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Speaker 1: Craig's on the line in Newington. Craig went on a

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great first date, is getting ghosted and want answers, wants answers.

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Good morning, Craig.

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Speaker 2: Hey, that's going guys, it's good.

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Speaker 1: Tell us about listen, tell us about this date you

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went on.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so we went on a great date the other week.

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We went out to happy hours, this really nice bar,

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and I thought we're having a great time. I mean,

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she's beautiful. I thought we had a really good connection.

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We're having on a good conversation. And then at one

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point I went to the bathroom and when I got back,

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I couldn't find her. I didn't know what had happened.

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I asked around, and one of the bartenders said that

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he saw her leave with a girl from the bar.

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And I haven't heard from her sentence, So I don't

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know if there was some emergency, if something happened, if

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she knew her But I would like to see her again.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Craig, I am free. Wait a minute, you're telling

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me this was a great date. You get up, you

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go to the mensroom, you come back, she's gone. Yeah,

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what and you've not heard from her? Interesting?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I haven't heard anything.

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Speaker 1: Huh did you offend her in any way? Were you

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inappropriate during dinner? Did you say something inappropriate?

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Speaker 2: I really don't think so. I tried to be nice

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and respectful. Were you I would like to know that

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I could apologize.

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Speaker 1: Were you drunk?

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Speaker 2: No, we only had two glasses of wine each.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow too? And then she left Wow pieced out

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right in the middle of dinner. Literally, Yeah, I'm wondering

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if it was an emergency and she just hasn't gotten

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back to you. We're gonna call her. We're gonna get

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some answers. You're going to be listening in you want

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to find out the answers.

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Speaker 2: Craig, Yes, absolutely.

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Speaker 1: I mean this is a total ghosting of all of

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our second date updates. This one is takes the cake

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for ghosting, like in person ghosting. Now all right, Craig,

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hold on, We're going to call your date Shelby next.

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Speaker 2: Thanks guys.

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Speaker 1: This is an actual like, this isn't just a pham ghosting.

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This is like your rates of in person ghosting. I

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didn't even think that was a thing until now, but

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here we are. I' might have to try that just

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the fun of it. Hi, is Shelby, there yeah, yes,

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this is me. He Shelby. It's Courtney Shelby, It's Walmart chef. Hey,

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it's Savannah. You're on Kiss ninety five to seven this morning.

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Speaker 3: Hi.

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Speaker 1: Hey, hey, it is second date, up date. We've got

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some questions for you. Yeah, all right, So Craig called us.

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He took you out on a date. I think he's

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a happy hour, great conversation. You're beautiful, smart, funny. He

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goes to the men's room, he comes back and you're gone,

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and the bartender tells him you left with a woman

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at the bar. Is everything. Okay, I'm worried that, like

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there's something's wrong.

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Speaker 3: Well okay, okay. So he kind of lies about his

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high and his hands with kind of like dinosaur hands

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are really small. He's like, I don't know, five two,

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I'm five to five. So that already just threw me

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off because he's from his description and everything, he just

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he said he was taller, he tall, muscular, all of that,

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and it just did not match. Okay, yeah, it just

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really it just took me aback. And my best friend

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was the one actually at the bar. We kind of

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do this thing where we go on each other's dates

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as like a stranger, just to make sure everything goes

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right and if it doesn't, we leave.

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Speaker 1: What that all right in the middle? What type of person,

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Like the hands were that small and he was that

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short that you wanted to leave before dessert?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I am definitely not five to two.

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Speaker 1: Craig's on the line. Craig, you're hearing this.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I can't believe that's what it was. I mean,

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I'm glad you're okay, but I'm definitely not five to two.

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I am five eight, like I said on my profile,

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and we were sitting down at a table. Regardless about

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how I am. I know I'm not my heyes, not

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super impressive, and I'm five eight is not anything crazy.

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But you're short.

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Speaker 1: Oh my, oh my god. Okay, that's so rude.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry. I just I can't like. I like tall guys.

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I like taller guys.

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Speaker 2: You knew going on the dat I was only five eight.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but that was a lie because.

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Speaker 1: You're not okay. Can we talk about the hands you're

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interested in? These tiny shows? Now?

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Speaker 4: His hands, My friend Matt has little we call mechanic hands.

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They're like really small hands with fat fingers, like little

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sausage links.

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Speaker 1: Is that how they were.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm sorry. It's just, oh,

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it just you lied about your description, Okay, Like I

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don't know what to tell you, Like, I just if

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you could lie about that, I don't know what else

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you could th lie about.

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Speaker 1: So I left, Craig, I got your back, Craig Shelby,

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I'm sorry. You should have been a woman about it.

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You should have just finished the date out, told them

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there wasn't a connection. You don't need to leave in

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the middle of the date and then then old because

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he's short and have little hands. I get it. I

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don't like little hands either, but you can at least

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finish the date out and been polite about it. I

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got to rate the guy.

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Speaker 3: Well, Hey, like, I don't want to waste people's time.

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I mean, I would rather if he wasn't into me

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just kind of leave. So I just kind of got the.

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Speaker 1: Hints, did you.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I don't know, Courtney, I think this is I

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think you would do the same thing if.

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Speaker 1: You were I would not. I would not leave in

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the middle of the date. I don't know. No, that's

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like super disrespectful. Honestly, I'd finish the date off and

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then I'd be like, no, he had creepy little hands.

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Speaker 4: Look, guys, you have a chance.

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Speaker 3: Like, at least I didn't just see you and walk

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away and just not show up for the date at all.

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Speaker 4: That's true.

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Speaker 1: I mean you didn't do much better.

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Speaker 3: At least I had a conversation.

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Speaker 1: How are you feeling? How are you feeling, Craig.

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Speaker 2: I'm a little upset about not being the reason, but

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I mean, I guess clearly there's not going to be

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another date, and I don't want to date someone who

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cares about such superficial things.

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Speaker 1: Yes, all right, well listen, Craig, Shelby's fine. There was

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no emergency, no medical emergency. She just just left.

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Speaker 2: So I'm not even.

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Speaker 1: Going to offer to pay for a second date on

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this one. I'm' let you guys go your separate ways. Craig, Yeah,

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you got your answers. I wish you all the best

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out there dating. Okay, both of you all rank you.

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Speaker 2: Thanks guys,