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<v Speaker 1>Hello everybody, and welcome to Pastor Rick's Daily Hope. This

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<v Speaker 1>is the Bible teaching ministry of Rick Warren. Now today

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<v Speaker 1>we're continuing into the new year, and we're digging deeper

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<v Speaker 1>into one of life's biggest questions, does my life really matter?

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<v Speaker 1>In today's message, Rick's going to continue his powerful series

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<v Speaker 1>Live Your Calling? What on Earth Am I here for?

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<v Speaker 1>In it, you'll discover how living out God's purpose for

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<v Speaker 1>your life brings real meaning, direction, and joy no matter

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<v Speaker 1>where you're starting from. And now here's part two of

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<v Speaker 1>a message entitled you are called to become the fourth.

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<v Speaker 2>Thing on the steps of finishing the race of life?

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<v Speaker 2>Is this when it gets hard, remember the reward. When

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<v Speaker 2>life gets hard, you need to remember the reward. Now,

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<v Speaker 2>as I said, this goal for God to make you

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<v Speaker 2>the man he wants you to be, for God to

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<v Speaker 2>make you the woman he wants you to become. It's

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<v Speaker 2>a lifetime process. It's not a fifty yard dash. And

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<v Speaker 2>so You're gonna go through a lot of problems and

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<v Speaker 2>pressures and trials and difficulties and ups and downs, and

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<v Speaker 2>God's going to use it all to make you more

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<v Speaker 2>like Jesus. Now, since God's number one goal is to

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<v Speaker 2>make you like Christ. That's what he wants you. He

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<v Speaker 2>wants you to be loved, he wants you to belong,

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<v Speaker 2>and he wants you to become like Christ. Then it

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<v Speaker 2>means God is going to take you. Listen very closely.

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<v Speaker 2>If God's going to make you like Jesus, He's going

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<v Speaker 2>to take you through everything Jesus went through. Were there

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<v Speaker 2>times when Jesus was lonely? Yes? Were there times when

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<v Speaker 2>Jesus was criticized? Yes? Times when Jesus was betrayed? Yes?

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<v Speaker 2>Were there times when Jesus was worn out with fatigue

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<v Speaker 2>and he had had to keep going? Yes? Where there

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<v Speaker 2>times when he was missed on understood? Yes? And if

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<v Speaker 2>God did not spare his own son those things, why

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<v Speaker 2>do you think he would spare you? He won't. The

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<v Speaker 2>next time you start to ask why is this happening

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<v Speaker 2>to me, you need to realize God wants to use

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<v Speaker 2>it to build your attitude, to build your character. God

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<v Speaker 2>wants to use it to make you like Christ. And

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<v Speaker 2>instead of asking why, you need to say what What

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<v Speaker 2>do you want me to learn from this situation? The

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<v Speaker 2>Bible says Jesus learned obedience through suffering. The Bible says

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<v Speaker 2>Jesus was made complete through suffering. You're going to learn

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<v Speaker 2>them the same way. So you shouldn't be surprised when

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<v Speaker 2>problems come into your life, because this isn't the easy

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<v Speaker 2>stage that happens in eternity. In eternity, no more sorrow,

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<v Speaker 2>no more suffering, no more sadness, no more problems, no

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<v Speaker 2>more difficulties. But right now you're going to have all

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<v Speaker 2>kinds of problems because this is where you do the

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<v Speaker 2>character development, where you're growing and you're becoming, and when

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<v Speaker 2>life gets hard, you need to remember the rewards a

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<v Speaker 2>part of the process. Let me show you some verses

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<v Speaker 2>here on your outline. The next verse in Hebrews twelve

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<v Speaker 2>says this verse two and three, Jesus did not give

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<v Speaker 2>up when he's he's running his race because of the cross.

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<v Speaker 2>On the contrary, because of the joy that was waiting

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<v Speaker 2>for him in heaven. He thought nothing of the disgrace

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<v Speaker 2>of dying on the cross because he knew the reward

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<v Speaker 2>on the other side. And now he's seated at the

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<v Speaker 2>right side of God's throne. So think of what he

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<v Speaker 2>went through and how he put up with so much,

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<v Speaker 2>so much hatred from sinners. So don't let yourselves become

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<v Speaker 2>discouraged and give up. Say you know, this is just

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<v Speaker 2>part of the plan. The problems are part of the plan.

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<v Speaker 2>Look at the next verse. Here's a great promise one

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<v Speaker 2>Peter Chapter five. After you suffer for a while, for

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<v Speaker 2>a short time, God, who gives all grace, will make

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<v Speaker 2>everything right. That's a great promise. He will make you strong,

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<v Speaker 2>he will support you, he will keep you from falling.

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<v Speaker 2>That's good news when you're in the middle of a problem.

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<v Speaker 2>He called you to share in the glory in his glory.

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<v Speaker 2>He called you to share in his glory in Christ,

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<v Speaker 2>a glory that will continue forever. So we have short

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<v Speaker 2>term problems on Earth for long term glory in heaven. Now,

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<v Speaker 2>God does not promise an easy life here on Earth.

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<v Speaker 2>He does promise reward in heaven for the things you

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<v Speaker 2>learn from it, if you become more and more like Christ.

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<v Speaker 2>Anybody who tells you life is easy is out of

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<v Speaker 2>touch with reality. Fact is life is hard. Everybody agree

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<v Speaker 2>with that life is hard. It's not easy. Why because

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<v Speaker 2>this isn't Heaven. This is Earth. Everything on this planet broken.

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<v Speaker 2>Is there pleasure on Earth? Of course? There is? Are

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<v Speaker 2>there happy times on earth. Of course, there are are

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<v Speaker 2>there moments of joy on earth. Yes, are there times

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<v Speaker 2>when things are going great, yes, But as a general rule,

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<v Speaker 2>life is hard. You're not on easy street. Everything in

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<v Speaker 2>life you have to struggle for, you have to work for.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not easy. This is intentional, and you're learning through

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<v Speaker 2>the school of character development, the character that you're going

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<v Speaker 2>to carry with you into heaven. The Bible says this,

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<v Speaker 2>look here on the screen, it's not on your outline. Romans,

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<v Speaker 2>Chapter eight. Since we are his children, God's children, we

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<v Speaker 2>will share in his treasures. In other words, we get

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<v Speaker 2>the inheritance. If you're in a family, you inherit the

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<v Speaker 2>family treasures. For everything God gives to his son Christ

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<v Speaker 2>is ours too. What a deal. God owns everything in

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<v Speaker 2>the universe. He says, we get to share as children.

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<v Speaker 2>But here's the butt. But if we are to share

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<v Speaker 2>his glory, we must also share his suffering. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>like that part. Let's just cut that part out of

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<v Speaker 2>the Bible. Okay, we just forget that part. No, it says,

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<v Speaker 2>if you're going to share in his glory, then you're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna share in his suffering. No. No, God's no glory.

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<v Speaker 2>No no pain, no gain, And they say this is

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<v Speaker 2>part of life. Don't be surprised. And when life gets hard,

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<v Speaker 2>you need to remember the reward. Now, this week we're

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<v Speaker 2>doing a memory verse every week. This week we're gonna

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<v Speaker 2>memorize part of Romans chapter eight, verse twenty eight. So

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<v Speaker 2>let's put it up here on the screen. Romans eight

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<v Speaker 2>twenty eight says, in all things God works for the

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<v Speaker 2>good of those who love Him, who have been called

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<v Speaker 2>according to his purpose. Now, remember we say the verse.

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<v Speaker 2>We save the address at the beginning at the end,

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<v Speaker 2>So let's read it aloud together, Romans eight twenty eight.

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<v Speaker 2>In all things, God works for the good of those

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<v Speaker 2>who love Him, who've been called according to his purpose,

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<v Speaker 2>Romans eight twenty eight. Now, by the way, where does

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<v Speaker 2>in the Bible does it say that all things work

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<v Speaker 2>together for the good of those who love God? Romans

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<v Speaker 2>eight twenty eight. And what does Romans eight twenty eight

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<v Speaker 2>say in all things God works for the good of

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<v Speaker 2>those who love him, who have been called according to

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<v Speaker 2>his purpose? And where is that? Romans eight twenty eight,

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<v Speaker 2>Number five. The fifth step in the marathon to maturity

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<v Speaker 2>is I must gather a team to run with me.

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<v Speaker 2>I gather a team to run with me. Now it's

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<v Speaker 2>your race, and nobody can run your race, but people

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<v Speaker 2>can support you in your race. And what is helpful

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<v Speaker 2>is that in your life, at different stages of the race,

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<v Speaker 2>you're gonna need different people to run along with you.

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<v Speaker 2>Nobody is going to run your entire life with you.

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<v Speaker 2>If you married, there were years that you didn't know

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<v Speaker 2>that person. But at different stages in life, you have

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<v Speaker 2>people running with you through life, helping you, encouraging your,

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<v Speaker 2>supporting you. That's called a small group. If you don't

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<v Speaker 2>have anybody running with you, you're not going to make

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<v Speaker 2>it to the end of the race. You're going to

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<v Speaker 2>give up, You're going to discourage and you're not going

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<v Speaker 2>to become the woman you were intended to be. You're

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<v Speaker 2>not going to become the man God created you to be.

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<v Speaker 2>You need some other people in your life who were

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<v Speaker 2>encouraging you, spurring you on, helping you run your race.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I've been to Africa many many times. As

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<v Speaker 2>an old proverb in Africa that says, to run fast,

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<v Speaker 2>run by yourself, but to run far, run with other people. See,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want you to just run fast and burn out.

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<v Speaker 2>Every One of us know people who started off great

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<v Speaker 2>in life and they're nowhere to be found today. They

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<v Speaker 2>had so much potential, they had so much ability. Need

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<v Speaker 2>that guy, he's going somewhere. She is really going far,

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<v Speaker 2>and you knew it. And where there are today? They're sideline,

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<v Speaker 2>They're doing nothing. They're wasting their life. Why they didn't

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<v Speaker 2>have anybody running with them? You need a small group,

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<v Speaker 2>You need a few. You don't need one hundred people

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<v Speaker 2>running with you. You don't even need ten people running with you.

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<v Speaker 2>You need three or four running with you who you're

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<v Speaker 2>running with them, and they're running with you, and you're

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<v Speaker 2>supporting each other. When you feel like giving up, they

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<v Speaker 2>keep you going. Hebrews chapter ten says this, let us

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<v Speaker 2>consider how we may spur one another on to love

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<v Speaker 2>and to good deeds. Spur that means encourage. How do

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<v Speaker 2>we encourage each other to do the right thing. Let

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<v Speaker 2>us not give up meeting together. Talking about a small group,

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<v Speaker 2>let us not give up meeting together. I hope, hope

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<v Speaker 2>you're going to keep your small group after we finish

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<v Speaker 2>this series, as some are in the habit of doing.

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<v Speaker 2>But let us encourage one another. As you see the

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<v Speaker 2>day as approaching why do some people not make it

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<v Speaker 2>to the finish line? Why do we get stuck? Why

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<v Speaker 2>do we stop growing? Why do we settle for second

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<v Speaker 2>best and less than God's plan in our life? Why

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<v Speaker 2>do we cop out and give up? One reason? Fear.

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<v Speaker 2>It's fear, and a lot of times we don't even

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<v Speaker 2>realize how fearful we are. But what we think is,

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<v Speaker 2>I am so afraid of failing. I'm so afraid that

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<v Speaker 2>I won't be able to measure up. I'm so afraid

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<v Speaker 2>that I can't keep this commitment, I won't even try.

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<v Speaker 2>And it is fear that causes you to miss God's

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<v Speaker 2>best for your life. But when you belong to a

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<v Speaker 2>small group, and that small group believes in you, and

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<v Speaker 2>that small group loves you, then when you are beloved

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<v Speaker 2>and you belong you can become and they give you

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<v Speaker 2>the courage to do things. Having a small group who

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<v Speaker 2>loves you unconditionally gives you the courage to start the race,

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<v Speaker 2>gives you the courage to stay in the race, gives

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<v Speaker 2>you the courage to finish the race, and gives you

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<v Speaker 2>the courage to get up and start over. When you

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<v Speaker 2>stumbled and really screwed it up, they say you can

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<v Speaker 2>do this, You can do it now. That is a

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<v Speaker 2>safe place. When you get in a small group where

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<v Speaker 2>people love you unconditionally. That doesn't happen overnight. You don't.

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<v Speaker 2>A small group doesn't become safe in three weeks or

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<v Speaker 2>five weeks or six weeks. It takes time. As you

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<v Speaker 2>begin to learn to know these people that you begin

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<v Speaker 2>to trust them. You know their weaknesses, they know yours.

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<v Speaker 2>You begin to be more open. You can say I

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<v Speaker 2>really had a tough time today, and you begin to

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<v Speaker 2>have more openness with them because you're safe. Then you

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<v Speaker 2>can grow. I am in a very safe small group.

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<v Speaker 2>But it didn't happen overnight. We figured out this week

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<v Speaker 2>that the group we started that I'm in right now,

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<v Speaker 2>we started during the campaign fifty Days of Love. I

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<v Speaker 2>know those people like the back of my hand. I

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<v Speaker 2>Do every major problem you can think of, and I

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<v Speaker 2>you need to realize God is cheering me at every stage.

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<v Speaker 2>Nobody shames a baby for not knowing how to read.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm saying it's perfect for that stage of their development.

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<v Speaker 2>to not be ashamed at whatever stage of spiritual growth

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<v Speaker 2>you are in right now. A lot of times were

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<v Speaker 2>secretly thinking, man, I should be further along than this,

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<v Speaker 2>number of years old. Why am I still having this

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<v Speaker 2>am I still having this difficulty? And we start shaming

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<v Speaker 2>ourselves because we think God is ashamed of us. God

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<v Speaker 2>who are in Christ Jesus. Now, why is this important

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<v Speaker 2>that you realize that God is cheering you at every

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<v Speaker 2>stage of your life, because the major reason you don't

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<v Speaker 2>become the man you're supposed to be is shame. It's shame.

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<v Speaker 2>And what happens is, instead of admitting that we don't

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<v Speaker 2>have it all together, we spend all of our time

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<v Speaker 2>it all together, when inside you know I don't have

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<v Speaker 2>it all together by a long shot. Now I hate

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<v Speaker 2>to shock you, but everybody in the world knows you

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<v Speaker 2>don't have it together. In fact, you're the only one

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<v Speaker 2>who doesn't know it. God knows you don't have it

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<v Speaker 2>all together. As your pastor, I know you don't have

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<v Speaker 2>it all together. All your friends know you don't have

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<v Speaker 2>it together. They just want you to admit it. You

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<v Speaker 2>don't have it all together. When you start becoming vulnerable

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<v Speaker 2>and you start admitting, you know what, my life is

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<v Speaker 2>really screwed up. My life is really a mess. There's

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of errors here that just aren't right, then

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<v Speaker 2>you can stop spending all that energy on faking it

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<v Speaker 2>and pretending and convert that energy into becoming You can

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<v Speaker 2>either become what God wants you to be or you

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<v Speaker 2>can pretend you've already got it together, but you can't

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<v Speaker 2>have enough energy to do both. This is why I

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<v Speaker 2>love Celebrate Recovery so much. It's my favorite minister in

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<v Speaker 2>our church because the first step of the twelve steps

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<v Speaker 2>in Celebrate Recovery is I get out of denial. I

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<v Speaker 2>quit faking it. I quit pretending like I've got it

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<v Speaker 2>all together. I quit trying to pretend that I don't

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<v Speaker 2>have problems. Instead, I just admit my life is unmanageable

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<v Speaker 2>and I need a manager, and that manager needs to

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<v Speaker 2>be God. God is God, and I'm not. Once you

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<v Speaker 2>come to that, there's a great relief because you quit

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<v Speaker 2>trying to fake it anymore. You realize God loves me

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<v Speaker 2>even though my life's pretty screwed up right now, He's

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<v Speaker 2>still cheering me on, and now I can actually start

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<v Speaker 2>working on it. And by the way, Celebrate Recovery is

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<v Speaker 2>not just for people who have an addiction to say

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<v Speaker 2>alcohol or a drug or celebrate. Everybody needs recovery. Why

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<v Speaker 2>Because everybody's broken. You're emotionally broken, your emotions don't work perfectly,

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<v Speaker 2>you're relationally broken, your relationship sure don't work perfectly. Your

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<v Speaker 2>mind is broken. You don't think right all of the time.

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<v Speaker 2>Everything in your life, your body is broken, so we

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<v Speaker 2>all need recovery. And if you think I don't need recovery,

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<v Speaker 2>then you're the one who really needs recovery, because everybody

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<v Speaker 2>needs to grow and can't grow until you admit I

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<v Speaker 2>don't have it all together. Now, here's another passage. Philippians.

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<v Speaker 2>Chapter three in the Bible is another one of these

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<v Speaker 2>classic passages on the race of life. Paul, this is

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<v Speaker 2>of the Bible. Paul says this, Saint Paul, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>mean to say that I have already achieved these things

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<v Speaker 2>or that I've already reached perfection. Women, this is the

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<v Speaker 2>guy who wrote the Bible, and he's going, hey, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't have it together. I'm not saying I've already achieved

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<v Speaker 2>all this. I'm not saying I've already done all this.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not saying I'm perfect. He's not. And thank God,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not what I used to be, and I am

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<v Speaker 2>what I am. Thank God, I'm not what I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>to be. One day says I don't have it already achieved.

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<v Speaker 2>These things I haven't already gotten the perfection. But he says,

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<v Speaker 2>I keep working toward that day when I will finally

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<v Speaker 2>be all that Christ saved me for and wants me

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<v Speaker 2>to be. One day, I keep I'm going to be

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<v Speaker 2>what God wants to be, the man God wants to me.

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<v Speaker 2>One day I'll be that, he says. I'm still not there.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm still not all I should be. But I am

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<v Speaker 2>focusing on all my energies on this one thing. I

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<v Speaker 2>forget to pass. You know, all those dumb decisions that

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to forget the past. Forgetting the past, looking

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<v Speaker 2>forward to what lizahead, I strain to reach the end

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<v Speaker 2>of the race and receive the prize for which God

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<v Speaker 2>through Christ Jesus is calling. There's that word, the third

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<v Speaker 2>calling to become, is calling us up to heaven. So

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<v Speaker 2>they just keep on going. I don't have it all together,

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<v Speaker 2>but I keep strain in a head. Now, God is

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<v Speaker 2>you are parents. Have you ever watched your child run

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<v Speaker 2>a race at school? Yes? At what point did you

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<v Speaker 2>start cheering them when they crossed the finish line? No?

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<v Speaker 2>You start cheering your kids the moment they started the race,

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<v Speaker 2>and they'd get out of the starting box. You're going,

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<v Speaker 2>let's go, let's go, let's go. You can do it,

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<v Speaker 2>you can do it. You're cheering them at every stage

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<v Speaker 2>of the race. God is doing that with you. Right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's go. I know you can do it. I know.

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<v Speaker 2>Keep going, keep going. You're doing good, You're doing great.

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<v Speaker 2>Keep running, keep running. And God is cheering you at everything.

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<v Speaker 2>He's not waiting for you to get to finish line.

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<v Speaker 2>And what happens if you have a child who stumbles

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<v Speaker 2>I know you can do it. Get up. I believe

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<v Speaker 2>realized that God is cheering for you. The moment you stumble,

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<v Speaker 2>He's going, I know you can do it. You're better

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<v Speaker 2>in my family. Come on, you can do it. I

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<v Speaker 2>know you stumble. God is saying oh, you worthless piece

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<v Speaker 2>of baloney. I regret the day that I created you

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<v Speaker 2>once I No, that's not God, that's your dad. Don't

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<v Speaker 2>grown up with a mother or father that no matter

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<v Speaker 2>Come on, you can do better than that. Are you

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<v Speaker 2>kidding me? And they shamed you your entire life? That's

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<v Speaker 2>not God. God is cheering you every moment, and when

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<v Speaker 2>you stumble, he cheers more. Come on, I know you

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<v Speaker 2>can do it. I know you can do it. I

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<v Speaker 2>believe I made you, I created you, I died for you.

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<v Speaker 2>I love you. I've got to put my spirit in

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<v Speaker 1>Well, thank you so much for joining us today on

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