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Speaker 1: Good morning, Lindsay, Good morning Cormyn, Good morning, give me oil,
Speaker 1: Good morning Corbyn. We've got tickets that we're gonna give
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Speaker 1: uh we're gonna get started with the show right now.
Speaker 1: You Normally at this time we would do news quikies.
Speaker 1: These are stories that you may have missed in the news,
Speaker 1: but we cover them here if you'd like to hear them.
Speaker 6: Time for news quikies, World news, local news and news
Speaker 6: that just makes you say, what the Here's Corbyn, GiB
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Speaker 6: Man Morning Show in ninety.
Speaker 7: Se dude sus Amazon over lost brain cells from whippets.
Speaker 7: Felix Kraus out of Buffalo, New York, has lost a
Speaker 7: lot of brain cells over the years, and he believes
Speaker 7: Amazon is to blame. The thirty three year old is
Speaker 7: suing Amazon, claiming that the company knew, knew that the
Speaker 7: nitrous oxide canisters he purchased from the company weren't really
Speaker 7: for culinary use. For years. Felix says he was a
Speaker 7: fan of whippets and he now suffers from neurological damage,
Speaker 7: memory loss, and tremors as a result. Now he wants
Speaker 7: to see Amazon get the book thrown at them through
Speaker 7: his litigation, and he claims the company's website passed off
Speaker 7: the canisters as safe and legal.
Speaker 1: I think my thought on this is huh right, what
Speaker 1: are you talking about?
Speaker 6: Right, he blamed, Like, you're not going to use those
Speaker 6: for actual whip cream.
Speaker 1: Whatever, and you have to buy a special crackers. No,
Speaker 1: it's a thing that busts the co two so you
Speaker 1: can inhale.
Speaker 6: It usually made out of plastic or metal.
Speaker 1: Get the metal ones. Oh yeah, the plast ones always
Speaker 1: break out. They're good for like maybe four rounds. That's
Speaker 1: about It's what I've heard, But yeah, you need so
Speaker 1: you you had to research or someone had to show
Speaker 1: you unless you I can't imagine you were using a
Speaker 1: whip creamer right and putting the thing in then, though
Speaker 1: I know people some people do that, right, Right, You're
Speaker 1: not gonna sue research because they sell the whip cream
Speaker 1: in the can. You're right, You're right.
Speaker 6: Somebody would though, maybe just to give try to get
Speaker 6: a payout, right, which is what this guy is trying
Speaker 6: to do. Well, that arrested for DUI found sleeping with
Speaker 6: Tesla autopilot on. Now, if you've ever wondered, hey, if
Speaker 6: I have my automatic driving car, take me home, can
Speaker 6: I still get a DUI?
Speaker 1: Yes?
Speaker 6: And here's the reason why. Comes out of Sarasota, Florida.
Speaker 6: Thirty seven year old Gal Kimberly Brown's name. She went out,
Speaker 6: got tanked right, two times over the legal limit is
Speaker 6: what she blew, right, So she's like, hey, Tesla, take
Speaker 6: me home. So Tesla takes her home, and apparently the
Speaker 6: Tesla has centers in it that forces you to be
Speaker 6: alert and facing forward for the.
Speaker 1: Autopilot to work.
Speaker 6: Right, Well, she just curls up and goes to sleep
Speaker 6: and with those, if you're not alert and facing forward,
Speaker 6: the car just shuts down, which is exactly what happened
Speaker 6: to this car in the middle of the interstate center lane.
Speaker 1: Just that's why police were called out.
Speaker 6: They get there, they find her, she blows over two
Speaker 6: times a limit.
Speaker 1: They ended up taking her in. Everybody knew this is
Speaker 1: what they're gonna use autopilot for.
Speaker 6: Absolutely, absolutely not so I could read a book.
Speaker 1: There's a whole porn subgenre of people having sex and
Speaker 1: teslas on autopilot. Really chicken. That just terrifies me. Right,
Speaker 1: somebody you know, sneezes. I don't know, right, that's not
Speaker 1: the wheel quick jerking. It just thought. New World screwworm
Speaker 1: increases as cases detected near the US A flesh eating disease,
Speaker 1: a flesh eating insect called the new worm scare screwworm. Sorry,
Speaker 1: the New World screw worm has been detected less than
Speaker 1: one hour south of the Texas border with Mexico. Agricultural
Speaker 1: Commissioner said, ah god Miller, So that's not a matter
Speaker 1: of if it's coming here. But when he says the
Speaker 1: USDA has started sending farmers and ranchers a screw worm detection,
Speaker 1: which is not a movie Lendsay will promote at nine
Speaker 1: when a cow gets sick from the parasitic fly, they're
Speaker 1: supposed to send a sample back to DC and to
Speaker 1: explain more of Ah, wouldn't have it any other way.
Speaker 1: I had this all prepped for the video so you
Speaker 1: could hear the lady explain how it works, but because
Speaker 1: of the okay, So basically what happens is after the
Speaker 1: male and female this fly, the screwfly, I guess mate,
Speaker 1: the female then finds a live, warm body to implant
Speaker 1: the one hundred to three hundred eggs into, of which
Speaker 1: will hatch the next day and will then embed further
Speaker 1: into your skin. You can google New World screwworm injuries
Speaker 1: and see what kind of injuries it does to animals
Speaker 1: and people. Now, if you know what the what is it?
Speaker 1: The oh god? Yeah, if you know what is it? Flybot?
Speaker 1: What is the little fly? Fly? Buttfly? That's what it is.
Speaker 1: Uh that it's very similar to this, just more nasty. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: a lot of it happens to animals because they can't
Speaker 1: tell you.
Speaker 6: Uh.
Speaker 1: So the eggs would hatch, the infestation would really start,
Speaker 1: and it would be then quite painful and heat up.
Speaker 1: You would see a difference. You would have to seek
Speaker 1: medical attention, of course. But it isn't just a I'll
Speaker 1: go away and that pain will go away. No, it's
Speaker 1: the massive hole in the back of this guy's head.
Speaker 1: And screwworm is the term because it does look like
Speaker 1: a screw and as the egg hatches, it does what
Speaker 1: a screw does. It embeds further in by twisting into
Speaker 1: the skin.
Speaker 7: And screws you over big time.
Speaker 1: And you say this is in Texas, it is an
Speaker 1: hour south of the Texas border, and commissioners said. Ah
Speaker 1: Miller said, it's not a matter of if it's coming,
Speaker 1: but when.
Speaker 6: Okay, ye stay down there, stay down there. I'm good.
Speaker 6: I'm good on all this. This gives me a reason
Speaker 6: not to go to Texas.
Speaker 1: So, like for those who don't know, the magets and
Speaker 1: stuff need dead. It can't be a living, right, It's
Speaker 1: gotta be supposed to be dead, right, dead skin something dead.
Speaker 6: Uh.
Speaker 1: You do see people that have it in like under
Speaker 1: casts and things like that sometimes, but that's because the
Speaker 1: skin is dead and that's what it's it's festering.
Speaker 6: In does off like repel these soft mitek I just
Speaker 6: wondering what I could use some lavender.
Speaker 1: These bastards aren't coming on me some What are those plants?
Speaker 6: What are those plants that the US.
Speaker 1: Is a cameo plant? What is a special plant? No? No, no,
Speaker 1: no no? And then the candle you burn the cano, Cilla.
Speaker 1: I don't know if those work. Okay, well, just don't go.
Speaker 7: To Texas terrifying.
Speaker 1: Yeah, get off of my computer. I'm tired of looking
Speaker 1: at that. All right, we got to take a break.
Speaker 1: We want to know what's the best part of your weekend,
Speaker 1: in the worst part of your weekend. We'll do that
Speaker 1: coming up.
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Speaker 6: What's the best thing that happened this weekend? And the
Speaker 6: worst thing that happened this weekend?
Speaker 1: Text it to us bmms and whatever that is to eight, two, nine,
Speaker 1: four or five. What's the best and what's the worst? Lindsey,
Speaker 1: what's the best and worst of your weekend?
Speaker 7: Well, Saturday was a ton of fun. The Smoking Gun
Speaker 7: Show was awesome. North Side knockout. She went three rounds.
Speaker 7: She is such a badass.
Speaker 1: She chased that bitch all the way around. Yeah she did.
Speaker 7: I mean she had that cop running for her life.
Speaker 7: The seventeen second fights. That was a first. It was
Speaker 7: a record when the cop knocked out the first responder.
Speaker 7: And to be honest, I don't think that that first
Speaker 7: responder even uh had trained at all for that fight.
Speaker 1: If I'm not mistaken, I think that was a last
Speaker 1: minute adm. He stepped in because the other guy step
Speaker 1: couldn't do it or whatever. She I just know there
Speaker 1: was one fight for sure that and it didn't go
Speaker 1: really great.
Speaker 7: No that yeah, definitely the last one. Yeah, but man,
Speaker 7: it was a it was a good, good, good time.
Speaker 7: My worst of the weekend probably had to be coming
Speaker 7: home Friday night. After a wonderful evening at Tuttle Stadium.
Speaker 7: I got to announce the jv lacrosse game, and being
Speaker 7: in the press box was awesome.
Speaker 1: What do you mean announce like the just into the
Speaker 1: stadium onto a raino.
Speaker 7: No, just into the stadium. And it was a senior night,
Speaker 7: so I announced the seniors and stuff and that was
Speaker 7: really fun. And then coming home to a hole in
Speaker 7: our hallway at all and found finding out that my
Speaker 7: middle child put his fist through the wall out of anger.
Speaker 1: I do, so, who's the middle child, the.
Speaker 7: Older of the two minute older.
Speaker 6: Child, you know, the one named Kyle.
Speaker 7: No, yeah, because he was he was mad at his
Speaker 7: twin brother. So uh yeah, so now we have to
Speaker 7: patch a hole in our wall.
Speaker 6: Is it a big hole or just a tiny precise Yeah.
Speaker 7: It's fist size hole.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 7: He's just lucky that there wasn't a stud behind that.
Speaker 1: One in front, you know.
Speaker 7: Broke in his hand, so that was irritating and the.
Speaker 1: Worst, best and worst of the weekend. What's the best thing
Speaker 1: that happened this weekend? And the worst thing that happened
Speaker 1: this weekend? BM mess and whatever that is to eight two,
Speaker 1: nine four five, GIMPI what's the best and what's the worst?
Speaker 6: Oh Saturday, I had to be the best of course.
Speaker 6: Went to the fights afterwards, went and did some karaoke
Speaker 6: in and hung out with some friends. That's always always
Speaker 6: a good time. I think the worst part of the
Speaker 6: weekend happened yesterday. I lost my wallet. Oh no, yeah,
Speaker 6: but only for a moment.
Speaker 1: Oh good.
Speaker 6: So my lady and I we we were we were
Speaker 6: being semi lazy yesterday, right, just kind of laid in
Speaker 6: bed and watched TV until about like eleven o'clock, eleven thirty, right,
Speaker 6: and uh uh, these damn commercials for be Dubs bottomless
Speaker 6: apps kept coming on, right.
Speaker 1: And I'm like, m we definitely used some food beat ups.
Speaker 1: Sounds good.
Speaker 6: And of course we didn't get the bottomless apps. I
Speaker 6: did get the Ultimate sampler though, sliders, cheese curds, onion rings,
Speaker 6: and chicken strips.
Speaker 1: You don't say, yeah it was good.
Speaker 6: But anyway, so I get got on my sweat pants
Speaker 6: on make sure and with my sweatpants and has the
Speaker 6: back pocket for whatever stupid ass reason. But I put
Speaker 6: my pants, I put my wallet back there, just out
Speaker 6: of habit, and uh, I'm sitting at the beat ups
Speaker 6: at the bar and uh, guy, I guess the manager
Speaker 6: comes up, mister Gilrd.
Speaker 1: Yeah, man, what's up here? You go? Oh damn, didn't
Speaker 1: even know it fell out of my pocket. Wow, didn't
Speaker 1: even know.
Speaker 6: I don't know if it fell out when I got
Speaker 6: out of the car or they found in the parking lot.
Speaker 1: Maybe it fell out.
Speaker 6: I didn't hear it thumping hit the floor right we're
Speaker 6: I was sitting, so I think it fell out of
Speaker 6: the out in the park along.
Speaker 1: But everything was there. Everything was there.
Speaker 6: But if he had not, if he would have not
Speaker 6: brought it to me, it had been gone and I'd
Speaker 6: have never never known until I go reach from a wallet.
Speaker 1: We're like, oh, balls, then what would you do with
Speaker 1: all those expired gift cards in your back.
Speaker 6: While somebody's going to be rich b fifty cents at
Speaker 6: a time?
Speaker 1: Best and worst of the weekend? What's the best thing
Speaker 1: that happened this weekend? And the worst thing that happened
Speaker 1: this weekend? Bmm, mess and whatever that is to eight
Speaker 1: two nine four five. Best part of the weekend would
Speaker 1: be remember what we did on Saturday. Best part of
Speaker 1: the worst part of the weekend is I couldn't go
Speaker 1: to smoking guns.
Speaker 3: Uh.
Speaker 1: It started earlier in the day where my youngest was
Speaker 1: sick like bubble guts. Then my oldest was sick bubble guts,
Speaker 1: and then my wife was vomiting. Oh god, and I
Speaker 1: was like, Okay, you'll be fine.
Speaker 3: See no.
Speaker 1: Uh. And so that was the worst part because I
Speaker 1: really wanted to go to smoking guns. Uh. And then
Speaker 1: the uh, best part I would guess is I have
Speaker 1: a new TV show I like. No, I'm reading this book.
Speaker 1: I like a lot right now. It started slow, but
Speaker 1: I finished one book, started another one. Yeah, we'll go
Speaker 1: with that. Books. Best and worst of the weekend. What's
Speaker 1: the best part of the weekend. What's the worst part
Speaker 1: of the weekend? You have a mess in whatever that
Speaker 1: is to eight two nine four or five. This says best.
Speaker 1: I had some real me time nails done, haircut and
Speaker 1: shopping with no kids. Worst was the haircut. She went
Speaker 1: way above my shoulders and as a woman, I look
Speaker 1: like that fellow on No Country for Old Men. Oh no,
Speaker 1: we need a picture show at kmoty dot com. The
Speaker 1: good news. The good news is you're not a killer.
Speaker 1: I think maybe, right, But the haircut makes the person.
Speaker 1: So that's the part that turns her around.
Speaker 6: Right, she was on a good path and then she
Speaker 6: got a bad haircut and killed everybody.
Speaker 1: Right, everything changed when Mildred cut a bob.
Speaker 7: Yeah, and where'd you go for the haircut?
Speaker 1: And the best of the weekend got to have some
Speaker 1: quality time with my children. Worst of the weekend I
Speaker 1: only slept six hours between five pm Friday and now
Speaker 1: pure exhaustion. Why it's not like there's storms. Are you
Speaker 1: on call? Maybe that would explain it. Best hold a
Speaker 1: new couch to my grandma's house, which is a movie
Speaker 1: Lindsay will promote at nine. Worst, I'm pretty much homeless
Speaker 1: and get to sleep on said couch. Oh that's unfortunate. Uh.
Speaker 1: Best smoked a ten pound pork butt, two tacos of ribs,
Speaker 1: and a whole chicken. How do you smoke tacos?
Speaker 4: Uh?
Speaker 1: Typo? Because he corrected right above racks of ros Oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: got it, that makes way more sense.
Speaker 6: Yeah, how about you could smoke some tacos, right, you
Speaker 6: you pre make them and everything right and then slide
Speaker 6: them in the smoker for a couple of hours.
Speaker 1: Worst rented a ladder, got it home and it was
Speaker 1: too tall. Waste of eighty dollars. Huh. Never thought of
Speaker 1: renting a ladder. I've never thought of a ladder being
Speaker 1: too tall, right, isn't that the whole point of a ladder? Yeah,
Speaker 1: better too tall than too short, I would think at Bay,
Speaker 1: get it just right. We did go to that was
Speaker 1: it Dos Benditos? Is that what it's called? The Mexican
Speaker 1: restaurant in Broken Arow? Yeah? We went there on Saturday
Speaker 1: and for brunch because they do brunch there and they
Speaker 1: have this beer it's called a vippa mos I think,
Speaker 1: and it's like a tostata, but it's their bira okay,
Speaker 1: oh my okay, and barbicoa burrito, and then the lady
Speaker 1: brought us a cinnamon roll. Who was awesome. That place
Speaker 1: is good.
Speaker 6: Never thought of a Mexican brunch before, but I'm awesome.
Speaker 1: Spoiler. It's the same as any other brunch with some
Speaker 1: Mexican food in there, okay. Instead of like a burger,
Speaker 1: there's Mexican food good.
Speaker 6: Uh.
Speaker 1: Best talked to my sister, who lives far away for
Speaker 1: over an hour. Worst found out my husband has been
Speaker 1: sending hundreds of dollars on a stripper and also has
Speaker 1: been texting her. WHOA right, a little more context. We've
Speaker 1: been married over twenty years. The divorce ought to be good.
Speaker 1: I mean, a divorce ain't gonna mean nothing, right, I mean,
Speaker 1: just because he was texting a stripper.
Speaker 6: Yeah, maybe she just needed some moral support, you know, maybe.
Speaker 1: It's his daughter he found out he had. I don't know. Yeah,
Speaker 1: question is it in the is it the wrong? What
Speaker 1: is the percentage of likelihood that if you are dating
Speaker 1: a stripper you might be involved in you the person? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Because there's already like a cliche that strippers there's some
Speaker 1: sort of recreational activity happening, right right right, lindsay, what
Speaker 1: do you think?
Speaker 7: I don't necessarily think that you have to be maybe, I.
Speaker 1: Say, you don't have to do anything, but sometimes when
Speaker 1: you're around people, especially guys with girls, you're highly influential, sure,
Speaker 1: and you can easily be persuaded. Chance gimpie, Really I
Speaker 1: was thinking seventy five eighty I think so too on higher.
Speaker 1: I think it's pretty high. I don't want to.
Speaker 6: Say I mean, I want to say ninety five, but
Speaker 6: just for benefit of the doubt, we'll go with seventy.
Speaker 1: And I'd like to say zero. Man, but there is
Speaker 1: a cliche there, and the cliches aren't always true. That
Speaker 1: if he's doing that and it's completely abnormal, there's something
Speaker 1: else going on too.
Speaker 7: Yeah, midlife crisis maybe, what.
Speaker 1: Does that mean? I've never understood that statement. Is that
Speaker 1: just the thing we say when people do really bizarre
Speaker 1: behavior and you're a male over the age of yeah, thirty,
Speaker 1: but under thirty you're just being an asshole?
Speaker 7: Yeah right, right at your asshole?
Speaker 1: What is it called for a woman?
Speaker 7: It's the same thing.
Speaker 1: No, mid midlife crisis.
Speaker 7: I think it's a midlife crisis.
Speaker 1: I've never heard a woman have a midlife crisis.
Speaker 7: That's because we're better, we're superior.
Speaker 1: Then why do I have to hold the door.
Speaker 7: Because you're being a gentleman.
Speaker 1: I don't have to be a gentleman if you're superior.
Speaker 7: No, you don't.
Speaker 1: Best part closed on our very first house and it
Speaker 1: was all cash, no mortgage, worst moving. First of all,
Speaker 1: good for you, that is awesome. That's a lot of
Speaker 1: also small house, I would imagine. But either way, buying
Speaker 1: a house with all cash or basically not needing a loan,
Speaker 1: that's awesome. Does that lady with the unfaithful husband need
Speaker 1: a roommate? Says the guy who texted about the couch,
Speaker 1: He living on a couch. All right, we got to
Speaker 1: take a break. Coming up, We got tickets to Shine Down.
Speaker 1: That show is Saturday, May twenty third at the pay
Speaker 1: Com Center in Oklahoma City. We'll be back. See what
Speaker 1: Gimpie has in his for my forem oh coleb And.
Speaker 6: It says here that Trump says shooting shows it needs
Speaker 6: for a ballroom.
Speaker 1: President Trump said the shooting.
Speaker 6: At the White House correspondence dinner would have never happened
Speaker 6: with his new ballroom. In a post on True Social,
Speaker 6: he wrote that the ballroom has every high level security
Speaker 6: feature available. He added that there are no rooms sitting
Speaker 6: atop for unsecured people to stay in.
Speaker 1: Shut up, Lola, nobody asked you.
Speaker 6: He says that Trump was at a Saturday night's event
Speaker 6: at the Washington Hilton when gunfire was heard out of
Speaker 6: out front at the Secret Service checkpoint. Authority say a
Speaker 6: man tried to rush through the checkpoint armed with two
Speaker 6: guns and multiple knives and exchanged gunfire with law enforcements
Speaker 6: before being apprehended.
Speaker 1: What a wild chain of events, right when you see
Speaker 1: the but it it's crazy and should go without saying.
Speaker 1: How dumb this is. Right, The guy was staying in
Speaker 1: the hotel, walked down eleven flights and ran through security. Now,
Speaker 1: I am not a security expert by any means, that
Speaker 1: seems should have been impossible.
Speaker 6: Yes, when you've got the leader of the free world
Speaker 6: right there.
Speaker 1: No no, no, no, I mean you're right, but no, no, no,
Speaker 1: not the leader of the three free world, but.
Speaker 6: Also the chain of succession right right, because everybody there, buddy, Yeah,
Speaker 6: that's wild to me.
Speaker 1: Again.
Speaker 7: He even wrote that in his manifesto, how easy it was.
Speaker 1: He knew it was going to be easy.
Speaker 7: I didn't know. He just he couldn't believe how easy
Speaker 7: it was.
Speaker 1: Well, the manifesto you right before?
Speaker 7: Well yeah, but he was already in there because he
Speaker 7: went the day before.
Speaker 1: So the thing that's really fascinating and even in the video,
Speaker 1: is he just runs straight through. Again, I'm not a
Speaker 1: security expert. I would think you'd want to kind of zigzag, though,
Speaker 1: so the one can just run straight through, right, right right.
Speaker 1: And in an interview somebody was like, you can't expect
Speaker 1: the Secret Service to just take over a hotel. Yeah
Speaker 1: you can't. Yeah, absolutely, that's fair. You should bring the
Speaker 1: army in to secure the hotel. Yeah, and well they
Speaker 1: can't keep him out of business. Okay, Well then yeah
Speaker 1: I think you could. Now is it an argument for
Speaker 1: the bottom Maybe? I don't know, but this hotel has
Speaker 1: been known to have an issue before with security. Right,
Speaker 1: that's where Ronald Reagan was assassinated. Was the guy naked? No?
Speaker 6: I think the pictures that I see when he's laying there, like, yeah,
Speaker 6: they looked naked, and I was like, well, did he
Speaker 6: run through naked? Maybe that's how he got through security.
Speaker 6: They're like, ah no, yeah, don't touch me with that thing. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I think probably what happens is they strip him to
Speaker 1: make sure, like, and then they cover him back up.
Speaker 1: The other crazy thing that's that is kind of not
Speaker 1: really getting a lot of exposure is Charlie Kirk's wife
Speaker 1: was there.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: That's a little strange, it is. I don't think it's
Speaker 1: strange for her to be at the Correspondence dinner. I
Speaker 1: think it's I almost just swore insane. She just experienced
Speaker 1: something remotely close to what happened to her husband. Yeah
Speaker 1: right right, even though she wasn't there when her husband died.
Speaker 1: That still is a fresh wound, fresh wound as she
Speaker 1: goes on our tour.
Speaker 6: But like it's crazy, Yeah, insanity. What else we got here?
Speaker 6: King Charles is to visit the US as planned. Buckingham Palaces,
Speaker 6: King Chuck and Queenye Camille's visit to the US this week.
Speaker 6: We'll continue as planned. It comes after the Palace said
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Speaker 1: Joining us on the line right now is our listeners
Speaker 1: are awesome. And it looks like Jessica is with us. Hi, Jessica,
Speaker 1: how are you? Hi? It's cool to talk to you, Jessica.
Speaker 1: I want to tell you this. First. I went through
Speaker 1: your Facebook. Has Gimpie provided it to us? And you
Speaker 1: do some in your Facebook That might be the most
Speaker 1: brilliant thing I've ever seen as someone who's gotten a
Speaker 1: lot of tattoos. You do legos while you are getting
Speaker 1: a tattoo.
Speaker 3: I do.
Speaker 1: That is so brilliant. Now I eat sunflower seeds to
Speaker 1: distract me, but do how did you come up with
Speaker 1: the idea of doing legos while you're getting a tattoo.
Speaker 3: That's the most distracting thing that I like to do.
Speaker 3: So I just buy by a little lego set and
Speaker 3: do the whole lego set and I never even think
Speaker 3: about the pain or anything. And then at the end
Speaker 3: I have something that I can either give to the
Speaker 3: tattoo artist or keeping take home.
Speaker 1: Yeah, what do you do though, when you drop I'm
Speaker 1: constantly dropping pieces.
Speaker 3: I do like louse them under me and I'll just
Speaker 3: like stare at the tattoo artists until he lets me
Speaker 3: move a little bit to drop the leg.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't want him moving while he's he's doing
Speaker 1: the ink, that's for sure. What's the biggest Lego set
Speaker 1: you've done yet? Lego piece you've done while you're getting
Speaker 1: a tattoo.
Speaker 3: The biggest one I think I've done is a Hello
Speaker 3: Kitty doll and it took forever. But the next what
Speaker 3: I'm going to do is probably going to be toothless.
Speaker 1: That's awesome, dragon, Yeah, because those ones you buy, they're
Speaker 1: not the real big expensive ones, are they. Oh?
Speaker 3: The toothless one's over one hundred dollars and I'm really
Speaker 3: excited to do that one.
Speaker 7: What's more expensive the lego sets or the tattoo?
Speaker 3: The tattoos definitely by miles.
Speaker 1: Yeah. It says here that, well, how many tattoos do
Speaker 1: you have in total?
Speaker 3: I guess I've never counted, maybe ten, But I do
Speaker 3: want to get enough tattoos to where I can say
Speaker 3: I have one because they're all touching.
Speaker 1: Wow, that's a lot. Where so you have one on
Speaker 1: your leg at least that's the picture that I saw
Speaker 1: where you were doing the lego set. But where's the
Speaker 1: most provocative place you have a tattoo?
Speaker 3: I do have an AK forty seven on one of
Speaker 3: my butt cheeks.
Speaker 6: Well, that's an interesting choice of tattoo and choice of place.
Speaker 1: Kind of like, gimbe, he's got my name there. But
Speaker 1: what would be the what would be the mindset be
Speaker 1: to having that on your ass cheek?
Speaker 3: You know, I have no idea. I think I just
Speaker 3: had extra time left in my session and I was like, yeah,
Speaker 3: let's get one.
Speaker 1: I can't argue with that logic. It says here that
Speaker 1: you take care of your ninety two year old grandmother.
Speaker 1: Tell me how that came to be something that landed
Speaker 1: on your plate to do? And what's the day in
Speaker 1: the life look like as someone who takes care of
Speaker 1: a ninety two year old person.
Speaker 3: Well, I guess, luckily and unluckily, my grandma does have dementia,
Speaker 3: So it's that's kind of fun. I lost my parents,
Speaker 3: I want to say, about thirteen years ago, and my
Speaker 3: grandma just needed some help. I moved to California. She
Speaker 3: told me that she needed some help at home. So
Speaker 3: I came home back to Tulsa to take care of her,
Speaker 3: and I've been taking care of her for about ten
Speaker 3: years now.
Speaker 1: How did you lose your parents.
Speaker 3: My motorcycle accident?
Speaker 4: Where are you guys? What?
Speaker 1: Wow? How old were you?
Speaker 3: I was seventeen turning eighteen?
Speaker 1: How did you get the news?
Speaker 3: Highway patrol came by the house. I did get like
Speaker 3: a cryptic call from like an old friend that mentioned something,
Speaker 3: but I just kind of brushed it off. And then
Speaker 3: when the highway patrol came, they let us know that
Speaker 3: neither one of them had made it.
Speaker 1: And do you have siblings like you? Were there a
Speaker 1: bunch of you at the house or was it just you?
Speaker 3: I do. I've got three brothers, one sister, and a
Speaker 3: little sister.
Speaker 1: Wow, that's a big family. So obviously that that pulled
Speaker 1: you guys together in that moment, right?
Speaker 3: Oh? Absolutely yeah, And we were all together at the
Speaker 3: same time anyway, So I don't know how that all
Speaker 3: worked out.
Speaker 1: Who's the oldest.
Speaker 3: The oldest would be my brother.
Speaker 1: Ashton, and so did he kind of take charge immediately?
Speaker 3: I think my brother Ryan took charge immediately in consoling
Speaker 3: everyone un telling this it was going to be all.
Speaker 1: Right, yeah, cool. How did you go to sleep that night?
Speaker 4: I did not.
Speaker 3: I did not. I was told to not get too
Speaker 3: awfully faded, and that was my main mission, as I'm
Speaker 3: being honest, But that where your helmet, yeah, because people around.
Speaker 1: And did you do you know in the accident? Was
Speaker 1: it something that happened to your parents or is it
Speaker 1: something your parents did that caused the accident?
Speaker 3: So if you want to know, like specific details, motorcycle,
Speaker 3: they were on Highway eleven in Oklahoma, so that's like
Speaker 3: near that armpit of Oklahoma what they call it. They
Speaker 3: were headed back to Alba. My dad worked at the
Speaker 3: prison there. He was the assistant warden for a while.
Speaker 3: They kind of scooted it up behind a semi to
Speaker 3: cut the wind because it's all planes out there, and
Speaker 3: a very impatient car just waited for the semi to
Speaker 3: go by and did not look to make sure there
Speaker 3: wasn't anybody behind the semi, and they hit them and
Speaker 3: that was pretty much it.
Speaker 1: Oh my wild I want to ask you a question
Speaker 1: too that might not be the most tactful, but I'm
Speaker 1: just curious, did your dad have like a life insurance policy.
Speaker 1: I'm just curious to the process of how that happens
Speaker 1: when somebody passes away and you know, everybody's still pretty
Speaker 1: much a kid, Like did they call one day and go, hey,
Speaker 1: there's some money or how did you figure that out?
Speaker 3: My dad was really smart. Again, he was a word
Speaker 3: out of prison, but he was also the president of
Speaker 3: the Clean and Sober, Clean and Sover Survivor's Motorcycle Club,
Speaker 3: so he always made sure that they both had life
Speaker 3: insurance in case anything happened.
Speaker 1: And I imagine that group of people too also maybe
Speaker 1: came to your aid as well.
Speaker 3: Right, Oh, the survivors definitely did. The parking lot was
Speaker 3: completely packed full of motorcycles. It was beautiful. The Down
Speaker 3: Bikers Association also helped me plan the funeral and everything
Speaker 3: because I was so young. But yeah, they were people
Speaker 3: with motorcycles will really wrap their arms around you when
Speaker 3: something like that happened.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and right understandably so too.
Speaker 6: Uh.
Speaker 1: It says here that you have an only fans. What
Speaker 1: made you decide to by the way, Uh, I don't
Speaker 1: know if you want or do or don't want us
Speaker 1: to give it out, but what made you decide to start?
Speaker 1: And only fans?
Speaker 3: I do want to give it out. My OnlyFans is
Speaker 3: OnlyFans dot com slash Mia Nora m I A n
Speaker 3: O r A. I started an only fans and this
Speaker 3: is kind of funny, but when you lose your parents,
Speaker 3: you kind of don't have anybody to be ashamed of you.
Speaker 3: So if anybody's going to start one, it had.
Speaker 4: To be me.
Speaker 1: Goph And uh, what's that like? What's that journey been like?
Speaker 3: I've had one for about six years. It's fun. I
Speaker 3: mean I think it's fun. I think it's fun. I
Speaker 3: think it's exciting. I like little outfits.
Speaker 1: Do you do solo work or do you do teamwork? Yes?
Speaker 3: But I do leave anything open for anybody that has
Speaker 3: anything that they're looking for that they can't find directly somewhere.
Speaker 3: All you do is ask. The worst I could say.
Speaker 1: Is now true, that's true. What's the most you've made
Speaker 1: in a month?
Speaker 6: Eh?
Speaker 3: In a month? Gosh, I've had one for so long
Speaker 3: I wanted to say probably fifty five hundred in a month.
Speaker 1: Then I'm man, what's the least you've made in a month?
Speaker 3: Two hundred?
Speaker 1: Slow month? Huh?
Speaker 3: Yeah, that was when I was first starting.
Speaker 1: What'd you do differently between the two hundred dollars months
Speaker 1: and the fifty five hundred dollars months. Did you put
Speaker 1: more content out there? Did you get a little more adventurous?
Speaker 3: So in any kind of content work, whether it be
Speaker 3: like sex work or anything like that, everything is content.
Speaker 3: Just post more and you'll have more people looking at
Speaker 3: your stuff.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that makes sense. This might surprise people, but it
Speaker 1: says you were also did some porn for a while
Speaker 1: as a porn actress. Is that what you went to
Speaker 1: California to do?
Speaker 3: I did. I was in mass actress for a little
Speaker 3: over a year. Wasn't really for me, but I did
Speaker 3: enjoy it for the time that I did it. After that,
Speaker 3: my grandma just wanted me to come back and take
Speaker 3: care of her, and I'm glad I did. It. Takes
Speaker 3: a little longer, it's a little more boring. I like
Speaker 3: what I'm doing now a lot more sure.
Speaker 1: Did you like so you go, hey, I'm just gonna
Speaker 1: go to California and do this? Or did you get recruited?
Speaker 1: Did you contact a company? Like, how does the step
Speaker 1: from here to California and doing that happen?
Speaker 3: I was recruited here. I pretty much just got a message.
Speaker 3: I got a message on Facebook and someone wanted to
Speaker 3: meet me, and I ignored it for a while, and
Speaker 3: then I got another message and another message, and I
Speaker 3: just said, okay, fine, let me go go meet you.
Speaker 3: And then I met with a couple of producers and
Speaker 3: an agent and they helped me get started, and I
Speaker 3: think I was on a plane and headed to California
Speaker 3: within a week or two.
Speaker 7: I have a question, when's your birthday?
Speaker 3: My birthday is February twenty eighth, the very last day.
Speaker 7: Wonderful. I need that for future. She's a mattress actress?
Speaker 1: Was oh, got it? Okay? Yeah, so did you was
Speaker 1: the casting couch or real thing?
Speaker 3: It is? It is definitely a real thing. You do
Speaker 3: know what you're you're doing before you get there, though.
Speaker 1: How nervous were you like that? I mean, even though
Speaker 1: did you know that's what was going to happen? I mean,
Speaker 1: did someone clue you in?
Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, before, being honest, I was, I was
Speaker 3: pretty young. I think I was in my very early twenties,
Speaker 3: like maybe had just turned twenty one or twenty two.
Speaker 3: I was petrified, completely petrified that I didn't I didn't
Speaker 3: really know how to take it seriously or how serious
Speaker 3: I should take it, or how I should be acting,
Speaker 3: or what I should be doing, or what exactly they.
Speaker 7: Were looking for.
Speaker 3: They were just like, here, do this and do the
Speaker 3: best you can.
Speaker 1: How did you deal with, like being exposed to different
Speaker 1: kinks that you didn't know were a thing or maybe
Speaker 1: kind of scared you. How'd you deal with that?
Speaker 3: I think kinks are really interesting. I've never kink timmed anybody. Obviously,
Speaker 3: there are some weirder ones that I don't really participate in.
Speaker 3: But like I said, the worst I could say is no,
Speaker 3: but people are into some weird stuff.
Speaker 1: What's the most you made doing porn out in California
Speaker 1: in a month?
Speaker 3: Ten grand or a little under ten grand for a scene. Also,
Speaker 3: as they.
Speaker 1: Usually take.
Speaker 3: It takes a really long time, so sometimes it can
Speaker 3: take twelve hours to get one scene finished. You are
Speaker 3: sitting around in hearing makeup for a few hours beforehand.
Speaker 3: But yeah, they're very long and drawn out processes just
Speaker 3: to get a couple of minutes.
Speaker 1: What was that day like after? Were you just like
Speaker 1: sleepy and you're like, whoof, Like I just envision you know,
Speaker 1: sitting around in your sweatshirt and cozy's or whatever, watching
Speaker 1: whatever TV show just like, gosh, what a day at
Speaker 1: work yesterday?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, little store. Wantn't to relax definitely, And then
Speaker 3: that kind of money. You're pretty you're pretty quick to
Speaker 3: book your next scene.
Speaker 1: What was the shocking most shocking thing you learned by
Speaker 1: going out there and do that that surprised you about
Speaker 1: the industry?
Speaker 3: How many girls came from so many different places? Like
Speaker 3: how many co stars and co actresses that I had
Speaker 3: that came from super far away. There were some from Russia,
Speaker 3: there was a couple from Portland, Oregon. They were just everywhere. Yeah,
Speaker 3: but they all they all end up in either Miami
Speaker 3: or California. I believe those are the only two places
Speaker 3: that it's legal to film.
Speaker 1: Did you have a relationship with another person while you
Speaker 1: were doing porn? While you were out there? No, I
Speaker 1: mean because you were full, Like I mean, you don't
Speaker 1: go you don't become a chef and cook things because
Speaker 1: you usually you know, you eat at work. You don't
Speaker 1: come home and then cook, right, Is it that type
Speaker 1: of thing?
Speaker 3: No? Uh No, just was really busy.
Speaker 1: I think, Okay, what's the what did you splurge the
Speaker 1: most on? What was the thing you spent way too
Speaker 1: much money?
Speaker 3: On different outfits and shoes that I only wore for
Speaker 3: a couple of minutes.
Speaker 1: Right, they don't really care about wardrobe, do they.
Speaker 3: No, Well they do. They make you, like cut all
Speaker 3: the tags out. They don't want any tags or anything
Speaker 3: like that.
Speaker 1: I'm surprised they make.
Speaker 6: You buy your own like they don't provide something like that.
Speaker 3: Well, they want you to wear what you're comfortable, and
Speaker 3: you do bring like several outfits with you and you
Speaker 3: can get reimbursed for them if you want to. But
Speaker 3: I like to take mine home and sell them.
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, I'm sure some guys would love to buy
Speaker 1: that off your Would.
Speaker 7: You ever go back? Would you ever go back to it?
Speaker 3: I would, But I am I am aged out now.
Speaker 3: So unless I did some kind of weird like mony
Speaker 3: thing which I'm not familiar with, not much, it would.
Speaker 3: It would have to be something like that.
Speaker 1: What's something you miss about the mattress actress industry?
Speaker 3: Absolutely nothing, Absolutely nothing. I do not miss it. I
Speaker 3: love Tulsa, I love living here, and I like what
Speaker 3: I'm doing a lot more. I like to work for
Speaker 3: myself and not several different agencies.
Speaker 1: Uh, this question is going to be a little weird,
Speaker 1: especially after the topic we just had. But it says
Speaker 1: you got stabbed by a leprechaun. I'm is that like
Speaker 1: a violent act? What happened?
Speaker 3: Oh? Okay? I don't know if anybody is familiar with
Speaker 3: this bar, but I work at a bar called Tong Pump.
Speaker 3: It's a really cool bar. There was this man in
Speaker 3: a wheelchair that was outside and he was a very
Speaker 3: angry man. He came in a couple of weeks before
Speaker 3: Saint Patrick's Day and demanded to come in. A lot
Speaker 3: of the patrons let me know that he was banned
Speaker 3: from there, so I just let him know, Hey, you're
Speaker 3: not supposed to be here. You know that he was
Speaker 3: super angry in the bar scene. There are people men
Speaker 3: in general that will see like an issue and try
Speaker 3: to come save you. So that happened, and we had
Speaker 3: akj that went outside and tried to get him to
Speaker 3: go away, and he ended up cutting the caj Then
Speaker 3: he came back on Saint Patrick's Day dressed as a
Speaker 3: leprechaun with a rainbow beard and all in his wheelchair
Speaker 3: and demanded to talk to the bartender. So I peached
Speaker 3: my head out, knowing that he was dangerous. So this
Speaker 3: man can walk perfectly fine, I pied, I know because
Speaker 3: he had fallen out of his wheelchair somehow allegedly, and
Speaker 3: he got up and walked away. So I don't know
Speaker 3: what that was about. But he did come back on
Speaker 3: the Saint Patrick's day. I peached my head out. He
Speaker 3: pulls out this gigantic knife, it was as big as
Speaker 3: my forearm, and said that he was going to cut
Speaker 3: my head off. So I stared at him for way
Speaker 3: too long after that, and shut and locked the door
Speaker 3: and called the police. And they came and let me
Speaker 3: know that they had so many problems with this person,
Speaker 3: but nobody ever wanted to press charges because he was
Speaker 3: in a wheelchair, even though he did not need it.
Speaker 3: But I think that was his way to get out
Speaker 3: of names. I'm not sure he ended up going to
Speaker 3: jail that night. They impounded his wheelchair. They put it
Speaker 3: on his story rerecord and everything which changed in all.
Speaker 3: And then the DA called and said, please show up
Speaker 3: for court. This is like a super nasty, mean man
Speaker 3: that never none of the hard to ever stick because
Speaker 3: people are feel bad for him, so if you would
Speaker 3: please just show up to court. And I did, and
Speaker 3: then they I guess they offered him two years. He
Speaker 3: had some previous previous tickets or convictions that he had
Speaker 3: to get taken care of too, So I wish him well.
Speaker 3: I hope he does better in two years.
Speaker 1: Good disclaimer. Would you be okay with him being a subscriber?
Speaker 3: Yeah, of course I would.
Speaker 1: Here's a question because we did a story about this
Speaker 1: a while back, and it was about a dad who
Speaker 1: subscribed to his daughter's only Fans and the argument was that,
Speaker 1: oh well, hear me out. The argument is that you'll
Speaker 1: be in supportive if your kid was playing soccer, you'd
Speaker 1: go to all the soccer games. Now, just because you're
Speaker 1: a subscriber in pay doesn't mean you're necessarily seeing the content.
Speaker 1: So would you be okay with your brothers doing that?
Speaker 3: No? I wouldn't. I would not be okay with that,
Speaker 3: and they wouldn't either.
Speaker 1: So what does support look like then from family when
Speaker 1: somebody is doing something like an onlyfan.
Speaker 3: I don't think it's really needed from family to support
Speaker 3: you doing that. But if anybody says anything, just basically
Speaker 3: don't be mean and be like, hell, yeah, good for her.
Speaker 1: We had more stuff to talk to you about, but
Speaker 1: we ran out of time. Thank you so much, for
Speaker 1: chatting with us. You guys can look up her only
Speaker 1: fans just look mea noora on only fans m I
Speaker 1: a n o r a And thank you so much
Speaker 1: for chatting with us.
Speaker 3: You're welcome.
Speaker 1: Have a great day. We'll see you later.
Speaker 3: Bye.
Speaker 8: If you're listening to The Big Man Morning Show, there
Speaker 8: is this person who got a piercing at a tattoo place,
Speaker 8: and then the piercer made a TikTok and posted the
Speaker 8: TikTok of this happening.
Speaker 1: But the person that got the piercing doesn't want it
Speaker 1: up and once it taken down, oh he And their
Speaker 1: argument is that they are the part, they are the content,
Speaker 1: and they weren't asked permission to do that. And the
Speaker 1: person that's the piercer says, hey, this is more like
Speaker 1: I'm just showing people how the process is, not trying
Speaker 1: to cause a problem. And where this happened in Florida,
Speaker 1: it says recording someone requires their knowledge and consent, and
Speaker 1: probably what happened was when you sign your consent to
Speaker 1: get the tattoo or the piercing or whatever, you probably
Speaker 1: give permission for that type of thing. And so she
Speaker 1: probably already said it was all good. But another problem,
Speaker 1: and this seems to be thing that's happening more and more,
Speaker 1: is people are wearing those glasses, like those metaglasses, and
Speaker 1: you're out in public and they're filming you.
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, yeah, you don't know it because they don't
Speaker 6: have like a red light on the glasses.
Speaker 1: Do that let you know? No, I'm not sure. I
Speaker 1: don't know anybody that owns I don't. I don't think
Speaker 1: I know anybody that owns one. I gotta be honest.
Speaker 1: I don't look at people's glasses to see if they
Speaker 1: own a pair.
Speaker 6: I think they're kind of neat, but I don't want
Speaker 6: to spend the money on them.
Speaker 1: I like the idea of, you know, being able to
Speaker 1: see like a text message when I get a text
Speaker 1: in like all my glasses. I like the idea of that,
Speaker 1: or a notification like take your meds right.
Speaker 6: I like the POV camera recording, like from what you see,
Speaker 6: you know, instead of holding your phone up right, Lauren
Speaker 6: gets tired after a while.
Speaker 1: No, that's true. I just don't want to be taking
Speaker 1: a bunch of film. I don't not dumb. That sounded old.
Speaker 1: I don't want to just constantly be recording. Huh is
Speaker 1: it constantly record?
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 1: Again, I don't. I think you just got to say
Speaker 1: tell it to do it? Oh right, like be like meta,
Speaker 1: glass is record whatever? I think it's hay meta, But yeah,
Speaker 1: but I don't if there's a red light, I don't
Speaker 1: know if it's constantly record, I just don't because then
Speaker 1: it's going to be like how far are we then
Speaker 1: from police knowing who has these and going, hey, you
Speaker 1: are at this place, we want to see your film
Speaker 1: we think you documented a crime.
Speaker 7: Or how how is it not video voyeurism? Say more, well,
Speaker 7: like if you're in a classroom or at the beach.
Speaker 1: Or you know what I mean, Like you mean public?
Speaker 7: Yeah, well, but around like videoing children.
Speaker 1: Okay, So.
Speaker 6: Apparently it's a white light when it's recording. It's not
Speaker 6: a red light, and it says it's turned solid when
Speaker 6: it's recording video and flashes for photos. But there is
Speaker 6: an LED indicator on the front right temple and is
Speaker 6: designed to be visible by others.
Speaker 1: So people on the side right, well, I.
Speaker 6: Mean if you think of the glasses or whatever, like
Speaker 6: that's just the area. But regardless, there is a light
Speaker 6: that lets you know, hey, you're being recorded if you
Speaker 6: know what you're looking for. If you don't know what
Speaker 6: I just told you, then you would just be like,
Speaker 6: that's a little weird.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I kind of have issue with people recording me
Speaker 1: when I don't want to be. Yeah, but also if
Speaker 1: I'm in public, that's you know, that's the chance you take, right.
Speaker 6: Right, And like what Lindsay is saying, I mean, how
Speaker 6: they you know, they're not like, you know, using it
Speaker 6: for kids or whatever. You don't know, you don't know
Speaker 6: what they're doing with their phone right now, which is
Speaker 6: what their phone like.
Speaker 1: You already don't care, but at least I know you're
Speaker 1: doing it, like I know that, And to me, the
Speaker 1: work thing, I would think this person, I would think
Speaker 1: this person would see the phone setting up. But if
Speaker 1: the video was like a mounted camera you thought with
Speaker 1: security and they were recording it unbeknownst to you, you
Speaker 1: still signed her that part. I'm not kind of I'm
Speaker 1: not cool with.
Speaker 7: You could be using a urinal public urinal and someone
Speaker 7: could be recording you.
Speaker 1: Well, there's no cameras in what your meta glasses meta glasses.
Speaker 1: This is what I mean. I'm sure, I'm sure that's happening.
Speaker 1: People could do that again. We're back to people are
Speaker 1: doing that with your You don't question someone recording with
Speaker 1: their phone. Yeah, Corter, let me ask you something.
Speaker 6: When when you're in the bathroom at the urinal right,
Speaker 6: and there's other dudes around, how often do you look
Speaker 6: around at the guy's slung next to you.
Speaker 1: I'm not you man ice forwards exactly.
Speaker 6: You stir at that one spot on the wall, the
Speaker 6: no dong zone, you know, and you just all right
Speaker 6: and we're done. Zip, no eye contact, no nothing, go
Speaker 6: wash your hands and walk away.
Speaker 1: But let's change it up. Let's say you do your
Speaker 1: you know, your thing, come out of the stall or
Speaker 1: peer your eyes away from the no dong zone, and
Speaker 1: there's somebody at the sink recording you, right. I mean, yeah,
Speaker 1: well what can you do at that point? But I
Speaker 1: mean it's a bathroom. I feel like that's a massive
Speaker 1: line crossed moral line. Maybe I don't know if it's
Speaker 1: a legal line should be. I mean, you're not seeing
Speaker 1: it unless you're walking around with your pants down in
Speaker 1: the bathroom like a five year old. You're Timmy from
Speaker 1: Southdale Elementary playing the guitar. Hey, I'm not gonna do
Speaker 1: the voice but hey, look, Corbyn, I can play the guitar, Timmy,
Speaker 1: pull your pants up, bro? You think I'm making that up?
Speaker 1: Did he ride one of the shorter buses and elementary school?
Speaker 1: We're all on the short bus dude, right, But he
Speaker 1: also was in the special egg glass. Okay, he's just
Speaker 1: trying to have fun with those new friends. I can
Speaker 1: imagine to be very frustrating though, to have a business record,
Speaker 1: you put it online, they're capitalizing on the social content
Speaker 1: of it, and you get no compensation. It's kind of
Speaker 1: like when you know I've done this, when people are saying, hey,
Speaker 1: can I put a sign in your front yard, I'm like, yeah,
Speaker 1: if you want to knock ten percent off my price, right,
Speaker 1: because I'm you're advertising. You don't get advertising for free
Speaker 1: right Right. Most time they're like no, I'm like, that's
Speaker 1: a thought. So unless you're like, hey, I'll give you
Speaker 1: a discount and do the tech, but I want to
Speaker 1: use it on social media, that's a whole other thing. Right.
Speaker 1: But just to hand over your rights, which we seem
Speaker 1: to be doing more and more often. You've heard me
Speaker 1: say it freedom question mark. You just sign it over
Speaker 1: with no if sands or butts, right, says Texas. There
Speaker 1: are stories that people are even deleting the light on
Speaker 1: the glasses so others don't know what's recording. I can
Speaker 1: imagine it's like we have Nest cams and I can
Speaker 1: turn the light the led off or on. Right, My
Speaker 1: exterior camera is the same way. I don't know if
Speaker 1: they're on or recording. If you see someone wearing ray bands,
Speaker 1: look at the corners of the glasses. You can find
Speaker 1: the camera lens if they have the meta glasses. I
Speaker 1: just assume someone with the ray bands is wearing metaglasses
Speaker 1: now that I mean, the ray bands look the best. Yeah,
Speaker 1: But I gotta be honest. I don't look around at
Speaker 1: people's sunglasses and try to figure out what brand they're wearing.
Speaker 1: No more, I don't. I just don't spend that time
Speaker 1: looking at people's faces.
Speaker 6: You got a problem coming off four hundred dollars for
Speaker 6: a pair of sunglasses?
Speaker 7: No kidding?
Speaker 1: Why did you add sunglasses? Well, I mean that's what
Speaker 1: they are essentially. No, you have a problem coming off
Speaker 1: four hundred dollars. Yeah, that's a true statement. Eh.
Speaker 6: I'll spend four hundred dollars on a tire without a problem,
Speaker 6: you know, maybe after a couple of weeks, you'll ride
Speaker 6: that bitch until it's raining. Oh, look at that, you
Speaker 6: can see the threads. I think it's time to swap
Speaker 6: it out.
Speaker 1: And last time you spent four hundred dollars on something, gimpie,
Speaker 1: Oh it was back tire on the Harley and that
Speaker 1: long is two months ago, lindsay. The last time he
Speaker 1: spent four hundred dollars on something.
Speaker 7: Home appraisal.
Speaker 1: Costco just last week. Yeah, grocery store right right, right,
Speaker 1: I dropped four bills and don't think twice. Yeah, that happen.
Speaker 1: But I'm gonna have that palette of toilet paper for.
Speaker 6: By God goode, for a man who doesn't need it. Well,
Speaker 6: you got to clean the water off, of.
Speaker 1: Course, right.
Speaker 6: And guests for people that don't want to, don't give
Speaker 6: them access.
Speaker 1: Right, they don't get access to a bidet. You could
Speaker 1: just be gross.
Speaker 6: The guests bathroom doesn't come with a power washer.
Speaker 3: Right.
Speaker 1: I was at the Faar and Okac walked into the
Speaker 1: bathroom and there was a line of men waiting for
Speaker 1: an open spot at the trough. That seems normal. I
Speaker 1: look over and there's a seventy five year old man
Speaker 1: with his pants around his ankles. A lot of us
Speaker 1: lost it laughing, and we walked out out laughed for
Speaker 1: an hour, just laughed at that old man. Huh, A
Speaker 1: bunch of dicks. I mean, what a bunch of rude people.
Speaker 1: There you go. I felt better just oh oh, I
Speaker 1: mean the laughing an old person like that feels crazy.
Speaker 1: Are you gonna go pull his pants up for him?
Speaker 5: Though?
Speaker 1: And be like, hey, hold on of these you can't
Speaker 1: do that. You're asking an excellent question. You see an
Speaker 1: old man struggling in the bathroom with his pants at
Speaker 1: the urinal? What do you do? His dimple a ass
Speaker 1: right there? What do you do?
Speaker 6: Tasty turn around and walk out? Wait till he does.
Speaker 6: I can hold it a little bit longer. I don't
Speaker 6: need any of that in my life.
Speaker 1: I'm with you. I'm probably like, yeh uh, Lindsay you
Speaker 1: go into the bathroom, there's an old lady struggling with
Speaker 1: her pants.
Speaker 7: I ask her if she needs help.
Speaker 1: You're gonna help her? Yeah, that's the difference.
Speaker 7: I am sure that my grandma I would want someone
Speaker 7: to help her.
Speaker 1: Of course you would. But also i've heard you not
Speaker 1: you step over people for other things, So I don't
Speaker 1: know why. The theory of I would want someone to
Speaker 1: help that person in my life too only applies to Grandma's.
Speaker 7: I mean, depending on my mood, it could be anyone
Speaker 7: I would help, but yeah, I And also, I mean
Speaker 7: you got to move it along so people get, you know,
Speaker 7: very irritated when they have to go and there's you know,
Speaker 7: only a few stalls and this woman is taking up space.
Speaker 7: So I'm gonna try to help move along the situation
Speaker 7: and help her.
Speaker 1: I don't hate your thought process. Here's the problem with it, though,
Speaker 1: is that you're not going to be next in line
Speaker 1: because you're gonna help pull pants up or whatever, right,
Speaker 1: button them, zip them, I don't know. And then while
Speaker 1: you're just gonna push them along, no, you're gonna help them,
Speaker 1: maybe wash their hands, help them with them, escort them
Speaker 1: to the exit. While you're doing that, you've lost to
Speaker 1: your place in line.
Speaker 6: Right now, you gotta wait even longer if the urge
Speaker 6: is still there.
Speaker 7: Right, You do lose the urge a lot of time.
Speaker 1: I'm definitely not in the urge to go to the
Speaker 1: bathroom anyway. If I have to go that bad, uh,
Speaker 1: I'm not helping. No, I'll let Lindsay, Help Lindsay or whoever.
Speaker 1: And also if we're in a place where there's a line,
Speaker 1: there's a good chance there's another bathroom. I'll go find it.
Speaker 1: And one of the luxuries about being a man too,
Speaker 1: by the way, right, find a tree, I will can't
Speaker 1: s right, yeah, I find a corner in a gatorade bottle.
Speaker 1: It'll be fine, all right, we gotta take a break.
Speaker 1: We'll be back.
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Speaker 6: Good morning, Gimpie Well, Good morning, Corbin, so I said earlier.
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Speaker 6: it's a day game, and take the kids because the
Speaker 6: first five hundred kids are gonna get an umbrella hat.
Speaker 1: How awesome is that?
Speaker 7: Those are great?
Speaker 1: Join us right now is Jeff Hensley of Hensley Associates. Hello, Jeff,
Speaker 1: how are you? Hello? Jeff? How are you? I should work. Jeff,
Speaker 1: your microphone is muted just so you're aware. Uh, if
Speaker 1: you have a question for Jeff, you always Okay, there
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Speaker 1: If you can, you can send a message, BM, a
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Speaker 1: or call eight three three four six. Oh KMOD Now, Jeff.
Speaker 1: We got a text this morning from someone who said
Speaker 1: they found out their husband had been spending hundreds of
Speaker 1: dollars on a stripper and that they'd also been texting
Speaker 1: that person. Does that change the situation in a divorce,
Speaker 1: for example, in the financial discoveries that that money was
Speaker 1: wasted or is that money mutt pretty much gone from
Speaker 1: the spouse's standpoint.
Speaker 4: Well, I mean it depends on the amount.
Speaker 5: I mean, if you're talking just a couple of hundred bucks,
Speaker 5: it's basically gone.
Speaker 4: But if you're.
Speaker 5: Talking ten hundreds of thousands wasted on.
Speaker 4: Strippers, hookers, files.
Speaker 5: For asking for marital waste basically saying that one of
Speaker 5: the parties wasted the income and the joint efforts of
Speaker 5: the parties and.
Speaker 4: Filed for that.
Speaker 5: Now, you don't see it very often I've only had
Speaker 5: it in one or two cases in twenty years. But
Speaker 5: that is something that you can definitely, you know, make
Speaker 5: a claim for. And that's an important thing to figure
Speaker 5: out exactly how much was lost. So you know, again,
Speaker 5: if it's just a couple hundred bucks, that's very different
Speaker 5: from a financial standpoint than several, you know, tens of
Speaker 5: thousands of dollars. So and as far as you know
Speaker 5: him texting her and those kind of things, you know,
Speaker 5: it's not going to get her a leg up for
Speaker 5: alimony or anything like that.
Speaker 4: It's just as far as those kind of cheating things
Speaker 4: are concerned.
Speaker 1: Jeff Finsley's on with us Hensley and associates. You can
Speaker 1: always send us a message BMMS and whatever your question
Speaker 1: is to eight two nine four five. You can email
Speaker 1: show at kmod dot com. This one says, can you
Speaker 1: get back child support if the dad has been making
Speaker 1: double the income reported in the original orders? No?
Speaker 5: And here's the reason why is because whenever, whenever an
Speaker 5: income changes doesn't matter if it's for the mom or
Speaker 5: for the dad, that's when you're supposed to make it modify,
Speaker 5: to change it to those new incomes. If you go
Speaker 5: forever and you finally find out that they've been making
Speaker 5: more income, but they, you know, have been doing it
Speaker 5: the last five years and you're just now modifying it.
Speaker 5: You don't get to go back and say, well, they
Speaker 5: should have, you know, modified this five years ago. Unfortunately,
Speaker 5: that's not how it works to lock in your your
Speaker 5: filing date. You've got to do it right away the
Speaker 5: second you find out that they're you know, that their
Speaker 5: income has changed. So the answer is no, you don't
Speaker 5: get to go back after the fact and try and
Speaker 5: get them for back support just because their income changed
Speaker 5: earlier and you're just now finding out about it.
Speaker 1: Jeff Finsley's on with us Hensley and Associates. Anytime you
Speaker 1: got a question about this, you should send us one
Speaker 1: right now. Show at kmod dot com is the email addresser.
Speaker 1: You can text, BM a mess and whatever you'd like
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Speaker 1: Heinsley answering all your family law questions. It says we
Speaker 1: never got married, but bought furniture and stuff together. Who
Speaker 1: keeps what.
Speaker 4: That's between you?
Speaker 1: Guys?
Speaker 5: I mean, if you're not married, and you're not common
Speaker 5: law married, and you bought stuff together and you guys
Speaker 5: break up. That's when you've got to get into this
Speaker 5: issue of well, who's going to take what? And you know,
Speaker 5: if you want to make an argument that she's taking
Speaker 5: something that she shouldn't, then potentially you'd fight it out
Speaker 5: in small claims court. But you know is this is
Speaker 5: one of the vagaries of being with somebody buying something together. Now,
Speaker 5: if you bought a house, it's different because if you
Speaker 5: bought a house together, you're both on the mortgage, you're
Speaker 5: both on the deed, that kind of thing. Then you've
Speaker 5: got a joint tenant situation and you've got certific laws
Speaker 5: behind you that can help take care of those issues.
Speaker 5: But they're talking about, well, we bought two TVs and
Speaker 5: we bought a couch and a love seed and those
Speaker 5: kind of things. Unfortunately, that's where you guys just have
Speaker 5: to figure out who's going to take what, and if
Speaker 5: you can't, then we can go battle it out in
Speaker 5: court and see exactly how the court's going to divide
Speaker 5: it up. But you know, again, if it's if you're
Speaker 5: not married and you're not common law married, then that's
Speaker 5: the kind of problem you get into when you start
Speaker 5: buying stuff together.
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Speaker 1: Can also email Show at kmod dot com. This one
Speaker 1: may be a little outside of the purview of family law,
Speaker 1: but it says, should I consult with a lawyer before
Speaker 1: trying to get my VA disability increased?
Speaker 5: You know, I think in any situation, especially when you're
Speaker 5: doing with the VA, I think it's always a good
Speaker 5: idea to consult a lawyer that you know is trained
Speaker 5: and does cases in that area of disability benefits for
Speaker 5: the VA about the pitfalls and the perils and the
Speaker 5: potential reward of those.
Speaker 4: Kind of things.
Speaker 5: So yes, I think it's absolutely a good idea to
Speaker 5: seek advice in dealing with those issues and especially hurt for.
Speaker 1: Sure, especially if it's someone who specializes in that area,
Speaker 1: right because they know the ins and outs and maybe
Speaker 1: what they've seen before can play a part in your situation.
Speaker 4: Exactly.
Speaker 1: Absolutely Jeffenzy's On with Us from Hensley Associates. You have
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Speaker 1: two nine four five. This person says, what factors do
Speaker 1: courts look at when deciding child custody or visitation?
Speaker 5: Well, okay, so the law right now in Oklahoma is
Speaker 5: that in a divorced situation, the judge has to start
Speaker 5: with joint custody in halftime.
Speaker 4: That's the law.
Speaker 5: Now, there are arguments that that applies to paternity as well.
Speaker 5: We've seen some new case law on those issues. But
Speaker 5: when you're looking at individual reasons, I mean, who's going
Speaker 5: to be the most reasonable parent, right who's going to
Speaker 5: be the person that is going to help facilitate a
Speaker 5: relationship between the parties. That's one thing they look at
Speaker 5: when you're talking about dealing with soul custody. When you're
Speaker 5: looking at joint custody, can the parties get along, Can
Speaker 5: they get along well enough to make decisions for.
Speaker 4: Their child together?
Speaker 5: Can they get along well enough to you know, provide
Speaker 5: for the child that and you know, interact with one
Speaker 5: another without causing problems and damage to the child. I mean,
Speaker 5: there's a lot of factors that get taken into account
Speaker 5: when you're looking at custody. As far as visitation is concerned,
Speaker 5: I mean, like I said, the courts have to start
Speaker 5: with fifty to fifty now and divorce cases, and they
Speaker 5: would only devolve or change that fifty to fifty based
Speaker 5: upon information or testimony provided to the court. For example,
Speaker 5: you know, in a divorce situation, you've got someone that's
Speaker 5: newly filed, the court has to start a joint custody
Speaker 5: and half time.
Speaker 4: But you can prove that one parent is a drug addict, or.
Speaker 5: Is a felon who continues to get arrested, or you know,
Speaker 5: is currently serving time in prison. I mean, there's all
Speaker 5: sorts of things that the court has to look at.
Speaker 5: And looking at those things and the main thing, remember
Speaker 5: this is the main thing about children. For judges, their
Speaker 5: job is to make sure that the child is safe
Speaker 5: and taken care of. So there's a lot of factors
Speaker 5: taken into account. And that's why you want to give
Speaker 5: us a call so we can go through your individual
Speaker 5: case to find out exactly what your facts are and
Speaker 5: how we think the court would deal with those issues.
Speaker 1: This text is kind of an interesting one because I
Speaker 1: feel like I know the answer, but this is why
Speaker 1: we have you on. Do I have to go to
Speaker 1: court or can we settle everything outside of it?
Speaker 5: Okay, So we've talked about this a bunch, and I
Speaker 5: think the famous line from Corbin is always going to
Speaker 5: be it's good until it's not.
Speaker 4: And it's one of those things that you.
Speaker 5: Can try and do that it's always better when the
Speaker 5: parties have a say so and what's going on in
Speaker 5: their case. And that's one of the reasons that many
Speaker 5: reasons that we do mediation during a case, whether it
Speaker 5: be a divorce case, paternity, child sport, you know, enforcement
Speaker 5: or modification, any particular case that is filed in family
Speaker 5: law is required to go and do mediation. That's one
Speaker 5: of the main reasons is is we want to give
Speaker 5: the parties a chance to have a say so and
Speaker 5: what goes on in their case. And so, you know,
Speaker 5: if you want to work things out, that's great, But
Speaker 5: at the same time too, you always want a court order.
Speaker 5: And you know, a lot of times we get these
Speaker 5: cases or calls. I get these calls from people who
Speaker 5: are in paternity cases where they're like, you know, we
Speaker 5: had this visitation agreement forever and I was doing week on,
Speaker 5: week off, and then she got pissed off at me
Speaker 5: and all of a sudden, cut my kid off from me.
Speaker 5: And my first question is always was there an order
Speaker 5: that was signed by the court.
Speaker 4: And if the answer is no, that's the pitfall, right.
Speaker 5: You want to have an order from the court that says, hey,
Speaker 5: this is a visitation you get and if she violates it,
Speaker 5: or if he violates it, then you have recourse with
Speaker 5: the court to try and get that fixed immediately. For example,
Speaker 5: we would file a motion ten forest visitation, which has
Speaker 5: to be heard within ten days under Oklahoma law. So
Speaker 5: you know, if you're having these problems, give us a call.
Speaker 5: We always want to get that court order in place
Speaker 5: for you.
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Speaker 1: d Jeff. This question says, uh, what are the residency
Speaker 1: requirements before filing for divorce in Oklahoma?
Speaker 5: So you have to be a resident of the state
Speaker 5: of Oklahoma for at least six months. So if you
Speaker 5: have newly moved in from another state and you want
Speaker 5: to get a divorce, you have to wait until you've
Speaker 5: been in the state at least six months.
Speaker 4: That's true for the children too.
Speaker 5: So under the UCCJEA, which is Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction
Speaker 5: Enforcement Act, it's the act that defines what the home
Speaker 5: state of the child is. All Right, you have to
Speaker 5: be in that home state for at least six months.
Speaker 5: When you're looking at individual counties. Okay, so let's say
Speaker 5: you've been in oklahom at least six months, but you've
Speaker 5: been moving from county to county for whatever reason, you
Speaker 5: have to be in a county at least thirty days
Speaker 5: before that county has jurisdiction to do anything with the divorce.
Speaker 4: So yeah, so it's six months in the state of Oklahoma,
Speaker 4: and it's true, that's pretty true. For most states it's
Speaker 4: six months as well.
Speaker 1: Jeff Finsley's on with us Hensley and Associates eight three
Speaker 1: three four six. So km OD, my wife and I
Speaker 1: are trying to figure out the divorce on our home,
Speaker 1: on our own, but we both want to keep our home.
Speaker 1: What happens if we go to court and don't Neither
Speaker 1: one of us want to give up the house.
Speaker 5: So the first thing the court's going to look at
Speaker 5: is who can afford the house. And the reason I
Speaker 5: bring that up is a lot of times you get
Speaker 5: in these situations for divorces where you've got one person
Speaker 5: that's the breadwinner, right, and so you don't want to
Speaker 5: put a person in a situation it doesn't matter if
Speaker 5: it's the wife or the husband that's the breadwinner. You
Speaker 5: don't want to put anybody in a situation where if
Speaker 5: you give them the home, they can't afford it and
Speaker 5: it goes into foreclosure and then it's sold.
Speaker 8: Right.
Speaker 4: The court doesn't want that.
Speaker 5: So a lot of times the court will like, look
Speaker 5: and see, well, first question, who can afford it? If
Speaker 5: one person can afford it and the other one can't,
Speaker 5: then that's kind of a no brainer as to who
Speaker 5: gets the house. Of course, the other person will get
Speaker 5: their equity share. So what that means is is, let's
Speaker 5: say there's one hundred thousand dollars in equity in that house.
Speaker 5: Whoever gets the house has to pay the other person
Speaker 5: half of the existing equity. So you know, it's not
Speaker 5: like the other person's going to walk away with nothing.
Speaker 4: But that's the first thing, largely is who can afford it?
Speaker 4: Number one?
Speaker 5: Number two, who has more contacts? And care about the
Speaker 5: house and the neighborhood and things like that. I had
Speaker 5: that in the case where the court looked at it
Speaker 5: and said, Okay, well, this individual has more invested in
Speaker 5: this house and what's going on as far as you know,
Speaker 5: the maintenance, upkeep, modification.
Speaker 4: They have more.
Speaker 5: Connections in the community than the than the spouses because
Speaker 5: the spouse is working all the time and never there.
Speaker 5: I mean, there's a lot of factors that go into it,
Speaker 5: but like I said, the first and foremosts is the
Speaker 5: financial side of things for sure.
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Speaker 1: This question says, my sister lives out of state, and
Speaker 1: she says it has to be something. It can't be
Speaker 1: no fault divorce. Is that true?
Speaker 4: That not in Oklahoma? I mean in Oklahoma we have.
Speaker 5: Eleven ways to get divorced, and one of them is
Speaker 5: no fault or what we call incompatibility. It's the same thing.
Speaker 5: So incompatibility is the same thing as no fault. There's
Speaker 5: no burden aproof the other ten items that are listed
Speaker 5: under ways to get divorced have a burden approof For example,
Speaker 5: one of them is extreme cruelty, so you have a
Speaker 5: burden of proof to prove that the other person is
Speaker 5: extremely cruel. One of them is infertility. You have to
Speaker 5: prove that the other person is infertile and light about
Speaker 5: it or whatever.
Speaker 4: Another one would be.
Speaker 5: Abandonment and there's specific requirements for that.
Speaker 4: Infidelity or adultery. Right, you've got to prove.
Speaker 5: Now you have a burden of proof to prove that
Speaker 5: the other person was cheating on you. I mean, so
Speaker 5: you know, ninety nine point nine percent of cases file
Speaker 5: under incompatibility because there are no requirements, no burden approofs
Speaker 5: to have to show anything.
Speaker 4: I have had cases that have done.
Speaker 5: Others, but again we do the other we do incompatibility
Speaker 5: because there's no burden of proof.
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Speaker 1: They want to know can they ask for phone calls
Speaker 1: or FaceTime when they're out of state.
Speaker 4: Absolutely, there's no reason.
Speaker 5: Doesn't matter where you live or how far away you
Speaker 5: are from the kids, you should always be able to
Speaker 5: talk to them on the phone or to FaceTime them
Speaker 5: or whatever it is.
Speaker 4: So yeah, there should always be that contact.
Speaker 5: And I would even argue that in situations where somebody
Speaker 5: lives out of state, it's even more important to have
Speaker 5: those phone calls in FaceTime simply because you're not there
Speaker 5: every day. You're not close to them, so you want
Speaker 5: to continue to try to maintain that relationship as best
Speaker 5: you can through phone calls and face time and things
Speaker 5: like that. So yeah, I mean that's something the court
Speaker 5: would absolutely one allow you to have.
Speaker 4: Absolutely.
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Speaker 1: two nine four five. And we got this one, Jeff,
Speaker 1: And we've talked about this before, and it it makes
Speaker 1: sense because I think people are sometimes intimidated at the
Speaker 1: process to even get divorced. They're like, oh, I'll see
Speaker 1: what happens, or they'll wait till Monday philosophy, and it
Speaker 1: says what should I do to prepare for filing for divorce?
Speaker 4: You know, there's a lot of things.
Speaker 5: I think the first thing is is, at least from
Speaker 5: an emotional standpoint, you need to.
Speaker 4: Girde your loins, so to speak.
Speaker 5: You've got to prepare yourself for the fact that things
Speaker 5: are about to change, and they are going to change
Speaker 5: dramatically from what you've had. You know, as far as
Speaker 5: other things is if you have you should start gaining
Speaker 5: all or gathering all the financial information. Do you have
Speaker 5: for one K stocks, bonds, mutual funds? Do you know
Speaker 5: where the titles to the cars are? Do you know
Speaker 5: where the mortgage? Excuse me, the copy of the mortgage
Speaker 5: or a copy of the deed?
Speaker 4: Are you know?
Speaker 5: You want to start gathering all the financial documents so
Speaker 5: we can know exactly what we're looking at.
Speaker 4: That way, then there's the emotional port Like I.
Speaker 5: Said, the other part is is you need to decide
Speaker 5: am I staying?
Speaker 4: Where am I going?
Speaker 5: And what I mean by that is is do I
Speaker 5: want the house or do I don't want the house.
Speaker 5: If I don't want the house, then where am I
Speaker 5: going to live? Do I have a relative that I
Speaker 5: can go and stay with? Do I have a parent
Speaker 5: or a brother or sister, aunt uncle. Do I have
Speaker 5: a friend that I can go and live with during
Speaker 5: this divorce process until it's complete. I mean, there's a
Speaker 5: lot of planning and preparing and one of the things
Speaker 5: that I am putting together for clients, and I'm actively
Speaker 5: working on it right now, is basically a checklist of
Speaker 5: all the things and a little booklet about how to
Speaker 5: get ready for divorce and what to do and things
Speaker 5: to think about, things like that. So I'll hopefully have
Speaker 5: that completed here in the next six months. I'm working diligently,
Speaker 5: but there's a lot of things to prepare. But I
Speaker 5: think the biggest thing is is you have to understand
Speaker 5: things are going to change, whether it be for good
Speaker 5: or for bad, but things will change and they will
Speaker 5: change drastically. So I think what I'm seeing, at least
Speaker 5: in my practice is is, you know, prepare yourself emotionally first,
Speaker 5: and then let's talk about the finances and all that
Speaker 5: other stuff.
Speaker 1: It can be overwhelming, it can be intimidating. That's why
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Speaker 4: To take care of.
Speaker 1: Anthony Keatis is dating somebody thirty years his younger.
Speaker 7: They're still dating.
Speaker 1: Wow, and she recently published an article defending her relationship
Speaker 1: and the takes she has is really fascinating. She says
Speaker 1: that he's got his life together and he's excited to
Speaker 1: be with me, spend time with me. Yeah, because he's
Speaker 1: sixty something, he's dis excited anybody wants to spend time
Speaker 1: with him.
Speaker 7: And she.
Speaker 1: H, he has his ust together because he's been around
Speaker 1: for sixty years. So I don't know if that's a
Speaker 1: real thing, that's a that's just he's got life. He's
Speaker 1: got money, right, Uh. She says it didn't register at first.
Speaker 1: I didn't see the age. Yes, that's something called chemistry
Speaker 1: or grooming. Okay, I'll circle around to that. She says
Speaker 1: that people either have their own fears about aging and
Speaker 1: power and desirability, or their own issues about older women
Speaker 1: younger men, or older men younger women, and said that
Speaker 1: it's not judged when it's a woman, right, which I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't agree with that. I think it is judged.
Speaker 1: Who've said the same stuff about Madonna Riot dating much
Speaker 1: younger dude Share. We've said it's not as common, right,
Speaker 1: it's not as common, but I feel like we've we've
Speaker 1: held the line uh on that one. So do you
Speaker 1: think when it.
Speaker 6: Comes to the women, right, because we can easily draw
Speaker 6: the line and say men do it because they're young,
Speaker 6: attractive women and it's all for the sex, right, you
Speaker 6: think the same thing goes for the older women, the
Speaker 6: Shares and Madonnas of the world. Or is they just
Speaker 6: trying to still hold on to some semblance of youth.
Speaker 7: Maybe both.
Speaker 1: I think women just have a better moral compass than men.
Speaker 1: That's true, and there are exceptions, of course, right, But
Speaker 1: typically a man just wants to have sex where a
Speaker 1: woman's definition of sex isn't always intercourse, right, right, right, right,
Speaker 1: there's some kind of an there's an intimacy. Yeah, this
Speaker 1: is the part for me that makes the craziest thing
Speaker 1: she said in her article is she said we're just normal.
Speaker 1: You aren't. You aren't. Let's just start with your financial status.
Speaker 1: You're not normal. He's a world wide rock star. Two.
Speaker 1: The health and aging timelines aren't the same, right, So
Speaker 1: that's not normal. Your life priorities are dramatically he's done
Speaker 1: having kids. Well, i'd like to think he's done having kids, right.
Speaker 1: The power dynamic is dramatically different. If the band needs
Speaker 1: to go on do something for a month, you don't
Speaker 1: get a vote, right, So it's not normal. It's to
Speaker 1: imply it's normal is just not accurate. But then you
Speaker 1: start looking at the age gaps of the women he's dated,
Speaker 1: and you realize this is a pattern. He has a type.
Speaker 1: So the woman he's with now he's sixty three, she's thirty.
Speaker 1: The woman before that he dated he was fifty three,
Speaker 1: fifty four, she was twenty twenty one, still thirty two
Speaker 1: to thirty three years. The woman before that he was
Speaker 1: fifty the one was in her early twenties, about a
Speaker 1: twenty five to thirty year relationship. The woman before that,
Speaker 1: who is the mother of his child, he was forty
Speaker 1: forty one, she was eighteen to nineteen. Now, she did date.
Speaker 1: He did date two other people that were a little
Speaker 1: closer to his age when he was in his mid twenties,
Speaker 1: minus one of them. He was twenty four, she was sixteen.
Speaker 1: And there's even a rep in his own memoirs he's
Speaker 1: written about sleeping with fourteen year olds when he was
Speaker 1: in his twenties, and he has never gotten in any
Speaker 1: kind of trouble for that.
Speaker 6: No, it just goes like I was talking last week, man,
Speaker 6: your fame, whatever it is, your status, we just turn
Speaker 6: a blind eye.
Speaker 1: If that was me, If that was me, I'd be
Speaker 1: locked up and under the jail.
Speaker 6: But because I'm not a rock star of a mediocre band. Now, well,
Speaker 6: I think there's.
Speaker 1: I think we can all agree it's not okay, no,
Speaker 1: but I think you can definitely make a case where
Speaker 1: in some of the instances where the child child was
Speaker 1: fourteen and he was twenty, no one may have known
Speaker 1: except them too, kay.
Speaker 6: But even then to come out and outright admit it
Speaker 6: and put it in black and white shows. He has
Speaker 6: no shame exactly, and there's still nothing that was done
Speaker 6: about that. Is there a statute of limitations on that
Speaker 6: sort of thing?
Speaker 1: Yeah, not in judgment. There's not a statute of limitations.
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe legally, but I would him saying in a
Speaker 1: book hardly makes it true, right, right, She would have
Speaker 1: to come forward with some sort of personal charges or whatever. Yes, yes,
Speaker 1: And as far as the civil suit goes, I mean
Speaker 1: there's no statute of limitations on that. But this isn't
Speaker 1: like he wants younger women at least half his age.
Speaker 1: And I think part of the problem too, is society
Speaker 1: applauds when men do this. Men together applaud and then
Speaker 1: you expect people to see the line. Right when you
Speaker 1: applaud it, and you're a twenty twenty five year old
Speaker 1: rock star, you think, no, it's good to be with younger. Also,
Speaker 1: he may not have known too, by the way, like
Speaker 1: how young those weres the fourteen and sixteen Yes, yeah,
Speaker 1: you're right if it's a one night stand, If it's
Speaker 1: more than that, and they had a relationship, which I
Speaker 1: believe he did with one of them, yeah, you're twenty four.
Speaker 1: You know someone sixteen, Oh for sure, when they're like, hey,
Speaker 1: I need to get home, right, I got school in
Speaker 1: the morning. College?
Speaker 4: Hi?
Speaker 6: Right?
Speaker 7: Maybe they were a dropout or a runaway, or maybe
Speaker 7: the parents gave consent.
Speaker 1: A shame of the damn parents for that. Yeah.
Speaker 7: Oh, but he's a rock star, he's got money. He's gonna,
Speaker 7: you know, be the problem or be the solvered all
Speaker 7: the problems.
Speaker 1: But maybe, right, I don't think you're wrong in some
Speaker 1: of those instances. But also, just because we hear someone's
Speaker 1: a parent doesn't mean they're a good parent, right, So
Speaker 1: it could be not as hey, go be with that
Speaker 1: rock star. It could be do whatever you want. I
Speaker 1: don't know who Anthony Keatis is, Go do whatever you want, right,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It's not as simple as
Speaker 1: like the parents were money grabbers. I thought they would
Speaker 1: get some cookie crumbs, right. They just terrible parents, and
Speaker 1: there's plenty of them. If they would have spanked her,
Speaker 1: maybe she would have stayed in line. Maybe so, maybe so,
Speaker 1: or they did maybe.
Speaker 7: They were big.
Speaker 1: Just saying either one could be it we've already established
Speaker 1: it doesn't that's not necessarily true, right, be with a
Speaker 1: sixteen year old is crazy to me? Yeah, like this,
Speaker 1: Like the only one I can relate to is fifty
Speaker 1: three fifty four and he was with the twenty twenty
Speaker 1: one year old. I use this reference a lot because
Speaker 1: I feel like it's how I would feel in the
Speaker 1: movie Couples Retreat and she wants to go clubbing and
Speaker 1: doing all those things, and I'm like, I'm it's eight,
Speaker 1: what do you mean go That does not sound awesome
Speaker 1: to me. I went out this afternoon. Yeah go out?
Speaker 1: You mean like lights out? All right? But to get
Speaker 1: involved with somebody that I have friends that are twenty five,
Speaker 1: twenty seven, twenty eight, twenty nine, they got kids, right,
Speaker 1: and they're like, do you want to go do something
Speaker 1: this week? I'm like, no, you can come over around three,
Speaker 1: right wee tapyo, because she'd be done by then. Blender's
Speaker 1: all fired up. I'll get the metamucial. Hey, your friend
Speaker 1: don't need that. Here's an interesting text. It's super disturbing
Speaker 1: that a woman with a fully developed brain is cool
Speaker 1: with being with a dude who is a who's a pedophile.
Speaker 1: It's interesting where you're putting the projection on that. Okay,
Speaker 1: you're blaming the woman instead of I don't think you're
Speaker 1: wrong necessarily, But what about the guy? We always say
Speaker 1: the older person should know, so let's change it to us.
Speaker 1: It's super disturbing that a man with a fully developed
Speaker 1: brain and over sixty years of life experience is cool
Speaker 1: with being somebody who's thirty years younger than them. Right,
Speaker 1: that's also a true statement.
Speaker 6: Yeah, but with his fully developed brain, he's like, look,
Speaker 6: I got one hot.
Speaker 1: He's as right and I'm old. Yes, we call those
Speaker 1: manipulators and predators. I don't think you're wrong. I'm sure
Speaker 1: he feels like she's a Look at this arm candy
Speaker 1: she makes me. That's called using somebody. That's not okay.
Speaker 1: I'd have to look it up.
Speaker 6: But do you think the other members of the Chili PEPs,
Speaker 6: their girlfriends, spouses, whatever, are half their age?
Speaker 1: Like, is it a pantha? I don't think so. I
Speaker 1: think Flee's been with his wife a super long time,
Speaker 1: maybe or his first wife. I don't remember, but I
Speaker 1: know he was he was he was married to someone
Speaker 1: for a super long time.
Speaker 7: Right, same with I think Chad too. Smith.
Speaker 1: Nope, I was wrong. Flee was married for two years
Speaker 1: and then he just married somebody else.
Speaker 6: The Chad Smith is married to a Nancy Mac But
Speaker 6: it's not telling us her age or anything. But I
Speaker 6: can tell you this by looking at the pictures of
Speaker 6: them together, that she is closer to his age than
Speaker 6: Anthony's girlfriend is.
Speaker 1: So Chad Smith was married from nineteen ninety two to
Speaker 1: ninety seven. He had a daughter with somebody, and then
Speaker 1: he got married to this other person in two thousand
Speaker 1: and four. And he also has two other children through
Speaker 1: other relationships. Brother's busy, Yeah, and he's been charged with
Speaker 1: sexual assault or accused, I should say Flee and him
Speaker 1: and Flee were accused of sexually assaulting a twenty year
Speaker 1: old woman as she was dancing during a concert in
Speaker 1: nineteen ninety. According to the police, Flee picked up the woman,
Speaker 1: swung her over his shoulder. She was thrown onto the sand.
Speaker 1: Flee and him spanked her and attempted to remove her
Speaker 1: swimsuit bottoms, and then Flee knelt on her legs yelling
Speaker 1: at her to perform a sexual act. The two men
Speaker 1: were ordered to apologize, say you're sorry, no mean it,
Speaker 1: pay a fine, and donate to a rape crisis center.
Speaker 6: Wow wow again just turning a blind eye. Like it's
Speaker 6: all good, just say you're sorry, cut a check everything.
Speaker 1: And there were nobody's at that time. M uh. He
Speaker 1: wrote an apology letter. He said, I clearly got carried
Speaker 1: away in the theatrics of the moment, and I now
Speaker 1: realize how inappropriate and wrong my actions were. Let me
Speaker 1: change who it was by you tell me if it
Speaker 1: it feels different. In a suicide note, Epstein said, I
Speaker 1: clearly got carried away in the theatrics of the moment,
Speaker 1: and I now realize how inappropriate and wrong my actions were.
Speaker 1: Don't know it feels empty because you know that's not true.
Speaker 7: Hearing that story about him makes me believe that he
Speaker 7: is like the type of person, the same type of
Speaker 7: person that he portrayed in the movie Point Break. Anthony Ketis.
Speaker 1: Like just this and Anthony keats he was just a beach.
Speaker 7: Guy, an asshole beach guy.
Speaker 1: But just a two minute interaction with somebody on a beach.
Speaker 7: That's all. It takes some time, all.
Speaker 1: Right, we gotta take a break. We'll be back.
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