1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,919 Speaker 1: Are you ready, guys, Yes, all right, let's do it. 2 00:00:02,960 --> 00:00:06,040 We're in Bloomfield this morning. It is second Date Update. 3 00:00:06,080 --> 00:00:08,519 That's when you get ghosted after a first date and 4 00:00:08,599 --> 00:00:11,039 you need some answers. You call us, We get the answers. 5 00:00:11,400 --> 00:00:13,800 We have got Seth on the line. Who's getting ghosted? 6 00:00:13,839 --> 00:00:16,000 Speaker 2: Good morning, Seth, Good morning. 7 00:00:16,559 --> 00:00:18,800 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. I hope we can help you out. Obviously, 8 00:00:18,839 --> 00:00:21,160 you know what second date Update is all about. Tell 9 00:00:21,239 --> 00:00:23,199 us about this first date you went on that was 10 00:00:23,239 --> 00:00:24,399 so great. 11 00:00:24,879 --> 00:00:30,160 Speaker 3: Oh god, he was so wonderful, he said. He picked 12 00:00:30,199 --> 00:00:35,159 me up. Okay, in his he had like a like 13 00:00:35,200 --> 00:00:38,280 a Rolls Royce, which like I had only heard about 14 00:00:38,280 --> 00:00:38,799 and never. 15 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:41,640 Speaker 1: Actually what, oh my. 16 00:00:41,399 --> 00:00:45,039 Speaker 3: God, yeah, like I had never seen one in person. 17 00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:50,679 But yeah, he opened the door for me and it 18 00:00:50,719 --> 00:00:54,119 was yeah he was. He was. He was like a 19 00:00:54,159 --> 00:00:58,679 prince charming. And so he took me to this to 20 00:00:58,719 --> 00:01:01,399 this country club and yeah, I had to get all 21 00:01:01,479 --> 00:01:04,239 dressed up for dates, which is really nice. 22 00:01:04,959 --> 00:01:05,719 Speaker 1: I love this. 23 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:11,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, and yeah, he he took me, took me to 24 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:14,959 this restaurant at the country club where everybody knew him. 25 00:01:14,959 --> 00:01:18,840 Like the moment he walked in, everyone was like, oh, yeah, 26 00:01:19,000 --> 00:01:23,560 it's nice. I have never I have never seen how 27 00:01:23,599 --> 00:01:27,640 the other half lives. And it was insane. And he 28 00:01:27,799 --> 00:01:30,439 tells me to order anything I want off the menu, 29 00:01:30,760 --> 00:01:34,519 and he was making eye contact and just like looking 30 00:01:34,560 --> 00:01:37,079 into my eyes and he told me how beautiful my 31 00:01:37,200 --> 00:01:42,000 eyes were. And okay, I mean he would like occasionally 32 00:01:42,079 --> 00:01:48,879 like just touch my hand across the table. I all right, 33 00:01:49,239 --> 00:01:50,319 it was so romantic. 34 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:52,920 Speaker 1: Okay, here's the deal. The producer says, the guy you 35 00:01:52,959 --> 00:01:54,719 went on the day with his name is William, and 36 00:01:55,120 --> 00:01:57,359 I also have in my notes that you reached out 37 00:01:57,359 --> 00:01:59,480 to him. So what did you do? Text him or 38 00:01:59,519 --> 00:02:01,439 call him in and he never responded? 39 00:02:02,439 --> 00:02:06,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, well, first I texted him, okay, to say just 40 00:02:06,079 --> 00:02:08,680 to thank him. I had never I had never been 41 00:02:08,759 --> 00:02:13,759 taken on a date like that where someone paid for everything, 42 00:02:14,240 --> 00:02:18,000 spoil and saying that I would love to see him again, 43 00:02:19,560 --> 00:02:22,800 that he doesn't have to be his fancy for whatever 44 00:02:23,199 --> 00:02:25,840 date we go on next. I just I just really 45 00:02:25,960 --> 00:02:26,759 enjoy his company. 46 00:02:27,000 --> 00:02:28,800 Speaker 1: All right, let's get some answers. I want to know 47 00:02:28,919 --> 00:02:31,039 for you because maybe it's just a little miscommunication, because 48 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:32,560 I love this for you. It sounds like the best 49 00:02:32,639 --> 00:02:34,800 date ever. So here's what we're gonna do. You're gonna 50 00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:36,719 be on hold. I'm gonna call William and I'm just 51 00:02:36,800 --> 00:02:38,759 gonna ask him to be honest and ask him why 52 00:02:38,879 --> 00:02:40,879 he's ghosting you. Are you ready for answers? 53 00:02:42,400 --> 00:02:43,280 Speaker 3: I think so. Yes. 54 00:02:45,080 --> 00:02:47,840 Speaker 1: He doesn't talk a lot, so maybe it was just 55 00:02:47,919 --> 00:02:50,520 too much talking for William. Maybe you know, that's the 56 00:02:50,599 --> 00:02:52,439 only thing I could think of. I mean, after a 57 00:02:52,560 --> 00:02:56,360 date like that, i'd be gushing too. That's crazy. Rolls Royce, 58 00:02:57,080 --> 00:02:58,800 Where do you ever see those? In Connecticut? Do they 59 00:02:58,800 --> 00:03:00,439 still make them? Hi's William? 60 00:03:00,520 --> 00:03:00,680 Speaker 2: There? 61 00:03:01,800 --> 00:03:05,719 Speaker 1: He Hi William. It is Courtney. Hey will it's Walmart chef. 62 00:03:05,879 --> 00:03:08,800 Hey William, it's Savannah. We're calling from Kiss ninety five 63 00:03:08,840 --> 00:03:09,879 to seven. You're on the radio. 64 00:03:10,759 --> 00:03:15,039 Speaker 2: Oh okay, hello, walking to the show. 65 00:03:15,199 --> 00:03:17,199 Speaker 1: Yes, William, I have to tell you you're on Second 66 00:03:17,280 --> 00:03:20,319 Date Update. So if you listen to the show, it's 67 00:03:20,319 --> 00:03:22,520 actually a feature we do. If you go on a 68 00:03:22,599 --> 00:03:26,319 first date and it's fabulous, but you get ghosted, call 69 00:03:26,479 --> 00:03:29,280 us and we get the answers. So we're calling you. 70 00:03:29,400 --> 00:03:34,039 You're on second Date Update. Okay, all right, So I 71 00:03:34,120 --> 00:03:35,520 will be honest with you, and I want you to 72 00:03:35,560 --> 00:03:39,400 be honest with us. Seth called us, he's oh, I see, 73 00:03:40,039 --> 00:03:42,840 he said you took him on a date that was magical. 74 00:03:42,960 --> 00:03:45,400 You picked him up in a Rolls Royce, you brought 75 00:03:45,439 --> 00:03:48,319 him to the country club, You had a great meal, 76 00:03:48,400 --> 00:03:51,280 good conversation. He said. There was flirting going on, like 77 00:03:52,319 --> 00:03:55,000 obvious flirting. He really wants to see you again, but 78 00:03:55,080 --> 00:03:56,800 you have not responded to his messages. 79 00:03:58,000 --> 00:04:03,960 Speaker 2: Yes, so we did have a good time, that's for sure. Okay, Well, 80 00:04:04,319 --> 00:04:08,439 you know, I there's a big problem though for me. 81 00:04:09,000 --> 00:04:11,840 Speaker 1: Okay, what to tell us? The problem? 82 00:04:11,919 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 2: Then? He is obsessed with these two little dogs that 83 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:19,920 he has. Okay, and I have dated men in the 84 00:04:19,959 --> 00:04:24,279 past've had dogs, and you know, it just doesn't fit 85 00:04:24,360 --> 00:04:27,199 my lifestyle. I like to be able to, like, on 86 00:04:27,319 --> 00:04:29,759 a moment's notice, just get up and go and hop 87 00:04:29,839 --> 00:04:33,120 on a plane to the Bahamas or you know, go 88 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:36,839 out to California. When you've got dogs, you can't do 89 00:04:36,959 --> 00:04:39,879 stuff like that. You've got to like arrange for dog 90 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:41,800 sitters or you know, who's going to take care of 91 00:04:41,839 --> 00:04:44,480 the dogs, and what are they gonna do with their dog? 92 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:46,879 You know, And it's just too much. 93 00:04:46,800 --> 00:04:50,160 Speaker 1: For me, William. So what you're telling me is you're 94 00:04:50,240 --> 00:04:53,160 ghosting Seth because of his dogs. Seth is on the line. 95 00:04:53,199 --> 00:04:54,120 Are you hearing this, Seth? 96 00:04:54,839 --> 00:05:00,639 Speaker 3: Oh hello, Oh my god, I Lucinda and fists are 97 00:05:01,560 --> 00:05:02,839 that big of an issue for you? 98 00:05:04,399 --> 00:05:09,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, he doesn't like dogs. 99 00:05:10,399 --> 00:05:13,480 Speaker 2: You know. I've dated men in the past that had dogs, 100 00:05:13,519 --> 00:05:16,920 and it's always, uh, it just doesn't fit my lifestyle. 101 00:05:17,199 --> 00:05:21,639 Speaker 3: I'm sorry, how would they be impeding your lifestyle? I 102 00:05:21,839 --> 00:05:24,279 carried them around. They are well behaved dogs. 103 00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:27,160 Speaker 1: They or my baby, Seth, your dogs are small enough 104 00:05:27,199 --> 00:05:29,079 for you to like bring places and carry around. 105 00:05:29,319 --> 00:05:31,519 Speaker 3: Oh for sure. I take them with me everywhere. They're 106 00:05:31,519 --> 00:05:32,480 little malteses. 107 00:05:33,199 --> 00:05:36,600 Speaker 1: Okay, so still an o for you, William. 108 00:05:37,279 --> 00:05:40,319 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just, you know, it's just too much becomes 109 00:05:40,399 --> 00:05:43,240 more about the dogs and about the person, and you know, 110 00:05:43,399 --> 00:05:45,720 it's just not something I really want to want to 111 00:05:45,759 --> 00:05:46,319 get involved in. 112 00:05:47,279 --> 00:05:50,079 Speaker 1: I think you're just not a big fan of having 113 00:05:50,399 --> 00:05:53,279 like Seth pay more attention to the dogs than you. 114 00:05:54,079 --> 00:05:54,439 Speaker 3: Is that it? 115 00:05:54,560 --> 00:05:57,519 Speaker 2: I mean that could certainly be it. You look at 116 00:05:57,560 --> 00:05:58,720 how he talks about them, you know. 117 00:05:58,959 --> 00:06:02,959 Speaker 3: Yeah, well, they've been in my life for a longer 118 00:06:03,079 --> 00:06:06,800 time than you like. They're my babies. Of course, I'm 119 00:06:06,800 --> 00:06:07,959 gonna well good. 120 00:06:07,839 --> 00:06:10,439 Speaker 2: They have your life with your babies. But you know 121 00:06:10,759 --> 00:06:12,439 that's something I want to have. I want to be 122 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:14,120 a part of Seth. 123 00:06:14,160 --> 00:06:16,079 Speaker 1: Can I just can I just ask a question. You're 124 00:06:16,120 --> 00:06:18,720 willing to give up rolls, royces and country clubs for 125 00:06:18,800 --> 00:06:19,600 two little dogs? 126 00:06:19,839 --> 00:06:24,959 Speaker 3: Yes? Oh sorry, yeah, they're my babies. I don't think 127 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:27,720 I can go out with someone who doesn't understand. I mean, 128 00:06:27,800 --> 00:06:31,800 he's wow, someone who's clearly incapable of wanting to love 129 00:06:31,879 --> 00:06:33,480 someone else like I just. 130 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:36,199 Speaker 2: Oh, gim me you freaking break, Come on, Okay, I 131 00:06:36,399 --> 00:06:38,240 just don't like dogs, you know, all right. 132 00:06:38,319 --> 00:06:41,000 Speaker 1: I don't want to get into this like yelling match 133 00:06:41,120 --> 00:06:43,879 or anything. It's not a great fit. The two of 134 00:06:43,959 --> 00:06:46,319 you are just a little too different, you know. And 135 00:06:46,399 --> 00:06:48,279 I think you're right, William. You looked up and go 136 00:06:48,480 --> 00:06:51,040 and jet set and that's what you need in Seth. 137 00:06:51,120 --> 00:06:52,639 You need somebody who loves dogs. 138 00:06:52,399 --> 00:06:52,680 Speaker 3: Like you do. 139 00:06:52,839 --> 00:06:54,560 Speaker 1: So it's just not a great match. And I and 140 00:06:54,680 --> 00:06:56,360 I hope you and I'm glad you got your answers. 141 00:06:57,199 --> 00:06:57,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, me too. 142 00:06:58,560 --> 00:07:00,800 Speaker 1: Oh well, give I think it was Sindo and Rufous 143 00:07:00,879 --> 00:07:02,680 give them little kisses for us. 144 00:07:02,800 --> 00:07:05,199 Speaker 3: Squishes, Oh I will I will for sure. 145 00:07:05,199 --> 00:07:07,160 Speaker 1: All right. And you guys, good luck with everything and 146 00:07:07,240 --> 00:07:09,240 keep us posted, you know, if you find that dog 147 00:07:09,319 --> 00:07:12,199 lover Seth or somebody to travel the world with. William. 148 00:07:13,720 --> 00:07:17,319 Speaker 3: Okay, well, hopefully hopefully I won't need to call again. 149 00:07:17,639 --> 00:07:20,079 Speaker 1: Yeah, I hope not to. Well you guys, thank you 150 00:07:20,160 --> 00:07:21,639 so much for being on a second date. 151 00:07:21,759 --> 00:07:23,879 Speaker 2: Update all right, I have a good one.