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Speaker 1: I made a decision pay sunny sound. I had a vision.

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It's nice. Hey everybody, what's up.

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Speaker 2: It's our Friday Patreon and we thank you guys for

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being here with us.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, totally, I love you guys.

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Speaker 2: Uh yeah, Let's see what's been going on since we

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last talked.

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Speaker 1: Well, in my world's still a lot of college a

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lot of college angst. Yeah. I got this email from

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my kid's college counselor who works at the school, and

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she said that it's not a good idea to apply

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undeclared to UC's, which I was kind of excited about

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the idea of Xander doing. But now I'm hearing that's

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not a good idea. That a good idea. Yeah, so

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UCLA Communications. The major is impacted. Like when LB applied

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for psychology, there's not a lot of other majors that

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he's interested in. So if anybody out there can think

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of like a good major that I haven't thought of, that, yeah,

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is less crowded. And I know, okay, I know what

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you're going to say that you people are going to say, well,

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just get in with a different major like whatever, sociology

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or something with a high acceptance rate and then transfer

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and I guess that is possible. Yeah, but what if

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there's no room in the major he wants to transfer into, Well, what.

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Speaker 2: Is the college? You don't have the coach, do you?

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I mean, yeah, I could ask her. I'll ask her

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that question. Yeah, yeah, you're welcome.

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Speaker 1: Sadie's so easy. I was. I was had to talk

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with Sadie and she was like, mom, I really like

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barely even want to go to Seasun. She can get

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into Seasun really easily because it's it's in our yeahborhood basically.

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So she's like, I don't you know, I just I'm

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not feeling any of it, you know. And I was like, okay, well,

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she applied to CESEN. She applied to SDSU, and I

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was like, look, if you want to go to Pierce

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and like just take some fun classes, you know that

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would be fun? Now? Good? Yeah? Yours? Yeah that's fine.

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And she was like okay. I was like, but you

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already applied to CESEN, so you'll see and like you'll

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look at the schedule and see if there's classes you

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want to take, and if you're not into it, don't

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do it. Right, I'm all about no pro it's good. Yeah.

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So Xander had. This was a few weeks ago, and

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I was almost going to talk about this on Patreon,

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but I kind of feel like other parents might relate

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to this right now, so I'll just say what's going on.

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But so, he had a speech competition coming up, which

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spoiler alert are overused term he did not go to.

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He was trying to write this speech. He was also

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trying to do college applications. He's also the assistant director

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of the current school play. Wow. He's also in like

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a number of clubs. He also is playing in his band. Yeah,

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has all these shows to do, but he's trying to

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write these essays, you know. So he comes in my

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room and he's trying to get me to help him

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write some stuff for this speech. Yeah, and it's not

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it's very half baked, like he can't figure out what

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the idea is. He kind of knows, but then he's

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getting frustrated telling me because I'm not really understanding it.

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So he's like, I can't really articulate what it is.

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it is, it's going to be pretty hard to give

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a speech about it, right, you know. Yeah, the first

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thing you really have to nail down, is like, what

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do you what do you want to say? Yeah? Right,

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what are you trying to just try to tell me?

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say about this topic? And he's like, I know, but

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I have all these different ideas, and he's just getting frustrated.

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And then he's getting a little bit frustrated with me

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for not understanding, even though I know he's not. I

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know he's not mad at me, but he's right. He

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the time. This is on a Wednesday. The competition that

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he's trying to write a ten minute speech really was

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for that Saturday. Oh my god. And this is on Wednesday.

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This is on Wednesday. Oh my gosh. Then I was like, well,

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the mom that's like, well, why why are we with

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this on a Wednesday? Like I know that's not going

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to help him, right, So I was like, well, it's

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already Wednesday. M hmm. Okay.

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Speaker 2: First of all, it's such a typical thing that parents

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have to deal with with their kids. Yes, you know,

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they come to you, they're frustrated. You don't you know

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why they're frustrated. They're also feeling the pressure because they

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waited too long, waited to the last minute. But then

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you don't want to be like, well, what the fuck

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why'd you get wad you wait this long? Because you

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don't want to add to the frustration. Then you're trying

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to help them, but they're not. You guys aren't connected.

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Speaker 1: And here's the problem. He hadn't waited until like that

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day to start. It's just that he'd been thinking about

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it and running ideas. He'd met with the speech coach

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several times. It's just that every time he sat down

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to kind of write it, it wasn't coming to him. Yeah.

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the thing you're not oh, but then he's starting to

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just be really upset in general, and I was like,

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let's talk about what's really going on here. Yeah, because

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we're not going to solve this part of the play,

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like by Saturday, you're not you haven't even written it,

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and then memorize it into like, it's just not going

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to happen. And I said, you have too many things

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these things. Remember when I said, I hope he doesn't

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do the school play, but he did anyway, I was like,

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I told you, because he has a rehearsal till six

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o'clock every day. This kid is busy, I know. And

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I was like, now you're tired, and now you're stretched

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too thin. It's getting that. Something's got to go. And

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the first thing that has to go is this speech,

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because you don't have to do all the Listen, the

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person who gets hurt is me because I wanted to

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touch you know. But yeah, there's plenty more of these competitions.

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to because he wants to do everything and because he

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hates to disappoint anyone. So he says to me, well,

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my speech coach already said last chance to back out,

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and that was I think the day before. Uh huh,

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like she told me yesterday, this is your last chance.

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like I was like, let's talk about time management and like,

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what is what's our priority right now? Because I think

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your priority should be get the college stuff out of

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the way. Yes, then you can do whatever the hell

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you want, right, but now you've taken on this play,

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so now you're the assistant director, so now that has

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to happened first. Then he starts getting like so upset

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about the college stuff, and he says it's so much.

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to figure out what do I want to do with

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my life? That's tough. What do I want to be?

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knows because we do talk about it a lot, like

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college is expensive. I don't want to send him. I've

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told him, I don't want to send you to Emerson

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to study comedy the comedy major, because I don't have

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two hundred thousand dollars to spend for you to go

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enjoy Boston when you could be in the groundlings here exactly.

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I took that to heart and he was like, well,

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college anyway at this point, because you know, what I

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to do what I want to do in college. Uh huh.

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I meem. I had to channel like a different mom.

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It's so tough. I hate that. I know, tough being

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a mom like us. Yes, we're like, well kind of

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kind of. Yeah, we figured it out right right right. Yeah.

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enjoy he a stand up comedian. Yeah, he seems to

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enjoy that sketch comedy. So he's never done stand up

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and he doesn't currently do sketch comedy, but like he

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has this idea like he loves it. Yeah, and listen,

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before I ever started to try to be a comedian,

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I loved comedy right like I loved it. I was

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like him, I loved it from a young age. I

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went to see stand up shows. I was like, that's

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my dream. Yeah, yeah, I don't think I could ever

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really make it happen, but god, I love to do

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that before I die. Yeah, that's what I was thinking

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at sixteen.

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He's got great parents that would support him. Like he

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could start doing that's what he wants to do. That's

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what I told Sunny. If you want to do sports broadcast,

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own live YouTube show doing sports recaps. Right, So you

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start doing it now, that's what you want to do,

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Speaker 1: Do it.

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Speaker 2: But he's got a lot on its plate though, right now.

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get some friends together, write some sketches, film them and

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put them on YouTube. Oh there you guy. He's like,

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with what time? Yeah, And I'm like, okay, good point.

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and he couldn't do the showcase because he had to

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go do a gig. Yeah, because he's spread very thick

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spread then. But the thing is what I said to

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him is I did channel a different mom. That's not me.

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That's like, great, save me. The money, go to community

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college and go and go do yeah, be in the Groundlings. Right.

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the the great thing about college is that like you

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can get a degree that and just having a college

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degree can open other doors for you after college. But

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you're in southern California, you can do groundlings classes. You

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can do it over the summer, you can you know. Yeah.

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have to take something that's interesting to you, because why

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why start your life right now if you don't have to,

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if you can go to college and like figure out

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what you want to do. And anyway, he started like

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calming down about it, and I was like, there's nothing

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set in stone, but that's why you don't need to

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go to Emerson to study comedy, because you could study

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it here. And he was like, no, I know that,

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and now I don't even really want to do that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I was tacking in a town too

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about this stuff. She really got bit by the showbiz

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bug by working at Kimmel over the summer, and she's like,

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I really enjoy being in that fast paced environment like production.

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am I going to school if I could, you know,

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get a job at an early age like I did

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and get to work and start doing what I really

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Speaker 1: But then I was told her.

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Speaker 2: You know, my nephew, Anthony, he after high school, moved

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out here. He worked eight years at Jimmy Kimmel Alive,

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worked his way up to a writer's assistant. But it's

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not there's not a lot of money unless you're like

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head writer or writer or whatever. I mean maybe eventually,

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to write and do that kind of stuff. And she's like, well,

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a family kids, you know, and it just doesn't pay

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want to.

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so he had to leave and do a totally different.

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so she's kind of she was. She brought that up

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to me the other day and I was like, all right, well,

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you know, whatever you want to do, I support you.

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want to graduate college and I want to continue here.

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that she's going to continue taking her classes and working

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on her transfer and you know, and then I don't know,

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we'll see. But she does love that, and I knew

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she was going to love it. I knew it because

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all day. She loved it. And of course also it helped.

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were so funny to be She's like, they're so everybody

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was so funny. Everybody had such a great sense of

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humor and blah blah blah. She liked that environment so.

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Speaker 1: Because the creative people are fun, they are it is.

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having a corporate job. Yeah. See I liked. I liked

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working in the corporate side. I don't.

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I always felt like you work and then you're on hiatus,

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and then what do you do when you're on hiatus?

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I had to pay bills. So I was like, I

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think I liked being in the corporate side. And then yeah,

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and then ABC was like the best job I ever had.

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the day to day, Yeah, it was. It was fun

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that what was a typical daylight. I just loved being.

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where the president of the of the network is, and

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then you also have the drama department that's developing dramas,

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and then you have the comedy department, and then you

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have the alternative series department, and then they're giving you

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scripts to take home to read over the weekend, and

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then you know, they're like, if you have any notes,

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let us Like it was very collaborative and just you

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felt like a part of something. Then you had the

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upfronts coming up once a year, you know, where you

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go to New York and they do the whole presentation

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of their lineups, and it just and then I just

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loved my job, which was programming and scheduling, which is

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talking to CBS and all the other networks, you know,

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and what they're airing, and what original episode are they airing,

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what repeats their airing, and then what we're going to

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put up against their repeats or against the original.

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Speaker 1: It was just like that were people like were the

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network secretive about it? No, they trying to find out

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or did now For the most part, they were very

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because that's how the business was. You know.

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Speaker 2: You just have your counterpart at CBS or NBC that

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you talked to, and you know, are you running repeats

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of whose line is it anyway? Or are you running

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a special or movies or what. The only secretive part

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was when they announced the phone lineup for all the

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shows that they're picking up. That was the secretive part.

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love TV, you know, so I get you know, I

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get it.

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Speaker 1: I get to go to all the events.

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Speaker 2: I went to the upfronts a couple times, and all

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the press tours that they did in Pasadena of our

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new shows. Yeah, it was fun. You know, there was

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things like that, I love my department. My department was small.

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It was just me and two other guys in that department.

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It was great. I and then there's the people that

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have been there since fucking Batman was on the primetime schedule.

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and they were you know, it's just was like, it

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was a fun. And then I got my friend's jobs there.

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I got Melissa, my friend Scott, Suzanne, and they all

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stayed and you know, Suzanne's still there. So it's just

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it's fun being in that environment. I loved it.

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Speaker 1: So I get it. You did.

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and Adam bought the house that he tore down and refurbished.

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Once he bought that house right after we got married,

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he was like, I want you to help me with

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the house.

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Speaker 1: I don't.

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Speaker 2: You don't need to go to work and then we're

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gonna have kids. So I quit. And were you sad?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? I was. I loved it, I had it.

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Speaker 2: I liked it, but at the same time, I was

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just newly married, and I was excited to have kids

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and get started having babies and bought this new house.

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Speaker 1: So I mean I felt torn.

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Speaker 2: But you know, were you always like I want to

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be a stay at home mom, or did you know

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pressured into it?

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Speaker 1: No.

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Speaker 2: I was nervous to quit my job because I always

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had a job where I got up, went somewhere, I

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got like a routine.

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Speaker 1: I like that.

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Speaker 2: Now it's like, I don't even have kids yet, and

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I'm not gonna have a job, you know.

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Speaker 1: But at that.

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Speaker 2: Time, we were also Gina Kimmel and I were starting that

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lush spa business that we were working on, so we

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did have something that I was going to every day

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and working on.

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Speaker 1: But other than that, yeah, I didn't, you know.

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Speaker 2: And then I got used to it, and then we

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had kids, and then we had the twins, and then

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that was that.

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Speaker 1: How long did the working on the spa thing last?

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maybe because it was tough because then you have to

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get you had to get all the licenses for the

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massage therapist, which took time, and we eventually got it.

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But then we eventually got but then the house that

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we were renting. The lady was the owner was shady,

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and when I gave birth to the kids, Gina came

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in that day to tell me that she sold the

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property and that we had thirty days to move our

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stuff out.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So it was like grand opening and grand clothes

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and that was that. And Adam didn't want me working there,

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and he was like that you don't need you need

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to take care of the kids and take care of

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the house. And then and then yeah, he was doing

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morning radio and then he then he started to podcast.

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Speaker 1: And you don't have to answer it if you don't

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want to, but fine. When you were in like in

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the hospital, and I remember that Adam was like very busy.

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He was filming The Hammer when I gave birth. Right,

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he took two weeks.

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Speaker 2: He planned it so that when when I was giving

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birth and the kids were being born, that he would

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take two weeks off of the radio show and film

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The Hammer. And that's what he did. Or no, I

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think he did do the radios, but he filmed.

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Speaker 1: But I remember he was like broadcasting a lot, like

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he was doing it from the hospital. Yes, yeah, yeah,

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you just told me that he wasn't or you've told

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the audience that he was not very present, right he wasn't.

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Did you feel at all.

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Speaker 3: Like, uh oh, like this doesn't bode well for like

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their future him being well, not for their future, but

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for him being like a present, like helping me with

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the kids, because I know he was the one who

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was like, you need a night nanny and like a

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day nanny.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not gonna yeah, yeah that at the time.

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Did you feel like, well, I love this guy and

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like I knew what I was getting into because he's

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very busy and successful, and like or was there a

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part of you that was like this is not great.

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Speaker 2: I think during the time, when you're in the middle

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of it, it's hard to really see. I mean I

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remember having like second thoughts when we were good to

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get married. I was going to the therapist and I said,

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I'm just concerned because his parents were not present for him,

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didn't go to any of his games and all that,

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and the therapist said, don't worry, because he's gonna She said, basically,

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most people like that overcompensate and we'll be there at

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all their.

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Speaker 1: Games, like we did, right exactly, So yeah, I was

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wrong about that.

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Speaker 2: But you know during the time now, when I gave

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the birth to the kids, I was in the thick

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of it, so I was like, okay, I trusted you know,

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he was like, don't worry, we'll get a night nurse.

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We'll get the nanny because you know, he was doing

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morning radio. He didn't want to wake up in the

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middle of the night and we had twins to feed,

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so you know, shit's hard.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so he.

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Speaker 2: Was like, well, we'll hire help because we don't have

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family that can help us, you know. So luckily we did,

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we hired the help and then and then you know,

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you're just in it. You know, you don't realize what's

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coming down the pike. You know, like I'm not changing

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any diapers, you know, making that proclamation like I'm not

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changing diapers. That's why i'm you know, that's what you're

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for and that's why I pay somebody. But I'm not

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changing any dipe and not feeding in the middle of

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the night. I'm not doing any of that.

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Speaker 1: So, so, did you have any moments because I know,

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I know I did at the beginning where you were like, god,

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I miss ABC.

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Speaker 2: Oh yes, oh yeah, I wanted to go back. I

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loved it, and I was like, why did I quit

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so early on? But you know, I'm newly married and

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I have a husband that wants me to to you know,

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stay home and take care of the house and take

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care of his businesses and stuff like that, and you know,

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and then he wanted me to take over Mangria and

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blah blah blah, and then you know, going to the

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podcast studio and working there with those guys. So then

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I had other things going on, and then I enjoyed

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it that stuff it, but yeah, I missed I missed

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working like on my own at my own company by

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you know, that didn't any anything to do with the

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Corolla universe.

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Speaker 1: You know, when you started the parent experiment, was it

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your idea? Were you like, I want to know.

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Speaker 2: You know what happened is Jimmy did Yeah, Jimmy did

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Serious XM. Bruce Springsteen channel like DJ for the Day,

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but they also had civilian people doing that too, like

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not just celebrities. And I was like, I would love

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to be DJ for the day. So I did it,

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and I was on Serious XM. Bruce Radio.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know that, Yeah, yeah, I did it.

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Speaker 2: I was just one, you know, like two hours of

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talking about play this song, this song means this to me,

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and this I wish I could get a recording of it.

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Speaker 1: So you like talked on the thing yes on.

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Speaker 2: The Bruce on the Serious XM channel for like an

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hour and a half or something and just played music

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and talked about stories of what what songs meant to me? Yeah,

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just by yourself, just by myself. And it was so fun.

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It was great.

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Speaker 1: I loved it.

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Speaker 2: And uh then at the time she Adam was doing

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the podcast, Donnie and Kathy were working for us, and

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Kathy was like, and Teresa was around, and Kathy was like,

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we should do you know, Adam has shit his show

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because you did. You were so great on Serious XM.

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You should have your own podcast. Why don't we do

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a show about parenting? And Teresa wants to be a

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mom and she's going to be a mom and blah

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blah blah.

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Speaker 1: Like let's do it. And so I was like, okay,

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thinking like this is not gonna last very long. And

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so Teresa hadn't had a baby yet at thought. I

473
00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:41,319
don't think so. I think she was trying to get pregnant. Yeah,

474
00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:45,519
because her kids are quite a bit younger than the kids. Yeah, yeah, okay, okay.

475
00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:48,720
Speaker 2: So I was like okay, you know, and then it

476
00:24:48,799 --> 00:24:51,119
turned into like, oh, well we want to Then Adam

477
00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:53,240
would talk about me on the show, and then people

478
00:24:53,279 --> 00:24:56,119
would go like, then, you know, like what's Lynette's side

479
00:24:56,119 --> 00:24:58,440
of the story of that argument? So I would like

480
00:24:58,519 --> 00:25:01,240
talk about my side of the story on things and

481
00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:03,279
kind of bag on him since he was bagging on

482
00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:04,480
me blah blah blah.

483
00:25:04,519 --> 00:25:06,480
Speaker 1: And did you like that right away or were you

484
00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:08,200
I was so awkward. I didn't know.

485
00:25:08,279 --> 00:25:10,359
Speaker 2: I didn't feel comfortable talking, like I was like m

486
00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:12,960
and Teresa was like, You're gonna be fine. And Teresa's

487
00:25:13,039 --> 00:25:15,319
the pro like She's like, You're gonna be fine. And

488
00:25:15,359 --> 00:25:17,720
then it was you know, then we had guests, remember,

489
00:25:17,759 --> 00:25:20,640
like booked guests coming in, so I have to do

490
00:25:20,720 --> 00:25:24,640
that much. But then I started to enjoy it, you know.

491
00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:27,119
Then Teresa left and then I got the other co

492
00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:29,240
host and I was like, well, now this sucks.

493
00:25:29,319 --> 00:25:32,400
Speaker 1: So when Teresa left, though, were you like, well, I'm

494
00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:35,119
just gonna not do this anymore or were they like no,

495
00:25:35,519 --> 00:25:37,400
or were you liking it at that point and like, well,

496
00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:38,200
now I want to do it?

497
00:25:38,279 --> 00:25:41,480
Speaker 2: I was liking it, and Kathy was like, we knew

498
00:25:41,559 --> 00:25:43,960
Teresa was leaving. She gave us plenty of time, and

499
00:25:44,079 --> 00:25:46,559
Kathy was like, well, just get another co host. And

500
00:25:46,599 --> 00:25:49,400
I remember her sending me different people that she liked

501
00:25:49,440 --> 00:25:53,839
that she found, and there was something about what's her name,

502
00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:57,519
Susannah Ris. There was something about her that I thought

503
00:25:57,720 --> 00:26:00,480
was kind of funny, Like she wrote some thing about

504
00:26:00,519 --> 00:26:03,119
being a mom, and I thought it was funny and clever.

505
00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:06,880
So I was like, how about her? And then she

506
00:26:07,039 --> 00:26:10,200
came in and she was super nice and sweet. She

507
00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:13,920
always was nice and sweet. Yeah, I wasn't the problem. Yeah,

508
00:26:14,000 --> 00:26:17,839
so but then we just weren't working out together and

509
00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:20,720
then people were like fuck it. Yeah, they didn't like her.

510
00:26:21,079 --> 00:26:23,599
Then they were also diehard Teresa's fans. It was big

511
00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:24,720
shoes to fill too.

512
00:26:25,039 --> 00:26:31,039
Speaker 1: Yeah. So, but she was a how do I put this?

513
00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:33,880
Because I'm not saying like I'm great or anything or that,

514
00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:36,920
but she was I think trying to be a character.

515
00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:40,640
She let it, and I don't I think with podcasting,

516
00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:45,160
especially in the early days, people see through that really fast. Yeah,

517
00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:47,680
I just want you to be real, right right, not

518
00:26:47,759 --> 00:26:50,960
being yourself. She wasn't. She was playing a caricature, and

519
00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:54,839
they're like, that doesn't seem true, right, because even when

520
00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:58,000
I came in, and I think I guessed only one

521
00:26:58,079 --> 00:27:01,160
time with her, maybe twice with her, once with Teresa.

522
00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:05,599
But I do remember being like she's a lot. Yes

523
00:27:05,839 --> 00:27:08,079
she was, and she was trying to trap me into

524
00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:12,920
She was telling some stories that I was like really.

525
00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:15,920
Speaker 2: Like, oh yeah, I mean, first of yeah, she I

526
00:27:15,960 --> 00:27:18,759
think you're right. She came in doing like a caricature

527
00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:21,880
of what she thought people wanted to hear, Like, Oh,

528
00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:24,319
my kids drove me so nuts that I drove to

529
00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:26,400
an insane asylum over the weekend.

530
00:27:26,599 --> 00:27:29,200
Speaker 1: Right, Oh you did? Did you weighs it? Where is

531
00:27:29,200 --> 00:27:31,400
this this insane asylum? You know that?

532
00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:33,880
Speaker 2: Or I'm so in love with my husband we have

533
00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:36,079
sex all the time, blah blah blah blahlah. I'm like

534
00:27:36,119 --> 00:27:41,559
really really so, I just I didn't like that about her.

535
00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:43,119
Speaker 1: I didn't like the stories.

536
00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:46,880
Speaker 2: I smelled bullshit, and I was like, just be really, like,

537
00:27:47,039 --> 00:27:49,880
just tell your real people don't want to hear that kind.

538
00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:52,359
Speaker 1: Of fluffy stuff. You know. She couldn't help herself.

539
00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:54,319
Speaker 2: She wanted to be funny, and she wanted to be

540
00:27:54,680 --> 00:27:57,680
a performer. She was trying to perform every week, and

541
00:27:57,759 --> 00:27:59,799
I didn't like, that's not me. And I was like,

542
00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:02,759
I just I'm not vibing. I can't. I didn't even

543
00:28:02,799 --> 00:28:04,640
care that people didn't like her. I'm like, oh, it's

544
00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:08,759
growing pains. They love Teresa. Eventually they'll probably you know,

545
00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:11,759
like her whatever. Don't listen to who cares what, you know? Whatever?

546
00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:14,680
Speaker 1: It was more me. I was like, I am not

547
00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:18,480
jiving with her. I just is not. She's not my person, right,

548
00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:21,039
you know? Did you tell Kathy? Yes?

549
00:28:21,480 --> 00:28:23,240
Speaker 2: Yeah? I was like, I don't know much longer I

550
00:28:23,279 --> 00:28:25,359
can do this. And also I don't think we were

551
00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:27,440
making any money or anything. I was just like, I

552
00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:30,039
don't you know, if I have to do the show

553
00:28:30,079 --> 00:28:32,279
with her, I'm not going to continue doing it for

554
00:28:32,319 --> 00:28:33,079
too much longer.

555
00:28:33,759 --> 00:28:36,440
Speaker 1: Then Stephanie Wilder Taylor came in.

556
00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:40,440
Speaker 2: And oh, and then Kathy was like, well, what guest

557
00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:43,119
would make you happy? And then she was like, I'm

558
00:28:43,119 --> 00:28:44,839
going to go after Bruce Springsteen's wife.

559
00:28:45,079 --> 00:28:47,200
Speaker 1: I'm like, what, You're.

560
00:28:47,079 --> 00:28:50,279
Speaker 2: Not getting Bruce Springsteen's wife to come on my podcast?

561
00:28:50,279 --> 00:28:52,559
Will you never know unless you ask? And I'm like, no,

562
00:28:53,079 --> 00:28:56,000
that's not realistic. And then I read about you and

563
00:28:56,039 --> 00:28:57,960
I thought about you, and I was like, I think

564
00:28:58,000 --> 00:29:00,000
we I would love for her, but I don't think

565
00:29:00,039 --> 00:29:01,839
we're ever going to get her. I think she you know,

566
00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:04,480
she's a big time author, Like she's not coming on

567
00:29:04,519 --> 00:29:05,000
our show.

568
00:29:05,599 --> 00:29:07,920
Speaker 1: I didn't think we could get you. And then next

569
00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:09,799
week you were there. And then she wrote to me

570
00:29:09,839 --> 00:29:12,640
and I was like, what's a podcast. She was like,

571
00:29:12,680 --> 00:29:14,519
it's like the radio, but it's on the internet. And

572
00:29:14,559 --> 00:29:18,640
I was like, all right, I'm in right right, sure, yes,

573
00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:20,880
And then it was fun that episode.

574
00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:22,319
Speaker 2: And then I was like, oh my god, I had

575
00:29:22,359 --> 00:29:24,839
so much fun with her, Like that's who I want.

576
00:29:24,839 --> 00:29:28,640
Speaker 1: That's what that was Meiki the Viky episode, We're yeah,

577
00:29:28,799 --> 00:29:32,000
we were talking about the vik Yeah. Yeah, yeah. That

578
00:29:32,119 --> 00:29:34,119
was a good a good vibe. So then when I

579
00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:36,640
came back when Suzette, that was really good with you

580
00:29:36,720 --> 00:29:39,759
and me and Teresa. Right then I came back and

581
00:29:39,799 --> 00:29:42,240
it was Susanna and I was like, this is a

582
00:29:42,559 --> 00:29:45,960
very different vibe. And I I was like, Lynette doesn't

583
00:29:46,000 --> 00:29:46,680
seem happy.

584
00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:50,400
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, And then I got a Facebook message from

585
00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:52,200
you like it.

586
00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:54,799
Speaker 1: Was a Twitter message. It was yeah, it was Twitter. Yeah,

587
00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:57,839
I tweeted. I twitter messaged you and I was like,

588
00:29:58,599 --> 00:30:01,240
I was like, hey, you might need me or something.

589
00:30:01,359 --> 00:30:05,079
Speaker 2: Yes, I think you could. Net I think you you yeah,

590
00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:05,799
you said I.

591
00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:08,359
Speaker 1: If you ever I think, I said, I had a

592
00:30:08,400 --> 00:30:11,200
great time. I loved doing it. And I said, and

593
00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:16,079
if you ever decide something like that, I might need me.

594
00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:19,039
If you ever do something like that, I knew you. You

595
00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:20,440
wrote back like, yeah, I think I do.

596
00:30:20,559 --> 00:30:23,319
Speaker 2: I got what you're putting down. Oh yeah. I was like,

597
00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:26,039
let's go have lunch. And then I was like, well

598
00:30:26,079 --> 00:30:30,160
it's got to be Kathy's decision. Yes, what I was thinking.

599
00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:33,599
But yeah, but she went along with it. She did

600
00:30:34,359 --> 00:30:35,039
till she didn't.

601
00:30:37,279 --> 00:30:41,759
Speaker 1: It's just it's funny that like literally and then it

602
00:30:41,799 --> 00:30:44,400
was really fun at the beginning, and I did. I

603
00:30:44,519 --> 00:30:47,200
went and I like traveled to San Diego with Kafy.

604
00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:51,240
Oh that's trying to help her do well. I was

605
00:30:51,440 --> 00:30:55,400
trying to not come in and immediately go like, no,

606
00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:58,519
this is what we're doing. Yeah. But I did feel

607
00:30:58,599 --> 00:31:02,920
very strongly that podcasting was a meet the reason. I

608
00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:07,440
felt that the reason that Susannah didn't work, even though

609
00:31:07,440 --> 00:31:10,359
she's a funny person and super nice, I felt that

610
00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:14,200
the reason it wasn't working was what people wanted was

611
00:31:14,279 --> 00:31:17,079
just real talk, yes, right, and that's what you had

612
00:31:17,119 --> 00:31:19,440
to offer. And then when she was trying to go,

613
00:31:19,839 --> 00:31:22,640
don't talk ever talk about having a nanny yet, I

614
00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:24,680
felt like it was a lot of pretending and then

615
00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:27,000
a lot of And that's why I was pushing back

616
00:31:27,039 --> 00:31:29,359
and going, I don't think that's yes.

617
00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:32,079
Speaker 2: And I loved it because I was like, yes, Stephanie,

618
00:31:32,119 --> 00:31:35,960
go you talk like, speak up. I tell her like, no,

619
00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:38,640
I don't think that's right. Yeah, you're like, just talk

620
00:31:38,680 --> 00:31:40,759
about who? And then you and I would talk around

621
00:31:40,920 --> 00:31:43,599
without Kathy involved, and you were just like, just.

622
00:31:43,559 --> 00:31:45,400
Speaker 1: Be yourself and talk about whatever the fuck you want

623
00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:48,119
to talk about, right. But then I would get mad

624
00:31:48,759 --> 00:31:51,920
because she would book guests without telling us and she

625
00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:55,480
would just be like because she wanted to be the producer, right,

626
00:31:55,880 --> 00:31:58,160
which I was like, I don't think we really need

627
00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:01,720
a produce. Like in my mind, I was like I

628
00:32:01,759 --> 00:32:04,160
don't know what the producer really does because I was

629
00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:08,200
already a TV producer. So I was like, Oh, we're doing,

630
00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:12,240
but we don't want like pitch us the guests, like

631
00:32:12,519 --> 00:32:15,039
just book a shitty guest, yes. And that's when I'll

632
00:32:15,079 --> 00:32:18,920
never forget when I was like got actually mad was

633
00:32:18,960 --> 00:32:21,720
because she booked the guy and she presented it to

634
00:32:21,799 --> 00:32:24,680
us this was this was the tree guy guy, and

635
00:32:24,759 --> 00:32:27,359
she pitched it to us like this guy is this

636
00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:31,279
is a great opportunity. And then I went and looked

637
00:32:31,279 --> 00:32:33,359
on Amazon and his book was that like ranked it

638
00:32:33,519 --> 00:32:35,599
like number one million. Yes, And I was like, this

639
00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:38,720
is not an opportunity. This is an opportunity for him.

640
00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:41,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I remember you saying anything with us, Yes, yes,

641
00:32:42,039 --> 00:32:44,519
we're doing more for him than he's doing for us, right,

642
00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:46,839
so at least like and.

643
00:32:46,759 --> 00:32:50,759
Speaker 1: I think then we interviewed him and he was such

644
00:32:50,759 --> 00:32:53,599
an asshole. He was He was just a blow hard asshole,

645
00:32:53,880 --> 00:32:56,680
like very challenging to any questions we had. And I

646
00:32:56,799 --> 00:32:59,039
was like, there's no point of that we helped him,

647
00:32:59,079 --> 00:33:01,759
he didn't help us. Like if we're gonna have guests,

648
00:33:01,839 --> 00:33:04,400
like have them be people that are right that we

649
00:33:04,640 --> 00:33:06,000
want to a yeah.

650
00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:10,720
Speaker 2: And then there was like the Betsy Brown Beretsy Triple b.

651
00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:12,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, the triple Bot.

652
00:33:13,079 --> 00:33:16,039
Speaker 2: She came on like a couple times, right, a lot

653
00:33:16,079 --> 00:33:19,319
of times, yeah, and she would lecture us and so

654
00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:22,000
that was a little tongue in cheek too, like she'd

655
00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:24,079
come in and then we'd be like taking the piss

656
00:33:24,079 --> 00:33:26,400
out of her, you know, like, oh, come on, like

657
00:33:26,480 --> 00:33:29,279
one kid's gonna have their own special day and then

658
00:33:29,319 --> 00:33:30,319
the other kids.

659
00:33:30,039 --> 00:33:34,440
Speaker 1: Like, well she didn't get our hour. And we're like,

660
00:33:34,519 --> 00:33:39,960
we're trying to do less, not more. She'd be like,

661
00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:42,640
you gotta challenge yourself. You really got to like oh,

662
00:33:42,720 --> 00:33:45,240
she was like, don't call them be twin Oh that's right.

663
00:33:45,400 --> 00:33:48,519
She would correct us, right right right, and we'd be like, well,

664
00:33:48,519 --> 00:33:55,759
they're not here listening, they'res I know. Oh that was

665
00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:59,480
so funny. Oh my god, I ever got. She'd be like,

666
00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:02,200
every yeah, you're you have to give each of the

667
00:34:02,279 --> 00:34:04,680
kids a special day, and then she would make us

668
00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:08,079
feel bad by going, I did it with triple triplets. Yeah,

669
00:34:08,159 --> 00:34:10,519
everybody gets their special day. And then they can pick

670
00:34:10,559 --> 00:34:13,320
what color sippy cup they have and what color plate

671
00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:16,679
and what. And we're like, they're how tired we already

672
00:34:16,719 --> 00:34:18,199
are just listening to that.

673
00:34:18,760 --> 00:34:21,320
Speaker 2: I mean cover, I know it didn't apply to our

674
00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:25,719
real reality, right of being moms, right to multiples.

675
00:34:26,519 --> 00:34:28,760
Speaker 1: So it's like sometimes we thought she was a little

676
00:34:28,760 --> 00:34:31,199
bit in on the joke, but then you'd push back

677
00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:33,880
a little bit and she'd get kind of actually salty,

678
00:34:34,119 --> 00:34:36,400
and then you'd be like, oh, no, she's not thinking

679
00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:37,639
this is like right.

680
00:34:37,679 --> 00:34:40,719
Speaker 2: Right, because I think even our audience was in on

681
00:34:40,760 --> 00:34:43,320
the joke, like oh my god, they were talking about

682
00:34:43,320 --> 00:34:47,840
like talking about conversations where we were pushing back and

683
00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:49,719
then yeah, and then she kind of got yeah, she

684
00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:51,960
got a little h but then she helps.

685
00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:54,480
Speaker 1: To come back on. And I remember because this was

686
00:34:54,519 --> 00:34:56,639
after we were it was for crying out loud, and

687
00:34:56,840 --> 00:35:00,159
producer Gary would be like, Betsy Brown Brown want to

688
00:35:00,199 --> 00:35:03,480
come back on and we'd be like no, and he's like, oh,

689
00:35:03,519 --> 00:35:06,519
she's really like she keeps asking, and we'd be like, okay,

690
00:35:06,599 --> 00:35:08,639
one more time, but we're not going to put up

691
00:35:08,679 --> 00:35:11,960
with our bullshit, right right right, that's right, And then

692
00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:14,920
we'd both be like two little yes, like go right,

693
00:35:15,199 --> 00:35:21,039
look at the principal's office. Yes, she's so bossy. She

694
00:35:21,280 --> 00:35:21,800
was really.

695
00:35:22,320 --> 00:35:25,039
Speaker 2: Then we had Gary who like changed our lives because

696
00:35:25,039 --> 00:35:27,159
he was like, we'll do the show you guys want

697
00:35:27,199 --> 00:35:28,960
to do. We don't need to book guess. You guys

698
00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:30,119
don't want guess, we don't need guests.

699
00:35:30,119 --> 00:35:34,400
Speaker 1: We're like, oh, hellelujah, I know, thank God, and Kathy

700
00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:37,480
in one ear are just going I'm going to produce

701
00:35:37,599 --> 00:35:40,159
this great show and we're gonna and then I but

702
00:35:40,199 --> 00:35:42,679
then I went and sat with you and Gary after

703
00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:47,079
one of our shows, and Gary was like, listen, we're

704
00:35:47,079 --> 00:35:48,840
going to keep doing the show. We're not going to

705
00:35:48,920 --> 00:35:52,039
miss a beat. We have our same audience. You guys

706
00:35:52,079 --> 00:35:56,880
do whatever. What he he like blew smoke up our assles.

707
00:35:56,920 --> 00:35:59,760
Yet he was just like, what you guys do is magic.

708
00:35:59,840 --> 00:36:02,760
You guys know what you're doing. Yeah, you don't need

709
00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:05,840
a producer like that, right, you need somebody to get

710
00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:09,159
out of your way and just let you guys. That's right, Yes, God,

711
00:36:09,199 --> 00:36:14,320
I les, Gary, Yeah, that's right. And then we got Kaylin,

712
00:36:14,719 --> 00:36:18,599
and Gary was fun too. Gary was fun. He was fun.

713
00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:24,119
Speaker 2: He brought some stories and we goofed on him. He

714
00:36:24,199 --> 00:36:26,599
goofed on us. You know, Yeah, he was fun.

715
00:36:27,400 --> 00:36:30,039
Speaker 1: He's fun. I'm trying to think he must it must

716
00:36:30,079 --> 00:36:34,199
not have been that long with him though, at least

717
00:36:34,199 --> 00:36:37,119
a year, right, I think so? I think so. And

718
00:36:37,159 --> 00:36:39,480
then he started training Kaylin, who we thought was named

719
00:36:39,480 --> 00:36:42,360
Brandon right for so long because he looks like a Brandon.

720
00:36:42,719 --> 00:36:47,920
Oh my god. And then remember the story, Kaylen doesn't

721
00:36:47,920 --> 00:36:53,360
listen to our episodes anymore. Remember when I thought I

722
00:36:53,440 --> 00:36:58,559
got a d M. I know you're gonna I got

723
00:36:59,119 --> 00:37:03,000
an inappropriate at DM from Kaylan. Right. It was like

724
00:37:04,719 --> 00:37:06,920
and I don't remember what it was, but it was

725
00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:11,519
like I can't stop looking like it was something very

726
00:37:11,639 --> 00:37:17,079
like flirty yes, yes, and like I know, like I've

727
00:37:17,079 --> 00:37:20,239
been catching your eye something remembered and then I was like,

728
00:37:20,639 --> 00:37:23,800
oh my god, I pulled you aside and I was like, Lynette, like,

729
00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:26,519
I don't know, I feel really weird. I don't know

730
00:37:26,559 --> 00:37:28,679
if it was that blatant, but it was something, and

731
00:37:28,719 --> 00:37:31,639
it was a series of messages. Yeah, and I told you,

732
00:37:31,679 --> 00:37:35,719
and I was so uncomfortable. Very We're like, that is

733
00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:39,519
not Kaylan, right, But who was it? Somebody like hacked him?

734
00:37:39,559 --> 00:37:42,920
I think that's like, how does that happen? I don't know,

735
00:37:43,159 --> 00:37:45,880
but you were like he would be mortified if you

736
00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:50,039
said anything. He it was not him. Didn't we ask

737
00:37:50,119 --> 00:37:51,679
him though? He must have been.

738
00:37:51,679 --> 00:37:55,039
Speaker 2: He was like what, yeah he was somebody hated him. Yeah,

739
00:37:55,079 --> 00:37:58,719
and he was mortified. Yeah, it wasn't him because that

740
00:37:58,840 --> 00:38:01,719
is just not his person, right whatsoever?

741
00:38:02,079 --> 00:38:02,360
Speaker 1: Right?

742
00:38:02,519 --> 00:38:04,760
Speaker 2: It was kind of back in the day when accounts

743
00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:08,599
were hackable. Yes, yeah, yees, Yeah, that.

744
00:38:08,679 --> 00:38:11,079
Speaker 1: Was hilarious, you know, and I was like, oh my god,

745
00:38:11,119 --> 00:38:12,920
I don't know if I can keep doing the show

746
00:38:12,920 --> 00:38:16,400
with the rest or like he's being inappropriate. It wasn't.

747
00:38:16,639 --> 00:38:19,800
That's so funny, I know. And thank god though you

748
00:38:19,840 --> 00:38:24,280
were just like no, no, And I was like, oh

749
00:38:24,360 --> 00:38:27,119
you think and you're like no, he was like a

750
00:38:27,159 --> 00:38:30,639
little kid back then. No, a little bait baby Kaylen.

751
00:38:30,960 --> 00:38:35,440
He was like twenty one. Yeah, he was so young. Yeah.

752
00:38:35,760 --> 00:38:37,920
I don't think he even knew how to flirt.

753
00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:44,239
Speaker 3: No, he didn't, No, little kattle Kitlen. He was the sweetest.

754
00:38:44,280 --> 00:38:45,679
Yeah he tried, he was.

755
00:38:45,840 --> 00:38:53,000
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah. But so any like shows that we need

756
00:38:53,039 --> 00:38:56,239
to catch people up on recommendations, you're, oh, we need

757
00:38:56,280 --> 00:38:58,559
to talk about the is it Murdoch or Murdo?

758
00:38:58,719 --> 00:39:01,599
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know what it's. It's the more tragedy

759
00:39:01,800 --> 00:39:06,639
that's on. Is abound Murdoch or Murdach murder Murdoc?

760
00:39:07,159 --> 00:39:11,480
Speaker 1: Okay? Herd Doc Okay. So my friend Kathleen will Hooyt

761
00:39:11,719 --> 00:39:13,320
plays Gloria the housekeeper.

762
00:39:13,719 --> 00:39:17,280
Speaker 2: She does she's doing a great job, right, Yes, yeah, yeah,

763
00:39:17,320 --> 00:39:20,440
I don't think I seen the most recent episode.

764
00:39:20,599 --> 00:39:24,760
Speaker 1: Are you caught up? No, I'm not caught up. But

765
00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:26,039
it's good. It's on Hulu.

766
00:39:26,119 --> 00:39:31,960
Speaker 2: It's on Hulu, and she's playing the nanny that they.

767
00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:33,960
Speaker 1: Call her Go Go or whatever. Yeah, because her name

768
00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:37,880
is Gloria. Oh is that like their go Go Okay? Yeah?

769
00:39:38,039 --> 00:39:41,239
Speaker 2: And the last episode I saw, they were out of

770
00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:45,440
town and she had an accident on the stairs, and

771
00:39:45,480 --> 00:39:46,360
that's how it ended.

772
00:39:47,719 --> 00:39:50,960
Speaker 1: They just got back from me and out of town. Okay,

773
00:39:51,320 --> 00:39:53,599
because they took her with them out of town, right, No,

774
00:39:53,760 --> 00:39:57,320
they didn't take her Okay. They showed more of her

775
00:39:57,440 --> 00:39:59,920
life at home and what kind of life she had,

776
00:40:00,960 --> 00:40:03,440
so they delved into her story a little more while

777
00:40:03,440 --> 00:40:06,000
they were on vacation and Kokomo or whatever the fuck.

778
00:40:06,519 --> 00:40:09,280
And then they came back and they asked her to

779
00:40:09,360 --> 00:40:13,119
unload the car their suitcases, and she had an accident,

780
00:40:13,280 --> 00:40:17,719
tripped and fell on the stairs. Now, when you're watching this,

781
00:40:17,920 --> 00:40:21,159
aren't you just like how crazy is it that this

782
00:40:21,239 --> 00:40:25,679
isn't actual? This is like a doctor true story. Crazy.

783
00:40:25,880 --> 00:40:30,639
It's so many right with that family that would never happen,

784
00:40:31,039 --> 00:40:32,960
right did it did? It's real?

785
00:40:33,079 --> 00:40:36,679
Speaker 2: And I mean so many things going back to Dy's

786
00:40:36,960 --> 00:40:40,800
and also another cover up that they did from years

787
00:40:40,840 --> 00:40:46,719
earlier that happened with the older brother Buster and just unbelievable.

788
00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:49,280
But the acting is so good and our girl, Patricia

789
00:40:49,400 --> 00:40:51,039
Arquette's doing phenomenal.

790
00:40:51,239 --> 00:40:53,880
Speaker 1: Oh my god, she's just so great. I love her.

791
00:40:53,960 --> 00:40:56,920
Her voice is different. She is like on Meryl Street.

792
00:40:57,159 --> 00:41:00,559
She is because you think back to like True Romance, Yeah,

793
00:41:00,800 --> 00:41:03,119
Quentin Tarantino movie that she was in that she was

794
00:41:03,360 --> 00:41:07,480
so good in. Yeah, playing Alabama, right, and she was

795
00:41:07,599 --> 00:41:10,679
so like just blonde, and she has this kind of

796
00:41:10,719 --> 00:41:13,559
hot voice and she's like, oh my Alabama, you know,

797
00:41:13,719 --> 00:41:19,159
and now cut to this like right matriarchs and yeah, yeah,

798
00:41:19,199 --> 00:41:22,320
and it's so like her voice is lower. And then

799
00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:25,239
that compared to also to Escape from Dana.

800
00:41:25,079 --> 00:41:28,000
Speaker 2: Mora, right, and how she wasn't there like she just

801
00:41:28,159 --> 00:41:32,320
and and also she's also a star of Severance on

802
00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:35,599
Apple TV and she does a phenomenal job on that show.

803
00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:39,599
Speaker 1: She's just she that she plays totally diff She was

804
00:41:39,920 --> 00:41:43,519
played the lead of she was Medium on Medium for

805
00:41:43,599 --> 00:41:43,960
minutes she.

806
00:41:44,039 --> 00:41:49,679
Speaker 2: Was medium, and she was the mother of, uh, the

807
00:41:49,800 --> 00:41:50,800
kid in the wheelchair.

808
00:41:50,840 --> 00:41:51,440
Speaker 1: What's her name?

809
00:41:52,760 --> 00:41:58,400
Speaker 2: Oh, Gypsy Gypsy she rose yeah, Blanchard, Blanchard, right, She

810
00:41:58,480 --> 00:42:02,239
played that that. She was great into she's so great.

811
00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:05,559
Speaker 1: She is underrated. She is underrated, I really think. So.

812
00:42:05,599 --> 00:42:08,000
She does an amazing job. She should all be ashamed

813
00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:12,280
of yourself. Yeah, under estimating Patricia R or forgetting about

814
00:42:12,280 --> 00:42:14,840
her or whatever you're all doing. It's not cool, right.

815
00:42:14,880 --> 00:42:14,960
Speaker 2: Go.

816
00:42:17,119 --> 00:42:20,519
Speaker 1: Check out on her other stuff. Yeah, she's great. Yeah.

817
00:42:20,599 --> 00:42:24,360
Speaker 2: So I'm watching that, and I'm also watching Devil in

818
00:42:24,440 --> 00:42:26,960
Disguise the John Wayne Gacy.

819
00:42:28,000 --> 00:42:30,719
Speaker 1: I'm a couple episodes creepy. It is creepy.

820
00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:32,880
Speaker 2: But I listened to an interview on a podcast or

821
00:42:32,880 --> 00:42:36,320
the director of that show, and he said, I don't

822
00:42:36,360 --> 00:42:41,000
want to glorify any of the murders, and I want

823
00:42:41,239 --> 00:42:45,639
I wanted to tell the victims stories. So each episode

824
00:42:45,679 --> 00:42:49,280
is named after a victim, you know. Uber Episode three

825
00:42:49,360 --> 00:42:52,239
is like Johnny, you know, and he shows who they

826
00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:54,920
were before they were killed, and he does it in

827
00:42:54,960 --> 00:42:56,039
a really respectful way.

828
00:42:56,119 --> 00:43:00,400
Speaker 1: So it is it's interesting. So a couple episodes into that, well,

829
00:43:00,440 --> 00:43:04,679
you had recommended the ed Gaining and I was like

830
00:43:05,360 --> 00:43:07,760
watching it, just going, why am I doing this to myself?

831
00:43:07,960 --> 00:43:12,159
This is so creepy. It was creepy. It's really creepy. Yeah.

832
00:43:12,920 --> 00:43:16,920
Did you stay with it? No? Yeah, but I did watch.

833
00:43:17,480 --> 00:43:21,320
I watched the whole second season of Nobody Wants This.

834
00:43:22,639 --> 00:43:26,920
I feel like you would love. It's about to their sisters,

835
00:43:28,320 --> 00:43:31,320
Kristen Bell and her and not her real life sister,

836
00:43:31,360 --> 00:43:34,000
but it's about two sisters that have a podcast, right,

837
00:43:34,039 --> 00:43:36,400
and they make lots. What I love about it is

838
00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:39,360
they make a lot of really modern jokes. Like at

839
00:43:39,360 --> 00:43:44,840
one point, Kristen Bell's character is like Joanna or Joanne

840
00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:47,719
is like, you know what I want? I just want

841
00:43:47,760 --> 00:43:50,800
to like be by myself and watch Love Is Blind.

842
00:43:51,239 --> 00:43:55,639
I'm like, really, Yeah, they make like they speak in

843
00:43:55,679 --> 00:44:01,199
a way that is familiar to how millennials kind of tall. Yeah,

844
00:44:01,239 --> 00:44:02,599
and it's just fun. It's fun.

845
00:44:02,679 --> 00:44:04,480
Speaker 2: I'm gonna watch it. I don't know why I didn't

846
00:44:04,480 --> 00:44:06,199
watch it when it first came out.

847
00:44:06,559 --> 00:44:09,559
Speaker 1: I don't know. I guess I missed it. But yeah,

848
00:44:09,599 --> 00:44:12,159
when I watched the whole first season, I told Elbe

849
00:44:12,280 --> 00:44:15,039
to watch it, and Elbe, you know, does not like

850
00:44:15,079 --> 00:44:17,559
to watch stuff that I recommend. Yeah, so she was

851
00:44:17,639 --> 00:44:20,840
like okay, and then all of a sudden she was like, Mom,

852
00:44:21,199 --> 00:44:23,639
I'm watching Nobody Wants Is. I love it so much.

853
00:44:23,679 --> 00:44:26,840
I binge the whole season. Really Yeah, now I told

854
00:44:26,880 --> 00:44:28,599
her that there was second season was out, and she

855
00:44:28,679 --> 00:44:30,199
was like, oh my god, I'm so excited, and she

856
00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:34,320
got Then she told her roommates about it and they

857
00:44:34,320 --> 00:44:37,119
were and how much she liked Adam Brodie and then

858
00:44:37,119 --> 00:44:39,760
her roommates were like, oh, you like him in this,

859
00:44:40,159 --> 00:44:44,000
you'll love them in the OC. Now they're watching the

860
00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:47,760
o C. That's so funny. Well, I'm gonna watch it. Yeah.

861
00:44:47,840 --> 00:44:49,760
Don't you love when your kids listen to you for

862
00:44:49,800 --> 00:44:52,320
a change. I know, and then I'm are happy and

863
00:44:52,559 --> 00:44:56,320
like it. Yeah, I'm trying to see if there's something

864
00:44:56,360 --> 00:44:59,480
else that I saw that I wanted to tell you about. Oh,

865
00:45:00,280 --> 00:45:02,599
by the way, I got a jury summons.

866
00:45:04,559 --> 00:45:08,239
Speaker 2: I did too, you did, yes, but I'm pissed because

867
00:45:08,280 --> 00:45:10,719
it sat at the accountant's office.

868
00:45:11,079 --> 00:45:14,480
Speaker 1: So I missed the deadline by two days. Oh we

869
00:45:14,599 --> 00:45:17,159
can still go in there. I know I'm gonna call.

870
00:45:17,880 --> 00:45:19,599
So you got a jury So I got a jury

871
00:45:19,639 --> 00:45:23,159
summons and I went in and check it out because

872
00:45:23,559 --> 00:45:25,440
I was like, this is going to be really hard

873
00:45:25,440 --> 00:45:29,199
to serve jury duty when I teach rights. I teach Tuesday, Wednesday,

874
00:45:29,239 --> 00:45:33,760
Thursday at five, so even if I got out by four,

875
00:45:34,079 --> 00:45:36,119
it could be dicey. Yeah, like if I have to

876
00:45:36,119 --> 00:45:38,800
go to my car and there's traffic, I just don't.

877
00:45:38,880 --> 00:45:42,480
I was nervous. But you can postpone it. So I

878
00:45:42,599 --> 00:45:47,079
postponed it to the week that my classes are done, okay,

879
00:45:47,320 --> 00:45:48,639
and then I'm off for the rest of the year,

880
00:45:48,760 --> 00:45:51,880
like December tenth. Okay. So I probably won't get pulled

881
00:45:51,920 --> 00:45:54,079
in for a trial because of the type of time

882
00:45:54,119 --> 00:45:57,519
of year. I hope I do, because I'll bring stories, right,

883
00:45:57,840 --> 00:46:01,159
I know me too. I'm gonna cough go in and

884
00:46:01,280 --> 00:46:04,039
say you missed the deadline or call I'm gonna do that,

885
00:46:04,079 --> 00:46:07,239
and then you can postpone, right, Okay, I'm gonna do that,

886
00:46:07,559 --> 00:46:11,280
So that'll be fun. I'm excited for that, right, Yeah,

887
00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:15,480
I'm excited. And then I think I think that's all

888
00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:21,679
the stories. Oh, listen to Drunkish So today is Friday,

889
00:46:21,920 --> 00:46:24,199
but go back and listen to my Tuesday episode because

890
00:46:24,199 --> 00:46:30,800
I interviewed rosebud Baker, who is She just finished like

891
00:46:30,880 --> 00:46:35,920
four years writing for SNL. Oh wow. Yeah, she's a comedian.

892
00:46:36,360 --> 00:46:39,679
She's hilarious, and her story was like she has a

893
00:46:40,039 --> 00:46:44,599
really good story. Oh nice mom. Yeah, she's a two

894
00:46:44,639 --> 00:46:48,719
year old and she's like funny. All right, you like

895
00:46:48,760 --> 00:46:51,880
her cool? Yeah, all right, let's say hello to our

896
00:46:51,960 --> 00:47:03,880
friends Doctor Bruce, Stephanie is a stinker rinker, and Dick

897
00:47:04,000 --> 00:47:08,480
is frolicking and Gab and Missy well they're probably sweep

898
00:47:08,519 --> 00:47:12,199
it up after your harvest festival, right, they probably are.

899
00:47:12,440 --> 00:47:20,320
Rebecca Kelly Bryant, your Aunt Sandra is not easy being

900
00:47:20,360 --> 00:47:22,840
green and Jennifer get up, and Aaron is a dirty

901
00:47:22,880 --> 00:47:30,480
Sanchez and Leslie is still coughing. Alicia and Katerina check

902
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that Moler gallery hits it out of the park, poly

903
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We love your Pancakes, Rita's Rock in the bassa night

904
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with Elizabeth Williamson's kids, and Nikki call your Girl. And

905
00:47:39,920 --> 00:47:42,840
then just a couple more of our shout outs. We

906
00:47:42,920 --> 00:47:47,000
got the holder Wide Foundation. You remember what I told you.

907
00:47:47,079 --> 00:47:53,039
It's about the borderline shooting victims. Holder Wide Foundation. Look

908
00:47:53,039 --> 00:47:57,320
it upholderwide dot org. Give them a donation. Beautiful thing

909
00:47:57,320 --> 00:48:01,000
to do around the holidays. Christine Black is Waves and

910
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wonder travel. You can find her on Instagram at travel

911
00:48:04,800 --> 00:48:08,800
with Christine b. Christine's felled to the c or you

912
00:48:08,840 --> 00:48:11,480
can just go on our Facebook page and ask, go, hey,

913
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where's the travel bitch? Sugar Skull that is a bakery

914
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and gift shop on the island of Kawhi. If you're

915
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there and who isn't over the holiday or y go

916
00:48:23,559 --> 00:48:26,000
check them out, or you can go to their Instagram

917
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page at sugar Skull eight o eight and every episode

918
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Adam Lerner Adam's got a car dot com. You know

919
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what that is. You know what to do.

920
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921
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All his information is there and he will hook you up.

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If you mentioned FCL and if you have any plumbing questions,

923
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just go there. All right, fun show, walk down summary Lane.

924
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Yeah you're a parent now, don't f it up?

925
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Speaker 1: Still hide take that anglees

