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<v Speaker 1>This is a noncore performance of Always in Fashion.

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<v Speaker 2>This show is produced and hosted by Mark Webber. The

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<v Speaker 2>show is sponsored by G three Aparo. The views expressed

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<v Speaker 2>in the following program are those of the sponsor and

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<v Speaker 2>not necessarily the opinion of seven Tenor or iHeartMedia. Who

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<v Speaker 2>is Mark Weber. He's a self made business executive here

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<v Speaker 2>to help you find your success from the New York

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<v Speaker 2>City projects to the Avenue Montaigne in Paris. His global

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<v Speaker 2>success story in the luxury world of fashion is inspirational.

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<v Speaker 2>He's gone from clerk to CEO twice. Mark his classic

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<v Speaker 2>proof that the American dream is alive. And well, here's

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<v Speaker 2>your host of Always in Fashion, Mark Weber.

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<v Speaker 1>Mark Weber.

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<v Speaker 3>This is Mark Weber, This is business, and this is

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<v Speaker 3>a night to talk and Always in Fashion a knight

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<v Speaker 3>that talk seriously, face to face. In this world, the complexity,

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<v Speaker 3>the differences, the diversity make our ability to communicate so

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<v Speaker 3>much more easily and instantaneously than ever before. Yet the

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<v Speaker 3>simpler has become to talk, the more difficulty has become

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<v Speaker 3>to communicate. Phones. The top priority is no longer the phone.

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<v Speaker 3>We pay the least attention to the phone feature for

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<v Speaker 3>communicating there's been virtually no effort put forth to improve

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<v Speaker 3>the phone listening quality, the speakers, etc. And Apple and

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<v Speaker 3>the other makers will admit that because we're not asking

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<v Speaker 3>for it. And why because smartphones, when it comes to talking,

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<v Speaker 3>are not so smart. We don't seem to care about

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<v Speaker 3>the sound quality of the telephone. The consumer is not

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<v Speaker 3>demanding better. Yes they're perfect for email, Yes they're perfect

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<v Speaker 3>for texting, and yes for accessing any of the social mediums.

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<v Speaker 3>It's perfect your phone for finding vast amount of information

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<v Speaker 3>on the Internet, and now perfectly convenient for buying and

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<v Speaker 3>purchasing about anything. But as a phone, it's not developing.

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<v Speaker 3>We don't realize. I guess how incredible it is to

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<v Speaker 3>talk to anyone in the world, anywhere in the world,

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<v Speaker 3>from anywhere that you are. We're taking a cell phone

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<v Speaker 3>for granted, I drove my car from the onset without

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<v Speaker 3>a phone anywhere I would go. I've drived to Pennsylvania

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<v Speaker 3>to Flora without a phone, never giving it a moment's thought.

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<v Speaker 3>But today I'm uncomfortable. I freak out if I forget

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<v Speaker 3>my phone to go to the clean ears. You want

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<v Speaker 3>that phone in the car, it's part of you. Let's

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<v Speaker 3>take a moment to think about it. The future's here.

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<v Speaker 3>We can talk to anyone any time you want. Yet

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<v Speaker 3>we're talking less and less. Texts and emails are growing,

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<v Speaker 3>talking not so much. We can't blame the phone. It's

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<v Speaker 3>there for us. It's not the phone, it's us, it's you. Really.

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<v Speaker 3>Talking is becoming a lost art, and face to face

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<v Speaker 3>to rushians are disappearing. Talking face to face seems to

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<v Speaker 3>be avoided at all costs. When did you stop talking

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<v Speaker 3>and started avoiding? I know it's easy to avoid dialogue

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<v Speaker 3>today it's email and texting impersonal to say the least, easy,

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<v Speaker 3>non confrontational, and easily avoidable for anything. You're at the

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<v Speaker 3>point dating is online. Relationships are verea text. I remember

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<v Speaker 3>how difficult it was for me to work up the

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<v Speaker 3>courage prepare myself to tell a young lady that I

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<v Speaker 3>was dating, that we would be no more. But face

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<v Speaker 3>to face was the right way, face to face to communication.

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<v Speaker 3>It was uncomfortable, but that's what I did. That's what

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<v Speaker 3>I want to talk to you about tonight, face to

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<v Speaker 3>face communication in business and in life, and maybe some politics.

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<v Speaker 3>Face to face with me tonight. Jesse Weber, my son,

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<v Speaker 3>my attorney, here and always in fashion. I can't help

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<v Speaker 3>but stay current on your relationships. Then I raised this point.

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<v Speaker 4>We talk about that a lot my relationships.

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<v Speaker 1>Apparently, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>It's interesting. I went out with somebody recently and she's

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<v Speaker 4>a younger girl, and she said to me, I said,

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<v Speaker 4>you don't go out to meet people anymore, and she goes,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, ever since the online dating and there's so

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<v Speaker 4>many different apps. I go out with my friends, my

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<v Speaker 4>girlfriend's just to go out to dance. I don't really

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<v Speaker 4>look for anybody. If I want to look for somebody,

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<v Speaker 4>I use the apps. If I go out, maybe I'll

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<v Speaker 4>see somebody. But I really wait for the apps. It's

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<v Speaker 4>become a different world. In fact, i'll tell you I

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<v Speaker 4>would say it was a couple of years ago. I

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<v Speaker 4>met a girl at one of an event. You and

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<v Speaker 4>I went to an event. She was working the event.

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<v Speaker 4>I went up to her, started talking or got her number.

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<v Speaker 4>We went out later on that night. I met one

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<v Speaker 4>of her friends, and her friend says to me, while

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<v Speaker 4>my date went to the bathroom, shas you know, I

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<v Speaker 4>heard how you went out. You went out of your

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<v Speaker 4>way to get her number. I think that's really weird.

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<v Speaker 4>I said, what do you mean she goes who goes

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<v Speaker 4>up to somebody who gets their number? I said, how

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<v Speaker 4>should I have met her? You use an app everybody else?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh geez, that's today's day and age. I'm telling you

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<v Speaker 4>things have just changed. And the worst part about it.

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<v Speaker 4>You ready for this? Yeah, when you break up with somebody,

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<v Speaker 4>they cut you off of all social media Facebook, Instagram

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<v Speaker 4>for not just cut you off. I've been blocked. I

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<v Speaker 4>can't even search for them anymore.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I'm glad it's your world. What can I say?

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<v Speaker 3>But tonight I want to talk about talking in business

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<v Speaker 3>and in life. If you master the oral word, you

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<v Speaker 3>will be successful. There's no question your writing skills will

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<v Speaker 3>play an important part in your career. But you need

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<v Speaker 3>to know how to talk. So much of what is

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<v Speaker 3>done via the Internet and writing, and yes, you need

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<v Speaker 3>to be capable of organizing your thoughts and articulating them

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<v Speaker 3>via the written word. You got to be careful where

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<v Speaker 3>you put your exclamation marks. I'm told that's a big deal.

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<v Speaker 3>Putting things in capitals is a big deal. But the

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<v Speaker 3>decisions in your career will be about FaceTime.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait, I'm sorry I have to terrupt you. Coming from here,

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<v Speaker 4>your emails need a lot of work.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like, I care about talking.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't even know what it's like. Morse code.

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<v Speaker 3>What's the thing called that changes your words around?

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<v Speaker 4>If you don't, don't blame it on the Apple Typeoh,

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<v Speaker 4>that's not what it is. What you structure your emails

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<v Speaker 4>like three three words? Then the next sentence it's like, well, spellcheck,

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<v Speaker 4>don't blame it on spellcheck?

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<v Speaker 3>What spell check? Listen to me, I'm on the radio.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm master at communicating the oral word writing. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 3>do it when I have to do, and it's certainly

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<v Speaker 3>part of our culture. But tonight I want to talk

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<v Speaker 3>about FaceTime, not Apple time, not Apple FaceTime, real FaceTime,

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<v Speaker 3>face to face communication. You're expressing of ideas, your relationships

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<v Speaker 3>with your boss, your important communications with your subordinates, the

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<v Speaker 3>people working for you, will be face to face. Your ideas,

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<v Speaker 3>your follow through direction, execution may take place through email,

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<v Speaker 3>but think about it and trust me, it's the FaceTime

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<v Speaker 3>that leaves the impressions. It's the face time that can

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<v Speaker 3>make or break you. Your ability to communicate and talk

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<v Speaker 3>is the key. Now, if you're a listener to the show,

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<v Speaker 3>you know I don't like humans. I don't have much

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<v Speaker 3>faith in them. I just don't like them. If I

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<v Speaker 3>were to work with only people i'd like, I'd be

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<v Speaker 3>in a room by myself.

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<v Speaker 4>What does that say about me?

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<v Speaker 3>Ah, you're not included. Don't be ridiculous. I don't but

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<v Speaker 3>I really don't like humans. And everyone I know knows

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<v Speaker 3>that I don't like humans. But in business, you have

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<v Speaker 3>a responsibility to communicate with them. And in spite of Twitter, Instagram,

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<v Speaker 3>emails and texts, talking sets the stage that is the

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<v Speaker 3>best vehicle to get your ideas and thoughts across directly

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<v Speaker 3>to all the people you interact with. The political world

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<v Speaker 3>is all about FaceTime, you know. I want to talk

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<v Speaker 3>about Gina Haspell, the woman who was interviewing this week

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<v Speaker 3>to be the head of the CIA. She was amazing

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<v Speaker 3>if you listened to her interview, and I'll tell you why.

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<v Speaker 3>Running the CIA, it's got to be an incredibly difficult job.

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<v Speaker 3>And if you listen to this woman, she began in

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<v Speaker 3>the field, making clandestine meetings with spies and people in

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<v Speaker 3>the middle of nowhere in foreign countries. The courage she

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<v Speaker 3>displayed throughout her career to get where she got, and

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<v Speaker 3>when you listen to her talk I was so impressed

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<v Speaker 3>with the degree of information she had at her figure tips.

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<v Speaker 3>She had done it all, and now she's interviewing for

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<v Speaker 3>the top spot in spite of all the scandals. I

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<v Speaker 3>respect our congressmen and senators. Yet when you heard the

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<v Speaker 3>questions they were asking her, trying to get personal information

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<v Speaker 3>from one of America's most important covert operatives. When they

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<v Speaker 3>started to talk about America is behind the scenes investigating principles,

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<v Speaker 3>Why are they asking those questions? It makes no sense.

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<v Speaker 3>Why don't we just tell the whole world how we

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<v Speaker 3>do everything? Now. I know they're smart. I know they

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<v Speaker 3>have very learned their lawyers, their attorneys, they're very smart people.

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<v Speaker 3>But yet they kept probing, probing, probing. But what I

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<v Speaker 3>took away is the more they asked her, the better

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<v Speaker 3>she was. The more I was excited about her because

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<v Speaker 3>she had done every single job there was to be done.

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<v Speaker 3>She knew how to run the CIA. This should have

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<v Speaker 3>been simple, but it wasn't. I will tell you that

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<v Speaker 3>the theme of tonight's show, face to face, was remarkable,

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<v Speaker 3>watching her testify face to face in front of the committee,

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<v Speaker 3>and with that in mind, you could never do that

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<v Speaker 3>via text. The eye contact the face to face questioning

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<v Speaker 3>whether I like the questions or not. I don't even

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<v Speaker 3>know why the whole thing wasn't done in closed session.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, we're talking about the CIA here, We're not

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<v Speaker 3>talking about your favorite food. But it was interesting to

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<v Speaker 3>watch the face to face while I'm on the subject

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<v Speaker 3>of politics. You know who else I want to talk about,

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<v Speaker 3>Jesse Donald Trump. Absolutely, he is perhaps one of the

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<v Speaker 3>most effective communicators ever to occupy the Oval Office. Before

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<v Speaker 3>you run a revolt on me, I know there's a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of you out there that doesn't like the President.

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<v Speaker 3>I happen to think he's an effective communicator, and I'll

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<v Speaker 3>dissuade you for the moment, and I give you a

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<v Speaker 3>point of view on whether I like Donald Trump or not.

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<v Speaker 3>In fact, I know Donald Trump. I actually devoted a

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<v Speaker 3>chapter in my book Always in Fashion to Donald Trump,

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<v Speaker 3>Chapter seventeen, and I entitled it Negotiating with the Master.

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<v Speaker 3>Donald Trump has a life licensing business. He is a brand.

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<v Speaker 3>He believes in the Trump brand, and with that brand,

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<v Speaker 3>he likes to put his name on various different products,

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<v Speaker 3>products ranging from vodka to buildings, to hotels to golf courses.

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<v Speaker 3>And when I met him, he wanted to be in

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<v Speaker 3>the men's apparel business. He believed during his period in

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<v Speaker 3>the Apprentice that he was creating a demand for shirts, ties, suits, clothing,

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<v Speaker 3>and he wanted my company, at the time, the van

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<v Speaker 3>using company, to be his licensee. And my guys came

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<v Speaker 3>to me one day and said, Donald Trump wants to

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<v Speaker 3>be our partner in shirts and ties and suits. I said,

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<v Speaker 3>you know what, what do I need that for? Forget it,

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<v Speaker 3>go back and tell him we don't need it. We

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<v Speaker 3>got enough good things going on. The following morning, the

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<v Speaker 3>president of our licensing business came into me and said,

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<v Speaker 3>Donald Trump wants to come up here. I said, come on.

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<v Speaker 3>He said, no, Donald Trump wants to come up here. Now,

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<v Speaker 3>this was way before he was going to run for office.

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<v Speaker 3>This is when he was running his business. I said,

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<v Speaker 3>I'll tell you, if Donald Trump the man wants to

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<v Speaker 3>days later, Donald Trump and his entourage, which weren't very many,

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<v Speaker 3>I've heard so much about you. I love your company.

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<v Speaker 3>I have this brand that I want you guys to

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<v Speaker 3>be involved to make money. I was absolutely not interested.

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<v Speaker 3>I had no interest in whatsoever. I didn't need it.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, mister Trump, we have all a good business

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<v Speaker 3>going on. Why do I need this? He said? You know,

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<v Speaker 3>I've done celebrity brands before. They come and go. They

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<v Speaker 3>face to face he was so articulate, so clever, so

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<v Speaker 3>interested in building a brand with our company. He was flattering,

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<v Speaker 3>he was tough. I was tougher and made him crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>He said, listen to me, you're very tough. I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>sure I have hi met anyone tougher than you. But

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<v Speaker 3>if you trust me, we could build this brand together.

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<v Speaker 3>And I please, I'd like you to think about it.

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<v Speaker 3>Make a long story short. Our people were enthused. We

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<v Speaker 3>he ran for office. The point is, face to face

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<v Speaker 3>when I watch him communicate as president in his town

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<v Speaker 3>halls or in his pep rallies from city to city.

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<v Speaker 3>I found him to be the most effective communicator I've

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<v Speaker 3>ever seen in the Oval office. Now, does he get

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<v Speaker 3>himself in trouble, yes, Do some people dislike him, yes,

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<v Speaker 3>But those people there listening to him talk to them

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<v Speaker 3>putting America first. How come we all know all of

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<v Speaker 1>Always in fashions.

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<v Speaker 3>As one of the world's most celebrated fashion designers, Carl

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<v Speaker 3>Lagafeld was renowned for his aspirational and cutting edge approach

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<v Speaker 3>to style. His unique vision of Parisian shit comes to

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<v Speaker 3>America through car Lagofeld Paris. He has women's collections, men's collections,

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<v Speaker 3>ready to wear, accessory, shoes and bags. The fashion house

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<v Speaker 3>Carlagofeld also offers a range of watches, I wear and

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<v Speaker 3>premium fragrances. You can explore the car Lagofl collection at

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<v Speaker 3>car Lagofelparis dot com. But it's more than that. I have,

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<v Speaker 3>for one, love to shop. I love going around and

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<v Speaker 3>seeing what's happening and what catches my attention, what would

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<v Speaker 3>the women's wear obviously, but I can appreciate it, and

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<v Speaker 3>they look amazing. If you want to look right, you

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<v Speaker 3>want to have clothes that fits you well. You want

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<v Speaker 3>to look like you're wearing something that's very expensive, that's

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<v Speaker 3>very affordable prices at Macy's Orcarlagofel dot com Paris. The

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<v Speaker 3>women's ready to wear fashion is extraordinary, as well as

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<v Speaker 3>the handbigs and the shoes. I, for one, wear men's clothes,

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<v Speaker 3>unlike my appreciation of women's clothes. I'm a modern guy.

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<v Speaker 3>way I want to feel. I go out at night,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm in black and Carlagafel is my buddy. Calls are great.

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<v Speaker 3>They fit great, and they have little tweaks and touches,

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<v Speaker 3>details that go into Carlagafel because he's always been, he

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<v Speaker 3>always had been one of the world's great designers, and

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<v Speaker 3>this legacy and goes on and on. I can't speak

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<v Speaker 3>enough about it except to say to you, you want

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<v Speaker 3>to feel good about yourself. You want to know that

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<v Speaker 3>you're dressing properly. You want to clothes that fits you well.

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<v Speaker 3>Carl Lagafeld, Paris at Macy's Orcarl Lagafel dot com. A

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<v Speaker 3>favorite brand has always been ISOD. My company at one

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<v Speaker 3>time bought that brand. The CEO of the company handed

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<v Speaker 3>And I put everything in my career to make ISOD work,

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<v Speaker 3>and I fell in love with that brand, and to

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<v Speaker 3>this day it is one of the most exciting endeavors

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<v Speaker 3>I've ever got involved with. Isod is an incredibly strong

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<v Speaker 3>golf brand. If you play golf, if you play tennis

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<v Speaker 3>for that matter. They make a great polo shirts. I

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<v Speaker 3>mean great. They're fit perfect. The material is unique because

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<v Speaker 3>it's a PK fabric that waffle weave you see, and

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<v Speaker 3>it's made of a blend of cotton and microfiber that

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<v Speaker 3>allows you to stretch, and very often they are treated

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<v Speaker 3>with solar protection as well, so they stretch, they're comfortable,

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<v Speaker 3>and they breathe well. And one thing about ISOC they

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<v Speaker 3>always fit. They'll never tug on you. You put it

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<v Speaker 3>in your waist, they'll fit you great. The colors, patterns

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<v Speaker 3>are sensational. Now I will also tell you ISAOD makes

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<v Speaker 3>great shorts and great golf pants. You're a golfer and

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<v Speaker 3>you want to look good. You don't have to think

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<v Speaker 3>about how do I look. You want to think about

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<v Speaker 3>how you play, not how you feel. ISOD is the

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<v Speaker 3>was created. The strategy behind that brand is brilliant. It's

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<v Speaker 3>one of my favorite brands. While I talk about it,

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<v Speaker 3>I should tell you about the men's sportswear. ISOD wasn't

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<v Speaker 3>enough being a golf brand. It wasn't enough being just

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<v Speaker 3>great polo shirts with logos, without logos. Incredible brand and

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<v Speaker 3>story and history. Isaad makes salt weather programs. They have

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<v Speaker 3>great printed woven shirts, short sleeves. They look excellent with colors,

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<v Speaker 3>excellent with shorts, excellent with cotton pants, of which they

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<v Speaker 3>also make this whole salt order relaxed line from ISAD,

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<v Speaker 3>pants of a range of colors and fabrics that are

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<v Speaker 3>spring and summer of this year. And here's the thing.

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<v Speaker 3>ISOD is affordable. Everyone listening to me talk about this

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<v Speaker 3>are a lot of other brands that also have a

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<v Speaker 3>look like ISID. Although I don't believe it's fun as

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<v Speaker 3>Isaia is. The brand has a lot of energy in it,

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<v Speaker 3>but at the price points no one can compete. You

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<v Speaker 3>isid dot com. Talk to you, lady guys. I wish you.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm very happy springing summer, and I help you by

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<v Speaker 3>telling you if you were ISAID, you're going to look great.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome back to Always in Fashion. Here's your host, Mark webber.

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<v Speaker 3>Tonight, I'm Always in Fashion. I'm talking face to face.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm talking about the importance of talking face to face.

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<v Speaker 3>I think speeches are incredibly important. I've spent a career

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<v Speaker 3>out front of the companies that I work for from

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<v Speaker 3>as early as I can remember, you needed to be smart.

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<v Speaker 3>I needed to be smart. I needed to be able

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<v Speaker 3>to communicate. I needed to do all those things that

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<v Speaker 3>I needed to do. But what I realized early on

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<v Speaker 3>with people. Nothing is as clear as talking to someone

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<v Speaker 3>face to face. You see their whites of their eyes,

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<v Speaker 3>you see their expressions. The psychology of you, your ability

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<v Speaker 3>to read people, comes into play. It's so important face

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<v Speaker 3>to face. Otherwise people are talking for you. You're being misrepresented.

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<v Speaker 3>Perhaps you're not getting your points across as well. There

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<v Speaker 3>is a game that we all know. It's called telephone.

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<v Speaker 3>I whisper something in Jesse's ear, Jesse, and it comes

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<v Speaker 3>out something completely different exactly, and that's telephone. And you

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<v Speaker 3>pass it along, and you pass it along and you

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<v Speaker 3>end up your message is misconstrued. It happens every day

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<v Speaker 3>in politics, it happens every day everywhere. But when you

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<v Speaker 3>do it face to face, and it's clear from you.

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<v Speaker 3>First of all, you have no one else to blame

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<v Speaker 3>but yourself. You're the one doing the talking, so you

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<v Speaker 3>better know what you're talking about. But at least it's

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<v Speaker 3>coming from you. You're making the points that you want

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<v Speaker 3>to make. I like to communicate in speeches. I've done

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<v Speaker 3>it my whole career, as I said, starting out till

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<v Speaker 3>the days I became senior VP, executive VP, president, CEO,

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<v Speaker 3>board member, I've had to make my own speeches, and

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's really important to communicate directly with the

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<v Speaker 3>people I work with, face to face, ensuring that you

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<v Speaker 3>hear it from the horse's mouth. In this case, me

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<v Speaker 3>my ideas, my vision, my view of the company, what

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<v Speaker 3>I'm doing, no interpretations. I'm leaving you with what I

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<v Speaker 3>want you to be left with. I love your speeches.

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<v Speaker 3>Ah do you love your speeches?

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<v Speaker 4>Five hundred people knew at the end of your speech

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<v Speaker 4>what you wanted them to know, and I think that's

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<v Speaker 4>the key. That's the key to giving a good speech.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you, Jesse. That's what I'm trying to do, and

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<v Speaker 3>thanks for the nice words. I always try to set

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<v Speaker 3>an example for you and for the people that we're

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<v Speaker 3>standing there. I have an idea, why don't we do

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<v Speaker 3>the following? Why don't I make a speech right now?

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<v Speaker 3>Just to make the point first, of course, welcoming the

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<v Speaker 3>audience to the speech. I think although I am a

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<v Speaker 3>man of the people. I want to come across like

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<v Speaker 3>I'm one of them, that I'm not above them. I

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<v Speaker 3>want to make sure I have a clear message, make

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<v Speaker 3>sure they understand that this is a great company, that

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<v Speaker 3>there are reasons that they're at this company. We're going

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<v Speaker 3>to talk about right now. Why don't you take the

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<v Speaker 3>anchor position and introduce me. Let's see take one of

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<v Speaker 3>my titles. Which title would you like to use.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's do a CEO of LVMH Inc. Louis Vuitton Moet

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<v Speaker 4>Hennessy Inc. It's the US subsidiary Oppressive.

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<v Speaker 3>That was me, that was you. Let's go, let's do

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<v Speaker 3>that speech. So Jesse, why don't we do this? Why

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<v Speaker 3>don't you introduce me and I will give a speech

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<v Speaker 3>to the audience.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, hello there, everybody. I'm Jesse Weber. I'm Mark Weber's son. Now,

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<v Speaker 4>I've known Mark Weber for a long time. I remember

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<v Speaker 4>being born looking at him in the face and saying, huh,

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<v Speaker 4>it's a good looking guy. I hope I get some

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<v Speaker 4>of that one day. Now I've watched his career, I've

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<v Speaker 4>watched his life, and it is my pleasure right now

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<v Speaker 4>to introduce you to the CEO of l the mh Inc.

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<v Speaker 3>Mark Weber. Thank you, Jesse, thank you. It's my pleasure

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<v Speaker 3>to be here. Thank you, and what a nice welcome

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<v Speaker 3>for my son. Of all people, ladies and gentlemen, it's

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<v Speaker 3>a pleasure to be here with you. Look at you

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<v Speaker 3>out there, Oh, five hundred of you dressed well, you're

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<v Speaker 3>get my phone. Here we go. I'm going to take

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<v Speaker 3>a picture of all of you. Hold on, it's going

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<v Speaker 3>to take panoramic. Give me a break. Here we go. Wow,

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<v Speaker 3>you guys look great. I'm going to share that with

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<v Speaker 3>all of you later. Yes, my name is Mark Webber.

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<v Speaker 3>I know most of you. I've been with this company

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<v Speaker 3>now for nine years. Prior to that, I've been with

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<v Speaker 3>many companies where I've been I have to admit a

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<v Speaker 3>fairly senior executive. I became a president the first time

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<v Speaker 3>in nineteen eighty six, and since then I've really had

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<v Speaker 3>a spectacular time working for a number of companies. And

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<v Speaker 3>I'm pleased to be here with you tonight. I'm really

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<v Speaker 3>thrilled to be part of Louis Vitan mo ed Hennessy

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<v Speaker 3>because it's one of the world's great companies, and we're

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<v Speaker 3>going to touch on that in a minute. But I

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<v Speaker 3>also have to tell you I didn't start at the

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<v Speaker 3>top like you. I had to start somewhere, and I

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<v Speaker 3>began as a clerk. I will tell you I began

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<v Speaker 3>as the lowest paid clerk in the company at that time.

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<v Speaker 3>I remember my boss being very proud when he hired me,

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<v Speaker 3>hiring me for salary less than anyone else. So when

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<v Speaker 3>you see me up here talking and standing in front

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<v Speaker 3>of you as the CEO of a company, I want

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<v Speaker 3>you to know that you too could be up here,

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<v Speaker 3>and nobody handed this to me. I began as a

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<v Speaker 3>clerk and I worked my way up. Having said that,

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<v Speaker 3>why is this a great company? First of all, it

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<v Speaker 3>has an accumulation of some of the world's great brands

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<v Speaker 3>Louis Vuton, Dior Cavanci, Sephora Berludi, Laura Piano, on and on.

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<v Speaker 3>An amazing, amazing company. And it's a place for you

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<v Speaker 3>because this company recognizes that the people that work in

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<v Speaker 3>it are more important than even the brands we run,

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<v Speaker 3>because you are the people that will make the brands great.

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<v Speaker 3>You are the people that we need to take the

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<v Speaker 3>company to the next level. You are the people, and

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<v Speaker 3>that's what makes this company special. We understand that we

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<v Speaker 3>need people. As a group here and around the world

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<v Speaker 3>is over one hundred thousand employees. So just keep in

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<v Speaker 3>mind one of these great jobs standing here before you.

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<v Speaker 3>You could be the CEO. There's no reason you can be.

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<v Speaker 3>And those of you who really really want to strive

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<v Speaker 3>for the top, I'll tell you two things. One, be

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<v Speaker 3>very very curious. Always look to learn as much as

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<v Speaker 3>you can. And two, any of you that can speak

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<v Speaker 3>foreign languages, you are our hero. This is a company

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<v Speaker 3>that operates in every market, in every country and almost

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<v Speaker 3>every city around the world. Those of you who speak

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<v Speaker 3>multiple languages, you have a great opportunity with this company,

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<v Speaker 3>and those of you who don't, it's never too late

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<v Speaker 3>to learn. What a great place for you. Talk about learning,

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<v Speaker 3>Think about a company that owns brands and shipbuilding, fashion, communications, hotels, jewelry, apparel, footwear, handbags.

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<v Speaker 3>Amazing company and like the United States of America the

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<v Speaker 3>land of opportunity, this company can be the land of

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<v Speaker 3>opportunity for you here in the United States and around

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<v Speaker 3>the world. I know for sure here in the United States. Now,

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<v Speaker 3>having said this, I want to leave you with a

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<v Speaker 3>short message that any one of you can be successful.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not easy. You need a whole lot of different

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<v Speaker 3>skills to get to the top. If that's what you want,

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<v Speaker 3>you have to be able to write, You have to

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<v Speaker 3>be able to communicate. It shouldn't matter how you look,

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<v Speaker 3>but it does. Yet. We all can't be tall, we

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<v Speaker 3>all can't be thin, we all can't be beautiful. It

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<v Speaker 3>takes a lot of different types, but you can look

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<v Speaker 3>your best. You should care about the way you look.

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<v Speaker 3>This is business. You're competing and while you should like,

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<v Speaker 3>admire and respect everyone sitting next to you, you are

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<v Speaker 3>competing with them. So it's your obligation to do everything

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<v Speaker 3>you can to make yourself look presentable and present properly.

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<v Speaker 3>Perhaps there's nothing more important in communicating than your oral word,

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<v Speaker 3>your ability to speak, your ability to get your eye

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<v Speaker 3>ideas across, your ability to explain your vision, your ability

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<v Speaker 3>to explain to people what you're doing, why you took

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<v Speaker 3>the direction you took, and how pleased you are. When

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<v Speaker 3>you start to become a manager, telling the people that

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<v Speaker 3>work for you how well they're doing and how much

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<v Speaker 3>you appreciate what they're doing. With that in mind, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>glad you came to know. I look forward to seeing

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<v Speaker 3>you soon. I'm so thrilled to be here with you tonight,

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<v Speaker 3>and I look forward to you growing and prospering in

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<v Speaker 3>this company. Good night. Now, that is face to face communication.

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<v Speaker 3>And as I said before, the reason I like making

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<v Speaker 3>speeches is because people now know what I'm thinking, not

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<v Speaker 3>what someone that works with me thinks I'm thinking or saying.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm thinking face to face. Jesse'd you like that you

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<v Speaker 3>heard the applause? Did you take anything away from it?

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<v Speaker 4>All the points that we hit before the speech?

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<v Speaker 1>You noled?

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<v Speaker 4>So you got your goals and you're able to deliver them.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, well, that is the power of face to face.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna take a break. When we come back, we'll

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<v Speaker 3>continue talking. You and I, Jesse and me and the

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<v Speaker 3>three of us together.

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<v Speaker 1>Is in fashion.

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<v Speaker 3>Spent a lifetime of my career building the van usen Brand,

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<v Speaker 3>and I am so pleased that they're back with us now.

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<v Speaker 3>Talking about suits, men were dressing up again and it's

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<v Speaker 3>become cool to wear a suit. Suits can be worn

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<v Speaker 3>on multiple occasions in multiple ways. You could wear a

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<v Speaker 3>suit formally to go out at night or to an event.

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<v Speaker 3>Wear a suit to the office with or without a tie.

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<v Speaker 3>If you look closely, now fashion trends suits are being

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<v Speaker 3>worn with turtlenecks or mark next. The choices are endless

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<v Speaker 3>and every one of them looks right. You could really

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<v Speaker 3>really look the part. I believe that packaging yourself is

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<v Speaker 3>as important as the products you package, and wearing a

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<v Speaker 3>suit is one of those things that make men look

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<v Speaker 3>their best. Venues and invented a new idea. It's called

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<v Speaker 3>the cool Flex suit. It's been engineered with stretch technology,

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<v Speaker 3>giving you the most comfortable fit and mobility. It's wrinkle

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<v Speaker 3>resistant fabric, it's cool moisture wicki. It makes it perfect

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<v Speaker 3>for all occasions. As we discussed just now, this new

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<v Speaker 3>style of looking sharp while feeling cool and comfortable is

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<v Speaker 3>amazing and I'm so excited that the van Using company

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<v Speaker 3>is involved in this new technology and is embracing the

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<v Speaker 3>whole idea of dressing up. Let's not forget van Usen

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<v Speaker 3>made it's name with dress shirts. It's only proper that

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<v Speaker 3>the suit business follows strongly in its way. You can

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<v Speaker 3>find van Using cool Flex Men's stretch suits at jcpenny

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<v Speaker 3>are online at jcpenny dot com. Guys, they're great. You

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<v Speaker 3>should go look at them. D Knwhy Donna Karen, New York.

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<v Speaker 3>Donna Karen began her career as one of the finest,

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<v Speaker 3>most successful, powerful women in the fashion industry. She developed

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<v Speaker 3>a collection aimed at the luxury market for women on

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<v Speaker 3>the go, women who were powerful in their workplace, women

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<v Speaker 3>who had lives that extended beyond the workplace. And her

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<v Speaker 3>clothes went from day and tonight. An extraordinary collection. But

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<v Speaker 3>the interesting thing, Donna Karen had a young daughter, and

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<v Speaker 3>she had friends and they couldn't afford to buy the

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<v Speaker 3>Donna Aaron collection, and Donna invented dk NY Donna Aaron,

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<v Speaker 3>New York. It's an offshoot of the Donna Karen collection.

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<v Speaker 3>The same concept a lifestyle brand. Now we talk about

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<v Speaker 3>lifestyle brands, what does that really mean? Simply what they say,

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<v Speaker 3>there are brands that follow you throughout your lifestyle. You

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<v Speaker 3>get up in the morning, you start to get dressed

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<v Speaker 3>Donna Karen dcaan why as intimate apparel, as hosiery, as

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<v Speaker 3>all those products you're getting dressed for work. You get

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<v Speaker 3>accessorized shoes, handbags, and it takes you through the day.

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<v Speaker 3>The remarkable thing about DK and Y clothes for work,

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<v Speaker 3>they work into the evening. The dresses, the suits, the pants,

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<v Speaker 3>the sweaters, the blouses, extraordinary clothes at affordable prices that

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<v Speaker 3>go from day in tonight. Part of your lifestyle is active.

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<v Speaker 3>You have weekends, you have events, you participate in sports.

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<v Speaker 3>Donna Karen's casual clothes did that under the DK and

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<v Speaker 3>Y label. A vast array of casual sportswear that make

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<v Speaker 3>women look great as they navigate their busy lives. Whether

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<v Speaker 3>you going to soccer games for your children, or whether

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<v Speaker 3>you're going out to the movies. Whatever you want to do,

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<v Speaker 3>DK and Y Jenes dk Y sportswear is there for you.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what a lifestyle brand is. And I need to

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<v Speaker 3>mention DKY Activewear, which is extraordinary, the leggings, the sports bras,

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<v Speaker 3>the sweats. You can wear DKY active wear certainly in

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<v Speaker 3>the gym, certainly when you're working out at home, and

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<v Speaker 3>certainly if you want on the street, because it's that

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<v Speaker 3>well done. The quality of DK why is nothing short

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<v Speaker 3>of exceptional, and why shouldn't it be Because it was

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<v Speaker 3>born from the idea of luxury made Affordable for Women

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<v Speaker 3>of America. DK and Why, a true lifestyle brand that

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<v Speaker 3>takes you from day and tonight, from the week into

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<v Speaker 3>the weekend. D can Why. You can find DCN Why

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<v Speaker 3>and Macy's DKY dot com.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome back to Always in Fashion. Here's your host, Mark Webber.

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<v Speaker 3>This is Mark Weber, and this is Always in Fashion

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<v Speaker 3>and tonight it's face to face and the subject I

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<v Speaker 3>want to talk about right now is a little off,

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<v Speaker 3>a little different. Let's talk about what it's like to

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<v Speaker 3>talk behind someone's back. In business, if you talk behind

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<v Speaker 3>the coworkers back, oh, it is is sending a signal

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<v Speaker 3>that your character isn't just that right. Frankly, I've talked

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<v Speaker 3>to people, and I've seen people talk about everyone behind

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<v Speaker 3>their back, and only two things come to mind. One

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<v Speaker 3>I don't like them, and two they'll do it to me.

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<v Speaker 3>They'll talk behind my back. Here's a story I want

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<v Speaker 3>to tell. It's one of my favorite stories in business.

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<v Speaker 3>It's about talking behind my back. It was so flagrant

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<v Speaker 3>and so obnoxious and so ego driven that the person

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<v Speaker 3>doing the talking didn't realize that I was sitting there listening.

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<v Speaker 3>I was at a company dinner. I had recently become

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<v Speaker 3>the president of this time was of the Phillips fan

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<v Speaker 3>Using Corporation, the president of the whole place. I was

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<v Speaker 3>sitting there having a corporate dinner. Two seats down from me,

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<v Speaker 3>there was a fella I'll call him Steve, started talking.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's talk about how smart he was and how stupid

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<v Speaker 3>the company was. And he talked about how his four

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<v Speaker 3>to oh one K dived in the last year, that

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<v Speaker 3>it was worth about hundred thousand dollars. Now it was

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<v Speaker 3>only worth forty thousand dollars. And he talked about how

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<v Speaker 3>stupid the management of the company was and how he

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<v Speaker 3>can't believe that the company made these decisions and now

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<v Speaker 3>that's the four to one k and the stock is

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<v Speaker 3>all bad, et cetera. And I'm sitting there listening with

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<v Speaker 3>one ear to the person right next to me. But

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<v Speaker 3>really my ear is trained on what this guy says.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I've done that till yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I paid attention, and I'm listening and he's talking. It's

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<v Speaker 3>getting worse and worse. Now here's the problem. I'm the

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<v Speaker 3>president of the company. The CEO of the company is

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<v Speaker 3>my great ally, my greatest friend, and this guy is

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<v Speaker 3>talking about us we're the management. Who is he talking about?

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<v Speaker 3>And he's too stupid and too arrogant to realize that

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<v Speaker 3>he was talking about me two seats down and I'm

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<v Speaker 3>listening to this now. That's not the only reason that

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<v Speaker 3>I'm upset about this and his stupidity. He's an officer

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<v Speaker 3>of the company, he's a vice president of the company.

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<v Speaker 3>Here's an obligation to take the company line. He has

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<v Speaker 3>an obligation to speak well of the company. So if

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<v Speaker 3>somebody would ask him what happened to the four oh

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<v Speaker 3>one K, what happened to the stock? Listen? Listen. This

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<v Speaker 3>happens in business. Sometimes companies run into a difficult spot.

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<v Speaker 3>We didn't do this quickly enough for our competition got

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<v Speaker 3>there before us. But this is not an issue. Don't

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<v Speaker 3>worry about it. I have faith in the company, have

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<v Speaker 3>faith in the brands. I know the management. They're going

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<v Speaker 3>to do the right thing. And you watch, in the

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<v Speaker 3>next six months to a year, we're going to really

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<v Speaker 3>blow out of the stuldrum. That's what I expect him

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<v Speaker 3>to say. But the real part that really really bothered me,

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<v Speaker 3>even if the other two issues didn't, this is a

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<v Speaker 3>guy that we took under our wing This is a

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<v Speaker 3>guy who came to the company. He was introduced to

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<v Speaker 3>us by a friend of the company, told us that

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<v Speaker 3>he would appreciate us hiring him, and over the course

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<v Speaker 3>of his short career with the company, let's say three years,

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<v Speaker 3>he went from clerk to vice president, from No. One

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<v Speaker 3>to someone because we were looking out for him. Now, granted,

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<v Speaker 3>he was a very, very capable guy. I expected more. Now,

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<v Speaker 3>as it turns out, he was a protected guy. What

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<v Speaker 3>do I mean by that? He came in a friend

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<v Speaker 3>of the company. We did everything we could to train him.

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<v Speaker 3>We made sure he was taken care of. We made

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sure he was given every benefit the company could

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<v Speaker 3>give him, including every special opportunity the company had to offer.

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<v Speaker 3>During the course of this tenure, we looked out for him.

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<v Speaker 3>No one could touch him. He was protected. I'll never

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<v Speaker 3>forget his arrogance and his ego came in front of

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<v Speaker 3>the president of the shirt company, and she came to

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<v Speaker 3>me one time and said, I can't take this guy Mark.

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<v Speaker 3>He thinks he's so smart. He's a troublemaker. He says

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<v Speaker 3>bad things. He's not as smart as he thinks he had.

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<v Speaker 3>I really don't think he belongs here. I'd like to

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<v Speaker 3>move him, if it's okay with you. I thought about it,

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<v Speaker 3>as I said, we were watching out for him, and

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<v Speaker 3>I said, look, do your best to make it right

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<v Speaker 3>with him. We care about this guy, we want him

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<v Speaker 3>to do well, and I wouldn't let anything happen. Fast

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<v Speaker 3>forward a year later, I'm at this dinner table. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>listening to this arrogant guy who's not only arrogant, he's stupid.

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<v Speaker 3>Because no, I'm listening and here who is he talking

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<v Speaker 3>about the management of the company being stupid? And yours

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<v Speaker 3>truly was one of the management of the company. Following day,

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<v Speaker 3>I walked down to the office of the president of

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<v Speaker 3>the shirt company and I said, how is my friend

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<v Speaker 3>here doing? He says, Look, I tried very hard to

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<v Speaker 3>turn him around. He's still not very good. He's not

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<v Speaker 3>as good as he thinks he is. I don't particularly

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<v Speaker 3>like him, and left to my own devices, I would

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<v Speaker 3>sever him from the company. I listened, I smirked, I smiled,

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<v Speaker 3>and I said, he's no longer protected. You could sever him,

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<v Speaker 3>and that week he no longer was with the company.

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<v Speaker 3>So to moral to the story here, So you're going

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<v Speaker 3>to be face to face in this case, you better

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<v Speaker 3>be smart. What you say matters, and when you're communicating,

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<v Speaker 3>you got to know what you're doing face to face.

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<v Speaker 3>Be back in a minute.

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<v Speaker 1>Always in fashion and.

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<v Speaker 3>Using for over one hundred and fifty years now been

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<v Speaker 3>a mainstay in American fashion. This brand that was invented

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<v Speaker 3>for dress shirts was given to cold miners when they

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<v Speaker 3>exited the mills, dirty and dusty. The Phillips venues and

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<v Speaker 3>Company Phillips families there to give them fresh new shirts

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<v Speaker 3>that they could wear at home and feel their best.

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<v Speaker 3>Over the course of time, venues and dress shirts grew

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<v Speaker 3>and grew and grew to suit shirts and ties for

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<v Speaker 3>the dress up. But now sportswear has become a dominant

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<v Speaker 3>part of the venues and collection. You can find these

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<v Speaker 3>products including sweaters, polos, quarter zips, trousers, and even the

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<v Speaker 3>best of fashion has to be preserved. I don't know

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<v Speaker 3>if I ever mentioned to you the advent of the

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<v Speaker 3>men's necktie. There's nothing better in a men's necktie business

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<v Speaker 3>than the business lunch, because guys we go out, they'd

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<v Speaker 3>have their lunch that have their salads or their beef

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<v Speaker 3>and potatoes and snow stout about it. They would always

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<v Speaker 3>stain their tie and therefore the business grew and grew

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<v Speaker 3>venues and today doesn't want to make money on your hardships.

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<v Speaker 3>They want to do it and prevent you from having

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<v Speaker 3>to go through that. And they invented Stainshield. It's a

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<v Speaker 3>technology that was invented to protect your favorite items. The

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<v Speaker 3>Stainshield collection provides extreme defense again water based stains by

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<v Speaker 3>causing spills to beat up before they can be absorbed

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<v Speaker 3>into the fabric. This collection, by the way, in addition

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<v Speaker 3>to regular fits, is also often in all body sizes,

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<v Speaker 3>including big and tall. You can find Vanues and Stainshield

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<v Speaker 3>and the great venues in styled sports were at vanues

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<v Speaker 3>in dot com. That's Vanusen dot com. As one of

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<v Speaker 3>the world's most celebrated fashion designers, Carl Lagafeld was renowned

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<v Speaker 3>for his aspirational and cutting edge approach to style. His

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<v Speaker 3>unique vision of Parisian shit comes to America through car

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<v Speaker 3>Lagofeld Paris. He has women's collections, men's collections, ready to wear, accessory,

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<v Speaker 3>shoes and bags. The fashion house Carlagofeld also offers a

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<v Speaker 3>range of Watchers eyewear and premium fragrances. You can explore

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<v Speaker 3>the car collection at Carlagofelpoaris dot com. But it's more

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<v Speaker 3>than that. I for one, love to shop. I love

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<v Speaker 3>going around and seeing what's happening and what catches my attention,

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<v Speaker 3>what would make me feel good to wear now. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't wear the women's wear obviously, but I can appreciate it,

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<v Speaker 3>and they look amazing. If you want to look right,

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<v Speaker 3>you want to have clothes that fits you well. You

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<v Speaker 3>want to look like you're wearing something that's very expensive,

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<v Speaker 3>that's exclusive for you and yours. You can find it

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<v Speaker 3>at very affordable prices at Macy's Orcarlagofel dot com. Paris,

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<v Speaker 3>the women's ready to wear fashion is extraordinary, as well

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<v Speaker 3>as the handbigs and the shoes. I for one, wear

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<v Speaker 3>men's clothes, unlike my appreciation of women's clothes. I'm a

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<v Speaker 3>modern guy. I want to look current. I want to

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<v Speaker 3>look the way I want to feel. I go out

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<v Speaker 3>at night, I'm in black and Carlagofel is my buddy.

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<v Speaker 3>Cars are great. They fit great, and they have little

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<v Speaker 3>tweaks and touches, whether it's a stripe on the sleeve

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<v Speaker 3>or button at the neck or on the shoulder. There's

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of details that go into carg because he's

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<v Speaker 3>always been, he always had been one of the world's

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<v Speaker 3>great designers, and this legacy and goes on and on.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't speak enough about it except to say to you,

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<v Speaker 3>you want to feel good about yourself. You want to

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<v Speaker 3>know that you're dressing properly. You want to clothes that

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<v Speaker 3>fits you well. Carl Lagafeld, Paris at Macy's Orcarl Lagafel

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<v Speaker 3>dot com.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome back to it Always in Fashion. Here's your host,

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<v Speaker 1>Mark Weber.

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<v Speaker 3>This is Mark Weber. This is Always in Fashion. This

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<v Speaker 3>is talk tonight on our show. In particular, I'm talking

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<v Speaker 3>face to face. I've been a negotiating my whole career,

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<v Speaker 3>as many of you have been. I'm convinced of one thing.

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<v Speaker 3>You cannot negotiate via email, text, what have you. You've

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<v Speaker 3>got to do it face to face. You do it

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<v Speaker 3>over the mail. You think you're gaining something, but you're

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<v Speaker 3>really not. You need to be looking at your opponent

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<v Speaker 3>across the table and don't ever forget it. That's what

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<v Speaker 3>they are, your opponent. The smartest negotiators are the ones

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<v Speaker 3>that can figure out how to get what they want

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<v Speaker 3>and give something to that other person the table so

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<v Speaker 3>they have what they want. You'll always should get a

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<v Speaker 3>little more. That's what you're trying to do. But two

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<v Speaker 3>people walk away from a negotiation happy. I think that's

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<v Speaker 3>what you're looking for, you know, Actually I don't think.

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<v Speaker 3>I know that's what you're looking for. With that in mind,

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<v Speaker 3>I want to talk about negotiating around the world. I've

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<v Speaker 3>traveled around the world ten times over and I've negotiated

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<v Speaker 3>around the world. I've had some fun times and interesting

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<v Speaker 3>times careers in the news. They were the most interesting

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<v Speaker 3>people I ever met to negotiate with. The Koreans were tough, tough,

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<v Speaker 3>tough people. It's no surprised when you're living ten miles

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<v Speaker 3>from the demilitarized zone where the Korean War was fought.

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<v Speaker 3>Whenever I negotiated with the Koreans, I'd walk in be

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<v Speaker 3>prepared to negotiate. And I realized early on that you

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<v Speaker 3>never negotiate with them. Oh, you could talk, you can

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<v Speaker 3>go back and forth, but they're going to guide you

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<v Speaker 3>exactly where they're going to go, where they want to go,

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<v Speaker 3>and you're going to agree if you want to buy

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<v Speaker 3>product in that country, you want to get the benefit

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<v Speaker 3>of their price to labor, the workmanshift, and their ingenuity.

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<v Speaker 3>Whatever their case may be, automobiles, textiles, it's going to

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<v Speaker 3>be their rules. That's what I liked about them. It

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<v Speaker 3>was never a guess. It's just we're going to try

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<v Speaker 3>and figure out how close you come to where you

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<v Speaker 3>want to be. In China and Hong Kong, it was

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<v Speaker 3>very different than negotiating here in the United States. Every

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<v Speaker 3>company you're doing business with pretty much is the founding

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<v Speaker 3>family managing it. You're talking to the founder, you're talking

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<v Speaker 3>to the daughters, their heirs. People kept the business alive.

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<v Speaker 3>And what was amazing about negotiating with those people is

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<v Speaker 3>the long term thinking. When you negotiat and you're a

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<v Speaker 3>public company in the United States, you're worried about the

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<v Speaker 3>next quarter, you're certainly worried about the next half, and

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<v Speaker 3>you're certainly worried about the year. When you're dealing with

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<v Speaker 3>Chinese families, they're worrying about perpetuity. They're worrying about and

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<v Speaker 3>they're interested in making sure that they and their children

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<v Speaker 3>and their children's children and the children's children's children have

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<v Speaker 3>a bug business that they can run and they can

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<v Speaker 3>prosper form that family businesses forever, and therefore they're very

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<v Speaker 3>interesting to negotiate with. When I would go to Japan,

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<v Speaker 3>was also very fascinating the japan The people are very

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<v Speaker 3>very polite. Half the time, I wonder what they were

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<v Speaker 3>talking about behind my back. Can't imagine they all liked me.

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<v Speaker 3>I was such a brass American. But nonetheless they were

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<v Speaker 3>always polite, partially because do you know, when you ask

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<v Speaker 3>for Japan for something, there is no word no. There

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<v Speaker 3>is no Japanese word that translates to know. Maybe that

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<v Speaker 3>explains the politeness. Very efficient, they get what's done. You

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<v Speaker 3>can negotiate with them, but it was always very pleasant.

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<v Speaker 3>Took a lot to get someone mad. I don't think

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<v Speaker 3>I ever saw anyone get mad in Japan. But one

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<v Speaker 3>of my favorite stories has to do with the New

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<v Speaker 3>York Yankees. Go Yankees. They're doing incredibly well right now, winning,

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<v Speaker 3>winning and winning. It's so exciting, young team, awful team,

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<v Speaker 3>amazing to watch. I'll never forget. I was in Europe,

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<v Speaker 3>in Sweden, and I was negotiating with a brand with

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<v Speaker 3>the owners of a brand. There were three partners. We

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<v Speaker 3>owned the brand in the United States, and we had

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<v Speaker 3>rented the name to them for around the world usage.

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<v Speaker 3>During the course of the negotiations, the CEO of the partners,

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<v Speaker 3>the three guys that owned this company in Europe distributing

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<v Speaker 3>the product throughout Europe, got very angry at me because

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<v Speaker 3>I owned the brand and I was giving him direction

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<v Speaker 3>on how I wanted it to be managed. And he

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<v Speaker 3>finally lost his cool and he said, you Americans, you

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<v Speaker 3>think the World Series is a baseball game played in

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<v Speaker 3>Yankee Stadium once a year, when everyone else in the

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<v Speaker 3>world knows that the World Series is called the World Cup,

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<v Speaker 3>played every two years around the world, in every city

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<v Speaker 3>and country of the world. We know that. As Saka,

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<v Speaker 3>I thought that was a great lesson about life and learning.

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<v Speaker 3>My favorite favorite story though of all time about negotiating

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<v Speaker 3>took place in the South of France. And yes, I

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<v Speaker 3>used to go to the South of France a lot,

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<v Speaker 3>because I work for a French company, Louis the talk

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<v Speaker 3>about way to Tennessee, and because we had us strategic

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<v Speaker 3>planned meetings every June. Right after those strategic plan meetings,

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<v Speaker 3>I'd get on a plane and fly from Paris Denise

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<v Speaker 3>with either Jesse or his brother, depending who was free,

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<v Speaker 3>and Jesse and I did it very often, and I

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<v Speaker 3>would go to the south of France and I wanted

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<v Speaker 3>to go to can Can is the scene where the

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<v Speaker 3>movie To Catch a Thief took place Carrie Grant Grace Kelly,

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<v Speaker 3>one of my favorite movies of all time. The hotel

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<v Speaker 3>that the entirety of the movie, or a big part

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<v Speaker 3>of the movie took place, was at the Carlton Hotel,

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<v Speaker 3>right in the water in can I had to stay there,

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<v Speaker 3>and the first time I stayed there it was magical

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<v Speaker 3>for me because I knew that movie from when I

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<v Speaker 3>was a little boy. I watched it. So I was

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<v Speaker 3>at the Carlton Hotel with Jesse on those one particular trip.

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<v Speaker 3>Get in there, Get in the door. You can't imagine

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<v Speaker 3>what it was like negotiating for a decent room. I

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<v Speaker 3>must have been in five different rooms till we finally

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<v Speaker 3>got one that they were willing to rent to us

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<v Speaker 3>at some excruciatingly expensive price. There were competing with Arab sheiks,

841
00:48:17.719 --> 00:48:20.800
<v Speaker 3>Russian oligarchs and some of the witchest people in the world.

842
00:48:21.320 --> 00:48:23.840
<v Speaker 3>But somehow or another, my title and my willing to

843
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<v Speaker 3>pay a little more and maybe tip the front of

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<v Speaker 3>the person at the front got me a decent room

845
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<v Speaker 3>overlooking the water. But that's not the purpose of the story.

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<v Speaker 3>Where in con it's beautiful. Every day is sunny. Every

847
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<v Speaker 3>meal you eat outdoors. The breakfast buffet to this day

848
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<v Speaker 3>is probably my favorite meal of all time. Remember the

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<v Speaker 3>breakfast jest and ah so good and the weather and

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<v Speaker 3>the palm trees and looking out at the riviera. Amazing paradise.

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<v Speaker 3>But the Carlton Dinner restaurant outside was part of my

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<v Speaker 3>French the coup d'etarre. It was amazing. Now I've stayed

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<v Speaker 3>at the hotel and this is one of the first trips.

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<v Speaker 3>I get there and I realize there's a pecking order

855
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<v Speaker 3>for where you sit in the restaurant, and we would

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<v Speaker 3>get there face to face, which is our theme of tonight.

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<v Speaker 3>Talking face to face. I started chatting it up with

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<v Speaker 3>the matre d and started pointing to the tables that

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<v Speaker 3>I wanted to sit in on the first nine. He said,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sorry, sir, that's already reserved. I said, how about

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<v Speaker 3>for the next night. He said, well, you come down

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<v Speaker 3>tomorrow we'll see. Which really meant take care of me

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<v Speaker 3>and I'll do it for you. Didn't realize it at first.

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<v Speaker 3>The next night we went down there, tried to get

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<v Speaker 3>that table or the table in that area, didn't get

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<v Speaker 3>it again. So finally I asked one of the waiters,

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<v Speaker 3>how do you get to sit there? And he said,

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<v Speaker 3>in his French accents, you have to have had a

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<v Speaker 3>relationship face to face with the matre d ah A.

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<v Speaker 3>That night, after dinner, I went to the matre d

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<v Speaker 3>and I said I'd like to have that table tomorrow,

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<v Speaker 3>and he said, okay, I have to think about it.

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<v Speaker 3>I gave him a hundred euros and lo and behold,

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<v Speaker 3>the next night we came down, we got the table,

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<v Speaker 3>and now we're being looked at, we're being seen. Jesse

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<v Speaker 3>and I dressed properly for the south of France and

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<v Speaker 3>June looking great, and now we're where we want to be,

878
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<v Speaker 3>sitting in the restaurant. I want to be sitting. Jesse

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<v Speaker 3>and I went shopping that day, having a great time,

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<v Speaker 3>talk about you need to know culture and you need

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<v Speaker 3>to know what's going on face to face. Jesse and

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<v Speaker 3>I were in a store and we found what would

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<v Speaker 3>be the most beautiful sweat top, but not sweat toop,

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<v Speaker 3>the most beautiful what kind of jacket we.

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<v Speaker 4>Take a zip up top, like a zipp zip up jacket.

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<v Speaker 3>Top made out of fleece. Yeah. In beautiful writing it said.

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<v Speaker 4>Italy Italia, Italia.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>White.

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<v Speaker 3>It was beautiful white white top zip jacket and he

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<v Speaker 3>wore it with white pants and sneakers. When we came

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<v Speaker 3>down and we got to the Maitre d and we

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<v Speaker 3>said we'd like to sit at a table, and he

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<v Speaker 3>said no.

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<v Speaker 4>And why I was wearing the Italia jacket in France

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<v Speaker 4>and what was going on at that time, the World Cup?

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<v Speaker 3>And who is fight?

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<v Speaker 4>Who is up against each other France and Italy and

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<v Speaker 4>who won Italy?

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<v Speaker 3>And he looked at me, he said, monsieur, there's not

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<v Speaker 3>enough money in the world for me to give you

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<v Speaker 3>the seat you want tonight, wearing that shirt. Lesson learned

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<v Speaker 3>talk about face to face. Listen, guys, we're talking less

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<v Speaker 3>and less. Texts and emails are growing, talking not so much.

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<v Speaker 3>Talking is becoming a lost art, and face to face

906
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<v Speaker 3>discussions are disappearing. Talking face to face seems to be

907
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<v Speaker 3>avoided at all courts. When did you stop talking and

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<v Speaker 3>started avoiding? Good night,
