1 00:00:06,559 --> 00:00:09,679 Speaker 1: Hi, my babes, Happy summer, Welcome back to Vanity Farrah. 2 00:00:09,759 --> 00:00:12,000 My name is Chris Farah, and today we're talking ninety 3 00:00:12,000 --> 00:00:16,000 to eight fiance. This is season twelve, episode ten. I'm 4 00:00:16,160 --> 00:00:23,000 questioning everything. Why am I here? Who's me? Who's doing 5 00:00:23,000 --> 00:00:31,199 the thinking? Is there? Thinking? Happening? Is? What? What is anyway? Okay? 6 00:00:31,280 --> 00:00:34,320 So at the same time, I'm excited to talk about 7 00:00:34,359 --> 00:00:37,200 these peeps because this is a great season, like I've said, 8 00:00:37,359 --> 00:00:39,960 and this was a really fun episode to watch, and 9 00:00:40,119 --> 00:00:42,359 I had a lot of you know, good he he 10 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:44,679 haha moments that I want to bring them up to you. 11 00:00:44,880 --> 00:00:46,679 So let's just talk about it, because like, some of 12 00:00:46,719 --> 00:00:48,679 this stuff is so dumb. Sometimes it makes me really 13 00:00:48,719 --> 00:00:50,399 really happy to be like, oh my god, I can't 14 00:00:50,439 --> 00:00:53,479 wait to be like what are you. At the same time, 15 00:00:53,520 --> 00:01:00,759 some things do feel a little cobbled together by users, 16 00:01:00,799 --> 00:01:04,120 like in a meeting not nearly forty five seconds before 17 00:01:04,159 --> 00:01:05,920 they started rolling, to be like what are we going 18 00:01:05,959 --> 00:01:08,040 to have them do? Like have them say this? You know, 19 00:01:08,439 --> 00:01:12,159 sometimes it's like I wonder what would happen if they 20 00:01:12,439 --> 00:01:15,840 just had longer schedules of shooting, which surely would cost more, 21 00:01:16,120 --> 00:01:20,200 but you also had more organic time for things to 22 00:01:20,439 --> 00:01:25,159 actually transpire and then for there to be honest do 23 00:01:25,200 --> 00:01:28,239 you know events on a docu series. I go back 24 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:32,760 and forth. I go back and forth. Okay, I am 25 00:01:32,920 --> 00:01:37,840 excited to start with I'll put them up and then 26 00:01:37,840 --> 00:01:41,680 I'll just start it that way Marissa and Edward. So 27 00:01:42,719 --> 00:01:46,159 here's the thing she's she comes in and she's just like, Edward, 28 00:01:46,799 --> 00:01:49,680 I am so proud of you, and you've done such 29 00:01:49,719 --> 00:01:53,079 a great job getting in touch with my kids and 30 00:01:53,120 --> 00:01:56,120 being nice to my you know, kind of weird ex husband, 31 00:01:56,120 --> 00:01:59,680 and of course taking on me huge, huge things in that. 32 00:01:59,760 --> 00:02:03,159 So I'm going to reward you by doing something fun 33 00:02:03,319 --> 00:02:05,959 or something that you would like or you know whatnot. 34 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:07,719 I'm definitely not gonna yell at you or make you 35 00:02:07,760 --> 00:02:09,960 do any weird tasks and then tell you how bad 36 00:02:09,719 --> 00:02:12,840 I think you did at them. Just kidding. That's exactly 37 00:02:12,879 --> 00:02:15,800 what she does now, is that he didn't take out 38 00:02:15,840 --> 00:02:19,159 the trash, right, She said, take it out and put 39 00:02:19,159 --> 00:02:23,120 it by the curb, and he did something. Now, you 40 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:26,280 would almost think it was a docuseries where there were cameras, 41 00:02:26,680 --> 00:02:29,560 where one of the cameras would be tasked to, I 42 00:02:29,599 --> 00:02:33,199 don't know, go outside and show us what this man 43 00:02:33,280 --> 00:02:37,159 has done, because if we're to be honest with ourselves, 44 00:02:37,159 --> 00:02:42,199 and we always are, he didn't do that fence right. 45 00:02:43,360 --> 00:02:46,840 He didn't do it right. So I want to know 46 00:02:48,080 --> 00:02:50,840 what exactly do these tracks? What is it like? Are 47 00:02:50,840 --> 00:02:53,039 they just toppled over? Are they in the middle of 48 00:02:53,080 --> 00:02:55,400 the driveway like you know, like? Are they in someone 49 00:02:55,400 --> 00:02:57,879 else's curb? Are they just like on the grass like 50 00:02:58,319 --> 00:03:00,960 you know? And at the same time, I think it'd 51 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:06,080 be good for you if everything has a specific place 52 00:03:06,439 --> 00:03:09,479 to do it once with him, and if he had, 53 00:03:09,879 --> 00:03:11,520 and if you don't know that he can do it, 54 00:03:11,560 --> 00:03:15,919 then you hire someone. Marissa is the cheapest rich person 55 00:03:15,960 --> 00:03:23,240 I've ever seen. That's not true. She's frugal. She must 56 00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:25,919 be saving for kids' educations, honey, I mean you know 57 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:31,719 she's frugal anyway. So she's like, listen, when I'm explaining 58 00:03:31,759 --> 00:03:35,840 something to you, I don't want you just say okay, okay, okay, 59 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:37,680 because you want me to stop talking because you think 60 00:03:37,719 --> 00:03:41,960 you know what I want. I want you to actually understand. 61 00:03:42,960 --> 00:03:48,199 I'm like, oh my god, that's really horrible. So then 62 00:03:48,240 --> 00:03:51,439 she goes to this fancyast golf course country club thing 63 00:03:51,479 --> 00:03:54,199 that her mom is obviously a member of Joanne and 64 00:03:54,199 --> 00:03:55,599 they get to go to this place and put it 65 00:03:55,639 --> 00:03:59,120 on the member number. Good for her, And they're talking 66 00:03:59,120 --> 00:04:00,960 about Edward. Now we get to see the two women. 67 00:04:01,199 --> 00:04:05,159 Sam's Edwards. So here's the truth. Now, Marissa starts by 68 00:04:05,199 --> 00:04:08,520 being like, mom, let me tell you. Everything I just 69 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:10,280 said is how she starts with her mom. She doesn't 70 00:04:10,280 --> 00:04:14,159 start with him. She's like, Edward has been incredibly thoughtful, 71 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:19,600 so caring to me, to the boys, and like, conversely, 72 00:04:19,720 --> 00:04:25,639 I have been wildly negative. And then you're like, oh, okay, 73 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:28,439 so you're saying this, you know your mom, Joanne's going 74 00:04:28,519 --> 00:04:30,680 to be like, Marissa, of course you are. You always are, 75 00:04:30,720 --> 00:04:32,360 and maybe I've word could pull some of this like 76 00:04:32,399 --> 00:04:36,720 positivity and this joy out of you. Except Joanne instead 77 00:04:36,839 --> 00:04:39,600 is like, well, you can't be nice all the time. 78 00:04:40,120 --> 00:04:44,319 That's no good meaning Edward. So like Marissa started this 79 00:04:44,360 --> 00:04:48,600 conversation by being like, Edward is really great, and I 80 00:04:48,639 --> 00:04:51,759 have been treating him horribly, and then her mom's like, 81 00:04:54,720 --> 00:04:57,079 you know, great is relative, and the truth of the 82 00:04:57,079 --> 00:04:59,639 matter is it's not good to be treated great all 83 00:04:59,680 --> 00:05:03,279 the time. It's kind of nice to be treated shittily. 84 00:05:03,839 --> 00:05:05,319 Let's you know, your place. You know, you're just like, 85 00:05:05,319 --> 00:05:09,040 what are you talking about? Joanne? Also, you know, she's 86 00:05:09,079 --> 00:05:14,720 having like the driest salmon salad with like I don't know, 87 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:19,800 I would not a sandsare It's too youthful for her 88 00:05:22,160 --> 00:05:31,560 Sabonion Blanc Anyway, Okay, so mommy is drinking wine because 89 00:05:31,560 --> 00:05:33,600 I've already said that. She says it's never too early 90 00:05:33,639 --> 00:05:35,560 to wine. I mean, at the same time she off 91 00:05:35,600 --> 00:05:37,759 camera is like, you know, drinking the wine. She's like, oh, 92 00:05:37,800 --> 00:05:40,279 I guess coffee because you you know, don't know how 93 00:05:40,319 --> 00:05:43,079 to live life. Marissa spend all your time doing bar 94 00:05:43,519 --> 00:05:47,079 and dating you know men I wouldn't approve of instead 95 00:05:47,079 --> 00:05:50,519 of drinking nice wine at ten thirty am. You know, 96 00:05:53,959 --> 00:05:58,519 her mom is basically like, is he going to be 97 00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:02,319 able to pull his weight to find out in this household, 98 00:06:02,439 --> 00:06:04,600 in this environment in the year of our lower twenty 99 00:06:04,639 --> 00:06:12,120 twenty six in Pennsylvania, America? And Marissa's like, well, he's 100 00:06:12,199 --> 00:06:18,319 not like the most ambitious guy. He's not chomping at 101 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:22,079 the bit to like figure out how to like make 102 00:06:22,120 --> 00:06:24,600 that coin, you know, Like and here's the thing that 103 00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:29,120 is something that we have seen before, is like women 104 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:40,199 desiring their non American men to be like wild capitalist hustlers. 105 00:06:41,040 --> 00:06:43,199 You know, it's like a cultural thing. I guess, like 106 00:06:43,319 --> 00:06:48,079 I'm not saying that there is a traditional thing about 107 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:51,160 men providing surely, you know, and that means like money. 108 00:06:51,199 --> 00:06:56,680 At the same time, having this like go get her, 109 00:06:57,240 --> 00:07:01,240 pick me up by the bootstraps, you know, so whatever 110 00:07:01,319 --> 00:07:05,959 it takes to make a dime, you know, uh, can't 111 00:07:06,040 --> 00:07:08,879 wait drooling at the mouth, You're chopping at the bit 112 00:07:09,040 --> 00:07:13,000 to make benjamins. Like it just doesn't always add up 113 00:07:13,040 --> 00:07:15,959 to like people in other countries as it does in America. 114 00:07:16,040 --> 00:07:18,720 It's like that feels like a cultural thing. So she 115 00:07:19,519 --> 00:07:21,199 her mom jumps on that to be like, well, you 116 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:25,360 can't teach ambition, you have to be born into it. 117 00:07:26,839 --> 00:07:30,480 You're like, okay, got us. At the same time, the 118 00:07:30,519 --> 00:07:33,319 next scene happens, and the next scene is Marissa and 119 00:07:33,399 --> 00:07:37,920 Edward go to a park l park and blue workout clothes. Honey, 120 00:07:37,959 --> 00:07:41,560 they color coordinate, and you're like, oh, okay, where is 121 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:43,920 this gonna go. We've seen, like, you know, to seen 122 00:07:44,040 --> 00:07:49,120 so far and versus been like somewhat weirdly tap dancing 123 00:07:49,480 --> 00:07:54,240 and trying to get to things. Marissa starts by being like, hey, Edward, 124 00:07:54,399 --> 00:07:56,920 I just wanted to get some time together with you 125 00:07:56,959 --> 00:07:59,759 out of the house of nature, just to get at 126 00:07:59,759 --> 00:08:05,759 tempt check and he's like what. She's like, yeah, you know, 127 00:08:05,920 --> 00:08:07,759 I sometimes it's can be hard to open up and 128 00:08:07,800 --> 00:08:10,040 tell your feelings, and I do that, you know, Like so, 129 00:08:10,480 --> 00:08:12,199 but I really want to just make sure that you're 130 00:08:12,199 --> 00:08:14,879 doing okay because I know I give you a lot 131 00:08:14,920 --> 00:08:18,480 of feedback in the moment all the time. So yeah, 132 00:08:18,519 --> 00:08:21,519 here's your chance. Like whatever. You're like, you know, it's 133 00:08:21,519 --> 00:08:24,439 hard to move and keep up your whole life, So 134 00:08:24,639 --> 00:08:31,399 how are you feeling about everything? And he's like, well, 135 00:08:32,879 --> 00:08:36,840 it hard, it's hard. I would say, I have a 136 00:08:36,919 --> 00:08:39,279 lot of pressure to be perfect, you know what I'm 137 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:43,399 talking about. And she's like yeah, yeah, yeah, you know what. 138 00:08:43,480 --> 00:08:46,440 It's interesting you say that because I have been actually 139 00:08:46,440 --> 00:08:49,039 the one considering if I've made a mistake. This is 140 00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:51,879 a mistake. Sometimes I've thought I've thought a lot about 141 00:08:51,879 --> 00:08:54,320 it that I don't know if I did the right 142 00:08:54,360 --> 00:08:58,519 thing bringing you here, because it just feels like I 143 00:08:58,559 --> 00:09:02,559 am bringing on more than I can chew, like a dependent, 144 00:09:02,679 --> 00:09:04,639 like a little boy, like a you know, like an 145 00:09:04,679 --> 00:09:07,519 extra mouth to feed like you know, I just it's 146 00:09:07,559 --> 00:09:10,440 a lot, and you do nothing for me right the 147 00:09:10,480 --> 00:09:12,720 way I want you to the first time, and to 148 00:09:13,360 --> 00:09:15,960 also live and sign my brain to know how and 149 00:09:16,000 --> 00:09:21,720 what I want when I want it. He finds this hard. 150 00:09:22,799 --> 00:09:27,639 He gets up. He says he needs a minute, and 151 00:09:27,720 --> 00:09:32,159 I feel, yeah, like she really wanted a space to 152 00:09:32,240 --> 00:09:36,960 say her thoughts and she did the kind of thing 153 00:09:37,080 --> 00:09:41,840 where she made him feel safe by having it be like, 154 00:09:41,919 --> 00:09:44,360 I have nothing to say, but I want to finally 155 00:09:44,399 --> 00:09:46,879 give you a chance to feel comfortable to say something. 156 00:09:46,960 --> 00:09:50,159 When she is like, I don't know if I'm doing 157 00:09:50,200 --> 00:09:53,919 it right. I want to send you back, he is like, 158 00:09:54,200 --> 00:09:57,320 I come from a culture of like I've been, I've 159 00:09:57,360 --> 00:10:00,600 survived a lot of turmoil, and so I just grin 160 00:10:00,639 --> 00:10:03,519 and bear things. I just don't think about an ending. 161 00:10:03,600 --> 00:10:07,000 I just consider what it would be like to move 162 00:10:07,399 --> 00:10:11,240 day and day towards what we agreed upon, Like you know, 163 00:10:11,320 --> 00:10:14,120 like it's She's like, no, here's a thing. I work 164 00:10:14,120 --> 00:10:20,360 in retail, so there's always a return policy, and literally 165 00:10:20,399 --> 00:10:23,159 we know right now it's a ninety day one. I'm 166 00:10:23,159 --> 00:10:25,879 on a ninety day return policy, so that's why I 167 00:10:25,960 --> 00:10:29,799 signed up. Ninety days is a nice chunk. It's three months. 168 00:10:29,879 --> 00:10:34,679 You know. Sometimes shops only gave you thirty days. The 169 00:10:34,720 --> 00:10:39,279 American government gave me three months. So we're like, oh 170 00:10:39,320 --> 00:10:42,360 my god, he's horrified. He's really, really, really upset. He 171 00:10:42,440 --> 00:10:44,600 comes back, he's still upset. We're like, well, we get it, 172 00:10:44,679 --> 00:10:54,559 you know, let's move on to Shay and Annabelle Honey 173 00:10:54,840 --> 00:10:59,720 Paduca's finest. Can you believe it? Oh my goodness. So 174 00:11:01,080 --> 00:11:03,200 as we know, he is knee deep in his leg 175 00:11:03,240 --> 00:11:07,840 party and Annabelle's having a horrible time. She's not enjoying it. Okay, 176 00:11:07,919 --> 00:11:10,879 she's not a drinker. There's no herbal tea, you know. 177 00:11:11,080 --> 00:11:14,960 Like he is just knee deep and tit deep and 178 00:11:15,120 --> 00:11:17,759 like a twenty one year old's like pair of knockers. 179 00:11:17,799 --> 00:11:20,799 And it's confusing because you're like, who are these people? 180 00:11:20,919 --> 00:11:26,480 And they are truly younger people than he what surely 181 00:11:26,679 --> 00:11:35,120 looks like Alison's friends almost like Alison has like a 182 00:11:35,159 --> 00:11:39,399 sugar daddy, that is her actual daddy who she likes, 183 00:11:39,440 --> 00:11:42,919 sort of pimps her friends too, and in exchange, her 184 00:11:43,000 --> 00:11:50,440 dad pays for Kegar's at their house and biscuits for 185 00:11:50,480 --> 00:11:55,360 her and her kids in the morning. Afterward, I'm I'm 186 00:11:55,399 --> 00:12:00,559 just this isn't that kind of like? So anyway she comes, honey, 187 00:12:00,639 --> 00:12:04,320 she's like beer funnel o'clock, she screams it. She's coming 188 00:12:04,360 --> 00:12:06,879 in to make her dad do a beer funnel like, 189 00:12:06,960 --> 00:12:10,919 you know, just to pretty much pour beer down her 190 00:12:11,039 --> 00:12:19,039 like elder dad's throat. I can't imagine this on any 191 00:12:19,080 --> 00:12:21,039 sort of scale. Like I'm close to my dad, I 192 00:12:21,080 --> 00:12:25,440 can't imagine like making him do like a shot, you know, 193 00:12:25,559 --> 00:12:27,080 Like I don't know, like I just don't want. I 194 00:12:27,159 --> 00:12:31,240 just don't like the forcing of alcohol on people, especially 195 00:12:31,279 --> 00:12:35,960 like my parent. I don't know my dad. It's like 196 00:12:36,120 --> 00:12:38,000 I could see him, I could be like, taste this wine, 197 00:12:38,039 --> 00:12:40,240 you know what I'm saying. I wouldn't be like pouring 198 00:12:40,320 --> 00:12:43,840 alcohol like especially he's older. She shouldn't be drinking like that. 199 00:12:44,320 --> 00:12:49,720 It's interesting because really early on the images we saw 200 00:12:49,840 --> 00:12:52,519 of Shade when we first got introduced to him, was 201 00:12:52,919 --> 00:12:57,600 someone who enjoyed beer funnel drink beer funneling, and so 202 00:12:57,759 --> 00:13:00,279 it was almost like they thought, well, we have to 203 00:13:00,279 --> 00:13:03,679 pay that off because it's so wild, and so they 204 00:13:03,720 --> 00:13:05,519 were like, Okay, we get to have a leg party, 205 00:13:05,639 --> 00:13:07,600 and that's what's gonna happen, you know, get it up. 206 00:13:08,000 --> 00:13:12,720 It's like he's already drinking so many beers. At one 207 00:13:12,759 --> 00:13:16,559 point he's like, how many beers if I drink a belt? 208 00:13:16,720 --> 00:13:20,879 You know? And Annabelle's like, he's a four f faed 209 00:13:21,080 --> 00:13:25,360 and she's like twenty twenty and I mean, I don't 210 00:13:25,360 --> 00:13:26,720 even know what to tell you. What's in a funnel? 211 00:13:29,879 --> 00:13:32,200 So he is so drunk that when he tries to 212 00:13:32,240 --> 00:13:35,639 like kiss Annabell, he's like, lem may have that tong 213 00:13:42,559 --> 00:13:51,720 let me, I'm that drum. Oh god, you guys, it 214 00:13:51,799 --> 00:13:55,039 really does. You know. It's funny, Like I love accents, 215 00:13:55,080 --> 00:13:57,759 and the Southern accent is so great. It's funny because 216 00:13:57,799 --> 00:14:02,720 some things sound so sinister. That sound bite alone, what 217 00:14:02,840 --> 00:14:05,960 he's saying, the way he says it, I don't care 218 00:14:05,960 --> 00:14:09,919 if it's female voice or male voice. You can tell 219 00:14:11,120 --> 00:14:17,080 whoever is being said that too, If that makes sense. 220 00:14:17,960 --> 00:14:20,759 Shouldn't give them their tongue, Like if it was in 221 00:14:20,799 --> 00:14:24,159 a movie, you know, this person's too drunk. No one 222 00:14:24,159 --> 00:14:31,360 should give this person tongue. They should give this person bedtime. Yeah, 223 00:14:31,480 --> 00:14:34,399 that tongue. Oh my god, I died, Oh my god. 224 00:14:34,480 --> 00:14:37,440 NFL's like, ew, can you imagine what his breath smells 225 00:14:37,480 --> 00:14:43,000 like wild, like salt and vinegar, pork ryand do rito 226 00:14:43,159 --> 00:14:51,879 situations and beer beer and burping beer beer burps. Oh 227 00:14:51,960 --> 00:14:54,320 my god, you know what. I'm just I'm so sorry 228 00:14:54,360 --> 00:14:55,960 to bring it up, but just like think about it, 229 00:14:56,000 --> 00:14:58,240 you know, like really just have to know what's happening 230 00:14:58,279 --> 00:15:02,879 with this woman. Okay, So she's like, this is disgusting. 231 00:15:02,960 --> 00:15:05,039 I'm gonna go to bed. You are too drunk. Everyone's 232 00:15:05,080 --> 00:15:07,200 too drunk. I hate this. I'm gonna go to bed. 233 00:15:07,279 --> 00:15:12,200 And he's like, no, don't embarrass me in front of 234 00:15:12,240 --> 00:15:19,559 these important people, my daughter and her young friends. Don't 235 00:15:19,960 --> 00:15:26,720 not in front of these VIPs. Embarrass you embarrass you 236 00:15:26,759 --> 00:15:32,080 guys are embarrassing and barrossing. Alison's like that, just like 237 00:15:32,600 --> 00:15:35,600 huge lips, murk, honey, just like half drunk. I knew 238 00:15:35,639 --> 00:15:37,559 that she's been drunk this whole time. I knew that, 239 00:15:37,679 --> 00:15:40,440 Like the whole thing with her dad was about the alcohol. Yeah, 240 00:15:40,440 --> 00:15:42,240 like he pays her all this alcohol. You can just 241 00:15:42,279 --> 00:15:47,039 be literally addicted to alcohol next to your enabler, who 242 00:15:47,080 --> 00:15:49,159 also takes care of your kids when you are too 243 00:15:49,279 --> 00:15:51,960 drunk to take care of them. Why would she She 244 00:15:52,080 --> 00:15:55,600 has no one has it better than Alison for who 245 00:15:55,679 --> 00:15:58,960 Alison is. Alison has hit the jackpot. She does not 246 00:15:59,120 --> 00:16:02,120 want Annabel there fucking up her fun, fucking up her 247 00:16:02,159 --> 00:16:05,360 dad's time and her dad's money. He just pays for her, 248 00:16:05,720 --> 00:16:08,679 gets her friends drunk, takes care of her and her kids. 249 00:16:10,200 --> 00:16:17,360 Repeats the next morning. Now, I would love some of 250 00:16:17,399 --> 00:16:21,240 her other siblings to talk about this. They all can 251 00:16:21,360 --> 00:16:26,200 think this is great. They all can't be like into this. 252 00:16:26,240 --> 00:16:28,039 How come we're not talking to her siblings, Like you 253 00:16:28,080 --> 00:16:30,759 can't just like elap let Alison with her like you know, 254 00:16:31,279 --> 00:16:34,639 puffed up lips, like smirk around on this screen and 255 00:16:34,679 --> 00:16:36,759 not have like someone trying to also tear her down. 256 00:16:36,799 --> 00:16:38,320 You know, you have to like build up a villain 257 00:16:38,360 --> 00:16:39,639 to like tear her down, you know what I'm saying. 258 00:16:39,639 --> 00:16:47,559 But truly, so literally, their party is just like dancing 259 00:16:47,600 --> 00:16:50,480 in a shed with you know again, Alison and the friends. 260 00:16:50,519 --> 00:16:53,799 That's it. And Alison is so happy that Annabel is 261 00:16:53,799 --> 00:16:56,960 putting up a big fuss because it's exactly what she wanted. 262 00:16:57,039 --> 00:16:58,960 All of this talk about how she really just wanted 263 00:16:58,960 --> 00:17:01,039 to tell Annabell who her dad was so she gets 264 00:17:01,039 --> 00:17:04,279 like an honest opinion about you know that situation was 265 00:17:04,440 --> 00:17:07,599 only to further her own agenda, which is get Annabelle 266 00:17:07,640 --> 00:17:11,119 away from her dad. She's like, listen, if annabel can 267 00:17:11,279 --> 00:17:15,400 hang and if she doesn't like it here, she can 268 00:17:15,440 --> 00:17:22,640 go home to the Philippines, back to her family, which 269 00:17:22,720 --> 00:17:30,839 is Cunty one Tea. It's County one Tea, truly, And 270 00:17:30,920 --> 00:17:34,599 I don't use that phrase lightly, I really don't, But 271 00:17:34,680 --> 00:17:40,440 that's what this is. Alison is a bitch with horrible taste, 272 00:17:40,519 --> 00:17:42,880 but has her lot in life, you know what I'm saying. 273 00:17:43,400 --> 00:17:47,319 That's why I'm like, her dad's not going to be 274 00:17:47,400 --> 00:17:51,279 ever evergreen, you know what I'm saying, Not with that 275 00:17:51,519 --> 00:17:54,319 man with you know, that skin being poured beer down 276 00:17:54,400 --> 00:17:56,519 his throat, you know what I'm saying. And like what 277 00:17:56,680 --> 00:18:00,759 happens when God bless, God bless and he has four kids, 278 00:18:00,839 --> 00:18:08,720 if not more, you know what I'm saying, Because the 279 00:18:08,799 --> 00:18:10,839 kids are gonna want to like sell his land and 280 00:18:11,000 --> 00:18:13,039 she's not going to have that house there anymore at 281 00:18:13,079 --> 00:18:15,319 some point, is what I'm saying, unless she's the executor 282 00:18:15,359 --> 00:18:18,440 of the will and she leads to the land to 283 00:18:18,480 --> 00:18:22,640 her Jesus, Okay, I mean, I just have to think 284 00:18:22,640 --> 00:18:24,480 about things like that and Annabel. I mean, listen, if 285 00:18:24,480 --> 00:18:26,519 Annabel's still married to Shay, she has to think about 286 00:18:26,519 --> 00:18:33,279 things like that, like literally, okay, let's move on too. 287 00:18:34,440 --> 00:18:41,759 Rashet and Mallory. So they are on the way to 288 00:18:42,079 --> 00:18:46,319 a baseball game and we are like, what team is this? 289 00:18:46,480 --> 00:18:48,640 We can't tell what team this is? Like he's they 290 00:18:48,720 --> 00:18:51,839 both look at they're wearing completely different jerseys almost of 291 00:18:51,920 --> 00:18:56,880 completely different sports. Okay, his you know, like is weird 292 00:18:57,000 --> 00:19:00,240 and interesting and it just says trash Pandas. And I 293 00:19:01,359 --> 00:19:06,559 consider if that's just one of Mallory's like fashion brands 294 00:19:06,880 --> 00:19:09,480 that made a shirt that looks like a dr I 295 00:19:09,599 --> 00:19:11,319 did not know what it was. Okay, but it is 296 00:19:11,400 --> 00:19:15,359 trash Pandas. They are going to a baseball game by 297 00:19:15,440 --> 00:19:19,839 a team that is called the trash Pandas trash Pandas 298 00:19:20,119 --> 00:19:24,599 trash Pandas. Okay, I'm not quite sure. So he's in 299 00:19:24,640 --> 00:19:26,400 a bad mood, he said, his mood is down. Why 300 00:19:26,559 --> 00:19:29,079 because they just had that disaster of a prenip convo 301 00:19:29,200 --> 00:19:31,720 where she was like, what's mine? It's mine. I got 302 00:19:31,799 --> 00:19:33,599 in a deadly accident. I have a bunch of money. 303 00:19:33,680 --> 00:19:35,720 Fuck you, you're not taking my money, And he was like, whoa, 304 00:19:37,119 --> 00:19:43,960 can I take it? My parents need money they live 305 00:19:44,000 --> 00:19:46,799 in intend you know, give us And she's like, let 306 00:19:46,839 --> 00:19:48,799 me try and distract you. And the way I'm going 307 00:19:48,839 --> 00:19:53,279 to do it is telling you, guess what my friend Mikayla, 308 00:19:53,799 --> 00:19:57,240 who you know also as dating some guy that's best 309 00:19:57,279 --> 00:20:03,359 friends with Brandy Brandon. She works at some whatever. I 310 00:20:03,480 --> 00:20:07,160 should get this story right. She works at some company 311 00:20:07,599 --> 00:20:11,400 that has a VIP place that trash pandas I'm no, honey, 312 00:20:11,440 --> 00:20:13,640 I don't know, they're the sponsors, and she got it. 313 00:20:13,720 --> 00:20:16,680 So that Rashid is throwing out the first pitch. Now, 314 00:20:16,799 --> 00:20:19,039 Rashid has never seen a baseball game, so I'm like, 315 00:20:19,079 --> 00:20:20,240 oh my god, how are you going to know how 316 00:20:20,279 --> 00:20:23,079 to throw? But he does know how to throw. I'm 317 00:20:23,119 --> 00:20:24,359 my god, are you just gonna watch a bunch of 318 00:20:24,440 --> 00:20:27,279 like YouTube videos and just like pick it up anyway? 319 00:20:27,640 --> 00:20:29,119 So but they I don't know, they gave him some 320 00:20:29,200 --> 00:20:33,559 like off camera try tries just you know, feel the 321 00:20:33,640 --> 00:20:35,960 weight of a baseball. They do give him a baseball, 322 00:20:36,279 --> 00:20:39,160 the producers doing a confessional. But you know what I'm saying. 323 00:20:39,759 --> 00:20:44,920 So he does throw the first pitch and he you know, 324 00:20:45,039 --> 00:20:47,160 does well. Again, like I said, I'm really happy for him. 325 00:20:47,359 --> 00:20:49,960 But he's upset because Brandy's going to be there, you know, 326 00:20:50,119 --> 00:20:52,880 and Brandy's going to be there because Mallory's already told 327 00:20:52,960 --> 00:20:59,880 him that Brandy's everywhere. He's omniscient, like God, so God 328 00:21:00,119 --> 00:21:04,400 can still text me, God can still call me God. Sorry, 329 00:21:05,400 --> 00:21:10,640 you have your culture, I have mine. Brandy? Oh Brandy? Okay, 330 00:21:11,200 --> 00:21:13,759 So but yeah, he's bad. He's like, why don't you 331 00:21:13,920 --> 00:21:17,400 listen to me about Brandy about this? And she's like, 332 00:21:17,559 --> 00:21:19,519 why didn't you listen to me when I said no? 333 00:21:20,559 --> 00:21:24,119 And when you asked Brandy? And he was like, no, 334 00:21:26,079 --> 00:21:28,039 that's who you should be listening to. That's two nos. 335 00:21:28,279 --> 00:21:35,720 Two nose cancels out yours buddy. Now he again so upset. 336 00:21:35,880 --> 00:21:44,640 He's like in Turkey very Redi's respect now he says, 337 00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:52,160 Dick's respect so much so the production put up those 338 00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:57,680 two words in his closed captioning or whatever that is. 339 00:22:00,799 --> 00:22:06,519 So it is you know what's interesting it is can 340 00:22:06,799 --> 00:22:09,359 I can see what he's meaning? It is Dick's respect. 341 00:22:10,519 --> 00:22:15,319 She is really you know, respecting and or disrespecting him 342 00:22:16,240 --> 00:22:24,359 using Dix or Dicks are involved. It's true. He is 343 00:22:24,400 --> 00:22:31,559 a wordsmith. Okay, So It's interesting because obviously he's wearing 344 00:22:31,640 --> 00:22:33,519 that trash pandas jersey. And then when they meet up, 345 00:22:33,559 --> 00:22:35,640 you know, with Brandy and the other guy, those men 346 00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:41,160 are not wearing anything. They don't have to. They're not stupid. 347 00:22:41,559 --> 00:22:43,519 And that also kind of reminds me of when Meto 348 00:22:43,640 --> 00:22:45,680 went to go to the Haunted House. Remember that when 349 00:22:45,720 --> 00:22:48,119 he went to the Haunted House and she like he 350 00:22:48,279 --> 00:22:51,359 was obviously a pharaoh and he meets up with you know, 351 00:22:51,559 --> 00:22:56,039 our best friend and their boyfriends or whatever the slut. Anyway, 352 00:22:56,599 --> 00:23:01,480 those two guys also didn't have costumes on. It must 353 00:23:01,599 --> 00:23:04,599 make the foreigner or like, yeah, that person just feels 354 00:23:04,640 --> 00:23:13,079 so like yeah, going to a costume party in a 355 00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:15,960 costume and then realizing that you're the only one in 356 00:23:16,039 --> 00:23:20,119 a costume is a certain level of like, oh, oh, 357 00:23:21,359 --> 00:23:23,759 do I even got in my car? You kind of 358 00:23:23,759 --> 00:23:25,759 take off something now that makes it look not so 359 00:23:26,640 --> 00:23:28,799 like I was trying to be fucking poison ivy or 360 00:23:28,839 --> 00:23:39,319 whatever the you know it is. When Okay, so when 361 00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:46,200 he throws the first pitch, butr Andy is like, my 362 00:23:46,319 --> 00:23:53,119 grandmother can throw better. So then Rashid comes with Mallory 363 00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:56,799 to go actually sit down with everyone and makes a 364 00:23:56,880 --> 00:24:01,240 big to do to sit in Betweenry and Mallory. As 365 00:24:01,279 --> 00:24:02,960 he sees it, that's where Mallory was going to go. 366 00:24:03,759 --> 00:24:06,519 And it's a big deal, and it's like, you know, 367 00:24:06,759 --> 00:24:10,440 it's awkward. And then they sing the national anthem, and 368 00:24:10,559 --> 00:24:13,680 so now Brandy and Rashid are standing right next to 369 00:24:13,759 --> 00:24:17,200 each other, and he like, Brandy's like, get up, check 370 00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:22,119 off that stupid hat. You bow down to this motherland. 371 00:24:23,559 --> 00:24:27,200 You bow down, you know. And of course Rashid is 372 00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:29,119 so upset by this because this is now the second 373 00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:32,839 time that Brandy has been like, in the face of 374 00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:35,759 you trying to be mean to me, you have unknowingly 375 00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:42,400 offended the truest of cowboy. You've sat on the bed 376 00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:48,200 of my truck. Big fucking no American, big red flag no, 377 00:24:48,319 --> 00:24:50,160 which I mean, I can't never heard of that, but 378 00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:52,759 you know, yes, technically, yes, you're supposed to stand up 379 00:24:52,759 --> 00:24:54,279 and put your hand over your heart and not wear 380 00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:59,559 your hat during the national anthem. Now he's so upset, 381 00:24:59,640 --> 00:25:03,960 you know that Brandy was totally aggressive with him about this, 382 00:25:04,200 --> 00:25:08,039 and he's like, so stupid that Brandy, you know, stunned 383 00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:10,160 up for me to Mallory. Mallory's like no, I'm so sorry. 384 00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:14,480 I'm gonna take Brandy's side. This is America, this is 385 00:25:14,519 --> 00:25:18,759 where Chick fil A started. So take off that goddamn hat, 386 00:25:20,599 --> 00:25:24,160 put your hand over your heart, and sing those words, 387 00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:28,480 the words that you're gonna have to sing to pass 388 00:25:28,559 --> 00:25:32,799 the test. I don't know, I think so I assume. 389 00:25:32,920 --> 00:25:35,920 So I assume that you have to sing a whole 390 00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:39,960 version of the natural anthem to pass the citizenship test. 391 00:25:40,160 --> 00:25:45,640 I don't know why I think that, but is that true? Okay. 392 00:25:49,119 --> 00:25:51,640 At this point, Mikayla ends up swapping seats so that 393 00:25:51,799 --> 00:25:54,319 she can sit next to Mallory and talk while you know, 394 00:25:54,519 --> 00:25:57,359 obviously giving Brandy a moment to sit by her husband. 395 00:25:57,960 --> 00:26:00,400 And then when that happens, the girls are like, great, 396 00:26:00,799 --> 00:26:02,880 now that we're gonna sit next sitting next together, let's 397 00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:06,079 go have a moment by ourselves and get like a 398 00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:09,960 big beer which comes in a baseball bat baseball bat beer. 399 00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:14,079 And they're like, we're gonna get you one, Rashet and 400 00:26:14,119 --> 00:26:16,759 he's like, oh, okay, and so he tries to like 401 00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:20,160 have a boy moment, except he's awkward about it. And 402 00:26:20,279 --> 00:26:25,160 then he turns to Mikayla's man and he's Ryan or whatever, 403 00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:29,799 and he's like, I have a questions how this baseball 404 00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:35,200 or you know, and then Brandy starts to be like, yeah, man, 405 00:26:35,319 --> 00:26:37,480 you just have these guys and you have evenings. And 406 00:26:37,519 --> 00:26:40,960 then she's like no, no, no, I needn't ask you. No, 407 00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:46,119 don't talk. I ask Brian or whatever Ryan, And so 408 00:26:47,839 --> 00:26:50,160 Brandy is real angry. He's like, well, you don't go 409 00:26:50,240 --> 00:26:52,200 on hear me talk, get up and take a pitch. 410 00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:58,119 And interestingly enough that means that he can also go 411 00:26:58,200 --> 00:26:59,960 talk to Mallory. He's like, some we're getting a baseball 412 00:27:00,799 --> 00:27:04,920 he co. When Mallory comes back, she's like, where's Brandy? Also? 413 00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:09,519 What here? Take this baseball bat beer? And Rashid's like, no, 414 00:27:10,680 --> 00:27:12,599 I will not. She's like, why are you in the 415 00:27:12,759 --> 00:27:18,160 shittiest mood? Let me tell you what baseball is about? Fun, friends, alcohol, food, 416 00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:23,400 you eat bullshit, like you know, weird things you might 417 00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:25,279 never have, like you know, like a bunch of fucking 418 00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:30,480 sunflower seeds or nuts, peanuts in the shell, or you know, 419 00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:35,599 if you need to, I guess nacho's with the cheese 420 00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:41,799 that's not really cheese. I'd rather have a pizza, any 421 00:27:41,839 --> 00:27:46,519 kind of pizza. Anyway. She's just like, it's such a 422 00:27:46,559 --> 00:27:50,200 cultural difference. It's just different. You know. You listen to 423 00:27:50,279 --> 00:27:52,960 me usually as a woman, if I don't want to 424 00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:55,640 be with someone, I don't have to like argue with 425 00:27:56,599 --> 00:27:58,880 people about it. You're just saying what you want and 426 00:27:59,000 --> 00:28:01,640 I'm expecting to just say yes to that, and he's 427 00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:05,480 an asshole. She's like, no, it's just that it's going 428 00:28:05,599 --> 00:28:10,160 to be this way. So there's some compromises, but also 429 00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:12,160 there's just some things you have to accept, which is 430 00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:14,359 this person's in my life. He is best friends with 431 00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:19,119 my best friend's boyfriend. So that's it's you know, a 432 00:28:19,200 --> 00:28:23,119 lot big rural area we live in, so it's not 433 00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:26,839 that many people that are great, and great's relative. This 434 00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:32,240 is what we have. So feast or famine. Okay, So 435 00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:38,000 let's move on to Meadow and Debbie. Now she's walking 436 00:28:38,079 --> 00:28:40,720 lily bit. Her hair is just flowing, honey. She really 437 00:28:40,759 --> 00:28:42,720 does have such great hair. I mean, my god, it's 438 00:28:42,799 --> 00:28:46,960 just like made of like collagen and biotin now we're like, 439 00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:51,680 what's happening here. He should have been knee deep in 440 00:28:51,839 --> 00:28:54,440 Egypt by now, knee deep in a pyramid straight up. 441 00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:56,960 And the fact that he's not is suspect, but we 442 00:28:57,079 --> 00:29:01,160 also know off offline what we know, which is spoiler alert, 443 00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:06,000 you know they do it. So anyway, God bless. So 444 00:29:06,359 --> 00:29:08,920 he at this point is ignoring her act of the fight. 445 00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:11,480 We're like, yeah, because he should be on a fucking plane, 446 00:29:11,559 --> 00:29:17,079 you asshole. And Debbie says this banana rammer thing. She says, 447 00:29:17,920 --> 00:29:21,279 I've always been big about people show you who they are. 448 00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:30,720 Have you have you? If you have prove it? This 449 00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:34,640 person has over and over again shown them who they 450 00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:38,400 are and who you think they are. Is some weird 451 00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:45,440 Egyptian prince fantasy. It's like Aladdin, like you have just 452 00:29:45,599 --> 00:29:48,160 you with your long ass, brown ass hair. You think 453 00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:52,640 you're like Jasmine. You can't have some of colume and 454 00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:55,599 have all of coluin. B girl, what are you talking about? 455 00:29:57,559 --> 00:29:59,039 So when she says that, we're like, oh my god. 456 00:29:59,160 --> 00:30:01,599 She was like, well, then that fight was a big reveal. 457 00:30:01,720 --> 00:30:06,480 We're like, well, not enough, surely not enough, though big reveal. 458 00:30:06,559 --> 00:30:08,559 I'll tell you what it revealed. It revealed that you 459 00:30:08,759 --> 00:30:14,039 aren't shit about making decisions, Debbie. That fight revealed that 460 00:30:14,240 --> 00:30:18,359 you have problems because we've been knowing he's an asshole. 461 00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:22,000 We've been knowing your daughter knows. Your friends know, everyone 462 00:30:22,160 --> 00:30:24,880 knows he's you know what I'm saying, but you don't. 463 00:30:25,119 --> 00:30:28,319 And like we have washed our hands a few we can't, 464 00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:30,240 you know, like what can we do? You know, we're 465 00:30:30,279 --> 00:30:34,400 tired because we're fighting fights battles out in real life 466 00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:36,799 right now. There's shit happening, Debbie. And it's like we 467 00:30:36,920 --> 00:30:38,960 do want the best of everyone, and I mean that, 468 00:30:39,119 --> 00:30:40,720 And so when we first introduced to you, we're like, 469 00:30:40,759 --> 00:30:42,599 oh my god, maybe she can hear our please, maybe 470 00:30:43,039 --> 00:30:44,839 she'll come to her son says, maybe there's someone in 471 00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:46,880 her life that loves her enough, or she loves herself 472 00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:49,319 enough to like really be like, oh, this is weird. 473 00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:51,000 He doesn't love me. He just wants to be some 474 00:30:51,400 --> 00:30:54,000 horrible actor. I mean he obviously loves himself and or 475 00:30:54,079 --> 00:30:57,279 you know other not me, But that's not what's happened. 476 00:30:58,359 --> 00:31:07,440 It really is crazy. I don't know anyway. She just 477 00:31:07,519 --> 00:31:09,759 ignores it, okay, she's just like it feels like she 478 00:31:09,960 --> 00:31:12,240 just lives in a sight of denial. She goes back 479 00:31:12,359 --> 00:31:16,960 to her place and we see her kitchen. I don't 480 00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:18,599 know why I took a picture of it was of 481 00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:23,519 interest to me, just like all her weird magnets. She 482 00:31:23,799 --> 00:31:27,599 has that core electrolyte water. She drinks coke from like 483 00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:30,319 a two literer. I feel like it's probably at this 484 00:31:30,599 --> 00:31:35,240 point stale. You know. She's drinking water from her Brita. 485 00:31:35,400 --> 00:31:39,839 She has like a small mister coffee. She has a 486 00:31:40,119 --> 00:31:43,240 magnet that's this shape of the state of Texas, even 487 00:31:43,240 --> 00:31:46,559 though technically they're in you know, obviously Louisiana. Oh my god, 488 00:31:46,599 --> 00:31:50,039 I forgot to say this. I'm gonna go to Louisiana. 489 00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:54,440 How many people say that I'm going to Louisiana. I'm 490 00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:56,839 so super excited, And by that I mean also I'm 491 00:31:57,160 --> 00:32:00,039 terrified I'm going too long. No, I like Louisian I 492 00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:01,960 also going too long. Build things are true, and it's 493 00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:04,000 like my place a lot. But I am going for 494 00:32:04,079 --> 00:32:07,799 a week, so I don't really knows how my schedule 495 00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:09,960 is going to be for recording, but I'm gonna do 496 00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:13,680 my absolute best. I'm gonna go visit family in central 497 00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:18,720 Louisiana now where Britney's from, and then make my way 498 00:32:18,799 --> 00:32:22,680 down to New Orleans, which I'm really excited about because 499 00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:25,920 I love New Orleans. So I yeah, that's what I'm 500 00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:29,759 gonna do. And I'm commed. If you have any advice, 501 00:32:29,880 --> 00:32:31,880 although I've been in New Orleans before, but if any 502 00:32:31,960 --> 00:32:36,079 sort of advice for Alexander or Lake Charles or Oakdale Kinder, 503 00:32:36,279 --> 00:32:40,319 that kind of area or New Orleans, tell me go 504 00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:42,920 to my Instagram. You can follow me at Chris sel 505 00:32:43,000 --> 00:32:46,440 fera TikTok Instagram. Honey, you know, of course a Patreon. 506 00:32:46,680 --> 00:32:50,079 It's dot com slash Chris Farah patron dot com slash 507 00:32:50,160 --> 00:32:52,279 Chris Fair. It's five dollars a month, and it's super 508 00:32:52,359 --> 00:32:55,000 fun to give me five dollars and just be like, yeah, 509 00:32:55,079 --> 00:32:58,240 we like you. It's fun for me, also great for you, 510 00:32:58,240 --> 00:33:02,559 you know, just like in thereativity like passing went on 511 00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:07,000 kind of situation. Huh okay. So basically at this moment, 512 00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:10,119 she an hour later, she's like vacuuming in beige and 513 00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:13,160 then he comes in. She's wearing beige shirt jeans. He 514 00:33:13,279 --> 00:33:15,720 comes in wearing bis shirt jeans or like, is this 515 00:33:15,799 --> 00:33:17,240 your subtle way of being like, we're back on the 516 00:33:17,279 --> 00:33:21,160 same page, We're back as a couple. Gross. So then 517 00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:25,279 she's like, hey, puts down her like fake dyson, it's 518 00:33:25,319 --> 00:33:26,920 a shark. She's like, do you want to go talk 519 00:33:28,119 --> 00:33:31,759 he's like, oh good. She's like, by the lake, should 520 00:33:31,759 --> 00:33:35,400 we take our baiss shirts and jeans and should we 521 00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:38,039 grow like talk a little bit. He's like oh good, 522 00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:47,880 So they do, and she is like awkwardly taking accountability, 523 00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:54,359 but not about the fight. He obviously is like, he's like, well, 524 00:33:54,519 --> 00:33:58,759 what'll happen. She's like, it was an ugly scene, it really, 525 00:33:59,359 --> 00:34:02,039 and it shouldn't happened. It shouldn't can't get that way. 526 00:34:02,839 --> 00:34:12,320 And we're like, oh, okay, wait what exactly and who 527 00:34:13,559 --> 00:34:15,519 what are you talking about. She's just like, it's just 528 00:34:15,679 --> 00:34:19,960 one of those things where it's bad. It was bad, 529 00:34:20,639 --> 00:34:22,599 and I don't want it to be like that ever. Again. 530 00:34:22,679 --> 00:34:27,079 We're like, okay, because you have control over it, because 531 00:34:27,119 --> 00:34:29,039 he does. Are you telling him not to do it? 532 00:34:29,119 --> 00:34:33,400 Are you? It's so it's like the worst conversation of conversations. 533 00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:36,599 It was like if you were like, okay, have a 534 00:34:36,679 --> 00:34:40,880 conversation where yeah, you don't put any blame on yourself 535 00:34:41,039 --> 00:34:45,840 nor anyone else. You just talk around it as a 536 00:34:46,039 --> 00:34:51,039 desperate attempt to stand up for yourself but also not 537 00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:56,039 make him leave because you are trying to assign any 538 00:34:56,119 --> 00:35:02,360 responsibility to him. It's cringey and Meanwhile, he's like not 539 00:35:02,519 --> 00:35:06,440 willing at all to accept any blame or any sort 540 00:35:06,599 --> 00:35:14,840 of yeah, accountability for the way that he's acted. She's 541 00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:17,599 just like, I want this to work. I love you. 542 00:35:18,719 --> 00:35:23,440 He's like, don't tell me that, yeah, because then he's like, yeah, 543 00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:25,360 I don't like when people say I love you. I 544 00:35:25,400 --> 00:35:29,079 don't want to hear it. I don't say it. Well, 545 00:35:29,119 --> 00:35:33,519 I don't feel it, That's why. But also I want 546 00:35:33,599 --> 00:35:35,599 to you know, I don't want you to tell me. 547 00:35:36,079 --> 00:35:38,239 I want to see it. I want to, like, have 548 00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:41,119 you be really supportive of me and do whatever the 549 00:35:41,199 --> 00:35:46,199 fuck I say all the time. That's what supportive means 550 00:35:46,239 --> 00:35:48,199 to me, and that's what love means, and that's what 551 00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:54,159 I want. So do that. And she's like, I'll tell 552 00:35:54,199 --> 00:35:58,440 you what I want. I want a huge wedding and proposal. 553 00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:06,679 And he's like what. We're all like, what are you 554 00:36:06,920 --> 00:36:13,039 talking about? What I get? Devin? Get in here? I mean, 555 00:36:13,079 --> 00:36:14,960 it's like it she but it's not. It's there on 556 00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:16,360 a lake, you know what I'm saying. She probably did 557 00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:17,880 that so Devin wouldn't be able to walk in and 558 00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:19,840 hear her. Mom just like make a fool of herself 559 00:36:20,079 --> 00:36:23,119 because at this point. Debbie knows because all her friends 560 00:36:23,159 --> 00:36:26,000 have already told her that she should be out, that 561 00:36:26,199 --> 00:36:29,039 any reasonable person would be out, that it's weird that 562 00:36:29,119 --> 00:36:31,519 she's not out, and she knows it. So that's why 563 00:36:31,559 --> 00:36:35,440 I think she danced around, like last night wasn't good 564 00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:39,920 and I know that I'm aware I can't and I 565 00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:45,400 won't be a part of something like that again. You're like, 566 00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:55,880 there's stuff we have to fix. He's like, if things 567 00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:59,519 don't change, I leave immediately. Something bad happened I thought around. 568 00:36:59,719 --> 00:37:03,599 She's like, just you. He's like, it's only a you fix. 569 00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:07,840 It's only a me fix. Yeah, bitch, that's why you 570 00:37:07,960 --> 00:37:10,639 framed all the other sentences. You did that way because 571 00:37:10,639 --> 00:37:13,199 you know he only thinks it's a you fix, and 572 00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:15,880 you are trying to tap dance around. I guess us 573 00:37:16,039 --> 00:37:19,960 realizing that. Like it's like she she knows that he's 574 00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:24,119 an asshole that blames her completely. She but she also 575 00:37:24,199 --> 00:37:29,360 wants to keep him, and she wants us to allow 576 00:37:29,599 --> 00:37:34,079 her in her mind, for it not to be embarrassing 577 00:37:34,159 --> 00:37:37,320 and cringey for her to try and keep him. So 578 00:37:37,519 --> 00:37:40,119 I feel like that's why she's having this awkward conversation. 579 00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:42,000 Phrase the way it is, which is to try and 580 00:37:42,119 --> 00:37:45,199 like pull the wool over our eyes. I guess we 581 00:37:45,480 --> 00:37:49,840 know that this is a banana's conversation had by two 582 00:37:49,960 --> 00:37:57,679 crazy people. She does like, you know what, I know 583 00:37:57,800 --> 00:38:01,280 why he's been single this whole time, which almost has 584 00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:04,079 verbade him something that he said before about her. Well, 585 00:38:04,280 --> 00:38:07,000 it's been a long time since Duby's been with a man, 586 00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:11,000 so you know. And we're just like, oh, both of 587 00:38:11,039 --> 00:38:16,719 them think they're doing each other a favor because the 588 00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:19,800 other one has been like celibate or hasn't been with 589 00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:24,719 someone for a long time, and they're both judgmental about 590 00:38:24,760 --> 00:38:28,079 the other one about it while also being it anyway, 591 00:38:28,119 --> 00:38:34,400 it's great. Then we see them in a confessional together, which, 592 00:38:34,840 --> 00:38:38,159 after all of this is a bad sign. Bad sign. 593 00:38:38,599 --> 00:38:40,639 It's a tense confessional. She has to sit there while 594 00:38:40,679 --> 00:38:45,719 he is an asshole and she's allowing it. Devin then 595 00:38:45,960 --> 00:38:48,199 finally has a scene with everyone later on and she 596 00:38:48,719 --> 00:38:52,199 comes into the part, but she's like, hey, y'all, it's 597 00:38:52,280 --> 00:38:56,199 really tense. Mito's like, shut up, I need quiet and 598 00:38:56,440 --> 00:39:01,320 I need to rest. I'm doing work. And what is 599 00:39:01,360 --> 00:39:04,320 he doing. He's just staring at fucking pictures of himself, 600 00:39:04,559 --> 00:39:07,559 his head shots. He just needs quiet and don't say 601 00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:11,239 hi to me? How dare you? I'm looking at the 602 00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:22,840 next Timothy Shallomey, Caleb Turner, Jacob Alordie, next one, Mido 603 00:39:23,360 --> 00:39:28,800 al Fayed. Here he comes, ready, yor nad Here I come, 604 00:39:29,360 --> 00:39:33,960 Yuka and Toad Hollywood. I'm gonna find you spiel A 605 00:39:34,039 --> 00:39:37,920 bog and make you won't me? Is that the best 606 00:39:37,960 --> 00:39:41,639 thing I've ever done on this podcast? Maybe? Okay, So 607 00:39:43,159 --> 00:39:45,159 it's really really rude for him to say that, and 608 00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:47,519 he's the dumbest for literally was looking at two pictures 609 00:39:47,519 --> 00:39:50,800 of himself, just going back and forth. And then mom 610 00:39:50,840 --> 00:39:53,840 and daughter go on a little Manny petty John, which 611 00:39:53,880 --> 00:39:56,960 is always nice. And this is where Debbie's like, I'll 612 00:39:56,960 --> 00:39:59,159 tell you what I want and Devin's like for him 613 00:39:59,159 --> 00:40:00,519 to get the fuck out of your life and for 614 00:40:00,639 --> 00:40:03,320 you to like not look really embarrassing on TV that 615 00:40:03,400 --> 00:40:06,800 you've allowed this to happen. Mom, and Debbie's like no, 616 00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:10,719 and then Devin's like, okay, do you want to chrome 617 00:40:10,880 --> 00:40:14,159 Manny with like, you know, some sort of fun dually 618 00:40:14,800 --> 00:40:20,599 you know, bobbily Bob. And then Debbie's like, no, I'll 619 00:40:20,639 --> 00:40:26,039 tell you I want a formal proposal from him, and 620 00:40:26,159 --> 00:40:29,440 I want him to say I love you, and Devin's like, 621 00:40:31,559 --> 00:40:35,760 he's never said I love you, and wait, I'm sorry 622 00:40:36,039 --> 00:40:38,800 Devin is like that to her mom. Devin's like, he's 623 00:40:38,840 --> 00:40:41,599 never said I love you to your mom, and Debbie's 624 00:40:41,639 --> 00:40:49,599 like never, no, which is so interesting only because it's like, yeah, 625 00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:54,599 like Arabic people usually are like very flowery when they talk. 626 00:40:54,679 --> 00:40:56,480 You know what I'm saying, Like there's a lot of 627 00:40:56,599 --> 00:40:59,079 like you know, habibi means like, you know, more precious 628 00:40:59,119 --> 00:41:00,880 than my eyes. It's like that. It's like, you know, 629 00:41:01,000 --> 00:41:03,760 like my very like my love, my loved in such 630 00:41:03,760 --> 00:41:06,239 a way, you know, like on a Bihibic is how 631 00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:08,239 you say I love you? Like it wouldn't be hard. 632 00:41:08,239 --> 00:41:10,519 It's hard to think that someone wouldn't be more flowery 633 00:41:10,599 --> 00:41:13,239 with his talk. So anyway, yeah, he really hates her 634 00:41:13,639 --> 00:41:18,960 and the daughter. Okay, So Devin's like, mom, what the okay, 635 00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:21,840 what's it going to take for you? You need to 636 00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:25,280 send him on his way, like why are you not 637 00:41:25,480 --> 00:41:28,320 seeing this? What is happening here? And Debbie's like, I 638 00:41:28,519 --> 00:41:33,960 just I need time? Is what I need? Any time? 639 00:41:34,760 --> 00:41:37,239 More time for me to have it sink in that 640 00:41:37,320 --> 00:41:39,679 he's not right for me or I need time for 641 00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:42,280 it to just expel in ninety days and for him 642 00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:46,079 to actually be able to stay. His time is on 643 00:41:46,320 --> 00:41:50,920 my side. We did need, you know. Okay, let's move 644 00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:56,280 on to Palla and Thomas. Okay, So Palla and Thomas, 645 00:41:56,360 --> 00:42:00,400 so obviously they are at his dad's house and dad 646 00:42:00,480 --> 00:42:02,599 lives with this woman named Reenie, who, you know, God 647 00:42:02,639 --> 00:42:05,079 Bless is very much country and live on a farm. 648 00:42:05,639 --> 00:42:08,320 And they hate his actual real mom. And it's because 649 00:42:08,360 --> 00:42:10,559 we find out that Thomas's real mom, you know, God 650 00:42:10,719 --> 00:42:12,480 Bless got divorced from her dad and just like left 651 00:42:12,519 --> 00:42:14,480 the kids with the dad. The dad raised them. They 652 00:42:14,559 --> 00:42:16,719 had no relationship with the mom and they got back together. 653 00:42:16,840 --> 00:42:18,639 And now you know, it's like he's upset because he 654 00:42:18,679 --> 00:42:19,880 had to do all the work and just to have 655 00:42:20,320 --> 00:42:22,440 this woman back in Thomas's life that Thomas is allowed 656 00:42:22,519 --> 00:42:24,440 or whatever, it's probably hard for him anyway, God Bless 657 00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:27,280 Reenie is a whole character, Okay, And we don't know 658 00:42:27,360 --> 00:42:29,519 why this man decided to be with Renee, except we 659 00:42:29,599 --> 00:42:32,440 have to see what Thomas's mom is like now anyway, 660 00:42:32,519 --> 00:42:34,400 we know what Paula is like, Paula's like someone like, 661 00:42:34,679 --> 00:42:36,239 you know what I did. I went ahead and bought 662 00:42:36,239 --> 00:42:38,199 a tiny suitcase, and I have a note, and the 663 00:42:38,280 --> 00:42:41,199 note is come to this wedding. He has a tiny suitcase. 664 00:42:41,280 --> 00:42:44,800 That's the kind of person I am. They're grilling outside, 665 00:42:44,840 --> 00:42:47,760 which was always nice, you know, meet over and open 666 00:42:47,840 --> 00:42:52,239 flame or in Paula's case, veggie burger on a hot plate. 667 00:42:54,320 --> 00:42:56,920 Now Thomas is cutting like a tomato and an onion honey, 668 00:42:56,960 --> 00:42:59,960 which looks good, and he's just like, hey, I hate 669 00:43:00,239 --> 00:43:01,800 I want my mom to be at the wedding, and 670 00:43:02,000 --> 00:43:06,639 I'm afraid to tell them. And Paula comes out, and 671 00:43:07,920 --> 00:43:10,400 of course Renie makes fun of her outfit and is like, 672 00:43:11,079 --> 00:43:16,480 your stupid vegan burger. Have you ever camped before? Stupid? 673 00:43:16,880 --> 00:43:19,880 And Paula's like, I camped at the beach beach, so 674 00:43:19,960 --> 00:43:22,239 when it was really beautiful in my home country, we camped. 675 00:43:22,360 --> 00:43:25,320 This is completely different. Ugly, this is what it is. Ugly, 676 00:43:25,599 --> 00:43:31,480 it's the word. However, here's the thing. Renie and Paula 677 00:43:31,599 --> 00:43:34,280 have something in common, a love of miniatures. In fact, 678 00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:37,800 Renie is like a big fucking fan. So when Paala 679 00:43:38,119 --> 00:43:42,599 is like, here's the suitcase, Reenie is so happy about it. 680 00:43:42,719 --> 00:43:45,599 In fact, in the suitcase they put other little miniatures 681 00:43:45,639 --> 00:43:47,920 and one's like a pig, and Reenie's face when she 682 00:43:48,039 --> 00:43:50,239 got this pig, honey like past that pig. I mean, 683 00:43:50,360 --> 00:43:53,760 she was floored. She was like look at them. I mean, 684 00:43:54,119 --> 00:43:58,000 the buttering up this pig did on Reenie. At the 685 00:43:58,039 --> 00:44:01,280 same time, though, they're like, oh, you're gonna You're gonna 686 00:44:01,320 --> 00:44:03,199 get married. They're like, yeah, give us the deets, and 687 00:44:03,320 --> 00:44:05,480 like it's a bated question. They're like, well, the deets are. 688 00:44:05,639 --> 00:44:10,920 It's in Long Beach. Like, okay, who's gonna be all there? 689 00:44:11,159 --> 00:44:17,119 They're like, well, just the people you know I'm related to. 690 00:44:17,360 --> 00:44:19,719 You know, my mom, they said, mom, and he you know. 691 00:44:19,920 --> 00:44:22,559 The the Dad's like okay, well we're gonna try. And 692 00:44:22,639 --> 00:44:24,119 Renie's like, I don't know if I can at all 693 00:44:24,159 --> 00:44:26,119 because the animals. We have a farm hand, but he 694 00:44:26,239 --> 00:44:30,440 doesn't he doesn't work all the time, so you know, 695 00:44:30,840 --> 00:44:32,840 and they're like, well, that's crazy. It's only two days, 696 00:44:32,880 --> 00:44:35,239 but I mean it depends. I don't know how you're 697 00:44:35,239 --> 00:44:38,559 gonna have to feed the animals. You're gonna have to 698 00:44:38,599 --> 00:44:44,599 have someone there to feed the animals, so you have 699 00:44:44,679 --> 00:44:51,199 to have a second pair of hands Malcolm and Asha. 700 00:44:51,760 --> 00:44:59,320 So obviously Malcolm's mom has hot fresh goss and the 701 00:44:59,360 --> 00:45:03,519 hot fresh go is that Asia's gold much older we've been, Malcolm. 702 00:45:03,800 --> 00:45:06,239 She just didn't know, which I don't understand why Asia 703 00:45:06,280 --> 00:45:10,880 hasn't had one moment to be like, huh huh, I 704 00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:15,199 look good. So what you're saying is I look good? 705 00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:23,280 The skin popping? I know? Anyway, So Asia's mom tells sorry, 706 00:45:23,480 --> 00:45:30,079 Malcolm's mom tells Malcolm's sister Blaze, and Blaze is blaze 707 00:45:30,079 --> 00:45:35,559 and upset. And then Blaze confronts Malcolm and Malcolm's like, 708 00:45:35,760 --> 00:45:39,559 how do you know that? And the Mom's like, well, 709 00:45:39,599 --> 00:45:43,079 how do I know that? And then it's because Asia's 710 00:45:43,239 --> 00:45:46,920 mom said it. Asia's mom didn't know, she wasn't allowed 711 00:45:46,960 --> 00:45:50,159 to say it. Asia is then like, I didn't tell anyone. 712 00:45:50,400 --> 00:45:51,840 I doesn't want to make it a thing. I knew 713 00:45:51,840 --> 00:45:53,079 it would be a thing, and I was like, I 714 00:45:53,119 --> 00:45:54,400 don't want to be a thing. I don't think I 715 00:45:54,480 --> 00:45:56,440 deserve it to be a thing. I want all the 716 00:45:56,480 --> 00:45:58,280 focuses to be on how I can make him better, 717 00:45:58,559 --> 00:46:03,440 and I she just already be perfect. God God works 718 00:46:03,480 --> 00:46:07,639 for me, and I work through God. In fact, that's 719 00:46:07,920 --> 00:46:11,239 what she says basically. So Blaze is like, I like 720 00:46:11,320 --> 00:46:17,599 you as a person, but I'm worried. He's like, judge me, 721 00:46:17,920 --> 00:46:21,480 not my age. Malcolm's dad's upset. Malcolm just sits there 722 00:46:21,559 --> 00:46:24,679 and like his fun shell necklace and shell bracelet. And 723 00:46:25,519 --> 00:46:29,320 Blaze is like, I just what's your timeline? And and 724 00:46:29,400 --> 00:46:31,039 she's like, well, we're gonna get back to America and 725 00:46:31,079 --> 00:46:32,719 I'll take a year for us to have a kid. 726 00:46:32,719 --> 00:46:34,960 She's like a year. I mean, you're just this is 727 00:46:35,239 --> 00:46:38,480 what This is not the timeline we want. And then 728 00:46:39,039 --> 00:46:45,039 she's like, well, listen, who invented time? Blaze's like God, 729 00:46:45,719 --> 00:46:50,760 She's like that's right, that's right. So who should you 730 00:46:51,039 --> 00:46:55,840 you trust in this situation? God? Blaze's like yeah, God, 731 00:46:56,800 --> 00:47:01,599 He's like right, and he talks for me, right, you 732 00:47:01,679 --> 00:47:05,519 think from what you've gathered, it's me right, he talks 733 00:47:05,599 --> 00:47:08,519 to me. So what I'm trying to say is Sarah 734 00:47:09,039 --> 00:47:15,199 from the Bible they had a baby at ninety, so 735 00:47:15,920 --> 00:47:22,119 what's thirty seven nine? Then fucking Malcolm's mom is like, 736 00:47:22,159 --> 00:47:25,159 you're right, Sarah. Can't forget about Sarah old ninety year 737 00:47:25,159 --> 00:47:28,559 old Sarah shriveled titti Sarah. That was you know, best 738 00:47:28,599 --> 00:47:34,239 feeding with them shriveled tits, you know, like Sarah. Everyone's like, yep, sorry, 739 00:47:34,280 --> 00:47:38,440 we all forgot about biblical Sarah and how this should 740 00:47:38,480 --> 00:47:43,159 be okay, and they all swallow it. Then they all pray, 741 00:47:44,079 --> 00:47:53,519 and the she's like, listen, listen to this, guys. Oh God, father, father, love, love, money, 742 00:47:53,519 --> 00:47:55,280 o blood blah blah blood. They're like, oh my God, 743 00:47:55,559 --> 00:47:58,159 Like she is just like she really is like a 744 00:47:58,360 --> 00:48:01,719 kind of like mini cult leader. And then like one questioned, 745 00:48:02,079 --> 00:48:07,840 she's like voodoo voodoo, God, God love me, and everyone's like, oh, 746 00:48:09,239 --> 00:48:19,679 you're right, God. It's so interesting. Maxwell. At the same time, 747 00:48:19,760 --> 00:48:22,920 though I did stand up for him in Asia's relationship, 748 00:48:23,000 --> 00:48:25,800 He's like, I am not scared of her not submitting 749 00:48:26,239 --> 00:48:28,639 because she respects me, and I, you know, earn the 750 00:48:28,719 --> 00:48:32,960 respect back from her and she won't mistreat me, which 751 00:48:33,000 --> 00:48:35,679 is more important than age. That's what I've been looking for, 752 00:48:36,119 --> 00:48:38,679 you know. And also I like the fact that she 753 00:48:38,760 --> 00:48:41,000 can rent this place and we have a plethora of 754 00:48:41,119 --> 00:48:45,480 different orange flavored colas and cokes to drink over and 755 00:48:45,639 --> 00:48:48,599 drink and pray over. So that is what happens there. 756 00:48:48,719 --> 00:48:52,280 So let's move on to Katie and Josh. So she 757 00:48:52,800 --> 00:48:56,880 is running honey away from what and whom figuratively we 758 00:48:57,000 --> 00:49:04,599 know Josh, her own problems alcoholism, unknown trauma. In this scene, 759 00:49:04,679 --> 00:49:07,679 she is doing a run up meet up with Ryan 760 00:49:08,039 --> 00:49:10,960 exactly who she shouldn't meet up with. Boy, this girl 761 00:49:11,079 --> 00:49:12,840 is not like a female friend to run with. You 762 00:49:12,920 --> 00:49:14,280 know what I'm saying. I mean, at the same time, 763 00:49:14,360 --> 00:49:17,800 I don't she will make up with anyone, but they're stretching. 764 00:49:18,039 --> 00:49:20,199 She you know, it's so funny as someone who is 765 00:49:20,320 --> 00:49:23,679 naturally flexible and someone who does not run, and like, 766 00:49:23,920 --> 00:49:26,320 I think it's great if you, you know, exert your effort, 767 00:49:26,360 --> 00:49:28,239 you can like run in that way. It's always so 768 00:49:28,360 --> 00:49:32,039 interesting people that like can't stretch or don't stretch or 769 00:49:32,039 --> 00:49:34,280 have no flexibility, can't touch their toes, but they can 770 00:49:34,400 --> 00:49:38,159 like run, you know, miles upon miles without stopping because 771 00:49:38,239 --> 00:49:40,679 I can touch my toes. Well, guess what I can't 772 00:49:40,719 --> 00:49:49,360 do without stopping. Okay, So she says she keeps acting 773 00:49:49,440 --> 00:49:53,119 this way. Sorry. She says that if she keeps acting 774 00:49:53,199 --> 00:49:56,639 this way, Josh will break up with her, And we're like, yeah, 775 00:49:57,159 --> 00:49:59,639 that's why you're doing it right, We're assuming that's what 776 00:49:59,679 --> 00:50:03,760 you're doing. Yeah, that's what you're betting on. Then you 777 00:50:03,840 --> 00:50:05,800 don't have to do it. You're not a bad guy. 778 00:50:06,719 --> 00:50:14,960 You're like self sabotaging this situation. So Ryan does a 779 00:50:15,079 --> 00:50:18,800 soul a solid by bringing up the word relationship with 780 00:50:18,840 --> 00:50:21,719 alcohol or alcoholism or alcohol at all with her. And 781 00:50:22,440 --> 00:50:24,719 it's you know, episode you know ten, And we've been 782 00:50:24,760 --> 00:50:28,000 knowing this since previews, so two months before episode one 783 00:50:28,119 --> 00:50:30,239 that she has an issue, and so we're like, oh 784 00:50:30,280 --> 00:50:32,679 my god, thank god, they're saying, you know, what's happening. 785 00:50:33,039 --> 00:50:37,320 And then she's like, yeah you think so, yeah, Oh, 786 00:50:38,559 --> 00:50:40,360 I'm just wish you weren't talking about it, so it's 787 00:50:40,400 --> 00:50:44,000 not real. I can keep doing it, though, but I 788 00:50:44,079 --> 00:50:45,599 do know what you're saying because it's the thing I 789 00:50:45,679 --> 00:50:47,199 think about, but I also don't want to think about 790 00:50:49,760 --> 00:50:53,719 or like, girl, so far, the only person in your 791 00:50:53,760 --> 00:50:59,039 life that cares about you. He's like, well, what's happening, 792 00:51:00,400 --> 00:51:03,360 what's happening with you in your mind right now? And 793 00:51:03,480 --> 00:51:07,239 she's like, I just I don't know. I just I 794 00:51:07,440 --> 00:51:11,639 want to have fun, but I also love Josh and 795 00:51:12,000 --> 00:51:18,639 I just don't want to get marrieduite yet I'm not 796 00:51:19,559 --> 00:51:22,639 quite ready, but at the same time, it's the only 797 00:51:22,760 --> 00:51:26,199 way for Josh to be here and for me to 798 00:51:26,320 --> 00:51:28,679 keep up the charade of being in this relationship with him, 799 00:51:28,800 --> 00:51:31,760 because he kept pressuring, you know, like the next step, 800 00:51:31,880 --> 00:51:33,480 and it was like this is the next step, and 801 00:51:33,679 --> 00:51:36,239 like I didn't know how to tell him I needed 802 00:51:36,280 --> 00:51:38,679 more time. I felt awkward. So now I just kind of, 803 00:51:38,719 --> 00:51:40,480 you know, keep making out with people and hoping that 804 00:51:40,559 --> 00:51:46,400 he gets the him but he doesn't, because literally, Ryan's like, 805 00:51:47,199 --> 00:51:53,440 why how do I say this? Why is Josh allowing 806 00:51:53,599 --> 00:52:01,239 you to embarrass him so much? Humiliate him? Why is 807 00:52:01,320 --> 00:52:04,840 he okay with that? And Katie's like, he doesn't really, Yeah, 808 00:52:04,880 --> 00:52:10,320 he just really think something to one thinks he can't 809 00:52:10,360 --> 00:52:18,119 do better. I think some fun you know, like it 810 00:52:18,239 --> 00:52:23,079 really is that kind of conversation. I'm like, Josh, I'd 811 00:52:23,079 --> 00:52:24,840 almostly be like, Josh, what would you think if you 812 00:52:24,960 --> 00:52:27,519 were hearing this conversation? But I also feel like Josh 813 00:52:27,559 --> 00:52:28,880 would just be like, well, I think that she's just 814 00:52:28,960 --> 00:52:34,119 expressing how she feels to her whatever. Just good friends. Now, Listen, 815 00:52:34,159 --> 00:52:36,079 I don't mind if she's meeting up and talking with him. 816 00:52:36,119 --> 00:52:39,079 There's no alcohol involved. They're just running Meanwhile, we're like, 817 00:52:39,199 --> 00:52:40,800 is there a bar next door to this park? Is 818 00:52:40,840 --> 00:52:42,440 that what's gonna happen? Like, I mean that we're gonna 819 00:52:42,440 --> 00:52:44,000 immediately go to the bar and then like do a 820 00:52:44,000 --> 00:52:46,039 bunch of shots and like fuck in this park, right. 821 00:52:51,360 --> 00:52:56,159 I mean, obviously Katie feels pressured to be in this relationship, 822 00:52:56,199 --> 00:52:59,000 and I think that she thinks Josh is fine enough, 823 00:52:59,079 --> 00:53:03,079 but she doesn't want to get married yet, nor does 824 00:53:03,119 --> 00:53:07,079 she really I think one all the things that happen 825 00:53:07,159 --> 00:53:09,159 when you're in a relationship with someone, like having to 826 00:53:09,480 --> 00:53:11,719 acquiesce to them and their schedules and their time and 827 00:53:11,760 --> 00:53:13,760 the way they do things, and their functioning levels, and 828 00:53:13,920 --> 00:53:16,800 like coming together as a couple and doing things like 829 00:53:16,800 --> 00:53:19,440 I don't think she has the wherewithal to do that, 830 00:53:19,639 --> 00:53:22,840 nor does even enter her mind, which I'm that's another 831 00:53:22,880 --> 00:53:28,639 reason why I'm like, what does her therapist think? What 832 00:53:28,840 --> 00:53:33,599 does her therapist think? This girl cannot exist with all 833 00:53:33,639 --> 00:53:36,559 these kind of like you know, fun fun issues with 834 00:53:36,679 --> 00:53:40,159 her thinking okay and then not just like be working 835 00:53:40,199 --> 00:53:46,239 it out with like a licensed doctor of psychology that 836 00:53:46,360 --> 00:53:49,519 I mean, it has to be the case, all right, 837 00:53:49,599 --> 00:53:51,679 my loves That brings us to the end of the episode. 838 00:53:51,719 --> 00:53:53,480 I thank you guys so much. If you haven't yet, 839 00:53:53,519 --> 00:53:55,440 please give me five stars in a review, tell me 840 00:53:55,480 --> 00:53:57,480 your favorite part, or tell me if you like my makeup, 841 00:53:57,639 --> 00:53:59,360 or tell me you know. I don't know how you're 842 00:53:59,400 --> 00:54:01,760 doing or what to do in New Orleans or something, 843 00:54:02,519 --> 00:54:04,800 do you. 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