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Speaker 1: All right, Can I ask you a question why you
Speaker 1: don't ever play with my nipples? I got nipples too.
Speaker 1: It's my turn to get tied up knocking handcuffs though
Speaker 1: I got PTSD. Welcome the heartest offt where men speak.
Speaker 1: So hopefully somebody will understand when you say freaky, what's
Speaker 1: what's freaky?
Speaker 2: What?
Speaker 1: What do you mean by freaky? All Right? If I
Speaker 1: do this, you're not gonna tell your friends, right.
Speaker 3: You see, I see it's a little thing going on
Speaker 3: or talk or through aur me. She got to understand
Speaker 3: something normally can't go toping her thrower heard me.
Speaker 4: So my talk on her thrower start before I even enter.
Speaker 3: So when I pull that baby on out, she automatically like,
Speaker 3: I don't think I'm ready for that. It starts right there, baby,
Speaker 3: it's when you hit it with that little little baby
Speaker 3: like I got you.
Speaker 4: You eard me like, I ain't gonna hurt you. I'm
Speaker 4: just gonna make it feel good.
Speaker 3: Come a couple of times you eard me that's about it,
Speaker 3: Like I ain't here to hurt you.
Speaker 4: I'm here to make sure you straight.
Speaker 3: I'm'a here to celebrate you right out your eard me
Speaker 3: mm boom. You get in there, you start doing what
Speaker 3: you doing. I contact, I keep killing y'all. It's a
Speaker 3: mental thing when it come to women's If you got
Speaker 3: her mentor her body has no choice but to follow.
Speaker 3: So when you win there, motherfuckers just straight ill contact
Speaker 3: the whole time you ever you're looking at her, you
Speaker 3: feel me she got only about to come back to
Speaker 3: come hit her with it. She'll go ahead, baby, hear me,
Speaker 3: gon give me that motherfucker matter of fact, tightening walls
Speaker 3: up a little bit every me.
Speaker 2: Hold that motherfucker.
Speaker 4: You just stop moving, tell her to grip it.
Speaker 3: You just stop moving your herd me so you feel it,
Speaker 3: mother pucker about the bushy.
Speaker 4: Or you just wet you about that motherfucker real quick,
Speaker 4: yur me and just tell her give.
Speaker 1: Me another one.
Speaker 4: Come on, a little baby, I'll contact give me another one.
Speaker 3: Then you grab her throat, put your finger in your mouth.
Speaker 3: If you come down on a little bit and you
Speaker 3: just look at dad on her shit, ye me, mm,
Speaker 3: you tell her again, give me another? Ury me mm,
Speaker 3: come on, give me another one.
Speaker 2: If feel that water year man, yo, and you start.
Speaker 3: Grunting, nobody asks you, m give me another, a little baby, yes, me,
Speaker 3: give me another one. I swore to God give me
Speaker 3: a fucking another one. I want your whash with sixy
Speaker 3: mother fucker yured me give me some more.
Speaker 4: I know you got another one up in there.
Speaker 3: You eard me, come on, come on my feelings, Come
Speaker 3: on a little baby, Yeah yeah, got to your church.
Speaker 1: Yeah ye me. He hit it with that grun again.
Speaker 5: That grow.
Speaker 4: That's it, yell me, that's it. It's a muntral thing.
Speaker 3: If you got a muntal, a body hass no choice
Speaker 3: but to follow, then you can start telling her her
Speaker 3: pull and what to do. And when they come not
Speaker 3: to put it. That's when you're behen. You gotta lives
Speaker 3: on your shoulders and ship you here with that motherfucker like,
Speaker 3: go and squirt a little bit heavy. That motherfucker squirk.
Speaker 3: Hear me, gonna put that little cream. But I want
Speaker 3: the little white feeling them that motherfucker. But she's gonna
Speaker 3: put the cream on your of me. Now, you don't
Speaker 3: got the men her pull and has no choice.
Speaker 2: Little to follow.
Speaker 1: It's a little bird.
Speaker 4: She told your niggas got going on that ship.
Speaker 3: Don't worry that she worked for a simple minded female,
Speaker 3: but then them strong minded women.
Speaker 1: It's dead that you me what the.
Speaker 4: Test that you put?
Speaker 1: All right?
Speaker 5: He had me, But then when he started growling, that's
Speaker 5: when I was just like, I don't know if I
Speaker 5: like this. I didn't like it, but I want you
Speaker 5: to sound like that animal in the back of me.
Speaker 2: That's just for you, for me, because some people like
Speaker 2: what they call it that play.
Speaker 1: I can't remember, but there's a thing where people give
Speaker 1: off that animal ship and they even get to scratching
Speaker 1: and clawing and all of that barking.
Speaker 5: Yo, don't do it for me. Hell but that Nolan accent.
Speaker 1: You.
Speaker 5: I love Nolan. I love the way they talk down there.
Speaker 5: So he was talking through the I said.
Speaker 2: Yes, Yo, Loan, are you all right? What's wrong? So
Speaker 2: you're here play right, trying to like comprehend what's going on?
Speaker 2: You don't, You're not good with that. I thought that
Speaker 2: was first album Joe, what's the one that was in
Speaker 2: jail BG?
Speaker 1: That sounded like DJ?
Speaker 6: Thought that was b G.
Speaker 2: Sounds like one his niggas a year a little bit.
Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, this ship off? Why?
Speaker 7: Because what am I listening to?
Speaker 1: I'm pretty I'm pretty sure how they feel about the
Speaker 1: way we.
Speaker 7: Talked to We got a top five sexy accent in
Speaker 7: the world.
Speaker 2: We got voted for that.
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure most women like a southern accent. Focus
Speaker 1: is not part of me for saying this. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: say it the Bama like when you can't understand nothing
Speaker 1: the saying. But I'm sure the ladies out here have
Speaker 1: been vindicting them. Southern accents.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I I do.
Speaker 2: I do a calm Houston, but that what's a Houston accent?
Speaker 2: Beyonce trying to get like trying to get to roots.
Speaker 7: She started edge town like all that whatever, or like
Speaker 7: you sel like you like my man slim thug, my man.
Speaker 6: BOUI that was that was Row used to be like
Speaker 6: Bouce House.
Speaker 2: You never heard say that or big.
Speaker 1: What about the messaging is what he was saying though,
Speaker 1: Like you know, we we said that we was gonna
Speaker 1: people need to learn from ship that we talk about
Speaker 1: on the show. I think that the messaging and what
Speaker 1: he was saying was really powerful.
Speaker 5: Yeah, he said, once you got the woman's mind, her
Speaker 5: body's her body.
Speaker 1: Follows, talking to her, eye contact, dropping down the walls,
Speaker 1: the defenses to the point where she just can like
Speaker 1: breathe and relax and just enjoyed the moment. Those are
Speaker 1: really good messages.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, I feel like once a woman feels
Speaker 5: safe in the bedroom, like with you, with you, you
Speaker 5: got her. You literally got her once you're mentally have
Speaker 5: a safe space for her. But once you when you don't,
Speaker 5: you don't get the best version of her pussy.
Speaker 1: The best version of her pussy. Can we write that
Speaker 1: down especially, I'm gonna write that down like that today's
Speaker 1: today's title. I got it up that thing, best version
Speaker 1: of her pussy right there.
Speaker 2: I don't want yesterday's pussy.
Speaker 6: Whoa, hello, I don't want yo, man, I don't want
Speaker 6: the box.
Speaker 2: Yesterday. Be using that voice?
Speaker 1: Voice?
Speaker 2: You have that one right there?
Speaker 1: Your your voice, Like women talk about your voice all
Speaker 1: the time. Do you use your voice a lot when
Speaker 1: it comes to sex?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure. Give me a version of what would
Speaker 1: you be saying to them? It is.
Speaker 6: It depends on the moment, but I definitely drop a
Speaker 6: I missed you in there. I missed this pussy.
Speaker 2: You're a basic thing. Take this dick. You missed this dick?
Speaker 2: I mean better? That's good?
Speaker 8: Yeah, okay, so good?
Speaker 2: So I had I remember I had this one joint
Speaker 2: one time. By the way, don't be playing your sex
Speaker 2: tapes on the show. What was it for? Next thing?
Speaker 2: I hears? Yeah, what is this forgot?
Speaker 7: What was talking about?
Speaker 2: Damn?
Speaker 7: What was the reason that I brought it? I think
Speaker 7: was talking about queen and or some ship. Yeah, but
Speaker 7: it's one time I was boning one check.
Speaker 1: Boning from the nineties nigga from the nineties nineties. Oh
Speaker 1: my god, christ I.
Speaker 2: Was bowing this one broad.
Speaker 7: Say broad, it's freaking good fellas. But now it was
Speaker 7: me and his chicken was having was doing our thing,
Speaker 7: and I was like, she always would like me screaming
Speaker 7: the show. I was like, yo, look, I don't want
Speaker 7: to hear ship for the next couple of minutes. If
Speaker 7: that ship hurt, you feel you got a whole ls ship.
Speaker 2: It looks like it was in that long ago. And
Speaker 2: I'm in there.
Speaker 7: And she tried her best, like hold it down and
Speaker 7: keep quiet and ship like that. Whatever we're going, we're going.
Speaker 7: And then you gotta get her to a point where
Speaker 7: she can't control it no more. Then she just burst
Speaker 7: that ship out. And now she over here screaming, she's
Speaker 7: going off, going crazy. I was like, that's how you
Speaker 7: can make noise, go back to being quiet.
Speaker 2: I said, all you can let it out now, and
Speaker 2: then she started balling all that ship. It was.
Speaker 1: It was.
Speaker 2: It was good.
Speaker 5: It was a good little plus, I can see that
Speaker 5: good little play. I can see that. At first I
Speaker 5: was just like, but then I can see it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, telling her not to make no noise, though, that's
Speaker 1: an interesting play when you're trying to get her relaxed.
Speaker 2: I mean, I guess, listen, don't know.
Speaker 5: I feel like if I want to relax, it depends
Speaker 5: on what type of mood I'm in, right Like, So
Speaker 5: if I'm in like, if I'm in my very submissive
Speaker 5: if I if I'm in my very submissive role, then
Speaker 5: I would want someone to say that to me. But
Speaker 5: if I just want to just really enjoy and just relax,
Speaker 5: I don't want to. I don't want nobody telling me
Speaker 5: not to make noise.
Speaker 1: But I feel like there's different plays that might just
Speaker 1: been the play he was running that day, right that
Speaker 1: just that day. Other times you could be like, yo,
Speaker 1: I want to hear you, breathe through it, talk to me,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, And that's just a different
Speaker 1: play for the day.
Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: One thing is I think that being spontaneous as long
Speaker 1: as within with within the person's boundaries, that's fire.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. This is why we're the diction.
Speaker 2: So what what?
Speaker 1: What?
Speaker 5: Oh the diction?
Speaker 2: You come out? You got the diction on Yeah, people
Speaker 2: weren't expecting this. Would you ever use a diction? No?
Speaker 1: Why not?
Speaker 2: Because I don't want to?
Speaker 5: Why because it's a diesel strap to your face? Yes,
Speaker 5: masculinity beating you'll ass Yeah, I don't give a fuck.
Speaker 1: So for me to you know why, I try to
Speaker 1: use it because my wrists be hurt when I'm eating
Speaker 1: and trying to plug at the same time. When I'm
Speaker 1: down there and I'm like this, my wrist, it feels
Speaker 1: like carpal tunnel.
Speaker 2: Bro, I'm trying to I'm down there like this. So
Speaker 2: if you just put the ship.
Speaker 1: On your chin and you get in there and you're
Speaker 1: just moving, it's hitting the same fucking thing without you having.
Speaker 2: To do all that.
Speaker 6: So you got a diction because you're disabled. Yes, I
Speaker 6: respect it.
Speaker 1: I have old bones.
Speaker 2: I respect it.
Speaker 1: I don't want to be I have to use these
Speaker 1: to work. I don't want to get get out for
Speaker 1: you gotta get out.
Speaker 6: I respect that.
Speaker 2: On all jokes aside, what what was you what to say?
Speaker 2: Disabled pussy?
Speaker 5: No, I was gonna like I hate to do this,
Speaker 5: but it was such a good, good segue. But why
Speaker 5: with men, y'all don't push your sexual boundaries?
Speaker 9: Right?
Speaker 8: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Like when you want to push your boundaries, it's seen.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because you get judged for that. You can't just
Speaker 2: pop out with a diction.
Speaker 1: On every chick chicken look at you like, oh no, no, why.
Speaker 5: Is as a man? What what are some things y'all
Speaker 5: do in order to explore your kings? Because we're pretty
Speaker 5: kinky on here. But what did you guys do to
Speaker 5: explore that? Because if you are worried about being judged?
Speaker 5: How how are we? How did we get here?
Speaker 2: Who said about being judged?
Speaker 1: Most men are? This is a different space. You was
Speaker 1: not as open we're talking about this ship. When you
Speaker 1: first started the show. You was looking at me like
Speaker 1: I was crazy you still so. It's once you get
Speaker 1: comfortable within yourself, you stop worried about what other people think.
Speaker 1: To me, that's what happens. Yesterday came on the show
Speaker 1: that nigg wouldn't talk about none of this ship. Now
Speaker 1: this nigga like, yes, be on the dick. You see
Speaker 1: what he just said ten minays ago.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: When he first came on the show. It's like bro
Speaker 1: what and then his friends do? You got to think
Speaker 1: about what the people that's around him in his little community.
Speaker 2: You're thinking about what they're gonna say. You don't want
Speaker 2: to be the freaky Zeke and your you know what
Speaker 2: I mean.
Speaker 7: Talking about Spider Man and ship.
Speaker 2: So we're gonna talk about that fact. Oh, we're gonna
Speaker 2: talk about that.
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Speaker 2: Yesterday.
Speaker 1: You're good.
Speaker 2: I'm good, You're good. Yeah, I'm excellent.
Speaker 5: So you didn't answer my question?
Speaker 8: Oh you did?
Speaker 2: You said, you said the question again? Cart you said,
Speaker 2: what do men do?
Speaker 5: I said, what do you do to push your explore yours?
Speaker 6: I think that's I think part of I think part
Speaker 6: of the like these types of communities are important because
Speaker 6: I think, like I was telling you before, like I
Speaker 6: think that that even as a space to do that
Speaker 6: or a form to do that, I think is taboo.
Speaker 6: Like as men, especially as black men, we don't even
Speaker 6: there's no place for us to do that, you know
Speaker 6: what I'm saying, there's no place for us to really
Speaker 6: discuss or practice. Like how so Less was saying last
Speaker 6: week about practicing and doing some stuff in real time.
Speaker 6: There's no place for us to really do that. So
Speaker 6: everything is really coming in real time in a situation,
Speaker 6: or it's coming via something that we watch, you know
Speaker 6: what I'm saying, but there's no actual place to actually
Speaker 6: flesh it out. You know, pros cons you know, and
Speaker 6: really explore and not be judged or looked at a
Speaker 6: certain way.
Speaker 5: So how do you find out what the what you said?
Speaker 5: Explore and play right? And you have to I'm sure
Speaker 5: you're doing this with women. How do you guys know
Speaker 5: when it's the right woman to actually explore these kings?
Speaker 2: Are you with this?
Speaker 1: No? You no, no, no, not at all.
Speaker 5: Because there's kinks that I have I would from sex
Speaker 5: sexual partners I have. I would never try these kinks
Speaker 5: with them. But it took the right person for me
Speaker 5: to be like, ah, I'm doing this with you.
Speaker 1: So what happened? You tell us what happened in that
Speaker 1: situation where you knew that it was okay to push
Speaker 1: sexual boundaries.
Speaker 2: That's a good question.
Speaker 5: That is a good question. I think for me it
Speaker 5: was how safe they made me feel outside of sexual
Speaker 5: just like in general, you make me feel safe and
Speaker 5: that we can literally talk about everything, and you know,
Speaker 5: I have this platform, and you didn't just jump right
Speaker 5: into talking about sex, right. We ease our way into it,
Speaker 5: and then you know, you answer some questions I have,
Speaker 5: you know, and I like the way I hear or hear.
Speaker 5: I like the answers, and it doesn't feel judged. It
Speaker 5: doesn't feel like I don't know about that. And that's
Speaker 5: what makes me want to say, Okay, I'm gonna try
Speaker 5: this kink with you.
Speaker 7: I feel like for me, I don't want to see
Speaker 7: I want to be honest. I never really was like
Speaker 7: it's super tied down like as other guys were, Like
Speaker 7: I didn't really for a while, I didn't really give
Speaker 7: it like since I was young, I didn't really give
Speaker 7: a fuck too too much, like I was eating pussy
Speaker 7: since it's like before that shit was like popping for real,
Speaker 7: because that's just what I was into.
Speaker 2: So I guess for me, so like what Tayo said
Speaker 2: when he.
Speaker 7: Was like, yo, you wasn't like this when you first
Speaker 7: got on here, I feel I was more of a
Speaker 7: guy like I wasn't like this because I ain't know
Speaker 7: about certain shit, But once I like find out about
Speaker 7: certain shit, I was always like yo, I would do that.
Speaker 7: I will fuck with this don the third blah blah
Speaker 7: blah and a reference to like you know what you said,
Speaker 7: or like finding the right partner. So for me, in
Speaker 7: order for me to be comfortable with you sexual, I
Speaker 7: gotta be comor.
Speaker 2: With you outside of the bedroom.
Speaker 1: You know what I mean.
Speaker 7: It's like to say you have like you have, like
Speaker 7: had somebody that was really cool. I don't talk about
Speaker 7: anything like you know it's certain shit you probably never
Speaker 7: told nobody, but you told them. It's the same thing
Speaker 7: with like sex, you know what I mean, Like you
Speaker 7: kind of got to create the atmosphere for me to
Speaker 7: even want to be open to have these kind of
Speaker 7: conversations with you first, because there's always a conversation. I'm
Speaker 7: not going to say you trying to eat some mess,
Speaker 7: So it's a conversation first.
Speaker 2: You know what I mean.
Speaker 7: I gonna see how you react to with might drop
Speaker 7: a breadcrumbs if you pick it up, and then hopefully
Speaker 7: I will translate into like a more intimate kind of conversation.
Speaker 7: So for me, before I get super there with you sexually,
Speaker 7: I gotta be there with you mentally, like intimate. I
Speaker 7: gotta make sure that we're good because they ain't gonna
Speaker 7: put me in a group chat or for knees, bark
Speaker 7: on the dog and shit.
Speaker 1: Well, I think, yo, that might be wrong. I might
Speaker 1: be wrong. I'm not sure. It's just coming off the top.
Speaker 1: Sexual exploration starts with men.
Speaker 2: Okay, women tend to.
Speaker 1: Meet a guy where he's at.
Speaker 5: That's very true, because I will dumb down my king
Speaker 5: if that guy is not there with me.
Speaker 1: Yes, So I think that women are way more open
Speaker 1: to a lot more shit than what men are open
Speaker 1: to generally, you know what I'm saying. And there's really
Speaker 1: only one place, one thing. That butthole opens the door
Speaker 1: to a lot of shit.
Speaker 7: No punt attended.
Speaker 2: That butthole opens the door to a lot of shit.
Speaker 1: So if a guy isn't super I think that that's
Speaker 1: the button a woman can press, if she could even
Speaker 1: play you know what I mean?
Speaker 6: Right, How do we even get back there? You just
Speaker 6: can I piggyback off that last week we had. We
Speaker 6: was having a conversation and I think you said the
Speaker 6: butthole shit is funny, But I think women that's funny.
Speaker 6: But I think it's more acceptable for women to teeter
Speaker 6: the line of the sexuality than men. So I think
Speaker 6: that what you're saying right there is the is the
Speaker 6: crux of what a lot of this lack of exploration.
Speaker 2: And I think honestly the world knows that, especially.
Speaker 1: In the black community, you had horrible decisions that was
Speaker 1: out for years. It was cool everything they talked about
Speaker 1: until the one was talking about Peggan. Then they're like, oh, nah, nah,
Speaker 1: not that butthole, that button, butthole.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, That butthole button. It always
Speaker 2: turns you know those guys.
Speaker 1: It's interfregging shit, or isn't if you press the buttthole
Speaker 1: button and whoever's left standing in the room. Just because
Speaker 1: we're talking about it, don't mean I got to be
Speaker 1: super scared and all that. Right you had that you
Speaker 1: had all of these shows that catered to the LGBT community,
Speaker 1: that catered to women. You had lingerie parties, you had
Speaker 1: toy parties with women. There was all of these different
Speaker 1: avenues for them to say, I'm sexy, I want to
Speaker 1: be sexy.
Speaker 2: Where did we get that? We don't.
Speaker 1: There was the two things that I think that separates
Speaker 1: men when it comes to sexual exploration, fucking and pleasure.
Speaker 1: A lot of men are not open to pleasure or
Speaker 1: to giving pleasure. They just want to fuck. It is
Speaker 1: a completely different look at the way you view a
Speaker 1: sexual experience. One is fucking, yep, one is pleasure. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying That Even a dude that want
Speaker 1: to eat plusy a lot, that's a whole different nigga
Speaker 1: than a nigga that just want.
Speaker 5: To Let's talk about the man who just want to
Speaker 5: eat pussy. You know what I'm saying, Those type of
Speaker 5: different animals, it's open.
Speaker 2: To giving pleasure.
Speaker 1: Those type of niggas is open to different things because
Speaker 1: they're more about a shared experience.
Speaker 5: Whereas fucking it's like I'm just getting.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So I think that's one of the things where you
Speaker 1: can sell a man is into giving pleasure or experience
Speaker 1: pleasure versus just fucking. I think that's the thing.
Speaker 7: I feel that I feel like that sho also like
Speaker 7: translates even like outside of the bedroom, Like when you're
Speaker 7: in a relation where you fuck with somebody, It's like, Yo,
Speaker 7: if a guy a guy fuck with you, he's gonna
Speaker 7: make sure he sets an atmosphere where you can like flourish.
Speaker 7: He gonna try to make himself an asset to your
Speaker 7: life somehow. Someway you sit, you want some wan time
Speaker 7: soup niggas like you're gonna try to make your presence
Speaker 7: be felt. And I feel like those are the kind
Speaker 7: of people that you would actually want in like the bedroom.
Speaker 7: You know, like, what's the equivalent to giving a sick
Speaker 7: person one time soup? Sexually, I don't know, you want
Speaker 7: to get your pussy sideways upside that, you know, you
Speaker 7: know what I mean? So I kind of feel like
Speaker 7: you gotta really see it, you gotta kind of really
Speaker 7: real while a lot of really fuck with people that
Speaker 7: you feel got your best interest at heart, you know
Speaker 7: what I mean outside the bedroom, because that shoud transit
Speaker 7: inside the bedroom, for That's what I mean. Like it's
Speaker 7: about my birthday, at your birthday, That's why. Yeah, it's
Speaker 7: people that experiences, people that I honestly like that. It's
Speaker 7: a privilege for you to fuck with me. You fucking
Speaker 7: me is a privilege. A lot of guys are like that.
Speaker 1: Now I'm over the course of the last month, Yo,
Speaker 1: shout out to this room, shout out to this fucking room.
Speaker 1: I wanted I do want to say we're back in
Speaker 1: the studio me Loon Courtney yesterday. Shout out to the
Speaker 1: whole team, the hardest soft team for holding it down.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I went through a period.
Speaker 1: Shout out to Atlanta, shout out to Nashville. I know
Speaker 1: y'all looking at your screen, it's.
Speaker 6: Like these motherfuckers.
Speaker 1: Sorry, Bro, I was overheating. Yeah, literally in time, in
Speaker 1: real time. I was overheating for years for a while.
Speaker 1: This wasn't just when my grandma parent. It was a
Speaker 1: build up. I was having, just having just way too
Speaker 1: much on my plate, way too much going on. I
Speaker 1: want to say I apologize to Nashville and Atlanta. We're
Speaker 1: going to get you back. But to the room, Bro,
Speaker 1: I didn't know what tomorrow was going to look like
Speaker 1: when it came to the show. There were several conversations
Speaker 1: that we had and here several moves that were very affirming,
Speaker 1: right because I was like, I don't know what we're
Speaker 1: gonna do. Recording is just canceled for a while. I
Speaker 1: think I said, recording is for the foreseeable future. I'm
Speaker 1: not sure what the show looks like. And Little Hitman
Speaker 1: was like, well, I want to give you that space. Bro,
Speaker 1: you got a lot going on. You've had a lot
Speaker 1: going on, and as a friend, I want to give
Speaker 1: you time to do that. What would you say to
Speaker 1: me Courtney doing our things while he was going I
Speaker 1: think that moment started healing on my side.
Speaker 2: I don't know if you know.
Speaker 1: That that moment, the fact that you was willing to
Speaker 1: do that now, the only thing I did it like
Speaker 1: y'all y'all had your own group chat.
Speaker 2: I was like, man, I can't see what's going on.
Speaker 1: We didn't want to.
Speaker 5: Bother you all that ship.
Speaker 2: You don't want to be you want.
Speaker 1: How you as matter of fact, how do you do
Speaker 1: know what?
Speaker 5: How don't you know about that we had yesterday?
Speaker 1: I didn't know it was a secret, nigga, he's not
Speaker 1: in the chat. Y'all had to be communicating somehow. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but other than that home because yesterday's going under the bus.
Speaker 2: In the second.
Speaker 1: What did you say?
Speaker 2: You didn't want to disturb me? Jerking off?
Speaker 1: That's what you said, because you do that time to me, Bro,
Speaker 1: the man says we're supposed to record at six o'clock today.
Speaker 1: We're laughing at Go ahead, man, I said, Bro, don't
Speaker 1: come right now, He's at four o'clock.
Speaker 2: He's like, I'm on my way.
Speaker 1: Wo god, what are you doing? I said, I'm a
Speaker 1: little quote unquote busy. Nigga said, Yo, Bro, I'm coming
Speaker 1: right now. I'm going home. I'm not and I'm not
Speaker 1: coming back out. Oh my god.
Speaker 2: I'm like, bro, I'm handling.
Speaker 1: Me time, like, give me, give me a few What
Speaker 1: this nigga says to me? Yo, this is what I'm
Speaker 1: talking about. I hate niggas. Why would you do that?
Speaker 1: I said, Nigga can't jerk his dicking peace in his
Speaker 1: own crip. I see what's going on. He said, Are
Speaker 1: you okay? I'm not sitting on this stoo? I said, Yo,
Speaker 1: just chill outside. It was a nice day. The smoke
Speaker 1: weight anyway, I'm not sitting on the stoop. And why
Speaker 1: would you wait this late to do that? Like jerking
Speaker 1: off mid day is crazy? Sun is shining like a bitch.
Speaker 1: You in their sweaty hands and ship watching dirty videos.
Speaker 1: Didn't want a pod like nothing, yo, yesterday not.
Speaker 7: I ain't gonna lie you got it out of pocket.
Speaker 5: There was a there was a sense of entitlement there.
Speaker 1: To me back twenty something minutes later, talking about you're
Speaker 1: still playing hide the salami, Hide the salami.
Speaker 8: Bro.
Speaker 2: First first, Corny is already about half dead, about to kill.
Speaker 1: Off course, I am trying to enjoy myself. My dick
Speaker 1: is in my hand, my phone is in my other hand.
Speaker 1: This nigga is texting me beating me in the video. Yo,
Speaker 1: my dick was soft. I had a soft jerk, had
Speaker 1: a soft explosion.
Speaker 2: It was soft launch Like what you be? What are
Speaker 2: you bothering me for?
Speaker 1: I don't want to be communicating with you.
Speaker 5: No, Honestly, when people interrupt your masturbation, that should be
Speaker 5: so bad. I'm like, bro, I can't even get back
Speaker 5: into it anymore.
Speaker 7: My phone dn D because I just never what I
Speaker 7: want to whip it out and get right.
Speaker 5: Do me that?
Speaker 1: What is wrong with you? You know? You know you don't
Speaker 1: have self processes, You don't have body processes. You don't
Speaker 1: do You don't go in with the moment.
Speaker 6: You pay bills in this house too. That's the crazy
Speaker 6: the bills here.
Speaker 8: What's your problem?
Speaker 1: Well?
Speaker 6: I was getting off work as usual, and as I
Speaker 6: always do, I say, yo, big dog, and on the way,
Speaker 6: you fee me get there early? He like, yo, two
Speaker 6: hours listen, I have to pass your crib to go
Speaker 6: to my crib. There's no equation where I'm going to
Speaker 6: my crib and then coming back here.
Speaker 7: You could have wear a beef patty or something.
Speaker 2: Bro. Let me tell you what I did.
Speaker 6: I was on the bus when I text him, so
Speaker 6: he's like, yo, I'm trying to beat off. I said,
Speaker 6: you know what, I'm gonna get off the bus and
Speaker 6: I'm gonna walk give him some time. So I killed
Speaker 6: like a good thirty minutes. I could have got here.
Speaker 6: I could have got here literally in like twenty minutes,
Speaker 6: but I ft me, shaved some time off, gave him
Speaker 6: some time, so I got here like four forty ish.
Speaker 6: I'm like, yo, beating off for forty minutes is crazy.
Speaker 6: This was at four o'clock. I text them.
Speaker 1: If you're not that, it wouldn't have been forty minutes.
Speaker 1: If you wasn't texting me the whole fucking time I
Speaker 1: was in my groove, then you got the keys. I
Speaker 1: don't want you walking into my shit, hitting the ceiling.
Speaker 1: I was trying to expect for you. Wait, why catching straights?
Speaker 1: I did hit the ceiling.
Speaker 7: I got a question for you guys before we go, right,
Speaker 7: so you know I had to change my number.
Speaker 2: Talk about that in the second so.
Speaker 7: I So what I did was I wrote in the chat, hey, y'all,
Speaker 7: I changed my number. Nobody responded, but I'm like, all right, cool,
Speaker 7: who the fuck this is? So now I got a
Speaker 7: whole new phone.
Speaker 2: Feel me. I'm signed out.
Speaker 7: Of everything, literally everything. So I go to upload the video.
Speaker 7: I try to write the video from the nights before.
Speaker 7: So I go and I'm like, Ship signed out of
Speaker 7: the Google drive and I'm like, Ship sign out of
Speaker 7: the email too, So I text her like, yo, so
Speaker 7: I need the passwords out of the third et cetera.
Speaker 2: Try to blah blah blah. You don't know who the
Speaker 2: fuck I am, like, nigg Who the fuck is this
Speaker 2: niggas loaning?
Speaker 7: Then you'll prove it.
Speaker 2: I'm like what I said, Call called him? You got
Speaker 2: you gotta call I don't. I'm not trusting new texts.
Speaker 7: I call him my number.
Speaker 2: Do look crazy? Scammers is bugging now?
Speaker 7: And I answer and I verified that it was megation.
Speaker 6: With a signature thing that only I would say that
Speaker 6: you would know.
Speaker 2: So with that being.
Speaker 7: Said, I want to ask you, guys, what's one signature
Speaker 7: thing about you sexually? That's somebody who really really fuck.
Speaker 2: With you would definitely know. I'll give you an example.
Speaker 7: Everybody know what me Nicholas, I like them nipples lick
Speaker 7: you fuck with me for real? You know that's my ship?
Speaker 7: What is your signature ship?
Speaker 2: For real? What is your red? What is your red?
Speaker 2: Lobster biscuit?
Speaker 1: Affirmation? Everybody know Courtney, it's affirmation, right, you gotta talk
Speaker 1: it through it.
Speaker 5: Praise or degredation.
Speaker 2: Doesn't matter, not the flip side of the corn.
Speaker 5: I'm both Oh, that's my thing.
Speaker 6: That's kind of not by affirmation.
Speaker 1: I don't want to say eating my ass because it's
Speaker 1: not that deep. I just be talking.
Speaker 2: That is not that deep, right, said he said? He said, yo,
Speaker 2: he said, I want to as because it's not that.
Speaker 1: Then asked me that what is wrong? You're too comfortable?
Speaker 1: This is comfortable and it's too comfortable.
Speaker 5: I just want to clarification, bro, why do you have
Speaker 5: an issue? Yesterday and loun are too comfortable with you?
Speaker 2: What's wrong with them?
Speaker 5: Yesterday did was nuts and what he just said was crazy?
Speaker 7: Want to clarification.
Speaker 8: What do you do?
Speaker 5: This man interrupted this man's uh jerk off session.
Speaker 1: You know that's just me time, So.
Speaker 8: You do it in the morning.
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. He waited until four in the afternoon.
Speaker 5: Because he sometimes you just get the urge.
Speaker 7: He's trying to say, you know, your beat off schedule.
Speaker 7: He was moving kind of unusual, that's what That's what.
Speaker 1: He's really Sometimes you gotta shift up, he's saying.
Speaker 7: You gotta let him know.
Speaker 2: Though, why do I exactly why do I need to
Speaker 2: alert you?
Speaker 7: That's compensations, say't work hours.
Speaker 1: You're coming into family time, family hours, no company right now?
Speaker 2: That office hours with big grad hour from nine to five.
Speaker 2: Nuts the hell?
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, I have a question.
Speaker 6: What were you about to finish the signature? I had
Speaker 6: a signature, Yeah, a signature for me. I think I
Speaker 6: think anybody that does me knows that. For like I
Speaker 6: told you before the massage, the w D forty on
Speaker 6: the back, Yep, it's like a It's like it's like
Speaker 6: a character that you could unlock. Basically, it's like I
Speaker 6: can be one way. Then as soon as you do that,
Speaker 6: it's like it's like a whole new thing.
Speaker 5: So someone has to give you the w D forty
Speaker 5: oil and then you lower back just need a little
Speaker 5: What does become Spider Man.
Speaker 2: What does she put some.
Speaker 7: So the ice not determined? If Lebron James grand Hill.
Speaker 1: Tell you not Detroit speaking of what yesterday just said? Right, yeah,
Speaker 1: I want to be uh. I want to get the
Speaker 1: ship fucked out of me too as a man, what
Speaker 1: do you mean? I want to be turned up to.
Speaker 1: I want the woman to turn me out too. I
Speaker 1: want to be slutted out too, like women want to
Speaker 1: be slutted out so much, and y'all don't realize that
Speaker 1: y'all could slut us out too, exactly. What's up with
Speaker 1: the ladies that lay you down to put the ship
Speaker 1: on your on your body like that turn you over?
Speaker 1: Talk to you like Homeboy was talking in the videos.
Speaker 1: What's up with the ladies that suck your ship? Tie
Speaker 1: your hands behind your back? Don't move, bro, don't move.
Speaker 1: I want to see this ship squirt nigga, I want yo?
Speaker 1: What's up with the ladies that fuck you lean? You
Speaker 1: leave you laying in your own juices? What's up with
Speaker 1: that young lady? Man? Ma'am can't hit the bell? What no, no, no,
Speaker 1: you on pocket?
Speaker 2: What's up yo? Bro?
Speaker 1: I want to be slotted out too? For the majority
Speaker 1: of my life and sexual relationship. I've got to give
Speaker 1: seven hundred and fifty pumps, admit it. I gotta be
Speaker 1: locating G spots, A spots spots. I gotta be putting
Speaker 1: fingers all in mouths and spitting in your ship.
Speaker 2: Choke you by the throat? What's up with?
Speaker 1: When am I getting the same bro experience?
Speaker 2: This is what I'm talking about. When am I getting
Speaker 2: the same experience?
Speaker 1: What why you look disgusted?
Speaker 8: I'm not disgusting.
Speaker 5: I'm just like, all right, bro, this you're very passionate about.
Speaker 1: I heard the.
Speaker 6: TD Jakes where you freaky Jakes for really Yeah.
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, that's my.
Speaker 5: Passionate about this.
Speaker 1: But ladies, what's the last time you've been slitted out? Oh?
Speaker 1: She well my lady. My lady does the thing. But
Speaker 1: we was talking about it, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: And I'm like, yo, fraud, tell about ladies.
Speaker 5: He's been being slitted out?
Speaker 2: Well, I got him, we got it, We do God.
Speaker 2: But I'm also not gonna get on here and be like, yo,
Speaker 2: she don't do ship.
Speaker 5: To me.
Speaker 2: I gotta go home.
Speaker 1: But at the end of the day is we were
Speaker 1: having that conversation and I was like, I call, I
Speaker 1: put the toys on the bed and I do this
Speaker 1: and talk to you.
Speaker 2: I'm like that too.
Speaker 5: So then here's my question so people can know what
Speaker 5: this is, because you're talking about.
Speaker 8: I gotta do this. So tell the ladies, what.
Speaker 5: Do you what y'all need to feel sledded out?
Speaker 6: Yo, that's a good thing. And yo, listen, I said
Speaker 6: this one time. I said, Yo, you have seen somebody
Speaker 6: that looks so good. It's like to time's point, like
Speaker 6: you just want them to do all the things to you,
Speaker 6: like I've said before, like Yo, I just want to
Speaker 6: lay there and I want you to slam the pussy
Speaker 6: on my face like a.
Speaker 2: Bad ice on the ground.
Speaker 8: Yo.
Speaker 6: That's that's the level to the levels that I'm talking about.
Speaker 6: That's why how I feel you with Sometimes you need
Speaker 6: it like that, Like I don't want to just eat
Speaker 6: for me much on it, No, I want it slak.
Speaker 6: I want you to break the eyes. I want the
Speaker 6: cooler to be full. That's the type of shit that
Speaker 6: I'm talking about.
Speaker 5: All right, what about the rest.
Speaker 1: Of shit runs in your family obviously.
Speaker 7: So like I'm gonna try to paint if you like
Speaker 7: this right on it, imagine you had a long day
Speaker 7: at work, You came home from work, you had to
Speaker 7: walk myre then you did your little Instagram card your
Speaker 7: workout session.
Speaker 2: Right, you just came back.
Speaker 1: Can you feel me?
Speaker 6: You wrote?
Speaker 7: You wrote in your journal, you know, start the day
Speaker 7: and like you just come home and you just beat dead, tired.
Speaker 6: Exhausted and like sore and you hungry.
Speaker 7: Right, and you got somebody who like maybe runs your
Speaker 7: bath water, Probably got food cooked, got your little gatorade
Speaker 7: or water with electrolytes, probably got some hot oil. Like
Speaker 7: anything is that you can need or want, it's already
Speaker 7: taken care of. That's kind of how I be wanting
Speaker 7: to feel like during sex ain't necessarily like a freaked
Speaker 7: out or a sledded out thing. I just want all
Speaker 7: the boxes to be checked off, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 7: So like what he saw, maybe a rough down, you
Speaker 7: know what I mean. Or maybe shit, you got a
Speaker 7: towel right there for me after care, you know what
Speaker 7: I'm saying. Maybe you funk around and you you just
Speaker 7: rubbing my head a certain way, you know what I mean.
Speaker 7: Maybe you got the right lights, and maybe you got
Speaker 7: ship prepped for after we've done. That's really what it
Speaker 7: really be.
Speaker 6: So for me and rest with all of like the
Speaker 6: freak shit and stuff like that.
Speaker 7: That's cool, but I just want all my needs and
Speaker 7: boxes to be like checked off. That'll be the ultimate experience.
Speaker 2: How often would you want that to happen?
Speaker 7: You know, I don't need I don't need that every
Speaker 7: time though, you know.
Speaker 5: What I'm saying, but want to the sleetness at least
Speaker 5: twice a month.
Speaker 2: I would once a month, I.
Speaker 1: Would say, at least this should be designated her days
Speaker 1: and designated his days. Where we know when I walk
Speaker 1: into crib, like it doesn't have to be the seventh,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, It to.
Speaker 2: Be a certain day.
Speaker 1: But when I walk in the crib, you got it
Speaker 1: set up and you playing the right play for me,
Speaker 1: and I could just relax.
Speaker 2: Broy' y'all talking about me?
Speaker 1: You know, me and my girl, fiance wife whatever it
Speaker 1: may be, been together six years. How do you keep
Speaker 1: that ship now that you had back then? It can't
Speaker 1: be the same place. I'm pretty sure that she gets
Speaker 1: tired of the same old things. Yeah, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. I literally just brought two more sex toys
Speaker 1: the other day, Like so I'm continuously thinking of what
Speaker 1: I got to do to keep shit new. You feel me,
Speaker 1: and I think that ladies y'all need to do the
Speaker 1: same thing.
Speaker 5: For your guidance.
Speaker 1: Right, Pussy's amazing, butthole is amazing, your throat is amazing.
Speaker 2: But there's you're good, I'm good. There's other things that
Speaker 2: can be added to it to.
Speaker 1: Make a motherfucker feel good walking in the crib or
Speaker 1: laying in the bed like yo, she doing me like yo?
Speaker 1: You just oh, you know what I'm saying. Anyway, Courtney, look,
Speaker 1: you're good. You It's gonna be hard from going to
Speaker 1: this too. I do have one thing, Yeah, this is
Speaker 1: the thing that I was gonna bring up later on.
Speaker 2: It was a meme that I.
Speaker 1: Saw on Instagram, and the meme said, if you had
Speaker 1: to choose one, would it be a quickie every day,
Speaker 1: good sex twice a week, amazing sex once a week.
Speaker 2: If you had to choose one.
Speaker 1: A quickie every day, good sex twice a week, or
Speaker 1: amazing sex once a.
Speaker 2: Week, amazing sex once a week, good sex twice a week.
Speaker 5: I'm gonna have to go with good sex twice a.
Speaker 1: Week, so that means you don't get amazing sex.
Speaker 2: Amazing my back were hurting.
Speaker 1: Anyway, you might.
Speaker 5: Get no because you know why. Sometimes I just want
Speaker 5: to be a giver in the bed. Sometimes I don't
Speaker 5: want to receive. Sometimes I want to give to my
Speaker 5: to my partner. So you know, if that's I'll take
Speaker 5: one day of, I'll take two days of.
Speaker 8: Like and I was.
Speaker 5: Sometimes I just like the act of sex. Sometimes I
Speaker 5: just like it, Like I get an orgasm, great, But
Speaker 5: sometimes you can have an orgasm from good sex. But
Speaker 5: I just like the act of it.
Speaker 1: So what's the difference between good and amazing sex. I'm
Speaker 1: an asking all y'all at.
Speaker 7: I feel like, okay, I'll put it you like this, right,
Speaker 7: You ever like it was hungry and you craved something
Speaker 7: and you got something to eat that you wanted but
Speaker 7: weren't really that good, Like for you got to eat
Speaker 7: something else to make up for it. You ever got
Speaker 7: like this one meal and you're like, yeah, no, I'm
Speaker 7: really good, Like I'm straight. That's what it's like for me.
Speaker 6: I get that one good meal, like I scratched that itch.
Speaker 6: I'm fucking good.
Speaker 2: I don't need I might not me. I'm like a
Speaker 2: gas thing.
Speaker 7: I can go for a minute. We hit me on
Speaker 7: Monday with some real lit shit. Shit, I'll be good
Speaker 7: to next year.
Speaker 5: No, I need that because if you hit me with
Speaker 5: some good shit on that Monday, I'm gonna need to
Speaker 5: run that back before the weekend.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I need that. I need that. I think if
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go with with sexual terms good sex, we
Speaker 1: both not. It's a good session.
Speaker 2: It's just a good session.
Speaker 1: Right, Maybe she nutted two three times, whatever, it may be.
Speaker 2: Amazing sex.
Speaker 1: The sheets is off the bed, the fucking picture fell
Speaker 1: off the wall, legs doing some wild ship like this.
Speaker 2: I'm laying there half off the bed on.
Speaker 5: Everywhere.
Speaker 2: Over here, there's a sex toy over there. It's squirt
Speaker 2: over here.
Speaker 1: It's like, yo, nigga, I was supposed to pick up
Speaker 1: the kids thirty minutes ago. Nigga, we are half dead,
Speaker 1: like literally literally dead.
Speaker 5: Like that good Nancy or that sex was like damn,
Speaker 5: I just can't believe I did that.
Speaker 8: Like you're kind of like, did I really?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: That amazing? Yeah, you do that one a week, I'm good.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but then you wind up two three times a
Speaker 1: day like yesterday. Just said, I'll be doing you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I still need more sex, so amazing sex.
Speaker 1: I don't know if I could do one.
Speaker 2: That's kind of where your mom, so is everything okay
Speaker 2: up there?
Speaker 5: That's why I said, you're gonna have to run that
Speaker 5: back before the weekend.
Speaker 1: But then how many times she's talking about twice? Three times?
Speaker 1: Can you?
Speaker 2: How many times can you? Possibly?
Speaker 1: Because as I get older, my libido is dropping. Bro,
Speaker 1: I'm not as horny for sex as I used to be.
Speaker 1: And I told her that we was having this conversation,
Speaker 1: that one that ran into her sletting me out is
Speaker 1: because we had had sex maybe three four times in
Speaker 1: two days, right, she wouldn't have sex again.
Speaker 5: It's so crazy how women's libido increases as we get
Speaker 5: older and men's decrease as y'all get older.
Speaker 6: I think Angela bas would be mad horny, absolutely because
Speaker 6: she's a little older.
Speaker 1: So she fire I was like growing hired. I was like,
Speaker 1: I was like, and I'm not tired to the point
Speaker 1: where I don't want to have sex, but I don't
Speaker 1: have seven hundred and fifty pumps in me right now.
Speaker 6: You gotta do it, yeah, you gotta pump you.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 5: But I think that's okay because women, really, we especially
Speaker 5: when we ovulate, a different animal be coming out like
Speaker 5: I'm gonna slut you out type shit. Because and that's
Speaker 5: when you guys talk about when y'all deal with older women,
Speaker 5: how they be like putting out onto some shit. Right, Yeah,
Speaker 5: it happens. But I also think there's other things that
Speaker 5: not only age affects your libido, but just like when
Speaker 5: you're going through shiit like greathing, you can beatle can
Speaker 5: all the way drop or it can just shoot through
Speaker 5: the roof. I know that. When my mom passed, and
Speaker 5: this is bad to say so, but your girl, I
Speaker 5: was trying to like I was trying to get like
Speaker 5: take my mind off of it. I was fucking it away,
Speaker 5: you know what I mean. So by grieving, my libido
Speaker 5: was like you like to the roof.
Speaker 2: Yeah, for me, I was the opposite.
Speaker 7: When my grandmother died, I don't suck for like seven months.
Speaker 1: Seven months grieving is yeah, nah, I was that said.
Speaker 2: Ship, he said.
Speaker 7: I got right back to it, that same thing.
Speaker 2: What I dismissed. I dismissed my grandy It was my father's.
Speaker 8: Mother not even grieving.
Speaker 5: But like, as y'all know, I'm on a hiatus when
Speaker 5: it comes to sex, just like, well, you gotta step
Speaker 5: back and really just loveing you, like just the sex.
Speaker 5: I just I'm not even like masturbating. My libido is
Speaker 5: like plummeted. I'm just like, I don't field things are
Speaker 5: right here, so let me get that ship right before
Speaker 5: I can start thinking about my sexuals.
Speaker 1: I keep saying that I hate that for you, but
Speaker 1: I respect it. I respect it. I just hope that
Speaker 1: when the sun comes out, sudden dresses come out.
Speaker 7: Weather plays a lot too with me, and like what
Speaker 7: kind of nigga I am too? And in the summertime,
Speaker 7: I'm always like ready for action, Like.
Speaker 2: It don't matter.
Speaker 7: I could go like nine times a day in the winter. Bro,
Speaker 7: I just be like, I'm trying to watch Top Boy.
Speaker 2: I need to watch.
Speaker 5: But you know, we'll see what happens, because I'm supposed
Speaker 5: to be go and tell Salvador at the end of
Speaker 5: the month, so there'll be eighty degree weather, so we'll see.
Speaker 5: I mean, I'm not working out there.
Speaker 6: Get a little travel all.
Speaker 1: DJ in now.
Speaker 2: It's not open to the DJ in two weeks ago.
Speaker 1: I'm like, health does affect the is it effect libido?
Speaker 5: Medications like birth control.
Speaker 1: Drinking too much smoking ship like that can lower your ship,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: Yeah, hell yeah you could really that she could really
Speaker 2: kill your whole vibe.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I used to drink, but I was beating off
Speaker 7: crazy when I an't.
Speaker 2: Get no action.
Speaker 5: Well, you probably also was young, right, Like I think
Speaker 5: it's more of a thing when you're older, and when
Speaker 5: you're older and you you're drinking heavy. Also, you know,
Speaker 5: they said work and this is the crazy part about it,
Speaker 5: because I'm working out way more, but my libidom not
Speaker 5: high and I'm confused.
Speaker 7: I mean, not for not for nothing. In your defense,
Speaker 7: So like you, when you go through things, they affect
Speaker 7: you point blank period right, And it's like, yeah, you
Speaker 7: know for the because when you were when you were
Speaker 7: working out like months ago, Nigga was horning your ship.
Speaker 1: All that time.
Speaker 2: What so I feel like you have to take into consideration.
Speaker 1: Yo.
Speaker 7: Like, I got some shit going on and it's just
Speaker 7: a little bit more overwhelming than what I usually have
Speaker 7: going on.
Speaker 1: But I want to I want to bring that to
Speaker 1: something else, something. What about if you're in a relationship
Speaker 1: and you're not happy in a relationship, can not kill
Speaker 1: your libido or you just kill your libido for your partner,
Speaker 1: and you'd be wanting to cheat, you'd be wanting to
Speaker 1: get it from somewhere else, be Alex. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Alex, Because you're not sexually attracted to what's
Speaker 1: going on at home, That the person that you was
Speaker 1: fucking with before, you're not aligned with them, and it
Speaker 1: can make you look outside. It makes you scroll on
Speaker 1: Instagram more, It makes you look at that chick around
Speaker 1: the office more. She might not even be nowhere near
Speaker 1: as fire as your chick, but for some reason, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're still horny, but it's redirected somewhere, somewhere else.
Speaker 2: Is that a thing?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Absolutely absolutely.
Speaker 1: I feel like.
Speaker 5: When I was unhappy in my relationship, I didn't want
Speaker 5: to have sex at all. I didn't want to suck dick.
Speaker 5: I don't want to throw it back like you roll
Speaker 5: over and you try to touch up like all right,
Speaker 5: and I give you like right? What is it called pityuss?
Speaker 1: And I don't think that people understand that man, that
Speaker 1: shit happens to men, and that ship happens to women.
Speaker 1: When I'm not happy all around, it might not just
Speaker 1: be with you when I'm my dick.
Speaker 2: Don't get wet.
Speaker 1: It's just not it's just not the same, dick, especially
Speaker 1: if you're connected to it. I might be doing ship
Speaker 1: elsewhere because I'm not happy enough. This is not an
Speaker 1: excuse for cheating, but it is I can understand sometimes
Speaker 1: what happens in the head when you get disconnected from
Speaker 1: your partner.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've been.
Speaker 6: I've definitely been there again.
Speaker 7: I was so much I'm not my proudest moment, but
Speaker 7: like I was disconnected from my partner, really pissed, I'm stressed,
Speaker 7: I don't want to be here, I'm not happy. And
Speaker 7: you know, instead of me just voicing that and expressing
Speaker 7: that and maybe leaving, I just want elsewhere and felt
Speaker 7: happiness why I was still there and my dick couldn't
Speaker 7: even really get hard for my shorter time And that's
Speaker 7: the best box, all.
Speaker 10: Right, at that time, at that time, Tom, But at
Speaker 10: the time, that was really good at months and it
Speaker 10: didn't even matter Bro.
Speaker 7: I was just I was laying next to her and
Speaker 7: I'm just like I wanted to let that thought that's
Speaker 7: doing and I left went through the linked I thought that, wow,
Speaker 7: no fun.
Speaker 1: It would be the whole back to where you was before. Yeah,
Speaker 1: just the issues that you had a relationship.
Speaker 7: Yeah, and I mean and I feel like also to
Speaker 7: sex ain't always the answer. Yeah, you know what I
Speaker 7: mean when like getting older is realizing that sex ain't always.
Speaker 1: Going to be there.
Speaker 5: No, it's not. Sometimes you need just a clear It
Speaker 5: is the.
Speaker 2: Saying where you get over one nigga, but I get
Speaker 2: under another one or always it bro That's what I've.
Speaker 7: Had, I have I will know when I was at
Speaker 7: my darkest, deepest, most depressive state, but I probably had
Speaker 7: the most chicks to my to my reach ever in
Speaker 7: life that matter. Fucked like maybe four chicks one week,
Speaker 7: new ones.
Speaker 2: Usually I have felt like fucking World Chamberlain. Shouldn't me
Speaker 2: feel worse.
Speaker 5: That's what happens when you uh are in your most
Speaker 5: toxic phase. You can attract most most women. Men who
Speaker 5: are in their toxic phase have the most women around them.
Speaker 5: And then when they become better and they be and
Speaker 5: they heal and they do the work, then you realize,
Speaker 5: I don't want it's quantity, it's quality over quantity, and
Speaker 5: you lose all those all those women around you. And
Speaker 5: the same thing goes with women, right like when you're
Speaker 5: at your tox Like I know when I was at
Speaker 5: my worst rosters Roster. But then after a while, you're
Speaker 5: kind of just like when you do the work and
Speaker 5: you're healing and you're you're trying to become better, You're
Speaker 5: just like, I don't I'm good with just dating one
Speaker 5: person at a time and figuring this out.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 7: So with that being said, right, I want to talking about,
Speaker 7: you know, cheating. I cheated in that relationship, got caught
Speaker 7: cheating again.
Speaker 2: What Yeah, you're.
Speaker 1: Lying, you know I'm in a relationship.
Speaker 2: I'm in a relationship. Now she comes, she.
Speaker 7: Comes to my crib and she always got to think,
Speaker 7: Now you clean your house all day?
Speaker 2: I my nigma, my house always clean.
Speaker 1: I'm lying.
Speaker 7: My house ain't always clean, but you know I try
Speaker 7: my I'm trying my best, Stuart to keep the crip clean.
Speaker 2: So she goes and why you just got these toys
Speaker 2: all over the place.
Speaker 7: And to be honest with you, I've been on the
Speaker 7: go so much. I haven't really like straightened up one
Speaker 7: hundred percent since Valentine's Day.
Speaker 2: So you know, the toys is wherever they was at
Speaker 2: and she grabs she says, yo, did you wash this?
Speaker 2: Still got some shit on here?
Speaker 6: And I'm like, I'm like, but here's the thing. I'm like,
Speaker 6: I did watch it, well, I looked at it. Some
Speaker 6: ship was on there, and so you got other bitches
Speaker 6: in here, don't you. I'm like, yo, what are you
Speaker 6: talking about?
Speaker 1: No, I don't.
Speaker 2: I don't like. I don't forget no bitches, no more.
Speaker 2: That time has passed. But I thought about it, and
Speaker 2: I remembered whose stuff was on there. It was me?
Speaker 2: What it was me?
Speaker 7: What I cheated on my girl with myself. I be
Speaker 7: using the toys when I be beating my meat. Now
Speaker 7: you feel me?
Speaker 2: Toy had this ship on it.
Speaker 7: It wasn't ship. It was some fucking vaseline oil ship.
Speaker 6: Right.
Speaker 5: What toy?
Speaker 7: It was the little vibrator. So I have to dick
Speaker 7: in one hand to my phone. I got a kickstand, right,
Speaker 7: so my shit be like this, uh huh.
Speaker 2: So I'll be laying down like this, dick in one hand,
Speaker 2: vibrator right here. My greasy. It was a little greasy, right.
Speaker 7: I had to get it right and go to work.
Speaker 2: So it was me on a toy. But I don't
Speaker 2: know how to tell it.
Speaker 7: I be vibing myself. So I'm sitting here trying to
Speaker 7: have this conversations like, Yo, how do I tell her
Speaker 7: that is me that I'll be cheating on her with?
Speaker 7: And I don't know how to express that to So
Speaker 7: my question to you guys is how do you have
Speaker 7: these kind of conversations with you?
Speaker 5: It's easier for women because they know that we're doing
Speaker 5: a damn thing on us.
Speaker 1: I just I'm stuck on the point where he said
Speaker 1: his nipple was greasy. She was able to come over
Speaker 1: look at the toy and be like, Yo, who is
Speaker 1: this on this toy?
Speaker 2: What is this? What are you talking about?
Speaker 1: Your ni be leaking?
Speaker 2: Nah? I put grease on it.
Speaker 7: It's a little sensitive when something that you.
Speaker 2: Feel a little more.
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, Jail.
Speaker 7: The substance doesn't matter, right, All that matters is it
Speaker 7: was a little greasy on it. And I'm like, your
Speaker 7: damn how do I tell, like, Yo.
Speaker 2: It is me that beyond that is this our ship.
Speaker 6: Got for you? Wouldn't it be easier for you to
Speaker 6: say that it was you as opposed to try.
Speaker 7: To I mean, she knows, she knows I ain't cheating
Speaker 7: you feel me, but she don't know what the fun
Speaker 7: going on. It's right on some dirty nigga.
Speaker 2: Don't clean the toys. I'm just sitting here, like how
Speaker 2: do I I'm just gonna come on, tell yo, look, listen,
Speaker 2: it's me right, that bitch is me. I'm the bitch.
Speaker 1: You're a bitch for not telling her that it was you.
Speaker 1: But you know that's what that's weird because.
Speaker 6: You know what it is, though, bro, Like you tell
Speaker 6: girls one thing like you ever, you gotta be careful
Speaker 6: when you talk to women as a guy. Women are
Speaker 6: programmed to think totally different than we do.
Speaker 7: Like they see some shit. I see some shit sometimes
Speaker 7: that we don't see, right. I saw a post one.
Speaker 6: Time and it was this guy and it says her
Speaker 6: search his room.
Speaker 7: Doesn't find any hair on the pillow. Me, I told
Speaker 7: you I wasn't cheating with nobody her or you be
Speaker 7: fuck with bullhead bitches, don't you? And then I thought
Speaker 7: about it, it was like that would kind of make sense.
Speaker 7: But I'm sitting here to say, like I'm trying to
Speaker 7: get to a point now. I don't want to say
Speaker 7: I'm trying to think like a woman. I'm trying my
Speaker 7: best to understand more so like now, like how my
Speaker 7: I shorty think like you know what I mean? Like
Speaker 7: I sometimes be afraid to let ya. I don't want
Speaker 7: to say this, and I put my foot in my
Speaker 7: fucking mouth. So I'm at the point now where I
Speaker 7: guess where I'm trying to, like, not really more so
Speaker 7: get my point across, but get where women in general
Speaker 7: points trying to comprehend how they come across.
Speaker 2: More than likely, that's kind of like the.
Speaker 7: Bone that I've been picking as lately, you know what
Speaker 7: i mean, show you having like I don't want to
Speaker 7: say communication issues, but it's been a couple of times
Speaker 7: where it's like I'm trying to say something and she
Speaker 7: don't really receive it the right way, and you know,
Speaker 7: fake little beef shit like that. That's kind of right yo,
Speaker 7: Right now, Yo, that's a big deal. Is that is
Speaker 7: a big deal.
Speaker 1: And the ladies I got there's a segment, there's a
Speaker 1: section in my discord in the Navy Discord that say
Speaker 1: I'm always doing the men versus women content, and they're correct,
Speaker 1: But that's because this is a male sentence show, and
Speaker 1: I'm thinking about ways to help men express the way
Speaker 1: they feel in their relationships so that give them an
Speaker 1: outlet and for women to understand it. Right that isn't
Speaker 1: a thing that we normally have. Men will shut down
Speaker 1: certain important conversations because when they've tried to have that
Speaker 1: conversation with her, they did not get a good reaction.
Speaker 1: And a lot of times ladies will have a response
Speaker 1: to his admission that's like, but when you did.
Speaker 2: This, that's literally would be happening. So it's like, I'm
Speaker 2: not being heard.
Speaker 1: I'm not allowed to express myself in the way where
Speaker 1: it's healing for me. So I will avoid this conversation
Speaker 1: to avoid conflict. I'm not as good an arguer as
Speaker 1: you are. I'm not as smart, and I don't have
Speaker 1: a bank of offenses to just throw to throw at
Speaker 1: you the way you might have for me.
Speaker 5: But why, but why is? Why is the resort? Why
Speaker 5: resorting to that type of conflict resolution.
Speaker 2: Because it's easier for us and more peaceful.
Speaker 5: No, no, no, I'm meaning why in general, you're saying throwing offenses? Uh,
Speaker 5: not as big as a vocabulary, not as smart.
Speaker 1: You're not good at accountability generally, you're not good at
Speaker 1: hearing men generally.
Speaker 2: Do I hate to make this a man versus woman?
Speaker 5: He dead ass right though, no, and I agree, and
Speaker 5: I agree.
Speaker 2: So like I wish sometimes I wish I could have.
Speaker 7: You sit next to me accord me. How do I
Speaker 7: say this in woman language? Because when I say it's
Speaker 7: just like you hurt my feelings or an emotional response
Speaker 7: or I don't want to talk right now, and they're like,
Speaker 7: you know what, fuck this. I'm just gonna if I
Speaker 7: feel a way, I'm gonna go to the fucking gym.
Speaker 7: I'm gonna lift some weights.
Speaker 6: I'm gonna hit you back in a couple hours, and beyond,
Speaker 6: I'm gonna complain to my friends.
Speaker 2: That's kind of and I'm good.
Speaker 7: That's kind of what it's like.
Speaker 2: And it's like I want to subject.
Speaker 5: I'm very sad for you guys, only because I just
Speaker 5: don't handle shit like that.
Speaker 1: You don't. I will say that you listen and you
Speaker 1: apologize first. I'm sorry I made you feel that way.
Speaker 1: I never meant to make you feel. You and I
Speaker 1: have had a tifts, and when we talk, that's how
Speaker 1: you address it. It really de escalates everything when you're
Speaker 1: able to acknowledge what I'm telling you or how I'm
Speaker 1: feeling right first, and I think I do the same
Speaker 1: thing with you. We acknowledge the offense first, then we
Speaker 1: talk about intent and how to avoid it in the future. Right,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm.
Speaker 5: Saying that is I can't speak for majority of women.
Speaker 5: I can only speak for myself. But that is the
Speaker 5: best way I've ever those are That's the best way
Speaker 5: I know how to de escalate situations when it because
Speaker 5: I don't like I don't like a lot of conflict.
Speaker 5: I think I don't thrive well in conflict. So I'd
Speaker 5: rather us get to the root of it, take accountability
Speaker 5: where accountability needs to be had, and then say, Okay,
Speaker 5: how do we move forward in the future. That's how
Speaker 5: I like to handle it because I don't like things
Speaker 5: to fucking linger on for weeks and in days, because
Speaker 5: that ship will that will cause my whole nervous system to, like,
Speaker 5: my nervous system be like this, Right, I don't do
Speaker 5: that ship.
Speaker 2: So yeah, I don't want to argue anyway yesterday.
Speaker 1: Now you are the op for me in this.
Speaker 2: Room, Spider Man. Spider Man, do you agree with what
Speaker 2: I said or not?
Speaker 1: Right? Because look they me in the chat, this petty
Speaker 1: ass nigga. Look they have caught two strays in one day,
Speaker 1: one of them. But Tati, I'm not literally I'm not
Speaker 1: trying to do that this literally we have to have
Speaker 1: certain conversations which open up a conversation. I'm hoping that
Speaker 1: the people at home are able to have this conversation
Speaker 1: with their person. Are you taking what I'm saying as
Speaker 1: something that is relationship building or are you just trying
Speaker 1: to win an argument? Right?
Speaker 5: Because it's always it's always me. For most people, it's
Speaker 5: me versus you, but it's really me you versus.
Speaker 1: The problem exactly, So.
Speaker 5: How can we get together to become and resolve the
Speaker 5: issue that we have as much as you can.
Speaker 2: Chat GPT and that might be a good.
Speaker 7: Utilize my resources chat GPT. Say this in Gemini.
Speaker 1: But also this is not a cop out for men.
Speaker 1: It sounds like a cop out for men. You can't
Speaker 1: not communicate just scared of the confrontation, right, That is
Speaker 1: not That's just not the way to solve a problem.
Speaker 1: Of what happens is you wind up exhibiting negative impulses
Speaker 1: or negative things later or in other ways. That's how
Speaker 1: you start looking outside your relationship or start not being
Speaker 1: attracted to your girl because you're holding all of that
Speaker 1: ship and all this thing that you're saying. It's not
Speaker 1: coming out. So it's gonna come out some way. So
Speaker 1: this is not an excuse for you not to communicate.
Speaker 1: We gotta we gotta learn how to get past that
Speaker 1: and say, I don't want to avoid it because we
Speaker 1: don't avoid it.
Speaker 2: I mean, LOULI will go at it.
Speaker 1: We don't avoid them confrontations with each other. So but
Speaker 1: why do I do it when I'm at home?
Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying, And this is why I
Speaker 6: swear being gay would have been easier all the time.
Speaker 7: So I'm like, you know, Brian, you gotta be pissed
Speaker 7: off what I do.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry because.
Speaker 5: You know before he's singing in a heterosexual way and.
Speaker 1: Not so.
Speaker 2: What do you say to this conversation to the community.
Speaker 7: Also, I'm not gay.
Speaker 6: As far as as far as being able to communicate
Speaker 6: through the issue, yeah, like I said, I agree with
Speaker 6: what you said. I feel like sometimes for me, I
Speaker 6: think it's easier to go towards issue now. I feel like,
Speaker 6: you know, we all make mistakes and we might not
Speaker 6: do things in the right way, but I would like
Speaker 6: to like I'm the type of person that goes towards
Speaker 6: the issue first because I feel like when you don't communicate,
Speaker 6: especially if it's something that's important, or that it's something
Speaker 6: that's between you and your partner.
Speaker 5: I cannot wait for this episode.
Speaker 2: Hold on, Hello, Hello, truth, Hello, true. Yesterday is a
Speaker 2: real out of pocket. You do you know what's going on?
Speaker 1: You see every.
Speaker 5: Fish you finished, finished.
Speaker 2: Like I was saying, Spider Man, like I was saying.
Speaker 6: I was saying that Basically, I do think that communication
Speaker 6: is important, and I do think that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's.
Speaker 5: Important many.
Speaker 8: Men, it's important.
Speaker 5: Case closes.
Speaker 2: I want to use these.
Speaker 7: Next couple of minutes and call this segment out of pocket.
Speaker 7: I went through some real out of pockets on Instagram.
Speaker 1: What's it?
Speaker 2: You guys probably forgot?
Speaker 8: No, I don't forget because I know where you're going.
Speaker 7: I got a DM. So I hate seeing red numbers
Speaker 7: on my phone, text messages, voicemails, emails, I'm never gonna
Speaker 7: check them, ships off, but everything else I like to check.
Speaker 2: Right.
Speaker 7: So when I go on Instagram and I see that
Speaker 7: I got a message or it has a number, but
Speaker 7: let me just check this to see what this is.
Speaker 7: I have no unread messages on my Instagram, so I
Speaker 7: go to the spam folder and I see it was.
Speaker 2: A hidden, hidden, hidden folder or whatever the ship is called.
Speaker 2: I forgot it's a guy. He said some ship, Like, Hey,
Speaker 2: what's going on? Whatever? Whatever not.
Speaker 7: At the end of the day, listen, bro, on this show,
Speaker 7: I meet all tons of people, all different type of shades, colors, sexuality,
Speaker 7: sexual orientations, genders. I fuck with everybody, shout out, throw
Speaker 7: all my niggas with everybody I know is going So
Speaker 7: this guy goes, Yo, can I send you something?
Speaker 2: I believe that's what he said, exactly, Like what and
Speaker 2: he sends me a video?
Speaker 1: What glass?
Speaker 2: What's in a video? The nigga sends me a video? Right,
Speaker 2: So this is me.
Speaker 7: I'm looking at the phone and I see him laying down.
Speaker 6: On the bed. I'm like, what the fucking I take
Speaker 6: the glasses off. This nigga takes his fucking panties off
Speaker 6: and it starts shaking his ass, torking on the bed.
Speaker 6: I'm just like, oh, he said, if you haven't feeling
Speaker 6: you need that.
Speaker 7: I got that. I'm like, thank God, the Philly Show
Speaker 7: is over. So I blocked this nigga so fast. I've
Speaker 7: never been more sassy in my life.
Speaker 1: I was like.
Speaker 6: Block and I mean my head like yo, and I
Speaker 6: just also again I've never sent like no unsolicited dick flicks,
Speaker 6: but I just want to apologize to any woman in
Speaker 6: life that you you.
Speaker 2: Right, you okay, I want a water break. I'm just
Speaker 2: saying like you're okay.
Speaker 1: No, I'm straight, all right.
Speaker 7: But I want to apologize to any.
Speaker 2: I'm allergic to your gayness.
Speaker 7: So am I. But it just really made me like
Speaker 7: reflect yr. I just want to apologize to any woman
Speaker 7: that I might have directly or indirectly like made.
Speaker 5: Feel uncomfortable like with the picture.
Speaker 2: Nah, just in life in gentlemen, you know what I mean,
Speaker 2: like because it's guys yo yo.
Speaker 7: For like maybe the first twenty five twenty six years
Speaker 7: of my life, I never feel comfortable with a nigga.
Speaker 2: Okay, nigga never said none to me. No girl made
Speaker 2: me feel ucomfortable.
Speaker 7: So only now that I'm older, you feel me and
Speaker 7: I'm in these spaces and I'm you know, in these
Speaker 7: scenes and stuff like that, I kind of put myself sometimes,
Speaker 7: you know, in position like maybe have something like that happened,
Speaker 7: and I feel like this is the first time that
Speaker 7: I'm kind of like in a woman shoes, dare I say?
Speaker 7: And granted, I can never feel to the magnitude that
Speaker 7: y'all feel it, but I can kind of under stand
Speaker 7: and see what laying y'all and where y'all at, you
Speaker 7: know what I'm saying. So, Yeah, I just wanted to
Speaker 7: really give an apology to any woman that I've probably
Speaker 7: indirectly directly made uncomfortable.
Speaker 5: Since I've been on this show, I don't think I've
Speaker 5: ever received like an inappropriate photo. Words, yes, but photos
Speaker 5: not really so should I'll see y'all w anden I
Speaker 5: send the me inappropriate photos?
Speaker 1: And can we speak about masculinity or the way men
Speaker 1: should approach people? A lot approach people that men are
Speaker 1: learning how to deal with women?
Speaker 2: I do think. Let me make sure I watch my
Speaker 2: words on this.
Speaker 1: Yeah, our openness can confuse gay men when it comes
Speaker 1: to our sexual preferences. And I don't think that they're
Speaker 1: under the same scrutiny with the way they approach heterosexual
Speaker 1: men that hero sexual men are with women, with the
Speaker 1: way that we approach women.
Speaker 2: So we're just.
Speaker 1: We're getting a dose of what women have been getting
Speaker 1: for a long time.
Speaker 6: Yes, Michael, do you.
Speaker 2: Know what I'm saying?
Speaker 1: It's not a macro doose It's a micro dose, right,
Speaker 1: because they get it every day.
Speaker 6: And way more aggressive.
Speaker 2: I'm literally.
Speaker 1: Making a video about the DOCI comments with her saying
Speaker 1: that she's, you know, red flag dating straight man, and
Speaker 1: the dude pulls up in the car, rolls down his
Speaker 1: window and starts hollering at it. A teenage girl coming
Speaker 1: home from school behind me and she's walking.
Speaker 2: He's in the.
Speaker 1: Middle of the street. It's a two wayne street. He's
Speaker 1: on this side going this way, and she's walking this way.
Speaker 1: She's already over here and he's in the middle of
Speaker 1: the street, like y'all, y'all, And I catch it on video,
Speaker 1: Like yo, as I'm talking about straight man being red flags,
Speaker 1: look at the way we behave when it comes to women.
Speaker 1: Imagine if he was walking down the street and the
Speaker 1: gate who pulled over in the middle of the street
Speaker 1: and was like yo, yep, imagine how you would feel react.
Speaker 2: You understand what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: This is a micro micro roll, micro dose to what
Speaker 1: women have been dealing with for ages when it comes
Speaker 1: to the way men approach them and talk to me.
Speaker 5: There are certain things that I will not do. I
Speaker 5: do not pass a group of men when I'm walking
Speaker 5: by myself. Sometimes I want to go off the train
Speaker 5: and get off the opposite side because sometimes guys just
Speaker 5: be hanging out in front of this like smoke shop.
Speaker 5: Don't want to deal with it. Sometimes, like in parties,
Speaker 5: I don't want to pass a group of men in
Speaker 5: a party me neither me neither like because sometimes it's
Speaker 5: just too aggressive and sometimes I just don't want to.
Speaker 5: I don't want to deal with it.
Speaker 6: Very true, and it's definitely definitely a micro dose. And
Speaker 6: also according to add on to your point, women deal
Speaker 6: with violence behind some of the ship, right, And I
Speaker 6: feel like that's that's one thing that I think as men.
Speaker 5: We y'all don't.
Speaker 2: We've never experienced that.
Speaker 5: It's the violence behind it. Also, it's also why I
Speaker 5: don't sometimes if I'm traveling on the train and it's
Speaker 5: to some time, I don't wear certain outfits because I'm
Speaker 5: just scared that someone's gonna come to me and like
Speaker 5: do something weird. So if I'm taking an uber, I
Speaker 5: don't mind wearing like a certain outfit.
Speaker 6: But trains now, and that's and it's crazy that it's
Speaker 6: like it's unfortunate, but you really have to operate under
Speaker 6: a different type of guidelines for safety reasons more than
Speaker 6: sometimes personal.
Speaker 7: Since we are also on the topic of out of pocket.
Speaker 7: Spoke to Tahoe and Courtney Yes the other day and
Speaker 7: I told them I wanted to talk about well, I
Speaker 7: wanted to start a secondent call pretty much about out.
Speaker 1: Of pockets song lyric hold on before you do that.
Speaker 1: I was looking for something look at the difference. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna play a video that I saw on trendy topic
Speaker 1: TIFFs page or she's in it. This is actually a
Speaker 1: due named Corey with the K but it's speaking about
Speaker 1: the thirsty niggas, the super thirty thirsty thirsty niggas. Look,
Speaker 1: so the caption is when you bring that one friend
Speaker 1: that's too straightforward with the females, it's dad dressed right here. Bro,
Speaker 1: Hey look, hey, don't go on this bitch acting crazy
Speaker 1: and now we got that.
Speaker 4: I got this saying no bullshit, you the pussy this time.
Speaker 4: Damn that bitch.
Speaker 9: Bet On, Okay, you don't know.
Speaker 1: Start kissing the heads.
Speaker 9: My hands.
Speaker 2: We do this.
Speaker 1: We look what Jesus is They like it.
Speaker 11: They like straightforward what you want to do.
Speaker 1: So, but that's how niggas are, That's how some niggas
Speaker 1: don't have no.
Speaker 2: They just straight at them.
Speaker 7: Back in the day, me and Burma used to be
Speaker 7: in this big ass group chat like twelve guys, and
Speaker 7: whenever we have some joints going on, you always make
Speaker 7: a separate.
Speaker 2: Chat to exclude this one nigga because.
Speaker 7: Girls who girls who never even with him and heard
Speaker 7: about it, like, yo, please do not bring this nigga
Speaker 7: around us. So and it's it ain't quite like that,
Speaker 7: but it's a little worse and different. So that ship
Speaker 7: is one's always one nigga you can't bring around no joints.
Speaker 5: There is one guy that I heard.
Speaker 2: Of who's scaring the hose.
Speaker 5: Scaring the hose because he always sends an unsolicited dick
Speaker 5: pic and he's known for that where one time my
Speaker 5: homegirl was like, yeah, I don't really fuck with him
Speaker 5: like that, and the guy was like, yo, he sent you.
Speaker 8: A dick pic.
Speaker 5: She was like, yeah, how do.
Speaker 2: You know for that?
Speaker 5: How do you how are you known for that?
Speaker 2: I don't know how niggas hang out with people like that.
Speaker 1: I cannot Yeah, why don't niggas check then on that
Speaker 1: type of behavior?
Speaker 2: They probably do, but you know, well, that's something that
Speaker 2: should be checked.
Speaker 7: You feel me, but you see the thing the thing
Speaker 7: with with like the dude I was so in particular,
Speaker 7: it wasn't really that he was making women uncomfortable sexually,
Speaker 7: but he just had like a real high level like
Speaker 7: arrogance and entitlement to him.
Speaker 6: So it's like, I can't really check it on your personality,
Speaker 6: but I'm just not gonna bring around no joints.
Speaker 1: But I do.
Speaker 7: I do feel like though in general, like with that,
Speaker 7: like if you got if you got somebody that's moving
Speaker 7: a certain type of way, Bro, you should say something
Speaker 7: with like distance itself. Because I can't through to everybody.
Speaker 7: I'll definitely move away from anybody, know.
Speaker 2: What I'm saying.
Speaker 7: And I feel like, as niggas, you gotta learn how
Speaker 7: to move away from certain people. Yeah, everybody can't go.
Speaker 7: Real everybody cannot go.
Speaker 1: That's the fact. You always about to say something about
Speaker 1: ship here we go, what where do you? What do
Speaker 1: you want to do? All right?
Speaker 2: So I might be the only one about being out
Speaker 2: of pocket.
Speaker 7: So this is this is one song. It's actually a
Speaker 7: bunch of it's a video, but this is one video
Speaker 7: that I want to play. But it's one second of
Speaker 7: the video hold on, I.
Speaker 4: Don't want to shoot this ship.
Speaker 1: Say she's prayer to live and when.
Speaker 9: You know you like.
Speaker 1: Yo?
Speaker 6: That was Kodak Black.
Speaker 2: Obviously he got a song.
Speaker 7: It's called medication, yo, and he says, I'm playing one
Speaker 7: more time?
Speaker 2: Yo, what.
Speaker 4: I want to shoot this ship?
Speaker 1: So now I know why you named it out of pocket?
Speaker 1: Yeah that's not crazy, yo? What the fun do we
Speaker 1: be talking about this?
Speaker 2: That is the wow? Say that for that is?
Speaker 7: That was by fault one of the wildest lyrics that
Speaker 7: I've ever heard.
Speaker 2: What would you let me while you praynant? So I
Speaker 2: could feed the kids?
Speaker 1: You black? Nah? Because of the fandom, Yeah, the fandom,
Speaker 1: but his type of style.
Speaker 2: Without the family, he's the you don't bring her.
Speaker 1: Can you imagine the nigga saying that to somebody in
Speaker 1: the room with you.
Speaker 7: How do you even come out.
Speaker 2: And say that though?
Speaker 1: For real niggas be nuice?
Speaker 2: How do you say that?
Speaker 6: Look, listen, you don't know the myth pep is the
Speaker 6: best peel.
Speaker 7: Everybody's heard the myth.
Speaker 2: But bro, you don't you don't go test that out?
Speaker 1: Certain ship, You're just not trying to test that ship
Speaker 1: could be juicy.
Speaker 6: Though, Alright, alright, alright, yeah, I got one more.
Speaker 2: I got one more that I want to play.
Speaker 6: Sorry, I can't control your.
Speaker 2: So you can't turn it?
Speaker 1: What comes on?
Speaker 7: I wait, hold on, what the sorry it's a bunch
Speaker 7: out of pocket ship. I can't find this one.
Speaker 2: Pretty much it was young thug pretty much say he
Speaker 2: can't wait? The fu is Auntie?
Speaker 1: You know, I really would to discuss what just happened
Speaker 1: on your phone.
Speaker 7: It's it's a compilation of interest. It's a compilation and.
Speaker 2: Videos all the lyrics on it.
Speaker 6: I was trying to fast forward to that point and
Speaker 6: he just edited because I forgot.
Speaker 1: I forgot, I forgot talk about being prepared. You wanted
Speaker 1: to be prepared for you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I say that to say.
Speaker 5: Maybe he meant auntie, like because I have it right?
Speaker 2: No, he's bro, he said his aunt You.
Speaker 5: Know how they call older woman at.
Speaker 6: His mother's sister. Actually, oh here it is sorry, So
Speaker 6: it's comings comes right? What right?
Speaker 1: Right? Right?
Speaker 2: Here? Stables like Jay? So I used to want to
Speaker 2: fuck Anti. Wait a minute, so I just want Tony
Speaker 2: Now you just did all of that.
Speaker 5: Paticulars or whatever, my auntie?
Speaker 2: Little what then you want me to give you all
Speaker 2: the whole synopsis.
Speaker 5: Or you what it was?
Speaker 2: One far?
Speaker 7: You want me to give you a freaky ass verse?
Speaker 2: All right?
Speaker 8: You got it that.
Speaker 6: I'm saying right from a nigga. But I do say
Speaker 6: that to say.
Speaker 5: You got it?
Speaker 1: What are you gonna say?
Speaker 2: As a kid?
Speaker 1: Nah?
Speaker 7: Not hear me out, No, hear me out. You know,
Speaker 7: as a kid, you never found nobody.
Speaker 1: In your family.
Speaker 8: Luna Parate has foun he don't.
Speaker 7: I just got it last night.
Speaker 8: He don't know.
Speaker 6: You may tell me as a kid, you never ever
Speaker 6: thought somebody in your family's attractor.
Speaker 2: I used to try to talk to my cousin that
Speaker 2: you knew was your cousin.
Speaker 6: Yeah, on purpose.
Speaker 1: I didn't understand the relationship between cousins.
Speaker 2: How old was you? And I didn't know her like that.
Speaker 1: She would just show up to like Thanksgiving or Christmas
Speaker 1: or some ship like she living like North Carolina or something.
Speaker 2: So that's like your fate cousin, my real cousin.
Speaker 1: So I didn't I didn't understand. She wasn't none of
Speaker 1: my direct aunts. She was like mother's sisters daughter or
Speaker 1: some ship like that, my grandmother, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So she wasn't even around like that. But yeah, I
Speaker 1: used to be finding her at tracking when I was
Speaker 1: I was younger.
Speaker 2: If I can count on one hand how many times I.
Speaker 1: See you really related? Nah, we was related.
Speaker 2: So I did it.
Speaker 1: But then, like you said, I was with eleven some
Speaker 1: shit like that.
Speaker 7: I too had the same thing. So when I was
Speaker 7: like eight, I had this one cousin from Canada. I
Speaker 7: got mad fami in Canada. I don't know why, they
Speaker 7: just be up there. And it came down to freaking
Speaker 7: somebody had died. I forgot what was I don't even
Speaker 7: know what the nigga that died r ip. But it
Speaker 7: came down I'm.
Speaker 2: Like, who the fuck is all these high yellow ass niggas?
Speaker 2: I say, And there one chick she was so fire.
Speaker 7: So she was to this day she might have been
Speaker 7: one of the battest hicks I have seen. I was
Speaker 7: like eight, she might have been like seventeen. I had
Speaker 7: come a lot, and I was just looking at like, yo, damn,
Speaker 7: like she's so she looks so good, looks so good.
Speaker 7: And she walked to my mind.
Speaker 2: Like, oh my god, Auntie Diane, I haven't seen you
Speaker 2: in so long.
Speaker 5: I'm like I've never I've.
Speaker 8: Never like.
Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, I ain't on front, and that
Speaker 2: very moment, how she threw it at me, I probably
Speaker 2: would have took it.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I found attractive.
Speaker 2: I would take it.
Speaker 1: Hmm, where am I taking this show? I know that
Speaker 1: we want to have this Patreon.
Speaker 5: Episode so we can start this show.
Speaker 2: M M.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think. Hold on a second. Okay, there's
Speaker 1: one thing I needed to discuss on the show, and
Speaker 1: it is leading into the Patreon segment. But I'm gonna
Speaker 1: give you a piece of it right here, right on. Yeah.
Speaker 1: On Instagram today, I saw on the Nordy Knights page
Speaker 1: that is Zuris.
Speaker 2: She's also in Uri. I saw on the Nordy Knights page.
Speaker 1: Yeah, now that shit happened in the knee.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 1: Yeah, nigga, But listen, my phone was off, like it
Speaker 1: really wasn't even supposed to do that.
Speaker 5: I can't control your crazy.
Speaker 1: I guess that was just calmer for me fucking with.
Speaker 1: But okay, on the Norty Knights page that is Nordy
Speaker 1: n y T e s underscore n y C that
Speaker 1: Zuri she throws some of the dopest play parties and
Speaker 1: I think she does it every month here in New
Speaker 1: York City. So if you go to the Naughty n
Speaker 1: y t e s Underscore NYC page and she was
Speaker 1: a guest on the show, you can get you know,
Speaker 1: she posts when she's gonna do it. You go through
Speaker 1: your vet and process and you might be able to
Speaker 1: go to your own play party. She told some of
Speaker 1: the dopest parties here in New York City. But she
Speaker 1: posted a message and they sent me this in the
Speaker 1: group in the discord as well. And if you ain't
Speaker 1: in the discord, you play yourself, especially if you listen
Speaker 1: to the show all the time. Ye okay, we have
Speaker 1: some of the most amazing people in the discord. We're
Speaker 1: very welcoming. Yep. We have all types of different chats
Speaker 1: and shit like that, and we speak every day in
Speaker 1: the voice shout on the shit. So Anonymous the guy
Speaker 1: writes in Bruh, I did some dumb shit. Took my
Speaker 1: old lady to Atlanta, went to a swingers club and
Speaker 1: turned up.
Speaker 2: Bruh.
Speaker 1: Me her and a fine ass redbone turning up. I'm
Speaker 1: done tapped out. I caught me two good ones. I'm
Speaker 1: drained this bit. Big black six foot six musclehead nigga
Speaker 1: came over and wanted to join them. I had to
Speaker 1: agree because that's what we talked about beforehand. This was
Speaker 1: both on our bucket list, not getting to graphic but
Speaker 1: follow me. He had a towel on.
Speaker 6: I just think, I just think of what's what he's
Speaker 6: about to say next. I already know where.
Speaker 2: This is going.
Speaker 1: I'm not the smallest down there, no diddy, I'm a
Speaker 1: good seven plus plus. This dude pulled out an elephant trunk.
Speaker 7: Audible, Yeah, try to take you for spider.
Speaker 1: Man, and laid it on the other girl's forehead. I
Speaker 1: told him, you not putting that in my girl, This
Speaker 1: heifer said I wanted. I took the hardest swallow and said, okay,
Speaker 1: I had to watch my girl get slaughtered. I even
Speaker 1: went over there while he was doing it and rubbed
Speaker 1: her forehead to tell if it would be okay. Nah.
Speaker 2: She was yelling, begging for me.
Speaker 1: She was in a zone, and I checked out mentally,
Speaker 1: it's okay when we do it. But that right then? Nah.
Speaker 1: Fast forward to this morning. I woke up this morning
Speaker 1: in the mood like any guy would. I went over
Speaker 1: to her and started to strike it up with her.
Speaker 1: This motherfucker said, not right now, I'm still sore from
Speaker 1: this weekend.
Speaker 2: Who the fuck says.
Speaker 1: That I can't get what I want because she's still
Speaker 1: sore from this motherfucker Real shit. I thought I could
Speaker 1: take it, but this entire experience turned me completely off.
Speaker 1: I want to break up with her, but I love her.
Speaker 1: I just don't think it could ever get back to
Speaker 1: where it was.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's exactly at least the dragon like Cisco.
Speaker 7: So all right, this is for you when we have conversations.
Speaker 7: Damn you know what I know, because we can have
Speaker 7: a conversation because we said it was gonna remain where
Speaker 7: it was where it was at.
Speaker 2: Nah, I'm open to full swapping. I'm open to that.
Speaker 2: So it was it's not emotional about you so pretty much.
Speaker 7: You said something along the lines of like swapping and
Speaker 7: stuff like that, and I was like, yo, like you know,
Speaker 7: I'm good off that. That's kind of like one of
Speaker 7: the spots where like I crossed where you know, that's
Speaker 7: one of my lines in the saying you know, yo,
Speaker 7: you're so damned vanilla, And it's like, I don't really
Speaker 7: feel so all right, So we're gonna talk about the
Speaker 7: exploration sexuality amongst men prefer to be black man. I
Speaker 7: don't feel that you should penalize or like there should
Speaker 7: be a consequence over where we draw boundaries, you know
Speaker 7: what I'm saying, Because it's like when women have the
Speaker 7: right to kind of do what they want to do
Speaker 7: and not do what they want to do, and it's okay,
Speaker 7: it's not disputed. It's nothing that should be spoken about.
Speaker 7: I do feel like as we are trying to, like,
Speaker 7: you know, give grace to guys and encourage them and
Speaker 7: implore them to like explore certain avenues, we also have
Speaker 7: to encourage them like, Yoh, it's okay. If you don't
Speaker 7: want to do something, if you're not comfortable with it,
Speaker 7: don't do it, Like think about it. You know, it's
Speaker 7: up to you. Like, if it's something that you comfortable doing,
Speaker 7: then do it. But at the end of the day,
Speaker 7: it's something that you know for a fact that you're
Speaker 7: not comfortable with, don't put your name on that contract
Speaker 7: because not for nothing. It's like things like things like
Speaker 7: that can happen, you know what I mean.
Speaker 5: So well, he wanted to put well, he said that
Speaker 5: it was both. It was both on their bucket list,
Speaker 5: and he didn't know he was going to feel this
Speaker 5: way until after the fact.
Speaker 7: I'm talking about me. He said that I was Vanella
Speaker 7: because I don't want.
Speaker 2: To do something like that. But I'm not rely sure
Speaker 2: about him shout.
Speaker 5: But he didn't know how he was going to feel
Speaker 5: until after the fact. And I don't quite think that's fair,
Speaker 5: because before you do things like this, there has to
Speaker 5: be a very good conversation about what you're doing before
Speaker 5: you enter these play parties, because you have to think.
Speaker 5: You have to talk about all possibilities out there, because
Speaker 5: it be it will be that one time where man
Speaker 5: Dingo come rush up on your girl. Yeah, if I
Speaker 5: had a conversation about listening, like, hey, like, I don't
Speaker 5: probably want somebody bigger than me and you. I think
Speaker 5: that's honest.
Speaker 2: That's very honest to say someone I never thought to say.
Speaker 7: You can't say that, How am I going bigger than mine?
Speaker 1: As a no goie? Got the dragon's over you ten inches?
Speaker 2: Like you can't.
Speaker 5: You can't slap a dragon on.
Speaker 7: Put a Lincoln Navigator.
Speaker 2: Expedition.
Speaker 5: I'm not saying that, like you can prepare for all outcomes,
Speaker 5: but I think there are certain things that you need
Speaker 5: to talk about, especially if this is gonna be your
Speaker 5: first time doing it, like.
Speaker 7: I think I want to hold I think I want
Speaker 7: to put a pin in that. Well, no, not to
Speaker 7: put a pin in that. I want to counter that.
Speaker 7: A couple of weeks ago, when we were on here,
Speaker 7: we had a kind of a similar thing. But your
Speaker 7: response is different because I don't want to say because
Speaker 7: the roads, but the roads were different. It was when
Speaker 7: we had the I told you about the guy who
Speaker 7: was he had he told the girl he wanted to
Speaker 7: do a whole bunch of shit with her, and then
Speaker 7: she consented to it, and afterwards she just didn't want
Speaker 7: to talk to them more and ghosted it. And you
Speaker 7: was like, as a woman, you have a right to
Speaker 7: you know, do et cetera, X Y and Z.
Speaker 4: No.
Speaker 5: I saw the conversation a conversation need to be happy.
Speaker 6: But they had the conversation though, why is it now
Speaker 6: that he feels different? He can't now exercise that same
Speaker 6: luxury that you gave her.
Speaker 5: He can exercise it. But I'm saying, before you do
Speaker 5: something like that, right because with them it's just one
Speaker 5: on one interaction. When you're going to a play party,
Speaker 5: that's a whole different ballgame than degregation.
Speaker 8: Kink.
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying. There's other elements in a
Speaker 5: play party.
Speaker 7: I get what you're saying, But at the end of
Speaker 7: the day, it's still something consential that you wanted to do.
Speaker 7: You did it, you don't like it, so you don't.
Speaker 8: Want to do it again.
Speaker 1: And it's okay.
Speaker 5: I'm not saying I'm not saying he can't do it.
Speaker 5: I'm not saying that he doesn't. He can revoke his
Speaker 5: right to not do it anymore. But my thing is
Speaker 5: is that what conversation was had prior to right before
Speaker 5: you're entering something like a play party, the same thing
Speaker 5: I asked for you your last week we was on here,
Speaker 5: I said, what conversation did they have before? Because some
Speaker 5: people don't understand what a deggregat when you're doing degregation kink,
Speaker 5: how can mentally are you prepared for it? You know
Speaker 5: what I'm saying. So it's the conversation prior to you
Speaker 5: doing it. What is in that conversation?
Speaker 7: I mean, But that's so that's kind of you got
Speaker 7: to kind of hold that to the two parties because
Speaker 7: they said that a conversation was had, you know.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but what they properly knowing how to draw boundaries right, Like,
Speaker 1: for instance, I might have I'm scared to say too
Speaker 1: many boundaries, and I realizing that with what Courtney just said,
Speaker 1: I've never even thought and people say you got to
Speaker 1: talk about everything, but I've never even thought to say, Yo,
Speaker 1: if a nigga got a ten inch stick ass fire hydrant,
Speaker 1: you can't. I wouldn't feel comfortable seeing that slam into you.
Speaker 1: That's going to I wouldn't even think to say that.
Speaker 2: How do you know to join the boundary if you
Speaker 2: don't know that it's there.
Speaker 1: I think my girl would say something like I don't
Speaker 1: want to see kissing. I don't want to see this.
Speaker 1: I don't want to see that, Like she's thinking about
Speaker 1: all the things that might trigger her, and I'm just
Speaker 1: like I would kind of try to be in my cool.
Speaker 5: Like like you being your cool, do anything.
Speaker 2: His girl is cool cool.
Speaker 5: Because that's what that's how most men will be like
Speaker 5: because it's their first play party.
Speaker 10: Oh look at him now, don't look at crying.
Speaker 1: Now.
Speaker 2: This is gonna.
Speaker 1: In the Patreon, But a little snippet before we even
Speaker 1: get into that, before we start to show, because I'm
Speaker 1: gonna go into a whole thing about this lifestyle cruise
Speaker 1: that we went on. It was a lot, it was
Speaker 1: a swinger's cruise. As we're on this cruise, several times,
Speaker 1: couples that we're around would wait till I go to
Speaker 1: the bar. Black couples that were around would wait till
Speaker 1: I walk off, and they would come up and ask
Speaker 1: her if they think I'm okay with them having an
Speaker 1: experience with her right and she would be like, nah,
Speaker 1: that's just that's not gonna happen. One time, the girl
Speaker 1: actually came up to me and she's while me and
Speaker 1: my girl's there. She comes up and she's like, well,
Speaker 1: I like her, and me and my man wanted to
Speaker 1: know if you would be open to us having an
Speaker 1: experience with her. And I said to her blatantly, at
Speaker 1: my fucking you And she was like, no, he's not
Speaker 1: into that. And I said, well, what makes you think
Speaker 1: I'm into it? Like? Do I have a cuckface?
Speaker 2: Do I give off he wants to watch us fuck
Speaker 2: his girl.
Speaker 1: I've been working, I've been working my whole life not
Speaker 1: to have a cup face. So I want to know
Speaker 1: what is it about me that makes y'all think that
Speaker 1: this is what I'm going to be into and I
Speaker 1: don't understand the culture of couples coming over unicorn hunting
Speaker 1: with a person that's in a relationship and the other
Speaker 1: person's right there.
Speaker 2: Can I be honest with you, I have a cook face.
Speaker 7: No, you actually don't. You actually have the face of
Speaker 7: a serial killer. But I think you responded wrong. Why
Speaker 7: so I personally feel the people. So you see, like
Speaker 7: when we have our events, we kind of make it
Speaker 7: so that people don't have this issue. We do the
Speaker 7: wristband sometimes, the glow lights and shit like that, so
Speaker 7: it's kind of like you know which genre you should
Speaker 7: flow into, right for the most part, making it easy
Speaker 7: for newcomers.
Speaker 2: Things like that.
Speaker 7: I feel like the people who went behind your back
Speaker 7: and did that, that's from straight up sleeves bullshit, regardless.
Speaker 1: Distress was hanging around disrespectful because I was for days
Speaker 1: I walk away.
Speaker 7: You plotted away until as I went to get my
Speaker 7: Shirley Temple to try to plot on my joint.
Speaker 2: Ya relax, good, not too much.
Speaker 7: I feel like you can't fault a person for being
Speaker 7: upfront about what is they want to do, expecially they
Speaker 7: do it respectfully. Now, grants you might not be into it,
Speaker 7: you're gonna say always, okay, you know, I decline, But
Speaker 7: for you to say, oh my fuck, use what about
Speaker 7: you makes you think that'm gonna be into that? I
Speaker 7: don't even know if that's necessarily the best response you
Speaker 7: should give somebody that went about it the right way.
Speaker 2: You can't really, I don't like the right way. I
Speaker 2: don't understand the mental processing. She's just shooting a shoot you.
Speaker 1: So what makes you're shooting your shot for your nigga
Speaker 1: and the nigga is not giving you consent on your
Speaker 1: But what makes you think that any couple wants you
Speaker 1: to take that person away? And y'all do y'all thing like.
Speaker 5: Because some people are into it, they don't don't know,
Speaker 5: they don't know what, they don't know what your situation is.
Speaker 6: It's more it's more of a they think that of her,
Speaker 6: and they're just hoping that you're on board with it.
Speaker 6: Now if you're not on board, cool, but they like
Speaker 6: the way she looked, like, shoot, what's.
Speaker 1: Wrong with a food swap situation? Most black couples are
Speaker 1: not into that that I noticed on that cruise. On
Speaker 1: that cruise, most of them we unicorn hunting. They was
Speaker 1: looking for somebody that join them when you're with but
Speaker 1: this cruise and we're going to talk about this on
Speaker 1: the Patreon. Two thousand white people, maybe fifty black couples,
Speaker 1: sixty black maybe sixty black people. So thirty black couples.
Speaker 2: That was all in the same room, wasn't y'all?
Speaker 1: And they all wanted an experience with the woman most
Speaker 1: mostly you know what I'm saying, but didn't want the
Speaker 1: guy to join in. And I'm trying to understand if
Speaker 1: y'all are here for the swinging it's a swingings cruise,
Speaker 1: why is it just y'all creating three sms?
Speaker 7: You know, I agree with you.
Speaker 2: That's like black nails, nails in our feet?
Speaker 5: All right, right, let's fully why are you only looking
Speaker 5: for unicorns? And the reason why they call it unicorns
Speaker 5: is because they're hard to find? So like, where are
Speaker 5: we going on a cruise and we can't full swap selfish.
Speaker 2: Because I still disagree with that.
Speaker 5: I don't like your approach. I don't like your approach.
Speaker 1: The approach wasn't so we wound up having an experience
Speaker 1: with them. Oh it wasn't like I was the way
Speaker 1: that I said, yeah, we're gonna say it, but it
Speaker 1: wasn't like I was mad offensive with it. I wasn't
Speaker 1: you know. I was joking. I didn't kill a Vibe because
Speaker 1: I wanted to see them interact. She was gorgeous, My
Speaker 1: girls gorgeous. I wanted to see them interact. But yeah,
Speaker 1: I was like, yo, so no, because that's all.
Speaker 7: I'm gonna keep it a hundred Granted it's a slightly
Speaker 7: different radio station, but that's like me telling the game Nigga,
Speaker 7: Yo is wrong.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna kill you when you Yeah.
Speaker 7: I blocked them, but I didn't go about it. You
Speaker 7: want to buy I'm not into that, you know. I
Speaker 7: look like like.
Speaker 2: Like I like Philly Nigga.
Speaker 6: I like, it's not Nigga shout out to the Philly Dogs,
Speaker 6: to the Philly.
Speaker 1: So, yeah, we are gonna teast about the entire thing.
Speaker 1: I do have an issue with the people who are
Speaker 1: uni cornup hunting within a couple. So, but I understand
Speaker 1: what you're saying, and I might be wrong, but you
Speaker 1: always gotta remember this happened multiple times.
Speaker 2: It was, yeah, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I just like, the what is this?
Speaker 2: What if you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: What am I supposed to just go make your drinks
Speaker 2: get water, sir.
Speaker 4: Like.
Speaker 8: You got a baby.
Speaker 1: So yeah, me me personally, Yeah, I did have to
Speaker 1: shoot that. But we're gonna talk about the whole experience,
Speaker 1: and we're talking about the play party.
Speaker 7: This Yo, guys, this is gonna be probably the most
Speaker 7: anticipated Patreon episode since god knows when. Yeah, the playing
Speaker 7: party was definitely very eventful myself, and I'm not talking
Speaker 7: about myself.
Speaker 5: I ain't talking about myself either.
Speaker 7: Shout out to Wire, Shout out to Peter Parker, Shout
Speaker 7: out to the real spider Man, Triples.
Speaker 2: Spider Man, spider Man.
Speaker 1: You all ready to start the show. Okay, Welcome back
Speaker 1: to the Hard or Soft Show. This show where Courtney
Speaker 1: Loon and I and Yesterday and Spider Man talk about
Speaker 1: the things people like about sex and the things people
Speaker 1: don't like about sex, and the things that make us
Speaker 1: hard and wet and the things that make us soft
Speaker 1: and dry. I like the way I did that.
Speaker 5: Finally, Just that's amazing.
Speaker 1: Finally, just flow. I am here with my mon Frere Debonair.
Speaker 1: His ally his gayness has given me allergies. King Loon
Speaker 1: the first a k A doctor tongue around Apple, this.
Speaker 7: Is why around that is why the gay niggas is
Speaker 7: in my DM Beyonce, the receiver of booty.
Speaker 2: And panties from homs not you talk block your cock,
Speaker 2: not the cock blocking cock blocking for real the cock.
Speaker 1: Oh my, my man, what's happening with you? How you've
Speaker 1: been feeling? How's everything we hear?
Speaker 2: Everything's good, man, can't complain. Summer's approaching.
Speaker 7: Get a little way back facts. Thank god, I've I
Speaker 7: been able to eat. Yeah, you know, I feel a little,
Speaker 7: feel like I'm some strength. I felt like if the
Speaker 7: wind blew, I was gonna fall over. Yeah you know,
Speaker 7: but you know we're here with it though. You want
Speaker 7: to introduce your calls, Damn.
Speaker 1: I forgot my right.
Speaker 6: All right, y'all, here we go.
Speaker 7: We're with not a but the DJ, the Master Ceremonies,
Speaker 7: the click Ripper, the toy kind of shueer, the greasy
Speaker 7: tits call a sunny D because some ds be sunny hell,
Speaker 7: the little fizz ponytail.
Speaker 2: Rocking, the.
Speaker 6: Little fish ponytail rocking, the light skin, bright skin gold
Speaker 6: in the summertime, Courtney hard dashing, a ka chavon.
Speaker 2: If you're nasty a k A.
Speaker 7: My libido will be back soon, so you niggas get
Speaker 7: ready to jokings joking, don't get ready?
Speaker 2: Oh my god, not with a S.
Speaker 8: It won't be any niggas.
Speaker 7: Maybe women's no with I knows just.
Speaker 1: When women's is crazy to Sorry, you see, this is
Speaker 1: why you keep.
Speaker 2: Getting them dm s because I said women's.
Speaker 5: Not the women's the women.
Speaker 2: Are you doing today, miss Courtney?
Speaker 5: I'm good today. I'm a little tired. No, I be profaning.
Speaker 5: I got my wisdom to taken out Tuesday?
Speaker 2: Are you still taking a soldier?
Speaker 5: Myla?
Speaker 8: Is that Tuesday?
Speaker 1: And Shila?
Speaker 2: What the isla?
Speaker 8: You never seen.
Speaker 5: Tyree's video when he's great?
Speaker 7: Yes, yes, yes, yes, sorry, sorry sorry, Tyre is not
Speaker 7: posted in my mind.
Speaker 2: Of go to things. We listened to his drake around
Speaker 2: here the hell anyway?
Speaker 5: But I'm good besides the the tingly feeling in my
Speaker 5: in my drawer you wanted to No, you can't them
Speaker 5: out seven days of healing.
Speaker 1: I got my cousin, my family behind the boards, off
Speaker 1: the screen, Deep voiced dark Man over there, spider Man
Speaker 1: over there, Spider Man, Superman over there. But how you
Speaker 1: feeling today? Are right?
Speaker 6: I'm feeling good. I'm feeling good, happy, happy, happy to
Speaker 6: be backing for me. Everybody cast back love the energy.
Speaker 6: Energy is good vibs, excellent vibs about.
Speaker 1: The Patreons, scared of for what?
Speaker 8: No, I know, that's fucking right.
Speaker 1: We shooting our first episode of For the Love of
Speaker 1: Yesterday next week, so that'll be fun. Well, we haven't
Speaker 1: done this segment in a while, and I know, Courtney,
Speaker 1: matter of fact, I don't even know. Let me see,
Speaker 1: we're at one thirty five. Let's see if it's cut that.
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, do to what made this hard
Speaker 1: this week? But I'm gonna cut that because we gotta
Speaker 1: do the Patreon anyway, right, But I do want to
Speaker 1: go into the heart versus the soft.
Speaker 2: The heart.
Speaker 1: Things people like in the bedroom, things that make us hard.
Speaker 7: So this ain't nothing that I've experienced yet, right, See,
Speaker 7: I know I got a thing for girls with glasses, right,
Speaker 7: That's my thing. Had this vision, mean fucking a girl
Speaker 7: with glasses and she all shine timid, and she take
Speaker 7: her glasses off, and she like fucking me like super Man,
Speaker 7: I mean supergirl, Supergirl, Like you just start fucking me
Speaker 7: like reliquests me, like she got a whole different personality.
Speaker 7: He took his glasses off he go for my clocking.
Speaker 7: Superman will dok it out. I kind of want some
Speaker 7: shit like that split personality sex.
Speaker 1: The innocent girl that turns into the slut in the
Speaker 1: bedroom take a glass, Oh baby.
Speaker 2: No sunglasses? Do you read with sunglasses?
Speaker 1: Oh baby?
Speaker 7: Goddamn?
Speaker 1: The innocent girl that turns into the slug bed room
Speaker 1: that is every man's until you find out that she's
Speaker 1: like freaking the week to everybody's.
Speaker 6: God damn it.
Speaker 1: We was talking about that today in the Discord chat
Speaker 1: this morning. How again, how much the man's ego matters,
Speaker 1: and thinking like yo, I want a girl to think
Speaker 1: that my dick is the biggest and the best. How
Speaker 1: the boyfriend dick can feel like an insult or it
Speaker 1: can be deflating when a girl.
Speaker 2: Says it's it's perfect.
Speaker 1: It is never ever they're too small.
Speaker 5: I would never ever tell a man that he has
Speaker 5: boyfriend dick.
Speaker 1: Why to explain it?
Speaker 5: I wouldn't because again, like you said, it's ego deflating, Like,
Speaker 5: why would I tell you that you have boyfriend dick?
Speaker 5: Every time you, every time you and me, I'm I'm
Speaker 5: gonna make it feel like it is the biggest and
Speaker 5: best thing. I've ever had in my life. And why
Speaker 5: because I think it's important and when it comes to
Speaker 5: things like that to inflate your man's ego, I think
Speaker 5: there's certain times where it's okay for your man's ego
Speaker 5: to be a little and in the bedroom is definitely
Speaker 5: back because what if I like, what if I'm in
Speaker 5: the bedroom he's like, oh, yeah, you know you got
Speaker 5: you got you got girlfriend tities, girlfriend girl, I don't know,
Speaker 5: take some out, but you know something I would be
Speaker 5: deflating to women, Oh you have small pussy lips.
Speaker 2: Niggas wouldn't say that, that's not kind of yeah.
Speaker 1: Because if chicks want to know they think they have
Speaker 1: a fat they when because when we be like, oh
Speaker 1: do I have fat ma?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've never her. I've never heard a nigga say yeah,
Speaker 2: you got a slim pussy? Yeah, yeah, exactly because it's
Speaker 2: insulting exactly.
Speaker 5: So why would why would I say you got boyfriend, dick?
Speaker 7: Because because girls are insulting people.
Speaker 2: It's been said.
Speaker 1: I don't think that they understand that the relation between
Speaker 1: me wanting to be your best or your biggest or
Speaker 1: the most desired with the correlation with saying boyfriend dick
Speaker 1: and what we want to present ass right, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So I don't think that they trying
Speaker 1: to disrespect you if you going at it from fucking
Speaker 1: versus pleasure. If we going back to that, I was
Speaker 1: saying in the chat this morning that you want your
Speaker 1: dick to be boyfriend or perfect dick. If you're thinking
Speaker 1: about her pleasure and you're thinking about what matters most
Speaker 1: to her, you wouldn't be wanting to be the biggest
Speaker 1: and something that is like.
Speaker 5: Because dragon dick, ain't it for me? I don't got pussy,
Speaker 5: but still I don't.
Speaker 7: But you want to be the nigg with the towel.
Speaker 5: Now I'm running away from me. You gotta wipe my
Speaker 5: forehead and you gotta.
Speaker 2: Talk like and most chicks don't want that all the time.
Speaker 2: That's not a good experience. But I don't want that
Speaker 2: every day every day.
Speaker 7: Would you rather be a good time or a long time?
Speaker 2: It's a girl long time.
Speaker 1: Depends on which girl, right, If it's my girl long time,
Speaker 1: If it's just the average chick running the mill, meta
Speaker 1: in the spot and I just want to go home
Speaker 1: good time, I want her to I just want her
Speaker 1: to have a great time and go on home.
Speaker 2: That's it.
Speaker 1: That's the poll pause. So yeah, the chick that that
Speaker 1: is doing all that sluody ship just for me because
Speaker 1: my energy is that for her. That's the vibe that
Speaker 1: you want to go for. That's that's what you want
Speaker 1: to think. I remember, Yeah, maybe I shouldn't say that.
Speaker 1: Maybe you should have got a little bit more. I
Speaker 1: got a little bit more checking my flex now. That
Speaker 1: puts her out there. But yeah, you don't wanted to
Speaker 1: think that she you know, your chick, Your chick is
Speaker 1: doing this, has done this with everybody and you just
Speaker 1: another kill.
Speaker 2: You don't want to feel like that, you know what
Speaker 2: I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So yeah, I totally understand the slight in the bedroom
Speaker 1: type vibe. Definitely definitely courting. You got a heart, a
Speaker 1: wet something that you want more people to think of
Speaker 1: when it comes to sex, and it's turned on when
Speaker 1: it comes to.
Speaker 5: Sex consideration in one way, considering your partner.
Speaker 1: That's crazy.
Speaker 2: Did you do that?
Speaker 1: Hit my elbow on the wall and you knocked the
Speaker 1: picture down? Yeah, the picture went up for four years.
Speaker 1: She's been there for four years, says Tye. Says boyfriend
Speaker 1: Dick to me is the best thing ever. And I
Speaker 1: think a woman would want to prefer to hear she
Speaker 1: has a small pussy to roast beef pussy. That is
Speaker 1: offensive to people who have been said they have roast
Speaker 1: beef pussy. By the way, I like roast beef. That's huh.
Speaker 2: Roast Beef's never been set as a cop. I've said it.
Speaker 2: I said chicken had chicken mo Maine pussy lips. Yo.
Speaker 2: I used to suck yo. I used to love sucking
Speaker 2: on them, the ships that hang out and all that.
Speaker 1: That was the roast beef, right.
Speaker 2: I like that ship chicken little Maine pussy lips, especially
Speaker 2: the big chicken lot Maine strips.
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Like if you get chicken
Speaker 1: and broccoli.
Speaker 2: Cordy, you let him do this.
Speaker 5: I'm not. I like, I don't got roast beef.
Speaker 2: Sucking on the pussy lips. Matter of fact, that's gonna
Speaker 2: be my heart.
Speaker 5: Go ahead, I guess my heart is consideration. Well, my
Speaker 5: wet is consideration, like considering your partner in every aspect
Speaker 5: in the bedroom and reciprocating that back. I'm sorry, I'm
Speaker 5: sorry if I don't have like a really good.
Speaker 1: Uh what do think that's nothing wrong with that, But
Speaker 1: it's just I think that's really good. Yeah, I think
Speaker 1: that's what I was talking about earlier. It's the same
Speaker 1: thing that women want. Men want the same thing.
Speaker 5: Consideration and reciprocation.
Speaker 1: Yeah, consideration and reciprocation for sure, my heart. When you
Speaker 1: eating that pussy and you sucking on the motherfucking pussy
Speaker 1: lips and you flicking that bean by and you feel
Speaker 1: that pussy fill up and that fucking top area gets
Speaker 1: mad nice and hard, and then the pussy start creaming.
Speaker 2: And ship you look up and she squeezed. Oh, I
Speaker 2: told you. I told her pincher nipples when she was
Speaker 2: sitting there like this, Well.
Speaker 1: I was flicking that pinch of fuck?
Speaker 2: Huh was a pinch of fuck?
Speaker 1: Want? I like when a woman holds her body or
Speaker 1: done stuff to her body. I like when a woman
Speaker 1: plays with her pussy while I'm doing something else in
Speaker 1: your ass, and I totally played with the pussy.
Speaker 2: I like that.
Speaker 1: I enjoy that. Yeah, I might do it myself as well,
Speaker 1: but I do like when a woman didn't even feel herself.
Speaker 1: What's wrong with you? Why you're judging my mac?
Speaker 7: I'm trying to help you playing, you know.
Speaker 1: I like the different ways to play. Yeah, I currently
Speaker 1: tried to tank you when you were saying ship yeah.
Speaker 1: Well she was like, oh, you told her to stop talking,
Speaker 1: and I was like, yo, that could be. It is
Speaker 1: vibe for the day.
Speaker 2: But now when I say something just a problem with you,
Speaker 2: it's my problem with you.
Speaker 1: But yeah, I like that when you suck it. First
Speaker 1: of all, Yes, come with all them different types of
Speaker 1: pussy lips. Come with all them them chicken on maine,
Speaker 1: that roast beef. I like to suckle them roast beef.
Speaker 1: I like to suckle them roast beas I go from
Speaker 1: one side of the roast beef to the other. Then
Speaker 1: I come up the middle. Then I come up the
Speaker 1: middle of the pussy lick through the middle, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Then and then and then you and
Speaker 1: then you you you land at the top of the
Speaker 1: box and you flip that being up flip flip flipped,
Speaker 1: and you walk to the side, to the side of
Speaker 1: the side. Then you tongue funk the middle. You ever
Speaker 1: put you are y'all into uh? Do are you into
Speaker 1: pushing U tongue in the pussy? Yeah? Yes, A lot
Speaker 1: of men don't understand that you gotta know what your
Speaker 1: lady like. Some women don't like the tongue in the pussy.
Speaker 1: Some do. I was taught this. I thought that you
Speaker 1: don't that. Women don't like tongue in the box. Sometimes
Speaker 1: you gotta tongue funk the box.
Speaker 7: Sometimes, Yeah, a tongue the box.
Speaker 2: And to fight you back, just put your damn you're
Speaker 2: so strong today. You put what because you got a
Speaker 2: long tongue. That's why.
Speaker 1: That's why an invasive But we're doing Patreon, you have
Speaker 1: an invasive maneuver.
Speaker 7: We're not talking about to that tongue.
Speaker 2: I can we can imagine we stopped that going all in.
Speaker 2: Its just it's just too much. It's just too now
Speaker 2: imagine it like not respecting. That's exactly what she's saying.
Speaker 1: This is not feeling good. Get out of my fucking esophagust.
Speaker 2: It's way too, way too deep. It's soft.
Speaker 1: Things people don't like.
Speaker 2: Damn. Can I get the heart off? Oh you want
Speaker 2: to get a hard off? Can I get one off of?
Speaker 1: Pause?
Speaker 2: My bad? Damn, that's all good.
Speaker 5: That's crazy crazy, I'm saying, that's crazy. You couldn't let
Speaker 5: him get off, but now you want to get off.
Speaker 2: Oh, you're right, you know. Actually it's tough.
Speaker 1: I like that.
Speaker 2: I like that. I couldn't nasty work quick.
Speaker 6: It's it's real quick because because this is at the
Speaker 6: top of my mind. Hard for me is when you're
Speaker 6: just going about your day, you know, you could be
Speaker 6: doing something work, you know, whatever, and somebody drops that
Speaker 6: picture that invisible ink.
Speaker 1: Nah.
Speaker 5: I like to send mine bold.
Speaker 7: With a visible ink.
Speaker 5: No, you're shipping invisible. I like to I'll send my
Speaker 5: news and echo like.
Speaker 2: Effects on it about when.
Speaker 1: You receive it, though, I can see.
Speaker 2: That with echoes. I never I never said that echo.
Speaker 7: Echo, lady.
Speaker 5: Chicken, use a different effect. Use your slam and use
Speaker 5: the echo when you send the new next time.
Speaker 1: I never thought that I remember. No, no, no, that
Speaker 1: that was that was my heart.
Speaker 6: I feel like getting a picture and seeing somebody in
Speaker 6: some nice laungerie coachy looking smooth as a boiled egg
Speaker 6: like bro.
Speaker 2: That was definitely hard this week, for sure.
Speaker 5: Yes, it's only for iPhones, Christina.
Speaker 1: Yeah, sorry, and joys, y'all gotta do something. Yeah. I
Speaker 1: don't know what they be doing over there, right, But
Speaker 1: the soft things people don't like in the bedroom, things
Speaker 1: that make us soft. No, I don't think I got
Speaker 1: one for this week now. I already told y'all what
Speaker 1: makes me so. I want reciprocation. I think that most
Speaker 1: men want to be slutted out, So the expectation that
Speaker 1: I have to always put in all of the pain
Speaker 1: here is soft. I would like for all men to
Speaker 1: experience a woman that takes care of them from time
Speaker 1: to time, especially monthly.
Speaker 2: They don't have to be weekly, but monthly put on.
Speaker 1: For that nigga, slut that nigga out so that when
Speaker 1: he leaves and goes to work the next day, he's blushing,
Speaker 1: he's looking around. Yes, she's wiling. She wowed me to
Speaker 1: fuck up. And you ain't gotta do this for the
Speaker 1: average nigga, right, And I have a thing with you
Speaker 1: ladies that want to give the nigga that's not your
Speaker 1: nigga all of the benefits, like, oh, I will fuck
Speaker 1: him quicker because he is not boyfriend material. I don't
Speaker 1: funk with y'all. Yeah, because the most of the relationships
Speaker 1: that I've had, I fucked the first day, So stop
Speaker 1: doing that bullshit.
Speaker 5: That nigga, I would say, know what she wants. My
Speaker 5: longest relationships has been when on the first day.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, stop playing around with me. Man,
Speaker 2: get that ship up.
Speaker 6: One relationship.
Speaker 2: On the first day.
Speaker 1: There, he was like, no, I think it's.
Speaker 5: Going Yeah he was you know that mask where it's
Speaker 5: like smiling but insight crying.
Speaker 1: No, it was good.
Speaker 2: I learned a lot about myself.
Speaker 1: This will be the end of our regular episode, okay,
Speaker 1: because we got a lot to talk about on Patreon.
Speaker 1: It's been very eventful a couple of weeks. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: we're going to start with the play party. Things that
Speaker 1: happened there we haven't really spoken about. We're gonna middle
Speaker 1: with something else and then we're gonna talk about something
Speaker 1: else right yesterday, Hello, Hello, Sex, Love, relationships and accountability.
Speaker 1: If you want to listen to the Patreon goal on
Speaker 1: patreon dot com, backslash the heart or soft what show,
Speaker 1: show Show, It's the show.