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Speaker 1: Jeff, we're going to your hometown of Enfield. Oh what up? Enfield? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Second date Update Nate is on the line to tell

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us about a great first date he went on.

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Speaker 3: Good morning Nate, Good morning, Hey.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: So I take it since you want to be on

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second Date Update, you're getting ghosted after a great first date.

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Speaker 1: So tell us about this great first date you had.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was kind of crazy, Like we talked a bunch,

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you know, before we met, and like, you know, I

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thought we had a real connection, and like were going great,

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and you know, it was so exciting to meet in person.

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And yeah, the date was going great until something you know,

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kind of crazy happened.

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Speaker 1: Well, okay, what happened.

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Speaker 4: Well, so we were.

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Speaker 3: Having dinner and like our food didn't even come out,

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and she got a call from her friend that she

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was in a car accident. So she had to leave

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the date, you know, to go help a friend to

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make sure she was okay.

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Speaker 1: And you know, okay, so the date is going great.

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Speaker 2: You're at dinner, you're having cocktails or whatever, you order

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your meal, and before the meal even a rite, she

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gets a phone call that her friend was in a

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bad accident.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know the extent of it. Okay, I

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kind of left in a hurry, but yeah, that's what happened.

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Speaker 1: And did you reach out? Have you been reaching out

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to her?

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Speaker 3: Of course? Yeah, you know I wanted to, you know,

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make sure friend was okay and everything was going all right.

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But yeah, for since the dinner, I haven't heard from her.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's weird.

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Speaker 2: Solly, you're you have reached out to ask how is

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your friend?

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Speaker 1: How is everything? And she's not responding at all.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Mostly I just want to make sure she's okay. Like

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I'm you know, I've just been kind.

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Speaker 1: Of worried too, because you know what, usually we would say,

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all right, did you pay?

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Speaker 2: But I mean she laughed, so obviously you paid, Like,

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and you weren't there long enough to have too many cocktails,

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so you weren't like wasted or anything.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like yeah, like I you know, I waited, and

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you know I ate my meal and you know I

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took hers to go and paid for dinner and like

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so crazy.

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Speaker 2: All right, Well we're going to call her up. The

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producer says, her name is Shelby. So we're gonna called

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Shelby and you're going to be listening in at any point.

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Speaker 1: If you want to confront her, you can.

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right, thank you so much.

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Speaker 2: That's a little sketchy. Unless her friend is really her

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and in the hospital.

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Speaker 1: Oh you know what, that's a good point. Maybe it's

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like a like a traumatic situation. She's triggered by it.

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Speaker 4: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hi, is this Shelby? Yes, me seeking Hi Shelby. It's

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Courtney Shelby. What's up. It's Walmart chef. Hey, Shelby, It's Savannah.

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How's it going?

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Speaker 3: Hi?

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Speaker 5: Hey, doing good?

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Speaker 3: Well?

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Speaker 2: Obviously you know we're calling from Kiss ninety five to seven.

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You're on the radio, and the reason we're calling is

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because you're on second date update. Oh what, you're on

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second date updates. So you go on a first date,

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you get ghosted, call us and we get the answers.

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Speaker 1: Nate super nice, cold.

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Speaker 2: Lacey said he went on a date with you that

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ended kind of weird, and you've been ghosting him ever since.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, so we're just checking on you too. So

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I'm glad you answered the phone.

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Speaker 2: According to Nate, the date was fabulous, but you left

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before the meal even arrived. You got a phone call

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from your best friend about a car accident.

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Speaker 1: He's been trying to reach out to you.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, Yeah, I'm really glad I got out of

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that one.

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Speaker 1: Is your friend okay? Is your girlfriend? Okay?

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Speaker 5: Yeah she is definitely fine. Yeah, Nate is. He's actually

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I hate to say this, but he's one of those

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guys that aggressively spits when he talks. And yeah, I

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couldn't even get through my meal. It was disgusting.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Shelby, was your girlfriend in a car accident?

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Speaker 5: No, I had to text my friend to have her

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give me an excuse so I can leave. I didn't

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even want to finish the date like I wanted. I

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was trying to it out of there.

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Speaker 1: So wait, that's good.

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Speaker 4: That's that's low Kei's so messed up, Like that's that's

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messed up?

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Speaker 5: I mean, is it?

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Speaker 4: Though?

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Speaker 5: I feel like that's like the excuse everyone has, Like

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you always hit the friend that can call you to

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get out the date.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but yeah, but you use like a bogus excuse like, oh,

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like my mom's feeling sick, Oh my dog is sick.

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Not my friend got into devastating car accent?

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Speaker 2: How about just being just finished out the date? And

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say you weren't feeling a connection. I mean, that would

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be the right thing to do. But Shelby, so you're

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telling me when he talked, he was like he was

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spitting when he talked.

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Speaker 1: And is that what's happening?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, like every it would almost spit. He almost spit

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in my food, like it was traveling across you didn't

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even have any food with no awareness.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Nate, Nate is on the line. He's listening in Nate,

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are you an aggressive spitter? Apparently when you talk?

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Speaker 3: No, and like she's talking about like I was spitting

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in her food, like she didn't even give me a chance,

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you know, to have din with her. I don't know

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what he's talking about.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, Shelby, I don't even want to talk

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about this with you, you know. But honestly, I would

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have brought an umbrella if I knew how much you're

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in a spit when you talk.

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Speaker 3: Oh, like, oh my goodness.

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Speaker 5: I needed some windshield wipers. If I was wearing kine

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glass like I needed to get out of there.

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Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure I would notice like I would my

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shirt would be soaking wet the way you're making it sound.

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If I was just spitting out of my mouth all day, like, yeah,

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that's true.

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Speaker 5: Well my shirt was practically soaking wet, not yours, because

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it was traveling, all right.

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Speaker 4: He hate Shelby on a scale of one to ten

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and one being completely dry and ten being like Daffy Duck,

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because where where would he rank in between that scale?

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Because I'm just picturing Daffy Duck sitting across from you.

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You're trying to eat a salad, and they're spit and

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sliva flying everywhere.

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Speaker 1: It's not even funny, Jeff, I thought it was pretty funny.

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I don't think it's funny. Savannah's laughing. I'm sorry. This

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whole thing is just insane, all right, it's rude. I

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think it's rude.

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Speaker 2: I think Shelby, you should have been woman enough to say, hey,

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finish out the date and just say there wasn't a

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connection or you were not attracted to him in that way.

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Speaker 1: That's all I'm saying, this is why.

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Speaker 4: Or maybe sitting the next booth over.

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Speaker 1: I just there's a certain way about going going about it.

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Speaker 5: You go on a date with Nate then and you

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know you are single.

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Speaker 1: I don't like spinners, Nate. I'm just actually, Nate, I'm

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just teasing. I'm teasing. I'm joking. I just think there's

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not a connection, so I'm not I'm not even going

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to offer another date or to pick up the tab.

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Speaker 2: But listen, I appreciate you picking up, Shelby, because Nate

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deserves to have some answers and not just get ghosted

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like that.

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Speaker 1: So I appreciate you least picking up the phone. And

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we're glad nobody got hurt in the car accident. Yes

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that's good too.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, okay, all right, thanks.

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Speaker 2: All right, thank you, Shelby, Nate. I'm glad you got

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your answers. Thank you so much for reaching out to us.

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Speaker 3: Thank you for I don't know what to say, but yeah,

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thank you,