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Speaker 1: Well, coming up in this episode, Laura and her boyfriend

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Joe join and we find out that Joe that's something

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he really likes to do in the winter.

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Speaker 2: My neighbors call him the shovel Fairy. They're like, does

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the shovel Fairy want to come visit our house?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, that sounds like a really fan. It's like

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a fantasy, the shovel Fairy. It's a different kind of fan.

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It's like an adult fantasy. Now, God, I wish the

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shovel Fairy put on that outfit, Joe and come on over.

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Of course, when Laura's around, the conversation has to get

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a little rich. Top five there's five of them.

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Speaker 2: Really trivia music, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Because what would you like? Porn music?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I feel like you need a different about audio, like

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seduce me music.

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Speaker 3: Seduce you music.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Well, while you're thinking that, I'm gonna

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pull up some seduced me music.

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Speaker 4: Hi.

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 2: So the top five that there needs to be more of.

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Speaker 1: Everybody loves to blame the ref and Joe happens to

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be a collegiate football referee, and he explained.

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Speaker 4: Some things just think like the average fan just doesn't understand,

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and that I could be four feet away from somebody

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and that's not my responsibility of looking at that. I'm

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looking at something else. So the average fan just doesn't

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understand that every official on the field is their eyes

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are already set to look at something, not where the

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ball is.

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mix in some vodka, call it a pun. From the

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Speaker 3: It's Billified the Bill Moran Podcast. Well, hello and welcome.

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Thank you for getting your pod on.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for checking out the website Bill Moran Productions dot com.

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Speaker 3: There's pictures up there. Laura will be up there later.

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Speaker 1: It's not no, no, no, no, not no.

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Speaker 3: She watched the listening photos. Is that what you want?

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Is that where we're going? Is that what it is?

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Speaker 2: Why not? You're gonna get fan emails?

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Speaker 1: No, and you can email right through there. Yeah, it's

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just it's it's been. Uh, it's been. It's been weird

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for me because I don't know anything about anything. I'll

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give you a little behind the scenes like I don't

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I don't know photo chop.

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Speaker 3: Well, I don't know any I own it all. Yeah, yep.

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Speaker 1: So I had a logo that I had created for

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another podcast that I was doing, and somebody wrote me

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an email through the website and said, is it Bill

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lightenmant or Bill Lightment.

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Speaker 3: Because you have it two different ways?

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Speaker 1: And I look at the logo and I went man,

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So I took like forty minutes and fiddled around with

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it and got it fixed.

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Speaker 2: Get it to where you want you doing, Like Canva.

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Speaker 1: Or I have I pay for Canva. Yeah this was

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through my photoshop on Adobe. Okay, Yeah, I'm learning all

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this stuff.

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Speaker 3: It's like.

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Speaker 2: It's one thing that I cannot I don't do my website.

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I don't do anything I pay to have that done.

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Speaker 3: Who do you pay the like go Daddy or somebody.

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Speaker 2: My website is through by the way, great name. Yeah,

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I mean I my websites through Wix. But then it's

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like run through go Daddy or I built my website

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through wis. Go Daddy is like where I.

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Speaker 3: And you have their experts work on it for you.

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Speaker 2: No, I have my like my branding coach.

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Speaker 3: You have a branding coach, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Like a business coach who does all my branding and stuff.

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like that. It's one thing I don't know how to do.

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Speaker 1: I like knowing how to do this stuff. But here's

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what I'm starting to realize. If you want to be successful,

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you have to have people that focus on the little

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stuff and you got to keep looking big picture otherwise

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you're gonna you know, and and I just do things.

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been able to make this work, but it could be

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so much more than it is.

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Speaker 3: Uh huh. And so that that's where we're heaving.

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Speaker 2: I mean, and I know we've talked about social media

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and how much you don't really enjoy making the reels

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and editing and everything because it's so much work.

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Speaker 3: It is like today, that's another thing media.

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Speaker 2: I try my business.

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Speaker 1: I try to do a cute story on Instagram today

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where you have a picture back and then you have

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the story. You're reel up here and people can click

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to go to your reel, but it's over in the corner.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, fucking know. It took me like an

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hour and I go.

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Speaker 1: You go, yeah, I'm an idiot, but I like this stuff,

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and i'd like to be able to say to somebody,

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hey man, you do this. I'm going to go over

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here and work on this, this and this, And that's

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where we're headed clearly, but it takes it's taken a minute.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. How's organizing business. I mean, the weather's

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been not fun.

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Speaker 2: No, I said my drive. I was texting Kevin on

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Monday because he asked if I could come in. I

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was like, my drive to Pulteneyville took about forty three minutes.

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Speaker 1: I just saw a thing that more of the Mohawk Valley,

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but you know, even up in the Ataronticcks. I think

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tug Hill, which a lot of people go. I think

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our friend Mac Mike Mack, his place is up his

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property up in the Aaronticcks, and I think it's near

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tug Hill. Yeah, and they already had areas of Tug Hill. Oh,

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here's what it is slated to see another three feet

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of snow. There's only about three hundred and fifty people

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five feet of snow this winter this winter. And that's

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like old school shit because we haven't had winters like

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that in forever.

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to Mac. He's got his place up there and he

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likes to go up and run the sleds. Yeah right,

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and he's like, man, I don't know, we're supposed to

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get supposed to warm up. They're talking about a warm stretch.

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twenty five fucking feet of snow, and I.

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Speaker 2: Canceled my plow contracts last year.

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Speaker 1: You did because they are because there's nothing right, there's

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nothing coming well now, but now you got Joe.

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Speaker 4: I know. Joe's a shoveling connoisseur. As soon as the

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snow hits the ground, I'm like the guy from a

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Christmas story. He wants to fix the furnace. The snow

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hits the ground and I'm out there, I'm shoveling. Really,

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Speaker 3: He don't know why I love it.

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Speaker 4: Why?

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Speaker 2: Like we have gotten home at ten thirty at night

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from something, and at eleven o'clock he's.

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Speaker 4: Like, I'm gonna go shovel Yeah, it's strange. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: My neighbors call him to the shovel Fairy. They're like,

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does the shovel Fairy want to come visit our house?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, that sounds like a really fan. It's like

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a fantasy, the shovel Fairy. It's a different kind of face.

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It's like an adult fantasy.

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Speaker 3: Now, God, I wish the shovel Fairy we put on

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that outfit Joe and come on over. I shall for the.

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Speaker 2: First time this winter because I got home early and

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he had had a long day and so or I

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knew he wasn't getting home until late, so I shoveled it.

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Speaker 1: I was like, God, did Joe dress up as the

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shovel fairy for Valentine's Day?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 4: No, Lauria hates Valentine's Day?

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Speaker 3: Oh, so are you off the hook completely? Then?

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Speaker 4: For valve off the hook completely?

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Speaker 3: But what did you do? You did something?

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Speaker 4: I just wrote a cheesy Facebook Oh okay, all right.

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Speaker 2: I hate it. I do Valentine's Day. I only started

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doing it that past few years because.

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Speaker 3: My wife hate.

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Speaker 2: Oh the so Friday morning, I like tied little Valentine's

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balloons to their chairs in the morning, I made them

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red pancakes, you know, whipped cream.

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Speaker 3: That's really cute.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like a chocolate bar and the newest Prime drink.

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That's what they got for Valentine's Day. Okay, but no,

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I hate I think it's really cool.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but what about adults?

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Speaker 1: All right, we were talking about this last night. What

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if you got like sex toys for Valentine's Day?

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Speaker 2: I mean, that's fine, but why can't you give me

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sex toys on the other three hundred and sixty three

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days out of the year.

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Speaker 1: Because it's February and there's a lot of snow on

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the ground, it just seems to make sense.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's me for Christmas. So then I had those

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cold months go quicker.

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right, Joe, you're taking notes over there, buddy,

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be taking notes. Take some notes over there.

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Speaker 1: Can I ask, like, I don't know how you can

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why I can ask you anything.

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Speaker 3: We already we've already.

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Speaker 1: Established that I don't know how comfortable Joe would be.

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like you're coming home and your camera. Your life in

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a very very short period of time, went from every

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mess that was made was yours right to now your

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there's two kids, there's there's all this stuff, and you

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just seem to embrace.

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Speaker 3: It, like, dude, you like you really like it.

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Speaker 4: I don't know. I know, I've always been a clean

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freak when I live by myself. I've made a couple

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of comments to Laura and I'm trying to get the

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kids pick up after themselves, but they're kids. Yeah, it's

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not too messy, so I can't complain. You know, what's

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a half hour hour pick around the house.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I mean I'm just saying like that, that's

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a big switch, right for nobody. Yeah, only you too, now,

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you know. I mean I see the pictures there. You're

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like a jungle gym for them. Therow on your shoulder,

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somebody's hanging off your arm.

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Speaker 4: You know this is true. But I mean I've worked

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with kids for the last fifteen years.

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Speaker 3: So okay, so that makes it all pretty easy.

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Speaker 4: Very good.

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Speaker 3: Uh, we'll take a moment, Laura. I found some stats.

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Speaker 1: And and we'll ask you, and I hope it doesn't

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get too bad. But it was a survey from Bloom,

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an erotic audio platform. Okay, it's called Bloom. Everybody wants

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to go check it out. I'm sure they have dirty

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novels and things that you can listen to book on tape,

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and it's got some surprising insight into women's porn preferences.

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Speaker 3: And we will see if you agree. Is that fair?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I wasn't your I was like, wait, at.

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Speaker 1: Bloom Bloom, check it out. We'll get to all that

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right after this. I want you to discover the amazing

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flavors of bTB wood fired pizza and Grill in the

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Speaker 2: You have like a chat bot. I like it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: The chatbot pops up.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, please nswer your question and don't leave out any details.

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This will help get your question fully answered as soon

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as possible. Wow, what's the question, who's the blonde?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? That's really funny. All right, Laura, here we go.

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Speaker 1: The top five fantasies women want to see more of

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in porn. Let's see if you can get like, I

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don't know what ones would you think?

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Speaker 3: Give me? Like the top five? There's five of them.

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Speaker 2: Really trivia music?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because what would you like? Porn music?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I feel like you need a different about audio, like

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seduce me music music.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Well while you're thinking that, I'm pull

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up some seduced me music.

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Speaker 3: All right.

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Speaker 2: So the top five that there needs to be more of, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: More that women want to see more of. Top five

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imporn that women want to see more of.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna say older women with younger men really like

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being seduced by a young man.

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Speaker 1: Okay, uh so okay, that's very specific, but I think

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that would fall under what fifty two percent of women

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are calling romantic sex, okay, right, being kind of romantic romanticized. Yeah,

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but older women younger guy, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: That's what I Yeah, because I think you have vice

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versa a lot of the times.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I've I've watched pure taboo, which is

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usually like a couple seducing a young girl.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, teaching.

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Speaker 3: Her their wily ways.

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Speaker 1: Who's the you know, yeah yeah, yea yeah yeah yeah yeah,

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yeah she becomes Seventy seven percent of women said they

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would like to see more threesomes in porn, and they

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don't give you specifically, like what kind of threesome, right,

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that's what it be, two girls and a guy, two

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guys and a girl. Doesn't say women receiving more oral sex.

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Fifty would like to see that in porn.

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Speaker 2: Okay, romantic they just want that more in life. I

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mean seriously, I.

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Speaker 3: Can't get it there. I'll get it in my fantasy.

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Speaker 1: Romantic sex comes in at fifty two percent. Rough sex

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comes in at fifty two percent. Okay, yeah, like yeah,

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domination Oh dude, really yeah, domination.

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Speaker 3: You're looking looking at looking at you?

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Speaker 4: All right, so I guess I can expose myself whatever. Yeah.

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So Laura likes to be slapped around and everything else.

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I'm not that's like a guy. Yeah, Like one time

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I slapped her and I just start laughing my because

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I'm like, what the hell am I doing? This? Is?

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This is awkward? But she just starts looking at me

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like what.

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Speaker 3: I mean now wait wait black eyes.

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Speaker 2: Time by accident?

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Speaker 3: What you just like face slap?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, joked. But then the other day we had like

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mid day sex and he went to do that. I

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was like, you can't do that in the middle of

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the day.

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Speaker 1: It's got to be dark out night time, buddy, I

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wouldn't know either.

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Speaker 4: You want what do you want?

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Speaker 3: This? What am I supposed to do?

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Speaker 4: Here? You having sex?

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Speaker 3: So rough sex?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I love it.

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Speaker 1: Oh you're so good man, You're so in, You're so

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on this, you're so now accepting floggers.

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Speaker 4: This Old Lady Sex show for eight episodes and all.

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Speaker 3: What's the old Lady Sex show? I don't know?

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Speaker 2: Call how to Build a Sex Room? And it's like

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a what is it?

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Speaker 3: On a dy channel and Wastflix?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh really, it's called how to Build a Sex

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Around And.

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Speaker 2: It was amazing because like it was everything from like

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a married couple to like a group orgy that like

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she built like a house for them to have their

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sex parties.

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Speaker 3: Man, it was amazing. Get air that place out when

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it's done.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, oh yeah.

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Speaker 2: I remember my mom telling me that sex gets better

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once you turn forty.

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Speaker 1: Well, I think there's a reason why you you don't

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give me a.

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Speaker 3: Missions, like you're just gone, yeah.

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Speaker 2: Like you're you open more about like this is what

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I like in bed, this is what I would like

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to try. And I do think that people are getting

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more open into those things, like you hear the conversation.

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Speaker 1: Well, older though, and more confident, a little more experience,

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like yeah, not ashamed of your body.

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Speaker 3: Even Yeah, I would.

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Speaker 1: Be with Joe at first, but I'm afraid that if

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I would get so in to the slapping, spitting, punching,

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choking that I would lose my head.

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't.

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Speaker 1: I would like, I would like I would have an

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out of body experience.

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Speaker 2: I swear that he's a big guy, but he's so

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like gentle.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, no comment. All I know is it's just it's

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very awkward. She just pull my hair, slapped me, you know,

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sneaking in here and there, but like, yeah, it was

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just weird.

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Speaker 3: Did Joe have big hands? Big hands? Joe, Yeah, he's

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a big hands. It's like leaving a big hamprint on here.

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Speaker 4: Oh I didn't leave a handprint.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I get lost ham.

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Speaker 4: You woke up the next morning you had a handp.

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Speaker 2: I like handprints. I like brewises, bite marks, like whoa.

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Speaker 3: The biting stuff. I gotta draw the line there.

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Speaker 2: Crap like I will say, like my ex husband, it

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was the same one, two three every time. Yeah, like

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and I think that that is even when I would

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say like I need something more, like we need to

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switch up.

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Speaker 4: It was.

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Speaker 2: That's why we ended up not having all Right, well.

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Speaker 3: Those are the old days. Those are the old days.

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Now you're backing living. You would even film yourself, wouldn't you.

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I have you have?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, not with me, No, it wasn't. It was

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not me.

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Speaker 1: Joe was an athlete. He's a he's a referee for

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football at the collegiate level. He's used to breaking down film.

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Speaker 2: Can we replay that?

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Speaker 4: I think I should just put a camera up and

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not record. And then you think that we're recording.

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Speaker 2: Oh I would be I would be like I think.

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Speaker 3: Chico Laura Laura would be putting on a show.

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Speaker 2: Yeah for sure, absolutely, And then you would be like, god,

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damn it, I wish I actually recorded that. To watch

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that code.

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Speaker 3: Since Joe's here. Eddie was a referee.

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Speaker 1: I have to bring up one of the controversial things

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from football and how hard that is and how much

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we don't appreciate, I don't think fully what risks have

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to deal with and how quick that game is and compensation.

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our friend Vinnie, who.

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Speaker 2: Wrote, does Vinny have to say about me today? Yes,

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that you love Joe wants to meet Minnie.

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Speaker 1: Vinny said, where is Danny when you need him? Trick question?

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You don't, but he's crying in his bible.

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Speaker 4: Or that.

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Speaker 1: He says, oh, all hands, the pirate ship is sailing

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full speed.

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Speaker 3: Gagging throats of passion. The throats of passion. I wonder

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if that is a porn.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and then he says, whip out your tits, fat boy.

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Speaker 3: Meaning me meaning me. That's what you mean. That's that's

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what he's talking though.

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Speaker 5: That's right.

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Speaker 1: We can feature your comments if you'd like to, uh

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to do that.

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Speaker 3: Are you traveling anywhere in the near future?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, We're going to Charlotte in like a month.

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Speaker 3: Are you nervous no to fly.

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Speaker 2: No, No, It's rare that I feel like there it

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is rare. A lot of news about the small little

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things too. The DC flight that yes, there hadn't been

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no like American flights crashed right right in so long,

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the small little flight that went down in Philly, Philly,

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that has happened more. It's just you know, but I

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feel like the DC caused this massive attention.

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Speaker 1: Right still the safest way to go. How many car

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accidents have we had today? I mean we were just

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talking about I was talking to somebody about the weather

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we talked about earlier in the tug Hill area and

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they said, somebody was leaving Watertown and they rolled their

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car right hit black ice rolled their car. So you

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have that, or you could have you could end up

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upside down. In Toronto. Everybody survived thirty thousand dollars per person,

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which is about six times with the people who when

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they landed on the Hudson they got five thousand each. Uh.

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And I'm trying to think, like, what what one is

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worse now? Granted we're talking years later, Yeah, but I

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think upside down is scarier than landing on the water.

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Speaker 3: Although landing out of the water.

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Speaker 1: You could be worried about sinking and your luggage and

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all that shit.

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Speaker 3: I'm not sure.

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Speaker 2: I think that the Hudson they knew that there was

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plane problems. Yes, like, so you had more time to

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be scared.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like so that would be more money that I

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think should have been.

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Speaker 3: We call that emotional distress. Yeah, you're terrified.

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Speaker 2: Right where that what was that delta upside down? Supposedly

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like happened last minute?

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Speaker 1: Like you don't need did you watch it come in?

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It was like the weirdest thing. Yeah, And I think

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it was pilot error. I think the pilot didn't lift

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the nose up enough. From what I was reading, I

473
00:23:37,559 --> 00:23:40,720
know nothing about this, but people commented saying it would

474
00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:44,079
look like pilot error pilots talking, So I don't I

475
00:23:44,079 --> 00:23:46,680
would assume that that's true. But I got to tell you,

476
00:23:46,759 --> 00:23:48,119
I would expect to get nothing.

477
00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:52,880
Speaker 2: Oh, I would expect something, sure, Oh yeah, like a

478
00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:56,559
free flight, oh more, you know what I'm saying, Like,

479
00:23:56,599 --> 00:23:57,400
I wouldn't know.

480
00:23:57,680 --> 00:24:00,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess thirty thousand dollars. What is it gonna

481
00:24:00,839 --> 00:24:03,119
cost them? Two point two million? Which really isn't that

482
00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:04,960
big a deal At the corporate level.

483
00:24:05,519 --> 00:24:06,400
Speaker 3: Of their size.

484
00:24:06,599 --> 00:24:10,640
Speaker 1: Thirty thousand dollars is nice, and they're claiming it's not

485
00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:15,680
preventing anybody from filing a lawsuit. In addition, yeah, you're not.

486
00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:17,680
It's not as though, hey, you take this money and

487
00:24:17,720 --> 00:24:19,559
you can't file a lawsuit. They're not doing that. I

488
00:24:19,599 --> 00:24:21,599
got a great story in thirty thousand dollars. I'm telling

489
00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:23,960
that story. It is going to change from year to

490
00:24:24,039 --> 00:24:26,880
year to year to I'm the one who is I'm

491
00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:29,000
on the wing, the wing's on fire and I'm helping

492
00:24:29,039 --> 00:24:31,759
old ladies out. I mean, that story's gonna change for

493
00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:32,880
years and years.

494
00:24:33,240 --> 00:24:36,160
Speaker 3: But thousand street cred Yeah.

495
00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:38,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean would I want to go through a

496
00:24:38,279 --> 00:24:42,279
traumatic experience for thirty thousand dollars? Probably not, But do

497
00:24:42,400 --> 00:24:44,960
I think that it would soften the blow? For sure?

498
00:24:45,279 --> 00:24:46,599
Speaker 3: The NFL season's over.

499
00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:49,720
Speaker 1: I was trying to find stories all throughout the year

500
00:24:49,759 --> 00:24:50,880
to talk about every day.

501
00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:52,640
Speaker 3: No, there's really nothing going on.

502
00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:55,839
Speaker 1: But the one big controversy, and it keeps coming back

503
00:24:55,880 --> 00:24:57,759
to is you know, they change the rules.

504
00:24:57,799 --> 00:25:02,119
Speaker 3: What's this? What's that? It's easy to say.

505
00:25:01,799 --> 00:25:04,319
Speaker 1: Things like they should put a tracker in the ball,

506
00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:06,079
and they do have it right because you can get

507
00:25:06,119 --> 00:25:08,759
a lot of stats already. I think next gen stats

508
00:25:08,839 --> 00:25:12,519
is tracking the footballs to where it is, but in

509
00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:15,400
terms of like locating, but that still doesn't tell you

510
00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:16,160
if somebody's.

511
00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:16,640
Speaker 3: Knee is down?

512
00:25:16,720 --> 00:25:17,119
Speaker 4: Correct?

513
00:25:17,279 --> 00:25:19,559
Speaker 3: And do we not a little bit?

514
00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:23,200
Speaker 1: I mean, I know this sounds counterintuitive to everybody, but

515
00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:26,559
don't we like bitching about it? Don't we like seeing

516
00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:29,559
that they got it wrong and if they had only

517
00:25:29,599 --> 00:25:34,359
seen I think there's an element of fandom that is that.

518
00:25:34,519 --> 00:25:36,440
Speaker 4: I really, do you got to blame somebody?

519
00:25:36,559 --> 00:25:39,440
Speaker 1: I yes, I just think there's an element of fandom

520
00:25:39,440 --> 00:25:42,279
that's that. And when you watch that game, it is

521
00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:45,480
so fast. I don't know how you guys see anything.

522
00:25:45,599 --> 00:25:47,920
Who the hell could tell where he was? You know

523
00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:50,240
what I'm saying, like in real life. So I guess

524
00:25:50,240 --> 00:25:53,960
if we had the technology, But even there, who would

525
00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:56,200
know when the knees down? When you start putting things

526
00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:59,359
in running backs, knees and quarterbacks, it's crazy.

527
00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:02,119
Speaker 4: I just think like the average fan just doesn't understand

528
00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:05,519
that I could be four feet away from somebody and

529
00:26:05,640 --> 00:26:08,079
that's not my responsibility of looking at that. I'm looking

530
00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:11,799
at something else. So the average fan just doesn't understand that.

531
00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:15,680
Every official on the field is. Their eyes are already

532
00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:18,680
set to look at something, not where the ball is.

533
00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:22,160
So not only that, but there's always angles. We always

534
00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:24,839
see the instant replay on TV. You know, I could

535
00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:26,559
be standing right behind a guy, I'm not going to

536
00:26:26,599 --> 00:26:28,359
see that, But if the cameras in front of the guy,

537
00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:31,319
the camera's going to see that. So fans just got

538
00:26:31,319 --> 00:26:34,359
to know between the angles and the correct mechanics that

539
00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:37,480
officials have to do. That's where the controversies.

540
00:26:37,559 --> 00:26:38,400
Speaker 3: Oh, it's interesting.

541
00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:42,559
Speaker 1: I didn't realize that you are your job is to

542
00:26:42,599 --> 00:26:49,200
focus here and something that happens within your purview, not

543
00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:53,240
necessarily your call, not necessarily in my call. Yeah, wow,

544
00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:55,119
I see. Now that's something that I never know.

545
00:26:55,279 --> 00:26:57,440
Speaker 4: There you go, because the average people they got to

546
00:26:57,480 --> 00:26:57,759
know this.

547
00:26:57,920 --> 00:27:00,119
Speaker 1: Well, we would and we'd start pitching the guy I

548
00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:01,519
was right there. How does he not call it?

549
00:27:01,559 --> 00:27:03,279
Speaker 3: I could see it from here. What the fuck's wrong

550
00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:06,240
with that? Guys? Right, isn't that what it is? Yeah? Yeah?

551
00:27:06,279 --> 00:27:07,960
And do you get a lot of do you hear

552
00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:10,799
a lot of the complaints from the stands when you're

553
00:27:10,839 --> 00:27:11,240
doing a game.

554
00:27:11,759 --> 00:27:14,480
Speaker 4: So when I was doing high school, I my position,

555
00:27:14,559 --> 00:27:16,039
I was on the sideline, a little bit. So I

556
00:27:16,039 --> 00:27:18,720
would get flag from the fans or the coaches or

557
00:27:18,759 --> 00:27:21,400
the players, but I'd say the last decade, I've been

558
00:27:21,400 --> 00:27:23,480
in the middle of the field, so I don't really

559
00:27:23,559 --> 00:27:24,519
hear too much bullshit.

560
00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:28,039
Speaker 3: Okay, did you ever say anything to them.

561
00:27:27,799 --> 00:27:31,720
Speaker 4: All the players off air? I know we're on air,

562
00:27:32,359 --> 00:27:33,039
I've said stuff.

563
00:27:33,599 --> 00:27:35,279
Speaker 3: Well, no, here's why I say that.

564
00:27:35,519 --> 00:27:39,279
Speaker 1: My son played basketball and a guy I know was

565
00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:41,079
reffing one of their games, and all of a sudden

566
00:27:41,119 --> 00:27:44,960
he stopped and he's like, he threatened to throw an

567
00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:48,880
opposing fan out because they were getting they were chirping.

568
00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:50,799
I couldn't hear him from where I was, but that

569
00:27:50,799 --> 00:27:52,559
guy had just had it that day.

570
00:27:53,039 --> 00:27:55,920
Speaker 4: I've never done that, but I did toss the player

571
00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:58,160
out of the game because he called me racist. I

572
00:27:58,839 --> 00:28:01,240
remember he just got up. He said, you didn't call

573
00:28:01,279 --> 00:28:04,200
that penalty because you're a fucking racist. WHOA, Well, here

574
00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:06,759
you go and have a good one. And then the

575
00:28:06,799 --> 00:28:09,440
coach wanted an explanation, told him a lot of being

576
00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:10,240
a bad a boom.

577
00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:12,039
Speaker 3: Training that you have to go through all that kind

578
00:28:12,079 --> 00:28:13,279
of stuff. What do they do there?

579
00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:17,079
Speaker 4: Yeah, so in the summertime, it's about a six to

580
00:28:17,839 --> 00:28:22,119
ten week program once a night, twice a night for rookies,

581
00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:25,279
about two hours of class. You go through mechanics, you

582
00:28:25,319 --> 00:28:30,319
go through rules, you get test questions on field time.

583
00:28:31,079 --> 00:28:33,519
I know, back in the day we had a lot

584
00:28:33,519 --> 00:28:36,319
more officials, so you didn't go straight to varsity. You

585
00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:39,279
do jvan freshman your first two three years. But with

586
00:28:39,359 --> 00:28:42,400
the short of officials, you have first year guys going out.

587
00:28:42,519 --> 00:28:44,400
Speaker 3: But you don't do high school anymore.

588
00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:47,400
Speaker 4: No, I stopped doing college about six seven years ago.

589
00:28:47,519 --> 00:28:48,880
Speaker 3: How did you get the college gig?

590
00:28:49,599 --> 00:28:52,279
Speaker 4: College gig? They kind of have some kind of recruitment.

591
00:28:52,359 --> 00:28:56,160
You got to have somebody looking out for you. Somebody

592
00:28:56,200 --> 00:29:01,119
recommended my name, I had an interview and started doing

593
00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:03,039
college and here we are.

594
00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:07,839
Speaker 1: How to say this, every level that we talk about

595
00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:12,240
in football is that much faster. You watch D one

596
00:29:12,359 --> 00:29:15,680
games and they look really really fast. You go to

597
00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:18,640
the NFL and those guys are saying, oh my god.

598
00:29:18,599 --> 00:29:20,119
Speaker 4: You know, I can you know that's a good point.

599
00:29:20,200 --> 00:29:21,839
So like, one of the reasons why I quit high

600
00:29:21,839 --> 00:29:25,519
school is, you know, no offense to the two schools,

601
00:29:25,559 --> 00:29:28,799
but I had two country schools. I don't know, Batavia Leroy,

602
00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:31,240
And the night before I was at Cornell and it

603
00:29:31,359 --> 00:29:33,279
was sprint football, so everybody was a hundred and eight

604
00:29:34,599 --> 00:29:37,359
and they're flying all over the So I'm doing a

605
00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:39,920
high school game the next day and it's it's just

606
00:29:40,039 --> 00:29:42,160
slow as molasses, and I'm like, what am I doing?

607
00:29:42,559 --> 00:29:44,240
I don't want to do this anymore. It's not fun.

608
00:29:45,160 --> 00:29:49,640
So that was my last season. And yeah, but yeah,

609
00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:52,799
you can definitely tell the speed of the game. I

610
00:29:52,799 --> 00:29:55,200
don't think there's a huge difference. I've done a couple

611
00:29:55,200 --> 00:29:57,400
of Syracuse practices, a couple of you beat you have.

612
00:29:57,720 --> 00:29:59,599
Speaker 3: Yeah, those are D one.

613
00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:01,599
Speaker 4: Guys, just practices and scrimmages.

614
00:30:01,640 --> 00:30:03,519
Speaker 3: But do you want to be a D one ref

615
00:30:03,559 --> 00:30:03,720
You know?

616
00:30:03,839 --> 00:30:08,480
Speaker 4: At one point I did, But the time, commitment and

617
00:30:08,519 --> 00:30:12,039
the steps for me to go, yeah, I don't think

618
00:30:12,079 --> 00:30:13,119
I have an interest anymore.

619
00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:16,680
Speaker 1: All Right, we'll take a moment. Joe brought something up

620
00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:19,519
and we had somebody on the podcast on a regular

621
00:30:19,559 --> 00:30:23,480
basis for a little while who used to have suitors

622
00:30:23,559 --> 00:30:23,960
do this?

623
00:30:26,559 --> 00:30:27,920
Speaker 3: What are you making a face for it?

624
00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:30,480
Speaker 2: I'm wondering who what?

625
00:30:30,839 --> 00:30:34,319
Speaker 1: Well, I'll tell you and uh, but I wanted to

626
00:30:34,359 --> 00:30:40,799
see because there is a new thing that sexually transmitted

627
00:30:41,119 --> 00:30:47,680
infections don't necessarily have to come from penetration.

628
00:30:47,920 --> 00:30:59,359
Speaker 5: We'll get to it right after this.

629
00:30:59,359 --> 00:31:01,839
Speaker 1: This would be more eighty style, not your two thousand

630
00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:06,599
trivia style. What kind of questions do they ask the

631
00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:07,759
two thousands trivia?

632
00:31:07,960 --> 00:31:11,400
Speaker 2: I have no idea. Oh okay, it was like why

633
00:31:11,519 --> 00:31:12,759
two K trivia?

634
00:31:13,359 --> 00:31:15,119
Speaker 3: Y two k trivia? And it sold out?

635
00:31:15,359 --> 00:31:16,720
Speaker 2: It sold out?

636
00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:17,559
Speaker 1: I have.

637
00:31:17,839 --> 00:31:21,480
Speaker 2: So we have been on like this theme thing, and

638
00:31:21,559 --> 00:31:23,960
so when we saw two thousands of trivia, we're like, yes,

639
00:31:24,559 --> 00:31:29,279
but we want Matt to do a doop like night.

640
00:31:29,480 --> 00:31:33,039
Speaker 3: I saw this article today about Sti's and.

641
00:31:33,039 --> 00:31:35,559
Speaker 1: I thought it was sort of interesting, only because I

642
00:31:35,599 --> 00:31:38,240
remember when Stephanie would come in here. She was very

643
00:31:38,279 --> 00:31:41,079
adamant before being in the long term relationship that whoever

644
00:31:41,119 --> 00:31:43,000
she was going to be with had to be tested.

645
00:31:43,400 --> 00:31:45,839
And then one guy invited her to go away, and

646
00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:48,039
just before they were about to take off, he never

647
00:31:48,119 --> 00:31:50,400
got the test done and he started to ghost her.

648
00:31:50,440 --> 00:31:53,359
And you know, I guess that's telling you something, right.

649
00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:57,039
So I saw this thing, and it says that you

650
00:31:57,079 --> 00:32:01,400
can get it from skin to skin contact certain.

651
00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:04,519
Speaker 3: STIs, which ones, well.

652
00:32:04,359 --> 00:32:07,519
Speaker 1: They're saying oral sex, even share personal items like razors

653
00:32:07,559 --> 00:32:12,400
or needles could also spread infections. Syphilis, goneria, chlamydia, and

654
00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:15,839
herpes are among the STIs that could be transmitted through

655
00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:23,599
non penetrative means. Okay, syphilis, goneria, chlamydia, and herpes.

656
00:32:24,240 --> 00:32:28,319
Speaker 2: Is it sharing like a razor to like, shave your pubes?

657
00:32:29,240 --> 00:32:32,160
Speaker 1: I wonder if it's sharing, like I'll say this, I

658
00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:35,759
wonder if let's say, you grab his razor to shave

659
00:32:35,799 --> 00:32:36,519
your legs.

660
00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:39,240
Speaker 3: Don't tell him, but it was right there. It's just easier.

661
00:32:39,279 --> 00:32:41,160
Speaker 1: You're in a rush, and he comes in later and

662
00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:44,720
shaves his face and nicks it. And if there was

663
00:32:44,799 --> 00:32:48,400
something on you there, it is, you know what I mean,

664
00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:50,839
and you wouldn't even know it. Potentially, I think there's

665
00:32:50,839 --> 00:32:52,200
a lot of people who don't even know they have

666
00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:54,640
an STI I believe that. I think there's some that

667
00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:57,359
that people just carry. They're just carriers. They don't even

668
00:32:57,799 --> 00:32:58,839
and oh.

669
00:32:58,759 --> 00:33:01,599
Speaker 2: Never mind, you canna tell your story?

670
00:33:01,640 --> 00:33:04,079
Speaker 4: Oh should I tell my story? I'll tell a story.

671
00:33:04,119 --> 00:33:07,799
Speaker 3: I wasn't trying searching for something. Joe, you don't have

672
00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:08,759
to do it, buddy.

673
00:33:08,759 --> 00:33:11,000
Speaker 4: You know you totally use the keyword carrier. So I

674
00:33:11,079 --> 00:33:14,000
have to have to tell my story. I was on

675
00:33:14,039 --> 00:33:16,160
a couch taking a nap. This is probably eight nine

676
00:33:16,200 --> 00:33:19,160
years ago, and I woke up from a text message

677
00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:21,359
from a girl who told me that she just had

678
00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:23,680
her annual checkup. And I said, okay, you know blah

679
00:33:23,720 --> 00:33:25,920
blah blah. So I'm reading this text message and it

680
00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:29,039
said that she tested hot for commydia. Now this is

681
00:33:29,079 --> 00:33:32,680
the Friday before Easter. So I get this text message.

682
00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:35,400
I'm supposed to be at work in an hour. Twenty

683
00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:38,079
six minutes later, I'm at urgent Care and the doctor goes,

684
00:33:38,119 --> 00:33:40,559
what brings you here? I go this text message right here.

685
00:33:41,039 --> 00:33:43,559
Doctor starts laughing his ass off. He goes, you know,

686
00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:46,000
usually for men. I was, I would give you the test,

687
00:33:46,160 --> 00:33:48,799
but at this point I kind of believe you probably

688
00:33:48,839 --> 00:33:51,279
have it. So he just came back with two giant

689
00:33:51,279 --> 00:33:53,440
ass blue pills. He said, I got your Easter eggs

690
00:33:53,440 --> 00:33:55,640
for you. Told me to wrap it up. That was

691
00:33:55,680 --> 00:33:56,039
the day.

692
00:33:56,640 --> 00:33:59,599
Speaker 3: So she was a carrier, she had She was a carrier,

693
00:34:00,119 --> 00:34:00,640
no clue.

694
00:34:01,119 --> 00:34:05,720
Speaker 1: So he's saying that you so what it was chlamydia?

695
00:34:06,319 --> 00:34:09,239
And I don't know anything about these things enough. I

696
00:34:09,239 --> 00:34:11,199
would love to get an expert on to talk about this,

697
00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:14,360
because there's a way I'm gonna take this conversation in

698
00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:14,719
a second.

699
00:34:14,719 --> 00:34:17,199
Speaker 3: But my curiosity is I.

700
00:34:17,159 --> 00:34:18,840
Speaker 4: Had a symptom?

701
00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:20,000
Speaker 3: Are there always?

702
00:34:20,039 --> 00:34:20,159
Speaker 4: No?

703
00:34:20,239 --> 00:34:22,440
Speaker 3: But is it always? You know how like herpes is

704
00:34:22,440 --> 00:34:26,239
always with you? Like herpes can lay dormant's always. Is

705
00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:27,559
that the same with chlamydia?

706
00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:30,079
Speaker 4: I understand committee is like a cold.

707
00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:33,760
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, all right, so you were sneezing out your Yeah, yeah,

708
00:34:34,079 --> 00:34:34,880
did it burn.

709
00:34:36,920 --> 00:34:37,519
Speaker 4: My symptom?

710
00:34:37,559 --> 00:34:41,320
Speaker 2: That like the two that like you can get.

711
00:34:41,159 --> 00:34:43,039
Speaker 3: Over, you can get out of it, literally like you

712
00:34:43,159 --> 00:34:43,599
have it.

713
00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:50,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, we're going No. I was literally I was

714
00:34:50,800 --> 00:34:53,360
with my college friends. You were there but this past weekend,

715
00:34:53,639 --> 00:34:56,079
and we were like, how did we all escape from

716
00:34:56,320 --> 00:34:58,000
college without anything?

717
00:34:58,280 --> 00:34:58,599
Speaker 4: Okay?

718
00:34:58,639 --> 00:35:00,880
Speaker 2: And my one friend goes, well, you know I did

719
00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:01,519
have a baby.

720
00:35:01,679 --> 00:35:04,320
Speaker 3: I was like, yeah, but you won the price, none

721
00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:04,840
of us.

722
00:35:05,039 --> 00:35:06,400
Speaker 2: We never got anything.

723
00:35:07,960 --> 00:35:10,519
Speaker 1: I almost wonder, like, with the fact that this is

724
00:35:10,519 --> 00:35:12,960
out now right, we could just have it sexually turned.

725
00:35:13,079 --> 00:35:15,920
You could have somebody, you could have your partner cheating

726
00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:19,280
on you use his razor or her razor. You know

727
00:35:19,320 --> 00:35:21,880
what I'm saying, Like, there's all ways that shit can happen.

728
00:35:22,079 --> 00:35:25,400
I wonder if they need to teach sex ad differently.

729
00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:30,079
Speaker 2: I mean I think that when you're so young and

730
00:35:30,119 --> 00:35:32,519
you're learning about it, you sort of laugh it off.

731
00:35:32,719 --> 00:35:36,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, because because it's embarrassing, Yes, and it's something that

732
00:35:36,599 --> 00:35:39,480
your parents probably never talk to you about, so it's

733
00:35:39,480 --> 00:35:42,559
a little uncomfortable. And then you think, again, it's never

734
00:35:42,599 --> 00:35:44,719
gonna happen to me, Right, It's never gonna happen to me.

735
00:35:44,559 --> 00:35:48,119
Speaker 2: I mean I know someone an older person. Actually.

736
00:35:48,199 --> 00:35:50,239
Speaker 1: By the way, Joe, I'm sorry to interrupt. Was that

737
00:35:50,320 --> 00:35:51,599
a group text you received?

738
00:35:53,599 --> 00:35:53,800
Speaker 4: Oh?

739
00:35:53,840 --> 00:36:00,800
Speaker 3: No, plus people at the top.

740
00:36:05,639 --> 00:36:11,320
Speaker 2: Because the Karen too, I'm sorry.

741
00:36:11,639 --> 00:36:14,639
Speaker 1: I wanted to see After I read this, I go, okay,

742
00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:21,599
I need to know stats on contraceptor no contraception use

743
00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:24,400
because the skin to skin thing is scary. I still

744
00:36:24,440 --> 00:36:26,719
think it's going to be rare. I think most people

745
00:36:26,800 --> 00:36:29,639
were getting STIs are getting it from oral sex or

746
00:36:29,639 --> 00:36:32,440
some kind of penetration oral sex or or sex. So

747
00:36:32,559 --> 00:36:36,400
I went through and I wanted to see what specific

748
00:36:36,760 --> 00:36:40,960
statistics are for people like twenty five, because there's more people.

749
00:36:41,320 --> 00:36:45,800
I think now we're living longer, especially women. We hear

750
00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:49,280
about one of the hottest spots for sti's is the

751
00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:52,119
villages in Florida, Right, I mean, right, it could be,

752
00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:54,280
don't they have the different loofahs and stuff.

753
00:36:54,199 --> 00:36:55,840
Speaker 2: I Karen was just telling me her parents are going

754
00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:57,239
to buy a place on there.

755
00:36:59,760 --> 00:37:00,559
Speaker 3: So well they did.

756
00:37:00,679 --> 00:37:05,079
Speaker 1: I was looking through a twenty seventeen CDC report. Now

757
00:37:05,079 --> 00:37:07,280
we're going back. Believe it or not, it's close to

758
00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:10,920
ten years, right or seven years. Found that out among

759
00:37:11,159 --> 00:37:17,840
unmarried men ages thirty five to forty four. Okay, unmarried guys, yeah,

760
00:37:17,960 --> 00:37:21,159
who had sexual intercourse in the past three months, twenty

761
00:37:21,199 --> 00:37:24,199
five point eight percent reported using a condom during their

762
00:37:24,239 --> 00:37:27,760
last sexual encounter. Only twenty five point eight percent.

763
00:37:28,400 --> 00:37:29,480
Speaker 3: Well, because I just.

764
00:37:29,480 --> 00:37:33,280
Speaker 1: Don't think, I swear to God, I don't think as you.

765
00:37:33,280 --> 00:37:35,920
Speaker 2: Get older, you think, oh, I escaped my college years.

766
00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:37,239
I escaped my young years.

767
00:37:37,360 --> 00:37:39,960
Speaker 1: Yes, and I think that's where we're seeing the greater

768
00:37:40,119 --> 00:37:44,760
STI stuff, because that's it. And I think even women, right,

769
00:37:45,360 --> 00:37:48,719
you know, I mean I probably never told somebody, hey,

770
00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:52,239
you got to put a condom on. I'm not I'm

771
00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:54,360
not I'm not looking. I'm not looking. Why are we

772
00:37:54,400 --> 00:37:55,559
all laughing at? What did I do?

773
00:37:57,079 --> 00:37:57,519
Speaker 3: Did something?

774
00:37:57,559 --> 00:37:59,400
Speaker 4: You're going to go first, you can go fair, you

775
00:37:59,440 --> 00:38:00,199
can go first.

776
00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:03,039
Speaker 3: All right? You want to go at the same time, one, two, three,

777
00:38:03,239 --> 00:38:03,519
do it.

778
00:38:03,559 --> 00:38:05,519
Speaker 4: I don't believe in condoms. You don't believe in them either.

779
00:38:06,039 --> 00:38:08,719
Speaker 3: I'm not a car okay, right, because they don't feel

780
00:38:08,760 --> 00:38:09,119
as good?

781
00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:11,719
Speaker 2: No, I mean I did, I did use them.

782
00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:13,639
Speaker 3: Well, this is the moors.

783
00:38:13,760 --> 00:38:16,559
Speaker 2: But like if I was sleeping, sleeping with the same

784
00:38:16,599 --> 00:38:20,800
person consistently, fuck now, okay, can't make them go tested.

785
00:38:20,559 --> 00:38:22,559
Speaker 3: Right, and you didn't make them go get tested? Okay.

786
00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:26,440
Speaker 1: So these figures suggest that condom use decreases as men age. Yeah,

787
00:38:26,599 --> 00:38:30,599
particularly among those incommitted relationships, right, even if they're not

788
00:38:30,719 --> 00:38:34,320
married but committed. So then I wanted to see women

789
00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:38,159
over twenty five And a lot of the data for

790
00:38:38,199 --> 00:38:40,440
this stuff is really limited. You can't really find it.

791
00:38:40,519 --> 00:38:43,039
I mean, I'm not a research expert, but yeah, you know,

792
00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:46,639
there are tools we can all use now. So they

793
00:38:46,639 --> 00:38:49,159
have data from twenty seventeen to twenty nineteen. In the case,

794
00:38:49,159 --> 00:38:52,519
that's sixty five point three percent of women in the

795
00:38:52,599 --> 00:38:57,119
United States ages fifteen to forty nine were using contraception,

796
00:38:57,599 --> 00:38:59,280
which I believe is probably true.

797
00:38:59,320 --> 00:39:01,519
Speaker 3: And I guarante contraceptive.

798
00:39:01,840 --> 00:39:05,920
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, I'm not saying but we could throw a

799
00:39:05,960 --> 00:39:09,719
condom into contraception presenting pregnancy.

800
00:39:09,800 --> 00:39:12,280
Speaker 2: But is birth control contrast?

801
00:39:12,320 --> 00:39:14,599
Speaker 1: Yes, So there's two things that I took away from

802
00:39:14,599 --> 00:39:18,199
this one. The majority of this falls on a woman,

803
00:39:19,119 --> 00:39:20,000
and I don't think.

804
00:39:19,920 --> 00:39:21,480
Speaker 3: It's ever discussed. It just does.

805
00:39:21,719 --> 00:39:24,039
Speaker 1: And I think for guys, I don't like econdom. Yeah,

806
00:39:24,039 --> 00:39:25,440
I don't like the way it feels either. Don't worry

807
00:39:25,440 --> 00:39:27,599
about it. And so what else? What else is there

808
00:39:28,519 --> 00:39:30,719
for a dude right now? I mean I I they

809
00:39:30,960 --> 00:39:33,760
they haven't come up with a pill yet, right or anything? Okay,

810
00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:37,039
So therefore it falls on the woman, and that seems

811
00:39:37,039 --> 00:39:40,079
a little bit unfair if you, if you think about it.

812
00:39:40,079 --> 00:39:45,880
But according to contraceptive use, approximately sixty five point three

813
00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:50,440
percent of women in those age groups, twenty one percent

814
00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:59,239
of women age eighteen to ninety four. What ninety four? Yeah, yeah,

815
00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:02,079
it's a relative of Lauras from way way by.

816
00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:03,119
Speaker 3: Yeah it makes sense.

817
00:40:03,239 --> 00:40:06,039
Speaker 1: Yeah, great, great grandmother's still howling at the moon.

818
00:40:07,360 --> 00:40:07,840
Speaker 3: Yeah it does.

819
00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:10,079
Speaker 1: Say eighteen to ninety four reported using a condom during

820
00:40:10,079 --> 00:40:16,039
the most recent vaginal intercourse. Wow, but that's twenty one percent, yes,

821
00:40:16,119 --> 00:40:16,800
but still low.

822
00:40:17,039 --> 00:40:17,719
Speaker 3: It's still low.

823
00:40:18,639 --> 00:40:20,960
Speaker 2: I mean to gay men, you're not really worried about

824
00:40:21,039 --> 00:40:22,119
getting pregnant?

825
00:40:22,360 --> 00:40:24,880
Speaker 1: No, like Ece, but you should be worried about other

826
00:40:24,920 --> 00:40:29,400
things potentially potentially Yeah, and anybody should be is my point.

827
00:40:29,440 --> 00:40:31,760
But here, here's something that I did on the radio

828
00:40:31,920 --> 00:40:34,199
many many years ago, and it was something when I

829
00:40:34,239 --> 00:40:36,639
looked back on it, it always made me feel pretty

830
00:40:36,719 --> 00:40:37,760
bad for the person.

831
00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:40,519
Speaker 3: We had heard that people would go.

832
00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:44,400
Speaker 1: To area parks and if they backed in and they

833
00:40:44,440 --> 00:40:48,000
sat in their car, they were looking for a hookup.

834
00:40:48,559 --> 00:40:51,800
And it was the same sex hookup guys. So we

835
00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:55,000
decided that we wanted to see who was the hottest

836
00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:58,239
member of the morning show, and we went out and

837
00:40:58,280 --> 00:41:00,000
we timed who got hit on first?

838
00:41:01,079 --> 00:41:02,719
Speaker 2: Right, how many hours did it take it?

839
00:41:02,719 --> 00:41:05,320
Speaker 3: It didn't. It was quick for some people.

840
00:41:06,039 --> 00:41:11,239
Speaker 1: So the interesting thing was there was one guy who

841
00:41:11,280 --> 00:41:14,639
had backed in and an older gentleman just looks like

842
00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:18,760
the happy grandpa, happy grandpa. He comes and he's like hey,

843
00:41:19,880 --> 00:41:22,159
because he was backed in, and this guy backs in

844
00:41:22,199 --> 00:41:23,719
next to him and he goes, hey, how's it going.

845
00:41:23,760 --> 00:41:27,639
He goes hey, and he's like, uh, you want to

846
00:41:27,639 --> 00:41:29,559
take a walk in the woods, because that's what they

847
00:41:29,559 --> 00:41:31,480
would do. They would take a walk on these back paths.

848
00:41:31,480 --> 00:41:33,400
He wanted to take a walk in the woods and

849
00:41:33,760 --> 00:41:34,280
the guy.

850
00:41:34,119 --> 00:41:35,760
Speaker 3: Goes, no, I'm just waiting for my wife.

851
00:41:36,000 --> 00:41:38,320
Speaker 1: He goes, ah, I'm married, and the guy goes holds

852
00:41:38,400 --> 00:41:41,559
up his hand, he goes me too. He said me too,

853
00:41:41,880 --> 00:41:43,480
and he goes, Oh, my wife's coming down.

854
00:41:43,360 --> 00:41:45,079
Speaker 3: With the dogs. We're gonna walk through the park.

855
00:41:45,119 --> 00:41:47,559
Speaker 1: He goes, oh, okay, no problem. Now there was nothing

856
00:41:47,679 --> 00:41:50,920
rude about this at all. The man was not aggressive

857
00:41:51,039 --> 00:41:54,280
or anything. But honestly, God, when I thought about it, it

858
00:41:54,320 --> 00:41:56,760
made me. The only thing I can come up with

859
00:41:56,880 --> 00:42:01,519
is sad, and sad because this guy who was married

860
00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:05,039
was living a lie because society at that time was

861
00:42:05,159 --> 00:42:08,119
never going to accept this dude. He did not appear,

862
00:42:08,719 --> 00:42:12,599
as we would say, whatever, the stereotypical. Sometimes you can

863
00:42:12,639 --> 00:42:15,039
spot it. Some people like to be flamboyant, and that's

864
00:42:15,119 --> 00:42:17,719
just them. That wasn't this guy, right. He was a

865
00:42:17,760 --> 00:42:21,599
little more what we would say, like a guy. He's

866
00:42:21,639 --> 00:42:23,960
just a guy. And he was on the down loan

867
00:42:24,000 --> 00:42:26,599
and you think about the shit, all the shit you

868
00:42:26,599 --> 00:42:29,519
could bring home. You're just hooking up with some rando

869
00:42:29,639 --> 00:42:32,440
in the park. You know, they put on their best

870
00:42:32,440 --> 00:42:34,440
sweater that day, and you know what I'm saying, You

871
00:42:34,440 --> 00:42:36,880
know what I mean like their jeans were pressed.

872
00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:40,159
Speaker 3: I don't know, they look neat how yeah, you can't tell.

873
00:42:40,159 --> 00:42:42,119
Speaker 1: And I go, that's the stuff that I think is

874
00:42:42,119 --> 00:42:44,760
the most scary. And it made me feel terrible for

875
00:42:44,840 --> 00:42:47,639
this guy because I go, you know, he's lived his

876
00:42:47,880 --> 00:42:52,119
entire life never fully satisfied. Don't tell me that somewhere

877
00:42:52,119 --> 00:42:55,079
along the line his wife could pick up on something

878
00:42:55,239 --> 00:42:57,800
was missing. But you know, we're in a time where

879
00:42:57,840 --> 00:43:00,159
you stayed together, you had kids, you did this thing,

880
00:43:00,440 --> 00:43:03,199
and now here you are and the journey's almost over,

881
00:43:03,639 --> 00:43:05,840
and you're fucking some guy behind a bush in a

882
00:43:05,880 --> 00:43:09,400
park to be who you really are. I mean, I

883
00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:11,159
don't mean to put it in that bluntly, but I'm

884
00:43:11,199 --> 00:43:14,119
putting that bluntly. I honestly got to go, God, man,

885
00:43:14,199 --> 00:43:16,880
we fuck people up with these rules. Be who you

886
00:43:16,920 --> 00:43:19,239
want to be, because it isn't that long.

887
00:43:19,480 --> 00:43:20,440
Speaker 3: And who's getting hurt?

888
00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:24,559
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, I mean if he if you no, yes,

889
00:43:24,760 --> 00:43:27,840
in this situation, the current situation, yes, a lot of

890
00:43:27,880 --> 00:43:30,039
people are getting hurt, the wife, the kids, if they

891
00:43:30,079 --> 00:43:33,159
find out what's gonna go on, all the psychologicals. Yes,

892
00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:35,719
But if that guy could just be authentically himself, who's

893
00:43:35,719 --> 00:43:36,239
getting hurt.

894
00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:37,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, nobody.

895
00:43:37,840 --> 00:43:40,159
Speaker 2: Rene and I joke that we used to wish we

896
00:43:40,239 --> 00:43:42,760
would be lesbians together, were like our house would be

897
00:43:42,800 --> 00:43:45,159
so clean, like we would both be on top of shit,

898
00:43:45,440 --> 00:43:48,440
like you know, one of us would always be cooked.

899
00:43:48,480 --> 00:43:50,559
Speaker 3: Don't you need a little bit of the opposite somewhere

900
00:43:50,599 --> 00:43:53,599
along the line, like a little bit Well, yeah, somebody

901
00:43:53,599 --> 00:43:58,239
who's a little bit different slightly, Yeah, I mean yeah,

902
00:43:58,360 --> 00:43:58,760
I don't know.

903
00:43:59,239 --> 00:44:00,000
Speaker 2: I prefer man.

904
00:44:00,440 --> 00:44:04,199
Speaker 1: I know, I can tell, I can tell she wants

905
00:44:04,239 --> 00:44:05,519
two men once in a while.

906
00:44:06,599 --> 00:44:08,760
Speaker 3: No, I'm just saying there was the fantasy.

907
00:44:09,320 --> 00:44:15,239
Speaker 2: Fantasy like people watching, watching watching, Yes, why don't you

908
00:44:15,559 --> 00:44:16,480
to shut the windows?

909
00:44:16,519 --> 00:44:21,159
Speaker 3: Okay, fringe Fest next year, absolutely not. What are you

910
00:44:21,199 --> 00:44:23,360
talking about. It'll be an art thing.

911
00:44:23,679 --> 00:44:27,239
Speaker 1: We put you down at like the what's that square

912
00:44:27,679 --> 00:44:31,400
in downtown innovative Square, We put you there and then.

913
00:44:31,880 --> 00:44:32,800
Speaker 3: People get to watch.

914
00:44:34,719 --> 00:44:36,639
Speaker 4: We can polar bear.

915
00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:37,559
Speaker 3: What if we did?

916
00:44:38,039 --> 00:44:42,280
Speaker 1: What if we did like the two way glass, so

917
00:44:42,440 --> 00:44:46,159
you can't see out, you can't see out, but everybody

918
00:44:46,159 --> 00:44:46,760
else can see.

919
00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:49,679
Speaker 4: Eventually I'm gonna come out of that door and then

920
00:44:49,719 --> 00:44:50,840
everybody is gonna no.

921
00:44:50,960 --> 00:44:52,599
Speaker 3: The police have to get everybody away.

922
00:44:52,679 --> 00:44:54,519
Speaker 1: And then but that night you'd be at dinner and

923
00:44:54,559 --> 00:44:56,320
all of a sudden a couple of free drinks show up.

924
00:44:56,360 --> 00:45:00,760
Speaker 3: I mean that dude put on a show today. Best

925
00:45:00,760 --> 00:45:01,880
Friends rest ever?

926
00:45:02,639 --> 00:45:06,079
Speaker 4: Okay, just check it.

927
00:45:07,239 --> 00:45:10,760
Speaker 2: Just keep your options open, all right?

928
00:45:10,760 --> 00:45:15,639
Speaker 3: Worse trivia tonight? Grace, Oh the ice plex? No?

929
00:45:15,960 --> 00:45:19,760
Speaker 2: No, the one now you're sea Brace. Whole bunch of

930
00:45:19,760 --> 00:45:20,360
burn people.

931
00:45:20,559 --> 00:45:23,119
Speaker 3: Okay, burn people going to go drink.

932
00:45:22,880 --> 00:45:24,760
Speaker 2: Beer, have burgers, and then be at the gym in

933
00:45:24,800 --> 00:45:25,159
the morning.

934
00:45:26,079 --> 00:45:28,840
Speaker 1: See that's great, burn it off. Yeah, I gotta get

935
00:45:28,840 --> 00:45:29,519
that disappointment.

936
00:45:30,039 --> 00:45:33,559
Speaker 3: I gotta get Joe. Thank you for coming in and playing.

937
00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:34,119
Speaker 4: Thanks.

938
00:45:34,159 --> 00:45:36,840
Speaker 3: He was great. The NFL stuff was great. Your story

939
00:45:36,880 --> 00:45:38,880
about the carrier was fantastic.

940
00:45:39,360 --> 00:45:43,880
Speaker 1: You know the group text you received about it, and Laurie,

941
00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:45,679
you never disappoint ever.

942
00:45:46,480 --> 00:45:48,559
Speaker 3: I'm Bill Moran. We'll see you next week.

943
00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:56,119
Speaker 1: California Bay Fends of god Worth.

944
00:45:56,239 --> 00:45:58,760
Speaker 2: He's a land up opportunity for me, is just a

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curse make us feel at the way.

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Speaker 1: Yeahm