02:21.000 you want to step into your power, this is the 33 00:02:21.039 --> 00:02:24.319 place you're gonna do it. On this podcast, we unbecome 34 00:02:24.360 --> 00:02:26.800 who we are not so we can fully step into 35 00:02:26.960 --> 00:02:31.520 exactly who we came here to be. The energy behind 36 00:02:31.599 --> 00:02:36.479 ef it is the most liberating possible energy you can 37 00:02:36.520 --> 00:02:40.039 step into. F It is the moment where your nervous 38 00:02:40.080 --> 00:02:44.439 system stops negotiating with fear. Think about when you're in 39 00:02:44.520 --> 00:02:46.960 your ego, should I do A or should I do B? 40 00:02:47.560 --> 00:02:51.599 Should I go back or should I go forward? When 41 00:02:51.639 --> 00:02:55.120 you just say ef it, I'm deciding this and I'm 42 00:02:55.159 --> 00:02:57.319 not looking back because I'm not going to turn into 43 00:02:57.319 --> 00:03:02.840 a pillar of salt. Hashtag Lot's wife, hashtag now not today, Satan. 44 00:03:04.280 --> 00:03:07.879 When you just say ef it, you give yourself permission 45 00:03:07.879 --> 00:03:09.919 to do the thing you actually want to do. Think 46 00:03:09.960 --> 00:03:12.560 about when you're asking everyone for advice, what should I do? 47 00:03:12.719 --> 00:03:14.560 What should I do? You know what you want to do, 48 00:03:15.159 --> 00:03:17.280 So just say ef it and go do what it 49 00:03:17.360 --> 00:03:21.879 is you truly desire to do. Because when you desire 50 00:03:21.960 --> 00:03:25.759 something and you give yourself permission to actually expand into it, 51 00:03:26.000 --> 00:03:29.240 you get energetic upgrades. There's a reason why you are 52 00:03:29.360 --> 00:03:33.520 magnetized towards that specific place at a specific time. I 53 00:03:33.800 --> 00:03:36.599 just had a beautiful lunch and while I was there, 54 00:03:36.879 --> 00:03:39.400 someone saw my book and mentioned, you know what you 55 00:03:39.439 --> 00:03:42.159 should do seminars here, you should do events here. Then 56 00:03:42.280 --> 00:03:44.840 I went to go see condos. I ended up literally 57 00:03:44.840 --> 00:03:48.080 meeting another human being while I was looking at condos, 58 00:03:48.120 --> 00:03:50.520 and then they looked at the condos with us. When 59 00:03:50.560 --> 00:03:53.560 you just say e fit and you grant your self permission, 60 00:03:54.159 --> 00:03:57.360 you also grant the divine permission to work on your 61 00:03:57.400 --> 00:04:03.759 behalf and flood you with miracles, high vibrational experiences. When 62 00:04:03.800 --> 00:04:06.680 you say ef it's when your ego shuts up and 63 00:04:06.719 --> 00:04:10.360 your soul can grab the wheel. When you say ef it, 64 00:04:10.479 --> 00:04:13.479 you give yourself permission to go into your divine, feminine energy. 65 00:04:13.759 --> 00:04:16.279 You're acting from your heart instead of your head. You 66 00:04:16.360 --> 00:04:18.680 don't have to know everything in order to just take 67 00:04:18.720 --> 00:04:21.360 the next step. You do not have to see fifty 68 00:04:21.439 --> 00:04:23.759 steps in front of you in order to just put 69 00:04:23.759 --> 00:04:26.680 one foot in front of the other. Saying ef itt, 70 00:04:26.879 --> 00:04:31.439 that frequency is a frequency of non resistance, of miracles, 71 00:04:31.759 --> 00:04:36.920 of divine permission. In that instant, your energy stops leaking 72 00:04:37.120 --> 00:04:42.160 into what ifs and collapses into the now, into the here. 73 00:04:43.439 --> 00:04:47.680 I want to put a side note. F it is 74 00:04:47.720 --> 00:04:53.079 not carelessness. It's not saying efit and then making dumb decision. Hello. 75 00:04:53.879 --> 00:04:58.600 It is the ultimate divine surrender. We're not saying ef it, 76 00:04:59.399 --> 00:05:01.480 I'm gonna text my ex. I'm going to drink a 77 00:05:01.519 --> 00:05:03.959 bottle of vodka. No no, no, no, no, no no no no. 78 00:05:04.480 --> 00:05:07.720 That's you just making dumb decisions. You know the difference. 79 00:05:07.839 --> 00:05:09.399 I don't need to be here to tell you it. 80 00:05:10.439 --> 00:05:14.120 I'm talking about what you already know. When you want 81 00:05:14.120 --> 00:05:17.319 to start that business, but you're afraid to post. When 82 00:05:17.360 --> 00:05:19.279 you want to try a new workout class, but you're 83 00:05:19.319 --> 00:05:22.000 afraid to go. When you want to talk to someone 84 00:05:22.040 --> 00:05:24.120 because you just feel pulled towards them, but you are 85 00:05:24.199 --> 00:05:27.759 afraid to get up in those moments when you know, 86 00:05:28.240 --> 00:05:29.959 I'm just meant to do this, I'm meant to do this, 87 00:05:30.040 --> 00:05:32.839 I'm meant to do this. I'm talking about when your 88 00:05:32.879 --> 00:05:37.600 intuition is speaking to you, not fleeting feelings of regret 89 00:05:37.680 --> 00:05:42.720 and nostalgia. So clock the difference. Ef IT is a portal. 90 00:05:43.600 --> 00:05:47.680 Portals open when your internal state shifts in a very 91 00:05:47.720 --> 00:05:52.399 distinct and sharp way. Ef IT flips you from your 92 00:05:52.439 --> 00:05:56.439 ego into your intuition, your head into your heart. You're 93 00:05:56.600 --> 00:06:01.759 masculine into your feminine. You're not trying to understand, however, 94 00:06:01.800 --> 00:06:05.040 thing's going to unfold. You're giving yourself permission to go 95 00:06:05.120 --> 00:06:08.800 after what it is you truly want. It collapses timelines, 96 00:06:08.839 --> 00:06:14.199 It collapses overthinking loops. We are about to enter into 97 00:06:14.240 --> 00:06:18.079 twenty twenty six. We can no longer live from our head. 98 00:06:18.480 --> 00:06:21.680 We can no longer live in these hamster wheels that 99 00:06:21.839 --> 00:06:24.040 just lead us back into the same place in which 100 00:06:24.040 --> 00:06:27.160 we begun. If you are ready to quantum leap. If 101 00:06:27.199 --> 00:06:29.160 you are ready to take back your power book a 102 00:06:29.240 --> 00:06:32.040 one on one session with me, you can DM me 103 00:06:32.160 --> 00:06:35.920 now on Instagram at vibein with CC. The link will 104 00:06:35.959 --> 00:06:38.480 always be in the show notes. Let me point out 105 00:06:38.519 --> 00:06:41.480 to you your own blind spots. Let me help you 106 00:06:42.000 --> 00:06:45.480 get back home to your true essence. Let me empower 107 00:06:45.600 --> 00:06:48.800 you to become your most magnetic self. If you're not 108 00:06:48.879 --> 00:06:51.399 ready for one on one, you can also get an 109 00:06:51.399 --> 00:06:55.360 on demand ten minute energy reading Bye Blair. Just dm 110 00:06:55.399 --> 00:06:57.720 me and I will give you all the details. If 111 00:06:57.759 --> 00:07:00.639 you are more of a reader, then you can get 112 00:07:00.639 --> 00:07:02.959 my books show up as her, and if you want 113 00:07:02.959 --> 00:07:05.879 a course, get the Shadow Alchemy course. Again. All the 114 00:07:05.920 --> 00:07:10.040 links are in the show notes, saying, if it puts 115 00:07:10.079 --> 00:07:18.839 you into your true power frequency, I'm talking about directiveness, receptivity, magnetism, 116 00:07:18.879 --> 00:07:24.399 feminine energy. You stop broadcasting doubt, you stop leaking energy, 117 00:07:24.720 --> 00:07:28.720 and you start broadcasting. I know who I am, and 118 00:07:28.759 --> 00:07:31.079 I'm going to go after it. I know what I 119 00:07:31.120 --> 00:07:33.360 want and I'm going to go after it. I'm not 120 00:07:33.399 --> 00:07:35.360 going to sit around. I'm not waiting for someone to 121 00:07:35.399 --> 00:07:37.800 tell me where to go. I am the Captain of 122 00:07:37.879 --> 00:07:41.199 my own ship. And yes, I know that there is 123 00:07:41.279 --> 00:07:43.439 a current of the ocean. I know I am a 124 00:07:43.439 --> 00:07:46.079 co creator with the divine, and as much as I 125 00:07:46.120 --> 00:07:48.240 can steer my ship, there's always going to be a 126 00:07:48.240 --> 00:07:51.720 divine storm or divine reroute. That's all fine and dandy. 127 00:07:51.720 --> 00:07:54.600 But when I say ef it, I'm going to steer 128 00:07:54.639 --> 00:07:56.600 this ship where I want. When I say ef it, 129 00:07:57.240 --> 00:08:03.480 I'm giving myself permission to create. The vegus nerve literally 130 00:08:03.519 --> 00:08:07.720 relaxes when you make a decision that's aligned with your frequency, 131 00:08:08.639 --> 00:08:12.399 because you finally are saying to yourself, I'm going to 132 00:08:12.439 --> 00:08:16.480 live in alignment your vagus nerve, which is responsible for 133 00:08:16.519 --> 00:08:19.639 either sending out SOS signals to your whole entire body 134 00:08:19.800 --> 00:08:23.240 or piece signals to your whole entire body. Your vegus 135 00:08:23.279 --> 00:08:27.160 nerve relaxes when you make a decision that's aligned with 136 00:08:27.199 --> 00:08:31.199 not only your frequency, but your intuition, because instead of 137 00:08:31.240 --> 00:08:34.720 you fighting against what it is you truly want, you 138 00:08:34.759 --> 00:08:38.440 are creating harmony in the body. Why do you think 139 00:08:38.480 --> 00:08:41.399 so many people have autoimmune Why do you think the 140 00:08:41.440 --> 00:08:44.720 body is literally fighting itself Because you're not living in 141 00:08:44.759 --> 00:08:48.240 alignment with your frequency and your intuition, You're fighting against it. 142 00:08:48.480 --> 00:08:51.080 You're trying to live from your head instead of your heart. 143 00:08:51.240 --> 00:08:54.840 When you say e fitt and you decide the decision 144 00:08:54.879 --> 00:08:58.360 the choice that you actually want, your brain is allowed 145 00:08:58.360 --> 00:09:02.639 to exit threat mode and it enters creation mode. Your 146 00:09:02.799 --> 00:09:07.159 organs work better, you digest better, your body enters into 147 00:09:07.200 --> 00:09:12.240 a harmonious state, you create neural pathways of I trust myself. 148 00:09:13.440 --> 00:09:16.759 I've really been working on trusting the desires of my 149 00:09:16.919 --> 00:09:21.360 heart because in the past, I thought keyword, thought, I 150 00:09:21.480 --> 00:09:25.399 wanted someone, thought I liked someone thought thought, thought, and 151 00:09:25.399 --> 00:09:27.679 then I thought that they were a threat, and I 152 00:09:27.679 --> 00:09:31.399 would jump ship before they could ever jump ship. But now, 153 00:09:32.039 --> 00:09:35.679 when I'm dating, when I'm creating, when I'm even figuring 154 00:09:35.720 --> 00:09:39.519 out where do I want to live permanently, I am 155 00:09:40.039 --> 00:09:42.440 not living from my head. I'm saying, efitt, I'm going 156 00:09:42.480 --> 00:09:44.799 to live for my heart. It doesn't need to make 157 00:09:44.840 --> 00:09:49.200 perfect sense, it needs to just feel right to me. Now, 158 00:09:50.600 --> 00:09:54.559 I have been working on trusting my heart's desires because 159 00:09:55.120 --> 00:09:58.360 in the past, I would override my heart's desires and 160 00:09:58.440 --> 00:10:01.039 try to go with what I thought was right. And 161 00:10:01.080 --> 00:10:04.080 where did that lead me but to disappointment? Where did 162 00:10:04.080 --> 00:10:07.360 that lead me but to more confusion and chaos. Where 163 00:10:07.360 --> 00:10:10.120 did that lead me? But to dating people who are narcissistic. 164 00:10:10.840 --> 00:10:13.240 I had to learn over and over and over and 165 00:10:13.240 --> 00:10:15.600 not all that glitters is goals. I had to learn 166 00:10:15.679 --> 00:10:18.279 over and over and over that what I think is 167 00:10:18.360 --> 00:10:21.519 best is not always correct, that my ceiling is the 168 00:10:21.519 --> 00:10:25.159 divine's floor, that living for my head is never going 169 00:10:25.240 --> 00:10:27.879 to get me what I want, because I need to 170 00:10:27.919 --> 00:10:35.320 give myself permission to live from my heart energetically. When 171 00:10:35.320 --> 00:10:38.879 you say e fet, you're telling yourself. I trust myself 172 00:10:39.440 --> 00:10:41.559 to not have all the dots connected, to not know 173 00:10:41.600 --> 00:10:44.360 how everything's going to unfold, to not know every single 174 00:10:44.679 --> 00:10:48.320 nook and cranny and the whole entire picture. But I 175 00:10:48.360 --> 00:10:51.799 trust myself enough to just follow what I feel is right. 176 00:10:51.879 --> 00:10:55.639 And it's scary. It's scary to not understand where you're going, 177 00:10:55.679 --> 00:10:58.559 but to go in that direction anyway. It's scary to 178 00:10:58.639 --> 00:11:00.960 not understand the ending of the story but just start 179 00:11:00.960 --> 00:11:05.279 writing anyway. It's scary to just say effet, But you know, 180 00:11:05.320 --> 00:11:08.279 it's so much scarier trying to do the same thing 181 00:11:08.320 --> 00:11:10.000 over and over and over again and getting the same 182 00:11:10.039 --> 00:11:12.200 result until you go crazy. Hello, I've already done that, 183 00:11:12.240 --> 00:11:14.440 don't try it. I already did it. I already did it. Okay, 184 00:11:14.480 --> 00:11:15.679 you don't need to do it. I already did it 185 00:11:15.679 --> 00:11:20.159 and it stucked. Don't do it. Energetically decisive action signals 186 00:11:20.159 --> 00:11:26.960 to the universe. I'm ready for more. Move remold, let 187 00:11:27.000 --> 00:11:30.279 me have what I want. When you say I'm gonna 188 00:11:30.279 --> 00:11:32.080 show up and I'm gonna be bold, and I'm gonna 189 00:11:32.120 --> 00:11:33.960 be decisive, and I'm saying ef it and I'm going 190 00:11:34.000 --> 00:11:36.480 after what I truly want, the universe will bend to 191 00:11:36.600 --> 00:11:41.080 your will in ways you cannot imagine. I've been taking 192 00:11:41.200 --> 00:11:44.759 risks lately. I've been even just the way I create 193 00:11:44.799 --> 00:11:48.120 my tiktoks, just creating whenever I want, wherever I want. 194 00:11:49.000 --> 00:11:51.600 I have been moving a lot of things around in 195 00:11:51.679 --> 00:11:55.519 my daily routine, switching up where I go when I go. 196 00:11:56.279 --> 00:11:59.320 I have been making more human to human connections, just 197 00:11:59.360 --> 00:12:02.919 going out on the limb, saying hello and wow. Do 198 00:12:03.039 --> 00:12:05.480 I feel so in alignment? So free? 199 00:12:06.399 --> 00:12:06.559 F it? 200 00:12:07.120 --> 00:12:10.320 What is that code? It's coherence. It's courage and clarity, 201 00:12:10.360 --> 00:12:16.080 the three c's plus a CC. It's coherence, courage and clarity. 202 00:12:17.480 --> 00:12:20.519 When you say f it and you finally leave, the 203 00:12:20.559 --> 00:12:23.480 person you know is misaligned you make room for someone 204 00:12:23.559 --> 00:12:28.000 who is aligned with you. Right after I end something 205 00:12:28.080 --> 00:12:30.960 with someone, I kid you not the same day, someone 206 00:12:30.960 --> 00:12:33.480 else will text me and it's like God is giving 207 00:12:33.519 --> 00:12:36.559 me that divine wink. Don't worry, Cec. There's always another person, 208 00:12:36.840 --> 00:12:39.279 There's always another fish in the sea. And because you 209 00:12:39.399 --> 00:12:41.840 just trusted yourself even though you don't know where you're going, 210 00:12:41.879 --> 00:12:43.960 I'm going to show you that you can also trust 211 00:12:44.120 --> 00:12:47.279 me when you just say fit and you launch a product. 212 00:12:47.519 --> 00:12:50.080 When I finally stop caring about what people were gonna 213 00:12:50.120 --> 00:12:52.120 think of me and I just posted my first TikTok. 214 00:12:52.480 --> 00:12:54.720 Look at where it got me. There was no way 215 00:12:54.799 --> 00:12:56.679 I could know it's going to turn into a career. 216 00:12:56.720 --> 00:12:58.559 There was no way I would know that it was 217 00:12:58.639 --> 00:13:01.320 going to land me a book deal. There was no 218 00:13:01.360 --> 00:13:03.879 way I could have known that it would have led 219 00:13:03.919 --> 00:13:07.200 me today having lunch on the water, talking about different 220 00:13:07.279 --> 00:13:11.759 business opportunities, creating my own seminars. There was no possible, 221 00:13:11.840 --> 00:13:14.799 conceivable way I could have seen any of that. But 222 00:13:14.960 --> 00:13:17.399 I said ef it. I trusted my heart's desire in 223 00:13:17.440 --> 00:13:19.240 that moment, and look at where it got me. It's 224 00:13:19.279 --> 00:13:22.559 going to get you where you want to go. Saying 225 00:13:22.600 --> 00:13:28.240 effort and choosing high self esteem, self worth, high confidence. 226 00:13:29.159 --> 00:13:34.919 What will that gift you? Better opportunities, better people, better alignment. 227 00:13:35.759 --> 00:13:38.320 Saying effort and booking the flight the session of the event. 228 00:13:38.879 --> 00:13:43.639 It opens you up to a plethora of new opportunities. 229 00:13:44.080 --> 00:13:49.519 You know what this timeline, this reality costs you because 230 00:13:50.240 --> 00:13:53.399 all of your actions, to some of your actions, that's 231 00:13:53.399 --> 00:13:57.399 the payment for this reality. If you want a different reality, baby, 232 00:13:57.519 --> 00:14:00.559 you got to pay up with different actions, diff different thoughts, 233 00:14:00.559 --> 00:14:06.000 different intentions, different decisions. Ef it opens you up to 234 00:14:06.159 --> 00:14:09.919 higher vibrational timelines because you give yourself permission to think different, 235 00:14:10.399 --> 00:14:14.399 to act different, to feel different, to decide different, to 236 00:14:14.480 --> 00:14:19.759 be different every quantum leap in your life. If you 237 00:14:19.840 --> 00:14:22.279 actually go back and you think about what was the 238 00:14:22.440 --> 00:14:24.720 energy I was in? What did I do in that moment? 239 00:14:25.159 --> 00:14:27.799 I bet you there is a moment where you said efit, 240 00:14:28.559 --> 00:14:33.039 decided differently and so you got a different outcome. Most 241 00:14:33.039 --> 00:14:35.759 people are so afraid of the effort embodiment to the 242 00:14:35.799 --> 00:14:40.200 EFT portal because their identity is addicted to fear. They 243 00:14:40.320 --> 00:14:42.559 rather stay comfortable. But I know, if you're listening to 244 00:14:42.639 --> 00:14:45.679 this right now, you are not like most people. You 245 00:14:45.759 --> 00:14:50.120 don't fear change, your opportunity or your power. You fear mediocrity, 246 00:14:50.639 --> 00:14:54.679 staying the same, never shifting, never changing, never getting your 247 00:14:54.759 --> 00:15:00.000 true heart's desires. Make that moment where you get nervous, 248 00:15:00.080 --> 00:15:01.840 where you're saying, I don't know, I don't know. I 249 00:15:01.919 --> 00:15:03.799 want it, but I don't know. Make that a green 250 00:15:03.879 --> 00:15:07.399 light instead of a red light. What if the opportunities 251 00:15:07.440 --> 00:15:09.679 do you want, even if they're new, even if they're different. 252 00:15:09.960 --> 00:15:12.360 What if they were green lights instead of red lights 253 00:15:12.399 --> 00:15:15.440 and you went for them? How differently may you feel? 254 00:15:15.759 --> 00:15:20.120 How much better may you attract? Most people? They want 255 00:15:20.159 --> 00:15:28.200 guarantee instead of having faith and look around? Yeah, keep looking, Yeah, 256 00:15:28.360 --> 00:15:31.320 keep looking? Do you want to be like most people? 257 00:15:32.440 --> 00:15:35.720 Do you want to exist in the frequency they exist within? 258 00:15:35.840 --> 00:15:38.320 Or do you want more? Tell me, I want to 259 00:15:38.320 --> 00:15:40.080 hear you. Tell me, tell me what you want. Do 260 00:15:40.080 --> 00:15:42.679 you want more? Then say it? I want more. I 261 00:15:42.840 --> 00:15:45.679 want more for my life, and so I'm going to 262 00:15:45.720 --> 00:15:48.840 decide to get more. Great now. Scream it in your car, 263 00:15:49.200 --> 00:15:52.720 on a mountaintop, in your apartment, in your house outside, 264 00:15:52.799 --> 00:15:55.799 I don't care, in the gym, Scream it to the universe. 265 00:15:55.919 --> 00:15:58.840 I want more and ready for more. I want more 266 00:15:58.879 --> 00:16:01.759 and I'm ready for more, So you better mold to 267 00:16:01.840 --> 00:16:04.360 my desire. You better give me what I want, because 268 00:16:04.360 --> 00:16:07.120 I'm not going to accept anything less. You have to 269 00:16:07.159 --> 00:16:09.240 be courageous enough, you have to say e fit in 270 00:16:09.320 --> 00:16:11.159 order to actually get more. And I just have this 271 00:16:11.200 --> 00:16:14.639 conversation last night. Most people are not willing to ask 272 00:16:14.679 --> 00:16:17.559 for more, so they don't get more. But you, as 273 00:16:17.600 --> 00:16:21.799 a positive bitch, you are courageous enough, bold enough to 274 00:16:21.840 --> 00:16:25.320 say e fit and to ask for more. Most people 275 00:16:25.360 --> 00:16:29.000 don't trust themselves to hold more, but you, you're ready for more. 276 00:16:29.279 --> 00:16:31.679 You know this is not your first incarnation. You know 277 00:16:31.799 --> 00:16:34.759 this is not your first rodeo. This is a lifetime 278 00:16:34.759 --> 00:16:36.720 where you get everything you want and more. This is 279 00:16:36.720 --> 00:16:39.360 a lifetime where you trust yourself. This is a lifetime 280 00:16:39.360 --> 00:16:41.200 where you go out on a limb and you actually 281 00:16:41.200 --> 00:16:44.200 get all you desire. Your old self may want to 282 00:16:44.240 --> 00:16:48.279 stay alive, but guess what. Your new timeline requires that 283 00:16:48.399 --> 00:16:53.960 identity to die, So let it die. The only thing 284 00:16:54.000 --> 00:16:57.360 we're bringing into this next season is e fit. There 285 00:16:57.360 --> 00:17:01.240 we go, your a new timeline. It's accessible through this 286 00:17:01.360 --> 00:17:07.039 effet frequency. Fitt is the feminine collapse into just wholeness, 287 00:17:07.079 --> 00:17:11.480 into truth, into messiness. Let yourself be messy, give yourself 288 00:17:11.519 --> 00:17:13.559 some grace. This is the first time you're being you 289 00:17:13.599 --> 00:17:17.799 in this moment. Okay, it's when the divine feminine stops performing. 290 00:17:18.960 --> 00:17:23.440 Oh okay, and she finally chooses alignment over performance. Ooh, 291 00:17:23.799 --> 00:17:27.319 what a concept. I'm so tired of seeing people who 292 00:17:27.359 --> 00:17:32.440 are unwell be coaches online. These dating coaches are teaching 293 00:17:32.480 --> 00:17:36.640 you transactional love, tit for tat, keeping score that's not love. 294 00:17:36.960 --> 00:17:40.640 Treating someone like an ATM, that's not love. And I 295 00:17:40.759 --> 00:17:43.799 just said this today. You think you're marrying for money, 296 00:17:43.880 --> 00:17:46.839 Guess who your actual boss is, baby girl, You'll be 297 00:17:46.880 --> 00:17:49.200 working for the rest of your life. Your boss is 298 00:17:49.279 --> 00:17:52.319 just sleeping next to you. Love is not something to 299 00:17:52.400 --> 00:17:55.519 be transactional. It is not tit for tat. It is 300 00:17:55.599 --> 00:17:57.880 not something you can keep scoring unless you want to 301 00:17:57.880 --> 00:18:00.160 be miserable for the rest of your life. And that 302 00:18:00.319 --> 00:18:03.519 is not feminine going after someone to be your ATM. 303 00:18:03.839 --> 00:18:05.799 Have fun. You'll be in your masculine energy for the 304 00:18:05.839 --> 00:18:08.359 rest of your life. It is not what you think. 305 00:18:08.839 --> 00:18:11.720 Being feminine is not looking a certain way. It's not 306 00:18:11.799 --> 00:18:16.119 the nail extensions, hair extensions, I last extensions, the dresses. 307 00:18:16.240 --> 00:18:20.000 No being feminine is whatever's authentic to you. It's saying, efit, 308 00:18:20.160 --> 00:18:21.799 I want to do this because I want to do it. 309 00:18:22.039 --> 00:18:26.960 Whatever your authenticity is, that is your feminine frequency, that 310 00:18:27.079 --> 00:18:30.119 is it. Look, I'm not someone who wears pants, not 311 00:18:30.200 --> 00:18:34.000 because I want to appear feminine. I don't like being constricted. Okay, 312 00:18:34.160 --> 00:18:40.039 my thighs. I have thighs, girl, I have thighs. I 313 00:18:40.079 --> 00:18:44.400 have thighs. I work them out very extremely, and they're 314 00:18:44.400 --> 00:18:47.000 not comfortable in pants. So I like a flow. That's 315 00:18:47.039 --> 00:18:49.279 why I do it. I don't do it to perform 316 00:18:49.440 --> 00:18:51.839 or to look a certain way. I don't even like 317 00:18:51.920 --> 00:18:54.279 leggings anymore because I feel constricted. I need like little 318 00:18:54.319 --> 00:18:56.119 shorts so I can just move my legs. I just 319 00:18:56.200 --> 00:19:00.880 want to be free. Okay, I'm thinking it sounds like 320 00:19:00.920 --> 00:19:04.519 I have autism. I might. I mean, I definitely have 321 00:19:04.559 --> 00:19:09.079 a neurodivergent thing. Okay, Look, I will just say side note, 322 00:19:09.079 --> 00:19:11.480 I took every autism test you can take online, and 323 00:19:11.519 --> 00:19:16.279 every single one said I should seek a doctor. This 324 00:19:16.359 --> 00:19:18.160 is not what this podcast is about. We're gonna just 325 00:19:18.200 --> 00:19:23.160 override this, Okay. Anyway, as I was saying, being in 326 00:19:23.160 --> 00:19:25.640 your feminine energy is not a performance it's not an act. 327 00:19:25.680 --> 00:19:27.839 There's not something to do. It's just an embodiment of 328 00:19:27.880 --> 00:19:30.599 saying fit, I'm gonna do what I want. Whatever is 329 00:19:30.640 --> 00:19:32.799 authentic to you in that moment. That is what you do. 330 00:19:33.960 --> 00:19:38.519 When you say ef it, You enter this magnetic energy. 331 00:19:39.079 --> 00:19:42.319 You feel free. You allow yourself to receive, You allow 332 00:19:42.359 --> 00:19:44.839 yourself to open up to new experience, You allow yourself 333 00:19:44.880 --> 00:19:49.079 to see new opportunity. It pulls reality towards you instead 334 00:19:49.119 --> 00:19:52.559 of you chasing it. When you say ef it, what 335 00:19:52.680 --> 00:19:56.480 you're actually saying is f the old version of me 336 00:19:56.599 --> 00:19:59.920 that wouldn't have gotten this opportunity, that wouldn't go for, 337 00:20:00.240 --> 00:20:03.119 that would have kept herself sad and caged and lonely 338 00:20:03.160 --> 00:20:06.759 and upset at the limitation that other people projected onto me, 339 00:20:07.119 --> 00:20:10.759 and that I believed f the story, the script, whatever 340 00:20:10.799 --> 00:20:13.400 I thought I had to perform. More be f the fear, 341 00:20:14.200 --> 00:20:18.319 false evidence appearing real. The scariest thing is fear itself, 342 00:20:18.359 --> 00:20:20.759 because it leads you nowhere. It leads you in a 343 00:20:20.799 --> 00:20:25.480 loop at the timeline I was settling for. I choose me, 344 00:20:26.319 --> 00:20:33.160 I choose more, I choose better, I choose higher, I 345 00:20:33.279 --> 00:20:37.799 choose my heart over my head. Every single day, it 346 00:20:37.920 --> 00:20:42.240 allows you to have an identity death. But ultimately, what 347 00:20:42.279 --> 00:20:46.480 does every death lead you to but rebirth, And that's 348 00:20:46.519 --> 00:20:50.880 the effic portal. Saying goodbye to what no longer serves you, 349 00:20:50.960 --> 00:20:55.160 saying goodbye to what once caged you, saying goodbye to 350 00:20:55.240 --> 00:20:59.039 the old fear, the old story, and just saying I'm 351 00:20:59.119 --> 00:21:03.680 giving my el permission to finally receive more, see more, 352 00:21:03.839 --> 00:21:07.880 have more. That's really what it is. You're just opening 353 00:21:07.960 --> 00:21:14.640 yourself up to a different and new reality. Now again, 354 00:21:14.880 --> 00:21:19.119 I want to reiterate, we're using ethic consciously. We're not 355 00:21:19.160 --> 00:21:22.200 saying ef it, I won't be protected and then getting pregnant. 356 00:21:22.480 --> 00:21:25.160 That's not what we're saying. That's not what we're saying. 357 00:21:25.240 --> 00:21:28.839 That's not what we're saying, don't do that. That's not 358 00:21:28.880 --> 00:21:31.960 your intuition. Speaking for you to get knocked up by 359 00:21:31.960 --> 00:21:37.400 a stranger, not your intuition. That's something else. Go a 360 00:21:37.400 --> 00:21:40.640 little bit lower, you'll find it. Trust me. We're not 361 00:21:40.680 --> 00:21:44.519 doing this recklessly, thank you, not impulsively. We're not going 362 00:21:44.519 --> 00:21:48.839 into debt. We are not dumb. Positive bitches are extremely 363 00:21:48.880 --> 00:21:53.079 intelligent and beautiful. We are not dumb. We are energetically 364 00:21:53.279 --> 00:21:57.640 pristine and clean. And that's how we're going to use 365 00:21:58.119 --> 00:22:03.920 e fit responsible responsibly, because let me tell you, your 366 00:22:03.960 --> 00:22:05.880 heart is never going to tell you to go into debt. 367 00:22:06.279 --> 00:22:08.839 It's not gonna tell you to have sex with a stranger. 368 00:22:10.880 --> 00:22:14.480 Something else will not your heart. Yeah, thank you. When 369 00:22:14.559 --> 00:22:19.000 you are trying to make a decision, I want you 370 00:22:19.119 --> 00:22:23.000 to tune into the fear. You can imagine it, you 371 00:22:23.000 --> 00:22:25.880 can see it in front of you. That's the moment 372 00:22:25.920 --> 00:22:28.400 you say e fit when fear is trying to tell 373 00:22:28.400 --> 00:22:31.119 you what to do, and you're going to say, if 374 00:22:31.119 --> 00:22:34.200 I trust in myself fully, what would I do? That's 375 00:22:34.240 --> 00:22:37.160 your decision, that's your choice. That's what you're gonna do. 376 00:22:38.000 --> 00:22:43.400 We're using this consciously, not recklessly. This is not to 377 00:22:43.440 --> 00:22:45.440 go into debt again. This is not to get pregnant 378 00:22:45.440 --> 00:22:50.200 by a stranger. This is not to date a loseer. 379 00:22:50.799 --> 00:22:54.160 This is not to get yourself in a dangerous situationine. 380 00:22:55.960 --> 00:22:59.759 This is to free yourself, not imprison yourself into a 381 00:22:59.759 --> 00:23:04.480 word reality. When you're not sure what to do, you're 382 00:23:04.519 --> 00:23:08.720 going to take a deep breath, you're gonna excel, you're 383 00:23:08.759 --> 00:23:11.920 gonna shake it out, and you're going to say, if 384 00:23:11.960 --> 00:23:15.599 I trusted myself fully, what would I do, and you're 385 00:23:15.640 --> 00:23:19.359 gonna feel fear, and it's gonna maybe sometimes cause you 386 00:23:19.400 --> 00:23:21.279 to feel doubt, and you're gonna say, ef, I'm going 387 00:23:21.359 --> 00:23:24.480 to do what my intuition is telling me to do anyway. 388 00:23:25.200 --> 00:23:28.440 And this is what's going to collapse at over thinking loop. 389 00:23:29.359 --> 00:23:31.440 So you're going to breathe, You're going to ask yourself, 390 00:23:31.680 --> 00:23:34.039 and then you're going to decide. You're going to send 391 00:23:34.039 --> 00:23:37.359 the email, you're going to post the video, you're going 392 00:23:37.400 --> 00:23:40.799 to send in your resume, you're going to book the hotel, 393 00:23:41.279 --> 00:23:44.559 you're going to release the person, you're going to start 394 00:23:44.599 --> 00:23:51.960 the company. F It is sacred. It's sacred because it's 395 00:23:52.079 --> 00:23:55.680 leading you to self trust. It's leading you to hire 396 00:23:56.000 --> 00:24:03.200 vibrational options, choices people. It's not to be used recklessly. 397 00:24:03.880 --> 00:24:09.000 It's not to be used carelessly. It is to be 398 00:24:09.160 --> 00:24:13.319 used to find the whisper, the voice inside of you 399 00:24:14.119 --> 00:24:17.920 that's telling you your truth. Your next level is not 400 00:24:18.119 --> 00:24:23.400 hidden behind effort or stress or control. It's hidden behind 401 00:24:23.440 --> 00:24:26.440