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<v Speaker 1>What's up, beautiful people? What is your baby mama? Favorite

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<v Speaker 1>baby Mama? Stormy Pe And this is another episode of

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<v Speaker 1>Chocolate Chip and Zip the modern day female perspective. Damn

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<v Speaker 1>Son back at it again. When I say that, in

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<v Speaker 1>my mind, I feel like I'm on a mixtape and

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<v Speaker 1>it'd be like a bomb drop.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, shot, it's okay. I don't care, No, I don't care. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I would like for you to be on the mic

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<v Speaker 1>this week because last week you were not. When I

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<v Speaker 1>went through it couldn't hear shit. Okay, sorry, sorry, sorry sorry, yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Now I're in business. Boom good here we are. Thank you. Listen, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to get a few things off my chests,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. I was talking to the folks on Live

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<v Speaker 1>before we started, and you know, every year I always say, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>this is gonna be my year in matching pajamas, and

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<v Speaker 1>I do end up in your pajamas.

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<v Speaker 2>It just be with my son.

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<v Speaker 1>So in order to alleviate that, I'm just gonna switch

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<v Speaker 1>my focus and just choose to pour out energy for

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<v Speaker 1>the lovers. I feel like every time we go on

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<v Speaker 1>out Wars Internet, it's always some male versus female conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>It's always some do women still, It's always some do

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<v Speaker 1>men still? It's always well, I just feel like as

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<v Speaker 1>a man and then it's always you know, the three

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<v Speaker 1>oh four is always go on put But how about

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<v Speaker 1>we put some different energy into the atmosphere, okay, because at.

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<v Speaker 2>The end of the day, baby, we need each other.

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<v Speaker 1>And I know, like the jokes and shit be fun,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's like, at the end of the day that

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<v Speaker 1>Roles ain't gonna cuddle you from behind like a man

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<v Speaker 1>care Okay, at the end of the day, that booty

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<v Speaker 1>blast the three thousand, she can't get up and make

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<v Speaker 1>you breakfast, all right.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's just take a few minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>To redirect, to refocus, to recenter, not just drop your roses,

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<v Speaker 1>drop your fucking tanga three thousand spinner, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>that is.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a real thing.

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<v Speaker 1>You're crazy, okay because you know what that is. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>we do drop drop the tango. Sorry flag day.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, man.

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<v Speaker 1>So you know, I just want to, you know, put

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<v Speaker 1>some different energy out there. And I want to start

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<v Speaker 1>by sight. You know, if you just want to chill

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<v Speaker 1>and catch a vibe and not looking for anything serious,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not the girl for you. Okay, I'm not the

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<v Speaker 1>girl for you, all right.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're just trying to you know, chill, catch your vibe,

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<v Speaker 2>hang out, not that serious all vibes.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not the girl for you, okay. I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>when that black guy was getting interviewed and he was like,

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't get okay, Like I feel like that,

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<v Speaker 1>get out my face, right. I don't need it. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't need it. Not only do I not need it,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want it, all right, And I'm asking you

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<v Speaker 1>to respect me when I say.

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<v Speaker 4>Get the like get just get get get here, just

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<v Speaker 4>say I don't want you anymore, get out here, get okay.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm retired.

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<v Speaker 1>I am so serious hard because like, once you step

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<v Speaker 1>into that thing, it's like.

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<v Speaker 3>I understand. But like Drea, I don't live their life

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<v Speaker 3>no more, baby, Like, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Am not looking for a situationship. I am not looking

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<v Speaker 1>for a butt buddy. I am not looking for someone

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<v Speaker 1>to drunk text at three a m. I'm not okay now,

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<v Speaker 1>don't get me wrong, y'all. I'm not trying to force

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<v Speaker 1>monogamy or a relationship on anybody.

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<v Speaker 2>All I'm saying is if you are entered brouh.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like if you want to enter into this space. Baby,

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta come ready for something else. And I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think it's nothing wrong with that. Like, at the end

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<v Speaker 1>of the day, everybody ain't for everybody, and once we

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<v Speaker 1>accept that, won't be so much better, like so much happier,

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<v Speaker 1>like and just be connected on all different types of levels.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm just saying if marriage is not in your future,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not even saying near future, Okay, if you don't

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<v Speaker 1>plan on putting on a suit at any time to

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<v Speaker 1>stand in front of the Lord and say I'm the

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<v Speaker 1>one you choose, I'm probably not the one for you, respectfully, respectfully.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's like I hate when I express that, right,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I hate when I express that.

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<v Speaker 2>And then it's just I'm just saying, like we can

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<v Speaker 2>just chill catch your bob. No we can't, No, we can't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to. I don't want to. And it's

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm just saying, like, how you gonna know if

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<v Speaker 1>if I'm the one for you, if we're not chilling

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<v Speaker 1>and catch your bob first.

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<v Speaker 2>Hold one, don't try the fucking don't try.

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<v Speaker 3>To like this situation, trying to give You're right.

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<v Speaker 1>I no, no, no, don't try to. I'm just saying, like,

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<v Speaker 1>if we can't catch your bob first, Like, how do

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<v Speaker 1>what even know?

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<v Speaker 2>Their shoot is?

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<v Speaker 3>It works like a charm, that's why they do it.

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<v Speaker 2>Mm hmmm.

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<v Speaker 1>And perfect gentleman says what she's saying is date with

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<v Speaker 1>a purpose and not casually. I agree one thousand percent.

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<v Speaker 3>At this pane.

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<v Speaker 5>Casually, just say that, bro, and here's the thing. And woman,

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<v Speaker 5>if that's not what you want, just say that.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not that.

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<v Speaker 1>Just say that, bro, bruh, Like, it is nothing wrong

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<v Speaker 1>with dating casually.

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<v Speaker 2>Just say it. Just say it. But not only are.

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna have to just say it, You're gonna have

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<v Speaker 1>to accept that you don't have access to.

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<v Speaker 2>Me because that's not what I'm looking for. Like, how

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<v Speaker 2>dare you?

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<v Speaker 5>Like, I know we've met, hitting it off, everything's cool,

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<v Speaker 5>but I ain't really into a relationship.

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<v Speaker 3>I just made it up off the dome. That was easy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, that was easy. Yes, And I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know that the girls, the ship girls be

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<v Speaker 5>saying to me, just be great. I can't repeat that,

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<v Speaker 5>but I know, I know, I know what we're saying.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's like, and I think that a large part

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<v Speaker 1>of it is just knowing what you want and knowing

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<v Speaker 1>what you're capable of. Like me, I'm a lover girl baby.

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<v Speaker 1>Once we do the no pants dance we go together.

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<v Speaker 3>Start talking about like it's a rap, Like I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>into all that. I can't. Bruh, I can't. I don't

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<v Speaker 3>even have the capacity to be dumb.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, Like I'm not gonna be texting multiple chicks dumb

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<v Speaker 5>ship like I'm a man.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, we don't do that.

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<v Speaker 5>Bruh, that's only no, Like, yeah, that's why I remember

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<v Speaker 5>we were talking on one person at time.

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<v Speaker 1>Once we do the no Pants Dance, we go together, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I dine picked out baby names, all right, I just

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<v Speaker 1>put a deposit down on a wedding figure, Like what

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<v Speaker 1>are you talking about? So no, I cannot play casually

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<v Speaker 1>because I know what I'm capable. I know my mind

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<v Speaker 1>is going to go to if we're like moving a

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<v Speaker 1>correct way, and my whole thing is if you're looking

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<v Speaker 1>forward and I'm looking for and we're vibing on that level,

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<v Speaker 1>all that behavior.

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<v Speaker 2>Is fine with time. So it's like, leave me alone,

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<v Speaker 2>just leave it I alone.

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<v Speaker 5>I just feel like with this time, I feel like

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<v Speaker 5>even with that question of what do you bring to

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<v Speaker 5>the table. Even though yeah, it was a buzzword, I

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<v Speaker 5>just feel like that was kind of like taking the

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<v Speaker 5>leg work out of dating people, Like instead of just

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<v Speaker 5>let me get to know this person, let me take

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<v Speaker 5>them out, let me hang out with here, let me

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<v Speaker 5>just be in the natural habitat blah blah blah, which

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<v Speaker 5>thirty five mil a third blah blah, And then do

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<v Speaker 5>you want me to wrap it up? I like to think,

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<v Speaker 5>but can we negotiate the kids?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 5>Right, that's that's pretty much like a speed day. But

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<v Speaker 5>you want to be like that all the time, Like

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<v Speaker 5>you got out, put the work in, and it doesn't

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<v Speaker 5>mean five years or five months, but god, get to

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<v Speaker 5>know people like all niggas just be out here and

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<v Speaker 5>then when it don't work, it just don't work.

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<v Speaker 2>It just don't work.

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<v Speaker 3>There's no need for be yes, No, you said this before,

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<v Speaker 3>like there's no need.

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<v Speaker 1>For be one fine Trenty boy says, I'm tired of

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<v Speaker 1>sending good morning text. I just want to roll over

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<v Speaker 1>and say it nine one fine trny boy. Remember that

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<v Speaker 1>I'm cracking up and perfect gentleman says facts, just say

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<v Speaker 1>it so that the other person knows their options up front.

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<v Speaker 3>This is everybody AB nineteen.

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<v Speaker 1>Eleven says they're trying to GTD. If you don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what GTD is, you're too young.

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<v Speaker 2>To be here and exit out right now. Okay, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>I think another part of like being upfront and just

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<v Speaker 1>saying like, you know, I'm just on a different wave

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<v Speaker 1>right now comes from like, you know, I'm not saying

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to fall in love tomorrow, but I know

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<v Speaker 1>what's going to take place if I'm saying, like, yo,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm dating to find someone that I want to be

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<v Speaker 1>in the relationship with and essentially find my husband, and

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<v Speaker 1>you're saying you're just trying to catch your vibe, do

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<v Speaker 1>you know what's gonna happen. We're gonna catch a vibe,

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<v Speaker 1>And then in my mind, I'm still dating to find

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<v Speaker 1>my husband. So it's like I'm here and you're not

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<v Speaker 1>there yet because you're just trying to catch a vibe.

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<v Speaker 1>So essentially, you're wanting me to waste my time just

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<v Speaker 1>so you can get some KUCCI And that's not good

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<v Speaker 1>enough for me. That's not good enough for me, especially

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<v Speaker 1>when I know this Kuci is capable of a PFA.

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<v Speaker 2>So just leave me alone. Okay, I know this. Kucci

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<v Speaker 2>is also capable of a restrain in order, so crash

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<v Speaker 2>out Cuci.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the name of the pie. Crash out Cucci. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I know that I have crashed out Kuci.

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<v Speaker 2>So in order to.

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<v Speaker 1>Prevent anybody from getting any property or feelings or emotions damaged,

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<v Speaker 1>let's just say, if you're not dating with a purpose,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm probably not the one for you.

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<v Speaker 3>I've been fax huh.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, my guys, I know what it is like I said,

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<v Speaker 5>you've been cocky. It's the truth, though, I know what

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<v Speaker 5>I know what's up. Yes, especially when you deal with

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<v Speaker 5>somebody now on the same wave as you like, Oh,

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<v Speaker 5>you have no idea like I will will, I will

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<v Speaker 5>low keep on your life, hold on y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>So this is how U sip It says being upfront

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<v Speaker 1>is the best mindset, especially when talking about red flax

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<v Speaker 1>Blurred seventeen on one says, yes, Stormy, it is so

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<v Speaker 1>hard to date these days as a man who is

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<v Speaker 1>intentionally dating. That's why I pause on dating for now.

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<v Speaker 1>One fine Trinny boy says restrain and order. Kucie definitely

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<v Speaker 1>on my Bengo card. Please get out my face, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>roc rc.

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<v Speaker 3>Bio.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm ROC or COOC. I feel like cooc is

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<v Speaker 1>a little crazy. We can't do COC for cush out Couchie.

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<v Speaker 1>We gotta do ROC for restraining.

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<v Speaker 2>Order COUCHI yeah, that's it.

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<v Speaker 1>Speaking of like moving in Dayton with intentions, right, I

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<v Speaker 1>presenting yourself. It has to show up in your everyday life.

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<v Speaker 1>And a part of that, I feel like is the

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<v Speaker 1>vibes that you're bringing into your everyday life. And when

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<v Speaker 1>I say that, I mean I rebuke black struggle love

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<v Speaker 1>music in the name of Jesus.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I rebuke it.

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<v Speaker 2>I rebuke black struggle love music in the.

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<v Speaker 5>Name of Jesus, got cheating involved in it and forgiving

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<v Speaker 5>like niggas leave it alone.

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<v Speaker 3>Bro. I was listening half crazy music.

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<v Speaker 1>Yo.

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<v Speaker 5>I was at work and I had the speaker blasting.

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<v Speaker 5>I was cutting boxes open, and I was like, Yo,

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<v Speaker 5>this is my ship. And then I heard he said

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<v Speaker 5>something like just something like nigga, why be like like

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<v Speaker 3>To be this way?

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<v Speaker 5>Like I grew up on this ship And I thought,

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<v Speaker 5>I thought, y'all talking about love the whole time, and

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<v Speaker 5>I just don't know why. Yeah, Like it's crazy and

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<v Speaker 5>it's like damn nigga, Like then you skip the drawings

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<v Speaker 5>like genuine Usher Usher Now you know Usher.

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<v Speaker 1>Please because that whole Confessions album don't even get me

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<v Speaker 1>started all that.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 1>There are certain artists that I do not listen to,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm not gonna say no names because you already

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<v Speaker 1>know anything having to do with ugirl. I cheated a

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<v Speaker 1>thousand times, but now I think I want to marry you. Nope,

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<v Speaker 1>skip skip Skip anything that goes along the lines of,

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<v Speaker 1>oh I should have cheated back because she was cheating

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<v Speaker 1>me ooh baby. Nope skip okay, anything that says I

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<v Speaker 1>want to bust that girl windows just because I know

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<v Speaker 4>Skip skip fucking scip.

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<v Speaker 2>Bruh, Like hell.

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<v Speaker 3>No, hell no, let it skip my radar like it

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<v Speaker 3>did all these years.

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<v Speaker 1>This is how you sipp it says, hey hate black

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<v Speaker 1>love music where the dude tries to scoop up another

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<v Speaker 1>man's woman when they just had a big.

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<v Speaker 2>Fight, like Joe.

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<v Speaker 1>No, it's not just like Joe. It's not just like Joe.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's not forget. Donelle Jones was standing out that restaurant,

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<v Speaker 1>dressed like the candy man, knowing he just told that

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<v Speaker 1>girl he didn't know if he wanted to be with her.

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<v Speaker 2>Why are you popping up on her day?

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<v Speaker 3>Literally?

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<v Speaker 5>Watch Chris Brown danced through five scenes and talked to

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<v Speaker 5>five about the different parts of a love letter that

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<v Speaker 5>he supposed he supposed to write for the first girl

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<v Speaker 5>supposed to be thought every single time they did a

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<v Speaker 5>little spin move and bop bop, they were talking to

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<v Speaker 5>a new girl and this is what we grew up on.

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<v Speaker 3>And now I was like, oh, you.

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<v Speaker 5>Niggas really aren't shit, Yes, damn like, but I don't

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<v Speaker 5>want you to not be shipp bro because and you know.

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<v Speaker 2>I also want to say.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's a difference between a song saying here's

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<v Speaker 1>what I could.

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<v Speaker 2>Have done better. I apologize.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, an artists who their whole musical catalog. It's niggas

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<v Speaker 1>ain't ship men are trash. I'm gonna keep sleeping around,

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<v Speaker 1>but you gotta take me back, please cause you already know.

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<v Speaker 3>Them twice you stupid like grow up?

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<v Speaker 1>Please please brother you and C says we got abused.

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<v Speaker 1>That's community. Uh, I'm out of church, but I got

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<v Speaker 1>you next time. But please hush and perfect gentleman says,

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<v Speaker 1>leave other people women alone, you end up in prison.

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<v Speaker 2>On the grave playing those games. That is absolutely if.

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<v Speaker 3>If I got a girl, and you know that's my girl,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm telling lady to.

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<v Speaker 1>The you know what, I'm gonna pivot from that.

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<v Speaker 3>That's crazy to me.

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<v Speaker 1>I genuinely hate the narrative that women, especially Black women,

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<v Speaker 1>have to like endure some sort of trauma to be loved,

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<v Speaker 1>Like we have to be put through the fucking ringer

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<v Speaker 1>to prove we are a ride or die in order

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<v Speaker 1>to deserve a good man. And I feel like that

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<v Speaker 1>Black struggle music, that Black struggle of music is just

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<v Speaker 1>being forcing that and saying.

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<v Speaker 5>Like how they keep the man out of the household

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<v Speaker 5>and how we are like subjected to certain things of violence.

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<v Speaker 3>I really feel like.

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<v Speaker 5>Depending on the type of girl out date, I can

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<v Speaker 5>tell by the way she talks and about the things

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<v Speaker 5>she accepts, like just the level of And that's what

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<v Speaker 5>I mean when I say, like, wow, lady, you really brainwashed,

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<v Speaker 5>and like I can low key just take advantage of

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<v Speaker 5>you to like sometimes being a person that I am Brandon,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm a good dude, I'm a stand up god cool,

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<v Speaker 5>but I'm still a man.

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<v Speaker 2>So at the end of the day, he wanted to say,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm still a nigga.

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<v Speaker 5>But still like but at the end of the day, like,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm still a man. So like those type of things.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not perfect, that's saying. So like, if you're going

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<v Speaker 5>to allow me to do something, when you start doing

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<v Speaker 5>those type of behaviors and indulging those type of behaviors,

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<v Speaker 5>you're gonna start falling deeper.

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<v Speaker 3>And deeper into those lifestyle.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>So that's why you'd be very intentional about who you

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<v Speaker 5>talk to on a positive and a negative side, because

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<v Speaker 5>it's not gonna it doesn't work that way. Like if

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<v Speaker 5>I know, if I'm dealing with somebody that has been

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<v Speaker 5>it's below me on like a spiritual level, on a

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<v Speaker 5>thought process, and they have bad habits or the way

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<v Speaker 5>of thinking is on the negative tip. If I keeping

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<v Speaker 5>entertaining that, pretty soon I'm be up in there with them,

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<v Speaker 5>lost in the leeds.

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<v Speaker 3>So in the Mountain talk.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel that I feel that, Yes, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't tell you had to talk. I was just

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<v Speaker 1>saying last week you were talking, but you weren't on

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<v Speaker 1>a mic, so I couldn't hear you Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So going back to uh, what I was saying earlier.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's a no go on the black struggle love

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<v Speaker 1>for music, Black struggle love music for me. Like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>I hate the narrative that black women have to endure

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<v Speaker 1>some sort of turmoil in order to be loved. And

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<v Speaker 1>that goes for movies to insert love and basketball here,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll get the out here trash insert and it's Tyler

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<v Speaker 1>Perry movie trash. I won't say trash insert Tyler Perry movies.

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<v Speaker 1>Like just certain things I just don't want to consume, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And yeah, it's just not for me.

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<v Speaker 3>Can just be like a really deep argument.

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<v Speaker 2>Why can't and why gotta be every why I gotta be?

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<v Speaker 1>Every successful black woman gotta go for the black gardener

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<v Speaker 1>or or the black janitor.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's nothing wrong with that, but every goddamn.

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<v Speaker 5>Movie it just comes second chance. You'll just keep eating

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<v Speaker 5>that up.

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<v Speaker 2>Please shut the fuck up. You know what, But we

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<v Speaker 2>first we gotta get the wigs right.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm just gonna we got more than not things

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<v Speaker 1>to discuss about.

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<v Speaker 3>It's all over the place. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>That Oh, one of the things that I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes keeps us from enjoying and finding the loves of

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<v Speaker 1>our lives is that we really did and experienced a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of things too young. The age we were at

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<v Speaker 1>that time, we couldn't really appreciate it. I mean, no shade, right,

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<v Speaker 1>But when I talk to men, one of the few

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<v Speaker 1>things that I get a general consensus on is like

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I should have waited, or like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I wish my first was with somebody different.

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<v Speaker 2>And it don't even have to be that deep.

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<v Speaker 1>I just feel like, as a whole, we all were

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<v Speaker 1>like trying to grow up so fast, and when you

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<v Speaker 1>look at the children now, it is just the same.

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<v Speaker 1>They're doing the same exact things. And it's like, y'all

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<v Speaker 1>kids want to be grown.

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<v Speaker 3>Up so bad, like brh.

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<v Speaker 5>They like you skipped a part by learning how to read, brother, bruh,

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<v Speaker 5>Like you don't know how to read, sir, Like you

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<v Speaker 5>don't know what GPS is.

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<v Speaker 3>Sir dog, You're lazy, sir dog.

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<v Speaker 1>Like y'all kids want to be grown so bad, Wait

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<v Speaker 1>till y'all get here.

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<v Speaker 3>It sucks.

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<v Speaker 2>It sucks.

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<v Speaker 5>You have no idea what I'll be hiring these kids, Joe,

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<v Speaker 5>and I'd be like, bro, just follow my lead.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it's like every time you turn around, it's

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<v Speaker 1>a bill busting you in the back of the head.

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<v Speaker 1>And then you got to deal with you and your

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<v Speaker 1>friends growing apark because you're developing on emotional levels, and

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<v Speaker 1>then you always want a nap.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay. I cannot believe that. As a child, I fight,

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<v Speaker 2>I thought naps. What was I thinking?

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<v Speaker 1>What was I thinking? Do you know how bad I

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<v Speaker 1>be wanting to nap now? And as a kid I

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<v Speaker 1>detested it? Like what the fuck was wrong with me?

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<v Speaker 1>What was I thinking? Like I am a toddler, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>When I get tired, I get cranky, okay, And it's

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<v Speaker 1>like I now can't even live in that because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>an adult, so I'm not allowed to do that, all right.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like y'all be really just wanting to grow up

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<v Speaker 2>so fast and it's not it.

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<v Speaker 1>I hate it here, Okay, I'm tired of this and

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<v Speaker 1>every day life comes in like Grandpa, that's too bad.

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<v Speaker 2>Like it is not what you think it is. It's

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<v Speaker 2>not what you think over that exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like you you you don't have time to grief,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have time to mourn, you don't have time

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<v Speaker 1>to process. It's like life still going baby? Oh that's

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<v Speaker 1>that's fucked up. You can't die all right? Well, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>this bill.

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<v Speaker 2>Is due tomorrow. I can give you like a day

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<v Speaker 2>or two, but that's it.

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<v Speaker 3>Like what really bothers me?

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<v Speaker 5>What when people who are taking short cuts and ain't

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<v Speaker 5>really doing what they need to be doing.

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<v Speaker 3>And it's like you didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Even deserve a break. You don't even deserve, yes.

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<v Speaker 5>Like you took hell of boat breaks, your late, hung

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<v Speaker 5>back from lunch every day, even put no work in none.

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<v Speaker 3>Why are you hearing in here right now?

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<v Speaker 2>Listen?

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<v Speaker 3>Why am I behind you sitting in the line for

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<v Speaker 3>hr bruh? Like it?

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<v Speaker 1>It is always one thing at another. And then here's

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<v Speaker 1>the worst part. Randomly, you just wake up one day

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<v Speaker 1>and your body hurt, your back hurt, needs hurt. I

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<v Speaker 1>haven't gotten there yet, thank god, you know, not going

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<v Speaker 1>with but you hurt? Okay, you're plucking hurt and you

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<v Speaker 1>don't know why.

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<v Speaker 3>All right. I don't even remember what you did yesterday.

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<v Speaker 3>You truly don't remember.

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00:21:19.759 --> 00:21:20.759
<v Speaker 2>Honestly, I'm not gonna lie.

428
00:21:20.799 --> 00:21:22.880
<v Speaker 1>I know y'all seen these videos, but yes, it probably

429
00:21:22.960 --> 00:21:25.119
<v Speaker 1>was from all the stinky legging we were doing back

430
00:21:25.119 --> 00:21:26.799
<v Speaker 1>in the day and all of us thinking we could

431
00:21:26.799 --> 00:21:28.640
<v Speaker 1>fucking crump. That's why I joined hurt, That's why we

432
00:21:28.720 --> 00:21:30.960
<v Speaker 1>all got our threads. I'm not gonnad you. That's probably it, Yes,

433
00:21:31.279 --> 00:21:36.279
<v Speaker 1>but bro like this shit is not a game. And then,

434
00:21:36.519 --> 00:21:40.799
<v Speaker 1>and then, and then, just when you steal a little

435
00:21:40.880 --> 00:21:44.720
<v Speaker 1>piece of quiet, little piece, just when you steal a

436
00:21:44.759 --> 00:21:47.480
<v Speaker 1>little piece and quiet to yourself, here come your broke

437
00:21:47.519 --> 00:21:50.480
<v Speaker 1>breast friend aka the consequences of you doing a no

438
00:21:50.599 --> 00:21:53.799
<v Speaker 1>pants dance aka that big headed baby you done pushed

439
00:21:53.799 --> 00:21:55.200
<v Speaker 1>out banging on the door.

440
00:21:55.480 --> 00:21:57.599
<v Speaker 2>Want to know why you need privacy, why you poop?

441
00:21:57.920 --> 00:22:02.920
<v Speaker 1>It sucks? Okay, out hood parenthood. The hood is trash.

442
00:22:03.440 --> 00:22:06.359
<v Speaker 1>Stop trying to be an adult. It fucking sucks.

443
00:22:06.960 --> 00:22:11.039
<v Speaker 2>That's it. And that's all I gotta say about that.

444
00:22:11.400 --> 00:22:14.039
<v Speaker 1>Wor's part about when your kid come. Worst part about

445
00:22:14.039 --> 00:22:15.720
<v Speaker 1>when your kid come and knock on the door. You

446
00:22:15.839 --> 00:22:18.200
<v Speaker 1>gotta pretend like you give a fuck about whatever dumb

447
00:22:18.240 --> 00:22:19.960
<v Speaker 1>ass thing they're trying to tell you at the moment,

448
00:22:20.000 --> 00:22:20.880
<v Speaker 1>because you gotta.

449
00:22:20.640 --> 00:22:26.160
<v Speaker 2>Be nice to your kance it. I fucking hate it. Here,

450
00:22:27.559 --> 00:22:30.359
<v Speaker 2>hate it here. I feel like James Smith. I want

451
00:22:30.359 --> 00:22:37.839
<v Speaker 2>to go home. Bruh brh.

452
00:22:38.519 --> 00:22:40.400
<v Speaker 1>But on the flip side of being an adult, on

453
00:22:40.440 --> 00:22:43.759
<v Speaker 1>a positive side, if there is a positive side far

454
00:22:44.359 --> 00:22:47.160
<v Speaker 1>Slice Maximus says, your son is not letting no man

455
00:22:47.200 --> 00:22:49.799
<v Speaker 1>near his mama. You know, I just want to tell

456
00:22:49.839 --> 00:22:52.519
<v Speaker 1>this funny story real fast. Right, Shout out to Slice,

457
00:22:52.720 --> 00:22:55.519
<v Speaker 1>Shout out to everybody at the Talk Heavy podcast. Right. So,

458
00:22:57.000 --> 00:22:59.839
<v Speaker 1>Slice ended up being on one of my son's camp

459
00:22:59.880 --> 00:23:05.160
<v Speaker 1>trips to like a water park. Right, so you know,

460
00:23:05.480 --> 00:23:07.799
<v Speaker 1>me and Slice are cool. We talked, we vibe X

461
00:23:07.880 --> 00:23:10.640
<v Speaker 1>Y and Z, and so my son peeps. He don't

462
00:23:10.640 --> 00:23:15.440
<v Speaker 1>say nothing. Like twenty minutes past, my son peeps again,

463
00:23:15.599 --> 00:23:17.680
<v Speaker 1>right and starts standing closer to me, And.

464
00:23:17.599 --> 00:23:20.240
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, what the fuck is going on here? Right now?

465
00:23:20.359 --> 00:23:22.720
<v Speaker 1>It's like an hour and me and Slice like grab

466
00:23:22.759 --> 00:23:25.759
<v Speaker 1>some food, like minji. My son is playing with his friends,

467
00:23:26.079 --> 00:23:29.119
<v Speaker 1>but he started acting weird, like he starts trying to

468
00:23:29.160 --> 00:23:31.640
<v Speaker 1>be up on me and huggle on me, like yeah,

469
00:23:31.640 --> 00:23:34.759
<v Speaker 1>I love you, mommy, Like, what the fuck's happened?

470
00:23:37.440 --> 00:23:39.880
<v Speaker 2>Y'all know, LEVI he is not that kid.

471
00:23:40.680 --> 00:23:46.119
<v Speaker 1>My son got so protective around Slice being there, and

472
00:23:46.240 --> 00:23:49.119
<v Speaker 1>Slice it's like me and your son, I'm.

473
00:23:48.960 --> 00:23:51.720
<v Speaker 3>Like, I don't know what the fuck is going on? Yo?

474
00:23:52.440 --> 00:23:54.880
<v Speaker 2>Yo he oh god.

475
00:23:54.960 --> 00:23:59.000
<v Speaker 1>My son started like swelling up a bit like yeah yeah,

476
00:23:59.200 --> 00:24:01.079
<v Speaker 1>like and then he all trying to like hold my hand.

477
00:24:01.119 --> 00:24:02.000
<v Speaker 2>He trying to hug me.

478
00:24:02.079 --> 00:24:04.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, bro, you don't never want to hug me, like,

479
00:24:04.240 --> 00:24:05.400
<v Speaker 1>especially around your friends.

480
00:24:05.440 --> 00:24:09.480
<v Speaker 2>What's happening here? Like he was not fucking with Slice.

481
00:24:09.519 --> 00:24:11.839
<v Speaker 1>Now, to be fair, you already know like my son

482
00:24:11.880 --> 00:24:14.920
<v Speaker 1>has only seen me around two men that weren't his father.

483
00:24:15.039 --> 00:24:17.400
<v Speaker 1>My son is twelve, right, and that was when he

484
00:24:17.480 --> 00:24:19.319
<v Speaker 1>was like young, So I think.

485
00:24:19.200 --> 00:24:22.160
<v Speaker 2>It's also now a protective thing.

486
00:24:22.640 --> 00:24:29.160
<v Speaker 1>We also like that's my mommy thing, that's not your mommy.

487
00:24:29.680 --> 00:24:33.839
<v Speaker 5>So like you understands, like, bruh, there's an understanding, but

488
00:24:33.920 --> 00:24:35.400
<v Speaker 5>you and the.

489
00:24:35.319 --> 00:24:37.880
<v Speaker 1>Crazy part is me and Slights weren't even being inappropriate,

490
00:24:37.920 --> 00:24:40.480
<v Speaker 1>like we don't we don't we It just it was

491
00:24:40.519 --> 00:24:42.400
<v Speaker 1>a man in my space longer than when he was

492
00:24:42.480 --> 00:24:46.160
<v Speaker 1>used to bruh. He was not with the ships. Main

493
00:24:46.240 --> 00:24:49.079
<v Speaker 1>biker once says Slices almost got them pulse like's gotta

494
00:24:49.079 --> 00:24:53.079
<v Speaker 1>get through them push ups. G mash Brock and said

495
00:24:53.160 --> 00:24:57.799
<v Speaker 1>son acted like secret service. Yes, he was not with

496
00:24:57.880 --> 00:25:01.559
<v Speaker 1>the ships. Relationships talk with geez, what's up baby?

497
00:25:02.680 --> 00:25:02.880
<v Speaker 3>Hey?

498
00:25:02.920 --> 00:25:07.119
<v Speaker 1>Grayciana but yeah, Slice Maximus says, I didn't want no smoke.

499
00:25:07.880 --> 00:25:10.039
<v Speaker 2>It was so funny. I've never seen Lee by Egg

500
00:25:10.119 --> 00:25:11.680
<v Speaker 2>like that before. I am.

501
00:25:13.119 --> 00:25:15.799
<v Speaker 1>It was it was. It was interesting, That's what I'll say.

502
00:25:15.839 --> 00:25:18.359
<v Speaker 1>It was interesting. It was interesting to say the least.

503
00:25:18.400 --> 00:25:21.920
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you do a job.

504
00:25:22.240 --> 00:25:27.440
<v Speaker 1>You're doing a good job. And perfect gentleman says Slice

505
00:25:27.519 --> 00:25:35.000
<v Speaker 1>was about to get sliced. Y'all gets on my nurse.

506
00:25:36.200 --> 00:25:39.480
<v Speaker 1>All that aside, I feel like the bonus part of

507
00:25:39.519 --> 00:25:42.000
<v Speaker 1>growing up and you know, being an adult and being

508
00:25:42.039 --> 00:25:45.759
<v Speaker 1>able to properly articulate and process things is you know,

509
00:25:45.960 --> 00:25:48.839
<v Speaker 1>just realizing where you're at in life, what you can handle,

510
00:25:48.960 --> 00:25:50.400
<v Speaker 1>what you want, what you don't want.

511
00:25:50.960 --> 00:25:52.440
<v Speaker 2>And I'm not gonna lie to y'all.

512
00:25:53.119 --> 00:25:56.039
<v Speaker 1>I'm at a point in my life right now where

513
00:25:56.599 --> 00:26:00.759
<v Speaker 1>nothing is worth fighting for, okay, and I mean physically

514
00:26:00.759 --> 00:26:02.880
<v Speaker 1>fighting Like, I am at a point in my life

515
00:26:02.920 --> 00:26:05.160
<v Speaker 1>where nothing is worth physically fighting for.

516
00:26:05.359 --> 00:26:05.799
<v Speaker 2>Okay.

517
00:26:05.960 --> 00:26:08.039
<v Speaker 1>You can say whatever you want to be, Oh you

518
00:26:08.240 --> 00:26:12.039
<v Speaker 1>ugli at shit? True, Oh your mom sucked it. That's

519
00:26:12.039 --> 00:26:16.119
<v Speaker 1>where I learned it from. Like I just I honestly, honestly,

520
00:26:16.839 --> 00:26:21.119
<v Speaker 1>there is nothing worth physically fighting for to me right now,

521
00:26:21.440 --> 00:26:25.640
<v Speaker 1>Like I'm from Philly. Niggas ain't fighting, okay, I don't

522
00:26:25.680 --> 00:26:28.279
<v Speaker 1>care if you think you're gonna pop off at a

523
00:26:28.359 --> 00:26:31.359
<v Speaker 1>church service. Grinny in the Beck got the thing on her,

524
00:26:31.440 --> 00:26:34.039
<v Speaker 1>and I promise you it is not a joke.

525
00:26:35.079 --> 00:26:37.240
<v Speaker 2>I don't care if it's Communion Sunday. She got that

526
00:26:37.319 --> 00:26:37.960
<v Speaker 2>thing under.

527
00:26:37.799 --> 00:26:43.400
<v Speaker 3>That white skirt. Bruh Cabinet South, Yes.

528
00:26:44.119 --> 00:26:48.200
<v Speaker 1>Yes, Communion Sunday. Grinny got that thing under that white skirt. Okay,

529
00:26:48.319 --> 00:26:50.440
<v Speaker 1>Like it is not a joke, It is not a game.

530
00:26:50.519 --> 00:26:53.119
<v Speaker 1>Like I don't care what you say to me, you

531
00:26:53.160 --> 00:26:55.000
<v Speaker 1>pussy ass bitch. True you got it?

532
00:26:55.319 --> 00:26:56.480
<v Speaker 3>Think you want to go to the bathroom.

533
00:26:56.880 --> 00:27:03.640
<v Speaker 2>No, No, I'm cool. Thanks, thanks for asking.

534
00:27:03.799 --> 00:27:07.880
<v Speaker 1>Like there is nothing nothing Jake nineteen one five said,

535
00:27:07.880 --> 00:27:10.240
<v Speaker 1>we ain't fighting. We here, but baby, I ain't doing shit,

536
00:27:10.440 --> 00:27:14.519
<v Speaker 1>okay me personally, I'm not doing ship, And I'm gonna

537
00:27:14.519 --> 00:27:17.400
<v Speaker 1>tell you why. If I'm in a situation where I

538
00:27:17.440 --> 00:27:21.039
<v Speaker 1>have to fight, Like bro, this is like some life

539
00:27:21.160 --> 00:27:24.279
<v Speaker 1>or death ship, because if I don't have it on me,

540
00:27:24.440 --> 00:27:26.200
<v Speaker 1>somebody whip me might have it on me, or the

541
00:27:26.200 --> 00:27:28.279
<v Speaker 1>people on fighting might have it on them. Like I

542
00:27:28.319 --> 00:27:31.400
<v Speaker 1>gotta go into this situation, like Bro, I might not

543
00:27:31.519 --> 00:27:32.400
<v Speaker 1>make it back.

544
00:27:32.599 --> 00:27:36.160
<v Speaker 2>Like bruh, and that's nothing. I got a son, what

545
00:27:36.319 --> 00:27:36.880
<v Speaker 2>is worth.

546
00:27:36.759 --> 00:27:39.440
<v Speaker 1>Me saying like, yo, I'm not going back to my

547
00:27:39.440 --> 00:27:49.680
<v Speaker 1>son tonight for nothing unless you're than my son. Nothing, y'all.

548
00:27:49.799 --> 00:27:54.680
<v Speaker 1>Y'all can keep it. Y'all can keep it like unless

549
00:27:54.680 --> 00:27:57.880
<v Speaker 1>you like are physically putting your hands on me. Nothing

550
00:27:58.400 --> 00:27:59.960
<v Speaker 1>at this time in my life is worth fighting for.

551
00:28:00.200 --> 00:28:03.400
<v Speaker 1>Like it's just not it for me. G mash Broker says,

552
00:28:03.400 --> 00:28:05.880
<v Speaker 1>the boy being real and conscious of anything that can

553
00:28:05.960 --> 00:28:08.400
<v Speaker 1>hinder his bond with you, you must be talking about still.

554
00:28:08.440 --> 00:28:11.599
<v Speaker 1>Levi J Night two on five says, if I must fight,

555
00:28:12.079 --> 00:28:13.920
<v Speaker 1>you might have to have some T shirts made in

556
00:28:13.960 --> 00:28:14.400
<v Speaker 1>your honor.

557
00:28:14.599 --> 00:28:15.400
<v Speaker 3>I agree.

558
00:28:16.200 --> 00:28:16.920
<v Speaker 2>I agree.

559
00:28:16.960 --> 00:28:19.480
<v Speaker 1>Like where I'm at right now, like I know I

560
00:28:19.519 --> 00:28:21.240
<v Speaker 1>have to go in like either you going in me

561
00:28:21.319 --> 00:28:24.480
<v Speaker 1>or I'm in you. So like somebody getting an airbrush T shirt,

562
00:28:24.480 --> 00:28:26.200
<v Speaker 1>and it ain't gonna be me. I'm gonna tell you

563
00:28:26.240 --> 00:28:30.480
<v Speaker 1>that right now, on God on God, somebody getting some

564
00:28:30.599 --> 00:28:32.920
<v Speaker 1>clouds and wings put behind them in, it ain't gonna

565
00:28:32.920 --> 00:28:35.839
<v Speaker 1>be me, Okay. So it's like none of that is

566
00:28:35.839 --> 00:28:38.319
<v Speaker 1>worth it to me. And then that's here's the crazy part.

567
00:28:38.680 --> 00:28:40.640
<v Speaker 1>Even if I do come out the better half of

568
00:28:40.680 --> 00:28:43.559
<v Speaker 1>that situation. I could potentially out end up in jail.

569
00:28:43.599 --> 00:28:45.960
<v Speaker 1>Super I still can't beat her for my son. Like

570
00:28:46.440 --> 00:28:48.680
<v Speaker 1>at this point in my life, nothing is worth that

571
00:28:48.759 --> 00:28:51.160
<v Speaker 1>for me too.

572
00:28:51.759 --> 00:28:51.920
<v Speaker 3>Ruh.

573
00:28:52.720 --> 00:28:55.839
<v Speaker 2>Y'all can keep it, keep it, keep it, keep it.

574
00:28:55.960 --> 00:28:58.880
<v Speaker 2>And here's the thing, I just started getting a little

575
00:28:58.920 --> 00:29:02.519
<v Speaker 2>bit of money, Like.

576
00:29:02.400 --> 00:29:04.359
<v Speaker 1>What the fuck now I'm a throw it all away?

577
00:29:04.960 --> 00:29:08.799
<v Speaker 1>What this makes no sense to me? Like y'all, y'all

578
00:29:08.839 --> 00:29:11.039
<v Speaker 1>can have it. Y'all can call me whatever names y'all

579
00:29:11.039 --> 00:29:14.759
<v Speaker 1>want to call me. Bruh, y'all can say whatever y'all

580
00:29:14.799 --> 00:29:17.240
<v Speaker 1>want to say. At the end of the day, you

581
00:29:17.319 --> 00:29:23.160
<v Speaker 1>got it, you got it, Like one fine trainy boy says,

582
00:29:24.039 --> 00:29:26.039
<v Speaker 1>go fund me in dinner place, going to be so

583
00:29:26.480 --> 00:29:29.200
<v Speaker 1>j night, two on five sispects. And then that's another thing.

584
00:29:29.799 --> 00:29:31.759
<v Speaker 1>Y'all be so quick to pull out a burner, and

585
00:29:31.799 --> 00:29:32.880
<v Speaker 1>I got no life insurance.

586
00:29:32.880 --> 00:29:33.319
<v Speaker 2>I don't like that.

587
00:29:33.920 --> 00:29:36.079
<v Speaker 1>I don't like that y'all be on the internet or

588
00:29:36.119 --> 00:29:39.039
<v Speaker 1>all these chains, all this jewelry and nine different name

589
00:29:39.119 --> 00:29:41.920
<v Speaker 1>brands on your outfit. But then as soon as something happened,

590
00:29:42.000 --> 00:29:43.000
<v Speaker 1>you gotta have a fish fry.

591
00:29:43.839 --> 00:29:48.279
<v Speaker 5>I like that because I wanted to get like like

592
00:29:48.319 --> 00:29:52.759
<v Speaker 5>a legal gun. So then now I'll be thinking to

593
00:29:52.799 --> 00:29:53.279
<v Speaker 5>myself like.

594
00:29:55.599 --> 00:29:56.400
<v Speaker 2>Like what am I doing?

595
00:29:56.480 --> 00:29:58.319
<v Speaker 5>Like there's never read a time for you to use it.

596
00:29:58.319 --> 00:29:59.880
<v Speaker 5>It was like, but you always gotta be ready because

597
00:29:59.920 --> 00:30:02.920
<v Speaker 5>you stay ready, So get ready.

598
00:30:03.599 --> 00:30:07.200
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so I'd like yeah, like Nias.

599
00:30:09.319 --> 00:30:10.400
<v Speaker 2>Says, I don't even own a gun.

600
00:30:11.000 --> 00:30:13.480
<v Speaker 1>This is how yousif it says what if they say,

601
00:30:13.480 --> 00:30:14.839
<v Speaker 1>Philid did the Eagles suck?

602
00:30:15.160 --> 00:30:16.920
<v Speaker 2>Do you fight? Then how about them cowboys?

603
00:30:16.920 --> 00:30:17.039
<v Speaker 3>Well?

604
00:30:17.039 --> 00:30:18.480
<v Speaker 2>Fuck them cowboys. That's first thing.

605
00:30:18.759 --> 00:30:21.440
<v Speaker 1>Second thing is if they say the Egles suck. A

606
00:30:21.640 --> 00:30:26.440
<v Speaker 1>wise profit one said, I'm from Philly. No one likes

607
00:30:26.440 --> 00:30:30.119
<v Speaker 1>a sweet don't care. That's an actual chance in Philadelphia.

608
00:30:30.240 --> 00:30:32.839
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, won't get fuck, won't get fuck at all.

609
00:30:34.279 --> 00:30:36.920
<v Speaker 1>Main biker one says life insurance is a must. I

610
00:30:37.039 --> 00:30:40.279
<v Speaker 1>ride motorcycles, Oh yeah, you absolutely need life insurance. And

611
00:30:40.319 --> 00:30:42.799
<v Speaker 1>per gentleman says, I thought more people in Philly would

612
00:30:42.839 --> 00:30:45.319
<v Speaker 1>have guns. They do have guns, they just don't have

613
00:30:45.359 --> 00:30:46.119
<v Speaker 1>life insurance.

614
00:30:46.599 --> 00:30:48.200
<v Speaker 2>That's the thing. Don't get wrong.

615
00:30:48.720 --> 00:30:52.799
<v Speaker 1>Everybody in Philly has guns but no life insurance. That's

616
00:30:52.799 --> 00:30:55.480
<v Speaker 1>why somebody is selling platters or having a fresh fry

617
00:30:55.599 --> 00:30:57.160
<v Speaker 1>or doing some type of go fund me every time

618
00:30:57.200 --> 00:30:59.960
<v Speaker 1>something happens, it's very unfortunate.

619
00:31:00.640 --> 00:31:01.880
<v Speaker 3>To come back and spend all their money.

620
00:31:01.960 --> 00:31:07.319
<v Speaker 1>Yes, and stop depending on that one cousin, that one auntie,

621
00:31:07.480 --> 00:31:09.720
<v Speaker 1>that one sibling to take care of everything.

622
00:31:10.119 --> 00:31:11.000
<v Speaker 3>No, okay.

623
00:31:11.920 --> 00:31:16.400
<v Speaker 1>And here's here's another thing that I learned growing up. Okay,

624
00:31:17.160 --> 00:31:20.200
<v Speaker 1>it's always that one bougie auntie or that one bougie

625
00:31:20.279 --> 00:31:23.039
<v Speaker 1>sibling who don't really fuck with the family, or the

626
00:31:23.079 --> 00:31:27.839
<v Speaker 1>family don't really fuck with And I realized, no, they

627
00:31:28.000 --> 00:31:30.680
<v Speaker 1>actually went to therapy and probably learned boundaries and realized

628
00:31:30.759 --> 00:31:32.400
<v Speaker 1>y'all were trying to fucking mooch off them, so they

629
00:31:32.440 --> 00:31:34.680
<v Speaker 1>decided they didn't want to be friends with y'all no more, okay,

630
00:31:34.839 --> 00:31:36.240
<v Speaker 1>Or they didn't want to have you in the space

631
00:31:36.319 --> 00:31:39.440
<v Speaker 1>or more. Or they developed boundaries to prevent you from

632
00:31:39.599 --> 00:31:40.519
<v Speaker 1>leeching off them.

633
00:31:40.559 --> 00:31:42.160
<v Speaker 2>That is very much a thing. Okay.

634
00:31:42.319 --> 00:31:44.160
<v Speaker 1>So if you got a boogie auntie and your family

635
00:31:44.200 --> 00:31:47.519
<v Speaker 1>can't specifically tell you what they did wrong, that's probably it.

636
00:31:47.920 --> 00:31:50.359
<v Speaker 1>If you got a bougie sibling who, like you, don't

637
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<v Speaker 1>really know, maybe they're a little bit older, a little

638
00:31:52.079 --> 00:31:53.960
<v Speaker 1>bit younger, you don't really know what the beef is there.

639
00:31:54.359 --> 00:31:55.079
<v Speaker 2>It's a boundary.

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<v Speaker 1>It's no beef. It's a healthy boundary. There's no beef,

641
00:31:59.359 --> 00:32:04.599
<v Speaker 1>it's a healthy be boundary. Main Biker one says, Philly

642
00:32:04.680 --> 00:32:07.480
<v Speaker 1>is like NYC strict gun laws in the inner city.

643
00:32:08.039 --> 00:32:10.160
<v Speaker 1>J NIGHTE two on five says, I got a bleach

644
00:32:10.279 --> 00:32:12.799
<v Speaker 1>Sewai sword and a couple switch blades.

645
00:32:12.880 --> 00:32:21.160
<v Speaker 2>Niggat I got go City Kick says, speak on it.

646
00:32:21.359 --> 00:32:22.559
<v Speaker 2>You say you got a cap gun.

647
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<v Speaker 1>Chantal The Price of Ball says girl, Hey Chantal, Hey baby, listen,

648
00:32:28.480 --> 00:32:31.880
<v Speaker 1>I already know you know. Listen, I already know. If

649
00:32:31.920 --> 00:32:36.960
<v Speaker 1>anybody know, I know you know. No, Chantal is very established,

650
00:32:36.960 --> 00:32:38.440
<v Speaker 1>Like I see why she would want to have that

651
00:32:38.440 --> 00:32:41.160
<v Speaker 1>boundary for being like the bougianti or like you know,

652
00:32:41.240 --> 00:32:43.279
<v Speaker 1>the established sibling, Like you know you're not going to

653
00:32:43.319 --> 00:32:44.640
<v Speaker 1>see her in leash off me? What are you doing

654
00:32:44.680 --> 00:32:47.480
<v Speaker 1>for yourself? Like I feel that, uh she is Sancho

655
00:32:47.720 --> 00:32:50.480
<v Speaker 1>Chantel the foot Ball says boundaries. So they think I'm

656
00:32:50.480 --> 00:32:53.359
<v Speaker 1>acting different? Yes, yes, that's the first thing they say,

657
00:32:53.400 --> 00:32:55.839
<v Speaker 1>Oh you acting different? You done came up and it

658
00:32:55.920 --> 00:32:56.960
<v Speaker 1>felt like you switched up.

659
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<v Speaker 2>No, I came up and you didn't. And you have

660
00:33:00.079 --> 00:33:02.160
<v Speaker 2>no desire to have money and.

661
00:33:04.039 --> 00:33:05.759
<v Speaker 3>Real ship would anything about.

662
00:33:05.559 --> 00:33:09.480
<v Speaker 1>That, Like I tho, you can't help nobody don't want

663
00:33:09.480 --> 00:33:11.519
<v Speaker 1>to help themselves. So it's like, if you see me

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00:33:11.599 --> 00:33:15.759
<v Speaker 1>progressing and it doesn't inspire you to progress, I'm so

665
00:33:15.799 --> 00:33:18.200
<v Speaker 1>sorry for you, but that does not hinder my progress.

666
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<v Speaker 3>First of all, bro, why are you in my face?

667
00:33:21.759 --> 00:33:24.319
<v Speaker 3>Why were you even having business?

668
00:33:24.480 --> 00:33:28.160
<v Speaker 1>Yes, Chantel the Ball says, I say no, because yes,

669
00:33:28.240 --> 00:33:29.039
<v Speaker 1>it's expensive.

670
00:33:32.759 --> 00:33:36.440
<v Speaker 2>That is a bar. That is a bar.

671
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<v Speaker 1>U one fine trinny boy says at Chantel the sh

672
00:33:43.000 --> 00:33:45.079
<v Speaker 1>Chantel Price the Ball says, I did all this work

673
00:33:45.119 --> 00:33:48.799
<v Speaker 1>to act the same no energy. Yes, go City Kick says,

674
00:33:48.799 --> 00:33:52.519
<v Speaker 1>gotta protect your peace and your assets. A man uh

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00:33:52.720 --> 00:33:55.960
<v Speaker 1>J nineteen one five says yes. Cost of fortune. Chizzo

676
00:33:56.039 --> 00:33:58.960
<v Speaker 1>says bars Shinto. That was a bar, girl, I ain't

677
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<v Speaker 1>gonna hold you. That was a bar, for sure, for sure,

678
00:34:02.519 --> 00:34:09.840
<v Speaker 1>for sure. First of all, all right, guys, so I'm

679
00:34:09.840 --> 00:34:12.440
<v Speaker 1>sorry I got thrown off agause somebody put in a chit.

680
00:34:13.000 --> 00:34:13.599
<v Speaker 2>Can you put the.

681
00:34:13.639 --> 00:34:19.199
<v Speaker 1>Storm trooper helme and on? No, fat no, absolutely not.

682
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<v Speaker 1>So another thing I want to say was, before we

683
00:34:23.760 --> 00:34:28.400
<v Speaker 1>get questions real fast, I feel like there are some

684
00:34:28.480 --> 00:34:32.000
<v Speaker 1>women who need to hear this, and I want you

685
00:34:32.079 --> 00:34:33.000
<v Speaker 1>to receive.

686
00:34:32.679 --> 00:34:33.360
<v Speaker 2>It with love.

687
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<v Speaker 1>Okay to all my ladies who say, you know I'm

688
00:34:37.159 --> 00:34:40.719
<v Speaker 1>feminine for the right man, like I'm soft, but you

689
00:34:40.800 --> 00:34:43.880
<v Speaker 1>gotta bring that out of me, Like you know, I'm

690
00:34:43.920 --> 00:34:47.039
<v Speaker 1>willing to submit, but you just gotta lead, like you

691
00:34:47.440 --> 00:34:52.760
<v Speaker 1>just gotta be him for real. Right, that's cool, But

692
00:34:52.880 --> 00:34:55.400
<v Speaker 1>me personally, I don't want to be a strong, independent

693
00:34:55.400 --> 00:34:56.239
<v Speaker 1>black woman no more.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And I say this with all my chests and with

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00:34:59.599 --> 00:35:04.599
<v Speaker 1>all my okay, our black women, Okay, I want you

697
00:35:04.679 --> 00:35:09.639
<v Speaker 1>to stop thinking you have to be so aggressive and strong.

698
00:35:10.000 --> 00:35:10.480
<v Speaker 2>You do not.

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00:35:10.920 --> 00:35:15.039
<v Speaker 1>You deserve a soft life to sis like, as a

700
00:35:15.079 --> 00:35:20.119
<v Speaker 1>black woman, it is so tiring just from everyday activities,

701
00:35:20.480 --> 00:35:23.199
<v Speaker 1>being a mom, being a leader at a household, being

702
00:35:23.239 --> 00:35:27.000
<v Speaker 1>in charge of your own business. Like, baby, I don't

703
00:35:27.000 --> 00:35:29.519
<v Speaker 1>want to do that shit, Okay, ain't gonna be no.

704
00:35:29.719 --> 00:35:32.360
<v Speaker 1>Oh well, you know I'm gonna be hard until a

705
00:35:32.400 --> 00:35:33.840
<v Speaker 1>man shows me he's worth it.

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00:35:33.760 --> 00:35:35.480
<v Speaker 2>For what I'm gonna be soft.

707
00:35:36.199 --> 00:35:40.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm soft, call me charman, I'm soft, nigga.

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00:35:40.480 --> 00:35:40.880
<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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00:35:41.519 --> 00:35:44.360
<v Speaker 1>I don't want that hard shit no more. That's not

710
00:35:44.480 --> 00:35:47.800
<v Speaker 1>the life for me, all right. I realize that I

711
00:35:47.960 --> 00:35:51.159
<v Speaker 1>deserve a soft life too, so like, no, I'm not

712
00:35:51.199 --> 00:35:53.440
<v Speaker 1>gonna walk around with a skyle on my face. No,

713
00:35:53.639 --> 00:35:56.159
<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna be super super aggressive to men that

714
00:35:56.400 --> 00:35:59.159
<v Speaker 1>honestly haven't deserved it because they aren't the ones who

715
00:35:59.159 --> 00:36:02.760
<v Speaker 1>actually hurt me like I just now. Don't get me wrong.

716
00:36:02.960 --> 00:36:06.519
<v Speaker 1>I know, in certain situations for safety issues, that might

717
00:36:06.559 --> 00:36:09.000
<v Speaker 1>be your go to cool, but I'm talking about like

718
00:36:09.000 --> 00:36:12.320
<v Speaker 1>everyday life, sis, you deserve peace.

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00:36:12.079 --> 00:36:14.760
<v Speaker 5>Too, And on the God's perspective, you're just being annoying

720
00:36:14.760 --> 00:36:17.559
<v Speaker 5>on purpose because the simple fact that you know that

721
00:36:17.639 --> 00:36:19.280
<v Speaker 5>you don't have to be that way and you're choosing

722
00:36:19.360 --> 00:36:20.159
<v Speaker 5>to be that way.

723
00:36:20.440 --> 00:36:21.000
<v Speaker 3>It's crazy.

724
00:36:21.280 --> 00:36:25.760
<v Speaker 5>It's just simple fact that Okay, like there's literally no explanation, bruh.

725
00:36:26.039 --> 00:36:28.920
<v Speaker 5>If I hold your door open, just let me hold bruh.

726
00:36:28.960 --> 00:36:33.960
<v Speaker 1>And it's like, I know, I know that it's hard

727
00:36:34.000 --> 00:36:36.960
<v Speaker 1>for you to let that boundary down, but you have

728
00:36:37.000 --> 00:36:38.280
<v Speaker 1>to realize sometimes.

729
00:36:37.880 --> 00:36:39.880
<v Speaker 2>We'll be putting up walls for it.

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00:36:40.719 --> 00:36:42.960
<v Speaker 1>Men, you don't even really have to have that boundary

731
00:36:43.079 --> 00:36:47.039
<v Speaker 1>for like, And I know that there are some men

732
00:36:47.159 --> 00:36:51.519
<v Speaker 1>who like the hard progressive type cool, right, but even

733
00:36:51.559 --> 00:36:52.960
<v Speaker 1>they gonna tell you that shit gets tiring.

734
00:36:53.039 --> 00:36:57.159
<v Speaker 2>Somebody everything they want you to be that for some period,

735
00:36:57.519 --> 00:37:01.880
<v Speaker 2>but not all the time, Like nobody want to love

736
00:37:01.880 --> 00:37:09.199
<v Speaker 2>aggressive people all the time. Yes, it's tiring, it's tiring.

737
00:37:12.280 --> 00:37:15.840
<v Speaker 1>Jay Knight said, we all need peace because it's too

738
00:37:15.880 --> 00:37:17.039
<v Speaker 1>many of us in pieces.

739
00:37:17.360 --> 00:37:20.480
<v Speaker 2>Oh, y'all is dropping bars today?

740
00:37:20.719 --> 00:37:22.360
<v Speaker 3>What the fuck?

741
00:37:26.519 --> 00:37:29.920
<v Speaker 1>Ah One fine triny boy says, skin to soft for

742
00:37:30.000 --> 00:37:30.760
<v Speaker 1>a hard life?

743
00:37:31.119 --> 00:37:37.679
<v Speaker 2>Why are y'all dropping bars? I yo, what the fuck?

744
00:37:38.559 --> 00:37:42.679
<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, I'm about to go to Google bruh.

745
00:37:43.400 --> 00:37:46.320
<v Speaker 1>Main Biker one says, I don't buy cars. I gotta

746
00:37:46.360 --> 00:37:48.159
<v Speaker 1>fix up before I drive it.

747
00:37:48.519 --> 00:37:49.760
<v Speaker 2>What is going on?

748
00:37:50.840 --> 00:37:51.159
<v Speaker 1>Y'all?

749
00:37:51.199 --> 00:37:53.480
<v Speaker 2>Did not have to snap like this in this chat?

750
00:37:53.599 --> 00:37:54.599
<v Speaker 2>What is happening?

751
00:37:54.880 --> 00:37:55.280
<v Speaker 3>Jesus?

752
00:37:55.719 --> 00:37:58.960
<v Speaker 1>Oh my guy, y'all is showing off on this Sunday.

753
00:37:59.440 --> 00:38:04.320
<v Speaker 1>Gimmn Raka says, some be so hard that you limit

754
00:38:04.440 --> 00:38:08.400
<v Speaker 1>us to just understand you better. Main Biker one says,

755
00:38:08.400 --> 00:38:10.039
<v Speaker 1>who wants to come home to a woman with a

756
00:38:10.079 --> 00:38:10.760
<v Speaker 1>poked out mouth?

757
00:38:10.800 --> 00:38:21.599
<v Speaker 2>For the heads carved? I'm like this, leave this shirt on.

758
00:38:24.480 --> 00:38:24.880
<v Speaker 3>Yo?

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00:38:25.280 --> 00:38:34.320
<v Speaker 1>All right? Man, listen, long story short, sister, sister, be easy, baby,

760
00:38:34.480 --> 00:38:36.400
<v Speaker 1>you deserve a soft life too. And I know you've

761
00:38:36.400 --> 00:38:38.559
<v Speaker 1>heard the expression you get more bees with honey than

762
00:38:38.559 --> 00:38:42.400
<v Speaker 1>you do vinegar like, take a second and realize you

763
00:38:42.440 --> 00:38:45.000
<v Speaker 1>deserve peace, You deserve a soft life, You deserve to

764
00:38:45.000 --> 00:38:47.119
<v Speaker 1>be happy, You deserve to be taken care of. You

765
00:38:47.199 --> 00:38:50.639
<v Speaker 1>deserve to put your emotions and feelings into someone willing

766
00:38:50.679 --> 00:38:53.719
<v Speaker 1>to reciprocate that. But baby, ain't nobody trying to reciprocate

767
00:38:53.760 --> 00:38:56.840
<v Speaker 1>no anger in aggression. That ain't it. That ain't it

768
00:38:56.880 --> 00:39:00.840
<v Speaker 1>at all. And yeah, that was just my last thing. Okay,

769
00:39:00.960 --> 00:39:01.239
<v Speaker 1>so now.

770
00:39:01.199 --> 00:39:02.960
<v Speaker 2>We're going portion of the show.

771
00:39:03.320 --> 00:39:06.400
<v Speaker 1>So the edible portion is when I read questions that

772
00:39:06.440 --> 00:39:09.360
<v Speaker 1>you guys send in, and usually on the day that

773
00:39:09.400 --> 00:39:11.880
<v Speaker 1>we record, I put up a prompt such a second week,

774
00:39:11.880 --> 00:39:13.199
<v Speaker 1>get a row off. I got to put up a proms.

775
00:39:13.280 --> 00:39:15.039
<v Speaker 1>It's been busy, but you know, it is what it is.

776
00:39:15.480 --> 00:39:16.960
<v Speaker 1>But if you do have a question or it is

777
00:39:17.000 --> 00:39:18.840
<v Speaker 1>something you would like to talk about, you have a story,

778
00:39:19.239 --> 00:39:25.719
<v Speaker 1>you can always email me at inquiries at stormypea dot com.

779
00:39:25.840 --> 00:39:27.960
<v Speaker 2>They still snapping in the chap about this peace thing.

780
00:39:31.760 --> 00:39:38.320
<v Speaker 1>Hold on one Fine Trinity Boy says poetry finger snaps,

781
00:39:39.440 --> 00:39:45.360
<v Speaker 1>y'all are so annoying. G mash Brocas says Breathe j

782
00:39:45.559 --> 00:39:47.719
<v Speaker 1>Night two on five says I'm a pisces I got

783
00:39:47.719 --> 00:39:50.800
<v Speaker 1>the heart of the size of a five gallon jug.

784
00:39:51.239 --> 00:39:54.320
<v Speaker 2>You see in the doctor's office. What is wrong with y'all?

785
00:39:54.400 --> 00:39:57.039
<v Speaker 1>I'm crying, all right, So listen, you ain't got no questions.

786
00:39:57.039 --> 00:39:58.320
<v Speaker 1>If not, we're gonna wrap the shit up.

787
00:40:02.480 --> 00:40:05.039
<v Speaker 3>No, well, it was.

788
00:40:05.199 --> 00:40:06.159
<v Speaker 2>It was questions.

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00:40:06.159 --> 00:40:08.599
<v Speaker 1>But then we started talking about the peace thing and

790
00:40:08.679 --> 00:40:14.119
<v Speaker 1>we didn't really get there. And yeah, so my bad, y'all.

791
00:40:14.119 --> 00:40:15.880
<v Speaker 1>I should have done that in the reverse order.

792
00:40:15.960 --> 00:40:18.280
<v Speaker 2>My bad. But it is what it is. But going

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00:40:18.320 --> 00:40:18.719
<v Speaker 2>back to.

794
00:40:18.639 --> 00:40:22.159
<v Speaker 1>Our peace conversations till y'all put some in or don't like,

795
00:40:22.239 --> 00:40:26.960
<v Speaker 1>it is what it is. Yeah, man, I just know

796
00:40:27.199 --> 00:40:32.400
<v Speaker 1>for me personally, being like the strong one, sometimes I

797
00:40:32.440 --> 00:40:38.239
<v Speaker 1>have to intentionally tell myself to fall back. And it's

798
00:40:38.280 --> 00:40:40.400
<v Speaker 1>even harder when you're in a situation when you have

799
00:40:40.440 --> 00:40:42.559
<v Speaker 1>to be hard because you it's your only choice, like

800
00:40:42.599 --> 00:40:46.159
<v Speaker 1>you don't have no help. So from one strong friend

801
00:40:46.199 --> 00:40:49.280
<v Speaker 1>to another, you deserve peace, all right, Stop being so

802
00:40:49.400 --> 00:40:51.079
<v Speaker 1>mean that man don't deserve it.

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<v Speaker 2>That's it, and that's all.

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00:40:53.679 --> 00:40:56.760
<v Speaker 1>J NIGHTE two one five says one personal question, what

805
00:40:56.840 --> 00:40:58.760
<v Speaker 1>made you get to where you are now?

806
00:40:58.920 --> 00:40:59.400
<v Speaker 2>Mentally?

807
00:41:00.079 --> 00:41:00.199
<v Speaker 3>Bro?

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<v Speaker 2>Don't laugh at me, y'all, don't laugh at me.

809
00:41:03.760 --> 00:41:07.039
<v Speaker 1>When I when I would say this, but it really

810
00:41:07.079 --> 00:41:11.199
<v Speaker 1>took a man breaking my heart for me to realize

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00:41:11.800 --> 00:41:14.639
<v Speaker 1>I'm the reason he broke my heart. Right, it really

812
00:41:14.679 --> 00:41:18.039
<v Speaker 1>took a man breaking my heart for me to realize

813
00:41:18.159 --> 00:41:21.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm the problem. That fucking sucks, right, Like, First of all,

814
00:41:22.079 --> 00:41:25.119
<v Speaker 1>number one, you dealing with the heartbreak. Number two, you

815
00:41:25.280 --> 00:41:29.639
<v Speaker 1>now are reaching the realization through therapy that bitch, you're

816
00:41:29.679 --> 00:41:30.320
<v Speaker 1>the problem.

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00:41:31.159 --> 00:41:32.119
<v Speaker 2>Ah what?

818
00:41:33.079 --> 00:41:33.199
<v Speaker 3>Like?

819
00:41:33.360 --> 00:41:34.320
<v Speaker 1>What? Oh?

820
00:41:34.360 --> 00:41:37.199
<v Speaker 2>My god? Like, I am so happy.

821
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<v Speaker 1>First of all, I broke up with him, and he

822
00:41:39.480 --> 00:41:41.480
<v Speaker 1>did not want to get back with me, right, and

823
00:41:41.559 --> 00:41:44.440
<v Speaker 1>I cannot understand why. And I feel like if he

824
00:41:44.519 --> 00:41:47.119
<v Speaker 1>would have got back with me, I would still be

825
00:41:47.199 --> 00:41:50.159
<v Speaker 1>a trash ass person. I would, I would, I would

826
00:41:50.159 --> 00:41:52.719
<v Speaker 1>not have half of the emotional intelligence that I do now.

827
00:41:53.119 --> 00:41:56.039
<v Speaker 1>Like that heartbreak was the best thing that ever could

828
00:41:56.039 --> 00:42:02.880
<v Speaker 1>happen to me one thousand percent. Next question, Uh, ladies,

829
00:42:02.920 --> 00:42:05.079
<v Speaker 1>we know you trying, but you ain't got to fight everybody.

830
00:42:08.159 --> 00:42:11.440
<v Speaker 1>Oh my la, I had to fight never again, zero

831
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<v Speaker 1>four six five. How do you get a woman to

832
00:42:14.639 --> 00:42:17.119
<v Speaker 1>see your vision? You can't. God didn't give it to her,

833
00:42:17.320 --> 00:42:19.760
<v Speaker 1>He gave it to you. And I know I know that,

834
00:42:19.800 --> 00:42:22.000
<v Speaker 1>I know, I know I know that's a little bit crazy, right,

835
00:42:22.519 --> 00:42:24.519
<v Speaker 1>And it don't just go for a men and females

836
00:42:24.800 --> 00:42:28.039
<v Speaker 1>or males and females. You can't get anyone to understand

837
00:42:28.079 --> 00:42:30.960
<v Speaker 1>your vision because God didn't give it to them to

838
00:42:31.039 --> 00:42:34.400
<v Speaker 1>see right. God gave it to you to develop to

839
00:42:34.639 --> 00:42:37.480
<v Speaker 1>culture to produce this wonderful product.

840
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<v Speaker 3>Right.

841
00:42:38.119 --> 00:42:41.679
<v Speaker 1>So I know sometimes it'd be so frustrating because it's like, bro,

842
00:42:41.800 --> 00:42:45.360
<v Speaker 1>I gotta play, just follow me, sis, here's the lineup,

843
00:42:45.400 --> 00:42:47.880
<v Speaker 1>just what you gotta do. But it's like, like I

844
00:42:47.880 --> 00:42:50.000
<v Speaker 1>said before, you can't help somebody who don't want to help.

845
00:42:49.840 --> 00:42:51.320
<v Speaker 3>Themselves continue to walk.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, yes, people like Loki, we all inspect them to

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00:42:56.320 --> 00:42:59.679
<v Speaker 5>expect you know, I'm oh, yeah, that's cool, that's cool.

848
00:42:59.719 --> 00:43:03.480
<v Speaker 5>That's but your your words are validated by your actions.

849
00:43:03.880 --> 00:43:05.559
<v Speaker 5>They're not validated by it the way to make me

850
00:43:05.599 --> 00:43:09.119
<v Speaker 5>feel I agree. If you're going to say, yeah, I'm

851
00:43:09.119 --> 00:43:10.440
<v Speaker 5>about to go get it, We're about to make this

852
00:43:10.519 --> 00:43:13.280
<v Speaker 5>money blah blah, and then the next week we meet up.

853
00:43:13.280 --> 00:43:14.559
<v Speaker 3>And you've done nothing nothing.

854
00:43:15.639 --> 00:43:17.800
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, we say hey Raehan and you just shooting me

855
00:43:17.800 --> 00:43:20.519
<v Speaker 5>a video blah blah blah blah. Cool beans, dandy, I

856
00:43:20.639 --> 00:43:24.079
<v Speaker 5>meet you for the consultation and you tell me that, Oh,

857
00:43:24.119 --> 00:43:28.280
<v Speaker 5>I thought you were just gonna do your thing. Oh oh, oh,

858
00:43:28.559 --> 00:43:29.119
<v Speaker 5>I guess you're not.

859
00:43:31.119 --> 00:43:32.239
<v Speaker 2>Like it's.

860
00:43:33.760 --> 00:43:37.280
<v Speaker 1>I agree, Like you can't make them see your vision.

861
00:43:37.639 --> 00:43:40.519
<v Speaker 1>But if on the flip side of that, it appears

862
00:43:40.519 --> 00:43:43.440
<v Speaker 1>as if you're not making your vision happen, she's going

863
00:43:43.480 --> 00:43:46.000
<v Speaker 1>to be less inclined to follow you or less inclined

864
00:43:46.000 --> 00:43:47.760
<v Speaker 1>to believe in it. Like it's one thing for you

865
00:43:47.800 --> 00:43:49.760
<v Speaker 1>to tell me, like, yo, I want to be a rapper,

866
00:43:49.800 --> 00:43:52.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm not getting a job. Cool. How are we making

867
00:43:53.000 --> 00:43:55.079
<v Speaker 1>money in the process? What is your plan to get there?

868
00:43:55.280 --> 00:43:57.760
<v Speaker 1>What's your quarterly plan, what's your yearly plan, what's your

869
00:43:57.800 --> 00:43:59.679
<v Speaker 1>five year plan? Do you have any of that? What

870
00:43:59.719 --> 00:44:01.599
<v Speaker 1>are your goals? What are your minds? What are your

871
00:44:01.599 --> 00:44:04.079
<v Speaker 1>mouthstones that lets me know that you're getting there and

872
00:44:04.119 --> 00:44:06.320
<v Speaker 1>we're making progress? You don't have none of that. All

873
00:44:06.320 --> 00:44:08.239
<v Speaker 1>you keep saying is just post my video.

874
00:44:08.599 --> 00:44:09.239
<v Speaker 2>Fuck you.

875
00:44:09.440 --> 00:44:11.360
<v Speaker 5>Then if you really are doing that and not saying

876
00:44:11.360 --> 00:44:14.360
<v Speaker 5>that you're not even if you are, the fact that

877
00:44:14.440 --> 00:44:16.760
<v Speaker 5>the people who are around you are the ones who

878
00:44:16.800 --> 00:44:18.880
<v Speaker 5>get it, So it really takes a guess work out

879
00:44:18.880 --> 00:44:21.840
<v Speaker 5>of it, Like I don't have to guess who's around me. Yeah,

880
00:44:21.920 --> 00:44:24.920
<v Speaker 5>if you or because you understand what time of morning.

881
00:44:24.960 --> 00:44:27.000
<v Speaker 5>If you didn't, in the sense of and since I'm

882
00:44:27.079 --> 00:44:28.639
<v Speaker 5>really this is where I'm at.

883
00:44:29.760 --> 00:44:31.840
<v Speaker 3>If you hear you not, we're just not gonna get

884
00:44:31.840 --> 00:44:32.960
<v Speaker 3>along if you're not the.

885
00:44:32.920 --> 00:44:34.679
<v Speaker 5>Fact that I don't have to worry about oh well,

886
00:44:34.719 --> 00:44:36.840
<v Speaker 5>you know maybe maybe so No, you still got.

887
00:44:36.679 --> 00:44:39.159
<v Speaker 3>To look at it. So it's like I don't have

888
00:44:39.159 --> 00:44:40.079
<v Speaker 3>to worry about stuff like that.

889
00:44:40.079 --> 00:44:42.320
<v Speaker 5>I feel that walking your purpose and you really know

890
00:44:42.360 --> 00:44:45.639
<v Speaker 5>where you're going, all that extra shit really goes to

891
00:44:45.639 --> 00:44:46.039
<v Speaker 5>the side.

892
00:44:47.400 --> 00:44:47.840
<v Speaker 2>I feel that.

893
00:44:48.119 --> 00:44:48.519
<v Speaker 3>I feel that.

894
00:44:49.400 --> 00:44:58.760
<v Speaker 2>Um sorry, y'all. Uh what ty Grind says, vision seers

895
00:44:58.760 --> 00:44:59.719
<v Speaker 2>are unicorns?

896
00:45:00.639 --> 00:45:00.719
<v Speaker 1>Uh?

897
00:45:00.800 --> 00:45:02.679
<v Speaker 2>Shizzo says, nigga, it's your vision.

898
00:45:04.480 --> 00:45:04.960
<v Speaker 4>Uh.

899
00:45:06.199 --> 00:45:08.400
<v Speaker 1>Jackson Junior Paul says the fight is over and the

900
00:45:08.440 --> 00:45:11.760
<v Speaker 1>good ones ain't gonna reciprocate them as she fighting ass knuckles.

901
00:45:13.079 --> 00:45:15.760
<v Speaker 1>Tig Grind says, who's your therapist? Because they're a miracle worker.

902
00:45:16.280 --> 00:45:18.400
<v Speaker 1>They need more clients. No, she don't, because if she do,

903
00:45:18.480 --> 00:45:20.199
<v Speaker 1>she not gonna time for me, and I'll be needing

904
00:45:20.239 --> 00:45:24.280
<v Speaker 1>a lot of time. J Knight two one five says

905
00:45:24.360 --> 00:45:27.880
<v Speaker 1>humble heartperay got to me too. Blah, blah blah blah

906
00:45:27.880 --> 00:45:30.679
<v Speaker 1>blah blah. Uh one Fine Training Boy says, sometimes it's

907
00:45:30.679 --> 00:45:33.840
<v Speaker 1>hard to realize you're designing your own hell uh. J

908
00:45:34.000 --> 00:45:35.679
<v Speaker 1>Night two one five says Church word of the day.

909
00:45:35.760 --> 00:45:37.760
<v Speaker 1>You can't be a good leader if you never was

910
00:45:37.800 --> 00:45:41.639
<v Speaker 1>a good follower. Agreed, Mmm.

911
00:45:43.559 --> 00:45:45.360
<v Speaker 3>Do do sex?

912
00:45:45.440 --> 00:45:48.639
<v Speaker 1>Maximus says, how is it? How important is it for

913
00:45:48.719 --> 00:45:51.039
<v Speaker 1>a father to display how a man should treat a

914
00:45:51.079 --> 00:45:53.840
<v Speaker 1>woman to his daughter? And if he is not there,

915
00:45:54.039 --> 00:45:57.480
<v Speaker 1>is it more likely that daughter have unhealthy relationships?

916
00:46:00.239 --> 00:46:00.559
<v Speaker 2>Y'all?

917
00:46:01.320 --> 00:46:02.199
<v Speaker 3>Conversation question.

918
00:46:02.840 --> 00:46:03.760
<v Speaker 2>Let me tell y'all something.

919
00:46:05.400 --> 00:46:08.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to say this from the bottom of my heart, right,

920
00:46:10.039 --> 00:46:13.840
<v Speaker 1>I don't care how much your baby mom gets on

921
00:46:13.880 --> 00:46:19.280
<v Speaker 1>your nerves. Fathers with daughters, especially, please fight to be

922
00:46:19.280 --> 00:46:21.639
<v Speaker 1>in your daughter's lives. And you know, I'm not gonna

923
00:46:21.679 --> 00:46:24.320
<v Speaker 1>say just fathers with daughters father's period should be fighting

924
00:46:24.320 --> 00:46:26.599
<v Speaker 1>to be in your kids lives. But if you have

925
00:46:26.679 --> 00:46:30.599
<v Speaker 1>a daughter, you absolutely need to be in her life.

926
00:46:30.679 --> 00:46:32.719
<v Speaker 1>And I don't care how bad your beam get on

927
00:46:32.760 --> 00:46:35.559
<v Speaker 1>your nerves. I know she makes you want to choke her.

928
00:46:35.880 --> 00:46:37.719
<v Speaker 1>I know she makes you want to, you know, set

929
00:46:37.760 --> 00:46:39.480
<v Speaker 1>the house on fire, but your kid inside, so you

930
00:46:39.519 --> 00:46:40.199
<v Speaker 1>can't right.

931
00:46:41.239 --> 00:46:43.559
<v Speaker 2>I know, I know. I know she a bitch, right,

932
00:46:44.000 --> 00:46:46.039
<v Speaker 2>I know she ain't shit, right.

933
00:46:46.119 --> 00:46:48.920
<v Speaker 1>I know she annoying, I know she immture, I know

934
00:46:49.000 --> 00:46:52.920
<v Speaker 1>she petty, I know she all of that. Still, even

935
00:46:52.960 --> 00:46:56.480
<v Speaker 1>if you aren't getting anywhere, fight put up an effort

936
00:46:56.480 --> 00:46:59.199
<v Speaker 1>to be in your kid's life, right. And the reason

937
00:46:59.239 --> 00:47:03.679
<v Speaker 1>I say that is because me, as an adult, can

938
00:47:03.760 --> 00:47:07.800
<v Speaker 1>absolutely look back and say, my father was not trying

939
00:47:07.840 --> 00:47:09.199
<v Speaker 1>to be in my life. And that's one of the

940
00:47:09.199 --> 00:47:11.679
<v Speaker 1>reasons why I had such a hard time dating growing up,

941
00:47:11.800 --> 00:47:14.920
<v Speaker 1>because I didn't have any examples of what a woman

942
00:47:14.920 --> 00:47:18.519
<v Speaker 1>being love properly looked like, or having a male influence

943
00:47:18.559 --> 00:47:21.880
<v Speaker 1>saying hey, this is how you should carry yourself like,

944
00:47:22.000 --> 00:47:26.119
<v Speaker 1>this is what is womanly. And I don't want to

945
00:47:26.159 --> 00:47:29.280
<v Speaker 1>say womanly because that's not his job. But it is

946
00:47:30.039 --> 00:47:32.840
<v Speaker 1>important to have some type of father figure in your life, right,

947
00:47:32.840 --> 00:47:36.480
<v Speaker 1>because I've seen daddy issues produce many different types of people.

948
00:47:36.800 --> 00:47:39.440
<v Speaker 2>I've seen it produced simps and savages, right.

949
00:47:39.880 --> 00:47:43.719
<v Speaker 1>So I think that not having that father figure, though,

950
00:47:44.159 --> 00:47:47.440
<v Speaker 1>caused me to believe that certain things were love that wasn't.

951
00:47:48.039 --> 00:47:51.280
<v Speaker 1>It caused me to settle for things, whether it be treatment,

952
00:47:51.639 --> 00:47:55.159
<v Speaker 1>whether it be you know, adding to the abandonment issues

953
00:47:55.400 --> 00:47:59.039
<v Speaker 1>or you know, the anxious dating styles, like all that

954
00:47:59.119 --> 00:48:02.760
<v Speaker 1>is so avoidable, Like if I would have just seen

955
00:48:02.840 --> 00:48:05.400
<v Speaker 1>him trying, I think it would have made a difference.

956
00:48:05.920 --> 00:48:08.800
<v Speaker 1>Cause like as an adult, I'm able to sit back

957
00:48:08.840 --> 00:48:10.679
<v Speaker 1>and be like, oh, yeah, my my mom was being

958
00:48:10.679 --> 00:48:11.440
<v Speaker 1>a bitch at this time.

959
00:48:11.440 --> 00:48:15.079
<v Speaker 2>But it's like, nope, she wasn't. Nigga wasn't trying.

960
00:48:15.519 --> 00:48:19.119
<v Speaker 1>Didn't say it like, actually, you know, I did live

961
00:48:19.159 --> 00:48:21.159
<v Speaker 1>around the corner from this nigga for a minute. Never

962
00:48:21.199 --> 00:48:24.599
<v Speaker 1>came knocked through the door like now and now let

963
00:48:24.639 --> 00:48:27.239
<v Speaker 1>a think about it. Never try to see me just

964
00:48:27.239 --> 00:48:30.000
<v Speaker 1>standing outside of school, like no, the didn't do anything.

965
00:48:30.159 --> 00:48:32.960
<v Speaker 1>Theydn't dow fucking anything. So it's like, I know what

966
00:48:33.079 --> 00:48:35.320
<v Speaker 1>may seem like the mama's being a bitch now, but

967
00:48:35.480 --> 00:48:37.559
<v Speaker 1>as the kid grows up, they're gonna be able to

968
00:48:37.559 --> 00:48:39.920
<v Speaker 1>look back and say, yeah, but I remember my dad trying,

969
00:48:40.480 --> 00:48:45.719
<v Speaker 1>like fucking try bro try one fine, tritty boy says, father,

970
00:48:45.800 --> 00:48:48.800
<v Speaker 1>your kids so the streets don't J nine two one

971
00:48:48.840 --> 00:48:51.440
<v Speaker 1>five says I'm thirty seven and only a godfather, and

972
00:48:51.480 --> 00:48:53.880
<v Speaker 1>I'll trade my life to see her succeed better in

973
00:48:54.000 --> 00:48:57.159
<v Speaker 1>hers ay men, Shizzo says, the Bible says your wife

974
00:48:57.199 --> 00:48:59.800
<v Speaker 1>is here to help Proverbs thirty one. And if her

975
00:48:59.840 --> 00:49:01.440
<v Speaker 1>and tensions are not that, what are.

976
00:49:01.400 --> 00:49:02.119
<v Speaker 2>We talking about?

977
00:49:02.559 --> 00:49:06.440
<v Speaker 1>Hi, Isaiah hd Els, my name says, I'm here, but

978
00:49:06.480 --> 00:49:11.159
<v Speaker 1>I can't hear you. I'm at the Texan game. Behi, Hello, Hello, Hello, Hello.

979
00:49:12.079 --> 00:49:14.159
<v Speaker 1>All right, So what do we learned today?

980
00:49:14.159 --> 00:49:14.480
<v Speaker 2>Guys?

981
00:49:14.639 --> 00:49:16.920
<v Speaker 1>You know love is love, and no matter what you

982
00:49:16.960 --> 00:49:18.519
<v Speaker 1>see on the internet, we need each other. So let's

983
00:49:18.519 --> 00:49:22.199
<v Speaker 1>start fucking acting like it. Okay. Uh. Part of that

984
00:49:22.239 --> 00:49:23.639
<v Speaker 1>is on what you want and what you don't want.

985
00:49:24.000 --> 00:49:25.760
<v Speaker 1>If you just trying to chill and catch you vibe,

986
00:49:25.800 --> 00:49:28.159
<v Speaker 1>I'm not the girl for you. I'm trying to swap

987
00:49:28.199 --> 00:49:32.719
<v Speaker 1>last names or take yours anyway, right. I rebuke black struggle,

988
00:49:32.800 --> 00:49:35.280
<v Speaker 1>love music in the name of Jesus, and movies too,

989
00:49:35.639 --> 00:49:37.800
<v Speaker 1>fuck love and basketball. Yeah, I said it.

990
00:49:37.880 --> 00:49:39.800
<v Speaker 2>I don't care. Tell us some not like then. I

991
00:49:39.880 --> 00:49:40.280
<v Speaker 2>said it.

992
00:49:40.440 --> 00:49:40.599
<v Speaker 3>Right.

993
00:49:42.440 --> 00:49:44.880
<v Speaker 2>Your kids want to be grown so bad, we team

994
00:49:44.960 --> 00:49:45.320
<v Speaker 2>grow up.

995
00:49:45.320 --> 00:49:49.000
<v Speaker 1>Bro. It fucking sucks. It sucks, all right, and you

996
00:49:49.000 --> 00:49:52.719
<v Speaker 1>wake up with random eggs and pains. It's trash. I'm

997
00:49:52.719 --> 00:49:54.159
<v Speaker 1>also at a point in my life where nothing that's

998
00:49:54.199 --> 00:49:56.719
<v Speaker 1>worth fighting for it niggas might not make it back.

999
00:49:56.840 --> 00:49:58.519
<v Speaker 1>I ain't got an emmy, don't want to do it,

1000
00:49:58.679 --> 00:50:01.079
<v Speaker 1>don't fucking want to do it. I want you all

1001
00:50:01.079 --> 00:50:03.079
<v Speaker 1>to stop saying you're feminine for the right man and

1002
00:50:03.280 --> 00:50:06.840
<v Speaker 1>just be feminine. Stop saying you're feminine for the right man,

1003
00:50:06.920 --> 00:50:11.320
<v Speaker 1>and just be feminine like it's so much happier over here,

1004
00:50:11.559 --> 00:50:16.199
<v Speaker 1>like ah, it's amazing, right, And yeah, you can't get

1005
00:50:16.239 --> 00:50:18.400
<v Speaker 1>anybody to understand your vision because it wasn't given to them.

1006
00:50:18.400 --> 00:50:20.760
<v Speaker 1>It was given to you. My message is always going

1007
00:50:20.800 --> 00:50:24.119
<v Speaker 1>to be the same. Follow me on the gram at story,

1008
00:50:24.119 --> 00:50:26.320
<v Speaker 1>pe at chocolate chip, and sip. And if you don't

1009
00:50:26.320 --> 00:50:29.599
<v Speaker 1>remember anything else, please remember I got crashed out, couchie.

1010
00:50:29.679 --> 00:50:31.000
<v Speaker 1>I love you guys, and I see you next week.

1011
00:50:31.039 --> 00:50:31.320
<v Speaker 2>Peace.