WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.360 --> 00:00:03.720 Students who had a secret intimate relationship with a teacher. 2 00:00:04.240 --> 00:00:06.599 How did it start and how did it turn out? 3 00:00:07.240 --> 00:00:10.199 Story one. I was a senior in high school and 4 00:00:10.279 --> 00:00:13.519 my English class had a very beautiful Latin female college 5 00:00:13.560 --> 00:00:17.160 student teacher's assistant along with a very cool full time 6 00:00:17.199 --> 00:00:19.719 male teacher. I was a really quiet kid in my 7 00:00:19.800 --> 00:00:22.640 senior year, just wanting to graduate and get the heck 8 00:00:22.679 --> 00:00:25.079 out of school. I also liked to draw and write 9 00:00:25.120 --> 00:00:27.079 a lot, so I was always turning in work that 10 00:00:27.160 --> 00:00:29.600 interested her. She would ask me how I came up 11 00:00:29.600 --> 00:00:33.079 with ideas and discuss indie graphic novels with me. Usually 12 00:00:33.159 --> 00:00:35.640 just small talk and one of the only people who 13 00:00:35.679 --> 00:00:38.600 was really outgoing towards me. She asked a few weeks 14 00:00:38.600 --> 00:00:41.200 before Halloween if I could stay after one day to 15 00:00:41.240 --> 00:00:43.399 discuss a subject with me, and as it was the 16 00:00:43.479 --> 00:00:45.840 last class of the day, I was okay with it. 17 00:00:46.359 --> 00:00:49.079 So we are sitting together discussing some of the material 18 00:00:49.159 --> 00:00:51.520 I wrote, along with some books they made her think 19 00:00:51.520 --> 00:00:54.119 of that she wanted me to borrow to read. Everyone 20 00:00:54.159 --> 00:00:56.600 has slowly been leaving the class, along with the full 21 00:00:56.640 --> 00:01:00.119 time teacher. Eventually it is just me and her, and 22 00:01:00.159 --> 00:01:02.920 I don't notice this until she gets noticeably closer to 23 00:01:02.960 --> 00:01:06.319 me while talking. Basically, her chesticles were in my arm, 24 00:01:06.560 --> 00:01:09.159 which I noticed was bigger than her clothes made it appear. 25 00:01:09.519 --> 00:01:12.879 Then she starts asking me personal questions and saying personal 26 00:01:12.920 --> 00:01:15.959 experiences help with writing, which is mixed with her making 27 00:01:16.000 --> 00:01:18.319 herself look cute and giving me a look that I 28 00:01:18.439 --> 00:01:21.239 understand now is one of wanting. She asks if I've 29 00:01:21.280 --> 00:01:23.599 had a girlfriend, and I tell her about why I'm 30 00:01:23.599 --> 00:01:26.560 so quiet at school, having a bad relationship and not 31 00:01:26.680 --> 00:01:29.959 really being comfortable at school where everyone knows my business, 32 00:01:30.000 --> 00:01:33.200 and that is definitely why I'm single. At that point, 33 00:01:33.439 --> 00:01:36.280 she starts holding my hand and telling me that as 34 00:01:36.319 --> 00:01:39.239 a whole, life can be hard, but it isn't all bad, 35 00:01:39.560 --> 00:01:42.400 and if it's any consolation, I did not deserve to 36 00:01:42.400 --> 00:01:45.200 get treated that way. Then she kissed me and we 37 00:01:45.319 --> 00:01:48.599 kept kissing until we heard a janitor coming and asked 38 00:01:48.640 --> 00:01:51.319 me to come to her place. We got to her place, 39 00:01:51.719 --> 00:01:54.480 where we immediately started making out in her bed and 40 00:01:54.640 --> 00:01:58.159 ended up banging for hours. It was amazing because of her, 41 00:01:58.439 --> 00:02:01.439 I've always been more attractive to women with curves that 42 00:02:01.480 --> 00:02:04.799 were also fit and obviously work out. We ended up 43 00:02:04.879 --> 00:02:07.200 shagging and smushing a lot for the rest of the 44 00:02:07.280 --> 00:02:10.319 year and through my first year at community college where 45 00:02:10.360 --> 00:02:13.520 I was finishing my gen ED credits before transferring to 46 00:02:13.599 --> 00:02:17.560 a better university. Not a relationship, just really good friends 47 00:02:17.560 --> 00:02:20.800 with benefits. She ended up moving to a different state 48 00:02:21.039 --> 00:02:23.719 for a really good teaching position at a college with 49 00:02:23.759 --> 00:02:27.479 an amazing writing program. We're both separately married now and 50 00:02:27.599 --> 00:02:30.400 want to meet as friends, but are hesitant because we 51 00:02:30.439 --> 00:02:33.680 do not trust ourselves alone with each other. She's still 52 00:02:33.800 --> 00:02:37.360 very beautiful. Before we continue, do us a quick favor. 53 00:02:37.639 --> 00:02:40.719 Smash that like button and subscribe to support our channel. 54 00:02:41.199 --> 00:02:44.400 Story two. I was eighteen and still in high school 55 00:02:44.439 --> 00:02:46.639 when my parents left me home alone for the first 56 00:02:46.639 --> 00:02:49.879 time while they went on vacation. One evening out for 57 00:02:49.960 --> 00:02:52.479 a couple of drinks, I was scrolling through my phones 58 00:02:52.520 --> 00:02:55.599 contacts looking for someone to have fun with, and to 59 00:02:55.639 --> 00:02:58.840 my surprise, I still have my French teachers number saved. 60 00:02:59.439 --> 00:03:01.319 I gave her a call to see if she wanted 61 00:03:01.319 --> 00:03:03.879 to grab a drink. Being the only guy in my 62 00:03:04.080 --> 00:03:06.680 class seemed to make her fancy me a little. She 63 00:03:06.759 --> 00:03:09.120 said yes, so we met up and had a couple 64 00:03:09.120 --> 00:03:13.000 of beers. Afterwards, she mentioned she was hungry. I told 65 00:03:13.039 --> 00:03:15.159 her we could grab a pizza and chill at my 66 00:03:15.240 --> 00:03:18.319 place since I was home alone. She didn't hesitate to 67 00:03:18.360 --> 00:03:21.719 say yes. Back at my place, we ate and drank 68 00:03:21.759 --> 00:03:24.680 some more. Eventually, she said it was too late to 69 00:03:24.719 --> 00:03:27.159 go home and asked if I had any pajamas for her. 70 00:03:27.560 --> 00:03:30.159 She never got around to putting them on. After undressing, 71 00:03:30.280 --> 00:03:33.199 she kissed me. One thing led to another, and it 72 00:03:33.280 --> 00:03:36.680 kept leading to other things all summer long. When school 73 00:03:36.759 --> 00:03:39.400 started again, she told me I could be excused from 74 00:03:39.400 --> 00:03:42.479 her classes. I gave her a D. She gave me 75 00:03:42.560 --> 00:03:45.280 a BEE as a passing grade, and I never heard 76 00:03:45.280 --> 00:03:49.080 from her again. Story three. I had a huge crush 77 00:03:49.159 --> 00:03:52.360 on one of my college instructors. I was just coming 78 00:03:52.400 --> 00:03:55.159 out of a really bad relationship and decided the best 79 00:03:55.199 --> 00:03:57.439 way to get over that jerk was to get under 80 00:03:57.439 --> 00:04:01.360 this teacher. I pursued him pretty relentlessly for several weeks, 81 00:04:01.960 --> 00:04:05.080 asking him to join me and the other students for drinks, 82 00:04:05.199 --> 00:04:09.360 wearing super hot outfits to class, sitting in provocative ways, 83 00:04:09.840 --> 00:04:13.639 general flirting, et cetera, until we started banging. He was 84 00:04:13.680 --> 00:04:16.000 in a relationship at the time, which made it all 85 00:04:16.079 --> 00:04:19.319 the more complicated. We sort of dated for several months. 86 00:04:19.839 --> 00:04:22.199 He worked a kind of prestigious, at least to me, 87 00:04:22.399 --> 00:04:26.040 job at a major state government entity. At one point 88 00:04:26.079 --> 00:04:29.160 we banged in his office overlooking the city, which was 89 00:04:29.199 --> 00:04:32.759 admittedly pretty cool. I developed a lot of real feelings 90 00:04:32.800 --> 00:04:36.360 for him throughout our relationship, so him having another life 91 00:04:36.399 --> 00:04:38.839 with another woman began to take a toll on me. 92 00:04:39.240 --> 00:04:41.639 He knew it was more of a fling than anything else, 93 00:04:42.040 --> 00:04:44.399 and when he saw I wanted more, he tried to 94 00:04:44.439 --> 00:04:47.519 tell me gently that he didn't believe we were going anywhere. 95 00:04:47.839 --> 00:04:50.680 I was hurt, upset, and we stopped seeing each other. 96 00:04:51.199 --> 00:04:53.800 Thank God too, because I met my amazing, loving and 97 00:04:53.959 --> 00:04:58.120 perfect husband immediately after that relationship. If we hadn't ended 98 00:04:58.120 --> 00:05:00.040 our fling when we did, I would not have I 99 00:05:00.079 --> 00:05:02.519 met my husband, and my whole life would be different. 100 00:05:02.959 --> 00:05:05.480 I thank my lucky stars every day that he told 101 00:05:05.480 --> 00:05:07.920 me we weren't going to be anything more than intimate. 102 00:05:07.959 --> 00:05:10.920 When he did, he unknowingly set my whole life on 103 00:05:10.959 --> 00:05:14.079 the right path by setting me free precisely when he did. 104 00:05:14.759 --> 00:05:19.360 Story four, I received a really good evaluation. Since we 105 00:05:19.399 --> 00:05:22.439 didn't have traditional grades, it was more like a two 106 00:05:22.480 --> 00:05:25.639 page report that said I had the writing skills of 107 00:05:25.680 --> 00:05:28.480 a graduate student. I guess I'm a bit slow when 108 00:05:28.480 --> 00:05:32.000 it comes to understanding that kind of feedback. It started 109 00:05:32.120 --> 00:05:35.399 just like any relationship. Does. You notice a twinkle in 110 00:05:35.439 --> 00:05:38.480 their eye, they laugh at something you say that really 111 00:05:38.519 --> 00:05:41.199 isn't that funny, and you get a little excited. She 112 00:05:41.360 --> 00:05:45.639 was way older, but really attractive and German, so I 113 00:05:45.680 --> 00:05:48.839 asked if she liked beer. She did. We went to 114 00:05:48.879 --> 00:05:51.600 the bar down the road, not some dive, but a 115 00:05:51.639 --> 00:05:54.639 proper beer bar. We ended up having wayn Stephanner and 116 00:05:54.800 --> 00:05:59.480 Erbach loosened up and joked around. Then I straight up 117 00:05:59.519 --> 00:06:02.800 told her I wanted to draw her unclothed. She had 118 00:06:02.800 --> 00:06:05.399 seen me sketching in class all the time and just 119 00:06:05.439 --> 00:06:08.600 said sure. Before we even left the booth at the bar, 120 00:06:09.079 --> 00:06:11.639 I admitted I wasn't really trying to draw her. I 121 00:06:11.759 --> 00:06:14.160 just wanted to get her out of her clothes. I 122 00:06:14.160 --> 00:06:16.319 have no idea why she found that endearing, but she 123 00:06:16.399 --> 00:06:19.480 took me to her house and we banged hard. We 124 00:06:19.560 --> 00:06:22.439 agreed it would be a one time thing and promised 125 00:06:22.480 --> 00:06:25.160 to be responsible about it. So for the rest of 126 00:06:25.160 --> 00:06:28.040 the semester I was like a secret agent sleeping with 127 00:06:28.120 --> 00:06:31.560 an older woman. Honestly, it's probably for the best. It 128 00:06:31.639 --> 00:06:34.720 was just once. If I'd had the chance to keep going, 129 00:06:35.000 --> 00:06:36.959 I might have tried to move in and pay her 130 00:06:37.000 --> 00:06:39.920 rent with oral favors. It's tough out here for a 131 00:06:39.959 --> 00:06:44.279 millennial trying to get a home. Story five. I was eighteen, 132 00:06:44.480 --> 00:06:46.720 living out in the middle of nowhere in the mountains 133 00:06:46.720 --> 00:06:49.160 of California. I was always the first one on the 134 00:06:49.199 --> 00:06:51.639 bus and the last one off, which made for some 135 00:06:51.720 --> 00:06:55.600 really long school days. My evening drop off bus driver 136 00:06:55.839 --> 00:06:58.800 was a black woman in her mid thirties. She was 137 00:06:58.839 --> 00:07:01.920 really sweet, and since my stop was so far out, 138 00:07:02.000 --> 00:07:04.240 we had plenty of time to talk one on one. 139 00:07:04.439 --> 00:07:08.000 Eventually I got pretty flirtatious. I've always had a thing 140 00:07:08.079 --> 00:07:11.160 for black girls, and well, I was a teenager ready 141 00:07:11.160 --> 00:07:13.759 to boot. I was actually the one who started steering 142 00:07:13.759 --> 00:07:18.000 our conversations toward more inappropriate topics. Looking back now, I 143 00:07:18.000 --> 00:07:21.399 can tell she totally saw right through me and my intentions. 144 00:07:21.879 --> 00:07:24.800 About two months into the school year, I began asking 145 00:07:24.839 --> 00:07:27.319 her to teach me about the intimate stuff. I was 146 00:07:27.360 --> 00:07:30.319 a virgin and she was an experienced married mom with 147 00:07:30.399 --> 00:07:33.240 two kids. I knew it was wrong, but she didn't 148 00:07:33.240 --> 00:07:36.360 seem very happy in her marriage. Since my bus stop 149 00:07:36.439 --> 00:07:38.879 was far from my house, I still had to walk 150 00:07:38.920 --> 00:07:41.759 down a long dirt road to get home, so she 151 00:07:41.879 --> 00:07:44.959 started parking at my stop, and eventually she took me 152 00:07:45.079 --> 00:07:48.800 up on my requests. Throughout that entire school year, we 153 00:07:48.800 --> 00:07:51.959 were banging or did other things in the bus about 154 00:07:52.000 --> 00:07:54.759 three to five times a week. I might have been 155 00:07:54.800 --> 00:07:58.439 young and the situation was definitely screwed, but I don't 156 00:07:58.439 --> 00:08:02.439 regret it at all. Having a mature woman's perspective helped 157 00:08:02.439 --> 00:08:05.399 me learn so much. My mom didn't really care that 158 00:08:05.439 --> 00:08:08.120 I was coming home thirty to forty minutes late. She 159 00:08:08.279 --> 00:08:11.120 was kind of a crappy parent and was badly addicted 160 00:08:11.160 --> 00:08:14.680 to online poker games. Honestly, I'm not sure how she 161 00:08:14.759 --> 00:08:18.480 got away with it. She never got caught or anything. Anyway, 162 00:08:18.879 --> 00:08:21.560 After that school year ended, she was put on a 163 00:08:21.560 --> 00:08:24.800 different route. We stayed in touch, and I started going 164 00:08:24.800 --> 00:08:28.319 into town to visit her. Our relationship lasted until the 165 00:08:28.439 --> 00:08:31.399 end of high school. It's kind of funny I never 166 00:08:31.519 --> 00:08:34.399 dated anyone in high school because of all the side action. 167 00:08:34.919 --> 00:08:38.039 After high school, I ended up moving away from that town. 168 00:08:38.480 --> 00:08:41.080 It was probably for the best, since we were never 169 00:08:41.159 --> 00:08:45.000 caught by her husband just luck. I guess, funny enough, 170 00:08:45.399 --> 00:08:49.399 she's still with that guy, mostly for the money. Story six. 171 00:08:50.080 --> 00:08:52.840 I had a crush on my freshman psychology teacher, and 172 00:08:52.919 --> 00:08:57.000 he noticed. We started chatting via email, then phone calls, 173 00:08:57.200 --> 00:08:59.720 and before long he invited me to his house in 174 00:08:59.720 --> 00:09:03.120 the e evenings to watch movies. We started sleeping together 175 00:09:03.200 --> 00:09:07.240 before the semester was out. Then it started happening, him 176 00:09:07.279 --> 00:09:10.799 avoiding me at unpredictable times, dumping me, then asking me 177 00:09:10.879 --> 00:09:14.480 to come back, acting sneaky, getting caught lying about his 178 00:09:14.600 --> 00:09:18.480 spending innocent time with other female students, refusing to speak 179 00:09:18.519 --> 00:09:21.080 to me for weeks on end, saying he was busy 180 00:09:21.120 --> 00:09:24.720 while hanging out with others instead, but then spending weeks 181 00:09:24.759 --> 00:09:27.759 at a time exclusively with me. Oh and all this 182 00:09:27.960 --> 00:09:31.320 after he frigging married me in secret. I spent four 183 00:09:31.440 --> 00:09:34.840 years trauma bonded to him, while he in turn rejected me, 184 00:09:35.039 --> 00:09:39.720 seemed genuinely emotionally invested, and either pretended to like me 185 00:09:39.960 --> 00:09:43.039 or openly hated me. I tried to walk away, and 186 00:09:43.120 --> 00:09:46.159 he would pull me back. It was emotional torture, but 187 00:09:46.240 --> 00:09:48.600 I was too weak and damaged to leave for good. 188 00:09:48.919 --> 00:09:52.840 I became deeply depressed. My self esteem was shattered, and 189 00:09:52.879 --> 00:09:56.000 I contemplated offing myself to the point that I gave 190 00:09:56.159 --> 00:10:00.559 many of my cherished belongings away in preparation and withdrew socially. 191 00:10:01.000 --> 00:10:04.120 I was a mess, and still he continued to screw 192 00:10:04.159 --> 00:10:07.200 me around emotionally. It's been a year now since we 193 00:10:07.279 --> 00:10:10.600 broke up, but we still talk, dragging out the rejection. 194 00:10:11.000 --> 00:10:14.960 I can barely sleep. I cry every morning. As soon 195 00:10:15.000 --> 00:10:18.759 as I wake, I fall asleep crying most nights. I'm 196 00:10:18.759 --> 00:10:22.480 completely miserable, and there are days I wish we'd never met. 197 00:10:22.879 --> 00:10:25.720 I'm going to start counseling soon because I can't go 198 00:10:25.799 --> 00:10:29.679 on like this anymore. Story seven. He was a professor 199 00:10:29.720 --> 00:10:33.440 at the university I attended and was exactly twice my age, 200 00:10:33.559 --> 00:10:36.960 which was a fantasy I entertained my whole life until 201 00:10:36.960 --> 00:10:39.879 our relationship ruined it for me. We went to the 202 00:10:39.919 --> 00:10:42.639 same concert one night, and he invited me for coffee 203 00:10:42.679 --> 00:10:45.639 a couple of days later to talk about music. Upon 204 00:10:45.799 --> 00:10:48.720 entering the cafe, he kissed my cheeks in a European 205 00:10:48.799 --> 00:10:51.919 style greeting and made some comment about maybe that's a 206 00:10:51.960 --> 00:10:55.000 little forward for a first date, and I lapped it up. 207 00:10:55.240 --> 00:10:57.480 Hadn't even dared to think of it that way, but 208 00:10:57.600 --> 00:10:59.799 it was exactly what I wanted to hear, and by 209 00:11:00.120 --> 00:11:02.120 the end of the date he was getting a little 210 00:11:02.159 --> 00:11:05.039 touchy with me in a public park nearby. This was 211 00:11:05.080 --> 00:11:07.440 a little less than ten years ago, and I wish 212 00:11:07.480 --> 00:11:09.840 I could go back in time and punch myself in 213 00:11:09.879 --> 00:11:13.080 the face for being so stupid. A couple of days later, 214 00:11:13.120 --> 00:11:15.000 I gave him a blowy in his office, and a 215 00:11:15.039 --> 00:11:17.519 few days after that he drove me to his apartment 216 00:11:17.600 --> 00:11:20.279 so we could sleep together. It was my first time 217 00:11:20.360 --> 00:11:22.600 for everything. I was so caught up in the thrill 218 00:11:22.639 --> 00:11:25.679 of the forbidden relationship and with this much older man 219 00:11:25.720 --> 00:11:28.600 who seemed to be infatuated with me. We would meet 220 00:11:28.600 --> 00:11:31.639 in deserted hallways on campus and make out or have 221 00:11:31.799 --> 00:11:33.919 silent sessions in his office in the middle of the 222 00:11:34.000 --> 00:11:36.720 damn day. We were together in secret for a couple 223 00:11:36.799 --> 00:11:39.840 of months than my parents found out and chaos erupted. 224 00:11:40.360 --> 00:11:42.519 He would have lost his job if I hadn't lied 225 00:11:42.559 --> 00:11:45.159 to the administration for him. We were more or less 226 00:11:45.200 --> 00:11:47.919 together for another six months or so after that, when 227 00:11:47.960 --> 00:11:51.039 finally I woke up and realized nothing was changing. I 228 00:11:51.159 --> 00:11:54.080 was destroying my relationship with my parents for someone who 229 00:11:54.080 --> 00:11:56.639 didn't care about me at all, so I ended it. 230 00:11:56.639 --> 00:12:00.279 It was a horrible relationship. He was emotionally abusive and 231 00:12:00.360 --> 00:12:04.200 manipulative and lied about everything. Anything I wanted to do. 232 00:12:04.519 --> 00:12:08.000 Any aspirations I had outside of his vision were mocked 233 00:12:08.120 --> 00:12:11.480 or written off. Any confrontation about how to deal with 234 00:12:11.480 --> 00:12:15.519 my parents, the school, his family, et cetera. Moving forward 235 00:12:15.639 --> 00:12:18.360 made him angry, and he lashed out at me verbally 236 00:12:18.440 --> 00:12:21.679 to stop the questions. He showed risque photos of me 237 00:12:21.799 --> 00:12:24.360 to people I didn't know, and bragged about having me 238 00:12:24.480 --> 00:12:27.639 to his non university friends in a really disgusting way. 239 00:12:28.000 --> 00:12:32.080 Once he realized how inexperienced I was, he constantly reminisced 240 00:12:32.080 --> 00:12:34.879 about how other women were in bed. He wanted a 241 00:12:34.919 --> 00:12:37.919 fangirl desperate for his attention, and that's what he got 242 00:12:37.960 --> 00:12:40.279 in me. For a long time. He even bought me 243 00:12:40.360 --> 00:12:43.720 a cheap engagement ring at one point. Do you believe 244 00:12:43.759 --> 00:12:47.679 I accepted it? My long standing suspicions of his infidelity 245 00:12:47.759 --> 00:12:51.080 were proved after the fact. Turns out I was one 246 00:12:51.120 --> 00:12:54.720 of six, including four other students and his next door neighbor. 247 00:12:55.159 --> 00:12:58.039 All of us were in the same age range. Young twenties. 248 00:12:58.519 --> 00:13:01.320 In hindsight, this is no no, no surprise, but at 249 00:13:01.320 --> 00:13:04.279 the time I really did think I was special to him. 250 00:13:04.559 --> 00:13:07.759 Over the summer post breakup, I still had another year 251 00:13:07.799 --> 00:13:10.200 of school left for my degree. He got fired or 252 00:13:10.240 --> 00:13:12.639 didn't get the option for tenure, or was asked to 253 00:13:12.679 --> 00:13:15.960 resign or quit or something from the university where we met, 254 00:13:16.200 --> 00:13:18.480 and the last I heard, he'd taken a job teaching 255 00:13:18.519 --> 00:13:21.200 at a much smaller college in the same area. No 256 00:13:21.360 --> 00:13:23.679 idea what he's doing now, But for the first two 257 00:13:23.759 --> 00:13:25.759 or three years after I cut him off, I got 258 00:13:25.799 --> 00:13:28.240 restricted phone calls from him every once in a while, 259 00:13:28.279 --> 00:13:31.039 though I think he tried to apologize once, but I 260 00:13:31.080 --> 00:13:33.360 never read any of the messages, just blocked the new 261 00:13:33.360 --> 00:13:35.559 accounts and moved on, So I don't know for sure 262 00:13:35.639 --> 00:13:39.200 how he feels about that time. Story eight. I had 263 00:13:39.240 --> 00:13:42.720 a romantic relationship with one of my college professors. At 264 00:13:42.759 --> 00:13:45.639 the time. I was around twenty and she was in 265 00:13:45.639 --> 00:13:48.320 her mid thirties. I went to see her during her 266 00:13:48.360 --> 00:13:51.320 office hours. We talked for a few minutes, and when 267 00:13:51.320 --> 00:13:53.840 I went to leave, she gave me a long hug 268 00:13:53.919 --> 00:13:56.919 and told me you give really nice hugs as she 269 00:13:57.039 --> 00:13:59.840 held onto my arms, I asked for her number and 270 00:14:00.039 --> 00:14:02.799 went on my way. We exchanged a few flirty text 271 00:14:02.799 --> 00:14:06.080 messages over the next few days before she invited me 272 00:14:06.120 --> 00:14:08.399 over to her apartment to help her hook up a 273 00:14:08.440 --> 00:14:11.519 new TV she had bought. We ended up sleeping together 274 00:14:11.600 --> 00:14:14.360 about ten times before she moved away to take a 275 00:14:14.399 --> 00:14:18.440 new job at a different school. Story nine. My pe 276 00:14:18.480 --> 00:14:22.240 teacher was a kind man, a Welsh rugby player by background. 277 00:14:22.480 --> 00:14:25.919 He started teaching me football in year seven and continued 278 00:14:25.919 --> 00:14:28.759 to teach me some type of sport every year until 279 00:14:28.799 --> 00:14:32.480 I turned sixteen. We got along well and shared plenty 280 00:14:32.519 --> 00:14:35.600 of laughs and jokes over the years. I stayed on 281 00:14:35.720 --> 00:14:38.720 for sixth form, but since I didn't take PE, I 282 00:14:38.759 --> 00:14:41.159 didn't have much to do with him after that. In 283 00:14:41.240 --> 00:14:45.679 my final year of sixth form, year thirteen, around two 284 00:14:45.799 --> 00:14:48.360 thousand three or two thousand and four, I went to 285 00:14:48.399 --> 00:14:50.679 the pub at lunch time with a friend. My old 286 00:14:50.759 --> 00:14:53.639 pe teacher was there playing pool with one of the 287 00:14:53.679 --> 00:14:57.000 geography teachers. We ended up joining them, had a couple 288 00:14:57.000 --> 00:14:59.799 of pints, and then headed back to school. After that, 289 00:15:00.039 --> 00:15:02.720 we met up a few more times after school for drinks. 290 00:15:03.120 --> 00:15:05.600 We did this a handful of times during that last year, 291 00:15:05.960 --> 00:15:08.600 and through those moments I came to realize he was 292 00:15:08.639 --> 00:15:10.720 going through a tough time. He was in the middle 293 00:15:10.720 --> 00:15:14.480 of a divorce and clearly quite unhappy. In the summer 294 00:15:14.720 --> 00:15:18.120 just after I'd finished school, around July or August, before 295 00:15:18.120 --> 00:15:21.559 I started university in September, I had been out day 296 00:15:21.639 --> 00:15:24.480 drinking with some friends. We decided to meet up with 297 00:15:24.519 --> 00:15:26.879 a few others in town and ended up going into 298 00:15:26.960 --> 00:15:30.600 Weatherspoons and who should be there but my old pe teacher. 299 00:15:31.159 --> 00:15:34.360 His decree measy had just come through and he was 300 00:15:34.440 --> 00:15:38.399 drowning his sorrows with some mates. I introduced myself using 301 00:15:38.440 --> 00:15:41.440 my first name, and he did the same. Neither of 302 00:15:41.519 --> 00:15:44.120 us mentioned that I'd been one of his students. We 303 00:15:44.240 --> 00:15:47.519 ended up going on a massive bender and eventually back 304 00:15:47.600 --> 00:15:50.559 to his place, where we slept together. It happened a 305 00:15:50.559 --> 00:15:53.679 few more times that summer. He was thirty six and 306 00:15:53.799 --> 00:15:57.360 I was nineteen. He was disgusted with himself, but honestly 307 00:15:57.559 --> 00:16:01.120 I didn't care. Most summers when I came back from Uni, 308 00:16:01.480 --> 00:16:05.080 the same pattern repeated. That is until I met my 309 00:16:05.200 --> 00:16:07.840 now husband when I was twenty one. When I was 310 00:16:07.879 --> 00:16:11.279 twenty eight, my boyfriend now husband and I moved back 311 00:16:11.279 --> 00:16:14.080 to our hometown. Since he didn't have many friends in 312 00:16:14.120 --> 00:16:17.320 the area, he joined a local sports social club to 313 00:16:17.360 --> 00:16:20.200 meet people. Not long after, he told me he'd made 314 00:16:20.200 --> 00:16:22.600 a friend there, an older guy who, as it turned out, 315 00:16:22.679 --> 00:16:24.720 used to be one of my teachers. They got on 316 00:16:24.840 --> 00:16:27.879 really well, too, well, so well in fact, that my 317 00:16:27.960 --> 00:16:31.120 husband's new mate, none other than my former pe teacher 318 00:16:31.159 --> 00:16:33.919 and occasional summer bang buddy, ended up coming to our 319 00:16:33.919 --> 00:16:38.440 wedding so well. Most Saturdays now my husband, him his 320 00:16:38.559 --> 00:16:40.840 new wife, their kids, and I all meet up for 321 00:16:40.919 --> 00:16:45.080 drinks and watch the football after the fixtures. All things considered, 322 00:16:45.120 --> 00:16:48.360 it turned out pretty okay in the end. Story ten. 323 00:16:48.919 --> 00:16:51.919 I slept with my art history professor during my freshman 324 00:16:52.039 --> 00:16:55.399 year in college. The class was mostly focused on ancient 325 00:16:55.480 --> 00:16:58.679 Chinese and Japanese art, and I was struggling with all 326 00:16:58.720 --> 00:17:01.720 the information overloads. I asked her if I could do 327 00:17:01.799 --> 00:17:04.519 some extra credit work, and she invited me to her 328 00:17:04.559 --> 00:17:07.839 office later that day. We started talking more and more. 329 00:17:07.920 --> 00:17:10.640 She seemed to like my art, or thinking back now, 330 00:17:10.680 --> 00:17:13.599 maybe she was just flirting with me while she invited 331 00:17:13.640 --> 00:17:15.599 me over to her house, saying she wanted to show 332 00:17:15.680 --> 00:17:17.680 me some of her art. She was in her late 333 00:17:17.720 --> 00:17:21.559 forties and I was nineteen at the time. I didn't 334 00:17:21.599 --> 00:17:24.640 think much of it. When I arrived, she said she 335 00:17:24.759 --> 00:17:27.920 needed to change quickly. After a minute or so, she 336 00:17:27.960 --> 00:17:30.960 called me into the bedroom. Seeing her lying there in 337 00:17:31.039 --> 00:17:34.319 her inners, I suddenly thought back to all the time 338 00:17:34.359 --> 00:17:38.039 we had spent together and realized I had completely misunderstood 339 00:17:38.039 --> 00:17:41.799 the situation. But honestly, I was happy to be wrong. 340 00:17:42.319 --> 00:17:45.839 Story eleven. I was a professor at a JC teaching 341 00:17:45.920 --> 00:17:49.079 a creative writing class. I was twenty seven and my 342 00:17:49.160 --> 00:17:52.519 student was nineteen. It started at a going away happy 343 00:17:52.559 --> 00:17:55.640 hour for another professor who was moving to a university. 344 00:17:55.920 --> 00:17:58.400 We were drinking, and this young woman from one of 345 00:17:58.440 --> 00:18:01.680 my classes, who was very prit and whom I recognized 346 00:18:01.720 --> 00:18:04.640 for sure because of that fact, was there with her friends. 347 00:18:05.119 --> 00:18:07.039 She came up to me and said she loved my 348 00:18:07.160 --> 00:18:10.160 class and challenged me to a game of pool. The 349 00:18:10.240 --> 00:18:13.680 more she drank, the flirtier she got, and she mentioned pool, 350 00:18:13.920 --> 00:18:16.599 and every time I'd sink a shot, she'd say, if 351 00:18:16.640 --> 00:18:19.599 we were playing layers off pool, that'd be my shirt, 352 00:18:19.839 --> 00:18:22.519 that one would be my skirt, that one was my inner, 353 00:18:22.759 --> 00:18:25.960 and so on. Obviously, around my colleagues I couldn't do 354 00:18:26.079 --> 00:18:28.960 much in return. I assumed the next week during class 355 00:18:28.960 --> 00:18:31.440 it would be awkward. But after class she came to 356 00:18:31.480 --> 00:18:34.200 office hours to talk about something, and then she said, 357 00:18:34.519 --> 00:18:36.880 the pool was so fun the other night. We should 358 00:18:36.920 --> 00:18:39.039 do that again. I told her, I don't think it 359 00:18:39.079 --> 00:18:42.039 would be appropriate. She said, I totally get it and 360 00:18:42.119 --> 00:18:44.440 don't want to screw up your job. How about when 361 00:18:44.440 --> 00:18:47.319 this quarter ends and I'm not your student anymore, we 362 00:18:47.480 --> 00:18:50.000 play another game. I made a joke about her not 363 00:18:50.119 --> 00:18:52.799 taking the next level of creative writing, and she said, 364 00:18:53.039 --> 00:18:56.279 we can get creative in other ways. About six weeks later, 365 00:18:56.440 --> 00:18:58.680 after the last day of class, she came in to 366 00:18:58.720 --> 00:19:01.200 say goodbye and said that she loved the class, and 367 00:19:01.279 --> 00:19:03.839 I asked her out. We dated for about eight months. 368 00:19:04.279 --> 00:19:06.599 I'm still blown away that this girl, who was eight 369 00:19:06.720 --> 00:19:09.519 years younger than me, was so good at the seduction game. 370 00:19:10.079 --> 00:19:15.000 Story twelve. My religious studies professor was hilarious and brilliant 371 00:19:15.359 --> 00:19:18.240 and always brought her interests up in class, and they 372 00:19:18.319 --> 00:19:21.480 usually aligned with mine. It started off with what felt 373 00:19:21.519 --> 00:19:25.079 like on topic to class discussions, then into more friendly, 374 00:19:25.200 --> 00:19:29.640 casual conversations about books and movies. Then it definitely transitioned 375 00:19:29.680 --> 00:19:32.880 into flirting, which was weird because I'm also female and 376 00:19:32.920 --> 00:19:35.720 had never had feelings for another girl, so I thought 377 00:19:35.759 --> 00:19:38.079 it could just be some weird fantasy in my head 378 00:19:38.440 --> 00:19:41.640 and I was just making something out of nothing. Anyways, 379 00:19:42.039 --> 00:19:46.039 fast forward semester ends I'm out of her class. I 380 00:19:46.079 --> 00:19:49.799 submit my final at noon. By one pm, she emails 381 00:19:49.839 --> 00:19:52.960 me my final grade and says, I'm all done submitting 382 00:19:53.000 --> 00:19:56.799 your grades, so you're officially no longer my student. Congrats 383 00:19:56.839 --> 00:19:59.720 on passing the class and good luck. So I sent 384 00:19:59.799 --> 00:20:02.440 back an email with a song attached, and then the 385 00:20:02.480 --> 00:20:05.480 emailing went on from there before we officially hung out, 386 00:20:05.640 --> 00:20:08.279 which led to us sleeping together, which led to a 387 00:20:08.319 --> 00:20:11.839 three year relationship. We moved in together for about a year, 388 00:20:11.920 --> 00:20:14.839 but it ultimately didn't work out because we wanted different 389 00:20:14.839 --> 00:20:17.279 things long term. But we ended on good terms, and 390 00:20:17.319 --> 00:20:20.279 I'm grateful for the relationship now five years out, as 391 00:20:20.279 --> 00:20:22.599 it helped me realize what I want in a partner. 392 00:20:22.920 --> 00:20:25.119 I now have an amazing boyfriend, and I heard she 393 00:20:25.279 --> 00:20:28.160 recently got married to a woman she started dating after me. 394 00:20:28.680 --> 00:20:32.319 Story thirteen. There was a super hot teacher who was 395 00:20:32.359 --> 00:20:35.119 at our school, so he was only like twenty three 396 00:20:35.279 --> 00:20:38.240 or twenty four maybe I was twenty, and it was 397 00:20:38.279 --> 00:20:40.720 at our graduation dinner when we had snuck a bottle 398 00:20:40.759 --> 00:20:43.480 of Passion pop in, so we were pretty tipsy. I 399 00:20:43.519 --> 00:20:45.799 told him I always thought he was hot, and before 400 00:20:45.839 --> 00:20:48.119 I knew it, his hands were roaming all over me. 401 00:20:48.440 --> 00:20:50.519