Speaker 1: Welcome to the I'm Still Fun Podcast. Since we last spoke,
Speaker 1: which was like a week ago, Jenny got married. Congratulations Jenny,
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, I sure did. Thank you.
Speaker 2: Ah, sorry you didn't get an invite to the wedding.
Speaker 2: And it was really quick, it seems like it. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I met the person and next day I was like,
Speaker 2: let's just go to let's just do it. Why are
Speaker 2: we waiting? And then like, let's go and get me
Speaker 2: a bag. That's this wifey on it.
Speaker 1: When you said for your birthday that your friend Tiff
Speaker 1: got you a WiFi bag, I did wonder why she
Speaker 1: got you a WiFi bag, And then when I saw
Speaker 1: you holding it, I immediately was like, this is going
Speaker 1: to confuse people. But even though you wrote in the caption,
Speaker 1: I've learned you should too. At this point, no one
Speaker 1: actually reads your captions. I've learned because most things that
Speaker 1: I get asked about posts are in the caption. The
Speaker 1: biggest confusing caption is a real To this day, people
Speaker 1: do not realize reels have captions, and most info I
Speaker 1: try to put, like most like things that I know,
Speaker 1: people will ask me and it doesn't matter. So the
Speaker 1: fact that you have a WiFi bag. As soon as
Speaker 1: I saw that, I was like, Oh, people are gonna
Speaker 1: assume she's married. I'm getting married.
Speaker 2: Don't know why I didn't think that, but I guess
Speaker 2: like I just assume everyone knows that I'm not in
Speaker 2: a relationship anymore. But I shouldn't because I still get
Speaker 2: messages and text into the show constantly, of like anytime
Speaker 2: it's brought up, like wait, Jenny's single, What what happened?
Speaker 3: I must have missed a chapter.
Speaker 2: So yes, I didn't really think about it when I
Speaker 2: posted it, and I thought I made it pretty clear
Speaker 2: in the caption, and then I went in and redid
Speaker 2: the caption to make it even more clear, and then
Speaker 2: I went in and did an edit on top of
Speaker 2: it that said.
Speaker 3: I am not married or engaged. This is crazy.
Speaker 2: So anyways, if you don't know what we're talking about,
Speaker 2: just look at my Instagram and there's a picture I
Speaker 2: posted of me at the farmer's market and I'm holding
Speaker 2: my wifey bag and my friend Tiff and I have
Speaker 2: always called each other WiFi and so that's just what
Speaker 2: it is. I've gotten her probably a mug that's wifey
Speaker 2: on it before she got me that bag. Nice what
Speaker 2: it is, but yeah, I didn't really think of it.
Speaker 1: I started laughing because I saw even someone that I
Speaker 1: know like posted I didn't know she got married either,
Speaker 1: and I was like, and I almost commented, like she's not.
Speaker 1: I was like, that's not my place, so I'll let
Speaker 1: Jenny handle her own business. But I was not surprised.
Speaker 1: But it also is like a reminder. And we talk
Speaker 1: about this in radio all the time. We think people
Speaker 1: listen to us all the time, and they don't Number one,
Speaker 1: number two. Not only do they not listen to us
Speaker 1: all the time, there are people who will still say
Speaker 1: fall and I love you on the morning show. I
Speaker 1: know there's no way that person listens and they probably
Speaker 1: haven't listened for years, but they associate with if I
Speaker 1: listened to a morning show, that's the one I would
Speaker 1: listen to. It's almost been two years since I've been
Speaker 1: on the morning show, right, so for someone to be
Speaker 1: like I. But to be fair, I guess I am on.
Speaker 2: War of the Roses replays, so maybe we haven't played
Speaker 2: as many with your voice because they Dave was like, well,
Speaker 2: we have enough with me on it now, and he's like,
Speaker 2: it does get confusing to people and they like people
Speaker 2: will be.
Speaker 3: Like, wait is falling back? Like whatever? Yeah, so but
Speaker 3: then you know.
Speaker 2: We do marathonss marathons, and you're on almost every single
Speaker 2: classic one.
Speaker 1: That we have on like ten years now, and the
Speaker 1: most classic one I'm not even on that one's before me.
Speaker 1: Even so, it is, uh, it is funny and eye
Speaker 1: opening how little people actually do. But you can't blame
Speaker 1: people because lives change, schedules change, and that's just how
Speaker 1: it goes. Baby.
Speaker 2: It's to me what's interesting about being single now are
Speaker 2: the people who have clearly probably never been through a
Speaker 2: true heartbreak, who think it's fine to just immediately be like,
Speaker 2: so what happened with you and Andrew? And my dms
Speaker 2: who don't know me, and it's kind.
Speaker 3: Of like, uh no.
Speaker 2: And also, honestly, I do find it a little bit
Speaker 2: overstepping to even ask in my dms like when did
Speaker 2: you and Andrew break up? Or did you and Andrew
Speaker 2: break up? Like? I get that we share our public lives,
Speaker 2: but I just would never reach out to someone who
Speaker 2: I follow from a distance and do not personally know
Speaker 2: and be like, oh my god, when did you and
Speaker 2: your husband break up? I just wouldn't do that or
Speaker 2: did you and your husband break up? Because you have
Speaker 2: no idea what that person might be going through, and
Speaker 2: all you're doing is bringing up something that could potentially
Speaker 2: hurt them right or make them feel the pain. You know,
Speaker 2: I'm fine now, but like some of it was triggering
Speaker 2: for a while, and I just I'll be honest, if
Speaker 2: you ask me anything about that in my DMS, I
Speaker 2: don't answer.
Speaker 1: That's fair. I feel like also one thing, like so
Speaker 1: one thing I've struggled with as a friend to someone
Speaker 1: who's going through things, I'll like sometimes I'll think, oh,
Speaker 1: I should like reach out and see how they're doing,
Speaker 1: And then I get in my head a little bit
Speaker 1: like what if this is the one hour today they're
Speaker 1: not thinking about that? And then I bring it up.
Speaker 1: So that's what I think of, Like why another reason
Speaker 1: why I wouldn't DM someone What if like that was
Speaker 1: like the one hour that day you weren't grieving and
Speaker 1: sad or whatever, and then I bring it up and
Speaker 1: you're immediately taken to that sadness, you know, But that's
Speaker 1: also not a good reason as a friend to not
Speaker 1: reach out, Like just so I think, you know, I
Speaker 1: go back and forth in my head when friends go
Speaker 1: through different things, Like I don't want to bring it
Speaker 1: up there maybe all the time, but occasionally.
Speaker 3: I'm sure everyone's different.
Speaker 2: I would never be mad if like it was the
Speaker 2: one hour of the day that I was like having
Speaker 2: a good moment and you reach out to be like
Speaker 2: how you doing, I would never be mad at that
Speaker 2: because that's.
Speaker 3: Just you being a good friend, honestly.
Speaker 1: So well, quick quick update. You said you're doing better
Speaker 1: with things.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, you know, you have your moments. Nothing's
Speaker 2: like yeah, it's definitely not a linear thing. It's definitely
Speaker 2: like still a roller coaster. But I think I just
Speaker 2: I don't know, the routine of my life has become
Speaker 2: more normal than what I out like it was at first,
Speaker 2: Like it's not as strange to come home when there's
Speaker 2: no one there. But I get tear eyed for everything
Speaker 2: I talk about. But I swear like I'm fine right now.
Speaker 2: I get like a little tear eyed still, But no,
Speaker 2: I think that like I've gotten so good at getting
Speaker 2: back out and hanging out more with friends, and you know,
Speaker 2: you like if you ever become single after being in
Speaker 2: a relationship for a long time, you kind of like
Speaker 2: think that man, there was probably something wrong in the
Speaker 2: relationship because I wasn't really hanging out with my friends
Speaker 2: that much. But that's just not true. It's just the
Speaker 2: natural trajectory of a relationship, you know. So it's like
Speaker 2: I'm out doing more things, but I don't want to
Speaker 2: be out that long. Like I went to this thing
Speaker 2: Friday nights and there was a little silent disco afterwards,
Speaker 2: and so I stuck around for maybe a half hour
Speaker 2: of that, and then I was like, I just want
Speaker 2: to go home now, Like I don't want to be out.
Speaker 2: But then it's also like I don't want to sit
Speaker 2: at home by myself all the time. To be honest,
Speaker 2: watching dogs has been a saving grace for me.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like to just have another breathing being in the house.
Speaker 2: With me has been so helpful, just because it's like,
Speaker 2: you know, I had two dogs this weekend, and one
Speaker 2: left yesterday afternoon and one left in the evening pretty
Speaker 2: late actually, but I was like sad to just have
Speaker 2: this empty house.
Speaker 3: Yes again, you know.
Speaker 2: So yeah, but anyways, yeah, I'm good. I have bad
Speaker 2: days and then I have days where I'm like, Okay,
Speaker 2: this is my new life.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, we I haven't tried to set Jenny up
Speaker 1: with anyone this week.
Speaker 2: So I have moved on from that, so that you have.
Speaker 2: You have, however, done something that crossed the line. I
Speaker 2: was just mining my business last week and found and
Speaker 2: I were texting about something and then out of nowhere,
Speaker 2: she goes, why are you in Golden Valley?
Speaker 1: And I go what?
Speaker 3: And I go, do you still have my location?
Speaker 1: Yes?
Speaker 2: I knew. I was like, you creep And so I'm
Speaker 2: sitting there and I had shared my location when I
Speaker 2: went on my bad Lands trip with Fallen and my sisters,
Speaker 2: and I completely.
Speaker 1: Forgot I shared it with you.
Speaker 2: I knew my sister still had it, and like, whatever,
Speaker 2: I think it's pretty normal that in family's location. But
Speaker 2: like I think I shared it with you to be like, hey,
Speaker 2: you one more person to make sure I'm alive. Still whatever,
Speaker 2: And so, yeah, you revealed that you like to check
Speaker 2: in on you every one.
Speaker 1: Oh, it was creepier than that. It was creepier than
Speaker 1: I go, oh, Jenny's And I was doing my radio
Speaker 1: show with Colt. I was like, Jenny's and Golden Valley
Speaker 1: cult Like, what's the address? He pulls up the Google
Speaker 1: street view of the house. Yeah, and I was like,
Speaker 1: if she knew this was happening, she would absolutely revoke
Speaker 1: my privileges. I do have Tina's as well, Oh do you? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I've yours, Tina's my obviously, Jake and Dylan, and my
Speaker 1: sister in law Laura. I think that's all I have.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I used to have my sister in la Hanna's, but
Speaker 1: I don't have hers anymore.
Speaker 2: Will you tell me that you were weren't sure if
Speaker 2: you should say it because you thought I'd revoke your privileges.
Speaker 2: I was worried at first. I kind of was like,
Speaker 2: should I take it away from her? And then I
Speaker 2: was like, I don't fucking care. There's never There's never
Speaker 2: gonna be anything that I'm doing that I wouldn't tell
Speaker 2: you if I was like, and if anything, you might
Speaker 2: be the one that saves my life, because my sisters probably.
Speaker 1: Don't ever look you know, well, you might the one
Speaker 1: that would.
Speaker 2: Be like, I haven't heard from Jenny in like twenty
Speaker 2: four hours, and she hasn't posted on social media.
Speaker 1: Let me look at her, like the only reason I
Speaker 1: even like looked it wasn't a normal look. So when
Speaker 1: you share a location with someone, if you go to
Speaker 1: text them. Yeah, it shows it. So that's the only
Speaker 1: reason I even knew. I went to text you something,
Speaker 1: I'm like, what the hell is she doing in Golden Valley? Right?
Speaker 1: So then I clicked on the location, gave cult the address,
Speaker 1: and I was like, that house isn't look familiar. And
Speaker 1: if you're so curious about what I was doing in
Speaker 1: Golden Valley on a random Wednesday afternoon, I was walking
Speaker 1: a dog.
Speaker 3: So it was fucking crazy.
Speaker 1: Someone there should say. Some would say, you and I
Speaker 1: need to get live three sixty that way, I know
Speaker 1: how fast you're going.
Speaker 2: I can track truly everything. Yeah, well, I think about it.
Speaker 2: Get back to Okay, it sounds good, but for right now,
Speaker 2: I will let you have my location.
Speaker 1: Okay, don't take it away, please. We we haven't really
Speaker 1: talked about. Oh god, my mom's calling me. She's taken
Speaker 1: my dog to get his hair cut and she wasn't
Speaker 1: know how short I want his hair. Sorry, whatever they
Speaker 1: think is best for a summer cut. If you've seen
Speaker 1: photos of Frank on my hair, and.
Speaker 2: I was going to bring it up because that little
Speaker 2: on the boat this past weekend looked so cute, but
Speaker 2: he was looking he's homeless. Yeah, looking he looks like
Speaker 2: a dog from the street. Sorry, unhoused, but that is
Speaker 2: because basically, so what happened was we got him in
Speaker 2: to like a grooming place, but they were like so
Speaker 2: many dog groomers you have.
Speaker 1: To wait a month to get in. Yeah, so we're like, okay,
Speaker 1: so his groom was supposed to be last week. This
Speaker 1: is the dumbest uf date ever. But this is kind
Speaker 1: of weird. The place texts Jake and says, Hey, I'm
Speaker 1: really sorry to do this, but are the people who
Speaker 1: own the strip mall and buildings never got that proper
Speaker 1: permits so all of our businesses are not allowed to
Speaker 1: be open until it's settled up.
Speaker 3: Oh.
Speaker 1: I was like, can you imagine being a business owner
Speaker 1: and you find out the building owner and to get
Speaker 1: the proper permits, so you have to stop business. So
Speaker 1: Jake quickly called like a place we've never been and
Speaker 1: they were able to get him on Monday, and I
Speaker 1: was like, oh, we should have gone there initially. That
Speaker 1: was like easy to get in unless they have a
Speaker 1: bad reputation, and that's why it's easy to get in.
Speaker 1: Frank will find out but his nails are longer hit
Speaker 1: that he could be in the Guinness Book. It's very unhealthy.
Speaker 1: And also I'm worried about how he's going to act.
Speaker 1: What if he's a little dick. Oh, he could be
Speaker 1: a little shyster. I think he's just a playful pub
Speaker 1: He does have some like matting behind his ear is
Speaker 1: going to piss him off. What they're gonna think I'm
Speaker 1: a bad dog on her is what it comes down to.
Speaker 3: I mean, how often do you get doll.
Speaker 1: Only once or twice? Her hair doesn't grow too long.
Speaker 1: Hers is more about twice a year. Yeah, probably twice
Speaker 1: a year. Usually get her a summer cut and a
Speaker 1: winter cut. You know, That's about it.
Speaker 2: I think I've seen her when she's real fresh and clean,
Speaker 2: and I'm like, damn, Doll, look at you, you fancy lady.
Speaker 1: She's getting fat again again. She is out because she
Speaker 1: won't stop eating things. Our door knob is weird to
Speaker 1: our cupboard, and she's been sneaking snacks like crazy. She
Speaker 1: had an entire this is bad, guys, but she lived.
Speaker 1: She had an entire Costco box of protein bars, including
Speaker 1: the wrappers. Do you know how bad that could sit
Speaker 1: on the stomach. We were like, we were watching her,
Speaker 1: like I hope she shits. She did, and then she
Speaker 1: was vomiting up the wrappers.
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, she.
Speaker 1: Ate a half of sour dough. She'll proof your doors done.
Speaker 1: She went trash digging yesterday. Dylan took photos. She even
Speaker 1: ate cilantro guys. She's getting pathetic and desperate.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I was gonna say, most dogs don't eat anything green.
Speaker 1: Well, she left most of it, but she tried it first.
Speaker 1: She dabbled.
Speaker 2: I was gonna say, anytime I've dropped spinach on the floor,
Speaker 2: it doesn't matter what kind of hoover vacuum the dog is.
Speaker 2: They never they will spit that out.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: No, she's sick, but she's just you know this about her.
Speaker 1: I'm going to tell the story in the radio later,
Speaker 1: but I thought of you a little bit this weekend.
Speaker 1: Tell me went to a birthday party. Uh my daughter
Speaker 1: is five, almost six years old. She was inside the
Speaker 1: top of the bounce I was ready to go. I
Speaker 1: wanted to get the f out. Okay, it'd been the.
Speaker 2: Front of the house that has like different layers, Like
Speaker 2: one side is a bounce house and then it.
Speaker 1: Has a big slide. She's at the top of the slide.
Speaker 1: King of the mountain. I'm like, come down, we're leaving.
Speaker 1: No ha no and laughter. Can't yell at your kid
Speaker 1: at a public party. Yeah, I'm like, get down here.
Speaker 1: She's like no, ha ha, keeps laughing. I was like, mother,
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm going to give you two minutes
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna come back. Then she's in the bounce house.
Speaker 1: Time okay, taunt, taunt, top of the slide. I can't
Speaker 1: reach her. I can't get in these places, okay. I
Speaker 1: don't want to scare other children. So I was like,
Speaker 1: all right, I got a game plan in my head,
Speaker 1: like a cat hiding. All right, you gotta leave the scene. Yeah,
Speaker 1: when they least expect it, they'll come out like out
Speaker 1: of their den. She's a she's an idiot. She did it.
Speaker 1: She's an idiot. She fell for it. She comes out
Speaker 1: of the bounce house looking around. She says, I'm over
Speaker 1: relaxing with the parents. Now here's where things got sick. Yep.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 1: So she goes to go back around the bounce house
Speaker 1: to go to the entrance. Yeah, so I jump up.
Speaker 1: Jake said he's never seen me faster. He said, I
Speaker 1: didn't even know you could move like that yea. I
Speaker 1: sprint around the stair side the slide side, meet her
Speaker 1: right when she's getting ready to jump into the bounce house.
Speaker 1: I like a psych go, go, gadget, slide my body
Speaker 1: into the bounce house. I grab her leg and yank
Speaker 1: her out a while. The dads was standing there and
Speaker 1: he was like he looked at me, and she's like
Speaker 1: she was not expecting me to be there and just
Speaker 1: snatch her out. I snatched her so hard my phone
Speaker 1: flew out of my pocket. I had her like trapped
Speaker 1: in my arms, carried her around. Jake. When I came
Speaker 1: around the corner with her in my arms, he started
Speaker 1: dying laughing. He's like, what in the hell just happened?
Speaker 1: And then we loaded her up in the car, and
Speaker 1: that's how it happened. Icho out of party. She she
Speaker 1: could tell she was about to be pissy and cry
Speaker 1: for a second, but then the host of the party
Speaker 1: gave her a gift bag, you know, for the party favor,
Speaker 1: so she trafted and she chilled.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she was distracted by the party. Bank was like, oh, whatever,
Speaker 2: forget the Bow's house.
Speaker 1: But I like, I don't I don't care. I was
Speaker 1: like that game could have gone on for like an
Speaker 1: hour because I couldn't get to the top of the slide.
Speaker 1: I would have made the whole damn thing collapse. But
Speaker 1: it was like when you went in will Ferrell Styles
Speaker 1: started killing children at my daughter.
Speaker 2: I don't start killing children. I thought, second of all,
Speaker 2: you told me to do that. You're like, go in
Speaker 2: there and wreck wreck havoc, recavoc yep.
Speaker 3: And I was like fine, and I did.
Speaker 2: But the kids were so much little of the back then,
Speaker 2: and I had no control of myself and I was
Speaker 2: just flying everywhere and almost like body slam on one
Speaker 2: of the little girls. And what I did grab all
Speaker 2: of at one point and like foul. And I was like, oh,
Speaker 2: here we go.
Speaker 1: It was a good time. It was a great times.
Speaker 3: I did it.
Speaker 1: By the way, text Tina for suggestions for an email
Speaker 1: we got and she has not.
Speaker 3: Responded to me. Okay, so maybe we hold off on
Speaker 3: that one.
Speaker 1: Well, I will say this. It's so for the person
Speaker 1: who asked for palm springs and San Diego Rex, I don't.
Speaker 1: I asked Tina for palm springs for you. I went
Speaker 1: to palm springs, but I didn't do anything crazy fun,
Speaker 1: you know what. I mean, it was like a very chill,
Speaker 1: so I don't feel like I have great suggestions. But
Speaker 1: Tina went for her birthday and she loved it, so
Speaker 1: I'm asking her for suggestions. Also, someone did ask on
Speaker 1: my recent ask me anything, if we'll have Tina back
Speaker 1: in to talk about wedding stuff. Yeah, for sure, So
Speaker 1: I just got her save the date so that happened.
Speaker 1: Her bachelorette is in is August. It's August August, and
Speaker 1: that's all say because I don't want to give away
Speaker 1: too many details without her sharing. But so I don't
Speaker 1: know if we should wait to have her in maybe
Speaker 1: after the bachelorette party.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so we can agree good, we.
Speaker 1: Could do you know what we could if she's available.
Speaker 1: We could see if she wanted to come in that first,
Speaker 1: like a couple of days after the bachelorette party to recap.
Speaker 1: We're not anything crazy. We're going to like a cabin. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so it shouldn't be too unhinged. And also Jenny and
Speaker 1: I've been discussing this coming do we decide this coming Monday?
Speaker 2: We didn't decide, but I would say, yeah, we won't
Speaker 2: have a podcast out this next week.
Speaker 1: So Jenny and I are going to funny enough an
Speaker 1: influencer retreat, which sounds crazy, but it's basically, we're just
Speaker 1: going up North YEP. And we're going to be there
Speaker 1: barely one full day basically because we drive up on Monday,
Speaker 1: I'm taking off the afternoon show. We drive back Sunday
Speaker 1: morning ish because I'm trying to do the afternoon show.
Speaker 3: We drive back Wednesday morning.
Speaker 1: That's what I meant.
Speaker 3: You said Sunday, and I was like, we're going for
Speaker 3: a week day. Yeah, no, the longer. I don't think
Speaker 3: I was ready for.
Speaker 1: That day through Wednesday, so we will uh not have
Speaker 1: an episode next week?
Speaker 3: Then, Yeah, I am TVD.
Speaker 2: The reason I say that is i'm TVD of if
Speaker 2: I'm going to actually take Monday off or not, because
Speaker 2: technically I could still work Monday morning, but that means I.
Speaker 3: Also have to work Sunday too.
Speaker 2: And if I take Monday off, yeah, then I just
Speaker 2: straight up don't have to work again from Friday till
Speaker 2: the next Thursday.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so I.
Speaker 3: Only respect that. Yeah, I only took Tuesday Wednesday.
Speaker 1: I took the radio show off Monday and the TV
Speaker 1: show off Wednesday, So the only even though I took
Speaker 1: v K I only actually have Tuesday off. That's say
Speaker 1: Sunday again. No, okay, Tina just texted back. Oh so,
Speaker 1: she said, if you're for the gal who's going to
Speaker 1: Palm Springs, maybe for your fortieth I don't have any
Speaker 1: San Diego rex, but she said, I feel like the
Speaker 1: majority of recommendations are restaurants. The restaurant scene is so
Speaker 1: fun and unique, and you like have to make reservation.
Speaker 1: It's in advance for pretty much everywhere, so keep that
Speaker 1: in mind. This is the list I sent someone else recently.
Speaker 1: Farm a must for brunch. No reservations, so go when
Speaker 1: it opens to avoid weights. But if you have to wait,
Speaker 1: it's buy a lot of shops. You can walk to
Speaker 1: the tropicical perfect vintage vibes, dark and moody on the inside,
Speaker 1: and super cool patio. Cheeky's. Oh Cheeky's, I've been to.
Speaker 1: I love Cheeky's. That was a great breakfast spot. I
Speaker 1: have not personally been, but it was a favorite of
Speaker 1: others on our group. I went back like two or
Speaker 1: three times. It was so good. It's very I would
Speaker 1: describe it as like healthy but good, Like I had a waffle,
Speaker 1: but like everything on the menu was like fresh and
Speaker 1: healthy vibes. Norma's in the Parker Hotel, the coolest boutique hotel.
Speaker 1: I think reservations are kind of hard to get, but
Speaker 1: if you can go Tack Slash Kila Tac slash Quila.
Speaker 1: This was the number one suggested restaurant by people for
Speaker 1: my birthday dinner and it was so good. They have
Speaker 1: a mark flight, so if you like to the Four Seasons.
Speaker 1: It's up on the hill and you will feel poor,
Speaker 1: but the drinks and views outside are to die for.
Speaker 1: Sherman's Deli, It's an experience, insane sandwiches, a brunch slash
Speaker 1: early lunch to do, she said. We mostly ate on
Speaker 1: this trip, but ghost shopping on South Palm Canyon Drive
Speaker 1: lots of fun places to pop into. Apparently there is
Speaker 1: a designer outlet mall. We did not go to that,
Speaker 1: and I'm really regretting it. Also, Palm Desert is super
Speaker 1: nice too, if you want to hop over there. I
Speaker 1: think there are hikes you can do too, but I'd
Speaker 1: rather just get a cocktail and relax. We went to
Speaker 1: Palm Desert. That one was like where I had a
Speaker 1: kind of a fancier like I got like a Gucci
Speaker 1: belt there kind of thing. We had some higher end places,
Speaker 1: and you can do another thing that we did do,
Speaker 1: and I don't know what it's called, but everyone they have,
Speaker 1: of course architecture tours. But you can take like a
Speaker 1: gondola up a hill and you get a really cool
Speaker 1: view of Palm Springs and then I know there are
Speaker 1: hikes up there, but I didn't do one, So that's
Speaker 1: another thing for sure, I know you can do.
Speaker 2: And I'll just add in for San Diego, I haven't
Speaker 2: been in a long time, and when I did go,
Speaker 2: I was not a t planner back then. But I
Speaker 2: will say, if you like coffee, go to Better Buzzed
Speaker 2: Coffee or Better Buzz Coffee. It's super super good. There's
Speaker 2: a few different locations. And then also if you want
Speaker 2: to do something outdoorsy, slash hiking, Tory Pines, the State
Speaker 2: Natural Reserve Area has really fun, pretty easy hiking along
Speaker 2: the coast.
Speaker 3: Oh nice.
Speaker 2: So it's like kind of like you it's up and down,
Speaker 2: but it's not like straight elevation and it's not super
Speaker 2: high up at all. You're right on the ocean, so
Speaker 2: it's very pretty. That's very nice and happy fortieth birthday,
Speaker 2: by the way, yes, do you want to? I said thanks,
Speaker 2: and she said welcome slut.
Speaker 1: So that okay.
Speaker 3: Nice.
Speaker 2: Well, while you're responding to teens, I'll read the next email.
Speaker 2: Thank you, says Hi Falon and Jenny. My name's Lexi.
Speaker 2: I love your podcast. The first episode I listened to
Speaker 2: is the Finance episode, which was amazing, which was the
Speaker 2: one that Fallan did with a panel of women.
Speaker 1: And then we came all forward sessions. Yeah, and the
Speaker 1: our most listened to episode, by the way, is it
Speaker 1: really I looked at it. Yeah. I was going to
Speaker 1: send you a screenshot of the order of our episodes,
Speaker 1: because we don't really look at that that often, and
Speaker 1: what we have on our end, I don't really know
Speaker 1: how accurate the numbers and things are.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I look at the monthly views every once in a
Speaker 2: while to see how like the most recent ones are.
Speaker 2: I don't really ever look much past that. Yeah, But anyways,
Speaker 2: it says, while waiting for new episodes to come out,
Speaker 2: I've been going back and listening to previous episodes.
Speaker 1: Oh god.
Speaker 2: Anyway, I'm currently twenty eight and we'll be twenty nine
Speaker 2: in September. As my twenties are coming to an end
Speaker 2: and I prepare for my thirties era. Do you have
Speaker 2: any general advice. I've heard so many people say your
Speaker 2: thirties is life changing, and I want to understand why.
Speaker 2: Not sure how much you want to know. But my
Speaker 2: boyfriend and I recently bought a house. We are both
Speaker 2: happy on our jobs but want to continue growing, and
Speaker 2: we do see an engagement soon. I appreciate any insight
Speaker 2: either of you have.
Speaker 1: Lexi Lexi side note, you should do what we did
Speaker 1: for Jenny. I think we did it for Jenny. Yep,
Speaker 1: you should make your friends do a funeral for your
Speaker 1: thirties when you turn your thirties. That's what I meant.
Speaker 3: Did you have coffee today?
Speaker 1: I did? But something is off with me today. I
Speaker 1: think I don't know what's going on.
Speaker 2: Did you have too much of legazn weekend? Because you
Speaker 2: did text me a couple of times and like offer
Speaker 2: to hang out more than normal, So I thought maybe
Speaker 2: you were.
Speaker 3: Just like bored. No, I love me, I loved me
Speaker 3: so much and you missed me.
Speaker 1: I just wanted to make sure you had like fun
Speaker 1: this weekend kind of hangout session. But also I was
Speaker 1: like down to do stuff, but more so as it
Speaker 1: turned out Sunday. I think I was available, but I
Speaker 1: was actually happy we didn't hang out Sunday because I
Speaker 1: finished my audio book and I was really happy to
Speaker 1: finish that. But yes, your twenties, Yes, so funeral for
Speaker 1: your twenties. Honestly, one of my favorite bits to this day,
Speaker 1: Dave was gone. I got him to record something and
Speaker 1: play it back.
Speaker 3: But it was on.
Speaker 2: Steve and Tina were on the show too, and you
Speaker 2: guys were so funny, and honestly, I would not normally
Speaker 2: say this, even though I love her so so much,
Speaker 2: but I was not expecting to be honestly the funniest.
Speaker 3: I don't remember it.
Speaker 2: She brought up a lot of like U of M
Speaker 2: football player references, so I think that's where I really
Speaker 2: was like, ooh out that. By the way, those were
Speaker 2: the days too, I will say, like my first handful
Speaker 2: of years of radio, it's it's if there's a new
Speaker 2: generation of radio people, you really can use chat TPT
Speaker 2: for help. But like all those bits I had to
Speaker 2: write by myself. Yeah, now I can have chat GPT
Speaker 2: help me a little bit. If I'm into like a
Speaker 2: honestly a mental stump, I'll never let it completely write something,
Speaker 2: because then that gets weird. Yep, But I will give
Speaker 2: us some prompts and be like, no, add this, take
Speaker 2: this away. But back then that was all original content.
Speaker 1: Baby.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I have a funeral for your twenties with
Speaker 2: your friends if you want. My take on why your
Speaker 2: thirties are better than your twenties is because your thirties
Speaker 2: can pretty much be the exact same thing as your twenties,
Speaker 2: but you have more money usually yeah, and less unless
Speaker 2: you have kids then that plays a role, and you
Speaker 2: still probably have more money, but obviously kids are a
Speaker 2: financial suck. Yeah.
Speaker 3: I was gonna say, I was about to say burden.
Speaker 2: For a second, I was like, that's not the right
Speaker 2: way to put it now, But for me, it is
Speaker 2: like that's how my thirties turned into was I had
Speaker 2: money to travel now and go do a little bit more,
Speaker 2: and I could buy a house and whatever. And you
Speaker 2: seem to be doing well with your boyfriend maybe soon fiance,
Speaker 2: and advancing in your careers, so that means that you're
Speaker 2: probably on track of Yes, your thirties will probably be
Speaker 2: a little bit less financially burdening, unless you just to
Speaker 2: have kids and you have to add that into the
Speaker 2: mix of what you need for money. But yeah, I
Speaker 2: think you just you grow out of this phase of
Speaker 2: caring so much about what other people think. I still do,
Speaker 2: but not to the extent I did in my twenties.
Speaker 2: I am so much less of a people pleaser just
Speaker 2: and I think that that comes with life experience. If
Speaker 2: you are a people pleaser, you have to like eventually
Speaker 2: set your boundaries or else you lose yourself. I don't
Speaker 2: know what would you add to why are your thirties
Speaker 2: better than your twenties or life changing?
Speaker 1: I think just in general. First of all, I think
Speaker 1: generations are different. So I think before I could have
Speaker 1: said you and I don't know what you're like with
Speaker 1: your boyfriend potential fiance, but like you know your body better,
Speaker 1: you know what you like better, you feel more confident
Speaker 1: to tell your partners what you like better. But I
Speaker 1: also think that that isn't necessarily the case with like
Speaker 1: younger generations, Like I think that they are more confident
Speaker 1: at a younger age. But also, you know who, I
Speaker 1: think you you can weed out people in your life
Speaker 1: who aren't serving a positive place. And all I mean is,
Speaker 1: let's like you to end things. But when you by
Speaker 1: the time you get your thirties, you've probably have outgrown
Speaker 1: a lot of friendships from like college or high school,
Speaker 1: not all. And it doesn't mean that like they weren't
Speaker 1: that didn't serve a great purpose in your life when
Speaker 1: they were there. But it's less about I think when
Speaker 1: you get to your thirties is less about quantity and
Speaker 1: more about quality in all things. Yes, And I think
Speaker 1: it's because your time is more important your You do
Speaker 1: have more maybe like you said, more finances to make
Speaker 1: you know better choices on not better choice it's a
Speaker 1: weird word.
Speaker 2: Well, you get to do more fun things because you
Speaker 2: have more money. Yes, And I think just in life,
Speaker 2: you know, people come in and out of your life
Speaker 2: when they're supposed to, I think, and it can be
Speaker 2: hard if they like leave or whatever. But I do
Speaker 2: think that there are I have so many friendships that
Speaker 2: I had that these are my best friends in my twenties.
Speaker 2: I don't talk to these people anymore. I'm Facebook friends
Speaker 2: with them, same for like my late twenties. Don't really
Speaker 2: I mean, but some people have stuck through and they're
Speaker 2: like still very good, valuable friends to me. But all
Speaker 2: that's to say is I think you know yourself better
Speaker 2: and it's quality over quantity, and you can make those
Speaker 2: decisions for yourself. So I think that's like a big thing.
Speaker 2: I think you just you make.
Speaker 1: Better, more informed decisions as you get older, right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: for sure, Well that's exciting.
Speaker 2: I mean you're still only twenty eight, so you've got
Speaker 2: a little bit time till you're thirty.
Speaker 1: And also thirty is still very young. Oh young, so
Speaker 1: so young, even though I want to be had someone
Speaker 1: on our show the other day and they were like, yeah,
Speaker 1: we hang out with like basically like elderly people, like,
Speaker 1: which is so weird because like we're young, Like it's
Speaker 1: so weird that we hang out. But they were talking
Speaker 1: about like late thirty like mid to late thirty year olds,
Speaker 1: because they're in their early twenties. I'm like, bitch, people,
Speaker 1: they're early. I know. There was I think they're kind
Speaker 1: of joking, but they were like basically implaning they don't
Speaker 1: hang out with people their own age. They're just farther
Speaker 1: along in their careers and financial spot to not want
Speaker 1: to hang out with like youth people anymore, and they
Speaker 1: want to hang out with more established people. But it
Speaker 1: was just so funny before texting I'm like elderly with
Speaker 1: the hell what Yeah.
Speaker 2: One other thing I'll add to this list of things
Speaker 2: in your thirties that you start to enjoy more that
Speaker 2: you're kind of like surprised about is house projects or
Speaker 2: doing things that you never thought were going to bring
Speaker 2: you joy and now they do. I was turned on
Speaker 2: this weekend by myself. Yeah, like because of myself, because
Speaker 2: I fucking changed a light fixture on my own.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you posted a video.
Speaker 3: I was like, oh my god, I hope you turned
Speaker 3: that breaker off. I turned the breaker off.
Speaker 2: I did not kind I didn't test the voltage because
Speaker 2: I wasn't going to go out and buy that little machine,
Speaker 2: because screw that. If the light is off, it shouldn't
Speaker 2: have electricity in it. And I know that someone's going
Speaker 2: to hear this and be like, you're an idiot. It
Speaker 2: still could because of this and this and that.
Speaker 1: My sister moved into her new house and changed a fan.
Speaker 1: It with a light and a fan, didn't turn it off.
Speaker 1: Didn't know she was supposed to. I'm like, you are
Speaker 1: so lucky you aren't dead.
Speaker 2: Care well, I didn't now whoa I mean, I'm fine
Speaker 2: enough to turn the breakers off, and I even turned
Speaker 2: extra ones off in the vicinity.
Speaker 3: Just in case.
Speaker 2: Yeah, smart, but I got really horny because I think
Speaker 2: that light against like a couch arm or something. After No,
Speaker 2: I was so tired at the end of that that
Speaker 2: all I did was lay down and be like, I
Speaker 2: accomplished this and I'll go to bed.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't want to kink anyone or shame anyone's
Speaker 1: kink or whatever. But I like made out with this
Speaker 1: guy once and he said he had a girlfriend and
Speaker 1: like she would only get off like herself, but like basically,
Speaker 1: which is fine if that's what you have to do,
Speaker 1: I don't care. But they would have sex and then
Speaker 1: she would get up and like grind her vadge on
Speaker 1: the carpet.
Speaker 2: You've told me the story before, and for some reason,
Speaker 2: it's one of those stories that has lived in my
Speaker 2: head that I've always had. I don't remember you were gonna.
Speaker 2: You've never said it on the radio, nothing like that.
Speaker 2: You've just told me off air. I think you were
Speaker 2: telling me and Steve one time.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I was like me too, and I'm like
Speaker 1: I kind of understood it, but that feels like it
Speaker 1: would cause like I don't feel like you should grind
Speaker 1: your vadge on the carpet. I'm worried it she needs though,
Speaker 1: I know, but I think she was raw dog and
Speaker 1: I don't know if she had any underwear. I was
Speaker 1: just worried about her vagina and the exfoliation there.
Speaker 2: Yeah, feels like, yeah, there might have been other options.
Speaker 2: And I'm sure she's maybe figured out other things at
Speaker 2: this point in her life, because this was a long
Speaker 2: time ago you told me this story.
Speaker 1: I hope she's probably she's figured out her body and
Speaker 1: she can tell a man what she needs her once.
Speaker 2: Maybe she doesn't have to wo to hit the dirty
Speaker 2: carpet anymore and actually.
Speaker 1: Get something to carpet that was so ransom.
Speaker 2: I'm like thinking about the carpet in my house right now,
Speaker 2: the downstairs carpet.
Speaker 3: I would not rub against the upstairs I can maybe. Okay,
Speaker 3: well I needed to.
Speaker 2: I've never experienced needing well, I mean, never mind, I'm
Speaker 2: burying myself into a hole.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you are, shut the fuck up.
Speaker 3: You started it out of here.
Speaker 1: It's time, all right.
Speaker 2: Okay, just remind her that we're gonna be lazy and
Speaker 2: not do a podcast next week.
Speaker 1: I wanted to, but Jenny REFU shot. You're the one
Speaker 1: who brought it up.
Speaker 2: You were like, should we like and I was like, yeah,
Speaker 2: we don't normally miss so give us a brand already
Speaker 2: breast that we should have a long right EPI, but
Speaker 2: I said, calm your tits girl. I saved a message
Speaker 2: from someone who told me that she wishes we did
Speaker 2: three episodes a week because that's when she hits the
Speaker 2: gym hard is to listen to our episodes. She's like,
Speaker 2: do you know how good of shape I would be
Speaker 2: in if you guys did more episodes? And I was like,
Speaker 2: maybe we'll put that out there. Maybe we'll put that
Speaker 2: into the atmosphere.
Speaker 1: The only the only way I will put out even
Speaker 1: a second episode a week is if it's on Patreon
Speaker 1: and we're make a money on it, like no offense,
Speaker 1: but mama, Mama needs some money. Yeah, I don't really need.
Speaker 1: We don't make no, we do it out of love,
Speaker 1: except for when we do we do, like occasionally one ad.
Speaker 3: Yeah, outside of that, no money.
Speaker 1: The money is our love and commitment to each other
Speaker 1: and to you exactly.
Speaker 2: So hopefully you appreciate it and I'll send you all
Speaker 2: my Venomo later if you need it.
Speaker 1: And you have a great week couple of weeks if
Speaker 1: you need your carpet. We are not here to judge.
Speaker 3: And we'll probably have some fun stories to come back with,
Speaker 3: so maybe we'll maybe we'll do a little bit.
Speaker 2: Of a longer story because I've got a bachelorette party
Speaker 2: coming up this weekend. No, we should do Okay, we
Speaker 2: should start a Patreon and our first Patreon should be
Speaker 2: a live video of you and I at this influencer thing.
Speaker 2: But you and I get litty in our room together
Speaker 2: and we're litty on live Patreon to kick it off.
Speaker 2: By the way, we could never promote Patreon. We would
Speaker 2: get fired and get kicked off of it. Yeah, we
Speaker 2: could only ever talk about it on this podcast because
Speaker 2: our bosses don't listen to the podcast. We could never
Speaker 2: post about it on our social media. Yeah, so only
Speaker 2: you listening right now knows about the sketchy side thing
Speaker 2: that we could potentially be doing.
Speaker 1: And if you are, we're gonna get quired tomorrow.
Speaker 2: We're literally going to get a call from our boss
Speaker 2: tomorrow and be like, you guys can't do.
Speaker 1: That if we get fired for having a drunk Patreon. Yeah,
Speaker 1: be here all right, have a great week