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Speaker 1: Creativity is an addiction, unplugged because we will always say

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yes to creativity, totally uncut because we all make mistakes.

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So let's turn it into a tool. This is arrow unplugged.

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Oh boy, coming to the page, this page right here,

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to be open with emotions on us by way of learning.

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No day passes that a new ray of light isn't recognized,

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but there shall be a place that we need to

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plant it. Why does it need energy in this moment?

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Is it strong enough to be set aside? See? These

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are the questions that I call defragging. Being aware of

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your emotions allows you to deal with what keeps taking

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over the extension of your expectation. Yes, we do ask questions,

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each and every one of us, But do we know

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how to trust the answer? And if we begin to

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build with it, what's the next step in the plan?

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And do we have the right tools to make any

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of it work? When do you finally give in and

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let the professor channels through the rest of the building. See,

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that's where the ego becomes bruised, when you openly admit

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that you can't do everything. Hey, Taro, this is the

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daily mess. A chronological walk through in everyday world. I

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am a daily writer, paying attention to the moments, those

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rays of light, then questioning what am I supposed to

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do with this? So often your gift for the day

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goes ignored because you didn't pay attention to how you

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received it and how you were supposed to send it out.

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So many times we hoarde all of this beautiful energy

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inside of us, and we think that it belongs to us,

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when in fact we're only part of the journey. This

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is the daily mess making a moment the moment. How

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often have we made the attempt only to fall flat

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of reaching the moment? Everything felt like the moment should

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have unfolded, but the identification and the indentation caused by

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an unexpected twist puts the heart in an area of question.

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Then again, the missed out moment might in fact be

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under judgment those areas of the heart that find energy

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in doubt, fear, and shame. The moment might have truly occurred,

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but a lack of trust and faith pour dirt on

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the fires of your success. One moment at a time

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invites an open platform of process. You cannot have progress

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unless you have process. Being available lowers the need to

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constantly compare. If all we do is look back, we're

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going to get hit by another wall and then eventually

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a mountain. I call it the cause and effect of

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judgment making the moment happen. I'm blessed with the opportunity,

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and we have been blessed for the opportunity for the

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past thirty two years to be a part of so

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many unforgettable weddings. We sit with the brides of the grooms,

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the mother in laws, the fathers, and we hear of

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how they want to create a beautiful the moment. Oh,

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it happens. And the reason why it happens is because

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the cause and effect of creating that moment is based

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on one step at a time, surrounding yourself with professionals

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that understand the moment can happen. And when you don't

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trust the steps, then things begin to fall apart. We

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don't have to walk into every day thinking this is it.

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We're going to score the greatest victory today because I

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feel the moment building up, only to find ourselves saying

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did it happen? Yesterday was a tough day for me

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because I thought, I assumed I watched the videos I

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was wanting to change the metal screen door to our

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front door. It looked easy until I took out the

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first cruise and nothing budged. I went back to the

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YouTube videos and I was trying to figure out how

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I could create the moment. I was going to change

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the front screen door. I've been able to change the lights.

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I've been able to do this and that I am

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with confidence, only to learn I couldn't do it. I

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had to call in the professionals, and that's gonna cost

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me more money. So even though I made the attempt

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to change the door yesterday, I didn't see it as

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the moment. But yet, if you step back three feet

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and look at the courage and the confidence that I

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held in that one time period, and the same is

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true about you. The courage and the confidence was there.

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You still got your moment because even though you weren't

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professional enough to make such a change, you still had

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the courage and confidence to say, I think I got this.

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I think I got this. And that's the one thing

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that we lack so much of in life, the personal

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confidence to be able to say I'm taking a step forward,

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only to learn like most of the time, we're taking

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three steps back. I Maril, and that's the daily mess