WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.520 --> 00:00:02.680 Nice to see you back for the second time. 2 00:00:02.799 --> 00:00:04.440 Yes, we had to do it right, you know, it 3 00:00:04.480 --> 00:00:06.879 came to the East Coast, and you know you're an 4 00:00:06.919 --> 00:00:09.320 East Coaster, so we had to come to the East Coast. 5 00:00:09.480 --> 00:00:14.240 I feel like, right, I mean I feel like inadvertedly yes, 6 00:00:14.359 --> 00:00:16.800 not even knowing that like at the time of knowing 7 00:00:16.839 --> 00:00:19.399 each other, but then knowing each other through the time 8 00:00:19.480 --> 00:00:20.839 of the like the length of it's been. 9 00:00:21.039 --> 00:00:23.120 Yes, you also always was a supporter. 10 00:00:23.280 --> 00:00:25.640 You always showed love and like was pushing me everything 11 00:00:25.679 --> 00:00:27.920 that I did, like wanted to do when we spoke about. 12 00:00:27.640 --> 00:00:30.760 Things behind it and stuff. So yeah, I was always 13 00:00:30.800 --> 00:00:31.519 really appreciative. 14 00:00:31.559 --> 00:00:33.600 It was like you know, the big the big brother 15 00:00:33.759 --> 00:00:35.439 like talk of like don't be scared if you want 16 00:00:35.439 --> 00:00:36.719 to come out here, you know it's good. 17 00:00:36.799 --> 00:00:37.920 And so it's always like love. 18 00:00:38.000 --> 00:00:40.960 So for me was the first conversation is like you 19 00:00:41.000 --> 00:00:43.039 get a little scared. Everyone's in a different space in 20 00:00:43.079 --> 00:00:44.600 their life too, so it's like I have to bring 21 00:00:44.640 --> 00:00:47.359 you back. You're doing all these different things in your life. 22 00:00:47.359 --> 00:00:49.320 You're in a different space in your life. And you know, 23 00:00:49.359 --> 00:00:51.119 even from the time that you came on the podcast, 24 00:00:51.200 --> 00:00:54.039 and like I said, from us, our friendship growing is 25 00:00:54.560 --> 00:00:57.840 you know, you've had new music, You've you know, now 26 00:00:57.840 --> 00:00:59.079 you're doing a run. 27 00:00:58.840 --> 00:01:02.039 Club, you're doing you know, you're on tours. 28 00:01:01.640 --> 00:01:04.560 Still, you're doing all these different like things. You're single 29 00:01:04.879 --> 00:01:05.480 or maybe you're not. 30 00:01:05.519 --> 00:01:06.239 Maybe we're gon. 31 00:01:10.400 --> 00:01:12.560 We're going to dive into all those things. But yeah, 32 00:01:12.560 --> 00:01:13.879 we had to have you come back. 33 00:01:13.920 --> 00:01:14.519 So what's going to. 34 00:01:14.560 --> 00:01:17.680 Change from the last time you've been in the private 35 00:01:17.680 --> 00:01:18.640 talk chair to chill? 36 00:01:18.719 --> 00:01:19.840 Now? What's what's been up? 37 00:01:20.239 --> 00:01:22.920 Well, first of all, last time we sat down in 38 00:01:22.959 --> 00:01:25.319 the private talk chair, we was in the West Coast. 39 00:01:26.000 --> 00:01:30.280 We were in make this in New York City right now? 40 00:01:30.400 --> 00:01:33.640 Right, yes, you know we made it. Well you've already 41 00:01:33.640 --> 00:01:35.079 been here, but you know what I mean, I had 42 00:01:35.760 --> 00:01:36.359 to come back. 43 00:01:37.719 --> 00:01:39.359 She was in LA and I was like, Yo, it 44 00:01:39.480 --> 00:01:41.239 might be time to wrap things up over here. 45 00:01:41.319 --> 00:01:44.560 You're not the only one that said those things. But 46 00:01:44.599 --> 00:01:46.959 I feel like my time in LA was really precious 47 00:01:46.959 --> 00:01:50.319 to serve a purpose. I met great friends, I have 48 00:01:50.439 --> 00:01:52.359 family friends a long time, So for me, it's like 49 00:01:52.400 --> 00:01:55.079 I missed that part of it, but you know, it 50 00:01:55.159 --> 00:01:58.000 runs its course. I feel like after the pandemic, for 51 00:01:58.040 --> 00:02:01.000 me at least, it never really kind of grew or 52 00:02:01.159 --> 00:02:03.000 went back to the LA that I kind of fell 53 00:02:03.000 --> 00:02:04.560 in love with. So for me, is I need to 54 00:02:04.560 --> 00:02:05.640 spread my wings elsewhere? 55 00:02:05.680 --> 00:02:06.640 Ye different? 56 00:02:06.840 --> 00:02:08.159 My family roots are in New York. 57 00:02:08.199 --> 00:02:10.360 I was always something on my bucket list to kind of. 58 00:02:12.120 --> 00:02:13.080 So for me, it was like, I. 59 00:02:13.039 --> 00:02:15.159 Want to have a new experience here, and I've been 60 00:02:15.280 --> 00:02:18.120 enjoying myself this last year and kind of sewing my 61 00:02:18.159 --> 00:02:20.599 own you know, oats on here and like doing my 62 00:02:20.639 --> 00:02:22.639 own thing, and I've been enjoying every bit of it. 63 00:02:22.680 --> 00:02:24.479 I feel like I've adapted very well, and I feel 64 00:02:24.479 --> 00:02:26.159 like New York was meant for me. 65 00:02:27.360 --> 00:02:29.199 Yay, we're happy. 66 00:02:29.080 --> 00:02:32.919 But enough about me, Okay? So yes, yes, So we're 67 00:02:32.960 --> 00:02:35.439 not hit in LA. We're here in New York. You 68 00:02:35.479 --> 00:02:38.280 are out here, You're from here. You're doing you know, 69 00:02:38.360 --> 00:02:41.680 big things representing your state. You Uh, what's what's with 70 00:02:41.719 --> 00:02:44.479 the run Club? Are you just doing it because it was? 71 00:02:45.039 --> 00:02:47.639 You've always been a runner. I know that you have 72 00:02:47.879 --> 00:02:50.479 held like health always been a top list of your thing. 73 00:02:50.560 --> 00:02:53.039 Is it something that's a new What inspired you? 74 00:02:53.080 --> 00:02:55.919 I guess honestly, I ran in high school. I wasn't 75 00:02:56.039 --> 00:02:59.520 in track and field in high school, but I have 76 00:02:59.680 --> 00:03:02.800 been as series as we're taking it now. It's a 77 00:03:02.840 --> 00:03:05.560 combination of things. I'm running one of my like one 78 00:03:05.599 --> 00:03:07.400 of the rappers that I used to grow up listening 79 00:03:07.439 --> 00:03:11.719 to who I used to go by, like his tape, 80 00:03:11.759 --> 00:03:13.919 you know what I mean. And now we're like running 81 00:03:14.000 --> 00:03:16.840 races together. So there's a lot that goes behind. There's 82 00:03:16.879 --> 00:03:20.680 a lot of energy. And it started off just no 83 00:03:20.800 --> 00:03:24.400 re inviting us to just run casually because we're just 84 00:03:24.439 --> 00:03:25.560 genuinely friends. 85 00:03:25.240 --> 00:03:28.439 You know, and you know, so do you think that 86 00:03:28.439 --> 00:03:30.159 that was like kind of an inspiration that kind of 87 00:03:30.199 --> 00:03:32.840 sparked you to do it because you wanted to continue 88 00:03:32.879 --> 00:03:35.560 to grow that friendship and you saw like, you know, 89 00:03:35.639 --> 00:03:38.080 there's also for me. I feel the older we get 90 00:03:38.240 --> 00:03:40.599 is I need friends to challenge me, you know what 91 00:03:40.639 --> 00:03:40.960 I mean? 92 00:03:41.000 --> 00:03:43.240 I need I can't be the smartest person in the room. 93 00:03:43.280 --> 00:03:45.240 It's like then, you know, what are we doing? You know, we. 94 00:03:45.520 --> 00:03:48.080 Get the ceiling. So it's like is it because of 95 00:03:48.120 --> 00:03:48.879 the you know. 96 00:03:49.000 --> 00:03:51.960 That or was it It's definitely a combination where did you. 97 00:03:51.960 --> 00:03:53.759 Want to show out and be like I'm the fastest person? 98 00:03:53.759 --> 00:03:56.080 I don't know, I mean we do do that as well, 99 00:03:56.319 --> 00:03:59.240 Like we do that as well. So that's that's a given. 100 00:04:00.199 --> 00:04:04.719 But definitely got to give credit to Nori Los and Mitch. 101 00:04:04.840 --> 00:04:07.400 They're the coordinators. They basically put the run club together 102 00:04:08.000 --> 00:04:11.080 and just we kind of were already moving through city 103 00:04:11.159 --> 00:04:15.319 to city, like before the running with Nori just Vegas, 104 00:04:15.400 --> 00:04:19.759 just making runs, and it just every other run we 105 00:04:19.839 --> 00:04:22.199 did just became more serious and more serious, and by 106 00:04:22.199 --> 00:04:23.920 the time you know it. 107 00:04:23.519 --> 00:04:26.600 Like so, how like explain the run? Like what are 108 00:04:26.680 --> 00:04:28.079 how many miles are you running? 109 00:04:28.120 --> 00:04:28.199 Like? 110 00:04:28.319 --> 00:04:28.639 Is it? 111 00:04:28.680 --> 00:04:28.800 Like? 112 00:04:28.959 --> 00:04:30.319 How does it? How's it operate? 113 00:04:30.680 --> 00:04:32.040 This morning? I ran four miles? 114 00:04:32.120 --> 00:04:32.399 Okay? 115 00:04:32.600 --> 00:04:32.759 Yeah? 116 00:04:33.720 --> 00:04:34.759 Is it different every day? 117 00:04:34.959 --> 00:04:37.160 Or it's different every day? In some days I might 118 00:04:37.199 --> 00:04:41.360 go like last last week, I did like sixteen miles 119 00:04:41.399 --> 00:04:43.519 in one shot. You know, I go on long run 120 00:04:43.600 --> 00:04:44.639 short runs. It depends. 121 00:04:44.839 --> 00:04:46.480 So is there a goal to at the end of 122 00:04:46.480 --> 00:04:48.319 this or is it just for camaraderie? 123 00:04:48.639 --> 00:04:51.879 But we're running the New York City Marie on November second? Okay, yeah, 124 00:04:52.000 --> 00:04:53.959 so twenty six point two miles? 125 00:04:54.040 --> 00:04:56.279 Is is that the longest you've ever run? 126 00:04:56.360 --> 00:04:58.319 That is? So? 127 00:04:58.360 --> 00:04:59.839 What are you doing to condition your body? 128 00:05:00.120 --> 00:05:02.959 Gets you ready for something so big that especially people. 129 00:05:02.759 --> 00:05:05.279 Are going to strength training I'm sure streaming. 130 00:05:04.879 --> 00:05:06.680 At places to see you know you can't. You got 131 00:05:06.720 --> 00:05:10.759 to show up and represent just you hold yourself. 132 00:05:11.040 --> 00:05:14.600 Practice. We're treating practice like the marathon. Okay, So okay, 133 00:05:15.040 --> 00:05:17.279 you know there's a few of us that ready. Yeah, 134 00:05:17.319 --> 00:05:19.000 there's a few of us that are, like, we're running 135 00:05:19.040 --> 00:05:22.279 like crazy mouths just for practice. And we've been ahead 136 00:05:22.279 --> 00:05:24.399 of schedule as far as training wise, like you're supposed 137 00:05:24.399 --> 00:05:27.720 to train I think eighteen weeks. We've been training for 138 00:05:27.839 --> 00:05:28.439 longer than that. 139 00:05:28.519 --> 00:05:30.600 Okay, Yeah, so you feel like you're ready. 140 00:05:30.839 --> 00:05:31.040 Yeah. 141 00:05:31.279 --> 00:05:33.120 I also I feel like it's also a physical thing. 142 00:05:33.120 --> 00:05:34.720 I think it has to be mental. So how do 143 00:05:34.720 --> 00:05:35.879 you mentally propel yourself? 144 00:05:36.079 --> 00:05:38.480 I conquering practice? 145 00:05:38.600 --> 00:05:40.480 Okay, so repetition. 146 00:05:40.759 --> 00:05:42.439 Yeah, Like if I know I could do twenty in 147 00:05:42.480 --> 00:05:43.920 my head, I know I could do twenty in my head, 148 00:05:44.000 --> 00:05:44.959 is done, you know what I mean. 149 00:05:45.040 --> 00:05:47.120 So that's one thing. 150 00:05:47.160 --> 00:05:49.040 As much as athletic as I am, and I don't 151 00:05:49.079 --> 00:05:50.800 like to ever say like, oh I guess not that 152 00:05:50.879 --> 00:05:52.399 I can't do it, but. 153 00:05:52.319 --> 00:05:53.399 I don't like it. 154 00:05:53.560 --> 00:05:54.839 I don't think we want I like. 155 00:05:54.920 --> 00:05:57.879 Running for purpose like I played basketball, I played sports, 156 00:05:57.920 --> 00:06:00.839 like I'm athletic in that sense, but just to run, 157 00:06:01.240 --> 00:06:01.959 I don't like it. 158 00:06:02.639 --> 00:06:05.480 We're good. We love Alexis Texas. The way she is, 159 00:06:05.519 --> 00:06:06.560 I think the people would agree with. 160 00:06:06.600 --> 00:06:08.439 But the thing is is, I have a trainer who 161 00:06:08.600 --> 00:06:11.000 has made my body is great. Thank you very much, 162 00:06:11.079 --> 00:06:13.399 Augustina for what it looks like. And she's a runner. 163 00:06:13.439 --> 00:06:14.800 She has a run club herself, and. 164 00:06:14.759 --> 00:06:16.879 She still has a banging ass like body. 165 00:06:16.879 --> 00:06:18.839 Like there's ways to still do it and not like 166 00:06:18.959 --> 00:06:20.360 dissipate your body. 167 00:06:20.519 --> 00:06:23.279 It's just do it the right way. 168 00:06:23.279 --> 00:06:25.399 And it's about what you put into your body and 169 00:06:25.439 --> 00:06:26.920 the you know, the protein and the. 170 00:06:26.839 --> 00:06:27.279 Timing and. 171 00:06:28.879 --> 00:06:31.279 Like super high high protein, like for sure, and. 172 00:06:31.839 --> 00:06:33.720 That thing is like when you're doing that, you also 173 00:06:33.800 --> 00:06:36.439 have to eat more in that in those settings. Yeah, 174 00:06:36.879 --> 00:06:38.399 that's one thing I like about her. She kind of 175 00:06:38.439 --> 00:06:38.959 tells us. 176 00:06:39.199 --> 00:06:41.399 Yeah, that's the thing about running. It's kind of like 177 00:06:41.439 --> 00:06:43.600 the opposite, you know, how you gotta when you're running 178 00:06:43.639 --> 00:06:46.839 that much, you could actually you know, have some sugar 179 00:06:46.839 --> 00:06:49.199 because your body needs it, like you know. So it's different, 180 00:06:49.360 --> 00:06:51.839 but I like it. I like the discipline of it, 181 00:06:51.879 --> 00:06:52.839 you know, health as well. 182 00:06:53.000 --> 00:06:55.079 So we like that. So we're going to support you 183 00:06:55.160 --> 00:06:56.720 and the marathon. I think that's a really. 184 00:06:56.639 --> 00:07:00.199 Great Remember second New York City Marathon run channels will 185 00:06:59.680 --> 00:07:00.360 be will be. 186 00:07:00.399 --> 00:07:03.839 In the building all right, So we have the run club. 187 00:07:03.879 --> 00:07:05.759 That's something new. What about music? 188 00:07:05.759 --> 00:07:06.920 Where are you at? Are you? 189 00:07:07.480 --> 00:07:10.199 I just dropped my new single Follow, Follow featuring j 190 00:07:10.399 --> 00:07:12.639 Or Castro, came out, like I want to say, like 191 00:07:12.680 --> 00:07:14.560 a week and a half ago. My album comes out 192 00:07:14.600 --> 00:07:18.160 on the seventh, which is my birthday. My new album. 193 00:07:19.199 --> 00:07:22.639 I have so many people on the album. So the 194 00:07:22.720 --> 00:07:24.839 video also just came out on World Stars. So just 195 00:07:24.920 --> 00:07:28.120 you know, the music's coming out as well with what 196 00:07:28.160 --> 00:07:30.959 we're doing with the running and whatever else I'm doing, 197 00:07:31.720 --> 00:07:34.240 you know, on tour with the locks and whatever shows. 198 00:07:34.240 --> 00:07:36.079 I'm doing a lot of shows in Texas, you know. 199 00:07:36.240 --> 00:07:39.839 So it's cool Texas, baby, what's your favorite place to tour? 200 00:07:40.439 --> 00:07:40.920 Texas? 201 00:07:41.000 --> 00:07:42.920 Texas? What part of Texas? 202 00:07:43.160 --> 00:07:45.279 Yo? Honestly, I was just last week. I was in 203 00:07:45.319 --> 00:07:47.279 some place called and I was telling Jada. I text 204 00:07:47.360 --> 00:07:50.199 Jadakiss this. I was like, dude, I'm in some place 205 00:07:50.279 --> 00:07:52.199 called Kyle, Texas. I've never heard of the city. 206 00:07:52.279 --> 00:07:54.959 I used to live in Kyle, Texas, right, How funny? 207 00:07:55.279 --> 00:07:55.800 Really? Yeah? 208 00:07:55.879 --> 00:08:01.360 Because I went to school in Texas State Texas well, 209 00:08:01.399 --> 00:08:05.560 because it's in between San Marcus and Austin, so it's 210 00:08:05.639 --> 00:08:06.480 like in between. 211 00:08:06.560 --> 00:08:08.279 So like when you're when you don't want to live. 212 00:08:08.120 --> 00:08:11.720 In like student housing or apartments, there's houses two So 213 00:08:11.759 --> 00:08:13.480 we lived in a house in Kyle, so it was 214 00:08:13.519 --> 00:08:14.319 like in between. 215 00:08:14.680 --> 00:08:17.560 But yeah, living there was not as many houses as 216 00:08:17.560 --> 00:08:19.199 there is now. But yeah, Kyle is like. 217 00:08:19.199 --> 00:08:22.240 In the middle of Well, shout out to Kyle Texas 218 00:08:22.279 --> 00:08:25.040 because a thousand people showed up to that show. I 219 00:08:25.160 --> 00:08:26.399 was I was mind. 220 00:08:26.240 --> 00:08:27.720 Blowing because Austin's close. 221 00:08:28.680 --> 00:08:30.480 I guess it's like you said, it's between Austin. 222 00:08:31.040 --> 00:08:35.120 Well that too, but like it's Austin, San Marcus, San Antonio. 223 00:08:35.440 --> 00:08:39.480 Yeah. So Texas by far as my favorite states. And 224 00:08:39.519 --> 00:08:42.559 you know what I love about is that if you 225 00:08:42.679 --> 00:08:46.919 just concentrate on that state alone, you're really good. You 226 00:08:46.960 --> 00:08:48.159 don't really need any other states. 227 00:08:48.799 --> 00:08:52.360 Beggar in Texas literally, like I have to kind of 228 00:08:52.360 --> 00:08:54.879 a Texas show fun when do you have another tax? 229 00:08:55.519 --> 00:08:58.480 You know, definitely, I don't have to pick what Texas 230 00:08:58.559 --> 00:09:01.679 because some Texas I'm. 231 00:09:01.480 --> 00:09:04.399 Like, no, listen, Texas is Texas at the end of 232 00:09:04.440 --> 00:09:04.799 the day. 233 00:09:04.960 --> 00:09:06.960 In the facts, but there's also places that when I 234 00:09:07.039 --> 00:09:09.000 used to feature dance and I would go to some places. 235 00:09:09.000 --> 00:09:10.919 I'm like, this should never be called Texas and it 236 00:09:10.919 --> 00:09:13.960 should be like dropped off the like the map. Like 237 00:09:15.039 --> 00:09:16.879 there are some climes. I won't name them names because 238 00:09:16.879 --> 00:09:18.720 I just give them more credit. But you know there 239 00:09:18.720 --> 00:09:21.440 are very few because Texas is very friendly and we 240 00:09:21.480 --> 00:09:22.080 love you know. 241 00:09:22.720 --> 00:09:25.360 We love our southernness. You know, you know, you know. 242 00:09:25.639 --> 00:09:28.440 Okay, let's see, let's get down into it. You know, 243 00:09:28.480 --> 00:09:30.799 we only had one conversation with you, but we need 244 00:09:30.840 --> 00:09:33.240 to get you know, the second round, getting a little 245 00:09:33.279 --> 00:09:35.559 bit more, like into a little bit more getting to 246 00:09:35.600 --> 00:09:37.399 know you more. I feel like you were holding back 247 00:09:37.519 --> 00:09:41.879 last time, and then you popped up and had two girlfriends. 248 00:09:41.879 --> 00:09:43.480 You wanted to come back on the show, and. 249 00:09:44.559 --> 00:09:46.600 I feel like you were into like talking about Polly 250 00:09:46.679 --> 00:09:47.840 relationships and how you. 251 00:09:47.799 --> 00:09:52.360 Were really open and wanted to come on. 252 00:09:52.960 --> 00:09:55.360 And at the time I just wasn't filming, but I 253 00:09:55.399 --> 00:09:59.799 was like, I love you are funny. 254 00:10:00.159 --> 00:10:01.720 I forgot about that conversation. 255 00:10:02.159 --> 00:10:07.720 I'm so, is that still something? Did you try it? 256 00:10:07.879 --> 00:10:10.600 You know what stage I was in? Maybe I was 257 00:10:10.840 --> 00:10:11.759 I was delusional. 258 00:10:12.039 --> 00:10:15.840 Okay, so this doesn't work, This doesn't really work for you. 259 00:10:18.559 --> 00:10:20.039 Were you just trying something? 260 00:10:20.200 --> 00:10:22.720 Were you I was definitely caught up. 261 00:10:24.320 --> 00:10:27.399 So explain to us how this conversation happened. 262 00:10:27.639 --> 00:10:31.480 Yoh, you know, I was definitely experimenting in my relash relationship. 263 00:10:31.519 --> 00:10:35.120 We were experimenting with other girls, and. 264 00:10:36.080 --> 00:10:38.600 So this is how you came into like a poly thing. 265 00:10:40.120 --> 00:10:43.679 It. I caught myself trying to fulfill this girl's fantasies 266 00:10:44.360 --> 00:10:47.399 what she wanted to do. Okay, so it wasn't my 267 00:10:47.600 --> 00:10:49.639 thing initially. 268 00:10:50.279 --> 00:10:52.679 Was this the same girl that you texted me about 269 00:10:52.720 --> 00:10:53.720 in Vegas one time? 270 00:10:54.240 --> 00:10:57.200 I think so it might have. Okay, so you there's 271 00:10:57.240 --> 00:10:57.679 only one. 272 00:10:57.879 --> 00:11:00.360 I only have one, So you have a hard time 273 00:11:00.360 --> 00:11:03.720 of letting go, like you don't know when to walk away. 274 00:11:04.879 --> 00:11:06.919 You have a like superhero complex. 275 00:11:07.399 --> 00:11:11.759 Maybe, but I did walk away eventually, But I did 276 00:11:11.759 --> 00:11:12.960 I tell you how I walked away. 277 00:11:13.039 --> 00:11:15.759 No, That's why I'm saying, like we I had this conversation. 278 00:11:16.440 --> 00:11:18.279 But I know that you called me when time, or 279 00:11:18.320 --> 00:11:20.360 you texted me and was like, hey, I need advice, 280 00:11:20.399 --> 00:11:22.399 and I'm like okay, bet, and then you told me 281 00:11:23.000 --> 00:11:27.519 and then not that right, yeah, And then I know 282 00:11:27.600 --> 00:11:30.200 for sure you were with this person for after that, 283 00:11:30.840 --> 00:11:32.679 and so then it's like it's like why you always 284 00:11:32.720 --> 00:11:34.879 give like I always give advice. It's like I'm not 285 00:11:34.879 --> 00:11:35.879 ever like E said it whatever. 286 00:11:35.919 --> 00:11:38.159 It's like maybe I wanted to hear what you had 287 00:11:38.200 --> 00:11:40.559 to say and take it into consideration, but I'm still 288 00:11:40.600 --> 00:11:41.039 going to go. 289 00:11:41.000 --> 00:11:44.200 Through the one thousand and I don't do that and 290 00:11:44.240 --> 00:11:46.039 one thousand. That's why it's like I don't ever judge 291 00:11:46.039 --> 00:11:47.399 you the way because you're probably going to. 292 00:11:47.440 --> 00:11:48.960 Go back nine times out of ten. 293 00:11:49.360 --> 00:11:51.840 But it's like from the outside looking in, that's only 294 00:11:51.919 --> 00:11:53.799 like I'm not knowing specifically who the person was. So 295 00:11:53.840 --> 00:11:56.879 I was is that the person that you became entered 296 00:11:56.879 --> 00:11:58.000 at poly relationship with? 297 00:11:58.200 --> 00:12:01.559 Yeah, I mean we had a couple experiences, but there's. 298 00:12:01.399 --> 00:12:04.759 A difference between the poly relationship and just fucking people. Yes, 299 00:12:05.080 --> 00:12:07.879 Like so like what was it like? Did you not know? 300 00:12:07.960 --> 00:12:09.840 And that's why there's a great. 301 00:12:10.360 --> 00:12:13.600 It was like we were just having experiences, but it 302 00:12:13.639 --> 00:12:17.159 was like throwing in the air, like maybe we could 303 00:12:17.159 --> 00:12:18.279 add a girlfriend to a. 304 00:12:18.200 --> 00:12:20.159 Relationship and this is from her because you said you 305 00:12:20.240 --> 00:12:21.039 want to please her. 306 00:12:21.519 --> 00:12:23.759 Basically, yeah, you know what I mean. I'm like, if 307 00:12:24.480 --> 00:12:27.279 you're if you know, if you're my girlfriend or my 308 00:12:27.519 --> 00:12:30.240 wife or whatever, obviously, like I I catered to my 309 00:12:30.240 --> 00:12:31.600 my significant other, you know what I mean? 310 00:12:32.039 --> 00:12:33.840 Yeah, but what if that gives you something that it's 311 00:12:33.879 --> 00:12:36.279 not serving to you? 312 00:12:36.279 --> 00:12:38.879 You know what, That's why I'm single now, and that's 313 00:12:38.879 --> 00:12:39.480 why I waste. 314 00:12:39.960 --> 00:12:42.080 She with the girlfriend, and you got kicked out. 315 00:12:43.679 --> 00:12:47.000 Even not even not even no, not even it never 316 00:12:47.039 --> 00:12:49.519 got to no girlfriend type of situation. 317 00:12:49.639 --> 00:12:52.360 So you were just open to the idea. Are you 318 00:12:52.519 --> 00:12:56.720 still at this current time open to poly type relationships? 319 00:12:57.039 --> 00:12:59.919 You know, I'm gonna be honest with you. I haven't 320 00:13:00.080 --> 00:13:04.360 no idea, Alexis. I am so busy that I don't 321 00:13:04.360 --> 00:13:05.440 have time for nothing. 322 00:13:05.879 --> 00:13:10.360 Okay, So it's like, so let's start here. If it's FAST's. 323 00:13:09.799 --> 00:13:13.080 At we're to get raptures. Okay, some girl would just 324 00:13:13.159 --> 00:13:15.519 come around and I get caught up because it happens 325 00:13:15.559 --> 00:13:18.519 to us, guys. We fucking get infatuated. We go to 326 00:13:18.600 --> 00:13:19.879 this infatuation stage. 327 00:13:19.879 --> 00:13:20.159 Power. 328 00:13:20.639 --> 00:13:22.720 Yeah, we go through a infatuation stage you. 329 00:13:22.679 --> 00:13:25.360 Know, called lust in most times. 330 00:13:25.480 --> 00:13:27.879 But listen, I love when you're correct me, especially when 331 00:13:27.879 --> 00:13:28.759 you're right. Okay. 332 00:13:29.240 --> 00:13:32.080 So this is Doctor Texas, not the page. But this 333 00:13:32.120 --> 00:13:34.879 is why we like figure things out here because I feel. 334 00:13:34.600 --> 00:13:37.480 Like what I love about men like yourself is I feel. 335 00:13:37.279 --> 00:13:39.240 Like why we got along and like the Frenchies and 336 00:13:39.240 --> 00:13:40.960 all the people in my world like like that is 337 00:13:41.000 --> 00:13:45.480 like when there could be two alphas but coming from 338 00:13:45.480 --> 00:13:49.840 a sense of like of sincerity and like love of 339 00:13:49.879 --> 00:13:51.960 where it's like I'm just trying to better you in 340 00:13:51.960 --> 00:13:53.919 not a judgment way, but like I'm gonna tell you 341 00:13:53.960 --> 00:13:55.960 how it is on the line because I have I 342 00:13:55.960 --> 00:13:58.000 don't give a fuck if you listen to me either way. 343 00:13:58.159 --> 00:13:59.960 I'm gonna still tell you how I. 344 00:13:59.679 --> 00:14:02.559 See it, but you can receive it well right where 345 00:14:02.559 --> 00:14:04.399 it's not like Okay, bitch, shut the fuck up. 346 00:14:05.240 --> 00:14:09.720 You're you whipped out that ship that was off of air. 347 00:14:09.799 --> 00:14:14.159 By the way, guys tell me I had It's okay, 348 00:14:14.320 --> 00:14:14.639 you know. 349 00:14:15.759 --> 00:14:18.039 You wanted to bring it on my show. So how 350 00:14:18.080 --> 00:14:20.320 can you even tell me that that could be a boundary? 351 00:14:20.559 --> 00:14:21.519 Like you know what that is? 352 00:14:21.679 --> 00:14:23.440 That is great? That is great journalism. 353 00:14:25.080 --> 00:14:26.679 Cause the thing is is one thing my friends will 354 00:14:26.679 --> 00:14:28.240 tell me is like you keep receipts, girl, I'm like, 355 00:14:28.240 --> 00:14:30.240 they're in here. I don't even need to I'm like 356 00:14:30.320 --> 00:14:32.480 I'll be like, you know that one time when we 357 00:14:32.519 --> 00:14:34.480 had that one story, or that time you talk me 358 00:14:34.519 --> 00:14:35.919 in the car we were in the uber and then 359 00:14:35.960 --> 00:14:37.559 I was like, I'll tell you the whole thing. But 360 00:14:37.639 --> 00:14:40.399 I smoke all the time, and I but I can 361 00:14:40.480 --> 00:14:42.279 still remember the things that I know were serious or 362 00:14:42.320 --> 00:14:42.840 I need to know. 363 00:14:43.279 --> 00:14:45.879 Yeah, you got that, I give it to you. 364 00:14:45.919 --> 00:14:49.799 So you're single, Yeah, definitely you what are you? Okay? 365 00:14:49.840 --> 00:14:51.480 You say the poly thing whatever? Okay. 366 00:14:51.519 --> 00:14:53.559 Well, that's like a key, key kind of moment now 367 00:14:53.559 --> 00:14:55.559 because obviously you're not in that situation where you were 368 00:14:55.600 --> 00:14:57.759 open to it, but you're obviously you want to think 369 00:14:57.840 --> 00:15:00.559 your partner. But that's fine, and I think what I 370 00:15:00.759 --> 00:15:02.320 you know, what we could take from that is a 371 00:15:02.320 --> 00:15:04.720 teachable moment in the sense of, like it was to 372 00:15:06.039 --> 00:15:08.159 cater to your partner if it's open. But I think 373 00:15:08.159 --> 00:15:10.600 in situations like that people forget that it also takes 374 00:15:10.600 --> 00:15:13.399 a lot of open communication. Like I was also in 375 00:15:13.440 --> 00:15:16.080 my industry and married in my industry with someone who 376 00:15:16.120 --> 00:15:18.440 was in the industry, and the industry had nothing to 377 00:15:18.480 --> 00:15:21.519 do why we didn't make it, and because that worked 378 00:15:21.519 --> 00:15:24.759 because we had open communication about what we liked, what 379 00:15:24.799 --> 00:15:27.080 we didn't like, what made us feel uncomfortable. And sometimes 380 00:15:27.120 --> 00:15:29.559 those things are hard to do in those types of 381 00:15:29.600 --> 00:15:30.879 situations where you're figuring it out. 382 00:15:31.440 --> 00:15:33.080 So you were married. 383 00:15:33.240 --> 00:15:37.240 I was happily divorced, but it's another story. But uh 384 00:15:38.639 --> 00:15:40.440 learning That's also why I feel like for me, it's. 385 00:15:40.320 --> 00:15:43.799 About experiences, right, and it's like we live, you know, 386 00:15:43.840 --> 00:15:46.240 it doesn't matter about the years. Although I am forty nine, 387 00:15:46.279 --> 00:15:48.960 you were at my fortieth birthday and yeah, so I 388 00:15:48.960 --> 00:15:51.240 feel like it's just like lessons, but those things kind 389 00:15:51.240 --> 00:15:54.159 of like season you to kind of experience for me, 390 00:15:54.360 --> 00:15:57.240 like why I'm able to talk about the rawness of 391 00:15:57.240 --> 00:15:59.399 the things from my side on he was in a 392 00:15:59.440 --> 00:16:02.840 relationship with significance of a marriage and then also just 393 00:16:02.879 --> 00:16:04.960 a boyfriend girlfriend in like a situationship. 394 00:16:04.960 --> 00:16:07.519 So I've been am all, done them all. So what 395 00:16:07.559 --> 00:16:11.519 are you looking for in a relationship? Are for nothing? 396 00:16:11.600 --> 00:16:13.720 Are you looking for just a hookup time because you're 397 00:16:13.720 --> 00:16:15.960 so busy? Are you looking for companionship? 398 00:16:16.159 --> 00:16:18.399 Because you're also a lover boy, You're not just like, 399 00:16:18.799 --> 00:16:22.919 are what you're looking for? 400 00:16:23.919 --> 00:16:25.320 I am a lover boy, but right now I'm not 401 00:16:25.360 --> 00:16:27.519