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<v Speaker 1>Jeff, we're going to your hometown of Enfield. Oh what up? Enfield? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Second date Update Nate is on the line to tell

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<v Speaker 2>us about a great first date he went on.

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<v Speaker 3>Good morning Nate, Good morning, Hey.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 2>So I take it since you want to be on

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<v Speaker 2>second Date Update, you're getting ghosted after a great first date.

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<v Speaker 1>So tell us about this great first date you had.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it was kind of crazy, Like we talked a bunch,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, before we met, and like, you know, I

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<v Speaker 3>thought we had a real connection, and like were going great,

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<v Speaker 3>and you know, it was so exciting to meet in person.

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<v Speaker 3>And yeah, the date was going great until something you know,

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<v Speaker 3>kind of crazy happened.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, okay, what happened.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, so we were.

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<v Speaker 3>Having dinner and like our food didn't even come out,

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<v Speaker 3>and she got a call from her friend that she

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<v Speaker 3>was in a car accident. So she had to leave

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<v Speaker 3>the date, you know, to go help a friend to

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<v Speaker 3>make sure she was okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, okay, so the date is going great.

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<v Speaker 2>You're at dinner, you're having cocktails or whatever, you order

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<v Speaker 2>your meal, and before the meal even a rite, she

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<v Speaker 2>gets a phone call that her friend was in a

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<v Speaker 2>bad accident.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I don't know the extent of it. Okay, I

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<v Speaker 3>kind of left in a hurry, but yeah, that's what happened.

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<v Speaker 1>And did you reach out? Have you been reaching out

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<v Speaker 1>to her?

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<v Speaker 3>Of course? Yeah, you know I wanted to, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>make sure friend was okay and everything was going all right.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, for since the dinner, I haven't heard from her.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's weird.

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<v Speaker 2>Solly, you're you have reached out to ask how is

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<v Speaker 2>your friend?

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<v Speaker 1>How is everything? And she's not responding at all.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Mostly I just want to make sure she's okay. Like

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<v Speaker 3>I'm you know, I've just been kind.

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<v Speaker 1>Of worried too, because you know what, usually we would say,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, did you pay?

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<v Speaker 2>But I mean she laughed, so obviously you paid, Like,

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<v Speaker 2>and you weren't there long enough to have too many cocktails,

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<v Speaker 2>so you weren't like wasted or anything.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Like yeah, like I you know, I waited, and

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<v Speaker 3>you know I ate my meal and you know I

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<v Speaker 3>took hers to go and paid for dinner and like

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<v Speaker 3>so crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, Well we're going to call her up. The

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<v Speaker 2>producer says, her name is Shelby. So we're gonna called

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<v Speaker 2>Shelby and you're going to be listening in at any point.

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<v Speaker 1>If you want to confront her, you can.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, all right, thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a little sketchy. Unless her friend is really her

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<v Speaker 2>and in the hospital.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you know what, that's a good point. Maybe it's

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<v Speaker 1>like a like a traumatic situation. She's triggered by it.

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<v Speaker 4>Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, is this Shelby? Yes, me seeking Hi Shelby. It's

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<v Speaker 1>Courtney Shelby. What's up. It's Walmart chef. Hey, Shelby, It's Savannah.

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<v Speaker 1>How's it going?

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<v Speaker 3>Hi?

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<v Speaker 5>Hey, doing good?

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<v Speaker 3>Well?

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<v Speaker 2>Obviously you know we're calling from Kiss ninety five to seven.

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<v Speaker 2>You're on the radio, and the reason we're calling is

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<v Speaker 2>because you're on second date update. Oh what, you're on

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<v Speaker 2>second date updates. So you go on a first date,

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<v Speaker 2>you get ghosted, call us and we get the answers.

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<v Speaker 1>Nate super nice, cold.

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<v Speaker 2>Lacey said he went on a date with you that

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<v Speaker 2>ended kind of weird, and you've been ghosting him ever since.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, yeah, so we're just checking on you too. So

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad you answered the phone.

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<v Speaker 2>According to Nate, the date was fabulous, but you left

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<v Speaker 2>before the meal even arrived. You got a phone call

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<v Speaker 2>from your best friend about a car accident.

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<v Speaker 1>He's been trying to reach out to you.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, okay, Yeah, I'm really glad I got out of

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<v Speaker 5>that one.

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<v Speaker 1>Is your friend okay? Is your girlfriend? Okay?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah she is definitely fine. Yeah, Nate is. He's actually

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<v Speaker 5>I hate to say this, but he's one of those

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<v Speaker 5>guys that aggressively spits when he talks. And yeah, I

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<v Speaker 5>couldn't even get through my meal. It was disgusting.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Shelby, was your girlfriend in a car accident?

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<v Speaker 5>No, I had to text my friend to have her

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<v Speaker 5>give me an excuse so I can leave. I didn't

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<v Speaker 5>even want to finish the date like I wanted. I

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<v Speaker 5>was trying to it out of there.

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<v Speaker 1>So wait, that's good.

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<v Speaker 4>That's that's low Kei's so messed up, Like that's that's

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<v Speaker 4>messed up?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, is it?

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<v Speaker 4>Though?

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<v Speaker 5>I feel like that's like the excuse everyone has, Like

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<v Speaker 5>you always hit the friend that can call you to

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<v Speaker 5>get out the date.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but yeah, but you use like a bogus excuse like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>like my mom's feeling sick, Oh my dog is sick.

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<v Speaker 1>Not my friend got into devastating car accent?

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<v Speaker 2>How about just being just finished out the date? And

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<v Speaker 2>say you weren't feeling a connection. I mean, that would

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<v Speaker 2>be the right thing to do. But Shelby, so you're

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<v Speaker 2>telling me when he talked, he was like he was

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<v Speaker 2>spitting when he talked.

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<v Speaker 1>And is that what's happening?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, like every it would almost spit. He almost spit

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<v Speaker 5>in my food, like it was traveling across you didn't

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<v Speaker 5>even have any food with no awareness.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Nate, Nate is on the line. He's listening in Nate,

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<v Speaker 2>are you an aggressive spitter? Apparently when you talk?

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<v Speaker 3>No, and like she's talking about like I was spitting

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<v Speaker 3>in her food, like she didn't even give me a chance,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, to have din with her. I don't know

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<v Speaker 3>what he's talking about.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, Shelby, I don't even want to talk

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<v Speaker 5>about this with you, you know. But honestly, I would

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<v Speaker 5>have brought an umbrella if I knew how much you're

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<v Speaker 5>in a spit when you talk.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, like, oh my goodness.

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<v Speaker 5>I needed some windshield wipers. If I was wearing kine

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<v Speaker 5>glass like I needed to get out of there.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm pretty sure I would notice like I would my

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<v Speaker 3>shirt would be soaking wet the way you're making it sound.

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<v Speaker 3>If I was just spitting out of my mouth all day, like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>that's true.

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<v Speaker 5>Well my shirt was practically soaking wet, not yours, because

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<v Speaker 5>it was traveling, all right.

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<v Speaker 4>He hate Shelby on a scale of one to ten

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<v Speaker 4>and one being completely dry and ten being like Daffy Duck,

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<v Speaker 4>because where where would he rank in between that scale?

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<v Speaker 4>Because I'm just picturing Daffy Duck sitting across from you.

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<v Speaker 4>You're trying to eat a salad, and they're spit and

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<v Speaker 4>sliva flying everywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not even funny, Jeff, I thought it was pretty funny.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think it's funny. Savannah's laughing. I'm sorry. This

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<v Speaker 1>whole thing is just insane, all right, it's rude. I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's rude.

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<v Speaker 2>I think Shelby, you should have been woman enough to say, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>finish out the date and just say there wasn't a

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<v Speaker 2>connection or you were not attracted to him in that way.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all I'm saying, this is why.

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<v Speaker 4>Or maybe sitting the next booth over.

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<v Speaker 1>I just there's a certain way about going going about it.

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<v Speaker 5>You go on a date with Nate then and you

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<v Speaker 5>know you are single.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like spinners, Nate. I'm just actually, Nate, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just teasing. I'm teasing. I'm joking. I just think there's

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<v Speaker 1>not a connection, so I'm not I'm not even going

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<v Speaker 1>to offer another date or to pick up the tab.

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<v Speaker 2>But listen, I appreciate you picking up, Shelby, because Nate

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<v Speaker 2>deserves to have some answers and not just get ghosted

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<v Speaker 2>like that.

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<v Speaker 1>So I appreciate you least picking up the phone. And

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<v Speaker 1>we're glad nobody got hurt in the car accident. Yes

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<v Speaker 1>that's good too.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, okay, okay, all right, thanks.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, thank you, Shelby, Nate. I'm glad you got

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<v Speaker 2>your answers. Thank you so much for reaching out to us.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you for I don't know what to say, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>thank you,