1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:02,240 Speaker 1: Made a decision. 2 00:00:04,160 --> 00:00:10,519 Speaker 2: Okay, Sunny Sun on I haddasion. 3 00:00:10,839 --> 00:00:11,080 Speaker 3: Night. 4 00:00:14,720 --> 00:00:18,879 Speaker 1: So what's up, everybody. It's for crying out loud. 5 00:00:18,960 --> 00:00:20,640 Speaker 2: It is for crying out loud. 6 00:00:21,039 --> 00:00:22,039 Speaker 1: We love you guys. 7 00:00:22,160 --> 00:00:26,039 Speaker 2: Oh my god. We had fun on our Tuesday episode. 8 00:00:26,239 --> 00:00:28,879 Speaker 1: Yeah we did. And we're gonna have a great time 9 00:00:28,879 --> 00:00:32,880 on our Wednesday episode with Elbe. 10 00:00:32,840 --> 00:00:36,039 Speaker 2: On our Thursday yeah yeah, yeah we will and our 11 00:00:36,039 --> 00:00:39,880 Patreon with LB and now this is today's Friday though, yes, 12 00:00:39,920 --> 00:00:43,479 so we already did it. Yes, Kaitlin, you have any 13 00:00:43,520 --> 00:00:44,479 updates about your life? 14 00:00:46,079 --> 00:00:49,640 Speaker 3: Not much, just doing Uh. Blake and Isla are now 15 00:00:49,679 --> 00:00:52,359 in different schools, starting at different times, needing to be 16 00:00:52,399 --> 00:00:56,119 picked up at two different times, so that's fun. On 17 00:00:56,159 --> 00:00:59,399 top of that, they both have soccer two different times 18 00:00:59,479 --> 00:01:02,079 for practice, says, so. 19 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:04,799 Speaker 1: Yeah, one's going one way, the other runs going the 20 00:01:04,879 --> 00:01:05,239 other way. 21 00:01:05,719 --> 00:01:08,400 Speaker 3: Yeah that is Yeah, it's been a lot. 22 00:01:08,519 --> 00:01:10,680 Speaker 1: It's a handful. Yeah. 23 00:01:10,760 --> 00:01:12,760 Speaker 3: But they had their first soccer game on Saturday. 24 00:01:12,799 --> 00:01:15,400 Speaker 2: They did very well, really, both of them. Yeah. 25 00:01:15,439 --> 00:01:17,840 Speaker 3: I was a little nervous because Blake is, uh, she 26 00:01:17,920 --> 00:01:20,560 doesn't do great in the practices. She's just kind of 27 00:01:20,599 --> 00:01:23,239 walking around, you know. It doesn't didn't really seem to 28 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:24,840 want to be there first half of the game. 29 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:27,680 Speaker 1: But she's four, right, yeah, yeah, she's four. 30 00:01:27,959 --> 00:01:29,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean she's four. 31 00:01:29,519 --> 00:01:31,799 Speaker 3: Well, when I was started last year, she was super 32 00:01:31,840 --> 00:01:34,400 into it and she was going after the ball and 33 00:01:34,439 --> 00:01:35,200 being aggressive. 34 00:01:35,319 --> 00:01:36,400 Speaker 1: And then she. 35 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:39,319 Speaker 3: Tapered off about halfway through the season, she stopped caring. 36 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:42,439 But yeah, at one point we were watching her at 37 00:01:42,439 --> 00:01:44,599 the game and her grandmother came over to me and said, hey, well, 38 00:01:44,599 --> 00:01:50,400 where's Blake, and I went, She's in the back. But 39 00:01:50,519 --> 00:01:52,239 then halfway through the game she got into it and 40 00:01:52,359 --> 00:01:53,799 maybe a little too much. She was doing a little 41 00:01:53,799 --> 00:01:54,719 pushing towards. 42 00:01:54,480 --> 00:01:54,879 Speaker 1: The end there. 43 00:01:54,959 --> 00:01:57,599 Speaker 3: Oh, I don't know where it came from. 44 00:01:58,120 --> 00:01:58,799 Speaker 1: A targeting. 45 00:01:59,200 --> 00:02:03,480 Speaker 2: Targeting, She's gonna get herself thrown out of the game. 46 00:02:03,879 --> 00:02:05,040 How hilarious would that be? 47 00:02:06,079 --> 00:02:06,680 Speaker 1: That's great. 48 00:02:07,040 --> 00:02:08,879 Speaker 2: It's great because then you could see. 49 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:10,599 Speaker 1: What they're interested in, you know what I mean, You 50 00:02:10,599 --> 00:02:14,520 could start to try these different sports, because we did that. 51 00:02:14,879 --> 00:02:18,439 We started We never did soccer, but we started with softball. 52 00:02:19,039 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 2: Oh you started with softbare Oh. 53 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:25,199 Speaker 1: My god, at like age five. And it was a nightmare. 54 00:02:25,919 --> 00:02:28,319 First of all, Natalia and Sonny did it at the 55 00:02:28,360 --> 00:02:31,120 same time. They're on the same team and Natali would 56 00:02:31,120 --> 00:02:34,280 get up there and she whacked the ball. And at 57 00:02:34,280 --> 00:02:37,159 one point we were in the outfield and Natali was 58 00:02:37,199 --> 00:02:39,199 on the other you know, she was in the outfield 59 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:42,039 and Sonny came up, and the coach kept pitching it 60 00:02:42,159 --> 00:02:45,599 to Sonny, pitching it to Sonny, and so anytime Sonny 61 00:02:45,680 --> 00:02:47,960 came up, Natalia would just sit down on the field 62 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:52,080 and the coach would be like, uh, tell you, hey, Natalia, 63 00:02:52,199 --> 00:02:55,879 stand up. She goes. He's gonna take forever because he does. 64 00:02:56,080 --> 00:02:58,879 He did, and the coach would be like, he would 65 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:01,120 keep pitching it until they hit it. You know, it 66 00:03:01,159 --> 00:03:03,520 wouldn't be just like a couple of times, and you know, 67 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:06,400 he would keep pitching it and sometimes Sunny would take free. 68 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:09,360 He'd keep missing and missing, and Italian it just would 69 00:03:09,360 --> 00:03:14,159 sit down, Indian style, criss cross applesauce, just sitting there 70 00:03:14,240 --> 00:03:16,960 like a puss on waiting for her brother to hit 71 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:20,120 the ball. Yeah, and then she was bored with it 72 00:03:20,199 --> 00:03:23,400 and he didn't like it, and then we were done. 73 00:03:23,479 --> 00:03:26,199 We did it for like one season and we were done, Like, 74 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:28,319 I don't think they like softball. 75 00:03:29,319 --> 00:03:31,000 Speaker 2: But then but. 76 00:03:31,080 --> 00:03:35,520 Speaker 1: Then she did ice skating. Yeah, then she did ice skating, 77 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:39,319 which was crazy how that started, because I mean I've 78 00:03:39,319 --> 00:03:43,120 told the story before, but we were I took Natalia, 79 00:03:43,439 --> 00:03:47,960 she was I think six or seven. Uh it was 80 00:03:48,039 --> 00:03:50,759 it was Thanksgiving week and I told her I take 81 00:03:50,759 --> 00:03:53,240 her ice skating. We get to the ice skating ring. 82 00:03:53,680 --> 00:03:57,000 She goes, she's never been on the ice before. So 83 00:03:57,199 --> 00:03:59,280 I get with her. I'm like holding her hand and 84 00:03:59,319 --> 00:04:01,800 she's kind of like holding on the wall and she's 85 00:04:01,960 --> 00:04:04,919 she goes around like once or twice, and then they 86 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:10,199 shut the rink down because they have to practice for 87 00:04:10,520 --> 00:04:15,879 a Christmas play, The Grinch, and and she was like 88 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:18,759 really like I I you know, she was upset because 89 00:04:18,759 --> 00:04:21,959 she wanted to keep going. And this this coach, this 90 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:25,240 guy Ben, I'll never forget. He was like, I said, 91 00:04:25,240 --> 00:04:28,120 what's going on. He goes, well, we're rehearsing. We're doing 92 00:04:28,839 --> 00:04:31,319 for kids like her age. We're doing The Grinch. And 93 00:04:31,360 --> 00:04:33,920 he goes, does she want to join? And I looked 94 00:04:33,920 --> 00:04:35,680 at her and I go, no, she doesn't know how 95 00:04:35,680 --> 00:04:37,160 to ice skate. We was just like, this is our 96 00:04:37,199 --> 00:04:40,000 first time on the ice. And he was like, that's okay. 97 00:04:40,240 --> 00:04:42,680 I'll take care. I'll take her, like I'll watch you, 98 00:04:42,759 --> 00:04:46,120 I'll help her and I look at Italian and she's like, yeah, 99 00:04:46,319 --> 00:04:48,879 I want to do it. And I was like okay, 100 00:04:49,160 --> 00:04:52,319 and she did, I know, and she did it. And 101 00:04:52,480 --> 00:04:55,879 she and that Ben became like her coach and she 102 00:04:56,160 --> 00:04:59,600 loved him, and she was in the play and she 103 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:02,560 like her first scene she comes out and then she 104 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:06,439 slides by accident into the Christmas street almost knocks the 105 00:05:06,480 --> 00:05:09,959 whole thing down. Yeah, and then she started doing it 106 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:13,199 like competitive, and she was like taking classes and and 107 00:05:13,240 --> 00:05:16,360 she did a competition like in Irvine once that we 108 00:05:16,439 --> 00:05:18,800 had to go to and she did really well. 109 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:20,360 Speaker 2: I remember that. 110 00:05:20,800 --> 00:05:24,040 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, she was really into it. She loved it. 111 00:05:24,120 --> 00:05:25,600 Speaker 2: But then she quit. 112 00:05:25,759 --> 00:05:28,759 Speaker 1: Because we moved right, so then when we moved into 113 00:05:28,800 --> 00:05:33,000 our new neighborhood, nobody was ice skating. You know that neighborhood. 114 00:05:33,000 --> 00:05:38,879 It's all basketball and football and girls like volleyball and 115 00:05:38,920 --> 00:05:42,560 stuff like that. And she's like, now I'm done ice skating. 116 00:05:42,800 --> 00:05:44,319 I want to do I want to do. She wanted 117 00:05:44,319 --> 00:05:48,319 to play basketball. She was playing basketball, so yeah, well 118 00:05:48,319 --> 00:05:52,519 that's a shame because she was really good at ice skating. 119 00:05:53,040 --> 00:05:53,680 I loved it. 120 00:05:53,879 --> 00:05:58,040 Speaker 2: Do you realize that I have been around for almost 121 00:05:58,079 --> 00:06:01,759 like your entire raising of your kids yes, Can I 122 00:06:01,879 --> 00:06:07,720 just say that you are the best mom. And I 123 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:10,079 mean I've been here, I've been there for the whole time. 124 00:06:10,199 --> 00:06:13,720 I've seen you go through so many different things with 125 00:06:13,759 --> 00:06:17,040 your kids. I've seen you see you two through everything. 126 00:06:17,560 --> 00:06:20,800 It's just so I'm so honored to be a part 127 00:06:20,839 --> 00:06:25,360 of like watching you throw yourself into every single thing 128 00:06:25,439 --> 00:06:27,480 that your kids want to do and be a part 129 00:06:27,519 --> 00:06:29,680 of it and go to every game. And it's just 130 00:06:29,720 --> 00:06:32,319 funny if you think back to like all the things 131 00:06:32,319 --> 00:06:35,160 that I've known you being a part of, and then 132 00:06:35,240 --> 00:06:38,759 the kids and supporting Sunny with basketball and going to 133 00:06:38,759 --> 00:06:42,160 tournaments and going to Vegas and supporting Italia with basketball, 134 00:06:42,480 --> 00:06:45,360 and then supporting Italia with volleyball, and just like all 135 00:06:45,480 --> 00:06:48,360 and all of the different getting a tutor for this, and. 136 00:06:48,319 --> 00:06:50,920 Speaker 1: Getting a tutor for that, our coaches and. 137 00:06:50,839 --> 00:06:53,639 Speaker 2: The teachers and the advocating and the you know, like 138 00:06:53,680 --> 00:06:57,680 the whole time, the most hands on mom. And I'm 139 00:06:57,839 --> 00:07:00,480 so honored that I've been on this pot cast with 140 00:07:00,519 --> 00:07:02,160 you hearing every stuff of the way, and now your 141 00:07:02,199 --> 00:07:04,399 kids are gonna make me grow. 142 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:08,639 Speaker 1: True, well, I feel the same way about you, like 143 00:07:08,800 --> 00:07:11,519 I've been with you this whole time, all the time 144 00:07:11,600 --> 00:07:15,120 raising your kids and at an earlier age your twins 145 00:07:15,160 --> 00:07:19,079 were younger than mine, and all the things that you've 146 00:07:19,079 --> 00:07:23,720 been doing and advocating for them, and all the practices 147 00:07:23,879 --> 00:07:26,560 and almost cheerleading, And. 148 00:07:27,920 --> 00:07:31,199 Speaker 2: Isn't it crazy to think back of like and then 149 00:07:31,319 --> 00:07:34,720 Kaylin's just kind of starting out with this exactly all 150 00:07:34,759 --> 00:07:37,639 the things that all the mistakes I've made, I know, 151 00:07:37,759 --> 00:07:41,000 like you know, when all the things I've overreacted to 152 00:07:41,160 --> 00:07:42,800 and then had to be like, oh never. 153 00:07:42,879 --> 00:07:49,399 Speaker 1: Sorry, advocating for your kids, sending emails, yes, like it's 154 00:07:49,439 --> 00:07:52,920 been an honor watching you, like watching you raise your kids. 155 00:07:53,000 --> 00:07:55,040 Speaker 2: All this just such a good mom. I think about 156 00:07:55,040 --> 00:07:57,720 it all and you are too very loving. You've I 157 00:07:58,279 --> 00:08:02,519 you know, I'm reading this woman's book about like her 158 00:08:02,959 --> 00:08:07,279 chaotic childhood and then her parenting, and I was it 159 00:08:07,399 --> 00:08:10,240 was making me think about the fact that, like you 160 00:08:10,720 --> 00:08:13,839 did not come from the easiest home to come from, 161 00:08:13,879 --> 00:08:17,920 and a lot of people do do. It's hard to 162 00:08:17,959 --> 00:08:19,759 break the cycle, and a lot of people don't break 163 00:08:19,759 --> 00:08:22,720 the cycle until later, you know. But you have been 164 00:08:22,800 --> 00:08:27,040 like a patient, loving mom to both of your kids 165 00:08:27,879 --> 00:08:30,800 the whole time, like I've never heard of you like 166 00:08:30,959 --> 00:08:33,519 really losing your shit. I mean we've both gotten frustrated 167 00:08:33,519 --> 00:08:35,960 at our kids, right, Like, I've never heard of any 168 00:08:36,600 --> 00:08:38,840 craziness like anything where. 169 00:08:38,639 --> 00:08:41,080 Speaker 1: You like my mom used to be. 170 00:08:41,159 --> 00:08:44,440 Speaker 2: Right like any we've I mean, I say, for both 171 00:08:44,480 --> 00:08:46,720 of us, we've always been like pretty easy going. 172 00:08:46,919 --> 00:08:49,399 Speaker 1: Yeah. I think you and I have both the same 173 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:53,639 temperament when it comes to our kids. And I think 174 00:08:53,720 --> 00:08:56,799 that we've handled raising our kids a lot of very 175 00:08:56,799 --> 00:09:02,320 similar ways. And it and and you too, like from 176 00:09:02,399 --> 00:09:06,399 what you've come from was not easy. And like just 177 00:09:06,440 --> 00:09:08,679 the fact about you know, with the relationship with your 178 00:09:08,679 --> 00:09:11,200 mom even after your kids were born, I mean that's 179 00:09:11,240 --> 00:09:15,000 got to be tough, you know, and you just you've 180 00:09:15,000 --> 00:09:20,080 handled everything like so with grace and just it's been 181 00:09:20,519 --> 00:09:22,000 like amazing watching it. 182 00:09:22,720 --> 00:09:27,000 Speaker 2: It's true all the same. Yeah, I feel like and 183 00:09:27,320 --> 00:09:30,799 I know you're the same way. It's it's like there's 184 00:09:30,799 --> 00:09:34,559 no there's nothing to be gained from like being bitter 185 00:09:34,879 --> 00:09:39,000 at my mother. I choose to not have her in 186 00:09:39,039 --> 00:09:42,720 my life. But it's not because I feel like, oh 187 00:09:42,759 --> 00:09:44,840 my god, she was so abusive or I had this 188 00:09:45,080 --> 00:09:48,200 horrendous childhood. I don't think that. I just think that, 189 00:09:48,960 --> 00:09:53,679 you know, whatever, right, I just want to do I 190 00:09:53,720 --> 00:09:56,480 wanted to do some things differently, and it's it's hard 191 00:09:56,600 --> 00:10:01,559 not to repeat it is, yeah, you have to actively think, right, right, 192 00:10:01,679 --> 00:10:03,919 here's what I want to do. But it's hard because 193 00:10:03,919 --> 00:10:08,159 we've been doing it without like we've been doing it 194 00:10:09,240 --> 00:10:13,080 live on a podcast all of these years, opening ourselves 195 00:10:13,240 --> 00:10:15,759 up to people that want to comment and say, like 196 00:10:16,000 --> 00:10:18,320 I can't believe you're still making your kids lunch, Like yeah, 197 00:10:18,519 --> 00:10:22,000 you're handicapping your kids, like emotionally, and it's like you 198 00:10:22,039 --> 00:10:25,720 shouldn't be everybody judging sure, like we don't fucking know 199 00:10:25,960 --> 00:10:28,480 you just going by our instincts, right, they could be 200 00:10:28,519 --> 00:10:29,600 bad instincts. We don't know. 201 00:10:29,799 --> 00:10:31,399 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think. 202 00:10:31,279 --> 00:10:34,519 Speaker 2: They were the worst us now and I think a 203 00:10:34,559 --> 00:10:38,559 lot of people related to us too, you know, And 204 00:10:39,200 --> 00:10:44,519 this is our last show. No, we're just I know, no, 205 00:10:44,720 --> 00:10:47,559 but it's it's uh, it has been fun, like what 206 00:10:47,799 --> 00:10:50,440 you know, right, every week you and I getting together 207 00:10:50,519 --> 00:10:51,440 and talking about it. 208 00:10:51,440 --> 00:10:52,840 Speaker 1: It's like therapy almost. 209 00:10:53,159 --> 00:10:55,879 Speaker 2: It was just hitting me because like the kids going 210 00:10:55,879 --> 00:10:58,320 to call it, like I know Sunny is about to 211 00:10:58,440 --> 00:11:01,360 leave for college, like you raise them up, and I 212 00:11:01,519 --> 00:11:03,200 would just hit me. The other day, I was thinking 213 00:11:03,240 --> 00:11:05,440 about it and I was like, I have been around 214 00:11:05,559 --> 00:11:09,200 Lynnett's kids since they were like five years old. Yes, yeah, yeah, 215 00:11:09,480 --> 00:11:13,440 not physically around them. I've heard every week story every 216 00:11:13,480 --> 00:11:18,840 single week. I know what their lives are like, yes, intimately, yeah, 217 00:11:19,519 --> 00:11:22,559 and it's wild. Say here all the different things and 218 00:11:22,639 --> 00:11:25,720 the different stages, and the different schools and the different 219 00:11:25,759 --> 00:11:28,679 teachers and the different struggle And we've had some similar 220 00:11:28,720 --> 00:11:30,039 struggles with our kids too. 221 00:11:30,120 --> 00:11:34,519 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah we have. Yeah, it's it's it's crazy when 222 00:11:34,519 --> 00:11:39,720 you think about it. Every week we've been talking and 223 00:11:39,799 --> 00:11:40,679 people have been listening. 224 00:11:40,840 --> 00:11:44,440 Speaker 2: When we started, I was practically in tears every week, 225 00:11:44,519 --> 00:11:48,320 just going, this is so hard. Yeah, yeah, you were going, Okay, 226 00:11:48,320 --> 00:11:53,000 it's going to get better because Mike is really too, 227 00:11:53,080 --> 00:11:55,279 because you're because they're only a year and a half 228 00:11:55,320 --> 00:11:59,600 older than mine. So if mine were like two, yeah, 229 00:12:00,200 --> 00:12:02,000 only like you like maybe there were four. 230 00:12:02,200 --> 00:12:04,919 Speaker 1: Yeah, they were four. And I'm telling you as just 231 00:12:05,039 --> 00:12:08,159 the the two's and the threes, you just get through that. 232 00:12:08,440 --> 00:12:10,879 Once you get the four, it gets better, Kaylin. 233 00:12:11,000 --> 00:12:13,320 Speaker 2: Five is good, right, Yeah? Five is great? 234 00:12:13,519 --> 00:12:16,600 Speaker 1: Five? Five Yeah, five is good. Five's good. 235 00:12:16,840 --> 00:12:20,399 Speaker 2: Five is where I felt a lot of relief with LB, Like, Okay, I. 236 00:12:20,320 --> 00:12:23,200 Speaker 1: Think five is when you get out of the mail room, she. 237 00:12:23,120 --> 00:12:28,200 Speaker 2: Can they can finally tell you no, I'm to say no. 238 00:12:28,399 --> 00:12:31,200 But that's because he has another younger one, It's true, 239 00:12:31,240 --> 00:12:34,399 and he's entering the preschool where all of a sudden, 240 00:12:34,440 --> 00:12:37,879 they really step up the expectations on the parents, right, 241 00:12:38,559 --> 00:12:43,759 Like there's a different like daycare or whatever. Who he's 242 00:12:43,759 --> 00:12:46,879 asking you for anything? Like now is a very differently preschool. 243 00:12:46,919 --> 00:12:50,679 They're like, yeah, you're paying us to help you raise 244 00:12:50,720 --> 00:12:52,720 your kids, but you gotta where you. 245 00:12:53,759 --> 00:12:56,200 Speaker 1: We need you to volunteer and we need you. 246 00:12:56,279 --> 00:12:58,919 Speaker 2: Like how is this nine hundred dollars a month for 247 00:12:59,120 --> 00:13:00,240 like you're supposed to to. 248 00:13:00,200 --> 00:13:02,480 Speaker 1: Be, right, and why do I have to come here 249 00:13:02,919 --> 00:13:03,720 every other week? 250 00:13:03,919 --> 00:13:10,519 Speaker 2: Yeah, he's your job, right. We should talk about Dave Grol. 251 00:13:11,039 --> 00:13:13,039 Speaker 1: Okay, let's yeah. 252 00:13:13,080 --> 00:13:17,799 Speaker 2: Now I'm gonna have to remember, Okay, basically Dave Grol. 253 00:13:19,000 --> 00:13:22,000 You know, Caitlin, it turned out that he has a 254 00:13:22,039 --> 00:13:23,600 baby out of wedlock. 255 00:13:23,720 --> 00:13:25,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, came out last week. 256 00:13:25,279 --> 00:13:25,720 Speaker 2: Yeah. 257 00:13:25,799 --> 00:13:29,679 Speaker 1: I was shocked, you were, well at first I was, 258 00:13:29,759 --> 00:13:33,440 but then I was like, hum disappointed. I don't know. 259 00:13:33,759 --> 00:13:36,039 I just I don't know if it was because he 260 00:13:36,159 --> 00:13:38,759 actually got ahead of the story and came out and 261 00:13:38,799 --> 00:13:41,080 made a statement that was shocked. 262 00:13:41,159 --> 00:13:44,639 Speaker 2: I feel like that statement was like a hostage statement, 263 00:13:44,879 --> 00:13:47,600 like yeah, I felt like he would really do that. 264 00:13:47,720 --> 00:13:49,960 I felt like his wife was like behind him, going 265 00:13:50,000 --> 00:13:52,600 like yeah, and I want to read this, motherfucker, and 266 00:13:52,679 --> 00:13:54,480 you're gonna say this or. 267 00:13:55,360 --> 00:13:58,519 Speaker 1: Right, because I feel like he must have had a 268 00:13:58,559 --> 00:14:02,240 feeling that it was going to get out, because why 269 00:14:02,279 --> 00:14:04,519 not just keep it quiet and just be like, you know, 270 00:14:04,919 --> 00:14:08,679 hush hush. So it felt to me a little bit 271 00:14:08,720 --> 00:14:11,519 like he's trying to get ahead of something, whether it's 272 00:14:11,559 --> 00:14:14,960 somebody telling him, his wife or his publicist going like, hey, 273 00:14:15,000 --> 00:14:17,000 you need to get ahead of it. Just put out 274 00:14:17,039 --> 00:14:20,000 a statement. It's the best way to do it. You 275 00:14:20,080 --> 00:14:20,919 love your family. 276 00:14:21,159 --> 00:14:23,320 Speaker 2: You think the baby Mama was threatening to go public? 277 00:14:23,480 --> 00:14:27,440 Speaker 1: I think maybe had something something something. Yeah, and do 278 00:14:27,559 --> 00:14:30,960 we know the baby mama is no no, okay. 279 00:14:30,600 --> 00:14:35,480 Speaker 2: So okay. Years ago, yeah, we both had a story 280 00:14:35,480 --> 00:14:36,240 about Dave Grol. 281 00:14:36,399 --> 00:14:39,799 Speaker 1: It was very It was odd when it was the 282 00:14:39,919 --> 00:14:41,080 same story and. 283 00:14:41,080 --> 00:14:44,799 Speaker 2: We did it on Patreon because it wasn't common knowledge 284 00:14:45,080 --> 00:14:46,960 right about Dave Grol. We were talking about the fact 285 00:14:46,960 --> 00:14:51,399 that everybody loves Dave girl he is and I'm not 286 00:14:51,440 --> 00:14:53,720 taking away from the fact that he's a very nice 287 00:14:53,720 --> 00:14:58,600 guy who does a lot for charity. He's like super approachable. Yeah, yeah, 288 00:14:58,639 --> 00:15:03,279 he lives in my neighborhood, not like my exact neighborhood. 289 00:15:03,320 --> 00:15:05,720 He lives in a richer part of my neighborhood, but 290 00:15:05,879 --> 00:15:08,240 like you know, so does Kyle from The Real Housewives. 291 00:15:08,320 --> 00:15:08,559 Speaker 1: Right. 292 00:15:08,639 --> 00:15:12,399 Speaker 2: I live in Encino, which there's rich richer part of. 293 00:15:12,519 --> 00:15:16,399 Speaker 1: The south of Venta and there's north of Venture. 294 00:15:16,279 --> 00:15:20,440 Speaker 2: But we share the same like Bermuda Triangle of stores 295 00:15:20,440 --> 00:15:22,960 where my kids always go to. There's like a Michael's 296 00:15:23,000 --> 00:15:25,960 and a Chili's and yeah, you know, yes, anyway, a 297 00:15:25,960 --> 00:15:28,440 lot of people have run into him, like at Michael's. 298 00:15:28,759 --> 00:15:36,120 Then she's AnyWho, right when back in the day, I 299 00:15:36,159 --> 00:15:38,399 don't know how we even got on the topic, but 300 00:15:38,519 --> 00:15:41,480 you had a story about him. Yeah, we I think 301 00:15:41,519 --> 00:15:46,600 we were talking about it off air and I was like, yeah, 302 00:15:46,639 --> 00:15:48,279 we did this as a Patreon. 303 00:15:48,039 --> 00:15:50,480 Speaker 1: Yeah we did. So I'm not going to say I 304 00:15:50,679 --> 00:15:54,879 had a friend that I worked with that like she 305 00:15:55,519 --> 00:16:00,440 was traveling in her so I guess her daughter and 306 00:16:00,519 --> 00:16:04,159 Dave Grohl's daughter were on this, like in the same 307 00:16:04,679 --> 00:16:09,039 soccer league, and so they had a lot of tournaments 308 00:16:09,039 --> 00:16:13,279 out of town and stuff, and she knew the She 309 00:16:13,480 --> 00:16:18,440 found out because she knew the mom that or the 310 00:16:18,480 --> 00:16:23,159 wife that treated with Dave Girl, and her and her 311 00:16:23,240 --> 00:16:28,120 husband would go on family vacations with them. Oh, and 312 00:16:28,200 --> 00:16:31,480 they had an affair. That's what. That's the same couple 313 00:16:31,519 --> 00:16:34,200 we're talking about, Okay, And then. 314 00:16:34,159 --> 00:16:38,600 Speaker 2: You knew the husband, So no, no, this is what's 315 00:16:38,639 --> 00:16:43,720 a totally different person. So I I know some I 316 00:16:43,960 --> 00:16:47,639 have somebody who's very close to me who is very 317 00:16:47,639 --> 00:16:49,600 good friends with a guy and worked with him. And 318 00:16:49,679 --> 00:16:52,440 I had worked with this guy too, whose wife had 319 00:16:52,440 --> 00:16:55,279 an affair with Dave Girl. They had young twins at 320 00:16:55,279 --> 00:16:58,279 the time. They literally lived in my neighborhood, like two 321 00:16:58,320 --> 00:17:02,919 blocks from me, and she left her husband. This this 322 00:17:03,360 --> 00:17:09,640 friend of a very close person to me was really 323 00:17:09,680 --> 00:17:12,799 good friends with this guy, and like I remember calling 324 00:17:12,839 --> 00:17:14,599 me going, oh my god, I'm not going to say 325 00:17:14,599 --> 00:17:16,960 the guy's name, but let's call him Tom. So my 326 00:17:17,079 --> 00:17:21,400 friend was like, oh my god, Tom's wife just basically 327 00:17:21,759 --> 00:17:24,680 left him for Dave Grohl. But Dave Grohl was like, 328 00:17:24,799 --> 00:17:27,720 what do you do, Like, I'm not ending up with you, like, 329 00:17:27,839 --> 00:17:31,960 and she had young twins left the bye bye, and 330 00:17:32,000 --> 00:17:34,200 then I think he was like, no, no, no, this 331 00:17:34,240 --> 00:17:37,240 is not like, don't leave your husband for me, right, 332 00:17:37,759 --> 00:17:41,000 but they went on me was really upset, like, no, 333 00:17:41,119 --> 00:17:43,039 I don't this is not the same people as you 334 00:17:43,079 --> 00:17:48,000 were talking. No, no, your story was about different people. 335 00:17:48,039 --> 00:17:49,200 I think he just gets. 336 00:17:49,079 --> 00:17:54,440 Speaker 1: Around so this so that woman, It wasn't like they 337 00:17:54,480 --> 00:17:55,839 didn't go on vacation with them. 338 00:17:55,960 --> 00:18:00,279 Speaker 2: No, oh my god, No, your story was unrelated to 339 00:18:00,319 --> 00:18:00,839 my story. 340 00:18:01,519 --> 00:18:04,240 Speaker 1: Then this is did we know this back when we 341 00:18:04,359 --> 00:18:04,960 had age? 342 00:18:05,039 --> 00:18:06,839 Speaker 2: We did? I think we both. I thought we were 343 00:18:06,920 --> 00:18:09,839 visual stories about No. No, no, no, I think he 344 00:18:10,039 --> 00:18:14,680 just I think he is just a freaking horn dog. Yeah, 345 00:18:14,680 --> 00:18:16,440 he be a sex addict. I know. We throw that 346 00:18:16,480 --> 00:18:17,119 around a lot. 347 00:18:17,680 --> 00:18:20,200 Speaker 1: Yeah. Man, you know he's a rock and roll musician. 348 00:18:20,440 --> 00:18:22,240 I hate to say it cliche, but. 349 00:18:23,160 --> 00:18:28,119 Speaker 2: So then we heard that aj Benza. Oh yes. 350 00:18:28,640 --> 00:18:31,559 Speaker 1: Then I find out that J Benza did a Patren 351 00:18:31,599 --> 00:18:35,799 and said I was at dinner with Lynette and Lackey's 352 00:18:36,119 --> 00:18:39,000 and then Lynette said her, I don't know if he 353 00:18:39,119 --> 00:18:40,920 said this, but this is what he's good. 354 00:18:41,359 --> 00:18:42,839 Speaker 2: Apparently it's it's. 355 00:18:42,680 --> 00:18:45,359 Speaker 1: It's online because I didn't hear it, so I don't 356 00:18:45,400 --> 00:18:48,960 know for sure, but somebody online is saying that I said. 357 00:18:49,480 --> 00:18:50,839 Speaker 2: Aj Benza said that. 358 00:18:50,839 --> 00:18:54,200 Speaker 1: Aj Benza said that. I said at some dinner party 359 00:18:54,279 --> 00:18:57,200 that Adam and I are going to the same therapist 360 00:18:57,720 --> 00:19:01,119 as Dave roll and his wife. And the therapist said, oh, 361 00:19:01,480 --> 00:19:04,920 you know, Dave Grohl cheated on his wife and Lynette, 362 00:19:05,160 --> 00:19:08,799 you know, told the story. And I'm like thinking to myself, no, 363 00:19:09,039 --> 00:19:13,319 dumb ass, that's not I First of all, what therapist 364 00:19:13,480 --> 00:19:15,519 is gonna go is gonna go, hey, you want to 365 00:19:15,559 --> 00:19:17,400 know who my other clients are, and guess what's going 366 00:19:17,440 --> 00:19:20,440 on with them, you know, Dave Groles my other Like, 367 00:19:21,000 --> 00:19:22,119 it doesn't work like that. 368 00:19:22,640 --> 00:19:26,279 Speaker 2: The therapist that you had wasn't exactly a therapist. She 369 00:19:26,440 --> 00:19:27,640 was like a coat of life. 370 00:19:27,799 --> 00:19:32,799 Speaker 1: Yes, and she was nowhere near and see now yeah, 371 00:19:32,839 --> 00:19:35,799 but she was nowhere No, she was not seeing that. 372 00:19:36,119 --> 00:19:37,039 That never happened. 373 00:19:37,480 --> 00:19:41,279 Speaker 2: The biggest coincidence in the world too, though, that you yeah, right. 374 00:19:41,759 --> 00:19:44,920 Speaker 1: Yes, and we don't live near each other. Like it's 375 00:19:45,279 --> 00:19:47,880 it doesn't make what therapist is going to say that, 376 00:19:48,559 --> 00:19:52,079 you know, to another couple. Come on, I would be 377 00:19:52,160 --> 00:19:54,279 mortified if I heard a therapist say that. I would 378 00:19:54,359 --> 00:19:56,519 report the therapist, Yeah, because I don't know what the 379 00:19:56,519 --> 00:19:59,799 therapists even gave Dave Grohl's wife and about me, and 380 00:20:00,319 --> 00:20:02,400 you know what I mean, if that was true, right, 381 00:20:02,640 --> 00:20:05,759 Like I couldn't trust that there there's no so I 382 00:20:05,759 --> 00:20:08,720 don't know where he got that story, but I think 383 00:20:08,759 --> 00:20:11,400 it had to do with maybe he heard about our 384 00:20:11,440 --> 00:20:15,079 patreon or something, yes, and then probably just made up 385 00:20:15,119 --> 00:20:18,279 the story, like you probably couldn't remember exactly that or 386 00:20:18,319 --> 00:20:21,400 maybe didn't hear our patreon, just heard we were talking 387 00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:21,839 about it. 388 00:20:22,759 --> 00:20:26,079 Speaker 2: But what I just don't understand why he would. It 389 00:20:26,160 --> 00:20:29,880 seems pretty desperate, I mean, which and I'm going to 390 00:20:29,920 --> 00:20:33,559 bring up the fact that he also reported on you 391 00:20:33,640 --> 00:20:37,000 and Adam getting divorced before that came, got in a 392 00:20:37,079 --> 00:20:39,759 lot of trouble for it, and then tried to say like, oh, 393 00:20:39,880 --> 00:20:42,799 I was talking about Kristen Bell and Dak Shelley and 394 00:20:42,920 --> 00:20:48,480 people were like, fuck you weren't that's right, dumb ass, No, 395 00:20:48,680 --> 00:20:51,599 you weren't saying that about Kristin Bell and Dakshaw, who 396 00:20:51,680 --> 00:20:54,680 by the way, are not divorced, right right right, It's 397 00:20:54,720 --> 00:20:58,000 like ridiculous, Like I think it was just aspiration. 398 00:20:58,519 --> 00:21:03,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, like you just can't believe everything you hear, 399 00:21:03,839 --> 00:21:07,680 you know, I mean, especially from a gossip columnist. 400 00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:11,400 Speaker 2: Right, But when we did our Patreon, we weren't being 401 00:21:11,480 --> 00:21:13,759 like it wasn't like, okay, I can't tell you how 402 00:21:13,799 --> 00:21:16,960 I heard this from my therapist. We were just like, hey, 403 00:21:17,039 --> 00:21:18,200 I just know this story. 404 00:21:18,319 --> 00:21:21,000 Speaker 1: It was a coincidence. Yeah. We came in one day 405 00:21:21,039 --> 00:21:23,720 and we started talking about it off the air, and 406 00:21:23,759 --> 00:21:25,960 I was like, dude, I got to tell you this story. 407 00:21:26,000 --> 00:21:28,640 My friend told me. And then you're like, no way, 408 00:21:28,960 --> 00:21:31,799 because I have a story too. Yeah, and it was 409 00:21:31,799 --> 00:21:34,400 a coincidence. I thought for some reason it was the 410 00:21:34,440 --> 00:21:37,759 same person, the same couple. 411 00:21:39,599 --> 00:21:43,440 Speaker 2: Definitely not No, this was just this girl was so 412 00:21:43,480 --> 00:21:46,480 she did a reason I was. And somebody, somebody who 413 00:21:46,519 --> 00:21:49,759 remembered our patreon I just want to say, was like 414 00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:53,240 we said that the wife was a bitch. No, we 415 00:21:53,319 --> 00:21:56,680 did not. Who I said was a bach was the 416 00:21:56,720 --> 00:22:00,519 one he cheated with, because she she's the one who. 417 00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:03,000 Speaker 1: Left our friend right right, right. 418 00:22:03,400 --> 00:22:07,440 Speaker 2: But I met her at one point, like in her driveway, 419 00:22:07,720 --> 00:22:09,279 I saw my friend who I worked with on a 420 00:22:09,319 --> 00:22:12,559 show that we're calling Tom. I had met her and 421 00:22:12,599 --> 00:22:15,200 I was like, she was real bitchy. 422 00:22:15,680 --> 00:22:16,279 Speaker 1: Oh really? 423 00:22:16,559 --> 00:22:19,559 Speaker 2: Yeah. So then when I found out that whatever that 424 00:22:19,839 --> 00:22:22,279 had happened. I was like, well, I'm not that surprised. 425 00:22:22,799 --> 00:22:23,480 It's kind of rude. 426 00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:26,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, to leave your family and they maybe you should 427 00:22:26,920 --> 00:22:29,079 have had a conversation with the guy before you do that. 428 00:22:29,759 --> 00:22:32,279 Make sure you're on the same page. I mean, hello, 429 00:22:32,599 --> 00:22:33,720 how do you not know? 430 00:22:34,559 --> 00:22:38,039 Speaker 2: Well, but here's the thing. Maybe Dave Groll is just 431 00:22:38,200 --> 00:22:42,079 the most excellent like love bomber, you know, I mean 432 00:22:42,119 --> 00:22:45,400 does he don't? He must tell people like y, So 433 00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:48,359 how do you get someone pregnant? You're a rock star 434 00:22:48,480 --> 00:22:51,279 right now? Like, are you just like, oh, you're on 435 00:22:51,319 --> 00:22:56,079 the pill? Okay, right? Wouldn't you just be like absolutely, no, 436 00:22:56,119 --> 00:22:58,200 way I'm getting you pregnant? Like wouldn't you use a 437 00:22:58,240 --> 00:22:59,440 condomt of every time? 438 00:23:00,559 --> 00:23:03,200 Speaker 1: Yes? And especially when you have a wife at home? Right, 439 00:23:03,279 --> 00:23:08,279 So we don't know what else is going on down there. Yeah, yeah, it's. 440 00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:11,200 Speaker 2: Just but he must make every single one of these 441 00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:14,119 women believe that, like, oh my god, I never do 442 00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:15,279 this right right? 443 00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:19,079 Speaker 1: Right? Yeah? He might must love bomba. It's a good point. 444 00:23:19,640 --> 00:23:23,720 Speaker 2: Either that or he's I can't imagine that he's like 445 00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:28,640 cold about it, that he's like, well, yeah, I'll sleep 446 00:23:28,640 --> 00:23:30,960 with you, but you know, just no, I love my wife, 447 00:23:31,039 --> 00:23:33,079 and I doubt I don't think he's saying that because 448 00:23:33,079 --> 00:23:35,279 I don't know why this girl, the one from like 449 00:23:35,279 --> 00:23:36,920 ten years ago, I don't know why she would leave 450 00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:38,319 her husband for him, right. 451 00:23:38,759 --> 00:23:44,359 Speaker 1: And my friend's friend though that mom she was her, 452 00:23:44,559 --> 00:23:48,039 they were her husband was devastated that it did. They 453 00:23:48,079 --> 00:23:51,240 got divorced because of it because they were going on 454 00:23:51,319 --> 00:23:53,160 vacation together as a family. 455 00:23:53,279 --> 00:23:55,359 Speaker 2: Oh my god, how many divorces do you think this 456 00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:56,079 guy's caused. 457 00:23:56,759 --> 00:23:58,359 Speaker 1: That's just a good point. 458 00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:02,720 Speaker 2: So that with friends, So that's how they knew each other. 459 00:24:02,839 --> 00:24:06,759 So he started sleeping with Yes, his wife's basic friend. 460 00:24:06,799 --> 00:24:12,200 They're like, yes, the couple, their kids were in sports together, 461 00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:17,640 like my friend, Yeah, damn, he's such a talented musician. 462 00:24:17,759 --> 00:24:18,720 I know what listen. 463 00:24:18,799 --> 00:24:20,839 Speaker 1: I mean if Dave Grohl came up to you, Stephanie, 464 00:24:20,880 --> 00:24:24,640 who's been like hey listen, I know you know, like 465 00:24:24,799 --> 00:24:29,200 and laid it on thick id swoon too, I had 466 00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:29,720 to say. 467 00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:33,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't. I wouldn't she on my husband for 468 00:24:33,319 --> 00:24:36,799 Dave grol He's not that he's I'd be like, I 469 00:24:36,839 --> 00:24:37,839 would definitely have a. 470 00:24:37,759 --> 00:24:39,359 Speaker 1: Good Patreon though, that's true. 471 00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:47,559 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, let's talk about uh, hungry Roots. Hungry Roots. Yes, 472 00:24:48,160 --> 00:24:50,880 we had the best idea on Tuesday that we talked 473 00:24:50,880 --> 00:24:53,839 about about sending Hungry Root. I'm going to send it 474 00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:58,319 once Elbie's moved into her apartment. What a great great, Oh, 475 00:24:58,400 --> 00:25:01,200 these girls are gonna go crazy. Hung is a delivery 476 00:25:01,279 --> 00:25:04,480 service of food. They do meals. They have all the 477 00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:07,799 ingredients like a lot of meal kits. 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I mean, I really feel so sorry 519 00:27:27,319 --> 00:27:31,160 for the kids. Yeah, and the life. It's gotta be 520 00:27:31,200 --> 00:27:36,359 tough for them, especially the kids. Uh. And by the way, 521 00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:39,640 like all of his kids are girls now, even the 522 00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:44,559 new baby is a girl. Oh really, m yeah, hold on. 523 00:27:44,519 --> 00:27:47,319 Speaker 2: I'm just texting with l Bailey. She's on her way. 524 00:27:47,519 --> 00:27:49,359 It's just she says she's got in traffic. 525 00:27:50,079 --> 00:27:54,839 Speaker 1: That's okay, Yeah, yeah, it's a it's disappointing. But I 526 00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:57,480 do think that there was must have been something behind 527 00:27:57,559 --> 00:27:58,839 the reason to put out that. 528 00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:04,359 Speaker 2: Really, I mean that that's my suspicion. I just don't 529 00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:08,000 think you just decide like, oh sorry, honey, I'm gonna 530 00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:10,400 put out I think this has obviously been going on 531 00:28:10,519 --> 00:28:12,640 for yes, these kind of affairs. 532 00:28:13,640 --> 00:28:15,960 Speaker 1: I think she's been used to it. It's sad. 533 00:28:17,839 --> 00:28:21,559 Speaker 2: Yeah, like if the wife knows that this has been 534 00:28:21,559 --> 00:28:23,839 going on. But maybe it was just like this is 535 00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:25,920 just a bridge too far. Now you're having a baby 536 00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:28,240 with someone, maybe it's like it's one thing that you're 537 00:28:28,319 --> 00:28:31,119 cheating on the road or and maybe do you think 538 00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:33,559 the wife knew about the couple? 539 00:28:34,039 --> 00:28:36,359 Speaker 1: Yes? I think so she must have. 540 00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:43,319 Speaker 2: She must have known. Yeah, So anyway, what else is 541 00:28:43,319 --> 00:28:45,440 in the news. Are you watching any good shows? 542 00:28:46,440 --> 00:28:50,319 Speaker 1: Oh? Oh, you know people on our Facebook page we're 543 00:28:50,319 --> 00:28:54,440 talking about Into the Fire on Netflix. Okay, did you 544 00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:54,839 see that? 545 00:28:55,119 --> 00:28:55,160 Speaker 3: No? 546 00:28:56,519 --> 00:29:00,000 Speaker 1: Really, I haven't seen a great It was a great documentary. 547 00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:01,799 I haven't seen a good documentary like that and all 548 00:29:01,839 --> 00:29:06,480 along Into the Fire, yes, yes, okay, it's just it's 549 00:29:06,519 --> 00:29:09,720 about a woman she gives her daughter up for adoption 550 00:29:09,799 --> 00:29:13,359 because she was really young, she was a teenager. And 551 00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:16,480 she's I think she's in Boston area. She's like that 552 00:29:16,599 --> 00:29:19,839 Boston kind of mom. But I don't think she had 553 00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:24,680 kids either after that. But anyway, she's married and she 554 00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:29,720 wants to wanted to find her biological daughter and found 555 00:29:29,839 --> 00:29:34,000 out that her daughter was went missing in nineteen eighty 556 00:29:34,039 --> 00:29:37,480 four when she was fourteen or something like that and 557 00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:41,079 was never found. Oh and now she's on a mission 558 00:29:41,799 --> 00:29:45,039 to find out and it's twists unsolved. 559 00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:50,559 Speaker 2: No, it's solved, okay, and attention. Yes, and there's twist 560 00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:53,680 and turns that you would not believe. It's like your 561 00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:57,119 I don't like to help I now, now, don't ask me. 562 00:29:57,759 --> 00:30:00,599 If it's somewhere close to me, and it's as possible, 563 00:30:00,599 --> 00:30:02,519 I saw them at seven to eleven at one point 564 00:30:02,519 --> 00:30:05,359 and I can remember it. Yes, that's fine, right, But 565 00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:07,720 if it happens somewhere else, if it's like Australia and 566 00:30:07,759 --> 00:30:08,279 you want. 567 00:30:08,119 --> 00:30:12,599 Speaker 1: Mild ladies, yes, No. There's no message at the end 568 00:30:12,599 --> 00:30:16,359 that said if you know anything about this case? Yeah, no, 569 00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:20,519 it's solved. But it goes in one direction. It's zigs 570 00:30:20,519 --> 00:30:23,519 and zags. Because you're going in one direction, you're thinking, okay, 571 00:30:23,559 --> 00:30:27,640 this is what happened, and then the next thing you're like, what, whoa, 572 00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:30,759 whoa what it's great, it's really excited. 573 00:30:30,839 --> 00:30:32,000 Speaker 2: Have you seen this, Kaylan? 574 00:30:32,279 --> 00:30:35,839 Speaker 1: Oh no, I think it's two episodes, maybe three. 575 00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:39,440 Speaker 2: There's no sci fi though, so Kayln wouldn't like I know, yeah, 576 00:30:39,559 --> 00:30:40,799 no aliens involved. 577 00:30:40,960 --> 00:30:43,200 Speaker 1: You watch Showgun? I did watch Gun? 578 00:30:43,319 --> 00:30:43,559 Speaker 3: Yeah? 579 00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:44,119 Speaker 2: Is it good? 580 00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:44,440 Speaker 1: Yeah? 581 00:30:44,759 --> 00:30:47,559 Speaker 2: Why were you being so quiet on Tuesday when we 582 00:30:47,559 --> 00:30:48,480 were talking about. 583 00:30:48,279 --> 00:30:50,039 Speaker 3: It because I want to go get water. Wasn't Oh 584 00:30:50,039 --> 00:30:50,400 he wasn't. 585 00:30:52,440 --> 00:30:55,559 Speaker 1: Yeah, we talked about it. Yeah, yeah, it's great, Sonny 586 00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:57,200 said it was. It's really good. 587 00:30:58,279 --> 00:31:00,720 Speaker 2: Is it gonna be hard for us to understand and follow? Yeah? 588 00:31:01,119 --> 00:31:03,240 Speaker 1: Okay, I's all we needed to know. 589 00:31:07,079 --> 00:31:09,680 Speaker 2: We should have like a viewing party with Kaylin. So 590 00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:13,680 we stop it every two seconds exactly who are those guys? 591 00:31:13,799 --> 00:31:19,079 And Kyle wud be like, just pay attention, you'll see. 592 00:31:19,839 --> 00:31:22,319 Oh so, Kaylin, did you miss my talking about the 593 00:31:22,359 --> 00:31:23,400 War of Fredericksburg. 594 00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:26,200 Speaker 3: That's right when I got back, was when you. 595 00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:29,839 Speaker 1: Were Oh okay, okay, yeah, oh yeah, yeah, okay. 596 00:31:29,960 --> 00:31:33,799 Speaker 2: I love history and I do love stuff like Showgun. 597 00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:37,079 I probably will like it, but I do feel stupid. 598 00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:38,920 Speaker 1: Well what a showgun? Exactly? 599 00:31:40,359 --> 00:31:45,000 Speaker 3: It's like a British sailor. They get kind of trapped 600 00:31:45,039 --> 00:31:47,960 in Japan in whatever year that is, and so he's 601 00:31:48,039 --> 00:31:51,880 kind of trying to navigate this power struggle that's going 602 00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:55,039 on between you know, it's kind of Game of Thrones esque. 603 00:31:55,319 --> 00:31:58,079 You know, there's kind of you know, the main shogun 604 00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:00,000 dies and then there's kind of a power struggle left 605 00:32:00,079 --> 00:32:03,119 words in this foreigner from England is kind of caught 606 00:32:03,119 --> 00:32:04,440 in the middle of it, and it's kind of getting 607 00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:06,160 passed around between different groups. 608 00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:14,119 Speaker 1: Interesting, Okay, did you anyway? I checked out? Don't kidd ay. 609 00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:16,480 Speaker 2: Even that. 610 00:32:16,880 --> 00:32:21,799 Speaker 1: I was like, okay, he said, British captain of a 611 00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:24,759 ship in Japan lost at sea. 612 00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:30,400 Speaker 2: I'm gonna need like legit and glossary terms, cliff notes. 613 00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:31,720 I need to be able to I would have to 614 00:32:31,759 --> 00:32:34,400 stop it and look it up. Yeah, oh my god. 615 00:32:34,440 --> 00:32:37,519 When I was asking John about the Battle of Fredericksberg 616 00:32:37,559 --> 00:32:39,640 and I'd be like, well, who's that guy? And He's 617 00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:42,119 like I just mentioned him like on the last page, 618 00:32:42,200 --> 00:32:44,799 like we just he's the general. And I'm like, well, 619 00:32:44,799 --> 00:32:47,440 now there's a new general. He's like yeah, because there 620 00:32:47,440 --> 00:32:49,720 were a lot of generals. Because there's a lot of 621 00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:53,960 groups of troops, you know, they're all different generals. I'm like, 622 00:32:54,119 --> 00:32:55,759 all right, well I can't keep track. It's like I 623 00:32:55,839 --> 00:32:58,400 keep hearing new names. Yes, you know, here's this guy. 624 00:32:58,480 --> 00:33:00,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, you need cliff notes for the cliff come from. 625 00:33:01,039 --> 00:33:02,839 Speaker 2: Like, don't worry about it, don't worry about it, don't 626 00:33:02,839 --> 00:33:05,039 worry about the different guys. Just know there's a lot 627 00:33:05,039 --> 00:33:07,039 of guys they've got a lot of troops. 628 00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:08,599 Speaker 1: Okay, I'm all right. 629 00:33:10,599 --> 00:33:14,359 Speaker 2: I would not have done well in the military now. 630 00:33:16,039 --> 00:33:19,359 Don't like being told what to do, don't like waking 631 00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:21,920 up early. You know what the military would be good 632 00:33:21,960 --> 00:33:25,559 for is like older women who are going through menopause. Yeah, 633 00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:28,319 menopause or posts because all of a sudden you actually 634 00:33:28,359 --> 00:33:30,119 start waking up early on your own. 635 00:33:29,920 --> 00:33:34,359 Speaker 1: No problem o, yeah, get up early, Yes, yeah, that 636 00:33:34,400 --> 00:33:37,160 would be good. Maybe we should join the military. 637 00:33:37,799 --> 00:33:39,400 Speaker 2: Right, I'd be like, oh, you want me to get 638 00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:39,960 up at six? 639 00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:40,559 Speaker 1: All right? 640 00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:44,599 Speaker 2: But every morning I'd be like, I didn't sleep that 641 00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:47,240 well last night, you know. Right now, let's take a 642 00:33:47,279 --> 00:33:50,799 little break and talk about mint Mobile. 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So this week is back to school night. 680 00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:52,559 Speaker 1: Oh I MISSPEC. 681 00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:55,079 Speaker 2: I know, back to school night, but nor I wouldn't 682 00:35:55,079 --> 00:35:58,480 go if it wasn't for the fact that I'm I'm 683 00:35:58,559 --> 00:36:02,880 responsible for giving like the speech about the annual fund 684 00:36:03,239 --> 00:36:07,960 to all the parents. Okay, apparently it really requires like 685 00:36:08,159 --> 00:36:14,280 eighty hundred thousand million emails back and forth to organize. 686 00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:17,440 Speaker 1: Right, Like why. 687 00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:18,519 Speaker 2: Because people love to send an email? 688 00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:22,159 Speaker 1: Is it because they're trying to tell you? Like, are 689 00:36:22,159 --> 00:36:25,280 they worried that you're not going to deliver the message 690 00:36:25,519 --> 00:36:28,639 just for me? It's like, oh, it's for everybody, all 691 00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:29,039 of us. 692 00:36:29,360 --> 00:36:37,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, producer, Oh interesting, who you know will probably yeah, 693 00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:41,920 I don't know. Yeah, haven't encountered her. Maybe with it 694 00:36:42,360 --> 00:36:45,400 all from last except for on the zoom, but yeah, 695 00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:47,000 I mean, hey, if I see her, I see her, 696 00:36:47,079 --> 00:36:50,519 It's fine. I don't have anything against it at all. 697 00:36:51,119 --> 00:36:56,559 But there's like, it's all of it. I'm like, let 698 00:36:56,559 --> 00:36:58,639 me just all just get up there and tell people like, hey, 699 00:36:58,639 --> 00:37:02,320 we need to like raise money every ye're yeah, here's 700 00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:05,599 what you gotta do. Give us some money. But no, 701 00:37:06,199 --> 00:37:08,960 it also has to be our big fundraiser of the year, 702 00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:12,239 which is like a called our it's our big fall fundraiser. 703 00:37:12,719 --> 00:37:15,639 We need items for that, and we need this, and 704 00:37:15,679 --> 00:37:18,840 we need that. And I'm I'm like, that's my contribution 705 00:37:19,159 --> 00:37:21,320 is just to tell people to talk to people about it, 706 00:37:21,320 --> 00:37:24,159 which I don't mind doing. But it is just so 707 00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:26,920 funny how I mean. I just looked at my phone 708 00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:30,639 and I have like so many emails about like. 709 00:37:30,599 --> 00:37:34,000 Speaker 1: Oh, you know, I just I feel like after I've done, 710 00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:36,559 you know, my job is done now. With all the 711 00:37:36,639 --> 00:37:39,119 kids in school and you're pretty much getting there too, 712 00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:43,599 I feel like there's a lot of noise with all 713 00:37:43,639 --> 00:37:47,400 these like fundraisers and these you know, back to school 714 00:37:47,519 --> 00:37:50,000 night and if you're volunteer, all the volunteers, it's just 715 00:37:50,039 --> 00:37:52,239 like there's so much noise that you don't need to 716 00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:54,840 be caught up in it. You just have your one job, 717 00:37:55,039 --> 00:37:58,519 you get it done. You volunteer or you're gonna do whatever, 718 00:37:58,639 --> 00:38:01,440 like what you're doing delivering a message. Just do it, 719 00:38:01,519 --> 00:38:03,519 and just there're all the others crosstalk. 720 00:38:04,119 --> 00:38:06,079 Speaker 2: Well, that's why I want it comes to me on 721 00:38:06,119 --> 00:38:09,840 the committee and not co chairing the committee. Once you're 722 00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:13,880 the co chair, people got questions, you know the way 723 00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:16,440 you're the co chair, let me ask you this, and 724 00:38:16,519 --> 00:38:19,360 everybody wants to run shit by you, you know, which 725 00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:23,480 is like, I don't like making decisions like that. Yes, 726 00:38:23,599 --> 00:38:26,400 I do like being in control of certain things, but 727 00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:30,760 like not that like maybe if whoever is the control freak, 728 00:38:31,159 --> 00:38:33,239 oh my god, do your thing be in control of it. 729 00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:33,960 Speaker 1: I don't care. 730 00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:36,760 Speaker 2: Just tell me what to do and when to show up. Yes, 731 00:38:36,760 --> 00:38:39,400 and that's it, right. Don't ask me my opinion about 732 00:38:39,400 --> 00:38:44,159 stuff because I don't have one. Do you know what 733 00:38:44,159 --> 00:38:46,440 I'm saying? Like it's a constant like, oh, let me 734 00:38:46,519 --> 00:38:49,119 run this by you. Okay, here's a for instance, we're 735 00:38:49,159 --> 00:38:52,000 making a flyer that has. 736 00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:55,039 Speaker 1: Oh boy, anything that has to do with artwork has 737 00:38:55,039 --> 00:38:56,320 to be run by everybody. 738 00:38:56,480 --> 00:38:58,519 Speaker 2: Oh my god. And I'm terrible at that kind of. 739 00:38:58,440 --> 00:39:01,519 Speaker 1: Thing, like the other people are good at it, right, 740 00:39:01,639 --> 00:39:02,440 and it takes. 741 00:39:02,239 --> 00:39:05,800 Speaker 2: Two seconds, like get on your Canva dot com and 742 00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:08,039 make the flyer and have a good day. And then 743 00:39:08,159 --> 00:39:14,000 just so I had made the suggestion to my co chair. Basically, 744 00:39:14,199 --> 00:39:17,639 there's this thing called raise right, it's pretty cool. It's 745 00:39:17,639 --> 00:39:20,960 a gift card. You go on this link and you 746 00:39:21,039 --> 00:39:24,280 sign your school up for gift cards, and then you 747 00:39:24,559 --> 00:39:27,079 every time people buy a gift card. It's kind of 748 00:39:27,119 --> 00:39:30,639 like the Amazon affiliate affiliate preper Okay, anytime you buy 749 00:39:30,679 --> 00:39:34,599 a gift card, certain companies, tons of them offer a 750 00:39:34,639 --> 00:39:36,400 percentage kick back to your school. 751 00:39:36,559 --> 00:39:37,079 Speaker 1: That's great. 752 00:39:37,199 --> 00:39:40,760 Speaker 2: So like, for instance, Amazon is pretty small, but like 753 00:39:40,840 --> 00:39:44,239 the gap might do like five percent, So every time 754 00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:47,800 you buy a gift card they and you use a code, 755 00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:51,679 they kick five percent back to that nice good way 756 00:39:51,719 --> 00:39:54,199 to raise money, right, So I was like, so we're 757 00:39:54,199 --> 00:39:56,199 going to do that, We're going to tell people about it. 758 00:39:56,239 --> 00:39:57,760 And I said, well, maybe we could just have a 759 00:39:57,800 --> 00:40:00,400 flyer and we could put it on everyone's chair so 760 00:40:00,440 --> 00:40:02,960 that when we tell them about it, it's not like 761 00:40:03,000 --> 00:40:05,559 they have to remember, oh, here's part of your little 762 00:40:05,639 --> 00:40:08,719 your flyer. So my co chair was like, that's a 763 00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:12,239 great idea, and I can all make the flyer. Well, 764 00:40:12,280 --> 00:40:14,760 now there's been like twenty emails back and forth, like 765 00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:18,159 hey to the co president of Hey, so this is 766 00:40:18,199 --> 00:40:21,159 what we want to do. It's like, let's just do it, right, 767 00:40:21,239 --> 00:40:24,480 it's an assistance a committee. Then that person goes, oh 768 00:40:24,480 --> 00:40:27,239 my gosh, that's a great idea. How about and then 769 00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:31,239 they have to add all mat me, piggyback, you piggybacking, 770 00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:32,679 you piggyback. 771 00:40:34,079 --> 00:40:36,360 Speaker 1: Just that it would not like at a poster for 772 00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:40,400 Marvel the next Marvel movie, like well, why can't anyway, 773 00:40:40,519 --> 00:40:43,480 just like just just put it on charge for somebody 774 00:40:43,519 --> 00:40:44,800 to do it, and I'm going to do it and 775 00:40:44,840 --> 00:40:46,719 not have to run by it and have other people 776 00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:48,239 piggyback right that just. 777 00:40:48,159 --> 00:40:52,039 Speaker 2: And in case any of these women hear this, because 778 00:40:52,039 --> 00:40:55,239 this is just the regular show, I'm not even complaining 779 00:40:55,239 --> 00:40:59,119 because these these other women are lovely like as opposed 780 00:40:59,159 --> 00:41:04,000 to in the past when I complained about stuff like 781 00:41:04,119 --> 00:41:07,960 last year, that woman is gone. The one I complained 782 00:41:07,960 --> 00:41:10,800 about a lot is not there anymore. The ones that 783 00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:15,159 are there are super nice, really wanting to like pitch it, 784 00:41:15,199 --> 00:41:17,800 and they're doing so much work. But it's like I 785 00:41:17,800 --> 00:41:21,960 want to do less work, Like I want them to 786 00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:25,400 continue doing that much work to do even less of course, 787 00:41:25,559 --> 00:41:27,679 and they and I told you, I told them straight up, 788 00:41:27,719 --> 00:41:29,559 like I don't need to be c seed on all 789 00:41:29,559 --> 00:41:30,239 these emails. 790 00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:33,079 Speaker 1: That's the problem. Like getting C seed on all the 791 00:41:33,159 --> 00:41:36,800 emails is just that's that that that's it's like you 792 00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:39,480 feel like you're being held hostage, you know what I mean? Like, yes, 793 00:41:39,519 --> 00:41:42,199 it's just how do you get off of this? It's 794 00:41:42,199 --> 00:41:46,199 like a coaster that you can't get off of right. So, 795 00:41:47,039 --> 00:41:49,199 and I don't know how you became the coach he 796 00:41:50,039 --> 00:41:50,440 I get. 797 00:41:50,559 --> 00:41:54,320 Speaker 2: I was in a Zoom meeting and the woman Okay, 798 00:41:54,360 --> 00:41:56,519 there's a bunch of us moms that do speech and 799 00:41:56,519 --> 00:41:59,960 debate and we we like each other. So the one 800 00:42:00,079 --> 00:42:02,440 one of the speech and debate's moms was just like, hey, 801 00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:04,679 because we had fun the last time we would judge 802 00:42:04,719 --> 00:42:08,159 speech and debate now again, you know I love that shit. Yes, 803 00:42:09,400 --> 00:42:12,199 And I feel like everybody should just do this stuff 804 00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:16,840 they love, Like I love speech and debate. I told you. 805 00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:18,360 As soon as they went and did it, I was like, 806 00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:22,480 oh God, they need volunteers to do this. I'll do it. 807 00:42:22,559 --> 00:42:25,639 You know, I can't, even though John was like, honey, 808 00:42:25,639 --> 00:42:27,440 that's like your whole day, and I was like, I 809 00:42:27,519 --> 00:42:29,960 just feel bad because I'm not that busy that day. 810 00:42:30,320 --> 00:42:33,760 Then it was the greatest place in your life. I 811 00:42:33,800 --> 00:42:38,559 felt so necessary. I want to judge these kids. Yes, 812 00:42:38,760 --> 00:42:41,360 I was so impressed. It was so much fun. It 813 00:42:41,400 --> 00:42:44,039 was like jury duty. Some people hate it, they want 814 00:42:44,079 --> 00:42:46,079 to get out of it. I want it. I want it, 815 00:42:46,119 --> 00:42:49,440 but please put me on your jury. Yes, right, So 816 00:42:50,039 --> 00:42:53,880 why can't we figure out a system that everybody Like 817 00:42:53,920 --> 00:42:57,360 some people freaking love designing a flyer, right. They live 818 00:42:57,440 --> 00:42:59,239 for it. They're like, I'll design your flyer. 819 00:42:59,519 --> 00:43:04,320 Speaker 1: They do right, and don't you know, yes, they don't 820 00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:06,320 have to send it back out for approval. 821 00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:09,400 Speaker 2: I don't need to approve it. You got it, You're good, 822 00:43:10,119 --> 00:43:12,800 you have better idea, like just do it right. Well, 823 00:43:12,840 --> 00:43:14,840 I want to live in a world where like. 824 00:43:14,960 --> 00:43:17,199 Speaker 1: There's just again like a lot of noise. It's just 825 00:43:17,280 --> 00:43:20,639 it's just a big ksha. Just got to focus on 826 00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:21,679 what you're doing and. 827 00:43:22,079 --> 00:43:25,079 Speaker 2: Right do your thing and have confidence. All works out, ye, 828 00:43:25,320 --> 00:43:28,480 go to therapy, build up that self esteem and just 829 00:43:28,519 --> 00:43:31,079 go like, tell yourself, go I got this right, like 830 00:43:31,199 --> 00:43:33,760 you know, and don't send a lot of emails going 831 00:43:33,800 --> 00:43:38,119 what do you guys? You think? I don't know, I 832 00:43:38,159 --> 00:43:39,840 don't know if it's good. That's why I'm not in 833 00:43:39,920 --> 00:43:42,039 charge of doing it because I don't know if it's good. 834 00:43:42,079 --> 00:43:43,800 I don't know how to do graphic design. 835 00:43:43,960 --> 00:43:44,599 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know that. 836 00:43:44,880 --> 00:43:48,119 Speaker 2: Don't ask me if it's positioned correctly. That's your that's 837 00:43:48,159 --> 00:43:48,760 your domain. 838 00:43:49,079 --> 00:43:53,039 Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, barking up the wrong tree. Yeah, I don't know. 839 00:43:53,000 --> 00:43:56,079 Speaker 2: If they just all love Do they just love an email? 840 00:43:56,280 --> 00:43:58,920 Speaker 1: I think I think that a lot of people like 841 00:43:59,079 --> 00:44:02,480 to get opinions on things and it just makes more 842 00:44:02,920 --> 00:44:06,760 work and I think they maybe think they're doing the 843 00:44:06,840 --> 00:44:13,400 right thing by, you know, getting approval or I don't know, it's. 844 00:44:13,280 --> 00:44:16,519 Speaker 2: Just anyway that will these days. Yes, but when you're 845 00:44:16,559 --> 00:44:19,199 listening to this Tuesday night and Wednesday night, I'll be 846 00:44:19,280 --> 00:44:19,719 doing that. 847 00:44:19,800 --> 00:44:23,199 Speaker 1: Okay, so maybe I'll have a little story that'll be nice. 848 00:44:23,400 --> 00:44:27,840 Speaker 2: But now we must prepare ourselves for LB. Yeah, coming in, 849 00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:31,199 but we have some business shout outs before we go. 850 00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:35,880 A couple that we didn't get to last on Tuesday 851 00:44:36,480 --> 00:44:41,800 was our friend Sergio, who's highlighting charity for his friend Aubrey, 852 00:44:42,400 --> 00:44:46,840 which is the Kasa Teresa. Kasa Teresa. It's a safe 853 00:44:47,119 --> 00:44:50,000 haven for pregnant women in crises. You just check out 854 00:44:50,039 --> 00:44:54,079 their sight and see what you think. But it's Kasa 855 00:44:54,199 --> 00:45:00,320 Teresa dot org. Also Willmanfrida. If you're in Palm's Springs 856 00:45:00,360 --> 00:45:03,360 her Palm Desert, stop on by, Yeah, and she gets 857 00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:06,159 you a mimosa or a latte or a delicious brunch. 858 00:45:07,239 --> 00:45:10,239 Also The Family Skeptical. It's a podcast about raising kids 859 00:45:10,239 --> 00:45:14,719 without religion. It comes out every three weeks. It's a 860 00:45:14,719 --> 00:45:18,880 great podcast. It's our friends. Check it out. Also, Carrie 861 00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:25,000 Kibbler is here promoting just Nate Knate dot Com. That's 862 00:45:25,039 --> 00:45:27,360 the Hugger the handshake guys helps the homeless. 863 00:45:27,880 --> 00:45:29,119 Speaker 1: Come on, man, that's awesome. 864 00:45:29,159 --> 00:45:31,599 Speaker 2: That's just go look at his videos. That's all. 865 00:45:31,760 --> 00:45:33,519 Speaker 1: Maybe you should work with him being a hugger. 866 00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:37,599 Speaker 2: Oh my god. Yes, everybody would just want a handshake though, 867 00:45:37,639 --> 00:45:43,360 and I like, really no hug sure. Also, as we 868 00:45:43,440 --> 00:45:47,079 do every week, Fern Candle. That's our friend. Kelsey has 869 00:45:47,159 --> 00:45:48,079 some great stuff. 870 00:45:48,239 --> 00:45:51,840 Speaker 1: Yes, Kelsey, thank you, thank you. She sent me I 871 00:45:52,039 --> 00:45:56,239 outlet waxwarmer. That's awesome that I'm giving to Natalia. Thank you, 872 00:45:56,800 --> 00:45:58,719 and some wax melts which I love. 873 00:45:59,079 --> 00:46:03,320 Speaker 2: Yes, and then she does great candles. It makes awesome gifts. 874 00:46:03,480 --> 00:46:05,599 It's also that everything smells good and it's made with 875 00:46:05,679 --> 00:46:09,199 soy wax. Adam Lerner, he's a car broker. He's helped 876 00:46:09,199 --> 00:46:13,800 so many people. Are our podcast listeners. Adam's got a 877 00:46:13,920 --> 00:46:16,880 car dot com. You know all about him. 878 00:46:17,519 --> 00:46:20,599 Speaker 1: And also Mike Gerstein. If you need a plumber and 879 00:46:20,639 --> 00:46:22,639 you're in the Phoenix area, or if you're not in 880 00:46:22,639 --> 00:46:25,400 the Phoenix area, you can you can FaceTime him, you 881 00:46:25,440 --> 00:46:28,239 can text him. He can help you ask him questions 882 00:46:28,239 --> 00:46:31,840 for free. Go to Phoenix Plumbing Solutions dot com and 883 00:46:31,920 --> 00:46:32,599 check out Mike. 884 00:46:32,760 --> 00:46:35,000 Speaker 2: Oh and we didn't do our names because we were saying, oh, 885 00:46:35,000 --> 00:46:36,920 that's right, and so let's say hi to Sandra Green. 886 00:46:36,920 --> 00:46:38,920 It's nudies being green. Jennifer, get up. 887 00:46:38,800 --> 00:46:39,360 Speaker 1: Aaron. 888 00:46:40,840 --> 00:46:44,679 Speaker 2: Know what we mean by that. Sarah's our Paisan. Stephanie's 889 00:46:44,679 --> 00:46:48,000 a stinker wrinker, Leslie, Uh. 890 00:46:47,760 --> 00:46:49,039 Speaker 1: The car which one laughing? 891 00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:52,480 Speaker 2: This is the flu? Yeah, I think it's just the flu. 892 00:46:52,639 --> 00:46:56,880 Alicia Ascalante from the City of Almonte. Kelly Brandt, she's 893 00:46:56,920 --> 00:46:57,440 not your aunt. 894 00:46:57,559 --> 00:46:59,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, but she'll take you yeah and give you a 895 00:46:59,760 --> 00:47:02,519 minuet open. 896 00:47:02,519 --> 00:47:05,159 Speaker 2: It's so cute. And she's a moderator on our page. 897 00:47:05,159 --> 00:47:07,960 So she's also so helpful. Isha and Baje Pay's got 898 00:47:07,960 --> 00:47:11,159 a nice ass. Gabby and Missy. 899 00:47:11,480 --> 00:47:16,400 Speaker 1: Oh those girls still hanging around Hollywood Boulevard. They're sweeping up, 900 00:47:17,119 --> 00:47:17,920 they're sleeping. 901 00:47:18,559 --> 00:47:23,000 Speaker 2: Yes, And Katerina check your moll er. Did I think 902 00:47:23,000 --> 00:47:24,880 I forgot her on Tuesday? 903 00:47:25,599 --> 00:47:25,679 Speaker 3: No? 904 00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:26,159 Speaker 1: You did it? 905 00:47:26,360 --> 00:47:29,639 Speaker 2: I didn't. Okay, well I'm getting a new I'm getting 906 00:47:29,639 --> 00:47:35,320 my crown tomorrow maybe ye anyway. Also Valerie Bubba Fenwick, 907 00:47:35,400 --> 00:47:37,599 it's out of the park. And Polly, we love your pancakes. 908 00:47:37,960 --> 00:47:44,920 And Elizabeth Williams is rocking everybody's Rita's rocking all of 909 00:47:44,960 --> 00:47:48,280 Elizabeth's kids in her vats and nut Yeah, we love her. 910 00:47:49,400 --> 00:47:55,199 Did we say, Athena we love your lipstick pancakes, Leslie's 911 00:47:55,239 --> 00:47:57,480 Coast to Coast, we love her, Nikki call your girl. 912 00:47:57,559 --> 00:48:00,480 Katie's rolling on e Kelly, Laddie, Dot and Dick's all looking. 913 00:48:00,800 --> 00:48:01,559 And that's our show. 914 00:48:01,880 --> 00:48:04,679 Speaker 1: We love you guys, Thank you so much. Thank you. 915 00:48:04,760 --> 00:48:09,280 Calin your parent now, don't f it up. It's good 916 00:48:11,679 --> 00:48:12,400 letting go.