Speaker 1: Are you rethinking your purpose in life? Being centered in
Speaker 1: a strong spiritual connection is more important now than ever.
Speaker 1: Hi On grand blancanship hypnotherapist, international instructor and author. Each episode,
Speaker 1: I'll share my experiences with guiding spiritual regression clients into
Speaker 1: the afterlife and the sole lessons gained, prompting you to
Speaker 1: explore your own soul's journey and empowering you by shifting
Speaker 1: your perception of yourself and your place in this world.
Speaker 1: I want you to know that you're here by design,
Speaker 1: not by accident. You are not alone, You are loved.
Speaker 1: You are here on purpose for a purpose. When you
Speaker 1: stand in your truth and fulfill your purpose, you support
Speaker 1: others in fulfilling theirs. If this intrigues you, stay tuned
Speaker 1: in as we explore. Hey, everybody, So today we are
Speaker 1: going to talk about something that's near and dear to
Speaker 1: my heart. We're going to talk about my chapter in
Speaker 1: Michael Newton's book Memories of the Afterlife. And you know,
Speaker 1: when a young sould, when a young child dies, how
Speaker 1: do we understand what's behind all of that for a
Speaker 1: brief earthly life. That's what we're going to talk about today,
Speaker 1: because this is something that comes up often. People ask
Speaker 1: me about this all the time because they want to
Speaker 1: understand that right. And what we're going to talk about
Speaker 1: in this segment is that although they may have young bodies,
Speaker 1: that doesn't mean that they're necessarily young. There's a lot
Speaker 1: of wisdom that comes with the child. They have a
Speaker 1: direct connection to their soul without a lot of filters
Speaker 1: that we have here. And so this story is about
Speaker 1: spiritual exploration about grief, love, eternal connection. And it's my
Speaker 1: chapter of a life between life story with my client Candice,
Speaker 1: and this is it's after she lost her two grandchildren
Speaker 1: in a car accident. It had only been about four
Speaker 1: months when she came to see me, and she already
Speaker 1: had a belief in the afterlife, but she was missing joy,
Speaker 1: she was missing connection, she was having trouble sleeping, you know,
Speaker 1: all the things that you would expect that someone is
Speaker 1: experiencing when they've lost a child or a grandchild in
Speaker 1: this case, and the kids had died in a car accident.
Speaker 1: So it is this is Memories of the Afterlife. And
Speaker 1: my story is a chapter called When Children Teach from
Speaker 1: the And it was my honor when Michael asked me
Speaker 1: to contribute a story to his book, and I chose
Speaker 1: this one because it is a topic that people have
Speaker 1: questions about, and I chose it for today's show because
Speaker 1: I thought it could help us to better understand that,
Speaker 1: like why that would even happen? Why would a soul
Speaker 1: choose to experience this? Okay? So I want to start
Speaker 1: with there's a difference between a soul's earthly life and
Speaker 1: their eternal maturity as a soul. Okay, just let me
Speaker 1: just stop there for a second and let that settle.
Speaker 1: There's a difference between a child's earthly life and the
Speaker 1: soul's eternal maturity. Okay. And the two children in this
Speaker 1: story and his grandchildren are Daniel and Emma. And the
Speaker 1: healing that came when she recognized them as souls, all right,
Speaker 1: and these are souls that continued beyond the earthly body,
Speaker 1: the continuing the eternal life. That's that's what we're going
Speaker 1: to talk about today. So what happens when a young
Speaker 1: child dies. When a child dies at a young age,
Speaker 1: the soul, just like an adult, their soul passes into
Speaker 1: the spirit realm. It leaves, it goes through a process,
Speaker 1: it's greeted by their guides and then depending on the
Speaker 1: soul contract that they have with the loved ones left behind.
Speaker 1: They will continue to carry out that contract from beyond,
Speaker 1: from beyond their bodies. So in this case, a ten
Speaker 1: year old body, and I believe it was a seven
Speaker 1: year old. Emma was seven and Daniel was ten. So
Speaker 1: when Candace was seeking understanding as a grandmother for their deaths,
Speaker 1: you know, there's the emotional reality of losing the children
Speaker 1: and just the absence of their touch, the moments they
Speaker 1: shared together, everyday, things right, when they played together, there's
Speaker 1: ordinary moments. Missing all of that, and then having that belief.
Speaker 1: She already believed in eternal life in the spirit world,
Speaker 1: that wasn't act question, but she was not able to
Speaker 1: feel them the way that she wanted to. And there
Speaker 1: were moments where they came through, but she wasn't feeling
Speaker 1: that she wanted to experience that connection, and that's why
Speaker 1: she came to see me. So let's talk a little
Speaker 1: bit about Daniel and Emma. Daniel had a big energy.
Speaker 1: He was the boy. He had a special connection to
Speaker 1: his grandmother. There was just a really strong bond with
Speaker 1: the two of them, and he was athletic, but he
Speaker 1: was sensitive, he was loving, he was emotionally perceptive. And
Speaker 1: these were her descriptions to me. And there was, like
Speaker 1: I said, there was that strong bond with Candace and
Speaker 1: so Emma her earthly personality. She was petite, she was playful,
Speaker 1: she was a little mischievous, and she also had she
Speaker 1: carried a sadness about her. And Candace even mentioned that
Speaker 1: she felt like towards the end, it's as if they
Speaker 1: were they knew that they weren't going to be together,
Speaker 1: and she felt more of this sadness at the end,
Speaker 1: before anyone knew that this car crash was going to happen.
Speaker 1: So there's the child's personality. This is what I want
Speaker 1: you to see and understand. There's the child's personality in
Speaker 1: their earthly body, and then there's their soul personality. There's
Speaker 1: soul light that their consciousness that goes beyond the personality. Okay,
Speaker 1: you know those big souls have to squeeze into those
Speaker 1: tiny little bodies. We all did it. And you know,
Speaker 1: in our human minds, we expect that we're going to
Speaker 1: live to be old. You think you're born, you're going
Speaker 1: to live to be old. You kind of think that,
Speaker 1: but that's not the case. You live to fulfill your
Speaker 1: soul's purpose. And so let's explore this a little further.
Speaker 1: So when I did the session with Candace, we started
Speaker 1: with a past life session to kind of pave the
Speaker 1: way for the LBL. So she went to a lifetime
Speaker 1: as Sequana, who was a native healer and connected to
Speaker 1: animals and plants and the spirit and the land, and
Speaker 1: those are the kind of lives that Candace enjoys incarnating into.
Speaker 1: But she chose a different one this time around. And
Speaker 1: so the major lesson from her past life session going
Speaker 1: back to the lifetime as Sequana was to really be
Speaker 1: in touch with that great spiritual strength of that healer
Speaker 1: to help with isolation and the difficulty of the passing
Speaker 1: of the children. There were experiences that happened in Saquana's lifetime,
Speaker 1: and revisiting this for Candace allowed her to fill her up,
Speaker 1: to fill that reservoir of strength that she needed. It
Speaker 1: gave her clarity, It gave her purpose and strength to
Speaker 1: help her now from keeping her energy scattered. So that's
Speaker 1: why her guides and her soul chose to take her
Speaker 1: to that lifetime in our session that we did the
Speaker 1: first day, Okay, and then we followed up with the
Speaker 1: Life between Live session. So another piece of that is
Speaker 1: in Kansas's current life, grief would require her to stay connected.
Speaker 1: She needed to hold this energy of connection for the
Speaker 1: family and to not retreat into solitude. So that's her
Speaker 1: current life lesson. That is part of why she experienced
Speaker 1: what she did and what drew her to have a
Speaker 1: session with me to work through these emotions. So when
Speaker 1: we did the LBL Life Between Lives and we went
Speaker 1: into that spiritual state of the between, her soul came forward,
Speaker 1: and her soul colors came forward. Actually, and her soul
Speaker 1: name is Alah and it's a bluish tone. And then
Speaker 1: two of her guides came forward too, So there was
Speaker 1: a reunion with her guides, Gabrielle and Michael. Now Michael
Speaker 1: was her senior guide and he had dark, glowing colors
Speaker 1: and the deepest of violets. And Kandas's guide, Gabrielle, her
Speaker 1: colors were more of pure gold with rich purples mixed in.
Speaker 1: All right, And like I said, Kandas's soul, her soul
Speaker 1: carries blues, blue tones. And so we went to a
Speaker 1: spiritual library and this library was in a huge temple
Speaker 1: with stone floors. It was magnificent the way she described it.
Speaker 1: And there were many, many levels to the library, and
Speaker 1: there was a place of review, there was a place
Speaker 1: of integration and remembering. And you know, she was being
Speaker 1: reminded that souls carry from lessons from lifetimes that carry
Speaker 1: them forward and that each life, each body offers a
Speaker 1: temporary role, a personality and a set of lessons. Okay,
Speaker 1: and in current life, you know, she said, quote this
Speaker 1: one is full of challenge. I need the emotions, the challenges,
Speaker 1: or the obstacles that make it hard to stay the course.
Speaker 1: So she chose that challenge to work through it. And
Speaker 1: when she went into the library, Ila was very clear
Speaker 1: with me, I'm not here to study. That's for another time.
Speaker 1: I'm here to deposit information from a lifetime, the lifetime
Speaker 1: as Sequana, and make that deposit kind of recharge from
Speaker 1: being in the energy of all her other lives. While
Speaker 1: she did that, and then she went on to the
Speaker 1: next place. So she went to a courtyard, and there
Speaker 1: she said, there are lines of connectivity with the sole
Speaker 1: group that wind from each one of us to each other.
Speaker 1: And then sometimes those lines are lit, sometimes they're not.
Speaker 1: So I asked her to find the lines that would
Speaker 1: connect her to her grandchildren. And then as she did,
Speaker 1: there was a line that appeared. It was stronger in
Speaker 1: the case of Daniel. Now Emma did come forward, but
Speaker 1: we find out that Emma is not part of Kandas's
Speaker 1: soul group. Emma is, she's in an affiliate group. She's
Speaker 1: part of the sole lesson. She's agreed to help in
Speaker 1: this way. But Daniel is part of the sole group.
Speaker 1: And these souls of the children appear strong. They are
Speaker 1: not helpless children. They are strong with purpose, awareness, they
Speaker 1: have agency, they have wisdom. And Daniel's energy was much
Speaker 1: bigger than his ten year old physical self. I mean,
Speaker 1: he had huge energy. And so what he was here
Speaker 1: to help Candace do is keep her heart open. That's
Speaker 1: his role now that he's crossed over. He's here to
Speaker 1: keep Kndace's heart open so that she can help the family,
Speaker 1: so she can be strong for the remaining family members
Speaker 1: and especially the remaining grandchild. So Emma had a different connection,
Speaker 1: and there was love there between all of them, but
Speaker 1: it was a stronger connection with Daniel because of his
Speaker 1: connection in the soul group, his soul contract, and you know,
Speaker 1: the soul age is much wiser. There's a depth, there's
Speaker 1: there's experience from all the lived lifetimes, and you know,
Speaker 1: there's an intensity that comes with that goes beyond these lifetimes.
Speaker 1: So you know, children are teachers and guides from the
Speaker 1: other side, because on the other side, they're no longer children.
Speaker 1: The child is the role that they took the you know,
Speaker 1: the role, earthly role that they took on for this incarnation,
Speaker 1: all right, So an early passing of Daniel and Emma
Speaker 1: served as a catalyst. It it was for the family.
Speaker 1: It was part of Candace's karmic lesson to overcome isolation,
Speaker 1: isolation as she had experienced in her past lives, and
Speaker 1: that tragedy can either unite or divide. And you know,
Speaker 1: she's taken on the role and chosen to be strong
Speaker 1: for the family members to help them work through their emotions.
Speaker 1: They're all working through this together. And so you know,
Speaker 1: it's not about minimizing grief, and I want to be
Speaker 1: very clear about that. It is about love and meaning
Speaker 1: that go beyond tragedy, that go beyond our earthly bodies,
Speaker 1: that go beyond age, because the soul has power and
Speaker 1: strength no matter what age the physical body. Okay, and
Speaker 1: then another thing that happened was we went before the
Speaker 1: Council of Elders. So with the Counsel of Elders, they said,
Speaker 1: look sadness is understandable. We know you feel sad. They
Speaker 1: told Candace that, but they asked her to move beyond
Speaker 1: the despair to see the truth, the truth about the
Speaker 1: children's passing, the truth about them as souls. They even
Speaker 1: gave her some practical instruction. They told her to eliminate
Speaker 1: the wine because she needed to stay fully present in
Speaker 1: her body and her spirit and her energy so that
Speaker 1: she could feel all of life. That is part of
Speaker 1: her soul lesson is to feel all of life, not
Speaker 1: just part and so she must make her way through
Speaker 1: it and experience it. And they wanted her to know that.
Speaker 1: So they talked to her about meditation, connecting in dreams.
Speaker 1: She was aware of those things. Some of those things
Speaker 1: she began to study that remembering the children would continue
Speaker 1: their presence to help the family heal, It would keep
Speaker 1: them alive. Share pictures, share stories, don't be afraid to
Speaker 1: talk about them. When you talk about them, you're pulling
Speaker 1: their energy, energy of their spirit forward. They're a part
Speaker 1: of the conversation. They're bringing up some of the funny
Speaker 1: stories to help you laugh, to help you cry, to
Speaker 1: help you work through it. So you know, with Candace,
Speaker 1: it wasn't that she needed to believe in eternal existence.
Speaker 1: She needed to feel it. That was what she was.
Speaker 1: That's part of her sole lesson and her relationship with
Speaker 1: the children continues. It explained why she had a stronger
Speaker 1: connection with Daniel versus Emma, but she loved them both dearly,
Speaker 1: and that you know, he's not restricted now by his
Speaker 1: physical body. So following this, when I met with Candace
Speaker 1: to write the story and I did the follow up,
Speaker 1: she looked good. Her energy was better. It was a
Speaker 1: few months after the session, her energy was better, and
Speaker 1: her heart was still mending, but she was able to
Speaker 1: connect to joy. She was able to find some joyful
Speaker 1: moments and really feel that where she hadn't before. And
Speaker 1: you know, she said to me, she said, Brent, feeling joyful,
Speaker 1: knowing that we will dance again. I know we will
Speaker 1: dance together again is helping her through it. And then
Speaker 1: she's having those moments not only being reminded and remembering
Speaker 1: in this session where the children came through, but there
Speaker 1: are things that are happening in her life that she
Speaker 1: was just more present to connect with the children when
Speaker 1: they came through in various ways that they did. And
Speaker 1: so the other thing that happen happened is I stayed
Speaker 1: in touch with her and she went on to take
Speaker 1: my hypnosis certification. She took my Past Life certification. She
Speaker 1: served as a training assistant with me. She helped with
Speaker 1: my certification reviews. She went through the whole process, and
Speaker 1: then she took Life Between Life's training when I taught
Speaker 1: that course with the Newton Institute as well. So she
Speaker 1: took that journey all the way and used what she
Speaker 1: had been through to help others with their experiences and
Speaker 1: whatever they were working through. So I want to leave
Speaker 1: you with the thought that a child's life may be
Speaker 1: brief in earthly time, but it's the soul behind that
Speaker 1: life that is vast and ancient and deeply connected to
Speaker 1: those who love them. The connection is through the heart.
Speaker 1: The connection is there, it's strong, and they are communicating
Speaker 1: in various ways to get your attention to let them,
Speaker 1: for them to let you know that they're okay, they
Speaker 1: love you, so that you can feel the love and
Speaker 1: melt the pain and the grief so that you can
Speaker 1: open your heart to that connection that's there for you.
Speaker 1: And it's in stages, it's in layers. It doesn't happen
Speaker 1: all at one time, but they can help you through
Speaker 1: it if you will allow yourself to keep your heart
Speaker 1: open and be more present and don't nom out, be
Speaker 1: in the moment. So if you're interested in the story
Speaker 1: and memories of the afterlife, I try not to give
Speaker 1: away some of the secret. A lot of things in
Speaker 1: here I didn't tell you. There's some really beautiful things
Speaker 1: that happened. And then Michael Newton edited my story. He
Speaker 1: actually helped me well. I edited, and he gave me input,
Speaker 1: but he told you know, we both agreed this was
Speaker 1: such an important topic. He wanted to be the one
Speaker 1: to be hands on with this, so he did. And
Speaker 1: I'll tell you he had me cut out a few
Speaker 1: parts that I wanted to include, and I fought for them,
Speaker 1: and then I trusted him and I took them out,
Speaker 1: and you know what, he was right. It made the
Speaker 1: story better and clearer. So you know, I learned how
Speaker 1: to edit with Michael Newton because he wasn't afraid to
Speaker 1: take out parts that I was like, No, we need
Speaker 1: to leave that in there. He's like, Nope, it makes
Speaker 1: the story clearer if you just stick to these elements,
Speaker 1: you know, because this was a lot long session. These
Speaker 1: were two long sessions actually, and I didn't know when
Speaker 1: we were doing it that we would be writing a story.
Speaker 1: I was just guiding a session from my client to
Speaker 1: help her with grief. So if this interests you, take
Speaker 1: a look and thank you so much for tuning in.
Speaker 1: I'm Brend Blankenship and you can reach me at Facebook,
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Speaker 1: my website Brand Blancanship dot com for upcoming classes and
Speaker 1: upcoming events. Until next time. Thank you so much. Are
Speaker 1: you rethinking your purpose in life? Being centered in a
Speaker 1: strong spiritual connection is more important now than ever. Hi,
Speaker 1: I'm Grand Blancanship, hypnotherapist, international instructor and author. Each episode,
Speaker 1: I'll share my experiences with guiding spiritual regression clients into
Speaker 1: the afterlife and the sole lessons gained, prompting you to
Speaker 1: explore your own soul's journey and empowering you by shifting
Speaker 1: your perception of yourself and your place in this world.
Speaker 1: I want you to know that you're here by design,
Speaker 1: not by accident. You are not alone, You were loved.
Speaker 1: You are here on purpose for a purpose. When you
Speaker 1: stand in your truth and fulfill your purpose, you support
Speaker 1: others in fulfilling theirs. If this intrigues you, stay tuned
Speaker 1: in as we explore