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<v Speaker 1>I debated whether to read this email because it's a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit dicey and it's like Kenny puts a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of pressure on me. But I'm gonna go ahead and

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<v Speaker 1>read it anyway, because this is kind of what we

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<v Speaker 1>do on the Minnesota Goodbye Hello Fabulous crew, says Sarah Davy.

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<v Speaker 1>She calls me that because today on War of the

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<v Speaker 1>Roses we made fun of adult men who I put

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<v Speaker 1>a why at the end of their name, like Tommy, Scottie, Mikey.

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<v Speaker 1>That type of thing. Totally up to you if you

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<v Speaker 1>want to read this on the pod. But I was

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<v Speaker 1>listening to Wednesday's Minnesota Goodbye and heard how you were

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<v Speaker 1>bothered by a friend asking if everything's okay. Honestly, I've

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<v Speaker 1>been wondering the same thing for a while. I know

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<v Speaker 1>marriage isn't sunshine and rainbows, but I was wondering how

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<v Speaker 1>Susan is. That's my wife? Does she or your kids

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<v Speaker 1>get upset about how you talk about her being lame,

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<v Speaker 1>acting like an old lady and having no hobbies. No,

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<v Speaker 1>she really doesn't listen. I mean once in a while

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<v Speaker 1>she will, but I think kind of, you know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like you ask about your partner's work and

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<v Speaker 1>how things are going, but you don't watch them work.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe I don't know. It's like we've been known each

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<v Speaker 1>other for so long that she doesn't listen, and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't mind. The novelty's kind of worn off for her

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<v Speaker 1>and she'll tune in once in a while. But I

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<v Speaker 1>think she's doing other things in the morning. But does

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<v Speaker 1>she mind if I say anything about it? As a

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<v Speaker 1>P one listener. I love your and the crew's candidness,

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<v Speaker 1>but that doesn't mean it doesn't come at a cost

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<v Speaker 1>of potentially hurt feelings that might create more distance. I

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<v Speaker 1>can also understand your perspective of wanting a partner to

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<v Speaker 1>be up for more adventures too. I'll also say to

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<v Speaker 1>a parent of kids that are quickly growing up and

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<v Speaker 1>becoming more and more independent, I can relate to Susan

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<v Speaker 1>in terms of finding myself and needing a hobby, so

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<v Speaker 1>many phases of life that we can all eventually relate

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<v Speaker 1>to keep up the great and relatable work. Well, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not like we're having problems. It's just that I

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<v Speaker 1>get frustrated because, like you know, I want because I've

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<v Speaker 1>realized that so much of my life. Yes, I've had

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<v Speaker 1>adventure and I learned to fly, and I've done a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of boy scout stuff and I ride a motorcycle.

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<v Speaker 1>But I want to have adventure and Susan doesn't like adventure.

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<v Speaker 1>We were going to go flying last Sunday and because

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<v Speaker 1>I needed some video because I was taking video whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>and I needed some video. So I'm like, okay, well

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<v Speaker 1>go flying with me. And last time we went flying

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<v Speaker 1>was up to Duluth, and she didn't enjoy it. The

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<v Speaker 1>entire time there she was like, are we there yet?

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<v Speaker 1>How much farther, how much longer? And it was I

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<v Speaker 1>could tell she wasn't having a good time. So I said, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>well you go flying with me, so take some pictures

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<v Speaker 1>of me flying so I can post it on social media.

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<v Speaker 1>And she's like yeah, sure. Well on the way to

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<v Speaker 1>the airport, she's like, yeah, I'm not going to go up,

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<v Speaker 1>and I said, well why, I just don't want to.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll stay on the ground. I'll get video of you

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<v Speaker 1>from the ground. And I was, I was I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if annoyed is the right word, but I disappointed

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<v Speaker 1>is a better word, because it's safer I wouldn't do it,

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<v Speaker 1>and she didn't want to go and she wants to

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<v Speaker 1>spend a lot of She's crocheting now, which I'm glad

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<v Speaker 1>she's doing something because she hasn't had a hobby. And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not trying to pick on her. She hasn't had

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<v Speaker 1>a hobby since she took karate twenty years ago. Sure,

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<v Speaker 1>And I think everybody should have a hobby or a passion,

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<v Speaker 1>and I've got a million of them. Yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>Jenny plays pickleball and does the unicycle, and you go

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<v Speaker 1>bike riding and you go hiking, and Bailey goes to

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<v Speaker 1>you know, fringe festival and improv and things like that.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's just kind of like, I don't know. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not like we talked about a lot. If your spouse

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<v Speaker 1>got gained a lot of weight, Okay, well that's one thing.

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<v Speaker 1>What if your spouse decided that they didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>do anything anymore. Sure, And it's been a challenge. I'll

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<v Speaker 1>be honest with you. It's been a challenge because I

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<v Speaker 1>want to go do fun shit, right, I want to

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<v Speaker 1>go not I don't want to do anything dangerous. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to go wingsuit flying, No, but I want

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<v Speaker 1>to have some adventure before I'm too old to go

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<v Speaker 1>have adventure. And that's why I climbed Pike's Peak a

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<v Speaker 1>few weeks ago, three weeks ago today, because I want

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<v Speaker 1>to have some adventure.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like you might have mentioned this already. Does she?

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<v Speaker 3>And this is asking a big question. Do you know

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<v Speaker 3>if she has like any form of depression or anything

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<v Speaker 3>about the contributing factor of like not wanting to do

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<v Speaker 3>anything anymore?

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<v Speaker 2>But you said she hasn't had a hobby in twenty years.

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<v Speaker 1>No, she's never wanted to. She goes up with her

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<v Speaker 1>girlfriends here and there. Sure, I wish she would go more,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just I don't know. I just want her

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<v Speaker 1>to have a happy life for her too. Sure, And

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I mean I could dig a lot

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<v Speaker 1>deeper and go, Am I the one that's making her bored?

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<v Speaker 1>Am I the one that's making her sit on the couch?

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<v Speaker 1>Am I the one who's not? But I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we went on vacation in Hawaii. We had

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<v Speaker 1>a great time, but her idea of fun on vacation

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<v Speaker 1>was to sit by the pool and play on her

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<v Speaker 1>phone all day. And I'm like, well, let's go do this.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's rent a canoe, let's rent ATVs. No, I'm pretty

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<v Speaker 1>happy here. You can go do it by yourself. I'm like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to go rent an ATV by myself.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but I wouldn't. If Andrew didn't want to do something,

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<v Speaker 4>I'd go do it by myself. And you are like that, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I would absolutely I would not. I do not waste

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<v Speaker 4>my time on vacation, on vacation, okay, No, Like in general,

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<v Speaker 4>if the reason I wanted to do around here too,

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<v Speaker 4>I would go do it by myself.

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<v Speaker 3>Because you just mentioned that you went to like a

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<v Speaker 3>movie by yourself for the first time, like recently, right.

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<v Speaker 4>Because I don't like movies. Okay, it's not because I

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<v Speaker 4>was unsure sure by myself. I just am not a

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<v Speaker 4>movie person.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I don't know, Sarah. That's a really good question.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's not like we fight in bicker all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think sometimes you go, God, you're only I

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<v Speaker 1>think Susan is fifty six, and I think sometimes she

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<v Speaker 1>wants to graduate to sit in a rocker and crochet

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<v Speaker 1>with a cat on her lap stage, and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>those days will fucking come. Yeah, those days will come.

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<v Speaker 1>They say when you get older, they're the go go years,

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<v Speaker 1>the slogo years, and the no go years. So go Go, Go,

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<v Speaker 1>Go Go is where you buy an RV and you

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<v Speaker 1>travel to all the national parks, and then the slogo

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<v Speaker 1>years are where you don't really have that kind of energy,

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<v Speaker 1>so you maybe go on a cruise, right, or you

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<v Speaker 1>go on a road trip or whatever. And then the

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<v Speaker 1>no go years are where you don't have a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of choice. You are in a fucking rocker or a

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<v Speaker 1>Rascal scooter and you are looking forward to bingo tonight

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<v Speaker 1>at five o'clock.

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<v Speaker 2>So you're in Go Go and she's in Slowgo slash,

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<v Speaker 2>no Go.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, yeah, and I think I you know, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I love her, but I'd still that is frustrated to

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<v Speaker 1>me because I wanted to go do things. Yeah, do

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<v Speaker 1>you want to go do something? Bailey?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we can go do stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you want to go do?

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<v Speaker 2>You asked me to go flying one time and then

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<v Speaker 2>you never asked me again unless vont was available.

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<v Speaker 1>You were I'll take any time you.

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<v Speaker 3>Too, Can you come? And Font was like no, and

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<v Speaker 3>then you're like, oh well that's a bummer.

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<v Speaker 1>Take your fight anytime you want to go?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, do you want to go flying. Yes, I do,

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<v Speaker 2>but only when the leaves starts changed. So give me

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<v Speaker 2>a hot minute.

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<v Speaker 1>Well okay, good, okay, yeah, pick pick any thoughts on that.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me know. Maybe there's somebody else who's listening, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's kind of like, yeah, you know what. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm ready to call Jonathan Fogel, but at the

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<v Speaker 1>same time, I just want more. Yeah you know, yeah, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's all I want to say about that. Thanks for asking,

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<v Speaker 1>Sarah Nosy, all right, next one, Dave Jenny Bailey, don't

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<v Speaker 1>say my name. I appreciate Dave and Jenny clarifying their

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<v Speaker 1>points about weight gain in a relationship. I thought Bailey's

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<v Speaker 1>point was important about looking at the behaviors versus just

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<v Speaker 1>focusing on the weight gain. Currently, I'm in my late twenties.

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<v Speaker 1>Following high school, I went into the Marine Corps. I

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<v Speaker 1>was medically discharged four years later because of health issues

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<v Speaker 1>that developed. It's been a struggle since then with my

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<v Speaker 1>mental health, trying to find the right meds, and I

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<v Speaker 1>developed eating disorders one hundred pound weight gain. Since twenty twenty,

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<v Speaker 1>I've had various unresolved health problems which I've been fighting

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<v Speaker 1>to get figured out this year, I was finally diagnosed

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<v Speaker 1>with several auto immune and hormone disorders. In July, they

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<v Speaker 1>detected an early stage of aggressive rare uterine cancer during

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<v Speaker 1>a scheduled surgery. The treatment is complex, so I'm scared

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<v Speaker 1>about what will happen with that and if I'll get

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<v Speaker 1>to have children. Now I'm properly medicated, continued diet, exercise, dietitian, etc.

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<v Speaker 1>I've lost forty pounds. Thanks you guys for putting on

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<v Speaker 1>a great show and being vulnerable on the radio. You

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<v Speaker 1>brought me joy and comfort during these hard times in

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<v Speaker 1>my life, especially this year. You guys are awesome. Sincerely,

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<v Speaker 1>P one listener P one is a term for like

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<v Speaker 1>people who listen the most like P one, P two three,

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<v Speaker 1>P three, So P one means you listen to KWB

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<v Speaker 1>is the first station of choice. I think one of

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<v Speaker 1>the things that I like about this is we're not

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<v Speaker 1>afraid to like. You know, we say vonsters the pot

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<v Speaker 1>think that. I think one of the things that we

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<v Speaker 1>should be able to do on the podcast is give

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<v Speaker 1>a bold opinion and then look for people who have

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<v Speaker 1>different in opinions, and I think that's important to be

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<v Speaker 1>shows they're so vanilla they don't want to I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>rock the boat, so they'll just stick to say things like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>Taylor Swift is so delightful, and my gosh, I love

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<v Speaker 1>the Minnesota State Fair where I don't mind telling you

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<v Speaker 1>the cherry in the spoon is a piece of shit.

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<v Speaker 1>It is a piece of shit and should be sold

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<v Speaker 1>for scrap metal.

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<v Speaker 4>WHOA Have you ever gone to see it at night?

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<v Speaker 1>Why would it's ugly during the day? Why wouldn't want

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<v Speaker 4>I think it has a different buye at night because

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<v Speaker 4>I think at night it's top tier.

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<v Speaker 2>During the day it's me, you know what.

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<v Speaker 1>And the funny thing is with the cherry and the spoon,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care. I don't like it. I think it's stupid.

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<v Speaker 1>And I've gone over this a million times and people

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to watch hocus Pocus because Bette Midler's

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<v Speaker 1>we can get through. Hello Minnesota, goodbye, crew. Please keep

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<v Speaker 1>Listening to the episode you had people we were talking

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<v Speaker 1>many people have more than one reason. The most common

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<v Speaker 1>are they are immune, compromised, or disabled in some way.

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<v Speaker 1>COVID is still dangerous. And while some people think who

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<v Speaker 1>of us go out just with the mask to help

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<v Speaker 1>lower the risk of infection. I still go to most

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<v Speaker 1>of my events that I did pre COVID, dancing, museum, shopping,

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<v Speaker 1>another COVID infection. I don't mean to sound preach you're

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<v Speaker 1>route no, not at all, because at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>but just because, but I want to share some of

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<v Speaker 1>Love your show, and I hope that it leads to

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<v Speaker 3>was trying to come up with yesterday. I couldn't come

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<v Speaker 3>And so those are my friends who continue to wear

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<v Speaker 3>of people that could you know, breathe and sneeze on

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<v Speaker 2>For sure?

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<v Speaker 1>as a man of science. And so I think the

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<v Speaker 3>Well I think we were. We were panicked because we

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<v Speaker 1>Right, That's what I was gonna say. We didn't know, right,

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<v Speaker 1>And I really thought that a lot of us were

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<v Speaker 1>it is one of the biggest events in human history

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<v Speaker 1>affected the entire world. And as it turned out that

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<v Speaker 1>rich is going to drop dead whatever. But I really

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<v Speaker 1>Contagion with fabulous Gwyneth Paltrow where you got it and

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<v Speaker 1>you died, And I really think there was something to

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, it killed a lot of people, so I

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<v Speaker 3>think it was a valid fear, and like I knew

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<v Speaker 3>people who died, so like I totally get still wearing

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<v Speaker 3>a mask, but like, obviously now vaccines have given us

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<v Speaker 2>We don't feel that was our way out.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, but like, if I'm sick, I'll still wear

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<v Speaker 2>If I like go out to a place and have, like,

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<v Speaker 1>So if you had a cold, you would wear a mask. Yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Next email Dave, long time listener, first time writer. I

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<v Speaker 1>still laugh when I think of midnight masks. So I

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<v Speaker 1>think they're talking about the high Room call years ago

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<v Speaker 1>where Hiram would call the Catholic church and say, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>it was eleven o'clock and He's like, wait a second,

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<v Speaker 1>Midnight Mass starts at eleven o'clock. And then there was

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<v Speaker 1>a whole bit with Hiram and it was very funny,

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<v Speaker 1>and that was a long time ago. Thanks for remembering

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<v Speaker 1>that one Trevor from Wisconsin. While you were away for

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<v Speaker 1>your Pike's Peak climb, there was a discussion about hand

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<v Speaker 1>washing and that you were disgusting because you don't wash

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<v Speaker 1>your hands after you use the restroom. I'm on your side, true.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's how I've looked at it. Did you guys talk

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<v Speaker 4>got brought up. So of course I dropped your name

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<v Speaker 4>in there. Of the person who doesn't watch it.

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<v Speaker 1>You've been a real bitch today. Jim, you said earlier

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<v Speaker 1>that I walked like Kermit the Frog. You said I

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<v Speaker 1>walk like Kermit the Frog, which hurts my heart.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it's the pumpkin spice latte. It's making me

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<v Speaker 4>a little fiery today.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, uh, here's the Trevor's thoughts. If you take a dump,

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<v Speaker 1>wash your fucking hands. If you take a leak and

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<v Speaker 1>What the fuck did you actually get dirty? You need

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<v Speaker 1>to washing it. In a lot of cases, I wash

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<v Speaker 1>all day. On the other hand, my hand's been touching

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<v Speaker 1>all kinds of gross shit. Think of being at a

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<v Speaker 1>casino with all the buttons and money you touch. No way,

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<v Speaker 1>my hands are cleaner than my shalong.

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<v Speaker 2>But don't this is an honest question. Doesn't your pen

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<v Speaker 2>get like sweaty during the day?

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<v Speaker 3>Umm?

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<v Speaker 1>Not particularly? No, No, not really.

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<v Speaker 2>Because I would be washing my hands to get like

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I don't know, I just.

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<v Speaker 2>Or just the pino the penis odor.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so you got to watch that thing anyway. I

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<v Speaker 1>Jenny Bailey are amazing. PSU are one hundred percent right

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<v Speaker 1>that cauliflower sucks. New staff writer would love a sticker.

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<v Speaker 1>So I say her name is Secretary Brie, and Brie

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<v Speaker 1>will take care of you. Yesterday, I'm going to bring

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<v Speaker 1>and interesting. I think I saw this. I get a

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<v Speaker 1>movie openings of movies that sucked, and one of them

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<v Speaker 2>Can you not describe it again?

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<v Speaker 3>Though?

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<v Speaker 1>No, I absolutely will describe it again entertainment. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want it so for in entertainment purposes. The opening to

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<v Speaker 1>motion and cuts everyone in half. And it doesn't they

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<v Speaker 1>and it really is. I mean it is like if

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<v Speaker 1>you like horror movies like I do. We're done now, Bailey, Bailey,

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<v Speaker 1>Then you find it like, really wow, that was crazy,

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<v Speaker 1>But then they say the rest of the movie sucks.

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<v Speaker 1>This person Chad writes on to say, I was eleven

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<v Speaker 1>see it in the theaters. Still crazy. I was only eleven,

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<v Speaker 1>and I thought it was a really cool movie with

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<v Speaker 1>that bad. But also, I'm the guy whose favorite movies

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<v Speaker 1>are all the Saw movies. I saw all ten of them.

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<v Speaker 1>Love you guys. Currently live in Colorado and driving back. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>what's funny is our machine failed at that point. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>so we missed Because we have the best music, the

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<v Speaker 1>decided to stop. So we don't even know where it's stopped.

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<v Speaker 1>And we're not going to go back and do that again,

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<v Speaker 1>So we'll just do that tomorrow. So do I sound frustrated?

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<v Speaker 2>You do sound frustrated.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that's okay, though I don't know if this

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<v Speaker 3>got in, But in Whichita you can get a house

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<v Speaker 1>No, see that's amazing, because you know, I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>we got to that part yet, because yeah, that was Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>Four thousand profit in four and a half years.

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<v Speaker 1>She sold the house in Montana and made three hundred

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<v Speaker 2>Wild And I looked up Gaylord, Minnesota too.

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<v Speaker 3>You can also get a house for like two hundred

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<v Speaker 3>thousand dollars their full blown house.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that crazy?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, all right, I'm moving.

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<v Speaker 1>We will continue with that. Just remind me tomorrow because

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<v Speaker 1>I'll forget all about it on the Minnesota goodbye. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>see you tomorrow. Send your emails to Ryan Show at

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