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<v Speaker 1>Well, how's that for timing. Look at that.

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<v Speaker 2>We've got Stevenson Sylvester rolling by the show today. Brett

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<v Speaker 2>Sancia Pick six Previews will join us.

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<v Speaker 1>Want to remind you if you miss last segment.

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<v Speaker 2>Nick Romondo joined us, and then Tony joined us and

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<v Speaker 2>Tony's three and a half year old son, Kiri needs

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<v Speaker 2>a bone marrow transplant and we are looking for a match.

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<v Speaker 2>So Nick Rimando has a charity pickleball tournament today and

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<v Speaker 2>I want to let you know. It's at Second Summit

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<v Speaker 2>Hard Cider, which is at forty ten South Main Street

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<v Speaker 2>in Mill Creek, and they've got about one hundred and

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<v Speaker 2>fifty kits where you can go get just a quick

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<v Speaker 2>mouth swab. It takes just a couple of minutes. If

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<v Speaker 2>you have some time today, please head down there. We

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<v Speaker 2>do not have a match for Kurrey yet and time

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<v Speaker 2>is running out. If you are planning on heading down there,

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<v Speaker 2>you can text Hope for Kiri to six one four

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<v Speaker 2>seven four and they'll send you kind of the document

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<v Speaker 2>you need to fill out prior to getting screened. If

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<v Speaker 2>you're not available to head down there today. The website

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<v Speaker 2>is Hopefkiri dot org with a link to their GoFundMe

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<v Speaker 2>and link to join the donor registry, and then information

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<v Speaker 2>about new kits when they arrive at other locations. So

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<v Speaker 2>we're gonna push this as hard as we can. Let's

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<v Speaker 2>save this kid's life. He's three and a half years old.

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<v Speaker 2>Cerebral ald It's a devastating and aggressive brain disease. So

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<v Speaker 2>between the ages of eighteen and forty, you're more likely

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<v Speaker 2>to be imagined if you have Italian or Asian heritage

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<v Speaker 2>as a result of the lineage of Carrie's parents. So again,

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<v Speaker 2>Nicky's pick Aball tournament starts in about an hour and

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<v Speaker 2>forty five minutes at Second sum at Heart Cider at

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<v Speaker 2>forty ten South Main Street in Mill Creek, Live in

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<v Speaker 2>studio today our friend Amy Donaldson, which always makes me smile.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, Amy, how are you hello?

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<v Speaker 3>I actually ooh, gosh, I don't know if that's my hell?

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<v Speaker 3>If I'm coming in.

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<v Speaker 1>High you can control your ears? You sound good to me?

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<v Speaker 4>All right, good, I won't worry about it. Then.

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<v Speaker 3>I actually am was a registered donor, a bone marrow

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<v Speaker 3>donor for many years. Okay, I am unfortunately over forty

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<v Speaker 3>at this point, I am chairly barely right.

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<v Speaker 2>I've been aged out and I have no Italian or

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<v Speaker 2>Asian heritage. I'm like full Scottish, little English and a

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<v Speaker 2>little Scandinavian blood on my mother's side. Nobody gives a

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<v Speaker 2>rip about my you know, twenty three and me, But

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<v Speaker 2>that's that's kind of my ideal.

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<v Speaker 1>How you been, It's good to see it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I've been good. I have also been sending that

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<v Speaker 3>message out. I hope we find and I hope we

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<v Speaker 3>register a ton of donors. Yeah, for sure, because I

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<v Speaker 3>had got registered because my best friend from high school's

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<v Speaker 3>son got leukemia and needed a bone marrow transplant, and

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<v Speaker 3>so he just asked everybody to get registered and I

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<v Speaker 3>was hoping I would just was a match for him.

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<v Speaker 4>I was not. He found a donor.

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<v Speaker 3>Through this registry, okay, and it saves lives, and it's

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<v Speaker 3>really I had never was lucky enough to be able

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<v Speaker 3>to donate, but I have no people who have and

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<v Speaker 3>friends who have, and it's for a healthy person. It

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<v Speaker 3>is no problem, and yeah, it's an amazing thing to

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<v Speaker 3>be able to do.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, three and a half years old. I'll just keep

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<v Speaker 1>pushing the website.

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<v Speaker 2>I hope for Carrie dot Org, he's got two siblings

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<v Speaker 2>neither were a match unfortunately, and times running out. We

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<v Speaker 2>had his dad on last segment and you could just

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<v Speaker 2>hear like the emotion in his voice. You and I

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<v Speaker 2>both parents. This is this is something no parents should

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<v Speaker 2>ever go through.

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<v Speaker 3>No. And if you've had I know you yourself have had,

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<v Speaker 3>you know face that.

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<v Speaker 4>It could be deadly situation.

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<v Speaker 3>I had a kid who had opened our surgery twice,

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<v Speaker 3>once at eleven months and once at fifteen years old,

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<v Speaker 3>and probably will have to have it again.

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<v Speaker 4>And it is, I think the worst thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Because you like to think you could handle anything, you

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<v Speaker 3>can do anything, you'll do anything, but there's it just

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<v Speaker 3>reduces you to like, oh you you really have no

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<v Speaker 3>power here, you have nothing. You can just love and so,

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<v Speaker 3>like I said, hopefully his efforts will help a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of kids, but also his And yeah, please go get

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<v Speaker 3>registered at the time.

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<v Speaker 4>It's it's not hard for sure, and you can play pickleball,

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<v Speaker 4>my guy, there you go.

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<v Speaker 3>I was really I was like, I'm going to play

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<v Speaker 3>in that pickleball tournament because I love pickleball so much,

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<v Speaker 3>but I.

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<v Speaker 4>Have to work.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, we'll get you out of here. And I just

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<v Speaker 3>came out of my basement to talk to you though,

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<v Speaker 3>Oh did you really well?

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<v Speaker 4>I've been writing all day.

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<v Speaker 1>So Hope for Kirie dot orgon again.

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<v Speaker 2>If you can head to Nikki's Pickaball tournament, text Hope

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<v Speaker 2>for Kirie right now to six one four seven four,

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<v Speaker 2>and they're going to send you the documentation you need

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<v Speaker 2>to fill out.

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<v Speaker 3>Uh.

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<v Speaker 2>To just get swapped takes a couple of minutes forty

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<v Speaker 2>four forty five.

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<v Speaker 1>What are you working on? What's the latest with you?

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<v Speaker 4>Working on?

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<v Speaker 3>So many? I have so many little you know, plate

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<v Speaker 3>spinning and know how that is, you know me never

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<v Speaker 3>just one thing. But right now I am working on

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<v Speaker 3>a podcast that will be launching probably February to April

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<v Speaker 3>of next year. Okay, I can't talk about it yet,

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<v Speaker 3>but probably close the next couple of months. But it's

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<v Speaker 3>a sports related but yeah, it's a sports related podcast,

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<v Speaker 3>which I didn't plan on doing. I actually had a

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<v Speaker 3>different podcast that I had been working on, and this

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<v Speaker 3>one had kind of been on the back burner, you

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<v Speaker 3>know how that has just always having this idea and

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<v Speaker 3>it's sort of bubbled up to the top. So that's

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<v Speaker 3>what I've been working on. And it's consuming a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of time. I'm also I've been working on a book.

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<v Speaker 3>So I went to a writer's conference a few weeks ago,

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<v Speaker 3>and I have a writing coach who's checking in with.

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<v Speaker 4>Me now and there.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have a writing coach?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 4>I have.

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<v Speaker 3>My husband jokes about this. I go to more writing

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<v Speaker 3>classes and conferences. He's like, you'd think you don't know

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<v Speaker 3>how to write, but no, it's it does help.

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<v Speaker 1>Does it really like you don't?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and they know things or they've come at it

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<v Speaker 3>from a different perspective. I mean the people think that

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<v Speaker 3>because you write for newspaper, you know how to write

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<v Speaker 3>writing for newspaper and then switching to podcast, completely different game.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I questioned my decision every day for two years. Why

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<v Speaker 3>did you give up something you were good at for

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<v Speaker 3>something that you suck at? Now I finally feel like

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like in first grade of podcast writing.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't suck at it. Let's be clear.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think you didn't read those first drafts. I

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<v Speaker 3>should send you. I should send you a Blooper rail.

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<v Speaker 3>You would enjoy it, Actually, porter would enjoy it. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>it's tough. I mean, it's a different kind of writing,

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<v Speaker 3>completely and so just for fun, I took a screenwriting

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<v Speaker 3>class in the spring and it really like just made

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<v Speaker 3>me kind of reinvigorate it with fun.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, this is the thing.

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<v Speaker 3>When you write every day in one form or another,

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<v Speaker 3>it's hard to like then say I'm gonna go have

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<v Speaker 3>some fun and write some more because you're tired. It's

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<v Speaker 3>writing is like it's a little piece of your soul

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<v Speaker 3>goes out into the thing.

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<v Speaker 4>And yeah, so I love it.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm doing my column again for a Kastel Sports, so

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<v Speaker 3>they came my first column last week. It's going to

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<v Speaker 3>be run on Wednesdays. So I'm happy to be doing

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<v Speaker 3>that again because I love I have missed covering daily sports.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not going to be doing daily sports, but I'm

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<v Speaker 3>going to be writing about some of the issues and

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<v Speaker 3>players and I have I asked for ideas and I

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<v Speaker 3>have been I think I have one hundred ideas. I

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<v Speaker 3>still ask for them because I mean, I think if

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<v Speaker 3>we find a donor through this, I would love to

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<v Speaker 3>talk to whoever ends up being a match, or if

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<v Speaker 3>somebody else finds a match because they shared their story.

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<v Speaker 3>I just remember, this is why we share stories, right,

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<v Speaker 3>this is why we do it.

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<v Speaker 4>To connect.

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<v Speaker 3>We do it to help each other and remind us

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<v Speaker 3>that none of us are in this game alone.

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<v Speaker 2>What is your well said? What's your first cassel column?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it?

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<v Speaker 4>It was on?

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<v Speaker 3>It was on the Former Brothers new gym, oh Nice

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<v Speaker 3>and I actually submitted it a couple of months ago,

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<v Speaker 3>but there was some maturn to leave for someone else

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<v Speaker 3>involved in and so I was working on something else.

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<v Speaker 3>So we finally got it done. But there's still time

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<v Speaker 3>to donate to the gym. And for sure, it's always

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<v Speaker 3>timeless what the former family has done for this state,

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<v Speaker 3>and not just in boxing, giving kids a sense of community,

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<v Speaker 3>giving them a place to go. The young men that

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<v Speaker 3>I found. His mom is a recovering addict. She'd been

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<v Speaker 3>cleaned for a year when I met them. Saved their lives.

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<v Speaker 3>They don't have a dad in their lives. They have

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<v Speaker 3>all these amazing male role models and they get to

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<v Speaker 3>He gets to go every day for free. Kids go

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<v Speaker 3>and they can box for free. They learn discipline, how

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<v Speaker 3>to take care of one another, the value of competition

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<v Speaker 3>and good sportsmanship. Right, there's so many things and now,

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<v Speaker 3>and they have a study facility there.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know if you've been out there yet Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I was there for the opener.

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<v Speaker 1>We did my show out there.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah yeah, I think I was out in the morning

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<v Speaker 3>when they did the River. So yeah, it's deluxe. I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>I I was so happy because I love the.

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<v Speaker 4>The fact that there's a support. Like I've combat sports have.

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<v Speaker 3>Always been a safety net for a lot of people

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<v Speaker 3>living on the margins of society. But now there's a

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<v Speaker 3>safety net there that's going to give them more options

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<v Speaker 3>even if they don't make it in boxing. They have community,

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<v Speaker 3>they have study skills, they have help with their homework,

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<v Speaker 3>they have food to eat, there are a lot they

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<v Speaker 3>have access to athletic trainers. There's just so much support there.

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<v Speaker 3>And it's a beautiful building to boot But yeah, I

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<v Speaker 3>love it. And if you don't know anything about the

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<v Speaker 3>history of boxing in Utah, all that stuff you used

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<v Speaker 3>to be in Don and Jane Fulmer's basements and probably

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<v Speaker 3>Jay's garage and now it's like this amazing museum and yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>it just makes you like, oh, there's a lot here

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<v Speaker 3>in the state that I don't know anything about, and

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<v Speaker 3>it makes.

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<v Speaker 4>You super proud.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, and you're not going to meet a sweeter guy

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<v Speaker 3>And I should say in a couple of weeks they

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<v Speaker 4>Matches but they used to back in the day.

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<v Speaker 3>But instead of a chicken coop, they're going to be

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<v Speaker 4>It was most of our radio hour, which yeah, about

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<v Speaker 3>I miss I'm gonna have to go back and with

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<v Speaker 2>People need to know Porter's magic with the clock based

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<v Speaker 2>So I've always In fact, it's interesting because you brought

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<v Speaker 1>So when I first took this.

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<v Speaker 2>to make live radio sound podcasting. I said, what that

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<v Speaker 2>Like if I have a conversation that's going well, I

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<v Speaker 2>hey is running errands and you had Deontay Wilder on

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<v Speaker 2>and I sat in the Harmon's parking lot and I

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<v Speaker 1>That's the coolest thing, you know?

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<v Speaker 4>Or I've been coming home or and I've been I

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, And it's not like you can't go you can't

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<v Speaker 3>listen to it on podcasts later, sure, but you're in

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<v Speaker 3>it right one hundred percent. But I'm gonna I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 4>I think Larry told me you were there, but I

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was great, but but it it And yes,

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<v Speaker 2>like part of my approach is thinking about the person

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<v Speaker 2>work and pulls up the podcast page and says, wait

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<v Speaker 2>forty five minutes with a World Championship boxer. I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>to listen to that, but in real time, it just

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<v Speaker 2>his head when he's got to deal with my you know, wait,

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<v Speaker 2>you're supposed to go to break here, but I just

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<v Speaker 2>approach it differently, and you see how people pay the bills.

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<v Speaker 3>But that's I actually would love to see us figure

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<v Speaker 3>this out. Actually talk to one of your sales managers

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<v Speaker 3>about this. How do you make this less transactional? Like

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<v Speaker 3>I you give advertisers, give us, give you money, and

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<v Speaker 3>then you give a product. Right, and the listeners are

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<v Speaker 3>the the people you're trying to sell stuff to. Right,

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<v Speaker 3>what if it was all we are all trying to

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<v Speaker 3>do the same thing. We're trying to create this community

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<v Speaker 3>and we all benefit from it. So the advertisers that

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<v Speaker 3>support your show that listeners support them because they're not

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<v Speaker 3>going to have as many ads, they're not going to

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<v Speaker 3>have as many bricks, but they but they support those

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<v Speaker 3>advertisers because they're supporting this unusual you know format.

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<v Speaker 4>That to me is like, oh, let's figure let's try that.

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<v Speaker 3>That would be super fun to try, but it's hard

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<v Speaker 3>to get sales to go along. With it because they're like,

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<v Speaker 3>but we've got this many ads and d da da da,

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<v Speaker 3>because that's what advertisers are sure will work. And I

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<v Speaker 3>just say, like, let's just try it a little bit.

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<v Speaker 3>And podcasting is a great place to try it, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>because there's you know, it's such a I feel like

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<v Speaker 3>it's a creative you could say chaotic universe, or you

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<v Speaker 3>could say a crap show whatever, but it's a place

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<v Speaker 3>you can try stuff. And so we're with radio. As

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<v Speaker 3>you know, there is a way of doing it. We've

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<v Speaker 3>always done it this way. We're not going to change

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<v Speaker 3>our minds aiming, So don't come in here with your

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well it's and you know, for years and years

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<v Speaker 2>and years, I would hear this thing from sales staff

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<v Speaker 2>or you know, front office folk up in you know,

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<v Speaker 2>the upper tier offices, like we need more time spend

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<v Speaker 2>listening TSL. They always say that, so we need to

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<v Speaker 2>turn If somebody's listening to your show for seven minutes

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<v Speaker 2>of time, how do we turn that into twenty? And

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<v Speaker 2>like my whole thing is like, okay, well we don't

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<v Speaker 2>go to break if something is compelling, that's how we

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<v Speaker 2>do it. And then we try to convince them to

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<v Speaker 3>The easiest way and this is what I I because

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<v Speaker 3>I do narrative podcasting, so I tell a story over episodes.

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<v Speaker 3>And the easiest way to lose people I listen to

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<v Speaker 3>narrative podcasts I make them is to interrupt and try

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<v Speaker 3>to sell me something because it reminds me that I'm

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<v Speaker 3>not part of the story, right, all the work.

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<v Speaker 1>That it's a dropped in random this.

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<v Speaker 3>Universe, and all of a sudden, now you want to

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<v Speaker 3>talk about tires. No, no, right, well let's go back

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<v Speaker 3>to talking about well, how did you find belief in

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<v Speaker 3>yourself to become a world champion? How did you envision

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<v Speaker 3>that when nobody around you had that kind of success

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<v Speaker 3>from them? Right? Like, that's the thing, that's the conversation

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<v Speaker 3>you want to be involved in. And if you tell

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<v Speaker 3>me at the very beginning, hey, this company makes this possible.

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<v Speaker 3>As you and I see this a lot in outdoor community,

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<v Speaker 3>we will support a company that doesn't do ads on

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<v Speaker 4>We won't work like a billboard, right right, But it

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, so of all of because we had Mad

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<v Speaker 2>when I was a teenager in the Northeast and it

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<v Speaker 2>was the first like sports talk radio show and it was,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, those two going back and forth, and in

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<v Speaker 2>the Mad Dog before anybody else. And we had Dog

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<v Speaker 2>on the show like a month ago, and he said,

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<v Speaker 2>every live radio host can be a podcaster.

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<v Speaker 1>Ten percent of podcasters can do live radio.

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<v Speaker 4>That's what I believe that.

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<v Speaker 2>But what's your experience been, because I wanted to ask you, like,

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<v Speaker 2>you've done live radio, you've done podcasting, and you write

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<v Speaker 2>a lot. What's what's the biggest energetic ask of the

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<v Speaker 2>things that you've done.

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<v Speaker 4>What do you mean energetic ask?

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<v Speaker 2>Like you referenced earlier, when I write something leaves my

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<v Speaker 2>body and when I'm done with the show, every day

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<v Speaker 2>I go home and I sit in my backyard for

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<v Speaker 2>like thirty minutes and I want to talk to anybody.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just sitting there, like you know, like the energetic

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<v Speaker 2>ask of doing this for four hours every day is

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<v Speaker 2>a different ass than it is for podcasting because we

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<v Speaker 1>As I reference, I blow through it.

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<v Speaker 2>But there's no like hey, pause take two, like we

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<v Speaker 2>are live right now, this is a live mic, I think,

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<v Speaker 3>So live radio to me, and I did twelve years

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<v Speaker 4>Then filling in.

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<v Speaker 3>Every time I did a four hour show versus my

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<v Speaker 3>you know, preparation goes into it than you hear in

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<v Speaker 3>double or triple it, right, Like It's it's crazy how

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<v Speaker 3>much more you have to prepare to do a couple

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<v Speaker 3>of hours of live radio. The other thing is you

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<v Speaker 3>can't be I'm me, like, I don't have an alter ego.

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<v Speaker 3>And when you do live radio, no one wants sad you,

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<v Speaker 3>nobody wants anger you.

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<v Speaker 4>They want they want this happy.

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<v Speaker 3>Give me information, make me feel better about life, tell

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<v Speaker 3>the things I love about your show is and and

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<v Speaker 3>is that there is a dynamic of where like, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>that we're not going to be just happy. Sports is fun, right,

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<v Speaker 3>I think for the most part, radio radio, live radio

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<v Speaker 3>is a persona that for me, I find incredibly difficult

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<v Speaker 3>You know, we've all been like in a fight with

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<v Speaker 4>Like that's what I feel like. Live radio is like

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<v Speaker 4>whatever you're feeling, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>Taylor Swipt has a song you can do It with

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<v Speaker 3>so many times you have to sit down in front

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<v Speaker 3>to sit there and try to be a good sport

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<v Speaker 3>and talk nice and be happy and not say what

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<v Speaker 3>lot of dumb questions in those problems. Yes, meeting right,

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<v Speaker 3>So to me, live radio is exhausting because of the

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<v Speaker 3>the amount of preparation that nobody, everybody think should just

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<v Speaker 3>go on and just shoot the crap, right, So there's

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<v Speaker 3>no respect for the amount of work it takes. And

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of people who don't work can make it

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<v Speaker 3>in this business and we're all in the same boat.

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<v Speaker 3>That is very problematic for me, and I don't like

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<v Speaker 3>that because I'm a fair Everything has to be fair.

433
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<v Speaker 3>So then podcasts for me is different because I do

434
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<v Speaker 3>narrative podcasting and it's years of thinking and researching and

435
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<v Speaker 3>doing all kinds of interviews and reading all kinds of books.

436
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<v Speaker 4>The one I'm.

437
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<v Speaker 3>Writing for next year is I've read at least six

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<v Speaker 3>books on this subject. And you have to immerse yourself

439
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<v Speaker 3>in a story in a way that is uh, it

440
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<v Speaker 3>can be traumatic. I mean I feel like sometimes you can,

441
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<v Speaker 3>especially with a true crime podcast, you can engage, you

442
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<v Speaker 3>can feel some secondary trauma or it triggers your own

443
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<v Speaker 3>trauma your own life, right, And so there's that aspect

444
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<v Speaker 3>of it. And writing for me is an absolutely participatory sport.

445
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<v Speaker 3>It is not I know people who just I remember

446
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<v Speaker 3>talking to another journalist about this way will not name

447
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<v Speaker 3>who said, Stott, you just need to put a put

448
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<v Speaker 3>a wall up between your emotions and the thing you're covering.

449
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<v Speaker 3>And I was like, I don't know how to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, right, that's the thing about you, though I'm glad.

451
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<v Speaker 3>Well, I mean, I think it, but it makes it

452
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<v Speaker 3>harder to do as what they call it a quick

453
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<v Speaker 3>and dirty sure, right, So that's why I didn't like

454
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<v Speaker 3>quick and dirty. I was like, I'll do the cancer

455
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<v Speaker 3>story because I can get into that, I can feel that,

456
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<v Speaker 3>and I will be tired and sad and like you say,

457
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<v Speaker 3>you don't want to talk to anybody after, but I'll

458
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<v Speaker 3>feel like I did something of value. And for me,

459
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<v Speaker 3>the reason to write anything or do any of this

460
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<v Speaker 3>is that you do something to educate people, to inspire people,

461
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<v Speaker 3>or help them figure out a problem. We can talk

462
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<v Speaker 3>through a problem or an issue that's that we face

463
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<v Speaker 3>as a group. So and then as far as newspaper

464
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<v Speaker 3>writing or you know, my writing, I do on my own.

465
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<v Speaker 3>The book that I'm writing, it is the single most

466
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<v Speaker 3>difficult thing I've ever done, and part of that is

467
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<v Speaker 3>you're as a journalist and a person who's d you've

468
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<v Speaker 3>kind of lived half in the public eye and half

469
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<v Speaker 3>out right, you have to kind of two lives. I've

470
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<v Speaker 3>kind of not done that. I've kind of just let

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<v Speaker 3>my life be my life. But in going through the

472
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<v Speaker 3>book that I'm writing, it's a lot of parts that

473
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<v Speaker 3>I haven't even shared with my closest friends. Right, So

474
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<v Speaker 3>some people know about it, some people don't. But it's

475
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<v Speaker 3>a book about grief and about losing my stepdaughter and

476
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<v Speaker 3>taking care of my grandmother until she passed away.

477
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<v Speaker 4>And so I.

478
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<v Speaker 3>Once wrote about being a victim of domestic violence and

479
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<v Speaker 3>a column And if you haven't had that experience, you're

480
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<v Speaker 3>not gonna understand what I'm going to say. But it

481
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<v Speaker 3>was the most humiliating thing that I ever experienced as

482
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<v Speaker 3>a professional journalist to have my boss call me and

483
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<v Speaker 3>say two things, that's the best thing we've ever run

484
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<v Speaker 3>in the paper, which is supposed to be a compliment, right,

485
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<v Speaker 3>And the second one was, I can't believe that you

486
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<v Speaker 3>were a victim of I can't believe our amy was

487
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<v Speaker 3>a victim of set. I can't believe that, which is

488
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<v Speaker 3>like completely reinforcing all the shame stigma, right, So I

489
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<v Speaker 3>know sharing stuff like that it's good and we should

490
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<v Speaker 3>do it. And I know the cost now because I've

491
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<v Speaker 3>done it and I've asked other people to do it,

492
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<v Speaker 3>and so that part of it, like writing, that is

493
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<v Speaker 3>very difficult. But it's also I always say, the work

494
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<v Speaker 3>is the medicine, and sometimes medicine sucks, baby, yeah, but

495
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<v Speaker 3>I'm willing to do it because it's the only way

496
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<v Speaker 3>I know how to live.

497
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<v Speaker 4>So that's the.

498
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<v Speaker 3>Which one's more emotionally exhausting in the short term. This

499
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<v Speaker 3>live radio people and everybody is a critic, I mean,

500
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<v Speaker 3>and in live radio, you get it right. I mean

501
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<v Speaker 3>I was a sub and at X ninety six one

502
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<v Speaker 3>morning and I'm watching the text line and they told me,

503
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<v Speaker 3>don't watch it.

504
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<v Speaker 4>I can't help it.

505
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<v Speaker 3>I do it at KSL two and I was like

506
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<v Speaker 3>responding to people who are criticizing me or saying why

507
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<v Speaker 3>am I wearing what I have on? And they're like, stop,

508
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<v Speaker 3>stop doing that. But for me, that's my old newspaper thing.

509
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<v Speaker 3>Like I remember when I wrote a column about Max

510
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<v Speaker 3>Hall when he had said the crappy stuff about YouTube,

511
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<v Speaker 3>and I got five hundred emails within twenty four hours.

512
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<v Speaker 3>And there's no way I'm responding to five hundred emails.

513
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<v Speaker 3>I read most of them. My colleague is pretty much

514
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<v Speaker 3>at all. I just let them have my email because

515
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<v Speaker 3>they were stunned at what people would say to a

516
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<v Speaker 3>woman journalist.

517
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<v Speaker 4>Right, it was an education for all of us.

518
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<v Speaker 3>But I remember responding to a lot of those that

519
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<v Speaker 3>people were like, why are you responding to that? Because

520
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<v Speaker 3>here's the thing. The minute you respond to people, they

521
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<v Speaker 3>become themselves again. They come back into their body whatever,

522
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<v Speaker 3>whatever tick them off, whatever sent them out where they

523
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<v Speaker 3>could say something nasty to you. Then they come back

524
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<v Speaker 3>and they go, oh wait, that went to a real person,

525
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<v Speaker 3>and that real person has thoughts, and now I have

526
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<v Speaker 3>to defend this really creepy thing that I said.

527
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<v Speaker 4>I don't do that.

528
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<v Speaker 3>When people threaten violence, I just those people just get blocked.

529
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<v Speaker 3>But the people who I think, this guy's not a

530
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<v Speaker 3>bad person. He has a wife and children. I'm gonna

531
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<v Speaker 3>do his kids a favor and I'm going to give

532
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<v Speaker 3>them a little bit of insight into what he said

533
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<v Speaker 3>and why that's a problem.

534
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<v Speaker 1>And it does disarm people.

535
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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I don't look, I'd never have the text

536
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<v Speaker 2>sign pulled up. We don't take phone calls. I am

537
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<v Speaker 2>really never on social media. My approach to the whole

538
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<v Speaker 2>thing has changed a lot over the path, like I would.

539
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<v Speaker 1>Say doing this show.

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<v Speaker 2>And also I need to give Gordon Monson some credit

541
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<v Speaker 2>for kind of changing my approach during the final few

542
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<v Speaker 2>years of our show together, because I'll occasionally stumble upon

543
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<v Speaker 2>a show I did a number of years ago if

544
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<v Speaker 2>I have it, I have a few interviews that I liked,

545
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<v Speaker 2>saved or whatever, and I'm like, you took yourself so seriously,

546
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<v Speaker 2>Like when I was young in this business, I'm like

547
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<v Speaker 2>chip on my shoulder.

548
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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to prove to everybody I belong.

549
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<v Speaker 2>I know what the narrative is around who my father

550
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<v Speaker 2>is and why I'm where I'm at. So I'm going

551
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<v Speaker 2>to be better than everybody else, and I'm going to

552
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<v Speaker 2>be a lot better than everybody else. So you know

553
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<v Speaker 2>that I deserve to be here, and I just let

554
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<v Speaker 2>all that go. And I don't take myself nearer seriously.

555
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<v Speaker 2>And I want to use this platform to help people

556
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<v Speaker 2>and you know, have fun, and it should be fun.

557
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<v Speaker 2>This is the toy Isleld life. But at the same time,

558
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<v Speaker 2>it's such a great conduit to make a difference if

559
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<v Speaker 2>you just don't take yourself in the craft as seriously

560
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<v Speaker 2>as I think most people do.

561
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<v Speaker 3>What you felt about your parent, who your dad is,

562
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<v Speaker 3>I felt that about being a woman. Sure, I'm like,

563
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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to be better, gonna work harder, I'm gonna

564
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<v Speaker 3>do everything you ask of me.

565
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<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna do it.

566
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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna do eighteen times more than you asked me,

567
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<v Speaker 3>because then you're gonna love me. Then I'm gonna be

568
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<v Speaker 3>in the fraternity. And guess what you're not. You're never

569
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<v Speaker 3>it's not there's always gonna be somebody saying you're only

570
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<v Speaker 3>here because you're a woman, or you don't know what

571
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<v Speaker 3>you're talking about because you're a woman, Like, that's always

572
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<v Speaker 3>gonna happen, same as it's always going to happen. I

573
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<v Speaker 3>had somebody say to me when I had your dad

574
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<v Speaker 3>on my podcast and we did a bonus episode with

575
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<v Speaker 3>your dad, which was amazing, and I had a business

576
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<v Speaker 3>person say to me, that was amazing, that was like

577
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<v Speaker 3>how to be successful in business? That one and the

578
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<v Speaker 3>one with Jason christ Like love the bonus episode, right,

579
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<v Speaker 3>they were bonus episodes. And then literally the same day

580
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<v Speaker 3>I got an email from somebody who said, so, did

581
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<v Speaker 3>Spence get that interview for you? Or did Dave reach

582
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<v Speaker 3>out to you? Never did it occur to them that

583
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<v Speaker 3>I bugged you and your dad? And let me just

584
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<v Speaker 3>say that your dad was so nice that I bugged

585
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<v Speaker 3>him two or three times and he's back east doing

586
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<v Speaker 3>his thing. One of the calls was like clearly, like

587
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<v Speaker 3>right around midnight, like I just had to do what

588
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<v Speaker 3>I to do, and he was like, whatever you need

589
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<v Speaker 3>because he believed in what I was doing and it

590
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<v Speaker 3>wasn't about he.

591
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<v Speaker 4>Didn't know me.

592
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<v Speaker 3>He was like, I try, I believe, I want to

593
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<v Speaker 3>share this, and I believe this is a great project

594
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<v Speaker 3>and I'm going to do it. It had nothing to

595
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<v Speaker 3>do with any of the things that everybody thought it did.

596
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<v Speaker 3>And I'm like, Dave wouldn't know where to get my

597
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<v Speaker 3>phone number. I'm pretty sure, But like, I don't even

598
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<v Speaker 3>know if he knew you and I knew each other

599
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<v Speaker 3>until I interviewed him and said, oh, I've been on

600
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<v Speaker 3>Spencer's show a lot.

601
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<v Speaker 4>I was like, you don't know if you put your

602
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<v Speaker 4>mom did?

603
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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

604
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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and they were great. Have you and we actually

605
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<v Speaker 2>do need to catch a break? Yeah, Ben we'll do

606
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<v Speaker 2>some more coming up next with Amy.

607
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<v Speaker 1>But have you changed the way you kind of approached

608
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<v Speaker 1>the whole thing?

609
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<v Speaker 2>And you reference authenticity, I think the other thing that

610
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<v Speaker 2>I just realized that I needed to do because it's

611
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<v Speaker 2>really hard to do this for four hours and then

612
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<v Speaker 2>change back in who you are in real life.

613
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<v Speaker 1>And I noticed there was kind of.

614
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<v Speaker 2>A dynamic that was occurring where I was carrying over,

615
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<v Speaker 2>like my on air persona into my real life and like,

616
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<v Speaker 2>you know, i'd have friends and you know, people that

617
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<v Speaker 2>I spend time with. Dude, I don't really want to

618
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<v Speaker 2>debate you right now, like you're not on air, you know,

619
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<v Speaker 2>And so I try to be just more authentic to

620
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<v Speaker 2>who I am with this. And I do think there's

621
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<v Speaker 2>an intimacy to live radio that's a little bit different.

622
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<v Speaker 2>It's a very intimate platform. It's one of the reasons

623
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<v Speaker 2>I like it. Like I'll go do a TV hit

624
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<v Speaker 2>with Dave on KUTV. It's seven minutes, you know, And

625
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<v Speaker 2>this is different because you're on air for hours at

626
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<v Speaker 2>a time, and I think people honestly feel like they

627
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<v Speaker 2>get to know you in a way. And so where

628
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<v Speaker 2>I give Gordon a lot of credit is him encouraging

629
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<v Speaker 2>me to. As Robin Roberts said when she got her

630
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<v Speaker 2>Lifetime Achievement Award, this line is always stuck to me.

631
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<v Speaker 1>Make your mess, your message right.

632
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<v Speaker 2>And so whether it was stuff I was going through

633
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<v Speaker 2>personally or you reference you know, my health issues when

634
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<v Speaker 2>I was young, a brain tumor nearly killed me.

635
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<v Speaker 1>Gordon's like, go on air with that. I've never done

636
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<v Speaker 1>that before.

637
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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to do He's like, no, you will

638
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<v Speaker 2>be stunned at the reaction of our listeners.

639
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<v Speaker 3>Gordon's actually given me some career changing advice. Gordon and

640
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<v Speaker 3>Brad Rock two best pieces of advice I got.

641
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<v Speaker 1>So have you changed the approach over the years.

642
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<v Speaker 3>Do you feel like I would say now people who

643
00:27:16.319 --> 00:27:18.359
<v Speaker 3>know me, No, I just I could never do what

644
00:27:18.400 --> 00:27:20.440
<v Speaker 3>you guys do because I can't be like I'm just

645
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<v Speaker 3>me sure and nobody wants to put that on air

646
00:27:23.000 --> 00:27:23.559
<v Speaker 3>for four hours.

647
00:27:24.440 --> 00:27:25.640
<v Speaker 4>I mean, it's true, but.

648
00:27:25.599 --> 00:27:27.559
<v Speaker 3>I and I don't blame them, but I you know,

649
00:27:27.799 --> 00:27:29.319
<v Speaker 3>in one hour, I guess you can handle it one

650
00:27:29.319 --> 00:27:32.640
<v Speaker 3>hour a week for sure. But I think that Gordon

651
00:27:32.720 --> 00:27:36.079
<v Speaker 3>told me you're great at this. You have a really

652
00:27:36.119 --> 00:27:38.160
<v Speaker 3>good sense of humor. You know what you're talking about

653
00:27:38.920 --> 00:27:42.519
<v Speaker 3>but you won't let people in on the radio. And

654
00:27:42.599 --> 00:27:45.519
<v Speaker 3>if you people can get their sports information anywhere. If

655
00:27:45.519 --> 00:27:47.480
<v Speaker 3>they don't care about you, if they can't connect to you,

656
00:27:47.880 --> 00:27:50.160
<v Speaker 3>they're not going to listen to you. And that changed

657
00:27:50.640 --> 00:27:52.920
<v Speaker 3>the amount I was willing to let people in because

658
00:27:52.920 --> 00:27:56.400
<v Speaker 3>as a print journalist, the lines are really clear. Sure

659
00:27:56.440 --> 00:27:59.279
<v Speaker 3>when you do when you grow up in newspaper news

660
00:27:59.400 --> 00:28:03.000
<v Speaker 3>in a newsroom, there it is no pun intended black

661
00:28:03.039 --> 00:28:05.400
<v Speaker 3>and white, there's no gray area. You go to a

662
00:28:05.400 --> 00:28:08.039
<v Speaker 3>banquet to cover an awards banquet, you do not eat,

663
00:28:08.119 --> 00:28:10.200
<v Speaker 3>you do not participate, You are not part of the story.

664
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<v Speaker 3>That changed when I went to sports and I was

665
00:28:12.599 --> 00:28:15.240
<v Speaker 3>completely out of my element, and Gordon gave me that

666
00:28:15.279 --> 00:28:17.799
<v Speaker 3>advice on because I was doing sports talk radio. And

667
00:28:18.160 --> 00:28:21.720
<v Speaker 3>you can hear the difference when you have print reporters

668
00:28:21.720 --> 00:28:26.960
<v Speaker 3>on versus broadcast report or columnists. Print reporters are always

669
00:28:27.160 --> 00:28:29.519
<v Speaker 3>pre editing what they want to say, because that's how

670
00:28:29.519 --> 00:28:32.279
<v Speaker 3>we write, right. We think and write it and then

671
00:28:32.279 --> 00:28:34.359
<v Speaker 3>we edit it and change it and go over and

672
00:28:34.359 --> 00:28:36.400
<v Speaker 3>over til it sounds the way we want it to sound.

673
00:28:37.359 --> 00:28:39.799
<v Speaker 3>That's not a luxury you have in broadcasts. You just

674
00:28:39.839 --> 00:28:41.920
<v Speaker 3>have to own what you think what you feel and

675
00:28:41.960 --> 00:28:44.480
<v Speaker 3>how much you're willing to share. And that was a

676
00:28:44.519 --> 00:28:47.440
<v Speaker 3>shift for me. So the change came then. And then

677
00:28:47.480 --> 00:28:50.119
<v Speaker 3>I would say, Brad Rock the other significant change. I

678
00:28:50.240 --> 00:28:54.880
<v Speaker 3>was really struggling in sports, probably looking to get back

679
00:28:54.920 --> 00:28:58.440
<v Speaker 3>into news and leave sports, and he saw me at

680
00:28:58.480 --> 00:29:01.160
<v Speaker 3>a ski event. I was covering a pre Olympics event,

681
00:29:01.559 --> 00:29:03.640
<v Speaker 3>and he said, and I was expressing to him my

682
00:29:04.119 --> 00:29:07.359
<v Speaker 3>frustration and why I wanted to go back to news,

683
00:29:07.440 --> 00:29:11.079
<v Speaker 3>and he said, you're trying to be us. He said,

684
00:29:11.079 --> 00:29:13.319
<v Speaker 3>the thing that makes you valuable is you're not us.

685
00:29:13.960 --> 00:29:16.359
<v Speaker 3>So what if you don't know the latest scores and stats,

686
00:29:16.440 --> 00:29:17.759
<v Speaker 3>or you don't know who the I score was. You

687
00:29:17.759 --> 00:29:20.240
<v Speaker 3>can look that up, he said, what you when I

688
00:29:20.279 --> 00:29:23.839
<v Speaker 3>come and talk to you, you know whose grandmother has cancer.

689
00:29:24.200 --> 00:29:26.720
<v Speaker 3>You know where their fiance is sitting in the stands.

690
00:29:26.920 --> 00:29:28.519
<v Speaker 3>He's like, you're the only person I know who went

691
00:29:28.519 --> 00:29:31.119
<v Speaker 3>over and sat with Larry Miller at a WNBA game

692
00:29:31.440 --> 00:29:34.400
<v Speaker 3>and never came back to press row because Larry invited

693
00:29:34.400 --> 00:29:36.920
<v Speaker 3>you to stay, and you stayed, and you have three

694
00:29:36.960 --> 00:29:39.240
<v Speaker 3>or four stories now from that and a column. He's like,

695
00:29:39.319 --> 00:29:42.839
<v Speaker 3>that's what you do well, and you need to value

696
00:29:42.880 --> 00:29:45.599
<v Speaker 3>that because that's what we value and I realize, like

697
00:29:45.920 --> 00:29:50.000
<v Speaker 3>when you try to when oftentimes the thing you hate

698
00:29:50.039 --> 00:29:50.519
<v Speaker 3>the most.

699
00:29:50.319 --> 00:29:52.319
<v Speaker 4>About yourself is your superpower.

700
00:29:52.799 --> 00:29:56.000
<v Speaker 3>The fact that I cannot put up walls around my

701
00:29:56.119 --> 00:29:59.000
<v Speaker 3>heart and around how I feel and what I think.

702
00:29:59.640 --> 00:30:02.000
<v Speaker 3>That's how actually the reason I can connect people who've

703
00:30:02.000 --> 00:30:05.400
<v Speaker 3>had experiences I will never have, whose children have been

704
00:30:05.480 --> 00:30:08.279
<v Speaker 3>murdered and they found their kid in their own house, right, Like,

705
00:30:08.400 --> 00:30:09.759
<v Speaker 3>I have to sit with them, and I have to

706
00:30:09.759 --> 00:30:12.160
<v Speaker 3>write something about that. I have to put you in

707
00:30:12.240 --> 00:30:16.240
<v Speaker 3>somebody's shoes who's forgiven the killer of their son's murderer, right,

708
00:30:16.559 --> 00:30:19.559
<v Speaker 3>And that's a thing that you can't do if you

709
00:30:19.599 --> 00:30:22.960
<v Speaker 3>have any anything between you and them. You really have

710
00:30:23.039 --> 00:30:25.440
<v Speaker 3>to just surrender yourself to the story. I always say,

711
00:30:25.640 --> 00:30:27.200
<v Speaker 3>Everyone's like, well, how do you decide this?

712
00:30:27.319 --> 00:30:27.599
<v Speaker 4>Or that?

713
00:30:28.039 --> 00:30:30.279
<v Speaker 3>It's the story for me, and it sounds hokey, But

714
00:30:30.720 --> 00:30:33.720
<v Speaker 3>the story is what I serve, and I serve it

715
00:30:33.759 --> 00:30:36.839
<v Speaker 3>completely and it takes a toll. But I'm also like,

716
00:30:37.000 --> 00:30:39.759
<v Speaker 3>I feel super lucky that I get to see and

717
00:30:39.799 --> 00:30:42.799
<v Speaker 3>be inspired by the people I have come in contact

718
00:30:42.799 --> 00:30:46.960
<v Speaker 3>with over the years. But for me, that's that moment.

719
00:30:47.599 --> 00:30:50.680
<v Speaker 3>Gordon's in the broadcast side and Brad Rock on the

720
00:30:50.680 --> 00:30:53.400
<v Speaker 3>print side. What those were the two people who said, like,

721
00:30:53.720 --> 00:30:56.240
<v Speaker 3>stop trying to be something you're not. And Gordon's was

722
00:30:56.359 --> 00:30:58.440
<v Speaker 3>just like, if you don't let us in, we're not

723
00:30:58.480 --> 00:30:58.880
<v Speaker 3>going to listen.

724
00:30:59.119 --> 00:31:01.359
<v Speaker 4>No, but you know you can. There's so many places

725
00:31:01.359 --> 00:31:02.960
<v Speaker 4>to get information. Why would I come to you?

726
00:31:03.799 --> 00:31:06.359
<v Speaker 2>And he and he was right, you know when you

727
00:31:06.400 --> 00:31:09.599
<v Speaker 2>say the work is the medicine, you know if I'm

728
00:31:09.799 --> 00:31:12.200
<v Speaker 2>because it's and we do have to catch break and

729
00:31:12.240 --> 00:31:14.000
<v Speaker 2>we will. But it's funny all these thoughts, this is

730
00:31:14.000 --> 00:31:15.680
<v Speaker 2>why I like having you in. That'd come to my

731
00:31:15.759 --> 00:31:20.559
<v Speaker 2>mind about like stretches of doing the show when nobody

732
00:31:20.599 --> 00:31:23.799
<v Speaker 2>knows that off air of my life was like crumbling, right,

733
00:31:24.279 --> 00:31:26.160
<v Speaker 2>And so my dad would always say, it's this Vince

734
00:31:26.200 --> 00:31:29.960
<v Speaker 2>Lombardi line. A pro is at his best regardless, right,

735
00:31:30.039 --> 00:31:31.839
<v Speaker 2>So that light goes on at two o'clock. It doesn't

736
00:31:31.880 --> 00:31:33.680
<v Speaker 2>matter what's going on out there, you can't bring it

737
00:31:33.720 --> 00:31:39.000
<v Speaker 2>in here, right, And there is a therapeutic nature the

738
00:31:39.039 --> 00:31:40.160
<v Speaker 2>show or writing a column.

739
00:31:40.240 --> 00:31:43.480
<v Speaker 3>Right. I covered a hockey game Utah Grizzleyes soccer game,

740
00:31:43.559 --> 00:31:46.240
<v Speaker 3>hockey game while my kid was in the ICU at

741
00:31:46.279 --> 00:31:49.000
<v Speaker 3>Primary Children's and everybody was like, what are you crazy?

742
00:31:49.079 --> 00:31:52.759
<v Speaker 3>And I was like, you know what the greatest escape is, Yeah,

743
00:31:52.880 --> 00:31:55.960
<v Speaker 3>I for for for two hours. I'm not a mom

744
00:31:55.960 --> 00:31:59.200
<v Speaker 3>whose kid might die in surgery. I'm a writer. I'm

745
00:31:59.279 --> 00:32:01.599
<v Speaker 3>covering hockey and no one gives a crap. Yep, it's

746
00:32:01.640 --> 00:32:01.960
<v Speaker 3>a game.

747
00:32:02.039 --> 00:32:04.240
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, no, it is all right, We'll catch a break.

748
00:32:04.400 --> 00:32:06.839
<v Speaker 2>Amy's live in studio for another big segment coming up.

749
00:32:07.480 --> 00:32:12.359
<v Speaker 2>All right, our friend Amy Donaldson, MUKSL and other platforms

750
00:32:13.000 --> 00:32:15.440
<v Speaker 2>over the years, is live and studio for another big segment.

751
00:32:16.200 --> 00:32:19.160
<v Speaker 2>You're gonna bring in Stevenson Sylvester. Today, Utah had a

752
00:32:19.160 --> 00:32:21.720
<v Speaker 2>scrimmage over the weekend. We are nineteen days away from

753
00:32:21.759 --> 00:32:25.160
<v Speaker 2>game day. And then Brett Siancia picked six previews will

754
00:32:25.160 --> 00:32:29.319
<v Speaker 2>stop by, so Amy referenced during the break. Last segment

755
00:32:29.559 --> 00:32:31.720
<v Speaker 2>was like a twenty five to thirty minute hit just

756
00:32:31.799 --> 00:32:33.880
<v Speaker 2>on a lot of different things. You know, we went

757
00:32:34.440 --> 00:32:38.200
<v Speaker 2>all over the place talking little inside baseball and you know,

758
00:32:38.559 --> 00:32:40.680
<v Speaker 2>maybe some people like it, maybe some people don't. But

759
00:32:40.720 --> 00:32:43.759
<v Speaker 2>that's okay, beauty of podcasting as you can listen to

760
00:32:43.799 --> 00:32:45.440
<v Speaker 2>whatever part of the show you want to later on,

761
00:32:45.559 --> 00:32:48.240
<v Speaker 2>but it's we're live now. I'm not going to use

762
00:32:48.279 --> 00:32:50.519
<v Speaker 2>the term that I used during the break about the

763
00:32:50.599 --> 00:32:53.759
<v Speaker 2>situation in the WNBA with certain things being thrown off

764
00:32:53.799 --> 00:32:58.920
<v Speaker 2>on the floor. The WNBA finds itself in a really

765
00:32:58.920 --> 00:33:03.079
<v Speaker 2>interesting place. And I was recently with family members for

766
00:33:03.119 --> 00:33:06.880
<v Speaker 2>a family reunion and my sister in law was the

767
00:33:06.880 --> 00:33:09.680
<v Speaker 2>Mountain West Conference freshman of the year at BYU and basketball.

768
00:33:09.720 --> 00:33:12.119
<v Speaker 2>She unfortunately hurt both of her knees and so kind

769
00:33:12.119 --> 00:33:14.559
<v Speaker 2>of cut her career short. They live in Indiana now,

770
00:33:14.599 --> 00:33:17.799
<v Speaker 2>they live in Carmel, Indiana, and my little niece, Martha May,

771
00:33:18.000 --> 00:33:20.279
<v Speaker 2>has this Kaitlin Clark jersey she wears all the time.

772
00:33:20.480 --> 00:33:22.559
<v Speaker 2>And I'm actually going to visit them this weekend. We're

773
00:33:22.599 --> 00:33:25.559
<v Speaker 2>going to a game. We're gonna go see Kaylen Clark

774
00:33:25.599 --> 00:33:26.440
<v Speaker 2>in the fever.

775
00:33:26.240 --> 00:33:28.720
<v Speaker 4>Play is back? Is she back from injuries?

776
00:33:28.799 --> 00:33:29.599
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I hope so.

777
00:33:29.920 --> 00:33:31.839
<v Speaker 2>I know she had missed seven or eight straight games.

778
00:33:32.119 --> 00:33:34.920
<v Speaker 2>What do you make of the way that she is covered?

779
00:33:34.960 --> 00:33:36.960
<v Speaker 2>What do you make of the way that the sport

780
00:33:37.039 --> 00:33:40.599
<v Speaker 2>is covered now as a result of the rising popularity

781
00:33:41.519 --> 00:33:43.160
<v Speaker 2>that I hate to say, and it does seem to

782
00:33:43.200 --> 00:33:44.440
<v Speaker 2>be because of Kayln Clark.

783
00:33:44.480 --> 00:33:46.359
<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying it's only her, but.

784
00:33:46.440 --> 00:33:48.359
<v Speaker 4>No, no, I wouldn't disagree with that.

785
00:33:48.440 --> 00:33:51.279
<v Speaker 3>What I guess what I would say is there's coverage

786
00:33:51.799 --> 00:33:54.839
<v Speaker 3>from people who don't know anything about what's basketball and

787
00:33:54.880 --> 00:33:57.200
<v Speaker 3>don't know anything about the league and don't care about that,

788
00:33:57.680 --> 00:34:00.279
<v Speaker 3>and they feel like they have to get on board

789
00:34:00.319 --> 00:34:03.240
<v Speaker 3>with everything that's popular. And she's definitely like she's a

790
00:34:03.759 --> 00:34:06.359
<v Speaker 3>she's You could ignore women's sports, and you could ignore

791
00:34:06.359 --> 00:34:10.840
<v Speaker 3>the WNBA ninety percent of the time before Caitlin Clark,

792
00:34:11.480 --> 00:34:14.280
<v Speaker 3>but once she broke on the scene in the in

793
00:34:14.360 --> 00:34:21.039
<v Speaker 3>the NCAA tournament, there just was too much grassroots affection

794
00:34:21.440 --> 00:34:24.039
<v Speaker 3>for her and really for the women's game. And so

795
00:34:24.320 --> 00:34:27.440
<v Speaker 3>you saw this everybody sort of saying, oh, well, this

796
00:34:27.519 --> 00:34:29.400
<v Speaker 3>is super popular, we have to do something about it.

797
00:34:29.440 --> 00:34:31.800
<v Speaker 3>And you see this a lot with non traditional sports,

798
00:34:31.840 --> 00:34:33.800
<v Speaker 3>but with when it comes to women's sports, and I

799
00:34:33.800 --> 00:34:35.320
<v Speaker 3>would say women's basketball.

800
00:34:34.960 --> 00:34:37.639
<v Speaker 1>In particular, Oh really, yeah, why do you think that is?

801
00:34:37.840 --> 00:34:41.519
<v Speaker 3>Because I think there is a sexual bias. There's a

802
00:34:41.599 --> 00:34:46.840
<v Speaker 3>gender slash sexual sexuality bias. And if men most of

803
00:34:46.880 --> 00:34:49.639
<v Speaker 3>the media, I mean, they did these surveys every year

804
00:34:49.639 --> 00:34:52.159
<v Speaker 3>when I was covering the Olympics, and they were eighty

805
00:34:52.199 --> 00:34:57.559
<v Speaker 3>five to ninety percent male, and similar statistic white. But

806
00:34:57.880 --> 00:35:00.400
<v Speaker 3>all of my bosses, all the bosses at all the

807
00:35:00.760 --> 00:35:05.159
<v Speaker 3>news organizations across the country are are middle aged white

808
00:35:05.159 --> 00:35:10.039
<v Speaker 3>guys or older, right, and so they drive and decide

809
00:35:10.159 --> 00:35:15.400
<v Speaker 3>ultimately what we cover. And most of my colleagues were guys,

810
00:35:16.480 --> 00:35:19.719
<v Speaker 3>very few men of color, lots of but lots of males.

811
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<v Speaker 3>Even if they're men of color, they're all almost all male.

812
00:35:22.760 --> 00:35:24.840
<v Speaker 3>And there would be time there were times in my

813
00:35:24.880 --> 00:35:27.159
<v Speaker 3>career where I literally did not see a woman unless

814
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<v Speaker 3>I was covering a women's game for weeks at a

815
00:35:30.719 --> 00:35:34.000
<v Speaker 3>time professionally, right, just you just and I would be like, oh,

816
00:35:34.320 --> 00:35:37.400
<v Speaker 3>I would notice when I saw another women journalist. I

817
00:35:37.440 --> 00:35:39.639
<v Speaker 3>have a mini a selfie in my phone of me

818
00:35:39.800 --> 00:35:41.599
<v Speaker 3>and the one or two or three other one and

819
00:35:41.679 --> 00:35:43.039
<v Speaker 3>there were four of us at a football game. I

820
00:35:43.039 --> 00:35:45.760
<v Speaker 3>made a sack of selfie. You put it on social

821
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<v Speaker 3>media because it was four of us. Right, it was

822
00:35:48.400 --> 00:35:50.440
<v Speaker 3>a high school game, so you know, there you go.

823
00:35:50.719 --> 00:35:51.760
<v Speaker 3>But anyway, that.

824
00:35:51.840 --> 00:35:52.480
<v Speaker 4>Was just so rare.

825
00:35:53.320 --> 00:35:55.920
<v Speaker 3>So when most of the people deciding what to get covered,

826
00:35:56.239 --> 00:36:01.559
<v Speaker 3>where you spend resources in media, are men, it's gonna

827
00:36:01.599 --> 00:36:07.239
<v Speaker 3>be a tall order for women to get even thirty

828
00:36:07.280 --> 00:36:10.360
<v Speaker 3>percent of the coverage if you just take a look.

829
00:36:10.400 --> 00:36:12.159
<v Speaker 3>I mean back in the day we had daily newspapers.

830
00:36:12.199 --> 00:36:14.360
<v Speaker 3>I did this all the time. I would keep track

831
00:36:14.400 --> 00:36:16.239
<v Speaker 3>of how many stories would go on the front page,

832
00:36:17.199 --> 00:36:19.760
<v Speaker 3>both at the Trip and at dese Right News for

833
00:36:19.800 --> 00:36:24.400
<v Speaker 3>women's sports. And it was always a controversy BYU or

834
00:36:24.440 --> 00:36:27.760
<v Speaker 3>it was like a local mom story like which I've

835
00:36:27.760 --> 00:36:33.159
<v Speaker 3>written myself mom and also an athlete, right, so I

836
00:36:34.320 --> 00:36:36.119
<v Speaker 3>or if you know there were firsts, there's always you

837
00:36:36.119 --> 00:36:38.320
<v Speaker 3>know women, Oh it's women's History month. Oh it's an

838
00:36:38.400 --> 00:36:40.440
<v Speaker 3>anniversary of Title nine. And we did those stories right,

839
00:36:40.440 --> 00:36:43.519
<v Speaker 3>but like they just didn't make the cover. And that

840
00:36:44.320 --> 00:36:47.400
<v Speaker 3>what I tell people is when you pay attention to something,

841
00:36:47.480 --> 00:36:49.159
<v Speaker 3>that's what you're telling people what you care about.

842
00:36:49.360 --> 00:36:50.920
<v Speaker 4>So if you don't pay attention to something, you don't

843
00:36:50.920 --> 00:36:51.440
<v Speaker 4>care about it.

844
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<v Speaker 3>And a lot of these guys, I would say sportstock

845
00:36:53.960 --> 00:36:56.800
<v Speaker 3>radio is a hotbed of this, but there's a lot

846
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<v Speaker 3>of newspaper and a number in broadcasts as well who

847
00:37:00.840 --> 00:37:03.199
<v Speaker 3>haven't paid attention to the WNBA, don't even know how

848
00:37:03.199 --> 00:37:06.039
<v Speaker 3>it works, don't care, and don't really see it as

849
00:37:06.079 --> 00:37:12.159
<v Speaker 3>a league and an athletic league worth investing their time,

850
00:37:12.280 --> 00:37:15.599
<v Speaker 3>energy and money, and so those people now are forced

851
00:37:15.639 --> 00:37:19.360
<v Speaker 3>to to commentate and cover and I heard so much crap,

852
00:37:19.599 --> 00:37:24.559
<v Speaker 3>so much bs, so much you know, vomit, verbal vomit.

853
00:37:24.639 --> 00:37:28.559
<v Speaker 3>I'll just say from that those people who had had

854
00:37:28.599 --> 00:37:30.840
<v Speaker 3>nothing good to say about women's sports. I covered the

855
00:37:30.920 --> 00:37:34.239
<v Speaker 3>WNB when Utah, when the Utah Stars were here. I

856
00:37:34.280 --> 00:37:38.239
<v Speaker 3>was a sidebar person for Linda Hamilton, two women covering Hamilton. Yeah,

857
00:37:38.280 --> 00:37:42.719
<v Speaker 3>professional sports league, and it was the greatest three years

858
00:37:42.760 --> 00:37:45.599
<v Speaker 3>of my professional I loved it so much, was so fun.

859
00:37:46.039 --> 00:37:48.079
<v Speaker 3>I've also bought season tickets that I shared with two

860
00:37:48.159 --> 00:37:50.400
<v Speaker 3>other families because I couldn't afford them by myself, because

861
00:37:50.400 --> 00:37:52.039
<v Speaker 3>I was a single mom at the time, and I

862
00:37:52.079 --> 00:37:54.119
<v Speaker 3>took my daughter those games so she could see even

863
00:37:54.159 --> 00:37:56.840
<v Speaker 3>if she didn't play sports. See these options. You want

864
00:37:56.880 --> 00:37:58.440
<v Speaker 3>to see women and you want to go. We've seen

865
00:37:58.440 --> 00:38:01.159
<v Speaker 3>political speeches, We've seen musician. You want to see them

866
00:38:01.159 --> 00:38:03.559
<v Speaker 3>in all these different roles, right and so, And I'm

867
00:38:03.559 --> 00:38:05.480
<v Speaker 3>a kid, you know, grew up on that cusp of

868
00:38:05.480 --> 00:38:08.199
<v Speaker 3>Title nine. I got opportunities my mom didn't have because

869
00:38:08.239 --> 00:38:10.559
<v Speaker 3>of Title nine. So I was very cognizant of this

870
00:38:10.599 --> 00:38:12.239
<v Speaker 3>when I took my kids and did things. My two

871
00:38:12.320 --> 00:38:16.079
<v Speaker 3>daughters but to listen to them talk about the rise

872
00:38:16.079 --> 00:38:18.119
<v Speaker 3>of Caitlin Clark and why she was so popular and

873
00:38:18.119 --> 00:38:23.559
<v Speaker 3>what was happening was disgusting. It was disheartening, it was infuriating.

874
00:38:23.960 --> 00:38:25.880
<v Speaker 3>And there were a lot of really great journalists who

875
00:38:26.159 --> 00:38:29.079
<v Speaker 3>I won't repeat all o their but you can go

876
00:38:29.119 --> 00:38:32.960
<v Speaker 3>back and read them. Sarah Spaine among them, who kept saying, hey,

877
00:38:33.000 --> 00:38:34.360
<v Speaker 3>you guys are new to this game.

878
00:38:34.880 --> 00:38:35.760
<v Speaker 4>Let me help you out.

879
00:38:35.960 --> 00:38:39.239
<v Speaker 3>And they just spit on her just you know, you

880
00:38:39.239 --> 00:38:41.559
<v Speaker 3>don't know you're talking about you're a lady who wants

881
00:38:41.559 --> 00:38:44.360
<v Speaker 3>to be in sports, and you know it was that

882
00:38:44.519 --> 00:38:47.400
<v Speaker 3>was really hard. So there were really there was really

883
00:38:47.400 --> 00:38:49.920
<v Speaker 3>good coverage of the rise. But I'll tell you look

884
00:38:49.920 --> 00:38:51.800
<v Speaker 3>at go back and watch the press conference when she

885
00:38:51.840 --> 00:38:55.800
<v Speaker 3>got drafted and the guy who's talking to her Doyle,

886
00:38:56.239 --> 00:38:59.199
<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, so yeah, I mean so and you and

887
00:38:59.199 --> 00:39:02.199
<v Speaker 3>I think we talked about that. But she's had to

888
00:39:02.199 --> 00:39:06.079
<v Speaker 3>deal with who is her boyfriend? Is she straight or gay? Uh?

889
00:39:06.360 --> 00:39:11.079
<v Speaker 3>Paige Buker's same thing, you know, is she Sophie what's

890
00:39:11.079 --> 00:39:11.400
<v Speaker 3>her name?

891
00:39:11.400 --> 00:39:13.800
<v Speaker 4>That plays with Kaitlyn Clark? The plays with Kaitlin Clark.

892
00:39:13.840 --> 00:39:16.119
<v Speaker 3>Now you know, oh she's hot and she's you know

893
00:39:16.599 --> 00:39:21.119
<v Speaker 3>violent we love this, you know, so like there's this subset,

894
00:39:21.360 --> 00:39:23.840
<v Speaker 3>so there's really good coverage out there, but you have

895
00:39:23.880 --> 00:39:26.360
<v Speaker 3>to work for it. And then there's a lot of

896
00:39:26.599 --> 00:39:32.039
<v Speaker 3>noise of people who who may know other sports, really

897
00:39:32.119 --> 00:39:34.840
<v Speaker 3>popular guys, some of them I like and listen to

898
00:39:34.920 --> 00:39:39.679
<v Speaker 3>their podcasts, who really really missed and instead of like

899
00:39:39.840 --> 00:39:40.599
<v Speaker 3>correcting it.

900
00:39:40.760 --> 00:39:42.559
<v Speaker 4>There's been a couple that have corrected.

901
00:39:42.199 --> 00:39:45.679
<v Speaker 3>It, but a lot of them have come in and

902
00:39:45.719 --> 00:39:48.239
<v Speaker 3>not said, I don't know this space. Let me let

903
00:39:48.280 --> 00:39:51.119
<v Speaker 3>me come into this space intelligently, let me come, let

904
00:39:51.119 --> 00:39:53.519
<v Speaker 3>me educate myself, let me bring people in who will

905
00:39:53.559 --> 00:39:57.639
<v Speaker 3>help me navigate this place in a way that isn't

906
00:39:57.639 --> 00:40:00.000
<v Speaker 3>harmful because women already endure it.

907
00:40:00.039 --> 00:40:02.320
<v Speaker 4>Why do you think there's so much abuse in women's sports?

908
00:40:02.840 --> 00:40:05.159
<v Speaker 3>Right? There are things that we already endure. There are

909
00:40:05.199 --> 00:40:07.760
<v Speaker 3>things we're so lucky to be here, we're so happy

910
00:40:07.800 --> 00:40:09.679
<v Speaker 3>to be at the table, we're so happy to have

911
00:40:09.719 --> 00:40:12.800
<v Speaker 3>your breadcrumbs, that we just don't ever ask for what

912
00:40:12.840 --> 00:40:16.079
<v Speaker 3>we actually should get. And case in point, when the

913
00:40:16.079 --> 00:40:19.760
<v Speaker 3>women wore at the All Star Game, pay us, pay

914
00:40:19.840 --> 00:40:21.840
<v Speaker 3>us what we're worth or whatever the T shirt said

915
00:40:21.880 --> 00:40:23.719
<v Speaker 3>something about the pay like pay us what we should

916
00:40:23.760 --> 00:40:26.119
<v Speaker 3>may or pay us what we're worth, and everybody was

917
00:40:26.199 --> 00:40:29.800
<v Speaker 3>upset about it, and people like Sarah Spain said, look

918
00:40:29.840 --> 00:40:32.639
<v Speaker 3>at the TV contracts, look at this, let's compare it

919
00:40:32.639 --> 00:40:33.360
<v Speaker 3>to other leagues.

920
00:40:33.840 --> 00:40:35.400
<v Speaker 4>Are the women making what they should make?

921
00:40:35.559 --> 00:40:35.760
<v Speaker 1>Right?

922
00:40:36.079 --> 00:40:38.039
<v Speaker 3>And everybody's like, well, they don't make money. Well, there's

923
00:40:38.079 --> 00:40:40.159
<v Speaker 3>other leagues that don't make money that pay their players

924
00:40:40.199 --> 00:40:44.239
<v Speaker 3>millions of dollars, right, So that's not there.

925
00:40:44.639 --> 00:40:45.679
<v Speaker 4>It's very complicated.

926
00:40:46.039 --> 00:40:50.039
<v Speaker 3>But I think that the oversimplification and the sexism that's

927
00:40:50.039 --> 00:40:53.920
<v Speaker 3>inherent in our business has made it both amazing and

928
00:40:54.000 --> 00:40:54.559
<v Speaker 3>super fun.

929
00:40:54.599 --> 00:40:56.760
<v Speaker 4>And I loved it. We've talked about it.

930
00:40:56.760 --> 00:40:58.559
<v Speaker 3>It's giving me a lot of hope for the future.

931
00:40:59.440 --> 00:41:05.800
<v Speaker 3>But it's all so just tiring. How many people just

932
00:41:05.960 --> 00:41:11.400
<v Speaker 3>refuse to evolve, yeah, and learn and just say, oh,

933
00:41:11.480 --> 00:41:15.199
<v Speaker 3>I learned this today. They just can't be wrong and

934
00:41:15.239 --> 00:41:15.880
<v Speaker 3>that's a bummer.

935
00:41:16.000 --> 00:41:20.039
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and you know the shirts that the women wore

936
00:41:20.079 --> 00:41:23.599
<v Speaker 2>Overall Star weekend. It was really easy in a vacuum

937
00:41:23.639 --> 00:41:26.360
<v Speaker 2>to give a snapshot reaction about, Okay, well, how much

938
00:41:26.480 --> 00:41:29.840
<v Speaker 2>money does the league generate? What is the revenue of

939
00:41:29.840 --> 00:41:35.199
<v Speaker 2>the WNBA. The ultimate reality is NBA players receive about

940
00:41:35.239 --> 00:41:40.039
<v Speaker 2>fifty one percent of basketball related income and WNBA players

941
00:41:40.079 --> 00:41:43.760
<v Speaker 2>receive about nine point three percent of their basketball related income. Now,

942
00:41:43.800 --> 00:41:45.800
<v Speaker 2>I don't have their P and L statements. I don't

943
00:41:45.800 --> 00:41:48.480
<v Speaker 2>know what that league makes compared to the WNBA. I

944
00:41:48.519 --> 00:41:51.000
<v Speaker 2>do know evaluations for teams have gone through the roof

945
00:41:51.119 --> 00:41:54.199
<v Speaker 2>to the tunes of hundreds of millions of dollars. But

946
00:41:54.559 --> 00:41:58.599
<v Speaker 2>everybody in this attention economy, and that goes back to

947
00:41:58.639 --> 00:42:01.000
<v Speaker 2>the sex toys being thrown on the floor. I mean,

948
00:42:01.079 --> 00:42:04.599
<v Speaker 2>this cryptocurrency meme coin company is taking credit for it

949
00:42:04.639 --> 00:42:06.360
<v Speaker 2>because they were clearly looking for attention.

950
00:42:06.519 --> 00:42:09.760
<v Speaker 3>No. But and this to me is peak American sports moment.

951
00:42:10.760 --> 00:42:13.079
<v Speaker 3>Women have fought and fought and fought just to get

952
00:42:13.159 --> 00:42:16.960
<v Speaker 3>a tiny slice of attention, a tiny slice of the financing,

953
00:42:17.039 --> 00:42:19.760
<v Speaker 3>a tiny slice of what's out there, right, and they

954
00:42:19.840 --> 00:42:20.519
<v Speaker 3>finally get it.

955
00:42:20.800 --> 00:42:21.760
<v Speaker 4>They're having this moment.

956
00:42:21.880 --> 00:42:24.599
<v Speaker 3>Women's sports in general is having this moment where they're

957
00:42:24.599 --> 00:42:27.920
<v Speaker 3>getting attention, where people want to invest financially in them,

958
00:42:27.960 --> 00:42:29.960
<v Speaker 3>they want to invest their time with them, they want

959
00:42:30.000 --> 00:42:32.239
<v Speaker 3>to learn their names. This is amazing, right, They want

960
00:42:32.280 --> 00:42:36.039
<v Speaker 3>to pay attention to their records. And these dudes say,

961
00:42:36.719 --> 00:42:39.800
<v Speaker 3>either we don't care about them, we just want to

962
00:42:39.840 --> 00:42:42.440
<v Speaker 3>share of their attention. This is what happened, and this

963
00:42:42.519 --> 00:42:44.880
<v Speaker 3>is what I think happened when Kaitlin Clark came on

964
00:42:44.920 --> 00:42:47.960
<v Speaker 3>the scene. These sports talk guys and these there's some

965
00:42:48.480 --> 00:42:52.159
<v Speaker 3>male columnists and podcasters who decided, oh my god, these

966
00:42:52.159 --> 00:42:54.119
<v Speaker 3>women are having this moment, and they couldn't let us

967
00:42:54.159 --> 00:42:58.199
<v Speaker 3>have this moment. They couldn't educate themselves, they couldn't defer

968
00:42:58.280 --> 00:43:00.920
<v Speaker 3>to another. There were plenty of women who've covered the

969
00:43:01.039 --> 00:43:03.960
<v Speaker 3>WA and womenen who've covered women's basketball in the WNBA.

970
00:43:04.039 --> 00:43:06.280
<v Speaker 3>They could have had on their shows, but they didn't

971
00:43:06.280 --> 00:43:08.360
<v Speaker 3>do that. They had to take a piece of that

972
00:43:08.400 --> 00:43:12.159
<v Speaker 3>moment for themselves. They can't just let them succeed. They

973
00:43:12.199 --> 00:43:15.000
<v Speaker 3>can't let them into this universe that they decided long

974
00:43:15.039 --> 00:43:17.719
<v Speaker 3>ago was theirs, and they get to decide who comes

975
00:43:17.719 --> 00:43:18.159
<v Speaker 3>in and why.

976
00:43:18.519 --> 00:43:19.719
<v Speaker 4>It's maddening.

977
00:43:20.000 --> 00:43:22.280
<v Speaker 3>But to me, that sex toy thing was the same

978
00:43:22.679 --> 00:43:25.800
<v Speaker 3>situation as the Caitlin Clark coming on the same here's

979
00:43:25.840 --> 00:43:29.320
<v Speaker 3>this moment. It's super fun where everything has to be

980
00:43:29.360 --> 00:43:32.599
<v Speaker 3>a controversy, everything has to be about she's pretty and white,

981
00:43:32.639 --> 00:43:34.239
<v Speaker 3>and so everyone else is trying to beat her up

982
00:43:34.280 --> 00:43:36.960
<v Speaker 3>our you know, and I will say there is a bias.

983
00:43:37.079 --> 00:43:38.000
<v Speaker 4>You look at coverage.

984
00:43:38.280 --> 00:43:40.920
<v Speaker 3>Look at the coverage for women volleyball players or women's

985
00:43:40.920 --> 00:43:44.440
<v Speaker 3>soccer soccer players compared to women's basketball players, or women

986
00:43:44.559 --> 00:43:47.199
<v Speaker 3>boxers or women wrestlers or anything like that.

987
00:43:47.440 --> 00:43:49.079
<v Speaker 4>There is a These menu are.

988
00:43:48.960 --> 00:43:53.440
<v Speaker 3>In charge decide who's attractive and who will sell and

989
00:43:53.519 --> 00:43:55.239
<v Speaker 3>we all know it sells, so I don't have to

990
00:43:55.239 --> 00:43:57.159
<v Speaker 3>say it, but I could say it in a lot

991
00:43:57.199 --> 00:43:59.280
<v Speaker 3>more direct way, which I do off the air, and

992
00:43:59.320 --> 00:44:03.000
<v Speaker 3>that is that when they decide that, they decide that

993
00:44:03.039 --> 00:44:08.079
<v Speaker 3>the pretty attractive women are worth investing in, and they

994
00:44:08.119 --> 00:44:12.320
<v Speaker 3>play sports that men think are feminine, that are okay,

995
00:44:12.719 --> 00:44:15.880
<v Speaker 3>and in fact, male volleyball players are still fighting for

996
00:44:16.079 --> 00:44:20.400
<v Speaker 3>respect because it's so much a women's game in the US.

997
00:44:20.480 --> 00:44:22.679
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and a corner covid never won a tournament, but

998
00:44:22.920 --> 00:44:24.199
<v Speaker 2>you know she was dating.

999
00:44:24.280 --> 00:44:26.719
<v Speaker 1>I think she married a singer pop singer. I can't remember.

1000
00:44:26.840 --> 00:44:29.239
<v Speaker 1>I'll eat the Iglesias guy or whatever who.

1001
00:44:29.280 --> 00:44:32.800
<v Speaker 2>By the way, I had the displeasure of seeing him

1002
00:44:32.840 --> 00:44:35.840
<v Speaker 2>perform live at like an NBA event. Good looking dude

1003
00:44:35.880 --> 00:44:39.440
<v Speaker 2>could not sing a lick that's a side, but had.

1004
00:44:39.280 --> 00:44:40.719
<v Speaker 1>A corner cove is a perfect example.

1005
00:44:40.760 --> 00:44:44.039
<v Speaker 2>Tennis skirt attractive never won a tournament, but was like

1006
00:44:44.079 --> 00:44:45.920
<v Speaker 2>the biggest star in her sport because of the way she.

1007
00:44:45.880 --> 00:44:49.239
<v Speaker 3>Looked, biggest start because the media would pay attention to her. Sure,

1008
00:44:49.280 --> 00:44:50.679
<v Speaker 3>this is the and this is the thing. And then

1009
00:44:50.920 --> 00:44:53.400
<v Speaker 3>but if you get media attention, then you can get sponsors.

1010
00:44:53.639 --> 00:44:55.079
<v Speaker 3>And this is what I always say, Like when we

1011
00:44:55.440 --> 00:44:59.559
<v Speaker 3>brought the Royals back, amazing investment from the community, you know,

1012
00:44:59.559 --> 00:45:02.920
<v Speaker 3>the ORGANI but I kept saying, like, there's this gap.

1013
00:45:03.239 --> 00:45:04.840
<v Speaker 4>How are you going to get the media to pay attention?

1014
00:45:05.440 --> 00:45:07.320
<v Speaker 3>Because if you can't get the media to pay attention,

1015
00:45:07.639 --> 00:45:11.400
<v Speaker 3>your sources of money will dry up. Because nobody wants

1016
00:45:11.519 --> 00:45:13.920
<v Speaker 3>to pay for something that just operates in the dark, right.

1017
00:45:14.039 --> 00:45:15.800
<v Speaker 3>They want attention. They want to be part of a

1018
00:45:15.800 --> 00:45:18.679
<v Speaker 3>winning thing, and especially when you're not winning. How are

1019
00:45:18.679 --> 00:45:21.480
<v Speaker 3>you getting these women sponsorship deals? How are you getting

1020
00:45:21.760 --> 00:45:24.440
<v Speaker 3>sponsors for your program so that you can buy the

1021
00:45:24.440 --> 00:45:27.119
<v Speaker 3>players you need so you can get the investment that

1022
00:45:27.159 --> 00:45:29.199
<v Speaker 3>you need in those women. And that's the missing link

1023
00:45:29.440 --> 00:45:30.719
<v Speaker 3>that nobody really can answer.

1024
00:45:30.880 --> 00:45:34.360
<v Speaker 2>So the last WNBA CBA was five years ago. Okay,

1025
00:45:34.440 --> 00:45:37.679
<v Speaker 2>So here are some figures to just give you some

1026
00:45:37.719 --> 00:45:40.559
<v Speaker 2>context as to why the shirts were worn and why

1027
00:45:40.559 --> 00:45:42.880
<v Speaker 2>the players are asking for more because the easiest thing

1028
00:45:43.320 --> 00:45:46.000
<v Speaker 2>for people to do is to use the narrative and look,

1029
00:45:46.119 --> 00:45:48.960
<v Speaker 2>the early years of the WNBA were bankrolled by the NBA.

1030
00:45:49.360 --> 00:45:51.719
<v Speaker 2>Nobody's running from that, but that was in the late nineties.

1031
00:45:51.760 --> 00:45:52.679
<v Speaker 2>That was twenty eight years ago.

1032
00:45:52.760 --> 00:45:56.039
<v Speaker 3>It's also their decision right to invest in women's sports.

1033
00:45:56.039 --> 00:45:56.960
<v Speaker 1>So here are the figures.

1034
00:45:56.960 --> 00:45:59.920
<v Speaker 2>So last year, an eleven year, two point two billion

1035
00:46:00.159 --> 00:46:04.079
<v Speaker 2>dollar TV deal with Disney, Amazon Prime, and NBC Universal,

1036
00:46:04.679 --> 00:46:07.559
<v Speaker 2>the league reported a jump of forty eight percent in attendance,

1037
00:46:07.639 --> 00:46:10.639
<v Speaker 2>one hundred and seventy percent increase in viewership, and a

1038
00:46:10.719 --> 00:46:13.920
<v Speaker 2>six hundred and one percent rise in merchandise sales and

1039
00:46:14.039 --> 00:46:17.559
<v Speaker 2>expansion fees and valuations now roughly average around two hundred

1040
00:46:17.599 --> 00:46:22.360
<v Speaker 2>and fifty million dollars. Okay, So again, these figures indicate

1041
00:46:22.559 --> 00:46:24.239
<v Speaker 2>that the money is there in a way that it

1042
00:46:24.239 --> 00:46:26.639
<v Speaker 2>has been prior to. And if you're a player and

1043
00:46:26.719 --> 00:46:29.199
<v Speaker 2>you look at the NHL where they get forty eight percent,

1044
00:46:29.280 --> 00:46:31.360
<v Speaker 2>you look at the NBA where they get fifty one percent,

1045
00:46:31.719 --> 00:46:34.199
<v Speaker 2>You look at Major League Baseball where it's fifty NFL

1046
00:46:34.360 --> 00:46:37.079
<v Speaker 2>the same, and you are realizing that you are entitled

1047
00:46:37.119 --> 00:46:40.039
<v Speaker 2>to nine point three percent of the revenue generated by

1048
00:46:40.039 --> 00:46:42.239
<v Speaker 2>your league. Put yourself in their shoes, you would be

1049
00:46:42.280 --> 00:46:42.960
<v Speaker 2>pissed off too.

1050
00:46:43.920 --> 00:46:46.159
<v Speaker 3>And I think, I mean I covered them when they

1051
00:46:46.199 --> 00:46:49.280
<v Speaker 3>had to have part time jobs or full time jobs overseas,

1052
00:46:50.239 --> 00:46:51.920
<v Speaker 3>but no, they did both. Yeah, I mean some of

1053
00:46:51.960 --> 00:46:54.480
<v Speaker 3>them had full time jobs and one was a paramedic.

1054
00:46:54.519 --> 00:46:57.880
<v Speaker 3>I remember this, And I mean Kate Starboard was a scientist.

1055
00:46:58.320 --> 00:47:01.039
<v Speaker 3>You know, she's still like Alder in COVID.

1056
00:47:01.039 --> 00:47:02.039
<v Speaker 4>She's like a maid.

1057
00:47:02.199 --> 00:47:05.280
<v Speaker 3>She's a professor and a scientist, and she was one

1058
00:47:05.280 --> 00:47:07.079
<v Speaker 3>of the best wings in the w NBA at the time.

1059
00:47:07.159 --> 00:47:07.639
<v Speaker 4>Right, Like, so.

1060
00:47:08.119 --> 00:47:13.079
<v Speaker 3>I I I have trouble with just the ignorance of oh,

1061
00:47:13.320 --> 00:47:17.800
<v Speaker 3>they're women, so they have all the required it is.

1062
00:47:17.840 --> 00:47:21.159
<v Speaker 3>It's that you don't really belong here. And really, let

1063
00:47:21.159 --> 00:47:23.159
<v Speaker 3>me just say, all those people who talk like that,

1064
00:47:23.199 --> 00:47:25.559
<v Speaker 3>they're just telling on themselves at this point. So I'm

1065
00:47:25.559 --> 00:47:27.639
<v Speaker 3>fine letting them talk because now I know who I'm

1066
00:47:27.639 --> 00:47:28.199
<v Speaker 3>not listening to.

1067
00:47:28.480 --> 00:47:31.239
<v Speaker 2>Let me ask you about. And this is an interesting

1068
00:47:31.599 --> 00:47:37.159
<v Speaker 2>dynamic here because a lot of young rookies in the NBA.

1069
00:47:38.119 --> 00:47:39.960
<v Speaker 2>There was a book called the Jordan Rules. You know

1070
00:47:40.039 --> 00:47:42.039
<v Speaker 2>Michael Jordan, when he was a young player in the NBA.

1071
00:47:42.880 --> 00:47:45.440
<v Speaker 2>The Detroit Pistons had a rule, no layups, no donks.

1072
00:47:45.480 --> 00:47:46.599
<v Speaker 1>You go in the lane and we're going to take

1073
00:47:46.599 --> 00:47:47.079
<v Speaker 1>your head off.

1074
00:47:47.400 --> 00:47:50.199
<v Speaker 2>Okay, So this isn't something that has only ever happened

1075
00:47:50.199 --> 00:47:53.960
<v Speaker 2>to Caitlin Clark, but there does seem to be some

1076
00:47:54.000 --> 00:47:55.800
<v Speaker 2>treatment of her from her peers.

1077
00:47:56.320 --> 00:47:59.599
<v Speaker 1>Oh it's a little bit no confusing to me. Why no,

1078
00:48:00.239 --> 00:48:01.000
<v Speaker 1>what do you think that is?

1079
00:48:01.199 --> 00:48:04.360
<v Speaker 3>So again I'll say this is there, that's not an

1080
00:48:04.440 --> 00:48:05.559
<v Speaker 3>figment of your imagination.

1081
00:48:05.679 --> 00:48:06.960
<v Speaker 4>That's true. And here's the thing.

1082
00:48:07.360 --> 00:48:11.119
<v Speaker 3>When you when you're a woman in business, they convince

1083
00:48:11.199 --> 00:48:14.039
<v Speaker 3>you that your biggest competition is other women because there's

1084
00:48:14.079 --> 00:48:15.960
<v Speaker 3>only room for one of you at the big table.

1085
00:48:16.320 --> 00:48:17.599
<v Speaker 3>So if you want to get in the big table,

1086
00:48:17.639 --> 00:48:19.639
<v Speaker 3>the room where it happens, then you've got to beat

1087
00:48:19.679 --> 00:48:20.480
<v Speaker 3>out all these other women.

1088
00:48:20.480 --> 00:48:22.360
<v Speaker 4>They don't tell you the men are your competition, just

1089
00:48:22.400 --> 00:48:23.599
<v Speaker 4>the other women. Right.

1090
00:48:23.880 --> 00:48:27.000
<v Speaker 3>So women are not the worst women. The worst people

1091
00:48:27.000 --> 00:48:28.800
<v Speaker 3>to me in my career have been other women in

1092
00:48:28.800 --> 00:48:31.880
<v Speaker 3>a lot of cases. Right, My mentors are mostly men,

1093
00:48:32.119 --> 00:48:35.440
<v Speaker 3>and that is not an accident. It's because women are

1094
00:48:35.480 --> 00:48:38.440
<v Speaker 3>pitted against each other through in business. Now that has

1095
00:48:38.519 --> 00:48:41.039
<v Speaker 3>been shifting, right, But so imagine you grow up in

1096
00:48:41.039 --> 00:48:44.119
<v Speaker 3>that situation and you're all competing for it. There's only

1097
00:48:44.159 --> 00:48:48.280
<v Speaker 3>this tiny tiny bit of spotlight, you know, this little

1098
00:48:48.320 --> 00:48:49.599
<v Speaker 3>tiny pinhole of spotlight.

1099
00:48:49.960 --> 00:48:51.880
<v Speaker 4>And if Caitlin Clark takes it all, there isn't.

1100
00:48:51.719 --> 00:48:54.880
<v Speaker 3>Any for Aja Wilson or Asia Wilson, there isn't any

1101
00:48:55.119 --> 00:48:58.360
<v Speaker 3>for you know, anybody. Page Bukers like you can't have

1102
00:48:58.400 --> 00:49:01.440
<v Speaker 3>two stars like we love in the NBA that there's

1103
00:49:01.480 --> 00:49:03.360
<v Speaker 3>a bunch of good rivalries.

1104
00:49:02.800 --> 00:49:07.320
<v Speaker 4>That we love. We love. That's what made the NBA great.

1105
00:49:07.400 --> 00:49:09.039
<v Speaker 3>It was what made it solve, and it was what

1106
00:49:09.079 --> 00:49:12.599
<v Speaker 3>made it a billion dollar business. That's what works is

1107
00:49:12.880 --> 00:49:15.239
<v Speaker 3>these rivalries is the good guy and the bad guy,

1108
00:49:15.320 --> 00:49:16.599
<v Speaker 3>is the villain and the and the hero.

1109
00:49:16.800 --> 00:49:18.000
<v Speaker 4>All those things really work.

1110
00:49:18.079 --> 00:49:21.480
<v Speaker 3>We love them, right, but we as women are taught,

1111
00:49:21.480 --> 00:49:23.119
<v Speaker 3>first of all, no one wants to be the villain.

1112
00:49:23.159 --> 00:49:23.719
<v Speaker 4>You're the villain.

1113
00:49:23.760 --> 00:49:25.760
<v Speaker 3>You're never getting a shoot al you know what I mean.

1114
00:49:25.960 --> 00:49:28.360
<v Speaker 3>So you we can't do what men do. You can

1115
00:49:28.400 --> 00:49:32.159
<v Speaker 3>be Dennis Rodman and make a zillion dollars because you're

1116
00:49:32.159 --> 00:49:32.679
<v Speaker 3>the bad guy.

1117
00:49:32.960 --> 00:49:35.760
<v Speaker 4>Every I mean, think of hockey. Hockey wouldn't be.

1118
00:49:35.920 --> 00:49:38.480
<v Speaker 3>Hockey without a lot of people stepping up to say

1119
00:49:38.519 --> 00:49:39.360
<v Speaker 3>I want to be the villain.

1120
00:49:39.400 --> 00:49:41.320
<v Speaker 4>I want to be the enforcer. I want that role.

1121
00:49:41.800 --> 00:49:44.719
<v Speaker 3>So women don't get to do that, right, And that's

1122
00:49:44.760 --> 00:49:47.880
<v Speaker 3>what I love the Sophie Cunningham storyline because she's hot,

1123
00:49:48.159 --> 00:49:50.519
<v Speaker 3>so they're gonna let her be a villain. And I

1124
00:49:50.559 --> 00:49:54.400
<v Speaker 3>mean I love the commentary out of that. And and

1125
00:49:54.679 --> 00:49:59.320
<v Speaker 3>also like thoughts, here comes the verbal vomit, right, Oh,

1126
00:49:59.360 --> 00:50:01.159
<v Speaker 3>they hate her because she's beautiful. No, they don't. They

1127
00:50:01.199 --> 00:50:03.519
<v Speaker 3>hate her because she's being a villain. But she's being

1128
00:50:03.800 --> 00:50:06.159
<v Speaker 3>she's able to be a villain because she's hot. You know,

1129
00:50:06.320 --> 00:50:08.800
<v Speaker 3>if she was not hot, if she looked like some

1130
00:50:08.840 --> 00:50:11.440
<v Speaker 3>of the other women in WNBA, that would not be allowed.

1131
00:50:11.679 --> 00:50:11.920
<v Speaker 4>No one.

1132
00:50:12.039 --> 00:50:14.920
<v Speaker 3>They would be like, get that, put that animal in chains.

1133
00:50:14.960 --> 00:50:18.000
<v Speaker 3>I've heard this said about women basketball players, right, And

1134
00:50:18.079 --> 00:50:21.360
<v Speaker 3>so my problem is when you look at this, you

1135
00:50:21.400 --> 00:50:23.360
<v Speaker 3>can't look at it in isolation. It is part of

1136
00:50:23.400 --> 00:50:26.840
<v Speaker 3>society and we are told there's only so much for us,

1137
00:50:27.119 --> 00:50:29.280
<v Speaker 3>for women, it's a finite amount of resource.

1138
00:50:29.440 --> 00:50:31.440
<v Speaker 4>And what a lot of young women are learning is

1139
00:50:31.719 --> 00:50:32.480
<v Speaker 4>that's a lie.

1140
00:50:32.920 --> 00:50:35.079
<v Speaker 3>There's as much as we want to make there is

1141
00:50:35.119 --> 00:50:38.159
<v Speaker 3>no It's like love, there's no finite amount of it.

1142
00:50:38.280 --> 00:50:40.400
<v Speaker 3>We can we can create a different table, We can

1143
00:50:40.440 --> 00:50:42.440
<v Speaker 3>create a different universe, and a lot of the women

1144
00:50:42.480 --> 00:50:45.079
<v Speaker 3>are embracing it. Some of the women, especially the older women,

1145
00:50:45.320 --> 00:50:47.679
<v Speaker 3>are still in doctrine of the way I was, which is, hey,

1146
00:50:47.719 --> 00:50:51.440
<v Speaker 3>your competition is other women. I rejected that, right, but

1147
00:50:51.519 --> 00:50:53.280
<v Speaker 3>like a lot of women haven't. A lot of women

1148
00:50:53.280 --> 00:50:55.360
<v Speaker 3>in my age are still in that mindset. And they're

1149
00:50:55.360 --> 00:50:57.639
<v Speaker 3>in that mindset because if you want to get rewarded,

1150
00:50:58.159 --> 00:51:00.920
<v Speaker 3>you have to play in a men's world. I don't

1151
00:51:00.920 --> 00:51:02.920
<v Speaker 3>care about getting rewarded at this point. So you know,

1152
00:51:03.000 --> 00:51:05.320
<v Speaker 3>my reward is I get to do a job I love, sure,

1153
00:51:05.440 --> 00:51:07.360
<v Speaker 3>and I worked for a woman and I work with women.

1154
00:51:07.719 --> 00:51:08.519
<v Speaker 4>So there you go.

1155
00:51:08.840 --> 00:51:11.039
<v Speaker 2>All right, well said before I said you loose, give

1156
00:51:11.079 --> 00:51:13.960
<v Speaker 2>me a quick thought because you referenced the Royals and

1157
00:51:14.280 --> 00:51:18.119
<v Speaker 2>they trade alley for six hundred k spread out over

1158
00:51:18.199 --> 00:51:21.639
<v Speaker 2>three years, and you know, the coach comes out. I

1159
00:51:21.719 --> 00:51:24.519
<v Speaker 2>was like, yeah, she wanted to be traded. I mean,

1160
00:51:24.519 --> 00:51:26.440
<v Speaker 2>I can't speak to that. I don't know if that's

1161
00:51:26.519 --> 00:51:30.159
<v Speaker 2>the truth, but it's not even not a very good team.

1162
00:51:30.440 --> 00:51:33.280
<v Speaker 2>And she was she might be the starting striker for

1163
00:51:33.320 --> 00:51:35.119
<v Speaker 2>our women's national team during the next.

1164
00:51:34.960 --> 00:51:35.800
<v Speaker 1>World Cup cycle.

1165
00:51:36.119 --> 00:51:38.280
<v Speaker 2>Oh I'm sure and the last time they were here,

1166
00:51:38.440 --> 00:51:41.559
<v Speaker 2>they were second in NWSL and attendance. Portland was the

1167
00:51:41.559 --> 00:51:44.320
<v Speaker 2>only other city they was out drawing Salt Lake. I

1168
00:51:44.360 --> 00:51:46.480
<v Speaker 2>haven't seen the up to date numbers, but I've seen

1169
00:51:46.519 --> 00:51:48.840
<v Speaker 2>the crowds. They're not the same that they were. And

1170
00:51:48.840 --> 00:51:52.119
<v Speaker 2>now the Royals last time around had Becky and Kristin

1171
00:51:52.159 --> 00:51:55.400
<v Speaker 2>Press and several World Cup stars. But man, you get

1172
00:51:55.480 --> 00:51:57.920
<v Speaker 2>rid of Ali, and she seemed to be the main

1173
00:51:57.960 --> 00:51:59.119
<v Speaker 2>reason people are shown up.

1174
00:51:59.400 --> 00:52:04.079
<v Speaker 3>Well, I think I don't know. I don't know about

1175
00:52:04.119 --> 00:52:06.119
<v Speaker 3>why people are. I know, I'm a season ticket holder

1176
00:52:06.599 --> 00:52:08.199
<v Speaker 3>and I know why I do or don't show up,

1177
00:52:08.239 --> 00:52:10.760
<v Speaker 3>and it's not because of Ali. But I think the

1178
00:52:10.840 --> 00:52:14.519
<v Speaker 3>hard thing about the Ali trade is that they center

1179
00:52:14.639 --> 00:52:17.159
<v Speaker 3>to Kansas City, the best team in Louisa, who didn't

1180
00:52:17.159 --> 00:52:19.800
<v Speaker 3>need any help. And it just doesn't make any sense.

1181
00:52:20.239 --> 00:52:23.480
<v Speaker 3>Why you Yeah, you treed Donovan Mitchell, but you don't

1182
00:52:23.480 --> 00:52:27.480
<v Speaker 3>send him to your your in conference rival, like you

1183
00:52:27.519 --> 00:52:30.199
<v Speaker 3>don't you know what I mean, Like there's some okay,

1184
00:52:30.320 --> 00:52:33.480
<v Speaker 3>you don't want to stay here or whatever. The reality is, right,

1185
00:52:33.519 --> 00:52:36.360
<v Speaker 3>whatever this story behind the scenes is, we have to this,

1186
00:52:36.599 --> 00:52:41.079
<v Speaker 3>we have to part ways. But the choice seemed like

1187
00:52:41.800 --> 00:52:46.400
<v Speaker 3>shooting yourself on the foot right, And it seemed like

1188
00:52:46.400 --> 00:52:50.920
<v Speaker 3>like no, there was no no self preservation mode. I

1189
00:52:51.000 --> 00:52:52.760
<v Speaker 3>guess you know what I mean, like, Okay, well this

1190
00:52:52.800 --> 00:52:55.159
<v Speaker 3>has to happen, but we're gonna do what we can

1191
00:52:55.239 --> 00:52:56.119
<v Speaker 3>to get X, Y or Z.

1192
00:52:56.320 --> 00:52:56.519
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

1193
00:52:56.960 --> 00:52:58.239
<v Speaker 4>It was like, let's just be nice for her. She

1194
00:52:58.280 --> 00:52:58.639
<v Speaker 4>wants to go.

1195
00:52:58.639 --> 00:53:02.639
<v Speaker 3>Their friends are there so cool, and it just seemed

1196
00:53:02.639 --> 00:53:04.840
<v Speaker 3>like to me, it's reminded me of like like a

1197
00:53:04.880 --> 00:53:07.280
<v Speaker 3>college thing or a little league thing, like it's not

1198
00:53:07.320 --> 00:53:08.800
<v Speaker 3>that big a deal. We're just friends, right, We're just

1199
00:53:08.880 --> 00:53:10.440
<v Speaker 3>having fun, And I'm like, this is business.

1200
00:53:10.519 --> 00:53:11.119
<v Speaker 1>Yeah right.

1201
00:53:11.480 --> 00:53:14.920
<v Speaker 3>So I think that was the thing that was baffling.

1202
00:53:16.480 --> 00:53:18.679
<v Speaker 3>I believe that she didn't want to stay here. I

1203
00:53:18.679 --> 00:53:20.760
<v Speaker 3>believe the coach when he was talking, and I think

1204
00:53:20.760 --> 00:53:24.320
<v Speaker 3>he's an amazing coach. And I know Dunny went off

1205
00:53:25.000 --> 00:53:27.559
<v Speaker 3>on David's show and said, you have to wonder, you know,

1206
00:53:27.599 --> 00:53:29.760
<v Speaker 3>what's happening or whatever, like what kind of culture they building?

1207
00:53:29.760 --> 00:53:30.039
<v Speaker 1>Whatever?

1208
00:53:30.239 --> 00:53:33.039
<v Speaker 3>Those are good questions to ask, right, But like I

1209
00:53:33.079 --> 00:53:36.440
<v Speaker 3>think you can talk to the women and they love

1210
00:53:36.519 --> 00:53:39.039
<v Speaker 3>what's being built there, and they love the way it's happening, right,

1211
00:53:39.360 --> 00:53:41.559
<v Speaker 3>And I mean we did a little off the record thing.

1212
00:53:41.559 --> 00:53:44.400
<v Speaker 3>And I don't know that I've met a male coach

1213
00:53:44.440 --> 00:53:46.039
<v Speaker 3>that I would rather play for.

1214
00:53:47.480 --> 00:53:48.119
<v Speaker 1>I don't know him at all.

1215
00:53:48.199 --> 00:53:51.199
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and I won't talk about what was because it

1216
00:53:51.199 --> 00:53:54.880
<v Speaker 3>wasn't off the record thing. But I asked very pointed questions,

1217
00:53:54.880 --> 00:53:58.320
<v Speaker 3>including like do you know when your players are on

1218
00:53:58.360 --> 00:54:02.559
<v Speaker 3>their periods? So so yeah, I want like these are okay,

1219
00:54:02.599 --> 00:54:06.719
<v Speaker 3>I'll ask them because these affect a woman's health in

1220
00:54:06.760 --> 00:54:09.760
<v Speaker 3>a way that I mean, I'll never forget covering World

1221
00:54:09.800 --> 00:54:12.719
<v Speaker 3>Cup speed skating. Uh. You know, this is the highest

1222
00:54:12.760 --> 00:54:16.639
<v Speaker 3>level speed skating outside of the Olympics. And the woman

1223
00:54:16.760 --> 00:54:19.239
<v Speaker 3>who was the best speed skater in the world at

1224
00:54:19.280 --> 00:54:22.920
<v Speaker 3>one thousand meter what finishes a race goes over and

1225
00:54:22.960 --> 00:54:25.000
<v Speaker 3>throws up in a garbage can. So I'm thinking you

1226
00:54:25.079 --> 00:54:27.519
<v Speaker 3>mustut it flew right, I mean, you don't see that otherwise.

1227
00:54:27.960 --> 00:54:30.119
<v Speaker 3>So we wait for our time in the mix oone

1228
00:54:30.119 --> 00:54:32.199
<v Speaker 3>and I say, you know what's going on. I started

1229
00:54:32.199 --> 00:54:35.280
<v Speaker 3>my period this morning. I eat food. I shouldn't have

1230
00:54:35.320 --> 00:54:37.920
<v Speaker 3>eaten food. It always makes me sick and starts talking

1231
00:54:37.960 --> 00:54:40.679
<v Speaker 3>about it because any woman who's had a period knows

1232
00:54:40.760 --> 00:54:43.599
<v Speaker 3>it affects your health, It affects your ability to do

1233
00:54:44.079 --> 00:54:45.960
<v Speaker 3>all the things you do all the other days, right,

1234
00:54:46.320 --> 00:54:49.039
<v Speaker 3>And it was the first time though a professional athlete

1235
00:54:49.679 --> 00:54:52.199
<v Speaker 3>had brought it into the mix zone, and the men

1236
00:54:52.960 --> 00:54:55.400
<v Speaker 3>were visibly like, I don't.

1237
00:54:55.239 --> 00:54:58.599
<v Speaker 4>Want to talk about it, like whoa, whoa, whoa? Why?

1238
00:54:58.920 --> 00:55:01.559
<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't feel comfortables that question, why are we going yet?

1239
00:55:01.599 --> 00:55:03.960
<v Speaker 4>Well, I wouldn't ask. I didn't ask are you on

1240
00:55:04.000 --> 00:55:04.400
<v Speaker 4>your period?

1241
00:55:04.480 --> 00:55:04.559
<v Speaker 2>Right?

1242
00:55:04.559 --> 00:55:06.599
<v Speaker 4>I wouldn't ask them on that, but I would say, like,

1243
00:55:06.639 --> 00:55:07.280
<v Speaker 4>what's up with you?

1244
00:55:07.280 --> 00:55:08.880
<v Speaker 3>I would say that to a male athlete, you just

1245
00:55:08.960 --> 00:55:10.599
<v Speaker 3>vomited in a garbage can after your race.

1246
00:55:10.960 --> 00:55:12.880
<v Speaker 4>What's going on? I'm not feeling great?

1247
00:55:12.960 --> 00:55:15.400
<v Speaker 3>This is what happened, right, what I talk I've had

1248
00:55:15.400 --> 00:55:19.079
<v Speaker 3>a football players I three Taco Bell burritos and it

1249
00:55:19.159 --> 00:55:22.079
<v Speaker 3>was not a good choice. So you asked us questions

1250
00:55:22.079 --> 00:55:24.519
<v Speaker 3>because they give you contact for what's happening. But like

1251
00:55:24.599 --> 00:55:27.320
<v Speaker 3>what I'm saying is women have not women are higher.

1252
00:55:27.360 --> 00:55:30.760
<v Speaker 3>Instead of knee injury that loosened your joints, they're all

1253
00:55:30.840 --> 00:55:34.159
<v Speaker 3>kinds of problems, back injury, neck injury. There's no higher

1254
00:55:34.960 --> 00:55:38.159
<v Speaker 3>concussion proto. The highest rate of concussion in high school

1255
00:55:38.159 --> 00:55:41.519
<v Speaker 3>sports is girls soccer. So there are reasons to know

1256
00:55:41.599 --> 00:55:44.519
<v Speaker 3>those things, right, and so I want to talk about

1257
00:55:44.519 --> 00:55:48.960
<v Speaker 3>those things with coaches and trainers and owners, and they

1258
00:55:49.039 --> 00:55:51.440
<v Speaker 3>haven't been. It hasn't been allowed, So I thought the

1259
00:55:51.440 --> 00:55:53.519
<v Speaker 3>perfect place was this off the record thing. It did

1260
00:55:53.519 --> 00:55:55.119
<v Speaker 3>make some people uncomfortable, I think, but you know who

1261
00:55:55.159 --> 00:55:57.880
<v Speaker 3>didn't get squeamished about it the coach. The coach who

1262
00:55:57.920 --> 00:55:59.840
<v Speaker 3>was like, not only do I know it, I know

1263
00:56:00.039 --> 00:56:02.760
<v Speaker 3>who and what and how it impacts them.

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<v Speaker 4>And I changed things up for them based on that.

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<v Speaker 3>That's great, And that to me is like, that's where

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<v Speaker 3>we have to go with coaching in general. If we're

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<v Speaker 3>going to be that sensitive about a man's injury, or

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<v Speaker 3>you know, we try to be that sensitive now with

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<v Speaker 3>mental health, right, why wouldn't we also factor in if

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<v Speaker 3>you know women, you know their cycle is a hormones

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<v Speaker 3>or a major part of their lives, right, and so

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<v Speaker 3>why wouldn't you Why wouldn't that be a thing we

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<v Speaker 3>talk about with trainers and medical staff and coaches. Right,

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<v Speaker 3>But that's not happening. So I will say I don't

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<v Speaker 3>know all of what went into it. I was shocked

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<v Speaker 3>at that there wasn't an attempt to get more or

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<v Speaker 3>to make it so that it didn't hurt the Royals

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<v Speaker 3>in the short term, and that it didn't hurt so

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<v Speaker 3>much in like a morale. From a morale perspective, there

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<v Speaker 3>should have been I think a bigger statement about, hey,

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<v Speaker 3>this is a situation. Here's why it's going to feel

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<v Speaker 3>the way it's going to feel. But it was like, like,

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<v Speaker 3>don't ask, let's pretend that this doesn't matter, and it matters.

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<v Speaker 3>We already have it, as we've said, Uh, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>an inferiority complex. We don't need, we don't need to

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<v Speaker 3>fuel that fire. We need to address it right out

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<v Speaker 3>of the gate and say this is going to hurt,

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<v Speaker 3>but here's why it's not going to be. Here's why

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<v Speaker 3>you shouldn't worry. Here's why you should still come out

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<v Speaker 3>and support us. Here's what we're still doing, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>and that that didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Happen, Amy, that is our time. It's always great to.

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<v Speaker 4>See you talking about Chris is a Maidenson arcle.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I know, but we are like ten minutes.

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<v Speaker 4>I know, I know, and I'm super excited you have Sly.

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<v Speaker 4>I love Sly.

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<v Speaker 2>But we'll get you back soon. Okay, great to see it, Amy,

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<v Speaker 2>Donald's and our friend from KSL.

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<v Speaker 1>All right,
