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Speaker 1: Made a decision. Sunny sound, I had vision. What's up, everybody,

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It's Patreon. I mean, no, it's not. But we just

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did Patreon. Yeah, good Patreon. Yeah, yeah, you didn't hear

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it yet. You should tune in. You heard no if

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I'm saying, if you didn't hear it yet, Oh.

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Speaker 2: If you didn't hear it, yeah yeah, geez. Seventeen seconds

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in and we're already fighting. I'm on, can we just

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get along for one episode?

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Speaker 1: So yeah, I was telling you right before the MIC's

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heated up that I have a funny story. Well I

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don't know what it is. It's it's any story that

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involves sunny these days kind of cracks me up. Well,

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first of all, Kaylin, did you see the UFC fight?

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Speaker 3: I did not know.

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Speaker 1: You didn't watch it on Saturday? He was there, Sonny

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was there.

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Speaker 3: Oh he went to the UFC fight. Yeah, no, it

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was a big one.

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Speaker 4: But no, it's it's so expensive to be a UFC fan, Like, yeah,

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it's not like other sports where you can just casually

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watch it like we watch football. Like you have to

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first you have to get you have to subscribe to

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ESPN Plus, which is like twelve or thirteen dollars a month.

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Speaker 3: Then you got to buy the pay.

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Speaker 4: Per view, which is eighty dollars to watch the fight. Yeah,

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and so there's a big fight once every two months.

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So I'm paying an ESPN subscription twice just for the

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eighty dollars.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, I can't.

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Speaker 1: That's ridiculous.

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Speaker 3: I would like to watch it. But unless someone else

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is hosting, I think. I'm like, I don't.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Well, he got tickets from his dad for Christmas

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to go to this fight.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so did Adam take him?

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Speaker 1: No, Adam took Kevin Costner, didn't take Sonny.

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Speaker 2: Oh so Sunny just went on his own.

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Speaker 1: Sonny and his friend went. Yeah, he got tickets, so

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him and his friend and he wanted to get there

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early anyway, Okay, you know, Adam gets their leg last minute.

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Sonny was like last with.

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Speaker 2: Every sporting event night there's anything going on in case,

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he's talking about it and then go home, take a

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nap and come back and then come back. Right.

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Speaker 1: That's how he is with the football now. This like

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he left the house at like three to watch the

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first main card. I don't know. It was a long

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night of fighting. Anyway. He had a good time. But okay,

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so the other night we just got back from being evacuated.

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It was like I think we were at the house. Yes,

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we were at the house. It was the third night

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after we got back. Okay, the second night we got back.

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So Sonny goes to his friend's house or whatever, and

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you know, he's getting in his friend time because he's

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leaving tomorrow to go back to school. So he went

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to his friend's house. As he was walking back, like

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twelve o'clock at night, there's all these like cop cars,

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he said, in our neighborhood on one of the main streets,

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and they kind of stopped him and said, you know,

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you do you live here? Whatever. He showed him his ID, yes,

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I do. They let him whatever. They let him through,

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but that was like, no, it has the old address.

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But he was going in that vicinity. Okay, okay, so

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uh but there were a lot of uh entry ways

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into our neighborhood where there were these you know cops

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there weren't cops. They were just in like these black cars,

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but you could tell they like they had the you know,

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the twinkling of the blue and the red kind of thing,

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just like stationed in certain areas so they were checking

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for IDs to if you lived in the neighborhood kind

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of thing. Okay, that was like the first two nights

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we got back. Then the third night, everything was kind

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of cleared out. I went to the grocery store. I

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was coming back and I where I would see them,

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they were all gone. Everybody, They all those cop cars

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were gone. So I was like, okay, back how you know,

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neighborhoods getting back to normal. And Sonny goes out, goes

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to his friend's house, walking home at like one in

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the morning, and there's an there's this like beat up

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Hyundai and all of a sudden, floodlights on him, shine

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on him on sunny. He's walking by himself, he's got

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a beanie and he's got like he's all in black

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and he's got a beanie on, you know, because it's freezing,

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and his earbuds are in and all of a sudden,

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like floodlights out of this beat up Hyundai like flash

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on him from the day from the hunday, and two

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guys get out of the car and they said, you.

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Speaker 2: Know, hey, so they're shining lights. So it wasn't like

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I'm picturing a helicopter from up above shining lights.

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Speaker 1: Now they have these, they have the lights like insight. Okay,

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so Sonny said, when you looked into the car, you

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could tell it wasn't your typical Hyundai, and it was

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an undercover car they had, so undercover cops stationed in

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our neighborhood looking for looters because we did have a

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lot of break into actually we had while we were gone.

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Speaker 2: How shitty would it be to work as an undercover cop?

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shitty Hyundai. Yeah, you'd be like real well, and also

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like can't I be undercover in like a nice Mercedes?

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Like why can't that be undercover?

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Speaker 1: Now?

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Speaker 2: The people drive nice cars, Like I feel like it

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would stand out more in the neighborhood to be in it,

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Like that's how I would argue it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Like I just.

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Speaker 2: Don't think that that's going to fool anybody, like and

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they'd be like, no, it's that's the department policy.

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Speaker 1: And I know, just like hear me out, like, get

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Adam Lerner on the oun get us a better car, right, yeah,

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Like why do we have to sit in a shitty

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ass right?

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Speaker 2: At least have a good stereo system to be like

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nice on the inside.

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Speaker 1: So he's blind by this light and they tell him,

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you know, stop, uh and they say, you know, walk

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come over to this car, or they said walk over here,

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you know, we want to talk to you.

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Speaker 2: He'd already gone to the other like checkpoint, right.

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Speaker 1: That was the night before. Oh, that was the night before. Okay,

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So that was there like a couple of nights and

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then they cleared out. So this night it was like

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everybody was gone. Now somebody's coming home. He gets the

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light shine shining on him, and then they asked him

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to walk over to the car and they said put

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you know, put your hands on the on the hood

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of the car. You have any weapons And he was

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like no, and they pat him down and uh. They

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tell him that you know, they're with the Sheriff's department

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and that they're you know, undercover, you know, looking for

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looters or whatever. Yeah, they pat him down. Within sixty seconds,

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he's handcuffed.

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Speaker 2: What yes, Lynette, you started this story with like, oh

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I have a funny story.

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Speaker 1: This is not funn Well then I said kind of funny.

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I don't know what you would call it. Yeah, crazy story,

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crazy story?

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Speaker 2: Okay, under what why is he handcuffed.

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Speaker 1: So they said, uh, you know, we're looking for looters.

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Do you live in the Do you live in the neighborhood?

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He said, yes, what's your address? And then he gives

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them the address and he saysh, where's your ID? Now,

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this time he left the house, he didn't have his ID,

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but he was wearing the jacket he wore to New

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York and he went out with n Italian New York,

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and he had a fake ID on him and it

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was in the jacket that he forgot about. So they

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pulled They pulled that and they said, and he said,

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before they even looked at it, they go, oh, that's

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a fake ID. And they said oh, and they said,

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you know, why are you walking around this neighborhood with

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a fake ID? Where's your real ID?

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Speaker 2: Wasn't Italia's fake ID anyway? No, it was his.

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Speaker 1: Oh you said he was wearing he was, No, he

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was when he was with Natalia New York. Oh, okay,

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he went out with Natalia, was wearing the same jacket,

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got it so it was still in his jacket from

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New York.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, this is like something that would happen

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to you.

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Speaker 1: That's what I said. I said, do you remember my

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story when I got pulled over and the cop took

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my ID, my fake ID, and it was New Year's

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Day and I was like, nineteen.

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Speaker 2: This is why these companies that sell these ideas so

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the kids give them a backup?

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Speaker 1: Is that why they get too?

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Speaker 2: Do they get too? That's what he was telling me,

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And I'm like, and I knew he had one. Was

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nodding like, Kaitlin, you've got like a five year old

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and a four year old. Why are you thinking already

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about the fake ID?

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Speaker 3: Well, they gave me too when I got mine?

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Speaker 2: So oh is that recent?

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Speaker 1: Well?

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Speaker 4: I mean yeah, I mean I got a fake ID

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when I was like seventeen eight No, you know, like

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eighteen nineteen.

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Speaker 3: They gave me two. They gave me two copies.

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Speaker 1: I didn't get to but I had to go to

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the DMV. I had to find a license at a

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rat concert. You picked it up. The girl had my

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same color hair, eyes and height, looked nothing like me.

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I memorized her address, went to the DMV and said,

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my name is you know, Rachelle Litwazinski. Lost my license.

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They said, okay, get your They took my picture and

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then they and then they said, you know, you have

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a new address, mailing address. I put my mailing address

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and they sent me the ID. So I'm walking around

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with somebody else's name but my picture right like a

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charm until New Year's Eve Day when I got pulled

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over for speeding on the one on one and the

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guy asked for my license and I opened my wallet

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and my fake ID is sitting right there and he

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like goes handed to me and I go, oh, that's

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a fake ID.

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Speaker 2: So the same thing happened to me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah when I was his age pretty much Yeah, okay.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so but but hold on, I'm not trying to

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be dense or ask too many questions. But so they

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found the fake ID before they handcuffed him, because he said,

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when were they even searching him? If he's walking around,

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does he have a big backpack full of stuff?

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Speaker 4: Now?

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Speaker 2: Now, why are they assuming he's a luter? He's just

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walking with a jacket?

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Speaker 1: Ar Well, that was the question of the night. Yeah,

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Like this Sonny was like, I'm I live here, this

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is my neighborhood. Gave him the address and he you know,

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and then they don't live there, so they're like, where's

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that street? And he's like, well, I could point it

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to you, but I'm in handcuffs. So because it's that way,

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you know, they already had they handcuffed him, he said,

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within sixty seconds of walking over to the com.

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Speaker 2: Seems it seems like it's violating his rights. Yeah, they don't. Don't.

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You have to have a reason that we don't have that.

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Speaker 1: What do you call it reasonable cause? Uh?

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Speaker 2: Probably what's it called that they did in New York

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for stopping frisk Yeah, that's not a thing. You can't

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do that. Yeah, he was in handcuffs. Yeah, because of

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racial profiling. Remember that was the thing that they stopped

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doing that because you can't because they were blacks and

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Hispanics were being like stopped and frisked at a much

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higher rate than you know, so you can't do that

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without some reasonable cause. Right. What was their reason?

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Speaker 1: Well, he didn't have an idea on him that showed

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that he lived in the neighborhood. He had a face

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ID and they were like and that made them like, but.

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Speaker 2: They didn't know he had a fake ID. So he

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was already handcuffed.

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Speaker 1: I think that when they took the ID out, then

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they handcuffed him and he because he said immediately it's

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a fake ID, okay, and that's when they put him

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in a hand in handcuff, So I think that they

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can do I don't know then what so so then

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he was just standing there and they were like, you know,

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they they're you know, they're saying, you know, scaring him,

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like we're gonna we can take it to jail right

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now and uh. And then at one point his phone

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was sitting on the hood of the car and I

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text him and I said, are you almost home? And

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it says mom and it says are you almost home?

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Question mark? Question mark? And I think that they were like, oh,

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your mom's texting you? Is that? And he said and

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then he said do you live with your parents? And

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he said I live with my mom and they said

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single mom and he's they he said yeah, and he

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thinks something that they must have thought, oh, he's you know,

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single mom something, because that's when they kind of started

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like easing off, We're gonna take you to jail or whatever.

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But you know, they were like, we're looking for looters

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and you're walking around the neighborhood with a fake ID,

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you know, no.

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Speaker 2: Proof that you live here, and you know so did

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they bring him home?

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, they took they Eventually he said he was,

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you know, was handcuffed for a good I don't know,

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like he said, like seven eight minutes. And then they

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took the cancuffs off and they let him go.

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Speaker 2: They said they took ID.

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Speaker 1: No, they gave him back the ID.

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Speaker 2: Yeah they did.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they didn't take it, even though it was fake. Yeah,

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they didn't take it. They handed him his stuff back,

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his his his keys, his eye, his fake ID in

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his and his phone. And then said, you know, next

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time and you're walking around, get your real ID. And

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he said no, okay, officer. You know he's very compliant. Sorry, officer,

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you know.

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Speaker 2: Why is he walking around without his ID?

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Speaker 1: He just walked over to his he went over his

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friend's house. I mean he's not not even not on

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the busy streets. He's walking literally two streets over.

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Speaker 2: I'm surprised they didn't just make him prove it and

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just go, okay, hop in the car and we'll take

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you home.

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Speaker 1: Yeah they didn't.

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Speaker 2: He could go here's where I live, and the watching

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them with the house.

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Speaker 1: I maybe because I sent them the text that said

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are you almost home? I don't know, like, are you

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almost home with the loot? You know, Like he's like,

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if I'm looting, where's my getaway car, where's my friends?

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Where's my where's my loot?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 1: You know, like I'm clearly walking home from my friend's house.

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I'm not even on the main drag. I'm on side streets.

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And it's like the one time he said he took

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a right. Usually he goes, he goes up and one

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street over, but this time he went right for whatever reason.

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And that's the street that the cops were sitting on,

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hanging out on. And I was like, well, I mean,

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it's kind of good that we're they're protecting our neighborhood,

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but also like they're hassling kids like Sonny putting him

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in handcuffs, you know. But then, yeah, why didn't you

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watch him where he went home or follow him home

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or take him home or something?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: How did why did you just let him go? What

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if he was meeting his friend the getaway car? Yeah,

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you know, I don't like that at all. It's weird.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that is not a funny story.

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Speaker 1: He thought it was kind of funny afterwards, like I

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was asleep when he got home and he and you know,

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sometimes not usually at all, but like if something goes

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on while he's out, he'll come and tell me or

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I don't know. But he started telling me and I

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was sound asleep and then I heard handcuffs. I was

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like wait what, I like, sat up in bed, I

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go handcuffs. He goes, yeah, they put me in a handcuffs.

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They're like start over again. Like I was like, half asleep,

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aren't but uh yeah, uh made for a good story.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, hell yeah, Kylen, you ever been arrested? Uh?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, one, I got a DUI.

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Speaker 2: Oh shit, what tell me the story?

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Speaker 3: I will.

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Speaker 2: She's here too.

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Speaker 4: I was twenty and I was I knew a guy

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that was promoting a club at City Walk and a

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buddy of mine lived like my neighbor. That was my

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friend I knew growing up. We could walk to City Walk.

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It's a bit of a walk, but we could walk there.

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So I was already out, you know, living in a

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studio apartment in Van Eys. So I drove over to

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his house and then we I think we took like

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a taxi up to City Walk and then he left

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before me. I was going to stay the night there,

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and so he left before me, and we're going to

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stay the night at my friend's house. Okay that I

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grew up with down street from the house I gripon.

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Speaker 2: Ok.

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Speaker 4: And then we get there and he wasn't having a

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good time, so he left, and so then I was,

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you know, having a good time or whatever. And then

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I walked home. I walked back to his house and

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by the time I got there, like all the doors

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were locked. All the doors were locked, and I couldn't like,

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because you know, we his parents didn't know, so I

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couldn't like bang on the door or whatever. And he

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wasn't answering his phone. So I was like, all right, well,

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I guess I'm going home then, and then yeah, I

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got in the car and they actually, I think I remember,

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they pulled me over for going like too slow on

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the carway.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I was like, I was going too.

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Speaker 1: Slow stoner.

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Speaker 3: And uh yeah, they got me out.

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Speaker 4: They did the tests on me, put me in handcuffs,

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drove me down to the police station, and I remember

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like I was still having a good time, you know,

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I was like joking around with them and making fun

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of them. I remember like making fun of them in

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the car on the way they're like in a lightheart

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away or whatever, and uh yeah, I had to do

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a lot lot of classes after that.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, like what happened? Like, yeah, so what happened?

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Did you have like a court date? And plus you

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were under twenty one?

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Speaker 3: I was under twenty one?

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Speaker 2: Make is it much worse? Right? Don't they just take

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your license?

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Speaker 4: No? It was it was like a it was I

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forget what exactly happened, but I think it was better

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that I was under twenty one because for whatever reason.

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But no, I had like a good lawyer because my

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mom's friend who is like a high show BIS guess

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he was like, oh, here, I have this lawyer for you.

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He'll give you a deal. So he like worked everything out.

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I never got my license taken away, but they were

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like you gotta go. I went to a lot of

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different classes. I had to go to a morgue and

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look at their body.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like the Dare program.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I had to do that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, And I had to do like I had to

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go watch a video for like the Dare thing, and

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then I had to go do this other class I

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don't really remember. And then I had to attend like

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a shitload of AA meetings. I was going like twice

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a week for like six months or something like that.

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Speaker 2: Wow, oh my god, did you get anything out of it?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 3: Right, No, I remember I would sit in the AA

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meeting and I was like writing script for the first time.

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So I was writing.

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Speaker 4: So I'd sit in the AA meeting and I'd write

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my script like on my phone while they were doing

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all their things.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 4: Damn.

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Speaker 2: I said in my book in Drunkish that I'm not

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in favor of people being court ordered to go to

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A because I make it really clear that it's not

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for everybody. It is not like the only way to

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get sober. And also I was like, well, I was

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talking about the fact that you don't have to go

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to AA. I go unless you're court ordered. And but

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I also don't believe in that. I don't think that

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like for people. Twelve step programs are for people who

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want to who feel they have a problem. It's for

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people who have a desire to quit drinking and want help.

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It's not for it's not to like boss people into

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like we're gonna just tell you over and over then

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are they're an alcoholic? Like it's still gonna help people

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if they if you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a good that's a good point.

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Speaker 2: Obviously didn't work on Kaylin, I know, and he's obviously

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not an alcoholic, right, so what's the point. I mean,

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I feel like there could be alcohol awareness classes that

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aren't forcing you to go to AA meetings, Like there's there,

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you know what I mean?

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Speaker 3: Like, yeah, I mean that sounded like some of the

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ones that I went to that weren't the A meetings, right, Yeah, but.

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Speaker 2: Like they shouldn't make you go to AA b it's

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just not for you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they should just be classes. Like and then what

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it was the morgue like.

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Speaker 3: It was you know, looking at dead body it was

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very cold.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what do you mean looking at dead bodies?

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Did they like pull him out of the wall. Did

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they like slide bodies out like you see in like

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Law and Order?

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Speaker 4: They kind of just had him maybe they already had

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him like out and like on the table. Ew so

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like it wasn't like they were keeping up.

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Speaker 3: They weren't. It was like one giant freezer with a

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bunch of cadavers, not like one individual freezer for each body.

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Speaker 4: So it was like one giant Yeah, it was like

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a giant you'd walk in there, it was freezing. It

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was a giant fridge, and they'd keep like all of

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them kind of stacked on top of each other, but

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they were all in they were all in bags.

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Speaker 3: So we only they only showed us like one or

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two of them.

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Speaker 2: Wow. And they would just like a little bit and

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show you and what it would it be like, this

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is somebody who died from in a drunk driving accident

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and was it just random? He's someone who died of cancer, Yeah,

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what right? Like or this guy died of alney or

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they just tell you, yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 3: I don't really remember that much as you were drunk.

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475
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478
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Speaker 1: Nice.

502
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Speaker 2: Yeah, So, anyway, Caitlin, did that help you never got

503
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another dui?

504
00:23:37,079 --> 00:23:39,519
Speaker 4: No? I didn't, And pretty quickly after that, Uber became

505
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a thing, so it was a lot easier to uber

506
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got it, assure.

507
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Speaker 2: Yeah, we believed it. That reminds me of our discussion

508
00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:53,160
on Patreon this week. So if you haven't listened to Patreon,

509
00:23:53,279 --> 00:23:56,519
listen to Patreon, yep, because that doesn't have to happen

510
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to you.

511
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Speaker 1: That's right, You don't have to get a dui, esecially

512
00:24:00,319 --> 00:24:01,640
when you're dealing with teenagers.

513
00:24:02,319 --> 00:24:06,599
Speaker 2: Especially when you're dealing with teenagers, it's so complicated. Drinking

514
00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:09,720
is freaking fun, you know, Like I used to love drinking.

515
00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:13,519
I didn't quit drinking because I just lost interest in it.

516
00:24:13,759 --> 00:24:17,680
You know, it's fucking fun. We all have a lot

517
00:24:17,720 --> 00:24:20,359
of fun drinking when we were teenagers. Yes, a lot

518
00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:24,799
of parties more fun. It makes you crazier and you know,

519
00:24:25,799 --> 00:24:30,160
like it's not all negative and like, oh most people

520
00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:32,240
are not like alcoholics immediately.

521
00:24:32,039 --> 00:24:34,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, and it's tough when you have teenagers

522
00:24:34,880 --> 00:24:38,079
now that are experimenting and you know, and how you

523
00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:40,480
handle it. That's what we talked about on Patroon.

524
00:24:41,480 --> 00:24:44,839
Speaker 2: Here's something that I don't understand, and you two can

525
00:24:44,880 --> 00:24:48,000
help me understand this because you both do this. But

526
00:24:48,319 --> 00:24:52,720
like I've never I never understood the call to smoke

527
00:24:53,440 --> 00:24:55,799
or to vape. And like when my kids tell me

528
00:24:55,839 --> 00:24:59,039
about people vaping, like kids vaping, I'm like it does

529
00:24:59,079 --> 00:25:01,599
it make you even feel good? Like why wouldn't you

530
00:25:01,759 --> 00:25:04,640
just drink or smoke pot? Like I don't understand like

531
00:25:04,759 --> 00:25:06,799
just vaping nicotine, what does he do?

532
00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:09,039
Speaker 3: Nicotine gives you like a head rush.

533
00:25:09,960 --> 00:25:10,920
Speaker 2: And so it gives you.

534
00:25:11,519 --> 00:25:13,880
Speaker 1: For me, it's like it I don't want to get

535
00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:18,480
stone and get drunk, you know. So like when I was,

536
00:25:18,759 --> 00:25:21,480
you know, going through a stressful period, it was it

537
00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:26,400
was like it was just something yeah for me, it's

538
00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:29,799
for me. It did, Yeah, it helped me a lot.

539
00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:32,119
That's why I think when you go to like don't

540
00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:34,519
like when you go to AA meetings, everybody's smoking right

541
00:25:34,599 --> 00:25:35,400
outside anymore.

542
00:25:35,519 --> 00:25:40,640
Speaker 2: Most people these days, the people most people that quit

543
00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:43,319
drinking at this point, like quit smoking soon after.

544
00:25:44,359 --> 00:25:48,200
Speaker 1: Right. I have a friend that never smoked, was against it,

545
00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:51,839
went to rehab, and now it still smokes to stay

546
00:25:52,119 --> 00:25:53,000
because of rehab.

547
00:25:54,160 --> 00:25:57,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's interesting. I just never liked it and always

548
00:25:57,920 --> 00:25:59,599
thought it was kind of gross and I don't like

549
00:25:59,680 --> 00:26:01,319
the smoke all of it at all. And I don't

550
00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:04,480
like this, and and I just I think I tried smoking,

551
00:26:04,640 --> 00:26:06,519
you know, in high school, and it didn't do anything.

552
00:26:06,599 --> 00:26:08,079
So I was like, well, why would you want to

553
00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:11,079
burn your like it burned going in. It did not

554
00:26:11,279 --> 00:26:13,319
change my feeling at all. So I was like, why

555
00:26:13,359 --> 00:26:14,160
would anybody want to?

556
00:26:14,160 --> 00:26:16,759
Speaker 1: I used to feel that way too, But you know,

557
00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:19,559
I don't know, I really love it. Yeah, train yourself,

558
00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:23,240
Train myself like I did with the right cigarettes sound,

559
00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:26,400
the right ones that are not too harsh or whatever. Yeah,

560
00:26:26,559 --> 00:26:29,200
it helped when I was going through. But now like

561
00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:30,079
now that I'm more.

562
00:26:30,079 --> 00:26:33,200
Speaker 2: Possible to quit, huh, it's like impossible to quit.

563
00:26:33,279 --> 00:26:34,880
Speaker 4: Well, it's a lot easier now that there's so many

564
00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:38,400
nicotine alternatives, like the pouches that I use that are

565
00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:41,359
very popular these days, like the zins. Yeah, it's very

566
00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:43,400
easy to quit smoking after that, but.

567
00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:45,920
Speaker 2: Then you're still putting nicotine in your mouth, right I am.

568
00:26:46,039 --> 00:26:48,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, But nicotine itself is not what's bad for you.

569
00:26:49,079 --> 00:26:49,640
Speaker 2: I thought it is.

570
00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:52,319
Speaker 4: No, it's the tobacco that's bad for you. The nicotine

571
00:26:52,400 --> 00:26:54,400
is what gives you that kind of like almost head rush,

572
00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:57,160
but it's without any of the any of the smoke,

573
00:26:57,400 --> 00:26:59,480
you know, going in your body, any of the carcinogens

574
00:26:59,519 --> 00:27:00,119
and the taba.

575
00:27:00,079 --> 00:27:09,200
Speaker 1: Still take those nicotine Oh hmm. I just know like

576
00:27:09,359 --> 00:27:13,839
when whenever I go work out, though I'm disgusted, like, so,

577
00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:16,640
it's better for me because that'll keep me working out,

578
00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:19,039
because after I work out, I don't want to ever

579
00:27:19,279 --> 00:27:25,160
feel like you need no. I think it's like it's

580
00:27:25,319 --> 00:27:27,440
just like when you exercise, you don't feel it feels

581
00:27:27,519 --> 00:27:30,920
like you you almost took the edge off of something

582
00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:33,720
by exercising, you know. It's kind of like that. So

583
00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:38,160
even though one's way better than the other. But that's

584
00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:41,079
how I felt. When I was living in my condo,

585
00:27:41,119 --> 00:27:41,880
I was smoking a lot.

586
00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:46,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess I'm glad that I don't have that

587
00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:48,839
because I have enough addiction issues. I'm sure I would

588
00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:51,880
find that to be impossible. By the way I've been

589
00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:56,960
sugar free as that going gen one nice, it's going

590
00:27:57,200 --> 00:28:00,960
really well. I feel a lot better. It doesn't, I

591
00:28:01,039 --> 00:28:04,440
mean it doesn't. I don't ever get really hard on

592
00:28:04,519 --> 00:28:07,079
myself and go, Okay, I'm not gonna have sugar. Like

593
00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:10,359
some people get like no flour, no, I don't know

594
00:28:10,559 --> 00:28:12,559
so like they don't eat bread and they don't. But

595
00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:16,559
I'm like relax. I like bread, you know.

596
00:28:16,799 --> 00:28:17,279
Speaker 3: That's what I do.

597
00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:19,880
Speaker 4: When I'm like going on my diets. I do the

598
00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:23,480
no bread, do the vinny, the NSNG, no sugar, no grain.

599
00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:27,480
Speaker 2: See that's too much. Like I can't eat so all

600
00:28:27,559 --> 00:28:27,920
or nothing.

601
00:28:28,039 --> 00:28:29,960
Speaker 4: That's the I have to be all or nothing, like

602
00:28:30,039 --> 00:28:32,319
I can't do I can't dabble and be like, oh okay,

603
00:28:32,319 --> 00:28:34,759
I'm gonna do this. I've just figured that out about myself.

604
00:28:34,799 --> 00:28:36,960
When I like, when I go for it, really anything,

605
00:28:37,039 --> 00:28:38,880
I fucking go for it. So I have to be

606
00:28:39,039 --> 00:28:41,559
like all all out otherwise it's just it's just gonna

607
00:28:41,559 --> 00:28:45,079
fall apart, which it does inevitably anyway. But I'm like

608
00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:47,599
that for usually like anywhere between like two weeks to

609
00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:51,000
a month, I yo yo a lot is essentially that's

610
00:28:51,039 --> 00:28:52,759
what the water cooler guys make fun of me for

611
00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:55,240
I yo yo in the things I do in life.

612
00:28:55,279 --> 00:28:56,759
Speaker 3: You know, I'm all in, then I'm all out, then

613
00:28:56,759 --> 00:28:57,839
I'm all in, then I'm all out.

614
00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:04,480
Speaker 2: It's really and it's really difficult for me. It's not

615
00:29:04,599 --> 00:29:09,279
sustainable to be like no, no bread, no, none of

616
00:29:09,359 --> 00:29:11,720
the things that I like it. That's not sustainable. But

617
00:29:11,880 --> 00:29:15,079
it is sustainable to not eat sugar like that. To me,

618
00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:17,640
it's not it becomes it's not a diet. It's like

619
00:29:17,920 --> 00:29:21,480
I literally feel like an addict when I'm eating sugar,

620
00:29:21,599 --> 00:29:24,039
and I do it addictively. And you don't have to

621
00:29:24,119 --> 00:29:26,759
eat dessert. It's difficult, but like.

622
00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:29,319
Speaker 4: Well, you're also talking about it. You're talking about a

623
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:32,640
specific kind of sugar, like you'll eat You'll put ketchup

624
00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:35,240
on your French fries, right right, Okay, ketchup has a

625
00:29:35,279 --> 00:29:37,039
shitload of sugar in it. But you're talking about like

626
00:29:37,079 --> 00:29:38,920
cookies and candy and stuff like that.

627
00:29:39,039 --> 00:29:43,000
Speaker 2: I'm talking about, yes, dessert, things that you don't. Yeah,

628
00:29:43,359 --> 00:29:46,960
I'll even eat oatmeal that's sweetened because that's not because

629
00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:48,759
I'm not going to like go oh my god, I

630
00:29:48,799 --> 00:29:50,880
eat some oatmeal. Now I want to eat like five

631
00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:53,680
more bowls of oatmeal. It doesn't it's different than if

632
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:57,000
you eat a piece of cake. Right, I won't eat

633
00:29:57,119 --> 00:30:00,240
muffins because that's to me, is no different than you

634
00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:04,039
will kick in. I don't like juice anyway, so I

635
00:30:04,039 --> 00:30:08,440
don't drink juice really, And I wouldn't drink like soda either,

636
00:30:08,759 --> 00:30:12,920
unless it was diet soda. Yeah, I mean that's like, but.

637
00:30:13,039 --> 00:30:14,200
Speaker 3: Like I know what you're talking about.

638
00:30:14,279 --> 00:30:16,720
Speaker 4: Like when I am on my diet, I've talked many

639
00:30:16,759 --> 00:30:19,319
times about how I don't like those desserts. I don't

640
00:30:19,319 --> 00:30:21,359
eat candy, I don't eat cake, I don't eat cookies.

641
00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:23,440
It just doesn't appeal to me at all. But when

642
00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:27,000
I'm on my diet, like after like a week, like

643
00:30:27,279 --> 00:30:30,079
I'll have like a cookie. And but what I really

644
00:30:30,640 --> 00:30:33,079
gravitate towards is fruit. I don't know, I don't ever

645
00:30:33,119 --> 00:30:35,119
eat fruit, but when I'm on my diet, like fruit

646
00:30:35,279 --> 00:30:40,039
tastes so good because I'll eat apples, I'll eat I'll

647
00:30:40,039 --> 00:30:42,039
stay away from like you know, they really sugary ones,

648
00:30:42,119 --> 00:30:45,279
but like even like blueberries, and like I love it

649
00:30:45,400 --> 00:30:46,720
when I'm on Oh, I'll.

650
00:30:46,559 --> 00:30:49,480
Speaker 2: Eat the sugary ones because I'm like, I can have

651
00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:52,680
that because in my brain there is a difference. Again,

652
00:30:53,119 --> 00:30:56,039
I'm not gonna binge on pomegranates. Like I'm gonna eat

653
00:30:56,119 --> 00:30:59,640
half a pomegranate. It's gonna feel and taste really sweet,

654
00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:01,680
but I'm not going to be like now I got

655
00:31:01,799 --> 00:31:03,799
to eat the other half. It's like a nice treat

656
00:31:04,279 --> 00:31:06,279
and it takes the edge off of like not being

657
00:31:06,319 --> 00:31:07,400
able to eat dessert.

658
00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:10,119
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'll eat an apple and it'll feel like a treat,

659
00:31:10,279 --> 00:31:11,960
and I'll just eat the one apple.

660
00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:12,720
Speaker 3: I won't want you more.

661
00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:15,519
Speaker 2: That's the difference. The difference is a big difference. It's

662
00:31:15,599 --> 00:31:18,480
like if I go from eating like twenty cookies in

663
00:31:18,519 --> 00:31:21,920
a day to like having a piece of fruit. The

664
00:31:22,039 --> 00:31:23,920
fact that like the piece of fruit feels like a

665
00:31:24,000 --> 00:31:28,599
treat is so great and so different than like needing

666
00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:31,440
five cookies to be my treat, you know what I mean. Like,

667
00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:35,079
it's all what it does to your brain. If it

668
00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:39,200
doesn't spark off that wanting more, I can eat some

669
00:31:39,319 --> 00:31:42,039
pomegranate and go, oh, that tasted really good. That was

670
00:31:42,039 --> 00:31:44,960
a nice treat, and then forget about it. If I

671
00:31:45,319 --> 00:31:47,680
ate pomegranate and it made me go like, oh my god,

672
00:31:47,759 --> 00:31:50,839
I must eat four more pomegranates. Then it would defeat

673
00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:53,839
the purpose, so I wouldn't do it. But once you

674
00:31:54,119 --> 00:31:57,559
quit for a while, like I'm not having the sugar

675
00:31:57,599 --> 00:32:01,240
cravings anymore, and I can go years m and just

676
00:32:01,359 --> 00:32:02,680
not have it be a part of my life. And

677
00:32:02,839 --> 00:32:05,440
just so that's just just like alcohol, like that's just

678
00:32:05,519 --> 00:32:07,559
not something. I'm just not doing that right now. And

679
00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:10,640
sometimes it's hard. The same way if you quit drinking

680
00:32:10,680 --> 00:32:13,119
and you go to a party and everyone's drinking, You're like, oh,

681
00:32:13,279 --> 00:32:15,559
that looks kind of good. Same thing if I'm at

682
00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:19,359
dinner and friends are all ordering dessert, I'm gonna be like, huh,

683
00:32:19,839 --> 00:32:21,599
that looks good. I can't have it, though.

684
00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:26,920
Speaker 1: That's good, that's good discipline, you know. I thought of

685
00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:30,400
the of you the other day because I when we

686
00:32:30,519 --> 00:32:33,400
were when we were at the condo, I just ran

687
00:32:33,480 --> 00:32:36,119
to the store to get like snacks and stuff, and

688
00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:38,480
I was like, oh, I haven't had like good beef

689
00:32:38,599 --> 00:32:41,319
jerky in a long time. And I bought two bags

690
00:32:41,359 --> 00:32:44,680
of it and eight both bags. I couldn't stop myself.

691
00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:47,480
If you get a really good bag of like especially

692
00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:51,559
kariaki jerky where it's like tender and it's sweet but

693
00:32:51,680 --> 00:32:54,720
it's salty. It's just oh, it's so to me. I

694
00:32:54,799 --> 00:32:58,119
could eat five bags of those, but I was like this,

695
00:32:58,160 --> 00:33:00,839
this must be what Stephanie is like eating candy, And.

696
00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:03,279
Speaker 2: A lot of people are like that with salt, I can't.

697
00:33:03,319 --> 00:33:04,720
Speaker 1: I love salt, love it.

698
00:33:04,839 --> 00:33:08,119
Speaker 2: I'm not that way with potato chips. Weirdly, I can

699
00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:10,759
eat you. I can eat a handful of chips and

700
00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:14,000
like forget, I'll forget about it. Chips will sit in

701
00:33:14,079 --> 00:33:16,440
our house if the kids don't eat them, like.

702
00:33:16,559 --> 00:33:19,279
Speaker 1: Well, that's how candy is in my house. Yeah, because

703
00:33:19,279 --> 00:33:22,319
the kids don't even eat candy anymore. So somebody I

704
00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:24,440
still have the Halloween candy sitting in our house?

705
00:33:24,559 --> 00:33:25,240
Speaker 2: Oh my god?

706
00:33:26,839 --> 00:33:27,079
Speaker 1: Yeah?

707
00:33:27,279 --> 00:33:28,039
Speaker 2: What well?

708
00:33:28,039 --> 00:33:31,359
Speaker 1: I bought a lot. Yeah, I mean once and maybe

709
00:33:31,880 --> 00:33:35,079
every few months. I'll have a little snickers afterwards if

710
00:33:35,079 --> 00:33:39,480
I craving something sweet, but no, but beef jerky, look out, girl,

711
00:33:40,480 --> 00:33:44,200
I love it. And ruffles. Potato chips is like my favorite.

712
00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:46,160
Those are my favorite chips.

713
00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:50,519
Speaker 2: I'll only eat potato chips like that. I don't if

714
00:33:50,559 --> 00:33:53,799
I'm eating something no, if I'm eating with dip, with

715
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:57,200
dip with and it's like, yes, I can go crazy

716
00:33:57,279 --> 00:33:57,480
on that.

717
00:33:57,960 --> 00:34:01,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, me too. I love dip. But I can't eat

718
00:34:01,279 --> 00:34:04,440
a sandwich unless I have potato chips.

719
00:34:04,559 --> 00:34:05,759
Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's hilarious.

720
00:34:05,799 --> 00:34:06,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, I have to have chips.

721
00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:10,800
Speaker 2: But like right before I knew I was quitting, you know,

722
00:34:11,039 --> 00:34:13,519
New Year's Eve. I had kind of quit a few

723
00:34:13,599 --> 00:34:15,840
days before, but then I was like, Fuck, my friend

724
00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:17,760
is having my New Year's Eve party. I'm going to

725
00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:21,519
Like the whole thing is surrounded is about dessert, Like

726
00:34:21,639 --> 00:34:23,760
everybody brings a dessert. So I was like, that's just

727
00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:27,239
not realistic. So I'm gonna quit. On the first leading

728
00:34:27,440 --> 00:34:30,519
up to that, I was raiding my house. I was

729
00:34:30,679 --> 00:34:34,159
just like, oh my god, like what can I find?

730
00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:38,119
Because there wasn't candy because I'd stopped buying it. But

731
00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:42,079
then like I found something that somebody had given me

732
00:34:42,239 --> 00:34:44,800
for like Christmas, maybe it was like even a little

733
00:34:44,840 --> 00:34:49,079
before Christmas. It was like a some kind of Williams

734
00:34:49,159 --> 00:34:53,159
Sonoma mini basket that had some like nuts in it,

735
00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:57,519
but it had these truffles, these like chocolate truffles, and

736
00:34:57,599 --> 00:35:00,599
we're talking. It was a small basket, right, something you

737
00:35:00,719 --> 00:35:04,320
might buy at the supermarket that for gifting, but the

738
00:35:04,559 --> 00:35:07,440
it had so it had like five chocolate schuffles in

739
00:35:07,840 --> 00:35:11,559
individually wrapped, but they were stuck to the other stuff.

740
00:35:11,639 --> 00:35:13,719
You know how when they build these gift baskets, they

741
00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:17,000
it's like super glueh on it. Okay, So you should

742
00:35:17,000 --> 00:35:21,280
have seen me wanting this chocolate, having opened the thing

743
00:35:21,519 --> 00:35:24,360
up instead of regifting it, which is what I should

744
00:35:24,360 --> 00:35:28,000
have done, and then trying to rip these candies apart.

745
00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:30,960
Like I was like an I was like fill like

746
00:35:31,079 --> 00:35:33,840
in your pantry, you know. I'm like, I gotta get

747
00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:37,800
into this wrapper. This thing is like like those toys

748
00:35:37,920 --> 00:35:39,880
when they have them, you know, it's like.

749
00:35:40,239 --> 00:35:42,960
Speaker 1: Attacked right where you need box cutters to get it.

750
00:35:43,239 --> 00:35:47,119
Speaker 2: Every yes, So eventually I had brought out scissors. John's

751
00:35:47,159 --> 00:35:51,199
like what are you doing. I'm like nothing, Oh, got

752
00:35:51,280 --> 00:35:54,599
the scissors. I've ripped open this gift back and then

753
00:35:54,599 --> 00:35:57,719
I'm trying to cut I'm trying to free the wrapped

754
00:35:58,400 --> 00:36:02,360
candy from the like bag of like mixed nuts, and

755
00:36:02,480 --> 00:36:06,920
I'm like come on, I mean, it was like I

756
00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:10,440
was trying to rob a liquor. I know, it's like yes, yea,

757
00:36:10,760 --> 00:36:13,239
or rob a pharmacy. For some painkillers. Like it was

758
00:36:13,440 --> 00:36:16,880
not a pretty sight and I was fully embarrassed and

759
00:36:17,199 --> 00:36:19,480
like and I was like, this is this is why

760
00:36:20,199 --> 00:36:22,639
I'm gonna have to quit sugar. After I ate, I

761
00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:25,119
did manage to eat all those candies, and of course

762
00:36:25,159 --> 00:36:25,800
I felt sick.

763
00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:29,159
Speaker 1: But did you take the wrappers off first? Like Phil?

764
00:36:29,440 --> 00:36:32,440
I did take the rappers off. Now Phil swallows the wrappers.

765
00:36:32,840 --> 00:36:35,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, I did manage to, but you know, I had

766
00:36:35,159 --> 00:36:37,960
to free it from the where it was glued and

767
00:36:38,199 --> 00:36:40,119
then get the wrapper off of it. And it was

768
00:36:40,159 --> 00:36:42,320
still hard to get the wrapper off because it had

769
00:36:42,360 --> 00:36:44,960
been probably sitting there for so long. It was like

770
00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:51,000
so awful and wrong and like no more clear sign

771
00:36:51,159 --> 00:36:53,800
that I needed to quit the sugar. Now here's what

772
00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:55,840
I'm saying. Am I like that with bread?

773
00:36:56,159 --> 00:36:56,199
Speaker 4: No?

774
00:36:56,719 --> 00:36:59,440
Speaker 2: If I'm presented with some bread at the cheesecake factory,

775
00:36:59,519 --> 00:37:02,880
am I gonna eat most of it? Yes? But I'm

776
00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:05,159
also going to share it with the other people at

777
00:37:05,199 --> 00:37:07,760
the table. I'm not gonna be and I'm not going

778
00:37:07,840 --> 00:37:09,639
to be thinking about it the whole time, and I'm

779
00:37:09,679 --> 00:37:12,000
not going to be like, oh, that bread was so good.

780
00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:13,639
I'm gonna stop at the store on the way home

781
00:37:13,679 --> 00:37:15,400
and get a loaf of breast. Yeah, thing like that.

782
00:37:16,079 --> 00:37:18,519
Speaker 1: I love the like it depends on the restaurant you're

783
00:37:18,559 --> 00:37:20,360
going to, if you know they have good bread like

784
00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:23,360
cheesecake bag whatever, or if they have this the you know,

785
00:37:23,519 --> 00:37:26,960
chimmy cherry dip with the like you know, gaucho girl,

786
00:37:27,199 --> 00:37:30,079
gaucho grill. I love that's the kind of stuff. And

787
00:37:30,159 --> 00:37:33,000
then I get filled up on that and then I'm done.

788
00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:35,719
Like then the meal comes, I'm like, I have two

789
00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:39,199
bites of my steak. I'm good. I just I love bread,

790
00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:41,679
love bread and dip. Love to dip.

791
00:37:43,519 --> 00:37:46,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, like I said, I do like it.

792
00:37:46,320 --> 00:37:48,480
But I if I was to be all or nothing,

793
00:37:48,559 --> 00:37:50,639
if I was to be like, nope, you can't have bread,

794
00:37:51,159 --> 00:37:53,440
then I just feel like I would be scared to

795
00:37:53,599 --> 00:37:56,280
like go eat. I don't know, I can't do those

796
00:37:56,480 --> 00:37:58,760
like be paleo or be this or be that. I

797
00:37:58,800 --> 00:37:59,880
will get too upsessed.

798
00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:05,000
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, I never. I've never really dieted my

799
00:38:05,159 --> 00:38:07,880
life like those things. Sometimes they'll cut out or whatever.

800
00:38:08,440 --> 00:38:11,239
I just I cut out. I cut out sodas and

801
00:38:11,679 --> 00:38:14,199
I never that was that, like never looked back.

802
00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:14,639
Speaker 2: Really.

803
00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:17,559
Speaker 1: That was years ago, and Italia did the same thing.

804
00:38:17,559 --> 00:38:19,760
Speaker 2: Like you won't even drink like a diet soda.

805
00:38:20,280 --> 00:38:22,480
Speaker 1: I'll have a diet soda maybe sometimes when I go

806
00:38:22,880 --> 00:38:25,320
for lunch or something. All well, I like iced tea

807
00:38:25,360 --> 00:38:27,880
at lunch. But yeah, Well, let's talk.

808
00:38:27,719 --> 00:38:30,000
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809
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810
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811
00:38:36,599 --> 00:38:39,920
cause right in the title Thrive Cosmetics. Because they give

812
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813
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815
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816
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817
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818
00:39:00,599 --> 00:39:02,400
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819
00:39:02,480 --> 00:39:05,599
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820
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821
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827
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So the other night, so Lbie's still been home from school. Yeah,

828
00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:42,559
she worked, Well, you're listening to this, she'll have worked

829
00:39:42,679 --> 00:39:44,559
yesterday in the day before, she's still working at her

830
00:39:45,519 --> 00:39:49,320
she starts training for her tour guide job. Finally post

831
00:39:49,400 --> 00:39:54,039
fires on Friday. So happy for her. But meanwhile, she's

832
00:39:54,119 --> 00:39:57,559
been home for they they were I think I told

833
00:39:57,599 --> 00:40:00,480
you this last week UCLA went remote, So she was

834
00:40:00,559 --> 00:40:02,960
she's been home for She was home all winter break.

835
00:40:03,039 --> 00:40:05,880
She went back for like basically a few days and

836
00:40:06,000 --> 00:40:10,800
then came back home. So anyway, the other night, she

837
00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:13,119
was going out with her friends, and it just it

838
00:40:13,239 --> 00:40:16,400
reminded me of like something that would happen to us,

839
00:40:17,000 --> 00:40:21,679
because okay, so she it was her one of her roommates,

840
00:40:21,719 --> 00:40:24,679
one of her college roommates, was having a birthday, and

841
00:40:25,159 --> 00:40:28,119
so she went to that friend's house. I guess she

842
00:40:28,280 --> 00:40:31,840
got picked up. Okay, her friend came to our house

843
00:40:31,880 --> 00:40:39,039
and picked her up. Yeah, so oh no, Okay, her

844
00:40:39,079 --> 00:40:42,079
friend came over, left her car at our house. Okay,

845
00:40:42,159 --> 00:40:45,440
her roommate, right, one of her roommates. Then Elbie drove

846
00:40:45,559 --> 00:40:49,280
them to this other roommate's house that was like in

847
00:40:49,559 --> 00:40:56,599
Gridada Hills. So they and then somebody else drove them

848
00:40:57,039 --> 00:40:59,760
to They they hung out at that person's house. They

849
00:40:59,800 --> 00:41:03,679
had a few drunks, they they got loose, they had

850
00:41:03,679 --> 00:41:04,719
a great they had a good time.

851
00:41:05,039 --> 00:41:05,239
Speaker 1: Yeah.

852
00:41:07,519 --> 00:41:11,039
Speaker 2: The girl whose birthday it was was turning twenty one. Yeah,

853
00:41:11,039 --> 00:41:13,800
because so you know, they were like, there was like

854
00:41:14,079 --> 00:41:17,599
drinking at the party, Okay. Then they went clubbing in

855
00:41:17,880 --> 00:41:21,360
La which is hilarious, and then Elbie sent me a text.

856
00:41:21,599 --> 00:41:22,599
Speaker 1: Where do they go clubbing?

857
00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:26,920
Speaker 2: They went to somewhere called and I know we used

858
00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:28,880
to call it the Key Club, but she said it

859
00:41:28,960 --> 00:41:32,760
was called Club Key, so I don't know, but it

860
00:41:32,840 --> 00:41:37,000
was Sunset Boulevard. So she's like, mom, I'm at my

861
00:41:37,119 --> 00:41:39,719
first like LA club. And then she sent me a

862
00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:42,199
picture and the DJ would look kind of old and

863
00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:44,280
I was like, that kind of looks old, and then

864
00:41:44,320 --> 00:41:46,480
she was like, yeah, but he's like the oldest person here.

865
00:41:46,599 --> 00:41:49,559
It's all seems like college kids or whatever. So they

866
00:41:49,840 --> 00:41:54,400
they and they made friends. One of the people they

867
00:41:54,440 --> 00:41:57,280
were with was like a party promoter, a club promoter,

868
00:41:58,360 --> 00:42:00,239
so they all they got like their own like a

869
00:42:00,320 --> 00:42:04,480
private table, and they got like offered shots and whatever.

870
00:42:04,559 --> 00:42:09,239
You know when I yeah, Albie saw a TikTok star, right,

871
00:42:09,880 --> 00:42:12,360
but TikTok was down for the moment at the time,

872
00:42:12,719 --> 00:42:14,400
so they couldn't look at it. They couldn't look her

873
00:42:14,480 --> 00:42:18,039
up until the next day. But anyway, the funny part

874
00:42:18,079 --> 00:42:21,880
of this story to me is that whatever she's having

875
00:42:21,920 --> 00:42:25,639
a good time that night, she never says where she's

876
00:42:25,639 --> 00:42:27,400
going to be sleeping. So of course I have to

877
00:42:27,480 --> 00:42:29,760
life three sixty. In the morning, I realized she never

878
00:42:29,880 --> 00:42:34,519
came home. I Life three sixty and she was at

879
00:42:34,599 --> 00:42:38,559
her apartment at UCLA. So I'm like, okay, so I'm

880
00:42:38,639 --> 00:42:40,320
doing my own thing. I had a bunch of work

881
00:42:40,360 --> 00:42:43,159
that I had to do yesterday, and I had like

882
00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:45,440
a lunch in the afternoon. I get a text from

883
00:42:45,480 --> 00:42:51,119
her mom. I'm like yeah, She's like, uh, what are

884
00:42:51,159 --> 00:42:53,559
you doing right now? I was like, uh, Mom, on

885
00:42:53,639 --> 00:42:56,320
my way to lunch and she's like, oh shit, okay.

886
00:42:57,360 --> 00:42:59,920
I was like, what's going on. She's like, well, I'm

887
00:43:00,159 --> 00:43:05,519
a pickle, she said, pickle. It was like, what happened?

888
00:43:05,559 --> 00:43:09,639
She goes, well, long story, She's like, but my car

889
00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:14,960
is at my friends this person's house in Granada Hills

890
00:43:15,639 --> 00:43:19,320
because I got a ride to this club and my

891
00:43:19,679 --> 00:43:23,280
friend has my keys. My car keys are in my

892
00:43:23,400 --> 00:43:27,159
friend's purse because I couldn't fit them in my back.

893
00:43:27,199 --> 00:43:30,000
Because you know what these kids do a lot is

894
00:43:30,079 --> 00:43:33,159
they just bring their phone with their credit card and

895
00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:37,079
they do these pockets, little pockets on their tan back. Okay,

896
00:43:37,519 --> 00:43:39,880
so they just have their ID and like credit card

897
00:43:40,920 --> 00:43:45,159
and their phone. But like Mitch did, never with your keys.

898
00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:48,519
So so the girl that's you know, the designated big

899
00:43:48,599 --> 00:43:53,400
purse is like here right, yes, yeah, that was always me.

900
00:43:54,119 --> 00:43:56,159
I was like, I never felt good about not having

901
00:43:56,159 --> 00:43:58,360
I always wanted to have my bag with me, bobo bag.

902
00:43:58,760 --> 00:44:00,920
And then of course and LB does this to me

903
00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:03,280
all the time, a mom, could you hold my keys?

904
00:44:03,639 --> 00:44:06,360
And her keys are like it's like a big lanyard,

905
00:44:06,400 --> 00:44:08,159
it's ucla lanyard with.

906
00:44:10,199 --> 00:44:10,239
Speaker 3: It.

907
00:44:11,000 --> 00:44:14,320
Speaker 2: Pretty soon I got everybody's fucking keys my purse and

908
00:44:14,639 --> 00:44:17,480
it's like weighs one hundred pounds. I'm weighed down. They're

909
00:44:17,559 --> 00:44:18,880
like freezer birds.

910
00:44:19,599 --> 00:44:23,000
Speaker 1: His Zanne used to get stuck holding everybody's purses too, right, right,

911
00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:26,960
where's your purse? Where's everybody's purses while we went and danced.

912
00:44:27,760 --> 00:44:31,639
Speaker 2: Luckily with rave culture, they've they put their they do

913
00:44:31,800 --> 00:44:35,320
fanny packs, they do little chest like, they put bags

914
00:44:35,480 --> 00:44:38,760
and so and especially because people steal your phones, as

915
00:44:38,880 --> 00:44:42,960
Italian knows, not that it happened in Italia, but her friends,

916
00:44:43,360 --> 00:44:45,199
and it's happened to Elbie where a bunch of her

917
00:44:45,239 --> 00:44:48,159
friends got their phone stolen. So they you can't just

918
00:44:48,280 --> 00:44:50,719
keep your phone in your pocket, You got to keep

919
00:44:50,719 --> 00:44:54,920
it in a zipped pouch on your body. Okay. Anyway,

920
00:44:55,079 --> 00:44:59,159
so the funny thing is she's like, okay, so my friend,

921
00:44:59,480 --> 00:45:02,719
one of her the roommates, has her keys. Can't get

922
00:45:02,719 --> 00:45:05,559
a hold of that girl. Why because spoiler alert, she

923
00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:08,039
was sleeping and her phone had ran out of batteries

924
00:45:09,039 --> 00:45:11,840
and she wasn't up yet. So now Elbe wakes up

925
00:45:11,880 --> 00:45:15,320
in her apartment. The other girl who has her keys

926
00:45:15,400 --> 00:45:18,880
went home. Uh huh, she's Elbie's texting or the text

927
00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:22,280
are going green or whatever. She's not answering because the

928
00:45:22,320 --> 00:45:25,159
phone was out of batteries. So she has no keys,

929
00:45:26,280 --> 00:45:28,320
she needs her car, and she has to work that day.

930
00:45:28,920 --> 00:45:32,760
Speaker 1: I used to have to go through that shit, right, Yeah,

931
00:45:32,800 --> 00:45:35,119
but we didn't have phones. We couldn't find where our

932
00:45:35,159 --> 00:45:37,840
friends were. We didn't. I don't know Don left the bar.

933
00:45:38,159 --> 00:45:41,039
Nobody knows where she is. I've got my keys to

934
00:45:41,159 --> 00:45:42,920
my car and I have to go to work. Where

935
00:45:42,960 --> 00:45:43,559
the fuck is she?

936
00:45:44,079 --> 00:45:46,760
Speaker 2: Yes, that happened to you, and this is I literally

937
00:45:46,800 --> 00:45:49,000
thought about the story about the girl that we talked

938
00:45:49,000 --> 00:45:52,679
about on Tuesday, Amy, Yes, having your keys and you

939
00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:55,360
had to go to work, yes, preschool right?

940
00:45:55,639 --> 00:45:57,320
Speaker 1: And she exist and she couldn't.

941
00:45:57,360 --> 00:45:59,039
Speaker 2: She's like, I didn't know he I didn't know what

942
00:45:59,199 --> 00:45:59,400
my key.

943
00:45:59,519 --> 00:46:01,280
Speaker 1: Well we get we have to stay an extra day

944
00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:02,039
in Laughlin.

945
00:46:02,400 --> 00:46:03,760
Speaker 2: And I was like the fuck this?

946
00:46:04,719 --> 00:46:04,760
Speaker 4: No.

947
00:46:05,039 --> 00:46:09,000
Speaker 1: I was miserable, miserable right right.

948
00:46:09,599 --> 00:46:13,719
Speaker 2: So Elbie's like I can't find she. I can't rouse her.

949
00:46:13,920 --> 00:46:17,440
She's got my keys, her car is at my house,

950
00:46:17,800 --> 00:46:20,519
but my car is at the other girl's house because

951
00:46:20,519 --> 00:46:22,800
we all got a ride from there. So this girl

952
00:46:22,920 --> 00:46:26,079
can't get her car, LB can't get her car. So

953
00:46:26,239 --> 00:46:29,079
I was like, okay, well, I was on my way

954
00:46:29,119 --> 00:46:32,639
to lunch with my friend Laura and Julie Julie Caseum.

955
00:46:33,519 --> 00:46:36,559
And it was literally she caught when she was texting

956
00:46:36,639 --> 00:46:38,840
me about this. It was literally like ten to twelve,

957
00:46:38,880 --> 00:46:41,559
and I was meeting them at twelve and I was like, well,

958
00:46:41,559 --> 00:46:43,960
I can't come get you right this minute. She's like, okay,

959
00:46:44,039 --> 00:46:45,960
I need to be I need to leave for work

960
00:46:46,000 --> 00:46:49,599
at two thirty. Luckily John was around, So John had

961
00:46:49,639 --> 00:46:53,000
to drive to UCLA, pick her up, drive her to

962
00:46:53,119 --> 00:46:57,199
the driver now Ally's, so we had an extra car

963
00:46:57,320 --> 00:46:59,320
key for her. Yeah, so he had to pick her up,

964
00:46:59,599 --> 00:47:03,559
totally opposite directions for my non la people driver all

965
00:47:03,599 --> 00:47:05,679
the way to Westwood her, get her, pick her up,

966
00:47:06,280 --> 00:47:10,440
take her to Deep in the Valley with the extra

967
00:47:10,519 --> 00:47:13,280
set of keys. Then she got her car, then she

968
00:47:13,440 --> 00:47:17,360
came home, then she went, then she went to work

969
00:47:17,679 --> 00:47:20,559
with those keys, and then I guess her friend finally

970
00:47:20,719 --> 00:47:24,280
woke up and was like, oh shit, sorry, and then

971
00:47:24,639 --> 00:47:28,800
everybody then came dropped off her keys, and then got

972
00:47:28,920 --> 00:47:31,679
her car and left. But I was like, oh my god,

973
00:47:32,239 --> 00:47:36,000
that is bringing back such memories, memories. I was laughing

974
00:47:36,159 --> 00:47:37,320
really hard to get myself.

975
00:47:37,559 --> 00:47:39,559
Speaker 1: If I only had a dad that would come and

976
00:47:39,639 --> 00:47:43,840
save the day, I mean, yeah, I don't even remember

977
00:47:43,880 --> 00:47:46,519
what we would do so many times.

978
00:47:46,519 --> 00:47:49,639
Speaker 2: Because I'm always like, you know, what, good for you

979
00:47:49,920 --> 00:47:53,760
for not attempting to drive anywhere right. Thank you, Thank

980
00:47:53,800 --> 00:47:56,920
you for nobody driving drunk, thank you for ubers, thank

981
00:47:56,960 --> 00:48:00,599
you for however whoever the sober person was happy you

982
00:48:00,679 --> 00:48:00,920
did that.

983
00:48:01,159 --> 00:48:02,639
Speaker 1: Thank you to the girl with the big purse.

984
00:48:03,320 --> 00:48:07,840
Speaker 2: Thanks to big purse. I'm like, oh, we'll come get you,

985
00:48:08,000 --> 00:48:09,480
We'll do I'll do all the things.

986
00:48:09,639 --> 00:48:16,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I know, I mean yes, And it's just

987
00:48:16,599 --> 00:48:20,039
different these days with these kids and technology, and you know,

988
00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:21,280
thank God for that.

989
00:48:21,679 --> 00:48:25,039
Speaker 2: But yeah, it is funny though, when your kids get older,

990
00:48:25,360 --> 00:48:27,480
you're still there's still Why are they always in a pickle?

991
00:48:28,920 --> 00:48:31,239
She use the word pickle, always a pick So how

992
00:48:31,400 --> 00:48:31,840
was her job?

993
00:48:31,960 --> 00:48:34,840
Speaker 1: Did she like it? And she enjoying it being the

994
00:48:34,880 --> 00:48:35,440
tour guide?

995
00:48:35,639 --> 00:48:38,480
Speaker 2: So no, so she hasn't done that yet. This was

996
00:48:38,559 --> 00:48:43,159
her laser tag. Oh so she still picks up shifts. Okay,

997
00:48:43,480 --> 00:48:46,360
that's a whole other story. I was like, girl, you

998
00:48:46,519 --> 00:48:50,280
can't just not like she can still do that job

999
00:48:50,400 --> 00:48:51,519
sometimes when she's home.

1000
00:48:51,760 --> 00:48:53,719
Speaker 1: And I was like, then if you can do it,

1001
00:48:54,320 --> 00:48:59,280
do it right, because yeah, Natali, you got a job finally.

1002
00:48:59,400 --> 00:49:00,159
Speaker 2: Oh she did well.

1003
00:49:00,840 --> 00:49:05,320
Speaker 1: She's been looking and so she applied for this restaurant

1004
00:49:06,639 --> 00:49:09,360
and they only had they do have availability, but only

1005
00:49:09,440 --> 00:49:12,400
for one day a week starting now. But they say

1006
00:49:12,920 --> 00:49:15,559
somebody's leaving or something and then it'll open up. But

1007
00:49:15,800 --> 00:49:18,239
as right now, it's just one day a week. So

1008
00:49:18,360 --> 00:49:20,920
she's like, good news is I got a job. The

1009
00:49:21,039 --> 00:49:23,199
bad news is like one day a week for now,

1010
00:49:23,880 --> 00:49:27,679
like for how long. She's like, I don't know. I'm like, well, okay,

1011
00:49:28,039 --> 00:49:29,039
at least that's a start.

1012
00:49:29,440 --> 00:49:29,639
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1013
00:49:29,760 --> 00:49:32,239
Speaker 1: So yeah, she's doing hostess like she did at her

1014
00:49:32,679 --> 00:49:35,440
other job. Okay, that's good, yes, thank god.

1015
00:49:35,559 --> 00:49:36,840
Speaker 2: And then she got that training.

1016
00:49:37,559 --> 00:49:39,960
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah she had you know, she used it. She

1017
00:49:40,119 --> 00:49:42,719
has her resume. She dropped it off and they saw

1018
00:49:42,800 --> 00:49:46,760
that she had hostess training, so she's background. So yeah,

1019
00:49:47,280 --> 00:49:49,480
so it's good. Yeah, happy about.

1020
00:49:49,239 --> 00:49:53,599
Speaker 2: Well, we applied for another job being basically helping kids

1021
00:49:53,719 --> 00:49:56,199
with their applications at community college.

1022
00:49:56,400 --> 00:49:56,800
Speaker 1: That's good.

1023
00:49:57,199 --> 00:50:01,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, and that is like these these are applications these days.

1024
00:50:01,679 --> 00:50:01,920
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1025
00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:03,639
Speaker 2: I don't know if it's just for these kind of

1026
00:50:03,719 --> 00:50:07,039
jobs that go through the college, but wow, it is

1027
00:50:07,320 --> 00:50:11,079
in depth. They asked them all these questions in the application,

1028
00:50:11,320 --> 00:50:13,599
and then she had to send over her resume and

1029
00:50:13,719 --> 00:50:17,280
then I had to help her. I got to help her.

1030
00:50:17,360 --> 00:50:19,280
It was kind of fun. He sat on my bed

1031
00:50:19,360 --> 00:50:22,639
and went through her old resume because you and did

1032
00:50:22,679 --> 00:50:23,880
an opening statement.

1033
00:50:24,440 --> 00:50:25,639
Speaker 1: That's nice, you know.

1034
00:50:26,119 --> 00:50:28,159
Speaker 2: That was she had one. She had applied for this

1035
00:50:28,320 --> 00:50:31,519
internship for this like music job that she didn't get,

1036
00:50:31,679 --> 00:50:34,360
so we had to make update her resume for a

1037
00:50:34,440 --> 00:50:37,840
different kind of job. And it's like, luckily, AI can

1038
00:50:37,920 --> 00:50:38,440
really help you.

1039
00:50:39,280 --> 00:50:41,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've never used it. I don't know how to.

1040
00:50:41,639 --> 00:50:46,039
I mean I know that there's that app I just right.

1041
00:50:46,119 --> 00:50:49,480
Speaker 2: Do you even google? Yeah? Nowadays, when you google something

1042
00:50:49,519 --> 00:50:52,039
and you ask a question, I know, first answer is AI.

1043
00:50:52,280 --> 00:50:56,599
Speaker 1: Yeah I noticed that. Yeah, yeah, but yeah, thank god,

1044
00:50:56,639 --> 00:50:59,559
I mean, yeah, I guess that that helps. It helps.

1045
00:50:59,599 --> 00:51:01,639
Speaker 2: It's like an springboard. It's like you don't want to

1046
00:51:01,679 --> 00:51:04,719
put down exactly what AI says because it always is

1047
00:51:04,880 --> 00:51:09,039
very robotic, but you can take what AI suggests and

1048
00:51:09,119 --> 00:51:12,199
you can go, oh that's a good I like this line,

1049
00:51:12,679 --> 00:51:15,800
and then I'm gonna be this yeah. But yeah. So

1050
00:51:15,920 --> 00:51:17,719
she worked on that for like a couple of hours

1051
00:51:17,800 --> 00:51:20,960
because I was like one job, like just doing tours

1052
00:51:21,159 --> 00:51:27,480
is not enough yea, And she's got time anyway. You

1053
00:51:27,559 --> 00:51:29,280
know what we haven't done yet is said hello to

1054
00:51:29,360 --> 00:51:31,639
our people. Oh let's say hi. Yeah, we got like

1055
00:51:32,440 --> 00:51:36,079
Chefanie Stinker Wrinkers and Kelly Bryant who's not your aunt?

1056
00:51:36,920 --> 00:51:44,079
And Rebecca lu and Alicia from the City, el al

1057
00:51:44,199 --> 00:51:48,639
Monte and Dick is frolicking and Kelly Lottie do Katie,

1058
00:51:49,199 --> 00:51:53,039
Katie's rolling on e Nikki, she's been calling us, She's

1059
00:51:53,119 --> 00:51:57,280
called her girls. Rita's rocking, Elizabeth Williamson's kids and her

1060
00:51:57,320 --> 00:52:01,800
Bassinette and Polly We love your pancakes. It's Bubba Fenway,

1061
00:52:01,840 --> 00:52:04,360
Keets out of the park, Caterina's got a bum, Moler,

1062
00:52:05,440 --> 00:52:07,199
Gabby and Missy Ooo.

1063
00:52:07,280 --> 00:52:10,599
Speaker 1: Those girls. Oh they're volunteering at the fire at the

1064
00:52:10,639 --> 00:52:11,280
fire department.

1065
00:52:11,360 --> 00:52:13,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, they're trying to turn their lives around. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

1066
00:52:13,719 --> 00:52:19,599
I like that. E Sean Voe. Did we say Alicia Escalante?

1067
00:52:19,719 --> 00:52:25,239
I think we did. Leslie is coughing still, Sarah Stefano,

1068
00:52:25,400 --> 00:52:28,960
she's our Paisano and Aaron is still a dirty Sanchez. Jennifer,

1069
00:52:29,480 --> 00:52:32,719
get up, Sandra. It's not easy being green. Jacob Crowley,

1070
00:52:32,760 --> 00:52:36,719
we love you, do we say, Athena getting sure, we

1071
00:52:36,840 --> 00:52:41,679
love you. A couple more shouts we have just for

1072
00:52:41,760 --> 00:52:44,960
our business people. We got Christa Stroop is for the

1073
00:52:45,119 --> 00:52:49,920
Chase Hailey project trying to just shed some light on this,

1074
00:52:50,239 --> 00:52:54,079
break the stigma surrounding suicide and help fill the gaps

1075
00:52:54,159 --> 00:52:56,559
in her community in Ohio. This is for her friend

1076
00:52:56,599 --> 00:53:01,400
who lost her son to suicide, Chase Haley Project. Also,

1077
00:53:01,519 --> 00:53:07,360
Lorie Bishop's son has the act Better test Prep. The

1078
00:53:07,480 --> 00:53:09,760
easiest way to find this. This is like a great

1079
00:53:09,880 --> 00:53:12,199
test prep that her son developed because he got a

1080
00:53:12,360 --> 00:53:16,639
superscore great score on his You go to on Instagram,

1081
00:53:16,960 --> 00:53:21,159
go to Better dot test dot Prep. That's the easy

1082
00:53:21,199 --> 00:53:24,280
way to find it. Also, a good friend of mine

1083
00:53:24,440 --> 00:53:29,760
has her Medium account with crazy tales about her horrific

1084
00:53:29,880 --> 00:53:34,960
ex husband. Go to medium dot com slash at unbecoming

1085
00:53:35,119 --> 00:53:40,719
stories to check that out. And Adam Lerner can help

1086
00:53:40,760 --> 00:53:42,920
you get a car. You guys know the drill on that.

1087
00:53:43,719 --> 00:53:47,000
Adam's got a car dot com. He can he's a

1088
00:53:47,079 --> 00:53:50,719
car broker. And Ferncandle she can get you Ferncandle dot com.

1089
00:53:50,840 --> 00:53:53,159
She can get you those delicious smelling candles with the

1090
00:53:53,239 --> 00:53:55,320
soy wax that burn for a really long time.

1091
00:53:55,960 --> 00:54:00,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm looking at all that wind out there, can up.

1092
00:54:01,119 --> 00:54:02,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, better get ourselves home.

1093
00:54:03,280 --> 00:54:06,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, thanks you guys, Thank you guys.

1094
00:54:08,320 --> 00:54:11,440
Speaker 2: Also, just before we wrap I want to say that

1095
00:54:12,480 --> 00:54:16,119
coming up in the future for our show, Lynette and

1096
00:54:16,159 --> 00:54:18,679
I really want to like we want to kind of

1097
00:54:18,760 --> 00:54:21,400
embrace where we are in life right now and like

1098
00:54:22,039 --> 00:54:24,719
having older kids, and we want to start like doing

1099
00:54:24,800 --> 00:54:29,079
more shit, like finding ourselves again. So if you have

1100
00:54:29,239 --> 00:54:32,679
any ideas or like things that you have always wanted

1101
00:54:32,719 --> 00:54:34,760
to try, but you want to send us out to

1102
00:54:34,840 --> 00:54:38,519
try it first, Not skydiving, Okay, calm down, Yeah, but

1103
00:54:38,760 --> 00:54:40,239
like something.

1104
00:54:39,960 --> 00:54:42,559
Speaker 1: A little bit less like nine operators.

1105
00:54:42,760 --> 00:54:44,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like do you want me to join like a

1106
00:54:44,559 --> 00:54:47,079
bowlie league or yeah, or become like a nine to

1107
00:54:47,079 --> 00:54:49,719
one to one operation. Yeah, like something that you think

1108
00:54:49,800 --> 00:54:53,039
that could like enrich our exhibit a little bit. Yeah,

1109
00:54:53,039 --> 00:54:55,800
as they say about the animals at the zoo. Send

1110
00:54:55,880 --> 00:54:58,639
us some stuff on Facebook, Yeah, give us some Yeah.

1111
00:54:58,880 --> 00:55:01,519
When we have Leanne Raiser on our show as a guest,

1112
00:55:01,920 --> 00:55:05,559
that's Bert Kreischer's wife from Wife of the Party podcast,

1113
00:55:05,679 --> 00:55:09,039
and she had talked about possibly starting like an adult

1114
00:55:09,280 --> 00:55:12,039
like girl Scout troop. You know, we thought about that

1115
00:55:12,400 --> 00:55:15,239
and like that's still a fun idea, that's cute, So

1116
00:55:15,360 --> 00:55:17,440
maybe we get that going, But like send us some

1117
00:55:17,559 --> 00:55:20,119
ideas of stuff that like we could go do Yeah.

1118
00:55:20,320 --> 00:55:20,920
Speaker 1: That'll be fun.

1119
00:55:21,360 --> 00:55:22,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, it'd be fun for the New Year.

1120
00:55:22,760 --> 00:55:25,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's quite different. I don't care it now, don't

1121
00:55:25,920 --> 00:55:31,239
f it up, letting