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<v Speaker 1>Sure, what's up, beautiful people.

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<v Speaker 2>There's your baby mama, favorite baby Mama, Stormy Pe And

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<v Speaker 2>this is another episode of Chocolate, Chip and Zip The

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<v Speaker 2>modern day female perspective. Draam Son back at it again, y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to jump right into it because I have

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<v Speaker 2>some things to discuss and I really would love to

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<v Speaker 2>get y'all perspectives on some of these topics.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So the first one.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like, depending on where you are in the

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<v Speaker 2>country and the world, everyone has their own views on tipping.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, you go all to a restaurant, you get

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<v Speaker 2>exceptional service, you tip or not right.

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<v Speaker 1>It becomes even more.

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<v Speaker 2>Peculiar when you happen to be on a date and

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<v Speaker 2>you know it's time to tip.

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<v Speaker 1>So quick question how much are you tipping?

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<v Speaker 2>All?

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<v Speaker 3>Right?

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<v Speaker 1>Do it all before you answer a quick question? How

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<v Speaker 1>much are you tipping?

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<v Speaker 2>So, if you're outside at an establishment, it's only two

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<v Speaker 2>parties there, you and someone else. Your waitress is talking

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<v Speaker 2>to someone else for a solid fifteen minutes before she

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<v Speaker 2>even comes to say hi. Oh, but fuck me, then

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<v Speaker 2>what am I chop liver?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay? That's the first thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Second thing, you have to get someone else at the

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<v Speaker 2>establishment to get your waitress to come over and serve you.

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<v Speaker 1>Girl. You want this money and not right. So after

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<v Speaker 1>she comes over.

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<v Speaker 2>She's very pleasant, very nice, very sweet. Okay, she makes

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<v Speaker 2>sure you have everything she need. She does a quick

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<v Speaker 2>table check every once in a while. Now the advertiser

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<v Speaker 2>was trash okay, and you had to send some fries

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<v Speaker 2>back when you me and Andrey ky. But that's on

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<v Speaker 2>the kitchen. That really ain't got nothing to do with this.

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<v Speaker 2>Right now, it's time for the bill. How much are

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<v Speaker 2>you tipping?

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<v Speaker 3>Now?

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<v Speaker 2>I know someone you're going to say, well, why is

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<v Speaker 2>this even a question. I don't get it. Some people

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<v Speaker 2>feel like the first fifteen minutes affect the whole experience. Right,

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<v Speaker 2>So quick question shot based on all that, how much

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<v Speaker 2>are you tipping?

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<v Speaker 1>The regular? Twenty percent?

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<v Speaker 3>Live?

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<v Speaker 2>How much are we tipping? James Colorway says twenty percent?

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<v Speaker 2>Marlbyllion says, I'm lated to the show. Big Black seventy

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<v Speaker 2>six says twenty five percent. Oh he got my knee

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<v Speaker 2>hold on wait, let me go back up. Workman nine

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<v Speaker 2>zero one zero says the regular. Someone else says twenty percent.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so the person you're with, right, I've had enough

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<v Speaker 1>seven please. Okay, So I feel like what say?

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<v Speaker 2>Zoo seven says fifteen percent not exceptional? And Stan we

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<v Speaker 2>Trust says why chefs don't get no tip? No diddy

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<v Speaker 2>please please stand up? Tray says I'm late, but fifteen

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<v Speaker 2>percent okay? Meech free mind.

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<v Speaker 1>Says fifteen percent. All right, y'all. So I'm gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>real with you. The check came.

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<v Speaker 2>The guy on whipays and he tips zero dollars. He

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<v Speaker 2>tips zero percent zero zero zero zero.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello is this thing on zero?

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<v Speaker 2>That's how many nights seven thinking of you?

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<v Speaker 1>Zero zero? Y'all?

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<v Speaker 2>Few things right, First, my girl shared a few laughs

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<v Speaker 2>with us before we left, Right, that's the first thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Second thing is she also happened to be the manager. Right.

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<v Speaker 1>Does that affect how much y'all tipping? Yes or no? Now? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So here's the thing that really like threw me for

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<v Speaker 1>a loop.

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<v Speaker 2>If I'm with somebody and they're tipping zero percent or

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<v Speaker 2>zero dollars, in my mind, the night is over. We

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<v Speaker 2>have to get the fuck out of there.

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<v Speaker 3>Right.

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<v Speaker 2>If I'm tipping zero percent, zero dollars, I'm writing that

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<v Speaker 2>on that check and I'm getting the fuck out of here.

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<v Speaker 1>It's no laughs it's no jokes nothing. This man is.

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<v Speaker 2>Laughing and joking with this lady as if he tipped

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<v Speaker 2>there like thirty dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>This nigga's a psychoad, y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not gonna lie, y'all. I said, Wow, he's crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>He's really like throw it off like that's wild. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>let me know how much would you tip? And Stan

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<v Speaker 2>Schoff said at this jive turkey, no, no workman nine

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<v Speaker 2>zero one zero says him. In summer half thighs in

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<v Speaker 2>common him and summer half things in common, no class.

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<v Speaker 2>The official said, why didn't you tip? I ain't handle

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<v Speaker 2>cash on me. I really would have, but you know,

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<v Speaker 2>ever since I stopped stripping, I don't really be having

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<v Speaker 2>no dollar bills.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, all drunks aside, no, all junks aside.

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<v Speaker 2>Though if I did have cash on me, I really

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<v Speaker 2>would have tipped, but I didn't have any cash, so

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<v Speaker 2>like I just was like.

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<v Speaker 3>Going, fuck, I'm just out, Okay, you not have a

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<v Speaker 3>tip on the overseat.

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<v Speaker 1>She didn't look at it until we were out the door.

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<v Speaker 2>But like when we're leaving, he like joking with her

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<v Speaker 2>and like back and forth like no, no, no, no no.

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<v Speaker 3>So he didn't give her a tip because she just

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<v Speaker 3>took long to come to your table.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's what I asked.

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<v Speaker 2>I said, I'm confused because the rest of the service

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<v Speaker 2>was pretty chill, like she don't got no control over

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<v Speaker 2>the kitchen, and like we was laughing and joking a bit,

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<v Speaker 2>and he was like, no, like that's just not it.

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<v Speaker 2>That's not how you move. And I'm like, because she

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<v Speaker 2>took fifteen minutes to come to you. He was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>she's the manager. She should know better. And I was like, okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>J Kellaway says, no, he was just cheap. Cl Jones

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<v Speaker 2>five hundred says, baby, I will tip for you. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not gonna lie, y'all. I really am good with that,

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<v Speaker 2>Like even when I go with my girlfriends, Like if

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<v Speaker 2>I'm want out with anybody, it don't matter if they're

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<v Speaker 2>not tipping enough and I have cash, I definitely will add.

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<v Speaker 3>It on, especially like being a service worker, like that

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<v Speaker 3>shit that she carries people a long way, and especially

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<v Speaker 3>since she gave service. I'm only thinking because her being

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<v Speaker 3>a manager, the blowfightly ain't so bad. The fact that

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<v Speaker 3>like just a simple fact that they do rely on

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<v Speaker 3>these tips, like was a real thing. Yeah, fifteen minutes,

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<v Speaker 3>you don't even know what happened. And you know, I think,

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<v Speaker 3>what if she actually had an issue?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, okay, so I forgot to say that in the beginning.

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<v Speaker 2>So it was only two other tables in this establishment,

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<v Speaker 2>and it was us in this other table. She spent

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<v Speaker 2>that fifteen minutes talking to the other table, so it

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't like she was busy. So that's one thing, right,

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<v Speaker 2>And I know some of my overseas spoke y'all not

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<v Speaker 2>really gonna get it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like an American thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Like tipping is big over here, like big tips, no Diddy, right,

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<v Speaker 2>So a lot of people really some people shut up.

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<v Speaker 2>So some people really do make like their livelihood off

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<v Speaker 2>of that, you know what I mean? And I think

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<v Speaker 2>in my own personal opinion, I might be a little

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<v Speaker 2>bit more biased, only because you know, I was working

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<v Speaker 2>at Hooters for like two and a half years, so

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<v Speaker 2>I understand.

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<v Speaker 1>The way, trust you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 3>I understand. I agree. I feel like they would crying, yes,

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<v Speaker 3>especially when the ass young girls and rains walls with dishes. Ugh,

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<v Speaker 3>and then they came out looking crazy looking right for you?

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<v Speaker 3>And then also YouTube and five dollars yes, crazy, and like,

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<v Speaker 3>first roll, twenty percent is the bare minimum. Usually usually

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<v Speaker 3>I like give them whatever it is and round up,

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<v Speaker 3>like twenty percent is the bare minimum because it used

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<v Speaker 3>to be fifteen right, yeah it was a thing. Yeah

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<v Speaker 3>it was fifteen percent. Now it was like twenty percent

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<v Speaker 3>because of the time, So twenty percent is bare minimum.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like, okay, well you did as dirty, so here

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<v Speaker 3>you go.

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<v Speaker 2>Comedian black Rin said he justified. J Coloway said, loo

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<v Speaker 2>at big Broke Energy.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I think that.

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<v Speaker 2>I also think people who have worked in the service

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<v Speaker 2>industry tend to tip more because they understand the struggle.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was trying not to be biased about it,

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<v Speaker 2>but I'm just curious, like what would you tip?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but to be out here just not giving nobody

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<v Speaker 3>nothing and to be laughing.

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<v Speaker 1>With him, that's what I'm saying. To give her Nathan

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<v Speaker 1>and be laughing at her face. This man's a psycho, maw.

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<v Speaker 3>It's uncomfortable when somebody's just randomly rude. Yeah, they're just

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<v Speaker 3>rude to the staff or something like that, and you

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<v Speaker 3>get down uncomfortable. Damn. I'm with this nigga. I'm with

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<v Speaker 3>this girl, Like why are you so mean, it's that awkwardness,

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<v Speaker 3>but it's like lighter, it's like different, it's just a

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<v Speaker 3>different form of it, but the same, it feels the

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<v Speaker 3>same life. I don't know how it feels about you.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was thinking, like, okay, well, say, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>he didn't really have like a good like service or

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<v Speaker 2>he felt like the twenty percent wasn't due, Like what

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<v Speaker 2>would I be okay with?

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<v Speaker 3>Right?

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<v Speaker 1>But I feel like when you.

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<v Speaker 2>Go outside, regardless of what's going on, you shouldn't tip

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<v Speaker 2>less than five dollars. I feel like that's that's like common,

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<v Speaker 2>like don't tip less than five dollars. But like for me,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not gonna hold you because if you give me

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<v Speaker 2>two dollars, like suck my dick, why are you please

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<v Speaker 2>don't give me that?

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<v Speaker 1>You keep that? Just give me a zero. If you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna give me two dollars, just give me the zero.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know to get.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just a threshold like that, that's a crazy ass

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<v Speaker 3>threshold to have, like you just went from one thing

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<v Speaker 3>to like she at zero zero zero.

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<v Speaker 2>I've never even been someplace in tipsy. I don't think

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<v Speaker 2>I have ever tip zero, Like I.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't I don't know how that even happened, Like, nobody's

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<v Speaker 3>ever been that crazy to me. And then I just

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<v Speaker 3>switched traders.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, switch tables, Yeah, I was.

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<v Speaker 3>Switch waders somebody, Yo, can I know the waiter and

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<v Speaker 3>then I'll just tip them big like that's how it works.

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<v Speaker 3>So then I never get something off my bills. Hmmm.

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<v Speaker 1>So uh. J. Collaway says, it depends on what you bought.

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<v Speaker 1>We only had like.

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<v Speaker 2>Little food and like some drinks, Like I think it

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<v Speaker 2>came up to like sixty dollars, like sixty dollars.

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<v Speaker 3>Sixty dollars would have been twelve dollars, nigga.

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<v Speaker 1>The bill was only like sixty dollars.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, that would have been a twenty spot for regular service.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's crazy sixty dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I see people saying, like, yo, now he'm wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not. I'm not.

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<v Speaker 2>I understand that if the service sucked, you get what

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<v Speaker 2>you get. But to me, I don't think the service sucked.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it had a slow start. But you know,

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<v Speaker 2>Shorty bulleted together was not in regular I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>we were so into our conversation and laughing and joking,

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<v Speaker 2>she didn't really need to come over and check much

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<v Speaker 2>all on our face because we were talking and laughing

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<v Speaker 2>and joking. So, yeah, he's a sociopath, you know, But

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<v Speaker 2>so am I.

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<v Speaker 3>So here we are.

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<v Speaker 1>Moving along. And things that I learned this week. Apparently

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<v Speaker 2>Another thing that I learned, Couples who don't always post

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<v Speaker 2>on social media are more happy than those who do.

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<v Speaker 1>Hm, who knew?

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<v Speaker 3>Who do?

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<v Speaker 2>Couples who always post on social media are more happy

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<v Speaker 2>than those who don't who always Oh sorry I read

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<v Speaker 2>they're wrong, couples always.

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<v Speaker 1>Fuck y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Couples who always post on social media are less

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<v Speaker 1>But I said it wrong again.

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<v Speaker 2>Couples who always post on social media are less happy

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<v Speaker 2>than couples who don't.

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<v Speaker 3>That's not what I read.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, do y'all believe.

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<v Speaker 3>That everybody in your business? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>You see a whole bunch of couples on the internet.

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<v Speaker 3>Niggas is fake. They don't, they don't, they don't. It

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<v Speaker 3>don't ever be that. Now, if you post on vacations

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<v Speaker 3>like usually all the long term relationships, all the girls

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<v Speaker 3>that have a long term relationship with me, they post vacation, birthday, yeah, nigga,

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<v Speaker 3>usually like a last slide, like thinking so around, but

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<v Speaker 3>normally it's more like still around. There's not no extra.

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<v Speaker 1>This.

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<v Speaker 3>You're doing a couple uh skits.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh and stand what Stress says Couples that don't post

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<v Speaker 2>are definitely on cheating. Puda the God says they trying

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<v Speaker 2>to prove their happiness. Navy Alpha nineteen oh six says true.

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<v Speaker 2>Gordon age twenty two, border badge, thank you so much

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<v Speaker 2>in stan Which trust say is not posting equals they single?

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<v Speaker 2>Which one is it? Give me a chance, let me

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<v Speaker 2>say it again. Okay, Couples who always post on social

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<v Speaker 2>media are less happy than those who don't. So according

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<v Speaker 2>to Puberty, the University of Kansas conducted a study with

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<v Speaker 2>three hundred people. I feel like three hundred people is

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<v Speaker 2>not enough to like make this like general statement, but

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<v Speaker 2>you know whatever, According to Puberty, the University of Kansas

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<v Speaker 2>conducted a study with three hundred people, and in that study,

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<v Speaker 2>they found couples who posts more frequently are more likely

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<v Speaker 2>to compare. And honestly, I think we all know, comparison is.

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<v Speaker 1>The thief of joy.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, I can see that being an actual fact, Like

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<v Speaker 2>if I'm always posting my man on social media, it's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what's tough. Holidays are tough. Oh yeah, man

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<v Speaker 2>only did that for Valentine's dan and Day. Oh Valentine's

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<v Speaker 2>damn day. Oh yeah, man only did that for Valentine's Day.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh he only got you what for Christmas? Like, I

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<v Speaker 2>can see that. I can see you comparing yourself to

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<v Speaker 2>other like couples, and especially if they're influencers, Like I

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<v Speaker 2>can see you tearing yourself down and causing problems that

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<v Speaker 2>don't even really exist, Like you mad because your man

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<v Speaker 2>didn't buy you a burken bag since you don't even

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<v Speaker 2>wear bags. You don't care about that, you just wanted

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<v Speaker 2>because somebody else had it, Like, I can definitely see

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<v Speaker 2>that being a thing. It also found that couples who

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<v Speaker 2>post less often report feeling less pressure to have the

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<v Speaker 2>perfect relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>And I like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Couples who post less often report feeling less pressure to

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<v Speaker 2>have the perfect relationship.

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<v Speaker 3>Baby, just being on social media period, it makes you

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<v Speaker 3>feel like you gotta do extra, Yeah you can I

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<v Speaker 3>can only imagine me being with my girl on social

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<v Speaker 3>media all the time and perusing and seeing this nigga

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<v Speaker 3>doing all this extra shit that I feel like I

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<v Speaker 3>gotta do now, or listening to all these relationship podcasts

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<v Speaker 3>about well, if you're not doing this in your relationship,

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<v Speaker 3>you're zesty or something like that.

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<v Speaker 2>First of all, I just want to say, uh, comedian

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<v Speaker 2>Black Rhyme said, she said Valentine's Yes, I said Valentine's Day.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, real nigga over here, thank you?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean me, And personally, I feel like, to each

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<v Speaker 2>your own right. If you don't want to post your partner,

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<v Speaker 2>don't post your partner. If you do want to push

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<v Speaker 2>your partner, post to each your own right. But I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like there's a difference between keeping your relationship private

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<v Speaker 2>and hiding your relationship. Like, don't cut my head off,

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<v Speaker 2>lady playing me, stop playing me, stop playing me, stop

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<v Speaker 2>playing me.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I feel like your nigga is a whole and

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<v Speaker 3>now what happens you ever? You don't pictures? Don't girls

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<v Speaker 3>cutting a nigga head off?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh like weird, like okay, okay, okay, my head off,

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<v Speaker 4>or like it's a nigga ho he don't funk all

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<v Speaker 4>these bitches and with them, but show his face.

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<v Speaker 3>You're like, oh, that's also like that while you're doing that,

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<v Speaker 3>But that's weird. Yeah, in your life, head off on

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<v Speaker 3>some weird ship, Like that's weird.

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<v Speaker 2>A few things about that, right, Like I said, I

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<v Speaker 2>think it's a difference between letting like keeping your relationship

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<v Speaker 2>private and then just hiding a relationship period. People should

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<v Speaker 2>know that you're in a relationship, but they don't have

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<v Speaker 2>to know who you're in a relationship with.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, am I saying it's.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay for people to be walking around putting the moojis

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<v Speaker 2>on their partner's face and using the blur so that

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<v Speaker 2>you can't see it looks like you're hanging out with

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<v Speaker 2>the invisible man because he ain't got no head. That's

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<v Speaker 2>a little much. It's a little much for me with

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<v Speaker 2>two plates. Yeah, like to eat your tol you want

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<v Speaker 2>you want to you want to.

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<v Speaker 3>Let nigga shadow be in the picture.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, if you want to.

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<v Speaker 3>Keep it light, that's cool, but don't I'm six foot four.

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<v Speaker 3>How How what did you do to crop that picture out?

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<v Speaker 3>How much of that background you lost?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like instead of doing all that, just just post

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<v Speaker 2>you'll shadow holding hands.

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<v Speaker 1>Let somebody know with somebody there, or you know, post

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<v Speaker 1>yourself in the car that you know, oh my god. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and men post yourself undern eastign ultimate.

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<v Speaker 3>I ain't got no problem. You meant God look at

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<v Speaker 3>me like that you look at your chat.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh A says I don't post much anyways. I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>going on my way to post her and stan Way trusses.

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<v Speaker 2>It's wizard Kelly. People shouldn't think you date Wizard Kelly.

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<v Speaker 3>That's weird, yo, like head cut off, so many diggs

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<v Speaker 3>and tattoos and polos with the Jim Jones pants on

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<v Speaker 3>with the TI dive pants or whatever, like, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 3>I just they can't be on TV because of the cops.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a little bit easier for I don't want to

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<v Speaker 2>say easier, but it's a little bit more common for

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<v Speaker 2>women because they'll post the two plates or they can,

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<v Speaker 2>like you know, like you said, post somebody in the

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<v Speaker 2>car or like another car or something like or maybe

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<v Speaker 2>but I don't know, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I just it's a difference between stating that you're in

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<v Speaker 2>a relationship and just hiding your relationship to me, like

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like men y'all can do like cute soft

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<v Speaker 2>launch type stuff, like on a regular basis, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>to let people know, Hey, you got.

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<v Speaker 3>A girl, I'll post me and my girl when we

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<v Speaker 3>just regular mm hmm. Like if I'm in my stories,

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<v Speaker 3>I'll post me like smacking a butt, I'll be it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>Like I ain't gonna have a camera up on her face.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't need to know what work whatever. Yeah, you

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<v Speaker 3>don't need all the specifics. I agree, I'm taking and

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<v Speaker 3>if you come up you have my inbox I'm taking,

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<v Speaker 3>so like, I don't like it's gonna be there. It's

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<v Speaker 3>gonna be what it is. But like, just understand it.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm taking as long as you can get the picture

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<v Speaker 3>that I'm taking. It's by a girl, and I'm cool

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<v Speaker 3>too much.

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<v Speaker 2>You're like, I personally don't need my man to post

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<v Speaker 2>my whole body on his page. I just need you

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<v Speaker 2>to post my torso with your hand on one of

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<v Speaker 2>my tickets. Let people know I'm here, let me let

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<v Speaker 2>him know.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, let me just yeah, let me just check that

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<v Speaker 3>all right, Just make sure.

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<v Speaker 2>You're post post post a plate of food I cooked

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<v Speaker 2>for you with this spatty in the background. So they

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<v Speaker 2>know you've got two plates. Okay, let them know. All right,

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<v Speaker 2>you don't go as me, but baby, you gotta let

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<v Speaker 2>him know.

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<v Speaker 1>That's it.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh instance, we trying to say Negro is better than me.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm jumping in the pics. Don't be like that guy.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here too.

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<v Speaker 3>What we're not gonna do is you're gonna be on

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<v Speaker 3>vacation and on some like crazy ship and be like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I got this all myself.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's that's tripping.

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<v Speaker 3>But we're not gonna be posting yeah, and that's what

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<v Speaker 3>I'm saying. All these songs like a nigga got me

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<v Speaker 3>type ship, like.

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<v Speaker 1>Those are just songs.

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<v Speaker 3>That's not what you gonna be.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And here's another thing.

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<v Speaker 3>If your Instagram is given that, we're gonna have a problem.

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<v Speaker 3>Why I don't understand the money.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't understand why it's a problem when women ben

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<v Speaker 2>let me tell you, let me tell you, let me

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<v Speaker 2>tell you.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to talk to you, Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't understand why it's a problem when I don't

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<v Speaker 2>understand why guys don't like when.

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<v Speaker 1>Their girls be uploading videos. And I'm saying I ain't

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<v Speaker 1>got no nigga and a nigga ain't got me Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand why y'all don't like that.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, back in the day, you know, when Instagram and

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<v Speaker 3>social media started, everybody's supposed to being real, like, that's

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<v Speaker 3>that was the lore. Let me finish. I'll let you finish.

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<v Speaker 3>That was the lure of social media, everybody being real.

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<v Speaker 3>So when you're looking at a girl, because you know,

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<v Speaker 3>most niggas and I'm pretty sure most of the check

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<v Speaker 3>and degree we stalk our victims before we actually shoot

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<v Speaker 3>our shot, before we shoot them, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>So now we're looking and we we already okay, all right, cool?

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<v Speaker 3>And then.

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<v Speaker 1>Where come from the reason why, the reason you're doing that?

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<v Speaker 3>And then on top of that, you broke you're not

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<v Speaker 3>getting paid. Oh my god, you're not doing none of that.

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<v Speaker 3>Why you now you trash?

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<v Speaker 2>The reason why, the reason why I don't understand why

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<v Speaker 2>y'all don't like it is because when y'all be saying

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<v Speaker 2>about busting traps and shooting niggas, I know you.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't do that, but I don't come for y'all.

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<v Speaker 3>What that kind to do?

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<v Speaker 1>Exactly?

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<v Speaker 3>What to do?

428
00:21:34.440 --> 00:21:38.319
<v Speaker 1>What's the difference we're both lying? That's that's the difference.

429
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<v Speaker 3>We're lying about my girl, though I'm lying about busting traps.

430
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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, now what if you putting us in danger

431
00:21:46.000 --> 00:21:48.920
<v Speaker 2>because niggas think you really moving weight when you ain't

432
00:21:48.960 --> 00:21:49.319
<v Speaker 2>got it?

433
00:21:49.359 --> 00:21:53.200
<v Speaker 1>Like yeah, but like dick, like oh my god, we're

434
00:21:53.240 --> 00:21:58.000
<v Speaker 1>both putting each other in danger like that, we're both danger.

435
00:21:58.599 --> 00:22:00.400
<v Speaker 3>In our d M. We don't get first time, we

436
00:22:00.400 --> 00:22:02.400
<v Speaker 3>don't get bidgets on number, we don't do all that.

437
00:22:02.440 --> 00:22:05.599
<v Speaker 1>We're both putting each other in getting dangerous.

438
00:22:09.359 --> 00:22:10.160
<v Speaker 3>You could even.

439
00:22:11.839 --> 00:22:16.160
<v Speaker 2>All right, well, so speaking of laughing and lying, right,

440
00:22:16.960 --> 00:22:19.559
<v Speaker 2>I feel like, you know, a lot of y'all don't

441
00:22:19.559 --> 00:22:21.519
<v Speaker 2>be telling the truth on the internet, and I don't

442
00:22:21.519 --> 00:22:25.720
<v Speaker 2>be saying nothing. But it really is this whole propaganda

443
00:22:25.880 --> 00:22:29.440
<v Speaker 2>of like women don't take men out on dates.

444
00:22:29.839 --> 00:22:32.079
<v Speaker 1>So you know me, I had to get down to

445
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<v Speaker 1>the source.

446
00:22:32.839 --> 00:22:36.480
<v Speaker 2>So I go on the Outgore's Internet and I asked, fellas,

447
00:22:36.799 --> 00:22:39.559
<v Speaker 2>when is the last time a woman took you out or.

448
00:22:39.519 --> 00:22:40.279
<v Speaker 1>Paid for a date?

449
00:22:41.759 --> 00:22:43.559
<v Speaker 2>I actually all on the internet, and some of the

450
00:22:43.559 --> 00:22:48.480
<v Speaker 2>answers I got were freaking ridiculous, fucking ridiculous. Okay, so

451
00:22:48.519 --> 00:22:51.519
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna get a chat a few moments tapping. Let

452
00:22:51.559 --> 00:22:55.440
<v Speaker 2>me know when it is the last time that a

453
00:22:55.480 --> 00:22:59.480
<v Speaker 2>woman took you out and paid for a date. I'm

454
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<v Speaker 2>saying like, I'll say took you out or paid because technically,

455
00:23:03.640 --> 00:23:05.480
<v Speaker 2>since might have set up a nice little picnic for you,

456
00:23:05.599 --> 00:23:09.200
<v Speaker 2>that counts. Okay, she might' you know, got your car

457
00:23:09.359 --> 00:23:11.680
<v Speaker 2>washed or something. I feel like that counts, Like, let's

458
00:23:11.759 --> 00:23:13.799
<v Speaker 2>not take you out, but it's something for you. So

459
00:23:13.880 --> 00:23:16.480
<v Speaker 2>when's the last time a woman took you out or

460
00:23:16.480 --> 00:23:22.920
<v Speaker 2>paid for a date? Hum and stand we trust says

461
00:23:23.039 --> 00:23:26.960
<v Speaker 2>they and their soft girl princess Era Jordan h said never.

462
00:23:27.559 --> 00:23:31.200
<v Speaker 2>I would feel mad uncomfortable if that happened. Mister sniff

463
00:23:31.279 --> 00:23:35.400
<v Speaker 2>says they do, but it's rare chosen nineteen eighty three says,

464
00:23:35.599 --> 00:23:39.960
<v Speaker 2>ain't gonna lie older women be treating. Side grind says mad,

465
00:23:40.000 --> 00:23:42.640
<v Speaker 2>I can't hear. I'm at a DJ battle. Get that money.

466
00:23:43.880 --> 00:23:46.960
<v Speaker 2>Comedian Black Ryan says I got taken out, but I'm funny,

467
00:23:47.039 --> 00:23:51.440
<v Speaker 2>half famous and my dick good. Please Jesus Christ, Oh

468
00:23:51.480 --> 00:23:54.799
<v Speaker 2>my god, I plead the Fifth. I know right, I

469
00:23:54.839 --> 00:23:56.799
<v Speaker 2>pleaded the fifth says we went to the movies and

470
00:23:56.839 --> 00:23:58.799
<v Speaker 2>saw a dead pull and Wolverine.

471
00:23:59.000 --> 00:23:59.720
<v Speaker 1>That's dope.

472
00:24:00.160 --> 00:24:02.680
<v Speaker 2>Like that. I like that, does it have to be

473
00:24:02.720 --> 00:24:06.319
<v Speaker 2>a love interest or just a woman? This is brings

474
00:24:06.400 --> 00:24:08.079
<v Speaker 2>me to my point?

475
00:24:08.240 --> 00:24:15.359
<v Speaker 1>Okay, so this brings me to my points. Okay.

476
00:24:17.720 --> 00:24:21.640
<v Speaker 2>I was really laughing because a lot of the responses

477
00:24:22.440 --> 00:24:23.640
<v Speaker 2>my boo keep trying to hang out, y'all.

478
00:24:23.680 --> 00:24:26.559
<v Speaker 1>My bad. It's it's nothing to fix.

479
00:24:26.720 --> 00:24:29.519
<v Speaker 2>It's no support. I thought it was, but it's not. Okay,

480
00:24:29.559 --> 00:24:32.319
<v Speaker 2>so fuck it, shut up.

481
00:24:34.680 --> 00:24:36.640
<v Speaker 1>It's not about the hooters. It's about do you try

482
00:24:36.720 --> 00:24:40.599
<v Speaker 1>and come out this? Goddamn the whole pause, Come on,

483
00:24:40.799 --> 00:24:41.519
<v Speaker 1>let me finish this.

484
00:24:43.160 --> 00:24:46.680
<v Speaker 2>So the first thing I caught my attention is that

485
00:24:46.759 --> 00:24:49.119
<v Speaker 2>a lot of y'all were saying things like do it

486
00:24:49.160 --> 00:24:50.559
<v Speaker 2>counter feels my auntie?

487
00:24:51.359 --> 00:24:53.000
<v Speaker 1>Or it counter feels my mama?

488
00:24:53.039 --> 00:24:53.359
<v Speaker 2>And them?

489
00:24:53.559 --> 00:24:54.480
<v Speaker 1>Do that count?

490
00:24:54.839 --> 00:24:57.839
<v Speaker 2>Like and I'm like, no, that don't count. It does

491
00:24:57.880 --> 00:25:01.200
<v Speaker 2>not count. If it was not a love interest, it

492
00:25:01.200 --> 00:25:03.599
<v Speaker 2>does not count. I don't care your homegirl from third

493
00:25:03.680 --> 00:25:06.319
<v Speaker 2>grade took you out to celebrate your promotion. I don't

494
00:25:06.319 --> 00:25:08.400
<v Speaker 2>give a fuck about that. That's not what we're talking about, Okay.

495
00:25:08.480 --> 00:25:09.759
<v Speaker 2>I'm talking about love.

496
00:25:09.519 --> 00:25:12.839
<v Speaker 1>The interests, right, So I wanted to read you to

497
00:25:12.880 --> 00:25:13.359
<v Speaker 1>you guys.

498
00:25:13.960 --> 00:25:20.839
<v Speaker 2>Some of my favorite answers that I got, y'all. I

499
00:25:20.920 --> 00:25:22.759
<v Speaker 2>just don't understand why y'all be putting this stuff y'all

500
00:25:22.759 --> 00:25:25.000
<v Speaker 2>put on the internet, But I wanted to read to

501
00:25:25.000 --> 00:25:27.000
<v Speaker 2>you guys some of my favorite answers that I got.

502
00:25:28.599 --> 00:25:32.599
<v Speaker 2>First one about four years ago on my first Father's Day.

503
00:25:32.960 --> 00:25:37.400
<v Speaker 2>Baby Jesus, it's been more Father's Day since then. Like

504
00:25:37.440 --> 00:25:39.599
<v Speaker 2>what did they do for that? Like? After that, you

505
00:25:39.640 --> 00:25:41.839
<v Speaker 2>had to go to taking yourself out? Like what was

506
00:25:41.880 --> 00:25:42.559
<v Speaker 2>the shift there?

507
00:25:42.839 --> 00:25:44.759
<v Speaker 1>What happened? How do you take me out for the

508
00:25:44.759 --> 00:25:45.519
<v Speaker 1>first Father's Day?

509
00:25:45.559 --> 00:25:45.960
<v Speaker 4>And then.

510
00:25:47.319 --> 00:25:48.759
<v Speaker 1>That's it? Well, that's it.

511
00:25:48.839 --> 00:25:53.960
<v Speaker 2>Seven, Get your ass back, Get back because you about

512
00:25:53.960 --> 00:25:54.920
<v Speaker 2>to knock that light over.

513
00:25:57.799 --> 00:25:58.119
<v Speaker 1>Okay.

514
00:26:00.279 --> 00:26:04.519
<v Speaker 2>Next one, I asked, fellas, when was the last time

515
00:26:04.559 --> 00:26:06.599
<v Speaker 2>a lady took you out slash paid for a date?

516
00:26:07.279 --> 00:26:13.480
<v Speaker 2>Someone said twenty thirteen, after I've replaced two tires off

517
00:26:13.519 --> 00:26:14.000
<v Speaker 2>her car.

518
00:26:15.200 --> 00:26:16.759
<v Speaker 1>Y'all, I don't think you heard what I said. I

519
00:26:16.759 --> 00:26:17.920
<v Speaker 1>don't think you heard what I said.

520
00:26:18.200 --> 00:26:21.960
<v Speaker 2>This man said, twenty thirteen after replacing two tires off

521
00:26:22.000 --> 00:26:26.559
<v Speaker 2>her car. God damn, those two tires cost more than

522
00:26:26.640 --> 00:26:27.920
<v Speaker 2>whatever the date probably was.

523
00:26:29.440 --> 00:26:29.720
<v Speaker 3>Shit.

524
00:26:30.359 --> 00:26:30.680
<v Speaker 1>Okay.

525
00:26:31.680 --> 00:26:34.799
<v Speaker 2>Next one, When I was sixteen, my mom took me

526
00:26:34.839 --> 00:26:38.400
<v Speaker 2>to see globetrotters, real talk. I like how you added

527
00:26:38.440 --> 00:26:41.839
<v Speaker 2>real talk on at the end, like we didn't believe you. Like, no,

528
00:26:41.920 --> 00:26:44.039
<v Speaker 2>my mom really took me there. Dog, she really took

529
00:26:44.039 --> 00:26:50.200
<v Speaker 2>me there. We gotta do better, we gotta do we

530
00:26:50.240 --> 00:26:54.039
<v Speaker 2>gotta do better. Uh. Yes, I think I am realizing

531
00:26:54.119 --> 00:27:00.960
<v Speaker 2>that women might be trash. I think, okay, next one,

532
00:27:01.079 --> 00:27:03.559
<v Speaker 2>you're asking the wrong generation because we're closer to our

533
00:27:03.599 --> 00:27:06.559
<v Speaker 2>parents than than most generations are, so like, we didn't

534
00:27:06.599 --> 00:27:08.359
<v Speaker 2>grow up with women taking us out.

535
00:27:08.559 --> 00:27:10.839
<v Speaker 3>So the thing is is that my girl taking me

536
00:27:10.880 --> 00:27:15.200
<v Speaker 3>out once or twice a month, or even once or

537
00:27:15.240 --> 00:27:18.759
<v Speaker 3>twice a year probably mean more. Those one dates probably

538
00:27:18.759 --> 00:27:21.160
<v Speaker 3>will stack up like fifty days to y'all, So the

539
00:27:21.240 --> 00:27:23.079
<v Speaker 3>fifty days are one. But you're a girl, so like,

540
00:27:23.119 --> 00:27:25.960
<v Speaker 3>we don't that's not something for me to Here's.

541
00:27:25.759 --> 00:27:26.640
<v Speaker 1>Why I don't believe that.

542
00:27:26.920 --> 00:27:30.519
<v Speaker 2>I don't believe that because I feel like most men

543
00:27:30.599 --> 00:27:33.519
<v Speaker 2>would agree that the older woman gets the more like

544
00:27:34.000 --> 00:27:37.039
<v Speaker 2>financially stable and secure she gets in herself. So you'll

545
00:27:37.079 --> 00:27:40.279
<v Speaker 2>hear married women and older women saying like, yeah, I'll

546
00:27:40.319 --> 00:27:42.559
<v Speaker 2>show my man I appreciate him, So that cuts out

547
00:27:42.559 --> 00:27:44.759
<v Speaker 2>like the older generation, right, And then I feel like

548
00:27:44.759 --> 00:27:48.279
<v Speaker 2>the younger generation grew up with equality and feminists and

549
00:27:48.319 --> 00:27:50.920
<v Speaker 2>stuff like that, so they believe in showing your man

550
00:27:50.960 --> 00:27:52.920
<v Speaker 2>that you appreciate him too. So it's like, if all

551
00:27:52.920 --> 00:27:55.640
<v Speaker 2>the generations are included, why are we all trash.

552
00:27:56.680 --> 00:27:58.720
<v Speaker 1>Let's let's let's talk about it. Because I don't think

553
00:27:58.759 --> 00:27:59.400
<v Speaker 1>that's a reason.

554
00:27:59.599 --> 00:28:01.200
<v Speaker 3>I just don't think that was our culture. Like, I

555
00:28:01.240 --> 00:28:03.799
<v Speaker 3>just don't think that our culture that for women to

556
00:28:03.799 --> 00:28:07.440
<v Speaker 3>take us out. Now, granted, you know these answers was like, okay,

557
00:28:07.519 --> 00:28:11.559
<v Speaker 3>like me, like me thirty, Like you had thirty birthdays.

558
00:28:11.079 --> 00:28:13.720
<v Speaker 1>Like thirty birthdays is greaty, Like that's you.

559
00:28:13.759 --> 00:28:15.240
<v Speaker 3>Know what I mean. But it's like we had a

560
00:28:15.279 --> 00:28:17.599
<v Speaker 3>lot of things for you to be taken out, for

561
00:28:17.640 --> 00:28:20.440
<v Speaker 3>her to be proud of you something. So I mean,

562
00:28:20.440 --> 00:28:22.839
<v Speaker 3>I'm like nobody in life like so that that's a

563
00:28:22.880 --> 00:28:25.319
<v Speaker 3>little crazy. Yeah, because the answers, you got a little crazy.

564
00:28:25.880 --> 00:28:28.920
<v Speaker 2>So the next answer two years ago, for the first

565
00:28:28.920 --> 00:28:33.240
<v Speaker 2>time of my life, I still fumbled. This brings me

566
00:28:33.599 --> 00:28:37.880
<v Speaker 2>to my next point. Okay, I feel like if you

567
00:28:37.960 --> 00:28:41.720
<v Speaker 2>are of a certain age and a woman still has

568
00:28:41.799 --> 00:28:44.200
<v Speaker 2>not taken you out, Because that was the next answer,

569
00:28:44.240 --> 00:28:46.519
<v Speaker 2>it was never, never, never, never women do that. Never

570
00:28:46.599 --> 00:28:49.119
<v Speaker 2>never never never who where they be at never never

571
00:28:49.160 --> 00:28:53.319
<v Speaker 2>never never never. If you're reaching a point where women

572
00:28:53.400 --> 00:28:57.799
<v Speaker 2>aren't taking you out, brother, I hate to say this,

573
00:28:59.279 --> 00:29:00.119
<v Speaker 2>but you got bad.

574
00:29:00.000 --> 00:29:01.480
<v Speaker 1>Taste to women, that's the first thing.

575
00:29:01.839 --> 00:29:05.000
<v Speaker 2>Or you ain't shit and the women don't feel like

576
00:29:05.039 --> 00:29:07.880
<v Speaker 2>reciprocating good energy because you're not giving her the good energy.

577
00:29:07.960 --> 00:29:10.319
<v Speaker 2>I know, I know, I know it sucks to say it,

578
00:29:10.680 --> 00:29:13.599
<v Speaker 2>but honestly, I feel like if you're past a certain age,

579
00:29:13.839 --> 00:29:15.759
<v Speaker 2>it kind of gotta be one of the two things

580
00:29:15.759 --> 00:29:20.640
<v Speaker 2>if women aren't taking you out now I know, to

581
00:29:20.680 --> 00:29:25.279
<v Speaker 2>eat your own like. We can also acknowledge that some

582
00:29:25.400 --> 00:29:28.920
<v Speaker 2>women may be trash. Yes, yes, we can do that.

583
00:29:29.319 --> 00:29:29.960
<v Speaker 1>We can do that.

584
00:29:30.519 --> 00:29:34.279
<v Speaker 2>We can acknowledge that some women may be trash. But honestly,

585
00:29:34.920 --> 00:29:37.960
<v Speaker 2>most women, if they're feeling you, they gonna try to

586
00:29:38.000 --> 00:29:40.680
<v Speaker 2>take you out. Whether it be on a date or

587
00:29:40.720 --> 00:29:42.200
<v Speaker 2>a sniper, it don't matter.

588
00:29:42.279 --> 00:29:44.240
<v Speaker 1>She's gonna try to take you out. If she like you,

589
00:29:44.319 --> 00:29:46.920
<v Speaker 1>she gonna claim it. Okay, So I feel.

590
00:29:48.359 --> 00:29:52.440
<v Speaker 2>Exactly, I like shit and I want you like I

591
00:29:53.119 --> 00:29:54.839
<v Speaker 2>don't know, just something to think about.

592
00:29:55.160 --> 00:29:57.920
<v Speaker 1>But I say all this to say, ladies, take your

593
00:29:57.920 --> 00:29:59.880
<v Speaker 1>man out, please. They're gonna internet crying.

594
00:30:01.960 --> 00:30:04.799
<v Speaker 3>That's crazy, ladies.

595
00:30:05.400 --> 00:30:08.119
<v Speaker 1>Come on, we gotta do better. We gotta do better.

596
00:30:09.599 --> 00:30:14.240
<v Speaker 2>Speaking of doing better, you know, I do my part

597
00:30:14.359 --> 00:30:19.759
<v Speaker 2>to constantly make sure I'm being fair. And I think

598
00:30:20.119 --> 00:30:22.720
<v Speaker 2>one of my best and worst qualities about myself is

599
00:30:22.759 --> 00:30:26.640
<v Speaker 2>that I'm very self aware. Right, So there are situations

600
00:30:26.640 --> 00:30:30.720
<v Speaker 2>where I can realize that hindsight is twenty twenty, and

601
00:30:30.759 --> 00:30:32.559
<v Speaker 2>I'll look back on a situation and be like, yo,

602
00:30:33.720 --> 00:30:37.480
<v Speaker 2>maybe I'm stripping, Maybe this person deserves another chance, maybe

603
00:30:37.480 --> 00:30:41.240
<v Speaker 2>this needs to revisit. And you know, every once in

604
00:30:41.319 --> 00:30:43.680
<v Speaker 2>a while, I like to go to my block list,

605
00:30:43.920 --> 00:30:47.279
<v Speaker 2>see who's eligible for a little furlough, you know, let

606
00:30:47.359 --> 00:30:49.160
<v Speaker 2>him get out for a little bit and see what's happening.

607
00:30:50.599 --> 00:30:53.240
<v Speaker 1>Yeah do, yeah do? Yeah, I do?

608
00:30:53.400 --> 00:30:55.880
<v Speaker 2>And I don't care. Every once in a while, I

609
00:30:55.960 --> 00:30:57.920
<v Speaker 2>like to go to my block list and see who's

610
00:30:57.960 --> 00:31:00.599
<v Speaker 2>eligible for a little furlough parole.

611
00:31:01.240 --> 00:31:03.759
<v Speaker 1>Okay, yes I do. I don't care.

612
00:31:04.039 --> 00:31:05.559
<v Speaker 3>Right, every girl spends the block.

613
00:31:05.920 --> 00:31:08.319
<v Speaker 2>If you don't know what that means, not necessarily spend

614
00:31:08.319 --> 00:31:10.839
<v Speaker 2>the block the same thing, not spend a block, Not

615
00:31:10.960 --> 00:31:13.359
<v Speaker 2>spend the block, because just because I take you off

616
00:31:13.359 --> 00:31:16.240
<v Speaker 2>the block list doesn't mean I'm gonna initiate or even

617
00:31:16.279 --> 00:31:18.880
<v Speaker 2>have conversation with you. I can just take you off

618
00:31:18.920 --> 00:31:21.079
<v Speaker 2>because I feel like you need to see me doing

619
00:31:21.079 --> 00:31:22.039
<v Speaker 2>some hot ship right now.

620
00:31:23.359 --> 00:31:24.400
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you need to see it.

621
00:31:24.559 --> 00:31:27.359
<v Speaker 3>Like, I don't think that you will take a nigga

622
00:31:27.359 --> 00:31:28.559
<v Speaker 3>off the block list unless you knew.

623
00:31:31.400 --> 00:31:34.519
<v Speaker 1>No, that's not that's not true. It's not true. I'm

624
00:31:34.519 --> 00:31:35.839
<v Speaker 1>gonna tell you what. I'm gonna tell you why.

625
00:31:36.000 --> 00:31:38.880
<v Speaker 2>For me, it's different because I can take you off

626
00:31:38.880 --> 00:31:40.680
<v Speaker 2>the block list and you don't have to follow me,

627
00:31:41.119 --> 00:31:43.200
<v Speaker 2>but I know I'm gonna pop up on your Explore page.

628
00:31:43.400 --> 00:31:44.720
<v Speaker 3>I'm saying something.

629
00:31:44.799 --> 00:31:46.599
<v Speaker 2>No no, no, no no. You can say something to me.

630
00:31:46.599 --> 00:31:47.920
<v Speaker 2>That don't mean I'm gonna say something to you back.

631
00:31:49.000 --> 00:31:57.440
<v Speaker 2>You just need to see me. It's it's the principality Smoky.

632
00:31:57.599 --> 00:32:00.720
<v Speaker 3>First of all, like I said, at just hated about

633
00:32:00.759 --> 00:32:01.640
<v Speaker 3>nothing but vengeance.

634
00:32:03.839 --> 00:32:06.880
<v Speaker 2>I just want to start by saying I'm very self aware,

635
00:32:06.920 --> 00:32:09.119
<v Speaker 2>and I'm not saying it's right. I'm not saying it's

636
00:32:09.720 --> 00:32:11.960
<v Speaker 2>not childish or not petty. I'm just telling you all

637
00:32:11.960 --> 00:32:13.480
<v Speaker 2>what the fuck I do. Damn, I thought this was

638
00:32:13.519 --> 00:32:18.519
<v Speaker 2>a safe space. Gosh, yeah, listen, I never said I

639
00:32:18.559 --> 00:32:21.200
<v Speaker 2>was perfect. God's still working on me, Okay, we're still

640
00:32:21.240 --> 00:32:24.039
<v Speaker 2>working some things out. I say all this to say,

641
00:32:25.200 --> 00:32:28.799
<v Speaker 2>like I said, I unblocked this person, and you know,

642
00:32:28.880 --> 00:32:31.440
<v Speaker 2>of course I pop up on his Explore page. I

643
00:32:31.480 --> 00:32:34.119
<v Speaker 2>know he sees me on his Explore page because I

644
00:32:34.119 --> 00:32:38.200
<v Speaker 2>see him on my Explore page. So I'm like, yeah, right.

645
00:32:39.079 --> 00:32:42.960
<v Speaker 2>So Unfortunately, like Chad said, he reached.

646
00:32:42.720 --> 00:32:43.079
<v Speaker 1>Out to me.

647
00:32:47.359 --> 00:32:52.759
<v Speaker 2>So I got very tickled at his initial thought, you know,

648
00:32:53.160 --> 00:32:57.160
<v Speaker 2>like how we gonna make this shit shake? So it

649
00:32:57.200 --> 00:33:01.359
<v Speaker 2>reaches out to me. He was like, yeah, when you

650
00:33:01.440 --> 00:33:03.960
<v Speaker 2>on block me and popped up on my Explore page,

651
00:33:04.000 --> 00:33:07.640
<v Speaker 2>I was like, ah, I was hoping you got fat

652
00:33:07.759 --> 00:33:08.160
<v Speaker 2>or something.

653
00:33:08.640 --> 00:33:11.480
<v Speaker 3>What the fuck you responded?

654
00:33:12.880 --> 00:33:16.359
<v Speaker 1>I did not. I did not. I read it, but

655
00:33:16.440 --> 00:33:18.640
<v Speaker 1>I did not you lefting on scene?

656
00:33:18.680 --> 00:33:18.960
<v Speaker 3>Read it?

657
00:33:19.079 --> 00:33:21.599
<v Speaker 2>Or yeah, fuck yeah, you're gonna see I saw it,

658
00:33:22.079 --> 00:33:23.160
<v Speaker 2>and I didn't respond.

659
00:33:23.519 --> 00:33:25.160
<v Speaker 1>I didn't say I was perfect, y'all.

660
00:33:25.200 --> 00:33:27.920
<v Speaker 3>Stay tune next week, y'all. Y'all know that nigga I

661
00:33:27.920 --> 00:33:30.039
<v Speaker 3>said I didn't respond to, Well, guess what he did

662
00:33:30.079 --> 00:33:30.400
<v Speaker 3>on the day.

663
00:33:30.480 --> 00:33:35.160
<v Speaker 2>Yes, this nigga left one hundred oh Mike.

664
00:33:35.240 --> 00:33:37.480
<v Speaker 3>You know, if y'all took me to a ship club

665
00:33:37.799 --> 00:33:39.680
<v Speaker 3>blah blah blah, classic.

666
00:33:39.400 --> 00:33:41.119
<v Speaker 1>If y'all gonna act like this, I'm gonna stop sharing.

667
00:33:41.240 --> 00:33:42.720
<v Speaker 3>I was right about everything so far.

668
00:33:42.720 --> 00:33:44.799
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna stop sharing. I'm gonna stop sharing.

669
00:33:46.640 --> 00:33:48.559
<v Speaker 3>I thought for me to say how I thought too.

670
00:33:49.160 --> 00:33:51.920
<v Speaker 2>J Kellowaves says, l O L And I was hoping

671
00:33:51.960 --> 00:33:54.079
<v Speaker 2>you got fat? Right, because why would you say that

672
00:33:54.119 --> 00:33:56.039
<v Speaker 2>about me? Like you know how I am on my

673
00:33:56.079 --> 00:33:57.920
<v Speaker 2>fitness journey, Like, why would you say you hoped I

674
00:33:57.960 --> 00:34:00.160
<v Speaker 2>got fat? Like to me, that was that was that

675
00:34:00.279 --> 00:34:03.319
<v Speaker 2>was some hurtful ship to say, like to anyone else

676
00:34:03.359 --> 00:34:04.519
<v Speaker 2>will probably be regular, But.

677
00:34:06.160 --> 00:34:09.239
<v Speaker 1>That bothered me. I wouldn't.

678
00:34:10.760 --> 00:34:13.159
<v Speaker 2>Because you didn't say, like, oh, I was hoping you

679
00:34:13.199 --> 00:34:15.400
<v Speaker 2>got pregnant and got fat. You just said fat like

680
00:34:15.440 --> 00:34:17.320
<v Speaker 2>you just wanted me to let myself go.

681
00:34:17.880 --> 00:34:19.480
<v Speaker 1>You you you wanted to hurt me.

682
00:34:21.400 --> 00:34:22.199
<v Speaker 3>You don't think he was.

683
00:34:23.800 --> 00:34:26.320
<v Speaker 2>No, I really I really think he hoped I got fat.

684
00:34:26.679 --> 00:34:28.360
<v Speaker 2>I really do, because that would make him feel better

685
00:34:28.360 --> 00:34:31.840
<v Speaker 2>about himself. I really do. I believe that I'm.

686
00:34:31.800 --> 00:34:35.559
<v Speaker 3>Not to dive into this person now, Okay, well, psychological,

687
00:34:35.599 --> 00:34:37.280
<v Speaker 3>why are you on block this specific person?

688
00:34:38.199 --> 00:34:41.400
<v Speaker 2>Comedian Black Mind says she hates that cousins right because

689
00:34:41.440 --> 00:34:43.679
<v Speaker 2>he always fucking thinks he's right and he's not dark

690
00:34:43.719 --> 00:34:44.280
<v Speaker 2>Man seventeen.

691
00:34:44.280 --> 00:34:46.320
<v Speaker 1>He says, they better stop hating and you got muscles?

692
00:34:46.360 --> 00:34:56.360
<v Speaker 3>I know right, you see it crazy. I'm trying like, yo,

693
00:34:56.800 --> 00:35:00.480
<v Speaker 3>my body goals is my body goales? Was like whiskey

694
00:35:00.519 --> 00:35:08.440
<v Speaker 3>leaf between now now now. They brought Lesbie, they brought us.

695
00:35:12.880 --> 00:35:15.679
<v Speaker 3>She got the b whatever buffalo.

696
00:35:16.280 --> 00:35:19.800
<v Speaker 1>Making me high stop. Come on, I'm trying to get

697
00:35:19.800 --> 00:35:21.960
<v Speaker 1>through this. I beleeve.

698
00:35:22.559 --> 00:35:25.079
<v Speaker 2>The Fifth says, but you blocked him to make yourself

699
00:35:25.119 --> 00:35:31.840
<v Speaker 2>feel better. I blocked him to let myself know that

700
00:35:32.679 --> 00:35:35.719
<v Speaker 2>I was correct in setting a boundary up. Play with

701
00:35:35.800 --> 00:35:40.480
<v Speaker 2>somebody to else, right, And I feel like him reaching

702
00:35:40.480 --> 00:35:44.920
<v Speaker 2>out to me solidified. Yeah, play with somebody to else

703
00:35:44.960 --> 00:35:46.119
<v Speaker 2>because I'm really that bitch.

704
00:35:46.440 --> 00:35:51.039
<v Speaker 1>Then I feel like sometimes what what this is?

705
00:35:51.039 --> 00:35:54.960
<v Speaker 3>What y'all do? This is why you all that?

706
00:35:55.559 --> 00:35:55.639
<v Speaker 2>Ye?

707
00:35:57.039 --> 00:35:59.920
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, So you're sitting here telling me, did you divide?

708
00:36:00.639 --> 00:36:00.840
<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

709
00:36:01.559 --> 00:36:04.079
<v Speaker 1>And I trapped him trapped and.

710
00:36:04.039 --> 00:36:05.559
<v Speaker 3>You feel justified for something to trap.

711
00:36:06.840 --> 00:36:11.800
<v Speaker 1>Well, nobody asked to be said a trap that's foolish, duh.

712
00:36:12.440 --> 00:36:15.239
<v Speaker 1>Why do y'all want me to be somebody? I'm fucking not.

713
00:36:15.400 --> 00:36:18.679
<v Speaker 2>I'm human, okay, And sometimes you gotta pop out and

714
00:36:18.719 --> 00:36:21.840
<v Speaker 2>show niggas and sometimes you gotta unblock and.

715
00:36:21.800 --> 00:36:25.719
<v Speaker 1>Show niggas nigga bomb.

716
00:36:27.199 --> 00:36:29.679
<v Speaker 3>You you need to do better in life.

717
00:36:29.920 --> 00:36:35.519
<v Speaker 2>Well, here, here's the thing, right, I feel like to

718
00:36:35.679 --> 00:36:41.719
<v Speaker 2>pretend that someone is completely healed is a falsehood. It's

719
00:36:41.719 --> 00:36:45.280
<v Speaker 2>no such thing as being completely healed healing, and your

720
00:36:45.360 --> 00:36:50.119
<v Speaker 2>fucking mental journey is your mental Like, I feel like,

721
00:36:50.159 --> 00:36:51.800
<v Speaker 2>there's no destination, it's a journey.

722
00:36:51.920 --> 00:36:52.119
<v Speaker 3>Right.

723
00:36:52.519 --> 00:36:54.880
<v Speaker 2>So I can sit here and be like, yeah, I

724
00:36:54.920 --> 00:36:57.440
<v Speaker 2>did block him because I wanted him to not see me,

725
00:36:57.480 --> 00:36:59.119
<v Speaker 2>and then they pop up and then him know he

726
00:36:59.199 --> 00:37:02.159
<v Speaker 2>no longer has X, says to me, right, And then

727
00:37:02.199 --> 00:37:04.840
<v Speaker 2>I also can see here, say, two years ago, I

728
00:37:04.840 --> 00:37:07.239
<v Speaker 2>would have popped that nigga tires and punched his mom

729
00:37:07.239 --> 00:37:09.880
<v Speaker 2>in the fucking face. So when I sit here and say, yes,

730
00:37:09.920 --> 00:37:12.039
<v Speaker 2>I am blocked him and I feel good about it,

731
00:37:12.199 --> 00:37:13.960
<v Speaker 2>let me fucking feel good about it.

732
00:37:15.480 --> 00:37:17.159
<v Speaker 3>I'm just saying, all.

733
00:37:17.159 --> 00:37:30.320
<v Speaker 2>Right, growth, Okay, Oh my god, these are jokes, guys,

734
00:37:30.360 --> 00:37:35.559
<v Speaker 2>These are jokes, jokes, jokes, satire, satire, satire, satire, satire,

735
00:37:35.679 --> 00:37:39.400
<v Speaker 2>pop it on the screen, satire, satire, satire. Okay, okay,

736
00:37:39.400 --> 00:37:41.039
<v Speaker 2>so now let's talk about stuff that I do. Like,

737
00:37:44.440 --> 00:37:47.079
<v Speaker 2>the name of the pie is laughing and lying, y'all.

738
00:37:47.079 --> 00:37:48.559
<v Speaker 2>I was lying about that stuff.

739
00:37:49.039 --> 00:37:50.840
<v Speaker 3>I was lying.

740
00:37:52.320 --> 00:37:54.880
<v Speaker 1>We're still laughing and lying. So it doesn't matter to me.

741
00:37:56.239 --> 00:37:58.519
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, let's talk about stuff. I do like what

742
00:37:58.719 --> 00:38:02.280
<v Speaker 1>y'all like. I like stuff.

743
00:38:05.840 --> 00:38:10.760
<v Speaker 2>I mean, it's not for everybody, and we're gonna talk

744
00:38:10.760 --> 00:38:13.440
<v Speaker 2>in a circle a little bit and it's gonna make sense.

745
00:38:13.480 --> 00:38:16.800
<v Speaker 2>But it's not gonna make sense right. But me personally,

746
00:38:18.039 --> 00:38:24.079
<v Speaker 2>I just feel like it's something about a man asking

747
00:38:26.079 --> 00:38:28.679
<v Speaker 2>if I want to do something with him, not like

748
00:38:28.719 --> 00:38:32.559
<v Speaker 2>a date, not like a date, not like a date.

749
00:38:33.119 --> 00:38:34.360
<v Speaker 1>Like it's something.

750
00:38:34.039 --> 00:38:37.719
<v Speaker 2>About a man asking me to do something with him,

751
00:38:37.760 --> 00:38:39.599
<v Speaker 2>like oh, you want to go with me?

752
00:38:39.800 --> 00:38:43.960
<v Speaker 1>Yes? Yes I do? Yeah, Like oh do you want

753
00:38:43.960 --> 00:38:47.800
<v Speaker 1>to go with me to Yes, yes I do. Thank

754
00:38:47.840 --> 00:38:49.760
<v Speaker 1>you so much. It doesn't matter what it is. I

755
00:38:49.800 --> 00:38:50.159
<v Speaker 1>don't care.

756
00:38:50.199 --> 00:38:53.440
<v Speaker 2>If it's getting your car wash to the laundry mat okay,

757
00:38:53.440 --> 00:38:57.119
<v Speaker 2>a root canal, I don't care. Yes I do, Yes,

758
00:38:57.159 --> 00:39:01.239
<v Speaker 2>I do, And I'm gonna tell you why because it's like, oh,

759
00:39:01.480 --> 00:39:05.039
<v Speaker 2>you're still putting me in your schedule and thinking of me,

760
00:39:05.599 --> 00:39:08.719
<v Speaker 2>like mmm, that make my coochie do the boom boom

761
00:39:08.760 --> 00:39:10.119
<v Speaker 2>thing Like I like this.

762
00:39:13.519 --> 00:39:17.840
<v Speaker 1>I like this, this A's cool you be thinking.

763
00:39:17.599 --> 00:39:23.679
<v Speaker 2>Of me, Like, okay, Now, I do want to say

764
00:39:23.760 --> 00:39:27.400
<v Speaker 2>there's also something about a person that comes with their

765
00:39:27.440 --> 00:39:30.280
<v Speaker 2>own motion. So I'm not saying every time you go

766
00:39:30.320 --> 00:39:33.360
<v Speaker 2>out to get drinks or every time you go on adventure,

767
00:39:33.440 --> 00:39:36.960
<v Speaker 2>I have to come with you, but make time for

768
00:39:37.039 --> 00:39:39.280
<v Speaker 2>me in your schedule. But I'm not asking you to

769
00:39:39.360 --> 00:39:41.719
<v Speaker 2>drag me along to all your outings and things like that,

770
00:39:41.760 --> 00:39:43.360
<v Speaker 2>like you gonna go hang with your friends, baby, I

771
00:39:43.400 --> 00:39:44.000
<v Speaker 2>don't need to come.

772
00:39:44.280 --> 00:39:44.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to come.

773
00:39:45.039 --> 00:39:48.000
<v Speaker 3>That's that you had your way of things, you had

774
00:39:48.000 --> 00:39:49.760
<v Speaker 3>your way of life, and then you took a second

775
00:39:49.800 --> 00:39:50.599
<v Speaker 3>to like hold on.

776
00:39:51.800 --> 00:39:57.000
<v Speaker 2>Let me include exactly exactly, like having the thirty seconds

777
00:39:57.000 --> 00:39:59.639
<v Speaker 2>to be like, okay, well, I know that my schedule

778
00:39:59.679 --> 00:40:02.000
<v Speaker 2>is packed for this, this, this, this, this, you know?

779
00:40:02.599 --> 00:40:04.519
<v Speaker 2>Do you my well, do you want to come with

780
00:40:04.559 --> 00:40:06.280
<v Speaker 2>me to do X, Y and Z right now? Like

781
00:40:06.639 --> 00:40:09.400
<v Speaker 2>that's dope. Like and I'm not saying that I want

782
00:40:09.440 --> 00:40:12.039
<v Speaker 2>to be up under you and smell your farts or

783
00:40:13.000 --> 00:40:14.760
<v Speaker 2>carry your gym bag when you go run ball with

784
00:40:14.800 --> 00:40:15.199
<v Speaker 2>your friends.

785
00:40:15.239 --> 00:40:16.039
<v Speaker 1>That's not what I'm saying.

786
00:40:16.079 --> 00:40:18.119
<v Speaker 2>I don't need to do all that, but just make

787
00:40:18.280 --> 00:40:22.199
<v Speaker 2>time for me, like think of me consider me, and

788
00:40:22.599 --> 00:40:24.760
<v Speaker 2>it's so disgusting because when you say it out loud,

789
00:40:24.880 --> 00:40:29.320
<v Speaker 2>it's very bare minimum. But I still like it. I

790
00:40:29.360 --> 00:40:31.039
<v Speaker 2>still like it and I still want it. I don't

791
00:40:31.039 --> 00:40:33.440
<v Speaker 2>know what y'all want me to say, like it it

792
00:40:34.119 --> 00:40:37.920
<v Speaker 2>makes sense to me, like I don't need to be

793
00:40:38.039 --> 00:40:48.880
<v Speaker 2>all up under you unless hmmm, I don't know that's situational,

794
00:40:48.880 --> 00:40:51.239
<v Speaker 2>so I won't say that. I'll say it's just like

795
00:40:51.280 --> 00:40:53.840
<v Speaker 2>I said earlier. It's nothing like a person who comes

796
00:40:53.880 --> 00:40:56.280
<v Speaker 2>with their own motion, like I don't want your world

797
00:40:56.320 --> 00:40:58.880
<v Speaker 2>to revolve around me unless we're talking about, you know,

798
00:40:59.480 --> 00:41:02.159
<v Speaker 2>finishing Netflix series, like you know this was our thing.

799
00:41:02.199 --> 00:41:04.000
<v Speaker 1>Don't play with me. This is us. We're locked in.

800
00:41:04.519 --> 00:41:07.639
<v Speaker 2>But as far as you considering me, what's your time?

801
00:41:07.679 --> 00:41:08.320
<v Speaker 2>Like that stooped to me.

802
00:41:08.400 --> 00:41:11.239
<v Speaker 1>I like that. I like that a lot.

803
00:41:11.559 --> 00:41:15.039
<v Speaker 2>Make time for me, yes, but don't make me feel

804
00:41:15.119 --> 00:41:16.480
<v Speaker 2>like you're waiting on me.

805
00:41:17.360 --> 00:41:18.199
<v Speaker 1>If that makes sense.

806
00:41:19.119 --> 00:41:22.719
<v Speaker 3>It should just be a sceneless transition. Yeah, I shouldn't

807
00:41:22.719 --> 00:41:23.880
<v Speaker 3>have to, Like, it's not like I had to make

808
00:41:23.920 --> 00:41:25.800
<v Speaker 3>all these arrangements.

809
00:41:28.400 --> 00:41:30.599
<v Speaker 1>Kai n y C says, By you want to go

810
00:41:30.639 --> 00:41:31.559
<v Speaker 1>catch this liquid me?

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00:41:32.000 --> 00:41:35.360
<v Speaker 2>Yes? Yes, like Bey, you want to come pick this

812
00:41:35.400 --> 00:41:38.480
<v Speaker 2>puppy up with me? I do I do you get

813
00:41:38.480 --> 00:41:39.000
<v Speaker 2>in a pit?

814
00:41:39.519 --> 00:41:39.719
<v Speaker 1>Oh?

815
00:41:39.760 --> 00:41:43.079
<v Speaker 2>My guy like, yes, I do? Let me give my blanket?

816
00:41:44.000 --> 00:41:44.239
<v Speaker 3>Yes?

817
00:41:44.800 --> 00:41:46.039
<v Speaker 1>Hell yeah.

818
00:41:46.079 --> 00:41:50.679
<v Speaker 2>So yeah, so let's let's recap what do we learn today?

819
00:41:51.599 --> 00:41:54.440
<v Speaker 2>I'll be laughing and lying that's the first thing. Second thing,

820
00:41:55.360 --> 00:41:59.280
<v Speaker 2>how much do you tip? And when is it okay

821
00:41:59.320 --> 00:42:02.079
<v Speaker 2>to tip? Z? I'm not gonna lie. I feel like never,

822
00:42:02.639 --> 00:42:07.840
<v Speaker 2>fucking never. Honestly, couples who always post on social media

823
00:42:07.880 --> 00:42:12.800
<v Speaker 2>are less happy than couples who don't. Apparently men aren't

824
00:42:12.840 --> 00:42:14.920
<v Speaker 2>being taken out for dates, but it's for one or

825
00:42:14.920 --> 00:42:18.039
<v Speaker 2>two reasons. Every once in a while, I'd like to

826
00:42:18.400 --> 00:42:22.800
<v Speaker 2>visit my block less and see who's eligible for furlough whatever.

827
00:42:24.440 --> 00:42:24.639
<v Speaker 3>You know.

828
00:42:24.760 --> 00:42:26.960
<v Speaker 2>Every time somebody calls me toxic, all I hear is

829
00:42:27.000 --> 00:42:32.719
<v Speaker 2>exotic okay, And yeah it's something about when a man

830
00:42:32.760 --> 00:42:34.599
<v Speaker 2>asked me to go run errands with him. I like that.

831
00:42:34.960 --> 00:42:36.880
<v Speaker 2>I like that a lot, especially if I ain't doing

832
00:42:36.880 --> 00:42:40.000
<v Speaker 2>shit but sitting around with fuzzy socks one. So yeah,

833
00:42:40.000 --> 00:42:41.920
<v Speaker 2>my message is always gonna be the same, following me

834
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<v Speaker 2>under Graham asty p p E a ed chocolate chip

835
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<v Speaker 2>and sip And if you don't remember anything else, Please

836
00:42:47.079 --> 00:42:52.239
<v Speaker 2>remember satire, satire toxic. This shit satire, satire, satire. I

837
00:42:52.280 --> 00:42:53.400
<v Speaker 2>love you guys that I see next week.

838
00:42:53.440 --> 00:42:53.719
<v Speaker 1>Peace,