Speaker 1: What's up, beautiful people? What is your baby mama? Favorite
Speaker 1: baby Mama? Stormy Pe And this is another episode of
Speaker 1: Chocolate Chip and Zip the modern day female perspective. Damn
Speaker 1: Son back at it again. When I say that, in
Speaker 1: my mind, I feel like I'm on a mixtape and
Speaker 1: it'd be like a bomb drop.
Speaker 2: Yes, shot, it's okay. I don't care, No, I don't care. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I would like for you to be on the mic
Speaker 1: this week because last week you were not. When I
Speaker 1: went through it couldn't hear shit. Okay, sorry, sorry, sorry sorry, yeah, okay.
Speaker 2: Now I're in business. Boom good here we are. Thank you. Listen, y'all.
Speaker 1: I just want to get a few things off my chests,
Speaker 1: all right. I was talking to the folks on Live
Speaker 1: before we started, and you know, every year I always say, oh,
Speaker 1: this is gonna be my year in matching pajamas, and
Speaker 1: I do end up in your pajamas.
Speaker 2: It just be with my son.
Speaker 1: So in order to alleviate that, I'm just gonna switch
Speaker 1: my focus and just choose to pour out energy for
Speaker 1: the lovers. I feel like every time we go on
Speaker 1: out Wars Internet, it's always some male versus female conversation.
Speaker 1: It's always some do women still, It's always some do
Speaker 1: men still? It's always well, I just feel like as
Speaker 1: a man and then it's always you know, the three
Speaker 1: oh four is always go on put But how about
Speaker 1: we put some different energy into the atmosphere, okay, because at.
Speaker 2: The end of the day, baby, we need each other.
Speaker 1: And I know, like the jokes and shit be fun,
Speaker 1: but it's like, at the end of the day that
Speaker 1: Roles ain't gonna cuddle you from behind like a man
Speaker 1: care Okay, at the end of the day, that booty
Speaker 1: blast the three thousand, she can't get up and make
Speaker 1: you breakfast, all right.
Speaker 2: So that's just take a few minutes.
Speaker 1: To redirect, to refocus, to recenter, not just drop your roses,
Speaker 1: drop your fucking tanga three thousand spinner, you know what
Speaker 1: that is.
Speaker 3: That's a real thing.
Speaker 1: You're crazy, okay because you know what that is. Yes,
Speaker 1: we do drop drop the tango. Sorry flag day.
Speaker 2: Yeah, man.
Speaker 1: So you know, I just want to, you know, put
Speaker 1: some different energy out there. And I want to start
Speaker 1: by sight. You know, if you just want to chill
Speaker 1: and catch a vibe and not looking for anything serious,
Speaker 1: I'm not the girl for you. Okay, I'm not the
Speaker 1: girl for you, all right.
Speaker 2: If you're just trying to you know, chill, catch your vibe,
Speaker 2: hang out, not that serious all vibes.
Speaker 1: I'm not the girl for you, okay. I feel like
Speaker 1: when that black guy was getting interviewed and he was like,
Speaker 1: if you don't get okay, Like I feel like that,
Speaker 1: get out my face, right. I don't need it. I
Speaker 1: don't need it. Not only do I not need it,
Speaker 1: I don't want it, all right, And I'm asking you
Speaker 1: to respect me when I say.
Speaker 4: Get the like get just get get get here, just
Speaker 4: say I don't want you anymore, get out here, get okay.
Speaker 3: I'm retired.
Speaker 1: I am so serious hard because like, once you step
Speaker 1: into that thing, it's like.
Speaker 3: I understand. But like Drea, I don't live their life
Speaker 3: no more, baby, Like, I.
Speaker 1: Am not looking for a situationship. I am not looking
Speaker 1: for a butt buddy. I am not looking for someone
Speaker 1: to drunk text at three a m. I'm not okay now,
Speaker 1: don't get me wrong, y'all. I'm not trying to force
Speaker 1: monogamy or a relationship on anybody.
Speaker 2: All I'm saying is if you are entered brouh.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like if you want to enter into this space. Baby,
Speaker 1: you gotta come ready for something else. And I don't
Speaker 1: think it's nothing wrong with that. Like, at the end
Speaker 1: of the day, everybody ain't for everybody, and once we
Speaker 1: accept that, won't be so much better, like so much happier,
Speaker 1: like and just be connected on all different types of levels.
Speaker 1: And I'm just saying if marriage is not in your future,
Speaker 1: I'm not even saying near future, Okay, if you don't
Speaker 1: plan on putting on a suit at any time to
Speaker 1: stand in front of the Lord and say I'm the
Speaker 1: one you choose, I'm probably not the one for you, respectfully, respectfully.
Speaker 1: And it's like I hate when I express that, right,
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I hate when I express that.
Speaker 2: And then it's just I'm just saying, like we can
Speaker 2: just chill catch your bob. No we can't, No, we can't.
Speaker 1: I don't want to. I don't want to. And it's
Speaker 1: like I'm just saying, like, how you gonna know if
Speaker 1: if I'm the one for you, if we're not chilling
Speaker 1: and catch your bob first.
Speaker 2: Hold one, don't try the fucking don't try.
Speaker 3: To like this situation, trying to give You're right.
Speaker 1: I no, no, no, don't try to. I'm just saying, like,
Speaker 1: if we can't catch your bob first, Like, how do
Speaker 1: what even know?
Speaker 2: Their shoot is?
Speaker 3: It works like a charm, that's why they do it.
Speaker 2: Mm hmmm.
Speaker 1: And perfect gentleman says what she's saying is date with
Speaker 1: a purpose and not casually. I agree one thousand percent.
Speaker 3: At this pane.
Speaker 5: Casually, just say that, bro, and here's the thing. And woman,
Speaker 5: if that's not what you want, just say that.
Speaker 3: It's not that.
Speaker 1: Just say that, bro, bruh, Like, it is nothing wrong
Speaker 1: with dating casually.
Speaker 2: Just say it. Just say it. But not only are.
Speaker 1: You're gonna have to just say it, You're gonna have
Speaker 1: to accept that you don't have access to.
Speaker 2: Me because that's not what I'm looking for. Like, how
Speaker 2: dare you?
Speaker 5: Like, I know we've met, hitting it off, everything's cool,
Speaker 5: but I ain't really into a relationship.
Speaker 3: I just made it up off the dome. That was easy.
Speaker 2: Yes, that was easy. Yes, And I don't know.
Speaker 5: I don't know that the girls, the ship girls be
Speaker 5: saying to me, just be great. I can't repeat that,
Speaker 5: but I know, I know, I know what we're saying.
Speaker 1: But it's like, and I think that a large part
Speaker 1: of it is just knowing what you want and knowing
Speaker 1: what you're capable of. Like me, I'm a lover girl baby.
Speaker 1: Once we do the no pants dance we go together.
Speaker 3: Start talking about like it's a rap, Like I'm not
Speaker 3: into all that. I can't. Bruh, I can't. I don't
Speaker 3: even have the capacity to be dumb.
Speaker 5: Yes, Like I'm not gonna be texting multiple chicks dumb
Speaker 5: ship like I'm a man.
Speaker 3: Like, we don't do that.
Speaker 5: Bruh, that's only no, Like, yeah, that's why I remember
Speaker 5: we were talking on one person at time.
Speaker 1: Once we do the no Pants Dance, we go together, Okay,
Speaker 1: I dine picked out baby names, all right, I just
Speaker 1: put a deposit down on a wedding figure, Like what
Speaker 1: are you talking about? So no, I cannot play casually
Speaker 1: because I know what I'm capable. I know my mind
Speaker 1: is going to go to if we're like moving a
Speaker 1: correct way, and my whole thing is if you're looking
Speaker 1: forward and I'm looking for and we're vibing on that level,
Speaker 1: all that behavior.
Speaker 2: Is fine with time. So it's like, leave me alone,
Speaker 2: just leave it I alone.
Speaker 5: I just feel like with this time, I feel like
Speaker 5: even with that question of what do you bring to
Speaker 5: the table. Even though yeah, it was a buzzword, I
Speaker 5: just feel like that was kind of like taking the
Speaker 5: leg work out of dating people, Like instead of just
Speaker 5: let me get to know this person, let me take
Speaker 5: them out, let me hang out with here, let me
Speaker 5: just be in the natural habitat blah blah blah, which
Speaker 5: thirty five mil a third blah blah, And then do
Speaker 5: you want me to wrap it up? I like to think,
Speaker 5: but can we negotiate the kids?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 5: Right, that's that's pretty much like a speed day. But
Speaker 5: you want to be like that all the time, Like
Speaker 5: you got out, put the work in, and it doesn't
Speaker 5: mean five years or five months, but god, get to
Speaker 5: know people like all niggas just be out here and
Speaker 5: then when it don't work, it just don't work.
Speaker 2: It just don't work.
Speaker 3: There's no need for be yes, No, you said this before,
Speaker 3: like there's no need.
Speaker 1: For be one fine Trenty boy says, I'm tired of
Speaker 1: sending good morning text. I just want to roll over
Speaker 1: and say it nine one fine trny boy. Remember that
Speaker 1: I'm cracking up and perfect gentleman says facts, just say
Speaker 1: it so that the other person knows their options up front.
Speaker 3: This is everybody AB nineteen.
Speaker 1: Eleven says they're trying to GTD. If you don't know
Speaker 1: what GTD is, you're too young.
Speaker 2: To be here and exit out right now. Okay, thank you.
Speaker 1: I think another part of like being upfront and just
Speaker 1: saying like, you know, I'm just on a different wave
Speaker 1: right now comes from like, you know, I'm not saying
Speaker 1: I'm trying to fall in love tomorrow, but I know
Speaker 1: what's going to take place if I'm saying, like, yo,
Speaker 1: I'm dating to find someone that I want to be
Speaker 1: in the relationship with and essentially find my husband, and
Speaker 1: you're saying you're just trying to catch your vibe, do
Speaker 1: you know what's gonna happen. We're gonna catch a vibe,
Speaker 1: And then in my mind, I'm still dating to find
Speaker 1: my husband. So it's like I'm here and you're not
Speaker 1: there yet because you're just trying to catch a vibe.
Speaker 1: So essentially, you're wanting me to waste my time just
Speaker 1: so you can get some KUCCI And that's not good
Speaker 1: enough for me. That's not good enough for me, especially
Speaker 1: when I know this Kuci is capable of a PFA.
Speaker 2: So just leave me alone. Okay, I know this. Kucci
Speaker 2: is also capable of a restrain in order, so crash
Speaker 2: out Cuci.
Speaker 1: That's the name of the pie. Crash out Cucci. Okay,
Speaker 1: I know that I have crashed out Kuci.
Speaker 2: So in order to.
Speaker 1: Prevent anybody from getting any property or feelings or emotions damaged,
Speaker 1: let's just say, if you're not dating with a purpose,
Speaker 1: I'm probably not the one for you.
Speaker 3: I've been fax huh.
Speaker 5: Oh, my guys, I know what it is like I said,
Speaker 5: you've been cocky. It's the truth, though, I know what
Speaker 5: I know what's up. Yes, especially when you deal with
Speaker 5: somebody now on the same wave as you like, Oh,
Speaker 5: you have no idea like I will will, I will
Speaker 5: low keep on your life, hold on y'all.
Speaker 1: So this is how U sip It says being upfront
Speaker 1: is the best mindset, especially when talking about red flax
Speaker 1: Blurred seventeen on one says, yes, Stormy, it is so
Speaker 1: hard to date these days as a man who is
Speaker 1: intentionally dating. That's why I pause on dating for now.
Speaker 1: One fine Trinny boy says restrain and order. Kucie definitely
Speaker 1: on my Bengo card. Please get out my face, Okay,
Speaker 1: roc rc.
Speaker 3: Bio.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm ROC or COOC. I feel like cooc is
Speaker 1: a little crazy. We can't do COC for cush out Couchie.
Speaker 1: We gotta do ROC for restraining.
Speaker 2: Order COUCHI yeah, that's it.
Speaker 1: Speaking of like moving in Dayton with intentions, right, I
Speaker 1: feel like it can't just be in how you are
Speaker 1: presenting yourself. It has to show up in your everyday life.
Speaker 1: And a part of that, I feel like is the
Speaker 1: vibes that you're bringing into your everyday life. And when
Speaker 1: I say that, I mean I rebuke black struggle love
Speaker 1: music in the name of Jesus.
Speaker 3: Okay, I rebuke it.
Speaker 2: I rebuke black struggle love music in the.
Speaker 5: Name of Jesus, got cheating involved in it and forgiving
Speaker 5: like niggas leave it alone.
Speaker 3: Bro. I was listening half crazy music.
Speaker 1: Yo.
Speaker 5: I was at work and I had the speaker blasting.
Speaker 5: I was cutting boxes open, and I was like, Yo,
Speaker 5: this is my ship. And then I heard he said
Speaker 5: something like just something like nigga, why be like like
Speaker 5: why have.
Speaker 3: To be this way?
Speaker 5: Like I grew up on this ship And I thought,
Speaker 5: I thought, y'all talking about love the whole time, and
Speaker 5: I just don't know why. Yeah, Like it's crazy and
Speaker 5: it's like damn nigga, Like then you skip the drawings
Speaker 5: like genuine Usher Usher Now you know Usher.
Speaker 1: Please because that whole Confessions album don't even get me
Speaker 1: started all that.
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: There are certain artists that I do not listen to,
Speaker 1: and I'm not gonna say no names because you already
Speaker 1: know anything having to do with ugirl. I cheated a
Speaker 1: thousand times, but now I think I want to marry you. Nope,
Speaker 1: skip skip Skip anything that goes along the lines of,
Speaker 1: oh I should have cheated back because she was cheating
Speaker 1: me ooh baby. Nope skip okay, anything that says I
Speaker 1: want to bust that girl windows just because I know
Speaker 1: she knows about me.
Speaker 4: Skip skip fucking scip.
Speaker 2: Bruh, Like hell.
Speaker 3: No, hell no, let it skip my radar like it
Speaker 3: did all these years.
Speaker 1: This is how you sipp it says, hey hate black
Speaker 1: love music where the dude tries to scoop up another
Speaker 1: man's woman when they just had a big.
Speaker 2: Fight, like Joe.
Speaker 1: No, it's not just like Joe. It's not just like Joe.
Speaker 1: Let's not forget. Donelle Jones was standing out that restaurant,
Speaker 1: dressed like the candy man, knowing he just told that
Speaker 1: girl he didn't know if he wanted to be with her.
Speaker 2: Why are you popping up on her day?
Speaker 3: Literally?
Speaker 5: Watch Chris Brown danced through five scenes and talked to
Speaker 5: five about the different parts of a love letter that
Speaker 5: he supposed he supposed to write for the first girl
Speaker 5: supposed to be thought every single time they did a
Speaker 5: little spin move and bop bop, they were talking to
Speaker 5: a new girl and this is what we grew up on.
Speaker 3: And now I was like, oh, you.
Speaker 5: Niggas really aren't shit, Yes, damn like, but I don't
Speaker 5: want you to not be shipp bro because and you know.
Speaker 2: I also want to say.
Speaker 1: I think it's a difference between a song saying here's
Speaker 1: what I could.
Speaker 2: Have done better. I apologize.
Speaker 1: Yeah, an artists who their whole musical catalog. It's niggas
Speaker 1: ain't ship men are trash. I'm gonna keep sleeping around,
Speaker 1: but you gotta take me back, please cause you already know.
Speaker 3: Them twice you stupid like grow up?
Speaker 1: Please please brother you and C says we got abused.
Speaker 1: That's community. Uh, I'm out of church, but I got
Speaker 1: you next time. But please hush and perfect gentleman says,
Speaker 1: leave other people women alone, you end up in prison.
Speaker 2: On the grave playing those games. That is absolutely if.
Speaker 3: If I got a girl, and you know that's my girl,
Speaker 3: I'm telling lady to.
Speaker 1: The you know what, I'm gonna pivot from that.
Speaker 3: That's crazy to me.
Speaker 1: I genuinely hate the narrative that women, especially Black women,
Speaker 1: have to like endure some sort of trauma to be loved,
Speaker 1: Like we have to be put through the fucking ringer
Speaker 1: to prove we are a ride or die in order
Speaker 1: to deserve a good man. And I feel like that
Speaker 1: Black struggle music, that Black struggle of music is just
Speaker 1: being forcing that and saying.
Speaker 5: Like how they keep the man out of the household
Speaker 5: and how we are like subjected to certain things of violence.
Speaker 3: I really feel like.
Speaker 5: Depending on the type of girl out date, I can
Speaker 5: tell by the way she talks and about the things
Speaker 5: she accepts, like just the level of And that's what
Speaker 5: I mean when I say, like, wow, lady, you really brainwashed,
Speaker 5: and like I can low key just take advantage of
Speaker 5: you to like sometimes being a person that I am Brandon,
Speaker 5: I'm a good dude, I'm a stand up god cool,
Speaker 5: but I'm still a man.
Speaker 2: So at the end of the day, he wanted to say,
Speaker 2: I'm still a nigga.
Speaker 5: But still like but at the end of the day, like,
Speaker 5: I'm still a man. So like those type of things.
Speaker 5: I'm not perfect, that's saying. So like, if you're going
Speaker 5: to allow me to do something, when you start doing
Speaker 5: those type of behaviors and indulging those type of behaviors,
Speaker 5: you're gonna start falling deeper.
Speaker 3: And deeper into those lifestyle.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 5: So that's why you'd be very intentional about who you
Speaker 5: talk to on a positive and a negative side, because
Speaker 5: it's not gonna it doesn't work that way. Like if
Speaker 5: I know, if I'm dealing with somebody that has been
Speaker 5: it's below me on like a spiritual level, on a
Speaker 5: thought process, and they have bad habits or the way
Speaker 5: of thinking is on the negative tip. If I keeping
Speaker 5: entertaining that, pretty soon I'm be up in there with them,
Speaker 5: lost in the leeds.
Speaker 3: So in the Mountain talk.
Speaker 1: I feel that I feel that, Yes, oh my god,
Speaker 1: I didn't tell you had to talk. I was just
Speaker 1: saying last week you were talking, but you weren't on
Speaker 1: a mic, so I couldn't hear you Oh my god.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So going back to uh, what I was saying earlier.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a no go on the black struggle love
Speaker 1: for music, Black struggle love music for me. Like I said,
Speaker 1: I hate the narrative that black women have to endure
Speaker 1: some sort of turmoil in order to be loved. And
Speaker 1: that goes for movies to insert love and basketball here,
Speaker 1: I'll get the out here trash insert and it's Tyler
Speaker 1: Perry movie trash. I won't say trash insert Tyler Perry movies.
Speaker 1: Like just certain things I just don't want to consume, Okay,
Speaker 1: And yeah, it's just not for me.
Speaker 3: Can just be like a really deep argument.
Speaker 2: Why can't and why gotta be every why I gotta be?
Speaker 1: Every successful black woman gotta go for the black gardener
Speaker 1: or or the black janitor.
Speaker 2: And it's nothing wrong with that, but every goddamn.
Speaker 5: Movie it just comes second chance. You'll just keep eating
Speaker 5: that up.
Speaker 2: Please shut the fuck up. You know what, But we
Speaker 2: first we gotta get the wigs right.
Speaker 1: So I'm just gonna we got more than not things
Speaker 1: to discuss about.
Speaker 3: It's all over the place. Yeah.
Speaker 1: That Oh, one of the things that I feel like
Speaker 1: sometimes keeps us from enjoying and finding the loves of
Speaker 1: our lives is that we really did and experienced a
Speaker 1: lot of things too young. The age we were at
Speaker 1: that time, we couldn't really appreciate it. I mean, no shade, right,
Speaker 1: But when I talk to men, one of the few
Speaker 1: things that I get a general consensus on is like
Speaker 1: I feel like I should have waited, or like, you know,
Speaker 1: I wish my first was with somebody different.
Speaker 2: And it don't even have to be that deep.
Speaker 1: I just feel like, as a whole, we all were
Speaker 1: like trying to grow up so fast, and when you
Speaker 1: look at the children now, it is just the same.
Speaker 1: They're doing the same exact things. And it's like, y'all
Speaker 1: kids want to be grown.
Speaker 3: Up so bad, like brh.
Speaker 5: They like you skipped a part by learning how to read, brother, bruh,
Speaker 5: Like you don't know how to read, sir, Like you
Speaker 5: don't know what GPS is.
Speaker 3: Sir dog, You're lazy, sir dog.
Speaker 1: Like y'all kids want to be grown so bad, Wait
Speaker 1: till y'all get here.
Speaker 3: It sucks.
Speaker 2: It sucks.
Speaker 5: You have no idea what I'll be hiring these kids, Joe,
Speaker 5: and I'd be like, bro, just follow my lead.
Speaker 1: You know, it's like every time you turn around, it's
Speaker 1: a bill busting you in the back of the head.
Speaker 1: And then you got to deal with you and your
Speaker 1: friends growing apark because you're developing on emotional levels, and
Speaker 1: then you always want a nap.
Speaker 2: Okay. I cannot believe that. As a child, I fight,
Speaker 2: I thought naps. What was I thinking?
Speaker 1: What was I thinking? Do you know how bad I
Speaker 1: be wanting to nap now? And as a kid I
Speaker 1: detested it? Like what the fuck was wrong with me?
Speaker 1: What was I thinking? Like I am a toddler, okay.
Speaker 1: When I get tired, I get cranky, okay, And it's
Speaker 1: like I now can't even live in that because I'm
Speaker 1: an adult, so I'm not allowed to do that, all right.
Speaker 2: It's like y'all be really just wanting to grow up
Speaker 2: so fast and it's not it.
Speaker 1: I hate it here, Okay, I'm tired of this and
Speaker 1: every day life comes in like Grandpa, that's too bad.
Speaker 2: Like it is not what you think it is. It's
Speaker 2: not what you think over that exactly.
Speaker 1: It's like you you you don't have time to grief,
Speaker 1: you don't have time to mourn, you don't have time
Speaker 1: to process. It's like life still going baby? Oh that's
Speaker 1: that's fucked up. You can't die all right? Well, listen,
Speaker 1: this bill.
Speaker 2: Is due tomorrow. I can give you like a day
Speaker 2: or two, but that's it.
Speaker 3: Like what really bothers me?
Speaker 5: What when people who are taking short cuts and ain't
Speaker 5: really doing what they need to be doing.
Speaker 3: And it's like you didn't.
Speaker 2: Even deserve a break. You don't even deserve, yes.
Speaker 5: Like you took hell of boat breaks, your late, hung
Speaker 5: back from lunch every day, even put no work in none.
Speaker 3: Why are you hearing in here right now?
Speaker 2: Listen?
Speaker 3: Why am I behind you sitting in the line for
Speaker 3: hr bruh? Like it?
Speaker 1: It is always one thing at another. And then here's
Speaker 1: the worst part. Randomly, you just wake up one day
Speaker 1: and your body hurt, your back hurt, needs hurt. I
Speaker 1: haven't gotten there yet, thank god, you know, not going
Speaker 1: with but you hurt? Okay, you're plucking hurt and you
Speaker 1: don't know why.
Speaker 3: All right. I don't even remember what you did yesterday.
Speaker 3: You truly don't remember.
Speaker 2: Honestly, I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: I know y'all seen these videos, but yes, it probably
Speaker 1: was from all the stinky legging we were doing back
Speaker 1: in the day and all of us thinking we could
Speaker 1: fucking crump. That's why I joined hurt, That's why we
Speaker 1: all got our threads. I'm not gonnad you. That's probably it, Yes,
Speaker 1: but bro like this shit is not a game. And then,
Speaker 1: and then, and then, just when you steal a little
Speaker 1: piece of quiet, little piece, just when you steal a
Speaker 1: little piece and quiet to yourself, here come your broke
Speaker 1: breast friend aka the consequences of you doing a no
Speaker 1: pants dance aka that big headed baby you done pushed
Speaker 1: out banging on the door.
Speaker 2: Want to know why you need privacy, why you poop?
Speaker 1: It sucks? Okay, out hood parenthood. The hood is trash.
Speaker 1: Stop trying to be an adult. It fucking sucks.
Speaker 2: That's it. And that's all I gotta say about that.
Speaker 1: Wor's part about when your kid come. Worst part about
Speaker 1: when your kid come and knock on the door. You
Speaker 1: gotta pretend like you give a fuck about whatever dumb
Speaker 1: ass thing they're trying to tell you at the moment,
Speaker 1: because you gotta.
Speaker 2: Be nice to your kance it. I fucking hate it. Here,
Speaker 2: hate it here. I feel like James Smith. I want
Speaker 2: to go home. Bruh brh.
Speaker 1: But on the flip side of being an adult, on
Speaker 1: a positive side, if there is a positive side far
Speaker 1: Slice Maximus says, your son is not letting no man
Speaker 1: near his mama. You know, I just want to tell
Speaker 1: this funny story real fast. Right, Shout out to Slice,
Speaker 1: Shout out to everybody at the Talk Heavy podcast. Right. So,
Speaker 1: Slice ended up being on one of my son's camp
Speaker 1: trips to like a water park. Right, so you know,
Speaker 1: me and Slice are cool. We talked, we vibe X
Speaker 1: Y and Z, and so my son peeps. He don't
Speaker 1: say nothing. Like twenty minutes past, my son peeps again,
Speaker 1: right and starts standing closer to me, And.
Speaker 2: I'm like, what the fuck is going on here? Right now?
Speaker 1: It's like an hour and me and Slice like grab
Speaker 1: some food, like minji. My son is playing with his friends,
Speaker 1: but he started acting weird, like he starts trying to
Speaker 1: be up on me and huggle on me, like yeah,
Speaker 1: I love you, mommy, Like, what the fuck's happened?
Speaker 2: Y'all know, LEVI he is not that kid.
Speaker 1: My son got so protective around Slice being there, and
Speaker 1: Slice it's like me and your son, I'm.
Speaker 3: Like, I don't know what the fuck is going on? Yo?
Speaker 2: Yo he oh god.
Speaker 1: My son started like swelling up a bit like yeah yeah,
Speaker 1: like and then he all trying to like hold my hand.
Speaker 2: He trying to hug me.
Speaker 1: I'm like, bro, you don't never want to hug me, like,
Speaker 1: especially around your friends.
Speaker 2: What's happening here? Like he was not fucking with Slice.
Speaker 1: Now, to be fair, you already know like my son
Speaker 1: has only seen me around two men that weren't his father.
Speaker 1: My son is twelve, right, and that was when he
Speaker 1: was like young, So I think.
Speaker 2: It's also now a protective thing.
Speaker 1: We also like that's my mommy thing, that's not your mommy.
Speaker 5: So like you understands, like, bruh, there's an understanding, but
Speaker 5: you and the.
Speaker 1: Crazy part is me and Slights weren't even being inappropriate,
Speaker 1: like we don't we don't we It just it was
Speaker 1: a man in my space longer than when he was
Speaker 1: used to bruh. He was not with the ships. Main
Speaker 1: biker once says Slices almost got them pulse like's gotta
Speaker 1: get through them push ups. G mash Brock and said
Speaker 1: son acted like secret service. Yes, he was not with
Speaker 1: the ships. Relationships talk with geez, what's up baby?
Speaker 3: Hey?
Speaker 1: Grayciana but yeah, Slice Maximus says, I didn't want no smoke.
Speaker 2: It was so funny. I've never seen Lee by Egg
Speaker 2: like that before. I am.
Speaker 1: It was it was. It was interesting, That's what I'll say.
Speaker 1: It was interesting. It was interesting to say the least.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you do a job.
Speaker 1: You're doing a good job. And perfect gentleman says Slice
Speaker 1: was about to get sliced. Y'all gets on my nurse.
Speaker 1: All that aside, I feel like the bonus part of
Speaker 1: growing up and you know, being an adult and being
Speaker 1: able to properly articulate and process things is you know,
Speaker 1: just realizing where you're at in life, what you can handle,
Speaker 1: what you want, what you don't want.
Speaker 2: And I'm not gonna lie to y'all.
Speaker 1: I'm at a point in my life right now where
Speaker 1: nothing is worth fighting for, okay, and I mean physically
Speaker 1: fighting Like, I am at a point in my life
Speaker 1: where nothing is worth physically fighting for.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 1: You can say whatever you want to be, Oh you
Speaker 1: ugli at shit? True, Oh your mom sucked it. That's
Speaker 1: where I learned it from. Like I just I honestly, honestly,
Speaker 1: there is nothing worth physically fighting for to me right now,
Speaker 1: Like I'm from Philly. Niggas ain't fighting, okay, I don't
Speaker 1: care if you think you're gonna pop off at a
Speaker 1: church service. Grinny in the Beck got the thing on her,
Speaker 1: and I promise you it is not a joke.
Speaker 2: I don't care if it's Communion Sunday. She got that
Speaker 2: thing under.
Speaker 3: That white skirt. Bruh Cabinet South, Yes.
Speaker 1: Yes, Communion Sunday. Grinny got that thing under that white skirt. Okay,
Speaker 1: Like it is not a joke, It is not a game.
Speaker 1: Like I don't care what you say to me, you
Speaker 1: pussy ass bitch. True you got it?
Speaker 3: Think you want to go to the bathroom.
Speaker 2: No, No, I'm cool. Thanks, thanks for asking.
Speaker 1: Like there is nothing nothing Jake nineteen one five said,
Speaker 1: we ain't fighting. We here, but baby, I ain't doing shit,
Speaker 1: okay me personally, I'm not doing ship, And I'm gonna
Speaker 1: tell you why. If I'm in a situation where I
Speaker 1: have to fight, Like bro, this is like some life
Speaker 1: or death ship, because if I don't have it on me,
Speaker 1: somebody whip me might have it on me, or the
Speaker 1: people on fighting might have it on them. Like I
Speaker 1: gotta go into this situation, like Bro, I might not
Speaker 1: make it back.
Speaker 2: Like bruh, and that's nothing. I got a son, what
Speaker 2: is worth.
Speaker 1: Me saying like, yo, I'm not going back to my
Speaker 1: son tonight for nothing unless you're than my son. Nothing, y'all.
Speaker 1: Y'all can keep it. Y'all can keep it like unless
Speaker 1: you like are physically putting your hands on me. Nothing
Speaker 1: at this time in my life is worth fighting for.
Speaker 1: Like it's just not it for me. G mash Broker says,
Speaker 1: the boy being real and conscious of anything that can
Speaker 1: hinder his bond with you, you must be talking about still.
Speaker 1: Levi J Night two on five says, if I must fight,
Speaker 1: you might have to have some T shirts made in
Speaker 1: your honor.
Speaker 3: I agree.
Speaker 2: I agree.
Speaker 1: Like where I'm at right now, like I know I
Speaker 1: have to go in like either you going in me
Speaker 1: or I'm in you. So like somebody getting an airbrush T shirt,
Speaker 1: and it ain't gonna be me. I'm gonna tell you
Speaker 1: that right now, on God on God, somebody getting some
Speaker 1: clouds and wings put behind them in, it ain't gonna
Speaker 1: be me, Okay. So it's like none of that is
Speaker 1: worth it to me. And then that's here's the crazy part.
Speaker 1: Even if I do come out the better half of
Speaker 1: that situation. I could potentially out end up in jail.
Speaker 1: Super I still can't beat her for my son. Like
Speaker 1: at this point in my life, nothing is worth that
Speaker 1: for me too.
Speaker 3: Ruh.
Speaker 2: Y'all can keep it, keep it, keep it, keep it.
Speaker 2: And here's the thing, I just started getting a little
Speaker 2: bit of money, Like.
Speaker 1: What the fuck now I'm a throw it all away?
Speaker 1: What this makes no sense to me? Like y'all, y'all
Speaker 1: can have it. Y'all can call me whatever names y'all
Speaker 1: want to call me. Bruh, y'all can say whatever y'all
Speaker 1: want to say. At the end of the day, you
Speaker 1: got it, you got it, Like one fine trainy boy says,
Speaker 1: go fund me in dinner place, going to be so
Speaker 1: j night, two on five sispects. And then that's another thing.
Speaker 1: Y'all be so quick to pull out a burner, and
Speaker 1: I got no life insurance.
Speaker 2: I don't like that.
Speaker 1: I don't like that y'all be on the internet or
Speaker 1: all these chains, all this jewelry and nine different name
Speaker 1: brands on your outfit. But then as soon as something happened,
Speaker 1: you gotta have a fish fry.
Speaker 5: I like that because I wanted to get like like
Speaker 5: a legal gun. So then now I'll be thinking to
Speaker 5: myself like.
Speaker 2: Like what am I doing?
Speaker 5: Like there's never read a time for you to use it.
Speaker 5: It was like, but you always gotta be ready because
Speaker 5: you stay ready, So get ready.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so I'd like yeah, like Nias.
Speaker 2: Says, I don't even own a gun.
Speaker 1: This is how yousif it says what if they say,
Speaker 1: Philid did the Eagles suck?
Speaker 2: Do you fight? Then how about them cowboys?
Speaker 3: Well?
Speaker 2: Fuck them cowboys. That's first thing.
Speaker 1: Second thing is if they say the Egles suck. A
Speaker 1: wise profit one said, I'm from Philly. No one likes
Speaker 1: a sweet don't care. That's an actual chance in Philadelphia.
Speaker 1: So yeah, won't get fuck, won't get fuck at all.
Speaker 1: Main biker one says life insurance is a must. I
Speaker 1: ride motorcycles, Oh yeah, you absolutely need life insurance. And
Speaker 1: per gentleman says, I thought more people in Philly would
Speaker 1: have guns. They do have guns, they just don't have
Speaker 1: life insurance.
Speaker 2: That's the thing. Don't get wrong.
Speaker 1: Everybody in Philly has guns but no life insurance. That's
Speaker 1: why somebody is selling platters or having a fresh fry
Speaker 1: or doing some type of go fund me every time
Speaker 1: something happens, it's very unfortunate.
Speaker 3: To come back and spend all their money.
Speaker 1: Yes, and stop depending on that one cousin, that one auntie,
Speaker 1: that one sibling to take care of everything.
Speaker 3: No, okay.
Speaker 1: And here's here's another thing that I learned growing up. Okay,
Speaker 1: it's always that one bougie auntie or that one bougie
Speaker 1: sibling who don't really fuck with the family, or the
Speaker 1: family don't really fuck with And I realized, no, they
Speaker 1: actually went to therapy and probably learned boundaries and realized
Speaker 1: y'all were trying to fucking mooch off them, so they
Speaker 1: decided they didn't want to be friends with y'all no more, okay,
Speaker 1: Or they didn't want to have you in the space
Speaker 1: or more. Or they developed boundaries to prevent you from
Speaker 1: leeching off them.
Speaker 2: That is very much a thing. Okay.
Speaker 1: So if you got a boogie auntie and your family
Speaker 1: can't specifically tell you what they did wrong, that's probably it.
Speaker 1: If you got a bougie sibling who, like you, don't
Speaker 1: really know, maybe they're a little bit older, a little
Speaker 1: bit younger, you don't really know what the beef is there.
Speaker 2: It's a boundary.
Speaker 1: It's no beef. It's a healthy boundary. There's no beef,
Speaker 1: it's a healthy be boundary. Main Biker one says, Philly
Speaker 1: is like NYC strict gun laws in the inner city.
Speaker 1: J NIGHTE two on five says, I got a bleach
Speaker 1: Sewai sword and a couple switch blades.
Speaker 2: Niggat I got go City Kick says, speak on it.
Speaker 2: You say you got a cap gun.
Speaker 1: Chantal The Price of Ball says girl, Hey Chantal, Hey baby, listen,
Speaker 1: I already know you know. Listen, I already know. If
Speaker 1: anybody know, I know you know. No, Chantal is very established,
Speaker 1: Like I see why she would want to have that
Speaker 1: boundary for being like the bougianti or like you know,
Speaker 1: the established sibling, Like you know you're not going to
Speaker 1: see her in leash off me? What are you doing
Speaker 1: for yourself? Like I feel that, uh she is Sancho
Speaker 1: Chantel the foot Ball says boundaries. So they think I'm
Speaker 1: acting different? Yes, yes, that's the first thing they say,
Speaker 1: Oh you acting different? You done came up and it
Speaker 1: felt like you switched up.
Speaker 2: No, I came up and you didn't. And you have
Speaker 2: no desire to have money and.
Speaker 3: Real ship would anything about.
Speaker 1: That, Like I tho, you can't help nobody don't want
Speaker 1: to help themselves. So it's like, if you see me
Speaker 1: progressing and it doesn't inspire you to progress, I'm so
Speaker 1: sorry for you, but that does not hinder my progress.
Speaker 3: First of all, bro, why are you in my face?
Speaker 3: Why were you even having business?
Speaker 1: Yes, Chantel the Ball says, I say no, because yes,
Speaker 1: it's expensive.
Speaker 2: That is a bar. That is a bar.
Speaker 1: U one fine trinny boy says at Chantel the sh
Speaker 1: Chantel Price the Ball says, I did all this work
Speaker 1: to act the same no energy. Yes, go City Kick says,
Speaker 1: gotta protect your peace and your assets. A man uh
Speaker 1: J nineteen one five says yes. Cost of fortune. Chizzo
Speaker 1: says bars Shinto. That was a bar, girl, I ain't
Speaker 1: gonna hold you. That was a bar, for sure, for sure,
Speaker 1: for sure. First of all, all right, guys, so I'm
Speaker 1: sorry I got thrown off agause somebody put in a chit.
Speaker 2: Can you put the.
Speaker 1: Storm trooper helme and on? No, fat no, absolutely not.
Speaker 1: So another thing I want to say was, before we
Speaker 1: get questions real fast, I feel like there are some
Speaker 1: women who need to hear this, and I want you
Speaker 1: to receive.
Speaker 2: It with love.
Speaker 1: Okay to all my ladies who say, you know I'm
Speaker 1: feminine for the right man, like I'm soft, but you
Speaker 1: gotta bring that out of me, Like you know, I'm
Speaker 1: willing to submit, but you just gotta lead, like you
Speaker 1: just gotta be him for real. Right, that's cool, But
Speaker 1: me personally, I don't want to be a strong, independent
Speaker 1: black woman no more.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 1: And I say this with all my chests and with
Speaker 1: all my okay, our black women, Okay, I want you
Speaker 1: to stop thinking you have to be so aggressive and strong.
Speaker 2: You do not.
Speaker 1: You deserve a soft life to sis like, as a
Speaker 1: black woman, it is so tiring just from everyday activities,
Speaker 1: being a mom, being a leader at a household, being
Speaker 1: in charge of your own business. Like, baby, I don't
Speaker 1: want to do that shit, Okay, ain't gonna be no.
Speaker 1: Oh well, you know I'm gonna be hard until a
Speaker 1: man shows me he's worth it.
Speaker 2: For what I'm gonna be soft.
Speaker 1: I'm soft, call me charman, I'm soft, nigga.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 1: I don't want that hard shit no more. That's not
Speaker 1: the life for me, all right. I realize that I
Speaker 1: deserve a soft life too, so like, no, I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna walk around with a skyle on my face. No,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be super super aggressive to men that
Speaker 1: honestly haven't deserved it because they aren't the ones who
Speaker 1: actually hurt me like I just now. Don't get me wrong.
Speaker 1: I know, in certain situations for safety issues, that might
Speaker 1: be your go to cool, but I'm talking about like
Speaker 1: everyday life, sis, you deserve peace.
Speaker 5: Too, And on the God's perspective, you're just being annoying
Speaker 5: on purpose because the simple fact that you know that
Speaker 5: you don't have to be that way and you're choosing
Speaker 5: to be that way.
Speaker 3: It's crazy.
Speaker 5: It's just simple fact that Okay, like there's literally no explanation, bruh.
Speaker 5: If I hold your door open, just let me hold bruh.
Speaker 1: And it's like, I know, I know that it's hard
Speaker 1: for you to let that boundary down, but you have
Speaker 1: to realize sometimes.
Speaker 2: We'll be putting up walls for it.
Speaker 1: Men, you don't even really have to have that boundary
Speaker 1: for like, And I know that there are some men
Speaker 1: who like the hard progressive type cool, right, but even
Speaker 1: they gonna tell you that shit gets tiring.
Speaker 2: Somebody everything they want you to be that for some period,
Speaker 2: but not all the time, Like nobody want to love
Speaker 2: aggressive people all the time. Yes, it's tiring, it's tiring.
Speaker 1: Jay Knight said, we all need peace because it's too
Speaker 1: many of us in pieces.
Speaker 2: Oh, y'all is dropping bars today?
Speaker 3: What the fuck?
Speaker 1: Ah One fine triny boy says, skin to soft for
Speaker 1: a hard life?
Speaker 2: Why are y'all dropping bars? I yo, what the fuck?
Speaker 5: Oh my god, I'm about to go to Google bruh.
Speaker 1: Main Biker one says, I don't buy cars. I gotta
Speaker 1: fix up before I drive it.
Speaker 2: What is going on?
Speaker 1: Y'all?
Speaker 2: Did not have to snap like this in this chat?
Speaker 2: What is happening?
Speaker 3: Jesus?
Speaker 1: Oh my guy, y'all is showing off on this Sunday.
Speaker 1: Gimmn Raka says, some be so hard that you limit
Speaker 1: us to just understand you better. Main Biker one says,
Speaker 1: who wants to come home to a woman with a
Speaker 1: poked out mouth?
Speaker 2: For the heads carved? I'm like this, leave this shirt on.
Speaker 3: Yo?
Speaker 1: All right? Man, listen, long story short, sister, sister, be easy, baby,
Speaker 1: you deserve a soft life too. And I know you've
Speaker 1: heard the expression you get more bees with honey than
Speaker 1: you do vinegar like, take a second and realize you
Speaker 1: deserve peace, You deserve a soft life, You deserve to
Speaker 1: be happy, You deserve to be taken care of. You
Speaker 1: deserve to put your emotions and feelings into someone willing
Speaker 1: to reciprocate that. But baby, ain't nobody trying to reciprocate
Speaker 1: no anger in aggression. That ain't it. That ain't it
Speaker 1: at all. And yeah, that was just my last thing. Okay,
Speaker 1: so now.
Speaker 2: We're going portion of the show.
Speaker 1: So the edible portion is when I read questions that
Speaker 1: you guys send in, and usually on the day that
Speaker 1: we record, I put up a prompt such a second week,
Speaker 1: get a row off. I got to put up a proms.
Speaker 1: It's been busy, but you know, it is what it is.
Speaker 1: But if you do have a question or it is
Speaker 1: something you would like to talk about, you have a story,
Speaker 1: you can always email me at inquiries at stormypea dot com.
Speaker 2: They still snapping in the chap about this peace thing.
Speaker 1: Hold on one Fine Trinity Boy says poetry finger snaps,
Speaker 1: y'all are so annoying. G mash Brocas says Breathe j
Speaker 1: Night two on five says I'm a pisces I got
Speaker 1: the heart of the size of a five gallon jug.
Speaker 2: You see in the doctor's office. What is wrong with y'all?
Speaker 1: I'm crying, all right, So listen, you ain't got no questions.
Speaker 1: If not, we're gonna wrap the shit up.
Speaker 3: No, well, it was.
Speaker 2: It was questions.
Speaker 1: But then we started talking about the peace thing and
Speaker 1: we didn't really get there. And yeah, so my bad, y'all.
Speaker 1: I should have done that in the reverse order.
Speaker 2: My bad. But it is what it is. But going
Speaker 2: back to.
Speaker 1: Our peace conversations till y'all put some in or don't like,
Speaker 1: it is what it is. Yeah, man, I just know
Speaker 1: for me personally, being like the strong one, sometimes I
Speaker 1: have to intentionally tell myself to fall back. And it's
Speaker 1: even harder when you're in a situation when you have
Speaker 1: to be hard because you it's your only choice, like
Speaker 1: you don't have no help. So from one strong friend
Speaker 1: to another, you deserve peace, all right, Stop being so
Speaker 1: mean that man don't deserve it.
Speaker 2: That's it, and that's all.
Speaker 1: J NIGHTE two one five says one personal question, what
Speaker 1: made you get to where you are now?
Speaker 2: Mentally?
Speaker 3: Bro?
Speaker 2: Don't laugh at me, y'all, don't laugh at me.
Speaker 1: When I when I would say this, but it really
Speaker 1: took a man breaking my heart for me to realize
Speaker 1: I'm the reason he broke my heart. Right, it really
Speaker 1: took a man breaking my heart for me to realize
Speaker 1: I'm the problem. That fucking sucks, right, Like, First of all,
Speaker 1: number one, you dealing with the heartbreak. Number two, you
Speaker 1: now are reaching the realization through therapy that bitch, you're
Speaker 1: the problem.
Speaker 2: Ah what?
Speaker 3: Like?
Speaker 1: What? Oh?
Speaker 2: My god? Like, I am so happy.
Speaker 1: First of all, I broke up with him, and he
Speaker 1: did not want to get back with me, right, and
Speaker 1: I cannot understand why. And I feel like if he
Speaker 1: would have got back with me, I would still be
Speaker 1: a trash ass person. I would, I would, I would
Speaker 1: not have half of the emotional intelligence that I do now.
Speaker 1: Like that heartbreak was the best thing that ever could
Speaker 1: happen to me one thousand percent. Next question, Uh, ladies,
Speaker 1: we know you trying, but you ain't got to fight everybody.
Speaker 1: Oh my la, I had to fight never again, zero
Speaker 1: four six five. How do you get a woman to
Speaker 1: see your vision? You can't. God didn't give it to her,
Speaker 1: He gave it to you. And I know I know that,
Speaker 1: I know, I know I know that's a little bit crazy, right,
Speaker 1: And it don't just go for a men and females
Speaker 1: or males and females. You can't get anyone to understand
Speaker 1: your vision because God didn't give it to them to
Speaker 1: see right. God gave it to you to develop to
Speaker 1: culture to produce this wonderful product.
Speaker 3: Right.
Speaker 1: So I know sometimes it'd be so frustrating because it's like, bro,
Speaker 1: I gotta play, just follow me, sis, here's the lineup,
Speaker 1: just what you gotta do. But it's like, like I
Speaker 1: said before, you can't help somebody who don't want to help.
Speaker 3: Themselves continue to walk.
Speaker 5: Yes, yes, people like Loki, we all inspect them to
Speaker 5: expect you know, I'm oh, yeah, that's cool, that's cool.
Speaker 5: That's but your your words are validated by your actions.
Speaker 5: They're not validated by it the way to make me
Speaker 5: feel I agree. If you're going to say, yeah, I'm
Speaker 5: about to go get it, We're about to make this
Speaker 5: money blah blah, and then the next week we meet up.
Speaker 3: And you've done nothing nothing.
Speaker 5: Yeah, we say hey Raehan and you just shooting me
Speaker 5: a video blah blah blah blah. Cool beans, dandy, I
Speaker 5: meet you for the consultation and you tell me that, Oh,
Speaker 5: I thought you were just gonna do your thing. Oh oh, oh,
Speaker 5: I guess you're not.
Speaker 2: Like it's.
Speaker 1: I agree, Like you can't make them see your vision.
Speaker 1: But if on the flip side of that, it appears
Speaker 1: as if you're not making your vision happen, she's going
Speaker 1: to be less inclined to follow you or less inclined
Speaker 1: to believe in it. Like it's one thing for you
Speaker 1: to tell me, like, yo, I want to be a rapper,
Speaker 1: I'm not getting a job. Cool. How are we making
Speaker 1: money in the process? What is your plan to get there?
Speaker 1: What's your quarterly plan, what's your yearly plan, what's your
Speaker 1: five year plan? Do you have any of that? What
Speaker 1: are your goals? What are your minds? What are your
Speaker 1: mouthstones that lets me know that you're getting there and
Speaker 1: we're making progress? You don't have none of that. All
Speaker 1: you keep saying is just post my video.
Speaker 2: Fuck you.
Speaker 5: Then if you really are doing that and not saying
Speaker 5: that you're not even if you are, the fact that
Speaker 5: the people who are around you are the ones who
Speaker 5: get it, So it really takes a guess work out
Speaker 5: of it, Like I don't have to guess who's around me. Yeah,
Speaker 5: if you or because you understand what time of morning.
Speaker 5: If you didn't, in the sense of and since I'm
Speaker 5: really this is where I'm at.
Speaker 3: If you hear you not, we're just not gonna get
Speaker 3: along if you're not the.
Speaker 5: Fact that I don't have to worry about oh well,
Speaker 5: you know maybe maybe so No, you still got.
Speaker 3: To look at it. So it's like I don't have
Speaker 3: to worry about stuff like that.
Speaker 5: I feel that walking your purpose and you really know
Speaker 5: where you're going, all that extra shit really goes to
Speaker 5: the side.
Speaker 2: I feel that.
Speaker 3: I feel that.
Speaker 2: Um sorry, y'all. Uh what ty Grind says, vision seers
Speaker 2: are unicorns?
Speaker 1: Uh?
Speaker 2: Shizzo says, nigga, it's your vision.
Speaker 4: Uh.
Speaker 1: Jackson Junior Paul says the fight is over and the
Speaker 1: good ones ain't gonna reciprocate them as she fighting ass knuckles.
Speaker 1: Tig Grind says, who's your therapist? Because they're a miracle worker.
Speaker 1: They need more clients. No, she don't, because if she do,
Speaker 1: she not gonna time for me, and I'll be needing
Speaker 1: a lot of time. J Knight two one five says
Speaker 1: humble heartperay got to me too. Blah, blah blah blah
Speaker 1: blah blah. Uh one Fine Training Boy says, sometimes it's
Speaker 1: hard to realize you're designing your own hell uh. J
Speaker 1: Night two one five says Church word of the day.
Speaker 1: You can't be a good leader if you never was
Speaker 1: a good follower. Agreed, Mmm.
Speaker 3: Do do sex?
Speaker 1: Maximus says, how is it? How important is it for
Speaker 1: a father to display how a man should treat a
Speaker 1: woman to his daughter? And if he is not there,
Speaker 1: is it more likely that daughter have unhealthy relationships?
Speaker 2: Y'all?
Speaker 3: Conversation question.
Speaker 2: Let me tell y'all something.
Speaker 1: I'm going to say this from the bottom of my heart, right,
Speaker 1: I don't care how much your baby mom gets on
Speaker 1: your nerves. Fathers with daughters, especially, please fight to be
Speaker 1: in your daughter's lives. And you know, I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: say just fathers with daughters father's period should be fighting
Speaker 1: to be in your kids lives. But if you have
Speaker 1: a daughter, you absolutely need to be in her life.
Speaker 1: And I don't care how bad your beam get on
Speaker 1: your nerves. I know she makes you want to choke her.
Speaker 1: I know she makes you want to, you know, set
Speaker 1: the house on fire, but your kid inside, so you
Speaker 1: can't right.
Speaker 2: I know, I know. I know she a bitch, right,
Speaker 2: I know she ain't shit, right.
Speaker 1: I know she annoying, I know she immture, I know
Speaker 1: she petty, I know she all of that. Still, even
Speaker 1: if you aren't getting anywhere, fight put up an effort
Speaker 1: to be in your kid's life, right. And the reason
Speaker 1: I say that is because me, as an adult, can
Speaker 1: absolutely look back and say, my father was not trying
Speaker 1: to be in my life. And that's one of the
Speaker 1: reasons why I had such a hard time dating growing up,
Speaker 1: because I didn't have any examples of what a woman
Speaker 1: being love properly looked like, or having a male influence
Speaker 1: saying hey, this is how you should carry yourself like,
Speaker 1: this is what is womanly. And I don't want to
Speaker 1: say womanly because that's not his job. But it is
Speaker 1: important to have some type of father figure in your life, right,
Speaker 1: because I've seen daddy issues produce many different types of people.
Speaker 2: I've seen it produced simps and savages, right.
Speaker 1: So I think that not having that father figure, though,
Speaker 1: caused me to believe that certain things were love that wasn't.
Speaker 1: It caused me to settle for things, whether it be treatment,
Speaker 1: whether it be you know, adding to the abandonment issues
Speaker 1: or you know, the anxious dating styles, like all that
Speaker 1: is so avoidable, Like if I would have just seen
Speaker 1: him trying, I think it would have made a difference.
Speaker 1: Cause like as an adult, I'm able to sit back
Speaker 1: and be like, oh, yeah, my my mom was being
Speaker 1: a bitch at this time.
Speaker 2: But it's like, nope, she wasn't. Nigga wasn't trying.
Speaker 1: Didn't say it like, actually, you know, I did live
Speaker 1: around the corner from this nigga for a minute. Never
Speaker 1: came knocked through the door like now and now let
Speaker 1: a think about it. Never try to see me just
Speaker 1: standing outside of school, like no, the didn't do anything.
Speaker 1: Theydn't dow fucking anything. So it's like, I know what
Speaker 1: may seem like the mama's being a bitch now, but
Speaker 1: as the kid grows up, they're gonna be able to
Speaker 1: look back and say, yeah, but I remember my dad trying,
Speaker 1: like fucking try bro try one fine, tritty boy says, father,
Speaker 1: your kids so the streets don't J nine two one
Speaker 1: five says I'm thirty seven and only a godfather, and
Speaker 1: I'll trade my life to see her succeed better in
Speaker 1: hers ay men, Shizzo says, the Bible says your wife
Speaker 1: is here to help Proverbs thirty one. And if her
Speaker 1: and tensions are not that, what are.
Speaker 2: We talking about?
Speaker 1: Hi, Isaiah hd Els, my name says, I'm here, but
Speaker 1: I can't hear you. I'm at the Texan game. Behi, Hello, Hello, Hello, Hello.
Speaker 1: All right, So what do we learned today?
Speaker 2: Guys?
Speaker 1: You know love is love, and no matter what you
Speaker 1: see on the internet, we need each other. So let's
Speaker 1: start fucking acting like it. Okay. Uh. Part of that
Speaker 1: is on what you want and what you don't want.
Speaker 1: If you just trying to chill and catch you vibe,
Speaker 1: I'm not the girl for you. I'm trying to swap
Speaker 1: last names or take yours anyway, right. I rebuke black struggle,
Speaker 1: love music in the name of Jesus, and movies too,
Speaker 1: fuck love and basketball. Yeah, I said it.
Speaker 2: I don't care. Tell us some not like then. I
Speaker 2: said it.
Speaker 3: Right.
Speaker 2: Your kids want to be grown so bad, we team
Speaker 2: grow up.
Speaker 1: Bro. It fucking sucks. It sucks, all right, and you
Speaker 1: wake up with random eggs and pains. It's trash. I'm
Speaker 1: also at a point in my life where nothing that's
Speaker 1: worth fighting for it niggas might not make it back.
Speaker 1: I ain't got an emmy, don't want to do it,
Speaker 1: don't fucking want to do it. I want you all
Speaker 1: to stop saying you're feminine for the right man and
Speaker 1: just be feminine. Stop saying you're feminine for the right man,
Speaker 1: and just be feminine like it's so much happier over here,
Speaker 1: like ah, it's amazing, right, And yeah, you can't get
Speaker 1: anybody to understand your vision because it wasn't given to them.
Speaker 1: It was given to you. My message is always going
Speaker 1: to be the same. Follow me on the gram at story,
Speaker 1: pe at chocolate chip, and sip. And if you don't
Speaker 1: remember anything else, please remember I got crashed out, couchie.
Speaker 1: I love you guys, and I see you next week.
Speaker 2: Peace.