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<v Speaker 1>This is Gary and Shannon and you're listening to KFI

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<v Speaker 1>AM six forty, the Gary and Shannon Show on demand

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<v Speaker 1>on the iHeartRadio app.

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<v Speaker 2>The study that suggests that if you were allowed alcohol

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<v Speaker 2>as a teenager, you know, your parents gave your permission

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<v Speaker 2>to have a drink with the family or whatever, or

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<v Speaker 2>they were more brazen and just said do whatever you want,

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<v Speaker 2>just as long as you don't drive, or wherever the

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<v Speaker 2>line was. If you were allowed to drink alcohol as

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<v Speaker 2>a teenager, you had problems. Likely you were more likely

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<v Speaker 2>to binge drink when you are a young adult, et cetera.

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<v Speaker 2>So we'll talk about that coming up at the bottom

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<v Speaker 2>of the hour. Also, there is a doctor who studies

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<v Speaker 2>those people.

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<v Speaker 3>Who are you know, super agers.

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<v Speaker 2>These are this group of wellness influencers that try to

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<v Speaker 2>do everything they can to extend their lifestyle with supplements

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<v Speaker 2>or exercise or crazy meditations or sun tanning your hearts.

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<v Speaker 3>Or whatever they do.

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<v Speaker 2>But this doctor who's been studying these people has come

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<v Speaker 2>up with his own exercise regimen. We'll talk about that,

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<v Speaker 2>and then of course what you're watching Wednesday comes along

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<v Speaker 2>at twelve thirty, so you can always let us know

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<v Speaker 2>what you've been watching. What you're excited about that's coming up.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll tell you about the trailers that are up on

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<v Speaker 2>the website. Also, it's time for Swampwatch.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm a politician, which means I'm a cheat and a liar.

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<v Speaker 4>And when I'm not kissing babies, I'm stealing their lollipops.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, we got The real problem is that our leaders

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<v Speaker 5>are done.

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<v Speaker 3>The other side never quits.

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<v Speaker 1>So what I'm not going anywhere?

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<v Speaker 4>So that is now you train the squaw.

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<v Speaker 3>I can imagine what can be and be unburdened by

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<v Speaker 3>what has been. You know, Americans have always been gone at,

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<v Speaker 3>but they're not stupid.

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<v Speaker 6>A political flunder is when a politician actually tells the truth.

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<v Speaker 4>Who have the people voted for you?

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<v Speaker 3>With no swamp watch? They're all countona.

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<v Speaker 2>So President Trump right now is hosting the President of

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<v Speaker 2>South Africa, and along with the normal trade relations and

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<v Speaker 2>you know the good will that goes back and forth

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<v Speaker 2>between countries, there was a moment where President Trump in

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<v Speaker 2>the Oval Office told the President of South Africa that

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<v Speaker 2>he was going to show him a video of allegations

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<v Speaker 2>of white genocide where lawmakers black lawmakers in South Africa

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<v Speaker 2>are calling for the murder of white farmers throughout South Africa,

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<v Speaker 2>and showed this video of a Communist member of parliament

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<v Speaker 2>or at least a Communist leader there in South Africa

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<v Speaker 2>who blatantly called for the murder of white farmers people of.

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<v Speaker 5>Fleeing South Africa for their own safety. Their land is

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<v Speaker 5>being confiscated and in many cases they're being killed. And

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<v Speaker 5>that scene of you see how many crosses they have.

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<v Speaker 5>Those crosses, that's a dead person in every one of them,

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<v Speaker 5>and those trucks or cars are paying their respects to

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<v Speaker 5>all of those dead people on a Sunday morning. That's

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<v Speaker 5>a that's a rough that's a rough thing to explain away.

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<v Speaker 2>One of the reasons that this became an issue is

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<v Speaker 2>the United States granted refugee status to at least forty

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<v Speaker 2>nine Africanners, the white African or community, who said they

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<v Speaker 2>were fleeing racial and violent persecution, widespread seizures of lands

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<v Speaker 2>that was owned by white farmers. There were people in

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<v Speaker 2>the room today in the Oval Office with President Cyril

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<v Speaker 2>Ramaphosa of South Africa who said that's not true.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not race based. The problem is not race relations in.

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<v Speaker 2>South Africa, which is weird to say, but that the

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<v Speaker 2>problem is just crime, that crime doesn't choose a skin

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<v Speaker 2>color in South Africa. But black farmers and white farmers

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<v Speaker 2>and farm workers are being attacked and victimized in the same.

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<v Speaker 3>At the same levels.

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<v Speaker 2>That the idea that this is a specifically white genocide

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<v Speaker 2>in South Africa is not true. President Trump actually invited

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<v Speaker 2>Ernie Els, Golfer, Ernie Els to the White House today

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<v Speaker 2>to help with this reception for Cyril Ramaphosa, the President

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<v Speaker 2>of South Africa, and then forced Ernie Els to speak

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<v Speaker 2>in this news conference there in the Oval Office.

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<v Speaker 4>So there's been thirty.

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<v Speaker 7>Five years of anti government, and I know there's a

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<v Speaker 7>lot of anger, you know, through the transition. There's also

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<v Speaker 7>a lot of stuff happening in the apartheid space. You know,

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<v Speaker 7>we grew up in the apartheid ye, right, But I

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<v Speaker 7>don't think two rongs makes it right. You know, President

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<v Speaker 7>Mandela when he came out of president for all that time,

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<v Speaker 7>didn't come out with hatred, you know, and really unified

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<v Speaker 7>our nation through.

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<v Speaker 3>Sport, through sport, he says there.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, the other thing that's going on in DC is

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<v Speaker 2>they're still trying to get this big, beautiful bill.

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<v Speaker 3>According to President Trump through the House.

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<v Speaker 2>There's still some hang ups, especially regarding the state and

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<v Speaker 2>local tax deduction.

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<v Speaker 3>The problem is.

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<v Speaker 2>On the one side, President Trump says that he is

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<v Speaker 2>just yesterday he said he is the biggest fiscal hawk

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<v Speaker 2>in Washington, but then refuse to acknowledge that this big,

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<v Speaker 2>beautiful bill would literally add trillions of dollars to the deficit.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's the biggest issue that's hanging this thing up.

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<v Speaker 2>There is a group of Republican House members who do

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<v Speaker 2>not want to add to the deficit. I mentioned this

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<v Speaker 2>last I mentioned it yesterday that Thomas Massey out of Kentucky,

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<v Speaker 2>one of the congressmen, had no hard no on this

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<v Speaker 2>kind of ongoing kicking the can down the road when

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<v Speaker 2>it comes to deficit spending. And despite what President Trump says,

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<v Speaker 2>there is a group of lawmakers that kind of follow

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<v Speaker 2>in the footsteps of Thomas Massey.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not sure he's necessarily the leader.

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<v Speaker 2>You could argue that Chip Roy is probably the leader

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<v Speaker 2>of that group, but that they do not want to

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<v Speaker 2>see this continue. They're hanging their hat on that state

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<v Speaker 2>and local tax deduction and the potential to raise this

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<v Speaker 2>whole thing. But listen, the White House Council of Economic

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<v Speaker 2>Advisors says that this bill in its current form would

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<v Speaker 2>boost GDP four percent five percent in the short run,

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<v Speaker 2>which is incredible. It goes well beyond what the mainstream

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<v Speaker 2>consensus is in terms of increasing our GDP, and the

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<v Speaker 2>White House says that that number means that we do

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<v Speaker 2>not add to the deficit, but would actually save one

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<v Speaker 2>point six trillion dollars because of spending cuts and Medicaid

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<v Speaker 2>work requirements. So it's one of those things that this

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<v Speaker 2>is the big ugly part of Washington, d C. Where

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<v Speaker 2>they're trying to get these massive bills through and all

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<v Speaker 2>of the politicking really kicks into high gear in the background.

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<v Speaker 2>The other thing out of DC second Terry Defense Pete

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<v Speaker 2>Hegseth has apparently officially accepted that Boeing seven forty seven

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<v Speaker 2>from Cotter. A Defense Department spokesperson said that it will

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<v Speaker 2>go through its upgrades to include proper security measures and

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<v Speaker 2>functional mission requirements in order for it to be the

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<v Speaker 2>travel apparatus for the commander in chief. There is I

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<v Speaker 2>don't understand how they're going to do it quickly. It

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<v Speaker 2>would be a couple of years worth of work on that,

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<v Speaker 2>and already the two Air Force. The two seven forty

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<v Speaker 2>sevens that are being retrofitted to become the next air

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<v Speaker 3>All right, up, next, terror in the skies.

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<v Speaker 8>Speaking of airplanes, you're listening to Gary and Shannon on

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<v Speaker 2>the Skies, Blights zero and.

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<v Speaker 8>It's Gary and Shannon's Terror in the Skies on kfill.

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<v Speaker 3>We'll start with a more traditional terror in the Skies.

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<v Speaker 2>A Navy tech was arrested on charges of making a

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<v Speaker 2>false bomb threat on a Hawaiian Airlines flight. This thirty

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<v Speaker 2>He told a flight attendant on Hawaii Airlines Flight fifteen

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<v Speaker 2>the passenger next to him had a bomb as they

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<v Speaker 2>were getting ready to depart. Flight attendant tells the captain

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<v Speaker 2>Harbor police were able to get this guy.

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<v Speaker 3>The incident happened.

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<v Speaker 2>Is about to leave San Diego on its way to Honolulu,

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<v Speaker 2>so the plane taxi to a safe location. They searched

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<v Speaker 2>the plane, three hundred people on board, all had to

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<v Speaker 2>get off, had to be taken by bus. Everybody, the aircraft,

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<v Speaker 2>all the luggage, et cetera.

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<v Speaker 3>Eventually cleared. No bomb found, but what an annoyance.

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<v Speaker 2>Also, Southwest Airlines is implementing a new policy. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>the portable chargers. It's usually about the size of your phone,

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<v Speaker 2>but it's a small battery pack that you charge up

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<v Speaker 2>and then when you're on a trip somewhere, you can

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<v Speaker 2>plug your phone or computer, whatever that is, into that

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<v Speaker 2>and keep it going well. The batteries themselves are the

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<v Speaker 2>things that they don't want you to have in your

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<v Speaker 2>checked bags, so they want you to have it in

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<v Speaker 2>your carry on. But now they're saying, if you have

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<v Speaker 2>one of those power banks, you have to keep it

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<v Speaker 2>in plain sight.

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<v Speaker 3>When you're using it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's okay if you have it and put it in

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<v Speaker 2>the overhead compartment, but if it's plugged into something, if

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<v Speaker 2>it's actually in use, they say they want you to

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<v Speaker 2>have this thing in sight. And as of right now,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean it starts next week. That policy. As of

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<v Speaker 2>right now, it's the only airline that does that. A

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<v Speaker 2>spokesperson for Southwest said using portable charging devices while stored

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<v Speaker 2>in a bag or overhead will no longer be permitted

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<v Speaker 2>because they say nothing is more important to Southwest than

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<v Speaker 2>the safety of its customers and employees. The logic is

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<v Speaker 2>that these lithium ion batteries would be able to overheat,

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<v Speaker 2>And the long ongoing problems with Newark Liberty International Airport

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<v Speaker 2>But as of right now, flights through Newark will be

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<v Speaker 3>As of right now, United is.

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<v Speaker 2>But they said that they welcome these restrictions. United operates

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<v Speaker 2>So yesterday we were telling the story of this about

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<v Speaker 2>a study that came out regarding teens who drink and

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<v Speaker 2>what kind of impact it had on you as an

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of different talkbacks from people with a lot

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<v Speaker 9>Gary, I've had some drinks with my kids at home

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<v Speaker 9>as long as I'm there and I'm supervising, and that

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<v Speaker 9>sounds kind of bad. I mean, I'm supervising, but for

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<v Speaker 9>the most part, the kids don't really want to drink.

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<v Speaker 9>I think after seeing me drink so much all the time,

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<v Speaker 9>they're like, yeah, we don't want to be like that.

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<v Speaker 9>So I think something positive came out of me drinking

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<v Speaker 9>hope the kids learn from it. Anyways, have a good day.

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<v Speaker 3>Sure, there's that.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll talk about that study with Justin Warsham when we

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<v Speaker 2>National Weather Service heat advisory is going to be up

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<v Speaker 2>I told you that the Sean did He Combs trial

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<v Speaker 3>To the Tulsa Zoo.

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<v Speaker 2>So the new two new elephants to add to their herd,

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<v Speaker 2>they do have to go through a quick quarantine time

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<v Speaker 8>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>There's a lot of lot of a lot of other

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<v Speaker 2>Justin Warshon has joined us, so we talked about parenting

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<v Speaker 2>with Justin when he comes in. I saw the article

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<v Speaker 2>yesterday morning, and I actually we got a couple of

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<v Speaker 2>talkbacks from people yesterday, just as an example.

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<v Speaker 3>Here's one.

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<v Speaker 2>The study was about whether drinking as a teenager with

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<v Speaker 2>permission from your parents, they give you little bit of

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<v Speaker 2>leeway or a lot of leeway, whatever it is, But

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<v Speaker 2>drinking before you're legally allowed to, does that have an

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<v Speaker 2>impact on when you drink when you're legal as a

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<v Speaker 10>Adult, Hi, Gary, My parents would have a cocktail when

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<v Speaker 10>my dad got home from work. He drank Martiniz. My

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<v Speaker 10>mom drank Dubinet, which is a sweet sherry. We always

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<v Speaker 10>got to taste it. We thought my dad's drink tasted

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<v Speaker 10>like rocket fuel. My mom's drink was very sweet and

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<v Speaker 10>we loved it. But I grew up alcohol just wasn't

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<v Speaker 10>a big deal until I started partying in my twenties.

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<v Speaker 10>Then it was more of a big deal. But now

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<v Speaker 10>at this point in my life, I hardly drink it

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<v Speaker 2>So the study actually showed that the younger you start,

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<v Speaker 2>for one thing, the younger you start your first taste

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<v Speaker 2>of alcoholics. We had one person say seven, A couple

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<v Speaker 2>of them said nine. The more common was somewhere around eleven, twelve, thirteen, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>twelve was yeah, and not a regular drink, but just

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<v Speaker 6>The sixth of the like the trying in the worship household.

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<v Speaker 6>It's toddlerdom because of my Portuguese step mom. There you go, yes, there,

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<v Speaker 6>as soon as you can walk, you dip your pacifier

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<v Speaker 2>But they said they found an eighty percent increase of

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<v Speaker 2>the sorry eighty percent of the adolescents responded they had

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<v Speaker 2>drunk alcohol with parental permission, and that those were more

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<v Speaker 6>And the theory is like, and this is what I

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<v Speaker 6>a generational aspect to this, because I feel like what

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<v Speaker 6>you remove the taboo, then it would be less likely

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<v Speaker 4>Would drink in high school.

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<v Speaker 6>And this could just be circumstantial, but like I didn't like,

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<v Speaker 6>I had one drink my entire the entire time I

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<v Speaker 6>twenty one the first time I got drunk. But it

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<v Speaker 6>wasn't like, I don't know. I was always very responsible

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<v Speaker 6>about It was never a thing that was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 6>this is exciting. So there's also an element to me

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<v Speaker 6>soon as she came home from work. And I always

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<v Speaker 6>So I just saw it like, oh, but my dad

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<v Speaker 6>never drank. My dad was probably drunk five times my

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<v Speaker 6>entire childhood, and I never saw them any like, at

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<v Speaker 4>Never happened. So, but it's so, I don't know. It

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<v Speaker 4>was never important to me.

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<v Speaker 2>I remember my parents not big drinkers, but they had

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<v Speaker 2>a massive, at least my memory of it, a massive

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<v Speaker 2>liquor cabinet, all right, My dad did to cabinet is

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<v Speaker 2>not the right word, a collection of liquor. It was

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<v Speaker 2>always in the garage, and you know you touched it,

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<v Speaker 2>opened the garage door, and it would be behind it.

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<v Speaker 2>There was a set of shelves back there, and I

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<v Speaker 8>What?

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<v Speaker 2>You don't drink it, what do you use it for?

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe they were drinking it and I didn't know it.

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<v Speaker 6>My father used gin as a trap, like he would

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<v Speaker 6>put because he got tired of me sneaking your mom,

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<v Speaker 6>You're right, he got tired of me stealing his coke

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<v Speaker 6>whenever he so he would lay out a coke and

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<v Speaker 4>And when I was like less than five, and that

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<v Speaker 6>Put cayenne pepper on popcorn for the first few times,

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<v Speaker 4>Steal his popcorn.

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<v Speaker 2>My uncle used to put out his cigarettes in the

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<v Speaker 2>and hee spit if you ever take a sway of that.

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<v Speaker 6>I think there's also got to be an element kind

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<v Speaker 6>I think his contradictor to this in that I think

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<v Speaker 6>if your parent, like my siblings, my stepbrother and sister

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<v Speaker 6>in law, they threw parties and they had their kids,

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<v Speaker 6>had teenage friends and I'm talking at like sixteen years old.

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<v Speaker 6>They would have ragers at their house where everybody would

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<v Speaker 6>supposedly all the parents knew.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know, but if one.

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<v Speaker 6>Of those parents decides to file so press charges, they

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<v Speaker 6>there's a lot that could come from that, and I

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I just want them to be safe. I did.

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<v Speaker 2>I went to one party like that. I think it

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<v Speaker 2>She bought a twelve pack of beer for like ten

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<v Speaker 2>this is not how are we going to decide who

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<v Speaker 2>make any sense. I cannot imagine doing that. I mean now,

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<v Speaker 2>a crush, a couple of Seltzers or whatever you guys want, whatever,

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<v Speaker 2>whatever's cool amongst your group, but nobody leaves.

427
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<v Speaker 3>Nobody leaves this place. You can't get no windows and

428
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<v Speaker 3>no doors.

429
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<v Speaker 2>But there were there were other times as well when

430
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<v Speaker 2>it was just the four of us, my wife and

431
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<v Speaker 2>I and then our son and daughter, and I would say,

432
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<v Speaker 2>you want a glass of wine with dinner? And I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>this is late in their teen years, late in high

434
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<v Speaker 2>school kind of thing, because I wanted them to know

435
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<v Speaker 2>what it felt like, especially before my daughter went off

436
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<v Speaker 2>and you know, got to go to the bars that

437
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<v Speaker 2>did college town. You got to know what two drinks

438
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<v Speaker 2>does to you. Yeah, compared to four drinks, compared to

439
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<v Speaker 2>six drinks. Now, I wasn't going to give her six drinks.

440
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<v Speaker 2>But I just was going to get them to the

441
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<v Speaker 2>point where they go, oh, this does change the way I.

442
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<v Speaker 6>Feel, what it feels like to be prepared, and the

443
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<v Speaker 6>fact that like, there's this where you feel it, and

444
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<v Speaker 6>so maybe if you have one more drink after you

445
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<v Speaker 6>start to feel it, there's more that's coming.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. Right again, there was one other thing I wanted.

447
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<v Speaker 4>Is it this right here?

448
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<v Speaker 6>Even just actually increases rather than no, oh, we already

449
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<v Speaker 6>covered it.

450
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<v Speaker 4>Never mind.

451
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<v Speaker 6>Thirty to forty percent of children under the age of

452
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<v Speaker 6>thirteen try alcohol with parental permission in the United States.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and that, I that's kind of a wide range.

454
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<v Speaker 2>But I think it just means hey, can I Yes,

455
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<v Speaker 2>that's say. And here's the question, do you ask? That's

456
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<v Speaker 2>the other thing about it. I don't remember asking for

457
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<v Speaker 2>a taste of it until I was, you know, fourteen, fifteen, sixteen.

458
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<v Speaker 4>Oh my kids asked even yet.

459
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<v Speaker 2>But I remember my dad handing me a beer when

460
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<v Speaker 2>I was nine or ten and saying try that.

461
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<v Speaker 6>Both of my kids said can I try it? And

462
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<v Speaker 6>we've decided for maybe maybe this is how we're ruining

463
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<v Speaker 6>and making our children alcoholics. Probably like we they said,

464
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<v Speaker 6>can I try and we just said yes, like we

465
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<v Speaker 6>would just give it to them. Especially cocktails at a restaurant.

466
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<v Speaker 6>That's the one where I really break the law. Like

467
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<v Speaker 6>I've had a couple times where when they know they

468
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<v Speaker 6>have to wait till the server leaves and then they

469
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<v Speaker 6>can have a hit off a Dad's old Fashion or

470
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<v Speaker 6>a margarita or something, and to me, it takes the taboo.

471
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<v Speaker 6>My son has been to multiple parties. What's interesting too,

472
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<v Speaker 6>the thing that they kids do now at parties. They drink, sure,

473
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<v Speaker 6>but not as much they do CBD gummies. That's like

474
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<v Speaker 6>the new thing. I think it's because it's easier to

475
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<v Speaker 6>get CBD gummies than it is ones with THHC in it.

476
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<v Speaker 6>But that's what I'm hearing that a lot of the

477
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<v Speaker 6>kids do at parties. They're not really drinking. Nobody smoke

478
00:24:19.039 --> 00:24:21.559
<v Speaker 6>cigarettes anymore. That's like, what are you crazy? I told

479
00:24:21.599 --> 00:24:22.720
<v Speaker 6>my kid, I'm like, you want to buy you some

480
00:24:22.759 --> 00:24:24.559
<v Speaker 6>cigarettes so you could take to the party and be cool.

481
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<v Speaker 6>He's like, you know what, that's the one thing you

482
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<v Speaker 6>would buy that People would be mad at me.

483
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<v Speaker 4>You'd be like, why what are you doing?

484
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<v Speaker 6>If it was a vape man, they would be all

485
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<v Speaker 6>over but everybody's vaping or they like the CBD gummies today.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, a listener question, we come back. All right, great, you're.

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<v Speaker 8>Listening to Gary and Shannon on Demand from KFI AM

488
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<v Speaker 8>six forty.

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<v Speaker 2>We've talked about the well, Shannon and I have talked

490
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<v Speaker 2>about the Sean Diddy Combs trial that's on right now.

491
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<v Speaker 2>Cassie Ventura, his ex girlfriend, was the star witness. Cassie's

492
00:24:57.559 --> 00:25:01.279
<v Speaker 2>mom actually testified as well about the abuse that she

493
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<v Speaker 2>saw in her daughter and led to this question, Hey,

494
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<v Speaker 2>good morning.

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<v Speaker 11>Gary, maybe this could be for you and justin today

496
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<v Speaker 11>on the parenting episode. Okay, so Cassie Ventur's mom was

497
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<v Speaker 11>in court and she showed pictures of her daughter, you know,

498
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<v Speaker 11>lifting up her top and have bruises and blood and

499
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<v Speaker 11>all kinds of damage on her body, and her mom

500
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<v Speaker 11>was aware of it, but she didn't do anything and

501
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<v Speaker 11>get her out of there from what I could tell,

502
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<v Speaker 11>So what kind of parent is that? That's not the

503
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<v Speaker 11>kind of parent I am, And I don't think people

504
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<v Speaker 11>listening want to be that type either.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I don't know if I wouldn't go so far

506
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<v Speaker 2>as to say she didn't do anything, I don't know

507
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<v Speaker 2>what I first thought it was too, but she's also

508
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<v Speaker 2>an adult. She's an adult. Mom can't force her out

509
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<v Speaker 2>of a relationship. And mom was the one apparently who

510
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<v Speaker 2>took the picture, so there was some amount of documentation

511
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<v Speaker 2>that she knew needed to take place. I just think about, listen,

512
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<v Speaker 2>there's the whole thing about that trial, or trials like that.

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<v Speaker 2>If let's assume for the purpose of argument, that he's

514
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<v Speaker 2>guilty of sexually assaulting his ex girlfriend, which he's accused of,

515
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<v Speaker 2>but let's just assume that he that he's that it happened.

516
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<v Speaker 2>As a father or as a parent, doesn't have to

517
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<v Speaker 2>be a father, but as a parent of somebody who

518
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<v Speaker 2>had gone through that, I would do everything I could

519
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<v Speaker 2>to make sure that that guy never saw the light

520
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<v Speaker 2>of day again. As uncomfortable as it would be, as

521
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<v Speaker 2>potentially embarrassing as it would be. I mean, the things

522
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<v Speaker 2>that Cassie Ventura was testifying to are gut wrenching, gut

523
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<v Speaker 2>wrenchingly embarrassing for her, and that she survived it and

524
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<v Speaker 2>is willing to put you put herself out there to

525
00:26:49.480 --> 00:26:52.200
<v Speaker 2>put this guy away says something about her character. I

526
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<v Speaker 2>mean that she's a very very strong person. We also

527
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<v Speaker 2>mentioned that her husband was in the courtroom many times

528
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<v Speaker 2>for many the hours of her testimony, not all of it,

529
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<v Speaker 2>but for many of the hours of it, which has

530
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<v Speaker 2>got to be gut wrenching, and that her parent, her mom,

531
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<v Speaker 2>knows these stories about what has gone on, I don't.

532
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<v Speaker 2>I mean, there's a kind of a question that comes up.

533
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<v Speaker 2>I would hate it if a parent was ever in

534
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<v Speaker 2>that position. But I completely understand the idea that she's there,

535
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<v Speaker 2>She's going to do everything she can to protect her girl, and.

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<v Speaker 6>I think like her. My two cents on that is

537
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<v Speaker 6>that like Shannon makes fun of me and the comforter right,

538
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<v Speaker 6>Like when my son was had his previous girlfriend and

539
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<v Speaker 6>they would cuddle and while we were all watching a movie,

540
00:27:38.240 --> 00:27:40.400
<v Speaker 6>and she's like, oh, things are happening under that comforter.

541
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<v Speaker 6>And even my brother in law gave me a hard

542
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<v Speaker 6>time and said, I think they're doing more than kiss

543
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<v Speaker 6>And I just, deep down in my heart and soul,

544
00:27:47.200 --> 00:27:51.839
<v Speaker 6>I know differently, But again, like you're talking in a hypothetical, hypothetically,

545
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<v Speaker 6>what if I'm wrong?

546
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<v Speaker 4>And I think that's that's.

547
00:27:54.240 --> 00:27:57.400
<v Speaker 6>How this stuff happens, is that we all as parents

548
00:27:57.960 --> 00:28:01.319
<v Speaker 6>make assumptions about what our kids are feeling, especially as

549
00:28:01.359 --> 00:28:03.680
<v Speaker 6>they get older, once they get into those teenage years,

550
00:28:04.039 --> 00:28:06.319
<v Speaker 6>you don't really have a lot of say. And it's

551
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<v Speaker 6>hard because if you try to hold on too tight

552
00:28:08.839 --> 00:28:11.200
<v Speaker 6>and keep them close to you, there's a little bit

553
00:28:11.240 --> 00:28:14.079
<v Speaker 6>of like you hard, You're you're infringing on their development,

554
00:28:14.160 --> 00:28:16.680
<v Speaker 6>like you're slowing it down, you're stunting it. But also

555
00:28:16.799 --> 00:28:19.000
<v Speaker 6>they pull away, like it makes them pull away from

556
00:28:19.000 --> 00:28:20.920
<v Speaker 6>you more, so you have to kind of pick your shots,

557
00:28:20.960 --> 00:28:22.920
<v Speaker 6>like it almost seems like they're in an orbit, you

558
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<v Speaker 6>know what I mean. And then there's moments where they

559
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<v Speaker 6>seem to want to talk to you, and that's when

560
00:28:26.160 --> 00:28:27.759
<v Speaker 6>they're close in orbit. You're like, oh great, and you

561
00:28:27.799 --> 00:28:29.920
<v Speaker 6>get in while you can and see how it goes.

562
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<v Speaker 3>From the elliptical orbit like a comet.

563
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<v Speaker 4>Yes, yeah, like and you don't.

564
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<v Speaker 6>But and so all I'm saying is is that I

565
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<v Speaker 6>think it's very easy on the outside to and I'm

566
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<v Speaker 6>not judging this person. I think he's just saying like,

567
00:28:40.799 --> 00:28:42.759
<v Speaker 6>this might be interesting to talk about, And I agree.

568
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<v Speaker 6>I think it's easy when we're all looking at the

569
00:28:44.559 --> 00:28:46.960
<v Speaker 6>outside to say it's the mom's fault, like why would

570
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<v Speaker 6>she continue to allow this to happen because I think,

571
00:28:50.000 --> 00:28:52.000
<v Speaker 6>like you said when we started, it's assuming that she

572
00:28:52.279 --> 00:28:54.559
<v Speaker 6>was what we don't know, and what I'm like this

573
00:28:54.720 --> 00:28:56.599
<v Speaker 6>is me doing the same kind of speculation. I was

574
00:28:56.640 --> 00:28:58.240
<v Speaker 6>a big fan of Loveline when I was in like

575
00:28:58.279 --> 00:29:00.960
<v Speaker 6>middle school, and it informed a lot about how I

576
00:29:01.000 --> 00:29:04.720
<v Speaker 6>perceived relationships. And regardless of your upbringing, they what they

577
00:29:04.759 --> 00:29:06.880
<v Speaker 6>identified to me as a young kid is that everybody

578
00:29:06.960 --> 00:29:09.200
<v Speaker 6>has these kind of patterns, and what we don't know

579
00:29:09.279 --> 00:29:11.519
<v Speaker 6>is that maybe this poor young lady has just had

580
00:29:11.519 --> 00:29:14.160
<v Speaker 6>a pattern of being attracted to the wrong guy in

581
00:29:14.200 --> 00:29:16.119
<v Speaker 6>her youth, like a lot of us do. I was

582
00:29:16.319 --> 00:29:18.720
<v Speaker 6>way into crazy chicks when I was younger, and now

583
00:29:18.880 --> 00:29:21.000
<v Speaker 6>I just like a good old, boring lady. That's my wife.

584
00:29:21.079 --> 00:29:24.960
<v Speaker 6>But she's awesome, I do. She's gotta love this, right,

585
00:29:27.160 --> 00:29:28.759
<v Speaker 6>you know what I mean. I just don't want any.

586
00:29:28.640 --> 00:29:29.680
<v Speaker 4>Drama in my life.

587
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<v Speaker 2>Well, and I think the one aspect of this specific

588
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<v Speaker 2>case also is the power imbalance that existed between Diddy

589
00:29:36.279 --> 00:29:40.720
<v Speaker 2>and anyone else, anybody if he's threatening to again. One

590
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<v Speaker 2>of the reasons that Kid Cutty was supposed to testify

591
00:29:42.839 --> 00:29:46.160
<v Speaker 2>is Kid Cutty's car blew up in his driveway not

592
00:29:46.240 --> 00:29:49.920
<v Speaker 2>too long after Sean Diddy Combs threatened to blow up

593
00:29:49.960 --> 00:29:54.519
<v Speaker 2>his car in the driveway. Clearly, clearly this guy, or

594
00:29:54.519 --> 00:29:58.200
<v Speaker 2>at least the impression was that this guy had the

595
00:29:58.240 --> 00:30:00.720
<v Speaker 2>ability to take you out if he needed to. Yeah,

596
00:30:00.759 --> 00:30:03.079
<v Speaker 2>and that's, you know, one of the reasons why Mom,

597
00:30:04.079 --> 00:30:05.759
<v Speaker 2>you could. There are other things you can do, but

598
00:30:05.960 --> 00:30:11.079
<v Speaker 2>the power dynamic is not is not irrelevant in that case.

599
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<v Speaker 6>And if if like what if, Like I know Mom,

600
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<v Speaker 6>I don't know when Mom found out about this stuff.

601
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<v Speaker 6>But I also think it's very easy, like in these

602
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<v Speaker 6>situations where your kids are hurting, that's one of the

603
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<v Speaker 6>scary things as a parent is that you have this

604
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<v Speaker 6>perception and if the kid is just really good at

605
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<v Speaker 6>covering it up and hiding it, then there's really no

606
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<v Speaker 6>real way for you to know, because why would you know.

607
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<v Speaker 6>I've had like my solution has been, if I have

608
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<v Speaker 6>an inkling something isn't right, I get and I start

609
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<v Speaker 6>looking at their.

610
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<v Speaker 3>Text down on it.

611
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<v Speaker 6>No, no, it's horrible, but I violate their privacy and

612
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<v Speaker 6>I look at their text messages that they have with

613
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<v Speaker 6>their friend. I look at their search history on their

614
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<v Speaker 6>computer or on their phone, and I do it without

615
00:30:47.880 --> 00:30:50.000
<v Speaker 6>them knowing. It, so because I don't want them to

616
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<v Speaker 6>know that I can look at that, because I feel

617
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<v Speaker 6>like then they're going to learn how to hide it

618
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<v Speaker 6>even better. Yeah, And so I found out there was

619
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<v Speaker 6>a time where my younger son was struggling, and I

620
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<v Speaker 6>know that this wasn't the case. And I know people

621
00:31:00.039 --> 00:31:01.920
<v Speaker 6>listening who maybe have experienced this are going to go,

622
00:31:01.960 --> 00:31:04.960
<v Speaker 6>you're wrong. But in this case, so far, everything's fine.

623
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<v Speaker 6>But my son was googling like depression and anxiety and

624
00:31:09.720 --> 00:31:14.279
<v Speaker 6>not suicidal, but definitely depression. And so when my wife,

625
00:31:14.319 --> 00:31:16.039
<v Speaker 6>when I told her about that, she's like, oh, she's

626
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<v Speaker 6>like starting to get nervous.

627
00:31:17.039 --> 00:31:18.440
<v Speaker 4>I was like, no, he's curious.

628
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<v Speaker 6>He also has a friend group that a lot of

629
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<v Speaker 6>the kids struggle with depression like at that time. So

630
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<v Speaker 6>I said, if it's what you're hanging around, because we remember,

631
00:31:26.480 --> 00:31:29.759
<v Speaker 6>I learn your social circle at his age thirteen to

632
00:31:29.799 --> 00:31:32.640
<v Speaker 6>fifteen becomes more influential than the parents. So I think

633
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<v Speaker 6>it goes back to the same thing. If she's traveling

634
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<v Speaker 6>around with a group of people that are being this

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<v Speaker 6>abusive to her, it's hard for anybody to get.

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<v Speaker 4>Out of it.

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<v Speaker 6>Keep snooping right, stay connected, keep asking questions and always

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<v Speaker 6>just remind like, if you ever need anything, I'm here

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<v Speaker 6>as sappy after school specials as that sounds. I really

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<v Speaker 6>think it makes a difference. I really do such a

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<v Speaker 6>fancy I am.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna go cry. Thank you.

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