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Speaker 3: so you don't have to go from room to room
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Speaker 4: Apply, andeny cancit so high ecstasy can not Sorry, Andy,
Speaker 4: what's up? Positive bitches? How are we doing today? Or
Speaker 4: should I say howdy partner? If you're watching on YouTube,
Speaker 4: I'm giving country today that is neither here nor there.
Speaker 4: I just thought I would mention it. As you know,
Speaker 4: if you're hearing this episode, then you are meant to
Speaker 4: be here. All that Bitch is Positive podcast. Sometimes we
Speaker 4: will laugh. Other times, Baby, we may cry, but we
Speaker 4: will always walk away feeling our most empowered positive bitch self.
Speaker 4: That is Babe in true connection with herself. On this podcast,
Speaker 4: we unbecome who we are not so we can fully
Speaker 4: step into exactly who we came here to be. Today.
Speaker 4: I've been sent to tell you, remind you, and empower
Speaker 4: you to access an ability you seem to have forgotten
Speaker 4: to use. Yeah, you have this ability that's innate within
Speaker 4: you that you've not been utilizing, and if you would,
Speaker 4: it would make your life oh so much better. Today.
Speaker 4: It is finally time that you remember not only that
Speaker 4: you have this power within you, but how to harness it.
Speaker 4: This episode was inspired by our recent eleven eleven portal,
Speaker 4: I've decided to make some changes. I was sitting outside
Speaker 4: of the usual coffee shop that I do a lot
Speaker 4: of my work in my courses. I create there my workbooks.
Speaker 4: On this eleven eleven portal, I had in my mind
Speaker 4: a channel's message that I got a couple of days before,
Speaker 4: and that message was one right action is more powerful
Speaker 4: than a hundred wrong thoughts. You can also say one
Speaker 4: positive action is more powerful than one hundred negative thoughts.
Speaker 4: The channel message shows us that action is more powerful
Speaker 4: than just a thought form because action is thought reinforced.
Speaker 4: You can think, oh, I'm not going to go back
Speaker 4: to that X, but actively not only thinking it, deciding it,
Speaker 4: and then using your body to create proximity from them
Speaker 4: and not going back to them. That action is thought empowered,
Speaker 4: thought reinforced. It's more powerful than any thought you can have.
Speaker 4: And I just saw one one one. Knowing that I
Speaker 4: recently had this channeled message that my actions are more
Speaker 4: powerful than my thoughts, knowing that it's the eleven to
Speaker 4: eleven portal, I knew that any action I took on
Speaker 4: this day was going to have this empowered effect on
Speaker 4: my life. And I've recently been feeling like I just
Speaker 4: was and having enjoyment on the dating app anymore. I
Speaker 4: had to, so I decided to delete one of them.
Speaker 4: And then I was thinking to myself, I kind of
Speaker 4: just want to get rid of everything. So I went
Speaker 4: ahead and I deleted the last dating app that I had.
Speaker 4: I've only ever had two, and I deleted the second one,
Speaker 4: and I immediately felt so free. And that's how you
Speaker 4: know you make the right decision. Sometimes you don't know
Speaker 4: you made a right decision until after the fact you
Speaker 4: have to do it, and then the emotional response you
Speaker 4: get from your body afterwards, you're like, oh, okay, I
Speaker 4: know I made the right decision now. It was too
Speaker 4: hard to tell prior. But now that I've actually went
Speaker 4: ahead and decided and took an actionable step, I feel relief.
Speaker 4: And that's what I felt. I felt relief, and I
Speaker 4: realized I don't want to feel like I'm in on
Speaker 4: demand service that all of these people at any time
Speaker 4: could just swipe right on me and then have access
Speaker 4: to me. I work so hard on my energy and
Speaker 4: my mindset and my body. I don't want anyone at
Speaker 4: any time to be able to just gain access to me,
Speaker 4: and yeah, I have to accept them back, but the
Speaker 4: fact that they can even swipe on me just started
Speaker 4: to feel wrong in my body. Even if they don't
Speaker 4: have direct access, well they think they do, and that
Speaker 4: just doesn't sit right with me anymore at this point
Speaker 4: in my journey. Could I change my mind one day, maybe,
Speaker 4: but right now I'm so strong in this feeling. So
Speaker 4: I'm in the car, I delete the app. I feel relief,
Speaker 4: and I literally said to God, this is my ultimate
Speaker 4: act of surrender. I trust God more than anything on
Speaker 4: this planet, more than I just trust God more than anything.
Speaker 4: And I said to God, I'm putting my love life
Speaker 4: in your hands. I'm not going to try to pursue
Speaker 4: not that I was doing that anyway, but I'm not
Speaker 4: even going to have this opening on this app where
Speaker 4: anyone can gain access to me. I'm putting all of
Speaker 4: this onto you. And there is a specific code that
Speaker 4: you can use to activate a timeline where you're in
Speaker 4: a surrendered state. And basically what you would say is
Speaker 4: I cast the burden of my dating life upon the
Speaker 4: Christ within. I'm gonna let Divinity take care of it
Speaker 4: for me. I'm casting the burden of my dating life
Speaker 4: upon the Christ within, and I'm letting Divinity take care
Speaker 4: of it for me. So I said a little surrender
Speaker 4: statement in the car. I said, I'm not going to
Speaker 4: use these apps. I'm gonna trust you God that at
Speaker 4: the right time, in the right moment, in the right season,
Speaker 4: at the right place, nothing will be able to stop
Speaker 4: the right person You're sending me nothing. And I don't
Speaker 4: need to have this app as almost a back entrance
Speaker 4: just in case, because I now realize my energy towards
Speaker 4: the app was just in case God doesn't know how
Speaker 4: to figure it out out there. I'll have this app
Speaker 4: so they can find me. I don't need to have
Speaker 4: the freaking app so they can find me. I trust
Speaker 4: that God will do the damn thing. It was fun
Speaker 4: while I had it, and I love this season I
Speaker 4: had with it, and my last long term relationship the
Speaker 4: seven years, was from a dating app. So that's all
Speaker 4: fine and dandy, but just for me in this season,
Speaker 4: I know it's not in alignment with me anymore. And
Speaker 4: I swear to you. After I said God, I'm putting
Speaker 4: this into your hands, I walk out of my car
Speaker 4: and this man is screaming. I didn't know he was
Speaker 4: screaming at me. At first, he rolls down his window
Speaker 4: and he's screaming, skin, skin, skin, you have beautiful skin.
Speaker 4: And I turn around because I'm who's this person screaming
Speaker 4: at I have to look, and he points to me.
Speaker 4: He goes you, you have beautiful skin. You have beautiful skin.
Speaker 4: You have beautiful skin. And I was like, oh, oh
Speaker 4: my God, thank you so much. You're so kind or
Speaker 4: so nice. And I just started laughing because already I
Speaker 4: just deleted the app. I just said a surrender statement,
Speaker 4: and already God is showing me the men already showing me. Look,
Speaker 4: this is just a little trailer, a little tastes, a
Speaker 4: little appetizer, but look what I'm gonna do in your life.
Speaker 4: And then I swear to you. I go into the
Speaker 4: coffee shop that I always go into, which by the way,
Speaker 4: is usually me and ninety seven year old women. That's all.
Speaker 4: That's why I love this coffee shop because it's just
Speaker 4: the cutest place on planet Earth. And it's a magical,
Speaker 4: mystical portal. It's there's a garden there. Okay, don't mess
Speaker 4: with this coffee shop. It is magic. Never are there
Speaker 4: any really men there that are even close to my age.
Speaker 4: Two attractive men happen to be in the coffee shop
Speaker 4: that day, both near my age, and I'm I'm hearing
Speaker 4: God speak to me. Look look look ha ha ha
Speaker 4: ha ha. It was like he was laughing, like he
Speaker 4: has a sense of humor. He was like, hey, ha ha, look,
Speaker 4: I'm just showing you a taste of what I'm gonna
Speaker 4: do in your life now that you actually fully surrendered
Speaker 4: to me. Cc you were saying you were surrendered, and
Speaker 4: you were. If someone wanted to leave your life, you
Speaker 4: let them. If someone came in, you would see what
Speaker 4: they were all about. But you had this app as
Speaker 4: a little backdoor entrance because you didn't fully put your
Speaker 4: trust in me. And now you do, and look at
Speaker 4: what I'm gonna do in your life. I'm sharing this
Speaker 4: story because maybe you need to hear this surrender your
Speaker 4: love life to God. And I'm so I have such
Speaker 4: a heart opening right now because I am so excited
Speaker 4: to be your experiment. We're gonna see what happens because
Speaker 4: maybe you don't believe in God or divinity or anything. Well,
Speaker 4: we're gonna watch my life unfold and we're gonna see
Speaker 4: what the hell happens. We're effing around and we're about
Speaker 4: to find out. That's what we're doing. So if you're
Speaker 4: not ready to surrender, that's okay. You can watch that's
Speaker 4: my experience, and go get your popcorn and you can
Speaker 4: get your tea and we're going to see what happens.
Speaker 4: But I wanted to give you an update on where
Speaker 4: my mind is at and what I'm thinking about and
Speaker 4: what I'm doing in my life, because you know I'm
Speaker 4: taking you with me.
Speaker 1: Why get all your holiday decorations delivered through instacart Because
Speaker 1: maybe you only bought two wreaths but you have twelve windows,
Speaker 1: Or maybe your toddler got very eager with the advent calendar,
Speaker 1: or maybe the inflatable snowman didn't make it through the snowstorm,
Speaker 1: or maybe the twinkle lights aren't twinkling. Whatever the reason,
Speaker 1: this season, Instacart's here for hosts and their whole holiday haul.
Speaker 1: Get decorations from the home depots, cvs and more through
Speaker 1: instacart and enjoy free delivery on your first three orders,
Speaker 1: service fees in terms supply.
Speaker 3: The holidays are all about sharing with family, meals, couches, stories,
Speaker 3: Gramma Secret, pecan pie recipe. And now you can also
Speaker 3: share a cart with Instacart's family carts. Everyone can add
Speaker 3: what they want to one group cart from wherever they are,
Speaker 3: so you don't have to go from room to room
Speaker 3: to find out who wants cranberry sauce, or who should
Speaker 3: get many marshmallows for the ams, or collecting votes for
Speaker 3: sugar cookies versus shortbread. Just share a cart and then
Speaker 3: share the meals and the moments. Download the instacart app
Speaker 3: and get delivery in as fast as thirty minutes. Plus
Speaker 3: enjoy free delivery on your first three orders. Service fees
Speaker 3: and terms apply.
Speaker 4: And I want God to use me as an instrument,
Speaker 4: Use me as an example of what you can do
Speaker 4: in people's life when they surrender to you and when
Speaker 4: they rely on you seriously. The Lord is my shepherd.
Speaker 4: I lack nothing, Psalm twenty three. The Lord is my shepherd.
Speaker 4: I lack nothing. At the right time and the right place,
Speaker 4: all will be given to me. Now this doesn't mean
Speaker 4: you should delete your dating apps, but if you've been
Speaker 4: thinking about this, maybe this is your confirmation. Sit with it. Okay,
Speaker 4: we didn't even get into what I want to talk
Speaker 4: about in this episode yet. That was just a little intro.
Speaker 4: Before we do get into it, I have to show you.
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Speaker 4: If you're noticing you're not attracting the best people, you're
Speaker 4: gonna want to take a step back, alchemize, integrate your
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Speaker 4: if you want to feel more empowered, you want to
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Speaker 4: Let's get back to that secret power that I was
Speaker 4: referencing at the top of this podcast, the one that
Speaker 4: you have forgotten to harness, integrate, and use properly. There
Speaker 4: is a silent influence that is at work in your life.
Speaker 4: It attracts certain things towards you and repels other things
Speaker 4: away from you. This silent influence, it's your energy. Your
Speaker 4: energy is your power. But here's the thing that we
Speaker 4: rarely talk about. Your energy is your power. Okay, fine,
Speaker 4: but your awareness dictates your energy, which dictates your power.
Speaker 4: So really, if we break this down, your awareness is
Speaker 4: your greatest weapon. It is your greatest weapon. What you
Speaker 4: pay attention to that is your power. What you are
Speaker 4: consciously focusing on that is your power. You are perceiving,
Speaker 4: that is your power. You are this channel and based
Speaker 4: on what you're perceiving, what you're aware of, what you're
Speaker 4: focusing on, that creates your energy, which then repels and attracts.
Speaker 4: We need to go to the root of your energy,
Speaker 4: which is your awareness, what you're focusing on, what you're
Speaker 4: giving your attention to. For me, with the dating apps,
Speaker 4: I felt like it was taking so much of my
Speaker 4: awareness and my attention off of me and what I'm
Speaker 4: trying to build and putting it into people that I'm
Speaker 4: never actually going to meet or connect with. It was
Speaker 4: low level conversations that were boring to me. It wasn't
Speaker 4: about ancient Egypt. It wasn't I would bring up ancient
Speaker 4: Egypt and almost every one of my conversations anyway, but
Speaker 4: they had nothing to say back. It wasn't about being
Speaker 4: conscious or energy. And yeah, of course there were really
Speaker 4: nice people that I've aligned with. I don't want to
Speaker 4: shun that experience, and it was fun, but at this
Speaker 4: point in my life, I realize, you know, what I
Speaker 4: actually need more and this isn't sustaining me. It's giving
Speaker 4: crumbs and I'm really ready for more of a loaf.
Speaker 4: My awareness is my power, and if I keep giving
Speaker 4: it to conversations to other people, whether it's I'm teaching
Speaker 4: them energetic law I don't even know them, or I'm
Speaker 4: having to explain why I'm really interested in something or
Speaker 4: explain a concept, well, I'm taking that energy away from
Speaker 4: what I'm trying to build, my podcast, my content, my
Speaker 4: work books, my courses, books that I want to write.
Speaker 4: In general, my awareness was being tainted, and therefore my
Speaker 4: energy was being depleted and my power was diminishing. I
Speaker 4: was misusing my awareness, which caused my energy to be depleted,
Speaker 4: which caused a distortion in my power. I wasn't using
Speaker 4: my awareness in a way that was uplifting me. I
Speaker 4: think that it's important that we take a look at
Speaker 4: the astrological weather if we can for a second. Right now,
Speaker 4: Venus is transiting through Capricorn, and this will affect everyone,
Speaker 4: regardless of what houses in what you know. I'm not
Speaker 4: a huge astrology girally, but I do pay attention to
Speaker 4: certain transits because they do affect us. As above sull
Speaker 4: below the law of correspondence Venus and Capricorn. What's going
Speaker 4: on right now can bring a more practical and responsible
Speaker 4: approach to love, beauty, and values. People might focus on
Speaker 4: building stronger, longer term relationships, and they might also prioritize
Speaker 4: commitment and stability. Without me even realizing that Venus was
Speaker 4: transitting through Capricorn, I was already feeling this. I was feeling,
Speaker 4: you know what, I want to focus on what I
Speaker 4: can really build that's going to lead to stability, that's
Speaker 4: going to lead to a great foundation. And the connections
Speaker 4: I'm making through this app aren't leading to that really,
Speaker 4: and the people who want that from me I don't
Speaker 4: want it with. So therefore, what can I build stability with?
Speaker 4: What can I have commitment to? I can recommit to
Speaker 4: what I'm building in my own life. I can recommit
Speaker 4: to myself and I can value that I'm going to
Speaker 4: take care of me in the best way possible. It's
Speaker 4: a great time to reevaluate what we value in relationships
Speaker 4: and work on creating a sense of security and trust.
Speaker 4: I want you to become reaware, recognisant of what you
Speaker 4: actually value in a relationship. I value intelligence. Someone who
Speaker 4: cares about their health, has a relationship to God and
Speaker 4: is interested in the unseen world. What do you value
Speaker 4: and what do you want? Someone who's fun is just
Speaker 4: not enough for me. Someone who's dilly dilling is not
Speaker 4: enough for me. Someone who does not understand commitment and
Speaker 4: they're like in their thirties. I don't know what they
Speaker 4: came here to experience. So I can't hate on that
Speaker 4: they're on their own soul journey, but I just know, oh,
Speaker 4: that's not for me. I'm going to create proximity from
Speaker 4: that situation. In terms of beauty and creativity, Venus in
Speaker 4: Capricorn can inspire a more elegant and refined approach. Yes,
Speaker 4: that is why I'm pulling back my energy from this
Speaker 4: app and all of these people. I want a more
Speaker 4: elegant and refined approach on how I'm even using my
Speaker 4: energy in my day to day life. No, not everyone
Speaker 4: can feed on me. Sorry not sorry. Overall, Venus and
Speaker 4: Capricorn can help us cultivate a sense of maturity, discipline,
Speaker 4: and responsibility in our relationships and creative pursuits. I want
Speaker 4: to take this time to energetically invite you to get
Speaker 4: focused on building stability in your life. Maybe this is
Speaker 4: a time that we're asking ourselves what needs my focus.
Speaker 4: Where do I need to be more disciplined? Is it
Speaker 4: my relationships? Is it my career? Is it my creative endeavor?
Speaker 4: Isn't my home life? Where do I need more attention?
Speaker 4: What wants to build in my life? Or what do
Speaker 4: I want to build in my life? And the only
Speaker 4: way I can build it is if I feed it
Speaker 4: my energy. Whatever you feed with your energy is what
Speaker 4: is going to grow. If you're feeding relationships that are
Speaker 4: not going anywhere, you're watering dead flowers. You want to
Speaker 4: feed what you want to grow, but you also want
Speaker 4: to feed what's receptive to your energy. It's twofold. It's
Speaker 4: not just about what do I want to grow? It's
Speaker 4: also well, where am I getting a return on investment?
Speaker 4: If the brads and the childs of the world don't
Speaker 4: want to commit to you, stop feeding them your energy.
Speaker 4: Take it back, say I lovingly and peacefully call all
Speaker 4: of my power back to me now, and refocus on
Speaker 4: what you can build and sustain in your own life.
Speaker 4: Refocus on you, surrender everything else. Refocus on the controllables,
Speaker 4: Control the controllables, and surrender everything else. I want to
Speaker 4: remind you that the Divine is always with you and
Speaker 4: always watching you and always supporting you. You are being
Speaker 4: cradled by the divine. You are being held by the divine,
Speaker 4: and you're not alone in this process. You are a
Speaker 4: co creator, not the sole creator. So even if you're
Speaker 4: going into a business venture by yourself, or doing a
Speaker 4: creative hobby that no one really understands, or taking a
Speaker 4: break from dating when all your friends are getting married,
Speaker 4: you're not doing that alone. In fact, you may just
Speaker 4: be doing it with me. Hello, how are you? How
Speaker 4: you doing? I understand that feeling while all of my
Speaker 4: friends and cousins and everyone are getting engaged. I broke
Speaker 4: off a seven year relationship that was going towards engagement.
Speaker 4: You're not alone. You do have to surrender, and you
Speaker 4: have to ask yourself is this worth me giving my
Speaker 4: attention to anymore? That relationship was not worth me giving
Speaker 4: my attention to it anymore. The people that I was
Speaker 4: connecting to on the apps were fun, fine, dandy, whatever,
Speaker 4: But I deleted it because the apps are not worth
Speaker 4: my attention anymore. And you know what, it's not just
Speaker 4: about me and it's not just about you. I know
Speaker 4: in my body that I signed on to create certain
Speaker 4: things during this lifetime and those ideas and those books
Speaker 4: and those courses want to be birthed through me. So
Speaker 4: I actually owe it to God and I owe it
Speaker 4: to my incarnation to focus on the things that are
Speaker 4: meant to come through me and only me. And so
Speaker 4: do you. You signed on to create and birth out
Speaker 4: certain projects or circumstances that only you can create. You
Speaker 4: owe it to your soul, contract to God, to your
Speaker 4: spirit team who is cheering you on. You owe it
Speaker 4: to yourself, to your younger child, to get that shit done,
Speaker 4: to do the damn thing. Yes, yes, ma'am, Okay, you
Speaker 4: owe it to yourself to do it. You gotta and
Speaker 4: in order to do it, pedal to the metal, you
Speaker 4: got to actually give your attention to it. Your attention,
Speaker 4: your awareness, your focus, your perception. That is truly your power.
Speaker 4: It's such a simple thing. We don't think about it
Speaker 4: as our power, but it's our greatest source of power
Speaker 4: because it is a vessel in which we create. We
Speaker 4: need to focus on something in order to create it.
Speaker 4: It can't come through us if we don't give our
Speaker 4: attention to it.
Speaker 3: The holidays are all about sharing with family, meals, couches, stories,
Speaker 3: Gramma Secret, pecan pie, recipe, and now you can also
Speaker 3: share a cart with instacrt's family carts. Everyone can add
Speaker 3: what they want to one group cart from wherever they are,
Speaker 3: so you don't have to go from room to room
Speaker 3: to find out who wants cranberry sauce, or who should
Speaker 3: get many marshmallows for the ams, or collecting votes for
Speaker 3: sugar cookies versus shortbread. Just share a cart and then
Speaker 3: share the meals and the moments. Download the instacart app
Speaker 3: and get delivery in as fast as thirty minutes. Plus
Speaker 3: enjoy free delivery on your first three orders. Service fees
Speaker 3: and terms apply.
Speaker 1: Why get all your holiday decorations delivered through instacart Because
Speaker 1: maybe you only bought two wreaths but you have twelve windows,
Speaker 1: Or maybe your toddler got very eager with the advent calendar,
Speaker 1: or maybe the inflatable snowman didn't make it through the snowstorm,
Speaker 1: or maybe the twinkle lights aren't twinkling. Whatever the reason,
Speaker 1: this season, Instacart's here for hosts and their whole holiday hall.
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Speaker 4: The less you feel you need out there, the more
Speaker 4: you're going to attract. The second I deleted that app
Speaker 4: and I thought to myself, you know what I'm done.
Speaker 4: I have a beautiful life. I have so much I'm
Speaker 4: so thankful for. I have God, I have family, I
Speaker 4: have friends. I walk out of my car, someone screaming
Speaker 4: at me that I have beautiful skin, walk into the
Speaker 4: coffee shop. There's men that know this place exist thought
Speaker 4: only Goddess has walked into this portal. The second that
Speaker 4: I deleted it, and I know I heard God say,
Speaker 4: this is just a taste of just like showing you
Speaker 4: as a little joky joke, so so hysterical. God, haa,
Speaker 4: my best stay up there.
Speaker 3: Whatever.
Speaker 4: My point is, the less you feel you need, the
Speaker 4: more you're going to attract. Because in the needing you
Speaker 4: cause resistance, you cause worry. Worrying is worshiping your problems.
Speaker 4: Worrying is like a rocking chair. It gives you something
Speaker 4: to do, but baby, it gets you in nowhere. It's
Speaker 4: a waste of your time. It's a waste of your time.
Speaker 4: Stop worrying about things in your life, because you're just
Speaker 4: cursing yourself. No, no one's evil eyeing you. Okay, you're
Speaker 4: just focused on the wrong things. Your power is your attention,
Speaker 4: your focus, your awareness. It's important that we think about
Speaker 4: this because the second you walk into a room, before
Speaker 4: you speak, before you talk to anyone, before they even
Speaker 4: can understand what you're wearing, your energy is speaking for you.
Speaker 4: The second you walk into a room. You know this.
Speaker 4: When someone walks into a room, you can tell their energy.
Speaker 4: You know what's up. You can tell something's going on
Speaker 4: with that person. Oh they seem sad. Oh they seem
Speaker 4: really confident, you know, just by looking at them. I
Speaker 4: recently was at an energy cloud and I volunteered to
Speaker 4: be the volunteer, and the instructor, Anton was telling us
Speaker 4: how he was going to show us how energy affects
Speaker 4: and influences other people on this plane. So he said
Speaker 4: he intended to push his energy towards me, and we
Speaker 4: were just going to see what was going to happen.
Speaker 4: He was not touching me. He was about five to
Speaker 4: ten feet away from me. He intended, okay, intended. How
Speaker 4: do we do anything? He had to intend to do
Speaker 4: something first in order to do it. How do you
Speaker 4: move your arm? You have to intend to do it.
Speaker 4: How do you apply for a job, You have to
Speaker 4: intend to do it. He intended to infiltrate my force field,
Speaker 4: my work field, and he did this just by pushing
Speaker 4: his energy with his hands and intending to do so.
Speaker 4: And lo and behold. I started to fall backwards. Then
Speaker 4: he went to the right side of me, and it
Speaker 4: starts intending to send his energy, and I start to
Speaker 4: fall towards the left. And then he went behind me,
Speaker 4: starts intending to and his energy, and I start falling forward.
Speaker 4: Not only did I feel his energy pushing me in
Speaker 4: certain directions, I started to sweat. I got so red
Speaker 4: I had to take off my sweater mid mid example,
Speaker 4: because I was sweating. I felt all his energy. And
Speaker 4: the whole entire point of that was we are energetically
Speaker 4: influencing people all the time. You are a natural influencer,
Speaker 4: so am I, because all of our subtle energy bodies
Speaker 4: are influencing one another all of the time. You ever
Speaker 4: notice when you're on a dat or out to dinner,
Speaker 4: you take a sip of water, then they take a
Speaker 4: sip of water. You cross your legs, and then they
Speaker 4: cross their legs. You put your head on your hand
Speaker 4: and then they put their head on their hands. You
Speaker 4: are naturally influencing people all the time. Watch where your
Speaker 4: awareness goes. What are you intending for? What are you
Speaker 4: focusing on? I want you to just play with the
Speaker 4: energetic universe this week and intend to naturally influence people.
Speaker 4: Intend I'm gonna take a sip of their water, and
Speaker 4: then they're going to too. I'm gonna tilt my head
Speaker 4: and then they're going to too. I'm going to take
Speaker 4: a bite of my food and then they are going
Speaker 4: to too. Intend. Watch how powerful your conscious awareness and
Speaker 4: intention is, because that is your real power, and you
Speaker 4: need to wake up to it. You are thinking, oh,
Speaker 4: I have to force matter with matter. No, it is
Speaker 4: frequency over forced. You think I have to be on
Speaker 4: the apps, I have to dress like this, I have
Speaker 4: to do this, I have to do that, I have
Speaker 4: to follow all these rules. No, no, bitch, that's not
Speaker 4: what it's about. It's actually just about being authentic, staying
Speaker 4: on your own pedestal and intending, being aware, being conscious,
Speaker 4: focusing on yourself, giving to yourself. You're already naturally influencing,
Speaker 4: But what are you influencing people to do? Are you
Speaker 4: influencing people to be repelled from you because you give
Speaker 4: them all of your focus and all of your energy.
Speaker 4: Or are you influencing people to come closer to you
Speaker 4: because you're focused on yourself. You have hobbies, activities, you
Speaker 4: have things that you're doing in your life. Either way,
Speaker 4: you are influencing people in your life to act. But
Speaker 4: how are you influencing them? In order to place yourself
Speaker 4: on the pedestal, you have to first take other people
Speaker 4: off your pedestal. And we're going to go into show
Speaker 4: up as her, and we're going to go to page one, p.
Speaker 4: Forty and we're quickly just gonna go over some ways
Speaker 4: to take people off your pedestal. The first way is
Speaker 4: to normalize the bare minimum. Your potential partner texting you back.
Speaker 4: That is normal. That's not grand that's not dandy. That's
Speaker 4: not something to be ecstatic over. It's a text my
Speaker 4: grandma can text you. Is that a big deal? Absolutely?
Speaker 4: Not them liking your story, them commenting on your Instagram,
Speaker 4: them even calling you once a week. None of that
Speaker 4: is crazy. That is a bare minimum. That's really nothing.
Speaker 4: And I don't find that even interesting. Most people are nonchalant,
Speaker 4: and therefore it's not interesting And it's not special and
Speaker 4: it's not safe. It's not no okay. If they can
Speaker 4: play video games with MPCs non player characters on their
Speaker 4: PS five, they can definitely take all five seconds to
Speaker 4: text you. If they are a masculine leading individual, they
Speaker 4: should pay for your dinner. You're paying for your hair
Speaker 4: or your nails, your facials, your makeup, and so much more.
Speaker 4: The least they can do is pick up the tab.
Speaker 4: Bare minimum not interesting. It's what they should do, and
Speaker 4: I don't care what anyone says. It's what a man
Speaker 4: should do or the masculine leading individual in the dynamic.
Speaker 4: They should initiate plans with you. They should try to
Speaker 4: make you feel safe. They should try to meet your needs.
Speaker 4: This should not be glamorized. It is a bare minimum.
Speaker 4: If they cannot seem to do the bare minimum, that
Speaker 4: is a turn off. It's not a moment for you
Speaker 4: to try to prove your work. It's a moment for
Speaker 4: you to see them in all of their truth. We
Speaker 4: gotta walk in the light of the truth. When we
Speaker 4: feel they are pulling away, our first instinct is to
Speaker 4: try to give more, but this only repels them. For
Speaker 4: if giving them some of your energy wasn't appreciated. Giving
Speaker 4: more of your energy won't be appreciated either. Just pull
Speaker 4: your energy back. This brings me to my next point,
Speaker 4: stop overfeeding them. Allowing people to not treat you with
Speaker 4: the utmost respect and love is a symptom of you
Speaker 4: placing them on your pedestal. What would help is putting
Speaker 4: them on an energetic diet. This means no more sending
Speaker 4: them endless amounts of your energy for nothing in return,
Speaker 4: because you are not a bowling ball. If you have
Speaker 4: been overfeeding them with your energy, you're simultaneously starving yourself.
Speaker 4: Shift your focus and your energy will follow. When we
Speaker 4: are chasing them, it's because we are chasing a feeling.
Speaker 4: There are two questions that will help you shift your
Speaker 4: focus and get the feeling you want. What do you
Speaker 4: feel when they are around you? And how can you
Speaker 4: get this feeling outside of them and give it to yourself.
Speaker 4: We don't want anything because of what it is. We
Speaker 4: want it because of how it's going to make us feel.
Speaker 4: You like how they make you feel, and therefore you
Speaker 4: want them around. But how can you give that feeling
Speaker 4: to yourself If they allow you to feel love and
Speaker 4: validated and joyful how can you allow yourself to feel love,
Speaker 4: validated and joyful? Flip the script, ask yourself, what can
Speaker 4: I do for me? How can I make myself feel
Speaker 4: this way? I just have trained myself because yeah, I
Speaker 4: used to be codependent, anxious attachment and try to prove
Speaker 4: myself worthy and now I'm just so turned off. If
Speaker 4: you're nonchalant, if you don't text me, if you don't
Speaker 4: call me, if you don't reach out to me, I
Speaker 4: simply forget you exist. I think you're a low level,
Speaker 4: low energy person and I'm a high level, high level
Speaker 4: energy person, and we're just not in alignment. You know
Speaker 4: when someone is giving you more than the bare minimum.
Speaker 4: You know how because you feel safe with them, you're
Speaker 4: not questioning five thousand times what are we? You actually
Speaker 4: know their intentions, You understand their motives. They're asking to
Speaker 4: see you consistently. There you're going from texting to calling,
Speaker 4: to seeing you more often, to spending more time with you.
Speaker 4: They ask you how are you? They really are not
Speaker 4: just attracted to you. They don't just want to use
Speaker 4: your body as a whole. They actually want to get
Speaker 4: to know you as an individual. They're going to study you.
Speaker 4: They're going to acknowledge you. They're going to if they
Speaker 4: don't know how to meet your needs, try to learn you.
Speaker 4: That's more than the bare minimum. That would then to me,
Speaker 4: I would think, Okay, this person actually deserves my energy.
Speaker 4: But my energy does a lot for me, so I'm
Speaker 4: not just going to give it to anyone. My energy
Speaker 4: is what makes me money. Your energy is what makes
Speaker 4: you money. My energy is what allows me to create
Speaker 4: my perception and my awareness. Your energy is what allows
Speaker 4: you to create. My energy is what allows me to
Speaker 4: feed myself with my own energy, so I don't feel depleted.
Speaker 4: Yours does the same for you. Your energy is the most expensive,
Speaker 4: priceless thing that you have. You have to spend it
Speaker 4: in the right places. Okay. Another way to deep pedestal
Speaker 4: them is to stop ghosting your own needs. How we
Speaker 4: treat ourselves mentally, physically, and energetically will teach other people
Speaker 4: how to treat us too. If they see you do
Speaker 4: not value yourself, they are not going to value you either.
Speaker 4: That is also another reason the other day, when people
Speaker 4: were asking me to hang out, I said this last episode,
Speaker 4: I just said no to everyone because frankly I did
Speaker 4: not want to. But secondly, I needed time with just
Speaker 4: myself in the divine.
Speaker 3: The holidays are all about sharing with family, meals, couches, stories,
Speaker 3: Gramma's secret pecan pie recipe, and now you can also
Speaker 3: share a cart with insta Cart's family carts. Everyone can
Speaker 3: add what they want to one group cart from wherever
Speaker 3: they are, so you don't have to go from room
Speaker 3: to room to find out who wants cranberry sauce, or
Speaker 3: who should get many marshmallows for the ams, or collecting
Speaker 3: votes for sugar cookies versus shortbread. Just share a cart
Speaker 3: and then share the meals and the moments. Download the
Speaker 3: instacart app and get delivery in as fast as thirty minutes.
Speaker 3: Plus enjoy free delivery on your first three orders. Service
Speaker 3: fees and terms apply.
Speaker 1: Why get all your holiday decorations delivered through instacart Because
Speaker 1: maybe you only bought two wreaths but you have twelve windows,
Speaker 1: Or maybe your toddler got very eager with the advent calendar,
Speaker 1: or maybe the inflatable snowman didn't make it the snowstorm,
Speaker 1: or maybe the twinkle lights aren't twinkling. Whatever the reason,
Speaker 1: this season, Instacart's here for hosts and their whole holiday hall,
Speaker 1: get decorations from the home depots, CBS and more through Instacart,
Speaker 1: and enjoy free delivery on your first three orders.
Speaker 2: Service fees and terms supply.
Speaker 4: I give to myself. I buy myself nice things. I
Speaker 4: take myself to nice places. I take time to do
Speaker 4: the hair masks, to do the face mask. I treat
Speaker 4: myself well. I treat my body well. I'm very conscientious
Speaker 4: and cognizant and aware of how I treat myself. If
Speaker 4: someone's not treating me that way, I don't need them,
Speaker 4: and not needing that is actually what attracts so many
Speaker 4: more people towards me. Another way to deep pedal stole
Speaker 4: them is to have non negotiables. I think this is
Speaker 4: really important, especially if you've dealt with anxious attachment and codependency.
Speaker 4: You need to have things that you do regardless of
Speaker 4: who comes in and out of your life. Regardless of
Speaker 4: who comes in and out of my life. I need
Speaker 4: time with the divine. I need to go to yoga.
Speaker 4: I need to create my tiktoks. I need to do
Speaker 4: my podcasts. I need to have my clients. I need
Speaker 4: time to create workbooks and courses and books. I have
Speaker 4: things that I like to do regardless of what's going
Speaker 4: on around me with men that I'm dating. And I
Speaker 4: think this is really important. So you have something you're
Speaker 4: building outside of just building a relationship that makes you
Speaker 4: more magnetic. It makes you feel more confident, and you're
Speaker 4: going to feel like a more fulfilled human being. It
Speaker 4: also will not allow you to be available at any
Speaker 4: given moment. When someone asked me to hang out, well,
Speaker 4: actually no, I can't go out till twelve am tonight
Speaker 4: because I have yoga tomorrow. Well, actually I can't because
Speaker 4: I have a client. Well, I need to write this book.
Speaker 4: I need to spend time with the divine. I am
Speaker 4: not available to just anyone, nor will I ever be,
Speaker 4: and you shouldn't neither. Lastly, what I want to bring
Speaker 4: to you is something I channeled the other day, which
Speaker 4: is that whatever you project, you promote. Whatever image you
Speaker 4: project in your own mind movie is what you're promoting
Speaker 4: in your external world. I want you to promote image
Speaker 4: of yourself as someone who is confident, someone who is capable,
Speaker 4: someone who is a divine portal to other dimensions because
Speaker 4: you are someone who is beautiful, someone who takes care
Speaker 4: of themselves. Start projecting this image. This mind movie in
Speaker 4: your own third eye, in your own little brain. Bring
Speaker 4: that into your awareness, feed that with your energy, feed
Speaker 4: that with your focus every single day. Because what you
Speaker 4: project in here is what you promote out there. People
Speaker 4: will start to see you differently. When you start to
Speaker 4: see yourself differently, people will treat you better when you
Speaker 4: treat yourself better. Thought is the first step, and then
Speaker 4: action can come later. But start just by projecting it.
Speaker 4: Whatever you project, you promote. Say it to yourself. What
Speaker 4: I project, I promote. If I project an image of
Speaker 4: myself internally that is positive, healthy, wealthy, hot, smart, confident,
Speaker 4: and intellectual, all these things. If I project that here,
Speaker 4: I'm going to start to act in accordance to that.
Speaker 4: I keep scratching my microphone like a little kiddy cat. Anyway,
Speaker 4: project that which you want to promote. I love you
Speaker 4: so much. Join the art of alchemy. If you want
Speaker 4: to learn how to transmute your pain into power. You
Speaker 4: want to get hotter, healthier, and wealthier from your hurt,
Speaker 4: Join shadow alchemy if you want to learn to put
Speaker 4: all of yourself on the pedestal, also another way to
Speaker 4: magnetize your energy and put yourself first and get disciplined
Speaker 4: is join one of these courses and place your energy
Speaker 4: where it needs to be on yourself. The amount of
Speaker 4: courses I have done, instilled do to this day, limitless,
Speaker 4: always learning AHWA is cultivating the next version of myself
Speaker 4: while enjoying where I'm at. The sparkle in me honors
Speaker 4: the sparkle in you. All the links, whether you want
Speaker 4: to get some gems, Oh they're so beautiful, I'm obsessed,
Speaker 4: or you want to join a course, get the workbook,
Speaker 4: maybe you want to try a magic mind, all of
Speaker 4: these will all these links will be in the show notes.
Speaker 4: I love you so much and I'll see you in
Speaker 4: the next one.
Speaker 3: The holidays are all about sharing with family, meals, couches, stories,
Speaker 3: gramma secret pecan pie recipe, and now you can also
Speaker 3: share a cart with Insta carts family carts. Everyone can
Speaker 3: add what they want to one group cart from wherever
Speaker 3: they are, so you don't have to go from room
Speaker 3: to room to find out who wants cranberry sauce, or
Speaker 3: who should get many marshmallows for the yams, or collecting
Speaker 3: votes for sugar cookies versus shortbread. Just share a cart
Speaker 3: and then share the meals and the moments, Download the
Speaker 3: instacart app and get to live in as fast as
Speaker 3: thirty minutes, plus enjoy free delivery on your first three orders.
Speaker 3: Service fees and terms apply.
Speaker 1: Why get all your holiday decorations delivered through instacart Because
Speaker 1: maybe you only bought two wreaths but you have twelve windows,
Speaker 1: Or maybe your toddler got very eager with the advent calendar,
Speaker 1: or maybe the inflatable snowman didn't make it through the snowstorm,
Speaker 1: or maybe the twinkle lights aren't twinkling. Whatever the reason,
Speaker 1: this season, Instacart's here for hosts and their whole holiday hall.
Speaker 1: Get decorations from the home depots, cvs and more through
Speaker 1: instacart and enjoy free delivery on your first three orders.
Speaker 2: Service fees and terms apply.