1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:01,800 Speaker 1: Already you guys, ready, it is time for a second 2 00:00:01,840 --> 00:00:04,320 date update. We're going to Middletown. We have got Kelly 3 00:00:04,360 --> 00:00:06,440 on the line. She apparently went on a great first date. 4 00:00:06,480 --> 00:00:09,759 She's getting ghosted and wants to know why. Hey Kelly, Hey, 5 00:00:10,039 --> 00:00:12,279 so welcome to the show. Tell us what's going on. 6 00:00:12,880 --> 00:00:17,760 Speaker 2: Okay, So basically I met up with this guy Steven. 7 00:00:18,160 --> 00:00:19,440 Speaker 3: Okay, he took me. 8 00:00:19,879 --> 00:00:22,800 Speaker 2: So he took me to Flemmings and it was amazing. 9 00:00:23,039 --> 00:00:30,480 Ooh yeah, he's like gorgeous, great job, really really cute. 10 00:00:33,000 --> 00:00:35,200 I felt like we had a lot in common and 11 00:00:35,640 --> 00:00:38,600 I wanted to see him again and I texted him, 12 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:42,000 but he's kind of ghosting me, and I'd love to 13 00:00:42,039 --> 00:00:42,600 know why. 14 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:46,359 Speaker 3: Okay, So you go to That's a really nice rest. 15 00:00:46,280 --> 00:00:48,960 Speaker 4: It really is. Yeah, that's a big first date right there. 16 00:00:49,039 --> 00:00:50,560 Speaker 3: That's nice. All right. 17 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:53,039 Speaker 1: So you you reached out to him and he's ghosting you. 18 00:00:53,079 --> 00:00:54,840 But did you feel like there was a connection? Was 19 00:00:54,840 --> 00:00:57,159 there like a little bit of flirting and good conversation 20 00:00:57,280 --> 00:00:57,840 during the date? 21 00:00:58,520 --> 00:01:01,719 Speaker 2: I thought there was. I thought we had really a conversation. Okay, 22 00:01:02,119 --> 00:01:06,400 like I thought that, you know, the energy was good, 23 00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:08,280 he was cute. 24 00:01:09,120 --> 00:01:11,120 Speaker 5: Did you I was cute like. 25 00:01:12,719 --> 00:01:13,599 Speaker 4: I was cute. 26 00:01:14,040 --> 00:01:16,439 Speaker 3: Uh did you offer to pay? Did he pay? Was 27 00:01:16,480 --> 00:01:17,680 it something with the bill? 28 00:01:18,319 --> 00:01:21,400 Speaker 2: I mean he just paid like like. 29 00:01:21,400 --> 00:01:23,079 Speaker 3: A gentleman, like drinks. 30 00:01:23,079 --> 00:01:25,599 Speaker 4: Weren't you weren't outrageous with the drinks or anything like that? 31 00:01:25,680 --> 00:01:26,319 Speaker 3: Great question? 32 00:01:27,079 --> 00:01:27,920 Speaker 2: No, I don't think so. 33 00:01:28,200 --> 00:01:30,159 Speaker 4: All right, hmm, all. 34 00:01:30,200 --> 00:01:31,920 Speaker 3: Right, well this is what we're gonna do. Let's just 35 00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:33,640 jump right in, Kelly. We're gonna call Steven. 36 00:01:33,640 --> 00:01:35,239 Speaker 1: We're gonna ask him about the date, and I'm just 37 00:01:35,280 --> 00:01:36,480 gonna ask him to be honest. 38 00:01:36,519 --> 00:01:38,120 Speaker 3: Are you ready to hear what he asked to say 39 00:01:38,120 --> 00:01:38,719 about the date? 40 00:01:39,079 --> 00:01:39,319 Speaker 5: Yes? 41 00:01:39,519 --> 00:01:42,719 Speaker 1: Okay, because it could just be a misunderstanding, yeah, definitely possible. 42 00:01:42,840 --> 00:01:44,560 Or maybe he went on a business trip. 43 00:01:44,400 --> 00:01:46,319 Speaker 4: Yes, summer vacation yes. 44 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:47,640 Speaker 1: And maybe he's gonna get back to you. All right, 45 00:01:47,680 --> 00:01:49,200 I'm gonna put you on whole kell. You're gonna be 46 00:01:49,239 --> 00:01:52,280 listening in. Feel free to jump in at any time. Okay, Okay, 47 00:01:53,000 --> 00:01:55,640 who knows guys are cuckoo anyway? 48 00:01:56,239 --> 00:01:59,560 Speaker 3: I mean, guys and girls, we're all weird. We're all 49 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:00,519 just a mess. Honestly. 50 00:02:00,760 --> 00:02:03,959 Speaker 4: No, don't forget she looked cute on the date. Remember 51 00:02:04,000 --> 00:02:05,599 that that's important. 52 00:02:05,760 --> 00:02:07,159 Speaker 3: And I look cute too. 53 00:02:07,719 --> 00:02:14,840 Speaker 1: Confidence Maybe Hi is Steven there, Stephen, Steve, Hey, Stephen, 54 00:02:14,879 --> 00:02:16,319 it's Courtney, Steve, it's Walmart. 55 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:16,680 Speaker 4: Jeff. 56 00:02:16,719 --> 00:02:19,280 Speaker 1: Hey, it's Savannah, and we're calling from kiss ninety five 57 00:02:19,240 --> 00:02:19,599 to seven. 58 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:20,560 Speaker 3: How are you Stephen? 59 00:02:22,520 --> 00:02:23,680 Speaker 5: Hey, I'm all right. 60 00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:28,199 Speaker 1: No shocker, shocker this early in the morning. Welcome to 61 00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:31,680 the show. You're actually on something called second date update. Uh. 62 00:02:31,879 --> 00:02:33,560 It's a future we have if somebody goes on a 63 00:02:33,599 --> 00:02:35,319 first date and they have a great time, but they 64 00:02:35,360 --> 00:02:37,560 get ghosted and they want to know why. They call 65 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:41,199 us and we try to get the answers. So this girl, 66 00:02:41,560 --> 00:02:44,240 all right, this girl, Kelly called us. She said, you 67 00:02:44,240 --> 00:02:46,639 guys went out, went out to dinner. She felt there 68 00:02:46,680 --> 00:02:49,520 was a connection. I think she said, you're really cute 69 00:02:49,560 --> 00:02:51,520 and she's cute too. That's what she said. 70 00:02:51,599 --> 00:02:54,240 Speaker 3: You're really cute. You guys had a lot in common, 71 00:02:54,439 --> 00:02:55,719 you had good conversation. 72 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:59,080 Speaker 1: She's reached out to you because she'd really like to 73 00:02:59,120 --> 00:03:01,280 see you again, but you're ghosting her. 74 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:07,159 Speaker 5: Yeah, Honestly, I think we're just h we're like in 75 00:03:07,199 --> 00:03:08,759 different places in our lives. 76 00:03:09,439 --> 00:03:12,759 Speaker 3: Oh okay, all right, yeah. 77 00:03:12,560 --> 00:03:15,879 Speaker 5: I don't. Honestly, she's kind of she acts like a 78 00:03:15,879 --> 00:03:18,520 lot younger than me, and uh, I think that kind 79 00:03:18,520 --> 00:03:19,639 of just throws me off. 80 00:03:19,680 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 4: You know, oh, what what do you mean? She acts 81 00:03:22,599 --> 00:03:23,960 like what did she do? Yeah? 82 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:25,120 Speaker 3: Wait, what happened? 83 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:30,439 Speaker 5: She doesn't like have a good sense of For instance, 84 00:03:30,479 --> 00:03:32,599 she we went to this awesome state put swinter of 85 00:03:32,599 --> 00:03:36,800 Flemings and she comes in wearing a crop top and 86 00:03:36,879 --> 00:03:39,520 she kind of like looks a stripper for lack of 87 00:03:39,560 --> 00:03:42,240 a better word, like she just didn't realize where she 88 00:03:42,319 --> 00:03:43,800 was going. I guess I don't know what she was. 89 00:03:43,919 --> 00:03:47,400 Just she dressed like, you know, like a young woman 90 00:03:47,400 --> 00:03:50,319 would dress. It was, it was. She seems kind of immature, 91 00:03:50,479 --> 00:03:54,039 and I don't mean to be like mean or anything, 92 00:03:54,080 --> 00:03:57,599 but she's kind of She's really loud and had nothing 93 00:03:57,639 --> 00:03:59,199 going on upstairs, if you know what I mean. 94 00:03:59,280 --> 00:04:02,039 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, so Stephen, she dressed like she was going 95 00:04:02,039 --> 00:04:02,599 to the club. 96 00:04:03,800 --> 00:04:06,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, like she had no idea. It's like she hadn't 97 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:07,800 gone out to a dinner before, you know. 98 00:04:08,319 --> 00:04:09,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, not much to bring to thee. 99 00:04:10,520 --> 00:04:11,639 Speaker 2: I need to jump in. 100 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:14,199 Speaker 1: Go ahead, Kelly, she's on the phone. Maybe she's never 101 00:04:14,199 --> 00:04:15,919 gone out to who you don't know, Go ahead, Kelly. 102 00:04:15,960 --> 00:04:17,240 Do you heard what Steven said? 103 00:04:18,040 --> 00:04:22,839 Speaker 2: Yeah? Look like. First of all, how I dress is 104 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:25,680 how I express myself, and I don't really like to 105 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:28,639 be judged for it. Second more, I didn't even know 106 00:04:28,839 --> 00:04:32,199 Flemmings was fancy Like Flemmings sounds like a birder place. 107 00:04:33,439 --> 00:04:38,360 Speaker 5: Okay, I didn't know, Okay, And I think we're honestly 108 00:04:38,439 --> 00:04:40,040 just a different places, that's all I don't. I don't 109 00:04:40,040 --> 00:04:44,199 mean to be rude. I just think you know you. 110 00:04:43,360 --> 00:04:49,199 Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, So maybe you are listen, I understand, Stephen. 111 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:51,759 It sounds like maybe you guys are at different points 112 00:04:51,759 --> 00:04:53,720 in your life, and that's okay. 113 00:04:54,519 --> 00:04:55,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure. 114 00:04:56,199 --> 00:04:59,879 Speaker 5: I just wasn't a match for me. We can say that. 115 00:05:00,079 --> 00:05:02,120 Speaker 4: I mean, Stephen, she said, I did say you guys 116 00:05:02,120 --> 00:05:06,720 had good conversation. Was a conversation at least good? Okay, 117 00:05:06,879 --> 00:05:07,439 I mean. 118 00:05:07,319 --> 00:05:10,240 Speaker 1: All right, you don't need to answer, Steven, taking you 119 00:05:10,279 --> 00:05:11,720 that long to answer, just don't answer. 120 00:05:11,800 --> 00:05:11,959 Speaker 4: Yeah. 121 00:05:11,959 --> 00:05:13,399 Speaker 3: I feel like at this point this is a wash. 122 00:05:13,519 --> 00:05:13,920 Speaker 2: Yeah. 123 00:05:14,199 --> 00:05:16,279 Speaker 1: I feel like there's just not a connection here, but 124 00:05:16,519 --> 00:05:19,839 different stages in life maybe or just not a connection. 125 00:05:19,720 --> 00:05:23,399 Speaker 3: And that's okay, that's okay. Are you okay with that? 126 00:05:23,560 --> 00:05:23,879 Speaker 2: Kelly? 127 00:05:24,279 --> 00:05:28,079 Speaker 5: I kind of misjudged you, I guess okay. 128 00:05:28,000 --> 00:05:30,160 Speaker 1: Well, Stephen, thank you for being honest with us. Thank 129 00:05:30,199 --> 00:05:34,079 you for you know, being honest. And Kelly, thank you 130 00:05:34,120 --> 00:05:35,600 so much for calling us. And I'm glad you got 131 00:05:35,600 --> 00:05:36,240 your answers. 132 00:05:36,800 --> 00:05:39,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, me too, And I. 133 00:05:39,399 --> 00:05:40,480 Speaker 5: Still talk to you guys. 134 00:05:41,279 --> 00:05:43,439 Speaker 4: Thanks nice talking to you too, man. 135 00:05:43,399 --> 00:05:45,879 Speaker 1: I appreciate it all right, Kelly, Stephen, thank you so much. 136 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:48,439 Speaker 5: Thanks, sure had a good look.