Speaker 1: Made a decision.
Speaker 2: Okay, Sunny Sun on I haddasion.
Speaker 3: Night.
Speaker 1: So what's up, everybody. It's for crying out loud.
Speaker 2: It is for crying out loud.
Speaker 1: We love you guys.
Speaker 2: Oh my god. We had fun on our Tuesday episode.
Speaker 1: Yeah we did. And we're gonna have a great time
on our Wednesday episode with Elbe.
Speaker 2: On our Thursday yeah yeah, yeah we will and our
Patreon with LB and now this is today's Friday though, yes,
so we already did it. Yes, Kaitlin, you have any
updates about your life?
Speaker 3: Not much, just doing Uh. Blake and Isla are now
in different schools, starting at different times, needing to be
picked up at two different times, so that's fun. On
top of that, they both have soccer two different times
for practice, says, so.
Speaker 1: Yeah, one's going one way, the other runs going the
other way.
Speaker 3: Yeah that is Yeah, it's been a lot.
Speaker 1: It's a handful. Yeah.
Speaker 3: But they had their first soccer game on Saturday.
Speaker 2: They did very well, really, both of them. Yeah.
Speaker 3: I was a little nervous because Blake is, uh, she
doesn't do great in the practices. She's just kind of
walking around, you know. It doesn't didn't really seem to
want to be there first half of the game.
Speaker 1: But she's four, right, yeah, yeah, she's four.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean she's four.
Speaker 3: Well, when I was started last year, she was super
into it and she was going after the ball and
being aggressive.
Speaker 1: And then she.
Speaker 3: Tapered off about halfway through the season, she stopped caring.
But yeah, at one point we were watching her at
the game and her grandmother came over to me and said, hey, well,
where's Blake, and I went, She's in the back. But
then halfway through the game she got into it and
maybe a little too much. She was doing a little
pushing towards.
Speaker 1: The end there.
Speaker 3: Oh, I don't know where it came from.
Speaker 1: A targeting.
Speaker 2: Targeting, She's gonna get herself thrown out of the game.
How hilarious would that be?
Speaker 1: That's great.
Speaker 2: It's great because then you could see.
Speaker 1: What they're interested in, you know what I mean, You
could start to try these different sports, because we did that.
We started We never did soccer, but we started with softball.
Speaker 2: Oh you started with softbare Oh.
Speaker 1: My god, at like age five. And it was a nightmare.
First of all, Natalia and Sonny did it at the
same time. They're on the same team and Natali would
get up there and she whacked the ball. And at
one point we were in the outfield and Natali was
on the other you know, she was in the outfield
and Sonny came up, and the coach kept pitching it
to Sonny, pitching it to Sonny, and so anytime Sonny
came up, Natalia would just sit down on the field
and the coach would be like, uh, tell you, hey, Natalia,
stand up. She goes. He's gonna take forever because he does.
He did, and the coach would be like, he would
keep pitching it until they hit it. You know, it
wouldn't be just like a couple of times, and you know,
he would keep pitching it and sometimes Sunny would take free.
He'd keep missing and missing, and Italian it just would
sit down, Indian style, criss cross applesauce, just sitting there
like a puss on waiting for her brother to hit
the ball. Yeah, and then she was bored with it
and he didn't like it, and then we were done.
We did it for like one season and we were done, Like,
I don't think they like softball.
Speaker 2: But then but.
Speaker 1: Then she did ice skating. Yeah, then she did ice skating,
which was crazy how that started, because I mean I've
told the story before, but we were I took Natalia,
she was I think six or seven. Uh it was
it was Thanksgiving week and I told her I take
her ice skating. We get to the ice skating ring.
She goes, she's never been on the ice before. So
I get with her. I'm like holding her hand and
she's kind of like holding on the wall and she's
she goes around like once or twice, and then they
shut the rink down because they have to practice for
a Christmas play, The Grinch, and and she was like
really like I I you know, she was upset because
she wanted to keep going. And this this coach, this
guy Ben, I'll never forget. He was like, I said,
what's going on. He goes, well, we're rehearsing. We're doing
for kids like her age. We're doing The Grinch. And
he goes, does she want to join? And I looked
at her and I go, no, she doesn't know how
to ice skate. We was just like, this is our
first time on the ice. And he was like, that's okay.
I'll take care. I'll take her, like I'll watch you,
I'll help her and I look at Italian and she's like, yeah,
I want to do it. And I was like okay,
and she did, I know, and she did it. And
she and that Ben became like her coach and she
loved him, and she was in the play and she
like her first scene she comes out and then she
slides by accident into the Christmas street almost knocks the
whole thing down. Yeah, and then she started doing it
like competitive, and she was like taking classes and and
she did a competition like in Irvine once that we
had to go to and she did really well.
Speaker 2: I remember that.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, she was really into it. She loved it.
Speaker 2: But then she quit.
Speaker 1: Because we moved right, so then when we moved into
our new neighborhood, nobody was ice skating. You know that neighborhood.
It's all basketball and football and girls like volleyball and
stuff like that. And she's like, now I'm done ice skating.
I want to do I want to do. She wanted
to play basketball. She was playing basketball, so yeah, well
that's a shame because she was really good at ice skating.
I loved it.
Speaker 2: Do you realize that I have been around for almost
like your entire raising of your kids yes, Can I
just say that you are the best mom. And I
mean I've been here, I've been there for the whole time.
I've seen you go through so many different things with
your kids. I've seen you see you two through everything.
It's just so I'm so honored to be a part
of like watching you throw yourself into every single thing
that your kids want to do and be a part
of it and go to every game. And it's just
funny if you think back to like all the things
that I've known you being a part of, and then
the kids and supporting Sunny with basketball and going to
tournaments and going to Vegas and supporting Italia with basketball,
and then supporting Italia with volleyball, and just like all
and all of the different getting a tutor for this, and.
Speaker 1: Getting a tutor for that, our coaches and.
Speaker 2: The teachers and the advocating and the you know, like
the whole time, the most hands on mom. And I'm
so honored that I've been on this pot cast with
you hearing every stuff of the way, and now your
kids are gonna make me grow.
Speaker 1: True, well, I feel the same way about you, like
I've been with you this whole time, all the time
raising your kids and at an earlier age your twins
were younger than mine, and all the things that you've
been doing and advocating for them, and all the practices
and almost cheerleading, And.
Speaker 2: Isn't it crazy to think back of like and then
Kaylin's just kind of starting out with this exactly all
the things that all the mistakes I've made, I know,
like you know, when all the things I've overreacted to
and then had to be like, oh never.
Speaker 1: Sorry, advocating for your kids, sending emails, yes, like it's
been an honor watching you, like watching you raise your kids.
Speaker 2: All this just such a good mom. I think about
it all and you are too very loving. You've I
you know, I'm reading this woman's book about like her
chaotic childhood and then her parenting, and I was it
was making me think about the fact that, like you
did not come from the easiest home to come from,
and a lot of people do do. It's hard to
break the cycle, and a lot of people don't break
the cycle until later, you know. But you have been
like a patient, loving mom to both of your kids
the whole time, like I've never heard of you like
really losing your shit. I mean we've both gotten frustrated
at our kids, right, Like, I've never heard of any
craziness like anything where.
Speaker 1: You like my mom used to be.
Speaker 2: Right like any we've I mean, I say, for both
of us, we've always been like pretty easy going.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I think you and I have both the same
temperament when it comes to our kids. And I think
that we've handled raising our kids a lot of very
similar ways. And it and and you too, like from
what you've come from was not easy. And like just
the fact about you know, with the relationship with your
mom even after your kids were born, I mean that's
got to be tough, you know, and you just you've
handled everything like so with grace and just it's been
like amazing watching it.
Speaker 2: It's true all the same. Yeah, I feel like and
I know you're the same way. It's it's like there's
no there's nothing to be gained from like being bitter
at my mother. I choose to not have her in
my life. But it's not because I feel like, oh
my god, she was so abusive or I had this
horrendous childhood. I don't think that. I just think that,
you know, whatever, right, I just want to do I
wanted to do some things differently, and it's it's hard
not to repeat it is, yeah, you have to actively think, right, right,
here's what I want to do. But it's hard because
we've been doing it without like we've been doing it
live on a podcast all of these years, opening ourselves
up to people that want to comment and say, like
I can't believe you're still making your kids lunch, Like yeah,
you're handicapping your kids, like emotionally, and it's like you
shouldn't be everybody judging sure, like we don't fucking know
you just going by our instincts, right, they could be
bad instincts. We don't know.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think.
Speaker 2: They were the worst us now and I think a
lot of people related to us too, you know, And
this is our last show. No, we're just I know, no,
but it's it's uh, it has been fun, like what
you know, right, every week you and I getting together
and talking about it.
Speaker 1: It's like therapy almost.
Speaker 2: It was just hitting me because like the kids going
to call it, like I know Sunny is about to
leave for college, like you raise them up, and I
would just hit me. The other day, I was thinking
about it and I was like, I have been around
Lynnett's kids since they were like five years old. Yes, yeah, yeah,
not physically around them. I've heard every week story every
single week. I know what their lives are like, yes, intimately, yeah,
and it's wild. Say here all the different things and
the different stages, and the different schools and the different
teachers and the different struggle And we've had some similar
struggles with our kids too.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah we have. Yeah, it's it's it's crazy when
you think about it. Every week we've been talking and
people have been listening.
Speaker 2: When we started, I was practically in tears every week,
just going, this is so hard. Yeah, yeah, you were going, Okay,
it's going to get better because Mike is really too,
because you're because they're only a year and a half
older than mine. So if mine were like two, yeah,
only like you like maybe there were four.
Speaker 1: Yeah, they were four. And I'm telling you as just
the the two's and the threes, you just get through that.
Once you get the four, it gets better, Kaylin.
Speaker 2: Five is good, right, Yeah? Five is great?
Speaker 1: Five? Five Yeah, five is good. Five's good.
Speaker 2: Five is where I felt a lot of relief with LB, Like, Okay, I.
Speaker 1: Think five is when you get out of the mail room, she.
Speaker 2: Can they can finally tell you no, I'm to say no.
But that's because he has another younger one, It's true,
and he's entering the preschool where all of a sudden,
they really step up the expectations on the parents, right,
Like there's a different like daycare or whatever. Who he's
asking you for anything? Like now is a very differently preschool.
They're like, yeah, you're paying us to help you raise
your kids, but you gotta where you.
Speaker 1: We need you to volunteer and we need you.
Speaker 2: Like how is this nine hundred dollars a month for
like you're supposed to to.
Speaker 1: Be, right, and why do I have to come here
every other week?
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's your job, right. We should talk about Dave Grol.
Speaker 1: Okay, let's yeah.
Speaker 2: Now I'm gonna have to remember, Okay, basically Dave Grol.
You know, Caitlin, it turned out that he has a
baby out of wedlock.
Speaker 1: Yeah, came out last week.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I was shocked, you were, well at first I was,
but then I was like, hum disappointed. I don't know.
I just I don't know if it was because he
actually got ahead of the story and came out and
made a statement that was shocked.
Speaker 2: I feel like that statement was like a hostage statement,
like yeah, I felt like he would really do that.
I felt like his wife was like behind him, going
like yeah, and I want to read this, motherfucker, and
you're gonna say this or.
Speaker 1: Right, because I feel like he must have had a
feeling that it was going to get out, because why
not just keep it quiet and just be like, you know,
hush hush. So it felt to me a little bit
like he's trying to get ahead of something, whether it's
somebody telling him, his wife or his publicist going like, hey,
you need to get ahead of it. Just put out
a statement. It's the best way to do it. You
love your family.
Speaker 2: You think the baby Mama was threatening to go public?
Speaker 1: I think maybe had something something something. Yeah, and do
we know the baby mama is no no, okay.
Speaker 2: So okay. Years ago, yeah, we both had a story
about Dave Grol.
Speaker 1: It was very It was odd when it was the
same story and.
Speaker 2: We did it on Patreon because it wasn't common knowledge
right about Dave Grol. We were talking about the fact
that everybody loves Dave girl he is and I'm not
taking away from the fact that he's a very nice
guy who does a lot for charity. He's like super approachable. Yeah, yeah,
he lives in my neighborhood, not like my exact neighborhood.
He lives in a richer part of my neighborhood, but
like you know, so does Kyle from The Real Housewives.
Speaker 1: Right.
Speaker 2: I live in Encino, which there's rich richer part of.
Speaker 1: The south of Venta and there's north of Venture.
Speaker 2: But we share the same like Bermuda Triangle of stores
where my kids always go to. There's like a Michael's
and a Chili's and yeah, you know, yes, anyway, a
lot of people have run into him, like at Michael's.
Then she's AnyWho, right when back in the day, I
don't know how we even got on the topic, but
you had a story about him. Yeah, we I think
we were talking about it off air and I was like, yeah,
we did this as a Patreon.
Speaker 1: Yeah we did. So I'm not going to say I
had a friend that I worked with that like she
was traveling in her so I guess her daughter and
Dave Grohl's daughter were on this, like in the same
soccer league, and so they had a lot of tournaments
out of town and stuff, and she knew the She
found out because she knew the mom that or the
wife that treated with Dave Girl, and her and her
husband would go on family vacations with them. Oh, and
they had an affair. That's what. That's the same couple
we're talking about, Okay, And then.
Speaker 2: You knew the husband, So no, no, this is what's
a totally different person. So I I know some I
have somebody who's very close to me who is very
good friends with a guy and worked with him. And
I had worked with this guy too, whose wife had
an affair with Dave Girl. They had young twins at
the time. They literally lived in my neighborhood, like two
blocks from me, and she left her husband. This this
friend of a very close person to me was really
good friends with this guy, and like I remember calling
me going, oh my god, I'm not going to say
the guy's name, but let's call him Tom. So my
friend was like, oh my god, Tom's wife just basically
left him for Dave Grohl. But Dave Grohl was like,
what do you do, Like, I'm not ending up with you, like,
and she had young twins left the bye bye, and
then I think he was like, no, no, no, this
is not like, don't leave your husband for me, right,
but they went on me was really upset, like, no,
I don't this is not the same people as you
were talking. No, no, your story was about different people.
I think he just gets.
Speaker 1: Around so this so that woman, It wasn't like they
didn't go on vacation with them.
Speaker 2: No, oh my god, No, your story was unrelated to
my story.
Speaker 1: Then this is did we know this back when we
had age?
Speaker 2: We did? I think we both. I thought we were
visual stories about No. No, no, no, I think he
just I think he is just a freaking horn dog. Yeah,
he be a sex addict. I know. We throw that
around a lot.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Man, you know he's a rock and roll musician.
I hate to say it cliche, but.
Speaker 2: So then we heard that aj Benza. Oh yes.
Speaker 1: Then I find out that J Benza did a Patren
and said I was at dinner with Lynette and Lackey's
and then Lynette said her, I don't know if he
said this, but this is what he's good.
Speaker 2: Apparently it's it's.
Speaker 1: It's online because I didn't hear it, so I don't
know for sure, but somebody online is saying that I said.
Speaker 2: Aj Benza said that.
Speaker 1: Aj Benza said that. I said at some dinner party
that Adam and I are going to the same therapist
as Dave roll and his wife. And the therapist said, oh,
you know, Dave Grohl cheated on his wife and Lynette,
you know, told the story. And I'm like thinking to myself, no,
dumb ass, that's not I First of all, what therapist
is gonna go is gonna go, hey, you want to
know who my other clients are, and guess what's going
on with them, you know, Dave Groles my other Like,
it doesn't work like that.
Speaker 2: The therapist that you had wasn't exactly a therapist. She
was like a coat of life.
Speaker 1: Yes, and she was nowhere near and see now yeah,
but she was nowhere No, she was not seeing that.
That never happened.
Speaker 2: The biggest coincidence in the world too, though, that you yeah, right.
Speaker 1: Yes, and we don't live near each other. Like it's
it doesn't make what therapist is going to say that,
you know, to another couple. Come on, I would be
mortified if I heard a therapist say that. I would
report the therapist, Yeah, because I don't know what the
therapists even gave Dave Grohl's wife and about me, and
you know what I mean, if that was true, right,
Like I couldn't trust that there there's no so I
don't know where he got that story, but I think
it had to do with maybe he heard about our
patreon or something, yes, and then probably just made up
the story, like you probably couldn't remember exactly that or
maybe didn't hear our patreon, just heard we were talking
about it.
Speaker 2: But what I just don't understand why he would. It
seems pretty desperate, I mean, which and I'm going to
bring up the fact that he also reported on you
and Adam getting divorced before that came, got in a
lot of trouble for it, and then tried to say like, oh,
I was talking about Kristen Bell and Dak Shelley and
people were like, fuck you weren't that's right, dumb ass, No,
you weren't saying that about Kristin Bell and Dakshaw, who
by the way, are not divorced, right right right, It's
like ridiculous, Like I think it was just aspiration.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, like you just can't believe everything you hear,
you know, I mean, especially from a gossip columnist.
Speaker 2: Right, But when we did our Patreon, we weren't being
like it wasn't like, okay, I can't tell you how
I heard this from my therapist. We were just like, hey,
I just know this story.
Speaker 1: It was a coincidence. Yeah. We came in one day
and we started talking about it off the air, and
I was like, dude, I got to tell you this story.
My friend told me. And then you're like, no way,
because I have a story too. Yeah, and it was
a coincidence. I thought for some reason it was the
same person, the same couple.
Speaker 2: Definitely not No, this was just this girl was so
she did a reason I was. And somebody, somebody who
remembered our patreon I just want to say, was like
we said that the wife was a bitch. No, we
did not. Who I said was a bach was the
one he cheated with, because she she's the one who.
Speaker 1: Left our friend right right, right.
Speaker 2: But I met her at one point, like in her driveway,
I saw my friend who I worked with on a
show that we're calling Tom. I had met her and
I was like, she was real bitchy.
Speaker 1: Oh really?
Speaker 2: Yeah. So then when I found out that whatever that
had happened. I was like, well, I'm not that surprised.
It's kind of rude.
Speaker 1: Yeah, to leave your family and they maybe you should
have had a conversation with the guy before you do that.
Make sure you're on the same page. I mean, hello,
how do you not know?
Speaker 2: Well, but here's the thing. Maybe Dave Groll is just
the most excellent like love bomber, you know, I mean
does he don't? He must tell people like y, So
how do you get someone pregnant? You're a rock star
right now? Like, are you just like, oh, you're on
the pill? Okay, right? Wouldn't you just be like absolutely, no,
way I'm getting you pregnant? Like wouldn't you use a
condomt of every time?
Speaker 1: Yes? And especially when you have a wife at home? Right,
So we don't know what else is going on down there. Yeah, yeah, it's.
Speaker 2: Just but he must make every single one of these
women believe that, like, oh my god, I never do
this right right?
Speaker 1: Right? Yeah? He might must love bomba. It's a good point.
Speaker 2: Either that or he's I can't imagine that he's like
cold about it, that he's like, well, yeah, I'll sleep
with you, but you know, just no, I love my wife,
and I doubt I don't think he's saying that because
I don't know why this girl, the one from like
ten years ago, I don't know why she would leave
her husband for him, right.
Speaker 1: And my friend's friend though that mom she was her,
they were her husband was devastated that it did. They
got divorced because of it because they were going on
vacation together as a family.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, how many divorces do you think this
guy's caused.
Speaker 1: That's just a good point.
Speaker 2: So that with friends, So that's how they knew each other.
So he started sleeping with Yes, his wife's basic friend.
They're like, yes, the couple, their kids were in sports together,
like my friend, Yeah, damn, he's such a talented musician.
I know what listen.
Speaker 1: I mean if Dave Grohl came up to you, Stephanie,
who's been like hey listen, I know you know, like
and laid it on thick id swoon too, I had
to say.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't. I wouldn't she on my husband for
Dave grol He's not that he's I'd be like, I
would definitely have a.
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Speaker 1: So yeah, I guess that's all we really have to Yeah, right, yeah,
well we'll see. I mean, I really feel so sorry
for the kids. Yeah, and the life. It's gotta be
tough for them, especially the kids. Uh. And by the way,
like all of his kids are girls now, even the
new baby is a girl. Oh really, m yeah, hold on.
Speaker 2: I'm just texting with l Bailey. She's on her way.
It's just she says she's got in traffic.
Speaker 1: That's okay, Yeah, yeah, it's a it's disappointing. But I
do think that there was must have been something behind
the reason to put out that.
Speaker 2: Really, I mean that that's my suspicion. I just don't
think you just decide like, oh sorry, honey, I'm gonna
put out I think this has obviously been going on
for yes, these kind of affairs.
Speaker 1: I think she's been used to it. It's sad.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like if the wife knows that this has been
going on. But maybe it was just like this is
just a bridge too far. Now you're having a baby
with someone, maybe it's like it's one thing that you're
cheating on the road or and maybe do you think
the wife knew about the couple?
Speaker 1: Yes? I think so she must have.
Speaker 2: She must have known. Yeah, So anyway, what else is
in the news. Are you watching any good shows?
Speaker 1: Oh? Oh, you know people on our Facebook page we're
talking about Into the Fire on Netflix. Okay, did you
see that?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 1: Really, I haven't seen a great It was a great documentary.
I haven't seen a good documentary like that and all
along Into the Fire, yes, yes, okay, it's just it's
about a woman she gives her daughter up for adoption
because she was really young, she was a teenager. And
she's I think she's in Boston area. She's like that
Boston kind of mom. But I don't think she had
kids either after that. But anyway, she's married and she
wants to wanted to find her biological daughter and found
out that her daughter was went missing in nineteen eighty
four when she was fourteen or something like that and
was never found. Oh and now she's on a mission
to find out and it's twists unsolved.
Speaker 2: No, it's solved, okay, and attention. Yes, and there's twist
and turns that you would not believe. It's like your
I don't like to help I now, now, don't ask me.
If it's somewhere close to me, and it's as possible,
I saw them at seven to eleven at one point
and I can remember it. Yes, that's fine, right, But
if it happens somewhere else, if it's like Australia and
you want.
Speaker 1: Mild ladies, yes, No. There's no message at the end
that said if you know anything about this case? Yeah, no,
it's solved. But it goes in one direction. It's zigs
and zags. Because you're going in one direction, you're thinking, okay,
this is what happened, and then the next thing you're like, what, whoa,
whoa what it's great, it's really excited.
Speaker 2: Have you seen this, Kaylan?
Speaker 1: Oh no, I think it's two episodes, maybe three.
Speaker 2: There's no sci fi though, so Kayln wouldn't like I know, yeah,
no aliens involved.
Speaker 1: You watch Showgun? I did watch Gun?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Is it good?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Why were you being so quiet on Tuesday when we
were talking about.
Speaker 3: It because I want to go get water. Wasn't Oh
he wasn't.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we talked about it. Yeah, yeah, it's great, Sonny
said it was. It's really good.
Speaker 2: Is it gonna be hard for us to understand and follow? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Okay, I's all we needed to know.
Speaker 2: We should have like a viewing party with Kaylin. So
we stop it every two seconds exactly who are those guys?
And Kyle wud be like, just pay attention, you'll see.
Oh so, Kaylin, did you miss my talking about the
War of Fredericksburg.
Speaker 3: That's right when I got back, was when you.
Speaker 1: Were Oh okay, okay, yeah, oh yeah, yeah, okay.
Speaker 2: I love history and I do love stuff like Showgun.
I probably will like it, but I do feel stupid.
Speaker 1: Well what a showgun? Exactly?
Speaker 3: It's like a British sailor. They get kind of trapped
in Japan in whatever year that is, and so he's
kind of trying to navigate this power struggle that's going
on between you know, it's kind of Game of Thrones esque.
You know, there's kind of you know, the main shogun
dies and then there's kind of a power struggle left
words in this foreigner from England is kind of caught
in the middle of it, and it's kind of getting
passed around between different groups.
Speaker 1: Interesting, Okay, did you anyway? I checked out? Don't kidd ay.
Speaker 2: Even that.
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, he said, British captain of a
ship in Japan lost at sea.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna need like legit and glossary terms, cliff notes.
I need to be able to I would have to
stop it and look it up. Yeah, oh my god.
When I was asking John about the Battle of Fredericksberg
and I'd be like, well, who's that guy? And He's
like I just mentioned him like on the last page,
like we just he's the general. And I'm like, well,
now there's a new general. He's like yeah, because there
were a lot of generals. Because there's a lot of
groups of troops, you know, they're all different generals. I'm like,
all right, well I can't keep track. It's like I
keep hearing new names. Yes, you know, here's this guy.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you need cliff notes for the cliff come from.
Speaker 2: Like, don't worry about it, don't worry about it, don't
worry about the different guys. Just know there's a lot
of guys they've got a lot of troops.
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm all right.
Speaker 2: I would not have done well in the military now.
Don't like being told what to do, don't like waking
up early. You know what the military would be good
for is like older women who are going through menopause. Yeah,
menopause or posts because all of a sudden you actually
start waking up early on your own.
Speaker 1: No problem o, yeah, get up early, Yes, yeah, that
would be good. Maybe we should join the military.
Speaker 2: Right, I'd be like, oh, you want me to get
up at six?
Speaker 1: All right?
Speaker 2: But every morning I'd be like, I didn't sleep that
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Speaker 2: So here's something that you're missing out on, really missing
out on having two kids starting college, which is I
and all my responsibilities for the uh my co sharing
the fundraising society. So this week is back to school night.
Speaker 1: Oh I MISSPEC.
Speaker 2: I know, back to school night, but nor I wouldn't
go if it wasn't for the fact that I'm I'm
responsible for giving like the speech about the annual fund
to all the parents. Okay, apparently it really requires like
eighty hundred thousand million emails back and forth to organize.
Speaker 1: Right, Like why.
Speaker 2: Because people love to send an email?
Speaker 1: Is it because they're trying to tell you? Like, are
they worried that you're not going to deliver the message
just for me? It's like, oh, it's for everybody, all
of us.
Speaker 2: Yeah, producer, Oh interesting, who you know will probably yeah,
I don't know. Yeah, haven't encountered her. Maybe with it
all from last except for on the zoom, but yeah,
I mean, hey, if I see her, I see her,
It's fine. I don't have anything against it at all.
But there's like, it's all of it. I'm like, let
me just all just get up there and tell people like, hey,
we need to like raise money every ye're yeah, here's
what you gotta do. Give us some money. But no,
it also has to be our big fundraiser of the year,
which is like a called our it's our big fall fundraiser.
We need items for that, and we need this, and
we need that. And I'm I'm like, that's my contribution
is just to tell people to talk to people about it,
which I don't mind doing. But it is just so
funny how I mean. I just looked at my phone
and I have like so many emails about like.
Speaker 1: Oh, you know, I just I feel like after I've done,
you know, my job is done now. With all the
kids in school and you're pretty much getting there too,
I feel like there's a lot of noise with all
these like fundraisers and these you know, back to school
night and if you're volunteer, all the volunteers, it's just
like there's so much noise that you don't need to
be caught up in it. You just have your one job,
you get it done. You volunteer or you're gonna do whatever,
like what you're doing delivering a message. Just do it,
and just there're all the others crosstalk.
Speaker 2: Well, that's why I want it comes to me on
the committee and not co chairing the committee. Once you're
the co chair, people got questions, you know the way
you're the co chair, let me ask you this, and
everybody wants to run shit by you, you know, which
is like, I don't like making decisions like that. Yes,
I do like being in control of certain things, but
like not that like maybe if whoever is the control freak,
oh my god, do your thing be in control of it.
Speaker 1: I don't care.
Speaker 2: Just tell me what to do and when to show up. Yes,
and that's it, right. Don't ask me my opinion about
stuff because I don't have one. Do you know what
I'm saying? Like it's a constant like, oh, let me
run this by you. Okay, here's a for instance, we're
making a flyer that has.
Speaker 1: Oh boy, anything that has to do with artwork has
to be run by everybody.
Speaker 2: Oh my god. And I'm terrible at that kind of.
Speaker 1: Thing, like the other people are good at it, right,
and it takes.
Speaker 2: Two seconds, like get on your Canva dot com and
make the flyer and have a good day. And then
just so I had made the suggestion to my co chair. Basically,
there's this thing called raise right, it's pretty cool. It's
a gift card. You go on this link and you
sign your school up for gift cards, and then you
every time people buy a gift card. It's kind of
like the Amazon affiliate affiliate preper Okay, anytime you buy
a gift card, certain companies, tons of them offer a
percentage kick back to your school.
Speaker 1: That's great.
Speaker 2: So like, for instance, Amazon is pretty small, but like
the gap might do like five percent, So every time
you buy a gift card they and you use a code,
they kick five percent back to that nice good way
to raise money, right, So I was like, so we're
going to do that, We're going to tell people about it.
And I said, well, maybe we could just have a
flyer and we could put it on everyone's chair so
that when we tell them about it, it's not like
they have to remember, oh, here's part of your little
your flyer. So my co chair was like, that's a
great idea, and I can all make the flyer. Well,
now there's been like twenty emails back and forth, like
hey to the co president of Hey, so this is
what we want to do. It's like, let's just do it, right,
it's an assistance a committee. Then that person goes, oh
my gosh, that's a great idea. How about and then
they have to add all mat me, piggyback, you piggybacking,
you piggyback.
Speaker 1: Just that it would not like at a poster for
Marvel the next Marvel movie, like well, why can't anyway,
just like just just put it on charge for somebody
to do it, and I'm going to do it and
not have to run by it and have other people
piggyback right that just.
Speaker 2: And in case any of these women hear this, because
this is just the regular show, I'm not even complaining
because these these other women are lovely like as opposed
to in the past when I complained about stuff like
last year, that woman is gone. The one I complained
about a lot is not there anymore. The ones that
are there are super nice, really wanting to like pitch it,
and they're doing so much work. But it's like I
want to do less work, Like I want them to
continue doing that much work to do even less of course,
and they and I told you, I told them straight up,
like I don't need to be c seed on all
these emails.
Speaker 1: That's the problem. Like getting C seed on all the
emails is just that's that that that's it's like you
feel like you're being held hostage, you know what I mean? Like, yes,
it's just how do you get off of this? It's
like a coaster that you can't get off of right. So,
and I don't know how you became the coach he
I get.
Speaker 2: I was in a Zoom meeting and the woman Okay,
there's a bunch of us moms that do speech and
debate and we we like each other. So the one
one of the speech and debate's moms was just like, hey,
because we had fun the last time we would judge
speech and debate now again, you know I love that shit. Yes,
And I feel like everybody should just do this stuff
they love, Like I love speech and debate. I told you.
As soon as they went and did it, I was like,
oh God, they need volunteers to do this. I'll do it.
You know, I can't, even though John was like, honey,
that's like your whole day, and I was like, I
just feel bad because I'm not that busy that day.
Then it was the greatest place in your life. I
felt so necessary. I want to judge these kids. Yes,
I was so impressed. It was so much fun. It
was like jury duty. Some people hate it, they want
to get out of it. I want it. I want it,
but please put me on your jury. Yes, right, So
why can't we figure out a system that everybody Like
some people freaking love designing a flyer, right. They live
for it. They're like, I'll design your flyer.
Speaker 1: They do right, and don't you know, yes, they don't
have to send it back out for approval.
Speaker 2: I don't need to approve it. You got it, You're good,
you have better idea, like just do it right. Well,
I want to live in a world where like.
Speaker 1: There's just again like a lot of noise. It's just
it's just a big ksha. Just got to focus on
what you're doing and.
Speaker 2: Right do your thing and have confidence. All works out, ye,
go to therapy, build up that self esteem and just
go like, tell yourself, go I got this right, like
you know, and don't send a lot of emails going
what do you guys? You think? I don't know, I
don't know if it's good. That's why I'm not in
charge of doing it because I don't know if it's good.
I don't know how to do graphic design.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know that.
Speaker 2: Don't ask me if it's positioned correctly. That's your that's
your domain.
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, barking up the wrong tree. Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 2: If they just all love Do they just love an email?
Speaker 1: I think I think that a lot of people like
to get opinions on things and it just makes more
work and I think they maybe think they're doing the
right thing by, you know, getting approval or I don't know, it's.
Speaker 2: Just anyway that will these days. Yes, but when you're
listening to this Tuesday night and Wednesday night, I'll be
doing that.
Speaker 1: Okay, so maybe I'll have a little story that'll be nice.
Speaker 2: But now we must prepare ourselves for LB. Yeah, coming in,
but we have some business shout outs before we go.
A couple that we didn't get to last on Tuesday
was our friend Sergio, who's highlighting charity for his friend Aubrey,
which is the Kasa Teresa. Kasa Teresa. It's a safe
haven for pregnant women in crises. You just check out
their sight and see what you think. But it's Kasa
Teresa dot org. Also Willmanfrida. If you're in Palm's Springs
her Palm Desert, stop on by, Yeah, and she gets
you a mimosa or a latte or a delicious brunch.
Also The Family Skeptical. It's a podcast about raising kids
without religion. It comes out every three weeks. It's a
great podcast. It's our friends. Check it out. Also, Carrie
Kibbler is here promoting just Nate Knate dot Com. That's
the Hugger the handshake guys helps the homeless.
Speaker 1: Come on, man, that's awesome.
Speaker 2: That's just go look at his videos. That's all.
Speaker 1: Maybe you should work with him being a hugger.
Speaker 2: Oh my god. Yes, everybody would just want a handshake though,
and I like, really no hug sure. Also, as we
do every week, Fern Candle. That's our friend. Kelsey has
some great stuff.
Speaker 1: Yes, Kelsey, thank you, thank you. She sent me I
outlet waxwarmer. That's awesome that I'm giving to Natalia. Thank you,
and some wax melts which I love.
Speaker 2: Yes, and then she does great candles. It makes awesome gifts.
It's also that everything smells good and it's made with
soy wax. Adam Lerner, he's a car broker. He's helped
so many people. Are our podcast listeners. Adam's got a
car dot com. You know all about him.
Speaker 1: And also Mike Gerstein. If you need a plumber and
you're in the Phoenix area, or if you're not in
the Phoenix area, you can you can FaceTime him, you
can text him. He can help you ask him questions
for free. Go to Phoenix Plumbing Solutions dot com and
check out Mike.
Speaker 2: Oh and we didn't do our names because we were saying, oh,
that's right, and so let's say hi to Sandra Green.
It's nudies being green. Jennifer, get up.
Speaker 1: Aaron.
Speaker 2: Know what we mean by that. Sarah's our Paisan. Stephanie's
a stinker wrinker, Leslie, Uh.
Speaker 1: The car which one laughing?
Speaker 2: This is the flu? Yeah, I think it's just the flu.
Alicia Ascalante from the City of Almonte. Kelly Brandt, she's
not your aunt.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but she'll take you yeah and give you a
minuet open.
Speaker 2: It's so cute. And she's a moderator on our page.
So she's also so helpful. Isha and Baje Pay's got
a nice ass. Gabby and Missy.
Speaker 1: Oh those girls still hanging around Hollywood Boulevard. They're sweeping up,
they're sleeping.
Speaker 2: Yes, And Katerina check your moll er. Did I think
I forgot her on Tuesday?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 1: You did it?
Speaker 2: I didn't. Okay, well I'm getting a new I'm getting
my crown tomorrow maybe ye anyway. Also Valerie Bubba Fenwick,
it's out of the park. And Polly, we love your pancakes.
And Elizabeth Williams is rocking everybody's Rita's rocking all of
Elizabeth's kids in her vats and nut Yeah, we love her.
Did we say, Athena we love your lipstick pancakes, Leslie's
Coast to Coast, we love her, Nikki call your girl.
Katie's rolling on e Kelly, Laddie, Dot and Dick's all looking.
And that's our show.
Speaker 1: We love you guys, Thank you so much. Thank you.
Calin your parent now, don't f it up. It's good
letting go.