1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,480 Speaker 1: I'm always asking questions, and the reason why is because 2 00:00:02,480 --> 00:00:04,679 the fund begins for me when you start researching for 3 00:00:04,759 --> 00:00:08,400 answers such as they aren't just dreams. They come with 4 00:00:08,439 --> 00:00:12,439 other names. Well what are they? Plus? Why do people 5 00:00:12,599 --> 00:00:15,400 argue with their computers? My name is Haerro. I'm a 6 00:00:15,480 --> 00:00:18,280 daily writer, a silent wolf. That means I stand on 7 00:00:18,320 --> 00:00:21,960 the sidelines and do nothing but watch, listen, study, then activate. 8 00:00:22,679 --> 00:00:25,320 I call it the daily mess, a chronological walk through 9 00:00:25,359 --> 00:00:28,160 an everyday world. Yep, it's my morning pages. As a 10 00:00:28,199 --> 00:00:30,839 receiver of thoughts and ideas, we as people tend to 11 00:00:30,879 --> 00:00:33,960 throw things to the side because we think we're going 12 00:00:34,039 --> 00:00:36,640 to deal with it later. Well, when a subject arrives 13 00:00:36,640 --> 00:00:38,719 inside of me, I know it's time to dig in. 14 00:00:38,960 --> 00:00:42,159 It's still keeping that daily journal, but by doing the research, 15 00:00:42,399 --> 00:00:47,479 the picture becomes clearer. This is the daily mess. People 16 00:00:47,520 --> 00:00:51,719 call them dreams. I happen to call them visions. What 17 00:00:51,880 --> 00:00:54,679 are the moving pictures that we see while we're sleeping? 18 00:00:55,600 --> 00:00:58,880 Sleep Researchers don't disagree with me. They say it is 19 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:02,039 a dream, is a vision. It's also an illusion and 20 00:01:02,159 --> 00:01:05,480 even a fantasy. They provide a long list of how 21 00:01:05,519 --> 00:01:07,760 we can look deeper into what the majority of us 22 00:01:07,799 --> 00:01:11,400 are experiencing each and every night. Reverie lost in thought. 23 00:01:12,359 --> 00:01:15,200 How about this one having a figment of the imagination. 24 00:01:15,519 --> 00:01:17,920 It's seen as being very real, although it's not real. 25 00:01:18,359 --> 00:01:21,959 It's been created by your mind. Experts say, we have 26 00:01:22,079 --> 00:01:27,280 pipe dreams, unrealistic and impractical hope or inspiration, and yes, 27 00:01:27,799 --> 00:01:32,159 delusion also fits into a dream experts book false belief 28 00:01:32,400 --> 00:01:37,840 and hope. Here's something ideation, the process of forming an 29 00:01:37,920 --> 00:01:41,560 idea or concept. And then there's the infamous dream within 30 00:01:41,599 --> 00:01:44,159 a dream, which I've written about so many times in 31 00:01:44,200 --> 00:01:46,560 my daily writing, because it's very hard to get out 32 00:01:46,560 --> 00:01:48,719 of a dream when you're dreaming about being in a dream. 33 00:01:49,280 --> 00:01:53,439 Its physical name is a nested dream. Dreams you have 34 00:01:53,760 --> 00:01:57,920 about being inside a dream, so many moving pictures, and 35 00:01:57,959 --> 00:02:02,000 then we wake up hoping a different dream takes over. Yeah, 36 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:06,280 it's called reality, and it is connected to success or failure. 37 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:10,400 Remember winning is always a choice. Hey, coming up next, 38 00:02:10,719 --> 00:02:15,680 why do people argue with their computers? Hey, thanks for 39 00:02:15,719 --> 00:02:18,400 coming back to the Daily Mess. Why do people argue 40 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:21,919 with their computers? I'm very guilty of it. In fact, 41 00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:25,560 I'm shocked that late night TV doesn't feature commercials promoting 42 00:02:25,599 --> 00:02:29,000 mental health experts that can help you rebuild your relationship 43 00:02:29,400 --> 00:02:33,560 with the computer. Due to frustration, the sense of wanting 44 00:02:33,599 --> 00:02:37,479 to have control is the situation. It's obvious that there's 45 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:42,080 a serious misunderstanding. This doesn't just include the computer. Added 46 00:02:42,120 --> 00:02:46,120 to this argument table include websites and how about those 47 00:02:46,159 --> 00:02:50,039 downloads that don't open? Oh and the mouse. It's got 48 00:02:50,039 --> 00:02:51,840 a mind of its own. It goes in every direction 49 00:02:51,919 --> 00:02:54,840 but where it should be. Your argument with a computer 50 00:02:54,960 --> 00:02:57,240 comes out in other areas of your life and can 51 00:02:57,360 --> 00:02:59,680 usually be seen in strong debates with other people in 52 00:02:59,719 --> 00:03:02,960 the office or at home. We see our argument with 53 00:03:03,039 --> 00:03:07,199 computers as being a problem solver. Ooh, go ahead and 54 00:03:07,240 --> 00:03:09,240 roll your eyes, because I did when I found that 55 00:03:09,280 --> 00:03:13,479 in the research a problem solver. No, getting upset with 56 00:03:13,520 --> 00:03:18,599 your computer is an energy robber. Walk away while you're rebooting, 57 00:03:18,800 --> 00:03:21,039 and for now, just tell yourself, I guess it just 58 00:03:21,199 --> 00:03:24,599 wasn't meant to be. I'm marril, and that's the daily mess.