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<v Speaker 7>Good Evening, a memoir of hope, healing and survival, sure

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<v Speaker 7>Stolen Life and Elizabeth Smarts My Story. On August twenty eighth,

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<v Speaker 7>nineteen ninety seven, just as she was starting her junior

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<v Speaker 7>year at the University of Kentucky, Holly Dunn and her

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<v Speaker 7>boyfriend Chris Meyer, were walking along railroad tracks on their

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<v Speaker 7>way home from a party when they were attacked by

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<v Speaker 7>a notorious serial killer, Angel Matcherino Resendez, aka the Railroad Killer.

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<v Speaker 7>After a boyfriend is beaten to death in front of her,

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<v Speaker 7>Holly is stabbed, raped, and left for dead. In this

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<v Speaker 7>memoir of survival and healing from a horrific true crime,

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<v Speaker 7>Holly recounts how she lived through the vicious assault, helped

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<v Speaker 7>bring her sale into justice, and ultimately found meaning and

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<v Speaker 7>purpose through service to victims of sexual assault and other

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<v Speaker 7>violent crimes. She has worked as a motivational speaker, an activist,

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<v Speaker 7>and founded Holly's House, a safe and nurturing space in

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<v Speaker 7>her hometown of Evansville, Indiana. The book of her feature

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<v Speaker 7>in this Evening is Sole Survivor, The inspiring true story

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<v Speaker 7>of coming face to face with the infamous Railroad Killer.

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<v Speaker 7>With my special guest, author, speaker and founder of Holly's House,

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<v Speaker 7>Holly Dunn, Welcome to the program and thank you very

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<v Speaker 7>much for agreeing to this interview, Holly done.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you so much for having me.

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<v Speaker 7>Thank you very much. Incredible story, and thank you very

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<v Speaker 7>much for agreeing to this interview. This is very very personal,

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<v Speaker 7>I know. And the only thing is I know that

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<v Speaker 7>you've probably told this more than most victims of every

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<v Speaker 7>to older story. Tell me probably difference. Let's get right

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<v Speaker 7>into this. Tell us a little bit about your growing up.

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<v Speaker 7>You talk about your father being a successful businessman and

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<v Speaker 7>you admired him. Tell us a little bit about your

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<v Speaker 7>early life before we talk about how you happened to

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<v Speaker 7>meet Chris Mayor.

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<v Speaker 3>Sure, my early life was amazing. I had a wonderful childhood.

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<v Speaker 3>I had two great, loving parents. I had a sister

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<v Speaker 3>that I grew up with, and you know, we we

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<v Speaker 3>lived a great life. We went to school, we went

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<v Speaker 3>on vacations, we you know, I mean I had a

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<v Speaker 3>perfect childhood. If you could have had a perfect childhood,

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<v Speaker 3>I think I had it.

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<v Speaker 7>Right. And you say, your dad was he owned a

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<v Speaker 7>bunch of hotels, and so you were he was. You

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<v Speaker 7>were trying to follow in his footsteps, and you were

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<v Speaker 7>trying to do studies in an accounting tell us a

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<v Speaker 7>little bit about your school work and where you and

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<v Speaker 7>a little bit about your father's business and your aspirations

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<v Speaker 7>as well.

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<v Speaker 3>Sure. Sure, So I had always planned to go into

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<v Speaker 3>business with my father, well you know, later in life.

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<v Speaker 3>That's kind of that kind of was my plan. I

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<v Speaker 3>studied accounting then finance at the University of Kentucky, and

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<v Speaker 3>you know that that was my plan. I was going

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<v Speaker 3>to go into business with him, maybe someday take over

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<v Speaker 3>the business. That was kind of my thought. I I

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<v Speaker 3>had no you know, I never thought I would get married.

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<v Speaker 3>I never thought I would have kids. I kind of

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<v Speaker 3>that was my plan. I just always had career goals,

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<v Speaker 3>and so I was just going to you know, get

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<v Speaker 3>my degree and then go and work for my father.

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<v Speaker 3>So and his businesses were we franchise hotels. So it's

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<v Speaker 3>called Dunn Hospitality Group, and we actually you know, own,

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<v Speaker 3>own and manage and build hotels kind of in in

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<v Speaker 3>Indiana and Kentucky and in a in a probably a

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<v Speaker 3>five hundred mile radius from Evansville. But you know, it's

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<v Speaker 3>and so it's been a successful business. And I think

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<v Speaker 3>what I always saw in my father that I wanted

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<v Speaker 3>to emulate was that he was able to be in

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<v Speaker 3>our lives. Like he came to all my basketball games,

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<v Speaker 3>he came to, you know, when I had things at school,

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<v Speaker 3>he came to dinner every night. You know, I liked

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<v Speaker 3>that he was so much a part of our family.

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<v Speaker 3>But he was a successful businessman. So I think that's

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<v Speaker 3>really what I wanted to emulate, is I wanted to be,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, if I did end up having a family,

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<v Speaker 3>I wanted to have a great career, but then also

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<v Speaker 3>be able to have, you know, time with my family.

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<v Speaker 7>You also grew up in a not a strict Catholic family,

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<v Speaker 7>but a serious Catholic family. Tell us a little bit

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<v Speaker 7>about the faith that you grew up in.

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<v Speaker 3>Sure, Well, my mom was Catholic, and so we grew

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<v Speaker 3>I grew up Catholic. I went to Catholic school. My

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<v Speaker 3>dad was actually General Baptist, though, and so my dad

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<v Speaker 3>would go to his church, and my mom and dad

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<v Speaker 3>both go to each other's churches. So my dad would

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<v Speaker 3>go to church with my mom and with us, and

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<v Speaker 3>then they would we would also go to my dad's church.

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<v Speaker 3>So we were going to sometimes a lot of times,

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<v Speaker 3>to church ceremonies every weekend. And you know that it

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<v Speaker 3>made me probably very well rounded in my Christianity. I

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<v Speaker 3>think I learned a lot about the Baptist faith as

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<v Speaker 3>well as a lot about the Catholic faith. But I

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<v Speaker 3>was baptized Catholic and raised Catholic.

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<v Speaker 7>Now let's get to where you are in ninety seven.

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<v Speaker 7>You talk about that you would rented an apartment with

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<v Speaker 7>a couple of your friends off campus, a second floor

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<v Speaker 7>of a house, and you were going to university, the

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<v Speaker 7>University of Kentucky at Lexington. So this is June ninety seven.

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<v Speaker 7>So tell us the circumstances where you were in your

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<v Speaker 7>life at that time. We just talked about how things

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<v Speaker 7>were great up to this point anyway, and in continue

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<v Speaker 7>with that. In June ninety seven in at Kentucky and

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<v Speaker 7>you meet a University of Kentucky, you meet Chris Mayor.

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<v Speaker 7>Tell us a little bit about Chris and how you

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<v Speaker 3>Sure, So I was going to summer school at the

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<v Speaker 3>University of Kentucky. I was trying to catch up on

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<v Speaker 3>some classes that summer and I was taking summer school.

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<v Speaker 3>So I was living in an apartment off campus and

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<v Speaker 3>going to summer school, and I met Chris one night.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, in the middle of summer school. I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>my roommate was actually turning twenty one, and so we

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<v Speaker 3>wanted to go out and get her a drink for

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<v Speaker 3>her birthday. But I was not yet twenty one. So

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<v Speaker 3>we just went to a restaurant where she would be

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<v Speaker 3>able to get, you know, a drink at a restaurant,

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<v Speaker 3>but we went to I guess a we went to

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<v Speaker 3>a restaurant that wouldn't serve us because I wasn't twenty

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<v Speaker 3>one yet, and so we were kind of deflated. We

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<v Speaker 3>were like, well, we're gonna go home and she's not

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<v Speaker 3>going to get her birthday drink. You know. We went

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<v Speaker 3>at midnight actually on her birthday, and we ended up

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<v Speaker 3>stopping by a bar close to where we were living,

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<v Speaker 3>and it was it was it was crazy because it

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<v Speaker 3>was a laundry mat, but there was a bar next

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<v Speaker 3>to it. And that's actually where I met Chris that night.

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<v Speaker 3>It was the you know, after midnight on my friend's birthday,

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<v Speaker 3>and we were just trying to buy her a drink

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<v Speaker 3>and Chris and all of his friends were sitting at

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<v Speaker 3>that bar, and I guess very familiar with it. I

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<v Speaker 3>had never been in it before, but that's where we met,

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<v Speaker 3>and you know, we started talking straight away, and I

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<v Speaker 3>think it was kind of we were spitting with each other,

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<v Speaker 3>I think that night, and so that kind of that

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<v Speaker 3>just started it all.

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<v Speaker 7>important anyway, but can you describe them because for people

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<v Speaker 7>also what he looked like, but also what he was

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<v Speaker 7>like you mentioned the band fish and and sort of

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<v Speaker 7>his leaves a bike enthusiast. So what did you first

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<v Speaker 7>deduce from talking to him and learned about him and

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<v Speaker 7>attracted you to him, and also describe kind of what

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<v Speaker 3>Sure, so Christmas six five, So he was quite tall,

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<v Speaker 3>and he was just he was an outdoors kind of guy.

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<v Speaker 3>So he enjoyed you know, you could tell in the

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<v Speaker 3>way that he dressed, just in in his demeanor that

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<v Speaker 3>not not very not. He didn't didn't have a lot

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<v Speaker 3>he was the kindest soul, such an amazing guy. Uh

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<v Speaker 3>just gave great big bear hugs. He was friendly to

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<v Speaker 3>everyone he met and you know, just the kindest soul.

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<v Speaker 3>And you know that he never met a stranger like

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<v Speaker 3>he was friendly to everyone and that so he was

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<v Speaker 3>and and and everyone wanted to be his friend because

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<v Speaker 3>know that that's I'm sure that's what drew me to him.

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<v Speaker 3>And you know it, I hadn't met a guy like

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<v Speaker 3>him before, So I think that, you know, that's that's

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<v Speaker 7>Now you're both in classes, and so your relationships develops,

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<v Speaker 7>and so tell us how long it is before you

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<v Speaker 7>get into this this situation one evening, and before we

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<v Speaker 7>talk about that, tell us about the process of your

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<v Speaker 7>relationship and where you were at before on this day

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<v Speaker 7>that everything changes.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, we were at a point in our relationship where

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<v Speaker 3>we'd been dating for about three months. It wasn't we

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<v Speaker 3>we hadn't been very serious in that three months. We

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<v Speaker 3>had kind of become more friends, and we had just

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<v Speaker 3>where we were ready to take it a little further.

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<v Speaker 3>We were ready to kind of be more than just friends.

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<v Speaker 3>And so you know that that happened maybe a week

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<v Speaker 3>before the fateful night that that that happened to us,

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<v Speaker 3>but so that we were, you know, actually wanting to

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<v Speaker 3>take it further and wanting to get closer and wanting

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<v Speaker 3>to develop the relationship. So you know, if we'd I don't,

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<v Speaker 3>we'd on't eve been. We'd only really known each other

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<v Speaker 3>for three months and and it wasn't that wasn't long enough.

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<v Speaker 3>Like That's if I had one wish, I wish that

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<v Speaker 3>I could have spent more time with him, because I

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<v Speaker 3>just didn't. I didn't get to, you know, do we

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<v Speaker 3>didn't even get to do anything that we had planned

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<v Speaker 3>to do. You know, we had planned to go on

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<v Speaker 3>a picnic the next day and to go hiking and

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<v Speaker 3>go on a picnic, and you know, we never got

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<v Speaker 3>to do that. So I've tried to I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>That's and I think that's what I've done in my life,

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<v Speaker 3>is that I've and that's what I did. That was

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<v Speaker 3>a big part of my healing was and how I

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<v Speaker 3>had agrieved Chris Chris was to actually, you know, go

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<v Speaker 3>and do things that he loved and do things that

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<v Speaker 3>he did, And I think that was actually part of

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<v Speaker 3>my healing process. I think, you know, it wasn't a

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<v Speaker 3>conventional way of healing that for me, it was to

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<v Speaker 3>go and do things that he loved and to live

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<v Speaker 3>out things that he loved in his life so that

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<v Speaker 3>I could know him better because I didn't get long

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<v Speaker 3>enough with him.

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<v Speaker 7>You talk about after his trip to Maine, because they'll

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<v Speaker 7>be important a little bit later. But there's a party,

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<v Speaker 7>this off campus party here and forty or fifty people

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<v Speaker 7>and you go with your friends, Adrian and a couple

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<v Speaker 7>of friends of Chris's. So tell us about this party

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<v Speaker 7>that you guys plan on and then what happens that

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<v Speaker 7>you get Did you come to happen to go for

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<v Speaker 7>a walk? The four of you?

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<v Speaker 3>Sure, So we went to a party and it was

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<v Speaker 3>an off campus party with maybe three blocks from campus.

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<v Speaker 3>It was actually in a house that Chris had lived

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<v Speaker 3>in before the year before, so he knew that the

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<v Speaker 3>area well. And he was in a fraternity, so it

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<v Speaker 3>was actually right after fraternity recruitment had just ended, had

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<v Speaker 3>gotten all their new members, and so they were having

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<v Speaker 3>a party to celebrate that they had all their new

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<v Speaker 3>members in the fraternity. So that's what the party was for.

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<v Speaker 3>And when we got there, it was quite boring. There

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<v Speaker 3>wasn't a whole lot of people there. I didn't know

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<v Speaker 3>anyone there. And so, you know, myself and Chris and

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<v Speaker 3>two of our friends, two of his fraternity brothers, actually

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<v Speaker 3>went to take a walk and we went to take

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<v Speaker 3>a walk on down from the house. It was about

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, maybe a block or two from the

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<v Speaker 3>house that we went to the railroad tracks. And the

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<v Speaker 3>railroad tracks were only probably three blocks from the house.

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<v Speaker 3>And again I said, Chris knew this area. So I

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<v Speaker 3>Chris had been to the railroad tracks before. And so

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<v Speaker 3>we actually, you know, went to the tracks and we

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<v Speaker 3>were going to go put quarters down on the track

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<v Speaker 3>and have trains run over them and flatten the quarters.

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<v Speaker 3>And that was our thought, was that we all four

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<v Speaker 3>went there and we went and put coins on the tracks,

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<v Speaker 3>and we waited and we waited for a train to

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<v Speaker 3>come by, and that was what we waited, kept waiting

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<v Speaker 3>and just waiting that you know, no trains came by,

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<v Speaker 3>and so it was boring. That was more boring than

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<v Speaker 3>the party. And I guess Chris and I were being

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<v Speaker 3>kind of lovey dovey, and so he actually our friends

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<v Speaker 3>went back to the party and Chris and I stayed

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<v Speaker 3>by the tracks to talk.

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<v Speaker 7>And while you're there, you don't notice anything a miss,

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<v Speaker 7>but there's an electrical box and you're talking and again

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<v Speaker 7>you're you're just having a great time. And tell us

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<v Speaker 7>what happens? What comes out of the dark.

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<v Speaker 3>So we get up to leave, and we're walking back

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<v Speaker 3>toward the house where the party is, and as we

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<v Speaker 3>get up to leave, a man comes out from behind

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<v Speaker 3>an electrical box right next to the tracks. And he

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<v Speaker 3>comes out and he has a weapon on Chris, which

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't even realize he had a weapon on Chris.

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<v Speaker 3>But it was a knife or an ice picked something

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<v Speaker 3>sharp that he had on Chris. And so he asked

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<v Speaker 3>for money, and you know, I didn't really think anything

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<v Speaker 3>of it because I also I didn't see the weapon.

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<v Speaker 3>At this point, I thought, this is just somebody asking

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<v Speaker 3>for money. Now, it was like midnight, it was dark,

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<v Speaker 3>it was night, you know, it was there were some

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<v Speaker 3>strange things about it, but literally it was that a

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<v Speaker 3>guy was asking us for money and we said we

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<v Speaker 3>didn't have any money, and he didn't believe us. So

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<v Speaker 3>he had Chris get down on his knees and started

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<v Speaker 3>going through Christm's backpack. So I thought, well, he's going

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<v Speaker 3>through Christmas backpack to find some if we have any money,

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<v Speaker 3>and and he goes through Chrism's backpack, or at least

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<v Speaker 3>that's what he said he was doing, or that's what

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<v Speaker 3>I thought he was doing, but but really what he

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<v Speaker 3>was doing he was tying up Christ's hands behind his

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<v Speaker 3>back with the backpack. And then he came over to me,

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<v Speaker 3>and that's when I realized that he had a weapon.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I wasn't far from him, but again it

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<v Speaker 3>was dark and he and that's when I realized he

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<v Speaker 3>had a weapon. And he held it up to me

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<v Speaker 3>and he took off my belt and tied my hands

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<v Speaker 3>behind my back with my belt, and I think that,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, that's that's what's so I guess hard about

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<v Speaker 3>this is that you know, here's two people and someone

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<v Speaker 3>is trying to rob you. And that's kind of what

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<v Speaker 3>I'm what I where my mind was at the time.

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<v Speaker 3>I was thinking, this person wants to rob us. We

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<v Speaker 3>have to give him what he wants so he'll let

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<v Speaker 3>us go. So I start offering him, you know, do

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<v Speaker 3>you want a car, We have a car you could have.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you want credit cards? Do you want me to

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<v Speaker 3>go to the ATM. I'll get you money, Like whatever

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<v Speaker 3>you need, I'll get it for you. Because you know,

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<v Speaker 3>it was that thought of you, if somebody wants your purse,

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<v Speaker 3>you throw it at them and run away. I was

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<v Speaker 3>trying to give him what he wanted so that he

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<v Speaker 3>would leave us alone and let us go, But he

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<v Speaker 3>just kept saying no to all of our offers. And

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<v Speaker 3>that's what seems so strange is that he wasn't wanting

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<v Speaker 3>what he said he wanted. So, you know, when I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, I can get you money, I'll get you

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<v Speaker 3>all the money you want, he didn't actually want money.

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<v Speaker 3>And I think that that's because his his you know,

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<v Speaker 3>that's what he initially had said. But his what he

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<v Speaker 3>wanted all along was to to hurt us. It wasn't

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<v Speaker 3>to you know, to rob us. And so you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I at that point, I I he actually tied up

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<v Speaker 3>our legs and gagged us, he you know, and I

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<v Speaker 3>just remember being so I was afraid, but I felt

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<v Speaker 3>an amazing piece over me this entire this entire time,

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<v Speaker 3>and I felt just a like I that everything was

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<v Speaker 3>gonna be okay. And that's that's what that was. Actually

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<v Speaker 3>Chris's last word to me was Everything's gonna be okay.

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<v Speaker 3>And he ended up hitting Chris with a fifty two

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<v Speaker 3>pound rock, and you know, it seems like a dream

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<v Speaker 3>in my mind. I I barely I don't. I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>I remember I thought Chris got hit more than once.

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<v Speaker 3>He only got hit once. And all I all I

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<v Speaker 3>remember is Chris was gurgling, and I asked him to

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<v Speaker 3>go turn Chris's head to the side because I didn't

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<v Speaker 3>want him to choke on his own blood. And he

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<v Speaker 3>actually went and did it. He wasn't that far away

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<v Speaker 3>from me, but he went over to him and he

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<v Speaker 3>came back over and he said he's gone. Don't worry

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<v Speaker 3>about him anymore. And so that's when he climbed on

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<v Speaker 3>top of me. I this is when I realized he

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<v Speaker 3>was going to rape me. I don't think I thought

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<v Speaker 3>about it until this moment. And so I was like, well,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna fight him, like I you know, what do

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<v Speaker 3>I have to lose here? So I tried to fight.

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<v Speaker 3>I was screaming, I was trying to, you know, hurt him,

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<v Speaker 3>and he stabbed me in my neck and he said,

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<v Speaker 3>look how easily I could kill you, And so I

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<v Speaker 3>just stopped and then he raped me. I don't remember

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<v Speaker 3>being raped or I remember literally floating above my body.

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<v Speaker 3>I wasn't feeling pain. I didn't feel when he stabbed

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<v Speaker 3>me in my neck. I did not feel any pain.

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<v Speaker 3>And you know, I was actually talking to him, and

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<v Speaker 3>I was asking him, you know, about his family and

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<v Speaker 3>telling him about my family. I was trying to have

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<v Speaker 3>him put a name with my face. I was trying to,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, let him know that I didn't want to

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<v Speaker 3>die and that I would help him. I was saying,

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<v Speaker 3>I'll help you if if you let me go, I'll

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<v Speaker 3>never tell anyone what you did. I'll help you get

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<v Speaker 3>away from here. You know, I was trying to befriend

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<v Speaker 3>him so that he wouldn't hurt me. And I thought

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<v Speaker 3>that I actually had differended him. I actually I had

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<v Speaker 3>asked him to put my pants back on because I thought, well,

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<v Speaker 3>if I die, I don't want to be found here naked.

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<v Speaker 3>So I asked him to put my pants back on,

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<v Speaker 3>and he actually did that for me. And I don't

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<v Speaker 3>remember being hit, but I was hit in my face

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<v Speaker 3>and in the back of my head. I was hit

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<v Speaker 3>probably five or six times in my face and five

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<v Speaker 3>or six times in the back of my head. I

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<v Speaker 3>was not hit with the rock that he hit Chris with.

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<v Speaker 3>I was hit with some kind of board. They never

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<v Speaker 3>remember being hit, but I know that he did hit me.

423
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<v Speaker 3>And then I think I played dead. I think I,

424
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<v Speaker 3>you know, just did I acted like I was dead

425
00:21:49.480 --> 00:21:52.119
<v Speaker 3>so that he would leave and leave me alone. But

426
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<v Speaker 3>I do remember thinking, I remember playing praying my last

427
00:21:54.920 --> 00:21:56.880
<v Speaker 3>prayer because I thought, if I am going to die,

428
00:21:57.079 --> 00:21:59.559
<v Speaker 3>I'm ready. And I felt that piece that I was

429
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<v Speaker 3>talking to. I felt at peace that if it was

430
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<v Speaker 3>if I was going to die, it was okay. And

431
00:22:05.960 --> 00:22:08.160
<v Speaker 3>I but I remember thinking when he left me there,

432
00:22:08.160 --> 00:22:10.559
<v Speaker 3>and when he walked away, I was thinking, thank you

433
00:22:10.599 --> 00:22:14.480
<v Speaker 3>for leaving me here alive. And you know, I got up.

434
00:22:15.160 --> 00:22:18.039
<v Speaker 3>I don't know how how much time passed. The nine

435
00:22:18.079 --> 00:22:20.960
<v Speaker 3>one one call was made at like two forty something

436
00:22:21.000 --> 00:22:23.599
<v Speaker 3>in the morning, and I know that we went got

437
00:22:23.640 --> 00:22:25.519
<v Speaker 3>up to go back to the party around midnights. There's

438
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<v Speaker 3>like a two hour and forty five minutes span in

439
00:22:27.759 --> 00:22:29.960
<v Speaker 3>there that I don't know how long he was with us.

440
00:22:30.000 --> 00:22:33.519
<v Speaker 3>I don't know you know when he when he, you know, left,

441
00:22:33.599 --> 00:22:35.319
<v Speaker 3>I don't know how long I laid there before I

442
00:22:35.359 --> 00:22:37.799
<v Speaker 3>got up to get help, but I walked about two

443
00:22:37.880 --> 00:22:41.519
<v Speaker 3>hundred yards to a house nearby and they called nine

444
00:22:41.599 --> 00:22:43.559
<v Speaker 3>one one for me, and I was rushed to the

445
00:22:43.559 --> 00:22:46.480
<v Speaker 3>hospital and Chris was pronounced dead at the scene.

446
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<v Speaker 7>It's incredible too, you talk about that you were conscious

447
00:22:54.000 --> 00:22:56.559
<v Speaker 7>enough to say that, I want to make sure I

448
00:22:56.880 --> 00:22:59.519
<v Speaker 7>notice everything about him. You noticed he had a Mexican accent.

449
00:22:59.559 --> 00:23:02.079
<v Speaker 7>You notice things about his appearance. You notice this black

450
00:23:02.200 --> 00:23:05.839
<v Speaker 7>snake tattoo. You wanted to remember things because you said,

451
00:23:05.880 --> 00:23:09.039
<v Speaker 7>you vow to yourself, to yourself if I can get

452
00:23:09.079 --> 00:23:11.839
<v Speaker 7>out of this, if I can get out of this,

453
00:23:11.960 --> 00:23:14.880
<v Speaker 7>I'm going to get this guy. I'm gonna I'm gonna.

454
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<v Speaker 3>Right, I thought, I want to. I want to be

455
00:23:16.799 --> 00:23:20.119
<v Speaker 3>able to to to recognize you and to get and

456
00:23:20.160 --> 00:23:21.720
<v Speaker 3>to get you if I have that chance.

457
00:23:22.920 --> 00:23:28.480
<v Speaker 7>Right now, your appearance, you we can't well, we haven't

458
00:23:28.480 --> 00:23:32.000
<v Speaker 7>described your appearance, but it was amazing that you ran

459
00:23:32.079 --> 00:23:33.839
<v Speaker 7>up to this building and there was four people living

460
00:23:33.880 --> 00:23:37.880
<v Speaker 7>in this in this apartment that these guys had, and

461
00:23:37.920 --> 00:23:40.920
<v Speaker 7>one guy was home. You walked in. Everybody thought, even

462
00:23:40.960 --> 00:23:43.720
<v Speaker 7>your father later thought you had red hair, but that

463
00:23:43.920 --> 00:23:46.640
<v Speaker 7>was that's how much blood was caked in your hair.

464
00:23:47.039 --> 00:23:49.880
<v Speaker 7>He broke his the eye socket on your left eye,

465
00:23:49.920 --> 00:23:54.880
<v Speaker 7>I believe, and broke your jaw, among other things and lacerations.

466
00:23:55.480 --> 00:23:58.000
<v Speaker 7>And you walked, like you say, you don't even remember.

467
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<v Speaker 7>You walked on all kinds of glass and metal and

468
00:24:00.480 --> 00:24:02.799
<v Speaker 7>rocks and everything to get to this house. Don't really

469
00:24:02.880 --> 00:24:07.160
<v Speaker 7>remember that, And you end up in the hospital. Tell

470
00:24:07.240 --> 00:24:12.519
<v Speaker 7>us a little bit about just the first things that

471
00:24:12.599 --> 00:24:15.960
<v Speaker 7>happened to you at the hospital after this, your treatment,

472
00:24:16.119 --> 00:24:20.319
<v Speaker 7>who you encounter, because this is important to how your life,

473
00:24:21.640 --> 00:24:24.640
<v Speaker 7>the direction your life moves in as an advocate for

474
00:24:24.960 --> 00:24:29.319
<v Speaker 7>abused people. Tell us about your experience at the hospital.

475
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<v Speaker 3>Well, I, you know, I don't remember really a lot

476
00:24:33.599 --> 00:24:36.960
<v Speaker 3>about the initial getting to the hospital. I mean, I

477
00:24:37.000 --> 00:24:40.480
<v Speaker 3>remember writing in the ambulance with with the in the

478
00:24:40.519 --> 00:24:43.319
<v Speaker 3>ambulance a little bit, and then I don't remember like

479
00:24:43.359 --> 00:24:46.160
<v Speaker 3>actually getting to the hospital. But I think the thing

480
00:24:46.200 --> 00:24:48.359
<v Speaker 3>I remember the most in the hospital was the rape

481
00:24:48.440 --> 00:24:50.880
<v Speaker 3>kit that was done on me, because it was painful

482
00:24:50.960 --> 00:24:55.279
<v Speaker 3>and it was awful, and you know, I just remember that,

483
00:24:56.000 --> 00:24:58.279
<v Speaker 3>you know, as out of it as I was, I

484
00:24:58.319 --> 00:25:03.519
<v Speaker 3>completely remember everything about that rape kit, and then you know,

485
00:25:03.640 --> 00:25:07.359
<v Speaker 3>I was in the hospital for quite a while before

486
00:25:07.480 --> 00:25:10.640
<v Speaker 3>my parents actually got there, but they got there as

487
00:25:10.720 --> 00:25:12.799
<v Speaker 3>fast as they could. I remember them even asking me

488
00:25:13.160 --> 00:25:15.480
<v Speaker 3>for my parents' phone number when I was in the hospital,

489
00:25:15.519 --> 00:25:20.440
<v Speaker 3>and I could not remember their phone number. That's how

490
00:25:20.680 --> 00:25:23.240
<v Speaker 3>kind of out of it I was. But they did

491
00:25:23.279 --> 00:25:26.680
<v Speaker 3>find my parents phone number and called them. And it's

492
00:25:26.799 --> 00:25:30.319
<v Speaker 3>it's crazy because when when my parents actually got there,

493
00:25:30.759 --> 00:25:34.079
<v Speaker 3>they met with the hospital counselor, and the counselor told

494
00:25:34.119 --> 00:25:37.279
<v Speaker 3>them to not talk about what had happened to me,

495
00:25:37.440 --> 00:25:39.480
<v Speaker 3>and to try to not cry in front of me,

496
00:25:39.599 --> 00:25:43.319
<v Speaker 3>don't cause me any more hurt or trauma than than

497
00:25:43.359 --> 00:25:46.880
<v Speaker 3>they had to try, you know. And and that was

498
00:25:46.920 --> 00:25:50.440
<v Speaker 3>the strangest thing because I once, once I finally did

499
00:25:50.480 --> 00:25:53.359
<v Speaker 3>see my parents and see my sister and my family

500
00:25:53.359 --> 00:25:56.039
<v Speaker 3>got to the hospital, I thought it was so strange

501
00:25:56.079 --> 00:25:58.880
<v Speaker 3>that nobody was talking to me about what happened, and that,

502
00:25:59.319 --> 00:26:01.880
<v Speaker 3>you know, when they would cry, they would literally like

503
00:26:02.359 --> 00:26:04.319
<v Speaker 3>kind of walk away from me and try to go

504
00:26:04.359 --> 00:26:06.759
<v Speaker 3>into the bathroom or go away from me when they

505
00:26:06.759 --> 00:26:08.960
<v Speaker 3>were crying. And I'm just thinking, and here, I mean,

506
00:26:09.000 --> 00:26:12.519
<v Speaker 3>I was crying constantly. I know, I was either sleeping

507
00:26:12.640 --> 00:26:14.920
<v Speaker 3>or crying. That's pretty much all I was doing in

508
00:26:14.960 --> 00:26:18.759
<v Speaker 3>the hospital, and it was you know, I thought it

509
00:26:18.799 --> 00:26:21.279
<v Speaker 3>was so strange that people weren't crying in front of me,

510
00:26:21.359 --> 00:26:24.359
<v Speaker 3>and so I, you know, I didn't I don't think

511
00:26:24.400 --> 00:26:27.599
<v Speaker 3>I think that they were trying to, you know, help

512
00:26:27.680 --> 00:26:29.640
<v Speaker 3>in that situation, but I don't. I don't think the

513
00:26:29.720 --> 00:26:33.799
<v Speaker 3>advice really was correct, and maybe it was just that

514
00:26:33.799 --> 00:26:36.880
<v Speaker 3>that's what they thought that should be done. But it

515
00:26:36.920 --> 00:26:39.279
<v Speaker 3>was a very awkward. It made things a little awkward,

516
00:26:39.319 --> 00:26:42.279
<v Speaker 3>but in no way, you know, was I not supported.

517
00:26:42.359 --> 00:26:44.680
<v Speaker 3>I mean, my parents and my sister and all of

518
00:26:44.680 --> 00:26:49.160
<v Speaker 3>my sorority sisters, my friends, everyone and Chris's friends even

519
00:26:49.240 --> 00:26:52.519
<v Speaker 3>everyone came and saw me in the hospital, and you know,

520
00:26:52.599 --> 00:26:54.880
<v Speaker 3>that's that was that The hard part was I didn't

521
00:26:54.920 --> 00:26:57.680
<v Speaker 3>get to go to Chris's funeral. I was still in

522
00:26:57.680 --> 00:27:01.079
<v Speaker 3>the hospital when they had Chris's funeral. Right after the funeral,

523
00:27:01.119 --> 00:27:04.759
<v Speaker 3>they brought me things from the funeral to the hospital,

524
00:27:05.759 --> 00:27:07.480
<v Speaker 3>and you know that that was just hard that I

525
00:27:07.480 --> 00:27:11.079
<v Speaker 3>could wasn't actually able to be there. But it was

526
00:27:11.119 --> 00:27:14.480
<v Speaker 3>amazing the support that I got, and that's what's you know,

527
00:27:14.599 --> 00:27:16.759
<v Speaker 3>I think that that's what's always been amazing about my

528
00:27:16.839 --> 00:27:18.880
<v Speaker 3>healing process and how I've been able to do what

529
00:27:18.960 --> 00:27:24.680
<v Speaker 3>I've done is my support system. It's been unreal. I've had,

530
00:27:25.000 --> 00:27:28.880
<v Speaker 3>you know, amazing support from friends and family, support from strangers,

531
00:27:28.880 --> 00:27:33.480
<v Speaker 3>support from anybody that you know has heard my story.

532
00:27:33.519 --> 00:27:37.000
<v Speaker 3>They've become helped me in my healing and they've become

533
00:27:37.119 --> 00:27:40.480
<v Speaker 3>part of my healing process. And so you know, I

534
00:27:40.480 --> 00:27:45.119
<v Speaker 3>if I could describe a perfect support system, it was mine,

535
00:27:45.440 --> 00:27:49.480
<v Speaker 3>because I mean, I never got the questions that I

536
00:27:49.480 --> 00:27:53.400
<v Speaker 3>think victims get, especially when it's acquaintance rape or date rape,

537
00:27:53.400 --> 00:27:55.799
<v Speaker 3>that they get, you know, what were you wearing that night?

538
00:27:56.240 --> 00:27:59.119
<v Speaker 3>You know, questions about your choices? And so no one

539
00:27:59.160 --> 00:28:02.319
<v Speaker 3>ever questioned me about my choices. No one, no, because

540
00:28:02.359 --> 00:28:05.519
<v Speaker 3>I was hurt so physically bad that no one said

541
00:28:05.640 --> 00:28:08.240
<v Speaker 3>what were you wearing or what? You know what they did?

542
00:28:08.359 --> 00:28:11.559
<v Speaker 3>They couldn't because I was hurt physically, and so I

543
00:28:11.559 --> 00:28:14.680
<v Speaker 3>didn't get those normal questions that victims get. And I

544
00:28:14.680 --> 00:28:19.119
<v Speaker 3>think that that that helped, and that I was constantly supported,

545
00:28:19.160 --> 00:28:23.240
<v Speaker 3>and that that everyone you know didn't ask me those

546
00:28:23.319 --> 00:28:27.200
<v Speaker 3>questions because it's I think I would have felt guilty,

547
00:28:27.279 --> 00:28:30.000
<v Speaker 3>and I felt enough guilt. I already you feel do

548
00:28:30.039 --> 00:28:32.880
<v Speaker 3>you feel guilt when things like this occur? You feel guilt.

549
00:28:33.359 --> 00:28:36.359
<v Speaker 3>Nobody has to do anything, it's automatic that you feel

550
00:28:36.640 --> 00:28:40.279
<v Speaker 3>the survivor's guilt. For me, I felt terrible survivor's guilt.

551
00:28:41.160 --> 00:28:44.079
<v Speaker 3>And so you know, I think that if I could,

552
00:28:44.359 --> 00:28:47.759
<v Speaker 3>if I attribute my healing though, really to my support system,

553
00:28:47.880 --> 00:28:51.079
<v Speaker 3>it's it's it's still is amazing. I mean, I still

554
00:28:51.119 --> 00:28:54.039
<v Speaker 3>have an amazing support system. I've always had one, and

555
00:28:54.039 --> 00:28:56.599
<v Speaker 3>and I think that that's been how I've how I've

556
00:28:56.599 --> 00:28:58.119
<v Speaker 3>been able to do what I do today.

557
00:29:00.519 --> 00:29:03.920
<v Speaker 7>Let's talk about some of the parts of the recovery.

558
00:29:03.920 --> 00:29:07.839
<v Speaker 7>But at the same time, meanwhile, their police are still

559
00:29:08.160 --> 00:29:10.319
<v Speaker 7>just beginning to look for the search because they have

560
00:29:10.440 --> 00:29:12.359
<v Speaker 7>they don't have a name, they don't have a suspect,

561
00:29:12.400 --> 00:29:15.880
<v Speaker 7>they have very little evidence other than your description. When

562
00:29:15.880 --> 00:29:19.480
<v Speaker 7>you make the description, the sketch artist is really good,

563
00:29:19.480 --> 00:29:21.680
<v Speaker 7>you say that really looks accurate, but it looks like

564
00:29:21.720 --> 00:29:24.519
<v Speaker 7>a lot of people. There's a reward, it goes up

565
00:29:24.519 --> 00:29:28.079
<v Speaker 7>to twenty thousand dollars. They're they're doing everything they can,

566
00:29:28.200 --> 00:29:31.319
<v Speaker 7>They're putting the DNA into databases and there's no match.

567
00:29:31.680 --> 00:29:34.319
<v Speaker 7>And you meet a central figure in your story as well.

568
00:29:34.720 --> 00:29:39.440
<v Speaker 7>And in this book is Detective Craig Currel, and he

569
00:29:39.920 --> 00:29:44.160
<v Speaker 7>almost immediately wants to know if you are interested in

570
00:29:44.480 --> 00:29:48.920
<v Speaker 7>potentially participating in America's Most Wanted. So tell us a

571
00:29:48.920 --> 00:29:52.599
<v Speaker 7>little bit about duct Detective Currel and some of the

572
00:29:52.640 --> 00:29:56.440
<v Speaker 7>interviews he does with you and sort of this his

573
00:29:56.559 --> 00:30:00.880
<v Speaker 7>mission to have this case and have this killer apprehended.

574
00:30:02.319 --> 00:30:07.559
<v Speaker 3>Sure well, Detective Sorell was, I mean the perfect person

575
00:30:07.599 --> 00:30:11.480
<v Speaker 3>to have handled my case because I spoke to him

576
00:30:11.519 --> 00:30:14.599
<v Speaker 3>actually in the hospital right after the attack, and you know,

577
00:30:14.680 --> 00:30:16.839
<v Speaker 3>he really asked just the who, what, when, and where

578
00:30:17.200 --> 00:30:19.880
<v Speaker 3>and why kind of questions. I mean that all that

579
00:30:19.960 --> 00:30:22.400
<v Speaker 3>I you know, and asked those. That's all he asked.

580
00:30:22.440 --> 00:30:25.039
<v Speaker 3>When I was, you know, in the most trauma and

581
00:30:25.079 --> 00:30:27.319
<v Speaker 3>the most pain, like right after the attack. He just

582
00:30:27.400 --> 00:30:30.599
<v Speaker 3>asked the basic questions that he needed to and then

583
00:30:30.960 --> 00:30:33.839
<v Speaker 3>you know, he got my deposition later on the full

584
00:30:33.839 --> 00:30:36.279
<v Speaker 3>story of what happened, maybe two or three days later,

585
00:30:37.319 --> 00:30:41.079
<v Speaker 3>and you know it's I think from that moment on,

586
00:30:41.400 --> 00:30:44.119
<v Speaker 3>I always had the kind of relationship with him, and

587
00:30:44.160 --> 00:30:47.000
<v Speaker 3>I think it started with that I got sick. I

588
00:30:47.000 --> 00:30:49.200
<v Speaker 3>actually threw up on him when I first met him,

589
00:30:49.240 --> 00:30:52.400
<v Speaker 3>and that kind of broke the ice. It helped to

590
00:30:52.680 --> 00:30:55.680
<v Speaker 3>you know, kind of start our relationship off. I guess, well,

591
00:30:56.440 --> 00:30:59.200
<v Speaker 3>but you know, I it we had kind of like

592
00:30:59.240 --> 00:31:02.480
<v Speaker 3>a good rapport with each other. He felt like a

593
00:31:02.519 --> 00:31:05.119
<v Speaker 3>big brother to me almost, that he you know, I

594
00:31:05.200 --> 00:31:08.000
<v Speaker 3>really felt like he cared and that he you know,

595
00:31:08.240 --> 00:31:10.400
<v Speaker 3>was treating me like he would one of his own

596
00:31:10.440 --> 00:31:12.599
<v Speaker 3>family members if something had happened to one of his

597
00:31:12.640 --> 00:31:15.359
<v Speaker 3>own family members, that he would. He was working that

598
00:31:15.519 --> 00:31:18.319
<v Speaker 3>hard and wanting, you know, wanting to figure out who

599
00:31:18.359 --> 00:31:22.839
<v Speaker 3>had done this that badly, And so there were times

600
00:31:22.880 --> 00:31:24.680
<v Speaker 3>when I felt like he wasn't working at all, and

601
00:31:24.720 --> 00:31:26.640
<v Speaker 3>I would actually go to the election and the police

602
00:31:26.680 --> 00:31:29.440
<v Speaker 3>department and go and and you know, go and like

603
00:31:29.680 --> 00:31:31.599
<v Speaker 3>meet with him to make sure that he was doing

604
00:31:31.640 --> 00:31:35.119
<v Speaker 3>his job. But all along he was, you know, submitting

605
00:31:35.160 --> 00:31:38.000
<v Speaker 3>that DNA and going after every lead that he could find,

606
00:31:38.039 --> 00:31:40.759
<v Speaker 3>and there were so many leads, but we didn't have

607
00:31:40.799 --> 00:31:44.279
<v Speaker 3>a suspect for almost two years. So for two years

608
00:31:44.319 --> 00:31:46.839
<v Speaker 3>he was working and trying to figure things out. But

609
00:31:47.119 --> 00:31:49.079
<v Speaker 3>I'm sure as that time was going on, he was

610
00:31:49.119 --> 00:31:52.839
<v Speaker 3>probably losing some hope because you know, as time keeps

611
00:31:52.880 --> 00:31:55.559
<v Speaker 3>going on, it's it's hard to that makes it more

612
00:31:55.599 --> 00:32:00.279
<v Speaker 3>difficult to you know, solve the crime. And so, you know,

613
00:32:00.319 --> 00:32:03.039
<v Speaker 3>I think he was submitting the DNA doing what he could.

614
00:32:03.119 --> 00:32:05.480
<v Speaker 3>You know, we didn't have fingerprints. All we had was DNA.

615
00:32:05.640 --> 00:32:08.759
<v Speaker 3>So he submitted the DNA to a case in Texas.

616
00:32:08.799 --> 00:32:11.000
<v Speaker 3>It was kind of a long shot they had. They

617
00:32:11.000 --> 00:32:13.400
<v Speaker 3>had said that the they thought the railroad tracks were

618
00:32:13.799 --> 00:32:17.279
<v Speaker 3>you know, the key and the case. And he submitted

619
00:32:17.319 --> 00:32:19.640
<v Speaker 3>the DNA, which he had done before. It wasn't like,

620
00:32:19.759 --> 00:32:21.720
<v Speaker 3>you know, this was he I don't think he was

621
00:32:21.759 --> 00:32:26.119
<v Speaker 3>expecting much. But it's like he submitted the DNA. They had,

622
00:32:26.400 --> 00:32:28.480
<v Speaker 3>you know, a house that had been broken into and

623
00:32:28.680 --> 00:32:33.160
<v Speaker 3>in outside of Houston, Texas. A woman was killed and

624
00:32:33.240 --> 00:32:37.119
<v Speaker 3>her car was stolen, and they had DNA and his

625
00:32:37.160 --> 00:32:40.319
<v Speaker 3>fingerprints and the DNA matched. I mean, it was like

626
00:32:41.000 --> 00:32:43.839
<v Speaker 3>amazing that the DNA matched and we all of a

627
00:32:43.839 --> 00:32:46.440
<v Speaker 3>sudden knew who it was because they had fingerprints. There

628
00:32:46.440 --> 00:32:50.599
<v Speaker 3>was a suspect, remember Detectas Terrell appearing at my apartment

629
00:32:50.960 --> 00:32:54.240
<v Speaker 3>I lived. I was in my fifth year in school

630
00:32:54.240 --> 00:32:56.839
<v Speaker 3>and I lived in an apartment at the of the

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<v Speaker 3>outside of the Outside in Lexington, Kentucky. And so he

632
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<v Speaker 3>came to my apartment and he had never come to

633
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<v Speaker 3>my apartment before. And I was going, something's not right

634
00:33:07.640 --> 00:33:10.839
<v Speaker 3>or something is strange. Why are you here? And he

635
00:33:10.960 --> 00:33:14.160
<v Speaker 3>was like, you know, we have a suspect. This is

636
00:33:14.200 --> 00:33:16.839
<v Speaker 3>who it is. He's going to be on America's Most

637
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<v Speaker 3>Wanted in a couple of weeks. I want you to

638
00:33:18.559 --> 00:33:20.119
<v Speaker 3>watch it. I want you to let me know if

639
00:33:20.119 --> 00:33:22.480
<v Speaker 3>you think this is him. I never had to identify

640
00:33:22.559 --> 00:33:25.079
<v Speaker 3>him because we had the DNA. It was ninety nine

641
00:33:25.119 --> 00:33:28.400
<v Speaker 3>point nine percent sure that this was the guy. And

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<v Speaker 3>but I did watch America's Most Wanted and they had

643
00:33:31.400 --> 00:33:34.480
<v Speaker 3>footage of him defending himself in court. And when I

644
00:33:34.680 --> 00:33:37.720
<v Speaker 3>heard his voice, it's because he changed his appearance a lot.

645
00:33:38.279 --> 00:33:40.640
<v Speaker 3>He had a rap sheet going back to ninth the

646
00:33:40.720 --> 00:33:43.759
<v Speaker 3>nineteen eighties. I mean he had been arrested and sent

647
00:33:43.880 --> 00:33:47.200
<v Speaker 3>back to Mexico. He was a Mexican illegal immigrant in

648
00:33:47.200 --> 00:33:50.079
<v Speaker 3>the United States, and I mean he had he had

649
00:33:50.119 --> 00:33:52.559
<v Speaker 3>a long rap sheet and they had footage of him

650
00:33:52.599 --> 00:33:55.400
<v Speaker 3>defending himself in court and I heard his voice and

651
00:33:55.440 --> 00:33:58.039
<v Speaker 3>I was like, oh my gosh, that's him. Because all

652
00:33:58.039 --> 00:33:59.759
<v Speaker 3>I had to do was hear his voice. I knew

653
00:33:59.799 --> 00:34:02.799
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654
00:34:02.960 --> 00:34:05.799
<v Speaker 3>you could have I could have closed my eyes and

655
00:34:05.839 --> 00:34:08.519
<v Speaker 3>known that it was him. That I didn't need DNA

656
00:34:08.559 --> 00:34:11.119
<v Speaker 3>to tell me that because I knew it was him. Uh.

657
00:34:11.159 --> 00:34:13.599
<v Speaker 3>And you know then it was all of a sudden

658
00:34:13.599 --> 00:34:15.000
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659
00:34:15.039 --> 00:34:17.559
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660
00:34:17.599 --> 00:34:20.679
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661
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<v Speaker 3>to solve my crime was that.

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<v Speaker 3>That it was going to happen again, and that you know,

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00:35:04.559 --> 00:35:07.039
<v Speaker 3>someone else was probably going to get hurt, get raped,

679
00:35:07.599 --> 00:35:11.679
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680
00:35:11.719 --> 00:35:15.559
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00:35:18.639 --> 00:35:21.920
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<v Speaker 7>Let's talk about this fatal error. Doesn't matter who did it,

685
00:35:30.199 --> 00:35:33.039
<v Speaker 7>but the fatal air is that while this man hunt

686
00:35:33.079 --> 00:35:38.920
<v Speaker 7>was on, the i INS was notified about information about

687
00:35:39.360 --> 00:35:43.880
<v Speaker 7>this remindouce. So what happened with that information and you

688
00:35:43.920 --> 00:35:48.159
<v Speaker 7>talk about other murders, what happened as a result of

689
00:35:48.199 --> 00:35:48.719
<v Speaker 7>this error?

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<v Speaker 3>So he actually there was a man hunt for him,

691
00:35:54.519 --> 00:35:56.519
<v Speaker 3>and I mean he was put on the FBI's ten

692
00:35:56.599 --> 00:35:59.679
<v Speaker 3>most wanted list. I mean it was pretty serious that

693
00:35:59.719 --> 00:36:01.639
<v Speaker 3>they were trying to find this guy because he was

694
00:36:01.679 --> 00:36:05.440
<v Speaker 3>committed more murders and he was, you know, killing more people,

695
00:36:05.480 --> 00:36:07.840
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696
00:36:07.920 --> 00:36:10.280
<v Speaker 3>killed was going up, and so they really wanted to

697
00:36:10.320 --> 00:36:13.880
<v Speaker 3>find him. And he actually, you know, was put on

698
00:36:13.920 --> 00:36:19.199
<v Speaker 3>the fbis ten most wanted list and they they actually

699
00:36:19.239 --> 00:36:21.440
<v Speaker 3>he you know, used to travel between the United States

700
00:36:21.440 --> 00:36:24.800
<v Speaker 3>and Mexico all the time. And they stopped him at

701
00:36:24.800 --> 00:36:29.559
<v Speaker 3>a border stop between Texas, between Texas and in Mexico,

702
00:36:30.599 --> 00:36:35.280
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703
00:36:35.360 --> 00:36:39.519
<v Speaker 3>would tell them that he was wanted for murder, and

704
00:36:39.639 --> 00:36:42.960
<v Speaker 3>so they let him go, and you know it, it

705
00:36:43.079 --> 00:36:47.639
<v Speaker 3>was a huge mistake, and he killed four more people

706
00:36:47.960 --> 00:36:51.639
<v Speaker 3>after they let him go. So you know that not

707
00:36:51.719 --> 00:36:54.719
<v Speaker 3>only did they let him go and there was that error,

708
00:36:54.760 --> 00:36:57.960
<v Speaker 3>but you know, and with errors like that, good things

709
00:36:58.000 --> 00:37:01.159
<v Speaker 3>can come from that too, because that then the computer

710
00:37:01.199 --> 00:37:04.679
<v Speaker 3>systems were linked. Hopefully that error will never ever happen again.

711
00:37:06.639 --> 00:37:09.119
<v Speaker 3>But you know, four more people were killed after they

712
00:37:09.199 --> 00:37:12.800
<v Speaker 3>let him go, So that was like a terrible error

713
00:37:12.840 --> 00:37:15.719
<v Speaker 3>to happen that they would, you know, let him go

714
00:37:15.960 --> 00:37:18.199
<v Speaker 3>and he would then come back in the United States

715
00:37:18.280 --> 00:37:19.159
<v Speaker 3>and kill more people.

716
00:37:21.360 --> 00:37:24.440
<v Speaker 7>You write that just weeks before the information was put

717
00:37:24.480 --> 00:37:30.519
<v Speaker 7>into VISCAP database. December sixteenth, nineteen ninety eight. Doctor Claudia Benton,

718
00:37:31.039 --> 00:37:35.880
<v Speaker 7>a pediatric neurologist researcher from Lima, Peru, originally was beaten

719
00:37:35.920 --> 00:37:39.400
<v Speaker 7>to death and raped in her home in Southwest Houston.

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00:37:41.800 --> 00:37:45.880
<v Speaker 7>Beat her with a statuette nineteen times, also stabbed her

721
00:37:45.920 --> 00:37:49.440
<v Speaker 7>with a huge kitchen knife and also unfortunately raped her

722
00:37:49.480 --> 00:37:52.559
<v Speaker 7>as she lay dying. Her head was found in a

723
00:37:52.559 --> 00:37:57.119
<v Speaker 7>plastic bag and serious overkill. And this is part of

724
00:37:57.719 --> 00:38:00.880
<v Speaker 7>another disgusting aspect of it. Before killer left, he made

725
00:38:00.920 --> 00:38:03.840
<v Speaker 7>himself a snack and opened up one of her daughter's

726
00:38:03.920 --> 00:38:09.360
<v Speaker 7>Christmas presents and stole some souvenirs. Right, tell us about

727
00:38:09.400 --> 00:38:13.199
<v Speaker 7>what police do once they have him in ycap and

728
00:38:13.239 --> 00:38:16.679
<v Speaker 7>in short order he they're looking for him, But tell

729
00:38:16.760 --> 00:38:18.320
<v Speaker 7>us what happens.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, you know, he was put on the FBI's the

731
00:38:21.119 --> 00:38:25.119
<v Speaker 3>most wanted lists and bounty hunters were definitely after him

732
00:38:25.199 --> 00:38:27.760
<v Speaker 3>like that. There were there was lots and lots of

733
00:38:27.800 --> 00:38:31.440
<v Speaker 3>people looking for him, and I think pressure was put

734
00:38:31.480 --> 00:38:34.039
<v Speaker 3>on him by his family. He had a sister in

735
00:38:34.079 --> 00:38:38.320
<v Speaker 3>the United States that actually had spoken with Detective Drew

736
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<v Speaker 3>Carter or sorry Drew Carter, and he was a Texas

737
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<v Speaker 3>Ranger and so his this this Texas Ranger had negotiated

738
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<v Speaker 3>with Rassinda as his sister and was trying to just

739
00:38:54.920 --> 00:38:59.320
<v Speaker 3>negotiate his surrender and so she ended up getting the

740
00:38:59.360 --> 00:39:02.239
<v Speaker 3>reward money, which was fine with me because she did

741
00:39:02.480 --> 00:39:07.920
<v Speaker 3>actually talk for Sendez into surrendering. He actually drove across

742
00:39:07.920 --> 00:39:10.440
<v Speaker 3>the border in a beat up old truck. I mean,

743
00:39:10.880 --> 00:39:13.519
<v Speaker 3>I can't imagine sitting on the other side in Texas

744
00:39:13.519 --> 00:39:16.280
<v Speaker 3>and thinking, why, you know, is this person even going

745
00:39:16.320 --> 00:39:18.760
<v Speaker 3>to show up? Is this gonna happen the way we

746
00:39:18.760 --> 00:39:21.679
<v Speaker 3>think it's gonna happen. I mean, it did happen exactly

747
00:39:21.760 --> 00:39:25.920
<v Speaker 3>like they had they had planned. I mean, he drove,

748
00:39:26.280 --> 00:39:30.760
<v Speaker 3>drove in a truck, surrendered to Drew Carter, and was

749
00:39:30.800 --> 00:39:33.119
<v Speaker 3>then flown to Houston. I mean, it was kind of

750
00:39:33.239 --> 00:39:37.280
<v Speaker 3>unbelievable how the surrender occurred. Considering all the carnage and

751
00:39:37.360 --> 00:39:39.960
<v Speaker 3>people that he had killed and terrible things that he

752
00:39:40.000 --> 00:39:46.480
<v Speaker 3>had done, the surrender actually went very simply, and you know,

753
00:39:46.519 --> 00:39:49.239
<v Speaker 3>with the mistakes that had occurred, uh that you know,

754
00:39:49.280 --> 00:39:51.960
<v Speaker 3>the surrender went simply, and he was then in custody,

755
00:39:52.519 --> 00:39:56.480
<v Speaker 3>and you know that it was over. The rampage was over.

756
00:39:59.760 --> 00:40:03.280
<v Speaker 7>The The thing is that he did make statements, and

757
00:40:03.320 --> 00:40:07.880
<v Speaker 7>so what do police get further information from him? What's

758
00:40:07.880 --> 00:40:11.440
<v Speaker 7>his disposition about once he's already spent ten years in

759
00:40:11.480 --> 00:40:13.760
<v Speaker 7>prison off and on over the years with this extensive

760
00:40:13.760 --> 00:40:17.360
<v Speaker 7>criminal record, So what is his attitude with police? And

761
00:40:17.480 --> 00:40:20.760
<v Speaker 7>in terms of some people clam up. Some people get

762
00:40:20.760 --> 00:40:24.440
<v Speaker 7>a lawyer. What does he do in terms of police questioning.

763
00:40:26.920 --> 00:40:32.960
<v Speaker 3>Well, he couldn't afford a lawyer, so he actually tells

764
00:40:33.679 --> 00:40:36.119
<v Speaker 3>the court system that he wants us to move as

765
00:40:36.199 --> 00:40:39.800
<v Speaker 3>quick as possible. And but he of course has given

766
00:40:40.039 --> 00:40:43.960
<v Speaker 3>lawyers because he couldn't afford lawyers, so he's given lawyers.

767
00:40:44.119 --> 00:40:47.480
<v Speaker 3>And you know, they tried to convince him that he

768
00:40:47.559 --> 00:40:52.880
<v Speaker 3>wanted to plead insanity and that's so that's what he did.

769
00:40:52.920 --> 00:40:54.800
<v Speaker 3>I think I think a lot of what he did

770
00:40:55.079 --> 00:40:57.679
<v Speaker 3>was because others were telling him to. I think he

771
00:40:57.840 --> 00:41:00.480
<v Speaker 3>really wanted things to go quickly and move fast and

772
00:41:00.719 --> 00:41:03.119
<v Speaker 3>to you know, have it all be over with. And

773
00:41:03.199 --> 00:41:06.960
<v Speaker 3>I think the the it did move, I guess pretty

774
00:41:07.000 --> 00:41:14.480
<v Speaker 3>fast in the realm of trials and executions, I think.

775
00:41:15.039 --> 00:41:18.000
<v Speaker 3>But you know, I think he did end up pleading insanity.

776
00:41:18.159 --> 00:41:21.559
<v Speaker 3>He was found saying so, you know, but we had

777
00:41:21.559 --> 00:41:23.360
<v Speaker 3>to go through all those parts of the trial, and

778
00:41:23.559 --> 00:41:25.880
<v Speaker 3>so there was a trial on to figure out whether

779
00:41:25.920 --> 00:41:28.280
<v Speaker 3>he was insane or sane. Then there was a trial

780
00:41:28.840 --> 00:41:33.239
<v Speaker 3>and he was only tried on doctor Claudia Benton's trial.

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00:41:33.280 --> 00:41:36.840
<v Speaker 3>He was never tried on the other fourteen murders. And

782
00:41:36.920 --> 00:41:40.639
<v Speaker 3>my attack that he had he had committed. We never

783
00:41:40.800 --> 00:41:46.039
<v Speaker 3>got our our cases actually tried. He was only tried

784
00:41:46.039 --> 00:41:51.760
<v Speaker 3>on doctor Claudia Benton's trial. So you know that that's

785
00:41:51.800 --> 00:41:55.159
<v Speaker 3>and that's kind of all it took because it was

786
00:41:55.280 --> 00:41:57.599
<v Speaker 3>you know, not not I guess, not a speedy trial

787
00:41:57.639 --> 00:42:01.840
<v Speaker 3>in any way, but it was, you know, it ended

788
00:42:01.840 --> 00:42:03.719
<v Speaker 3>the way we wanted it to. And I actually did

789
00:42:03.800 --> 00:42:06.440
<v Speaker 3>testify in the trial. I had to testify during the

790
00:42:06.440 --> 00:42:09.880
<v Speaker 3>penalty phase of the trial. And they brought during the

791
00:42:09.920 --> 00:42:14.239
<v Speaker 3>penalty phase Texas it was happening in Houston, and they

792
00:42:14.239 --> 00:42:16.920
<v Speaker 3>could actually bring in all of the murders that he

793
00:42:16.960 --> 00:42:22.039
<v Speaker 3>had been accused of. They could they could have all

794
00:42:22.079 --> 00:42:26.679
<v Speaker 3>everyone testify, all the family members, you know, myself. Uh,

795
00:42:26.760 --> 00:42:30.840
<v Speaker 3>they brought in all those other victims' families and myself

796
00:42:31.440 --> 00:42:35.719
<v Speaker 3>to testify. And so when I talk about the trial

797
00:42:35.800 --> 00:42:38.639
<v Speaker 3>that it literally was one of the worst days of

798
00:42:38.679 --> 00:42:41.760
<v Speaker 3>my life. It was terrible. I was so afraid to

799
00:42:41.800 --> 00:42:45.920
<v Speaker 3>face him again. My I'm lucky that the prosecuting attorney,

800
00:42:46.079 --> 00:42:50.039
<v Speaker 3>her name was Devin Anderson, and she was amazing and

801
00:42:50.079 --> 00:42:54.760
<v Speaker 3>that she you know, really took great care in questioning me,

802
00:42:55.079 --> 00:42:58.239
<v Speaker 3>and it was you know, I think that helped make

803
00:42:58.239 --> 00:43:01.480
<v Speaker 3>it a little easier, and she told me, don't look

804
00:43:01.519 --> 00:43:03.719
<v Speaker 3>to your left. I want you to only look at me.

805
00:43:03.920 --> 00:43:06.239
<v Speaker 3>Your family will be behind me. Don't look to your left,

806
00:43:06.239 --> 00:43:08.840
<v Speaker 3>that's where he'll be. And so I didn't. And you know,

807
00:43:08.920 --> 00:43:11.760
<v Speaker 3>I had never been in the court in a courtroom before.

808
00:43:11.800 --> 00:43:14.840
<v Speaker 3>I didn't know how things went. I cried through my

809
00:43:15.079 --> 00:43:20.119
<v Speaker 3>entire testimony. I was so upset, but I did. I

810
00:43:20.159 --> 00:43:22.719
<v Speaker 3>wanted to get through it. Like I said, I I

811
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<v Speaker 3>knew that that that I was waiting for that day.

812
00:43:26.480 --> 00:43:29.519
<v Speaker 3>I wanted to get through that day, and whatever it took,

813
00:43:29.559 --> 00:43:33.840
<v Speaker 3>I wanted to get through it. And so I testified

814
00:43:33.880 --> 00:43:37.840
<v Speaker 3>and he sat there stone cold. I didn't look at

815
00:43:37.920 --> 00:43:39.719
<v Speaker 3>him until that point in the trial when they say,

816
00:43:39.800 --> 00:43:41.840
<v Speaker 3>is the person who attacked you in the courtroom today?

817
00:43:41.880 --> 00:43:43.719
<v Speaker 3>And I didn't know they really actually say that, that

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00:43:43.719 --> 00:43:46.480
<v Speaker 3>that's for real. And I was like, yes, he's here,

819
00:43:46.719 --> 00:43:48.440
<v Speaker 3>and they were like, uh, could you please tell us

820
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<v Speaker 3>what he's wearing? And so I actually had to look

821
00:43:50.239 --> 00:43:52.079
<v Speaker 3>at him because I didn't know what. I had not

822
00:43:52.159 --> 00:43:54.360
<v Speaker 3>looked at him. I literally had turned off my peripheral

823
00:43:54.440 --> 00:43:57.079
<v Speaker 3>vision and I had not looked at him. But he

824
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<v Speaker 3>was sitting there, stone cold face black eyes, like didn't

825
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<v Speaker 3>have any emotion on his face after and I mean

826
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<v Speaker 3>everyone in the courtroom was crying, even the jury was crying.

827
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<v Speaker 3>Like everybody was crying after my testimony. And he just

828
00:44:09.920 --> 00:44:12.599
<v Speaker 3>sat there stone cold. And I said, he's wearing a

829
00:44:12.599 --> 00:44:16.280
<v Speaker 3>white button down shirt. The defense didn't question me. I

830
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<v Speaker 3>literally was taken out of the courtroom. I was about

831
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<v Speaker 3>to faint. I mean, I felt my hearing going inside

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<v Speaker 3>my head. I was gonna faint, but they got me

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<v Speaker 3>out of the courtroom in time. And you know that,

834
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<v Speaker 3>then the jury deliberated, you know, and the jury was

835
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<v Speaker 3>sequestered for I think it was around three months that

836
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<v Speaker 3>they were sequestered. They weren't allowed to basically, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>be and they had to stay all stay in the

838
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<v Speaker 3>same hotel. They had to not read any news. They

839
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<v Speaker 3>had to basically shut themselves off for the work from

840
00:44:46.559 --> 00:44:51.159
<v Speaker 3>the world. And the only reason I know this is

841
00:44:51.159 --> 00:44:54.320
<v Speaker 3>because one of the jurors wrote a book, and so

842
00:44:54.440 --> 00:44:57.159
<v Speaker 3>he he says that he was chosen for the jury

843
00:44:57.199 --> 00:45:00.199
<v Speaker 3>because he didn't believe in the death penalty, and and

844
00:45:00.280 --> 00:45:04.400
<v Speaker 3>so he actually says that he was chosen for the

845
00:45:04.480 --> 00:45:08.400
<v Speaker 3>jury because of that. And so you know, when I testified.

846
00:45:08.639 --> 00:45:11.920
<v Speaker 3>He says that my testimony helped him change his mind

847
00:45:12.079 --> 00:45:14.840
<v Speaker 3>that this person could get the death penalty and that

848
00:45:14.920 --> 00:45:18.119
<v Speaker 3>he did deserve it because he had caused so much

849
00:45:18.159 --> 00:45:23.119
<v Speaker 3>heartache and so much just hurting people, not only the victims,

850
00:45:23.159 --> 00:45:25.559
<v Speaker 3>but the families, all the people that loved all those

851
00:45:25.639 --> 00:45:28.519
<v Speaker 3>victims that he had killed. And he was given the

852
00:45:28.559 --> 00:45:33.360
<v Speaker 3>death penalty. It was, you know, the ultimate price for

853
00:45:33.719 --> 00:45:37.199
<v Speaker 3>his crimes. And he even when he was given the

854
00:45:37.199 --> 00:45:39.719
<v Speaker 3>death penalty, he wanted that to hurry up. He was like,

855
00:45:40.000 --> 00:45:42.280
<v Speaker 3>all right, you gave me the death penty, Like, let's go.

856
00:45:42.400 --> 00:45:45.440
<v Speaker 3>Like he was ready to kill me now, you know.

857
00:45:45.440 --> 00:45:48.159
<v Speaker 3>But there was an automatic appeal. It was, you know,

858
00:45:48.199 --> 00:45:50.920
<v Speaker 3>it turned into a kind of a long process because

859
00:45:50.960 --> 00:45:55.119
<v Speaker 3>again the Mexican consulate got involved because they don't have

860
00:45:55.159 --> 00:45:58.840
<v Speaker 3>the death penalty, and whether he surrendered correctly or not,

861
00:45:59.079 --> 00:46:01.320
<v Speaker 3>I mean a bunch of questions were raised, and I

862
00:46:01.320 --> 00:46:02.960
<v Speaker 3>think it had nothing to do with him. I think

863
00:46:03.000 --> 00:46:05.599
<v Speaker 3>if he had had his choice, he would have, you know,

864
00:46:06.280 --> 00:46:09.760
<v Speaker 3>give me the death penalty right now, because he I mean,

865
00:46:09.960 --> 00:46:12.480
<v Speaker 3>I think he was done. I think he you know,

866
00:46:12.599 --> 00:46:15.480
<v Speaker 3>didn't didn't want to be in the world anymore. Like

867
00:46:15.559 --> 00:46:20.840
<v Speaker 3>he was done he had, I think didn't. He didn't

868
00:46:20.880 --> 00:46:24.599
<v Speaker 3>want to go to jail, and so but he ended up,

869
00:46:24.960 --> 00:46:27.039
<v Speaker 3>I guess, being in jail, and you know, with all

870
00:46:27.039 --> 00:46:30.920
<v Speaker 3>of his appeals that occurred, he was executed in June

871
00:46:30.920 --> 00:46:33.920
<v Speaker 3>of two thousand and six. So he is not in

872
00:46:33.960 --> 00:46:36.719
<v Speaker 3>the world anymore, and he was executed, and I feel

873
00:46:36.840 --> 00:46:39.599
<v Speaker 3>safer today because he is not in the world, and

874
00:46:39.639 --> 00:46:44.960
<v Speaker 3>I think I was able to heal more and in

875
00:46:45.039 --> 00:46:48.880
<v Speaker 3>a different way because he's no longer in the world anymore.

876
00:46:48.920 --> 00:46:51.239
<v Speaker 3>I don't have to worry that he's gonna get out

877
00:46:51.280 --> 00:46:52.760
<v Speaker 3>and come and get me, or that he you know,

878
00:46:52.800 --> 00:46:57.159
<v Speaker 3>he's gonna They're not normal, they're not like things that

879
00:46:57.199 --> 00:47:00.159
<v Speaker 3>probably would actually ever happen, but I still feel I

880
00:47:00.159 --> 00:47:02.119
<v Speaker 3>felt those things. I felt like he could get out

881
00:47:02.159 --> 00:47:04.320
<v Speaker 3>and he would come and get me. And you know

882
00:47:04.360 --> 00:47:08.000
<v Speaker 3>that I was living in fear just because he was

883
00:47:08.000 --> 00:47:10.039
<v Speaker 3>still in the world. And I think that that's what

884
00:47:10.119 --> 00:47:12.360
<v Speaker 3>went away when when he was executed.

885
00:47:14.559 --> 00:47:17.039
<v Speaker 7>You talk about his behavior behind bars, want and the

886
00:47:17.039 --> 00:47:21.480
<v Speaker 7>speed up the death penalty process. In part it's sounding

887
00:47:21.559 --> 00:47:23.800
<v Speaker 7>kind of a little misguided, but he was admitting to

888
00:47:23.960 --> 00:47:28.119
<v Speaker 7>other and helping to verify other victims and other bodies

889
00:47:28.159 --> 00:47:32.039
<v Speaker 7>and places where he had buried them and such. You

890
00:47:32.079 --> 00:47:34.119
<v Speaker 7>say that the links got up to that they had

891
00:47:34.159 --> 00:47:36.960
<v Speaker 7>linked him to fifteen deaths, even though he had confessed

892
00:47:36.960 --> 00:47:41.280
<v Speaker 7>to twenty. So they verified fifteen murders in total, brutal murders.

893
00:47:41.360 --> 00:47:45.079
<v Speaker 3>That's right, that's right. They couldn't. They didn't verify I

894
00:47:45.119 --> 00:47:48.880
<v Speaker 3>guess some of them they never got enough information to

895
00:47:49.039 --> 00:47:52.519
<v Speaker 3>verify them. And you know, to this day, there still

896
00:47:52.559 --> 00:47:54.760
<v Speaker 3>could be more, and I think that there probably could

897
00:47:54.840 --> 00:47:58.079
<v Speaker 3>be that we just don't know about. But they did.

898
00:47:58.320 --> 00:48:01.760
<v Speaker 3>They did link him to fifteen that we know of today.

899
00:48:03.840 --> 00:48:08.400
<v Speaker 7>And we're talking about a pastor named Norman Sernik and

900
00:48:08.440 --> 00:48:11.239
<v Speaker 7>his wife found dead in bed, their heads bashed in

901
00:48:11.360 --> 00:48:15.440
<v Speaker 7>by a sledgehammer from their tool shed. That was another hallmark.

902
00:48:15.480 --> 00:48:18.800
<v Speaker 7>He would improvise with a weapon that he found at

903
00:48:18.800 --> 00:48:25.199
<v Speaker 7>the scene, raped and sodomized. This was pastor Skip's birthday

904
00:48:25.280 --> 00:48:33.039
<v Speaker 7>is forty seventh. Incredible cases against vulnerable widows, older people.

905
00:48:33.159 --> 00:48:37.840
<v Speaker 7>Not that it's good anybody's young or old, but some

906
00:48:37.960 --> 00:48:42.800
<v Speaker 7>of them. And his signature was to pick very vulnerable people.

907
00:48:43.559 --> 00:48:49.360
<v Speaker 7>And so part of to dismiss his insanity, I mean,

908
00:48:49.360 --> 00:48:51.119
<v Speaker 7>it is absurd to think that he didn't know right

909
00:48:51.119 --> 00:48:54.800
<v Speaker 7>from wrong. They had all kinds of things where he

910
00:48:54.920 --> 00:49:00.800
<v Speaker 7>had planning, he used cunning, he picked vulnerable people. They

911
00:49:00.880 --> 00:49:05.719
<v Speaker 7>dismissed that insanity defense completely, didn't they, despite the experts

912
00:49:05.760 --> 00:49:08.360
<v Speaker 7>to testified that's right.

913
00:49:08.400 --> 00:49:11.679
<v Speaker 3>I mean, you know, that's that is what insanity is.

914
00:49:11.719 --> 00:49:14.039
<v Speaker 3>It's if you know the difference between right and wrong.

915
00:49:14.360 --> 00:49:16.400
<v Speaker 3>And I think that they very much proved that he

916
00:49:16.480 --> 00:49:19.039
<v Speaker 3>did know the difference between right and wrong. And yet

917
00:49:19.119 --> 00:49:21.800
<v Speaker 3>I think somebody has to be somewhat crazy, and I

918
00:49:21.800 --> 00:49:24.599
<v Speaker 3>think there's a difference between insane and crazy, But I

919
00:49:24.679 --> 00:49:26.840
<v Speaker 3>think that there has to be something wrong with your

920
00:49:26.840 --> 00:49:29.960
<v Speaker 3>mind to be able to kill fifteen people, that that

921
00:49:30.280 --> 00:49:33.920
<v Speaker 3>there's something not right. And so I do believe that

922
00:49:34.000 --> 00:49:37.599
<v Speaker 3>he had something not right, that that something was definitely wrong.

923
00:49:38.239 --> 00:49:39.960
<v Speaker 3>But I do believe that he was saying that he

924
00:49:40.039 --> 00:49:41.960
<v Speaker 3>knew the difference between right and wrong, he knew what

925
00:49:42.039 --> 00:49:45.039
<v Speaker 3>he was doing. I mean, he asked for forgiveness before

926
00:49:45.239 --> 00:49:48.360
<v Speaker 3>his execution. He knew what he was doing was wrong,

927
00:49:49.239 --> 00:49:51.679
<v Speaker 3>and so that's you know that. I mean, he proved

928
00:49:51.719 --> 00:49:52.639
<v Speaker 3>that again and again.

929
00:49:54.400 --> 00:49:56.880
<v Speaker 7>But he was attempting to toy with the media, telling

930
00:49:56.920 --> 00:50:01.760
<v Speaker 7>them this story that he was half angel half human

931
00:50:02.519 --> 00:50:07.639
<v Speaker 7>and other religious mumbo jumbo to somewhat give this insane

932
00:50:07.880 --> 00:50:12.280
<v Speaker 7>insanity defense some credibility. But at the same time, there

933
00:50:12.280 --> 00:50:15.280
<v Speaker 7>were letters to his his common law wife that just

934
00:50:15.280 --> 00:50:18.960
<v Speaker 7>seemed to be totally sane and just about mundane topics.

935
00:50:19.000 --> 00:50:21.280
<v Speaker 7>So sort of yeah, I mean, I.

936
00:50:20.960 --> 00:50:23.519
<v Speaker 3>Think that part of part of why he was doing that,

937
00:50:23.960 --> 00:50:26.559
<v Speaker 3>you know, the trying to kind of get some notoriety,

938
00:50:27.159 --> 00:50:31.000
<v Speaker 3>was that he was trying to maybe possibly make money

939
00:50:31.599 --> 00:50:34.679
<v Speaker 3>for his common law wife. And he had a daughter

940
00:50:35.199 --> 00:50:37.559
<v Speaker 3>that that you know, was born, and I mean I

941
00:50:38.000 --> 00:50:40.679
<v Speaker 3>believe that he was probably trying to you know, make

942
00:50:40.800 --> 00:50:44.440
<v Speaker 3>money for them, and and so you know, and and

943
00:50:44.519 --> 00:50:47.280
<v Speaker 3>you know, his mom testified during the trial that she

944
00:50:47.480 --> 00:50:49.039
<v Speaker 3>that she had dropped him on his head when he

945
00:50:49.119 --> 00:50:52.320
<v Speaker 3>was a baby and things like that, and people are like,

946
00:50:52.400 --> 00:50:54.599
<v Speaker 3>does that make you mad? And I'm like, I'm now

947
00:50:54.599 --> 00:50:57.639
<v Speaker 3>a mom, Like I understand if my child, if this

948
00:50:57.760 --> 00:51:00.239
<v Speaker 3>is my child, I would try to explain, I mean,

949
00:51:00.280 --> 00:51:03.280
<v Speaker 3>something that I had done to cause this person to

950
00:51:03.320 --> 00:51:05.639
<v Speaker 3>be this way. Like I get it now. I mean,

951
00:51:05.920 --> 00:51:09.199
<v Speaker 3>now that I'm a mom, I understand why she did

952
00:51:09.239 --> 00:51:11.719
<v Speaker 3>that and why she feels like it's her fault, because

953
00:51:12.079 --> 00:51:17.440
<v Speaker 3>you can't you know, rationalize how you raised your child

954
00:51:17.559 --> 00:51:19.639
<v Speaker 3>and that this is your child now that's doing these

955
00:51:19.679 --> 00:51:24.760
<v Speaker 3>horrible things. You know. So I've got a lot more empathy,

956
00:51:25.000 --> 00:51:28.079
<v Speaker 3>I think, and grace for his family and you know,

957
00:51:28.239 --> 00:51:31.440
<v Speaker 3>people that loved him and what they have now gone through.

958
00:51:32.199 --> 00:51:35.360
<v Speaker 3>I think he just caused a lot of heartache all around.

959
00:51:35.400 --> 00:51:37.920
<v Speaker 3>It wasn't just with his victims and their families. It's

960
00:51:37.960 --> 00:51:40.599
<v Speaker 3>his family. I mean, it's just it's a lot of

961
00:51:40.599 --> 00:51:44.400
<v Speaker 3>heartache and and you know it was all caused by him.

962
00:51:46.880 --> 00:51:51.119
<v Speaker 7>We have to get back to where you your process

963
00:51:51.119 --> 00:51:55.119
<v Speaker 7>for overcoming this trauma to a to a degree that

964
00:51:55.159 --> 00:51:57.639
<v Speaker 7>you could go back to school and focus and get

965
00:51:57.679 --> 00:52:00.320
<v Speaker 7>on with your life. And we did skip over just

966
00:52:01.000 --> 00:52:05.039
<v Speaker 7>I'm sorry, but we missed this faithful meeting with Jacob

967
00:52:05.159 --> 00:52:09.199
<v Speaker 7>Pendleton back in nineteen ninety eight. So just tell us

968
00:52:09.199 --> 00:52:14.760
<v Speaker 7>briefly about this meeting and sort of what happened before

969
00:52:14.800 --> 00:52:18.199
<v Speaker 7>we can later fast forward to what happens later the

970
00:52:18.280 --> 00:52:19.199
<v Speaker 7>good parts of your life.

971
00:52:19.199 --> 00:52:22.960
<v Speaker 3>Sure, sure, well, you know, I think my life was

972
00:52:23.000 --> 00:52:25.960
<v Speaker 3>pretty great after when I went back to school. It

973
00:52:26.039 --> 00:52:28.760
<v Speaker 3>was really one month later, and it was because I

974
00:52:28.800 --> 00:52:31.079
<v Speaker 3>felt normal at school. I needed to take back some

975
00:52:31.119 --> 00:52:34.719
<v Speaker 3>control and control for me was going back to school.

976
00:52:35.559 --> 00:52:37.559
<v Speaker 3>I also don't know how my parents let me do that,

977
00:52:37.679 --> 00:52:40.440
<v Speaker 3>now that I know, you know what I know, But

978
00:52:41.800 --> 00:52:43.599
<v Speaker 3>they did let me, and I went back to school

979
00:52:43.599 --> 00:52:45.800
<v Speaker 3>and I felt normal at school. It felt good to

980
00:52:45.960 --> 00:52:49.840
<v Speaker 3>be back in control and to be living my life.

981
00:52:49.920 --> 00:52:54.320
<v Speaker 3>And I actually dropped all my classes that year except

982
00:52:54.400 --> 00:52:57.079
<v Speaker 3>for one because I couldn't. You know, I'd missed a

983
00:52:57.079 --> 00:53:00.000
<v Speaker 3>month of school. I couldn't keep up, but I kept

984
00:53:00.119 --> 00:53:02.800
<v Speaker 3>one class and so I was bored. And so I

985
00:53:02.840 --> 00:53:04.519
<v Speaker 3>got a job, and I got a job at an

986
00:53:04.519 --> 00:53:07.239
<v Speaker 3>outdoor store. My friend, my srity sister, helped me get

987
00:53:07.280 --> 00:53:10.840
<v Speaker 3>that job, and I met this young man while I

988
00:53:10.920 --> 00:53:12.880
<v Speaker 3>was working. He was in the ski department. I was

989
00:53:12.880 --> 00:53:17.079
<v Speaker 3>a cashier and his name was Jacob. He I didn't

990
00:53:17.079 --> 00:53:19.159
<v Speaker 3>know him before the attack, and so I was a

991
00:53:19.199 --> 00:53:21.599
<v Speaker 3>little afraid to kind of get into relationship with him.

992
00:53:21.639 --> 00:53:24.599
<v Speaker 3>But luckily, you know, my sorority sister had worked at

993
00:53:24.599 --> 00:53:26.840
<v Speaker 3>that store for a long time, so she had you know,

994
00:53:26.920 --> 00:53:29.000
<v Speaker 3>they were those were her friends, and she had told

995
00:53:29.079 --> 00:53:31.760
<v Speaker 3>them about what had happened, and they all knew about

996
00:53:31.760 --> 00:53:35.639
<v Speaker 3>what had happened, and you know, I think it was

997
00:53:35.679 --> 00:53:38.719
<v Speaker 3>a very normal relationship for you know what it could

998
00:53:38.719 --> 00:53:40.360
<v Speaker 3>have what it could have been. I think there was

999
00:53:40.360 --> 00:53:42.280
<v Speaker 3>a lot more nights that I cried. There was a

1000
00:53:42.280 --> 00:53:46.480
<v Speaker 3>lot of you know in crying and being upset. But

1001
00:53:46.559 --> 00:53:48.679
<v Speaker 3>it was a very normal relationship. And I think that

1002
00:53:48.679 --> 00:53:51.320
<v Speaker 3>that felt good too, that I could get, you know,

1003
00:53:51.440 --> 00:53:54.559
<v Speaker 3>back into I could trust someone and get into a

1004
00:53:54.599 --> 00:53:59.199
<v Speaker 3>relationship that I felt safe in and and I did

1005
00:53:59.199 --> 00:54:02.320
<v Speaker 3>feel very safe in it. There was, you know, a

1006
00:54:02.360 --> 00:54:06.280
<v Speaker 3>breakup around the year anniversary of the attack. That's that's

1007
00:54:06.320 --> 00:54:09.079
<v Speaker 3>the story of uh, Jacob and I is a long one,

1008
00:54:09.119 --> 00:54:13.000
<v Speaker 3>a very drawn out story. But you know today I

1009
00:54:13.039 --> 00:54:15.800
<v Speaker 3>actually am married to him, So it's a it's a

1010
00:54:15.840 --> 00:54:19.559
<v Speaker 3>twenty year story of you know, some breakups, some uh

1011
00:54:19.679 --> 00:54:22.960
<v Speaker 3>getting back together, some you know times of dating, not

1012
00:54:23.119 --> 00:54:27.679
<v Speaker 3>really you know, getting along very well sometimes. But you know,

1013
00:54:27.719 --> 00:54:31.079
<v Speaker 3>we've been married now thirteen years this year, and you know,

1014
00:54:31.239 --> 00:54:33.880
<v Speaker 3>he's he's an amazing guy, Like he has been through

1015
00:54:34.239 --> 00:54:37.320
<v Speaker 3>my entire healing journey with me. I mean he was there,

1016
00:54:38.079 --> 00:54:41.199
<v Speaker 3>you know three I met him basically two or three

1017
00:54:41.239 --> 00:54:45.360
<v Speaker 3>months after the attack, so he was there through all

1018
00:54:45.440 --> 00:54:47.719
<v Speaker 3>of my healing. He has been there. He you know,

1019
00:54:47.840 --> 00:54:52.000
<v Speaker 3>has supported me through all of my healing and so

1020
00:54:52.119 --> 00:54:54.559
<v Speaker 3>it's I I couldn't ask for a better person to

1021
00:54:54.599 --> 00:54:57.760
<v Speaker 3>have in my corner to support me and too you know,

1022
00:54:58.840 --> 00:55:02.159
<v Speaker 3>basically let me heal how I need to, because that's

1023
00:55:02.320 --> 00:55:04.519
<v Speaker 3>that's what he does. He you know, doesn't try to

1024
00:55:04.559 --> 00:55:07.079
<v Speaker 3>fix me. He lets me do what I need to do.

1025
00:55:07.159 --> 00:55:10.440
<v Speaker 3>And I think that that's about why our relationship works

1026
00:55:10.480 --> 00:55:13.639
<v Speaker 3>so well, you know that. And I talked I talked

1027
00:55:13.679 --> 00:55:16.559
<v Speaker 3>before about my support system, and I think what's been

1028
00:55:16.599 --> 00:55:19.239
<v Speaker 3>amazing for me and my healing has been being able

1029
00:55:19.280 --> 00:55:22.519
<v Speaker 3>to talk about what happened. I was asked two years after,

1030
00:55:22.760 --> 00:55:24.880
<v Speaker 3>about a year a year and a half after the attack,

1031
00:55:24.960 --> 00:55:28.360
<v Speaker 3>to do some public speaking, and I thought, this is crazy,

1032
00:55:28.440 --> 00:55:30.960
<v Speaker 3>Like I would I can't do public speaking. I don't

1033
00:55:31.039 --> 00:55:33.960
<v Speaker 3>like public speaking. That was my worst class in college. Like,

1034
00:55:34.519 --> 00:55:37.159
<v Speaker 3>this is not something I can do. But she was like,

1035
00:55:37.159 --> 00:55:39.559
<v Speaker 3>it's a safety talk, you know, you could talk about

1036
00:55:39.599 --> 00:55:41.920
<v Speaker 3>your experience. And I'm like, you're crazy, Like I don't

1037
00:55:41.960 --> 00:55:45.360
<v Speaker 3>know anything about safety. And then as I thought about

1038
00:55:45.360 --> 00:55:46.800
<v Speaker 3>it some more, I was like, well, if I could

1039
00:55:46.800 --> 00:55:49.079
<v Speaker 3>give them some awareness by telling them my story and

1040
00:55:49.119 --> 00:55:52.719
<v Speaker 3>telling them what happened, then I can do something. Uh.

1041
00:55:52.880 --> 00:55:55.639
<v Speaker 3>And so you know, I started doing a safety talk

1042
00:55:55.679 --> 00:55:59.360
<v Speaker 3>and people really started, people were listening, and I really

1043
00:55:59.440 --> 00:56:01.880
<v Speaker 3>was just talking. That's that's what I do. You know,

1044
00:56:02.159 --> 00:56:05.079
<v Speaker 3>I'm not a professional speaker today. Even I'm not a

1045
00:56:05.079 --> 00:56:08.639
<v Speaker 3>professional speaker. I just talk. I just tell you my story.

1046
00:56:09.239 --> 00:56:11.719
<v Speaker 3>And that's, you know, what I've always done. But it's

1047
00:56:11.760 --> 00:56:14.320
<v Speaker 3>so healing for me. It's so healing for me to

1048
00:56:14.400 --> 00:56:17.079
<v Speaker 3>talk about it. It loses its power over you. The

1049
00:56:17.079 --> 00:56:19.559
<v Speaker 3>more you can talk about it, the more it loses

1050
00:56:19.599 --> 00:56:21.840
<v Speaker 3>its power. That's why today I can talk about it

1051
00:56:22.079 --> 00:56:25.199
<v Speaker 3>and not cry and not get upset. It's lost its

1052
00:56:25.239 --> 00:56:28.440
<v Speaker 3>power over me. I'm I'm now living this life that

1053
00:56:29.039 --> 00:56:33.519
<v Speaker 3>is free from all that anger and revenge and feelings

1054
00:56:33.559 --> 00:56:36.920
<v Speaker 3>of hate and all those feelings that are bad. I've

1055
00:56:37.000 --> 00:56:40.119
<v Speaker 3>let those go. I've let those go with with my attacker.

1056
00:56:40.199 --> 00:56:42.880
<v Speaker 3>They're his fault, they go with him. I've let them

1057
00:56:42.920 --> 00:56:45.880
<v Speaker 3>go and I can live this happy life. I choose

1058
00:56:45.920 --> 00:56:48.679
<v Speaker 3>to live this happy life, this you know, life of

1059
00:56:48.719 --> 00:56:51.280
<v Speaker 3>helping others and to you know, do what I can

1060
00:56:51.400 --> 00:56:55.320
<v Speaker 3>to try to help other survivors in their healing. And

1061
00:56:55.400 --> 00:56:58.280
<v Speaker 3>you know, that's that's been kind of my mission, is

1062
00:56:58.320 --> 00:57:00.360
<v Speaker 3>that you know, I got a lot, a lot of

1063
00:57:00.400 --> 00:57:04.440
<v Speaker 3>healing from other survivors. I sneaked out survivors' books. I

1064
00:57:04.480 --> 00:57:06.760
<v Speaker 3>wanted to read them. I wanted to know that I

1065
00:57:06.880 --> 00:57:10.079
<v Speaker 3>wasn't going crazy, that what I was feeling was normal,

1066
00:57:10.159 --> 00:57:12.800
<v Speaker 3>that other survivors were going through this too. And so

1067
00:57:12.880 --> 00:57:16.159
<v Speaker 3>I got a lot of power from hearing from other survivors,

1068
00:57:16.159 --> 00:57:18.880
<v Speaker 3>and a lot of power in my healing hearing from

1069
00:57:18.920 --> 00:57:22.239
<v Speaker 3>other survivors. So I think that that's a good A

1070
00:57:22.280 --> 00:57:25.039
<v Speaker 3>big reason why I wanted to, you know, help, why

1071
00:57:25.079 --> 00:57:27.119
<v Speaker 3>I want to help others is because I got so

1072
00:57:27.239 --> 00:57:30.320
<v Speaker 3>much from other survivors.

1073
00:57:30.639 --> 00:57:35.239
<v Speaker 7>Not only the influence of doctor Pardon Me, Detective Surrell,

1074
00:57:35.760 --> 00:57:40.400
<v Speaker 7>and Texas Ranger Carter, but also another police officer with

1075
00:57:40.480 --> 00:57:45.599
<v Speaker 7>a vision, Brian Turpin, gets together with you after his wife.

1076
00:57:45.880 --> 00:57:49.119
<v Speaker 7>Here's one of your inspirational talks. You become quite a

1077
00:57:49.360 --> 00:57:53.920
<v Speaker 7>prolific and sought after speaker, and so he has an

1078
00:57:53.960 --> 00:57:58.320
<v Speaker 7>idea for something bigger to unite some of the services

1079
00:57:58.320 --> 00:58:00.000
<v Speaker 7>and some of the things you think that are missing

1080
00:58:00.960 --> 00:58:04.400
<v Speaker 7>when people want to report and they come up with

1081
00:58:04.519 --> 00:58:06.639
<v Speaker 7>a vision. So tell us a little bit about the

1082
00:58:06.760 --> 00:58:11.400
<v Speaker 7>vision and what happens and what the work did you

1083
00:58:11.440 --> 00:58:13.199
<v Speaker 7>do to try to secure a building? Tell us a

1084
00:58:13.239 --> 00:58:18.000
<v Speaker 7>little bit about this transformation to get to Holly's House.

1085
00:58:18.880 --> 00:58:20.920
<v Speaker 3>Yes, we well, we worked for over four and a

1086
00:58:20.960 --> 00:58:23.719
<v Speaker 3>half years to develop Holly's House. Brian Turpin called me

1087
00:58:23.760 --> 00:58:26.320
<v Speaker 3>on the phone. He said, you know, he called me

1088
00:58:26.400 --> 00:58:27.760
<v Speaker 3>up and he just and I was working for my

1089
00:58:27.840 --> 00:58:29.719
<v Speaker 3>dad at the time. I was doing exactly what I

1090
00:58:29.760 --> 00:58:31.559
<v Speaker 3>was planning to do, working for my dad, you know,

1091
00:58:31.639 --> 00:58:33.400
<v Speaker 3>kind of working my way up in his company. That

1092
00:58:33.480 --> 00:58:34.960
<v Speaker 3>was my pro that was what I was gonna do.

1093
00:58:35.840 --> 00:58:37.880
<v Speaker 3>But Brian Turpin called me and he says, you know,

1094
00:58:37.960 --> 00:58:41.039
<v Speaker 3>I heard you, My wife heard you speak, and we're

1095
00:58:41.039 --> 00:58:43.679
<v Speaker 3>really wanting to start an advocacy center in Evansville, and

1096
00:58:43.719 --> 00:58:46.440
<v Speaker 3>we think you should be involved. And I thought I

1097
00:58:46.480 --> 00:58:49.159
<v Speaker 3>had to google what an advocacy center was because I

1098
00:58:49.199 --> 00:58:53.119
<v Speaker 3>had no idea, but it so made sense. So what

1099
00:58:53.159 --> 00:58:57.199
<v Speaker 3>an advocacy center is as a it's a safe reporting

1100
00:58:57.239 --> 00:59:00.679
<v Speaker 3>location for victims of crime. So know, it's a it's

1101
00:59:00.719 --> 00:59:02.480
<v Speaker 3>a safe place that they can come. They don't have

1102
00:59:02.519 --> 00:59:04.920
<v Speaker 3>to go to the police department. They can come and

1103
00:59:05.000 --> 00:59:07.760
<v Speaker 3>they can be interviewed in a one interview process, and

1104
00:59:07.800 --> 00:59:12.360
<v Speaker 3>it's safer, it is more admissible in court. It helps

1105
00:59:12.480 --> 00:59:16.199
<v Speaker 3>get more perpetrators in jail. It helps, you know, it

1106
00:59:16.280 --> 00:59:19.760
<v Speaker 3>helps victims. And so, you know, as I realized that,

1107
00:59:19.840 --> 00:59:22.159
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, I would love to be involved, and he's like, okay,

1108
00:59:22.159 --> 00:59:24.320
<v Speaker 3>well we'd like to name it after you. And I thought, well,

1109
00:59:24.360 --> 00:59:26.400
<v Speaker 3>if you're going to name it after me, I might

1110
00:59:26.440 --> 00:59:28.559
<v Speaker 3>have to be a little more involved than I than

1111
00:59:28.840 --> 00:59:31.519
<v Speaker 3>you know, we might need a partner up here. So

1112
00:59:32.159 --> 00:59:34.119
<v Speaker 3>we did. We partnered up. We worked four and a

1113
00:59:34.159 --> 00:59:38.199
<v Speaker 3>half years to get Holly's House opened. We were determined

1114
00:59:38.239 --> 00:59:40.639
<v Speaker 3>to open Holly's House as a nonprofit. We wanted to

1115
00:59:40.679 --> 00:59:46.079
<v Speaker 3>open one debt free, and so we were constantly talking

1116
00:59:46.159 --> 00:59:49.400
<v Speaker 3>to the community and anyone that would listen to try

1117
00:59:49.480 --> 00:59:52.920
<v Speaker 3>to support us in our efforts to get Holly's House started.

1118
00:59:53.360 --> 00:59:58.760
<v Speaker 3>So we talked to the Building Trades Commission and we

1119
00:59:58.840 --> 01:00:03.079
<v Speaker 3>had secured a buildings that first with the library, the

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01:00:03.119 --> 01:00:05.679
<v Speaker 3>board of the Library. We had to secure our building.

1121
01:00:05.760 --> 01:00:09.000
<v Speaker 3>It was an old library that we secured through a

1122
01:00:09.000 --> 01:00:13.880
<v Speaker 3>lot of talk and proposition. We actually you know, got

1123
01:00:13.880 --> 01:00:17.000
<v Speaker 3>that library donated to us. And then we had to

1124
01:00:17.000 --> 01:00:19.599
<v Speaker 3>get the labor donated to us to be able to

1125
01:00:19.639 --> 01:00:22.880
<v Speaker 3>renovate the building. So we met with the Building Trades

1126
01:00:22.960 --> 01:00:25.719
<v Speaker 3>and they all got on board to renovate the building

1127
01:00:25.760 --> 01:00:29.280
<v Speaker 3>for us, and all the labor unions got involved and

1128
01:00:29.320 --> 01:00:32.960
<v Speaker 3>they you know, did all the work with their apprentices

1129
01:00:33.039 --> 01:00:39.360
<v Speaker 3>to get Holly's House renovated. And so we opened in

1130
01:00:39.559 --> 01:00:42.480
<v Speaker 3>two thousand and eight, in September of two thousand and eight,

1131
01:00:42.679 --> 01:00:46.159
<v Speaker 3>and we opened one hundred percent debt free, and we

1132
01:00:46.320 --> 01:00:48.679
<v Speaker 3>are a child in an adult avacy center, So we

1133
01:00:48.760 --> 01:00:53.440
<v Speaker 3>served children victims as well as adult victims, and we

1134
01:00:53.599 --> 01:00:56.719
<v Speaker 3>give them a safe place to report that crime happening.

1135
01:00:56.760 --> 01:01:00.199
<v Speaker 3>And then we've also i guess furthered our services and

1136
01:01:00.239 --> 01:01:02.880
<v Speaker 3>that now we try to help prevent these crimes from happening.

1137
01:01:02.920 --> 01:01:06.320
<v Speaker 3>We teach a program in our local schools called Think First,

1138
01:01:06.320 --> 01:01:10.480
<v Speaker 3>Stay Safe, and we try to prevent these types of

1139
01:01:10.679 --> 01:01:14.920
<v Speaker 3>you know, child especially child sexual abuse, child abuse from happening,

1140
01:01:15.800 --> 01:01:20.000
<v Speaker 3>and so it teaches kindergarten through fifth grade children the

1141
01:01:20.119 --> 01:01:24.119
<v Speaker 3>lures that predators use to try to make them victims,

1142
01:01:25.000 --> 01:01:28.639
<v Speaker 3>and so, you know, it's it's, you know, we want

1143
01:01:28.679 --> 01:01:31.320
<v Speaker 3>to prevent these crimes from happening, and we that's you know,

1144
01:01:31.400 --> 01:01:37.280
<v Speaker 3>Holly's House serves the local our community in Indiana, Southern Indiana, Evansville, Indiana,

1145
01:01:38.000 --> 01:01:41.599
<v Speaker 3>but we also serve our surrounding counties, and there are

1146
01:01:41.639 --> 01:01:45.280
<v Speaker 3>advocacy centers like this across the United States. There's child

1147
01:01:45.280 --> 01:01:49.280
<v Speaker 3>advocacy centers across the United States. So they're in many

1148
01:01:49.320 --> 01:01:52.599
<v Speaker 3>people's communities and you may not even know what they're doing,

1149
01:01:52.760 --> 01:01:55.800
<v Speaker 3>and you hopefully never have to go to one, because

1150
01:01:56.159 --> 01:01:57.800
<v Speaker 3>if you do have to go to one, it means

1151
01:01:57.840 --> 01:02:01.079
<v Speaker 3>that a child has been a used and that they

1152
01:02:01.079 --> 01:02:04.559
<v Speaker 3>need to be interviewed. So you know, you you it's

1153
01:02:04.639 --> 01:02:06.719
<v Speaker 3>the thing in your community that you hope you never

1154
01:02:06.840 --> 01:02:10.039
<v Speaker 3>have to use. But then when something like this happens

1155
01:02:10.039 --> 01:02:14.920
<v Speaker 3>to your loved one, it is the most amazing organization

1156
01:02:15.039 --> 01:02:18.239
<v Speaker 3>to have in your community because it would be the

1157
01:02:18.280 --> 01:02:21.480
<v Speaker 3>process would be so much more difficult without that advocacy

1158
01:02:21.519 --> 01:02:24.159
<v Speaker 3>center in your community. And so that's you know, that

1159
01:02:24.239 --> 01:02:27.519
<v Speaker 3>was a missing piece in our community, and it was

1160
01:02:27.559 --> 01:02:30.440
<v Speaker 3>a labor of love and a lot of tears to

1161
01:02:30.519 --> 01:02:34.360
<v Speaker 3>get Hollysouse open. It was not easy, but you know,

1162
01:02:34.400 --> 01:02:39.519
<v Speaker 3>it is an amazing resource for our community.

1163
01:02:39.679 --> 01:02:43.400
<v Speaker 7>You talk about stepping down as the executive director, a

1164
01:02:43.400 --> 01:02:48.559
<v Speaker 7>lot of stress and then realizing that all this responsibility

1165
01:02:48.639 --> 01:02:51.199
<v Speaker 7>do you still have to take care of yourself? And

1166
01:02:51.239 --> 01:02:55.159
<v Speaker 7>then some really really happy news happened, tell us about

1167
01:02:56.480 --> 01:02:57.920
<v Speaker 7>the burths of your sons.

1168
01:02:58.599 --> 01:03:01.920
<v Speaker 3>Sure, So we I actually left Holly's house and we

1169
01:03:01.920 --> 01:03:05.199
<v Speaker 3>were in the adoption process. We were suffering from infertility,

1170
01:03:05.280 --> 01:03:07.920
<v Speaker 3>and so we were actually in the adoption process and

1171
01:03:08.159 --> 01:03:11.440
<v Speaker 3>but simultaneously we were doing fertility treatment. So it's like

1172
01:03:11.480 --> 01:03:13.760
<v Speaker 3>we were gonna get a baby one way or another.

1173
01:03:14.639 --> 01:03:21.000
<v Speaker 3>And so we ended up after our fertility treatment, we

1174
01:03:21.079 --> 01:03:24.920
<v Speaker 3>ended up pregnant. And it was after seven years of infertility,

1175
01:03:25.760 --> 01:03:28.559
<v Speaker 3>and we ended up being pregnant with our son, who

1176
01:03:28.639 --> 01:03:32.079
<v Speaker 3>is now five years old. And I mean, it was

1177
01:03:32.119 --> 01:03:34.599
<v Speaker 3>the greatest gifts that I've ever been given. I mean,

1178
01:03:34.679 --> 01:03:36.960
<v Speaker 3>I I didn't even know that I how much I

1179
01:03:37.000 --> 01:03:39.960
<v Speaker 3>wanted to be a mother till I had him. And

1180
01:03:40.039 --> 01:03:43.400
<v Speaker 3>it was like my greatest dream come true. I didn't

1181
01:03:43.440 --> 01:03:45.840
<v Speaker 3>know that your heart could be outside of your body

1182
01:03:45.920 --> 01:03:49.400
<v Speaker 3>like that, that you could love something so much. And

1183
01:03:49.719 --> 01:03:52.639
<v Speaker 3>you know, his name is William Christopher and we named

1184
01:03:52.679 --> 01:03:56.679
<v Speaker 3>him William Christopher and Christopher is after Christopher Meyer, my

1185
01:03:56.719 --> 01:03:59.960
<v Speaker 3>boyfriend that was killed. So he has a very special name.

1186
01:04:01.039 --> 01:04:04.760
<v Speaker 3>And he actually has a bear that was made with

1187
01:04:04.880 --> 01:04:08.920
<v Speaker 3>a pair of Chris's favorite jeans. My my friend Adrian

1188
01:04:08.960 --> 01:04:12.920
<v Speaker 3>actually had a stuffed bear made from a pair of

1189
01:04:13.000 --> 01:04:16.320
<v Speaker 3>Chris's jeans, so he has, you know, that bear. He

1190
01:04:16.360 --> 01:04:18.480
<v Speaker 3>doesn't know, right, I mean, he he knows a little

1191
01:04:18.480 --> 01:04:20.800
<v Speaker 3>bit now that being he's five, he knows kind of

1192
01:04:21.159 --> 01:04:23.920
<v Speaker 3>who Chris is. I don't think he you know, we

1193
01:04:24.039 --> 01:04:26.679
<v Speaker 3>keep pictures of Chris in our house, and we definitely

1194
01:04:26.760 --> 01:04:29.480
<v Speaker 3>keep his memory alive. I don't think he really realizes,

1195
01:04:30.199 --> 01:04:33.199
<v Speaker 3>you know, that he's that he knows he's named after him,

1196
01:04:33.199 --> 01:04:35.400
<v Speaker 3>but I don't think he knows exactly who he is.

1197
01:04:35.480 --> 01:04:38.360
<v Speaker 3>I think he knows he's in heaven and that he's

1198
01:04:38.360 --> 01:04:41.320
<v Speaker 3>not in the world, but you know, he doesn't really

1199
01:04:41.360 --> 01:04:44.559
<v Speaker 3>know why. And that's you know that. And we actually

1200
01:04:44.639 --> 01:04:47.880
<v Speaker 3>have another son now as well. We did that whole

1201
01:04:47.920 --> 01:04:51.000
<v Speaker 3>fertility process again and so now we have our two boys,

1202
01:04:51.840 --> 01:04:54.239
<v Speaker 3>and you know, our our lives are complete. This is

1203
01:04:54.679 --> 01:04:57.960
<v Speaker 3>we're done having children now. And but our two boys

1204
01:04:58.000 --> 01:05:00.519
<v Speaker 3>are probably the greatest gift and the most am things

1205
01:05:00.559 --> 01:05:01.199
<v Speaker 3>in our lives.

1206
01:05:01.239 --> 01:05:06.480
<v Speaker 7>So it's an amazing, uplifting book. We didn't even go

1207
01:05:06.559 --> 01:05:10.599
<v Speaker 7>into a lot of the incredible adventure when the police

1208
01:05:10.960 --> 01:05:14.920
<v Speaker 7>you cooperate with America's Most Wanted and John Walsh, and

1209
01:05:15.119 --> 01:05:18.400
<v Speaker 7>it aids in the capture and the helps and just

1210
01:05:18.559 --> 01:05:25.360
<v Speaker 7>the incredible national interest in this story and you in particular,

1211
01:05:25.519 --> 01:05:28.760
<v Speaker 7>and so it was we just touched on a little

1212
01:05:28.800 --> 01:05:30.800
<v Speaker 7>bit of that. I want to thank you very much,

1213
01:05:31.159 --> 01:05:34.440
<v Speaker 7>Holly Dunn for coming on and talking about Soul Survivor

1214
01:05:34.920 --> 01:05:37.519
<v Speaker 7>inspiring two story of coming face to face with the

1215
01:05:37.519 --> 01:05:40.679
<v Speaker 7>infamous railroad killer has been my pleasure, and thank you

1216
01:05:40.800 --> 01:05:44.239
<v Speaker 7>very much. For those that might want to find this book,

1217
01:05:44.320 --> 01:05:46.280
<v Speaker 7>or do you have a Facebook page or a website?

1218
01:05:46.800 --> 01:05:49.000
<v Speaker 7>Is there any way people might contact you or look

1219
01:05:49.079 --> 01:05:49.800
<v Speaker 7>at other work?

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01:05:51.000 --> 01:05:55.800
<v Speaker 3>Sure? So the book website is just Sole Survivorbook dot

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01:05:55.840 --> 01:05:59.239
<v Speaker 3>com and that's s O L. E. Survivor Book dot

1222
01:05:59.280 --> 01:06:01.880
<v Speaker 3>com and they can go to that website and learn

1223
01:06:01.920 --> 01:06:05.360
<v Speaker 3>more about me. I'm also on all the social media outlets,

1224
01:06:05.360 --> 01:06:08.360
<v Speaker 3>as Holly K done, So I do have a Facebook

1225
01:06:08.440 --> 01:06:12.320
<v Speaker 3>page and Instagram in Twitter, so I can be found

1226
01:06:12.400 --> 01:06:15.920
<v Speaker 3>definitely on the social media sites. And you know, I

1227
01:06:16.000 --> 01:06:18.440
<v Speaker 3>love to hear from my supporters. I love to hear

1228
01:06:18.800 --> 01:06:21.880
<v Speaker 3>from the people that have helped me get to where

1229
01:06:21.880 --> 01:06:25.079
<v Speaker 3>I am today. So now you guys all listening, and

1230
01:06:25.599 --> 01:06:27.760
<v Speaker 3>you guys are all part of my healing process too,

1231
01:06:28.199 --> 01:06:30.360
<v Speaker 3>and so that you know that's every time I tell

1232
01:06:30.400 --> 01:06:32.320
<v Speaker 3>my story I have you know the people that are

1233
01:06:32.320 --> 01:06:33.679
<v Speaker 3>part of my healing process.

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01:06:35.199 --> 01:06:39.440
<v Speaker 7>Well, thank you very much. It's been an uplifting interview

1235
01:06:39.480 --> 01:06:43.599
<v Speaker 7>for a change that's pretty rare. Thank you, Thank you

1236
01:06:43.719 --> 01:06:47.000
<v Speaker 7>very much, and have a great evening. Thank you very

1237
01:06:47.039 --> 01:06:47.559
<v Speaker 7>much for the same.

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01:06:47.599 --> 01:06:51.400
<v Speaker 3>Thank you, thanks for having me. Thank care. Bye n
