WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.280 --> 00:00:03.919 Why get all your holiday decorations delivered through instacart Because 2 00:00:04.200 --> 00:00:07.599 maybe you only bought two wreaths but you have twelve windows, 3 00:00:07.799 --> 00:00:11.039 Or maybe your toddler got very eager with the advent calendar, 4 00:00:11.199 --> 00:00:14.359 or maybe the inflatable snowman didn't make it through the snowstorm, 5 00:00:14.599 --> 00:00:18.399 or maybe the twinkle lights aren't twinkling. 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If you're watching on YouTube, 24 00:01:27.760 --> 00:01:31.480 I'm giving country today that is neither here nor there. 25 00:01:31.519 --> 00:01:33.719 I just thought I would mention it. As you know, 26 00:01:33.760 --> 00:01:36.239 if you're hearing this episode, then you are meant to 27 00:01:36.280 --> 00:01:39.640 be here. All that Bitch is Positive podcast. Sometimes we 28 00:01:39.680 --> 00:01:44.280 will laugh. Other times, Baby, we may cry, but we 29 00:01:44.319 --> 00:01:48.480 will always walk away feeling our most empowered positive bitch self. 30 00:01:48.840 --> 00:01:52.959 That is Babe in true connection with herself. On this podcast, 31 00:01:53.000 --> 00:01:55.560 we unbecome who we are not so we can fully 32 00:01:55.599 --> 00:01:59.640 step into exactly who we came here to be. Today. 33 00:01:59.680 --> 00:02:04.280 I've been sent to tell you, remind you, and empower 34 00:02:04.400 --> 00:02:08.639 you to access an ability you seem to have forgotten 35 00:02:08.800 --> 00:02:13.919 to use. Yeah, you have this ability that's innate within 36 00:02:14.000 --> 00:02:17.560 you that you've not been utilizing, and if you would, 37 00:02:17.639 --> 00:02:21.919 it would make your life oh so much better. Today. 38 00:02:22.039 --> 00:02:26.039 It is finally time that you remember not only that 39 00:02:26.120 --> 00:02:30.240 you have this power within you, but how to harness it. 40 00:02:30.439 --> 00:02:34.759 This episode was inspired by our recent eleven eleven portal, 41 00:02:35.319 --> 00:02:39.439 I've decided to make some changes. I was sitting outside 42 00:02:39.560 --> 00:02:41.919 of the usual coffee shop that I do a lot 43 00:02:41.960 --> 00:02:45.840 of my work in my courses. I create there my workbooks. 44 00:02:46.000 --> 00:02:50.240 On this eleven eleven portal, I had in my mind 45 00:02:50.360 --> 00:02:52.960 a channel's message that I got a couple of days before, 46 00:02:53.400 --> 00:02:58.719 and that message was one right action is more powerful 47 00:02:58.879 --> 00:03:02.840 than a hundred wrong thoughts. You can also say one 48 00:03:03.159 --> 00:03:07.280 positive action is more powerful than one hundred negative thoughts. 49 00:03:07.719 --> 00:03:12.360 The channel message shows us that action is more powerful 50 00:03:12.400 --> 00:03:16.360 than just a thought form because action is thought reinforced. 51 00:03:17.039 --> 00:03:18.800 You can think, oh, I'm not going to go back 52 00:03:18.840 --> 00:03:23.360 to that X, but actively not only thinking it, deciding it, 53 00:03:23.520 --> 00:03:27.120 and then using your body to create proximity from them 54 00:03:27.439 --> 00:03:31.840 and not going back to them. That action is thought empowered, 55 00:03:31.919 --> 00:03:35.280 thought reinforced. It's more powerful than any thought you can have. 56 00:03:35.319 --> 00:03:39.479 And I just saw one one one. Knowing that I 57 00:03:39.599 --> 00:03:42.719 recently had this channeled message that my actions are more 58 00:03:42.759 --> 00:03:45.479 powerful than my thoughts, knowing that it's the eleven to 59 00:03:45.479 --> 00:03:49.360 eleven portal, I knew that any action I took on 60 00:03:49.400 --> 00:03:53.560 this day was going to have this empowered effect on 61 00:03:53.680 --> 00:03:58.919 my life. And I've recently been feeling like I just 62 00:03:59.759 --> 00:04:05.039 was and having enjoyment on the dating app anymore. I 63 00:04:05.280 --> 00:04:08.919 had to, so I decided to delete one of them. 64 00:04:09.240 --> 00:04:13.719 And then I was thinking to myself, I kind of 65 00:04:13.840 --> 00:04:16.480 just want to get rid of everything. So I went 66 00:04:16.560 --> 00:04:19.800 ahead and I deleted the last dating app that I had. 67 00:04:19.839 --> 00:04:24.800 I've only ever had two, and I deleted the second one, 68 00:04:25.040 --> 00:04:30.439 and I immediately felt so free. And that's how you 69 00:04:30.480 --> 00:04:33.399 know you make the right decision. Sometimes you don't know 70 00:04:34.199 --> 00:04:37.240 you made a right decision until after the fact you 71 00:04:37.360 --> 00:04:40.360 have to do it, and then the emotional response you 72 00:04:40.399 --> 00:04:45.319 get from your body afterwards, you're like, oh, okay, I 73 00:04:45.360 --> 00:04:48.279 know I made the right decision now. It was too 74 00:04:48.319 --> 00:04:50.360 hard to tell prior. But now that I've actually went 75 00:04:50.439 --> 00:04:55.480 ahead and decided and took an actionable step, I feel relief. 76 00:04:55.680 --> 00:04:58.959 And that's what I felt. I felt relief, and I 77 00:04:59.040 --> 00:05:02.439 realized I don't want to feel like I'm in on 78 00:05:02.519 --> 00:05:05.639 demand service that all of these people at any time 79 00:05:05.680 --> 00:05:07.959 could just swipe right on me and then have access 80 00:05:08.000 --> 00:05:11.560 to me. I work so hard on my energy and 81 00:05:11.639 --> 00:05:16.160 my mindset and my body. I don't want anyone at 82 00:05:16.199 --> 00:05:20.279 any time to be able to just gain access to me, 83 00:05:20.319 --> 00:05:22.040 and yeah, I have to accept them back, but the 84 00:05:22.079 --> 00:05:25.240 fact that they can even swipe on me just started 85 00:05:25.279 --> 00:05:29.639 to feel wrong in my body. Even if they don't 86 00:05:29.680 --> 00:05:32.160 have direct access, well they think they do, and that 87 00:05:32.240 --> 00:05:35.000 just doesn't sit right with me anymore at this point 88 00:05:35.079 --> 00:05:37.920 in my journey. Could I change my mind one day, maybe, 89 00:05:38.399 --> 00:05:42.759 but right now I'm so strong in this feeling. So 90 00:05:42.879 --> 00:05:45.319 I'm in the car, I delete the app. I feel relief, 91 00:05:45.759 --> 00:05:49.000 and I literally said to God, this is my ultimate 92 00:05:49.079 --> 00:05:54.079 act of surrender. I trust God more than anything on 93 00:05:54.439 --> 00:05:57.279 this planet, more than I just trust God more than anything. 94 00:05:57.639 --> 00:06:01.120 And I said to God, I'm putting my love life 95 00:06:01.800 --> 00:06:06.120 in your hands. I'm not going to try to pursue 96 00:06:06.319 --> 00:06:07.879 not that I was doing that anyway, but I'm not 97 00:06:07.920 --> 00:06:11.120 even going to have this opening on this app where 98 00:06:11.560 --> 00:06:15.439 anyone can gain access to me. I'm putting all of 99 00:06:15.480 --> 00:06:19.160 this onto you. And there is a specific code that 100 00:06:19.199 --> 00:06:22.519 you can use to activate a timeline where you're in 101 00:06:22.519 --> 00:06:25.319 a surrendered state. And basically what you would say is 102 00:06:25.759 --> 00:06:28.439 I cast the burden of my dating life upon the 103 00:06:28.519 --> 00:06:31.519 Christ within. I'm gonna let Divinity take care of it 104 00:06:31.600 --> 00:06:34.319 for me. I'm casting the burden of my dating life 105 00:06:34.399 --> 00:06:37.319 upon the Christ within, and I'm letting Divinity take care 106 00:06:37.319 --> 00:06:39.879 of it for me. So I said a little surrender 107 00:06:39.959 --> 00:06:44.040 statement in the car. I said, I'm not going to 108 00:06:44.279 --> 00:06:47.160 use these apps. I'm gonna trust you God that at 109 00:06:47.160 --> 00:06:49.759 the right time, in the right moment, in the right season, 110 00:06:49.800 --> 00:06:52.920 at the right place, nothing will be able to stop 111 00:06:52.959 --> 00:06:56.199 the right person You're sending me nothing. And I don't 112 00:06:56.279 --> 00:07:01.120 need to have this app as almost a back entrance 113 00:07:01.399 --> 00:07:05.720 just in case, because I now realize my energy towards 114 00:07:05.720 --> 00:07:08.439 the app was just in case God doesn't know how 115 00:07:08.480 --> 00:07:10.480 to figure it out out there. I'll have this app 116 00:07:10.519 --> 00:07:12.279 so they can find me. I don't need to have 117 00:07:12.319 --> 00:07:14.519 the freaking app so they can find me. I trust 118 00:07:14.560 --> 00:07:17.279 that God will do the damn thing. It was fun 119 00:07:18.079 --> 00:07:20.720 while I had it, and I love this season I 120 00:07:20.759 --> 00:07:24.759 had with it, and my last long term relationship the 121 00:07:24.800 --> 00:07:27.000 seven years, was from a dating app. So that's all 122 00:07:27.000 --> 00:07:29.439 fine and dandy, but just for me in this season, 123 00:07:29.519 --> 00:07:33.120 I know it's not in alignment with me anymore. And 124 00:07:33.199 --> 00:07:36.480 I swear to you. After I said God, I'm putting 125 00:07:36.480 --> 00:07:39.279 this into your hands, I walk out of my car 126 00:07:39.560 --> 00:07:42.800 and this man is screaming. I didn't know he was 127 00:07:42.839 --> 00:07:45.120 screaming at me. At first, he rolls down his window 128 00:07:45.160 --> 00:07:49.160 and he's screaming, skin, skin, skin, you have beautiful skin. 129 00:07:49.240 --> 00:07:53.680 And I turn around because I'm who's this person screaming 130 00:07:53.680 --> 00:07:55.959 at I have to look, and he points to me. 131 00:07:56.000 --> 00:07:58.720 He goes you, you have beautiful skin. You have beautiful skin. 132 00:07:58.759 --> 00:08:00.120 You have beautiful skin. And I was like, oh, oh 133 00:08:00.120 --> 00:08:02.160 my God, thank you so much. You're so kind or 134 00:08:02.160 --> 00:08:06.399 so nice. And I just started laughing because already I 135 00:08:06.600 --> 00:08:09.560 just deleted the app. I just said a surrender statement, 136 00:08:09.600 --> 00:08:14.720 and already God is showing me the men already showing me. Look, 137 00:08:15.120 --> 00:08:17.120 this is just a little trailer, a little tastes, a 138 00:08:17.160 --> 00:08:20.000 little appetizer, but look what I'm gonna do in your life. 139 00:08:20.480 --> 00:08:22.360 And then I swear to you. I go into the 140 00:08:22.399 --> 00:08:25.279 coffee shop that I always go into, which by the way, 141 00:08:25.399 --> 00:08:28.519 is usually me and ninety seven year old women. That's all. 142 00:08:28.560 --> 00:08:31.439 That's why I love this coffee shop because it's just 143 00:08:31.480 --> 00:08:33.960 the cutest place on planet Earth. And it's a magical, 144 00:08:34.000 --> 00:08:37.759 mystical portal. It's there's a garden there. Okay, don't mess 145 00:08:37.799 --> 00:08:41.799 with this coffee shop. It is magic. Never are there 146 00:08:41.919 --> 00:08:46.000 any really men there that are even close to my age. 147 00:08:46.519 --> 00:08:49.519 Two attractive men happen to be in the coffee shop 148 00:08:49.559 --> 00:08:53.240 that day, both near my age, and I'm I'm hearing 149 00:08:53.240 --> 00:08:56.480 God speak to me. Look look look ha ha ha 150 00:08:56.480 --> 00:08:58.879 ha ha. It was like he was laughing, like he 151 00:08:58.919 --> 00:09:01.840 has a sense of humor. He was like, hey, ha ha, look, 152 00:09:01.879 --> 00:09:04.399 I'm just showing you a taste of what I'm gonna 153 00:09:04.399 --> 00:09:07.120 do in your life now that you actually fully surrendered 154 00:09:07.120 --> 00:09:09.759 to me. Cc you were saying you were surrendered, and 155 00:09:09.840 --> 00:09:12.039 you were. If someone wanted to leave your life, you 156 00:09:12.120 --> 00:09:14.120 let them. If someone came in, you would see what 157 00:09:14.159 --> 00:09:16.279 they were all about. But you had this app as 158 00:09:16.320 --> 00:09:18.559 a little backdoor entrance because you didn't fully put your 159 00:09:18.600 --> 00:09:20.200 trust in me. And now you do, and look at 160 00:09:20.240 --> 00:09:23.840 what I'm gonna do in your life. I'm sharing this 161 00:09:23.919 --> 00:09:30.240 story because maybe you need to hear this surrender your 162 00:09:30.240 --> 00:09:33.879 love life to God. And I'm so I have such 163 00:09:34.720 --> 00:09:38.120 a heart opening right now because I am so excited 164 00:09:38.720 --> 00:09:43.279 to be your experiment. We're gonna see what happens because 165 00:09:43.320 --> 00:09:47.159 maybe you don't believe in God or divinity or anything. Well, 166 00:09:47.240 --> 00:09:49.840 we're gonna watch my life unfold and we're gonna see 167 00:09:49.879 --> 00:09:52.840 what the hell happens. We're effing around and we're about 168 00:09:52.879 --> 00:09:56.600 to find out. That's what we're doing. So if you're 169 00:09:56.639 --> 00:10:00.159 not ready to surrender, that's okay. You can watch that's 170 00:10:00.159 --> 00:10:03.720 my experience, and go get your popcorn and you can 171 00:10:03.799 --> 00:10:05.879 get your tea and we're going to see what happens. 172 00:10:05.879 --> 00:10:07.799 But I wanted to give you an update on where 173 00:10:07.840 --> 00:10:10.600 my mind is at and what I'm thinking about and 174 00:10:10.639 --> 00:10:12.279 what I'm doing in my life, because you know I'm 175 00:10:12.279 --> 00:10:13.000 taking you with me. 176 00:10:13.600 --> 00:10:17.240 Why get all your holiday decorations delivered through instacart Because 177 00:10:17.519 --> 00:10:20.879 maybe you only bought two wreaths but you have twelve windows, 178 00:10:21.080 --> 00:10:24.360 Or maybe your toddler got very eager with the advent calendar, 179 00:10:24.519 --> 00:10:27.679 or maybe the inflatable snowman didn't make it through the snowstorm, 180 00:10:27.919 --> 00:10:31.720 or maybe the twinkle lights aren't twinkling. 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Service fees 196 00:11:13.840 --> 00:11:14.559 and terms apply. 197 00:11:15.720 --> 00:11:18.200 And I want God to use me as an instrument, 198 00:11:18.840 --> 00:11:21.080 Use me as an example of what you can do 199 00:11:21.159 --> 00:11:24.679 in people's life when they surrender to you and when 200 00:11:24.720 --> 00:11:28.279 they rely on you seriously. The Lord is my shepherd. 201 00:11:28.320 --> 00:11:32.000 I lack nothing, Psalm twenty three. The Lord is my shepherd. 202 00:11:32.080 --> 00:11:35.240 I lack nothing. At the right time and the right place, 203 00:11:35.360 --> 00:11:37.600 all will be given to me. Now this doesn't mean 204 00:11:37.639 --> 00:11:39.519 you should delete your dating apps, but if you've been 205 00:11:39.559 --> 00:11:45.399 thinking about this, maybe this is your confirmation. Sit with it. Okay, 206 00:11:45.799 --> 00:11:48.320 we didn't even get into what I want to talk 207 00:11:48.360 --> 00:11:52.720 about in this episode yet. That was just a little intro. 208 00:11:54.799 --> 00:11:57.279 Before we do get into it, I have to show you. 209 00:11:57.279 --> 00:11:57.639 Guys. 210 00:11:58.399 --> 00:12:02.200 They say the perfect stack doesn't exist until you see this. 211 00:12:02.799 --> 00:12:07.879 Look how beautiful these beads are. I have Tiger's Eye, 212 00:12:08.480 --> 00:12:12.960 I have Clear Courts, and I have garn It. I 213 00:12:13.080 --> 00:12:16.480 recently have started to work with this company. We're doing 214 00:12:16.519 --> 00:12:20.600 a little collab and they're called Otter Spirit. They have 215 00:12:20.679 --> 00:12:25.240 the most beautiful beads and I put these on. I 216 00:12:25.279 --> 00:12:27.200 don't know if you know this, but sometimes when you 217 00:12:27.240 --> 00:12:32.000 go to a gem or crystal store, the gems feel 218 00:12:32.360 --> 00:12:37.039 light and fake. These are authentic beads and you can 219 00:12:37.200 --> 00:12:41.000 feel how abundant they are. The way they feel is 220 00:12:41.159 --> 00:12:44.720 just so magical. And I've tried on so many different brands. 221 00:12:45.159 --> 00:12:48.000 Otter Spirit is doing magic in my life right now. 222 00:12:48.559 --> 00:12:54.440 I picked these three mini beads because this is Capricorn supporting, 223 00:12:54.480 --> 00:12:58.360 and I'm a Capricorn Sun and Capricorn's sons are really 224 00:12:58.399 --> 00:13:01.039 supported by Garnic because that's our birth stone, Tiger's Eye, 225 00:13:01.039 --> 00:13:03.240 which is very grounding for the Earth. And then this 226 00:13:03.360 --> 00:13:06.279 Clear Court. And what I love about this company is 227 00:13:06.440 --> 00:13:09.480 not only does some of the proceeds go to helping 228 00:13:09.559 --> 00:13:13.200 baby Otters and Otters in general. But also they give 229 00:13:13.240 --> 00:13:16.519 you a little affirmation card that goes along with your 230 00:13:16.799 --> 00:13:19.840 gem bracelet, or you can get earrings, whatever you want, 231 00:13:19.879 --> 00:13:22.399 a necklace. So I really love how it's just so 232 00:13:23.279 --> 00:13:28.200 thought out. And not only do I feel an amazing 233 00:13:28.360 --> 00:13:32.919 energy from these bracelets, but I feel like the packaging 234 00:13:33.120 --> 00:13:36.320 and the affirmation card is just so thoughtful, and I 235 00:13:36.399 --> 00:13:40.240 really only want to connect with thoughtful, thoughtful brands. They're 236 00:13:40.279 --> 00:13:43.320 a family owned business. If you're looking to get any 237 00:13:43.360 --> 00:13:47.960 sort of crystals or gems jewelry that you want to 238 00:13:48.159 --> 00:13:53.080 help you heal or support your current journey, maybe in love, 239 00:13:53.279 --> 00:13:55.759 or to be in alignment with your sign, definitely check 240 00:13:55.759 --> 00:14:00.000 out Otter Spirit. And I even have a special discoat 241 00:14:00.080 --> 00:14:03.519 out code for you. I'm going to put a link 242 00:14:03.600 --> 00:14:06.600 in the bio that will allow you to just go 243 00:14:06.679 --> 00:14:09.159 to the website. But if you want to get twenty 244 00:14:09.159 --> 00:14:14.240 percent off, you can use CC twenty CICII twenty and 245 00:14:14.519 --> 00:14:18.600 you will get a twenty percent discount for each purchase. 246 00:14:19.399 --> 00:14:22.279 I'm telling you you don't want to sleep on this brand. 247 00:14:22.720 --> 00:14:25.799 It feels amazing. I feel so grounded just knowing I 248 00:14:25.840 --> 00:14:29.639 have this on me and it feels abundant. Like I said, 249 00:14:29.879 --> 00:14:32.600 if you're not yet following me on Instagram at vibein 250 00:14:32.679 --> 00:14:35.039 with CC, be sure to follow me there because I 251 00:14:35.080 --> 00:14:39.120 share daily tips and tricks on magnetic energy and channeled 252 00:14:39.200 --> 00:14:42.159 message and source codes that you can use to activate 253 00:14:42.200 --> 00:14:45.519 your most magnetic timeline. I am telling you, if you've 254 00:14:45.600 --> 00:14:49.080 not yet joined one of my courses, you're waiting for 255 00:14:49.200 --> 00:14:51.879 magic to unfolds in your life. When you can activate 256 00:14:51.879 --> 00:14:54.200 that magic to unfold by taking one of my courses, 257 00:14:54.639 --> 00:14:56.519 I have the Art of Alchemy. If you want to 258 00:14:56.559 --> 00:14:59.080 learn how to turn your trauma into your power, your 259 00:14:59.120 --> 00:15:02.120 pain into your power, your pain into getting hotter, healthy, 260 00:15:02.399 --> 00:15:07.720 and wealthier, this course will be for you. There are activations, meditations, 261 00:15:07.840 --> 00:15:11.559 journal prompts, dynamic video lessons. I will hold your hand 262 00:15:11.559 --> 00:15:16.039 throughout the process of transmuting these difficult life circumstances into 263 00:15:16.320 --> 00:15:19.759 power to get the life that you want, because why 264 00:15:19.799 --> 00:15:22.600 get mad when you can get everything? And another one 265 00:15:22.600 --> 00:15:25.759 of my courses that I recently released is the Shadow Alchemy. 266 00:15:26.200 --> 00:15:29.360 If you're noticing you're not attracting the best people, you're 267 00:15:29.440 --> 00:15:32.919 gonna want to take a step back, alchemize, integrate your 268 00:15:32.960 --> 00:15:36.279 shadow so you can attract better people for you. Also, 269 00:15:36.320 --> 00:15:38.039 if you want to feel more empowered, you want to 270 00:15:38.080 --> 00:15:40.320 place all of yourself on the pedestal, not just the 271 00:15:40.320 --> 00:15:42.799 parts of you that you like, then the Shadow Alchemy 272 00:15:42.840 --> 00:15:45.600 course is definitely for you. I also have a twenty 273 00:15:45.600 --> 00:15:47.759 one day Breakup Glow Up Challenge. If you're going through 274 00:15:47.759 --> 00:15:50.879 a breakup, you'll have so many tools there, and a 275 00:15:50.919 --> 00:15:53.639 Pedestal Path course which is all about placing yourself on 276 00:15:53.639 --> 00:15:57.639 the pedestal. Without further ado, let's get into today's episode. 277 00:15:57.879 --> 00:16:01.279 Let's get back to that secret power that I was 278 00:16:01.360 --> 00:16:04.480 referencing at the top of this podcast, the one that 279 00:16:04.559 --> 00:16:09.639 you have forgotten to harness, integrate, and use properly. There 280 00:16:09.759 --> 00:16:15.559 is a silent influence that is at work in your life. 281 00:16:15.679 --> 00:16:19.679 It attracts certain things towards you and repels other things 282 00:16:19.840 --> 00:16:26.519 away from you. This silent influence, it's your energy. Your 283 00:16:26.679 --> 00:16:30.120 energy is your power. But here's the thing that we 284 00:16:30.279 --> 00:16:34.320 rarely talk about. Your energy is your power. Okay, fine, 285 00:16:35.639 --> 00:16:41.639 but your awareness dictates your energy, which dictates your power. 286 00:16:42.519 --> 00:16:46.840 So really, if we break this down, your awareness is 287 00:16:46.879 --> 00:16:51.279 your greatest weapon. It is your greatest weapon. What you 288 00:16:51.480 --> 00:16:55.679 pay attention to that is your power. What you are 289 00:16:55.879 --> 00:17:01.600 consciously focusing on that is your power. You are perceiving, 290 00:17:02.080 --> 00:17:05.839 that is your power. You are this channel and based 291 00:17:05.880 --> 00:17:08.519 on what you're perceiving, what you're aware of, what you're 292 00:17:08.519 --> 00:17:13.359 focusing on, that creates your energy, which then repels and attracts. 293 00:17:14.039 --> 00:17:16.240 We need to go to the root of your energy, 294 00:17:16.279 --> 00:17:21.000 which is your awareness, what you're focusing on, what you're 295 00:17:21.039 --> 00:17:24.920 giving your attention to. For me, with the dating apps, 296 00:17:25.000 --> 00:17:26.799 I felt like it was taking so much of my 297 00:17:26.880 --> 00:17:29.359 awareness and my attention off of me and what I'm 298 00:17:29.400 --> 00:17:32.039 trying to build and putting it into people that I'm 299 00:17:32.079 --> 00:17:35.279 never actually going to meet or connect with. It was 300 00:17:35.440 --> 00:17:39.240 low level conversations that were boring to me. It wasn't 301 00:17:39.279 --> 00:17:42.880 about ancient Egypt. It wasn't I would bring up ancient 302 00:17:42.920 --> 00:17:45.839 Egypt and almost every one of my conversations anyway, but 303 00:17:45.920 --> 00:17:50.920 they had nothing to say back. It wasn't about being 304 00:17:51.000 --> 00:17:54.319 conscious or energy. And yeah, of course there were really 305 00:17:54.400 --> 00:17:56.400 nice people that I've aligned with. I don't want to 306 00:17:56.799 --> 00:18:01.839 shun that experience, and it was fun, but at this 307 00:18:02.119 --> 00:18:06.519 point in my life, I realize, you know, what I 308 00:18:06.599 --> 00:18:10.920 actually need more and this isn't sustaining me. It's giving 309 00:18:11.000 --> 00:18:13.960 crumbs and I'm really ready for more of a loaf. 310 00:18:15.599 --> 00:18:17.839 My awareness is my power, and if I keep giving 311 00:18:17.839 --> 00:18:21.200 it to conversations to other people, whether it's I'm teaching 312 00:18:21.200 --> 00:18:23.559 them energetic law I don't even know them, or I'm 313 00:18:23.559 --> 00:18:26.160 having to explain why I'm really interested in something or 314 00:18:26.240 --> 00:18:29.720 explain a concept, well, I'm taking that energy away from 315 00:18:30.079 --> 00:18:33.240 what I'm trying to build, my podcast, my content, my 316 00:18:33.359 --> 00:18:36.160 work books, my courses, books that I want to write. 317 00:18:36.160 --> 00:18:42.119 In general, my awareness was being tainted, and therefore my 318 00:18:42.319 --> 00:18:46.759 energy was being depleted and my power was diminishing. I 319 00:18:46.839 --> 00:18:50.839 was misusing my awareness, which caused my energy to be depleted, 320 00:18:51.200 --> 00:18:55.680 which caused a distortion in my power. I wasn't using 321 00:18:55.759 --> 00:19:00.759 my awareness in a way that was uplifting me. I 322 00:19:00.799 --> 00:19:05.119 think that it's important that we take a look at 323 00:19:05.200 --> 00:19:10.759 the astrological weather if we can for a second. Right now, 324 00:19:11.000 --> 00:19:16.000 Venus is transiting through Capricorn, and this will affect everyone, 325 00:19:16.079 --> 00:19:19.359 regardless of what houses in what you know. I'm not 326 00:19:19.720 --> 00:19:24.359 a huge astrology girally, but I do pay attention to 327 00:19:24.599 --> 00:19:27.759 certain transits because they do affect us. As above sull 328 00:19:27.759 --> 00:19:31.599 below the law of correspondence Venus and Capricorn. What's going 329 00:19:31.640 --> 00:19:34.680 on right now can bring a more practical and responsible 330 00:19:34.720 --> 00:19:38.039 approach to love, beauty, and values. People might focus on 331 00:19:38.079 --> 00:19:43.079 building stronger, longer term relationships, and they might also prioritize 332 00:19:43.160 --> 00:19:48.279 commitment and stability. Without me even realizing that Venus was 333 00:19:48.359 --> 00:19:54.200 transitting through Capricorn, I was already feeling this. I was feeling, 334 00:19:54.200 --> 00:19:56.440 you know what, I want to focus on what I 335 00:19:56.480 --> 00:20:00.240 can really build that's going to lead to stability, that's 336 00:20:00.240 --> 00:20:02.920 going to lead to a great foundation. And the connections 337 00:20:02.920 --> 00:20:05.680 I'm making through this app aren't leading to that really, 338 00:20:06.359 --> 00:20:08.200 and the people who want that from me I don't 339 00:20:08.240 --> 00:20:12.559 want it with. So therefore, what can I build stability with? 340 00:20:12.599 --> 00:20:15.880 What can I have commitment to? I can recommit to 341 00:20:15.880 --> 00:20:18.039 what I'm building in my own life. I can recommit 342 00:20:18.079 --> 00:20:20.799 to myself and I can value that I'm going to 343 00:20:20.880 --> 00:20:24.160 take care of me in the best way possible. It's 344 00:20:24.200 --> 00:20:28.279 a great time to reevaluate what we value in relationships 345 00:20:28.599 --> 00:20:31.279 and work on creating a sense of security and trust. 346 00:20:31.519 --> 00:20:36.319 I want you to become reaware, recognisant of what you 347 00:20:36.480 --> 00:20:41.000 actually value in a relationship. I value intelligence. Someone who 348 00:20:41.079 --> 00:20:43.960 cares about their health, has a relationship to God and 349 00:20:44.079 --> 00:20:47.799 is interested in the unseen world. What do you value 350 00:20:48.480 --> 00:20:50.799 and what do you want? Someone who's fun is just 351 00:20:50.839 --> 00:20:53.079 not enough for me. Someone who's dilly dilling is not 352 00:20:53.279 --> 00:20:56.319 enough for me. Someone who does not understand commitment and 353 00:20:56.359 --> 00:20:59.480 they're like in their thirties. I don't know what they 354 00:20:59.480 --> 00:21:01.559 came here to experience. So I can't hate on that 355 00:21:01.640 --> 00:21:04.559 they're on their own soul journey, but I just know, oh, 356 00:21:04.599 --> 00:21:06.799 that's not for me. I'm going to create proximity from 357 00:21:06.960 --> 00:21:12.640 that situation. In terms of beauty and creativity, Venus in 358 00:21:12.680 --> 00:21:18.519 Capricorn can inspire a more elegant and refined approach. Yes, 359 00:21:18.839 --> 00:21:20.680 that is why I'm pulling back my energy from this 360 00:21:20.759 --> 00:21:23.920 app and all of these people. I want a more 361 00:21:25.640 --> 00:21:28.559 elegant and refined approach on how I'm even using my 362 00:21:28.720 --> 00:21:30.960 energy in my day to day life. No, not everyone 363 00:21:30.960 --> 00:21:34.160 can feed on me. Sorry not sorry. Overall, Venus and 364 00:21:34.200 --> 00:21:38.039 Capricorn can help us cultivate a sense of maturity, discipline, 365 00:21:38.079 --> 00:21:42.720 and responsibility in our relationships and creative pursuits. I want 366 00:21:42.759 --> 00:21:46.599 to take this time to energetically invite you to get 367 00:21:46.640 --> 00:21:49.720 focused on building stability in your life. Maybe this is 368 00:21:49.759 --> 00:21:53.920 a time that we're asking ourselves what needs my focus. 369 00:21:54.079 --> 00:21:56.440 Where do I need to be more disciplined? Is it 370 00:21:56.559 --> 00:22:00.000 my relationships? Is it my career? Is it my creative endeavor? 371 00:22:00.240 --> 00:22:04.039 Isn't my home life? Where do I need more attention? 372 00:22:04.640 --> 00:22:08.240 What wants to build in my life? Or what do 373 00:22:08.279 --> 00:22:10.599 I want to build in my life? And the only 374 00:22:10.640 --> 00:22:12.400 way I can build it is if I feed it 375 00:22:12.440 --> 00:22:15.960 my energy. Whatever you feed with your energy is what 376 00:22:16.119 --> 00:22:18.880 is going to grow. If you're feeding relationships that are 377 00:22:18.920 --> 00:22:22.559 not going anywhere, you're watering dead flowers. You want to 378 00:22:22.599 --> 00:22:25.000 feed what you want to grow, but you also want 379 00:22:25.039 --> 00:22:29.720 to feed what's receptive to your energy. It's twofold. It's 380 00:22:29.759 --> 00:22:31.720 not just about what do I want to grow? It's 381 00:22:31.759 --> 00:22:35.000 also well, where am I getting a return on investment? 382 00:22:35.400 --> 00:22:37.640 If the brads and the childs of the world don't 383 00:22:37.680 --> 00:22:40.839 want to commit to you, stop feeding them your energy. 384 00:22:40.960 --> 00:22:44.960 Take it back, say I lovingly and peacefully call all 385 00:22:45.000 --> 00:22:48.319 of my power back to me now, and refocus on 386 00:22:48.400 --> 00:22:51.799 what you can build and sustain in your own life. 387 00:22:52.279 --> 00:22:59.759 Refocus on you, surrender everything else. Refocus on the controllables, 388 00:23:00.000 --> 00:23:04.200 Control the controllables, and surrender everything else. I want to 389 00:23:04.240 --> 00:23:07.400 remind you that the Divine is always with you and 390 00:23:07.519 --> 00:23:11.680 always watching you and always supporting you. You are being 391 00:23:11.720 --> 00:23:14.359 cradled by the divine. You are being held by the divine, 392 00:23:14.400 --> 00:23:17.039 and you're not alone in this process. You are a 393 00:23:17.079 --> 00:23:20.599 co creator, not the sole creator. So even if you're 394 00:23:20.640 --> 00:23:24.039 going into a business venture by yourself, or doing a 395 00:23:24.039 --> 00:23:26.920 creative hobby that no one really understands, or taking a 396 00:23:26.920 --> 00:23:29.279 break from dating when all your friends are getting married, 397 00:23:29.640 --> 00:23:35.200 you're not doing that alone. In fact, you may just 398 00:23:35.200 --> 00:23:38.319 be doing it with me. Hello, how are you? How 399 00:23:38.359 --> 00:23:42.359 you doing? I understand that feeling while all of my 400 00:23:42.440 --> 00:23:46.519 friends and cousins and everyone are getting engaged. I broke 401 00:23:46.559 --> 00:23:49.759