WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.360 --> 00:00:01.760 Mone Brown's in the building. 2 00:00:02.000 --> 00:00:07.320 Good morning, can rewind introduce your organization and your movement? 3 00:00:07.360 --> 00:00:07.559 Mom? 4 00:00:07.559 --> 00:00:08.679 Okay, yes, good morning. 5 00:00:08.720 --> 00:00:12.599 So my name is Monae Brown, me and my husband 6 00:00:12.599 --> 00:00:15.119 Aaron Brown. We started not our kids, and let me 7 00:00:15.199 --> 00:00:17.600 just take it back. I am a retired probation officer 8 00:00:17.640 --> 00:00:20.640 from Alameda County, which is Oakland, give it up to Oakland. 9 00:00:21.719 --> 00:00:23.399 And during the course of my job, I. 10 00:00:23.359 --> 00:00:27.879 Used to supervise kids that were trafficking or being trafficked 11 00:00:28.920 --> 00:00:31.640 and they back then it was my Space. 12 00:00:31.719 --> 00:00:33.759 I don't everybody, Yes. 13 00:00:34.119 --> 00:00:37.399 That was where it started. Yes, started, it was popping. 14 00:00:37.560 --> 00:00:40.439 It was, yes, my Space and red Book remember red Book. 15 00:00:40.520 --> 00:00:45.479 Red Book was how kids would solicit themselves on these 16 00:00:45.520 --> 00:00:47.399 websites to meet people. 17 00:00:47.640 --> 00:00:49.280 So listen, I'm not sure how young you are. 18 00:00:50.200 --> 00:00:52.840 Well, I'm not going to tell you. 19 00:00:53.039 --> 00:00:58.520 Sare We definitely know that yeah, back back before back 20 00:00:58.560 --> 00:00:59.759 page too. 21 00:01:02.079 --> 00:01:05.280 And so do you remember how back when we were 22 00:01:05.400 --> 00:01:08.799 more mature or how they met predators? 23 00:01:08.840 --> 00:01:10.200 It was the Cadillac pimp. 24 00:01:10.560 --> 00:01:14.519 Remember, our parents were worried about this older person pulling 25 00:01:14.599 --> 00:01:17.560 up to our growing up, used to hang at Cassamont, 26 00:01:17.719 --> 00:01:20.280 you know, pick us up, take us to McDonald's for 27 00:01:20.280 --> 00:01:21.120 two ninety nine. 28 00:01:21.200 --> 00:01:24.560 Right then it moved to the tennis shoe pim. 29 00:01:25.560 --> 00:01:28.079 That was the young person who couldn't afford a car, 30 00:01:28.640 --> 00:01:31.439 but he would walk around schools. Then it was the 31 00:01:31.519 --> 00:01:36.280 bicycle pimp. Right now it's the cyber pimp. 32 00:01:36.640 --> 00:01:36.879 Right. 33 00:01:37.280 --> 00:01:40.519 The huge difference between the previous three is that you 34 00:01:40.599 --> 00:01:43.840 can't see the pimps in your children's phones, right, And 35 00:01:43.920 --> 00:01:46.439 many of us can't see it because one, we never 36 00:01:46.560 --> 00:01:50.599 suspect that there are pimps in our children's phone, however, 37 00:01:50.640 --> 00:01:54.040 and we're not monitoring either. When we were growing up, 38 00:01:54.079 --> 00:01:56.159 it was a bunch of dues and don'ts. It was 39 00:01:56.200 --> 00:01:59.640 what don't open that door, I'm not here right, y'all? 40 00:01:59.680 --> 00:02:02.040 Remember what was. 41 00:02:01.959 --> 00:02:03.879 Don't sup no candy, talk to. 42 00:02:03.920 --> 00:02:08.159 Stranger, don't take no rides from nobody, don't talk to 43 00:02:08.159 --> 00:02:10.560 anyone you don't know exactly walking? 44 00:02:10.919 --> 00:02:13.080 What about the don't answer the phone and tell them 45 00:02:13.080 --> 00:02:17.560 I'm not here right? But now with this digital world, 46 00:02:17.840 --> 00:02:21.479 we say your uber's outside. We allow our kids to 47 00:02:21.520 --> 00:02:25.039 get in cards with strangers, and what else do we do? 48 00:02:25.120 --> 00:02:29.280 We tell them to share your location. We tag our 49 00:02:29.360 --> 00:02:33.400 children online. So for instance, you're my child Sonna, and 50 00:02:33.479 --> 00:02:37.199 I say g biz is my son and he's graduating 51 00:02:37.319 --> 00:02:40.199 next week from Cameo Middle School. 52 00:02:40.360 --> 00:02:44.120 Okay, Samario said, let's do the scenarios. 53 00:02:44.759 --> 00:02:47.919 And then I taxed. Say, I taxed seven people, including 54 00:02:48.120 --> 00:02:50.800 mister Brown, my husband. Every one of those people have 55 00:02:50.879 --> 00:02:55.319 a thousand people including me. Yep, So in twenty seconds, 56 00:02:55.400 --> 00:03:00.759 I have put g Biz to eight thousand exposed, sposed him. 57 00:03:01.000 --> 00:03:06.520 Now you know, heaven forbid if those people share him again. Right, 58 00:03:06.960 --> 00:03:10.479 The statistics say one of those people is going to say, hey, gee, Biz, 59 00:03:10.560 --> 00:03:11.120 you hack. 60 00:03:10.960 --> 00:03:12.840 To hand some how you doing? 61 00:03:13.159 --> 00:03:16.080 Yeah, well, they're usually going to send them a message 62 00:03:16.319 --> 00:03:18.919 right through his back. How many message you probably get 63 00:03:18.919 --> 00:03:25.319 someone that man, And it's a lot of unsolicited, unwanted right, yeah. 64 00:03:25.360 --> 00:03:27.879 And then what happens is what we do as parents. 65 00:03:28.159 --> 00:03:32.560 We also share our children's vin Mo and cash app. Parents, 66 00:03:33.240 --> 00:03:36.560 pimps pay your children through cash app and zell and Veno. 67 00:03:36.840 --> 00:03:39.280 Think about it. When's the last time you really have 68 00:03:39.360 --> 00:03:41.360 got money? Youth? 69 00:03:41.400 --> 00:03:44.639 He has you know, youth he said, hey you want lunch? Yeah, 70 00:03:44.680 --> 00:03:47.919 cashp ben Mo me. Right, Well, that's how pimps pay 71 00:03:47.919 --> 00:03:52.039 our children. They pay them through cash app then Mo. Right, 72 00:03:52.479 --> 00:03:56.919 But those names, those accounts are in our names. 73 00:03:57.000 --> 00:03:58.360 So if the children aren't. 74 00:03:58.159 --> 00:04:01.439 Doing things illegal, the police what I used to be 75 00:04:01.759 --> 00:04:04.280 is coming to look for the parents, right because what 76 00:04:04.319 --> 00:04:06.159 they're going to say is why didn't you know? 77 00:04:07.199 --> 00:04:10.719 Why didn't you know that he was getting those things? Attention? 78 00:04:10.800 --> 00:04:14.000 You're not paying attention, so I need I'm calling out 79 00:04:14.039 --> 00:04:20.000 to parents, please, parents, have conversations, ongoing conversation with your 80 00:04:20.079 --> 00:04:22.639 kids about the dues and don'ts of the internet, because 81 00:04:22.639 --> 00:04:26.279 think about it, we're giving kids phones as early as 82 00:04:26.319 --> 00:04:28.839 five to communicate with the community. 83 00:04:29.000 --> 00:04:32.480 Let them, we let them play games, games. 84 00:04:33.160 --> 00:04:35.279 I get to the games. Don't get to the games 85 00:04:35.439 --> 00:04:38.279 right as early as five. But we're not talking to 86 00:04:38.319 --> 00:04:41.519 them about sex because it's too early. 87 00:04:41.959 --> 00:04:44.160 But you give them my phone? Right, all right? 88 00:04:44.240 --> 00:04:47.399 There one search that's easy. 89 00:04:48.600 --> 00:04:52.839 Oh okay, So do you want to ask me some questions? Oh? 90 00:04:53.120 --> 00:04:53.199 You? 91 00:04:55.000 --> 00:05:00.759 He directs me because I get getting long winded. Absolutely right. 92 00:05:00.879 --> 00:05:01.879 It's not paying attention. 93 00:05:02.040 --> 00:05:03.920 So you know with the apth thing, because we were 94 00:05:03.920 --> 00:05:06.480 talking about my daughter a second ago, okay, and we 95 00:05:06.600 --> 00:05:10.800 had a rude awakening because I would she knows my rules, 96 00:05:10.839 --> 00:05:13.639 but they don't follow I didn't when I was a kid, 97 00:05:13.920 --> 00:05:16.519 even taking out the freaking house and all kinds of stuff. 98 00:05:16.560 --> 00:05:19.120 When I was a kid, they don't even know right 99 00:05:19.480 --> 00:05:23.360 where did you go? Wherever I wanted to go? But 100 00:05:23.439 --> 00:05:26.920 did y'all parents know where to find you when you last? 101 00:05:26.959 --> 00:05:27.720 Well, they were asleep. 102 00:05:27.800 --> 00:05:30.560 Girl. I rolled my sister's transam out the driveway and 103 00:05:30.639 --> 00:05:32.519 down the street, started it up down the way and 104 00:05:32.560 --> 00:05:32.920 took off. 105 00:05:33.800 --> 00:05:35.480 But I was bad. I guess I don't know. I'm 106 00:05:35.519 --> 00:05:39.079 alive so here. 107 00:05:39.560 --> 00:05:43.079 But my point is is where we were in a 108 00:05:43.120 --> 00:05:46.319 physical state. Then now with the CyberWorld that it is, 109 00:05:46.800 --> 00:05:50.120 you know, you know you can't It's like driving stealing 110 00:05:50.160 --> 00:05:52.560 somebody's car and driving in the middle of a million people. 111 00:05:53.240 --> 00:05:55.279 Then anyone can be out there to snatch you up 112 00:05:55.279 --> 00:05:55.879 at any time. 113 00:05:55.920 --> 00:05:59.439 So my daughter has Snapchat, she has Instagram and all 114 00:05:59.439 --> 00:06:02.560 the things, and I trusted her and I said, you 115 00:06:02.600 --> 00:06:05.800 cannot add anybody that you don't know. You got to 116 00:06:05.800 --> 00:06:09.279 physically see them and know them, then you can add them. 117 00:06:09.439 --> 00:06:12.079 But these kids get so caught up in like how 118 00:06:12.120 --> 00:06:14.560 many followers they have and how many likes they have, 119 00:06:14.759 --> 00:06:18.759 because they glorify this crap on all these social media platforms. 120 00:06:18.759 --> 00:06:22.120 Well, she ended up getting a penis picture. Uh huh. 121 00:06:22.279 --> 00:06:24.839 Just the Peith yeah, they getting more than penis. Well, 122 00:06:24.879 --> 00:06:26.360 you know, I mean that's you know. 123 00:06:26.480 --> 00:06:29.040 And she swore that this person and other girls in 124 00:06:29.079 --> 00:06:31.600 her class and he was following people at her old 125 00:06:31.639 --> 00:06:32.279 middle school. 126 00:06:32.600 --> 00:06:35.040 Oh, they they follow him to they know him. Blah 127 00:06:35.079 --> 00:06:35.839 blah blah. 128 00:06:35.879 --> 00:06:38.240 All of a sudden, we find out this person has 129 00:06:38.319 --> 00:06:41.600 like ten different accounts and it very may well be 130 00:06:41.959 --> 00:06:43.959 a young person or maybe in dirt. 131 00:06:44.120 --> 00:06:46.279 I don't know who they are, but you know. 132 00:06:46.399 --> 00:06:49.040 And she was like telling me, admitting that she made 133 00:06:49.040 --> 00:06:51.199 her profile public for a little while, and I was like, 134 00:06:51.240 --> 00:06:53.920 you knew the rules, but it wasn't even that she 135 00:06:54.040 --> 00:06:57.600 thought that because other people knew this person, yes, and 136 00:06:57.639 --> 00:07:01.120 they had had conversations with them online, that it was 137 00:07:01.160 --> 00:07:04.160 okay for her that they knew her and they knew him, 138 00:07:04.439 --> 00:07:06.600 and that person was okay to talk to. Plus he 139 00:07:06.639 --> 00:07:09.120 put up a cute little picture of some scrawny looking 140 00:07:09.160 --> 00:07:11.480 white boy with blonde hair on the beach, like. 141 00:07:11.439 --> 00:07:15.639 They know what to do right to attract these people. 142 00:07:15.800 --> 00:07:19.199 So I think what people get confused about, aside from 143 00:07:19.759 --> 00:07:23.279 making time to have those conversations, is how do you 144 00:07:23.399 --> 00:07:27.519 approach it without button head and being like, look, I 145 00:07:27.680 --> 00:07:29.839 need you to do this well, why I don't want 146 00:07:29.879 --> 00:07:33.079 to well, because this is why. And I think pulling 147 00:07:33.160 --> 00:07:35.519 up important videos like the one we talked about with 148 00:07:35.519 --> 00:07:37.399 the little boy on the trampoline and this cat pulls 149 00:07:37.439 --> 00:07:37.680 up in the. 150 00:07:37.800 --> 00:07:40.560 Suv, where's your mom? Where's your mom? You told me 151 00:07:40.600 --> 00:07:42.720 your mom is pretty and she's single. Where is she? 152 00:07:42.879 --> 00:07:43.000 Like? 153 00:07:43.120 --> 00:07:44.720 Who knows what could have happened at that point? 154 00:07:45.360 --> 00:07:47.879 And I agree with you, son, I think the days 155 00:07:48.519 --> 00:07:52.600 of chestising our children needs to move back, because soon 156 00:07:52.639 --> 00:07:54.959 as you do, they're going to figure out another way 157 00:07:55.000 --> 00:07:55.519 to do it. 158 00:07:55.959 --> 00:07:56.160 Right. 159 00:07:56.279 --> 00:07:59.920 So we had a presentation last week and a parent's like, 160 00:08:00.199 --> 00:08:02.680 you know what, this stuff is not even relevant to 161 00:08:02.720 --> 00:08:07.240 me because my child don't have a phone. And so 162 00:08:07.279 --> 00:08:10.319 I said, I understand. Let me say, listeners, I get 163 00:08:10.360 --> 00:08:12.639 it that some of your children don't have a phone. 164 00:08:12.680 --> 00:08:15.079 But do they go to school? But kids have a 165 00:08:15.120 --> 00:08:17.839 phone or have internet at or have internet? Do they 166 00:08:17.879 --> 00:08:20.560 spend a night at someone's house that have a phone. 167 00:08:20.920 --> 00:08:23.560 Do they go to school and have a school computer. 168 00:08:23.600 --> 00:08:27.480 We gonna get about the education system real soon because 169 00:08:27.519 --> 00:08:30.959 they still have accents and the reality is this is 170 00:08:31.079 --> 00:08:34.679 the digital world is their world, so it's nothing we 171 00:08:34.759 --> 00:08:37.000 can do to prevent it. But we need to get 172 00:08:37.039 --> 00:08:40.240 in front of it, right because when they get eighteen, 173 00:08:40.320 --> 00:08:42.240 they're still going to have access. Just they're going to 174 00:08:42.600 --> 00:08:45.759 be rampant if you decide to not give them a 175 00:08:45.840 --> 00:08:49.080 computer now because I have someone said, well, homeschool, My 176 00:08:49.200 --> 00:08:53.600 children don't have that accent, but they will. That's the thing, right, 177 00:08:53.639 --> 00:08:57.279 the things are going away you bank. Here's a scenario 178 00:08:58.080 --> 00:09:02.000 in zoom world. I'm sorry now, zoom with COVID, you 179 00:09:02.000 --> 00:09:03.639 didn't have to leave the house for nothing. 180 00:09:04.240 --> 00:09:04.879 Let's be real. 181 00:09:05.000 --> 00:09:07.879 You could have found a man, you could have got drugs, 182 00:09:08.159 --> 00:09:11.919 you could work, you could get everything you needed without 183 00:09:11.960 --> 00:09:15.559 getting out your being right. And the reality is that 184 00:09:15.639 --> 00:09:18.919 is still true today that many people don't leave home 185 00:09:19.039 --> 00:09:23.000 for anything, the groceries, the medicine, the man, the drugs, 186 00:09:23.120 --> 00:09:28.480 everything right from access from your phone. So imagine putting 187 00:09:28.480 --> 00:09:32.679 that on tim with a child, right, what can a 188 00:09:32.759 --> 00:09:36.879 child do with so much access? Parents don't give children 189 00:09:36.960 --> 00:09:41.799 rules of the phone. They panic when they find out something. Right, 190 00:09:41.840 --> 00:09:44.360 it's like, you shouldn't have done that, But how would 191 00:09:44.399 --> 00:09:48.720 they have known if you didn't say you can't, you can't, 192 00:09:49.039 --> 00:09:53.080 don't or look for it. Look, how many of your 193 00:09:53.159 --> 00:09:58.840 listeners have their children's passwords. I did, I will go. 194 00:09:58.919 --> 00:10:02.480 I graduated from Saying Mary's. In twenty twenty two, sum 195 00:10:02.559 --> 00:10:03.480 kum laide. 196 00:10:03.480 --> 00:10:04.919 I wrote guy, thank you. 197 00:10:05.039 --> 00:10:07.840 Yes, I'll be going back there next week to speak. 198 00:10:09.159 --> 00:10:12.120 I did my thesis on parents' awareness of their children 199 00:10:12.320 --> 00:10:16.360 being sex tracked through electronic devices. I found that seventy 200 00:10:16.399 --> 00:10:21.440 percent of parents never had the passwords, have never went 201 00:10:21.480 --> 00:10:24.840 through their kids phones because why they trust them? 202 00:10:24.960 --> 00:10:27.039 I get it. Should you trust probably not. 203 00:10:27.759 --> 00:10:31.519 But if you do trust them, you shouldn't trust who 204 00:10:31.519 --> 00:10:35.519 they're talking to. Noah, that's just the bottom line. Yes, 205 00:10:35.600 --> 00:10:39.000 you may trust your kid, but listen, they're young, mined. 206 00:10:39.080 --> 00:10:42.960 Think about you as a kid, and then add the 207 00:10:43.080 --> 00:10:43.919 Internet on. 208 00:10:43.799 --> 00:10:48.480 It, right anless possibilities? 209 00:10:48.600 --> 00:10:50.960 What can you do and getting in try. 210 00:10:51.039 --> 00:10:54.600 I tell people your children can go from here to 211 00:10:54.759 --> 00:10:59.840 Africa laying right next to you and never physically lead 212 00:11:00.720 --> 00:11:03.360 right and so imagine, let's talk to im talk. I 213 00:11:03.440 --> 00:11:06.720 want to really speak to my father's. Your sons are 214 00:11:07.000 --> 00:11:13.919 being groomed through them gaming devices, roadblocks, Minecraft, rand theft Auto, 215 00:11:14.600 --> 00:11:18.559 they have chatting components to them. I just learned yesterday 216 00:11:19.039 --> 00:11:22.440 that on roadblocks there's games in there where they can 217 00:11:22.480 --> 00:11:27.279 beat up prostitutes. Wow, there's a section of it where 218 00:11:27.279 --> 00:11:30.960 they can go into a room. Like they said, it's 219 00:11:31.000 --> 00:11:36.519 called p Diddy. It's a p Diddy child parents. Look, 220 00:11:36.559 --> 00:11:40.759 I just posted on my social media there's a Diddy section. 221 00:11:42.039 --> 00:11:44.399 They can beat up pregnant women. 222 00:11:45.120 --> 00:11:45.320 Right. 223 00:11:45.600 --> 00:11:48.440 What is that doing for a child's mind? Making it 224 00:11:48.440 --> 00:11:51.799 seem like it's okay? 225 00:11:49.559 --> 00:11:52.120 Yeah? 226 00:11:52.360 --> 00:11:54.759 And I encourage parents, if your kids want to play 227 00:11:54.799 --> 00:11:56.080 this game, go play with them. 228 00:11:56.600 --> 00:11:57.919 See what they're playing. 229 00:11:58.120 --> 00:11:58.360 Right. 230 00:11:58.799 --> 00:12:03.480 And the chatty component is scary because it goes like this. 231 00:12:03.679 --> 00:12:07.200 Hi, sona G. Where is your mom? Oh that came here? 232 00:12:07.360 --> 00:12:10.679 Huh right? Well what kind of car she drives? Right? 233 00:12:10.960 --> 00:12:14.000 And what happens is that person continues to look for 234 00:12:14.080 --> 00:12:19.360 your child to play because he's giving information. And so 235 00:12:19.440 --> 00:12:21.720 what will happen is he'll know so much information on 236 00:12:21.840 --> 00:12:26.519 sogna G. He'll start looking for his mother. Right, Oh 237 00:12:26.559 --> 00:12:28.480 she's at work. Oh what's she doing talking to them 238 00:12:28.480 --> 00:12:32.200 on a brown Right? Any kind of information they can. 239 00:12:33.000 --> 00:12:35.960 And I tell you, when your child is traffic, you 240 00:12:36.080 --> 00:12:40.399 are traffic too. And so I really want to get 241 00:12:40.399 --> 00:12:43.480 it across here that this is the crisis. And then 242 00:12:43.519 --> 00:12:46.440 the flip side is our education system. I want to 243 00:12:46.440 --> 00:12:50.000 talk directly to the education system. And I want to 244 00:12:50.080 --> 00:12:54.799 talk and say, the education system gave all our kids computers, 245 00:12:55.559 --> 00:12:59.799 they gave them WiFi, they gave them email. I recently 246 00:12:59.840 --> 00:13:03.039 have to when and I'm crossing my fingers with the 247 00:13:03.120 --> 00:13:06.320 Senator and I just wrote a legislative law. The law 248 00:13:06.399 --> 00:13:11.000 would look like that the education system would need to 249 00:13:11.360 --> 00:13:16.799 educate parents and kids about internet safety. Because think about it, 250 00:13:16.919 --> 00:13:21.000 you guys handed computers like candy right. Kids is young 251 00:13:21.399 --> 00:13:27.279 five and six had computers and emails, right, But they 252 00:13:27.320 --> 00:13:31.320 did not educate us, right. How is it staff keeping 253 00:13:31.320 --> 00:13:34.559 our kids safe? For instance, at your baby school, if 254 00:13:34.600 --> 00:13:39.840 a child gets a dig pig, how would you get 255 00:13:40.240 --> 00:13:43.159 any information about your daughter received a dig pic through 256 00:13:43.200 --> 00:13:44.840 the school computer? 257 00:13:45.399 --> 00:13:46.519 Sna hmm. 258 00:13:47.240 --> 00:13:49.519 I don't know if they would contact me. I mean 259 00:13:49.600 --> 00:13:50.440 I guess they would. 260 00:13:50.960 --> 00:13:53.679 What happens, Sona if your kid gets traffic through the 261 00:13:53.840 --> 00:13:58.879 school computer. I mean I would hope they'd have blocks 262 00:13:58.919 --> 00:14:03.200 on certain right on different websites or. 263 00:14:03.159 --> 00:14:04.919 Whatever the case may be. But I'm not sure how 264 00:14:05.000 --> 00:14:06.399 their computers will set up. 265 00:14:06.440 --> 00:14:09.840 I want to challenge the parents today, get your kids 266 00:14:09.960 --> 00:14:14.519 computer and see how many websites you can access. I'll 267 00:14:14.559 --> 00:14:17.840 just tell you my daughter has a school computer, I 268 00:14:17.879 --> 00:14:21.080 can get on Facebook. Facebook is the number one side 269 00:14:21.120 --> 00:14:25.279 of kids being trafficked? Can you get on Instagram through 270 00:14:25.320 --> 00:14:29.480 your child's computer? Can you access your child's computer? One 271 00:14:29.480 --> 00:14:32.639 thing the education system does do remind you if they 272 00:14:32.679 --> 00:14:35.679 lose it or break it, you gonna get the bill. 273 00:14:36.720 --> 00:14:39.919 You don't get it right, But what happens if something 274 00:14:40.000 --> 00:14:42.559 happens to them through that school device. The other thing 275 00:14:42.639 --> 00:14:45.039 I wrote about is why should children under the age 276 00:14:45.039 --> 00:14:48.919 of twelve through the school system have an email? If 277 00:14:48.919 --> 00:14:53.200 they have an email, remember I said children are predators too. 278 00:14:53.840 --> 00:14:56.120 My youngest pimp was under twelve. 279 00:14:57.120 --> 00:15:02.000 What it was a girl? She was peeping out her friends. 280 00:15:02.480 --> 00:15:04.639 She was a pimp. So here's the thing. 281 00:15:06.039 --> 00:15:08.919 If you find out your child is being pimped by 282 00:15:08.960 --> 00:15:13.679 another child in your child's classroom, what's the first thing, sona, 283 00:15:13.759 --> 00:15:14.279 you should do? 284 00:15:16.240 --> 00:15:20.200 Go see your mama. Okay, after you do that. 285 00:15:23.200 --> 00:15:28.279 Our children, yeah, they're not old men anymore. What does 286 00:15:28.320 --> 00:15:32.240 a parent do? Right if you find out your daughter 287 00:15:32.240 --> 00:15:35.840 If you found out your daughter received a inappropriate picture 288 00:15:35.919 --> 00:15:38.440 from her class mate, yeah. 289 00:15:38.039 --> 00:15:41.200 What do you do? You obviously reported to who, to. 290 00:15:41.519 --> 00:15:43.759 The head of the school, and then say you wanted 291 00:15:43.799 --> 00:15:44.799 the police contacted. 292 00:15:44.919 --> 00:15:45.559 Uh huh. 293 00:15:45.600 --> 00:15:49.080 And see, here's the thing. Everyone's had a different answer. 294 00:15:49.320 --> 00:15:53.559 The thing is we don't know, right, and I want 295 00:15:53.600 --> 00:15:58.480 the education system to invite me. Let's have conversations about 296 00:15:58.519 --> 00:16:01.720 how are we keeping kids safe through the digital world. 297 00:16:02.120 --> 00:16:06.440 There are so many beefs being started, oh man, through 298 00:16:06.840 --> 00:16:11.600 school that school time, through these phones, the cyberbullying, the 299 00:16:11.720 --> 00:16:17.480 sex stortion, the blackmailing. Right, and so I have just 300 00:16:17.519 --> 00:16:20.039 a little bit of more about me. I have my master's, 301 00:16:20.320 --> 00:16:23.360 I'm waiting to take my licensure tests. I'm in I'm 302 00:16:23.399 --> 00:16:26.360 working Country Crostic School District as a therapist. 303 00:16:26.759 --> 00:16:29.840 It is amazing what I see that is happening. 304 00:16:29.840 --> 00:16:32.320 And so many of these beefs are starting because of 305 00:16:32.360 --> 00:16:39.679 social media. Once again, parents are not monitoring, right. Sex 306 00:16:39.720 --> 00:16:42.960 stortion is having children's Let's let me say, some parents, 307 00:16:43.440 --> 00:16:46.840 your kids is taking pictures of themselves and they uploading 308 00:16:46.840 --> 00:16:50.159 it and right while you sleep or maybe you sit 309 00:16:50.320 --> 00:16:53.759 right next to them, right. And I want us parents 310 00:16:53.759 --> 00:16:56.759 to be able to get in front of some of 311 00:16:56.799 --> 00:16:58.879 this stuff because the things are that some of our 312 00:16:58.960 --> 00:17:01.320 children are doing, it's going to mess. 313 00:17:01.159 --> 00:17:05.000 Up them going forward. Oh it will. 314 00:17:05.079 --> 00:17:08.920 Some of the stuff could possibly destroy their lives and 315 00:17:08.920 --> 00:17:12.240 not on. When our children lives are destroyed, our lives 316 00:17:12.279 --> 00:17:15.599 are destroyed as well, because usually what happens is signa 317 00:17:15.680 --> 00:17:19.599 that was your baby? How you didn't know because I didn't, 318 00:17:19.640 --> 00:17:23.240 but you should have, right, And we are paying for 319 00:17:23.359 --> 00:17:26.119 things that we have no access. So it's just like 320 00:17:26.240 --> 00:17:30.359 SNA go put your money in Chase, right, you don't 321 00:17:30.400 --> 00:17:33.039 have the number to get your money out. 322 00:17:33.839 --> 00:17:35.519 So he said, well, how much money is in there? 323 00:17:35.559 --> 00:17:39.119 I don't know. The bank telling you listen, we don't know, 324 00:17:39.160 --> 00:17:39.720 we don't know. 325 00:17:40.200 --> 00:17:43.359 Just keep putting your check in there every month, right, 326 00:17:43.799 --> 00:17:47.200 But I needed to pay my bills too bad. And 327 00:17:47.240 --> 00:17:51.519 that's what's happening with these phones, these iPads and gaming devices. 328 00:17:51.559 --> 00:17:55.720 We're paying monthly for things we have no access to. 329 00:17:55.880 --> 00:18:00.839 But anytime the FBI, the police, Right, let's look at 330 00:18:00.880 --> 00:18:06.720 what's happening with P Diddy. Allegedly his youngest victim was nine, 331 00:18:07.440 --> 00:18:10.920 we would also look at Epstein, right, R. 332 00:18:11.079 --> 00:18:11.480 Kelly. 333 00:18:12.119 --> 00:18:15.000 So if it's happening on a global level, what do 334 00:18:15.039 --> 00:18:18.559 you think is happening right next to us? California is 335 00:18:18.599 --> 00:18:23.599 the number one state of trafficking, then you have San 336 00:18:23.599 --> 00:18:26.759 Francisco city wise, San Jose, Oakland. 337 00:18:27.160 --> 00:18:30.599 Right, have you been to Oakland lately? East fourteen? 338 00:18:31.039 --> 00:18:35.279 It is so sad to see those babies out there 339 00:18:35.400 --> 00:18:36.079 being traffic. 340 00:18:36.240 --> 00:18:38.759 But let me tell you, they all are holding a phone. 341 00:18:40.000 --> 00:18:41.480 To being in contact with. 342 00:18:41.519 --> 00:18:43.359 Phone be the biggest thing on them. Not they closed. 343 00:18:43.359 --> 00:18:46.759 I'll tell you that much. Damn Yeah, for real, the phones. 344 00:18:46.519 --> 00:18:50.279 Right, and even down here in San Francisco, Right, the 345 00:18:50.319 --> 00:18:55.039 phones is because that's the connection to the pimp, whoever 346 00:18:55.079 --> 00:18:58.880 the pimp is, right, how they get their victims, right, 347 00:18:58.960 --> 00:19:02.799 how they meet their people that pay the johns. And 348 00:19:02.880 --> 00:19:07.960 so I'm asking parents, this is a crisis that these 349 00:19:08.119 --> 00:19:12.519 phones are getting our kids in trouble, and our kids 350 00:19:12.519 --> 00:19:16.400 are running away from us, being lured from us because 351 00:19:16.440 --> 00:19:17.039 of the phone. 352 00:19:17.759 --> 00:19:17.960 Right. 353 00:19:18.000 --> 00:19:20.960 So if your daughter came up missing today, Sana, do 354 00:19:21.039 --> 00:19:24.440 you know her friends? Okay, a lot of parents don't. 355 00:19:25.240 --> 00:19:28.519 They don't know that they've never met their kids' friends 356 00:19:29.039 --> 00:19:31.880 or the parents. Right when I was a p'll be like, 357 00:19:32.319 --> 00:19:35.279 you want to hang at Johnny house. You met Johnny mother? No, 358 00:19:35.759 --> 00:19:39.160 we have to get their business. Yeah, you can't just 359 00:19:39.240 --> 00:19:40.759 drop them off at the door. 360 00:19:40.799 --> 00:19:45.279 And the way that I'm right, and I encourage parents 361 00:19:45.319 --> 00:19:46.759 to read your children's messages. 362 00:19:47.079 --> 00:19:52.279 I absolutely do it is not and explain why, say, listen, 363 00:19:52.680 --> 00:19:55.720 this is about safety. I'm doing this to keep you 364 00:19:55.920 --> 00:20:00.559 safe and me safe. Right, it'll be random. Maybe think 365 00:20:00.559 --> 00:20:04.079 about a contract between you and your children. Right about 366 00:20:04.119 --> 00:20:06.279 the phones and all people, Mom, Hey you grazy. No, 367 00:20:06.640 --> 00:20:12.079 I've seen so much with these phones and iPads and 368 00:20:12.119 --> 00:20:15.799 gaming devices. It's all you gotta do is gonna TikTok 369 00:20:16.319 --> 00:20:21.240 and put it in and watch the parents talk about 370 00:20:21.640 --> 00:20:22.920 internet predators. 371 00:20:23.519 --> 00:20:25.960 You know, I saw this video the other day really 372 00:20:26.039 --> 00:20:28.720 quick at least parents who saw something going on with 373 00:20:28.799 --> 00:20:32.240 their child. And she had been communicating with an adult. 374 00:20:32.440 --> 00:20:35.200 But what she didn't know is is he was a 375 00:20:35.279 --> 00:20:39.720 decoy that they put there to show her physically what 376 00:20:39.920 --> 00:20:42.759 could happen to her if she talks to strangers. So 377 00:20:43.119 --> 00:20:46.000 the man pulled up in a van, she gets in 378 00:20:46.079 --> 00:20:48.559 the car and they don't show her face. She's a minor, 379 00:20:48.720 --> 00:20:51.079 but she couldn't have been more than twelve thirteen years old. 380 00:20:51.680 --> 00:20:54.039 Grown ass man. He was a good looking dude that 381 00:20:54.119 --> 00:20:55.519 they had in the thing, and I'm sure they had 382 00:20:55.599 --> 00:20:57.920 him use this real face and whatever the case may be. 383 00:20:58.160 --> 00:21:00.279 Here come the mom and dad with a man, ask 384 00:21:00.359 --> 00:21:04.359 on and gloves and grab her and she's screaming, her. 385 00:21:05.839 --> 00:21:09.559 Screaming, and they were like, it's us stop scream. Apps. 386 00:21:09.920 --> 00:21:12.000 Now you see what we've been talking about. 387 00:21:12.480 --> 00:21:16.200 You cannot talk to anybody on you know, whatever, but 388 00:21:16.240 --> 00:21:19.720 you can put guidelines on their apps or have like 389 00:21:19.880 --> 00:21:22.240 I'm monitoring what you have going on. So after that 390 00:21:22.559 --> 00:21:25.240 situation with Naya, I put that in there. But I 391 00:21:25.279 --> 00:21:28.400 think this is why it's important that people not only 392 00:21:28.400 --> 00:21:31.119 hear what you say here, but if they need help, 393 00:21:31.160 --> 00:21:35.039 reach out, because I think in a lot of parents' minds, 394 00:21:35.519 --> 00:21:38.519 one they use the phone as okay, good, you're doing 395 00:21:38.559 --> 00:21:44.119 something else that I got stuff to do, and I'm like, great, whatever, 396 00:21:44.319 --> 00:21:46.200 not really, I mean the same stuff you look at, 397 00:21:46.240 --> 00:21:49.440 they're looking at you, they get pop. 398 00:21:49.319 --> 00:21:50.559 Ups, they get all the things. 399 00:21:50.640 --> 00:21:54.319 And then also if I have to take accountability for 400 00:21:54.480 --> 00:21:58.279 what I made did not express to them, then I'm 401 00:21:58.279 --> 00:22:00.200