WEBVTT 1 00:00:01.560 --> 00:00:03.120 You know, it's funny you say that I don't have 2 00:00:03.160 --> 00:00:04.639 a lot of leverras in. I don't think I have 3 00:00:04.719 --> 00:00:07.919 any livers in my life. I have like five Gemini friends, 4 00:00:07.919 --> 00:00:09.839 like really, and they're like, you're the only one that 5 00:00:09.919 --> 00:00:11.759 understands is like livers that if you look it up 6 00:00:11.839 --> 00:00:12.800 leavers in GERMANI. 7 00:00:12.800 --> 00:00:14.720 I'm all about that. I want to know more. 8 00:00:14.919 --> 00:00:16.440 See this is why again, you're going to be become 9 00:00:16.480 --> 00:00:18.399 my best friend around before by the end of the show, 10 00:00:18.440 --> 00:00:19.160 I know it. 11 00:00:19.239 --> 00:00:21.359 Private talk, private talk. 12 00:00:21.440 --> 00:00:24.640 We want to give you everything about miss Anna Montana. 13 00:00:24.640 --> 00:00:26.800 Tell us more, tell us more. Okay, So I went 14 00:00:26.839 --> 00:00:29.440 to Memorial Weekend. I'm in Miami, and I was like, 15 00:00:29.679 --> 00:00:31.760 oh shit, this is where I need to be. Like 16 00:00:31.800 --> 00:00:34.200 it was just in Miami, like set the you know, 17 00:00:34.280 --> 00:00:35.640 set the moods at the Tone Miami. 18 00:00:35.679 --> 00:00:38.679 I'm sure I wasn't there. But there's big booties. Everyone's 19 00:00:38.880 --> 00:00:42.119 it's very like the thinnest, tiniest clothing and nobody cares. 20 00:00:42.159 --> 00:00:45.119 They're not really like I mean, I mean there's just 21 00:00:45.119 --> 00:00:48.719 a lot of alcohol power club yes, like just you know. 22 00:00:48.719 --> 00:00:50.119 So I was nineteen at the time, like I was 23 00:00:50.159 --> 00:00:52.560 getting the clubs. I met all the promoters I meet, like, 24 00:00:53.200 --> 00:00:55.039 I'm a big Dipset fan. Dipset was there. 25 00:00:55.079 --> 00:00:57.039 I was like, oh, and you're a hot girl, so 26 00:00:57.119 --> 00:01:00.759 let's just be honest that that can't always be you know, 27 00:01:00.840 --> 00:01:03.479 everyone's plan. But you're a really attractive woman, and so 28 00:01:04.000 --> 00:01:05.799 I think that you know meeting when once you meet 29 00:01:05.799 --> 00:01:07.959 those people are like, oh, yes, as much as you 30 00:01:08.000 --> 00:01:09.319 want to be here, I want. 31 00:01:09.159 --> 00:01:11.480 You to be here too, exactly. So I ended up 32 00:01:11.480 --> 00:01:13.760 working out and I was like, Okay, hold on, I 33 00:01:13.760 --> 00:01:15.319 need to figure out I'm gonna make this move here 34 00:01:15.359 --> 00:01:17.640 because I cannot go back and just live like a 35 00:01:17.680 --> 00:01:21.920 regular life there. So I decided to save up my 36 00:01:21.959 --> 00:01:26.799 little coins. I literally moved there with fifteen hundred dollars 37 00:01:26.799 --> 00:01:28.239 to my name, like just nothing. 38 00:01:28.319 --> 00:01:30.560 But I was like, I'm a make care I was, 39 00:01:30.640 --> 00:01:31.959 but like I really just determined. 40 00:01:32.079 --> 00:01:33.959 I was determined. I was like, I never really get 41 00:01:34.040 --> 00:01:35.760 too scared about anything. Anything I want. I feel like 42 00:01:35.760 --> 00:01:37.280 I'm gonna get it, Like I don't think too much 43 00:01:37.280 --> 00:01:39.239 into it. When I think too much into things, I'm like, 44 00:01:39.640 --> 00:01:41.599 that's when it doesn't happen, Like you talk yourself out 45 00:01:41.599 --> 00:01:43.200 of it, right right. But when I'm like, you know 46 00:01:43.239 --> 00:01:45.079 what this is what I'm doing. Period, it's gonna happen 47 00:01:45.120 --> 00:01:48.400 for me. And basically I moved out there and I 48 00:01:48.519 --> 00:01:50.519 just made it work. I had a little roommate at 49 00:01:50.560 --> 00:01:52.640 the time, and we're like, okay, so what are we 50 00:01:52.680 --> 00:01:54.239 gonna do. They're like, oh, you can. You can try 51 00:01:54.280 --> 00:01:57.239 doing like the promoter, like you know, promoter. So we 52 00:01:57.280 --> 00:01:58.840 did that for a little while and I'm like, okay, 53 00:01:58.840 --> 00:02:00.879 I'm not making that much money doing this. I had 54 00:02:00.879 --> 00:02:02.519 to always find girls to come out with me and 55 00:02:02.560 --> 00:02:05.040 this and that. They ended up being a strip club 56 00:02:05.079 --> 00:02:07.400 that was like an hour away because at the time, 57 00:02:07.480 --> 00:02:10.280 like being a stripper wasn't like you didn't really want 58 00:02:10.319 --> 00:02:12.319 too many people to know. Like like now it's like, 59 00:02:12.319 --> 00:02:13.759 oh I'm a stripper. It is what it is, like 60 00:02:13.800 --> 00:02:14.360 nobody cares. 61 00:02:14.360 --> 00:02:18.800 It's way more accepted nowadays, a lot more adult, you know, entertainment, 62 00:02:18.840 --> 00:02:23.479 all of it. Things and businesses are a lot more accepted. Yeah, 63 00:02:23.560 --> 00:02:25.240 so then can you tell us about strip club? 64 00:02:25.599 --> 00:02:25.840 Yes? 65 00:02:25.879 --> 00:02:29.080 I worked at Scarlets okay, Yes, and it was lit. Yeah, 66 00:02:29.120 --> 00:02:31.280 And it was like the little edm crowd, all the little 67 00:02:31.280 --> 00:02:32.919 white people that I was like, oh, yes, it's lit 68 00:02:33.599 --> 00:02:35.840 because I could my body wasn't done yet so I 69 00:02:35.840 --> 00:02:36.800 wasn't ready for ko. 70 00:02:36.719 --> 00:02:40.680 D okay, it would have been booming levels levels. I 71 00:02:40.800 --> 00:02:42.599 like that, you know, I like that, you know though, 72 00:02:42.599 --> 00:02:44.879 because most of the money even again, like it's not 73 00:02:44.919 --> 00:02:47.080 that you couldn't, but you and yourself like you have 74 00:02:47.120 --> 00:02:48.759 to feel comfortable to go into a setting like that, 75 00:02:48.840 --> 00:02:51.520 because it's also you know, as much as we like it, 76 00:02:51.520 --> 00:02:53.240 it's also a lot of you know, we would get 77 00:02:53.479 --> 00:02:55.479 you know, ridiculed, we get you know, as much as 78 00:02:55.520 --> 00:02:58.479 there's a lot of positive, there's also negative as well. 79 00:02:58.759 --> 00:03:00.319 So it's like you have to really be to be 80 00:03:00.360 --> 00:03:03.039 ready and also like if you want to physically obviously. 81 00:03:02.759 --> 00:03:05.599 Be ready exactly. So I found I Starlett loved to 82 00:03:05.639 --> 00:03:08.000 go to kod because they was dropping a bag. You 83 00:03:08.000 --> 00:03:09.439 know what I'm saying, But it's just not going to 84 00:03:09.479 --> 00:03:10.400 make sense. But it's like. 85 00:03:10.319 --> 00:03:11.159 Training wheels, you know. 86 00:03:11.439 --> 00:03:13.120 It was like, let's see what how much I could 87 00:03:13.120 --> 00:03:15.280 do here because I know I'm gonna be here right 88 00:03:15.400 --> 00:03:16.240 right right. 89 00:03:16.120 --> 00:03:17.719 So how did that hustle gets you to there? 90 00:03:18.960 --> 00:03:22.039 Or did it? Ever? Well, what happened after Starlett? Well, Scarlett? 91 00:03:22.080 --> 00:03:26.520 So I ended up barletts Scarlet, scarlett Let's redefine scarlets. 92 00:03:26.599 --> 00:03:29.319 Ye Starlets is in New York. But yeah, no, so Scarlett's. 93 00:03:29.520 --> 00:03:31.319 It was a good time. It was making a lot 94 00:03:31.360 --> 00:03:32.960 of money at the time. Boom boom. I was able 95 00:03:33.000 --> 00:03:34.319 to pay my boss. I was like, Okay, I love this. 96 00:03:34.879 --> 00:03:38.000 And then you know, I started getting photographers and they're like, okay, 97 00:03:38.039 --> 00:03:40.039 let's do photo shoots. Boom boom boom. So I started 98 00:03:40.039 --> 00:03:43.199 getting into like the music videos at this time. 99 00:03:43.280 --> 00:03:45.840 Did you have an Instagram page currently or did you 100 00:03:45.919 --> 00:03:49.199 do this after you started getting attention from being in Miami. 101 00:03:49.639 --> 00:03:52.039 So I had started my Instagram page when I was 102 00:03:52.080 --> 00:03:54.039 actually in Boston, but I didn't take it serious at 103 00:03:54.039 --> 00:03:54.800 all because at that. 104 00:03:54.759 --> 00:03:57.240 Time it wasn't really something that we use as business 105 00:03:57.240 --> 00:03:58.280 more so now. 106 00:03:58.199 --> 00:04:00.800 Right, So this is like what in two thousand fifteen, 107 00:04:01.159 --> 00:04:03.960 like twenty fourteen two. I was fifteen, so it wasn't 108 00:04:04.000 --> 00:04:06.000 as big as, of course as it is now, you know. 109 00:04:06.680 --> 00:04:08.919 So I'm like, I wasn't taking it too serious. But 110 00:04:08.960 --> 00:04:11.400 once I moved to Miami, I was like, once I 111 00:04:11.400 --> 00:04:13.159 started doing the photo shoots and stuff, I'm starting to 112 00:04:13.199 --> 00:04:15.400 post the pictures. Boom boom, I'm starting to get more 113 00:04:15.560 --> 00:04:16.160 you know, those. 114 00:04:16.199 --> 00:04:19.000 Like you're seeing all those people reacting to me, like, damn, girl, 115 00:04:19.160 --> 00:04:20.120 where have you been? 116 00:04:20.319 --> 00:04:24.920 Okay? So yeah, this is when Instagram really started getting 117 00:04:25.000 --> 00:04:26.519 like really popping. So I would like to say, I'm 118 00:04:26.560 --> 00:04:35.199 one of the OG's and Instagram period, right, I ain't mad, 119 00:04:35.279 --> 00:04:39.480 bra I A'm mad. So yeah, So then I started 120 00:04:39.480 --> 00:04:41.399 taking it more serious, and then that's when the brand 121 00:04:41.439 --> 00:04:43.800 started reaching out. And so I was still dancing at 122 00:04:43.800 --> 00:04:46.040 the time, but like I started getting a little a 123 00:04:46.040 --> 00:04:48.399 little bit more popularity. So I'm like, oh shit, Like 124 00:04:48.399 --> 00:04:50.120 I don't want people to like find out that I'm 125 00:04:50.199 --> 00:04:53.240 dancing because again, it just wasn't, you know, as acceptable 126 00:04:53.279 --> 00:04:55.560 as it was now. And I was dating a DJ 127 00:04:55.720 --> 00:04:58.360 at the time. Oh my god, pop? Howar DJ? 128 00:04:58.480 --> 00:04:59.079 What's his name? 129 00:05:02.879 --> 00:05:06.399 No, we're not truth, I said, I have a tug. 130 00:05:06.560 --> 00:05:08.399 Let my listeners know. I mean it was way in 131 00:05:08.439 --> 00:05:10.240 the past. Girl, we've moved on all of us. 132 00:05:10.439 --> 00:05:12.480 No, but it's only because the story I'm gonna tell. 133 00:05:12.480 --> 00:05:14.360 I don't want to put him on blast because okay, 134 00:05:14.399 --> 00:05:16.240 I respect because what he did to me. Hey, let 135 00:05:16.279 --> 00:05:18.920 it know, let it know, just. 136 00:05:18.920 --> 00:05:20.319 Letting it be now, give it to. 137 00:05:24.560 --> 00:05:26.839 Listen. So how about I'm like trying to be sneaky. 138 00:05:26.879 --> 00:05:29.600 I'm in scarlet dancing. How about he walks in, I like, 139 00:05:29.639 --> 00:05:35.639 how you score question? Listen, listen. He comes right and 140 00:05:35.680 --> 00:05:38.720 he doesn't know that I'm there. He throws a fit right, 141 00:05:38.800 --> 00:05:40.959 so he's like, I'm done. I did not know You're 142 00:05:40.959 --> 00:05:43.879 just so y'all were together. I feel like I was 143 00:05:43.920 --> 00:05:46.000 like twenty when I wasn't taking nobody serious. I'm just happy. 144 00:05:46.040 --> 00:05:47.120 But he definitely was. 145 00:05:47.319 --> 00:05:49.839 He was, you know, someone like you myself would be like, 146 00:05:49.879 --> 00:05:52.519 oh no, I'm I'm your bits, your mind, You're not 147 00:05:52.560 --> 00:05:54.680 going anywhere, and you're gonna write on me. He was 148 00:05:54.720 --> 00:05:57.759 definitely taking you more serious, probably at that time than youyware, because. 149 00:05:57.519 --> 00:05:59.439 You was you know, I mean, I'm gonna be honest. 150 00:05:59.519 --> 00:06:00.800 What did you do? So he got mad? 151 00:06:00.920 --> 00:06:02.839 So he got mad, like calm down? Did you just 152 00:06:02.879 --> 00:06:03.399 ignore him? 153 00:06:03.519 --> 00:06:04.959 Like let us? I ignored. I was like, okay, if 154 00:06:04.959 --> 00:06:06.560 we never talk again, we're never gonna talk a guy. 155 00:06:06.639 --> 00:06:08.199 But did he call the real out scene in your 156 00:06:08.240 --> 00:06:10.199 like your job where he like made you almost get 157 00:06:10.199 --> 00:06:12.319 fired or was it like you kept it cute and 158 00:06:12.399 --> 00:06:13.800 was like on the side, like, hey, don't do this 159 00:06:13.839 --> 00:06:14.040 to me. 160 00:06:14.360 --> 00:06:16.199 Well, he took me to the side. I went to 161 00:06:16.199 --> 00:06:17.680 the back. I ended up leaving early and going to 162 00:06:17.680 --> 00:06:19.079 try to talk to him about I had to leave 163 00:06:19.079 --> 00:06:20.879 work early because I just it was uncomfortable. I don't 164 00:06:20.879 --> 00:06:26.600 want to stay here. I know, say major money, where 165 00:06:26.680 --> 00:06:27.920 is he? Where is he now? 166 00:06:27.959 --> 00:06:29.519 And he already said he won't tell him who he 167 00:06:29.759 --> 00:06:31.600 tell us who he is, but he did something bad 168 00:06:31.639 --> 00:06:32.480 to you, so mm hm. 169 00:06:32.560 --> 00:06:34.720 But listen, you're right I shouldn't stayed that night because 170 00:06:34.720 --> 00:06:36.759 listen to what he ended up doing. Right, So mind you, 171 00:06:36.800 --> 00:06:40.079 he's a big DJ there. Tell me why I go 172 00:06:40.199 --> 00:06:42.240 to the club on a Friday night, right, and he 173 00:06:42.319 --> 00:06:45.040 sees me in somebody's section, he's gonna have the nerve 174 00:06:45.120 --> 00:06:47.360 to talk about some turn the lights on, I got 175 00:06:47.399 --> 00:06:49.879 something to say. I was like, oh, he didn't know, 176 00:06:50.279 --> 00:06:53.639 he didn't he called you out, He didn't stay my name. 177 00:06:53.639 --> 00:06:54.680 But he's like, I just want to do it, but 178 00:06:54.720 --> 00:06:56.600 they know, but they know. I want to give a 179 00:06:56.600 --> 00:06:58.800 special shout out to them bitches that be acting like 180 00:06:58.839 --> 00:07:01.160 they're good girls, but they're really ship. Club Shake just 181 00:07:01.199 --> 00:07:03.040 put me on full on blasts. I knew he was 182 00:07:03.040 --> 00:07:04.680 talking to me. Whoever knew we messed around and he 183 00:07:04.680 --> 00:07:06.360 was talking about me. He literally had him turned the 184 00:07:06.399 --> 00:07:08.160 lights on. He's like, all right, fuck the bitches, turn 185 00:07:08.199 --> 00:07:11.920 the lights off and dropped the song. I was like, 186 00:07:12.480 --> 00:07:14.560 I would have been like, that's what you said with 187 00:07:14.600 --> 00:07:16.639 the lights on, because you're like what ready, I know 188 00:07:16.720 --> 00:07:18.600 you were. Look, I can feel your energy. What you 189 00:07:18.720 --> 00:07:19.959 what'd you say? Unbothered? 190 00:07:20.079 --> 00:07:23.680 I was, So I was like, because because now you're 191 00:07:23.680 --> 00:07:25.639 making mess. 192 00:07:27.680 --> 00:07:29.800 It was today, but now. 193 00:07:29.720 --> 00:07:30.759 You've had time to think about it. 194 00:07:30.800 --> 00:07:32.439 So it's a little different because I'm in the same way, 195 00:07:32.480 --> 00:07:35.439 like I'm really good in those situations because I don't 196 00:07:35.439 --> 00:07:36.959 know if it's because I'm a Gemini or who I 197 00:07:36.959 --> 00:07:40.040 am or whatever situation. But afterwards, I'm always. 198 00:07:39.759 --> 00:07:42.600 Like, man, I could have should have that. 199 00:07:42.879 --> 00:07:46.319 Yeah, but you know, then we're we're throwing way different 200 00:07:46.399 --> 00:07:48.480 you know shade after that exact. We just have our 201 00:07:48.519 --> 00:07:51.800 in our feelings after that, absolutely Okay, so it was unbothered. 202 00:07:51.879 --> 00:07:53.959 So it was unbothered and then but yeah, so that 203 00:07:54.079 --> 00:07:56.040 was like the whole dancing situation. So what I'm saying 204 00:07:56.160 --> 00:07:58.040 is I started getting, you know, more popularity at the time, 205 00:07:58.079 --> 00:07:59.399 so I'm like, okay, like I'm gonna try to take 206 00:07:59.399 --> 00:08:01.720 this Instagram serious and like I didn't want to dance 207 00:08:01.759 --> 00:08:03.920 anymore either because I was making money there, but it's like, 208 00:08:03.920 --> 00:08:05.680 you know, you have your so nights. It was just 209 00:08:05.959 --> 00:08:10.800 what year was this, that's private talk was four fourteen? Okay, yeah, 210 00:08:10.839 --> 00:08:12.319 so it was like, you know, you had your good 211 00:08:12.439 --> 00:08:14.319 nights and like again, like I was working at like 212 00:08:14.360 --> 00:08:16.240 a gentleman's club, So it was like a lot of 213 00:08:16.240 --> 00:08:18.240 like the girlfriend experience. I'm saying, they're talking to you, 214 00:08:18.240 --> 00:08:19.800 I would just be like, oh, it's just so annoying, 215 00:08:19.800 --> 00:08:22.399 and I feel like doing this, you know, it's exhausting. 216 00:08:22.519 --> 00:08:25.199 Like there's I mean, there's are different types of people. 217 00:08:25.319 --> 00:08:27.120 There's people that are built for that, and there's people 218 00:08:27.120 --> 00:08:28.920 that aren't. I'm not trying to say I'm gonna be 219 00:08:28.959 --> 00:08:30.959 a dick to you, but you know I have, you know, 220 00:08:31.000 --> 00:08:34.279 a different approach to that whole thing. I'm sure like 221 00:08:34.320 --> 00:08:35.679 I feel like your vibe, so I feel like it's 222 00:08:35.720 --> 00:08:36.320 kind of the same thing. 223 00:08:36.360 --> 00:08:37.960 It's like, yeah, how many what do you want? What 224 00:08:38.080 --> 00:08:39.919 you need? But if it can't help you right now. 225 00:08:39.840 --> 00:08:41.519 Then you know, yeah, Like I'm trying to get straight 226 00:08:41.559 --> 00:08:42.679 to the poike. I'll talk for a little bit, but 227 00:08:42.679 --> 00:08:44.360 when they wanted to talk about it, I'm just like, 228 00:08:44.399 --> 00:08:46.440 oh my god, this is so annoying, you know, So 229 00:08:46.519 --> 00:08:48.320 I was like getting annoyed with it. So I'm like, okay, 230 00:08:48.399 --> 00:08:51.039 let's take this Instagram thing more serious. And then you know, 231 00:08:51.080 --> 00:08:54.240 like Bran started reaching out to me, and someone. 232 00:08:53.960 --> 00:08:55.600 Say that to you or did you just do it 233 00:08:55.639 --> 00:08:57.840 yourself just knowing like hey, this is the future of 234 00:08:57.879 --> 00:09:00.360 what's going on next? Or like why did you start 235 00:09:00.360 --> 00:09:02.399 taking the Instagram things serious? Did you just see because 236 00:09:02.440 --> 00:09:04.320 of the likes more or the more attention? 237 00:09:05.120 --> 00:09:05.399 Did that? 238 00:09:05.559 --> 00:09:07.960 No? I had a manager at the time. She's just 239 00:09:08.120 --> 00:09:09.600 you know, she was like, I want to be a manager, 240 00:09:10.120 --> 00:09:11.919 so I'm like, Okay, let's see how this is gonna work. 241 00:09:12.159 --> 00:09:14.240 And she was actually, now that I look back at it, 242 00:09:14.320 --> 00:09:16.840 she really did have my best interests. Like I just 243 00:09:16.960 --> 00:09:18.759 at the time again, I was like twenty one twenty two, 244 00:09:18.799 --> 00:09:20.840 I'm like running rampant, like I wasn't trying to listen 245 00:09:20.879 --> 00:09:23.200 to nothing. She had to say, you know everything right 246 00:09:23.360 --> 00:09:26.039 right exactly? We all do, but we don't right right. 247 00:09:26.440 --> 00:09:28.200 But I now know what she was trying to do. 248 00:09:28.279 --> 00:09:30.320 But she's the one who was like, Okay, listen, we're 249 00:09:30.320 --> 00:09:32.159 gonna do these hostings, like I'm gonna reach out to 250 00:09:32.200 --> 00:09:34.399 clubs like this is this is when hostings started getting 251 00:09:34.399 --> 00:09:36.960 really popular. Boom boom boom, and she started reaching out 252 00:09:37.000 --> 00:09:38.720 to brands, and so I started making my money like 253 00:09:38.759 --> 00:09:43.600 that and then yeah, I mean I just kept on 254 00:09:43.639 --> 00:09:46.600 growing my my Instagram following. Then I ended up dating 255 00:09:46.639 --> 00:09:49.559 this soccer player who played overseas and he had like 256 00:09:49.639 --> 00:09:51.600 a really big following. So that really helped me. Like 257 00:09:51.840 --> 00:09:53.679 did he come into the club one night? How did 258 00:09:53.679 --> 00:09:56.320 you meet this soccer player? So this is kind of funny, 259 00:09:56.360 --> 00:09:58.799 Like I ended up going My mother is Portuguese, so 260 00:09:58.840 --> 00:10:01.399 I was we had like a family trip to Portugal 261 00:10:01.840 --> 00:10:05.080 and my grandfather's favorite team. It's they were called Benfica. 262 00:10:05.080 --> 00:10:08.200 It's a soccer team, and we went to go visit 263 00:10:08.240 --> 00:10:10.879 the stadium. And it's so weird how the universe works. 264 00:10:10.919 --> 00:10:12.720 I literally took it. I was like, Oh, he's cute. 265 00:10:12.720 --> 00:10:14.679 They had like a picture of you know, the players. 266 00:10:14.720 --> 00:10:17.000 I'm like, oh, he's cute. I stood in front of 267 00:10:17.080 --> 00:10:19.120 the picture. I took a picture of it, and like 268 00:10:19.159 --> 00:10:21.120 I tweeted it or whatever, and it ended up getting 269 00:10:21.159 --> 00:10:23.440 back to him sides in the DMS, because you know, 270 00:10:23.480 --> 00:10:26.600 it's all you know how that works. Anyway, we'll find 271 00:10:26.600 --> 00:10:28.919 out private talk how that works, you know, that goes 272 00:10:28.960 --> 00:10:30.799 so he sides in the DMS, I'm like, oh, he's cute. 273 00:10:30.799 --> 00:10:32.720 We ended up just like hitting it off and then boom, 274 00:10:32.720 --> 00:10:35.440 I'm like I'm flying to Portugal to visit him, and 275 00:10:35.679 --> 00:10:38.320 boom and we dated for like six months and then 276 00:10:38.600 --> 00:10:41.840 it was like a public thing. So that really believe 277 00:10:41.879 --> 00:10:43.639 it or not, that that helped the following as well, 278 00:10:43.679 --> 00:10:45.559 you know what I mean, because were you so popular? 279 00:10:45.639 --> 00:10:47.720 Were you for that or did that help or kind 280 00:10:47.759 --> 00:10:50.360 of make your relationship more difficult because you were more 281 00:10:50.360 --> 00:10:51.360 in the limelight. 282 00:10:51.600 --> 00:10:54.240 So it ended up making it more difficult just because 283 00:10:54.840 --> 00:10:57.200 you know, I was doing the music videos, I was 284 00:10:57.240 --> 00:10:59.759 doing the sexy photo shoots, and the music videos come 285 00:10:59.759 --> 00:11:03.960 because because of after those, like the following increase after 286 00:11:04.039 --> 00:11:06.879 the time with your boyfriend. No, I was already doing 287 00:11:06.879 --> 00:11:08.639 that before it, so I kind of slowed it down 288 00:11:08.799 --> 00:11:11.000 once I got with him, you know, but people were 289 00:11:11.360 --> 00:11:13.679 like reaching out to him like, oh, she's a horror 290 00:11:13.679 --> 00:11:14.840 look at the picture she's taken. 291 00:11:14.919 --> 00:11:17.480 Of course, because people are gonna hate exactly, I know 292 00:11:17.679 --> 00:11:19.799 exactly how that worked. You know, We're always going to 293 00:11:19.840 --> 00:11:22.360 be hated on on people on things that they're envious of. 294 00:11:22.799 --> 00:11:24.480 And usually the jealous people are they going to be that, 295 00:11:24.519 --> 00:11:26.320 They'll never say it that way, but it's always because 296 00:11:26.320 --> 00:11:28.279 you have an insecurity, not I exact. You know, we're 297 00:11:28.320 --> 00:11:30.200 comfortable and how you are, and that's, you know, what 298 00:11:30.240 --> 00:11:32.000 it should be. What works for us doesn't mean that 299 00:11:32.039 --> 00:11:32.519 work for you. 300 00:11:32.600 --> 00:11:34.480 I'm like, this is how you met me, Like, Okay, 301 00:11:34.480 --> 00:11:37.000 I slowed down. You're lucky I did, and if anything, 302 00:11:37.120 --> 00:11:39.039 like you met me this way, you know. But I 303 00:11:39.039 --> 00:11:40.480 guess it started getting into his head. 304 00:11:41.559 --> 00:11:44.080 But because you were doing things that he felt was 305 00:11:44.759 --> 00:11:47.080 whatever in the music videos that was like crossing the 306 00:11:47.120 --> 00:11:49.080 line and in his ego or it was just because 307 00:11:49.120 --> 00:11:50.519 of you working in period. 308 00:11:50.799 --> 00:11:52.799 No, like I stopped doing it. Like he ended up 309 00:11:52.879 --> 00:11:55.120 leaving Portugal and moving to Russia and asked me to 310 00:11:55.120 --> 00:11:57.360 move to Russia with him. I literally left everything in 311 00:11:57.399 --> 00:11:59.320 Miami and moved to Russia with this guy because I'm 312 00:11:59.320 --> 00:12:01.320 like a little hopeless to be like, okay, you're my soul, 313 00:12:01.399 --> 00:12:04.639 may let's do this so stupid, But anyway, I end 314 00:12:04.759 --> 00:12:06.679 up doing that with him, and I cout off everything. 315 00:12:06.720 --> 00:12:08.600 But like I said, people were reaching out to him 316 00:12:08.639 --> 00:12:10.399 like this isn't a good look for your brand, you're 317 00:12:10.440 --> 00:12:12.639 a big soccer player, like she's just she was a 318 00:12:12.639 --> 00:12:14.919 girl from Miami. You don't want to be like attached 319 00:12:14.919 --> 00:12:18.720 to her. So it started getting to him and whatever. Literally, 320 00:12:18.759 --> 00:12:21.120 when I tell you, this guy didn't even give me closure, 321 00:12:21.240 --> 00:12:22.879 just was kind of like listen, like I don't think 322 00:12:22.919 --> 00:12:27.279 we should do this anymore. Sends me packing back to America. 323 00:12:27.480 --> 00:12:33.320 I'm like, what poor? That sucks because it's like it's 324 00:12:33.360 --> 00:12:34.039 by those things. 325 00:12:34.080 --> 00:12:36.720 It's like, you know, girls, you know, you get a 326 00:12:36.799 --> 00:12:38.399 hype and not because it's a hype, but you know, 327 00:12:38.480 --> 00:12:40.759 we have this fairy tale dream that it's sold to 328 00:12:40.799 --> 00:12:42.200 you at one point in time, and we all want 329 00:12:42.200 --> 00:12:42.559 to believe that. 330 00:12:42.639 --> 00:12:44.080 We don't want to be like, you know. 331 00:12:44.799 --> 00:12:47.440 A non love person or whatever after even when you've 332 00:12:47.440 --> 00:12:49.639 been burned before and you know, I'm divorced and I've 333 00:12:49.679 --> 00:12:50.159 been through. 334 00:12:50.000 --> 00:12:51.720 That whole thing as well, and it's not easy. 335 00:12:52.080 --> 00:12:54.320 But when you like take everything and you move, it 336 00:12:54.399 --> 00:12:56.519 sucks because it's dependent on what they're telling you, and 337 00:12:56.559 --> 00:12:58.320 it's like you're on you know, like it's like you're 338 00:12:58.480 --> 00:13:01.120 on strings and that's zactly. So because of all of that, 339 00:13:01.200 --> 00:13:04.000 and you're dating someone so like high profile, has that 340 00:13:04.120 --> 00:13:06.600 made a difference in your dating life now, like what 341 00:13:06.720 --> 00:13:07.639 is your current status? 342 00:13:07.639 --> 00:13:09.399 Does that make you like? What is what's going on 343 00:13:09.440 --> 00:13:10.080 with you right now? 344 00:13:10.320 --> 00:13:11.960 So I never really like even though, like you know, 345 00:13:12.000 --> 00:13:13.840 I've had my heart broken a few times, I've broken 346 00:13:13.879 --> 00:13:16.279 a few hearts too. It's just life, you know, And 347 00:13:16.600 --> 00:13:19.960 I never really like, let whatever happen in past relationships 348 00:13:20.399 --> 00:13:23.360 never stopped me from that again. You know, I'm like, yeah, 349 00:13:23.440 --> 00:13:26.000 I didn't make it. It definitely turned me into like somewhat 350 00:13:26.000 --> 00:13:28.039 of it be don't get it, don't get it twisted, 351 00:13:28.080 --> 00:13:30.200 but not as like I'm not like, oh, I'll never 352 00:13:30.240 --> 00:13:32.440 be in love da da. So right now I'm in 353 00:13:32.480 --> 00:13:34.639 a relationship. I've been with my man now for almost 354 00:13:34.720 --> 00:13:36.879 three years, which is kind of crazy because I mean, 355 00:13:36.919 --> 00:13:39.559 by so fast. But he's so sweet, he's such a 356 00:13:39.559 --> 00:13:42.000 good guy. He's an artist, he just signed a tailor gang. 357 00:13:43.799 --> 00:13:48.639 You don't let private talk you know what his name is. 358 00:13:48.799 --> 00:13:50.960 Let's let's let's find out who you're a man is 359 00:13:51.000 --> 00:13:52.759 After three years, that's a you know, a big deal 360 00:13:52.840 --> 00:13:55.559 after being with somebody you know so high profile and 361 00:13:55.600 --> 00:13:58.159 you saying fuck it, I'm I'm all about love as 362 00:13:58.159 --> 00:13:59.960 you should be and just live in your own truth 363 00:14:00.399 --> 00:14:02.559 and you just dump, you know, jump the right end. 364 00:14:02.559 --> 00:14:03.200 So what is his name? 365 00:14:03.279 --> 00:14:06.440 Let us know about it. His name is SKay And yeah, 366 00:14:06.519 --> 00:14:08.639 I mean we met kind of randomly, like I wasn't 367 00:14:08.639 --> 00:14:10.840 expecting it's I feel like it always happens when you 368 00:14:10.919 --> 00:14:15.759 least expect it. And my manager at the time was like, listen, 369 00:14:15.759 --> 00:14:17.480 like I'm kind of sick of you dealing with these people. 370 00:14:17.519 --> 00:14:19.919 Let me like I could see you dating this kind 371 00:14:19.960 --> 00:14:21.759 I'm like what, And he's like he was younger than me. 372 00:14:21.759 --> 00:14:23.399 He was only twenty one at the time. You never 373 00:14:23.519 --> 00:14:25.360 knew who he was during manager was like, hey, I 374 00:14:25.440 --> 00:14:27.639 just know your type. Yeah, He's like, I feel like 375 00:14:27.639 --> 00:14:29.399 I want you to try something different. I was like, 376 00:14:29.440 --> 00:14:32.000 I don't know because he's a little white boy, he's younger. 377 00:14:32.039 --> 00:14:33.399 He was only twenty one at the time. I'm like, 378 00:14:33.600 --> 00:14:35.360 I don't know. Let's see what he's talking about. Did 379 00:14:35.399 --> 00:14:37.679 you take it serious or were you scared or you're like, ugh, 380 00:14:37.919 --> 00:14:39.919 like what are you gonna get me into? I I 381 00:14:40.039 --> 00:14:41.279 kind of I went to I want to see where 382 00:14:41.279 --> 00:14:42.639 it was gonna go. I didn't was really going to 383 00:14:42.679 --> 00:14:44.639 take it serious at first. He wasn't either. We were 384 00:14:44.639 --> 00:14:47.559 just seeing where it was going, and then we just 385 00:14:47.639 --> 00:14:49.840 hit it off like since day one, like and he's 386 00:14:49.879 --> 00:14:51.720 just one of my best friends and it just you know, 387 00:14:51.799 --> 00:14:52.600 it's really. 388 00:14:52.440 --> 00:14:54.480 It's so, how do you deal with, you know, again 389 00:14:54.519 --> 00:14:57.320 another artist or he well not an artist. Well the 390 00:14:57.399 --> 00:14:59.559 last one was you know, you know, an athlete, but 391 00:14:59.600 --> 00:15:01.639 now this being an artist, how do you deal with 392 00:15:02.600 --> 00:15:05.399 him in his schedule, like him being in with the groupies? 393 00:15:05.559 --> 00:15:07.679 Do you deal you know, even though you're an attractive girl, 394 00:15:07.720 --> 00:15:10.960 doesn't matter whatever. People always want your man, They want whatever, 395 00:15:11.159 --> 00:15:13.159 just because if they want fifteen minutes or they're lying 396 00:15:13.200 --> 00:15:15.600 on you, like tell us private talk a little bit 397 00:15:15.600 --> 00:15:17.240 about that, like how do you deal with that kind 398 00:15:17.279 --> 00:15:18.080 of you know stuff. 399 00:15:18.360 --> 00:15:20.240 So the reason why I feel like it works out 400 00:15:20.279 --> 00:15:23.039 so well with him and I is because with the athlete, 401 00:15:23.080 --> 00:15:25.600